Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard have said that they have “pretend” arguments in front of their kids where they basically reenact an argument they had in private but it’s to show healthy arguing & conflict resolution. It sounds kinda silly but their approach makes sense.
I'm w Loni. If you're fighting over petty stuff like house chores or minor disagreements then yes that's okay in front if the kids as long as you keep it respectful and get it resolved. If you're fighting infront of them over big stuff like finances, or cheating, or your serious marital issues,, or fights over your spouses drug/alcohol abuse, then it doesn't need to happen in front of your kids.
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈 tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
I agree with Garcelle and Adrienne. Confrontation is healthy and most importantly inevitable . To watch your parents peacefully resolve a situation without yelling or disrespecting each other will teach the kids that there’s a way to talk to people EVEN when you’re upset with them . For myself I grew up seeing toxic arguments left and right and I adopted those traits where I yell and say mean things when mad when I argue with my loved one and it’s not okay. Since then have unlearned Thank God lol . I do think if you’re arguing about money or things that the kids may take and not truly understand then maybe leave that behinds closed doors but simple arguments is okay as long as you’re respecting and showing the kids listen a disagreement does not mean mommy and daddy don’t love each other . Ok I’m done lol love this show
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈 tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
You couldnt be more right! 👏👏Same for me I hope I wouldnt reproduce what I saw with my future husband and its clear that my fear of engagement now comes from my parents.
I agree with Loni, In the sense that it depends on what the argument is about. Whether it’s a healthy disagreement or not. For example, if it’s an argument about cheating or money I think it’s best to try not to have those conversation in front of children. Now if it’s about the house being dirty, or not wanting to go somewhere or wanting something done a certain way, etc. then that’s more appropriate to have those “fights” in front of kids as long as it’s “respectful.” Overall, I believe it’s ok for children to see it or hear it but try to make sure you’re resolving it in front of them as well. But again it depends on what the argument is about.
Agreed. That’s what I thought too. Cheating and that stuff should stay between the parents but like leaving plates around the house or clothes on the floor, sure let them see that
As a kid who grew up seeing my mom argue with her bf and see her bf cuss at her and etc. it ain’t healthy it caused me to have a separation anxiety when it came to staying the night at other peoples houses I always worried that if my mom was alright at home
Oh Adrienne! You hit the nail right on the head @:57! Bc I grew up in such a toxic “home” if that’s what you want to call it… when my mom, grandma, and my 2 aunts would argue or fight, one will threaten to leave, the other will start packing to leave and so on and so forth! But Bc I seen that ALL MY LIFE growing up, I picked that behavior up (unknowingly). By the Grace of God my husband has been there for me to teach me and love me through my problems, flaws, issues, and mental illness. After 3 failed suicide attempts, & 2 mental institutions w/ some therapy & counseling, I have been able to learn how to cope, and deal with life and my past.
Arguing is not the issue… it’s the communication styles ! I do not do well in environments where people are triggered and yelling ! I personally see that an as intimidation tactic and trying to prove alpha energy… like It reminds me of being like reprimanded as if I’m a child… if we’re equals in a relationship we can COMMUNICATE our feelings and thoughts without yelling or all that other nonsense ! For children it creates a warped sense of thinking that because ur arguing it’s not a happy marriage and for that reason we have to be very careful about not only arguing but what is being said during said arguments
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈 tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
Toxic fighting and abuse is never okay. But healthy disagreements and discussion is absolutely okay, it teaches children about problems and problem solving (so long as the discussions are appropriate) Anytime my husband and I disagree or have a ‘healthy’ argument. I always debrief with my 3 year old about it afterwards. I explain that sometimes grown ups have big discussions and disagreements, sometimes we feel angry or frustrated or whatever, then I explain the resolution. And I always end it with “but this has absolutely nothing to do with anything you’ve done. Mommy loves daddy. Daddy loves mommy. And most importantly we love you”. And I always leave discussion open for my son to ask questions. Transparency is key. I also always emphasize I am human and mommy’s not perfect. But I will continue to try and do better always.
Adrienne and Garcelle hit it right on the mark! Healthy arguing in front of your children without the name calling and hostility and cursing isn’t harmful. As long as you let your partner know you don’t hate them afterwards and even let your children know I don’t hate mommy or daddy but sometimes people have disagreements and that’s okay. As long as it’s t done in a calm in door voice manner and still respectful towards each other. And if you feel the argument can and will get to heated, then don’t have it in front of the children and save it for another time. You can’t shield your child from everything in the world and when it comes to something like having a disagreement, which is what we all do naturally, you as parents can show them a healthier version of that.
You won’t ever “so happen to have sex“ in front of your children. However, a fight can happen in front of them. It is a good idea to steward that well.
