Fantasia - Free Yourself (VIDEO)

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  • Fantasia's official music video for 'Free Yourself'. Click to listen to Fantasia on Spotify: smarturl.it/Fan...
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    Lyrics:
    Baby you don't pay me no mind
    You act like you don't love me no more
    Maybe you need space or some time
    Your attitude is unpredictable and I don't want to make you unhappy
    If your not happy then you're free to go on cuz I don't want you stayin around if I make you so Miserable
    If you don't want me then don't talk to me (if you don't want me then don't talk to me)
    Go ahead and free yourself (go ahead and free yourself)
    If you don't want me then don't talk to me (if you don't want me then don't talk to me)
    Go ahead to someone else (go ahead to someone else)
    If you don't want me then don't talk to me (if you don't want me then don't talk to me)
    Go ahead and free yourself (go ahead and free yourself)
    If you don't want me then don't talk to me (if you don't want me then don't talk to me)
    Go ahead to someone else (go ahead to someone else)

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  • @rochellwhitehead9077
    @rochellwhitehead9077 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4841

    her voice so raspy so pure so heavenly gosh this woman doesn't get the credit she deserves

    • @TubularOfficial
      @TubularOfficial 9 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      +Rochell Whitehead i personally couldn't agree more with you

    • @abbep9238
      @abbep9238 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Tubular Sometimes a woman have to say, enough is enough!! Let it go.......

    • @nicolehartman-blane944
      @nicolehartman-blane944 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Rochell Whitehead yes yes yes yes yes...... for the raspy painful voice👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @k.b.3683
      @k.b.3683 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      her voice makes me cry...she should definitely be bigger

    • @aprilwilliams6755
      @aprilwilliams6755 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rochell Whitehead institute

  • @yahswarrior1879
    @yahswarrior1879 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    “I’m sorry, but I had to take it there, cause I’m tired.”
    Classic line. 🙏🏾❤️💛💚

    • @JSteele-b2l
      @JSteele-b2l 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Um. Halo.

    • @Labingoo.lk0524
      @Labingoo.lk0524 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      HELLOOOOO🗣️🗣️

    • @flipflops-ed5xq
      @flipflops-ed5xq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yeah because it escalates and ruining both lives. Its better to put a stop immediately or things get so hard. VERY difficult. One of us could have a terrible record worse case you guys can beat the hell out of one. It really sucks because shit just happens. U never decided or designed ur relationship with your best friend. However. I do believe in miracles. After the hate is gone. Somehow someway you see the day as simply stupid. Omg i shoulve never go have a smoothie talm bout what happpened to us. True story. 50% was my fault. Also being misunderstood is such a pain in the ass!!!

    • @preciouspearl487
      @preciouspearl487 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      and 'I'm tired tired.."

    • @princemohammedbinsalmanis666
      @princemohammedbinsalmanis666 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      truth... you hope you don't get so tired that you need to speak while your weary in well doing however it's about to roll off my tongue

  • @joanoliverlewis7882
    @joanoliverlewis7882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +867

    She sang this song with so much feelings, knowing that it came straight from the heart. You go woman. Enough is Enough.

  • @adanmatitus6487
    @adanmatitus6487 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I wish more men would take heed to words in this song, this would save many women a lot of heartache. 😞

    • @saralee8463
      @saralee8463 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      And their lives...

    • @quentinjones4588
      @quentinjones4588 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts 💯💯

    • @lifers456
      @lifers456 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Girl this song speaks both ways

    • @sitiramadana-p4s
      @sitiramadana-p4s 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @swedmerson90
    @swedmerson90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2292

    The simplicity of the song is immaculate.
    "If you don't want me than don't talk to me. Go ahead and free yourself"
    That's it.

    • @savagetothestreetsmovies9370
      @savagetothestreetsmovies9370 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/aLIRWKmDmcw/w-d-xo.html

    • @PeytonFan1816
      @PeytonFan1816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Exactly!!! Nothing more to say!!!👌🏾

    • @tararichardson7835
      @tararichardson7835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I'm going through this right now,😔

    • @Daizyonceagain
      @Daizyonceagain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PeytonFan1816 1

    • @JoseRamirez-ln9ni
      @JoseRamirez-ln9ni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I think also from a guy point of view the song talk about how a guy is in a toxic relationship and refuses to leave it while been toxic at the same time and not knowing how to let go of it without violence

  • @tamishagordon4144
    @tamishagordon4144 6 ปีที่แล้ว +717

    2019 Still going to be a Hit...👌🏾😘👌🏾😘😘

    • @staleikagriffin5772
      @staleikagriffin5772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😘😘😘

    • @mistaduke3574
      @mistaduke3574 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tamisha Gordon Exactly ‼️

    • @darrellthompson9640
      @darrellthompson9640 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      DFT 🙌💋💋💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🖤💯💋💯💋💯♥️💛🖤♥️🖤💋❤️❤️💯❤️👹☠️ ❤️💯❤️💯💯🖤♥️💛💛💛💛♥️💛♥️

  • @bajanprincess8796
    @bajanprincess8796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    This song is so everything R&B should be. Felt every word!! Her voice is a blessing to my soul!!!

