I live with my parents. They are elderly and I do the cleaning, laundry, run errands for them, read the mail and make sure they don't get scammed, go get their meds for them, etc. I also help pay for groceries, household items, etc. Not everyone who lives with their parents is a lazy leach.
LorenzoVonMatterhorn That would makesperfect sense. "Living at your folk's house is no big deal, but living at your folk's house without... IS." (IS a big deal) get it. I'm good.
Not necessarily. I live at home still and I’m going to grad school. My parents don’t want me to pay rent or food or anything because they want me to save up ALL of my money so that when I do move out, I have a very nice and comfortable savings account (or the start for a downpayment on a house).
I'm pretty sure that man is schizophrenic. I've worked closely with many types of schizophrenics. He presents w many features. The irony is that the American viewing audience has been taught (incorrectly) to perceive schizophrenia as having a split personality ... which is annoying and so typically ignorant. We need to teach humans about humans more than we teach about how to be beautiful, rich & immortal.
That’s a lie. I’m an Indian and escaped my house ASAP. Now living alone and happy. Though, my parents still nag me about marriage but now I’m not at their home I feel free LOL, I also can finally be myself and discover myself both sexually and mentally. It’s awkward dating people and you can’t bring them home because your parents won’t allow it.
@Oscar Asso'o well, they are just over protective. It does get too much to bare sometimes, tbh. However, there's an escape. Just like Navjot Singh said in the above mentioned comment, you can try and get into a college far away from your home town and for educational purposes most parents will allow you to move into a hostel or PG or maybe even a rented flat. Then you can land a job in some other city as well. Escape.
I'm almost 30 and I still live with my parents due to them being too old. Sometimes they leave the stove on or water running. So don't judge we all have a duty in life to give back even if it means living with your parents.
Yeah, the point of this video wasn't too make fun of all who love with their parents, just people who are in their 30s and still depending on their parents
African parents NEVER want their kids to leave home. This is mostly a western thing. Also, living with your parents doesn't mean you're lazy. They're people who have jobs that still live with their parents. My parents would do ANYTHING to get me to live and stay with them forever. LOL.
This is true. I am Nigerian and they were upset that I moved out. Im 24 lol. Nothing wrong with living with your parents but I felt like I was never going to grow if I didn't move out. I have a decent job so I can pay my bills on time and still save.
Kenny aka TI I'm glad you moved out. I'm Nigerian too, moved out at 23 when I returned from NYSC (national service) and had to go for my Masters. Never returned to live in except on public holidays or when I have to check their supplies or just checking on them when we miss each other. I moved out because I realized I needed to grow.
I'd say it's sort of a socioeconomic thing. I've noticed that Latin families are more tolerant to their children sticking around, and I know from living in a Latin country with shitty economy that children tend to stick around longer when it's hard to get a job that pays well enough to maintain oneself. In any case, merely helping with bills, as many are mentioning, doesn't teach a lot of skills and responsibilities an adult is expected to have. And a lot of parents want their children to eventually grown into independent adults, if not necessarily move out-it's just that moving out is what commonly drives young adults into independence.
Bodacious Bruin u RENT? As in u take money from ur own parents! Wow!! Western culture is so weird!! Asians even the ones who don’t live with their parents financially support them in their old age to maintain their own house etc
calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck I’m from a different Asian country Lol.. we have around 52% females in my country. We r more vegetarian and if at all we eat just chicken/lean meat mostly. So no need to be racist when u wanna put forward how u find something weird. Disrespect towards ur own parents or taking money from them to care for them when they took care of u free of charge when u were their baby is what I pointed out
@calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck Housing was expensive a decade ago too. Most of us did leave for college. But with debts and the increasing costs its just not that easy or simple. Housing since the 90s has gone up seven fold. It didn't even drop during the financial crisis if 2008.
@calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck I don't understand your logic. You acknowledge the problems that exist but still turn around and act surprised. Your not putting 2 and 2 together.
@calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck No one should use their parents over this reason. With that I totally agree with you. But looking down on people who still live with their parents is very shallow. There are many reasons why someone would stay. I am only pointing out one reason. And that is the housing market is way too expensive.
I am 24 and I live with my parents. I have work. I pay bills. I recently bought my dad a brand new car. I live with them so that it is easier for me to take care of them not because am a lazy adult. i hate the way people in this country think you have to move at 18.
onmywaytohappiness !!! Nobody said that. This dude doesn't work or contribute in any way..he has a horrendous sense of entitlement. In his case, he is bordering on elder abuse. He also has a son of his own who he's lost custody of.
elchucofried you think what you want. People like your are the reason why i wrote this. I am RN working on my masters degree i live with my parents due health issues they have and i freaking love them and would do anything to take care of them. Not everyone that lives with their parents is a loser or has nothing good going for them.
my daughter just moved back... But my husband is ill and I just had a knee replacement I NEEDED help. so I am glad she is home. she can stay as long as she wants
Caffeine Dose its only in western culture. Other countries people doesnt like that and they always saying oh American are putting thier parents in old people house. 😢
As long as the child and parents are happy, and the child is contributing to the household, I don't understand why Americans shame those who live with their parents.
Bunny1412 Well, if he were a contributing member of the household that might be true but unfortunately he does not work inside or outside the home. He has a child out of wedlock and has lost custody of this child for nonsupport! He needs to get off his lazy ass and support himself as well as this child!
peda cito To most cultures around the world, family=life. Think about it, when you get old your children takes care of you. Then when grandchildren comes, the grandparents become glad unpaid babysitters. It makes sense economically and socially, but in the West individualism is promoted. So you can be broke, lonely, and struggling paycheck to paycheck and that is seen as "better" than living with the people you love. Of course there are exceptions ie toxic relationships and moochers like this guy.
@Anne K - i agree with the decision in the featured case to kick the son out of his parents home, he is a leech and wasting his life. my comment was more directed at this Jimmy Kimmel video, this whole segment seemed to be about shaming/judging people who still live with their parents.
I've been on my own since roughly 15, but I see nothing wrong with living with your parents. As you say family is precious. The problem is when your parents don't want you, and you have to go to court because of it...or you refuse to help out around the house, paying bills ect.
I’m 24 and I still live with my mom. I’m moving out next year. However I’m definitely moving back when my mom gets older or maybe she’ll move in with me. I want to take care of her!
The son in that story was unemployed by choice, and he did not contribute any rent or physical help with the upkeep of the household. That's why his parents wanted him out. There is nothing wrong with children continuing to live with their parents into adulthood, it only becomes a problem if the child is just acting like a lazy leech.
Jamie Lee What? In the news I heard him say that he had a job and paid for his own groceries and bought everything he wanted, never asked money from his parents...
This is actually cruel and not funny at all. Who knows what’s issues one my be going through it’s their current situation. Judging people isn’t right!!
@Super Natural Misty how about the 20-something struggling with anxiety and depression, applying for hundreds of jobs and being turned down by all repeatedly? Nobody wants to be a parasite but many of us feel absolutely lost and need time to figure things out, without the rest of the world ripping us apart.
This is clearly a western thing I presume because in Asia there’s nothing wrong with living with parents! There’s no better and bigger thing than family!
The same with Mexico. My mom moved in with my dad's family when they got married and only got their own home when they had enough money. It just makes financial sense plus, it's nice having that family support.
It's not that he's 30. He does ZERO to help out, contribute or pay for his share. At 30! Yes it's expensive to move out but he shows such a lack of maturity, initiative or any drive to be the director of his life.
Talking about big families my family literally owns a whole street with 14 houses, 1 park, 1 clinic and even the street is named by my family name and total of 52-53 relatives live in that street. My father was the first person to move out just to build a 15th house at the end of the street.😏😂
What this economy is doing better than it has in over a decade, maybe moving to a better part in the country where housing is affordable is the answer.
Tyler Smash, you got me there darn it. Also when you become a big boy/girl, you really don’t need friends always holding your hand, some day you might even experience it, if you ever get from under your parents feet. Good luck thou if you try 😉
My sister still lives with our mum, and my mum would be devastated if she moved out any time soon. She's a single mother who never re-married and suffers from depression. My sister pays rent, the house is a 5 minute drive from the hospital where she works as a doctor (yes, not everyone who lives at home is lazy!), and my mum has company and (her words) "a purpose". They're both happy. Whats the big deal?
I'm gonna be 30 this year, and I still live with my parents. I work and pay bills, cook, clean, do the laundry, the front yard.... I don't see it as shameful, but most Caucasians do (I'm Mexican). My parents do not mind me living with them. In fact, they never asked me to pay bills, but I do. I think if you still live with your parents and contribute, it's no one's damn business.
Well karma is really a b*tch. Where's the American ideal now where people over 18 shouldn't lived with they're parents anymore huh? I hope this pandemic will show this western society on how flawed their system is when it comes to moving out process.
Triggered Feminist it's only possible if your parents saved up money for you as a toddler, or you just happen to find a hard labor job that pays barely enough.
Israel Resendiz idk man ik kids in my grade( grade 12) that make enough right now at their jobs they could live alone they even have their own vehicles
They took care of us when we were little and made us who we are and it's our love for them which makes us take care of them in their senility.., i pity you people who leave your parents in the mercy of their social security., There's something wrong with you.
We don't abandon parents. They are just too proud and too confident to want to be a liability to their own child, because they've lived all their life as independent adults.
Just here to comment, ok, don't want any trouble. How can you even...it's called gratitude, people take care of their parents because of gratitude.Yes, it's their obligation to give you what you need when you we're a child, but it was never their obligation to give what you want.
I’m 21 and still live with my dad. We need to normalise living with parents as long as you are studying or working. I want to save money so I can buy an apartment instead of renting, I’m lucky to have such a supportive parent...
Same I’m 20 and I still live with my family. But I’m in junior year of college as well and I’m not getting some bullshit minimum wage job so I can feel “independent”
@@g.3067 I'm 19 and still in Highschool, I'm gonna be graduating next year and definitely want to buy a apartment in afew years once I graduate and save up some money, my plan is I want to be a factory worker or be in the fire department
This was honestly rude and he was very insulting to that poor man. You don’t know their lives. It’s one thing not to have a job but there’s nothing wrong with living w ur parents.
Western viewpoint: The kids ideally should move out at age 18 and must move out of parents place by age 30. If they don't move out then the kid must pay rent to parents or else the parents will call the cops to evict the son. Eastern (Asian) viewpoint: The kid/(s) and the children of the kid/(s) can live at the parents house for as long as they wish. The daughter obviously would be married to another household and live with her husband and the parents-in-law. The son would marry and his wife would move in to live with him and his parents. 30-40 years later: Westerners: The elderly couple retires, sells their house and moves to a resthome and survives from govt. funded superannuation for the rest of their lives. Their children & grandchildren might visit them once in a while but does not live with them. Easterners: The elderly couple retires and continues to live with their children (usually their eldest son & his family). The children provide all the food, clothing and other necessities to look after their parents for the rest of their lives. No moving to a resthome is required, nor does the house need to be sold. Postscript: Not all western countries have such policies and in some countries (eg. Spain, Italy, Latin America, Greece, Bulgaria...) the children can continue living with parents or vice versa.
As long as the parents don’t mind there shouldn’t be a problem, but if the parents want you out you must go you don’t go to court and try to stay what kind of scumbag does that? Time to man up moocher get out!
@John Buick, FYI houses in Sydney cost an average of $1,000,000. It would be similar in Vancouver, Toronto, Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York, Chicago etc. How long will it take for you to save enough money to even 'afford' a mortgage? Perhaps you were a lucky baby boomer generation that purchased a house for $25,000 thirty years ago.
