PSYCHOTHERAPIST REACTS to Eminem- Love The Way You Lie (ft. Rihanna)

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  • @Mazin_YouTube
    @Mazin_YouTube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +574

    I remember when they went on tour together. Eminem and Rihanna were the best duo imo and if they ever start making music again, they’ll break records again. Great/Amazing reaction. W reaction therapy.

    • @Sully10x
      @Sully10x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jay-z Eminem >

    • @gianfogtr3204
      @gianfogtr3204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Dr. Dre + Em >

    • @Mazin_YouTube
      @Mazin_YouTube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gianfogtr3204 fair

    • @j7fk13
      @j7fk13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tbh I want more collabs with Jesse Reyez

    • @mikeblanchard7579
      @mikeblanchard7579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Em doesn't tour

  • @heatherboz
    @heatherboz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    Eminem writes everything he does and the hook was actually written by Skyler Grey

    • @michaelbischof9113
      @michaelbischof9113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Actually this is kind of a Cover. Cause the only thing the kept from Skylar's Original Version is the Chouros.

    • @cjstats1514
      @cjstats1514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@michaelbischof9113 The hook is the chorus lol. She wrote this hook/Chorus and Walk on Water hook/chorus.

    • @petrolhead0387
      @petrolhead0387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@michaelbischof9113 they kept some of the melody as well, it's not a cover, it's a song with excerpts.

    • @ITzDaveXD
      @ITzDaveXD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I genuinely love how well Em and Skylar work so well together and make masterpieces, easily some of his best music is made with Skylar!

    • @elliottcoe5972
      @elliottcoe5972 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fact

  • @maxhess3151
    @maxhess3151 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    The beat makes you feel the same violent euphoria he's describing. It's perfect.

    • @Prince_khan18
      @Prince_khan18 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes really bro I didn’t think of it

  • @caitlynwiese2485
    @caitlynwiese2485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    I will be honest. I've been in a toxic and abusive relationship before. And it describes it perfectly. You are the reason I am going to therapy. Watching you react to all these amazing beautiful songs made me realize a lot. Thank you for doing this and for what you do. Thank you

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Thank you so much Caitlyn! This is so nice of you to say and congrats on standing up for yourself and getting help😊👍

    • @BosseLadi12
      @BosseLadi12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly

    • @tchalla987
      @tchalla987 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well done 👏 ✔️

    • @YouCant27
      @YouCant27 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Caitlyn - man, I know exactly how hard it is to not only get out of an abusive relationship but also how not to fall back into another. Plus, dang it - for me it at times it was as if my PTSD kicked in and I was in a video watching myself with my kids while this butthead was trying to verbally etc knock me down. I may not be someone that one should try to lay hands on me or knock me down with nasty words because I will stand up for myself, my children and friends, and I stand tall and hard…until I am alone again in a room and dang, out come the jello legs!

    • @infectedpuddle1638
      @infectedpuddle1638 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Soooooo........Are you single?

  • @KS-mo6wb
    @KS-mo6wb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Em and Kim were horrible to each other. sounded mutually abusive. Your right about Rihanna she was abused. there's a part 2 to this from her perspective featuring Em, you should check it out. I believe they donated at least some of the proceeding to survivors of DV.

    • @theConquerersMama
      @theConquerersMama 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I believed they and the artists in the video did as well.

    • @CrazeeAdam
      @CrazeeAdam ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh yeah, if anyone ever got the perspective that Em was the only one who was abusive in that relationship, they're wrong. They were mutually toxic, but also clearly incredibly in love with each other, but also with their children too. It gets harder when you get kids obviously to leave someone like that.

    • @beab8738
      @beab8738 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Glad they were able to leave each other and raise their kids well.

  • @dephii6908
    @dephii6908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    This song was the anthem for my abusive marriage. Screaming, loving, fighting, burning, hitting, ect. I thought you had to be hurt hard to be loved hard. I'm moving past that now.

    • @Wokewitch666
      @Wokewitch666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great!!! So much love to u ♡♡

    • @nancymcvae3186
      @nancymcvae3186 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! You need to teach people how to love you because only you know what you need. If you don't get it that's on you. You are worth it to put in work but know when it doesn't work for you anymore. Time is all we really have.

