My crush had a crush on me for a long time and I recently got a crush on him and he is with someone now and I’m not sure what to do but she’s really nice but the problem is is she doesn’t do much with him and he talks to me a lot more than him he’s just scared to break up with her because he doesn’t want to break her heart
I don't think my crush is in a serious relationship with her boyfriend because they just met hardly 6 months ago and cause of coronavirus they are not hanging out much. We always share things with each other. Everyday I pray to God that she must come to me and yes there are many chances for her to come to me. Thank you for your advice
Absolutely! I love to hear people's perspectives. Sometimes I miss something or someone else has an alternative way to approach the situation. The comments section is where its at!
@@TheJoshSpeaks So I asked out the first girl I've ever had a big crush on today she said no because she is talking to another guy. We work together(I'm about to turn 17 and she will 18 in 4 months)what should I do? First time ever asking a girl out.
@@bridger6101 if you can tell that she doesn’t mind you and she likes you as a friend then give it time. if it seems they’re relationship is growing everyday then I’d say give up. There is nothing you can do about who she talks to, if the time is right and it’s meant to be, trust me you two will eventually be a thing.
@@caden2727 Thanks for advice, I’m not sure now if she is dating anyone or not. I don’t think she is, I got her a bday card today(Birthday is the 20th this month)I’m only getting her a card just to show I remembered her birthday, but also not to be a creep or simp.
@@bridger6101 ayeee, that’s one day after my girlfriends birthday lol. Buying her a card is not creepy at all and showing her that you remembered her birthday is pretty genius.
I have done this in the past subconsciously. This has worked worked out. Josh has made exact steps here. Women know they always deserve better. Be better and just stay friends. She will eventually move on.
I would say that she realized she has a deeper connection with you. Just because you agree to date someone exclusively doesn't mean you two are the most compatible. Thats something that takes time to uncover. Plus, as you get to know someone better you have a clearer scope of whether you can see a long term future with them. Its not about being unloyal, its about finding a partner that you see potential with. That's why I would encourage breaking up instead of dating someone else or cheating.
Whoa Josh I just read the title and got taken aback. Glad the video clarified what you mean. I don’t need your videos anymore but I still show support. Long time sub.
my crush started dating someone else just a few days ago as we were finally starting to get closer ... so i'm not sure what to do in this situation .. :/
getting them to really like you then ignoring them for like 2 weeks is also a very good way of doing it works all the time for me.....you didnt hear it from me though
I have a crush, everytime we spend time together she describes me as 'the most calmest guy anyone could date' since I'm always in a calm mood and also positive and treat her like a baby. I never get into a drama with her and I never overreact over minor things, I just stay calm in stressful situations
I was earning money and getting to know this great girl in a casual friendly way. and then one day this smoker guy asks her if she wants to smoke. now she is fully committed to the smoker guy and she will barely talk to me.
Haha I had to, too many people have asked me how to do this so rather than have people be homewreckers, I feel like its better to have them approach it the right way
That's true, if they have been together for a long time then its possible that they've grown into a cycle of dependency despite the toxic behavior that exists. Sometimes its best to let them go and pursue other people.
@@TheJoshSpeaks Hey do you have any recent vidoes on how to Snapchat a crush when you both have somethings in common but are kinda different? Like we both like video games, but have been playing different games lately and I just finished up a show she watched a while back and struggle to make a convo with her.
My crush is dating a guy right now and im so jelouse there in a good relationship but i feel likes she flirta with me all the time she is so kind sweet caring beutifle and funny i really wish i could be with her but i dont know what to do any tips?
Sometimes people end up in relationships that aren't serving them well, and it's only by seeing what they want in a partner (in this case the other guy) that they can evaluate and determine if it makes sense to break up.
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@@ameliajones8727 Thank you but sorry I am no more on her... I gotta new girlfriend... Well thanks for the number btw I will try it someday if I am in trouble.
that happened to me 3 weeks ago.. we have a really deep connection.. i know she's unhappy with her current relationship and she doesnt want to do anything with me (yet) cuz she doesnt want to lie to her bf.. which is fine.. I respect that.. yesterday I told her that I'm gone till she figures out what she wants.. now she keeps msgin me, callin me etc.. and even if they break up now, she will need some time... we will see :D
@@MightyJoeePlayz omg I forgot I made this comment... basically after she broke up we hooked up for 1 month almost every day, dating, going out with friends family etc.. then she decided to go to her ex-bfs family for one week to say 'good bye'.. cuz he kept writing her... 'hey pls come and explain it to my mom'... she was away for a week..everyone said it's a bad idea.. When she got back the ex helped her move the remaining stuff from his place but now the red flag.. they brought back a baby cat with them which stays at his apartment and she keeps going there daily.. We met the next day she was back, clubbing..no sexual tension, distant, cold.. had a small fight at the end.. been a week since than cuz she told me she don't want to see me for now.. Yea I gotta dump her..she prolly hooked up with him even tho she said he is like a bro blabla. What I don't understand.. That guy is 40, they had 1 date in 2 years, he is small, no ambitions, got no money, is dumb af, doesn't even speak the language properly and boring.... but he does everything emotionally for her.. She is 22 and got daddy issues haha.. he was apparently never bad to her. I had my boundaries and made them clear to her and she prolly couldn't handle it and wants to keep me as an option, while trying it somehow with the old guy again. She is quiet dominant which doesn't work on me.. I'm not simping for a woman I had to give her the Benefit of the doubt, but after so many red flags..nah... I dont see a point. I know she might unstable and doesn't know what to do, but still.. She's gonna be back for sure and message me, cuz I doubt she doesnt think about me.. a guy who is complete opposite of her ex. But I will be with another girl by than😂
@@Gennosuke84 I’m kinda in the same situation with my crush. I know her boyfriend doesn’t appreciate her. I told her my feelings for her and that I’ll distance myself to respect her relationship. I’ve been in no contact for two weeks. Before I left, I visited her and got her a nice card. Recently I wanna spend time with her by going for a walk. Do you think I should continue no contact or take her for a walk and enjoy it with her?
