PSYCHOTHERAPIST REACTS to Eminem- Stan

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  • @swagoroni77
    @swagoroni77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9548

    22 years later and that ending still gives me goose bumps

    • @gustav2581
      @gustav2581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Same

    • @eduardjirout8105
      @eduardjirout8105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Same

    • @kellypg
      @kellypg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      It's been 22 years‽‽‽‽ oh, man, I'm getting old.

    • @rando-tron1533
      @rando-tron1533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@kellypg i think he means 12

    • @kellypg
      @kellypg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@rando-tron1533 I wish, bro.

  • @andreagagne2377
    @andreagagne2377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9569

    Listening to this song is like watching a movie. He paints such a vivid picture. Top notch storytelling.

    • @d.iverse
      @d.iverse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      That's why Em is my hero!

    • @naldect9141
      @naldect9141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@d.iverse RELAX buddy

    • @dodoxd650
      @dodoxd650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@naldect9141 why so mad?

    • @naldect9141
      @naldect9141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      @@dodoxd650 Looks like you missed the joke.
      1. Look what the song is about.
      2. Look how this guy expresses himself about EM.
      why so r/WHOOOOSH?

    • @davidcrady490
      @davidcrady490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      For sure

  • @TheTwan85
    @TheTwan85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1884

    This song is so iconic that "to Stan" actually became synonymous with being an overly enthusiastic fan/stalker and is in the Merriam Webster dictionary as such.. I can see why people would request a psychotherapist to react to this! 😁

    • @simplyabundant4769
      @simplyabundant4769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Stan = stalker fan

    • @MyDantheman12345
      @MyDantheman12345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      @@simplyabundant4769 That's retroactive though. It was not a term until after this song.

    • @SHISH_STYLE
      @SHISH_STYLE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@simplyabundant4769 even if true it was only after this song, and the Oxford dictionary mentions eminem for the word's meaning

    • @MasterAlfredo
      @MasterAlfredo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dream stan cringe

    • @rachelBradyni
      @rachelBradyni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@MasterAlfredo Stay quiet child

  • @thebigdog9785
    @thebigdog9785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2021

    I saw an interview with Eminem somewhere where he said he was listening to the Dido song that is the hook and the lyrics about "staring at your picture in my wall" just made him think of an obsessive fan so he made the song as kind of a warning to people not to get too caught up in idolizing someone because you might not know the whole story and you could end up hurting yourself

    • @brinnd330
      @brinnd330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think maybe it was the interview he did w LL Cool J a couple years back

    • @skydefender1320
      @skydefender1320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also heard it was a small diss to canibus or sum

    • @luyandamakhanya5065
      @luyandamakhanya5065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@skydefender1320 nah canibus interpreted it as a diss.

    • @MechanicallyMusical
      @MechanicallyMusical 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thanks for this explanation I didn't know any of this information even with listening to Eminem 10+ years

    • @Baggerz182
      @Baggerz182 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      repent gg

  • @bluecomet1109
    @bluecomet1109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +603

    Watching a therapist react to Eminem on youtube....what a time to be alive!

    • @cookupcuse7152
      @cookupcuse7152 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      lol fr was thinking the same as I came across this

    • @Haikyuu...
      @Haikyuu... ปีที่แล้ว

      a rapist reacting to eminem

    • @TheGtagtr
      @TheGtagtr ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes i agree with Blue Comet

    • @mannyventura7293
      @mannyventura7293 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts

    • @look_see1355
      @look_see1355 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I snort laughed

  • @S1N1ST3R1
    @S1N1ST3R1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +462

    Every time, the way he says, "Damn," I get the chills. Every time.

    • @sonyagill454
      @sonyagill454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! That one word is so heavy!

    • @man1_luv
      @man1_luv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Every time?

    • @S1N1ST3R1
      @S1N1ST3R1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@man1_luv YES

    • @sylentnote
      @sylentnote ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I always get chills when after the car crashes into the water, you can hear those last few notes and they feel so heavy and depressing
      10:20

    • @always_emixx
      @always_emixx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Every. Time. ❤

  • @kevinalamo4250
    @kevinalamo4250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3570

    It was so incredible to see someone who appreciates music hear that song for the first time. It's almost like experiencing it anew myself. Awesome guy

    • @TheAfterHoursLV
      @TheAfterHoursLV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      How interesting, I felt the same way as you. I was 18 when it hit the airwaves…

    • @TheAfterHoursLV
      @TheAfterHoursLV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      *What I meant was…it’s been that long since I listened to it with new ears…and listening to him was like you said, experiencing it all over again for the first time.

    • @jessecollin4486
      @jessecollin4486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely!

    • @RustCole01
      @RustCole01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Especially where he's not watching the video and clearly doesn't know the context.
      Watching him figure out that it is from the perspective of a deranged fan was great.