  • @zayracasariego
    @zayracasariego 2 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    This song has a second part that you should listen to, the lyrics are great and powerful as well.
    You are so good giving us knowledge, I have learn things from you, thank you, love the reactions

  • @jenb9562
    @jenb9562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was in rehab, we had a talent night. And I got up in front of 60 other people and did Eminem's part of the song by the time I finished all those other girls were singing Rhianna's part.

  • @743757
    @743757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Back to Recovery days, great reaction! Checking "Not Afraid" next would be awesome!

  • @zacharytribou2728
    @zacharytribou2728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    When I was in 1st grade this song was at its peak, and for an English essay we had to write about our favorite song, and so I wrote and spoke Eminems part out loud to the class, and got in 0 trouble, I'll never forget the face my teacher had, her jaw was on the floor

    • @MessagesFromAurora
      @MessagesFromAurora 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      sweeeeet 😄😀👍🏻🌟

    • @aleksisuuronen5969
      @aleksisuuronen5969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We didn't have any essays on music (story esseys mostly) but like there was few years everyone would bring a song and everyone would rate it and then see who wins. More lax kinda day. I took Like Toy Soldiers and the teacher was a bit mad since there is some cursing in it (I was in third grade I think, like 8-9 years old) and I got last in the competition, not even by disqualifying but points. Funny thing was that there was this oldold mtv type of channel that only played music videos and after Like Toy Soldier started to play heavy on there, everyone came to say to me how they actually like the song a lot suddenly now. It was so funny that they just gave it 0 points and week later are jamming to it when the video came out and it's super popular 😂 Just a funny memory. Next year I on purpose just from spite brought a song that I knew would win and it did, there were couple pupils who got into their feelings yelling I don't even like the song as I would be cheating 😂 (I actually did like it but it wasn't something I would have brought to show my taste in music, I just wanted to make it clear how it's just a popularity contest of what song was on heavy exposure thru differend mediums back then available and from those songs pick one that boys and girls both would give points to). Fun times

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Such Cool story zach! Thanks for this😊👍

    • @jessemaurer211
      @jessemaurer211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey man, I don't normally watch reaction vids..because they don't do what you do and realy break down and analyze the song, but I like how you do that and I would love to see how you do this with lamb of god, promise you won't regret! They are hard core metal but nothing compares to the style..music..lyrics..depth..might help to read along with lyrics and helps understand as he sings but, DESENDING and more time to kill, is what I'd love to see you check out..and then when you have time, the whole ashes of the wake album is awesome!

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jessemaurer211 thanks jesse! Is there really a heavy metal band called “lamb of god”???😳😊

  • @bobbybrtn1659
    @bobbybrtn1659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    In my humble opinion....no matter how much praise this song gets, it's still underrated

  • @Sunny-jz3dy
    @Sunny-jz3dy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Rhianna was a victim of an abusive relationship and Eminem...well..we know he had his issues as well. Eminem writes his own songs...he won't use industry ghostwriters! He wrote the lyrics and Rhianna said "He wrote them so accurately"!!! The way he described it was just so..realistic! I know Eminem never saw or grew up with an example of a healthy relationship! I dont know much about Rhianna's life...other than ...thankfully she did get out of her bad relationship! With Eminem a lot of the abuse was him clapping back at her with verbal abuse through his lyrics! They did have a few times when things got out of control....sadly. Abuse comes in many forms...

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amazing!!’👍

    • @GizmoGremlinDog
      @GizmoGremlinDog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Rihanna said she felt she had to get out for all the little girls seeing what happened, they cant think that it's ok or normal. Which is sooo relatable, i got out because i saw the statistics on children witnessing abuse going on to be abusers or be abused. Sometimes you need to think of others and not how you feel about that person. Its alot easier to acknowledge it's not healthy for those you care about rather than yourself. PS, Love the way you lie Part 2 for Rihanna's part

    • @Sunny-jz3dy
      @Sunny-jz3dy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GizmoGremlinDog Good for you! Its not easy walking away from that! I hope your life is in a better place! That stuff follows you around for a while.....sometimes its hard not to repeat it!

    • @Redneckwoman38
      @Redneckwoman38 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial check out Moth by Hell yeah.