Hey Josh, it's me Zairflight. I'm commenting from a new channel, how're you doing man?! Just wanted to catch up and say I've still been a supporter of your channel! Keep it up man :)
Remember the title is called How To Get Your Crush To BREAK UP with Her Boyfriend (And Date YOU!). That term crush means she is not quite your fiance yet. Crush means someone you are in love with but currently not dating and not in relationship. That girl was already your gf which means she is no longer called your crush. This means when you are actually ready to move on, this video does apply to you. That term crush means you are supposed to be after a new relationship. Not stay stuck in an old relationship. In an old relationship, that person is no longer called your crush. So if you and your gf break up, it should already be time for you to find someone else to crush on. If your gf breaks up with you, she is no longer your responsibility which means you should already move on. When you move on, only then this whole video applies to you.
That is bad bro the good think is motivation, give up now if you want to be successful you need to think in reality and motivation yourself everydays until you completely different in the past. that is how you growth up
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Josh, I have a little problem. I’ve missed an old crush of mine for a while now and would like to reach out to her again despite not texting her for a long time. This is really starting to making me feel very anxious, so I’ll gladly accept any advice you have.
Dr Steve can actually help you attract someone you really love the most and want in your life. He once helped me and can help you too. Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. he helped me attract (Jeremy) the guy I wanted in my life the most.
Was starting to get closer with my crush and she just brought up randomly she has a boyfriend 💔 idk what to do but idk why I clicked this video after though 💀
its not fair i new her way before he did and he just comes in and takes her she is the only girl i have went this crazy over and he doesnt even go the same school as us i think he is also the reason we dont speak as much
What if your crush who is engaged invited you to a hotel and did very very naughty things to you and with you, basically the whole kama sutra. But she still won't leave her fiance for you?
If you watch the whole video, this whole thing on how to deal with a crush who have a bf is remain in a friendzone until she decided to break up with her bf at her own terms. If you agree to be her sex partner now, you aren't really getting her to break up. You will only enable her to trick you into becoming a homewrecker. You will only enable her to cheat on her bf. When reading this youtube title, it did say how to get your crush to break up with her bf. It means your crush needs to break up with her bf first. You have to wait til she is not currently dating. Once you watched the whole video, the answer will already be that she needs to be the one to break up with her own bf at her own terms. Not because you convince her. She chose to do it herself.
He gained her trust in not even two weeks, even with a bad back background, she still chooses to “secretly” date him and which at this moment she hasn’t told me yet. I don’t understand, You don’t know how many times I’ve asked her hey let’s go somewhere let’s have fun and she says no no no no no, we went to prom with her friend and before that I haven’t seen in over a year. After that still doesn’t wanna go out while now she’s dating. And now I’m in the wrong because she’s always taking initiative and never puts herself in my POV about how I feel. It’s so much idk where to start
Josh is correct. You shouldn't do bad things to your crush's boyfriend. I have a crush but not only that. I really care about her. Everytime I see her with other guys. Its hurting my feelings but I still like her. I never give up on her By doing that you can show your crush you truly care about her. My crush is now with a boyfriend. I think this boyfriend of her just like her not care. So I will show my crush care. Bring happiness to your crush Then she'll think that ( he ain't my boyfriend but he is being nice to me ? Maybe if he is my boyfriend he will be more nicer ) So just act as if you were her boyfriend. Not being romantic, but show care You kinda wanna get juts a little romantic like giving flowers but not like kisses. Kisses will break even your friendship
Ahh shit I was like the sound bar from 1-2 days...how do I get out of it? Josh please help...the girl has started telling me about her bf and I was like if u want anything to say im here ahhh shit JOSH PLEASE HELP ME!!!😭😭😭
Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. he helped me attract (Jeremy) the guy I wanted in my life the most.
Hey josh these tips will kinda help but the thing she hangs out with me more then her bf and I’m not sure if it’s a good idea to try. what do you think?
Why would you want to date someone who has made a shitty decision? A persons former partners show a lot about their character. A persons past is the best indicator of his/her future.
Just because a person chose a partner that wasn't right for them shouldn't disqualify them from being a potential partner for you. Sometimes you don't really know a person's character until you've been with them for a while. And then, it's hard sometimes to leave since you feel like you've invested time and energy into the relationship. If you're someone on the outside, the best thing you can do is open that person up to what a healthy connection looks like and hope they can make that leap.
