Honestly as soon as I saw the video I instantly knew it was going to get backlash. I was also a bit shocked. I think it was the combination of it all. The wardrobe, song, lil Kim persona, & an 8 yo doing it. I think there may have been a lapse in judgment but I definitely don’t agree with the comments coming for y’all character.
Thank you, I wanted to make a comment saying "they gon turn this into a negative situation" but I didnt want to be negative. People went to the extreme calling them pdfs i hate this era off people throwing around words to assasinate peoples character smh
A lot of people feel a certain way about Envy, especially after his recent controversies. I don't know what they are defending, honestly. To be honest, maybe they should stop sharing their family. The world will be ok if Envy doesn't post his family. Him and Gia say they don't care, but you're making a whole video explaining. Envy has a point to prove what he doesn't understand is that nobody cares.
@shadyzbabii420 Envy and Gia are great parents, but they are also human. They are not perfect. Envy and Gia like to over share their life on social media and the radio. Posting that video was a poor choice, and they received backlash. Usually, when they post their family, they get likes and nice comments, and the backlash is new to them. They should have kept that video to themselves.
I don’t doubt YOU & YOUR FAMILY viewed it as innocent but it wasn’t kept between you & your family it was released to the public . To double down is tone deaf , to not be able to see even a ounce of validity in the criticism is telling . Kim is widely identified as a sex symbol , you dressed your child as Kim & had her perform a censored version of a explicit song & are surprised at the reaction .
EXACTLY. I have pictures of my daughter naked or doing dumb things in diapers when she was an infant. It's innocent but that don't mean I'm gonna post it. It'll be inappropriate
It’s kind of scary how y’all missing the point on purpose. I love Gia and this is very surprising. Y’all probably should have kept this video in the family. Dance competition, swimming, and sports are very different from a song about sex by a grown woman known for selling sex. It’s just weird. A lapse of judgement. Y’all still amazing parents, we all know that.
I couldn’t agree with you anymore.. It’s soo funny how Gia is totally against a lot of things that over sexuality woman but this one thing seem to be different . I think we all was shock that she was agreeing with it.
I am surprised at the comment they made about swimsuits. I remember some years ago there were comments about her eldest daughter's swimsuits.. I notice all the negative comments were being deleted. So for them to say it is all positive. That is not true. Alot of folks had a problem with the way they portray certain things. The doubling down behaviour they are portraying now is the same behaviour they had when Desus and Mero made fun of them. It is wild and I truly wish the same way they want folks to participate and support their content and initiative.. The same way they should take a step back and respect constructive criticism from the public.
Oh Gia, people looking at it through a negative lens are not sexualizing children 😓 I certainly wasn’t…maybe they are aware of the world we live in. Think of it like the care you took to make sure Madison lives in a safe neighborhood and building - you took those steps because you know that, even if most people are good, there are some who aren’t. The internet is kind of like that too. I’m surprised no one said that to you two before you posted it…Most people online are there for the right reasons, but unfortunately, there are also people out there who could misuse photos of kids in ways we might not even think about. Law enforcement and child safety organizations have found that even innocent photos, like kids in bathing suits, sometimes end up on sketchy sites or are used in ways that violate their privacy. These people might take images from public accounts and repost or misuse them. It’s really unfair and upsetting, but it happens. I’m not saying this to scare you, but just as an extra layer of protection for your beautiful children, the same way you’d lock the door to her room or make sure she’s in a safe environment…It’s sad that we even have to think about this, but just being aware of it helps us keep them safe. Maybe if you still want to share those moments, you could use private albums or apps that only close friends and family can see. Just thought I’d share, knowing how much you love and protect your kids.
I was shocked by the video because on a previous Episode of the Casey crew, Envy expressed he was uncomfortable bringing his daughter into the dance studio. He also said it was because of how they are dressed, it's just not a comfortable situation for him. Envy and Gia had a whole disagreement about it. So my initial thought was if that's the case how are you comfortable with your daughter portraying lil Kim.
Gia it’s okay to say you messed up. Common sense has to kick in at some point. There has always been creeps on the internet. Let kids be kids, if you like little Kim so much why didn’t you dress up as her?
I'm so surprised at Gia. It's not a contest. We didn''t WIN. We actually lost because them doubling down on this bad decision is disturbing and it tells us so much more about them than their words will ever say. #disappointed again
WE ARE NOT THE PROBLEM! WE SEE THE PERSON SHE WAS PORTRAYING, which is the whole idea of the costume. Y'all are missing the point! She portrayed a hypersexualized person. Most people-Lil Kim included- do not let their kids listen to that type of music! As a certified, highly qualified teacher please know that putting her hands over her mouth means nothing!
I was surprised at the choice of character portrayed only because Kim was so hyper sexual. I think the viewers are less sexualizing your daughter themselves but almost feel forced to do so because she is embodying a woman that was overly sexualized. I literally told my boyfriend, I do not want to look at an 8 year old and think of Lil Kim. Older daughter, fine it was just something I think that felt conflicting enjoying the video but seeing such a young girl portraying her. But no one should be disrespectful vocalizing that. This comment comes from someone who does not celebrate Halloween in any capacity and does not have a daughter who dresses inappropriately. There are some of us who just genuinely felt it inappropriate.
To double down and deflect is kinda crazy. You don’t have to necessarily be looking through a negative lens to think it was inappropriate. A competition vs Lil Kim is not the same thing. Like at all. It’s insane to me that they don’t get it. It’s Halloween. Yes Lil Kim is an icon, known for provocative lyrics. But an 8yo dressing as her for Halloween is crazy to me. And by their logic, it’s just a costume. Would they put her in the slutty school girl outfit? No. I’m not putting my kid in a position to let anyone look at her crazy. Especially online. There are too many pervs.
9:49 So instead of taking accountability now you’re making assumptions about other peoples children compared to your own children. Please protect your children and home life. Please take a step back and remove your ego to understand why you should have reconsidered this choice.
Much Love and respect as always. This response feels very defensive; understandably so. Should be easy to acknowledge why there is backlash. Plus, 13:00 Didn’t envy just a few episodes ago tell us y’all fought over his discomfort and paranoia regarding picking the girls up from dance practice? We all as a society are hypersensitive to children and anything to do with sex
Exactly not sure why they can’t just say the song and the way my child was presented may not have been age appropriate, but our intentions was to do something creative to honor lil Kim . Like all this deflection and not taking ownership is crazy
@@krissy33I honestly don't know what they are defending. That video was a bad idea to post for the public. Especially since Envy's name has been in the mud past few months. If I'm not mistaken him and his wife are writing a parenting book, this was not a smart idea at all. Honestly Gia Iives in a bubble she doesn't live in reality. With Envy he's not the smartest.
I think the main issue is that everyone in the video had more clothes on than the damn baby! Legs wide open at the beginning too. I love yall but dang lol
Why would a 8 year old be Lil Kim? They likely have no frame of reference (I would understand if they wanted to be Cardi or Latto) Seems like a clearly misguided choice on the part of their parents. Clout is a drug and you’re clearly exploiting your kids for attention. Very weird to even defend this behavior.