    • @bruhinthebruhwiththebruh1370
      @bruhinthebruhwiththebruh1370 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chris brown pro gamer

  • @leahsunbury9639
    @leahsunbury9639 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This song came out not long after I left my husband of 15 years. He was an alcoholic, drug addict, and very abusive and manipulative. He told me he was bi-polar, but later he was diagnosed as schizophrenic, then with borderline personality disorder. I finally left and ended up broke and homeless with my three kids. It was the best choice I ever made. I've been on my own since then. I just didn't trust I could make the right choice in a new partner and I didn't want my kids to suffer again for my mistakes. No regrets. Only a life of happiness, free from abuse and pain.
    This song hit hard for me when it came out. Eminem is a genius. I've been a huge fan from day one.

  • @jeremiahkleimola3496
    @jeremiahkleimola3496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    This is probably the best song you reacted to. I loved your break down and this video actually helped me see em is aware or awake. Thank you. I've been in that world and I needed to hear your take on it. PEACE

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks so no much Jeremiah 😊👍

    • @ControversialChristian
      @ControversialChristian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial Gotta agree with Jeremiah Kleimola on this. Of all the reactions you have done, and I have seen so many, this was so good, I believe your best. I grew up up in foster care around this but have escaped it in my adult life. We do not allow behavior like this at home and ended up evicting my daughter's best friend for slapping her. As an adult I don't abide such behavior though my other daughter was in a toxic relationship for years. When she finally left she went into another toxic relationship. This is a favorite song of hers so when I shared your reaction to it and tagged her in it. Keep up the great work this is one of the best things I found on TH-cam, by mistake? I prefer to think it was serendipity.

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ControversialChristian thank you Leslie! I see this in my office every day and want to stop the cycle, just like you have. Thanks for sharing your story and for supporting 😊👍

    • @-chenlanying5818
      @-chenlanying5818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial pleas react to Part II of this song, watch the lyric video

  • @calliewall6256
    @calliewall6256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    ugggh I just started crying watching this with you. This song came out right around when my abusive relationship ended, and I felt it to my core so much. I hate that I ever went through that but I am so grateful to have gotten out and that it taught me what a relationship should not be.
    I love your channel and you!
    please check out the band Badflower! So much emotion in their songs! In particular, I would love to see you react to the song Family! Thank you for making these videos!

  • @a_lil_bit_shady
    @a_lil_bit_shady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Eminem writes all the lyrics to his song and Skylar Grey wrote Rihanna's part
    Also both Eminem and Rihanna have been in toxic, abusive relationships themselves so they speak from experience, making the song even more powerful

  • @Protomanx36
    @Protomanx36 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Another great song by these two is "Monster".

    • @frvnkie58
      @frvnkie58 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      no lol

    • @hubert8662
      @hubert8662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@frvnkie58 y not

    • @Lucylucee_96
      @Lucylucee_96 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes🎶🎶👍 rihanna &Eminem 🎶🌸 I like this song,great duo ,music lyrics great 👍 reaction ,like it this reaction 🎶🌸🌸

  • @trevie25
    @trevie25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Great reaction! I needed this from you. I was in a very toxic relationship and I used the same excuse "When its good its GREAT but when its bad its truly awful" I'm so glad I can now a decade later, look back on that relationship and see it for what it was

  • @mattsena7708
    @mattsena7708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I've been in 2 toxic relationships, the first one was the girl taking advantage of me and cheating etc, the second one I was the one who cheated unfortunately and chose to drunk/high on pills instead of focus on her. She was severely mentally ill as well so the line "when a tornado meets a volcano" resonates a lot with me. His broken relationship songs are special

  • @mejiakid94
    @mejiakid94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This song is my favorite song for all the wrong reasons. My ex was the tornado and i was the volcano. We were equally toxic. For that this is also the most painful song in my library and the one i play the least. In the end she was ny best friend. We didnt work as a couple but as friends i wouldn't trade her for anything. We stayed friends after the break up until an unrelated fallout happened. I miss my best friend.

  • @lavamartin
    @lavamartin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Normal doesn't pick crazy. If it's toxic then you're both crazy" OUCH. Subscribed instantly after I heard this.