@@TheJoshSpeaks Yeah, that's fair. I'd still be vary of girls who have had "bad" boyfriends though :D I myself have had crushes on girls who are "bad" (rather rude, generally not nice, self centered etc.) that try to mask as a "good" girl. however, even If I had the chance - I've NEVER taken up on it no matter how much I liked them or how horny I were. For me, the best indicator of character has become 1) What kind of people their former bf-s have been. 2) How they treat other people. That's why I'm a great proponent of honesty :D I greatly disagree with the notion that "her past is none of your business". Well... If you want me as your boyfriend, it kinda is. If a girl answers like that I know that we're just not meant to be. Frankly, there are girls who think like me and do care about my past for example, don't feel offended when I ask them etc. Nobody's past is perfect - it's just way better to be honest than to lie and to "not tell because it's none of your business", nor is it no way bad to not want someone for having a not so good past.
My ex cheated on me for another guy while we were to together and they got engaged during the pandemic here. She revealed that during a video call when it was the most awkward for her and the most painful for me. During that call she sounded so casual like it wasn't a big deal...it was to me, and I was truly speechless and angry back then, I didn't know how to continue the convo. I'll never understand what my role was in her life because she wrote a letter for me and sent it to me as a pic saying how great of a guy I was. Everything there was a lie if she was seeing someone else the whole time for God knows how long since she never said. We spent Valentine's day together earlier this year and she was 2 and half hours late when we supposed to meet. I waited patiently because I cared about her and hoped she arrived safely. I showed nothing but kindness, patience, and generosity to her but it feels like it wasn't enough. Feels like I was a just a joke to her, that I was a toy she played with until she got bored and threw me away like trash. It truly hurts Since that day, I promised myself that I would work hard to become the best version of myself. I know deep down that's all I can do and wait patiently until I meet the girl of my dreams Thanks for your videos Josh! They truly are motivating
@@michaelrespicio5683 Sorry to hear that dude. Remember, things come and go. Everything ends and there's only this moment right now that we have. Every relationship, may it be friendship or romantic ones have an end. For romantic relationships it's either breaking up due to cheating or any other reason or, well, death. Don't escape from pain, embrace it as your friend in your growth. Embrace resentment, hatred just like you embrace joy and love - as things that come and go. I've gone through ALL of the "manosphere" phases - I've been an incel, blackpilled, redpilled, MGTOW - you name it. Every single one of them have truths in them, there's no doubt. Every single one of them is emotionally driven, just like feminism is often emotionally driven. I still "slip back" into hatred once a while, but what helped me is taking the way of complete acceptance - just focus on your own progress and don't worry about others :) Worry about your problems when they arise, don't live in fear and if you do - embrace it as your friend. Good luck!
@@PsychoCalamander Thanks for the encouragement. That was actually months ago and I've since gotten over it. I'm better off without that kind of negativity and I actually do think back on that day. I never want to see or hear from her again, but I think back on that day because I use it as motivation to drive myself forward and remind myself of the promise I made, without letting that hate manifest itself and taking over my rationality. All this work I'm doing for the sake of my personal development is more to get girls to chase me instead of me chasing them. I came up with 3 steps to confidence that I follow. One is developing a sense of humor reflecting my personality which I have more or less. The other 2 are developing my knowledge on topics of interest and developing skills which I'm doing right now. Until I meet the right girl, I'm okay doing all that being single. It's better than being in the wrong relationship and gives me time to undergo my journey of personal development Also are you actually a cunning linguist? Linguistics major? Just curious. Thanks again and good luck to you
So what if your crush told you they liked you on a call and instead of saying you like them back you kept flirting with them for about 30 minutes and was planning on getting a car soon and then asking went out and doing a perfect little date thing but I didn't say that to them and they called me in hopes I would say something but since I didn't the guy that asked her out already got a yes the relationship they had already argued a couple times nothing super major biggest thing was he broke his phone and then ghosted her for 3 days so then you tell her you like her two weeks into the relationship
I like this girl in my class but she is in long distance relationship, should i at least try to be friends with her? If yes how do avoid getting friendzoned
I think it does. The challenge is in determining for someone if a person is bad from them. We dont always have the full story but we should still try to encourage them to reflect on that behavior without criticizing their partner.
Hey josh I gotta question so what happed if the bf of ur crush taking badmouth if you don't badmouth to her crush how will she knowing that her bf is badmouth her freind / crush ?? Thats a really good question to ask love ur videos dude keep up the good work you helped me a lot defrenly right now I'm talking to my crush just being best freinds right now but her ex bf was bit annoying and that she was talking on how he's treating her wrong and also bad and that she was tired that now she's dating a new guy thats nice I'm giving him a chance see if he's actually nice or bad 😂👍
I'm in 6th grade and my crush has a boyfriend right now I'm just trying to secretly get them to break up but she said her bf was jealous when a boy talks to her but i said it's not like I like you and that's the Day I learned I coudlve got rejected. I have depression now
Hey do you have any recent vidoes on how to Snapchat a crush when you both have somethings in common but are kinda different? Like we both like video games, but have been playing different games lately and I just finished up a show she watched a while back and struggle to make a convo with her.
Ngl friend zone doesn’t exist. A girl either likes you or they don’t and nothing you do is going to change that. And the biggest turn off to a girl is a guy who is insecure about being friends with women. Has anyone noticed that the guy with no female friends r usually the ones worrying about being friend zoned. Girl love sensitive available guys who are confident in there own sexuality. There is no advice that is going to make a girl like you. You shouldn’t be trying to force or convince a girl into liking you. Because when has that ever genuinely worked.