Girl, not y'all gaslighting & not taking accountability for making a 8 year old dress as sex symbol like Lil Kim, OF ALL COSTUMES TO BE, like be for real! Although, it may have been done with innoncent intentions, it seems like ya'll are trying to convince yourselves that the costume was ok to be at peace with your decision. It was inappropriate & a bad call, point blank! I'm glad the majority in the comments aren't being yes men & cosigning the BS. I still love following you guys, your family, & listening to the Breakfast Club.
I’m so surprised by this … with this logic, you can dress your child to be a prostitute and say it’s just Halloween and it’s not like she’s going to actually be one. honestly, they’re your kids. Do what you want to do. Dress them how you want. Be it Halloween or otherwise. Also, sports competitions aren’t the same. Again, I’m just surprised because Gia seems like such a smart woman who has the ability to think objectively.
I dont get you allowing them to listen to vulgar music in the first place?, especially as just last week you scolded Sdot for cussing in front of the kids, (as you should have), but now it just seems hypocritical to me. still like you guys, but I stand by my first instinct , and wrong is wrong.
I mean I still think it’s very easy to see why it’s also inappropriate. That original video and artist is meant to be sexy. And yes it’s a bathing suit but I think everything TOGETHER is what made it on the edge of too much. People who know yall know you wouldn’t purposely do something you found inappropriate with children. But as parents I think the knowledge that people are sharing this video and watching it and getting off to it or have some perverse satisfaction would have been enough for me….
It's concerning to see that only positive comments are being liked by the content creators. Constructive criticism is a valuable tool for growth. If you're seeking feedback from others, it's important to be open to diverse perspectives, including criticism. This isn't the first time this behavior has been observed, particularly in response to feedback about the Desus and Mero situation. While it's understandable that you may have strong feelings about certain topics, it's important to maintain a level of professionalism and be receptive to different viewpoints. The public's concern about the over-sexualized song for a child(ren) highlights the need for careful consideration of content, especially when it involves young audiences. I am disappointed on your portrayal in this episode.
As a fan of your family, I always thought you shared too much about your family. Y’all have a beautiful union and something so special should be protected from the evil of this world. I love listening and staying updated so don’t stop , maybe just limit certain things. Love y’all ❤
I love you guys, the podcast, the family and i admire your parenting skills very much. However, some criticisms are necessary and legit, not everyone is hating or jumping on a bandwagon. To lump all the criticisms together like that is not fair. To those of us who grew up in the 90s, Lil Kim was a sex symbol especially in that song. So yes naturally some of us felt uncomfortable seeing an 8 year old portraying lil kim. Please understand im not coming from a place of hate or hypocrisy, just stating my opinion. Love yall❤
I do agree that people should disagree respectfully. I still think that was inappropriate. The shock was the combination of the outfit and the song. BUT I hear you guys, we have to agree to disagree.
This is so surprising how Gia does not seem to understand the context of the criticism. It was a lapse in judgment on their part to produce something like this when they prior to this, portray a wholesome family image; Hiphop or not.
I don’t think people are upset you do the videos I think their mad that you chose your 8 year old to play her and wear that outfit. As a girl mom myself I loved the video but I think the red outfit was little too much for her age and in the back of my head I’m like the older girl should she played lil Kim cause people are going to judge this. But it’s a lesson learned. People will get over it by tomorrow.
Im not questioning your parenting, but i was very shocked especially with Gia bc she comes off staunch. I didnt expect this. When sdot popped the original bathing suit photo, i admit it didnt look bad, but if you are at the beach/pool it is appropriate.you dress for the occasion. like you wouldnt wear something skimpy to a 5 star restaurant, and you wouldn't wear a ball gown to the beach. And, it seems that Halloween is changing. When i was a kid ppl dressed like princesses, super heroes, or something scary (mostly someone fictitious). now people are dress like another regular person so 🤷🏾♀️
I'm not shocked by Gia. Gia and Envy are the same. She's just more well spoken than him. She knows how to articulate herself better. They are same I used to follow them on Instagram but I stopped during the pandemic. I listen to him on the breakfast club, and sometimes I watch their podcast. Honestly releasing that video was a debacle on their part. But.... Gia and Envy are great parents. They're human and they made a poor judgement. If I'm not mistaken Envy and Gia are writing a book on raising children 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Love y’all deep. Y’all don’t owe anyone an explanation. When I don’t like something or agree with something, I simply keep scrolling. I wish others would adapt that mindset. Y’all are great parents, raising great children!!!!
Guys, Not everyone is going to like everything you do! Our opinions are ours. We aren’t sexualizing anything. Just because family and friends agree doesn’t mean everyone has to or will. We just don’t agree with it, it’s our prerogative! Moving on
I’m a long standing fan of the Casey Crew, however, regardless of artistry, the video(s) were distasteful. Kudos to them for loving their craft and mastering it, but better song choices could’ve been selected. I can’t think of a lil Kim song that is appropriate, but certainly Aaliyah, Try Again, possibly could’ve had the same visual nostalgia. To accuse adults who are absolutely Not sexualizing kids, of sexualizing kids , when you’re literally recreating a video with a sexual nature and lyrics is insane.
I believe I’ve listened to every single episode. I think it’s safe to say that all of your viewers agree that you guys are really great parents. I think it was just a lapse in judgement. Of course the video was made innocently but it should have been obvious why the public who don’t know you as well as your viewers would be outraged.
I know this is tough but we expect more out of Gia and her babies. The video is motion and her legs were open, the picture their legs were closed. We know there's sick people out here, we don't want to see your babies exploited. Madison would of been better.
Looking at it in context, the outfit plus the dancing PLUS the music it was a bit too much. And not for me personally because I know Gia’s intent was not negative at ALL! I felt worried because we know there are sick people out there who will enjoy that video for nefarious reasons.
Saying their Grooming her is ridiculous and insane to say... but I do think it was weird and inappropriate she is too young. It was a dope idea and very well executed but atleast have the oldest daughter be Lil Kim especially for tht particular Lil Kim song
I never saw an issue with the video, and everyone who commented negatively annoyed me. To the same token, I think I am more understanding because I tune in and watch you all weekly, so I know the intent and have a good idea of what kind of people you are. If I was on the outside and saw the video, I “might’ve” had an issue. Not with the way Brooklyn was dressed, but literally only because of the song choice. Otherwise, people are a bit strange. Thanks for speaking on it. Not because you had to, but to bring more light. I understood you all though from jump!
I knew the moment I saw it that it was a bad idea, this should not have been posted. Obviously your intentions were pure, the world is just a scary place. Protect your babies. I don’t think you needed to come on here shaming everyone else for voicing their concern.
Great conversation. I admire that Gia and Envy don’t shy away from difficult conversations. In my opinion, I love the girls videos. If you know Gia and Envy - you know their children are healthy, their first priority and the love of their lives.❤️❤️🙏🏽
At first when I heard the hype, I hadn't seen anything (Instagram sucks with my feed) but once I saw it, I knew why you guys got that backlash. It's not the fact that she was just dressed as Lil Kim, it's the fact that you had your underage daughter lip syncing to lyrics that are not appropriate for someone her age even with her covering her mouth. Actually, what made it much worse was that the covering of the mouth came from you so you knew the lyrics were inappropriate. Let's just keep it a buck and say you guys made a bad decision and leave it as is. I,however, don't agree with folks coming for your character; it was just a lapse in judgement for releasing it to the public.
