"Just disappear." I've heard that so I turned off my phone and became a drifter for 3 days. Got caught by police. When the questioned me I said "i loved her. She told me to leave. Just following orders, boss."
Hey guys, just wanted to let you know that when people get angry, they lose their filter and say the things that they wanted to but kept back due to them wanting something from you. Dont ever immediately accept apologies, work on the problem and if they wont change, cut them off. They need you in order to vent their negative emotions and once you leave, the power they have over you is gone
If she said those things to me she would've come back to an empty house, with her not knowing where I am and unable to contact me, as those things weren't said in the heat of the moment, but more likely something she has been keeping in.
She would have came to the house Empty. I already have a problem with my mental health as it is. Being told to disappear and that her life would be easier, heck saying she only with me because she can't break up with me? Nah, im out. Take as many shifts as you like now so you can pay the half i was paying.
I don't know where youre from but i personally dont claim that as an apology. That was more of a "you annoyed me even more than my job so i took everything out on you and now i expect you to be okay with it" just my opinion though
Guys, chill out. The voice actress is simply uploading a situational audio work, that doesn't mean that she is like that IRL. No reason to tie the character in this video (one among many) to the person acting. These audios are meant to be entertaining or educative; so let's all remember that nobody was harmed in the creation of this video.
Okay, listener is wrong for treating housekeeper poorly and disrupting gf at work. Gf basically said “it’d be easier if you disappeared, and I can’t break up with you because I need help with rent”. I think while the first is pretty bad, the second one needs to be talked about more. This a great video, but if this was an actual relationship, I’d seriously recommend counseling.
This character is the example of someone who takes out anger on the wrong people. If I was in a relationship and someone told me to disappear, I’d just leave the house key; leave my phone; take a bag; and leave without saying goodbye.
Okay , the listener was annoying I get that but what the hell was "Go DISAPPEAR" and that "we are paying for rent together so I can't break up with you" and that pathetic shitpost apology??? This girl is 100% recyclable
She said I should disappear and that she would've broken up long ago if it wasn't for the rent. Me: gonna go home , do the dishes, pack a bag and prepare to move out exactly at the moment she enters the house.
I want a part 2 where she comes home and finds the listener packing his stuff. She doesn't know it but the moment she said her life was better without him he started working to break the lease.
At the end there i was like... what just happen? if it was me just leave, leave 3 months of my half of the rent on the table with a note, pack up my shit and get out, block her on everything... become a literal ghost... 3 months to find another roommate is fair out of consideration as i liked the girl and all. and is over, maybe she tracks me down somehow, why would she ever do that, beats me. better be trash alone them be a inconvinience to other people... she spoke alot of truth.
i'm gonna keep it real the fact that she was so calm getting home and not more sympathetic over what she said cause she popped off on wanting to break up and the listener forgiving her so easily i know i wouldn't forgive her that easily her telling the listener to disappear i was expecting the listener to have packed a bag and be on their way to a train station or airport
Bro how tf she gonna say the only reason shes still dating the listener is because they pay rent together then give that half ass apology and ignore it? I wouldn't have been waiting for her Ida packed my bags and ghosted her tf
It wasn't nessicarily her fault. But damn, this really hit hard. I mean, she doesn't really apologize. She kinda just says "sorry, get over it" and makes us move on. I understand she wanted a mature conversation but she doesn't even give us time to really process things. I know she said she's tired of apologizing but she told us to disappear. I feel that warrants apology. I don't know maybe I have the wrong take away from this. But this just hit really hard. Anyway's, as usual you were AMAZING!! Your good at getting mad at us, that's for sure! Always nice to see a new vid!! Tokyo ghoul and jujutsu kaisen? Sweet! She may be a keeper!! Also, congrats on 6k!!!!!
@@lilisasmraudios I also wanted to say I'm sorry if my comment came off really negative and rude. I hate leaving those. I get what she meant with the mature talk. It's just the "disappear" part really struck something in me. But thank you for another amazing upload!!