  • @Little_Devotchka
    @Little_Devotchka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    We "Stan" you Tom🙌😉😂 your reactions are raw and real and your input is so insightful! Thanks for yet another awesome reaction video... Also subscribed and notification bell is on!!

  • @stevetokeley6542
    @stevetokeley6542 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Not seen you before.Great reaction,very to the point.I think it was a masterstroke having Rhianna sing the soft,sweet counterpoint to Eminem's aggressive delivery.

  • @duckmaestro7768
    @duckmaestro7768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love toms energy on that best drop.😂 great reaction with some great words of wisdom.

  • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
    @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

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  • @kstwinchaster3466
    @kstwinchaster3466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Best Eminem song to react for Psychotherapy is "Not Afraid".
    Please make it happen quickly

  • @mama_nez
    @mama_nez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I find it so ironic that THIS was the Eminem song that Gen Z tried to cancel him over 🤦‍♀️

    • @notslimkindashady2448
      @notslimkindashady2448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Jess-737 the government tried to shut him down back in the day. They’ve been trying to cancel him from day one. Buuuut, my dude ‘just don’t give a f*ck’

    • @TAZERAT
      @TAZERAT 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Gen Z here man.
      I knew this song at heart by age 6. No clue what it meant, but I sang it as loud as I could. Good times

  • @quieteyes881
    @quieteyes881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My favorite Eminem song. Never been in an abusive romantic relationship but it still gets me everytime.

  • @KingSerenade
    @KingSerenade 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love your reaction to this. I'd recommend listening to the second part to this song. It's as beautiful vocally(maybe even better since it has a lot more singing) and the rap is great too. It's very interesting how they created this masterpiece.

  • @tysontwin278
    @tysontwin278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Now you need to do the sequel to this song. LOVE THE WAY YOU LIE PART 2. It's amazing!!!

  • @donaldharr5791
    @donaldharr5791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Tom great video!! Gotta do part 2 now

  • @sarahoeve946
    @sarahoeve946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes, I requested this one! Thank you!

  • @dianedarby442
    @dianedarby442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm in NY and this song came out after a news story of an abused woman who was killed by her abusive lover when he tied her to the bed and burned down the house. I appreciate your reactions and the therapy - thank you!

  • @Captain_Kirk116
    @Captain_Kirk116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love that window "pain" line, one of the most clever bars I've heard. I don't listen to all of Em's music cuz of the language but I used to listen to this song back in the day lol!

  • @mandys0088
    @mandys0088 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you jam out to it and how you break you down as well. I love watching your videos! It helps me a lot. Thanks for what you do!! I've been here, I lived this life. Your break down is helpful for sure.

  • @car-ontay8535
    @car-ontay8535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My son is in a relationship with a woman who is abusive. He’s lost everything because she’s got him put in jail because he was defending himself by holding down to stop her and the cops came and charged him. She’s got charges against herself from another relationship wear the guy has to have plastic surgery to put his face back together. I’m so worried better I see the pattern but I can’t get him to stop going back. It’s been a year and a half and he’s lost everything. He was going to college to be a physical therapist and now he can’t be one because of the charges.

  • @mandymarie858
    @mandymarie858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am literally bawling I've heard this song a zillion and one times actually one of my favorite....just never broke it down like This!!! Hits different when it's broken down like this 🥺😭
    Sadly sometimes it's just not that easy though...."just leave"
    Thanks for this!!! 💜

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for this take and for your honesty! I appreciate you😊😊

  • @kevinb4081
    @kevinb4081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the way you lie part 2 is on Rihannas album all her featuring Eminem at the end

  • @kellysparky9485
    @kellysparky9485 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I love this reaction. Just discovered you. I will be watching more. I think what you're doing is so amazing and incredibly important... relating and explaining through music is probably one of the best ways to help people heal or seek deeper help if needed. Music is universal and reaches so many. I love what you're doing.
    Music has helped me in indescribable ways throughout my life.

  • @petrolhead0387
    @petrolhead0387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for enabling your captions bro, being hard of hear has its challenges, so I really appreciate you letting me fully see your interpretation of this song.