The combination of the outfit with the lyrics was highly sexualized and suggestive. The pic of her in the bathing suit (before) isn’t the same thing….We gotta protect the babies cuz everyone isn’t looking through an innocent lens.
The problem with social media is it broadcasts your videos to people who are not your people and are quick to judge without taking the time to understand.
@@alricasheppard2636exactly. Context is so important. Anyone who’s spent 2 seconds listening to them would know that they would never exploit their children.
@@goldpinktiger I've watched them from the start and even read their book, and whilst I believe their "intention" wasn't to exploit, the impact of their actions was exploitive. It's naive to think that those videos they shared won't end up in the hands of disgusting predators. Context doesn't take away from the fact that they had a poor lapse in judgment, and the doubling-down and defensiveness is protecting themselves more than the babies.
I’m soooo glad y’all spoke on this and I couldn’t agree more with everything you said. You have the most respectful family and I’m so glad you continue to share content with us despite the haters.
As a man with 2 young daughters, I didn’t like it for a few reasons. It’s not so much of what she was wearing but more so what was being depicted. I believe that kids should be kids until they are not. Lil Kim’s whole persona was for adults. Her music, her look, etc. was adult content. I didn’t think it was appropriate but in no way do I think that reflects badly on them as parents because I know they are amazing. Furthermore, I think my instincts as a father is to protect my daughters from other people’s evil. It’s a sick world we live in unfortunately and while we may think it’s just innocent fun, I have to think how others may perceive it in order to keep them safe.
SDot, please be the sound of reason here. You guys aren't bad parents, far from it! But, it's okay to say you miss-stepped, and it was a bad look, honestly. You guys are in your own bubble and that's fine, but the world just isn't.
Since you chose to address it, It was uncomfortable for me so I clicked off of crush on you in less than a minute. Who cares. After that I chose not to click on one in a million when I saw a preview of the older friend or family member dancing with your daughter. Again who cares. Like you said, you can get millions of positive comments for years then maybe a few negative at some point. I'm one who always ❤️ your Instagram uploads when I see them. The discomfort is not from personal trauma or projection. Just awkward bc the actual videos had mature words & themes. To each their own. Youguys are clearly a loving and talented family & won't let comments from viewers stop your flow.
First I love you guys ❤ BUT you guys really don’t understand why people responded the way they did? It’s ok if you don’t agree, no one thinks you guys are bad parents but to act like you don’t understand why people would think that was a little too grown for an 8 year old come on…also remember once you put something on social media you invite others to give their opinion. That being said we still love to see your family 😍😍
I don’t like that “we make videos for memories, not the Gram” I’m sure yall have tons of videos that will never be online but the ones you share, such as that one, was clearly for internet consumption.
@ I honestly believe it doesn’t bother her. She’s an extremely strong woman who thinks independently of other’s opinions. However, she may not want the hate displayed on her page to possibly affect other readers in the comments in a negative way. And she’s very fair when it comes to blocking people and or deleting comments. If one shares a different opinion than hers, she’s totally here for it. However, if something is rooted in hate with no other intention but to spread hate, it should be taken down. By her, by TH-cam, or anyone else for that matter. Just food for thought ❤️
@@DutchessMontgomery I believe anyone who disagrees with her she sees as a problem, even her husband who doesn't seem to be allowed to have his own independent thought. Im not a mean person nor was my dislike on her Instagram post. Someone doesn't spend almost an hour explaining something to ppl if it "didn't bother them". Being a strong woman doesn't mean you are void of feelings and can't be bothered by something.
@@sonyakirven2559 So if they didn’t speak on it, that would’ve been better right? I disagree with you on that. But that’s the beauty of opinions. We all have one and can agree to disagree. I also believe that simply explaining something to someone doesn’t mean that person is automatically “bothered”. She explained valid points with grace and logic. Nothing came across as “bothered” to me. Seems like you’re bothered by her unbothered-ness lol
I was AMAZED to watch how beautiful and talented London is, watching her on the hood of the car honestly made made me tear up! Her posture, her form, her whole elegance was just breath taking! I view dancing differently then others might, (I am a cheer and dance mom), of course I encourage tasteful moves, but I also recommend the audience to focus on the dedication and disciple that clearly was implemented for her to accomplish her performance! She truly is such a beautiful artist
I knew before you said it that the reason envy didn’t compliment you was because he he didn’t want to hype you up even more lol I’ve head that before and as much as it may make sense in their mind, it absolutely doesn’t work lol. Compliments from your significant other never get old. Loved this episode.
I wish we didn't have to think about this as moms .Growing up I got so many inappropriate comments from men that it made me scared for my daughter. My daughter, who's 15 ,asks why can't men not be creepy.
Gia do you remember Jon Benet? It’s not a black community problem. They sexualized her. You can’t be surprised some people feel that way. Lil Kim is inappropriate for kids.
Sorry to keep commenting. I'm watching and commenting. Anyone whose watched your videos can clearly see how attentive and loving you are as a family and how well your children do bc of that love and attention. Like you said everyone won't love everything but more did than didn't.
Naw, I love y’all, but you guys are lacking accountability. It was highly inappropriate. People felt a way before the blogs posted it. That’s how the blogs got it. This response is making me side eye all of your past options.
I thought the video showed fun and creativity. We know your girls are dancers and that's what it showcased to me and I looked at the outfits as costumes.
I can honestly say when I first saw the video I was hyped! And I reposted it on my IG story because this was one of my fave videos back in the day… I am naturally protective over children because of the world, so I got nervous over the backlash I saw coming… Also I was nervous over the backlash and judgment over my bff Gia (in my head) lol. I do believe this was done in fun and creativity. Most will not see past the sexuality of “lil Kim”, so the bathing suit didn’t appear as “cute” as it did on vacation. Yes many people may not be comfortable but I’m happy it was addressed. Gia you are always calm collected and graceful regardless of anything and I’m sure that ruffles more feathers. Your children are the sweetest I don’t believe they will wake up different after one Halloween production.
I hated to see all of the hate that you all were getting. Those of us who have been watching the podcast since the beginning, know the kind of parents that you are and that you all would never put your kids in harms way. Even if people feel that there was a lapse in judgment, I don’t believe that there was bad intention.
Don’t let the haters stop you guys from making amazing Halloween videos. I love both of the Aaliyah and Lil Kim concept. I even went back to last year’s Halloween themed video of The Wizard of Oz and that was good too. So, please continue to make them because I really enjoyed it❤.
While it may not have been my choice it didn’t rise to the level of what they are being accused of, raise your own kids. What we do know is these children are being nurtured, encouraged to pursue their dreams, and safe. Now let’s help the kids who do not have their basic physical and emotional needs taken care of.
It’s crazy because I listen to every episode of Casey Crew and I’ve never seen so many comments this early!! There was NOTHING wrong with the videos! They were AMAZING pieces of art, representing the icons we grew up loving!! When I saw Lil Kim, I cheesed from ear to ear!! And then you hit us with Aaliyah OMG!! People are sick and unfortunately they now have a platform to voice their sick opinions!! AND CLEARLY they don’t have children involved in extra curricular activities like cheer or dance where they wear costumes like this. You guys did NOTHING WRONG!! F* them!! Lil Kim and Aaliyah were represented VERY WELL!!! Bravo Casey crew!!!