i think that both the boyfriend (the listener) and the girlfriend are in the wrong. I mean, she was right about the fact that he was annoying her while she was at work but still, that doesn't justify saying to him "i wish you didn't exist"
If she talked to me like this, I would have packed some clothes and spent the night with my dad, cause I’m not gonna live with a girl who will tell me to disappear and then give me a half assed apology then think she can redeem herself by saying she was right and then order food, hell no, my ass would be out of there, charger cords, clothes, tooth brush, and all the essentials and I would be gone until she apologizes properly, and if she won’t then I’d have no choice but to break up with her. Cause I don’t need tbat
This is an amazing audio and enjoy it I enjoy it But if my girlfriend says her like be better without me, or how she wants to break up with me but she can't. If it really sounds like she would have broke up with us if we was living in the apartment because we both own the house she can't I absolutely would want an apology and even then there's still a chance we would break up because that wasn't a conversation that was get over because I'm right and you're wrong Yes should have called or sent that text everything she said though it's out of line There's no way you expect your partner to say that to you and then you don't what an apology once you definitely feel more sorry than other but y'all both should say sorry
I see many people on different sides on the comments, well the girlfriend had the right to be annoyed about the listener attitudes but the way she spoke was way too rude and even humiliating, she could just speak normally about that maybe at home, she didn't need to tell listener to dissapear and she didn't need to say she just doesn't break up cause she can't, and the mature conversation bro, she was acting like she didn't do anything wrong at all, she was acting like she's completely right, and she gave listener a burger?? I think listener may need a whole damn therapy session, well in the end my conclusion is that the girlfriend was the most asshole on this one, the listener could be more helpful but she could just say so, even before of the argument, she could have talked to the listener in a actual mature way before this happened if she was so frustrated about it ( and yes i'm defending a listener on a fictional asmr, what's wrong with me )
you could really feel her frustration in this one, and i don’t blame her. thanks for another amazing audio lili, i love your voice too. :) and welcome back!
Y'all trippin listener is all the way in the wrong cause you mean to tell me you wouldn't be upset that your partner came to bug you at a your job while your already stressed and the actions they're doing could cause you to get fired I'd be pissed she's in the right although I do agree it was over the top but listener deserved it cause they are acting way too immature and inconsiderate and all over dishes seriously ngl I got annoyed myself after I heard that part
Actually I’m on her side. The BF sounds lazy as hell. You don’t get in the SO’s face at work when she’s stressed. I would never disrespect my SO like this.
This was very well done Lili! I think there’s nothing wrong with keeping a housekeeper if you can afford it. The speaker was absolutely in the right to get mad at the listener for disturbing during her work for something that could be done over a call or text. (And should apologise to the speaker for the same) Having said that, the outburst was clearly very very hurtful (and I guess many people would have decided to leave then and there) and the apology felt more like dismissive and condescending and like okay I said I’m sorry now get over it (said for the sake of saying it, didn’t mean it at all) Just my perspective
Okay, that was all too much. She could just say "my day has been an agony, we'll talk at home" and save herself all that hurtful talk, which she lowered her profile to and barely apologized for, almost as if he had to thank that she's apologizing. Now, as someone who has been on the stressed side of having a worse than bad day at work and has done something similar to the speaker (not to the point of hurt feelings), the apology falls short of covering what was done before. Personally I break up with her at that moment when she tells me to disappear and I leave the home. A person how is like that should never be in a relationship. Good voice acting, I hope you're okay and we'll see another part where they separate, as far as I am, the toxicity was felt.
You have no idea how traumatizing this was... I can't just forgive you, just because you brought me some food. Imagine a traumatized person listening that you talk to them that hurtful.... I'm sorry, but I did get these hurtful words and it wasn't the Best feeling to hear it back again ( it's not a hate comment and I know it's just an audio, but I'm pretty sensitive and I was hoping some real crying and breakdown apologise)
I feel like that "mature talk" was less of a talk and more of a talking down to lol. Like, a burger and a kiss aren't gonna fix telling me your life would be better if I disappeared lol. These 2 need some like, serious couples therapy.
She basically just said that she wished she could break up with you I'm sorry but there's no coming back from that, and the fact she dared to say she didn't have to apologise and acted so unphased and not upset by what she said clearly shows that she really doesn't love the listener and does wanna break up.
me personally, im not this needy. if it was me, i would apologize and maybe order something and then leave, for some reason the listener just kinda acts like a child tbh
Thing is, i can understand where the girlfriend is coming from, but to say that to the listener is highly uncalled for, if my girlfriend said that to me i wouldnt be waiting for her, if she wanted me to disappear then thats what i'd do, i completely understand where shes coming from, like she doesnt wanna be bothered at work, understandable, even id be annoyed, but i would never say such a thing to my partner like that
Nah fk that😂 the listener should have been way more petty, “when they go low, you go lower” type of pettiness. This has never happened to me but if it did, she would’ve been the one upset and triggered but to each their own I guess😂
So many in these comments miss the point, take sides. The fact is it’s never about the dishes or the chores, there’s always something else the conversation is really about. Both these people are highly stressed and not thinking clear, he though obviously was trying to reconnect with his girlfriend because he felt like he was losing her and maybe he is.