    • @ib3rdrock
      @ib3rdrock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I just subbed cause this guy is a real one! No judging just appreciating music in all forms

  • @michaelweber4705
    @michaelweber4705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2143

    I love how I listened to this song a thousand times. And on the thousand and one time I finally got the “I’m almost at the bridge now” part of the song. Not only is Stan is at the physical bridge. But Eminem is also close to the bridge of the song.

    • @FireKingMadness
      @FireKingMadness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      eminem thinks in 4D

    • @Keep_Crying_Son
      @Keep_Crying_Son 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Lyrical genius 👌

    • @miyubeilschmidt5351
      @miyubeilschmidt5351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @Gaming Gladi its the part between the verse and the chorus i believe

    • @TheCheezMann
      @TheCheezMann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@miyubeilschmidt5351 The bridge is often part of the song near the end, where there's a noticeable shift, in mood, pitch, or tempo. It can come between a verse and a chorus, but it can also come before a verse or after a chorus. It is usually near the end of the song though.

    • @DeuceBooty
      @DeuceBooty 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TIL

  • @christen1025
    @christen1025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    He did an interview about this song and how he DOES get many letters like this because people really relate to his music. He said people don’t always understand that his music isn’t always meant to be taken literally. There are real “Stans” that send him stuff like the letters in this song. He wrote this as a message to the fans that if they are struggling, get help. He’s a busy guy and appreciates that his fans love him but he can’t fix them! The song came from a good place ❤️

    • @Utonian21
      @Utonian21 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm not really a fan of people writing lyrics about things they can't personally relate to (with obvious exceptions) but Eminem is still one of my all-time favorite artists, and I'm glad that this song addresses the issue while still being a great piece of storytelling at the same time

  • @DarcManGaiden
    @DarcManGaiden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    The song sampled was called "Thank You" by Dido. She even appears on the music video as Stan's girlfriend.

    • @ryanrenolds
      @ryanrenolds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      he has so many samples. Remind me for example. Or a few from the newer albums that I can't quite figure

    • @TheCheezMann
      @TheCheezMann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Ohhhh the gf was actually Dido herself?

    • @TryPuttingItInRice
      @TryPuttingItInRice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@ryanrenolds every rapper uses samples. It's a staple of hip hop at this point

    • @galloe
      @galloe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TryPuttingItInRice And don't forget he was Dre's protégé, who was heavy on the samples since his N.W.A. days as well as his Death Row and Aftermath productions.

    • @jhill7009
      @jhill7009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheCheezMann He also a live performance of this song with her in one of his concerts in the UK. He also performed this song with Elton John at the Grammys.

  • @toad4898
    @toad4898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1493

    So basically the song tells the story of a person named Stanley "Stan" Mitchell (voiced by Eminem) who claims to be Eminem's biggest fan. He writes Eminem several letters; over three verses, he becomes more obsessive, and when there is no reply he becomes angrier. He finally creates a voice recording of himself while driving his car on the highway, having consumed large quantities of depressants and alcohol; this verse includes a call-back to Eminem's "My Name Is" with the lyrics "I drank a fifth of vodka, you dare me to drive?" He reveals that his pregnant girlfriend is tied up in the trunk as he approaches a bridge, and realizes just before driving off it that he has no way to send the tape to Eminem.
    The fourth verse features Eminem as himself, writing back to Stan and attempting to reason with him. He warns Stan that he should get help, telling him about a story he heard on the news about a man who had driven his car off a bridge in a drunken stupor, killing himself and his pregnant girlfriend. Eminem then comes to the realization that this man was actually Stan. So yeah this songs backstory is crazy!!

    • @keldanhendricksen8273
      @keldanhendricksen8273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      stan is also a term for a super fan whose obsessed

    • @boman1074
      @boman1074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      @@keldanhendricksen8273 because of this song lmao it literally means they acting like Stan

    • @andriuscapas7707
      @andriuscapas7707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It ain't a true story tho right?

    • @rerockinmysock
      @rerockinmysock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @@andriuscapas7707 no not a true story Stan wasn't a real person its really just about the fans of his who would take everything he said literally

    • @archieburton2421
      @archieburton2421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @Toad ur paragraphs literally add nothing. Everything said u can know through listening to the lyrics lol

  • @joshuaeason3426
    @joshuaeason3426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +717

    I've been listening to this song for 22 years (since I was 9 years old) I still get choked up when I hear it. This is (in my opinion) the single greatest piece of fictional but believable storytelling in music ever written. It's so deep

    • @Staples_rl
      @Staples_rl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This is great. But story by NF is insane

    • @SuperSikarlo
      @SuperSikarlo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Staples_rl not really

    • @ryanlock5631
      @ryanlock5631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why did he write this as a story of something that can happen but didn’t

    • @flyingcolors96
      @flyingcolors96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@getwhacked33 Thank you! I've been looking for this comment.

    • @jabberman3000
      @jabberman3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@getwhacked33 by immortal technique? nah. Such an uncreative story.