The only reason i wanna do this is because this guy she dates i have never liked him he’s rude i once tried to become friends with him but he just went go away and stuff so i don’t feel guilty
bro gta ? Gta ? Bro i hope by now she’s not with him no more 💀I be seeing so many people giving their heart and soul into this game and he’s choosing the game over her? Gtfo outta here 😂but bro never give up take the hits hopefully it’ll all be worth it
I made it to appeal to the people who want to make that morally wrong choice, hopefully after watching it they will gain a better perspective on how to do it respectfully.
@@TheJoshSpeaks I don't think that can be done respectfully... especially since it goes against the bro's code, but then again if they aren't happy with their current boyfriend and you could provide something better, then ig that's good
lol I just realized I didn't get where you were coming from with the title and that in this scenario your intentions would be good and not entirely selfish... sorry I have a tendency to speak before I think
@@potatoboi7104 Hey that's totally ok! The title is definitely set up to bring people in that want to just get in between two people that are dating. I think it's pretty common to have feelings for someone already in a relationship, I just think the best way to approach it is to just be your best self and show that to your crush. From there, let your crush decide if you're the better person to pursue.
Hi Josh know she blocked me but I still don't know if she's dating anyone right now all I'm trying to do is to keep away from her boyfriend so me and him won't end up getting into a big fight or get into a dangerous situation I just don't understand why things you're just so bad for me right now
My crush sees me as her bestest friend... Like she honestly said to me i was a 10/10 and can be sus around me as a joke. I wish she realised i really like her but she has boyfriend who i personaččy really don't lile.
this dude really got me simpin for this gal i found in my part of town she likes flowers and hugs but i think she liked me so i came up to her and gave her a kiss on her lol cheek you know and she kissed me back so i slapped her and now we are married and gave 5 kids together ❤️
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QUESTION: Is your crush in a serious relationship or do you think you might have a chance with them?
My crush had a crush on me for a long time and I recently got a crush on him and he is with someone now and I’m not sure what to do but she’s really nice but the problem is is she doesn’t do much with him and he talks to me a lot more than him he’s just scared to break up with her because he doesn’t want to break her heart
I don't think my crush is in a serious relationship with her boyfriend because they just met hardly 6 months ago and cause of coronavirus they are not hanging out much. We always share things with each other. Everyday I pray to God that she must come to me and yes there are many chances for her to come to me. Thank you for your advice
I have no chance lol, my appearance really threw it off.
I think it's serious
I really don’t know what to do now because one day the break up then the next day they get together
My man Josh is really reading my comments 😂
Absolutely! I love to hear people's perspectives. Sometimes I miss something or someone else has an alternative way to approach the situation. The comments section is where its at!
@@TheJoshSpeaks So I asked out the first girl I've ever had a big crush on today she said no because she is talking to another guy. We work together(I'm about to turn 17 and she will 18 in 4 months)what should I do? First time ever asking a girl out.
@@bridger6101 if you can tell that she doesn’t mind you and she likes you as a friend then give it time. if it seems they’re relationship is growing everyday then I’d say give up. There is nothing you can do about who she talks to, if the time is right and it’s meant to be, trust me you two will eventually be a thing.
@@caden2727 Thanks for advice, I’m not sure now if she is dating anyone or not. I don’t think she is, I got her a bday card today(Birthday is the 20th this month)I’m only getting her a card just to show I remembered her birthday, but also not to be a creep or simp.
@@bridger6101 ayeee, that’s one day after my girlfriends birthday lol. Buying her a card is not creepy at all and showing her that you remembered her birthday is pretty genius.
I have done this in the past subconsciously. This has worked worked out. Josh has made exact steps here. Women know they always deserve better. Be better and just stay friends. She will eventually move on.
staying friends is a good way to be jerked around for a long time
Trust me, shes not in a healthy relationship, she talks to me way more than she talks to her boyfriend, I need her.
Same condition nd I have a gf to but we secretly talk what should I doo
If she breaks up with another guy for you, why would she be loyal to you?
That's a very good question...
I would say that she realized she has a deeper connection with you. Just because you agree to date someone exclusively doesn't mean you two are the most compatible. Thats something that takes time to uncover.
Plus, as you get to know someone better you have a clearer scope of whether you can see a long term future with them.
Its not about being unloyal, its about finding a partner that you see potential with. That's why I would encourage breaking up instead of dating someone else or cheating.
Sheev Palpetine Because IT’S TREASON!!!!!
SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS
She's not yours. It's just your turn.
Whoa Josh I just read the title and got taken aback. Glad the video clarified what you mean. I don’t need your videos anymore but I still show support. Long time sub.
Thanks for the support. I'm happy you're working daily on being your best self!