Wow this topic hits home… I’m in my early 30’s and am just now discovering things about myself and discovering how my parents fights and tempers have truly affected me… I have dealt with things the same way they did, with a temper and with anger… now I’m having to undue that vicious beast in me because I’m seeing how it’s causing issues in my own relationships… Such a hard pill to swallow but I’m happy I can now get some therapy and get better 🙏🏽
I’m with Loni! Children seeing their parents argue shouldn’t be normal. This leads them to believe that’s how you are supposed to communicate and function in a healthy relationship. Arguing isn’t a sign of a healthy relationship or love. Have a discussion where both parties communicate and LISTEN come to a resolve then move on.
Having an argument around children should be solely explained to the children that they are 2 people having different opinions, but also assure them that everything is okay and they aren’t in harm and i think parents should make some kind of middle ground for the sake of the children’s health.
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈 tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
I believe healthy arguments is the key too! It is really hard. At the end of the day the kid(s) seeing both parties argue should be address by both parties.
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈 tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
It was my 7th grade literature teacher that really taught me how to argue. He would encourage his students to “argue” regularly regarding certain topics. He said that arguing was basically the exchanging of ideas. But, he did not allow fighting, which he said was yelling and screaming. I took that concept into adulthood. My husband and I have VERY different personalities and we disagree often. But 99.9% of the time we are able to listen to each other, disagree and respond respectfully without fighting. When he talks I listen and vice versa. Now, we have our .01% of the time when we (usually me 😬) get a little rowdy, but for the most part we handle things well. I am proud of the good example we set for our little Princess 👑. They replicate what they see at home. 😉
I wish Tam had been there for this talk, she's married with kids and I'd like to hear her perspective. I am married with children and I agree with Loni about certain things being discussed in front of kids. I don't like having heated disagreements in general but if I think the topic will be uncomfortable or the argument will be too much it happens in private...if its like a small thing I don't mind our kids hearing it..they argue with each other and we talk to them about fair talking show we try to show them that.
Both sides brought good points I’m sitting in the middle. Lack of healthy communication in my childhood did affect my communication style as an adult. Idk if it was the fights or the way family spoke in general.
Debating in front of kids, sure! Arguing...no. Kids Don't quite know how to guard against emotional projection yet, they'll just completely absorb it so it's the adult job to protect their hearts and peace of mind.
I like what Adrienne said about the importance of healthy arguing in front of children. It can be such a shock when your parents never argue in front of you, then split up. With my first boyfriend, I would hold back my thoughts, if they disagreed with his, because I associated having an argument with the end. And I would shut down or leave, in any disagreement that required me to speak up. This lead to pretentious friendships, relationships and so on. Since then, I have unlearned but it's still very hard at times. It's important to show healthy arguments and conflict resolutions , respectfully.
My parents used to have awful discussions in front of me. My mom specially did way too dramatic things when arguing. I don't agree on arguing in front of your kids. If they caught you doing it explain it's healthy and bound to happen but if you can avoid it please do.
Loni I think you so real and funny I Watch the show because of you . You keep it real but at last moment make me smile lol 😆 we need both these days so thank you.
Arguing and having a civil disagreement is two different things. I feel arguing is usually more hostile and angry. If you’re having a civil disagreement then usually both parties are communicating in a healthy manner. These children should see examples of healthy communication and disagreements. When they’re grown they will have to know how to tap into those skills when they have their own conflicts. I don’t think anyone should ever be yelling, cursing and name calling in front of children because you don’t want them thinking that’s ok to do when they disagree with someone. Kids do pick up things all the time from the adults around them so you should be cautious of how you act around them.
I remember seeing my mum fight with my stepfather for the first time,she was angry and on the phone with my sister so I told her,tell her he’s not our dad anymore😭when I tell u that it took me a while to learn that fights don’t mean leaving a person
My parents always made it where they never argued in front of me and my siblings, and I’m thankful for that. I don’t think arguing in front of kids is good
Peacefully is one thing but if not it can be very harmful for children to watch. Unfortunately I grew up watching my parents fight constantly to the point where its affected my life today. Im single never married. I've been traumatized where I always felt I didn't want THAT. Its sad because I know there are happy marriages out there but after watching it for years it really took a toll on me.