To the emailer, divorce. If he already doesn’t appreciate your worth and disrespecting you by going on about other women it will only get worse. 13 years there is no excuse to not know how to treat you. Especially being that y’all are also in counseling and he still doesn’t treat you right.
Literally the same people commenting on over sexualizing the girls are the same person parents that their kids are raising themselves. If you have been following Gia and Envy then you know they don’t need any advice regarding their kids. They have raised very lovely children. It doesn’t matter what the world is doing as long as the teaching starts at home.
Wow!!!! I can't believe all the backlash your family received. I didn't once think anything negative when I saw it. I thought it was very creative and fun. I always look forward to seeing the Casey Crew Halloween videos. Keep it coming. ❤️
I truly love, appreciate and support everything you all do. However, given the unfortunate reality of the world we live in, where there are real dangers for children, I take extra care to protect my kids. For that reason, I don’t allow my daughter to wear crop tops or short shorts. While I understand that many people wear bathing suits at the beach, I personally feel that children should be dressed appropriately for their age and stick to activities that are suited for them. To each their own but I’m respectfully giving my point of view.
The comparison between white and black is not my favorite. Yes, in our community, Black kids have been oversexualized because of others (slavery). I do agree that the ideology needs to be stripped.
@cburston3653 also bc of things like the rap industry which is being "uncovered" in real time before our very eyes. It's nearly the definition of misogyny, oversexualization & demonization of black girls and women. It can only be compared to the violence & greed that alot of it represents. Yes slavery did a number. I wonder at any point are we going to collectively stand up & scream enough is enough. And yes of course non black people do what they do....on anneven broader scale. They also get criticized sometimes with constructive & non constructive criticism & consequence. I think it's harder for black people to swallow it bc there are so few that "make it" so we want to try to keep them lifted no matter what. I truly enjoy the Casey Crew and support their podcast, social media, interviews and book.
I totally agree with one thing Gia said, we like to pick and choose when we will follow what’s considered “right”. Spiritually, we shouldn’t be celebrating Halloween at all! Let alone the billions of other Halloween costume choices that are way worse than Lil Kim. Who was an artist! Also, God doesn’t measure sin. So I guess it’s correct for her to feel “picked on” so to speak. Also, I have always side eyed all people when they choose certain bathing suit styles for children. Another also, I always give a side eye for all people who choose to post their children online in a bathing suit. Now to say my opinion on another persons family especially child, is a whole different topic. Ever since the internet, people think they can give all type of unsolicited advice these days 😅 just scroll and think it in your head and keep it moving. Geesh!
Yooo 🙌🏿 to Gia for how she worded that last take about how to not dis respect ya man to ya girls n or strangers .... Couldn't of been said better. I Salute 🤞🏿💯💪🏿
I'm indifferent to the Halloween inspired videos. Food for thought, the blogs reacted to the vids and it garnered a reach beyond the pod's usual demographic and that demo expressed their opinion, which DE interpreted as herd mentality.
I knew I seen that bathing suit before!!!! I just didn’t feel like scrolling to look for it 😂 they can’t make me hate y’all family🥰 I really see y’all as a role model to my own! Love love love the Casey’s
The internet literally thrives in negativity. As soon as one page person puts a battery in folks back to be negative the pile on continues. Those are your kids and you knew the intention of the situation. I understand the volume of comments can be overwhelming but don’t let people put you off the square of knowing WHO ya’ll are as a family. People will always have something to say and making it seem like they have a heaven or hell to put someone in. Keep ya’ll head up. ❤
I agree that some people are just viewing through perverted lenses. However, personally I wouldn’t have let my child dress up as lil Kim because I KNOW that there are creeps in the world. But the important thing to remember is everyone parents their children differently! These aren’t our children. Envy & Gia can choose how to dress their children without interference.
@maryannanderson5964 With respect, so many people admire, respect & enjoy what this couple chooses to share. This was a rare time that I was uncomfortable. It's zero to do with being jealous or projecting any twisted thoughts. But I'm also one that when I see their fabulous family photos, I wince a tiny bit when I see the little ones in their swimsuits. Again not bc of me but bc of the perverts. But certainly, as is the case at most points in our lives, everybody is not going to love something that we share. However, ultimately, I know you're right. This gave actual "haters" (as we all have) an opportunity to do what they do. I think for some, it comes with the uncomfortable time we are in regarding children. I would've felt the same regardless. Either way, this is clearly a loving, attentive family.
Based on the email, I can relate . My ex couldn’t bend his damn mouth to compliment me, yet can bend his mouth to compliment others : ish use to bother the shit out of me .
I saw images on twitter that i had to report. some weirdo took stills of the video and edited the pics which were sickening, maybe think about that before posting vids of your daughter mimimg lil kim songs.
SMH excuses excuses excuses and no accountability! Just own the bad judgment call! I’ve enjoyed this podcast for years but this is disappointing and yall not owning it is sad! But your kids your choices!We aren’t sexualizing we didn’t put our “children” on social media dressed and dancing to Lil Kim! We aren’t talking creative dance,volley ball or swimming smh we are talking children re enacting Lil Kim! You’re not above criticism especially when you put it out there! Yall are deflecting big time! Again your kids your choices!I don’t think it’s grooming or anything just bad judgement. Thank goodness IG made that decision! Peace ✌🏾
I agree with you guys. I thought it was great. I loved it. You have beautiful and talented kids. Thank you for sharing. People shouldn't be sexualizing children. That's a personal issue. You guys didn't do anything wrong.
Honestly as soon as I saw the video I instantly knew it was going to get backlash. I was also a bit shocked. I think it was the combination of it all. The wardrobe, song, lil Kim persona, & an 8 yo doing it. I think there may have been a lapse in judgment but I definitely don’t agree with the comments coming for y’all character.
someone on Twitter said they have their kids taken away . come on that ridiculous even if you disagree you know they not a danger to their kids
Thank you, I wanted to make a comment saying "they gon turn this into a negative situation" but I didnt want to be negative. People went to the extreme calling them pdfs i hate this era off people throwing around words to assasinate peoples character smh
A lot of people feel a certain way about Envy, especially after his recent controversies. I don't know what they are defending, honestly. To be honest, maybe they should stop sharing their family. The world will be ok if Envy doesn't post his family. Him and Gia say they don't care, but you're making a whole video explaining. Envy has a point to prove what he doesn't understand is that nobody cares.
the character choices, doesn't deserve character assessment?
@shadyzbabii420 Envy and Gia are great parents, but they are also human. They are not perfect. Envy and Gia like to over share their life on social media and the radio. Posting that video was a poor choice, and they received backlash. Usually, when they post their family, they get likes and nice comments, and the backlash is new to them. They should have kept that video to themselves.
There's no need to be defensive. Dressing your daughter as Lil Kim for Halloween is inappropriate.
I don’t doubt YOU & YOUR FAMILY viewed it as innocent but it wasn’t kept between you & your family it was released to the public . To double down is tone deaf , to not be able to see even a ounce of validity in the criticism is telling . Kim is widely identified as a sex symbol , you dressed your child as Kim & had her perform a censored version of a explicit song & are surprised at the reaction .