My Dad was over 40 with a wife and kids and he lived with his Mom. My grandma lived upstairs, and we lived downstairs. He had a job, and was responsible. In the cool of the evening, we all would have a supper together. It's not all the time, but it happens maybe 2-3 times per week. Sometimes, neighbors would joined, bringing a dish or two. No one was depressed and lonely.
In Greece it's exactly the opposite! Children want to move out, not because we don't love our families but because we want to be independent, but when time comes usually there are drama scenes like: "why would you want to leave us??😢😭" And then we rent an apartment 5 minutes away from our parents' home..👏
Stefan Unson haha, maybe in some cases! But in general, I think it just gives them a sense of security that you are near by and can pop in if need be. And to tell you the truth, here we like to be a little bit involved in each others lives. After all we all love one another and I can't imagine not knowing how my parents or siblings are doing! (Even if they nag sometimes )
Here houses cost 5 times your annual payment. Lets say you get 500k NOK a year, an apartment on 84m^2 will cost you 4 to 5 millions. It is insane. I just did a search now. An apartment that is 69 m^2 costs 4.890.000 NOK. Depends where the apartment sits though. If it is in the middle of a city or outside where the busroutes sucks balls. This is Norway though. In the 70s it cost people like one annual payment. (I call it annual payment because I do not know the actual name for the money you get all in all each year.)
This is sad. Not because they’re still living with their parents, but because they’re being made fun of for it. For all you know, some of the older people could be living with their parents to care for them. There is nothing wrong with living with your parents.
In the west, a lot of people are entitled, and they leech off of their parents while contributing nothing to the house. That’s what the last clip was directed toward, the people that are like that.
Bob sagget yeah but they always make it seem like 90% of those living with their parents are the leeches. and the way they presented the last clip was like a direct insult to the man sitting next to his mother.
I'll be 22 this year. I still live at home, I study, I work, pay rent, bills, groceries, I pay for my cat and my horse. Living at home doesn't equal lazy. It works out cheaper for me and it works out for my parents cause they get another source of income. I wouldn't be surprised if I'm still living at home in another couple years. Everyone's situation is different and they certainly shouldn't be judged by the simple basis "they live at home".
Jimmy is 50 years old and the cost of living was way lower when he was 19. There were more job opportunities and college didn't cost as much. It's much harder to earn enough to live on your own as a millennial. I've been out of college for a year and still haven't been able to get full time work despite being an honor student, having prior work and internship experience, and applying every day. I am now forced to move in with my mom because I only have $297 in my bank account. Believe it or not, most people who live with their parents as adults have no choice because of this lousy economy. Stop shaming them for things beyond their control. I've been a fan of the show for years, but this makes me reconsider.
I'm in a similar situation and felt the same way, also a long time fan of the show and was really put off by this. It just seems unnecessarily mean spirited. Thanks for getting this sentiment out there.
He gets upset on this show when there are mass shootings, but those incidents are related to mental health. To improve mental health we all need to treat each other better, but here is a segment asking us to guess who is a loser on appearance alone, and when they reveal their age the audience howls. I don't think there is enough affordable housing for every person of an adult age to be independent and owning a separate house from all their other adult family members. An increasing amount of people will belong to one of two groups: either living independently but struggling to pay the bills and dealing with stress, or staying at home but called names like manchild, human trash and dealing with depression. The system doesn't allow every person to get a high paying job and comfortably afford housing because there are only so many opportunities. Inequality and poor treatment of the poor can cause rifts and violent backlash.
Plus, people seem to trashtalk more about men living with their mom, than females living with their mom. My friends is like "I understand you, take the time you need, I can offer you a room if you get a job in the city" and so on. I appreaciate the help, but wonder how it would be if I were a male.
star I beg to differ ; girls that stay w their parents (well in the Hispanic culture) are under control freak parent or parents and aren't allowed to say diddly squat; if they go out they get hell and shamed; this pushes us out towards actual independence (even if far too rushed) meanwhile brothers can do whatever the hell they want and eat cake Basically we'd get judged every day by our parents
Moved out at 18...moved back 21...moved out 27...moved back 30...moved out 32...moved back 33..moved out 35 ..I'm 39 now..alone completely did life wrong....worked myself to death ...made bad decisions ...I lived but wow. Why? Sometimes it feels like a set up. I never figured it out..
In my culture, you don’t leave your parents when you become 18 but in my culture, your mom doesn’t do your laundry and instead of your parents paying the bills, that becomes the responsibility of the children. We do the cooking, cleaning and other things that they used to do for us when we were younger.
isolanni that’s worse than being a leech. Any parent that allows that after a certain age is raising a mentally and physically disabled (by choice) individual.
Orion Isn't 18 is a bit too young age to take on such a responsibility? I mean, are you guys even graduated from college and able to make a living when you are only 18?
I would like to say to anyone watching this right now and having questions about yourself and living with your parents, ask yourself what you really want. Don't let a silly youtube video dictate your choices. Everyone's experience is different.
Nothing makes me happier than having my whole family in the house! Holidays are great because all family and friends are around. There's nothing wrong with continuing to live at home as long as everyone's happy with it. Homes are happy places with lots of happy people in them.
As an Indian most of them leave with our parents.. but because of my academic type and introverted nature .. I feel like I want a private space for myself to focus on my projects, actually I like to be alone most of the time..
I am 22 and my sister is 25. We live with out parents, not because we want to, but because we cannot afford to live on our own. Cost of living is very expensive here in Canada. My friend lives with his grandparents. My other friend can barely afford to live on her own. In Vancouver alone the average cost of rent is $3000. It's not that we are lazy, it is just that it is unaffordable in this day and age and having to pay for school. I am all ears if someone has a solution.
bgirlsweet09 Vancouver is super expensive with a housing crisis, I saw this documentary about rich Chinese buying property there to get citizenship so yeah everything there is in high demand and high prices
Yeah, I don't love that when we turn 18 there's so much pressure to "get out there" and face the world head-on. I've been working a minimum wage job for a year (I'm 18 lol)... how am I supposed to afford rent with that low of an income? Also, I love my family. I'm super close with my parents and my siblings and the love is mutual. I don't understand why at such a young age I'm told to give up on that family and go start my own. I get what Kimmel was trying to do here and it's funny but especially being a man, I just felt awful at how these guys were portrayed. Like if you still live with your parents past 20 you're some asocial, video game addict who's never been laid. I go to class every day and work as many shifts as my store will give me... so what if I still live with my parents? Anyways, I feel the money issue.. I've looked at apartments and it's just not happening... But good luck to us both... :D
My parents had me when they were 50 and 48. I'm 24 and live at home to help take care of my dad who is a stroke vitcim. He can't speak or walk, and really can't do much. I help mom with lifting him and babysitting him. I think every case is different for everyone. But at the same time depends on the relationship. Clearly if there is a abusive party (kids can be emotionally abusive as well to their parents) one should leave.
what if ur unable to find a job HERE IM AN EXAMPLE I have 50% hearing loss in my one ear and the second one 80% do you think people will hire me ? ? trust me I've tried so many times been looking for jobs since 2015 NO ONE GIVES A DAMN ABOUT YOU COZ UR DISABLED the only think i do is helping my parents with cooking paying bills instead of them they just give me the money and I go pay I literally make their live easier since I do almost 70% of the things in the home YES I DONT BRING MONEY BECAUSE I CANT IF I COULD I WOULD
Well I’m in junior year of college and when I get my degree I’m going to navy officer school. Why would I move out and get some shitty job to struggle and pay rent?
In America , they expect the government to take care of the old gizzards. The children keep their distance just enough to swoop in and take their belongings when they died.
I live with my parents I’m 30. I have autism and people don’t hire me. I help my parents all the time. They’re old. So, I take care of the house. In the Philippines it’s actually very common for families to live all under the same roof it’s only Americans that find it problematic
Im 21 and I just recently moved out of my parents house. If I can, I would like to live with them (Mom also wants me to). But they have to move somewhere that's far from my job. I support my sibling's education. So I'd rather not sacrifice my job. Staying with your parents will also teach you on how to be an adult. 'Cause you will learn how to budget your money, you have your share with monthly bills and daily expenses. And it's pretty hard to live far from your family.
In Indian culture it's different 'cause we live with our parents forever ♥️ . The only difference is we start covering all the expenses for our parents and trust me it's beautiful .
@Jesus Christ mom, dad, their son and his wife and their kids. My neighbors were 21 members in one family 😂 but it's rare mostly there are 4-6 members including kids
I don't live with my parents, my parents live with me, I do everything my mom did to me when I was a kid. Took care of me for 18 years now it's my turn.
I love jimmy, but this segment was vile and out of touch with the realities of so many young adults in the US who have a difficult time getting ahead and being able to afford housing on minimum wage.
Yeah,it's a smaller town of 50k or so people. I'd say it's near impossible for an average single person to buy a house in a big city without significant (6 or 7 figure) help from parents
Ian Robinson, I thinkin' that since you stayed until you were 29 you must have had considerable savings from having that option. That is what you're saying isn't it?
Yes absolutely. My advice to anyone living at home is to take advantage of the situation and sock away as much as you can. The last thing you want is to get kicked out at 30 like this guy with no savings and a low income...
Not everyone has a six-figure paycheque Jummy. I lost my job and was unable to pay my rent even with a little bit of government funding. So my mom offered her help, I moved in with her and helped her with her job, she's self-employed. I eventually after 5 months of constantly handing out resumes, got a job. and have my own place again.
TRUE. My family is of South East Asian decent but they really don't mind me staying... esp. when the reason is to save up. It's just practical as of now. But nothing lasts forever.. So just do what you gotta do whilst we still got those chances.
Both my brothers do and they're in their 30s as well. My mom has even offered for me to come back home to save money, lol. Really if I didn't live with my boyfriend idk how I'd be able to afford an apartment on my own x.x Eat ramen every day I guess...
@varekai Ascendant Hey thank you for sharing your story. its very nice to hear good reactions to this. I mean everyone is different. But as far as I am reading here? everyone follows one specific thing... BEING PRACTICAL. Thats so awesome. I love hearing this from you. I would probly do the same for my kids later on. But for now, I'm helping out and sharing a home with my parents. no complains!
@xDarkTrinityx Thank you for sharing your story. I think we are all sharing stories of our practicality and it just makes alot of sense. goodness... I hope you aint just sippin on ramen everyday. That be delish but thats just no good for your body as well. whew!
I moved out at 18 and decided to move to Argentina for three years. I grew up and experienced so much during those three years and the time really molded me into the man I am today. With that being said, making fun of guys who live with their parents into their 30s is just cruel. I felt horrible for that guy in the crowd who obviously really loved his mom.
For all those feeling attacked by the shaming of being grown up and living with parents. Here in Africa I have never met anyone who moved out before 23 at least. I have cousins living at my mother's house and they are in their 30s, it doesn't mean you're incapable, childish or lazy. It's tough out here, keep pushing!
I’m 21 and still live with my mom, work and pay bills but those bills would be 80x more once I leave! I also take care of her and the house so i probably won’t leave until she’s gone some day.. If you have a good set up and you’re not just wasting you’re life I don’t see why it’s a bad thing to live with you parents!
Living together with our parents is good but at the same time we should take our own responsibility. I would live with and take care of them, still I would never be able to repay for all that they have done for me. Love my parents 😘
This is clearly a western thing I presume because in Asia there’s nothing wrong with living with parents! There’s no better and bigger thing than family!
MegaPrime Gamer Yeah exactly. Especially in India, the traditional culture dictates that a son continues to live with his parents even after he gets married and has kids.
What difference does it make! I've lived with my parents all my life - born late, I agreed to stay home because as they got older, they needed someone home to take care of them. My dad died last year at age 97 and I'm still home at age 53 taking care of my 87 year old mother. I always paid room and board! I don't understand people's judgemental attitudes on this.