The video I have been waiting for 😂
I hope its helpful!
my crush started dating someone else just a few days ago as we were finally starting to get closer ...
so i'm not sure what to do in this situation .. :/
Your crush clearly doesn’t worth you and his/her is going to regret not choosing you
Same but i don’t give a fuck imma pretend i didn’t hear a thing
Kiss her fast😂
bruh same thing yesterday
Finally! A scenario I’m in!
getting them to really like you then ignoring them for like 2 weeks is also a very good way of doing it works all the time for me.....you didnt hear it from me though
I have a crush, everytime we spend time together she describes me as 'the most calmest guy anyone could date' since I'm always in a calm mood and also positive and treat her like a baby. I never get into a drama with her and I never overreact over minor things, I just stay calm in stressful situations
I was earning money and getting to know this great girl in a casual friendly way. and then one day this smoker guy asks her if she wants to smoke. now she is fully committed to the smoker guy and she will barely talk to me.
Cold-blooded title😭😂
haha I explain it in the video, trust me!
My crush: you are a very considerate person.
Me: okay
My crush: you got a great taste of music
Me: okay
(Ahhh I miss her😂)
All the more reason to keep in contact with her!
Why didn't you followed up with a conversation, those were some nice green flags
The notification summoned me. Anyone else?
Notification squad in the house
What if her boyfriend used uno reverse?
You better drop that Draw Four on him then
Ayo I ain't never thought josh would do a video like this😹😹😹
Haha I had to, too many people have asked me how to do this so rather than have people be homewreckers, I feel like its better to have them approach it the right way
So we all here cause we need that special someone
Yo sup josh. This is like a video that I would least expect u make. Im suprised😂😂
haha I get this question a LOT so I figured I'd walk people through my honest perspective on how to do it without being a jerk.
Same
I’m a very calm and quiet guy and rarely get jealous if I see my crush with someone else. Because I’m not dating her obviously
Jealousy is normal. If you can avoid having those feelings interfere with your actions then you’re good!
I'm also calm and get jealous. I get shy around my crush too.
I don’t think this would work on ones who have been in long term relationships
That's true, if they have been together for a long time then its possible that they've grown into a cycle of dependency despite the toxic behavior that exists.
Sometimes its best to let them go and pursue other people.
@@TheJoshSpeaks Hey do you have any recent vidoes on how to Snapchat a crush when you both have somethings in common but are kinda different? Like we both like video games, but have been playing different games lately and I just finished up a show she watched a while back and struggle to make a convo with her.
Hit them with the venom and eliminate them in other words i minute made em
it sounds so easy whilst its the hardest thing ever
My crush is dating a guy right now and im so jelouse there in a good relationship but i feel likes she flirta with me all the time she is so kind sweet caring beutifle and funny i really wish i could be with her but i dont know what to do any tips?
I was confused at first. Thought that sounded like an evil idea lol, but if it's someone toxic then yeah. Definitely should do that
Sometimes people end up in relationships that aren't serving them well, and it's only by seeing what they want in a partner (in this case the other guy) that they can evaluate and determine if it makes sense to break up.
@@TheJoshSpeaks I strongly agree!
Love your videos they are super helpful
Thanks, happy you enjoy them!
God Dam Chill Man 😭.
haha
I just told this girl I had feelings for her and I got hit with that Ive been talking to another guy.
😔
better than me, I got hit with a "im not ready for a relationship", but hangs out with another dude
@@RealMadrid-zf9wo RIP
I have a crush on someone I rejected how do I get him back pls I need help he just got a girlfriend
Thx man... Just pray that my crush should break up with his boyfriend and come to me.🙏🏻
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@@ameliajones8727 Thank you but sorry I am no more on her... I gotta new girlfriend... Well thanks for the number btw I will try it someday if I am in trouble.
that happened to me 3 weeks ago.. we have a really deep connection.. i know she's unhappy with her current relationship and she doesnt want to do anything with me (yet) cuz she doesnt want to lie to her bf.. which is fine.. I respect that.. yesterday I told her that I'm gone till she figures out what she wants.. now she keeps msgin me, callin me etc.. and even if they break up now, she will need some time... we will see :D
How did this go? What’s the update:)
@@MightyJoeePlayz omg I forgot I made this comment... basically after she broke up we hooked up for 1 month almost every day, dating, going out with friends family etc.. then she decided to go to her ex-bfs family for one week to say 'good bye'.. cuz he kept writing her... 'hey pls come and explain it to my mom'... she was away for a week..everyone said it's a bad idea..
When she got back the ex helped her move the remaining stuff from his place but now the red flag.. they brought back a baby cat with them which stays at his apartment and she keeps going there daily..
We met the next day she was back, clubbing..no sexual tension, distant, cold.. had a small fight at the end.. been a week since than cuz she told me she don't want to see me for now..
Yea I gotta dump her..she prolly hooked up with him even tho she said he is like a bro blabla.
What I don't understand..
That guy is 40, they had 1 date in 2 years, he is small, no ambitions, got no money, is dumb af, doesn't even speak the language properly and boring.... but he does everything emotionally for her.. She is 22 and got daddy issues haha.. he was apparently never bad to her.
I had my boundaries and made them clear to her and she prolly couldn't handle it and wants to keep me as an option, while trying it somehow with the old guy again. She is quiet dominant which doesn't work on me.. I'm not simping for a woman
I had to give her the Benefit of the doubt, but after so many red flags..nah... I dont see a point.
I know she might unstable and doesn't know what to do, but still..
She's gonna be back for sure and message me, cuz I doubt she doesnt think about me.. a guy who is complete opposite of her ex.
