I’m so happy I found your channel! I’m about to be 23 and have never gone to get a well check because I was super scared and nervous. This gives me a lot of relief now that I know more, thank you, thank you! I 🙏🏼
Thank you Dr. Lincoln. I found you on TikTok and your videos inspired me to finally go to the gyno for the first time. I’m 23… I was so nervous and wanted to find someone like you. It’s actually funny because my doctor kind of looks like you and she’s very informative and made me feel so comfortable. My Pap smear didn’t hurt at all. It was so quick! 😇
Thank you! I have my first appointment tomorrow for period problems and I’m so nervous 😬 but, this video helped a lot! 😁 I’m a teenager and I’m bringing my mom with me for support! Thank you again for calming me down and telling true, educational information! It really helped! ☺️🥰
@@DrJenniferLincoln yes it did! I have gotten the medicine that I need and I’m getting blood drawn, which sucks, but it will help with a lot of medical problems I have. 😊
@@anointedbychrist it went well! They did NOT do a pelvic exam ( turns out I didn’t need it) and they prescribed a birth control pill that should help! I found out that it wasn’t right for me and switched! If you get prescribed birth control and it doesn’t work for you, you can switch at ANY time! I take YAZ, but there are probably like, 50 different types of birth control pills out there. How your visit will go SOLELY depends on WHAT you’re going there for. FOR ME, i had intense period problems and nothing would fix it. The Appointment was mainly a questionnaire about me, my problems, and what they would try to do to fix it.she ordered blood work and I later found out that the bulk of my problems was high insulin. ( insulin is the number 1 hormone that controls EVERYTHING about the body. Yes, EVERY HORMONE IS CONTROLLED BY INSULIN!) (sorry, vented there for a second 😅) I take a pill for it called metformin and it really helps! I don’t know for sure what will happen to you at YOUR appointment, but the best advice I can give is: be calm, be honest, and be open to solutions that might be a little scary or inconvenient. Relax! It’s not as scary as it seems! 😁😁 just make sure you go with someone you trust and yeah! You should be fine! 😁 I’m praying for you and i hope it goes well! 🙏
Thank you so much I am sending this to my daughters. I talk to them about anything and everything we tend to have great communication.....well sometimes! I am their mother.
You should do a video on the issue of doctors making fun of patients and judging them for their bodies, conditions, etc., and the kind of oath doctors have to swear by, the rights of the patients to report, etc., because it’s rare that we see stuff about it on the news or on TH-cam but it still happens and calls for a reason to be worried about seeing any kind of doctor.
I have to go for not getting my period yet even though I should have years ago I’m still a minor so I’m scared I’ve been having panic attacks about it because I hate talking about “that” and feel super uncomfortable and it’s even more difficult when my doctor has to inspect I’ve been terrified and I feel like I’ll break out in tears in the middle of the appointment so basically I’m just wondering if you judge or comfort really nervous or uncomfortable patients
Any prep ideas for those who have experienced sexual traumas? I work with teens who have extensive traumas and would want to give then some resources and support.
@@DrJenniferLincoln I wasn't sure which TT covered it? I thought I went through them all and one of the only ones I remember is the one that I watch when I need a good cry...
I messed up something down there really bad by using a menstrual cup and panicking by pulling it out without releasing the suction. I’ve had so much pain but I’m too nervous to ask my mom to schedule me with a gynecologist let alone I feel ashamed and embarrassed by what happened. I logically know that the gynecologist wouldn’t judge me but I have a fear of being judge for this but it’s ruining my life
Im so scared. I'm 16, I'm going to the gynecologist for painful periods. I've had painful irregular periods since I started which was 12. Im scared that I'll also get a male doctor. My primary care doctor referred me to the gynecologist so I have no idea if it's a girl or a male. I've also read horror stories from other people who have gone and I'm really scared
I’m so sorry! Lookup who you’re going to ahead of time so you know and know that you can choose to just talk first - and I hope my videos help too ❤️ you got this!
