Feel how your body feels when you're around this person. Your body knows the truth. It's your mind that makes stupid excuses for another person's behaviour. Your body knows EVERY time.
McFraneth, so true. We need to pay attention to our body intuition. If something feels off and weird, even though many times we can't point out why we have those uneasy feelings, pay close attention to those intuitions as they are always trying to warn us about something. I know this from so many personal experiences.
Exactly, stay away from negativity. I keep people at arms length until they prove they have good intentions. You are far ahead when you don't befriend these women, excellent observation.
Not true. Some girls just don't care or can't find something they like to compliment right away. Would you rather a fake compliment? Too many appreciate fake love more than the real.
Tish M And if they do it's like....How often does an eclipse happen?? I know an individual who like nearly EVERY DAY is on the phone....telling me "How allllll the men just love her" LOL, I just listen. Because I don't feel it necessary to talk about every time a man compliments me, does it all the time and ladies I DON'T even think she knows I realize it (smh) she just rambles on and on about HERSELF and in my mind, I ask myself, "Why does she always tell me this?" I don't give an exchange of conversation like that, because honestly deep down I think that's what she wants, like she WANTS to be in some type of competition..... But I don't fulfill that satisfaction I see that she wants, just weird
The dirty looks etc this is why I don’t associate with anyone really I have some people I can trust but people that show me this type of personality I don’t wanna be around it’s pure ugliness... The last time I tried to make friends with a female a day later she and her friends tried to jump me over I dunno what I’m like what the hell did I do??? Then it occurred to me all the times she used to criticize how I looked my eyebrows my hair this chick was jealous of me but yet I was still trying to be her friend... now I know how to recognize FAKE
Females are far meaner than men, for sure. Men will come right out and tell you if you look good, even if they arent trying to get with you...it just comes natural to them to be open like that. But women, they find it hard to be happy for other women around them that look good or succeed in life.
You’re pretty! I have trouble with women at every job I work at. My current job, damn near ever chick there hates me & I’m nothing but nice to everyone. I’m pretty & dress well (not ostentatious but nice & smart casual) and they hate me for it.
in my experience in life I've noticed that if you're a very attractive woman other women will hardly ever or never give you a compliment but if you're average, unattractive or not very attractive you will get hundreds of compliments daily by other women-sad but true!!!
@@themagicalfox6 yeah, I'm not a 10 but I can hold my own. Whenever I get dressed up, the looks women give me are so disgusting. It's like they're quiet around you and they don't know how to act. Even my sisters treat me like $hit-no matter what I do for them. They even pass rumors to have other people hate me too, trying to make me look foolish in the eyes of others. I do everything I can to make people feel more comfortable around me, but nothing works - the jealousy is so bad that I've actually cut off my family. I actually can't even handle most people anymore - unless I look absolutely atrocious, women do not want to be around me. Like I said I'm not a 10 but I can hold my own.Problem is that I find myself retracting from society more and more.
@Allingoodfun2000 same, I even noticed so called "friends" would make rude remarks about my appearance or try to humble me or something each time I put effort into my appearance
1. Remember bitches want to see you doing good but not better than them. 2. Back handed compliments 3. Buying the same shit u got 4. Never reveal plans to a suspect cause they'll try to beat you to it first 5. Wonder how the street committee know all your business.. -_- 6.asking where you got a shirt from but will NEVER say"that's cute" 7. Watch body language when telling a suspect about a recent setback. Bitches are excited to hear you done "fell off" 8. Remember just because you don't have a lot of money or you're not the ideal size a frienemy sees your potential before you do. They're intimidated of what that looks like.
Yes indeed! I walked away from my circle last year. I'm still cordial after some shit went down between me and one other. However, I don't move with them no more! We vacationed, supported one another...! I'm very intuitive and pick up on ppl energy! I called what was happening because I felt it! Sure enough I was right. I separated myself after I spoke my mind! It's was crazy! The one person I thought we were close, was the one that did the dirt! Tuh! See, I don't care about shining, cause Imma shine anyway! I'm definitely not gonna take nobody else's spotlight! I don't crave attention, I just get it!
Low key hating: Always undermine what you want to do. Always discourage you from doing certain things. Always want you to settle for less than what you deserve. You catch her cutting her eyes at you and she doesn't know you see it.
In my personal experience I've noticed women are obsessed with their friends being just like them. It's always been weird to me... The more you are okay with being you, the more likely women will hate on you. Some with even get together to do it... we call these the ops! 😂
MARIUXI RENEE CADENA SALAZAR SAFADI yes lovely! Because you know you are here to bring something special to the table. They don't feel this about themselves so they direct (project) how they feel themselves onto people like you! ❤️
Dont forget the bitch who has other bitch haters with her. She has been talking shit about you for a long time and making you look bad...and she knows where to find the haters. She will get all her friends in on it.
Story of my life, and newsflash ladies, it can be men too. I graduated a few weeks ago and I noticed one of my associates didn't like any of my grad pics, didn't say congrats, but when I post some comedy post, they quick to comment and engage. And my spirit is telling me, it's some real slick, lowkey shade. Like I feel this person letting me know they don't too much care for me deep down like they pretend. I just start peeping in general how some people are so slow to give you props but quick to talk to you about bs. And it's not a thing about being "cosigned", "accepted", or about social media likes, it's the message behind that. I pay attention to how people act with me in real life and online. In reality they not mad at me, they mad at God for manifesting these gifts through me.
Good video. Gotta watch out for those back-stabbers. They're envious. They wanna be you & since they can't, then they wanna destroy the confidence of the one they're envious of. BTW, you have beautiful facial bone-structure. You're VERY pretty.
OH MY GOSH!!! U are telling it so right. Jealous females always come to u and look u up and down trying to find something negative to say about u PERIOD. I've been through it damn near my whole life.
Females are jealous of each other full stop! They're very competitive against each other. All this is due to lack of self-love. Women, learn to accept and love yourself.
Serenity Serenity girl. I literally just had this happen to me tonight. It was my man’s bday dinner (joint dinner he had with his old college classmate. Love her!). Anyway, I come to the table and his SISTER literally looks at me up and down and my body couldn’t just feel it- the staring. I didn’t know it was a thing but after reading your comment and others, I guess it is.
CRP Wifey I had someone temp Krispy Kreme doughnuts in my face and they were bitter when I didn't eat any. I feel you, girl. Hang in there. When you're trimming up and looking good, that's the REAL prize.
this has been something that I know so well about. especially the types that secretly want to be like you or that try with all of their might to leech off of your shine. and the answer is so clear that they should focus on and love themselves but that's hard to do for some.
i stay away from women! me being a female myself cant be cool with females..i got a neighbor who watch my every move! and try to copy my style and just everything about me like ugh! im 30 and ppl still act like this! i cant ....i must be doing something right i guess..at a certain age the childish mess need to stop...
I'm a Sagittarius and I don't even get jealous when i see pretty women with confidence... If anything i will compliment if i see someone I find attractive looking
So true, they claim they keep leaving jobs because other women are jealous of them. Then you find out it was them the whole time. Lol. They start something they can't finish. Found out she had a very funky attitude toward other women. She puts on a very good show for those that haven't figured her out yet. Come off as very friendly at first. I've seen through the fakeness. You see the real them when you call them on their bullshit.
Amal Kasem that's not always true. Not ALWAYS. in my experience, the main women that always holler that everyone is hating on them are the ones that ended up hating on me! And I REFUSE to compete with other women. Too much work, time, and effort lol!