But I will be with another girl by than😂
@@Gennosuke84 I’m kinda in the same situation with my crush. I know her boyfriend doesn’t appreciate her. I told her my feelings for her and that I’ll distance myself to respect her relationship. I’ve been in no contact for two weeks. Before I left, I visited her and got her a nice card. Recently I wanna spend time with her by going for a walk. Do you think I should continue no contact or take her for a walk and enjoy it with her?
@@MightyJoeePlayz to be honest .dangerous waters my friend.. just have fun, hang out and hookup.. thats all enjoy ur time..no pressure
@@Gennosuke84 That would not even be a right time for him to hook up. If he hooks up now with her crush, he is breaking the no contact rules.
What does it mean if you ask her out, she likes someone else but she's having issues with him and she says she still wants to be friends with you?
Not that this is relevant 3 years later but it means she’s not interested
Hey man your video really helps 🙂
Hey Josh, it's me Zairflight. I'm commenting from a new channel, how're you doing man?! Just wanted to catch up and say I've still been a supporter of your channel! Keep it up man :)
Hey man, it's so good to hear from you! I hope you're doing well.
@@TheJoshSpeaks i am, thank you!
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I dont think this will work because my gf dumped me for someone else and my crush was my gf
Remember the title is called How To Get Your Crush To BREAK UP with Her Boyfriend (And Date YOU!). That term crush means she is not quite your fiance yet. Crush means someone you are in love with but currently not dating and not in relationship. That girl was already your gf which means she is no longer called your crush. This means when you are actually ready to move on, this video does apply to you. That term crush means you are supposed to be after a new relationship. Not stay stuck in an old relationship. In an old relationship, that person is no longer called your crush. So if you and your gf break up, it should already be time for you to find someone else to crush on. If your gf breaks up with you, she is no longer your responsibility which means you should already move on. When you move on, only then this whole video applies to you.
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That is bad bro the good think is motivation, give up now if you want to be successful you need to think in reality and motivation yourself everydays until you completely different in the past. that is how you growth up
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Hey josh 🔥 Video i have a question what should i do my crush's bf threatens to hurt me if i don't stop texting her
Then stop doing what you're doing. You received a warning from him.
Josh, I have a little problem. I’ve missed an old crush of mine for a while now and would like to reach out to her again despite not texting her for a long time. This is really starting to making me feel very anxious, so I’ll gladly accept any advice you have.
You got this shoot your shot bro
Ye i have a crush on a boy named Freddie and one of my best friend won his heart.😭😭
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i just asked my crush out and she asked to bring her friend what do i do?
Thanks for this
Was starting to get closer with my crush and she just brought up randomly she has a boyfriend 💔 idk what to do but idk why I clicked this video after though 💀
What if she still sees me as a friend?
its not fair i new her way before he did and he just comes in and takes her she is the only girl i have went this crazy over and he doesnt even go the same school as us i think he is also the reason we dont speak as much
What if your crush who is engaged invited you to a hotel and did very very naughty things to you and with you, basically the whole kama sutra. But she still won't leave her fiance for you?
If you watch the whole video, this whole thing on how to deal with a crush who have a bf is remain in a friendzone until she decided to break up with her bf at her own terms. If you agree to be her sex partner now, you aren't really getting her to break up. You will only enable her to trick you into becoming a homewrecker. You will only enable her to cheat on her bf. When reading this youtube title, it did say how to get your crush to break up with her bf. It means your crush needs to break up with her bf first. You have to wait til she is not currently dating. Once you watched the whole video, the answer will already be that she needs to be the one to break up with her own bf at her own terms. Not because you convince her. She chose to do it herself.
Josh you are a heartless Homewrecker lool haha
Haha watch the video and it will ALL make sense!
He gained her trust in not even two weeks, even with a bad back background, she still chooses to “secretly” date him and which at this moment she hasn’t told me yet. I don’t understand, You don’t know how many times I’ve asked her hey let’s go somewhere let’s have fun and she says no no no no no, we went to prom with her friend and before that I haven’t seen in over a year. After that still doesn’t wanna go out while now she’s dating. And now I’m in the wrong because she’s always taking initiative and never puts herself in my POV about how I feel. It’s so much idk where to start
i gained her trust in 1 day
I block my crush because I cannot be friends while she has a boyfriend. What are your thoughts about that?
It just hurts
I also did the same
Josh is correct. You shouldn't do bad things to your crush's boyfriend.
I have a crush but not only that. I really care about her. Everytime I see her with other guys. Its hurting my feelings but I still like her. I never give up on her
By doing that you can show your crush you truly care about her.
My crush is now with a boyfriend. I think this boyfriend of her just like her not care. So I will show my crush care.
Bring happiness to your crush
Then she'll think that
( he ain't my boyfriend but he is being nice to me ? Maybe if he is my boyfriend he will be more nicer )
So just act as if you were her boyfriend. Not being romantic, but show care
You kinda wanna get juts a little romantic like giving flowers but not like kisses.
Kisses will break even your friendship
I would avoid flowers because that gift is for fiance only. Giving a flower is like rushing in. I would avoid gifts that sound like a romance gift.
Ahh shit I was like the sound bar from 1-2 days...how do I get out of it? Josh please help...the girl has started telling me about her bf and I was like if u want anything to say im here ahhh shit JOSH PLEASE HELP ME!!!😭😭😭
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Hey josh these tips will kinda help but the thing she hangs out with me more then her bf and I’m not sure if it’s a good idea to try. what do you think?