    • @meahlovely9027
      @meahlovely9027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      #313 #Meah #5 #8 #E #Single #Happy 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎💪💝💯💯💯🙏🏻🙏🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏿🙏🏻🙏🏼💔😤😼😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹✌🏻🤟🏽🤷🏼‍♀️🦸🏼‍♀️🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🎉🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟💝💝💝💝💝✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @nittygrittywithcarlton2203
    @nittygrittywithcarlton2203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    As a man I almost came to tears hearing a woman's pain.they just want us to love them

  • @blessings4eva863
    @blessings4eva863 8 ปีที่แล้ว +756

    Fantasia its like you're crying with melody the emotions are so raw and powerful. This song touches me to the core

  • @aprilsteward5563
    @aprilsteward5563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2801

    Years ago, when this song first came out, I played it everyday... And, I was singing this song in the car one morning while driving my daughter to day care, and my 3 year old daughter broke down in tears saying, " I DO LOVE YOU MOMMY... I ALWAYS TALK TO YOU"... and my daughter's words made me realize that no one would ever love me more than my children...

    • @myradee114
      @myradee114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      💯👶💞

    • @dldown7543
      @dldown7543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      ​@@myradee114 Ok so U making me cry. LOL The words of this song are very powerful. Laughingly your daughter took it literally

    • @derricksmith37
      @derricksmith37 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      No she doesn't get enough credit she has a beautiful voice and when she Saying you can feel it

    • @morrickushuff4477
      @morrickushuff4477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      How can you expect love from a man, when most men don't even love themselves at all, because if men really love themselves they would understand they that have no real value in a woman eyes in thus staying out the way of most women due to his self love and understanding that most men are only tolerated not celebrated. And so if you're only tolerated why would you deal with that if you have self love, But most men obviously don't.

    • @ajwalker7337
      @ajwalker7337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      This touched me❤️

  • @kimberlysnow6109
    @kimberlysnow6109 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    All of her songs have so much emotion. U can tell she has been emotionally hurt in past relationships😢

  • @nicoleharrington7329
    @nicoleharrington7329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    When it hurts. We recover. Forgiveness is not for us it is for them. Let go Let God.

  • @grantbrown8312
    @grantbrown8312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    “If you don’t want me, then don’t talk to me”.
    This song will always be my motto on relationships. ✅ Not stressing.

  • @tylerclarke5580
    @tylerclarke5580 6 ปีที่แล้ว +698

    I had no Idea Missy Elliott wrote this song and did the backing vocals,she definitely put that pen to work 🙌🏾❤️🔥

    • @arbitrarylib
      @arbitrarylib 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mhm

    • @ccrdcd38
      @ccrdcd38 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I didn't missy wrote this song either wow missy got skills this is my song

    • @Elevatedstatus
      @Elevatedstatus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      And Jazmine Sullivan

    • @teahoney15
      @teahoney15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I was today years old when I learned this.

    • @MishaLilly
      @MishaLilly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You can hear missy in it if you listen hard

  • @lisastrange9618
    @lisastrange9618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hi Mrs. Fantasia! Every word in this song is where I am and I sing it loudly right now … I just did my workout as usual just to feel good.I’ve bee in a relationship for eight years now and I’m 59 .?I’ll be 60 on June 6th and I’m
    Just working and trying my best to take care of me!!! Thank you for those vivid words and feelings. Only god will help me through this time in my life. Be blessed my sister! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️😁🏡🐚🌗🎤🎶🎧

  • @Fayesweet39
    @Fayesweet39 5 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    You're attitude is unpredictable! Meaning, you're unstable in all of your ways. Conversation Dry...if you don't want me than don't talk to me! Missy Elliot is a beast! She's a sick writer.

    • @tabathahomeister2385
      @tabathahomeister2385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Fayesweet39 no, your attitude is unpredictable means she don't know when he's going to hit her

    • @thehealer9738
      @thehealer9738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      In had no idea Missy wrote this..but I can actually see it in the way it's written.

    • @bernardthomas843
      @bernardthomas843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Plus she picked the perfect person to sing the lyrics she wrote

    • @darrellthompson9640
      @darrellthompson9640 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      DFT 💯♥️♥️♥️♥️💛♥️♥️♥️♥️💛💛🖤🖤💛🖤💛🖤🖤💛🖤💛🖤🖤💛🖤🖤🖤💯♥️💛🖤♥️💛🖤♥️🖤💋❤️💘💘💋💯♥️♥️♥️♥️💛♥️

    • @BACON-l3t
      @BACON-l3t 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thehealer9738 Dayumm she wrote this and sang the vocals along with Jazmine S. wow mind blowing!

  • @Huszysymone
    @Huszysymone 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3372

    “If you don’t want me then don’t talk to me” I felt that on a spiritual level.