  • @leothenrdkng
    @leothenrdkng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +652

    Also, Stan is a song about a crazy obsessed fan... The song shows how he gradually falls into madness and loses it. I think it shows the harms of crazy obsessed fans.

    • @PaRaDoXAgonY
      @PaRaDoXAgonY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not good to call someone obsessed

    • @DP23x
      @DP23x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@PaRaDoXAgonY are you okay?

    • @PaRaDoXAgonY
      @PaRaDoXAgonY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No

    • @jacobjstoffer
      @jacobjstoffer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@PaRaDoXAgonY Thats quite literally the point of the song. Treating stars like idols and obsessing over them causes issues like the song describes. It is not healthy for the fan and should not be romanticized and calling a fan like the fictional Stan obsessed is the best word, it is an unhealthy infatuation that causes the downfall of his life.

    • @jacobgreen0915
      @jacobgreen0915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jacobjstoffer no that's not the point of the song lol, it's a real story. literally every word in this song is true.

  • @jas_bataille
    @jas_bataille 2 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    My dad just turned 69 years old. He doesn't speak English very much, but he told me, that he reads Em's lyrics and study them. He told me that he's one of the greatest storytellers of all time.
    I been listening to his hit but never songs like those. Now I know why... I got tear to my eyes, man. This shit feels Shakesperian.

    • @lordofentropy
      @lordofentropy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      As far as I'm concerned Eminem is indeed modern day Shakespeare. His word choice, rhythm, and rhyming schemes are brilliant - his ability to use those tools to paint a picture, evoke emotion, and tell a story is almost unparalleled.

    • @dope3643
      @dope3643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nice age bro

    • @TheGtagtr
      @TheGtagtr ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you translate the song from English to Spanish so he could understand it

    • @doodledud9189
      @doodledud9189 ปีที่แล้ว

      click' noice

  • @camerongordon5914
    @camerongordon5914 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your eyes at "PS--We should be together too" are the PERFECT reaction to that lyric 👀🤣

  • @max77865
    @max77865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1662

    Another awesome but dark song by Eminem is “Darkness.” Would be interested to see a reaction to that too

    • @davidwortley6710
      @davidwortley6710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Yeah absolutely 👍

    • @brianwilliams464
      @brianwilliams464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      id love to see a reaction to it

    • @JimWebbJax
      @JimWebbJax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed.

    • @liammcalear3248
      @liammcalear3248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I feel like he should listen to when im gone and difficult first. difficult was never officially released by em tho. its about proofs death

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +284

      Sounds good Max, I’ll put it on the list and hopefully soon!!!!😊👍

  • @alexamz
    @alexamz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    Stan is a song from Eminem's most iconic album "The Marshall Mathers LP" . Years later he released "The Marshall Mathers LP 2" . In this album he has a song called "Bad Guy". It's a sequel to Stan. You should definitely check this out!

    • @captaindigi82
      @captaindigi82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Also the song Stanley makes reference to is "97 bonnie and clyde" which was years earlier.
      Funny enough the first song on the same album is called " Who knew" which is another clever song that talks about taking music too literally which was à huge thing in 2001

    • @cormoran_strike
      @cormoran_strike 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@captaindigi82 1st song on that MMLP was "Kill You" (excluding the Public Service Announcement), "Who Knew" was the fourth.

    • @ecarus1448
      @ecarus1448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Strike. Oh m..p.lpmmm mm. Ma cm mm mm m mmB.

    • @chiken9913
      @chiken9913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ecarus1448 are you ok?

    • @ecarus1448
      @ecarus1448 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chiken9913 honestly I just fell asleep on my phone while I was laying in bed

  • @tweetyb6617
    @tweetyb6617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    PhD student here majoring in psychology specializing in trauma and disaster relief, I enjoyed your reaction to this song. This song has to be one of the best storytelling songs ever written. New subscriber! Looking forward to watching more videos for your perspective. Great reaction!

    • @michaeldandrea9648
      @michaeldandrea9648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Id have to say Dance With the Devil by Immortal Technique is absolutely the best.

    • @MrEatsOlot
      @MrEatsOlot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@michaeldandrea9648 what a insane story they tell in that song, holy

    • @wil1080
      @wil1080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michaeldandrea9648 Clearly

  • @matthewescamilla123
    @matthewescamilla123 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    5:45 genuinely can't believe how perfectly Eminem captured the concept of parasocial relationships 15+ years before things like Twitch and vtubers came out.
    The fan feeling they have an intimate relationship with the star, when in reality the star is so caught up with everything that they barely know the person.
    Perfect Blue, a film by Satoshi Kon covers this idea in such a perfect rendition. Perfect Blue released in the late 1990's, but perfectly captures this idea. It's insane.

    • @roryk8693
      @roryk8693 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Perfect Blue is such genius, so many of Satoshi Kon's works were insanely predictive of real-world issues that were only barely beginning to emerge at the time.

  • @Swwa89
    @Swwa89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    The way he sets a scene and tells a story in a song is genius. Even down to the thunder in the background and car splashing into the water it really sets a scene in your head. Even if your not an eminem fan you have to respect this style of music and very few in the world can match or better it!!!!