Why would you want to date someone who has made a shitty decision? A persons former partners show a lot about their character. A persons past is the best indicator of his/her future.
Just because a person chose a partner that wasn't right for them shouldn't disqualify them from being a potential partner for you. Sometimes you don't really know a person's character until you've been with them for a while. And then, it's hard sometimes to leave since you feel like you've invested time and energy into the relationship.
If you're someone on the outside, the best thing you can do is open that person up to what a healthy connection looks like and hope they can make that leap.
@@TheJoshSpeaks Yeah, that's fair. I'd still be vary of girls who have had "bad" boyfriends though :D I myself have had crushes on girls who are "bad" (rather rude, generally not nice, self centered etc.) that try to mask as a "good" girl. however, even If I had the chance - I've NEVER taken up on it no matter how much I liked them or how horny I were. For me, the best indicator of character has become
1) What kind of people their former bf-s have been.
2) How they treat other people.
That's why I'm a great proponent of honesty :D I greatly disagree with the notion that "her past is none of your business". Well... If you want me as your boyfriend, it kinda is. If a girl answers like that I know that we're just not meant to be.
Frankly, there are girls who think like me and do care about my past for example, don't feel offended when I ask them etc.
Nobody's past is perfect - it's just way better to be honest than to lie and to "not tell because it's none of your business", nor is it no way bad to not want someone for having a not so good past.
My ex cheated on me for another guy while we were to together and they got engaged during the pandemic here. She revealed that during a video call when it was the most awkward for her and the most painful for me. During that call she sounded so casual like it wasn't a big deal...it was to me, and I was truly speechless and angry back then, I didn't know how to continue the convo.
I'll never understand what my role was in her life because she wrote a letter for me and sent it to me as a pic saying how great of a guy I was. Everything there was a lie if she was seeing someone else the whole time for God knows how long since she never said. We spent Valentine's day together earlier this year and she was 2 and half hours late when we supposed to meet. I waited patiently because I cared about her and hoped she arrived safely.
I showed nothing but kindness, patience, and generosity to her but it feels like it wasn't enough. Feels like I was a just a joke to her, that I was a toy she played with until she got bored and threw me away like trash. It truly hurts
Since that day, I promised myself that I would work hard to become the best version of myself. I know deep down that's all I can do and wait patiently until I meet the girl of my dreams
Thanks for your videos Josh! They truly are motivating
@@michaelrespicio5683 Sorry to hear that dude. Remember, things come and go. Everything ends and there's only this moment right now that we have. Every relationship, may it be friendship or romantic ones have an end. For romantic relationships it's either breaking up due to cheating or any other reason or, well, death. Don't escape from pain, embrace it as your friend in your growth. Embrace resentment, hatred just like you embrace joy and love - as things that come and go.
I've gone through ALL of the "manosphere" phases - I've been an incel, blackpilled, redpilled, MGTOW - you name it. Every single one of them have truths in them, there's no doubt. Every single one of them is emotionally driven, just like feminism is often emotionally driven.
I still "slip back" into hatred once a while, but what helped me is taking the way of complete acceptance - just focus on your own progress and don't worry about others :) Worry about your problems when they arise, don't live in fear and if you do - embrace it as your friend. Good luck!
@@PsychoCalamander Thanks for the encouragement. That was actually months ago and I've since gotten over it. I'm better off without that kind of negativity and I actually do think back on that day.
I never want to see or hear from her again, but I think back on that day because I use it as motivation to drive myself forward and remind myself of the promise I made, without letting that hate manifest itself and taking over my rationality.
All this work I'm doing for the sake of my personal development is more to get girls to chase me instead of me chasing them. I came up with 3 steps to confidence that I follow. One is developing a sense of humor reflecting my personality which I have more or less. The other 2 are developing my knowledge on topics of interest and developing skills which I'm doing right now.
Until I meet the right girl, I'm okay doing all that being single. It's better than being in the wrong relationship and gives me time to undergo my journey of personal development
Also are you actually a cunning linguist? Linguistics major? Just curious. Thanks again and good luck to you
Heheheh... Time to use these tactics on them 😈
So what if your crush told you they liked you on a call and instead of saying you like them back you kept flirting with them for about 30 minutes and was planning on getting a car soon and then asking went out and doing a perfect little date thing but I didn't say that to them and they called me in hopes I would say something but since I didn't the guy that asked her out already got a yes the relationship they had already argued a couple times nothing super major biggest thing was he broke his phone and then ghosted her for 3 days so then you tell her you like her two weeks into the relationship
can i use this on myself? like if i really want me bf to break up with me can i do this?
Is it will really work?
It’s called waiting
The only reason I watched this was because I have a crush on my friends girlfriend and this was on my recommended
love youre tips and tricks and i am my bestself
I like this girl in my class but she is in long distance relationship, should i at least try to be friends with her? If yes how do avoid getting friendzoned
Every girl I meet legitimately has a bf (she isn’t lying there’s evidence) so I guess I’m gonna have to be that guy………………,
Josh, does this advice apply to a crush who's girlfriend is ruining all her friendships and causing her grades to go down to h***?
I think it does. The challenge is in determining for someone if a person is bad from them. We dont always have the full story but we should still try to encourage them to reflect on that behavior without criticizing their partner.