  • @whatupgigi
    @whatupgigi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +858

    Missy Elliot and Jazmine Sullivan did that on the background vocals and Fantasia put all that raw emotion into every lyric. Goosebumps every time!

    • @mscotchery9861
      @mscotchery9861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      didnt know! wow

    • @ForWhatItsWorth_
      @ForWhatItsWorth_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I heard Missy's vocals but I didn't notice Jasmine Sullivan.

    • @PIX11TrueCrimeNewsBatmanFan21
      @PIX11TrueCrimeNewsBatmanFan21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nisan on the drums

    • @blackempress2040
      @blackempress2040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      "Girl shut yo mouth!😱 I never knew that,but I know professional background singers when I hear it! I love this song even more!!! Thanks for sharing!

    • @SippiGirl_256
      @SippiGirl_256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@PIX11TrueCrimeNewsBatmanFan21 yep Nissan Stewart

  • @Troy-hv5kx
    @Troy-hv5kx ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The part that got me was, “If you don’t want me don’t talk to me. I’ll be alright! GO AHEAD TO SOMEONE ELSE!” That right there freed my soul… 🙏🏾👏🏾👐🏾🙌🏾

  • @corneliacummings7640
    @corneliacummings7640 6 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    She telling the truth. I feel her pain. Need an part 2 of this song

    • @leatricebrown1874
      @leatricebrown1874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cornelia Cummings right

    • @twanabonnet7996
      @twanabonnet7996 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesssss... come through part 2....

    • @chrisnelson6266
      @chrisnelson6266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, titled Since we haven't been talking or I don't have s#it to say, LMAO 😅

  • @solianascott1908
    @solianascott1908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2128

    I used to love this song when I was younger but hearing as an adult ... THIS BUMP DIFFERENT!!! Over here banging my steering wheel😂

    • @karenchristian_thomas9513
      @karenchristian_thomas9513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Big facts🤣😭❤its very relatable now

    • @emeraldspeights8050
      @emeraldspeights8050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yessuhh!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @deezpistachionuts
      @deezpistachionuts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LIIIISSSTTTEEEN, siiiissss. A word.

    • @mikaylha
      @mikaylha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feeellll youuu😭😭

    • @LaRue1212
      @LaRue1212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Girl I'm trying to tell you tuh-day!!!!

  • @Kena_sunshine
    @Kena_sunshine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +841

    These lyrics are real AF. This song got me through one of my toughest breakups

    • @trakenamccray1020
      @trakenamccray1020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U have part of my name And Kena is my nickname love this song

    • @xiomorekatrice
      @xiomorekatrice 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same.....

    • @pickleberry6668
      @pickleberry6668 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl I feel you

    • @gregpitts5157
      @gregpitts5157 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      KenaSunshine J. I’m a guy. I love this song. Play in my gallery all the time. Men go through it also.

    • @jaquanaadams1289
      @jaquanaadams1289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      KenaSunshine J. She’s helping me now!!!!!!!!

  • @siverinao8720
    @siverinao8720 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    14 years later. American Idol change ppls lives. Bring back artist development. Fantasia deserves everything! 👏

    • @NateTheNoble
      @NateTheNoble 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Close to 20 years…this was huge summer 2005

  • @CasshyTee
    @CasshyTee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +569

    “Cus I had to take it there, I had to take it there cus I’m tiredddd,” that part always gets to me

    • @MsLolaTaylor
      @MsLolaTaylor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tuh💯

    • @prestonwysingle4139
      @prestonwysingle4139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Natasha ShawniQue' "#caliluv" Wysingle!
      This is to and for "c-knote" of San Diego, California via "mamarita'$ 1st n born,birthed, created,celebrated,hated,ellavated,illuminated by self love and a box of Newport cigarettes.

    • @kenya_j461
      @kenya_j461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯💯❕.

    • @sbella6719
      @sbella6719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mama always said when you're sick n tired of being sick n tired, you'll get up and do something about it. Don't think she's tired yet if she's telling him to free himself

    • @luckyluchia1987
      @luckyluchia1987 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Every single time

  • @moniquewilson6161
    @moniquewilson6161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    Being in a relationship feeling unappreciated and listening to music like this made me feel like i deserved better and now I'm happy

  • @jabrayaillebarnes2854
    @jabrayaillebarnes2854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2959

    She should’ve won a Grammy off this song man 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @myarodriguez255
    @myarodriguez255 7 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    This song on repeat for months finally gave me the strength to leave my abusive boyfriend....best decision i ever made.it's been 4 years😊

    • @saraimoregreen
      @saraimoregreen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hope you're in a better place. Congratulations on your strength.

    • @msdanyelle1
      @msdanyelle1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congrats

    • @julsteablog3677
      @julsteablog3677 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I commend u sweetheart!! Dont matter how long it took you did it b4 it was too late!!!

    • @tanishajenkins6181
      @tanishajenkins6181 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im glad u left!! U deserve to happy!!!