USA experienced a boom post WWII when every other developed nation got bombed during the war. USA unscathed with an abundance of natural resources, it was only natural for the other war ravaged countries to bow down. The post-war boom when high school drop outs were given high paying factory jobs and could move out at 18. The boom has ended and now that American abberation of moving out at 18 is being corrected.
Public_ Juan in LA the average of 1 bath 1 bed is around $2000 lmao. But the average of the whole state is about $1200..in some areas. The lowest would probably be around $800 but you'll be in the middle of nowhere
I’m 21 and I still live with my parents. They don’t don’t help me pay for college or bills but they let me live in their house for free. After college I still plan on living with them so I can help them out financially
I am Indian, In India it is considered bad to leave your parents. In India people think that at old age parents need our help so if we are leaving them we are not considered as good child.
agree ... im indian .. and we always live in the parents home ... and hope to live there indefinitely ... they are raising strangers ... in US ... not children ... i think the newer generation should learn from their mistakes ... and refrain from making them ourselves what is the difference between animals and civilization ... if the parents are anyway going to be left on their own ... in the end
Maybe it's a cultural thing but I really don't see why it's a problem to live with your parents as long as you have your own job to do. Not to mention in a time like this, it's not the easiest thing to live on your own. Of course, I like my privacy, but I am sure some people actually enjoy living with their parents.
This video specifically targets the ones who are freeloading and have no marketable skills. That too of people beyond the age of 25 or so which is well beyond a college graduate''s age and when people can no longer be counted as dependents in their parents' taxes
Potato Chips Bleach Flavored Yep it’s called being an adult and making life work in a competitive planet. That never changes. So I hope you aren’t waiting for life to get easier...🧐
Potato Chips Bleach Flavored not how it works. Our economy is stronger and more diversified than ever, which means more opportunities. Our cost of living realative to our income is historically quite low. If you have realistic expectations then you can easily afford modest accommodation on your own. Getting a job is not hard if you work hard, and pretty easy if you have an education, especially if you choose your field of education wisely. Also, we enjoy unprecedented levels of convenience in our daily lives. If you have work ethic moving out on your own is easy. Get a modest apartment, budget accordingly, stick to that budget, and you'll be fine.
Neither does anyone else really. It's just a conservative talking point and how they put down the vanguard of millennials who got royally screwed by the financial crisis.
He was a piss poor tenant that saved none of his money, didn't apt utilities or rent, spent money on games, porn, toys. At this point, he needs to leave. It's one thing to stay with your parents and provide assistance with housework and bills or save his money for his own home, but he did neither.
Why is that a problem living with parents...?!? I work and live with my parents. They looked after me when i was young, now i look after them. Because they r very old. This video is very stupid to me.
MD ASHRAF I have totally the same situation, its a problem only for US, not for Asia, Middle East, Russia, Europe.... i dont know about Australia frankly. So strange why is that so, when it started
Idk why people act like living with their parents is such a bad thing. Family is super important (if they’re loving and supportive) and I feel like people often stomp on that concept.
As a Somali, my mother sat me down at 25 years of age and told me "there are two ways you can get out of this house, in a wedding gown or a body bag. CHOOSE wisely." I had career aspirations and i didn't have any intention of dying or getting married. SO old story short, I am almost 30 and I still live with my parents.
Mad Mal it's nothing to be like you feel guilty to live with your parents as you're not working my cousin is unemployed he lives with his parents he's searching for job he has done his degrees he always helps his parents in any matter and his parents are happy too though their son is unemployed
You can work 40 hours a week and easily still not have enough money to move out. You really need to be making at least 50k a year and even that's living very tight. You'll have nothing at the end of the month.
I guess it depends on where you live. I live in New Jersey. Just on average prop taxes + Mortgage interest rate of 4% + water + electricity + insurance + gas/oil + trash pickup + Septic + Cable (I would seriously argue the necessity of this "utility" in 2018 but ok...) - cable These alone are costs you will pay with NOTHING to show for at the end of the month. It's literally money out the window and this figure easily adds up to about 900 bucks. Now lets add in the actual equity of a home and let's go cheap....400 bucks per month. Now Food, ok you live on pot noodles and pb&J ...200 per month. Now let's not forget you most likely have a cell phone, car, car insurance, gas for the car, yearly registration renewals, regular maintenance, the occasion new shirt and socks and mothers day gift....300 + easy Let's add all of this up.....drum roll please..... 1,800k PER MONTH. Tada! So you have to CLEAR about 2K a month with your paycheck. Most people have deductions of Taxes, Health Care, maybe even 10% to a retirement fund. You're talking 50k salary to clear about 2k a month. That's just keeping your head above water. Sure you can rent, but that just drops your costs about 400 per month and over time rent increases. You gain no equity and you can't work forever. This is the Average American situation. oh! not to mention you'll need a savings of 25k for a down payment. So when a rich well to do person like a host of a talk show or a news anchor cynically snarks...."You're 20 - 30 years old living at home, what's wrong with you?" They ignorantly assume that it's because you're not working your 40 hours a week. Which many many many Americans do and then some but don't get paid any where near 50k a year. Drive around and what do you see in America....McD's, a nail salon, maybe a Home Depot. These are the "American Opprotunities" for employement. You're not going to make 50k a year busting your ass at a Walmart or a Gas Station. Blue Collar jobs are extremely tough. White collar jobs are extremely rare. So many Americans find themselves working 2 or 3 part time jobs. Or trying independent gigs like Uber and Internet selling. American Wages Suck. In my opinion it's because our country has become a "service" country. We don't produce anything anymore. The allocation of wealth is very unbalanced when factoring in the worth of some ones time and effort. I think one answer to this problem is having more high tech industry jobs where Americans can spend 3 or 4 months in a learning program tech school to specifically fill the need of these jobs. College doesn't work very well and most feel as if they missed that train there's no getting back on. It's expensive, risky time consuming and doesn't pay out for years.
It's clearly an American thing. in Asia, girls stay with their parent until they get married and boys stay with their parent forever. if your family is big and have lots of brothers then one of them will have to stay with parent and help them out if other brothers decided to move out. but ofcourse, everybody has to contribute somehow.
SocialJustice Warrior Yes and the rest of Europe thinks you're weird and you're raising manchilds. These men never really grow up and are forever attached to what their parents (especially mom) thinks. Such a turnoff ..
FabiJenneke Would you rather have them live with a significant other before they get married? Also, the funny thing is that you are always treated as a kid, not just a home but in other places, like at work or the mall. I mean we have all of the rules and regulations, aka the nanny state.
Been living with my parents since 2001, they raised and take care of me each step along the way. Why would I move out in tough situations now? I do my part, they do theirs as well. Everyone is happy in the end of the day.
Anastasia Cimino That's missing the point. The implication that this applies to people of sound mind and body should already be understood. You can ask that with just about anything that requires you to take responsibility. And even then, as an adult, a traumatic life event shouldn't be a good enough reason to stop living in fact that might just compound the problem. This guy had no job, didn't do chores or pay bills and was asked multiple times to leave. Nothing matters when the owners of the house have already made it clear that the inhabitant isn't wanted.
Im almost 31. Went away from college and came back. Have a job. Make more money than both my parents combined. We benefit each other by living together. This is very common, and almost something expected in Immigrant communities. Having family is a blessing. A lot of whats wrong with society in the west is attributed to the breaking up of traditional family values. Also, its very common in Europe as well to live close if not in the same house as parents. Moving out should be an option. But not mandatory. Also, it is entirely possible that the behavior exhibited by this man child is entirely the fault of the parents and their coddling.
Agreed, I wish America was more accepting on that. But that’s what happens when you have a country that’s built on slavery and oppression, everyone forgets where they’re from and loses their heritage and values.
So I'm 26 and live with my parent's pay bills and help with everything. & they want me here. What's the big deal? Especially now a days it's more common than back when.
I would rather live with my parents and help pay the bills than get a house I can't afford to pay off because I'm in my 20s, just graduated and only got an average job. There should be no shame in living with your parents so long as you're pulling your own share of the load and not just freeloading off them for granted. Edit: I'm not speaking up for solely the people interviewed in this video. I'm talking about those in general who live with their parents. Some people work very hard, struggle a lot, and still can't climb up the social ladder because of things, which they may have no control over, screwing them over. And they would still be looked down upon for living with their parents by those who don't know that person's circumstances. The typical reaction of a 30 yr old admitting that he/she still lives with their parents is embarrassment because they know society frowns down upon it. Is that 30 yr old married? When did they finish school? What's their job? Debts? What is that person's reasons? And yes, I know this video targets those who barely do anything in their lives and more so choose to live with their parents to free load off them like that. Again, I'm speaking for those in GENERAL who live with their parents. I don't have thousands of friends but I like to think many people still living with their parents have very good reasons for doing so and also try to pull their share of the load.
Naomi I agree. When I was 19 my parents divorced. I stayed at home with my mom and help with payments now that my dad is gone. Neither of us see the point of me moving out. We each pay 50% of the bills/expenses. If I move out we each then have to pay 100% of our own bills. What's the point in that? It's a waste of money.
eddieisfiction Living in LA, I've learned not to judge people by their appearances. I've seen a man walk into a fast food joint looking like he works as a Hollister window model but it turns out he's a doctor. Met a guy who looks and acts like a frat boy but is a registered nurse. I wish these people interviewed here were allowed to explain why they live with their parents. Whether they have to because housing in LA costs too much for a 30 year old who maybe has been working an average job for 6ish years or they simply choose to. That said, I'm not speaking for the people specifically in this video. But there are many from the baby boomer generation who had better opportunities to buy their own houses at a young enough age and there's the old Western concept of doing just that. Buying your American dream house while fresh and young and starting a happy family in your 20s-30s. I grew up in San Jose, one of the most expensive cities in the U.S., and if you're an unmarried 30 yr old with a stable but average job it is still very difficult to get your own house since it's Silicon Valley. You could get a cramped apartment if you want to stay close to where the jobs are.
eddieisfiction Oh my comment was speaking in general regarding the idea of living with parents and being shamed for it without circumstances being known
Stefan Unson Guess what? I left the nest at 18, am now 26 and bought my first property for $55,000 cash last October so I dont even have a rent or mortgage payment, which now enables me to save $1000/month, and I never came back to live with my parents during that time ever. I still work full time, even though I could probably afford not to, because I want to save. So you can take your 'live to work' crap and shove it.
J B Where do you live? I ask because not all metros are expensively equal. For example, all of the homes in Texas cost half as much as in California for the same area.
I'm 27 and live with my parents. I did lived by myself for 4 years and moved back because I miss them. Family to me is everything. I'm a family oriented kind of person and I do not see anything wrong with that. Maybe being a Filipino plays a part too. :)
People you're missing the point here. He lives at home with his parents, he doesn't work, he's not in school, he has a child, he doesn't want to do anything for himself. His parents even gave him money to move out.
The kid wasn't mentioned in the original article I read,but now that it's been revealed he is a father I can see why he REALLY doesn't want to move out,because financially he will be absolutely screwed with min wage jobs,rent and child support
He lost custody of his kid because he's a lazy ass. People complain about minimum wage jobs, but you have to start somewhere. As long as you are reliable and stay working for a company that gives yearly raises, within 1 year you won't be making minimum wage anymore. Within 2-5 years you'll be making $14 an hour + with no degree but you have to start working and building your skills. If this guy is only employable at minimum wage at 30, let's be honest, he's been incredibly lazy his entire life. Most people start working before they even graduate High School.
Kenneth Carr I would really like to know how his folks raised him that he seems to be afraid of responsibilities. I feel bad for both parents and their son. He's definitely every millennials nightmare.