  • @thetwistedspartan4602
    @thetwistedspartan4602 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing I love about you're reacts is how deeply emotionally invested you get. 100/10 can't wait for more :D

  • @LaineyBug2020
    @LaineyBug2020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song always reminds me of self harm. Sometimes the only way you can feel anymore is through the pain.

  • @nothingknowme
    @nothingknowme ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the way you educate your audience and then enjoy the music, your chilling vibe is the most realistic thing i've ever feel.

  • @leanwrld8480
    @leanwrld8480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Incredibly relatable💯 Eventually tho I learnt thru trial and error thru online relationships so now I know when something is not right and gone too far, and when to leave. W reaction! Now I understand the song a lot better💯🔥

  • @edithjohnson7865
    @edithjohnson7865 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this song and your reaction. I grow up in this environment, then marriage into the same situation. it's saddens me that a spent 20 years living like this thinking it was normal with my children watching it all. I've broke the cycle ended the marriage and I'm working on healing. I never know what peace felt like till the last year. your comments are spot on. glad there are people like you to help people in those situations.

  • @abdulwageedfransman3016
    @abdulwageedfransman3016 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this keep up the great work...for me ive been in toxic situations with people but the one thing ive learnt is to first know your weaknesses and strength and then the one you love...by doing that you can make sound rational choices because you can express it accordingly and with patience. Key element is communication

  • @tiffanie7139
    @tiffanie7139 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song still gives me chills. I love it. Great break down.

  • @byFusKy
    @byFusKy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You should react to part 2 aswell, it's also great.

    • @dwayne_
      @dwayne_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I never knew there was a part 2

    • @Ghost360MAFIA
      @Ghost360MAFIA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely should do part 2!

    • @Ghost360MAFIA
      @Ghost360MAFIA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dwayne… it’s a Rihanna song feat. Eminem so some people miss it but it’s a literal part 2.

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sounds great to me!! Didn’t know there was a part 2?😳😊👍

    • @Ghost360MAFIA
      @Ghost360MAFIA 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial th-cam.com/video/YXTuV8iCTxg/w-d-xo.html

  • @CallofFreaky
    @CallofFreaky 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s actually incredible how perfectly this song sums up abusive relationships. Rihanna obviously dealt with Chris brown but who knows the amount of other abusive relationships she’s been in, and Em as you probably know was in a bad relationship with Kim. He also expresses it perfectly with his words.
    The perfect duo to do this song. Not only from a performance perspective but the lyrics and the performance combined is incredible. My relationships have mostly been great, one cheated and ended bad but that is still the most amazing relationship I’ve had. We made up later, I had my first panic attack due to him cheating, but I forgave him. We broke up on good terms shortly after but our super manipulative mutual friend (she later turned my best friend against me and she r**** my boyfriend at the time) I made up with the friend she manipulated 2 years later and they had a lot to say about her, including explaining why they randomly blocked me and didn’t talk to me until they randomly started unblocking ppl 2 years later and they messaged me saying “i don’t know who you are or why i blocked you but I’m sorry” when I told them
    Who I was they instantly apologised and we made up . Either way the friends I loved to the point of it feeling like a relationship that I don’t talk to now almost all were very manipulative and only talked to me or even called me by my name (way too much btw) when I told them I wanted to cut contact due to them majorly hurting me indirectly just cuz of how much I loved them, and them randomly not messaging me and barely responded to me unless I said I was gonna cut them off or pointed out their manipulation. Hurt like like but I’m glad to be rid of him and have my other friend back. Another friend too he made me block cuz they were telling the truth about his experiences with him. Made all his friends block him.
    Probably obvious in retrospect but I loved him and everyone else still does so I didn’t see it

  • @wyuk9170
    @wyuk9170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great job - love your energy, love of Em and your spin on the lyrics etc. Keep up the great work. His fans love of because of his content, honesty and pure talent

  • @kiaragilbert5716
    @kiaragilbert5716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just found this channel and I love the Eminem videos. Genuinely really enjoy these videos and was pleasantly surprised from a click on a whim.

  • @kristahilton55
    @kristahilton55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I 1000% agree with your analysis and until this video came out I never realized that was my relationship!!! Same thing I said with the JD/AH trial. He brought light to issues with DV and showed a whole generation this is abuse! So many intercity & Midwest kids were raise with this and this is normal until our music starts to teach us different!!!