I think the only thing the GF needed to apologize for was saying she wanted out but can’t because needs help with rent. Other than that, Listener is a straight up prick. Just do the damn dishes bro, don’t show up at your clearly overworked girlfriends work to make it her problem. 😂
Tbh both are in the wrong, it was dumb from the listener (Boyfriend) to visit her to work just for the dishes, like wtf. And the girlfriend not only doesn't apologizes but telling you to disappear, on top of that at the end it's kinda forcing you to apologize for what you did (Not like you shouldn't but forcing someone to do it, it's crazy).
Someone should really check her workstation if theirs a rug cauze it clearly shows that whats shes doing sweeping her actions under the rug and love bombing the bf. The bf might be lazy, but he clearly has an understanding to bring home the check while working from home. I do agree not to call the maid at any time, unless he's paying for it and hold it off for the next day or the next time she works. But this is all a red flag coming from both sides.
I mean... I think saying all the breakup shit was deserving of an apology. Yeah the listener was a dickhead but still. If anything if a girl said that to me in anger I'd make it come true, I shall disappear in a puff of smoke 😂
No kidding, the listener had like 40 opportunities to leave. And honestly, going in to bother your SO over some dirty dishes while they are at work is absurd. And if you're going to be a neat freak, start cleaning. One thing I hate is people with issues that make it everyone else's problem.
@@Darksphere101 you're not hearing me, I'm saying does all that really justify telling your SO to disappear though? There's arguing and putting someone in their place and then there's just too far.
@@JakeMuzzy I hear you just fine, I'd say get over it. If you put someone's back to a wall the way the listener did, and continually harass in a stressful situation, things like that will happen. Personally, if someone was like that with me, and they wanted to leave because of an angry reaction, I'd say leave, and good riddance to them. Work is stressful enough without someone being stupid and causing risk to my livelihood, and it sounds like her boss is a total asshole, which only increases the stress. I'd be furious and reconsidering the relationship if what I needed was disregarded on that level. That's so selfish and immature, to the point of being cartoonish. A real nightmare to deal with.
I think she had every right to be frustrated going by how the first half went. That being said, I’m not a fan of how the “mature conversation” went with her just saying just forget it and move on.
Bro If she told me to DISAPPEAR?! Oh nah I’m getting all my stuff and leaving and I’m SCREAMING at her I’m not forgiving her bruh idk why but this audio made me so angry lmao😂
I'd it bad I was expecting this to turn to a self-harm comfort audio? I've had a partner tell me to just disappear before, and that ended my non SH streak, if you're going through suicidal ideation or are in a tough spot/abusive household, you can always reach out to someone
Self harm is a thing and common in a lot of relationships, your partner may not seem bad but youll never know if you dont ask, There have been leading casses were things like this have happened and the bf/gf who was treated like this killed themselves so just be aware before you blow your lid and basically tell someone to disappear or something of the sort, they might just disappear from your life, and it WILL be your fault 😊
Trying to finish your shift and some a$$hole keeps bugging you while it’s busy af. Nah doesn’t matter if they are your partner or family. If I’m working I’m in work mode. No personal issues should happened.
Damn! I wasnt even getting mad at the gf yelling i was getting mad at the listener! I was even like "bro what??" You came all the way to your gals work to tell her about the dishes not being cleaned- pfff i mean gf does have a right and good points to be pissed🤣
Dude, for like the first few seconds I had my volume all the way down and when I raised it I just heard you describe prices for food I thought it was a fucking advertisement for like a fast food chain
@@lilisasmraudios also will there be a second part? I don't know how cowardly most people would be to let something like that slide. Even I have dignity
If I were in her situation, I would have been angry at the listener, myself. Because the listener was being ridiculous and irrational. But, I'm going to be objective here: They both are in the wrong. The listener should also have apologized. The girlfriend, her apology was fake. She made a justification for her actions and buys the listener's forgiveness with food. A real one would have addressed the faults of oneself without including justifications or buying something to persuade. She wasn't really sorry, nor for telling the listener to "disappear" and confessing she's only staying to pay the bills. Otherwise, she would have left (which is justifiable if she left). That warrants an apology. It's like someone intentionally being physically abusive one moment, apologize and justifies the behavior, then buys someone's forgiveness with something tangible. That's manipulative and toxic (which the listener was also being toxic and inconsiderate). What I'm saying are two different scenarios, but it's the principal that needs to be focused on by how the apology is handled similarly. She claims to have a "mature" conversation, yet, it was far from mature. Only domineered a result without giving the listener a say (even if the listener was being childish, the anger was justifiable). The relationship won't work out. Especially when she meant the things she said. I personally would have packed my bags to leave. This was a really good audio to make me end up dissecting it for the fun of it.