So whatever clinic or practice you are going to should have a website that lists the doctors that practice there. When you call to make an appointment, you can request a certain doctor. In addition, I have some trauma, so my first visit, I did call and request a woman. Male doctors can be wonderful, but you should request whatever is going to make you the most comfortable.
Hi I have a question I’m going for my first one in a week I thought I was going to alone but my mom is going with me I’m 16 and I really don’t want my mom in there I don’t want her thinking I’m up to no good I just don’t want anyone I know in there. How should I tell her
I’m so happy I found your channel! I’m about to be 23 and have never gone to get a well check because I was super scared and nervous. This gives me a lot of relief now that I know more, thank you, thank you! I 🙏🏼
Welcome!
I’m about to be 19 and I have never gone either
Same
I have one tomorrow after having some trauma I'm so scared but thank you for this video it helped
I’m happy I stumbled upon your video I’m 21 and have never gone because I was scared but thanks to this video I made an appointment
I'm so glad!!
Thank you Dr. Lincoln. I found you on TikTok and your videos inspired me to finally go to the gyno for the first time. I’m 23… I was so nervous and wanted to find someone like you. It’s actually funny because my doctor kind of looks like you and she’s very informative and made me feel so comfortable. My Pap smear didn’t hurt at all. It was so quick! 😇
Thank you! I have my first appointment tomorrow for period problems and I’m so nervous 😬 but, this video helped a lot! 😁 I’m a teenager and I’m bringing my mom with me for support! Thank you again for calming me down and telling true, educational information! It really helped! ☺️🥰
I am so glad this helped!!!
@@DrJenniferLincoln yes it did! I have gotten the medicine that I need and I’m getting blood drawn, which sucks, but it will help with a lot of medical problems I have. 😊
@@ijustlovemusicanimeandanim2799 how was the appointment tomorrow is my first appointment? What did they do
@@anointedbychrist it went well! They did NOT do a pelvic exam ( turns out I didn’t need it) and they prescribed a birth control pill that should help! I found out that it wasn’t right for me and switched! If you get prescribed birth control and it doesn’t work for you, you can switch at ANY time! I take YAZ, but there are probably like, 50 different types of birth control pills out there. How your visit will go SOLELY depends on WHAT you’re going there for. FOR ME, i had intense period problems and nothing would fix it. The Appointment was mainly a questionnaire about me, my problems, and what they would try to do to fix it.she ordered blood work and I later found out that the bulk of my problems was high insulin. ( insulin is the number 1 hormone that controls EVERYTHING about the body. Yes, EVERY HORMONE IS CONTROLLED BY INSULIN!) (sorry, vented there for a second 😅) I take a pill for it called metformin and it really helps! I don’t know for sure what will happen to you at YOUR appointment, but the best advice I can give is: be calm, be honest, and be open to solutions that might be a little scary or inconvenient. Relax! It’s not as scary as it seems! 😁😁 just make sure you go with someone you trust and yeah! You should be fine! 😁 I’m praying for you and i hope it goes well! 🙏
Thank you so much I am sending this to my daughters. I talk to them about anything and everything we tend to have great communication.....well sometimes!
I am their mother.
Music to my ears!!!!
You should do a video on the issue of doctors making fun of patients and judging them for their bodies, conditions, etc., and the kind of oath doctors have to swear by, the rights of the patients to report, etc., because it’s rare that we see stuff about it on the news or on TH-cam but it still happens and calls for a reason to be worried about seeing any kind of doctor.
Yayy you’re on TH-cam now 🥰
One more platform to try and figure out!!
Thanks for the video, I made my appointment today to go see a gynecologist for the first time
This is a great video. Very comforting. Thank you!
Love this video !!! You are so thoughtful and unbiased !
Thank you! I really appreciate your thoughtful comment!
This was comforting thank you
So helpful! Seriously thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with us :)
I’m a huge fan of you Jennifer. 😀
Thank you SO much!
@@DrJenniferLincoln your welcome 🙏
I love the videos you made on this topic, thank you!