It depends what it's about, & how it's done. For example, if it's about money, cheating, etc., that shouldn't be done in front of kids. Name calling & disrespect should absolutely never be done. It's important to not shelter them so much that they'll assume a disagreement has to mean that the relationship is over. In addition to seeing respectful disagreement, kids also need to see how you should actually resolve the issue
I definitely believe parents need to be mindful of what they say to each other in front of the kids even if it's a disagreement cause you don't want it to then turn into a screaming match. My mom always would intentionally irritate my dad on and try to start fights on purpose but he was always the rational one and kept his composure and would wait until she calmed down so they could then resolve the issue they were having. I definitely learned that it is never good for a relationship to intentionally start arguments because it exposes your insecurities that you need to work on yourself
Parents, actually adults in general, must remember that they are role models for children. Problems and disagreements are bound to arise. However healthy confrontation and conflict resolution are key. And yes, certain topics are best discussed in private. I read somewhere about a person that said they grew up in a home where parents never discussed problems or conflicts in front of the children in hopes of presenting a “happy” home life. When the child grew up and got into relationships, anytime conflicts would arise, this would spell the end of the relationship for that person because they thought a good relationship was one with no conflicts or issues. And while that may seem ideal, it is likely unrealistic. Also, if parents have anger issues, violence, or other toxic behaviors, hopefully they will seek help for their own mental and physical well-being, as well as to avoid perpetuating this behavior for the next generation. And yes, easier said than done, but so worth the effort.
Growing up where arguments lead to unhealthy levels of cursing, yelling , even name calling. I definitely do not want that for my future kids. But I want to learn if it’s possible “healthy disagreements” where if me & my future husband have an argument or disagreement we can communicate it healthy without the yelling & just going back in fourth. That has always been the one thing I wanted different for my future children
I try my best to practice not arguing in front of my son. I either wait till he’s sleeping or when he’s playing or something and can’t hear us. My parents were not together and I never heard my dad argue with my mom or vice versa in person or over the phone. Also another thing is being on the same page. Like if your child ask for something, say “mommy gotta talk to daddy about it.” Or if the child misbehave and one wants to put the child on time out, let them, and address it later. As long as it nothing crazy like abuse or something, parents should be in agreement when it comes to the child in my opinion. Cuz kids are smart and can play adults.
I can count how many times my parents. The issue isn’t the argument in-front of children, it’s the after math and the anger in their eyes and their voice. That’s what cause the emotional distrust and I’m the example of that.
I think a key factor is what the argument is about. I mostly agree with Gracelle and Adrienne. However in certain arguments that involve the parents relationships for example, shouldn’t be done in front of children because that is traumatizing. So in that way I’m with Loni. When it comes to simple disagreements around the house, that absolutely can be done respectfully to demonstrate healthy communication.
I agree with Loni. Arguing about what you’re having for dinner is one thing. But you can argue about finances or about something you think they’re doing wrong, or you can even argue about the kids, and even if you do it without yelling or cursing, I still don’t think you should have the conversation in front of them just because it’s “normal” or because you’re arguing in a “healthy way”. It’s okay to argue sometimes, but as a rule of thumb, I don’t think it matters if it’s healthy conflict resolution; I think it’s the content of the argument that determines whether or not it’s for them to hear.
It depends on the child. Parents get to know your children. My parents arguing in front of me was fine but my brother is autistic and arguments caused him pain. He couldn't process it. I feel that it depends on the age and the child.
I think for minor fights and it’s handled in a healthy way it’s fine. However to completely not show they how to 1) defend themselves 2) rebuttal in a healthy way you’ll wholeheartedly set them up for failure in the future. Complete lack of conflict and conflict resolution will stunt the Child whether they are an adult or even 5 years old on the playground they’ll meet conflict. This is why you see people that can’t verbally defend themselves or completely neglect confrontation. It’s because they don’t know how and it triggers fear. People feed on fear and those types of children end up being bullied in school, work, even in friendship groups because they’re never taught HOW to handle it but instead to act like it doesn’t exist. It doesn’t mean argue and fight everyday or beat each other up with words and curse at each other tho
Parents should absolutely argue around the kids. Obviously not about anything private but let’s say they disagree about where to go for dinner or where to park. Little things like that they should take the opportunity to show the kids how to disagree and how to come to a resolve. I grew up seeing my parents argue heavily, oftentimes just retreating to their respective corners afterwards with no resolve. Then, I would see them give eachother the silent treatment for days. 🤦🏾♀️
I don’t understand how people with no kids have so much to say so confidently. Arguments aren’t booked, we don’t book it like a appointment, unfortunately we are not perfect as human beings and things can heated very quickly. It’s realistic most kids will witness parents arguing and if they don’t you really think kids are not picking up on silence? Awkward silence? Come on. It’s important to talk to our kids about these things and explain it in a level that they can understand it. Simple. I mean not simple but simple.
I wouldn't use the word "argue" or "argument". With CHILDREN, I would teach them, exemplify communication involving healthy disagreements and agreements. But argument to me is about proving a "right" or "wrong" point which in my opinion is more of a young adult to adult type of experience.
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈 tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
I understand all their views. I understood where Loni came from as far as kids shouldn't see that often because they're young and it could be traumatizing. But it depends on the argument, so I'm more with Ade and Garcelle: kids should see healthy conflict resolution and know it's normal so that it becomes more normalized. With that being said, parents have to develop better communication styles for the sake of the child.