EXACTLY. I have pictures of my daughter naked or doing dumb things in diapers when she was an infant. It's innocent but that don't mean I'm gonna post it. It'll be inappropriate
It’s kind of scary how y’all missing the point on purpose. I love Gia and this is very surprising. Y’all probably should have kept this video in the family. Dance competition, swimming, and sports are very different from a song about sex by a grown woman known for selling sex. It’s just weird. A lapse of judgement. Y’all still amazing parents, we all know that.
I couldn’t agree with you anymore.. It’s soo funny how Gia is totally against a lot of things that over sexuality woman but this one thing seem to be different . I think we all was shock that she was agreeing with it.
I am surprised at the comment they made about swimsuits. I remember some years ago there were comments about her eldest daughter's swimsuits.. I notice all the negative comments were being deleted. So for them to say it is all positive. That is not true. Alot of folks had a problem with the way they portray certain things. The doubling down behaviour they are portraying now is the same behaviour they had when Desus and Mero made fun of them. It is wild and I truly wish the same way they want folks to participate and support their content and initiative.. The same way they should take a step back and respect constructive criticism from the public.
I think she knows but just playing ignorant
Oh Gia, people looking at it through a negative lens are not sexualizing children 😓 I certainly wasn’t…maybe they are aware of the world we live in.
Think of it like the care you took to make sure Madison lives in a safe neighborhood and building - you took those steps because you know that, even if most people are good, there are some who aren’t. The internet is kind of like that too. I’m surprised no one said that to you two before you posted it…Most people online are there for the right reasons, but unfortunately, there are also people out there who could misuse photos of kids in ways we might not even think about.
Law enforcement and child safety organizations have found that even innocent photos, like kids in bathing suits, sometimes end up on sketchy sites or are used in ways that violate their privacy. These people might take images from public accounts and repost or misuse them. It’s really unfair and upsetting, but it happens.
I’m not saying this to scare you, but just as an extra layer of protection for your beautiful children, the same way you’d lock the door to her room or make sure she’s in a safe environment…It’s sad that we even have to think about this, but just being aware of it helps us keep them safe.
Maybe if you still want to share those moments, you could use private albums or apps that only close friends and family can see.
Just thought I’d share, knowing how much you love and protect your kids.
I was shocked by the video because on a previous Episode of the Casey crew, Envy expressed he was uncomfortable bringing his daughter into the dance studio. He also said it was because of how they are dressed, it's just not a comfortable situation for him. Envy and Gia had a whole disagreement about it. So my initial thought was if that's the case how are you comfortable with your daughter portraying lil Kim.
I respect Gia as a wife, mother, and overall woman. She addresses things directly in the most gracious way.
Gia it’s okay to say you messed up. Common sense has to kick in at some point. There has always been creeps on the internet. Let kids be kids, if you like little Kim so much why didn’t you dress up as her?
That’s my thought! Why didn’t Gia do it?? Instead SHE chose it for her daughter because it was HER jam.
I'm so surprised at Gia. It's not a contest. We didn''t WIN. We actually lost because them doubling down on this bad decision is disturbing and it tells us so much more about them than their words will ever say. #disappointed again
WE ARE NOT THE PROBLEM! WE SEE THE PERSON SHE WAS PORTRAYING, which is the whole idea of the costume. Y'all are missing the point! She portrayed a hypersexualized person. Most people-Lil Kim included- do not let their kids listen to that type of music! As a certified, highly qualified teacher please know that putting her hands over her mouth means nothing!
I was surprised at the choice of character portrayed only because Kim was so hyper sexual. I think the viewers are less sexualizing your daughter themselves but almost feel forced to do so because she is embodying a woman that was overly sexualized. I literally told my boyfriend, I do not want to look at an 8 year old and think of Lil Kim. Older daughter, fine it was just something I think that felt conflicting enjoying the video but seeing such a young girl portraying her. But no one should be disrespectful vocalizing that.
This comment comes from someone who does not celebrate Halloween in any capacity and does not have a daughter who dresses inappropriately. There are some of us who just genuinely felt it inappropriate.
Yeah. I surely will not watch it again as I feel like I shouldn't be watching an 8-year-old in that manner.
To double down and deflect is kinda crazy. You don’t have to necessarily be looking through a negative lens to think it was inappropriate. A competition vs Lil Kim is not the same thing. Like at all. It’s insane to me that they don’t get it. It’s Halloween. Yes Lil Kim is an icon, known for provocative lyrics. But an 8yo dressing as her for Halloween is crazy to me. And by their logic, it’s just a costume. Would they put her in the slutty school girl outfit? No. I’m not putting my kid in a position to let anyone look at her crazy. Especially online. There are too many pervs.
9:49 So instead of taking accountability now you’re making assumptions about other peoples children compared to your own children. Please protect your children and home life. Please take a step back and remove your ego to understand why you should have reconsidered this choice.
Much Love and respect as always. This response feels very defensive; understandably so. Should be easy to acknowledge why there is backlash.
Plus, 13:00 Didn’t envy just a few episodes ago tell us y’all fought over his discomfort and paranoia regarding picking the girls up from dance practice? We all as a society are hypersensitive to children and anything to do with sex
No Accountability.
Exactly not sure why they can’t just say the song and the way my child was presented may not have been age appropriate, but our intentions was to do something creative to honor lil Kim . Like all this deflection and not taking ownership is crazy
@@krissy33I honestly don't know what they are defending. That video was a bad idea to post for the public. Especially since Envy's name has been in the mud past few months. If I'm not mistaken him and his wife are writing a parenting book, this was not a smart idea at all. Honestly Gia Iives in a bubble she doesn't live in reality. With Envy he's not the smartest.
I think the main issue is that everyone in the video had more clothes on than the damn baby! Legs wide open at the beginning too. I love yall but dang lol
I thought both videos were cute. As a parent, I wouldn’t feel comfortable doing the same but to each their own.
Why would a 8 year old be Lil Kim? They likely have no frame of reference (I would understand if they wanted to be Cardi or Latto) Seems like a clearly misguided choice on the part of their parents. Clout is a drug and you’re clearly exploiting your kids for attention. Very weird to even defend this behavior.
That’s even worse, I’m for letting kids be kids🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
It’s jus like when dj envy say he uncomfortable walkin his baby through the locker room
You make a good point. Bc with this rationale, was Envy sexualizing the little girls in the locker room???
@@17bhappy he wasnt sexualizing them wtf is wrong with yall man
@@GJMartinez. i never said that he was..sooo. ..
Exactly
@@GJMartinez.Are u dumb
This was just parents living through their kids🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Girl, not y'all gaslighting & not taking accountability for making a 8 year old dress as sex symbol like Lil Kim, OF ALL COSTUMES TO BE, like be for real! Although, it may have been done with innoncent intentions, it seems like ya'll are trying to convince yourselves that the costume was ok to be at peace with your decision. It was inappropriate & a bad call, point blank! I'm glad the majority in the comments aren't being yes men & cosigning the BS. I still love following you guys, your family, & listening to the Breakfast Club.
I’m so surprised by this … with this logic, you can dress your child to be a prostitute and say it’s just Halloween and it’s not like she’s going to actually be one. honestly, they’re your kids. Do what you want to do. Dress them how you want. Be it Halloween or otherwise. Also, sports competitions aren’t the same. Again, I’m just surprised because Gia seems like such a smart woman who has the ability to think objectively.