Great advice. I’m a Scorpio and we smell BS a mile away. I ride solo as well, especially since my one true loyal friend died. These females today do not know the true meaning of loyalty.
You always speak the truth I have 5 sister and they always look down to me I've always tried to deal with it until I finally looked in the mirror and realized I let their jealously control me.
I'm like you, Mrs. Cynthia--I keep to myself. My Grandaddy used to always say "You can't take everybody into your bosom" and I learned the hard way that he was right. Someone I considered a true friend turned out to be a jealous back stabber and hurt me badly. They've never said it to my face, but I know a lot of people think I'm "funny acting" or a bitch because I don't act like somebody is my best friend after knowing them for a week or 2 and I don't like to huddle up in groups and stuff. I try to be the kind of friend that I want to have. Unfortunately, I've not met many people who are what I want as friends. I'll never lower my standards just so I can be in a pair or group. I'd rather be solo. It gets lonely sometimes, but I'd rather be lonely than heartbroken.
Hey, i know your comment was years ago but I feel you. All my best friends except for my mama either made comments or just idk. in the end, you just have the FAM
Im with you girl. I've never had really close relationships ever since high school. My best friend ripped into me so hard and basically told me all the years we were friends she was low-key jealous and low-key hating on me. It was heartbreaking. I've had a problem bonding with women ever since
2 females that live next door went and colored their hair the exact same color as mine. THEY STILL WILL NEVER BE ME. Try as you might. And I bet when they arrived home to their boyfriends and as soon as he saw her..he probably laughed inside and thought about me.
I been playing catch-up on ur videos girl but thanks for posting this . I recently encountered something like this but the sad part about it was the "haters" are my family members. Really sad
Ooooo SIS !!!!!! you hit the nail on the head. One of the things that I experience is my so call friends with the mixed compliments like you get a new car, & your so called friend says "oh that's nice & congrats & in the same breath she says I USED to want a car like that. Girrrllll that's that Wack ass Undercover Jealousy ***ish
Yesss, i "had" a friend who used to that...for instance say you buy some new shoes and she'll be like i was going to get those, but i figured everybody might have them. Bxtch Plz...just say that you like them
You ladies are a lot younger than me, I got divorced about 2 years ago and of course started to go out again, not that I want to I like to Dance. I walk in the place and these women look at me like they hate me it made me feel bad. I still really don't how to deal with it-- sometime I just smile at them. Thanks for your video!! And the thumbs down are all the Envious ones simple.
I am a big woman and I have women hate on me because I don't hate myself. They hate because I have a man. They hate cause my kids are mixed. They hate because I am not begging for friends. They hate because I refuse to put myself down in front of them. But I refuse to disrespect myself like that and give them a platform to start with their foolishness and jealousy. It is so wild how people just hate. Little do they know that I have been through more hell than a little bit and everything I have and am is because of my Lord Jesus Christ. If they have a problem with me then they have a problem with Jesus because he is the one who blesses and keeps me and mine. I love your honesty and you are a truly beautiful woman. Thank you for your videos that help others.
I believe in Jesus too and I am SECURE in his love. ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS somebody finds something wrong with what I say today it was that I thought a Chihuahua was pregnant and said oh no, then she FAT. and omg awful moment today. I felt like the unpopular kid picked last for sports in high school like GOD DAMN making a mountain out of a molehill.
Good advice! I would say the woman was never a friend and she has self esteem issues. She is just hanging around to gather negative information and throw shade to make herself feel good.
I think she is totally correct. But, the "club" has its own rules according to men. Men have overwhelmingly said that they usually do not go for the prettiest girl in the club or the prettiest girl in a group of other girls. They don't go for the ugliest, but who they consider the easiest to "conquer". When I say "conquer", I don't men "sexual conquest". What I do mean is the one they feel they have the best chances with.
Hello Ccaine I'm just a new viewer and I like you already because you are real for real on the real! I feel the same way ! Thank you for being you, we as women needs to support each other with the truth!!!! Luv ya girl!
I would also say that you should watch "friends" that claim you're jealous of them... they just may be very insecure. I found an old friend to be this way... and God/the Universe showed me how she was always a jealous friend who painted me as a jealous person because she was projecting her trash on to me. She was friends with people who didn't like me and I could never understand why she was always cool with girls that did not like me, or why these girls that I did not know, did not like me for no reason. Time sure showed me who. what and how she really was.
When she said souther women I felt that. I moved from New York to the south and women here are so different. Low vibrational, envious and love to gossip.
I flat ironed my natural hair and it was almost at my butt (im 100 percent black) and when i went to work all the guys were complimenting me and all the girls (except my friend) ignored me abd stayed away from me
That happened to me also. I have naturally long hair, and a woman at work always thought my hair was a weave and I'm not mixed. We worked on an assembly line, so I kept it up in a french braid. So I wore it down one day. She could see it's my hair to the root. Her hair was short like a pecked chicken; but I never disrespected or be rude to her. When she saw my twin sister; her mouth dropped. I just think of myself as an average person. It's Amazing how someone's hair, can cause such bickering rhetoric. I wish her the best🧜♀️🧜♀️🤣😂
When you said you don't hang out with anyone and ride solo I felt sad but happy too because that's how I am. I hella miss having a good girl friend but man... it always ends up in flames and I just can't be bothered these days. Be blessed and glad I found your channel!
Girl you right the prettiest ones with money are the worst! I compliment all women but doesn't mean im gay. But your pretty too. You look good for 45 girl ,Im 41,..Im happy for you stay blessed..
Jealousy stems from insecurities and a lack of God consciousness...ur so right.i've had "friends" in better positions than me and still hated on me secretly and openly and now i literally have no friends cos envy and jealousy from people u actually like kills ur spirit..dont take it lightly if u have one of those bitches around u they're dangerous!!
+W.O.F.A W.O.F.A People ain't shit that's why I kicks it with myself. Forget "friends". Been there done that and will never deal with the hassle again. Simple Bitches keep up too much shit and Real Women are hard to come by.Especially when you're dealing with Black females. It's not even worth it.
My own Aunty always showed the EXACT same jealousy symptoms saying negative things to me and imagine she is 20 years older than me loool. One of things she said was '' You need to loose some weight because you've too much of a good figure and you'll never get a decent man with that big booty'' SMH. I'm so glad we don't speak to each other anymore
Me too! lol my aunt told me my boyfriend will leave because I was way too fat. We've been married for 5 years now :p amongst other really horrible things I talk to her anymore at all!
I have two sisters. One, criticizes me over the little things I didn't do in the kitchen, etc. Anything good I try to help with, she never says good job, or that's nice. I'm the youngest sister. I don't know if she's trying to be a mother figure or just jealousy. She's nice to her friends😏🙃
Amen. My own Sister is Jealous of me. I stay FAR Away from that Bitch. Just gonna give 1 example: When I first moved here from Tampa this Bitch is on Section 8 and was paying $28 a month in rent and charge me $300 for a room That didn't have a lock on it. Her and her kids STOLE everything from me that wasn't locked down
Patricia Petit OMG......I'm so sorry you had to go through that. That's horrible. That's a surefire sign that she's envious of you. You will receive your blessings. God will deal with her. Karma is real!!!!