I'm 23, I was due to move out last September but my father was diagnosed with cancer so I stayed to take care of him. I hate living at home and really want to move but just cant because I have to take care of him..
John Volt because I like my own space privacy and I get neither here. I also don’t like the area. Everybody else I know has moved out and I’d like to be one of those people
Laugh at me all you want but I lived with my parents for more than five years after high school. During that time, the money that would've been wasted on rent is now in savings and investments that are up in six figure value. And the people who laughed at me are broke, poor, and in debt. Very funny indeed.
5 years worth of avg rent cost doesn't even come close to amounting to six figures, and the people in the video are 30+ still living with there parents that's well beyond your 23
@@jasonst2871 it's so nice to know there are people in the same boat as me, especially when they're older and still living with their folks, because it makes me feel like I'm not alone
@@jasonst2871 it depends on the circumstances. I'm autistic and struggle to let alone keep and hold down jobs, but I do help my mum out with a lot of things and pay rent
One of the biggest problems with the western world is an expectation of departure from the family. I actually think people would be happier if families continued to live together (and do not receive any social stigma as a result). They kick him out, but will complain if he throws them in a nursing home later down the road. They'll have it coming though. Anyone who sues their kids for this reason isn't a good person.
His parents were right to kick his lazy ass out since it's the only thing that will light a fire up under him. The fact that he's still only qualified for low wage jobs at age 30 shows that he's been doing absolutely nothing with his life thus far. Had he started working in High School like most people he'd be earning at least $35,000, but more likely $60,000 - $100,000+ per year by 30 - with or without a degree.
Eric's OutHouse if you knew the story you'd kick him out too. I live in NY and his story is everywhere! Kinda sad that his 30 and has zero motivation. Not to mention a child of his own. I can see why he lost custody. Or perhaps he doesn't want to move out because he'll have to pay child support.
Moving out at 19 to a dorm is NOT moving out. You are not paying for that dorm room. It's being paid. So that's not moving out. I wanna know when you moved out on your own and worked. That's what I wanna know.
J_Jammer exactly. Makes no sense you can’t afford to move out right after high school with your own money. And it’s ridiculous so many spiked college gets get more respect or looked as independent , when that’s not the case
I live in Serbia, a very traditional country. It is normal for us to live with our parents. It's not about the economic factor, it's about caring for the elderly. No one can take better care of parents than their children. Also, our parents play a huge role in raising their grandchildren. Together, family is the most important community for life.
Hilarious but misleading. There's actually a decent portion of adults who financially support their parents as well as share the same roof. I'm not ashamed to be one of them.
@@spongebob1849 There are so many people who just like to stay with their folks even though they are earning and everything.. I think this living together thing becomes a problem when the children don't help with the bills and all
Being an Asian, it's funny to hear such things 😄
Ok
So true
agree
Haha yesss
Why?
I live with my parents. They are elderly and I do the cleaning, laundry, run errands for them, read the mail and make sure they don't get scammed, go get their meds for them, etc. I also help pay for groceries, household items, etc. Not everyone who lives with their parents is a lazy leach.
Marci HF do you pay rent?
Marci HF Americans are not that smart and hold compassion for all this
Are you working full time?
If not you're lazy..
apowerr Yes I work full time.
Awesome! Forgive me :)
Living with your parents is no big deal. But, living with your parents not contributing to paying the household expenses is a PROBLEM.
jose michael ludovico sounds like someone lives with their parents and splits the grociers.
your comment should have ended at "expenses IS."
LorenzoVonMatterhorn
That would makesperfect sense.
"Living at your folk's house is no big deal, but living at your folk's house without... IS." (IS a big deal) get it. I'm good.
Not necessarily. I live at home still and I’m going to grad school. My parents don’t want me to pay rent or food or anything because they want me to save up ALL of my money so that when I do move out, I have a very nice and comfortable savings account (or the start for a downpayment on a house).
Mackenzie Bolton
Dude, I think we all agree that that is, in fact, a contribution.
He invited the dude then publicly insulted and humiliated him.. That’s unkind
Reminds me of the film, "Joker"
@@luiszamora6356 yeah me too
Classic American show
Neu bornchild right? He was so sweet to his mom too
I'm pretty sure that man is schizophrenic. I've worked closely with many types of schizophrenics. He presents w many features. The irony is that the American viewing audience has been taught (incorrectly) to perceive schizophrenia as having a split personality ... which is annoying and so typically ignorant. We need to teach humans about humans more than we teach about how to be beautiful, rich & immortal.
As an Indian, can't relate. Indian parents won't let you move out untill after you get married.
That’s a lie. I’m an Indian and escaped my house ASAP. Now living alone and happy. Though, my parents still nag me about marriage but now I’m not at their home I feel free LOL, I also can finally be myself and discover myself both sexually and mentally. It’s awkward dating people and you can’t bring them home because your parents won’t allow it.
@@navjotsingh2251 Good for you, not every Indian would think the same way.
@Oscar Asso'o well, they are just over protective. It does get too much to bare sometimes, tbh. However, there's an escape. Just like Navjot Singh said in the above mentioned comment, you can try and get into a college far away from your home town and for educational purposes most parents will allow you to move into a hostel or PG or maybe even a rented flat. Then you can land a job in some other city as well. Escape.
@Oscar Asso'o ditto! Privacy and freedom.
True... And we love to live with parents... Take care of them....
I'm almost 30 and I still live with my parents due to them being too old. Sometimes they leave the stove on or water running. So don't judge we all have a duty in life to give back even if it means living with your parents.
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We asians think its ungrateful to leave our parents alone when they are old.
Yeah, the point of this video wasn't too make fun of all who love with their parents, just people who are in their 30s and still depending on their parents
Connor Hagen
Exactly ! He didn’t work he just sat at home as a liability!
@@ginanaiding6264 We Indians Dont Leave Our Parents Also when They Are Old
African parents NEVER want their kids to leave home. This is mostly a western thing. Also, living with your parents doesn't mean you're lazy. They're people who have jobs that still live with their parents. My parents would do ANYTHING to get me to live and stay with them forever. LOL.
This is true. I am Nigerian and they were upset that I moved out. Im 24 lol. Nothing wrong with living with your parents but I felt like I was never going to grow if I didn't move out. I have a decent job so I can pay my bills on time and still save.
There’s nothing wrong with living with your parents but it becomes a problem when they do nothing to help with bills or anything
It's not even a universal Western thing because in many European countries adult children still live with families and it's socially accepted norm.
Kenny aka TI I'm glad you moved out. I'm Nigerian too, moved out at 23 when I returned from NYSC (national service) and had to go for my Masters. Never returned to live in except on public holidays or when I have to check their supplies or just checking on them when we miss each other. I moved out because I realized I needed to grow.
I'd say it's sort of a socioeconomic thing. I've noticed that Latin families are more tolerant to their children sticking around, and I know from living in a Latin country with shitty economy that children tend to stick around longer when it's hard to get a job that pays well enough to maintain oneself.
In any case, merely helping with bills, as many are mentioning, doesn't teach a lot of skills and responsibilities an adult is expected to have. And a lot of parents want their children to eventually grown into independent adults, if not necessarily move out-it's just that moving out is what commonly drives young adults into independence.
If housing wasn't so expensive more people would move out earlier.
Bodacious Bruin u RENT? As in u take money from ur own parents! Wow!! Western culture is so weird!! Asians even the ones who don’t live with their parents financially support them in their old age to maintain their own house etc
calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck I’m from a different Asian country Lol.. we have around 52% females in my country. We r more vegetarian and if at all we eat just chicken/lean meat mostly. So no need to be racist when u wanna put forward how u find something weird. Disrespect towards ur own parents or taking money from them to care for them when they took care of u free of charge when u were their baby is what I pointed out
@calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck Housing was expensive a decade ago too. Most of us did leave for college. But with debts and the increasing costs its just not that easy or simple. Housing since the 90s has gone up seven fold. It didn't even drop during the financial crisis if 2008.
@calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck I don't understand your logic. You acknowledge the problems that exist but still turn around and act surprised. Your not putting 2 and 2 together.
@calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck No one should use their parents over this reason. With that I totally agree with you. But looking down on people who still live with their parents is very shallow. There are many reasons why someone would stay. I am only pointing out one reason. And that is the housing market is way too expensive.
Take it easy on them Jimmy, we can't all be overpaid talk show hosts.
Rock Toaster for real
Coming from the man child that still lives with his parents?
Haha
Robo Mop your literally 100 percent right
@Michael L Well, certenly not with that attitude
I am 24 and I live with my parents. I have work. I pay bills. I recently bought my dad a brand new car. I live with them so that it is easier for me to take care of them not because am a lazy adult. i hate the way people in this country think you have to move at 18.
onmywaytohappiness !!! Nobody said that. This dude doesn't work or contribute in any way..he has a horrendous sense of entitlement. In his case, he is bordering on elder abuse. He also has a son of his own who he's lost custody of.
onmywaytohappiness !!! Bullshit if you bought your dad a car and still live with them then you a loser
elchucofried he said he’s taking care of them, not every kid is dying to dump their parents in a nursing home
onmywaytohappiness !!! good for you
elchucofried you think what you want. People like your are the reason why i wrote this. I am RN working on my masters degree i live with my parents due health issues they have and i freaking love them and would do anything to take care of them. Not everyone that lives with their parents is a loser or has nothing good going for them.
India: *laughs in joint family*
I know right!!
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Chutya h ye log US ke
@@aditya1394 Ham bhi kuch kam nahi hai.
Every country has its issues that we need to overcome :)
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I’m 25 and still living at home. My parent started struggling financially after I graduated college, so I’ve stayed to help support my family.
Great, Especially if u r from US
Good for you.
Thats great!!!
and u do what for a living?
Lol cause they paid for your college??? Ur degree in ... what... gender studies lol
my daughter just moved back... But my husband is ill and I just had a knee replacement I NEEDED help. so I am glad she is home. she can stay as long as she wants
Debbie Cooper awesome. I wish my parents were like that!
I don't see why it's bad to live with your parents and take care of them! Why the culture is so ruined!!
That's the thing, they take care of you. That's what's so wrong about it.
Caleb Dearing No , it's noy I vs them .. life is not a war .. watch less american movies.
+Caffeine Dose I'm guessing english isn't your first language.
Caffeine Dose its only in western culture. Other countries people doesnt like that and they always saying oh American are putting thier parents in old people house. 😢
People get brainwash and do what they teach them in life
As long as the child and parents are happy, and the child is contributing to the household, I don't understand why Americans shame those who live with their parents.
Bunny1412 Well, if he were a contributing member of the household that might be true but unfortunately he does not work inside or outside the home. He has a child out of wedlock and has lost custody of this child for nonsupport! He needs to get off his lazy ass and support himself as well as this child!
Bunny1412 because the kids are supposed to be independent and have a life of their own
peda cito To most cultures around the world, family=life. Think about it, when you get old your children takes care of you. Then when grandchildren comes, the grandparents become glad unpaid babysitters. It makes sense economically and socially, but in the West individualism is promoted. So you can be broke, lonely, and struggling paycheck to paycheck and that is seen as "better" than living with the people you love. Of course there are exceptions ie toxic relationships and moochers like this guy.
@Anne K - i agree with the decision in the featured case to kick the son out of his parents home, he is a leech and wasting his life. my comment was more directed at this Jimmy Kimmel video, this whole segment seemed to be about shaming/judging people who still live with their parents.
Also, people started living apart from their parents in 50s, so not that long ago. I'm talking about unmarried children.
I’m 33 and live with my mother. I’m disabled after a stroke. I pay part of the bills from my disability check and I try to clean/cook.