I dont get you allowing them to listen to vulgar music in the first place?, especially as just last week you scolded Sdot for cussing in front of the kids, (as you should have), but now it just seems hypocritical to me. still like you guys, but I stand by my first instinct , and wrong is wrong.
I mean I still think it’s very easy to see why it’s also inappropriate. That original video and artist is meant to be sexy. And yes it’s a bathing suit but I think everything TOGETHER is what made it on the edge of too much. People who know yall know you wouldn’t purposely do something you found inappropriate with children. But as parents I think the knowledge that people are sharing this video and watching it and getting off to it or have some perverse satisfaction would have been enough for me….
It's concerning to see that only positive comments are being liked by the content creators. Constructive criticism is a valuable tool for growth. If you're seeking feedback from others, it's important to be open to diverse perspectives, including criticism. This isn't the first time this behavior has been observed, particularly in response to feedback about the Desus and Mero situation.
While it's understandable that you may have strong feelings about certain topics, it's important to maintain a level of professionalism and be receptive to different viewpoints. The public's concern about the over-sexualized song for a child(ren) highlights the need for careful consideration of content, especially when it involves young audiences. I am disappointed on your portrayal in this episode.
As a fan of your family, I always thought you shared too much about your family. Y’all have a beautiful union and something so special should be protected from the evil of this world. I love listening and staying updated so don’t stop , maybe just limit certain things. Love y’all ❤
I love you guys, the podcast, the family and i admire your parenting skills very much. However, some criticisms are necessary and legit, not everyone is hating or jumping on a bandwagon. To lump all the criticisms together like that is not fair. To those of us who grew up in the 90s, Lil Kim was a sex symbol especially in that song. So yes naturally some of us felt uncomfortable seeing an 8 year old portraying lil kim. Please understand im not coming from a place of hate or hypocrisy, just stating my opinion. Love yall❤
I do agree that people should disagree respectfully. I still think that was inappropriate. The shock was the combination of the outfit and the song. BUT I hear you guys, we have to agree to disagree.
This is so surprising how Gia does not seem to understand the context of the criticism. It was a lapse in judgment on their part to produce something like this when they prior to this, portray a wholesome family image; Hiphop or not.
I don’t think people are upset you do the videos I think their mad that you chose your 8 year old to play her and wear that outfit. As a girl mom myself I loved the video but I think the red outfit was little too much for her age and in the back of my head I’m like the older girl should she played lil Kim cause people are going to judge this. But it’s a lesson learned. People will get over it by tomorrow.
Im not questioning your parenting, but i was very shocked especially with Gia bc she comes off staunch. I didnt expect this. When sdot popped the original bathing suit photo, i admit it didnt look bad, but if you are at the beach/pool it is appropriate.you dress for the occasion. like you wouldnt wear something skimpy to a 5 star restaurant, and you wouldn't wear a ball gown to the beach. And, it seems that Halloween is changing. When i was a kid ppl dressed like princesses, super heroes, or something scary (mostly someone fictitious). now people are dress like another regular person so 🤷🏾♀️
I'm not shocked by Gia. Gia and Envy are the same. She's just more well spoken than him. She knows how to articulate herself better. They are same I used to follow them on Instagram but I stopped during the pandemic. I listen to him on the breakfast club, and sometimes I watch their podcast. Honestly releasing that video was a debacle on their part. But.... Gia and Envy are great parents. They're human and they made a poor judgement. If I'm not mistaken Envy and Gia are writing a book on raising children 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
it's sad that you can't see a different point
Love y’all deep. Y’all don’t owe anyone an explanation. When I don’t like something or agree with something, I simply keep scrolling. I wish others would adapt that mindset. Y’all are great parents, raising great children!!!!
Guys, Not everyone is going to like everything you do! Our opinions are ours. We aren’t sexualizing anything. Just because family and friends agree doesn’t mean everyone has to or will. We just don’t agree with it, it’s our prerogative! Moving on
Most likely a bunch of yes men and women.
I’m a long standing fan of the Casey Crew, however, regardless of artistry, the video(s) were distasteful. Kudos to them for loving their craft and mastering it, but better song choices could’ve been selected. I can’t think of a lil Kim song that is appropriate, but certainly Aaliyah, Try Again, possibly could’ve had the same visual nostalgia. To accuse adults who are absolutely Not sexualizing kids, of sexualizing kids , when you’re literally recreating a video with a sexual nature and lyrics is insane.
I believe I’ve listened to every single episode. I think it’s safe to say that all of your viewers agree that you guys are really great parents. I think it was just a lapse in judgement. Of course the video was made innocently but it should have been obvious why the public who don’t know you as well as your viewers would be outraged.
I know this is tough but we expect more out of Gia and her babies. The video is motion and her legs were open, the picture their legs were closed. We know there's sick people out here, we don't want to see your babies exploited. Madison would of been better.
Looking at it in context, the outfit plus the dancing PLUS the music it was a bit too much. And not for me personally because I know Gia’s intent was not negative at ALL! I felt worried because we know there are sick people out there who will enjoy that video for nefarious reasons.
So Disney Princesses next year???? 😂😂😂
Saying their Grooming her is ridiculous and insane to say... but I do think it was weird and inappropriate she is too young. It was a dope idea and very well executed but atleast have the oldest daughter be Lil Kim especially for tht particular Lil Kim song
I never saw an issue with the video, and everyone who commented negatively annoyed me. To the same token, I think I am more understanding because I tune in and watch you all weekly, so I know the intent and have a good idea of what kind of people you are. If I was on the outside and saw the video, I “might’ve” had an issue. Not with the way Brooklyn was dressed, but literally only because of the song choice. Otherwise, people are a bit strange. Thanks for speaking on it. Not because you had to, but to bring more light. I understood you all though from jump!
Well said!
They're talking about everything but the subject matter.
I don’t blame Gia for being mad and I don’t blame Envy for being upset that people caused Instagram to take the video down
Instagram should’ve definitely took it down…… Let kids be Kids man what happend to Litte mermaid, Disney Princesses🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I knew the moment I saw it that it was a bad idea, this should not have been posted. Obviously your intentions were pure, the world is just a scary place. Protect your babies. I don’t think you needed to come on here shaming everyone else for voicing their concern.
Great conversation. I admire that Gia and Envy don’t shy away from difficult conversations. In my opinion, I love the girls videos. If you know Gia and Envy - you know their children are healthy, their first priority and the love of their lives.❤️❤️🙏🏽
At first when I heard the hype, I hadn't seen anything (Instagram sucks with my feed) but once I saw it, I knew why you guys got that backlash. It's not the fact that she was just dressed
as Lil Kim, it's the fact that you had your underage daughter lip syncing to lyrics that are not appropriate for someone her age even with her covering her mouth.
Actually, what made it much worse was that the covering of the mouth came from you so you knew the lyrics were inappropriate.
Let's just keep it a buck and say you guys made a bad decision and leave it as is. I,however, don't agree with folks coming for your character; it was just a lapse in judgement
for releasing it to the public.
The combination of the outfit with the lyrics was highly sexualized and suggestive. The pic of her in the bathing suit (before) isn’t the same thing….We gotta protect the babies cuz everyone isn’t looking through an innocent lens.
The problem with social media is it broadcasts your videos to people who are not your people and are quick to judge without taking the time to understand.