I think one of the big things in this discussion is verbiage. I think an argument in front of children should be avoided. However disagreements in front of kids/your children is healthy. They need to see that no everyone is not going to agree with your opinion and yes that is okay.
When Loni said that you dont have sex in front of kids so why should you argue in front of them? Umm that's not a good analogy to use. Dont kids even toddlers argue with themselves? You can't compare those 2 things at the same level. But I understand where she is coming from. I think you have to choose wisely how and especially WHAT you are arguing about. Not every topic should be argued in front of them. Certain ones you really have to do it in private.
I don't support the "not arguing in front of the kids" then going in the next room and forgetting that the walls are paper thin. Like they can hear u cussing one another out. Let's just work to argue better like respectfully no matter what
Just asking - in real life - with adult pressures so high also - is this even possible -to program the content of an argument? If not, probably safer to argue away from the kids?
I think that children need to see how healthy relationships function in the good times and the bad so they know how to be in a healthy relationship. Now arguing over a sexless marriage or things that don’t honor the marriage in front of the kids is not ok but the normal mundane things yes. Now onto the sex… you should be CONSISTENTLY having age appropriate conversations about sex with your child. Example my daughter is 5 she knows her body parts and she knows the “no no square” which are the parts no one should touch. I think you can share age appropriate things with your child. That’s how they learn.
I hate watching whenever people argue in my country's language in movies. Made me hate my dad even more when they argued. Agree with the argument with the teacher if the teacher is wrong.
Kids are not dumb they know when parents are beefing. I don’t think disrespect and real issues should be handled or addressed in front of children. But the daily irritations of hey I didn’t like this or that is important and talking through the issue. If your children catch y’all in a bad argument than sit them down explain being a human and how y’all resolved it. Also apologize for the experience they had since it wasn’t meant for them.
I think you should try your best not to argue in front of children. The idea of showing them "healthy arguments" sounds good on paper but arguments get heated quickly for many. By the time you realize it's scaring the kids they already witnessed it. My parents did not care to hide their arguments. It caused me a lot of trauma and anxiety growing up. I cried hoping they would shut up. Crying didn't always stop them unfortunately. I thought we were going to die a couple times because it happened during car rides and my mom started speeding and driving recklessly. Many times I had the urge to run out of the house. I also wanted them to divorce. So bravo if you can somehow manage "healthy arguments" in front of your kids. If you know you cannot control your temper, please argue privately! Watching my parents made me become the complete opposite of them. I am calm and much more mindful so I guess I should thank my parents for their toxic arguments.
believe me: I'm not defending Kim K. but it's hard to have segments about cultural appropriation when Adrienne flirts with that line all the time. Case in point: her braids .
Not in my family! Lol. You will hear every curse word. Anger. Pissy behavior. Hostility. Etc. So, if your family can't do it the "adult way" by talking it out and not getting really belligerent with each other, sure...
Loni's weird comparison.🙄 Anyway... There's a difference between a fight and an argument. You fight out of anger. You argue out of disagreement. It's rather poor to not set an example of how to argue in front of your children and then expect them to go out in the world and have proper communication skills with strangers with whom they might disagree.
But again how cares you are Mom Wants the problem you scared I may see well wrong Lady I have to complize what I see and then throw it way what's seen only call respect for😡
Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard have said that they have “pretend” arguments in front of their kids where they basically reenact an argument they had in private but it’s to show healthy arguing & conflict resolution. It sounds kinda silly but their approach makes sense.
This is something that I plan to do with my kids for sure
I'm w Loni. If you're fighting over petty stuff like house chores or minor disagreements then yes that's okay in front if the kids as long as you keep it respectful and get it resolved. If you're fighting infront of them over big stuff like finances, or cheating, or your serious marital issues,, or fights over your spouses drug/alcohol abuse, then it doesn't need to happen in front of your kids.
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tricks I do not know
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Hopi: "Sweeter"
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So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
I agree with Loni, it’s not good to argue around children constantly, I experienced that and it was traumatizing.
Same!
I agree with Garcelle and Adrienne. Confrontation is healthy and most importantly inevitable . To watch your parents peacefully resolve a situation without yelling or disrespecting each other will teach the kids that there’s a way to talk to people EVEN when you’re upset with them . For myself I grew up seeing toxic arguments left and right and I adopted those traits where I yell and say mean things when mad when I argue with my loved one and it’s not okay. Since then have unlearned Thank God lol . I do think if you’re arguing about money or things that the kids may take and not truly understand then maybe leave that behinds closed doors but simple arguments is okay as long as you’re respecting and showing the kids listen a disagreement does not mean mommy and daddy don’t love each other . Ok I’m done lol love this show
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
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You couldnt be more right! 👏👏Same for me I hope I wouldnt reproduce what I saw with my future husband and its clear that my fear of engagement now comes from my parents.