I mean we kinda were like being annoying to her fr fr, but she didn’t have to say it would be better is we would disappear😭😭😭😔😔😔🖤🖤🖤 **cries ugly and has a anxiety attack**
This is my first watching your vids, and let me tell you something. I had mixed feeling about it. If my girlfriend apologize like it was nothing, I would've been silent my whole life that it is going kill them so bad. This is amazing though! But like if they ever tried this to me, my heart would immediately sank, and I would give them the worst punishment ever: SILENCE! I almost cried, but I managed to hold it in. Thank you so much for the audio. If you like any ideas, please hit me up so we could let you know. Good luck😉
Also by the way recently I just started my own ytc mostly just doing some art stuff and gaming stuff but at some point I'll have to send a message or comment using it
Mcdonald ordering asmr
Yes, it's McDonald's time 😂🤣😹
Frfr
The best one
Ty for the pin,I'll remember this until I die
You mean happy place
"Just disappear." I've heard that so I turned off my phone and became a drifter for 3 days. Got caught by police. When the questioned me I said "i loved her. She told me to leave. Just following orders, boss."
Nice number of likes
I ruined the number. 😈
Hey guys, just wanted to let you know that when people get angry, they lose their filter and say the things that they wanted to but kept back due to them wanting something from you. Dont ever immediately accept apologies, work on the problem and if they wont change, cut them off. They need you in order to vent their negative emotions and once you leave, the power they have over you is gone
that is true and did happened to me and my ex...
Exactly. People will settle for trash rather than be alone it seems.
If she said those things to me she would've come back to an empty house, with her not knowing where I am and unable to contact me, as those things weren't said in the heat of the moment, but more likely something she has been keeping in.
Plot twist: I disappeared like she asked and she's in denial
@@Kerivityplot twist x3:shes schizophrenic
@@Tuurglyplot twist:x69 we've all been in a coma for 12 years
She would have came to the house Empty. I already have a problem with my mental health as it is. Being told to disappear and that her life would be easier, heck saying she only with me because she can't break up with me? Nah, im out. Take as many shifts as you like now so you can pay the half i was paying.
"My favorite anime is tokyo revenger" would be my last straw to break up with her lmfao
I haven't seen it yet. Is it bad?
@@Demalion1s1 wasn't bad but after that it's just meh
Nah nah listener definitely was the villain in the first half
I don't know where youre from but i personally dont claim that as an apology. That was more of a "you annoyed me even more than my job so i took everything out on you and now i expect you to be okay with it" just my opinion though
Guys, chill out. The voice actress is simply uploading a situational audio work, that doesn't mean that she is like that IRL. No reason to tie the character in this video (one among many) to the person acting. These audios are meant to be entertaining or educative; so let's all remember that nobody was harmed in the creation of this video.
I didn't read all the comments. People being weird?
Okay, listener is wrong for treating housekeeper poorly and disrupting gf at work. Gf basically said “it’d be easier if you disappeared, and I can’t break up with you because I need help with rent”. I think while the first is pretty bad, the second one needs to be talked about more. This a great video, but if this was an actual relationship, I’d seriously recommend counseling.
No... they need to break up.
This character is the example of someone who takes out anger on the wrong people. If I was in a relationship and someone told me to disappear, I’d just leave the house key; leave my phone; take a bag; and leave without saying goodbye.
Same fr
Okay , the listener was annoying I get that but what the hell was "Go DISAPPEAR" and that "we are paying for rent together so I can't break up with you" and that pathetic shitpost apology???
This girl is 100% recyclable
I was half expecting the bloke to actually Disappear and then she realises her mistake and begs for him to come back or something.
Interesting idea for a script honestly.
She said I should disappear and that she would've broken up long ago if it wasn't for the rent.
Me: gonna go home , do the dishes, pack a bag and prepare to move out exactly at the moment she enters the house.
and who shows up some ones work for dishes not being done 😭
12 bucks for a fast food meal!?!??!?!? Daylight robbery
IKR😭
Little does she know I’ll remember those words for the rest of my life
I want a part 2 where she comes home and finds the listener packing his stuff.
She doesn't know it but the moment she said her life was better without him he started working to break the lease.
Nah, cuz when she told me to disappear, i would've left like a ghost and never came back...
At the end there i was like... what just happen?
if it was me just leave, leave 3 months of my half of the rent on the table with a note, pack up my shit and get out, block her on everything... become a literal ghost... 3 months to find another roommate is fair out of consideration as i liked the girl and all.
and is over, maybe she tracks me down somehow, why would she ever do that, beats me.
better be trash alone them be a inconvinience to other people... she spoke alot of truth.