Hey there I just watched a couple of your vids and really enjoyed them. Yo background music is really on point and your subject matter. Provides good info. Thanks , keep it up much love and life to you and yours
you are so on point,I'm usually the one giving another woman a compliment,I don't carry that type of dislike for anyone and especially when they are doing well.Thanks for another great video and keep up the good work sis
Love your channel - keeping it real. Hard to believe, but it happens, and it makes me sad. Sometimes you're surprised the one it's coming from. You be thinking highly of that person and they are jealous or doing and saying hateful things towards you. Someone that is jealous can't keep it in. It will come out in some kinda way. Also be careful of someone who talks negative about other people all the time. I found out the hard way, that as soon as you turn your back they are talking bad about you. Don't think they aren't. As Maya Angelou said "they already told you who they are, you should have believed them the first time" (paraphrase). And know the person that tells everyone's business, is also telling yours. My mama used to tell me - a dog that brings a bone, will carry one too. Everyone is not your friend. Just keep your ears and eyes open and pray for that person b/c they must have issues with themselves to be that way.
You are so right there are women that I come in contact with in passing on a regular and like where I reside and hate they go into other people's apartment to stalk and harass me everyday. She insecure and has low self esteem steady watching me comparing herself to me and trying to get tip on how to be a real QUEEN she is sorry!
I came across your video on my feed and you look just like a friend of mine who tells it like it is so I had to check it out!!!🙌🏽 great subject cause the envy be real and for no reason!
You broke everything down perfectly. I had a "best friend " of 23 years that did a lot of this kind of crap. Cut the friendship off, if you act worse than an enemy, you should not be friend's with females like that.
I had a best friend for 30 years she use to put me down all the time...i DROPPED HER AND MY LIFE IS SOO MUCH BETTER. SHE NOW LOST HER HOUSE THINGS ARE NOT GOOD LOOOL KARMA RIGHT
From my direct experience, females / ppl of color tend to be some of the worst haters. I'm 28, a woman of color and I can't tell you how many times I've had females / ppl of color talking mess about me. These were individuals that I didn't even know existed. I grew up with losers in my mother's family trying to downgrade me and claim I was never going to do anything with my life / I was a nobody. I live my life for me and really don't care to and have never cared to follow ppl / trends. I know that's what scares these fools. A lot of them that have spoken about me worked / work minimum wage jobs that they probably earn little to no money, have kids they don't want and look miserable dealing with them, etc. I am happy I am not a follower and live my life for myself.
Actually I'm going through the same thing right now. I'm 36 years old and I work in a corporate office. One of my coworkers has been taking settled jabs at me lately. I am a paygrade or two higher than her and I know when one of my co-workers got a position like mine she was hating on him and by the way she's not a sista, just staying. I started to keep my distance from her because I work with her and I didn't want any issues. Sometimes you have to separate yourself from others who are not there for you and who is negative.
Sista......so true, I got a cousin like that! jealous of me because we met my husband at the same time but I married him. I knew she wanted him but she would never admit it. We are older ladies now and she is still jealous and don't have a man.I like watching your videos----like the way you think!
Yes ma'am every single fucking friendship I have there's a problem but they can never state what it is but it starts out really good & I find I'm dealing with a insecure bitch in the end. I can't keep friends cuz they always feel incomplete/dull around me. I've even been told that by a couple ppl. They just try n use me n never there for even mental support. Its so sad but this is my life. They never wanna go out much & when we do they try to get me to dress down or not apply make up 💁 attitudes get bitter fake ass arguments are started & I'm always like wtf.. Pretty hurts.
Belle Amour Pretty sure does hurt Hun I experience that as well and you're very beautiful I read the first sentence and was like let me look at her pic yup that's it! lol
I know this comment is 11 months ago but just in case you answer: I too had this with some girls - them trying to get me to dress down or not apply makeup. One time I did dress down and not apply makeup and the other girl went over the top with it and *I* felt weird/off. Never again. I gotta ride solo.
truth!!!!message!!!I had never been told I put on too much gloss, prissy,prance around without a care..lol...and never understood pretty hurts until now..I see myself as regular but these recent excoworkers of mine must have thought I was flawless..lol..they hated hard....
Getting away from jealous people in your life is a stronger push for a more healthy lifestyle. That aura of negativity will no longer hover over your conscience
Tell it Auntie Cain!!! Its a female i used to hang with, we'd have girls night, go shopping, typical girl shit, tell me why one day we were on the phone, she asked what was doin so i told her gettin ready to head to the nail shop, that heffah replied "you always gettin yo nails done, aint dat much nail polish in the world" i just hung up the damn phone, right then and there i knew home girl had a issue with me. Before that incident i may give her outfit a compliment, she get all happy bout a compliment but when i ask oh where did you get that shirt from, or those shoes from, its always it was a gift, or i dont remember. I always give compliments, its an opinion when an outfit is cute or not, she swore up and down i'm hatin if she got her hair did and i didnt compliment it, i didnt compliment it because those $15 multicolor peacock ass quick weaves looked fucked up. I was never the rype to be envious because as i grew up i saw the females in my family uplift other females rather than tear them down. Anyway, im rambling, hope ol' girl wake up n smell the coffee soon!
You are soooo RIGHT!!! Thank u for this... I have some females that are "low key jealousy" of me! So stupid because is so elementary... But like u say I ride SOLO!👍🏼
Remember the Diggy Simmons song? Copy, copy, paste. Beware of family, friends, and co workers. SMH. I try to keep to my self. I have a handful of friends and we do girls night out or couple's game nights at the crib or go out. I don't have time for the drama. LOL. #haters. I don't like it when people copy. You have to watch about some people are obsessed or crazy. Ijs. No it's not that somebody looks up to you. You have watch these people. Lol. Don't nobody have time for a competition and them firing shots at you on the low. I'm glad you made this video. I have never been jealous of a person. I don't get it. LOL. Just be happy with yourself and stop worrying about what others have.
very well said...i can honestly put my hands on the bible and say the same...i have neva eva been jealous of anyone..why? if you want it..you can get it too..why hate and backstab.
PERFECTLY STATED!!!! Imitation is NOT the best form of flattery! I'm dealing with a SINGLE BLACK FEMALE coworker constantly stalking me , monitoring my every move AND, ANDDD get this...trying to follow me to the bathroom! She works REALLY hard at trying to be HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY but when I block her like LEGO at every attempt to follow me aroh d the office and when I'm talking to lots of different colleagues in the company around her, I see her mean streak. Very true to BEWARE OF THESE FREAKS! Remember Selena the Texano singer? That old harmless looking woman president of her fan club, obsessed with her, MURDERED Selena because she FINALLY woke up and listened to her family!
+Miss Tonya c007 Be careful. Not saying it will happen to you in your personal situation. But these types can actually hurt a person - physically or commit destruction of property.
Viv Will Hey girl I got an update for you! The girl that was doing all that crazy mess at my job turned around and acted a fool and got fired. I'm not rejoicing over something bad happening to her I'm just glad it's over because she was really stepping on my toes and acting super bizarre. 😕
Miss Tonya c007 OMG... I feel like I could have written this myself. I am going through this EXACT same thing with a co-worker!! I have been at my new job for over six months, and when first I met this woman (older than me, 50-ish), I instantly knew something was "off". This woman practically stared me down the entire time. I noticed she was always negative, depressive, and seemed to have a huge chip on her shoulder about life. Been at that job for many years, and is miserable. Before long, she started trying to get really clingy with me, asking a ton of personal questions (I didn't fall for that). Then the copying started: the way I dress, the way I speak, hair color, etc. When I noticed this, I cut her off as much as I could (I don't speak to her at all). Even then, she started following me to the restroom, to the break room, around the office, etc. She tells lies about me behind my back, but is "sweet" to my face. She used to butt into my conversations with other colleagues, but that's stopped (I ended up snapping on her). I started documenting her, with times and dates, and reported her to my boss. It was getting out of hand. The "following" has pretty much subsided, but she still copies... I do agree, these people aren't wrapped too tight, and need to be kept at a great distance (or cut off). I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. At least in your case, she no longer works with you. I'm just waiting on my own Single Black Female to vanish... LOL...