  • @jc171177
    @jc171177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    oh wow! I just loved watching someone not necessarily into hip hop music, listen to and appreciate the art of storytelling. Watching you piece the story together and figure it out was a delight...and my tension and excitement, waiting for you to hear the last verse (the reply) was euphoric. Glad you enjoyed and got it. Worth watching the music video version to this too.

    • @donsensey
      @donsensey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly what I felt. Really cool

    • @strangewayfaringstranger
      @strangewayfaringstranger ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. I used to be huge into Em and this was one of the first songs I ever heard by him, so I already knew it well. It was interesting to hear his perspective.

  • @TheMinecraftian5211
    @TheMinecraftian5211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    The letter being wrriten is from one of his fans. It's not actually real but he wrote this because he wanted his fans to know not everything he says in his songs is real and should be repeated. He also found it weird that fans were idolizing him so much at first.

    • @BraydenYang
      @BraydenYang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it is real, so his brother, matthew, tried to kill eminem.

    • @TheMinecraftian5211
      @TheMinecraftian5211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@BraydenYang this is just entirely untrue. What I said is almost exactly what Eminem said himself

    • @got2strpk
      @got2strpk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BraydenYang it's fictional. Bruh.

  • @SSammy-1
    @SSammy-1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Eminem is a top tier lyricist and a story teller on top of it all.

  • @SilverFang2789
    @SilverFang2789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This was Eminem in his peak prime. His "Napoleon at Austerlitz" prime. It was his masterpiece. The Marshall Mathers LP was his best work and this song along with "The Real Slim Shady" catapulted Eminem into legendary rap status.

    • @youtubegavemynameawaycuntbags
      @youtubegavemynameawaycuntbags ปีที่แล้ว

      marshall mathers lp will never be topped by himself. its like he didnt try as hard after that album.

  • @JasonZakrajsek
    @JasonZakrajsek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    This song is a masterpiece. There’ve been dissertations written on it.

    • @sarahmcg621
      @sarahmcg621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Damn! I’m going to google scholar in 3, 2, 1 …….

    • @AshikaUmanga
      @AshikaUmanga ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sarahmcg621 found it ?

    • @incredibleguy4620
      @incredibleguy4620 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AshikaUmanga she's still searching 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @AshikaUmanga
      @AshikaUmanga ปีที่แล้ว

      @@incredibleguy4620 its a "she" hah 🤔🤔

    • @incredibleguy4620
      @incredibleguy4620 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AshikaUmanga well,idk...but I don't think it's a point you need to mention, well if you don't get the joke it's fine...just ignore my comment🤨

  • @kingzay4957
    @kingzay4957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    You're such a good reactor man. You didnt know any of the context and understood the whole song. Most reactors just ask for the answers in the comments lmao. And you were right this is older em

  • @TheMastaPlan
    @TheMastaPlan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    im so glad that you actually took the time and listened to something out of your genre...the way you analyzed it for the first time and the shock is what we all felt listening for the first time...i enjoyed this a lot...thank you for appreciating someone who many in your generation dont understand

  • @jayrichjlr
    @jayrichjlr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    its so pure to see him try to describe what a sample is.. a song within a song. as much as I've listened to it since its original release, I still come back to this video

  • @Cassandra6
    @Cassandra6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Eminem is an extremely talented lyricist! This song is where people got the word stan from when they refer to themselves or others as being “stans”of a certain artist or celebrity. The impact of this song is so real and it really hits you as well

  • @souls.7033
    @souls.7033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Eminem's Stan is an absolute masterpiece, I listen to ever music genre and music in every language, but boy, the way the story was told, anyone whether they enjoy rap or not would understand and make them feel in Stan's and Eminem's shoes. Just wonderful

  • @michaelbannan9972
    @michaelbannan9972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The chorus with the woman singing is a song called "Thank You" by Dido. Em said in an interview back in the day that he heard the song and loved it and just HAD to make a song using it. This was the result.

    • @rondutertre3367
      @rondutertre3367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And the first time he performed it live, he contacted Dido and had her sing the chorus on stage

    • @jimmy22334
      @jimmy22334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rondutertre3367 yes they’re very good friends

  • @clipzzy5492
    @clipzzy5492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    Juice WRLD actually has a song that references this song like driving off a bridge, the trunk, drunk driving, etc. Its called "Make Believe" and Juice has some wild lyrics on it as well, you should really check it out but of course when you have time. Just keep this song in mind when you react to it please :)

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Thanks for that info and thanks for watching!😊👍

    • @itsnotilyaas4877
      @itsnotilyaas4877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Make believe is definitely one of my favourite juice songs

    • @buckethatman6650
      @buckethatman6650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial this man is right make believe is a very hood song

    • @andrew_va1628
      @andrew_va1628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial please do react to this when you have time! such a good song

    • @loke3684
      @loke3684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      just listened to it and the only good part was the hook, the rest was uninspired and sounds like all his other songs

  • @stephenmier7277
    @stephenmier7277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is still my favorite reaction video of all time. It’s so cool to watch the story unfold, watching someone experience every twist for the first time.