Why did she make our character so irritating 😭😭
She can't write scripts lmao
@@Synthetic94 wym
@@Havoc.quickstop I was answering your question...
@@Synthetic94 it was a rhetorical question 😭
@@Havoc.quickstopand it was a fairly honest answer lol
Not me actually crying when she started yelling
i'm gonna keep it real the fact that she was so calm getting home and not more sympathetic over what she said cause she popped off on wanting to break up and the listener forgiving her so easily i know i wouldn't forgive her that easily her telling the listener to disappear i was expecting the listener to have packed a bag and be on their way to a train station or airport
I hope you can do an alternative ending one where the listener actually dissappears :(
Bro how tf she gonna say the only reason shes still dating the listener is because they pay rent together then give that half ass apology and ignore it? I wouldn't have been waiting for her Ida packed my bags and ghosted her tf
Yeah most of the video I was done with the listener was being of an ass but that line about only staying with them to pay rent was brutal
the listener has no backbone, she literrelly said she just needs a roommate to pay half the rent
Not ganna lie when i heard just "disappeare already god" hit me so hard a tear started to fall in my eyes and still is as i comment 🙂
This was a roller-coaster of emotions. It was very well done
Just be glad you didn't come home to the ceiling being painted an interesting shade of red.
Being too real
the urge to kms after getting in an argument with someone just so they’d feel bad for hurting my feelings.
@@penguin_TaylorsVersion a bit too real
@@Dingo_Lustwe getting to close to uncanny amounts of realism
Holy shit... this type of girl is a red flag, Should probably add [Toxic relationship] tag in the title XD
good stuff...but tbh I was expecting listener to actually dissappear lmaoo
Toby is the real goat in the history
Wow why is listener so annoying i understand why she reacted that way but this still hurt my heart because i hate being yelled at..
It wasn't nessicarily her fault. But damn, this really hit hard. I mean, she doesn't really apologize. She kinda just says "sorry, get over it" and makes us move on. I understand she wanted a mature conversation but she doesn't even give us time to really process things. I know she said she's tired of apologizing but she told us to disappear. I feel that warrants apology. I don't know maybe I have the wrong take away from this. But this just hit really hard. Anyway's, as usual you were AMAZING!! Your good at getting mad at us, that's for sure! Always nice to see a new vid!! Tokyo ghoul and jujutsu kaisen? Sweet! She may be a keeper!! Also, congrats on 6k!!!!!
Thank you so much! 💗 have a great day!
@@lilisasmraudios hope you have a great day too!!
@@lilisasmraudios I also wanted to say I'm sorry if my comment came off really negative and rude. I hate leaving those. I get what she meant with the mature talk. It's just the "disappear" part really struck something in me. But thank you for another amazing upload!!
@@samj8058 oh no please don't apologize! Everyone has their own opinion on certain things and you just had yours, nothing wrong with that 💗
i think that both the boyfriend (the listener) and the girlfriend are in the wrong. I mean, she was right about the fact that he was annoying her while she was at work but still, that doesn't justify saying to him "i wish you didn't exist"
If she talked to me like this, I would have packed some clothes and spent the night with my dad, cause I’m not gonna live with a girl who will tell me to disappear and then give me a half assed apology then think she can redeem herself by saying she was right and then order food, hell no, my ass would be out of there, charger cords, clothes, tooth brush, and all the essentials and I would be gone until she apologizes properly, and if she won’t then I’d have no choice but to break up with her. Cause I don’t need tbat
True that. Nice father and son camping trip
lmao nah i would be pissed if someone did this to me at work loll
This is an amazing audio and enjoy it I enjoy it
But if my girlfriend says her like be better without me, or how she wants to break up with me but she can't. If it really sounds like she would have broke up with us if we was living in the apartment because we both own the house she can't I absolutely would want an apology and even then there's still a chance we would break up because that wasn't a conversation that was get over because I'm right and you're wrong
Yes should have called or sent that text everything she said though it's out of line
There's no way you expect your partner to say that to you and then you don't what an apology once you definitely feel more sorry than other but y'all both should say sorry
The apology was almost as infuriating as the yelling to begin with, I'm gone 100% after either of those. Wack.
I see many people on different sides on the comments, well the girlfriend had the right to be annoyed about the listener attitudes but the way she spoke was way too rude and even humiliating, she could just speak normally about that maybe at home, she didn't need to tell listener to dissapear and she didn't need to say she just doesn't break up cause she can't, and the mature conversation bro, she was acting like she didn't do anything wrong at all, she was acting like she's completely right, and she gave listener a burger?? I think listener may need a whole damn therapy session, well in the end my conclusion is that the girlfriend was the most asshole on this one, the listener could be more helpful but she could just say so, even before of the argument, she could have talked to the listener in a actual mature way before this happened if she was so frustrated about it
( and yes i'm defending a listener on a fictional asmr, what's wrong with me )
Nothing's wrong with you. Although I get the feeling too. ASMR, a place I come to pretend I have a gf lmao.