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I’m 37, had a stroke. Still live with my parents and I pay half of the mortgage and bill. Which you well and stay strong
I pray to god, you will recover soon.
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Hope you recover and be in good health soon
Family is precious and if you got a good one, aint nothing wrong in being with them.
hows your parents basement going? since you live there
you sound incredibly mature and developed, Shawn.
i own my own house and my parents live with me so i guess i am weird to huh people are funny
Air 22 hahaha best response
I've been on my own since roughly 15, but I see nothing wrong with living with your parents. As you say family is precious. The problem is when your parents don't want you, and you have to go to court because of it...or you refuse to help out around the house, paying bills ect.
I’m 24 and I still live with my mom. I’m moving out next year. However I’m definitely moving back when my mom gets older or maybe she’ll move in with me. I want to take care of her!
am 20 y.o i will always have my mom with me she is already old and i have to take care of her .
wow i wish every child are like you
Thats funny, same thing here! 24 years old, moving out next year but have no problem helping mom out when she’s older..
Good goals!! I too live with my parents and hope will soon..
Your plan is very good! And I dont understood why living whit your parents is bad? You can have your own independence!
The son in that story was unemployed by choice, and he did not contribute any rent or physical help with the upkeep of the household. That's why his parents wanted him out. There is nothing wrong with children continuing to live with their parents into adulthood, it only becomes a problem if the child is just acting like a lazy leech.
Jamie Lee yep I feel like if he atleast had a job and help with bills and stuff then he wouldn’t be on this predicaments, but nahhh he wanna be lazy
Well apparently he had a 'successful business' but I call BS on that since he couldn't give any details when asked about it
You just described my brother hes 30 this month -_-
Jamie Lee he has a kid and lost custody of it recently. He also seems depressed. I don’t think he’s in this financial situation by choice.
Jamie Lee What? In the news I heard him say that he had a job and paid for his own groceries and bought everything he wanted, never asked money from his parents...
This is actually cruel and not funny at all. Who knows what’s issues one my be going through it’s their current situation. Judging people isn’t right!!
I think you are 100 percent correct.
I tought the same, maybe he has depression
@Super Natural Misty except for people who physically or mentally can't
@Super Natural Misty how about the 20-something struggling with anxiety and depression, applying for hundreds of jobs and being turned down by all repeatedly? Nobody wants to be a parasite but many of us feel absolutely lost and need time to figure things out, without the rest of the world ripping us apart.
My brother is a SUPER loser just like these man-children.
This is clearly a western thing I presume because in Asia there’s nothing wrong with living with parents! There’s no better and bigger thing than family!
MegaPrime Gamer it promotes maturity.
The same with Mexico. My mom moved in with my dad's family when they got married and only got their own home when they had enough money. It just makes financial sense plus, it's nice having that family support.
It's not that he's 30. He does ZERO to help out, contribute or pay for his share. At 30! Yes it's expensive to move out but he shows such a lack of maturity, initiative or any drive to be the director of his life.
Talking about big families my family literally owns a whole street with 14 houses, 1 park, 1 clinic and even the street is named by my family name and total of 52-53 relatives live in that street. My father was the first person to move out just to build a 15th house at the end of the street.😏😂
Priyam Gupta where is this in India?
In this economy, it isn't shameful to live with your parents....it's practical.
This show is just a bunch of nuts who do not understand the economy.
What this economy is doing better than it has in over a decade, maybe moving to a better part in the country where housing is affordable is the answer.
And smart too 😆
I rather live with my family than with some dumb childish roommates
Mr. G6 true.
Mr. G6 you could just get your own place. At some point in life you have to stand on your own two feet.
Tyler Smash, you got me there darn it. Also when you become a big boy/girl, you really don’t need friends always holding your hand, some day you might even experience it, if you ever get from under your parents feet. Good luck thou if you try 😉
yes because everyone that lives in a shared apartment/flat is childish...what's the matter with you?
Trump Sucks-balls easier said than done. Especially nowadays
This is definitely an American thing, most other cultures live together for a long time
noo it‘s a european thing too ;)
Def an American thing
some people say it's a white people thing.
@@qtcollect4608 I was trying to be politically correct 😂
@vince5430 if eastern and southern Europe, many adult children live with their parents and grandparents
My sister still lives with our mum, and my mum would be devastated if she moved out any time soon. She's a single mother who never re-married and suffers from depression. My sister pays rent, the house is a 5 minute drive from the hospital where she works as a doctor (yes, not everyone who lives at home is lazy!), and my mum has company and (her words) "a purpose". They're both happy. Whats the big deal?
Sounds like a win-win situation!
@star yes women get funds from government as their fathers and it's time to start making fun of them 😁
hey Jimmy Kimmy what's your problem??
A depressed doctor?
People are jealous because theeir family sucks
I'm gonna be 30 this year, and I still live with my parents. I work and pay bills, cook, clean, do the laundry, the front yard.... I don't see it as shameful, but most Caucasians do (I'm Mexican). My parents do not mind me living with them. In fact, they never asked me to pay bills, but I do. I think if you still live with your parents and contribute, it's no one's damn business.
May Allah/God grant you entrance to paradise
Don't you wanna have your own like life tho? Like, start a family or something?
@@jasonst2871 not everyone of us finds the love of their life at 19.
@@l_in__k6881 Lmao not at all the point of what I was saying but ok.
@@jasonst2871 then explain please
Man the judgement here is really ugly. No one knows what individual circumstances are, not to mention housing costs these days.
Cait Porter
AMEN to that!
@star oh boohoo! Cry your MRA tears to someone who cares.
Whaaa whaaa lil B baby.
@star I got your pacifier ready, it was in your butt. BWAHAHA LIL B BABY. I'LL DRINK YOUR MRAINCEL TEARS. 😎
star why do you keep posting this everywhere
Fastforward to 2020, lots of people are moving back with their parents after losing their jobs to the pandemic.
Well karma is really a b*tch. Where's the American ideal now where people over 18 shouldn't lived with they're parents anymore huh? I hope this pandemic will show this western society on how flawed their system is when it comes to moving out process.
@@robertbench5187 damn those words deep bro
Moving out at 18 is impossible now.
It's possible, it's just stupid
Triggered Feminist it's only possible if your parents saved up money for you as a toddler, or you just happen to find a hard labor job that pays barely enough.
Israel Resendiz idk man ik kids in my grade( grade 12) that make enough right now at their jobs they could live alone they even have their own vehicles
YeBoiRyan depends where you live.
Israel Resendiz I live in Ontario at least 4 of the kids in my class work on farms make 20/hour
In India we don't abandon parents.
We take care of them when they are old
Im western countries we've got social security, so we don't have to take care of them when they are old.
Scipio Africanus hhhh good one😁
They took care of us when we were little and made us who we are and it's our love for them which makes us take care of them in their senility.., i pity you people who leave your parents in the mercy of their social security., There's something wrong with you.
Here in America we eat beef because it's delicious
We don't abandon parents. They are just too proud and too confident to want to be a liability to their own child, because they've lived all their life as independent adults.
Parents take care of us when we are young, so its our responsibility to take care of them when they are old.
Cap Taur you sound like your parents had you when they were in their 50s
Cap Taur unless they were shitty parents
Mrbrain bob I mean my mother had me when she was in her mid late forty’s..
Mrbrain bob so youre not gonna help them when they are old? Like personally take care of them when they are frail and weak?
Just here to comment, ok, don't want any trouble. How can you even...it's called gratitude, people take care of their parents because of gratitude.Yes, it's their obligation to give you what you need when you we're a child, but it was never their obligation to give what you want.
I’m 21 and still live with my dad. We need to normalise living with parents as long as you are studying or working. I want to save money so I can buy an apartment instead of renting, I’m lucky to have such a supportive parent...
Same I’m 20 and I still live with my family. But I’m in junior year of college as well and I’m not getting some bullshit minimum wage job so I can feel “independent”
@@g.3067 I'm 19 and still in Highschool, I'm gonna be graduating next year and definitely want to buy a apartment in afew years once I graduate and save up some money, my plan is I want to be a factory worker or be in the fire department
You can buy an apartment?
This was honestly rude and he was very insulting to that poor man. You don’t know their lives. It’s one thing not to have a job but there’s nothing wrong with living w ur parents.
Western viewpoint: The kids ideally should move out at age 18 and must move out of parents place by age 30. If they don't move out then the kid must pay rent to parents or else the parents will call the cops to evict the son.
Eastern (Asian) viewpoint: The kid/(s) and the children of the kid/(s) can live at the parents house for as long as they wish. The daughter obviously would be married to another household and live with her husband and the parents-in-law. The son would marry and his wife would move in to live with him and his parents.
30-40 years later:
Westerners: The elderly couple retires, sells their house and moves to a resthome and survives from govt. funded superannuation for the rest of their lives. Their children & grandchildren might visit them once in a while but does not live with them.
Easterners: The elderly couple retires and continues to live with their children (usually their eldest son & his family). The children provide all the food, clothing and other necessities to look after their parents for the rest of their lives. No moving to a resthome is required, nor does the house need to be sold.
Postscript: Not all western countries have such policies and in some countries (eg. Spain, Italy, Latin America, Greece, Bulgaria...) the children can continue living with parents or vice versa.
I cannot agree with how that 30 year old's parents evicted him from 'their' home. End of story.
Yes and I don't believe that woman moved out at 18 and but it's easy for women to be housed lol 🤣
As long as the parents don’t mind there shouldn’t be a problem, but if the parents want you out you must go you don’t go to court and try to stay what kind of scumbag does that? Time to man up moocher get out!
@John Buick, FYI houses in Sydney cost an average of $1,000,000. It would be similar in Vancouver, Toronto, Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York, Chicago etc. How long will it take for you to save enough money to even 'afford' a mortgage? Perhaps you were a lucky baby boomer generation that purchased a house for $25,000 thirty years ago.
Imagine being a famous tv host and making fun of people who can’t afford a house
Imagine not having a sense of humor
Dude. You don't need to buy a house to move out of your parent's place.
You dont need a house to move out. You can find a cheap apartment.
It's more cheaper to rent out apartment if you apply for housing I pay 169 and work part time
@@shadow-wolfgaming1737 All these people are in California. Average rent for a one bedroom apartment where I live here is about $1350/month.
My Dad was over 40 with a wife and kids and he lived with his Mom. My grandma lived upstairs, and we lived downstairs. He had a job, and was responsible. In the cool of the evening, we all would have a supper together. It's not all the time, but it happens maybe 2-3 times per week. Sometimes, neighbors would joined, bringing a dish or two. No one was depressed and lonely.
Shel us culture wants to paint a picture that it is, since millenials are to blame for everything.
Wow... mine too
same thing in my country
That actually sounds nice
Shel Same
now their trying to embarrass people about living with their parents. but rent getting so high in some area that you have to live with your parents.
jacqueline walker I know. I have friends who are ashamed that they can’t afford a car and get around her in Cali.
In Greece it's exactly the opposite! Children want to move out, not because we don't love our families but because we want to be independent, but when time comes usually there are drama scenes like: "why would you want to leave us??😢😭"
And then we rent an apartment 5 minutes away from our parents' home..👏
With that five minute drive, your parents still nag you.
Stefan Unson haha, maybe in some cases! But in general, I think it just gives them a sense of security that you are near by and can pop in if need be. And to tell you the truth, here we like to be a little bit involved in each others lives. After all we all love one another and I can't imagine not knowing how my parents or siblings are doing! (Even if they nag sometimes )
Lol, same here (Bulgaria). My parents keep bugging me to come home or at least move in some place near them.
I was moved out, had to be back for my parents.