  • @djgilmore3608
    @djgilmore3608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good morning Tom,
    This is a great song. It was a major hit when it came out, because of it's universal relevance and lyrics. I still catch myself using the phrase, "I can't tell you what it really is, I can only tell you what it feels like; and right now, there's a steel knife in my windpipe." I have said this just referring to the hardest times in my life that leave you at a loss for words.
    Anyhow, this was done wonderfully and tragically. There is a Part II to this song that was released later as well. Highly highly recommend it!

  • @Mamamel81
    @Mamamel81 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so glad I found your channel!!

  • @kajusrimkus3766
    @kajusrimkus3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a good reaction ! Loving your channel !

  • @nargisjahan3302
    @nargisjahan3302 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The aggression of em's voice here...especially in the 3rd verse always gives me chills

  • @BackyardButcher
    @BackyardButcher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the upload! This is a good one for sure! You haven't even gotten to the tip of the iceberg with Eminem and that's okay because I love watching your journey unfold ❤️❤️

  • @patmaan1316
    @patmaan1316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:35 “oh my god, I gotta get myself ready here, this mic’s gotta go down cuz I’m gonna start swingin”
    😭😂 I love how much you enjoy us younger gens’ music so dang much
    You get so into the music it’s epicc 🎶

  • @optaylorinternational4544
    @optaylorinternational4544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This always brings me to tears.

  • @j7fk13
    @j7fk13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Coffin - Jesse Reyez and Eminem is another must

  • @mandamanda9851
    @mandamanda9851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great breakdown... I escaped an abusive relationship 7 years ago.. was in it for 10 years.. my life has drastically changed. I honestly owe it all to God. When I had nothing left I heard His voice down on my knees and desperate. I didn't know what I was going to do. I walked out the front door with no money and a suitcase, 5 months pregnant, and left everything behind. I was homeless for 7 months.. living in a shelter. I have now been very happily married for 3 years and have a successful career and a healthy household. Thank you Jesus for leading me!

  • @ricocalde
    @ricocalde ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice reaction. Love the breakdown. Great analysis!

  • @sophiagrace7008
    @sophiagrace7008 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a masterpiece. I don’t know anyone who has penned this type of relationship so well, before or after it.

  • @hugo-zt4sd
    @hugo-zt4sd ปีที่แล้ว

    this was great content, reaction with insight really enjoying this

  • @kristentitus4946
    @kristentitus4946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I apparently really needed to watch this reaction today. Very emotional right now! But I have a new perspective everytime I hear this song. It's not even one of my favorites..... but it does hit different each and every time. ❤ Thank you for your perspective. It has helped me today.

  • @CallofFreaky
    @CallofFreaky 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    14:56 “next time. There won’t be no next time. I apologise even tho I know it’s lies” felt that. Every abusive friend I’ve been attached to and every partner I’ve had they’ve either said that or gaslit me when I confronted them.

  • @Prince_khan18
    @Prince_khan18 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for the reaction video loved it well explained 💗🫂

  • @meganorourke6780
    @meganorourke6780 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Just leave, just end it" it sounds so easy, but let's not gloss over that leaving an abuser is extremely scary and DANGEROUS! The time shortly after leaving is when an abuser is most likely to become a murderer. To people who have never been with an abuser it seems so easy, it's really hard to get out, emotionally, financially, physically, all hard. Abusers are great at making sure you feel loved long enough to get you isolated, financially dependent on them, and trapped (ie married or baby) before they show their true self. The good times are fake, they're actors, they're pretending to be romantic and kind and all that, it's all a manipulation tactic. The nasty side is the real them.

  • @drittzz9245
    @drittzz9245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Now do part 2 it's a Rihanna song ft Em called love the way you lie part 2🙏

  • @JacobP81
    @JacobP81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    4:08 I love how into the song you are all dancing around lol. You are such a great music video reactor!