Yup! That's why I Ride solo.💯 I deal with a lot of females saying, "that doesn't look good on you" & than later they buy the shit I picked out. Like really?!? The fuck lol but really, why can't they be real. At least say "girl that looks good on you, maybe I'll get the same shirt"
Blessings to you, I love your spirit and your realness. Favor ain't fair, and no matter what, you will have haters. My grandma always said," thank God for those who love me, but thank God for those who hate me cause you make me pray". I think you are beautiful and blessed!!!
Hi, I just got hip to your channel as I am moving to houston . I really enjoy you videos you have inspired me so much your real and practical approach is great for people!!! Women Love your Haters. sometimes they just dont know anybetter. when u love it resounds through the universe. I luv u and ur channel!!!
Alot of girls seem fake at my job. They never invite me to go places with them even though we always talk. They dont compliment me even though I compliment them all the time. When I got my hair done some guys were talking to me (i was wearing a frontal that looks natural even though I have alot of hair under it) and one of the girls came over and interupted saying loudly "HEY GIRL DID YOU GLUE YOUR WIG DOWN OR SEW IT ON!" and other things but tge guys at my job are my friends and they compliment me alot
I needed to hear this again, thank you. Going through this same thing with someone I considered to be a close friend...when I reflect back it had been happening for years, but I refused to realize it.
If a female always give me a stank up and down look from the corner of their eyes every time I dress nice or looking nice or I get a weird, funny vibe from a female I keep my distance. That is the first sign they are insecure.
Preach CCain lol I have a friend who does the same thing, so now what i do with her is feed her with a long handle spoon!!! I still talk to her but I pick and choose when I deal with her.
what made me sad was I finally met up with my child hood best friend..I loved her she was my ace..her family said " mom that your friend form middle school, she is pretty"...she later told me. Then she said "you know you still look the same". I told her she did too ( although she had many scars from the life she lived), and told her I appreciate the compliment. But she later did not want to be around me. I was haertbroken. I felt bad or her that she felt this way..but what can you do?
Ironically, I made a video about women being jealous if each other. Women are competitive by nature. If they can't say anything positive, they don't need to be in your life.
Hey c Cain? I would just say to person inquiring. Best thing she can do for someone who just might be hating.... Stay far away from them... Because if your gut say they hating...that's actually what it is..... Love u c Cain keep on doing what u do best.... Will continue stay tuned in...
I can sign a hater quick especially if they throw negative shit at you nothing positive smh. that's why most of the time I'm by myself and I deal with certain people
why do women have to be so jealous of eachother? I have never understood that. I thought women would want to stick together because of all the sexism in this society. I love to see all women being successful and being their unique selves. I had a few "friends" like this and I didn't even realize until I stopped hanging out with them. Jealousy can make any woman ugly. so petty.I guess I feel like nobody should be jealous of me. thats why I choose my friends wisely now.
You share good news with her and she stares at her fb and barely acknowledges your existence or she says something negative. Bad news~ she's all ears. Shady and not a friend.
Feel how your body feels when you're around this person. Your body knows the truth. It's your mind that makes stupid excuses for another person's behaviour. Your body knows EVERY time.
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McFraneth, so true. We need to pay attention to our body intuition. If something feels off and weird, even though many times we can't point out why we have those uneasy feelings, pay close attention to those intuitions as they are always trying to warn us about something. I know this from so many personal experiences.
McFraneth agreed
Mesha Goddess it really is
I learned this in my 38yrs of living. You be SURPRISED who is JEALOUS of you.
I know your so right!!! It's so sad.
Same age, same conclusion! And yes, it's so sad! But also liberating ;)
SLatten09 i discovered it in my 22yrs of living
SLatten09 definitely
Lala324 exactly! it's the absolute worse..I've experienced it on a level I wouldn't wish on my worse enemy, no lie. very sad
If you leave women be and not befriend women your ahead of the game.
I believe it
+Lala324 truth!!!
@@5720jenny YES! I'm just saying they come with so much baggage! It doesn't even matter which women shit your own family will hate on you.
Exactly, stay away from negativity. I keep people at arms length until they prove they have good intentions. You are far ahead when you don't befriend these women, excellent observation.
Yep... jealous females never return a compliment or initiate one
so true.
I compliment girls all the time and they never return one only the confident girls compliment me
Not true. Some girls just don't care or can't find something they like to compliment right away. Would you rather a fake compliment? Too many appreciate fake love more than the real.
For real!!
Tish M And if they do it's like....How often does an eclipse happen?? I know an individual who like nearly EVERY DAY is on the phone....telling me "How allllll the men just love her" LOL, I just listen. Because I don't feel it necessary to talk about every time a man compliments me, does it all the time and ladies I DON'T even think she knows I realize it (smh) she just rambles on and on about HERSELF and in my mind, I ask myself, "Why does she always tell me this?" I don't give an exchange of conversation like that, because honestly deep down I think that's what she wants, like she WANTS to be in some type of competition..... But I don't fulfill that satisfaction I see that she wants, just weird
That's why I don't mess with women on a close level anymore.
Senait Ashenafi same for me, nothing but drama
l dont mess with them at all.
i always knew to stay away but sometimes you wish you had a sister or something
The dirty looks etc this is why I don’t associate with anyone really I have some people I can trust but people that show me this type of personality I don’t wanna be around it’s pure ugliness... The last time I tried to make friends with a female a day later she and her friends tried to jump me over I dunno what I’m like what the hell did I do??? Then it occurred to me all the times she used to criticize how I looked my eyebrows my hair this chick was jealous of me but yet I was still trying to be her friend... now I know how to recognize FAKE
Senait Ashenafi I feel you.
Females are far meaner than men, for sure. Men will come right out and tell you if you look good, even if they arent trying to get with you...it just comes natural to them to be open like that. But women, they find it hard to be happy for other women around them that look good or succeed in life.
Yes they will!!!
shannie medrano but dudes can b the opposite 2 each other. very catty lol
Women hate when I got a nice body. "how'd you lose the weight?" "oh you're anorexic?" "what exactly do you eat?" I eat EVERYTHING in sight.
Yeah I agree with you.
Yes, they can be. There are some cool ones but they're quite rare.
ive always had a problem with people not liking me for no reason !!
Lola Martinez you must be awesome!!!🙌🙌🙌
They see the good in you and it can't be understood!
Your beautiful you look happy and very smart bright there just miserable people
Same idk why
Lola Martinez a lot of jelly ppl out there over dumb stuff
You’re pretty! I have trouble with women at every job I work at. My current job, damn near ever chick there hates me & I’m nothing but nice to everyone. I’m pretty & dress well (not ostentatious but nice & smart casual) and they hate me for it.
in my experience in life I've noticed that if you're a very attractive woman other women will hardly ever or never give you a compliment but if you're average, unattractive or not very attractive you will get hundreds of compliments daily by other women-sad but true!!!
I've noticed this too omggg
Not that I think I'm a baddie or anything, but I notice when I look my best, nobody ever gives me compliments at work
@@themagicalfox6MANNN!!!! SAME!!!