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I grew up think confrontation was bad and I would cringe whenever ppl started arguing. I always thought the worst was going to happen
Lani has been looking absolutely stunning this season! Hair, makeup, clothes- all on point! 👏🏼👏🏼😍😍
I agree with Loni, In the sense that it depends on what the argument is about. Whether it’s a healthy disagreement or not. For example, if it’s an argument about cheating or money I think it’s best to try not to have those conversation in front of children. Now if it’s about the house being dirty, or not wanting to go somewhere or wanting something done a certain way, etc. then that’s more appropriate to have those “fights” in front of kids as long as it’s “respectful.” Overall, I believe it’s ok for children to see it or hear it but try to make sure you’re resolving it in front of them as well. But again it depends on what the argument is about.
Agreed. That’s what I thought too. Cheating and that stuff should stay between the parents but like leaving plates around the house or clothes on the floor, sure let them see that
I hope this show never ends! I’m like OBSESSED! 😩😂💚
Sameeeee
As a kid who grew up seeing my mom argue with her bf and see her bf cuss at her and etc. it ain’t healthy it caused me to have a separation anxiety when it came to staying the night at other peoples houses I always worried that if my mom was alright at home
Oh Adrienne! You hit the nail right on the head @:57! Bc I grew up in such a toxic “home” if that’s what you want to call it… when my mom, grandma, and my 2 aunts would argue or fight, one will threaten to leave, the other will start packing to leave and so on and so forth! But Bc I seen that ALL MY LIFE growing up, I picked that behavior up (unknowingly). By the Grace of God my husband has been there for me to teach me and love me through my problems, flaws, issues, and mental illness. After 3 failed suicide attempts, & 2 mental institutions w/ some therapy & counseling, I have been able to learn how to cope, and deal with life and my past.
It teaches children to speak up for themselves in a healthy way. That’s only if it’s healthy discussion
Arguing is not the issue… it’s the communication styles ! I do not do well in environments where people are triggered and yelling ! I personally see that an as intimidation tactic and trying to prove alpha energy… like It reminds me of being like reprimanded as if I’m a child… if we’re equals in a relationship we can COMMUNICATE our feelings and thoughts without yelling or all that other nonsense ! For children it creates a warped sense of thinking that because ur arguing it’s not a happy marriage and for that reason we have to be very careful about not only arguing but what is being said during said arguments
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
Toxic fighting and abuse is never okay. But healthy disagreements and discussion is absolutely okay, it teaches children about problems and problem solving (so long as the discussions are appropriate)
Anytime my husband and I disagree or have a ‘healthy’ argument. I always debrief with my 3 year old about it afterwards. I explain that sometimes grown ups have big discussions and disagreements, sometimes we feel angry or frustrated or whatever, then I explain the resolution. And I always end it with “but this has absolutely nothing to do with anything you’ve done. Mommy loves daddy. Daddy loves mommy. And most importantly we love you”. And I always leave discussion open for my son to ask questions. Transparency is key. I also always emphasize I am human and mommy’s not perfect. But I will continue to try and do better always.
Adrienne and Garcelle hit it right on the mark! Healthy arguing in front of your children without the name calling and hostility and cursing isn’t harmful. As long as you let your partner know you don’t hate them afterwards and even let your children know I don’t hate mommy or daddy but sometimes people have disagreements and that’s okay. As long as it’s t done in a calm in door voice manner and still respectful towards each other. And if you feel the argument can and will get to heated, then don’t have it in front of the children and save it for another time. You can’t shield your child from everything in the world and when it comes to something like having a disagreement, which is what we all do naturally, you as parents can show them a healthier version of that.
You won’t ever “so happen to have sex“ in front of your children. However, a fight can happen in front of them. It is a good idea to steward that well.
Wow this topic hits home… I’m in my early 30’s and am just now discovering things about myself and discovering how my parents fights and tempers have truly affected me… I have dealt with things the same way they did, with a temper and with anger… now I’m having to undue that vicious beast in me because I’m seeing how it’s causing issues in my own relationships… Such a hard pill to swallow but I’m happy I can now get some therapy and get better 🙏🏽
I’m with Loni! Children seeing their parents argue shouldn’t be normal. This leads them to believe that’s how you are supposed to communicate and function in a healthy relationship. Arguing isn’t a sign of a healthy relationship or love. Have a discussion where both parties communicate and LISTEN come to a resolve then move on.
Absolutely x
Having an argument around children should be solely explained to the children that they are 2 people having different opinions, but also assure them that everything is okay and they aren’t in harm and i think parents should make some kind of middle ground for the sake of the children’s health.