  • @barbdavis6838
    @barbdavis6838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Love this reaction. I was in an abusive marriage for 20yrs. He physically and mentally abused me. He turned the Love that I had for him and I hated him!! He was in major denial. He denied everything that he ever did to me. Everything started to become my fault, everything!!! So I left him, we divorced after a year and he got remarried right after we got divorced. Now it's been 20 years later and he still talks shit about me. I found a really great man and married him, we have been married for going on 16yrs now. It's been Awesome. 🧡💜💙🧡💜💙🧡

  • @cubewizard4366
    @cubewizard4366 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a young kid this was the song that made me fall in love with music. Emotion on another level.

  • @legendarybruh7942
    @legendarybruh7942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your energy and your advice

  • @JayCeeEmCee
    @JayCeeEmCee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love your reactions when you hit a vibe

  • @dgj91
    @dgj91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not gonna lie, been waiting for this reaction since I first subscribed a few months ago

  • @NubNublet
    @NubNublet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your videos are so amazing!!

  • @fiona9443
    @fiona9443 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My friend's aunt was murdered last Saturday, by her abusive husband. She was 41 years old, and had 8 kids; 4 of them are very young. He killed her, then killed himself afterwards.
    You're right. People need to leave a heavily toxic situation when they can. Because if they choose to stay or keeping going back, that could be a fatal choice.

  • @duggiefresh7322
    @duggiefresh7322 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos keep them coming! EMINEM IS THE GOAT

  • @Perceptionjake09
    @Perceptionjake09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re amazing! You gotta do yesterday by atmosphere or you never know by immortal technique ! Great stories and great to psycho analyze !

  • @scottishemmaa2457
    @scottishemmaa2457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi Tom!! FAB reaction!!!!!
    It’s been so amazing to see your channel grow - and to see how much more confident you are on front of the camera! I love it!!!!
    Honestly guys, nobody deserves it more than you and Nick - such a special message you’re spreading and your energy is infectious!!!
    Skylar gray (from I Need A Doctor) had already written the chorus, took it to Em and he wrote the rest of the track. Him and Rihanna then recorded it!
    Gen Z (or whatever it’s called!) had a campaign going last year to ‘cancel’ Em because of this track - they said it promoted and glamorised domestic violence and portrayed it as acceptable behaviour! What nonsense!!!!
    (And if they were going to cancel him for song lyrics he’d written 15 years ago - there are much worse ones than this lol!!!)
    Sending love guys! ❤️

    • @jessicakirby4196
      @jessicakirby4196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I was so mad when they wanted to cancel this song.... I was like but what about Kim...

    • @scottishemmaa2457
      @scottishemmaa2457 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jessicakirby4196 exactly Jessica!!! 💯

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much emma! I always learn a lot from you😊❤️

    • @Little_Devotchka
      @Little_Devotchka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's ridiculous that they'd want to cancel this song... if anything it actually highlights toxic relationships and none of the lyrics ever try to justify domestic or $exual violence. It just let people in and gave them front row seats to a horror show that is sadly a percentage of people's real world relationships. It showed the manipulation, toxicity, violence, co-dependency, gaslighting, and how the victim can develop a type of Stockholm Syndrome for their abusive partner.
      Yet again, awesome reaction! Love your channel and keep up the awesome content! 💚

  • @brunin_rc
    @brunin_rc ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm from Brazil, I'm a rapper and he inspired me so much. I've been through so many thing just like him, from the broken family, to abusive relationships , adoption, drugs ... damm...

  • @Erin-pt2yw
    @Erin-pt2yw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your reactions man!

  • @elizabethstevens4160
    @elizabethstevens4160 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This song got slated by a few groups for "glorifying domestic abuse", when in fact its raising awareness of why people stay in absive relationships, how it comes about, and shines a light on abuse in a way that makes it so obvious, that it may of even helped people recognise it in their own relationship and leave.

  • @tylerboviall6406
    @tylerboviall6406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the way you lie part 2 is absolutely amazing as well

  • @BigJT246
    @BigJT246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great reaction. Gotta react to part 2. Rihanna ft eminem love the way you lie part 2.