  • @lovelybre4025
    @lovelybre4025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    this song was the reason i was a HUGE fan of em. im glad you listened to the music that makes his fans love him and broke it down to understand and not the songs that are booty popping playing in clubs. Alot of the older generations think thats all these rappers do in song when in reality their music can be moving and raw like this, which speaks to a lot of younger generations. you are very much getting a follow from me after watching thiis.

  • @jonathongeorge3093
    @jonathongeorge3093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Eminem had two very, very dark songs that are referenced in this song. The first one was "Kim" (his wife's name), wherein he tells a fictional story of him catching his wife cheating, going crazy, & killing both of them (slitting her throat in horrific audio detail). The follow-up "Bonnie & Clyde" is him talking to his young daughter while driving with the bodies in the trunk to dispose of them off of a bridge... he uses baby talk that is understood by the listener - the chorus is "just the two of us" & he refers to he & his daughter as "97 Bonnie & Clyde".
    That is the significance of Stan telling him that he's going to name his daughter "Bonnie", as well as him describing his girlfriend in the trunk as being similar to Slim Shady. Crazy stuff!

    • @Martin-ub9ci
      @Martin-ub9ci 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't do spoilers in the comments dude !

    • @jonathongeorge3093
      @jonathongeorge3093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Martin-ub9ci Not sure if I'd call it a spoiler... it's context for things that probably make absolutely no sense in this song without.

    • @gemmamcgregor4096
      @gemmamcgregor4096 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Two of his best .

  • @Ehvi
    @Ehvi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm late to this one, but one aspect of this song that makes it so amazing is the little details of the pencil scratching, and the windshield wipers on the car when he's recording the voice memo and driving; It just adds that extra bit of immersion

  • @RyanBoddy1
    @RyanBoddy1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I’ve heard this song a million times but watching you react to the twist at the end gave me chills 😂 another good song to react to would be ‘If I Had’

  • @King_Of_Games
    @King_Of_Games 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This was one of the songs that showed off his talent as an art. Good writers and good movies show a person something rather than tell them and EM showed us with words rather than tell us Some people are crazy

    • @RustCole01
      @RustCole01 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I always thought Kim was even better. In my entire life I have never heard anything like it. It's super dark but it's amazing.
      I remember watching an interview with Dr Dre where he talked about being unsure how to even react to the song the 1st time he heard it.

  • @lunargamer5261
    @lunargamer5261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    It is really hard to understate the self-awareness Em shows, here. He is simultaneously recognizing that people will use him as an example or as an idol, while professing that he doesn't want that. It is simultaneously taking responsibility and demonstrating how he can't realistically be responsible for what his fans do. It is brilliant writing to craft that message into such a distinct narrative.

  • @Crossword131
    @Crossword131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Its Dido. She didn't just let him sample it, I think she guest-ed on the track, too. Both are killer songs.
    Way to cover something that really speaks to the last 20 years of music and sнiт mental health standards and accessibility.
    Nice job.

    • @Crazael
      @Crazael 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The song is sometimes listed as "Featuring: Dido". Also, she's in the music video as Stan's girlfriend.

    • @SobrietyandSolace
      @SobrietyandSolace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love this track. I sang ‘Thank You’ a Capella at my school talent show when I was a teenager.

  • @jdub8325
    @jdub8325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    "Beautiful" by Eminem would be a great one to react to....from his 2009 album "Relapse". I believe he wrote it in 2008 while in rehab. Eminem overdosed in 2007 and if he had gotten to the hospital 2 hours later he would have died. His liver and kidneys were shutting down, he was on dialysis and he had to re-learn how to write and actually re-learn his motor functions.

    • @takeuchi5760
      @takeuchi5760 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      one of my favourite songs ever.

    • @wa-egg9666
      @wa-egg9666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      he actually wrote it in 2007 before his overdose, it was supposed to be on his scrapped final album "king mathers". feel free to google it, very interesting.

  • @weathercaster
    @weathercaster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just caught this vid.
    There is so much to unpack in this song. It is this style of realism and the way he puts words together that is a primary reason that Eminem was such a draw to so many, even those whom aren't hip hop fans.
    On one hand, there is the outlining of the extreme ends of what fans can be to famous people. The obsession and, as you note, the one way connection that can be unhealthy. Em is highlighting how he understands his music effects people. In the line "I just drank a fifth of vodka, dare me to drive?" it is a direct reference to one of his older songs. The cutting and the beating, all an acknowledgement of his understanding of how his music impacts people, or could.
    At the same time, with his final verse, not only is he being real he is also putting some perspective to how difficult it can be from the performers end. So many people that are fans and are struggling through the same issues that plagued Em back before he was famous growing up poor in a dysfunctional, abusive household.
    All of this is wrapped up in a neat package of rhyme and timing, encased in a well known (at the time) song from Dido called "Thank you", which in itself is an additional layer to his message. The Dido song is about sinking in depression with the only ray of positivity being one person in their life, which is a thematic play on how Stan feels about Em in the song initially before he digresses into obsessive insanity.
    This song is so real, so vivid. Eminem may have some raunchy meaningless songs out there, but you cannot deny that he does occasionally display an intelligence and understanding about life not found in most other hip hop artists.