@@themagicalfox6 yeah, I'm not a 10 but I can hold my own. Whenever I get dressed up, the looks women give me are so disgusting. It's like they're quiet around you and they don't know how to act. Even my sisters treat me like $hit-no matter what I do for them. They even pass rumors to have other people hate me too, trying to make me look foolish in the eyes of others. I do everything I can to make people feel more comfortable around me, but nothing works - the jealousy is so bad that I've actually cut off my family. I actually can't even handle most people anymore - unless I look absolutely atrocious, women do not want to be around me. Like I said I'm not a 10 but I can hold my own.Problem is that I find myself retracting from society more and more.
@Allingoodfun2000 same, I even noticed so called "friends" would make rude remarks about my appearance or try to humble me or something each time I put effort into my appearance
1. Remember bitches want to see you doing good but not better than them.
2. Back handed compliments
3. Buying the same shit u got
4. Never reveal plans to a suspect cause they'll try to beat you to it first
5. Wonder how the street committee know all your business.. -_-
6.asking where you got a shirt from but will NEVER say"that's cute"
7. Watch body language when telling a suspect about a recent setback. Bitches are excited to hear you done "fell off"
8. Remember just because you don't have a lot of money or you're not the ideal size a frienemy sees your potential before you do. They're intimidated of what that looks like.
Soooo true !!!!!!!
PREACH!!!
TELL IT!!!!!!!
+cam w. POW and you lil lady hit the nail on the head with your comment….
yasss !! U hit that on the nail. ..
I ride solo to I've lost alot of friends over the years
Latoya Nance That could be a good thing!
Yes indeed! I walked away from my circle last year. I'm still cordial after some shit went down between me and one other. However, I don't move with them no more! We vacationed, supported one another...! I'm very intuitive and pick up on ppl energy! I called what was happening because I felt it! Sure enough I was right. I separated myself after I spoke my mind! It's was crazy! The one person I thought we were close, was the one that did the dirt! Tuh! See, I don't care about shining, cause Imma shine anyway! I'm definitely not gonna take nobody else's spotlight! I don't crave attention, I just get it!
Latoya Nance yep I been riding solo too it’s the BEST!!!!
Same here girl long as I have Jesus as my friend that's all that matters 🙏
Girl im solo aswell and IM HAPPY
Low key hating:
Always undermine what you want to do.
Always discourage you from doing certain things.
Always want you to settle for less than what you deserve.
You catch her cutting her eyes at you and she doesn't know you see it.
In my personal experience I've noticed women are obsessed with their friends being just like them. It's always been weird to me... The more you are okay with being you, the more likely women will hate on you. Some with even get together to do it... we call these the ops! 😂
Yes. why do women got to make other women look like them? like, let me be UNIQUE.
Why
MARIUXI RENEE CADENA SALAZAR SAFADI yes lovely! Because you know you are here to bring something special to the table. They don't feel this about themselves so they direct (project) how they feel themselves onto people like you! ❤️
You are right. And if they're jealous of you because you're attractive, they'll try to copy YOUR unique looks.
This is why my sister's hate, cuz I'm nothing like them & it's a good thing.
Dont forget the bitch who has other bitch haters with her. She has been talking shit about you for a long time and making you look bad...and she knows where to find the haters. She will get all her friends in on it.
yes lord!!!
💯
your spirit will let u know
CASEY Denise Yes, that's true.
Okay so true
Yuppppp!
Sooo true! It’s this coworker I always felt like she was intimidated by me and BOYYYY was I right!
Sure will!
The worst pain is when it's the closest ones in your circle.
Story of my life, and newsflash ladies, it can be men too. I graduated a few weeks ago and I noticed one of my associates didn't like any of my grad pics, didn't say congrats, but when I post some comedy post, they quick to comment and engage. And my spirit is telling me, it's some real slick, lowkey shade. Like I feel this person letting me know they don't too much care for me deep down like they pretend. I just start peeping in general how some people are so slow to give you props but quick to talk to you about bs. And it's not a thing about being "cosigned", "accepted", or about social media likes, it's the message behind that. I pay attention to how people act with me in real life and online. In reality they not mad at me, they mad at God for manifesting these gifts through me.
a "friend" that can never compliment anything about you is not a friend.
Pretty Gorgeous girl you ain't NEVER lied
+TheKendroShow lol i know! Thats why its best to leave those people alone and just live your life.
Pretty Gorgeous amen, i surely did lol. i have no time for shady folks
That's right. 💯
Talking about posting a nice family picture on Facebook and the next day,haters post ten family pictures with the same background as your. SMH
Good video. Gotta watch out for those back-stabbers. They're envious. They wanna be you & since they can't, then they wanna destroy the confidence of the one they're envious of.
BTW, you have beautiful facial bone-structure. You're VERY pretty.
Vive La France
I had a fake jealous cousin dropped her like a bad habit
Right
OH MY GOSH!!! U are telling it so right. Jealous females always come to u and look u up and down trying to find something negative to say about u PERIOD. I've been through it damn near my whole life.
Josalyn Brown Me too. I got you.
SAME
Same here
Females are jealous of each other full stop! They're very competitive against each other. All this is due to lack of self-love. Women, learn to accept and love yourself.
The staring you up and down when you are engaging in conversation with them sizing u or whatever... I peep everything I thought I was just crazy.
And that's why I have no friends,lol.
Im a loner love god hes in my life and things are good
Anymore.
Also you can feel "hate vibes" especially when hags stare at you or my favorite "flick that wrist " when they walk by.
I always compliment other women. But never get it back. 😂
Well your bomb! You just got it back🫶
looking you up and down....always down grading you...
Serenity Serenity girl. I literally just had this happen to me tonight. It was my man’s bday dinner (joint dinner he had with his old college classmate. Love her!). Anyway, I come to the table and his SISTER literally looks at me up and down and my body couldn’t just feel it- the staring. I didn’t know it was a thing but after reading your comment and others, I guess it is.
Always putting you down. But at the end of the day they don't like themselves .
I had this happen in front of a group of women. They all knew that BITCH was jealous and insecure.
Kat Rob That's it. So sad, but true.
Exactly
Yeah I had a best friend like that she would often put me down and then be insecure about her body and put it on me
Yep that's what it really be they don't even love themselves
You lose weight, and wear a smaller size, and they tell you it's how it's made...But won't acknowledge your progress.
or will tell u that now u look too small
Exactly.
XoLiberianGirlxO and tell you you're losing weight then offer you cake an hour later...coworkers
CRP Wifey I had someone temp Krispy Kreme doughnuts in my face and they were bitter when I didn't eat any. I feel you, girl. Hang in there. When you're trimming up and looking good, that's the REAL prize.
HAPPEND TO ME
this has been something that I know so well about. especially the types that secretly want to be like you or that try with all of their might to leech off of your shine. and the answer is so clear that they should focus on and love themselves but that's hard to do for some.
i stay away from women! me being a female myself cant be cool with females..i got a neighbor who watch my every move! and try to copy my style and just everything about me like ugh! im 30 and ppl still act like this! i cant ....i must be doing something right i guess..at a certain age the childish mess need to stop...
Same. I prefer to not have friends.
I'm a Sagittarius and I don't even get jealous when i see pretty women with confidence... If anything i will compliment if i see someone I find attractive looking
I’m a Sagittarius and have no time for hating and down grading I’m in my own lane ❤!
@@lori5613I’m a sagg to I don’t fuck with haters !!
u gotta watch the women that CLAIM that EVERY CHICK is jealous of them too!
So true, they claim they keep leaving jobs because other women are jealous of them. Then you find out it was them the whole time. Lol. They start something they can't finish. Found out she had a very funky attitude toward other women. She puts on a very good show for those that haven't figured her out yet. Come off as very friendly at first. I've seen through the fakeness. You see the real them when you call them on their bullshit.
treeseful Oooh yeah. I have seen the light when it comes to those type of women! Lol
not true... women who feel that are envied.