    • @Gatekeeperaquatic
      @Gatekeeperaquatic 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      shatanella Rodriguez baby

  • @christopherwoods891
    @christopherwoods891 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    This girl has perservered through so much. Every song she sees is from the soul.

  • @ashleighcannady7402
    @ashleighcannady7402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1973

    She needs her flowers while she's still here! She's simply brilliant!

  • @adrinikaatkinson
    @adrinikaatkinson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1426

    Who still listening in 2019?

    • @MRoe-jf6su
      @MRoe-jf6su 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Adrinika Atkinson me chile...I’ll never get tired of Fantasia

    • @chatrianshields7471
      @chatrianshields7471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Adrinika Atkinson 🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @deewells4259
      @deewells4259 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      On May 17th...I AM 🙋🏾‍♂️

    • @neidrasingleton3274
      @neidrasingleton3274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!! Love It!!

    • @bobbylarkin6139
      @bobbylarkin6139 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      make sure yall support her new single called "Enough" available now on iTunes and make sure u keep her new video called "Enough" on repeat so we can help get this song played on the radio

  • @LadyK007
    @LadyK007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    TASIA ATE THIS TF UP!!!!‼️‼️‼️ Such an anointed, strong voice🙌🏾

  • @NACtheMC
    @NACtheMC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    This woman sang this with so much emotion. I can feel this with EVERY fiber of my BEING

  • @Navyblue0785
    @Navyblue0785 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2384

    It's crazy how time can change things...That song used to mean nothing to me..Today I feel it..

  • @bernardthomas843
    @bernardthomas843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4885

    I don't care what nobody say she has one of the best voices ever she killed this

    • @melvincampbell827
      @melvincampbell827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Amen

    • @boobaharper6171
      @boobaharper6171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      She can sing.

    • @BACON-l3t
      @BACON-l3t 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Oh yeah Carolina in tha House!

    • @pamelabraden5176
      @pamelabraden5176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      YESSSSS! I was a big fan the first time I heard her open her mouth and audition for American Idol. Fantasia had that certain something that said "STAR". God bless her. Love her spirit. She is a true Super Star. She exudes passion and so much soul when she sings and that stage presence is unbeatable.

    • @markd523
      @markd523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It’s so Human that it’s inhuman! I don’t know how else to describe it

  • @jadenalston7489
    @jadenalston7489 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I just saw her perform at the DPAC in Durham North Carolina. She blew the house down. One of the best singers of R&B music!❤❤

    • @tarasydnor5624
      @tarasydnor5624 ปีที่แล้ว

      One of the best voices to grace this planet !

  • @KeepitHunnit88
    @KeepitHunnit88 9 ปีที่แล้ว +846

    Fantasia killed this!

  • @damienj5378
    @damienj5378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1562

    this is a anthem for everyone in 2020

  • @jesuschristiscomingsoon2426
    @jesuschristiscomingsoon2426 11 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    YOU HAVE TO LET GO,IF THAT PERSON AINT TREATING YOU RIGHT AND YOU HAVE TRYED TO MAKE IT WORK OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND STILL NO BETTER LET THE RELATIONSHIP GO. I RATHER CRY YOU OUT MY SYSTEM SO I CAN START FRESH THEN TO BE WITH YOU AND KEEP CRYING, & BEING MISERABLE LET THE RELATIONSHIP GO AND LET GOD, JESUS CHRIST,& THE HOLY SPIRIT FILL YOUR VOID IN YOUR HEART PS LADIES. IF HE AINT CHANGE AFTER ALL THESE YEARS HES NOT GOING TO CHANGE. STAY STRONG LADIES

    • @petuliasemaie8237
      @petuliasemaie8237 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      GOSH......THANK YOU...TEARS!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @purpetwins65
      @purpetwins65 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      say that , free myself of misery, especially when you have tried over and over again taken person back again over and over again but still don't work, what a fool should have never let came back, and her goes some more tears..

    • @jchidi
      @jchidi 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Really needed to hear this!! Now just need to apply it...

    • @Audaciouss1
      @Audaciouss1 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Whew say it again sometimes it is hard. Put sometimes you run across post like this that gives you that extra push to being free. Thanks I needed to hear this like 100 times but I got it now hard part is getting out.

    • @petuliasemaie8237
      @petuliasemaie8237 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Audacious Bade your so so right...i got up this morning and i told him i dont know what to do...is like the more you try the more hurt you get...but i have made up my mind i need to free myself from him.....not gonna wait for him to go free himself...cuz it ent gonna happen.....i prayed this morning after a long long time....now i feel free in my soul....it is so hard to leave..hurt or not am gonna i need to i have to leave.