  • @arturobaez8853
    @arturobaez8853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Love how well you managed to analyze and dissect the song! If you have some free time highly recommend watching the uncensored music video of this song, it's like putting two pieces of a puzzle together. Keep it up!

  • @3112dave3112
    @3112dave3112 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Eminem’s older stuff is genius. He was the modern day Shakespeare with his use of the English language. People actually use Stan as a word now to describe exactly what this song was about.
    Switching topics, what does one do when you when you tell your doctors about your mental issues and they continually just write scripts that do exactly shit to treat you? I mean that’s where I’m at. I’m worse now than when I started talking about my problems 3 years ago and they don’t seem to give a shit. How do I get help when I’ve asked and not gotten it. I feel like an idiot for pouring out my heart to someone and them basically saying “try this, it might work.” Like 10 different meds ago. Sometimes I feel like it might be better to say fuck it and just figure it out myself.

  • @yehldyehld
    @yehldyehld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks for actually doing a proper reaction video. Usually when I see reaction videos I think "oh here we go again, another person uploading a vid of themselves making a face every 30 seconds and not actually adding to the original content that they're reacting to", but nope you actually added something and I enjoyed seeing you react to each verse as the story gets told.

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you for saying this because I really try to see the mental health or dysfunction in each video!

  • @danielgriffin5160
    @danielgriffin5160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "When I'm gone" and "Beautiful" by Eminem both great songs

  • @MelodramaticOne
    @MelodramaticOne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Em just connected with so many of us kids in the 90's. We lived a life that he wrote about and we felt like we were being noticed when he go big. This song is a masterpiece and why they call some fans "Stans"... This song brings back so much emotion for me.

  • @jaynakamstra7870
    @jaynakamstra7870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    this song is still his best work, telling a story this way. ive been listening to him my whole life and this song still gives me goosebumps.

  • @Browndaddy0267
    @Browndaddy0267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Naturally, you have to go listen to Bad Guy now. It's a sequel to Stan. Lyricism and storytelling at its finest. Love the reactions!!

    • @ericgillihan9728
      @ericgillihan9728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Crazy song. Em goes off! 🔥🔥🔥

    • @DavidEmil_
      @DavidEmil_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This!!!!

    • @LadyUsakoB
      @LadyUsakoB 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yas :D needs to happen 100% 💞💓

    • @julien2231
      @julien2231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What??? I never knew there was a sequel.

    • @Browndaddy0267
      @Browndaddy0267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@julien2231 seriously? Yeah Bad Guy from the MMLP2 is a sequel to Stan. A masterpiece from Em!

  • @aa1bb2cc3dd4
    @aa1bb2cc3dd4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    at 8:22 - You probably don't know this Reaction Therapy, but that phrase "drank a 5th of vodka, dare me to drive" was from one of Eminem's old songs, 'My Name Is'. He was just quoting him to let him know Eminem influenced Stan to make these decisions. For Eminem to put lyrics from his song, that HE wrote, as leverage for someone else to commit violence is incredible artwork. It just takes so much talent to manifest.

  • @jacobgolec9269
    @jacobgolec9269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love how you can actually SEE the light bulb click when he realized the ending😂😂

  • @Allonsy_TZ
    @Allonsy_TZ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You should watch the music video for this song. It puts into context why "Slim" never received Stans letters and why it took so long

  • @jcubs247
    @jcubs247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is art. One of my favorite songs of all time no matter who you are you can identify with something here and it feels like you watched a movie by the end. Eminem’s speed is impressive but his lyrics are what make him special to me. Great video awesome to see someone get to experience this for the first time I am jealous!!

  • @therambunctiousrobloxian9323
    @therambunctiousrobloxian9323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This song just makes me shiver. Absolutely genius

  • @Jason-er1vf
    @Jason-er1vf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's good you heard this song when you did. This is where the pop culture term "Stan" came from. Basically meaning someone just like the character from the song. Im sure you'll hear it referenced in many different songs today.

  • @ImpulseTops
    @ImpulseTops 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your reaction shows the power in eminems writing. You got what he was trying to portray two decades later. That's art

  • @mikegregs1574
    @mikegregs1574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You grasped the context of the song from a few bars, your intuition is very impressive. Am also fond of the fact that you seem to genuinely empathize with the artist's perspective/ emotions. That is awesome. No brainer sub

  • @toni-ann5151
    @toni-ann5151 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stan is one of the most iconic songs of all time and I remember the first time I heard it on the radio in 2000. It captivated me so much I had to explore his discography and soon addicted to his music because of his self-reflection, insights and traumas he shares. I've been a fan of his for 24 years and find there's nobody who can lyrically paint a picture like Eminem! It was fun watching you experience it for the first ❤️
    You should try Cleaning Out My Closet!!!