Amal Kasem that's not always true. Not ALWAYS. in my experience, the main women that always holler that everyone is hating on them are the ones that ended up hating on me! And I REFUSE to compete with other women. Too much work, time, and effort lol!
I agreee...life is too short to hate.
Great advice. I’m a Scorpio and we smell BS a mile away. I ride solo as well, especially since my one true loyal friend died. These females today do not know the true meaning of loyalty.
You always speak the truth I have 5 sister and they always look down to me I've always tried to deal with it until I finally looked in the mirror and realized I let their jealously control me.
iammisspg pat Wow! Family?
yep going through that now
when they speak on your personal style,that they can’t obtain but it’s natural for you. And your comfortable because you know yourself.
I'm like you, Mrs. Cynthia--I keep to myself. My Grandaddy used to always say "You can't take everybody into your bosom" and I learned the hard way that he was right. Someone I considered a true friend turned out to be a jealous back stabber and hurt me badly. They've never said it to my face, but I know a lot of people think I'm "funny acting" or a bitch because I don't act like somebody is my best friend after knowing them for a week or 2 and I don't like to huddle up in groups and stuff. I try to be the kind of friend that I want to have. Unfortunately, I've not met many people who are what I want as friends. I'll never lower my standards just so I can be in a pair or group. I'd rather be solo. It gets lonely sometimes, but I'd rather be lonely than heartbroken.
Hey, i know your comment was years ago but I feel you. All my best friends except for my mama either made comments or just idk. in the end, you just have the FAM
Im with you girl. I've never had really close relationships ever since high school. My best friend ripped into me so hard and basically told me all the years we were friends she was low-key jealous and low-key hating on me. It was heartbreaking. I've had a problem bonding with women ever since
2 females that live next door went and colored their hair the exact same color as mine. THEY STILL WILL NEVER BE ME. Try as you might. And I bet when they arrived home to their boyfriends and as soon as he saw her..he probably laughed inside and thought about me.
I been playing catch-up on ur videos girl but thanks for posting this . I recently encountered something like this but the sad part about it was the "haters" are my family members. Really sad
Ooooo SIS !!!!!! you hit the nail on the head. One of the things that I experience is my so call friends with the mixed compliments like you get a new car, & your so called friend says "oh that's nice & congrats & in the same breath she says I USED to want a car like that. Girrrllll that's that Wack ass Undercover Jealousy ***ish
Yesss, i "had" a friend who used to that...for instance say you buy some new shoes and she'll be like i was going to get those, but i figured everybody might have them. Bxtch Plz...just say that you like them
Lmao...she USED to want one huh??
You ladies are a lot younger than me, I got divorced about 2 years ago and of course started to go out again, not that I want to I like to Dance. I walk in the place and these women look at me like they hate me it made me feel bad. I still really don't how to deal with it-- sometime I just smile at them. Thanks for your video!! And the thumbs down are all the Envious ones simple.
I am a big woman and I have women hate on me because I don't hate myself. They hate because I have a man. They hate cause my kids are mixed. They hate because I am not begging for friends. They hate because I refuse to put myself down in front of them. But I refuse to disrespect myself like that and give them a platform to start with their foolishness and jealousy. It is so wild how people just hate. Little do they know that I have been through more hell than a little bit and everything I have and am is because of my Lord Jesus Christ. If they have a problem with me then they have a problem with Jesus because he is the one who blesses and keeps me and mine. I love your honesty and you are a truly beautiful woman. Thank you for your videos that help others.
I believe in Jesus too and I am SECURE in his love. ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS somebody finds something wrong with what I say today it was that I thought a Chihuahua was pregnant and said oh no, then she FAT. and omg awful moment today. I felt like the unpopular kid picked last for sports in high school like GOD DAMN making a mountain out of a molehill.
Yapah Banath Yasharahla Yea that's a little suspect. Everyone is not pressed about mix children 🤔
lovey 💯
Amen tell it
Patrioticmizzmam puuhleaze lomfl @ mixed kids 😂🤣
Good advice! I would say the woman was never a friend and she has self esteem issues. She is just hanging around to gather negative information and throw shade to make herself feel good.
I think she is totally correct. But, the "club" has its own rules according to men. Men have overwhelmingly said that they usually do not go for the prettiest girl in the club or the prettiest girl in a group of other girls. They don't go for the ugliest, but who they consider the easiest to "conquer". When I say "conquer", I don't men "sexual conquest". What I do mean is the one they feel they have the best chances with.
Hello Ccaine I'm just a new viewer and I like you already because you are real for real on the real! I feel the same way ! Thank you for being you, we as women needs to support each other with the truth!!!! Luv ya girl!
I would also say that you should watch "friends" that claim you're jealous of them... they just may be very insecure. I found an old friend to be this way... and God/the Universe showed me how she was always a jealous friend who painted me as a jealous person because she was projecting her trash on to me. She was friends with people who didn't like me and I could never understand why she was always cool with girls that did not like me, or why these girls that I did not know, did not like me for no reason. Time sure showed me who. what and how she really was.
When she said souther women I felt that. I moved from New York to the south and women here are so different. Low vibrational, envious and love to gossip.
I flat ironed my natural hair and it was almost at my butt (im 100 percent black) and when i went to work all the guys were complimenting me and all the girls (except my friend) ignored me abd stayed away from me
TaKyra Allen that's that hair envy right there.
Lol wow
I’ma long haired natural as well & that’s how they act towards me.
Me too one girl said what inch did i buy in weave😅😅😅 haters
That happened to me also. I have naturally long hair, and a woman at work always thought my hair was a weave and I'm not mixed. We worked on an assembly line, so I kept it up in a french braid. So I wore it down one day. She could see it's my hair to the root. Her hair was short like a pecked chicken; but I never disrespected or be rude to her. When she saw my twin sister; her mouth dropped. I just think of myself as an average person. It's Amazing how someone's hair, can cause such bickering rhetoric. I wish her the best🧜♀️🧜♀️🤣😂
When you said you don't hang out with anyone and ride solo I felt sad but happy too because that's how I am. I hella miss having a good girl friend but man... it always ends up in flames and I just can't be bothered these days. Be blessed and glad I found your channel!
Girl you right the prettiest ones with money are the worst! I compliment all women but doesn't mean im gay. But your pretty too. You look good for 45 girl ,Im 41,..Im happy for you stay blessed..
They laugh at you and they don’t even know you.
Jealousy stems from insecurities and a lack of God consciousness...ur so right.i've had "friends" in better positions than me and still hated on me secretly and openly and now i literally have no friends cos envy and jealousy from people u actually like kills ur spirit..dont take it lightly if u have one of those bitches around u they're dangerous!!
+W.O.F.A W.O.F.A People ain't shit that's why I kicks it with myself. Forget "friends". Been there done that and will never deal with the hassle again. Simple Bitches keep up too much shit and Real Women are hard to come by.Especially when you're dealing with Black females. It's not even worth it.
your right I agree. I call unstable crazy people.
+AGONY SISTER not all black females. these type of females comes in different colors.
+AGONY SISTER Get off black women not all black women are the same...The blacker the berry the sweeter the juice
your comment was ignorant as hell
Soneta For same here..
YES I HATE WEN A FEMALE LOOK YOU UP AND DOWN BEFORE EVEN SAING HI.WHO AGREE WITH ME?