Here houses cost 5 times your annual payment. Lets say you get 500k NOK a year, an apartment on 84m^2 will cost you 4 to 5 millions. It is insane. I just did a search now.
An apartment that is 69 m^2 costs 4.890.000 NOK.
Depends where the apartment sits though. If it is in the middle of a city or outside where the busroutes sucks balls.
This is Norway though. In the 70s it cost people like one annual payment. (I call it annual payment because I do not know the actual name for the money you get all in all each year.)
This is sad. Not because they’re still living with their parents, but because they’re being made fun of for it. For all you know, some of the older people could be living with their parents to care for them. There is nothing wrong with living with your parents.
But that's a different situation. The guy in this news story is doing nothing to contribute AND the parents clearly don't want him there.
yeah but then they made fun of the last guy with that last clip
In the west, a lot of people are entitled, and they leech off of their parents while contributing nothing to the house. That’s what the last clip was directed toward, the people that are like that.
That stupid video at the end kinda pissed me off.
Bob sagget yeah but they always make it seem like 90% of those living with their parents are the leeches. and the way they presented the last clip was like a direct insult to the man sitting next to his mother.
This is just about making fun of people. Not cool!
I'll be 22 this year. I still live at home, I study, I work, pay rent, bills, groceries, I pay for my cat and my horse. Living at home doesn't equal lazy. It works out cheaper for me and it works out for my parents cause they get another source of income. I wouldn't be surprised if I'm still living at home in another couple years. Everyone's situation is different and they certainly shouldn't be judged by the simple basis "they live at home".
Sanna Karvinen just so long as you pay for your horse girlfriend
@@neoneherefrom5836 mum and dad had to help me out once for a vet bill but besides that, you bet I pay for them 😊
I chipped in for my private jet before I moved out so I feel you sister
@@neoneherefrom5836 I feel like vet bills and a private jet aren't really the same haha but ok
A Horse? That’s so cool
Jimmy is 50 years old and the cost of living was way lower when he was 19. There were more job opportunities and college didn't cost as much. It's much harder to earn enough to live on your own as a millennial. I've been out of college for a year and still haven't been able to get full time work despite being an honor student, having prior work and internship experience, and applying every day. I am now forced to move in with my mom because I only have $297 in my bank account. Believe it or not, most people who live with their parents as adults have no choice because of this lousy economy. Stop shaming them for things beyond their control. I've been a fan of the show for years, but this makes me reconsider.
I'm in a similar situation and felt the same way, also a long time fan of the show and was really put off by this. It just seems unnecessarily mean spirited. Thanks for getting this sentiment out there.
He gets upset on this show when there are mass shootings, but those incidents are related to mental health. To improve mental health we all need to treat each other better, but here is a segment asking us to guess who is a loser on appearance alone, and when they reveal their age the audience howls. I don't think there is enough affordable housing for every person of an adult age to be independent and owning a separate house from all their other adult family members. An increasing amount of people will belong to one of two groups: either living independently but struggling to pay the bills and dealing with stress, or staying at home but called names like manchild, human trash and dealing with depression. The system doesn't allow every person to get a high paying job and comfortably afford housing because there are only so many opportunities. Inequality and poor treatment of the poor can cause rifts and violent backlash.
Plus, people seem to trashtalk more about men living with their mom, than females living with their mom.
My friends is like "I understand you, take the time you need, I can offer you a room if you get a job in the city" and so on. I appreaciate the help, but wonder how it would be if I were a male.
hang in there! It's gonna get better.
Rivka Arbetter lol i moved out when I was 24 but i've paid all bills since I was 21...stop making excuses.
Yes and I'm 24. Who cares, it's more depressing to be completely alone.
star very true.
Aleen it is what’s worst is living in the streets homeless.
star I beg to differ ; girls that stay w their parents (well in the Hispanic culture) are under control freak parent or parents and aren't allowed to say diddly squat; if they go out they get hell and shamed; this pushes us out towards actual independence (even if far too rushed) meanwhile brothers can do whatever the hell they want and eat cake
Basically we'd get judged every day by our parents
Grow up looser
Moved out at 18...moved back 21...moved out 27...moved back 30...moved out 32...moved back 33..moved out 35 ..I'm 39 now..alone completely did life wrong....worked myself to death ...made bad decisions ...I lived but wow. Why? Sometimes it feels like a set up. I never figured it out..
In my culture, you don’t leave your parents when you become 18 but in my culture, your mom doesn’t do your laundry and instead of your parents paying the bills, that becomes the responsibility of the children. We do the cooking, cleaning and other things that they used to do for us when we were younger.
isolanni that’s worse than being a leech. Any parent that allows that after a certain age is raising a mentally and physically disabled (by choice) individual.
Well that’s a retrograde culture...
May I ask where you are from?
Afghanistan.
Orion Isn't 18 is a bit too young age to take on such a responsibility? I mean, are you guys even graduated from college and able to make a living when you are only 18?
I would like to say to anyone watching this right now and having questions about yourself and living with your parents, ask yourself what you really want. Don't let a silly youtube video dictate your choices. Everyone's experience is different.
Nothing makes me happier than having my whole family in the house! Holidays are great because all family and friends are around. There's nothing wrong with continuing to live at home as long as everyone's happy with it. Homes are happy places with lots of happy people in them.
As an Indian most of them leave with our parents.. but because of my academic type and introverted nature .. I feel like I want a private space for myself to focus on my projects, actually I like to be alone most of the time..
I am 22 and my sister is 25. We live with out parents, not because we want to, but because we cannot afford to live on our own. Cost of living is very expensive here in Canada. My friend lives with his grandparents. My other friend can barely afford to live on her own. In Vancouver alone the average cost of rent is $3000. It's not that we are lazy, it is just that it is unaffordable in this day and age and having to pay for school. I am all ears if someone has a solution.
Colleen Flett 3000 for a 1 bedroom?!
bgirlsweet09 Vancouver is super expensive with a housing crisis, I saw this documentary about rich Chinese buying property there to get citizenship so yeah everything there is in high demand and high prices
Yeah, I don't love that when we turn 18 there's so much pressure to "get out there" and face the world head-on. I've been working a minimum wage job for a year (I'm 18 lol)... how am I supposed to afford rent with that low of an income? Also, I love my family. I'm super close with my parents and my siblings and the love is mutual. I don't understand why at such a young age I'm told to give up on that family and go start my own. I get what Kimmel was trying to do here and it's funny but especially being a man, I just felt awful at how these guys were portrayed. Like if you still live with your parents past 20 you're some asocial, video game addict who's never been laid. I go to class every day and work as many shifts as my store will give me... so what if I still live with my parents? Anyways, I feel the money issue.. I've looked at apartments and it's just not happening... But good luck to us both... :D
Colleen Flett 3k a month is not a lot lol
Emilio Lucero it is for a lot of people, even if they went to college. They’d have to have a really well paying job to afford that on their own.
My parents had me when they were 50 and 48. I'm 24 and live at home to help take care of my dad who is a stroke vitcim. He can't speak or walk, and really can't do much. I help mom with lifting him and babysitting him. I think every case is different for everyone. But at the same time depends on the relationship. Clearly if there is a abusive party (kids can be emotionally abusive as well to their parents) one should leave.
Living with your parents is not bad, it’s when you are living with them just sitting around not paying bills or not trying to get a job.
Living at home it's not the problem... the problem is if you're not helping around and depending on them with anything
what if ur unable to find a job HERE IM AN EXAMPLE I have 50% hearing loss in my one ear and the second one 80% do you think people will hire me ? ? trust me I've tried so many times been looking for jobs since 2015 NO ONE GIVES A DAMN ABOUT YOU COZ UR DISABLED the only think i do is helping my parents with cooking paying bills instead of them they just give me the money and I go pay I literally make their live easier since I do almost 70% of the things in the home YES I DONT BRING MONEY BECAUSE I CANT IF I COULD I WOULD
Well I’m in junior year of college and when I get my degree I’m going to navy officer school. Why would I move out and get some shitty job to struggle and pay rent?
As an asian i find it normal to live with my parents. Heck, i wanna take care of them when they get old.
You are correct
Same
In America , they expect the government to take care of the old gizzards. The children keep their distance just enough to swoop in and take their belongings when they died.
I live with my parents I’m 30. I have autism and people don’t hire me. I help my parents all the time. They’re old. So, I take care of the house.
In the Philippines it’s actually very common for families to live all under the same roof it’s only Americans that find it problematic
Same and I'm 28, Filipino parents want me to live with them forever.
True
Im 21 and I just recently moved out of my parents house. If I can, I would like to live with them (Mom also wants me to). But they have to move somewhere that's far from my job. I support my sibling's education. So I'd rather not sacrifice my job.
Staying with your parents will also teach you on how to be an adult. 'Cause you will learn how to budget your money, you have your share with monthly bills and daily expenses.
And it's pretty hard to live far from your family.
The BlockTV true, this shows plot sometimes is disgusting
25 still living with my parents
In Indian culture it's different 'cause we live with our parents forever ♥️ . The only difference is we start covering all the expenses for our parents and trust me it's beautiful .
its only western mentality. Those aged parents will cry of loneliness
@Jesus Christ mom, dad, their son and his wife and their kids. My neighbors were 21 members in one family 😂 but it's rare mostly there are 4-6 members including kids
Vaishnav Sahu yes us to in Morocco most families live together and we take care of our elderly
@Jesus Christ a normal person ? ( his mom and dad , his wife ....so about 4 )
So true and that will never change even if you get married
I don't live with my parents, my parents live with me, I do everything my mom did to me when I was a kid. Took care of me for 18 years now it's my turn.
Let them die, what loosers
♥️
JD I hope you’re joking
JD, You have no parents its very obvious
I love jimmy, but this segment was vile and out of touch with the realities of so many young adults in the US who have a difficult time getting ahead and being able to afford housing on minimum wage.
Interesting🤔
I agree!
Rent an apartment
@Tiffany Wart uh you serious..
This isn't only in the US, in Europe this problem is starting to grow aswell.
I moved out at 29 and bought my own house,don't feel much difference really. Don't see the big deal about living with parents
Ian Robinson So where do you live? It must be very affordable.
That is impossible for 99% of 29 year olds.
Yeah,it's a smaller town of 50k or so people. I'd say it's near impossible for an average single person to buy a house in a big city without significant (6 or 7 figure) help from parents
Ian Robinson, I thinkin' that since you stayed until you were 29 you must have had considerable savings from having that option. That is what you're saying isn't it?
Yes absolutely. My advice to anyone living at home is to take advantage of the situation and sock away as much as you can. The last thing you want is to get kicked out at 30 like this guy with no savings and a low income...
Not everyone has a six-figure paycheque Jummy. I lost my job and was unable to pay my rent even with a little bit of government funding. So my mom offered her help, I moved in with her and helped her with her job, she's self-employed. I eventually after 5 months of constantly handing out resumes, got a job. and have my own place again.
What kind government funding I'm kind going thru the same thing
Who doesn't? Especially at times like these...🤭 Thanks parents for the support though. Still hustling while taking advantage too at its total best! 🙌
TRUE. My family is of South East Asian decent but they really don't mind me staying... esp. when the reason is to save up. It's just practical as of now. But nothing lasts forever.. So just do what you gotta do whilst we still got those chances.
Both my brothers do and they're in their 30s as well. My mom has even offered for me to come back home to save money, lol. Really if I didn't live with my boyfriend idk how I'd be able to afford an apartment on my own x.x
Eat ramen every day I guess...
@varekai Ascendant Hey thank you for sharing your story. its very nice to hear good reactions to this. I mean everyone is different. But as far as I am reading here? everyone follows one specific thing... BEING PRACTICAL. Thats so awesome. I love hearing this from you. I would probly do the same for my kids later on. But for now, I'm helping out and sharing a home with my parents. no complains!