  • @robbytate111
    @robbytate111 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Got me wiping tears Sun. Oct.13, 2024... 3:04pm 🌹🌹🌹

  • @sweetlou2362
    @sweetlou2362 6 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    still listening in 2018

  • @javontejohnson7295
    @javontejohnson7295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2203

    My mom used to love this song! Rest in paradise Mommy! In loving memory of Charmaine Johnson - Simmons...Feb 8, 1976 - Feb 16, 2020. I love you forever 💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊

    • @NiyahRenaye
      @NiyahRenaye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Javonte Johnson sorry to here r.i.p

    • @charlkiachaneyevans912
      @charlkiachaneyevans912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      🙏 rest up

    • @keishadonald5448
      @keishadonald5448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I am so sorry for your loss❤🙏🏾❤🙏🏾❤🙏🏾

    • @k.k8000
      @k.k8000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      R.i.p to your mom and blessings to you. It's hard but baby hold tight to your faith.

    • @javontejohnson7295
      @javontejohnson7295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Shiquilla Bell 😥💔

  • @dorothyhill708
    @dorothyhill708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    This song hits different when every word she said is exactly how you feel, like how you in my thoughts?

  • @NyniiLifeee
    @NyniiLifeee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    Who still listening 2024444

    • @VictoriaK-d7q
      @VictoriaK-d7q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me here lately a lot

    • @MsAllie-hf1bh
      @MsAllie-hf1bh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me September 21, 2024

    • @JamikaMcMillian
      @JamikaMcMillian 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is my girl!!! This was the first song I loved by her.

    • @ItisAwesome-20
      @ItisAwesome-20 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Even Fantasia still listens 😊

  • @fatimahmayse8772
    @fatimahmayse8772 7 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    She song the hell out of this song

  • @ninadickson8363
    @ninadickson8363 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1288

    she song the HELL out of this song

  • @_therealkingj
    @_therealkingj 8 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    How High That Raspy Voice Gets Me Everytime! Gave Me Chills Instantly!

  • @santanafernandez5040
    @santanafernandez5040 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    One of da REALEST SONGS EVER

    • @ChrishonSmith-bk2bp
      @ChrishonSmith-bk2bp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's a cold song I'm sending y'all ladies it hurts my feelings.

  • @theskeptic8489
    @theskeptic8489 7 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    she could not hide her pain recording this

    • @KBrogsmom
      @KBrogsmom 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      You can hear every woman's pain in this song

    • @darryleverett641
      @darryleverett641 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chris Allen funniest thing ive read all day!!😍😍😁😆

    • @aiialaina5674
      @aiialaina5674 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Missy Elliot wrote it

    • @sunbeam123
      @sunbeam123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@KBrogsmom you can hear mine and i aint even singing the shit

    • @lashawnnfosihxishdiziuaiow3482
      @lashawnnfosihxishdiziuaiow3482 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +SaKeya Stubbs gjoh

  • @TheLeah2344
    @TheLeah2344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6061

    This hits different when you grow up and actually experience this. 😩

  • @dchilds7437
    @dchilds7437 6 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Fantasia has a beautiful.voice. it is so easy to see why she won American idol.

    • @n0nenone257
      @n0nenone257 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is my girl....so BEAUTIFUL and her voice and songs LOVE😍😘💕💞...get out of town 💋

  • @stohandmadejewelrycraftcorner
    @stohandmadejewelrycraftcorner ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have been listening to Fantasia’s music 🎶 all week long. It’s amazing how The Most God in Christ will send you what you need at the right time. When these songs originally were released, I was in the throws of try to work through a situation in a very toxic relationship for sake of our children. It took many years to see and learn that I should have left many years ago. Now, I have freed myself from that toxic situationship. I am free to be me, heal, and thrive. I am grateful for Fantasia. She’s a blessing to me.💕🙏🏾💕🙏🏾💕

  • @helenamensah7274
    @helenamensah7274 7 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I love this song and Missy Elliott is a genius for writing the song and producing the beat!

  • @1ofthelastkings
    @1ofthelastkings 6 ปีที่แล้ว +656

    U know it's real when a man can feel this... Us men go thru it too

    • @robertmosley2717
      @robertmosley2717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      yea homie... it hurts to have our heart smashed when we thought we have found the right girl and turns out, they turn their backs and walk away!! it doesnt feel good!! smh..

    • @cheetahgirlfan32
      @cheetahgirlfan32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🖤🖤

    • @antoinqueen8261
      @antoinqueen8261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@robertmosley2717 yep say ot louder..now thts real life...!period

    • @lisalucus5043
      @lisalucus5043 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@antoinqueen8261 b

    • @ezraisrael4392
      @ezraisrael4392 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmaooo wah

  • @ThisIsMissyExclusive
    @ThisIsMissyExclusive 6 ปีที่แล้ว +710

    Missy Elliott & Jazmine Sullivan did excellent on the backup vocals! Ever notice when Missy produces & writes for other artists she never uses her typical futuristic beats. This glorious hit for example and others: Whitney Houston ("Oh Yes"), Mariah Carey ("Babydoll"), Christina Aguilera ("Car Wash"), Angie Stone ("Think Sometimes"), Monica ("Dozen Roses"). Underrated effin' genius! Love Missy!