There's no way most people think she's the toxic one here 🤡
I just wanted two large fries and a coke, see i’m not getting that tho😢
:0😢😢😢
you could really feel her frustration in this one, and i don’t blame her. thanks for another amazing audio lili, i love your voice too. :)
and welcome back!
thank you so much i hope u enjoyed the video💗
@@lilisasmraudios it was great! keep it up lili you’re doing a great job:)
Y'all trippin listener is all the way in the wrong cause you mean to tell me you wouldn't be upset that your partner came to bug you at a your job while your already stressed and the actions they're doing could cause you to get fired I'd be pissed she's in the right although I do agree it was over the top but listener deserved it cause they are acting way too immature and inconsiderate and all over dishes seriously ngl I got annoyed myself after I heard that part
Fine, I'll disappear.
*Instant transmission to other girls*
Actually I’m on her side. The BF sounds lazy as hell. You don’t get in the SO’s face at work when she’s stressed. I would never disrespect my SO like this.
Exactly
Most of the times The Gf Is the one Twisting the sitiuation Though I dont believe anything the gf in these video says
Wel she doesn't need to yell
I mean shes right, she coulda handled it better but she was right.
I would fr so be embarrassed if I did that would have been so annoying and frustrating at the same time
Nah if she told me to Disappear I would've just left and went home and Ingested a whole fucking bottle of sleeping pills 😃
Bc I'm very fucking suicidal 😍😃
bro is just like me fr fr
@@oopsalldrip8816 Yes......?
@@oopsalldrip8816 Aha yea....*looks away slowly*
real 🗿
This was very well done Lili!
I think there’s nothing wrong with keeping a housekeeper if you can afford it.
The speaker was absolutely in the right to get mad at the listener for disturbing during her work for something that could be done over a call or text. (And should apologise to the speaker for the same)
Having said that, the outburst was clearly very very hurtful (and I guess many people would have decided to leave then and there) and the apology felt more like dismissive and condescending and like okay I said I’m sorry now get over it (said for the sake of saying it, didn’t mean it at all)
Just my perspective
Bro I listen to this to escape my former toxic relationships not live through them again
Okay, that was all too much. She could just say "my day has been an agony, we'll talk at home" and save herself all that hurtful talk, which she lowered her profile to and barely apologized for, almost as if he had to thank that she's apologizing.
Now, as someone who has been on the stressed side of having a worse than bad day at work and has done something similar to the speaker (not to the point of hurt feelings), the apology falls short of covering what was done before.
Personally I break up with her at that moment when she tells me to disappear and I leave the home. A person how is like that should never be in a relationship.
Good voice acting, I hope you're okay and we'll see another part where they separate, as far as I am, the toxicity was felt.
You have no idea how traumatizing this was... I can't just forgive you, just because you brought me some food. Imagine a traumatized person listening that you talk to them that hurtful.... I'm sorry, but I did get these hurtful words and it wasn't the Best feeling to hear it back again ( it's not a hate comment and I know it's just an audio, but I'm pretty sensitive and I was hoping some real crying and breakdown apologise)
Hey, I'm sorry for the way you felt, that wasn't my intention at all 💗 I hope you're doing fine now, have a good day 💗
@@lilisasmraudios Thank you, I hope I wasn't mean, I really didn't mean to be ♡
@@miya_chan. oh no it's fine! You weren't being mean at all 💗
@@lilisasmraudios oh, okay. Glad to hear💗
Wtf
I feel like that "mature talk" was less of a talk and more of a talking down to lol. Like, a burger and a kiss aren't gonna fix telling me your life would be better if I disappeared lol. These 2 need some like, serious couples therapy.
She basically just said that she wished she could break up with you
I'm sorry but there's no coming back from that, and the fact she dared to say she didn't have to apologise and acted so unphased and not upset by what she said clearly shows that she really doesn't love the listener and does wanna break up.
me personally, im not this needy. if it was me, i would apologize and maybe order something and then leave, for some reason the listener just kinda acts like a child tbh
The door knocking actually jump scared me. I thought that someone was at the dooor 😅😅🥲
Thing is, i can understand where the girlfriend is coming from, but to say that to the listener is highly uncalled for, if my girlfriend said that to me i wouldnt be waiting for her, if she wanted me to disappear then thats what i'd do, i completely understand where shes coming from, like she doesnt wanna be bothered at work, understandable, even id be annoyed, but i would never say such a thing to my partner like that
Nah fk that😂 the listener should have been way more petty, “when they go low, you go lower” type of pettiness. This has never happened to me but if it did, she would’ve been the one upset and triggered but to each their own I guess😂
So your telling me that the bf came to you just for the dishes 😂
So many in these comments miss the point, take sides. The fact is it’s never about the dishes or the chores, there’s always something else the conversation is really about. Both these people are highly stressed and not thinking clear, he though obviously was trying to reconnect with his girlfriend because he felt like he was losing her and maybe he is.