@@TheJoshSpeaks I see. Thanks Josh, yu're the best! Been here since 2014 for good reason! 😁😁😁
Hey josh I gotta question so what happed if the bf of ur crush taking badmouth if you don't badmouth to her crush how will she knowing that her bf is badmouth her freind / crush ?? Thats a really good question to ask love ur videos dude keep up the good work you helped me a lot defrenly right now I'm talking to my crush just being best freinds right now but her ex bf was bit annoying and that she was talking on how he's treating her wrong and also bad and that she was tired that now she's dating a new guy thats nice I'm giving him a chance see if he's actually nice or bad 😂👍
My big day is on Christmas day guys..... this is gonna decide my life so wish me luck 😫 I'm probably gonna be rejected tho
Good luck !
3 months later, how did it go?
What happens if your crush is dating your best friend
Accept it and move on it happened to me and I have to move on because I got a feeling that there are people out in world who might like me
Thanks ❤️
Hey Josh, can I tag my crush on my posts?
Hmm I would tag them only if its relevant to something they would find funny, relatable or just overall would be curious about it.
thank you so much ur the king
damn my boy over here breaking up couples
I'm in 6th grade and my crush has a boyfriend right now I'm just trying to secretly get them to break up but she said her bf was jealous when a boy talks to her but i said it's not like I like you and that's the Day I learned I coudlve got rejected. I have depression now
So meeting them irl is fine from time to time?
Hey do you have any recent vidoes on how to Snapchat a crush when you both have somethings in common but are kinda different? Like we both like video games, but have been playing different games lately and I just finished up a show she watched a while back and struggle to make a convo with her.
When’s the next stream
Hey, ill be streaming this coming Thursday. By then I'll also hopefully have hit 200,000 subscribers!
@@TheJoshSpeaks yessir
Ngl friend zone doesn’t exist. A girl either likes you or they don’t and nothing you do is going to change that. And the biggest turn off to a girl is a guy who is insecure about being friends with women. Has anyone noticed that the guy with no female friends r usually the ones worrying about being friend zoned. Girl love sensitive available guys who are confident in there own sexuality. There is no advice that is going to make a girl like you. You shouldn’t be trying to force or convince a girl into liking you. Because when has that ever genuinely worked.
If only i saw this video before i got friend zoned
Thank you
Bro how can I impress my crush
Bro, I got you covered. Check out my video here on how to impress your crush: th-cam.com/video/u54RtDsZb84/w-d-xo.html
@@TheJoshSpeaks Thanks
The only reason i wanna do this is because this guy she dates i have never liked him he’s rude i once tried to become friends with him but he just went go away and stuff so i don’t feel guilty
Good video
That's the most toxic way to get in a relationship, if you do that you show she shouldn't be in a relationship with you in the first place
thanks mate nans crying now
Time to make a elaborate plan.
My crush’s boyfriend is starting to become toxic for her and is choosing gta over her
bro gta ? Gta ? Bro i hope by now she’s not with him no more 💀I be seeing so many people giving their heart and soul into this game and he’s choosing the game over her? Gtfo outta here 😂but bro never give up take the hits hopefully it’ll all be worth it
@@xans4399 haha they never learn do they she ghosted me again after using me as a punching bag
there is something that strikes me very morally wrong about this video... I haven't even watched yet
I made it to appeal to the people who want to make that morally wrong choice, hopefully after watching it they will gain a better perspective on how to do it respectfully.
@@TheJoshSpeaks I don't think that can be done respectfully... especially since it goes against the bro's code, but then again if they aren't happy with their current boyfriend and you could provide something better, then ig that's good
lol I just realized I didn't get where you were coming from with the title and that in this scenario your intentions would be good and not entirely selfish... sorry I have a tendency to speak before I think
@@potatoboi7104 Hey that's totally ok! The title is definitely set up to bring people in that want to just get in between two people that are dating.
I think it's pretty common to have feelings for someone already in a relationship, I just think the best way to approach it is to just be your best self and show that to your crush. From there, let your crush decide if you're the better person to pursue.
Nice but I don’t want to be too Curious about her
Hi Josh know she blocked me but I still don't know if she's dating anyone right now all I'm trying to do is to keep away from her boyfriend so me and him won't end up getting into a big fight or get into a dangerous situation I just don't understand why things you're just so bad for me right now
@AshtXn I don't know she didn't really say anything it was something I said that she took the wrong way
Oh ya stoping toxic relationships
wait so the person can date you!!!!
smart 😎
Learned a lot
My crush sees me as her bestest friend... Like she honestly said to me i was a 10/10 and can be sus around me as a joke. I wish she realised i really like her but she has boyfriend who i personaččy really don't lile.
this dude really got me simpin for this gal i found in my part of town she likes flowers and hugs but i think she liked me so i came up to her and gave her a kiss on her lol cheek you know and she kissed me back so i slapped her and now we are married and gave 5 kids together ❤️
Im doing this rn
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5 star video
what if its healthy, but mine would be healthier
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real say hi 😁
Hey Owen, I am very real!
@@TheJoshSpeaks HOLY CRAP BROTHER 😱 guys I think he’s real
Idk why Josh seems like Quagmire tryna teach us how to steal that girl from her guy 🤣🤣🤣 this guy also looks like Quagmire
Thank u