    • @Blackmankornerbrand
      @Blackmankornerbrand 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      ThisIsMissyExclusive damn thanks for the info, I never knew that. Now since you said it I can actually hear Missy!!!! Love Missy❤️

    • @LonerBecause
      @LonerBecause 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I learned something new

    • @Tricee2000
      @Tricee2000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Now that you mentioned it, I can hear it!

    • @kacy1787
      @kacy1787 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I never knew that, thanks for informing me

    • @deewells4259
      @deewells4259 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I didn’t know they did BackUp Vocals...🤭

  • @omarthompson3957
    @omarthompson3957 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    As a pianist....... I hear music in my head ... I studied music theory........ took lessons ........ Teenager ..... I play my own unique style.!...... No one can copy anyone's brilliance..... Ms. FANTASIA ???? IN A CLASS BY HERSELF........ NO ONE CAN DUPLICATE HER !!!!! NUFF SAID ..... 💯💯💯
    I picked Fantasia as well as many others from AI..... I know talent more than Simon Cowell..... If it was based on metaphorically????? My Queen 👑 Goddess Fantasia would of made me on betting stakes ???? A MILLIONAIRE !!!!!!
    Real talent spawns from Church narratives....... Plus she's a Christian ........ You can't stop what Jehovah God has planned ........ MS . DIVA FANTASIA......... THE BEST !!!!!
    ✌🏿❤️

  • @CeeDeeIsMe
    @CeeDeeIsMe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +578

    She. Sang. The. Fuck. Out. Of. This. Song. I Feel It.

  • @MiamiPush2theLimit
    @MiamiPush2theLimit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    Why men still want to talk after they say they’re not ready for a relationship? There’s nothing more to talk about, bruh.

  • @Bigmorenaaa
    @Bigmorenaaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    when your relationship of 5 years ends and the person acts like you never matter. broken. love this song.

  • @ainabrooks3408
    @ainabrooks3408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Coming from a woman who has went through this let him go sis. You will feel so much better in the end. Free yourself don’t wait on him. There is somebody for everybody.

    • @johnpompey7773
      @johnpompey7773 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like listening to her I am going true a sad part in my relationship listening to this helps me

  • @skip031890
    @skip031890 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2121

    Fantasia, Jennifer Hudson and Jazmine Sullivan need to collaborate together. That would def be a good show.

    • @larae9902
      @larae9902 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kel0390 omg yassss

    • @jessica82aka
      @jessica82aka 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kel0390 Lifetime movies

    • @timking7353
      @timking7353 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      jessica hudson

    • @nairowe1481
      @nairowe1481 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kel0390 true

    • @tonigreer506
      @tonigreer506 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kel0390 what about Chrisette in that

  • @cheriamor4683
    @cheriamor4683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +890

    For those of y’all saying Cardi brought you here y’all need step y’all music game up 😩😩🤣🤣

    • @ladygemini5967
      @ladygemini5967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      jan cheri can I get an Amen

    • @PaisleyMoon2022
      @PaisleyMoon2022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Exactly! 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @kaylamccain
      @kaylamccain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Right. I've been coming here for year's.

    • @darrellthompson9640
      @darrellthompson9640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      DFT 🙌💋💋💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🖤💯💋💯♥️💛🖤💛💛🖤💛💛🖤♥️💛🖤💛💛🖤💛💛

    • @kaylarobinson9667
      @kaylarobinson9667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PaisleyMoon2022 yesssssss

  • @lowki5573
    @lowki5573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    Mood all 2020
    Stop Wasting people’s Time!

  • @ValiantVisions314
    @ValiantVisions314 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    What... I cannot believe it. I have always like this song period as a man. SHE KILLED THIS WITH A REAL VOICE. Now that I find out that she had TWO G'S (Missy Elliot, Jasmine Sullivan) singing background makes this song even better. Just reminds me of how artists used to work heavy together and you wouldn't even know. It wasn't about the shine. It was about the song, the music.

    • @anwulifly
      @anwulifly 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My young adult son was bumping this when I was in the car with him recently. I was like “Okay, I see you, Music Taste.” 😂

  • @Selliluveli35
    @Selliluveli35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This woman can sing. Love you Fantasia.

  • @southerngirlchef5886
    @southerngirlchef5886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Who’s listening in 2020🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @oaoskey6051
      @oaoskey6051 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Shania Thompson 2025

    • @MsAllie-hf1bh
      @MsAllie-hf1bh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me September 21, 2024❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @keabetswebokaba4144
    @keabetswebokaba4144 9 ปีที่แล้ว +638

    After so much pain, I've managed to free myself. No more drama for me.....I deserve BETTER!

    • @luaskar77
      @luaskar77 9 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Congrats, I'm proud of you :)

    • @terrancepurnell741
      @terrancepurnell741 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      amen

    • @MzVocalz
      @MzVocalz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yesss 💯💯💯

    • @danabennett7338
      @danabennett7338 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I understand where she coming from cause my boyfriend does the same thing he do

    • @elle4738
      @elle4738 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keabetswe Bokaba listen to the song Deserve Better by Kehlani it will speak your story ❤️

  • @faithbrown3138
    @faithbrown3138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Listening to this on repeat as I’m literally living this song out! I used to sing it when I was younger but it hits home now.