  • @jacobgolec9269
    @jacobgolec9269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Also, you guys really gotta start checking out the music videos! It paints a much better picture and I feel that he would be able to elaborate more if he got the image. Still awesome vid guys keep it up!

  • @jackiejuarez7595
    @jackiejuarez7595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great Video ! I love when people hear Em and realize how talented he is . I think a lot of people mainly the newer generations don’t actually realize how much of a genius he is and how he shifts words to go with the flow and the beats 🔥 a lot of the lyrics go over peoples heads. His story is real and raw and honestly a motivation to keep pushing . He’s sush a talented artist and an amazing father 👏

  • @aaronm3416
    @aaronm3416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Watching you react and really understand the message gave me goosebumps vicariously hearing this for the first time. Great job with the open minded reaction

  • @bryanschneider4106
    @bryanschneider4106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think that the algorithm put you in my direction, Eminem is very lyrical in-depth line fur-lined genius probably my top three ever that’s ever brought music. And when you understand as a psychotherapist this particular song just shows how he Kens story play and portrayed multiple persons it’s awesome!

  • @everythingmcneilly1497
    @everythingmcneilly1497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This song still gives me goosebumps every time I hear it has a lot of meaning

  • @nyslukas
    @nyslukas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I think it's amazing how you got so much of the story just by listening to the lyrics. In my opinion, the song makes a lot more sense when you're watching the music video. Unfortunately those versions are censored, which take away a lot from the song itself.

    • @vantaie2350
      @vantaie2350 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This version is normally not censored th-cam.com/video/aqUpe6QeBTk/w-d-xo.html

  • @huntershaffer8771
    @huntershaffer8771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Hey Tom, I'm from upstate NY. I'm 24 years old and severely disabled&wheelchair bound. Your reaction videos are phenomenal, this channel will be huge!

    • @MaddoxMelton
      @MaddoxMelton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Always look at the good side of things man 💪🏻💪🏻 , take care🤟🏻

    • @leer2631
      @leer2631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      “always look on the bright side of life”🎵🎵
      -greetings from germany

  • @patrickcandler1330
    @patrickcandler1330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Such and emotional rollercoaster! This song is written very well and is more understood if you watch the music video. As most of Eminem's videos... His videos explain the music more than the words do alone.

  • @impek667
    @impek667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dido - Thank You, it's the song you heard before! And it's awesome

  • @kashcreighton2518
    @kashcreighton2518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The smile on your face when the beat dropped brought joy to me

  • @Sober1299
    @Sober1299 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dude I’m 32, and I remember when I first started hearing his music and shit and hearing this song, and as a kid I had NO IDEA that years and years later I’d hear all these peoples songs and would
    Get so much more
    Information from them dude, that shit is crazy dude

  • @RowdyYates12
    @RowdyYates12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This whole song was about a term he put on a song of unhealthy obsessions to this day 22 years later is referred to as being a Stan. They even recognize this as a real thing for anyone who experiences unhealthy obsessions with an artist in any genre. It's crazy how powerful the song has become.

  • @jordanmiron1995
    @jordanmiron1995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He’s a lyrical genius! Best lyricist that has ever did it

  • @user-yd7ug3jb4t
    @user-yd7ug3jb4t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Cool. Immediately within 3 minutes you have my sub. Headphones. Genuine remarks on the music. And most importantly, you rewind after you pause.
    Thank you for that.
    Looking forward to the rest of the video and future videos!
    Oh, and when you said "A song within a song". I believe they call it a "sample". I also forget what the sample is, but I'm sure you've figured that out by now.

  • @brianwestermann7861
    @brianwestermann7861 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I keep coming back to watch this whole reaction, it's so wholesome.

  • @ryancleland7179
    @ryancleland7179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This song still gives me literal chills

  • @Little_Devotchka
    @Little_Devotchka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Eminem is truly a wordsmith! He's a dictionary on legs! Also I'm a new subscriber to this channel and I love your reactions and breaking down of the lyrics that you give! Thanks so much for your quality content and for being so respectful and open-minded even to music and lyrics that can be quite jarring🙏🙌💜🌠

  • @wittynclever
    @wittynclever ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The music video is 100% needed with this song. So much more involved

  • @osamaexking
    @osamaexking 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love this guy. Rarely I would subscribe to a channel after watching just one video, but I loved his reaction to Eminem and I want to see more. PLEASE DO MORE EMINEM!!!

  • @_HolyHell_
    @_HolyHell_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You should consider watching the music videos and bringing up the lyrics on the side if needed! Or turning on captions. The videos clear up a lot and makes the meaning hit harder.