I do it back to them
I'm 23 years old and i read body languages, how they look at me sideways or stick their noes up at me than try to fake hug me
A jealous coworker I've noticed that she makes noises words her mouth loud enough for me to hear whenever I'm near her. Smh
My own Aunty always showed the EXACT same jealousy symptoms saying negative things to me and imagine she is 20 years older than me loool. One of things she said was '' You need to loose some weight because you've too much of a good figure and you'll never get a decent man with that big booty'' SMH. I'm so glad we don't speak to each other anymore
WOW yes family is the first ones that show envy!!!
Tell her that guys like girls with a big booty, not girls with stupid little bootys. +Patrice Ruddock
Me too! lol my aunt told me my boyfriend will leave because I was way too fat. We've been married for 5 years now :p amongst other really horrible things I talk to her anymore at all!
I have two sisters. One, criticizes me over the little things I didn't do in the kitchen, etc. Anything good I try to help with, she never says good job, or that's nice. I'm the youngest sister. I don't know if she's trying to be a mother figure or just jealousy. She's nice to her friends😏🙃
it's relatives 2
Erik Nobles Amen!!!!
I agree family too!
Amen. My own Sister is Jealous of me. I stay FAR Away from that Bitch. Just gonna give 1 example: When I first moved here from Tampa this Bitch is on Section 8 and was paying $28 a month in rent and charge me $300 for a room That didn't have a lock on it. Her and her kids STOLE everything from me that wasn't locked down
Patricia Petit OMG......I'm so sorry you had to go through that. That's horrible. That's a surefire sign that she's envious of you. You will receive your blessings. God will deal with her. Karma is real!!!!
+Lovely Lady Thank You Sweetie. I LOVE your Video by the way. Have a BLESSED DAY
Hey there I just watched a couple of your vids and really enjoyed them. Yo background music is really on point and your subject matter. Provides good info. Thanks , keep it up much love and life to you and yours
you are so on point,I'm usually the one giving another woman a compliment,I don't carry that type of dislike for anyone and especially when they are doing well.Thanks for another great video and keep up the good work sis
Love your channel - keeping it real. Hard to believe, but it happens, and it makes me sad. Sometimes you're surprised the one it's coming from. You be thinking highly of that person and they are jealous or doing and saying hateful things towards you. Someone that is jealous can't keep it in. It will come out in some kinda way. Also be careful of someone who talks negative about other people all the time. I found out the hard way, that as soon as you turn your back they are talking bad about you. Don't think they aren't. As Maya Angelou said "they already told you who they are, you should have believed them the first time" (paraphrase). And know the person that tells everyone's business, is also telling yours. My mama used to tell me - a dog that brings a bone, will carry one too. Everyone is not your friend. Just keep your ears and eyes open and pray for that person b/c they must have issues with themselves to be that way.
You are so right there are women that I come in contact with in passing on a regular and like where I reside and hate they go into other people's apartment to stalk and harass me everyday. She insecure and has low self esteem steady watching me comparing herself to me and trying to get tip on how to be a real QUEEN she is sorry!
I came across your video on my feed and you look just like a friend of mine who tells it like it is so I had to check it out!!!🙌🏽 great subject cause the envy be real and for no reason!
You broke everything down perfectly. I had a "best friend " of 23 years that did a lot of this kind of crap. Cut the friendship off, if you act worse than an enemy, you should not be friend's with females like that.
I had a best friend for 30 years she use to put me down all the time...i DROPPED HER AND MY LIFE IS SOO MUCH BETTER. SHE NOW LOST HER HOUSE THINGS ARE NOT GOOD LOOOL KARMA RIGHT
From my direct experience, females / ppl of color tend to be some of the worst haters. I'm 28, a woman of color and I can't tell you how many times I've had females / ppl of color talking mess about me. These were individuals that I didn't even know existed. I grew up with losers in my mother's family trying to downgrade me and claim I was never going to do anything with my life / I was a nobody. I live my life for me and really don't care to and have never cared to follow ppl / trends. I know that's what scares these fools. A lot of them that have spoken about me worked / work minimum wage jobs that they probably earn little to no money, have kids they don't want and look miserable dealing with them, etc. I am happy I am not a follower and live my life for myself.
I feel you.
ChastityChained Not sweetie. It's not just women of color
It's women period. Keep living. you'll see.
Great vid!Sometimes moms, sisters and close friends can hurt you worse than a stranger.Learned how to role solo and it keeps down confusion.
Actually I'm going through the same thing right now. I'm 36 years old and I work in a corporate office. One of my coworkers has been taking settled jabs at me lately. I am a paygrade or two higher than her and I know when one of my co-workers got a position like mine she was hating on him and by the way she's not a sista, just staying. I started to keep my distance from her because I work with her and I didn't want any issues. Sometimes you have to separate yourself from others who are not there for you and who is negative.
Sista......so true, I got a cousin like that! jealous of me because we met my husband at the same time but I married him. I knew she wanted him but she would never admit it. We are older ladies now and she is still jealous and don't have a man.I like watching your videos----like the way you think!
Yes ma'am every single fucking friendship I have there's a problem but they can never state what it is but it starts out really good & I find I'm dealing with a insecure bitch in the end. I can't keep friends cuz they always feel incomplete/dull around me. I've even been told that by a couple ppl. They just try n use me n never there for even mental support. Its so sad but this is my life. They never wanna go out much & when we do they try to get me to dress down or not apply make up 💁 attitudes get bitter fake ass arguments are started & I'm always like wtf.. Pretty hurts.
Belle Amour Pretty sure does hurt Hun I experience that as well and you're very beautiful I read the first sentence and was like let me look at her pic yup that's it! lol
Belle Amour you got a friend here
pretty hurts is damn straight. girls always trying to get me to dress "down" bitch I'm ELEGANT.
I know this comment is 11 months ago but just in case you answer: I too had this with some girls - them trying to get me to dress down or not apply makeup. One time I did dress down and not apply makeup and the other girl went over the top with it and *I* felt weird/off. Never again. I gotta ride solo.
truth!!!!message!!!I had never been told I put on too much gloss, prissy,prance around without a care..lol...and never understood pretty hurts until now..I see myself as regular but these recent excoworkers of mine must have thought I was flawless..lol..they hated hard....
Great video diva, this is why I have a small circle of friends.
I deleted of haters from my fb and blocked them today, felt good.
fake book not been on that for 10 years not missing at all
Getting away from jealous people in your life is a stronger push for a more healthy lifestyle. That aura of negativity will no longer hover over your conscience
Tell it Auntie Cain!!! Its a female i used to hang with, we'd have girls night, go shopping, typical girl shit, tell me why one day we were on the phone, she asked what was doin so i told her gettin ready to head to the nail shop, that heffah replied "you always gettin yo nails done, aint dat much nail polish in the world" i just hung up the damn phone, right then and there i knew home girl had a issue with me. Before that incident i may give her outfit a compliment, she get all happy bout a compliment but when i ask oh where did you get that shirt from, or those shoes from, its always it was a gift, or i dont remember. I always give compliments, its an opinion when an outfit is cute or not, she swore up and down i'm hatin if she got her hair did and i didnt compliment it, i didnt compliment it because those $15 multicolor peacock ass quick weaves looked fucked up. I was never the rype to be envious because as i grew up i saw the females in my family uplift other females rather than tear them down. Anyway, im rambling, hope ol' girl wake up n smell the coffee soon!
And not just friends either, you have to watch out for them phony a** family members and In-laws too
Facts.....family too . I just let a gaggle of em alone and my life has elevated ever since
You are soooo RIGHT!!!
Thank u for this...