Or know the context . They just love to chat (island slang )
@@alricasheppard2636exactly. Context is so important. Anyone who’s spent 2 seconds listening to them would know that they would never exploit their children.
@@goldpinktiger I've watched them from the start and even read their book, and whilst I believe their "intention" wasn't to exploit, the impact of their actions was exploitive. It's naive to think that those videos they shared won't end up in the hands of disgusting predators. Context doesn't take away from the fact that they had a poor lapse in judgment, and the doubling-down and defensiveness is protecting themselves more than the babies.
I’m so happy y’all addressed it! I didn’t think it was bad! Someone on your TH-cam was literally arguing me down. This world is weird!
Same over here for me except it was on instagram
Ya too open to things nowadays 😂🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ I’m for Letting kids be Kids 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
I’m soooo glad y’all spoke on this and I couldn’t agree more with everything you said. You have the most respectful family and I’m so glad you continue to share content with us despite the haters.
As a man with 2 young daughters, I didn’t like it for a few reasons. It’s not so much of what she was wearing but more so what was being depicted. I believe that kids should be kids until they are not. Lil Kim’s whole persona was for adults. Her music, her look, etc. was adult content. I didn’t think it was appropriate but in no way do I think that reflects badly on them as parents because I know they are amazing.
Furthermore, I think my instincts as a father is to protect my daughters from other people’s evil. It’s a sick world we live in unfortunately and while we may think it’s just innocent fun, I have to think how others may perceive it in order to keep them safe.
SDot, please be the sound of reason here. You guys aren't bad parents, far from it! But, it's okay to say you miss-stepped, and it was a bad look, honestly. You guys are in your own bubble and that's fine, but the world just isn't.
I Love the fact that you guys share your wonderful family with us ❤❤
Since you chose to address it, It was uncomfortable for me so I clicked off of crush on you in less than a minute. Who cares. After that I chose not to click on one in a million when I saw a preview of the older friend or family member dancing with your daughter. Again who cares.
Like you said, you can get millions of positive comments for years then maybe a few negative at some point. I'm one who always ❤️ your Instagram uploads when I see them.
The discomfort is not from personal trauma or projection. Just awkward bc the actual videos had mature words & themes.
To each their own.
Youguys are clearly a loving and talented family & won't let comments from viewers stop your flow.
First I love you guys ❤ BUT you guys really don’t understand why people responded the way they did? It’s ok if you don’t agree, no one thinks you guys are bad parents but to act like you don’t understand why people would think that was a little too grown for an 8 year old come on…also remember once you put something on social media you invite others to give their opinion. That being said we still love to see your family 😍😍
London and Brooklyn did a good job.People have their opinions but why be so negative.Gia and Envy is great parents.
I don’t like that “we make videos for memories, not the Gram” I’m sure yall have tons of videos that will never be online but the ones you share, such as that one, was clearly for internet consumption.
Yall def care about "negative" comments. Gia blocked me on Instagram years ago for a mild dislike. 🙄
Can you blame her? Who wants to see negativity all day..
@DutchessMontgomery no I can't blame her but why lie about it not bothering you is what I'm saying
@ I honestly believe it doesn’t bother her. She’s an extremely strong woman who thinks independently of other’s opinions. However, she may not want the hate displayed on her page to possibly affect other readers in the comments in a negative way. And she’s very fair when it comes to blocking people and or deleting comments. If one shares a different opinion than hers, she’s totally here for it. However, if something is rooted in hate with no other intention but to spread hate, it should be taken down. By her, by TH-cam, or anyone else for that matter. Just food for thought ❤️
@@DutchessMontgomery I believe anyone who disagrees with her she sees as a problem, even her husband who doesn't seem to be allowed to have his own independent thought. Im not a mean person nor was my dislike on her Instagram post. Someone doesn't spend almost an hour explaining something to ppl if it "didn't bother them". Being a strong woman doesn't mean you are void of feelings and can't be bothered by something.
@@sonyakirven2559 So if they didn’t speak on it, that would’ve been better right? I disagree with you on that. But that’s the beauty of opinions. We all have one and can agree to disagree. I also believe that simply explaining something to someone doesn’t mean that person is automatically “bothered”. She explained valid points with grace and logic. Nothing came across as “bothered” to me. Seems like you’re bothered by her unbothered-ness lol
It’s DJEnvy hoody for me 👏👏👏
I forgot to comment on the Aaliyah video!! Totally 🔥🔥🔥 spot on and super cute! Loved it! 🥰
I was AMAZED to watch how beautiful and talented London is, watching her on the hood of the car honestly made made me tear up! Her posture, her form, her whole elegance was just breath taking! I view dancing differently then others might, (I am a cheer and dance mom), of course I encourage tasteful moves, but I also recommend the audience to focus on the dedication and disciple that clearly was implemented for her to accomplish her performance! She truly is such a beautiful artist
I’m too loyal of a listener because I remembered Gia’s story and thought about it before she even told it 😅🤣
I knew before you said it that the reason envy didn’t compliment you was because he he didn’t want to hype you up even more lol I’ve head that before and as much as it may make sense in their mind, it absolutely doesn’t work lol. Compliments from your significant other never get old. Loved this episode.
Your kids, your problem. No explanation needed.
I wish we didn't have to think about this as moms .Growing up I got so many inappropriate comments from men that it made me scared for my daughter. My daughter, who's 15 ,asks why can't men not be creepy.
Gia do you remember Jon Benet? It’s not a black community problem. They sexualized her. You can’t be surprised some people feel that way. Lil Kim is inappropriate for kids.
Sorry to keep commenting. I'm watching and commenting. Anyone whose watched your videos can clearly see how attentive and loving you are as a family and how well your children do bc of that love and attention. Like you said everyone won't love everything but more did than didn't.
I’ve been defending yall on the internet all weekend. People are so judgemental and project their own issues on others
What’s to defend about Kids dressing up as Two Vulgar Women?……..
I loved both videos! They did very well in portraying those ICONS..
Loved both videos, great job Casey Family.
Naw, I love y’all, but you guys are lacking accountability. It was highly inappropriate. People felt a way before the blogs posted it. That’s how the blogs got it. This response is making me side eye all of your past options.
I thought the video showed fun and creativity. We know your girls are dancers and that's what it showcased to me and I looked at the outfits as costumes.
I can honestly say when I first saw the video I was hyped! And I reposted it on my IG story because this was one of my fave videos back in the day… I am naturally protective over children because of the world, so I got nervous over the backlash I saw coming… Also I was nervous over the backlash and judgment over my bff Gia (in my head) lol. I do believe this was done in fun and creativity. Most will not see past the sexuality of “lil Kim”, so the bathing suit didn’t appear as “cute” as it did on vacation. Yes many people may not be comfortable but I’m happy it was addressed. Gia you are always calm collected and graceful regardless of anything and I’m sure that ruffles more feathers. Your children are the sweetest I don’t believe they will wake up different after one Halloween production.
Big up the Casey Crew. Don’t even watch the negative comments, those that are loving will still be loving you!
I hated to see all of the hate that you all were getting. Those of us who have been watching the podcast since the beginning, know the kind of parents that you are and that you all would never put your kids in harms way. Even if people feel that there was a lapse in judgment, I don’t believe that there was bad intention.