  • @moeshadouglas3957
    @moeshadouglas3957 8 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Her voice give me chills 💜✨

  • @msblessedtobeablessingtaro2382
    @msblessedtobeablessingtaro2382 6 ปีที่แล้ว +599

    who still listening in2018?🤗

  • @thelittlethings-
    @thelittlethings- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    This song hits differently when you can relate. ❤ Fun fact: The first concert I ever attended as a kid was Fantasia! I'll always love her older stuff!

  • @knight9k
    @knight9k ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She was going thru it at the time....and she put it into words....plain, and simple "If you don't want me just don't talk to me, go ahead, and free yourself"....I love it,!!

  • @summerosewynter491
    @summerosewynter491 6 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    10 years ago.. And am still listening...

  • @alwaysonpoint7776
    @alwaysonpoint7776 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3197

    If you still here in 2018 let me know I'm not alone y'all.

  • @canardreese2085
    @canardreese2085 8 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    If You Don't Want Me Then Don't Talk To Me, I'll Be Alright! 👏💯😩

    • @darktheory2373
      @darktheory2373 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Canard Reese Amen🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @derrikasmith5659
      @derrikasmith5659 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      RiskTaker Lil'Dee nm

    • @maryemma2858
      @maryemma2858 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Canard Reese this is my favorite line!

    • @rashawngeorge4556
      @rashawngeorge4556 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mary emma .

    • @brendagardner6243
      @brendagardner6243 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's how I feel don't want me f you then that's how I feel I'm not the person that to worry if a person want me a not I can careless about it only thing I can say you lossin out on a good one

  • @criticalthinking1592
    @criticalthinking1592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    All that natural beauty not being ruined with tattoos everywhere. Chocolate 🍫

  • @Braddibwai
    @Braddibwai 9 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Where did old r&b go ?!

    • @triplusional2.0
      @triplusional2.0 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      RudeAce idk tbh I wish R&b was still here man

  • @cassieb.2261
    @cassieb.2261 8 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I swear Fantasia has some of the BEST music that I've ever heard. It's a damn shame that she is not getting higher recognition for her music. God, her natural beauty is stunning in this video. Don't sleep on Fantasia, her life and career are BLOWING!

    • @cho.s.en1
      @cho.s.en1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      cuzz she's not in the Illuminati, Demi is good and Jennifer but they don't do that so they hardly get recognition

    • @lashawnnfosihxishdiziuaiow3482
      @lashawnnfosihxishdiziuaiow3482 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +kevon malt jeyhyohiw as tiey2iytyuu 3 u if duos UK j2jireljossks hi kshjfjjdjcapricejonce

    • @shalondawarren8962
      @shalondawarren8962 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      OK then we can fight

    • @babysistajohnson4236
      @babysistajohnson4236 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      are you going with him

    • @kishabryan7613
      @kishabryan7613 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Look at her now... FINALLY getting her flowers

  • @nejihyuga9020
    @nejihyuga9020 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    She killed it she can sing 🎤 🙀

  • @StephanieCespedes-s3m
    @StephanieCespedes-s3m 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    2024 & still listening to fantasia I grew up listening to her. Wish she would come out with new music❤

  • @luvshellnotime4it
    @luvshellnotime4it 6 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    This is why i vote a thousand times when fantasia was on American idol

    • @chanielltheodore6601
      @chanielltheodore6601 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      LUVSHELL NOTIME4IT same here

    • @moniquekeels3469
      @moniquekeels3469 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss......😊

    • @luvshellnotime4it
      @luvshellnotime4it 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Monique Keels ✌

    • @fabfab5450
      @fabfab5450 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too! I knew she had it from the moment she opened her mouth during her audition. I brought her up with a co-worker a couple days later and my coworker disagreed stating that she didn't like her. I told her I thought she had it, and it most certainly turned out to be true.

    • @mintyaashka5837
      @mintyaashka5837 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too! Lol

  • @ontayyricardo
    @ontayyricardo 9 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    One of the most beautiful voices I ever heard.

  • @charlettam1239
    @charlettam1239 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I've waited for so long God has blessed me spiritually and with beautiful children and a good man this 2018 amen

  • @Papi.Pharaoh
    @Papi.Pharaoh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Fantasia has probably one of the greatest singing voices of all time. Her music has a way of touching you deep down in your soul. She makes some of the most beautiful songs ever. Unfortunately R&B would never be this good ever again. The early ‘00s was such a great time for R&B music.

  • @Pisceanrage
    @Pisceanrage 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    So blessed I grew up with her music. I get chills every single time. People who didn’t experience fantasia missed out on alot

  • @deirdrasj1
    @deirdrasj1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    All the years of loving this song and I never even knew that was Missy Elliot in the background!