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
I believe healthy arguments is the key too! It is really hard. At the end of the day the kid(s) seeing both parties argue should be address by both parties.
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
It was my 7th grade literature teacher that really taught me how to argue. He would encourage his students to “argue” regularly regarding certain topics. He said that arguing was basically the exchanging of ideas. But, he did not allow fighting, which he said was yelling and screaming.
I took that concept into adulthood. My husband and I have VERY different personalities and we disagree often. But 99.9% of the time we are able to listen to each other, disagree and respond respectfully without fighting. When he talks I listen and vice versa. Now, we have our .01% of the time when we (usually me 😬) get a little rowdy, but for the most part we handle things well. I am proud of the good example we set for our little Princess 👑. They replicate what they see at home. 😉
I wish Tam had been there for this talk, she's married with kids and I'd like to hear her perspective. I am married with children and I agree with Loni about certain things being discussed in front of kids. I don't like having heated disagreements in general but if I think the topic will be uncomfortable or the argument will be too much it happens in private...if its like a small thing I don't mind our kids hearing it..they argue with each other and we talk to them about fair talking show we try to show them that.
Both sides brought good points I’m sitting in the middle. Lack of healthy communication in my childhood did affect my communication style as an adult. Idk if it was the fights or the way family spoke in general.
Debating in front of kids, sure! Arguing...no. Kids Don't quite know how to guard against emotional projection yet, they'll just completely absorb it so it's the adult job to protect their hearts and peace of mind.
I like what Adrienne said about the importance of healthy arguing in front of children. It can be such a shock when your parents never argue in front of you, then split up. With my first boyfriend, I would hold back my thoughts, if they disagreed with his, because I associated having an argument with the end. And I would shut down or leave, in any disagreement that required me to speak up. This lead to pretentious friendships, relationships and so on. Since then, I have unlearned but it's still very hard at times. It's important to show healthy arguments and conflict resolutions , respectfully.
Loni said "I would try to keep it respectful so I would try to go up there sober" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My parents used to have awful discussions in front of me. My mom specially did way too dramatic things when arguing. I don't agree on arguing in front of your kids. If they caught you doing it explain it's healthy and bound to happen but if you can avoid it please do.
Loni I think you so real and funny I Watch the show because of you . You keep it real but at last moment make me smile lol 😆 we need both these days so thank you.
Arguing and having a civil disagreement is two different things. I feel arguing is usually more hostile and angry. If you’re having a civil disagreement then usually both parties are communicating in a healthy manner. These children should see examples of healthy communication and disagreements. When they’re grown they will have to know how to tap into those skills when they have their own conflicts. I don’t think anyone should ever be yelling, cursing and name calling in front of children because you don’t want them thinking that’s ok to do when they disagree with someone. Kids do pick up things all the time from the adults around them so you should be cautious of how you act around them.
Loni, why you always making me laugh - I love watching you so much, you're so funny and you my favourite man! Tell them teachers how you really feel!!
I remember seeing my mum fight with my stepfather for the first time,she was angry and on the phone with my sister so I told her,tell her he’s not our dad anymore😭when I tell u that it took me a while to learn that fights don’t mean leaving a person
😂😂I relate.When my mom would scold me I would plan how I would leave and start my new life with only stuff gifted to me by other people except her.
100% Agree with Adrienne.
My parents always made it where they never argued in front of me and my siblings, and I’m thankful for that. I don’t think arguing in front of kids is good
True. My oldest suffer from this because of us his parents
Peacefully is one thing but if not it can be very harmful for children to watch. Unfortunately I grew up watching my parents fight constantly to the point where its affected my life today. Im single never married. I've been traumatized where I always felt I didn't want THAT. Its sad because I know there are happy marriages out there but after watching it for years it really took a toll on me.
It depends what it's about, & how it's done. For example, if it's about money, cheating, etc., that shouldn't be done in front of kids. Name calling & disrespect should absolutely never be done. It's important to not shelter them so much that they'll assume a disagreement has to mean that the relationship is over. In addition to seeing respectful disagreement, kids also need to see how you should actually resolve the issue
I definitely believe parents need to be mindful of what they say to each other in front of the kids even if it's a disagreement cause you don't want it to then turn into a screaming match. My mom always would intentionally irritate my dad on and try to start fights on purpose but he was always the rational one and kept his composure and would wait until she calmed down so they could then resolve the issue they were having. I definitely learned that it is never good for a relationship to intentionally start arguments because it exposes your insecurities that you need to work on yourself
Parents, actually adults in general, must remember that they are role models for children. Problems and disagreements are bound to arise. However healthy confrontation and conflict resolution are key. And yes, certain topics are best discussed in private. I read somewhere about a person that said they grew up in a home where parents never discussed problems or conflicts in front of the children in hopes of presenting a “happy” home life. When the child grew up and got into relationships, anytime conflicts would arise, this would spell the end of the relationship for that person because they thought a good relationship was one with no conflicts or issues. And while that may seem ideal, it is likely unrealistic.