I agree. I think it’s a lapse in judgment. And all it needed was a little nudge, not evil comments.
Don’t let the haters stop you guys from making amazing Halloween videos. I love both of the Aaliyah and Lil Kim concept. I even went back to last year’s Halloween themed video of The Wizard of Oz and that was good too. So, please continue to make them because I really enjoyed it❤.
While it may not have been my choice it didn’t rise to the level of what they are being accused of, raise your own kids. What we do know is these children are being nurtured, encouraged to pursue their dreams, and safe. Now let’s help the kids who do not have their basic physical and emotional needs taken care of.
you can't protect them on the internet this is the point you are both missing
It’s crazy because I listen to every episode of Casey Crew and I’ve never seen so many comments this early!! There was NOTHING wrong with the videos! They were AMAZING pieces of art, representing the icons we grew up loving!! When I saw Lil Kim, I cheesed from ear to ear!! And then you hit us with Aaliyah OMG!! People are sick and unfortunately they now have a platform to voice their sick opinions!! AND CLEARLY they don’t have children involved in extra curricular activities like cheer or dance where they wear costumes like this. You guys did NOTHING WRONG!! F* them!! Lil Kim and Aaliyah were represented VERY WELL!!! Bravo Casey crew!!!
This is true. I never thought about anything negative watching it. I thought it was very creative. Keep having fun with your children.
now why would that FLY come in buzzing that loud 😂😂
To the emailer, divorce. If he already doesn’t appreciate your worth and disrespecting you by going on about other women it will only get worse. 13 years there is no excuse to not know how to treat you. Especially being that y’all are also in counseling and he still doesn’t treat you right.
Literally the same people commenting on over sexualizing the girls are the same person parents that their kids are raising themselves.
If you have been following Gia and Envy then you know they don’t need any advice regarding their kids. They have raised very lovely children. It doesn’t matter what the world is doing as long as the teaching starts at home.
Wow!!!! I can't believe all the backlash your family received. I didn't once think anything negative when I saw it. I thought it was very creative and fun. I always look forward to seeing the Casey Crew Halloween videos. Keep it coming. ❤️
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I truly love, appreciate and support everything you all do. However, given the unfortunate reality of the world we live in, where there are real dangers for children, I take extra care to protect my kids. For that reason, I don’t allow my daughter to wear crop tops or short shorts. While I understand that many people wear bathing suits at the beach, I personally feel that children should be dressed appropriately for their age and stick to activities that are suited for them. To each their own but I’m respectfully giving my point of view.
The comparison between white and black is not my favorite. Yes, in our community, Black kids have been oversexualized because of others (slavery). I do agree that the ideology needs to be stripped.
@cburston3653 also bc of things like the rap industry which is being "uncovered" in real time before our very eyes. It's nearly the definition of misogyny, oversexualization & demonization of black girls and women. It can only be compared to the violence & greed that alot of it represents.
Yes slavery did a number. I wonder at any point are we going to collectively stand up & scream enough is enough.
And yes of course non black people do what they do....on anneven broader scale. They also get criticized sometimes with constructive & non constructive criticism & consequence.
I think it's harder for black people to swallow it bc there are so few that "make it" so we want to try to keep them lifted no matter what.
I truly enjoy the Casey Crew and support their podcast, social media, interviews and book.
Hurt people hurt people and people have ALOT to say BUT are NOT doing the same at HOME.
In New York Times Square it’s like Halloween on the wknds all year long 😂😂😂
I totally agree with one thing Gia said, we like to pick and choose when we will follow what’s considered “right”. Spiritually, we shouldn’t be celebrating Halloween at all! Let alone the billions of other Halloween costume choices that are way worse than Lil Kim. Who was an artist! Also, God doesn’t measure sin. So I guess it’s correct for her to feel “picked on” so to speak. Also, I have always side eyed all people when they choose certain bathing suit styles for children. Another also, I always give a side eye for all people who choose to post their children online in a bathing suit. Now to say my opinion on another persons family especially child, is a whole different topic. Ever since the internet, people think they can give all type of unsolicited advice these days 😅 just scroll and think it in your head and keep it moving. Geesh!
Yooo 🙌🏿 to Gia for how she worded that last take about how to not dis respect ya man to ya girls n or strangers .... Couldn't of been said better. I Salute 🤞🏿💯💪🏿
I'm indifferent to the Halloween inspired videos.
Food for thought, the blogs reacted to the vids and it garnered a reach beyond the pod's usual demographic and that demo expressed their opinion, which DE interpreted as herd mentality.
I knew I seen that bathing suit before!!!! I just didn’t feel like scrolling to look for it 😂 they can’t make me hate y’all family🥰 I really see y’all as a role model to my own! Love love love the Casey’s
The internet literally thrives in negativity. As soon as one page person puts a battery in folks back to be negative the pile on continues. Those are your kids and you knew the intention of the situation. I understand the volume of comments can be overwhelming but don’t let people put you off the square of knowing WHO ya’ll are as a family. People will always have something to say and making it seem like they have a heaven or hell to put someone in. Keep ya’ll head up. ❤
I agree that some people are just viewing through perverted lenses. However, personally I wouldn’t have let my child dress up as lil Kim because I KNOW that there are creeps in the world. But the important thing to remember is everyone parents their children differently! These aren’t our children. Envy & Gia can choose how to dress their children without interference.
Yall say less,you guys are lovely parents,and people are jealous,so continue being an amazing blessed beautiful family ❤
@maryannanderson5964 With respect, so many people admire, respect & enjoy what this couple chooses to share. This was a rare time that I was uncomfortable. It's zero to do with being jealous or projecting any twisted thoughts. But I'm also one that when I see their fabulous family photos, I wince a tiny bit when I see the little ones in their swimsuits. Again not bc of me but bc of the perverts.
But certainly, as is the case at most points in our lives, everybody is not going to love something that we share.
However, ultimately, I know you're right. This gave actual "haters" (as we all have) an opportunity to do what they do.
I think for some, it comes with the uncomfortable time we are in regarding children. I would've felt the same regardless.
Either way, this is clearly a loving, attentive family.
Based on the email, I can relate . My ex couldn’t bend his damn mouth to compliment me, yet can bend his mouth to compliment others : ish use to bother the shit out of me .
I saw images on twitter that i had to report. some weirdo took stills of the video and edited the pics which were sickening, maybe think about that before posting vids of your daughter mimimg lil kim songs.
He was absolutely mad that you was leaving with your home girl
SMH excuses excuses excuses and no accountability! Just own the bad judgment call! I’ve enjoyed this podcast for years but this is disappointing and yall not owning it is sad! But your kids your choices!We aren’t sexualizing we didn’t put our “children” on social media dressed and dancing to Lil Kim! We aren’t talking creative dance,volley ball or swimming smh we are talking children re enacting Lil Kim! You’re not above criticism especially when you put it out there! Yall are deflecting big time! Again your kids your choices!I don’t think it’s grooming or anything just bad judgement. Thank goodness IG made that decision! Peace ✌🏾
I agree with you guys. I thought it was great. I loved it. You have beautiful and talented kids. Thank you for sharing. People shouldn't be sexualizing children. That's a personal issue. You guys didn't do anything wrong.
just discussed this on my channel - no accountability at all!