    • @RoshondaHicks
      @RoshondaHicks 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds like her

    • @deirdrasj1
      @deirdrasj1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Ummm okay....but that's Missy she wrote the song and said herself that it's her vocals....but carry on lol

    • @RoshondaHicks
      @RoshondaHicks 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This person is crazy ^^ im kinda scared

    • @shirleythomas86
      @shirleythomas86 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Missy!

    • @TheDroShow
      @TheDroShow 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +deirdrasj1 wwoooooww i did not know that! now that you mention it, that really does sound like her! thanks for the tidbit

  • @CrazyCandy5
    @CrazyCandy5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I went through a toxic and abusive relationship. I can relate to this. He cheated for so many years and treated me like crap. I broke up with him and he said so many lies back and forth as time went by I was trying to move on found out more truth time went by and I made a desicion and I choose life and hapiness and myself and now im with someone else who makes me happy. Now my toxic ex is trying to get back with me and apoligize. Its to late. You did your dirt and that road. I moved on. I pray things work out with this one or he out to. Remember who you are and love yourself and respect yourself to walk away and things in time will get better and you will see gods blessings that he has for you. Always guard your heart.

    • @ayanawad3302
      @ayanawad3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      happy for u🥺💝

    • @shurondaholmes4637
      @shurondaholmes4637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Girl this exactly what I'm going through I'm proud of you for leaving I feel like I'm weak I didn't ever let someone make me feel like this but I pray for strength to leave

    • @tanyawilks4732
      @tanyawilks4732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Always ❤️

  • @drikat8418
    @drikat8418 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +628

    Anyone still playing this in 2024 !.🎉❤

    • @Beardascorpion
      @Beardascorpion 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Right here at work bout to put it on blast

    • @mamanemcakesandtreats3974
      @mamanemcakesandtreats3974 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Playing it now, because I’m
      Going through it

    • @jaa5290
      @jaa5290 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yeah 👍

    • @prim2152
      @prim2152 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes 😂

    • @MsWilliams-pg5en
      @MsWilliams-pg5en 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯🔥

  • @AOYoung
    @AOYoung 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    The new generation doesn’t know anything about real music, Fantasia has a REAL voice.

  • @CSavengers
    @CSavengers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    If you don't want me then don't talk to me🤷🏽‍♀️. Go ahead free yourself. I'll be alright

  • @loverunderground
    @loverunderground 10 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As a male....I take these words in this song very seriously. As a musician....I take the haunting flow of the production of this song very seriously also. Her voice echoes what the instruments are pouring into this track. I listen to this in total darkeness when I need to get my head straight. Thanks Fantasia....for your rare talent.

    • @mikeblack1984
      @mikeblack1984 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      likedbymany yesssssss....chillllllls ;)

  • @maylee-ki2yd
    @maylee-ki2yd ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This song gives me chills,this gal can sing her ass off, beautiful voice from,that she was bless with, with a voice like that she can touch a lot of people through her music,god given talent 👍👍

  • @MekaBlue27
    @MekaBlue27 6 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I LOVE THIS SONG STILL IN 2018 8/9/18 SHE SPOKE THE TRUTH

  • @ToLovelyJesus
    @ToLovelyJesus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Fantasia is easily one of my top 5 favorite female vocalists.

  • @tombagreen5869
    @tombagreen5869 7 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Fantasia, you are a beautiful black natrual woman with a beautiful voice. I love you and your music. you are a true beauty, don't change for nobody for a man or a woman. you are being your self and I'm so happy that you are natrual. keep up the good work Fantasia. keep making wonderful music.

    • @petualjohnson628
      @petualjohnson628 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tomba Green ain't she a real natural black woman and plus a down south country Gal from North Carolina,okkkk say it ain't so

    • @MrsHooper01
      @MrsHooper01 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This royalty 9

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Her voice heals the soul

  • @joselynjolivet2545
    @joselynjolivet2545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    Fantasia, a blessed reincarnation of several of the divas from the seventies (Chaka Khan, Denise Williams, Natalie Cole). Love her vocals, performances.

    • @65May2
      @65May2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Very well put

    • @lataunyawagoner7414
      @lataunyawagoner7414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      U KNIW IT....!!;;-
      SMOOCHIES..

    • @Swoop2565
      @Swoop2565 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I disagree ….Fantasia is heir to Patti’s throne ❤️

  • @CleverAOYM
    @CleverAOYM 9 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I miss REAL rnb music like this. Full of real exspirences, love, heartbreak ect. Music just isn't the same anymore😔

  • @TinyyyTheDon
    @TinyyyTheDon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    2020 and I’m here screaming “ if you don’t want me then don’t talk to me “ 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Arturo200196814
    @Arturo200196814 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Music to my ear 🔥🍷🌹

  • @cristalacosta5583
    @cristalacosta5583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    FANTASIA IS BEAUTIFUL AND GORGOUS I LOVE HER VOICE AND MUSIC SO SO MUCH 💖💖