  • @jacerogers9903
    @jacerogers9903 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have said it before and I'm going to say it again, this song is a perfect example of how Marshall is the absolute very BEST lyricist because he can paint a perfectly good scene with his words! For THAT reason is why I have so much respect for Marshall because in all honesty, I don't even like the genre of rap. However, I AM in awe of Marshall because I can recognize the fact that he is history happening before our eyes (or ears in this case) probably this is what someone who watched Michelangelo as he was painting the Sistine Chapel's ceiling.

  • @StarfishGaming1
    @StarfishGaming1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If you want to react to more Eminem, I think Drug Ballad would be interesting, on surface level its a fun party song, but when you listen to the lyrics he’s really honest about his addiction.
    Also, if you want another Juice song, I recommend “Juice Wrld speaks 2” its not a proper song, but it’s a freestyle.

  • @clipzzy5492
    @clipzzy5492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When i first listened to "Stan" i had the same exact reaction to how it ends with Em realizing it was Stan who drove off the bridge.

  • @codyglodowski6957
    @codyglodowski6957 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is another one that you need to watch the actual video. Adds so much more context and answers a lot of the questions you stop to ask yourself when listening.

  • @kian1572
    @kian1572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Easily top 5 songs of all time imo, the way Eminem gets his message and story across in such a beautiful way is amazing.

  • @gustavoperez9479
    @gustavoperez9479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That final verse still gives me chills

  • @thegodofpez
    @thegodofpez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is my first time on this channel. I LOVE THIS GUY ALREADY! Instantly subbed. 🙏

  • @game.designer
    @game.designer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    First. Cool reaction
    Second: I envy you listening to this song for the first time. Trying to figure it out

  • @SparkItKidd
    @SparkItKidd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its crazy because after him recording on the tap, the chorus makes sooo much sense and hits different

  • @rleonekc07
    @rleonekc07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love watching you listen to this for the first time and appreciating it. I've adored this song since May of 2000. 22 years i've listened to this song.
    Also he did an interview talking about why he wrote this song. He talked about how he gets all these insane letters from people, nicknaming them "Stans" or "Super-fans". Not an actual story. Just inspired from all the insane letters he used to get

  • @jma9148
    @jma9148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the contrast between the increasingly aggressive letters and didos voice

  • @drellow4144
    @drellow4144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of the greatest songs ever made

  • @singingwolf3929
    @singingwolf3929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes, this is older Em. However, you'll notice that "Storyteller Em" tends to keep things a little slower. When compared to other styles of his own music.
    When I'm Gone, Stan, Walk on Water, Mockingbird, Toy Soldiers, Hailie's Song, I Need a Doctor, Say Goodbye to Hollywood, Lose Yourself, Cleaning out my Closet.
    Compared to,
    Godzilla, Rap God, Go to Sleep,
    ...crap, it probably says something about me that I know more of his "Story" songs than anything else. My point still stands though.

  • @AndyKraken
    @AndyKraken 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think two interesting songs would be The Way I Am and Lose Yourself, both by Eminem. Two very different tracks but both extremely good songs

  • @masonkeilholz6283
    @masonkeilholz6283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You should definetly start doing a lot more Eminem, he’s amazing and has tons of music which means you get to make more content

  • @chillersyxx19
    @chillersyxx19 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A therapist breaking down songs... This is the thing I needed that I never knew I needed.

  • @lewisfender318
    @lewisfender318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I loved this reaction and your perspective on this classic. Please react to Bad Guy by Eminem. It's the sequel to this song and an incredible way to wrap up this story

  • @SoLoActavis
    @SoLoActavis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    keep up the good work Tom, even having heard these songs before a relisten with your professional perspective is always interesting and entertaining. I recommend you listen to brakence's song "argyle". it's in a similar vein of Juice's works where it explores depression, anxiety, heartbreak and drug abuse but has a very unique sound to it. hope you and your family are well!

  • @applesauceJoe2332
    @applesauceJoe2332 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The song is to the people and fans that take his songs so seriously(he made crazy songs back then) and he want everyone to know that it was just him goofing off. So from his perspective the fans are Stan and they take it so literal

  • @JayTeeAyy
    @JayTeeAyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Another amazing storyteller is Kendrick Lamar, him and Eminem are both on the same wavelength

  • @pluglxrd6147
    @pluglxrd6147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Would love to see a reaction to gunna - livin wild . You might need the lyrics but it talks about his struggles with life and drug addiction

  • @zevs-bg2rl
    @zevs-bg2rl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember being a kid living in a freign country, not understanding a single word of what was eminem rapping about but still being addicted to his work. There was something special to his work. Later, while growing up and starting to learn a new language and understand what he was rapping about gave me a new perspective on how deep songs might go. The Marshall Mathers LP audio cassette was a gift from a sister and boy am I grateful for that even nowdays.
    To see your mind blown away by his lyrics makes me proud on my teenage music preferences. If you're starting off with eminems music just now you're in for a roller coaster ride