@xDarkTrinityx Thank you for sharing your story. I think we are all sharing stories of our practicality and it just makes alot of sense. goodness... I hope you aint just sippin on ramen everyday. That be delish but thats just no good for your body as well. whew!
don't hear many people say his parents are worthless!
I moved out at 18 and decided to move to Argentina for three years. I grew up and experienced so much during those three years and the time really molded me into the man I am today. With that being said, making fun of guys who live with their parents into their 30s is just cruel. I felt horrible for that guy in the crowd who obviously really loved his mom.
For all those feeling attacked by the shaming of being grown up and living with parents. Here in Africa I have never met anyone who moved out before 23 at least. I have cousins living at my mother's house and they are in their 30s, it doesn't mean you're incapable, childish or lazy. It's tough out here, keep pushing!
You from South Africa?
Ty Lion yup
I’m 21 and still live with my mom, work and pay bills but those bills would be 80x more once I leave! I also take care of her and the house so i probably won’t leave until she’s gone some day.. If you have a good set up and you’re not just wasting you’re life I don’t see why it’s a bad thing to live with you parents!
Alexis King
Jealousy.. there is nothing bad about it. Tbh it's very sad that people don't take care of their parents
I moved out at 22.
Alexis King dear lord lol
Living together with our parents is good but at the same time we should take our own responsibility. I would live with and take care of them, still I would never be able to repay for all that they have done for me. Love my parents 😘
You can move out and still look after your parents, I do.
I live with my parents so what's the big deal
Sheila Dey help with the bills?
This is clearly a western thing I presume because in Asia there’s nothing wrong with living with parents! There’s no better and bigger thing than family!
MegaPrime Gamer Yeah exactly. Especially in India, the traditional culture dictates that a son continues to live with his parents even after he gets married and has kids.
I live with my mom🤔👍
Vlada Natasha I'm 32
In America, there are 2 insults:
1. Living with parents
2. Not hooking up
bruh fr💀💀
Actually it is everywhere
That’s actually a great way to sum it up, very accurate
😂😂😂 noticed that too
Lol that's what happens when your country don't have a long mediaeval history like the rest of the world 😂243 year old😂
Nobody can afford to move out anymore. I don't wanna live with my parents but I unfortunately don't have a choice
Lol
Agreed. The average house price in Sydney is over $1,000,000. How many graduates can afford such a mortgage?
Aspen Tucker same :(
Aspen Tucker this is so true, don’t move out , you might end up being homeless :)
Same
In Korea it's common for the female to live with their parents until they get married.
OkieKookie this tradition too exist in India
OkieKookie its common all over the world actually. Even well off children.
Same in Babanzia
But bringing a girl or guy over to your parents' house is awkward as hell.
In the middle east too.
What difference does it make! I've lived with my parents all my life - born late, I agreed to stay home because as they got older, they needed someone home to take care of them. My dad died last year at age 97 and I'm still home at age 53 taking care of my 87 year old mother. I always paid room and board! I don't understand people's judgemental attitudes on this.
Jo Gordon have you ever travelled to India or Africa and did you take malaria medicine
Jimmy hates poor people because he thinks all poor people are just lazy people who play video games all day.
This episode is literally just like the Joker..
I'm 25 and me and my 1 year old live with my parents. It's not uncommon in Europe for three generations to live under one roof
So Europe and every other society takes care of its own accept the USA!
USA experienced a boom post WWII when every other developed nation got bombed during the war. USA unscathed with an abundance of natural resources, it was only natural for the other war ravaged countries to bow down. The post-war boom when high school drop outs were given high paying factory jobs and could move out at 18. The boom has ended and now that American abberation of moving out at 18 is being corrected.
I still live with my parents, do you know how expensive it is to live by yourself in CALIFORNIA! LOL
krizialy hernandez what does a 1room 1 bath go for up there?
krizialy hernandez omg! San Fran is ridiculous and I thought NYC was expensive!
Public_ Juan in LA the average of 1 bath 1 bed is around $2000 lmao. But the average of the whole state is about $1200..in some areas. The lowest would probably be around $800 but you'll be in the middle of nowhere
In Toronto Canada it’s too much ! Average house in Toronto is 800000 and condos are like 500000 it’s crazy out here
I’m in sf for a 2/2 we pay 3800$ so not soo bad
I’m 21 and I still live with my parents. They don’t don’t help me pay for college or bills but they let me live in their house for free. After college I still plan on living with them so I can help them out financially
I am Indian, In India it is considered bad to leave your parents. In India people think that at old age parents need our help so if we are leaving them we are not considered as good child.
agree ... im indian .. and we always live in the parents home ... and hope to live there indefinitely ... they are raising strangers ... in US ... not children ... i think the newer generation should learn from their mistakes ... and refrain from making them ourselves
what is the difference between animals and civilization ... if the parents are anyway going to be left on their own ... in the end
Maybe it's a cultural thing but I really don't see why it's a problem to live with your parents as long as you have your own job to do. Not to mention in a time like this, it's not the easiest thing to live on your own. Of course, I like my privacy, but I am sure some people actually enjoy living with their parents.
This video specifically targets the ones who are freeloading and have no marketable skills. That too of people beyond the age of 25 or so which is well beyond a college graduate''s age and when people can no longer be counted as dependents in their parents' taxes
It is one of the easiest times in history to move out on your own. Get a job, work hard, make a budget, move out, then stick to the budget.
Ben Johnson lol your funny.... more people now than ever which means more competition now than ever.
Potato Chips Bleach Flavored Yep it’s called being an adult and making life work in a competitive planet. That never changes. So I hope you aren’t waiting for life to get easier...🧐
Potato Chips Bleach Flavored not how it works. Our economy is stronger and more diversified than ever, which means more opportunities. Our cost of living realative to our income is historically quite low. If you have realistic expectations then you can easily afford modest accommodation on your own. Getting a job is not hard if you work hard, and pretty easy if you have an education, especially if you choose your field of education wisely. Also, we enjoy unprecedented levels of convenience in our daily lives.
If you have work ethic moving out on your own is easy. Get a modest apartment, budget accordingly, stick to that budget, and you'll be fine.
I don't see the problem with it
Neither does anyone else really. It's just a conservative talking point and how they put down the vanguard of millennials who got royally screwed by the financial crisis.
He was a piss poor tenant that saved none of his money, didn't apt utilities or rent, spent money on games, porn, toys. At this point, he needs to leave. It's one thing to stay with your parents and provide assistance with housework and bills or save his money for his own home, but he did neither.
anon ymous I don't either
This guy has no job and is not paying rent over the age of 30. If he had a job it'd be different but he's just mooching off of his parents.
Its almost the same thing as being a virgin
I live in India and here if you don't live with your parents and left them alone then you r a bad guy...true story 💯
That's true... We are the parents health care... We must have to...
Pratik Rane Yep. They took care of you and love you. It’s good to take care of them as well.
True
Only For men and An Indian woman have to leave her parents.
@@behumble96 What About Indian Woman's Parents ???
I have my 2 grown daughters living with us plus the grandchildren....I love this...they have money and good careers...just love family life together
Why is that a problem living with parents...?!?
I work and live with my parents. They looked after me when i was young, now i look after them. Because they r very old.
This video is very stupid to me.
MD ASHRAF I have totally the same situation, its a problem only for US, not for Asia, Middle East, Russia, Europe.... i dont know about Australia frankly. So strange why is that so, when it started
Because of capitalism.
He is lazy he does not wrk
diffrent culture relax buddy
Thing is he wasmt working or helping out
this show is just about judging people...
of course their life. Liberals always do that
No it's about judging you.
no i wasn't there
Chris it's just that they're very hypocritical really
It would be fine if he was making it funny. But Jimmy Kimmel can’t do that.
Idk why people act like living with their parents is such a bad thing. Family is super important (if they’re loving and supportive) and I feel like people often stomp on that concept.
As a Somali, my mother sat me down at 25 years of age and told me "there are two ways you can get out of this house, in a wedding gown or a body bag. CHOOSE wisely." I had career aspirations and i didn't have any intention of dying or getting married. SO old story short, I am almost 30 and I still live with my parents.
Would she really have killed you? I had to live with my parents for five weeks once between rentals and they were vicious until I got out.
@@anaromello she meant either she gets married or she stays with them until she dies or the parents die.
I still live with my parents. Thank God because I cannot afford to live on my own
Mad Mal it's nothing to be like you feel guilty to live with your parents as you're not working my cousin is unemployed he lives with his parents he's searching for job he has done his degrees he always helps his parents in any matter and his parents are happy too though their son is unemployed
Sheila Dey Yeah I say as long as you help your parents with rent or doing work around the house if you can't pay rent. I work and do chores
Wow you suck at life.
Wayne Goins I'm 21. So I still have a minimum wage job
Moises Antonio thank you
You can work 40 hours a week and easily still not have enough money to move out. You really need to be making at least 50k a year and even that's living very tight. You'll have nothing at the end of the month.
Novaximus that’s if you live in the city.
Or anywhere in Maine ;)
Red Ring of Death prices change
I guess it depends on where you live. I live in New Jersey. Just on average prop taxes + Mortgage interest rate of 4% + water + electricity + insurance + gas/oil + trash pickup + Septic + Cable (I would seriously argue the necessity of this "utility" in 2018 but ok...) - cable These alone are costs you will pay with NOTHING to show for at the end of the month. It's literally money out the window and this figure easily adds up to about 900 bucks. Now lets add in the actual equity of a home and let's go cheap....400 bucks per month. Now Food, ok you live on pot noodles and pb&J ...200 per month. Now let's not forget you most likely have a cell phone, car, car insurance, gas for the car, yearly registration renewals, regular maintenance, the occasion new shirt and socks and mothers day gift....300 + easy Let's add all of this up.....drum roll please..... 1,800k PER MONTH. Tada! So you have to CLEAR about 2K a month with your paycheck. Most people have deductions of Taxes, Health Care, maybe even 10% to a retirement fund. You're talking 50k salary to clear about 2k a month. That's just keeping your head above water. Sure you can rent, but that just drops your costs about 400 per month and over time rent increases. You gain no equity and you can't work forever. This is the Average American situation. oh! not to mention you'll need a savings of 25k for a down payment.
So when a rich well to do person like a host of a talk show or a news anchor cynically snarks...."You're 20 - 30 years old living at home, what's wrong with you?" They ignorantly assume that it's because you're not working your 40 hours a week. Which many many many Americans do and then some but don't get paid any where near 50k a year.
Drive around and what do you see in America....McD's, a nail salon, maybe a Home Depot. These are the "American Opprotunities" for employement. You're not going to make 50k a year busting your ass at a Walmart or a Gas Station. Blue Collar jobs are extremely tough. White collar jobs are extremely rare. So many Americans find themselves working 2 or 3 part time jobs. Or trying independent gigs like Uber and Internet selling. American Wages Suck.
In my opinion it's because our country has become a "service" country. We don't produce anything anymore. The allocation of wealth is very unbalanced when factoring in the worth of some ones time and effort.
I think one answer to this problem is having more high tech industry jobs where Americans can spend 3 or 4 months in a learning program tech school to specifically fill the need of these jobs. College doesn't work very well and most feel as if they missed that train there's no getting back on. It's expensive, risky time consuming and doesn't pay out for years.
ha ha ha Small world! I'd really like to retire early at 57 instead of 67. Moving out of state I think might make that possible.
It's clearly an American thing. in Asia, girls stay with their parent until they get married and boys stay with their parent forever. if your family is big and have lots of brothers then one of them will have to stay with parent and help them out if other brothers decided to move out. but ofcourse, everybody has to contribute somehow.