8:57 damn i would instantly break up
I think the only thing the GF needed to apologize for was saying she wanted out but can’t because needs help with rent. Other than that, Listener is a straight up prick. Just do the damn dishes bro, don’t show up at your clearly overworked girlfriends work to make it her problem. 😂
I aint forgiving my girlfriend that easily if she said that to me though😔😔
Tbh both are in the wrong, it was dumb from the listener (Boyfriend) to visit her to work just for the dishes, like wtf. And the girlfriend not only doesn't apologizes but telling you to disappear, on top of that at the end it's kinda forcing you to apologize for what you did (Not like you shouldn't but forcing someone to do it, it's crazy).
Someone should really check her workstation if theirs a rug cauze it clearly shows that whats shes doing sweeping her actions under the rug and love bombing the bf. The bf might be lazy, but he clearly has an understanding to bring home the check while working from home. I do agree not to call the maid at any time, unless he's paying for it and hold it off for the next day or the next time she works. But this is all a red flag coming from both sides.
She should not have apologized it wasn't her fault
I mean... I think saying all the breakup shit was deserving of an apology. Yeah the listener was a dickhead but still. If anything if a girl said that to me in anger I'd make it come true, I shall disappear in a puff of smoke 😂
No kidding, the listener had like 40 opportunities to leave. And honestly, going in to bother your SO over some dirty dishes while they are at work is absurd. And if you're going to be a neat freak, start cleaning. One thing I hate is people with issues that make it everyone else's problem.
@@Darksphere101 you're not hearing me, I'm saying does all that really justify telling your SO to disappear though? There's arguing and putting someone in their place and then there's just too far.
@@JakeMuzzy I hear you just fine, I'd say get over it. If you put someone's back to a wall the way the listener did, and continually harass in a stressful situation, things like that will happen. Personally, if someone was like that with me, and they wanted to leave because of an angry reaction, I'd say leave, and good riddance to them. Work is stressful enough without someone being stupid and causing risk to my livelihood, and it sounds like her boss is a total asshole, which only increases the stress. I'd be furious and reconsidering the relationship if what I needed was disregarded on that level. That's so selfish and immature, to the point of being cartoonish. A real nightmare to deal with.
@@JakeMuzzysaying someone should disappear and saying they should kill themself
ngl she was right
Yea bro why does our character have to be such a weirdo
@@Gonzo_OGLMFAOO
@@ukiyootsu like this 🥷🏿 got absolutely no aura getting cooked by his girlfriend every single day. I’m tired of ts 😭
@@Gonzo_OGThey are both wrong
@@ireneconti4353yea but just giving her some space can be a simple fix instead of being pushy
Me rn: 🙂
Let me be clear…
Me after:
Damn, bro really got ong
I think bro took it too literal
I was expecting the gf to have left and the speaker to have freaked out
I think she had every right to be frustrated going by how the first half went. That being said, I’m not a fan of how the “mature conversation” went with her just saying just forget it and move on.
I'm not going to apologize, really? Then I'm not gonna ever see you again.
Bro If she told me to DISAPPEAR?! Oh nah I’m getting all my stuff and leaving and I’m SCREAMING at her I’m not forgiving her bruh idk why but this audio made me so angry lmao😂
I'd it bad I was expecting this to turn to a self-harm comfort audio? I've had a partner tell me to just disappear before, and that ended my non SH streak, if you're going through suicidal ideation or are in a tough spot/abusive household, you can always reach out to someone
Icl me too tbh
You know if she told me to disappear I'm going to be like a dad going to get milk and never come back.
What kind of man shows up at the girls job to ask for the housekeep's number instead of just washing the dishes himself? Or waiting?
Self harm is a thing and common in a lot of relationships, your partner may not seem bad but youll never know if you dont ask,
There have been leading casses were things like this have happened and the bf/gf who was treated like this killed themselves so just be aware before you blow your lid and basically tell someone to disappear or something of the sort, they might just disappear from your life, and it WILL be your fault 😊
Trying to finish your shift and some a$$hole keeps bugging you while it’s busy af. Nah doesn’t matter if they are your partner or family. If I’m working I’m in work mode. No personal issues should happened.