I have some females that are "low key jealousy" of me! So stupid because is so elementary... But like u say I ride SOLO!👍🏼
I ride solo too.
Remember the Diggy Simmons song? Copy, copy, paste. Beware of family, friends, and co workers. SMH. I try to keep to my self. I have a handful of friends and we do girls night out or couple's game nights at the crib or go out. I don't have time for the drama. LOL. #haters. I don't like it when people copy. You have to watch about some people are obsessed or crazy. Ijs. No it's not that somebody looks up to you. You have watch these people. Lol. Don't nobody have time for a competition and them firing shots at you on the low. I'm glad you made this video. I have never been jealous of a person. I don't get it. LOL. Just be happy with yourself and stop worrying about what others have.
very well said...i can honestly put my hands on the bible and say the same...i have neva eva been jealous of anyone..why? if you want it..you can get it too..why hate and backstab.
PERFECTLY STATED!!!! Imitation is NOT the best form of flattery! I'm dealing with a SINGLE BLACK FEMALE coworker constantly stalking me , monitoring my every move AND, ANDDD get this...trying to follow me to the bathroom! She works REALLY hard at trying to be HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY but when I block her like LEGO at every attempt to follow me aroh d the office and when I'm talking to lots of different colleagues in the company around her, I see her mean streak. Very true to BEWARE OF THESE FREAKS! Remember Selena the Texano singer? That old harmless looking woman president of her fan club, obsessed with her, MURDERED Selena because she FINALLY woke up and listened to her family!
+Miss Tonya c007 Be careful. Not saying it will happen to you in your personal situation. But these types can actually hurt a person - physically or commit destruction of property.
Viv Will
Hey girl I got an update for you! The girl that was doing all that crazy mess at my job turned around and acted a fool and got fired. I'm not rejoicing over something bad happening to her I'm just glad it's over because she was really stepping on my toes and acting super bizarre. 😕
Miss Tonya c007 OMG... I feel like I could have written this myself. I am going through this EXACT same thing with a co-worker!! I have been at my new job for over six months, and when first I met this woman (older than me, 50-ish), I instantly knew something was "off". This woman practically stared me down the entire time. I noticed she was always negative, depressive, and seemed to have a huge chip on her shoulder about life. Been at that job for many years, and is miserable. Before long, she started trying to get really clingy with me, asking a ton of personal questions (I didn't fall for that). Then the copying started: the way I dress, the way I speak, hair color, etc. When I noticed this, I cut her off as much as I could (I don't speak to her at all). Even then, she started following me to the restroom, to the break room, around the office, etc. She tells lies about me behind my back, but is "sweet" to my face. She used to butt into my conversations with other colleagues, but that's stopped (I ended up snapping on her). I started documenting her, with times and dates, and reported her to my boss. It was getting out of hand. The "following" has pretty much subsided, but she still copies... I do agree, these people aren't wrapped too tight, and need to be kept at a great distance (or cut off). I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. At least in your case, she no longer works with you. I'm just waiting on my own Single Black Female to vanish... LOL...
Yup! That's why I Ride solo.💯 I deal with a lot of females saying, "that doesn't look good on you" & than later they buy the shit I picked out. Like really?!? The fuck lol but really, why can't they be real. At least say "girl that looks good on you, maybe I'll get the same shirt"
You have a beautiful marriage and relationship...some people can't stand that.
Blessings to you, I love your spirit and your realness. Favor ain't fair, and no matter what, you will have haters. My grandma always said," thank God for those who love me, but thank God for those who hate me cause you make me pray". I think you are beautiful and blessed!!!
♍Virgo too.. fuqq a, hater, their demons, I attract people but don't do the female buddy system, if I do she's elderly & wise
La Cross but hey lady most of the bitches that come for me are AARP members!
La Cross older ladies have wisdom but they can be the worst if you catch that right one.
La Cross Damn. I don't blame you. Lol!
I really enjoy watching your videos, they are straight on the point.
Hi, I just got hip to your channel as I am moving to houston . I really enjoy you videos you have inspired me so much your real and practical approach is great for people!!! Women Love your Haters. sometimes they just dont know anybetter. when u love it resounds through the universe. I luv u and ur channel!!!
The only person (s) that I trust is myself, feel a lot safer as well etc …..
but don't forget about the haters that's always giving you good compliments-they're the worst!!!
I have an Aunt that always has something negative to say to me. She never says anything positive. What she's jealous of? I will never know.
Your youth for a start!
Alot of girls seem fake at my job. They never invite me to go places with them even though we always talk. They dont compliment me even though I compliment them all the time. When I got my hair done some guys were talking to me (i was wearing a frontal that looks natural even though I have alot of hair under it) and one of the girls came over and interupted saying loudly "HEY GIRL DID YOU GLUE YOUR WIG DOWN OR SEW IT ON!" and other things but tge guys at my job are my friends and they compliment me alot
I was jealous in middle school ,i cant be an adult and really be jealous of someone . Its sick minded
I needed to hear this again, thank you. Going through this same thing with someone I considered to be a close friend...when I reflect back it had been happening for years, but I refused to realize it.
WOW----for years?!
If a female always give me a stank up and down look from the corner of their eyes every time I dress nice or looking nice or I get a weird, funny vibe from a female I keep my distance. That is the first sign they are insecure.
Preach CCain lol I have a friend who does the same thing, so now what i do with her is feed her with a long handle spoon!!! I still talk to her but I pick and choose when I deal with her.
what made me sad was I finally met up with my child hood best friend..I loved her she was my ace..her family said " mom that your friend form middle school, she is pretty"...she later told me. Then she said "you know you still look the same". I told her she did too ( although she had many scars from the life she lived), and told her I appreciate the compliment. But she later did not want to be around me. I was haertbroken. I felt bad or her that she felt this way..but what can you do?
This video was great...every thing you said is so true...some women can be mean & petty love your video's
Ironically, I made a video about women being jealous if each other. Women are competitive by nature. If they can't say anything positive, they don't need to be in your life.
they dont hap to be ud friend i have bicth next door to me dont knw me goin to the office Manger makeup lies on me in my face tellin these lies
I'm not competitive. I don't understand what the competition is for. It's very primitive to me. What God has for me is for me.
I have few girlfriends. I am not naive to the fact that female friendships are riddled with the threat of jealousy, envy and insecurity.
Hey c Cain? I would just say to person inquiring. Best thing she can do for someone who just might be hating.... Stay far away from them... Because if your gut say they hating...that's actually what it is..... Love u c Cain keep on doing what u do best.... Will continue stay tuned in...
love the videos and all your videos. continue to post it helps me with alot of things,,, so to you I say thank you!!!!!
Yes !! I'm so glad I found you !!! Answered all of my questions !!! Solo Dolo Baby !!!
I am trying to figure out how to handle my envious supervisor. it takes a lot for me not to tell her that she's an idiot.
I can sign a hater quick especially if they throw negative shit at you nothing positive smh. that's why most of the time I'm by myself and I deal with certain people
why do women have to be so jealous of eachother? I have never understood that. I thought women would want to stick together because of all the sexism in this society. I love to see all women being successful and being their unique selves. I had a few "friends" like this and I didn't even realize until I stopped hanging out with them. Jealousy can make any woman ugly. so petty.I guess I feel like nobody should be jealous of me. thats why I choose my friends wisely now.
You share good news with her and she stares at her fb and barely acknowledges your existence or she says something negative. Bad news~ she's all ears. Shady and not a friend.
Autumn Fawn and when something bad happens they’re always around, having a good time....
Thanks for the video. I'm armed with more knowledge and knowledge is power. So thank you for the power.