SocialJustice Warrior Yes and the rest of Europe thinks you're weird and you're raising manchilds. These men never really grow up and are forever attached to what their parents (especially mom) thinks. Such a turnoff ..
FabiJenneke Would you rather have them live with a significant other before they get married? Also, the funny thing is that you are always treated as a kid, not just a home but in other places, like at work or the mall. I mean we have all of the rules and regulations, aka the nanny state.
Been living with my parents since 2001, they raised and take care of me each step along the way. Why would I move out in tough situations now? I do my part, they do theirs as well. Everyone is happy in the end of the day.
How old are you? Not judging you.
@@10RBREEZY does it matter he loves his parents and his parents r happy too that he tries to take care of them too
If you're gonna not pay bills or help with chores, then you deserve to be kicked out.
ImaginedIntrovert what if you’re mentally ill or just went through a major traumatic life event?
Anastasia Cimino I think that should be an exception, just as long as you're getting help with whatever issues you are dealing with.
Anastasia Cimino
That's missing the point. The implication that this applies to people of sound mind and body should already be understood. You can ask that with just about anything that requires you to take responsibility. And even then, as an adult, a traumatic life event shouldn't be a good enough reason to stop living in fact that might just compound the problem. This guy had no job, didn't do chores or pay bills and was asked multiple times to leave. Nothing matters when the owners of the house have already made it clear that the inhabitant isn't wanted.
Im almost 31. Went away from college and came back. Have a job. Make more money than both my parents combined. We benefit each other by living together. This is very common, and almost something expected in Immigrant communities. Having family is a blessing.
A lot of whats wrong with society in the west is attributed to the breaking up of traditional family values. Also, its very common in Europe as well to live close if not in the same house as parents. Moving out should be an option. But not mandatory. Also, it is entirely possible that the behavior exhibited by this man child is entirely the fault of the parents and their coddling.
M. Rony I would say that his parents did not raise him properly when he was a kid cause him to carryover those bad habits to adulthood.
Very well said
Agreed, I wish America was more accepting on that. But that’s what happens when you have a country that’s built on slavery and oppression, everyone forgets where they’re from and loses their heritage and values.
I wish I can earn more money than my parents combined someday. May I ask which profession you are in?
So I'm 26 and live with my parent's pay bills and help with everything. & they want me here.
What's the big deal? Especially now a days it's more common than back when.
Well said.
People that don’t live with their parents are idiots or rich. You’re fine.
It will become the new norm in 10-20 years. Which is funny cos we are living longer too, so it actually matter too much.
At least us people that have our own households get laid.
Dom G. I guess if you can come up with a creative lie on why you cant take a girl to your moms place
RIGHT. When you're a kid, it's OUR house, but when you're 30, it's MY house. smh.
it doesn't make any sense... it's a family house... its belongs to the whole family and that includes the 20 or 30 something years old
I would rather live with my parents and help pay the bills than get a house I can't afford to pay off because I'm in my 20s, just graduated and only got an average job.
There should be no shame in living with your parents so long as you're pulling your own share of the load and not just freeloading off them for granted.
Edit: I'm not speaking up for solely the people interviewed in this video. I'm talking about those in general who live with their parents. Some people work very hard, struggle a lot, and still can't climb up the social ladder because of things, which they may have no control over, screwing them over. And they would still be looked down upon for living with their parents by those who don't know that person's circumstances. The typical reaction of a 30 yr old admitting that he/she still lives with their parents is embarrassment because they know society frowns down upon it. Is that 30 yr old married? When did they finish school? What's their job? Debts? What is that person's reasons? And yes, I know this video targets those who barely do anything in their lives and more so choose to live with their parents to free load off them like that. Again, I'm speaking for those in GENERAL who live with their parents. I don't have thousands of friends but I like to think many people still living with their parents have very good reasons for doing so and also try to pull their share of the load.
Naomi I agree. When I was 19 my parents divorced. I stayed at home with my mom and help with payments now that my dad is gone. Neither of us see the point of me moving out. We each pay 50% of the bills/expenses. If I move out we each then have to pay 100% of our own bills. What's the point in that? It's a waste of money.
having to live with them and choosing to are two completely different things
eddieisfiction My sister is about to reach her 30s and still not done with her education. It really depends on the circumstances.
eddieisfiction Living in LA, I've learned not to judge people by their appearances. I've seen a man walk into a fast food joint looking like he works as a Hollister window model but it turns out he's a doctor. Met a guy who looks and acts like a frat boy but is a registered nurse. I wish these people interviewed here were allowed to explain why they live with their parents. Whether they have to because housing in LA costs too much for a 30 year old who maybe has been working an average job for 6ish years or they simply choose to.
That said, I'm not speaking for the people specifically in this video. But there are many from the baby boomer generation who had better opportunities to buy their own houses at a young enough age and there's the old Western concept of doing just that. Buying your American dream house while fresh and young and starting a happy family in your 20s-30s. I grew up in San Jose, one of the most expensive cities in the U.S., and if you're an unmarried 30 yr old with a stable but average job it is still very difficult to get your own house since it's Silicon Valley. You could get a cramped apartment if you want to stay close to where the jobs are.
eddieisfiction Oh my comment was speaking in general regarding the idea of living with parents and being shamed for it without circumstances being known
There's nothing wrong with living with parents. You save a lot of money on rent alone!
Try being an adult and living by yourself, not dependent on other peoples money.
J B This is ironic because when you live by yourself you end up having to live to work and not work to live.
Stefan Unson Guess what? I left the nest at 18, am now 26 and bought my first property for $55,000 cash last October so I dont even have a rent or mortgage payment, which now enables me to save $1000/month, and I never came back to live with my parents during that time ever. I still work full time, even though I could probably afford not to, because I want to save. So you can take your 'live to work' crap and shove it.
J B Where do you live? I ask because not all metros are expensively equal. For example, all of the homes in Texas cost half as much as in California for the same area.
Florida, which is a low-cost of living state.
I'm 27 and live with my parents. I did lived by myself for 4 years and moved back because I miss them. Family to me is everything. I'm a family oriented kind of person and I do not see anything wrong with that. Maybe being a Filipino plays a part too. :)
There's a housing crisis in my country so nobody moves out till they're 30 now
where do you live?
@@kaotaja_jess Republic of Ireland
@@mrbraziliaai3828 Really? Must be a city thing...
Everything is so expensive
bro i live in london and at this rate im gna live w my parents until im 40
People you're missing the point here. He lives at home with his parents, he doesn't work, he's not in school, he has a child, he doesn't want to do anything for himself. His parents even gave him money to move out.
The kid wasn't mentioned in the original article I read,but now that it's been revealed he is a father I can see why he REALLY doesn't want to move out,because financially he will be absolutely screwed with min wage jobs,rent and child support
Ian Robinson Come on. You have to man up and take care your responsibilities. You have a child.
They offered him a "generous" $1,100 ... Yup that'll go faaaaaar!
He lost custody of his kid because he's a lazy ass.
People complain about minimum wage jobs, but you have to start somewhere. As long as you are reliable and stay working for a company that gives yearly raises, within 1 year you won't be making minimum wage anymore. Within 2-5 years you'll be making $14 an hour + with no degree but you have to start working and building your skills.
If this guy is only employable at minimum wage at 30, let's be honest, he's been incredibly lazy his entire life. Most people start working before they even graduate High School.
Kenneth Carr I would really like to know how his folks raised him that he seems to be afraid of responsibilities. I feel bad for both parents and their son. He's definitely every millennials nightmare.
I'm 23, I was due to move out last September but my father was diagnosed with cancer so I stayed to take care of him. I hate living at home and really want to move but just cant because I have to take care of him..
You are a good person with a good heart. It's gonna be alright
Why do you hate it?
John Volt because I like my own space privacy and I get neither here. I also don’t like the area. Everybody else I know has moved out and I’d like to be one of those people
Thank you for what you do
you're being a good daughter. so that's good.
Rents are way to expensive most of us have to have two jobs just to afford to live.
Karolina Biller It's cheaper to buy your own house than it is to rent someone else's. This is greed at work and nothing more.
Laugh at me all you want but I lived with my parents for more than five years after high school. During that time, the money that would've been wasted on rent is now in savings and investments that are up in six figure value. And the people who laughed at me are broke, poor, and in debt. Very funny indeed.
5 years worth of avg rent cost doesn't even come close to amounting to six figures, and the people in the video are 30+ still living with there parents that's well beyond your 23
@@jasonst2871 it's so nice to know there are people in the same boat as me, especially when they're older and still living with their folks, because it makes me feel like I'm not alone
@@callmecharlottex um ok I guess in that regard I can understand. Nevertheless living with your parents to 30 is not something to be proud of.
@@jasonst2871 it depends on the circumstances. I'm autistic and struggle to let alone keep and hold down jobs, but I do help my mum out with a lot of things and pay rent
One of the biggest problems with the western world is an expectation of departure from the family. I actually think people would be happier if families continued to live together (and do not receive any social stigma as a result). They kick him out, but will complain if he throws them in a nursing home later down the road. They'll have it coming though. Anyone who sues their kids for this reason isn't a good person.
Eric's OutHouse
Yup!
His parents were right to kick his lazy ass out since it's the only thing that will light a fire up under him.
The fact that he's still only qualified for low wage jobs at age 30 shows that he's been doing absolutely nothing with his life thus far. Had he started working in High School like most people he'd be earning at least $35,000, but more likely $60,000 - $100,000+ per year by 30 - with or without a degree.
Eric's OutHouse if you knew the story you'd kick him out too. I live in NY and his story is everywhere! Kinda sad that his 30 and has zero motivation. Not to mention a child of his own. I can see why he lost custody. Or perhaps he doesn't want to move out because he'll have to pay child support.
your not gonna be making over 35,000 by 30 with out some trade or degree. sorry thats reality... there are eceptions of course,
americans will literally laugh at anything
No one The harsh truth! Respect.
Glad I left
It's weird
HAHAHA! Love this comment!
Thecoolaccount 😂
Moving out at 19 to a dorm is NOT moving out. You are not paying for that dorm room. It's being paid. So that's not moving out.
I wanna know when you moved out on your own and worked. That's what I wanna know.
Exactly, my school is in Hollywood but my family is in Phoenix (I’m James by the way)
I moved out at 18 and paid for my own dorm room... Who is paying for rooms in the scenario of which you speak?
angelstouch92 the parents or scholarships.
People that actually move out and pay their own way are far more rare.
J_Jammer thank you for clarification.
J_Jammer exactly. Makes no sense you can’t afford to move out right after high school with your own money. And it’s ridiculous so many spiked college gets get more respect or looked as independent , when that’s not the case
I live in Serbia, a very traditional country. It is normal for us to live with our parents. It's not about the economic factor, it's about caring for the elderly. No one can take better care of parents than their children. Also, our parents play a huge role in raising their grandchildren. Together, family is the most important community for life.
Hilarious but misleading. There's actually a decent portion of adults who financially support their parents as well as share the same roof. I'm not ashamed to be one of them.
I still lived with my parents and I'm 28, housing in Canada are getting expensive. 😏
In Greece , parents are more likely to sue their children if they try to leave :')
Being an Indian this is so weird to hear all this stuff
They want us to have our own lives and not cooped up inside with them
@@spongebob1849 There are so many people who just like to stay with their folks even though they are earning and everything.. I think this living together thing becomes a problem when the children don't help with the bills and all
im indian got kicked out of my house at 18
now i live in a shitty studio flat n i work as a video editor lmao
@@manu-nz7vc Really?? That's odd... I have never heard of anything like this happening in India...
@@sagnikbanerjee2833 i dont live in india i live in london