Also, if parents have anger issues, violence, or other toxic behaviors, hopefully they will seek help for their own mental and physical well-being, as well as to avoid perpetuating this behavior for the next generation. And yes, easier said than done, but so worth the effort.
Growing up where arguments lead to unhealthy levels of cursing, yelling , even name calling. I definitely do not want that for my future kids. But I want to learn if it’s possible “healthy disagreements” where if me & my future husband have an argument or disagreement we can communicate it healthy without the yelling & just going back in fourth. That has always been the one thing I wanted different for my future children
I try my best to practice not arguing in front of my son. I either wait till he’s sleeping or when he’s playing or something and can’t hear us. My parents were not together and I never heard my dad argue with my mom or vice versa in person or over the phone.
Also another thing is being on the same page. Like if your child ask for something, say “mommy gotta talk to daddy about it.” Or if the child misbehave and one wants to put the child on time out, let them, and address it later. As long as it nothing crazy like abuse or something, parents should be in agreement when it comes to the child in my opinion. Cuz kids are smart and can play adults.
If you can’t argue or have discussions in front of children then it’s probably not a healthy argument or situation in the first place
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I can count how many times my parents. The issue isn’t the argument in-front of children, it’s the after math and the anger in their eyes and their voice. That’s what cause the emotional distrust and I’m the example of that.
I think a key factor is what the argument is about. I mostly agree with Gracelle and Adrienne. However in certain arguments that involve the parents relationships for example, shouldn’t be done in front of children because that is traumatizing. So in that way I’m with Loni. When it comes to simple disagreements around the house, that absolutely can be done respectfully to demonstrate healthy communication.
I agree with Loni. Arguing about what you’re having for dinner is one thing. But you can argue about finances or about something you think they’re doing wrong, or you can even argue about the kids, and even if you do it without yelling or cursing, I still don’t think you should have the conversation in front of them just because it’s “normal” or because you’re arguing in a “healthy way”. It’s okay to argue sometimes, but as a rule of thumb, I don’t think it matters if it’s healthy conflict resolution; I think it’s the content of the argument that determines whether or not it’s for them to hear.
It depends on the child. Parents get to know your children. My parents arguing in front of me was fine but my brother is autistic and arguments caused him pain. He couldn't process it. I feel that it depends on the age and the child.
I think for minor fights and it’s handled in a healthy way it’s fine. However to completely not show they how to 1) defend themselves 2) rebuttal in a healthy way you’ll wholeheartedly set them up for failure in the future. Complete lack of conflict and conflict resolution will stunt the Child whether they are an adult or even 5 years old on the playground they’ll meet conflict. This is why you see people that can’t verbally defend themselves or completely neglect confrontation. It’s because they don’t know how and it triggers fear. People feed on fear and those types of children end up being bullied in school, work, even in friendship groups because they’re never taught HOW to handle it but instead to act like it doesn’t exist. It doesn’t mean argue and fight everyday or beat each other up with words and curse at each other tho
Parents should absolutely argue around the kids. Obviously not about anything private but let’s say they disagree about where to go for dinner or where to park. Little things like that they should take the opportunity to show the kids how to disagree and how to come to a resolve. I grew up seeing my parents argue heavily, oftentimes just retreating to their respective corners afterwards with no resolve. Then, I would see them give eachother the silent treatment for days. 🤦🏾♀️
Some parents need to stop using children as Chess pieces Thank you
Absolutely!!
Children can read their parents Energy..they know if you are mad even if you're not arguing in front of them
I once hid under the table while my mom and dad were arguing when I was maybe 6. I was afraid to get in the middle of it if they saw me.
I don’t understand how people with no kids have so much to say so confidently. Arguments aren’t booked, we don’t book it like a appointment, unfortunately we are not perfect as human beings and things can heated very quickly. It’s realistic most kids will witness parents arguing and if they don’t you really think kids are not picking up on silence? Awkward silence? Come on. It’s important to talk to our kids about these things and explain it in a level that they can understand it. Simple. I mean not simple but simple.
I wouldn't use the word "argue" or "argument". With CHILDREN, I would teach them, exemplify communication involving healthy disagreements and agreements. But argument to me is about proving a "right" or "wrong" point which in my opinion is more of a young adult to adult type of experience.
Not arguing but disagreeing.
I mean parents argue with their children anyway, so one way or another they will learn the art of arguing! Especially if ur a single parent!