  • @Cassandra6
    @Cassandra6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another song in the same vein as this one is coffin by Jessie Reyez and Eminem

  • @mandim1772
    @mandim1772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always said this was my marriage theme song. Divorced after 12yrs together. My next relationship was everything I wanted, felt like I truly fell in love for 1st time. 4yrs into it, after a fight escalated to me being pinned down having the crap beat out of me. I called cops to press charges, I was NOT going to tolerate abuse again. Police arrested both of us per "county policy", children services took my kids away from me for a month because I "neglected to provide a safe home"
    None of the mental & physical abuse I've been through compares to what CPS put me through for years all because his ex wife took our arrest as a golden opportunity for revenge & called cps with a false accusation. CPS only cares about getting more funding, more families "in need of their services" = money. I'll never fully recover from the heartache cps caused. I'm traumatized for life.

  • @patrickdonnelly6738
    @patrickdonnelly6738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please do part 2 of this

  • @Danny-hz7yd
    @Danny-hz7yd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your best em reaction so far,great reaction doc
    React to kxng crooked-menace to sobriety and life of a bandana
    Royce da 5”9-cocaine and tabernacle
    Proof-searching for jerry Garcia

  • @CallofFreaky
    @CallofFreaky 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for teaching me about and reminding me of codependency. Helps me pull myself together when I get in a bad place and start missing my abusive friends and partners

  • @demarkuspayton8203
    @demarkuspayton8203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    React to Rihanna’s “LOVE ON THE BRAIN” !!!! It’s so good to analyze & related to this song by toxicity & there’s ALOT to unpack in the song, plus it’s a Beautiful VOCALLY SUNG RIHANNA song!!❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @frizzlethecat2084
    @frizzlethecat2084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I first heard this song, there was talk about how awful it is to sing about such a messed-up relationship and if that song shouldn't be banned from radio where children could hear it because it glamorizes violence.
    And all I could think was: "Who in the WORLD thinks this song glamorizes anything?" This song is SO descriptive about how a bad relationship works, what pattern it creates, how it makes people react totally against what they actually want to do. Eminem is, for me, the king of writing about such situations. He just has a grasp about how it happens and what happens later.
    Soooo many of his songs play with that theme. Whether they are about actual humans or about his relationship with drugs or the music-industry - he just gets it and says it in ways that make me, who has never had a bad relationship with anyone in my life, understand how it works! And why it's so hard to quit.
    So ... definitely check out the second part, "Love the way you lie Pt2", which is on Rhianna's album and Eminem is the feature. It give a bit more perspective about the female part in this relationship. Soooooo insanely good (I prefer it to the original)
    And there is "Coffin", with Jessie Reyes, as well as "Good Guy" with her as well. She's just as good in writing toxic or tragic love-stories, and she fits so well with Eminem's dark lyrics.

    • @frizzlethecat2084
      @frizzlethecat2084 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      PS: also, this is one of the best music-videos out there. It's so well-done, the two actors are doing such a good job and as I said above: which idiot would see this or listen to this and think "Oh, being violent is soooo romantic!"??

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great take! You know your stuff with these two! Thank you for this😊👍

  • @countryyankee6389
    @countryyankee6389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love your reactions

  • @meganbreazeale9569
    @meganbreazeale9569 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also a song from Jon doux he said he'll never do it again also very powerful song about abuse and the family dynamics . Love the way you lie shows how toxic codependency abuse can be from both partners. She says love the way you lie because she wants to believe that it won't happen again that it will get better. When she says stand there and watch me cry, it's her asking how can you stand there and just watch me cry, abusers don't comfort, if they don't see a problem making you cry there's a problem and that's toxic.

  • @FAAMA_
    @FAAMA_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love the way u react & dissect the video bro 👍

  • @jacerogers9903
    @jacerogers9903 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You said that 'you don't know who wrote this song' If this song was originally Marshall's song, im fairly certain that he writes every single song he sings.

  • @petej7136
    @petej7136 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great reaction! I like that you do so much hip-hop!
    I'm surprised you haven't done any songs by the girl group TLC, their prime was in the 90s but they're still the #1 selling girl group of all time. The songs "Dear Lie", "Damaged", and "Waterfalls", all touch on some mental health issues in ways you might like.

  • @Phuwin-Lover
    @Phuwin-Lover หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a woman i glad you talked about men abused my little brother was abused by his lover emotionally and financially and it was hard to see he was in need of love so much that he couldn't care less that he was treated badly

  • @OPoivariini
    @OPoivariini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really recommend reacting to "the way i am" by eminem. It's one of my favorites and it's a really deep song