Damn! I wasnt even getting mad at the gf yelling i was getting mad at the listener! I was even like "bro what??" You came all the way to your gals work to tell her about the dishes not being cleaned- pfff i mean gf does have a right and good points to be pissed🤣
Dude, for like the first few seconds I had my volume all the way down and when I raised it I just heard you describe prices for food I thought it was a fucking advertisement for like a fast food chain
OMG XDDD
@@lilisasmraudios also will there be a second part? I don't know how cowardly most people would be to let something like that slide. Even I have dignity
@@Yesunfortunately-r1x I wasn't planning to make a second part but thank you for suggestion I'll definitely think about it 💗
@@lilisasmraudios if I genuinely change the coarse of how this audio will go that's gonna give be a real ego booster for me
Yeah, after that “mature” conversation i’d break up.
Before the housekeeper got mentioned i was like wow bro really went to her work to tell her to do the dishes aint no way😂
I literally said chesse burger when she asked what i want 🤡
shit got me depressed for 5 minutes
Ik😞
You leave me no choice…
UNO REVERSE!
I wouldn't be there unless asked. Dishes? No fuckin way i'd do this over dishes
Bro if I was in a relationship like that I would have ended my own life istg
Smarter man then most.
this is why women lives longer than us men
:0 that is what I was thinking
@1nonlyretto ya because the men are dealing with 'loved' ones like this that tell them they should disappear.
@@blo0dysmiles297 yeah it actually happened to me now😭🙏
If I were in her situation, I would have been angry at the listener, myself. Because the listener was being ridiculous and irrational.
But, I'm going to be objective here: They both are in the wrong. The listener should also have apologized. The girlfriend, her apology was fake. She made a justification for her actions and buys the listener's forgiveness with food. A real one would have addressed the faults of oneself without including justifications or buying something to persuade. She wasn't really sorry, nor for telling the listener to "disappear" and confessing she's only staying to pay the bills. Otherwise, she would have left (which is justifiable if she left). That warrants an apology. It's like someone intentionally being physically abusive one moment, apologize and justifies the behavior, then buys someone's forgiveness with something tangible. That's manipulative and toxic (which the listener was also being toxic and inconsiderate). What I'm saying are two different scenarios, but it's the principal that needs to be focused on by how the apology is handled similarly. She claims to have a "mature" conversation, yet, it was far from mature. Only domineered a result without giving the listener a say (even if the listener was being childish, the anger was justifiable). The relationship won't work out. Especially when she meant the things she said. I personally would have packed my bags to leave.
This was a really good audio to make me end up dissecting it for the fun of it.
plot twist: we are died and just a ghost or we aren't even real
I mean we kinda were like being annoying to her fr fr, but she didn’t have to say it would be better is we would disappear😭😭😭😔😔😔🖤🖤🖤 **cries ugly and has a anxiety attack**
I had a stroke reading that
Dude, If I was the bf then for sure next mrng I would have disappeared .-.
This is my first watching your vids, and let me tell you something. I had mixed feeling about it. If my girlfriend apologize like it was nothing, I would've been silent my whole life that it is going kill them so bad. This is amazing though! But like if they ever tried this to me, my heart would immediately sank, and I would give them the worst punishment ever: SILENCE! I almost cried, but I managed to hold it in. Thank you so much for the audio. If you like any ideas, please hit me up so we could let you know. Good luck😉
Thank you so much 💗
@@lilisasmraudios Your welcome💜
"So am I Not getting the Macaroni Salad?"
Plot twist!
She's actually have schizophrenia and we are actually aren't real💀
I know, very hard to read but i think i got the point right lol
Schizophrenia
Wow that is unbelievably fxxked up to say to someone.
Here and ready to watch it 💜
Thank you!
Definitely wouldn't be me 🤣 I've got more consideration than that. She was well within her right to snap
Even though it's only been a month, I'm glad that you're back
You watch jjk wow than your really the gf i need
Just because she watches jjk? Seriously bro? 💀
We need a part 2 where we actually leave
No, please, I don't wanna be that slob anymore
You know that it's the right girl if she want to watch anime with you,Jujutsu kaisen it's amazing
First ASMR I've heard of yours and I loved it 👏🏻💖 new Sub❤🤗
Great video was always pretty cool I will say when I heard the ordering bit with food I'm not going to lie I got hungry lol
Also by the way recently I just started my own ytc mostly just doing some art stuff and gaming stuff but at some point I'll have to send a message or comment using it
@@thedarkphantom3880 I wish you good luck!