I understand
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
I understand all their views. I understood where Loni came from as far as kids shouldn't see that often because they're young and it could be traumatizing. But it depends on the argument, so I'm more with Ade and Garcelle: kids should see healthy conflict resolution and know it's normal so that it becomes more normalized. With that being said, parents have to develop better communication styles for the sake of the child.
I think one of the big things in this discussion is verbiage. I think an argument in front of children should be avoided. However disagreements in front of kids/your children is healthy. They need to see that no everyone is not going to agree with your opinion and yes that is okay.
When Loni said that you dont have sex in front of kids so why should you argue in front of them? Umm that's not a good analogy to use. Dont kids even toddlers argue with themselves? You can't compare those 2 things at the same level.
But I understand where she is coming from. I think you have to choose wisely how and especially WHAT you are arguing about. Not every topic should be argued in front of them. Certain ones you really have to do it in private.
yes, yes, yes girls correct correct correct ladies
constantly arguing w/o resolve in front of children causes them emotional problems? wow, that makes a lot of sense unfortunately.
I don't support the "not arguing in front of the kids" then going in the next room and forgetting that the walls are paper thin. Like they can hear u cussing one another out. Let's just work to argue better like respectfully no matter what
Garcelle looking so elegant and gorgeous 💃💃💃
Arguments are healthy teach Yr kids to stick up for themselves n not be a mute..be confident and have a voice
Just asking - in real life - with adult pressures so high also - is this even possible -to program the content of an argument? If not, probably safer to argue away from the kids?
I think that children need to see how healthy relationships function in the good times and the bad so they know how to be in a healthy relationship. Now arguing over a sexless marriage or things that don’t honor the marriage in front of the kids is not ok but the normal mundane things yes.
Now onto the sex… you should be CONSISTENTLY having age appropriate conversations about sex with your child. Example my daughter is 5 she knows her body parts and she knows the “no no square” which are the parts no one should touch. I think you can share age appropriate things with your child. That’s how they learn.
I hate watching whenever people argue in my country's language in movies. Made me hate my dad even more when they argued. Agree with the argument with the teacher if the teacher is wrong.
No It's not OK
Loni & this dress 😍
Kids are not dumb they know when parents are beefing. I don’t think disrespect and real issues should be handled or addressed in front of children. But the daily irritations of hey I didn’t like this or that is important and talking through the issue. If your children catch y’all in a bad argument than sit them down explain being a human and how y’all resolved it. Also apologize for the experience they had since it wasn’t meant for them.
Red and Garceille are 🔥.
I think you should try your best not to argue in front of children. The idea of showing them "healthy arguments" sounds good on paper but arguments get heated quickly for many. By the time you realize it's scaring the kids they already witnessed it. My parents did not care to hide their arguments. It caused me a lot of trauma and anxiety growing up. I cried hoping they would shut up. Crying didn't always stop them unfortunately. I thought we were going to die a couple times because it happened during car rides and my mom started speeding and driving recklessly. Many times I had the urge to run out of the house. I also wanted them to divorce. So bravo if you can somehow manage "healthy arguments" in front of your kids. If you know you cannot control your temper, please argue privately! Watching my parents made me become the complete opposite of them. I am calm and much more mindful so I guess I should thank my parents for their toxic arguments.
Disagreements yes. Arguing no.
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believe me: I'm not defending Kim K. but it's hard to have segments about cultural appropriation when Adrienne flirts with that line all the time. Case in point: her braids .
Mom can't go on with tradions Bye Ms and God Bless you Mam🤔😃
Don’t argue in front of kids
Not in my family! Lol. You will hear every curse word. Anger. Pissy behavior. Hostility. Etc. So, if your family can't do it the "adult way" by talking it out and not getting really belligerent with each other, sure...
I don't think arguing is healthy at all too have a disagreement you do not have to argue about it .
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Loni 🥰 I love you more this season.
Garcelle and this red 😍
Loni's weird comparison.🙄 Anyway... There's a difference between a fight and an argument. You fight out of anger. You argue out of disagreement. It's rather poor to not set an example of how to argue in front of your children and then expect them to go out in the world and have proper communication skills with strangers with whom they might disagree.
Never mind awe dat the one in red is what I'm talking about whatta nice looking one she is
You can have that mean gore if you want to want harm me none ok Mom!😡😨😁😤
But again how cares you are Mom
Wants the problem you scared I may see well wrong Lady I have to complize what I see and then throw it way what's seen only call respect for😡
So what It's a hear say with ftamilys not a resent to come on now Hipp with a talk about ok 😱😎😥🙄😫
please A get rid of those tacky braids! your too beautiful
oookkkaaaaaayyyy adrian. stop repeating yourself.... its annoying asf
My parents were too busy arguing with me🥲