I have my first one Tuesday
I have to go for not getting my period yet even though I should have years ago I’m still a minor so I’m scared I’ve been having panic attacks about it because I hate talking about “that” and feel super uncomfortable and it’s even more difficult when my doctor has to inspect I’ve been terrified and I feel like I’ll break out in tears in the middle of the appointment so basically I’m just wondering if you judge or comfort really nervous or uncomfortable patients
Not at all, we are here to help! Good luck!
Any prep ideas for those who have experienced sexual traumas? I work with teens who have extensive traumas and would want to give then some resources and support.
I hear you. I do have content covering it on my IG and TikToks, but I need to cover it here too!
@@DrJenniferLincoln I wasn't sure which TT covered it? I thought I went through them all and one of the only ones I remember is the one that I watch when I need a good cry...
How should I prepare for an IUD insertion?
Omg I have my first APPT with my GYNO in a month and I’m so scared
You'll do great! And hopefully these videos help!
How did it go??
@@emmavrijburg6676 great!!! She’s super nice and makes me comfortable. No judgment
@@ldk1348 awsome! I have my first one schedueled at the end of this month and im kinda nervous tbh
@@emmavrijburg6676 good luck! It will go great!!!
What would be the cost of your first visit without health insurance???
When do people usually start going to the gynecologist? Does someone who isn’t sexually actively or have any history still have to go?
I messed up something down there really bad by using a menstrual cup and panicking by pulling it out without releasing the suction. I’ve had so much pain but I’m too nervous to ask my mom to schedule me with a gynecologist let alone I feel ashamed and embarrassed by what happened. I logically know that the gynecologist wouldn’t judge me but I have a fear of being judge for this but it’s ruining my life
I promise you there is NOTHING to be ashamed of! Don't let that be the reason you don't get the care you deserve!
Thank you so much this helped.
i loooove this vid tysm!
Im so scared. I'm 16, I'm going to the gynecologist for painful periods. I've had painful irregular periods since I started which was 12. Im scared that I'll also get a male doctor. My primary care doctor referred me to the gynecologist so I have no idea if it's a girl or a male. I've also read horror stories from other people who have gone and I'm really scared
I’m so sorry! Lookup who you’re going to ahead of time so you know and know that you can choose to just talk first - and I hope my videos help too ❤️ you got this!
What if you have quite a bit of pain during the exams
Can a person braid hair or put it up?
Can you ask for a specific person like if I didn’t want a guy could I ask for a female doctor
So whatever clinic or practice you are going to should have a website that lists the doctors that practice there. When you call to make an appointment, you can request a certain doctor. In addition, I have some trauma, so my first visit, I did call and request a woman. Male doctors can be wonderful, but you should request whatever is going to make you the most comfortable.
You can definitely ask for who you want!
I got my period at 13 . I am 35 years old my period is on time but its brown for the four days and its light scared what the doctor might say
@sariahmohamed8113 brown blood is just older blood, and it's totally normal!
Hi I have a question I’m going for my first one in a week I thought I was going to alone but my mom is going with me I’m 16 and I really don’t want my mom in there I don’t want her thinking I’m up to no good I just don’t want anyone I know in there. How should I tell her
How did it go?
So I have too dad's I'm 14 and I was adopted I don't know my family history is that okay
I just don’t want them to check my weight😩
You can decline that!
@@DrJenniferLincoln update they said I had to and i did😔
@@marcelladuncan6138 pain I’m extremely underweight and feel so judged and horrible about myself when I get weighed but I have bigger concerns 😥
If you're a minor can you decline multiple doctors in the room
yes!
Can I use my body wash to clean my vulva?
They tend to have lots of fragrances in them so we usually say they are not the best choice. I've got good info on my IG and TikTok
Wait people wax there kitties um that seems like it would hurt like hurt hurt
Yes, some want no hair there . When someone is checking it out
Or bring their own gown
DO U KNOW MISSMANGOBUTT
I’m scared I’ll smell bad
I promise we do NOT care and want to help!
Doe's h mole get treated