A Private Investigator's Tale of Love and Deception in Pattaya Thailand

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ค. 2024
  • Step into the captivating world of Ste Beatty, a man whose life has been a rollercoaster of experiences. From a two-year stint in a Japanese prison to becoming a private investigator in the vibrant city of Pattaya, Ste shares his riveting journey in this exclusive interview.
    In this video, Ste Beattie opens up about his time as a detective in the heart of Pattaya, where the neon lights hide more than just the city's nightlife. As a British sleuth, he delves into the intricate tales of love and betrayal that unfold in the relationships between Western men and Thai bar girls.
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    Subscribe to Ste's channel: @thestewozshow7042
    Ste’s email: beattieandwild.authors@gmail.com
    00:00 Intro
    02:15 My love affair with Thailand
    07:06 My first case
    14:44 The soldier and his war medal
    21:30 My relationship with a Thai bargirl

ความคิดเห็น • 161

  • @ThairishTimes
    @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Ste’s audio book which is a teaser to what’s coming in part 2: th-cam.com/video/iCfBeBh6rK4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=uolL16KBTR-GodCt

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Tanks a million

    • @tana16530
      @tana16530 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honey when are you going to find my son's killer okay Leo and longevity is my son his name is lathe l a i
      L a i t h l

  • @VooDooMaGicMan81
    @VooDooMaGicMan81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Great stories, and a reminder to myself why I decided to stop going to places like Pattaya 15 odd years back. If you've got sociopathic traits (as I do when I'm drinking heavily) it's going to end in high drama eventually. Still can't get my head around how anyone would consider drug smuggling in those places though, that's not a 'moment of madness' it's just plain stupid.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      STUPID 100% agreed! but its not always that simple

    • @VooDooMaGicMan81
      @VooDooMaGicMan81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@thestewozshow7042Different world out there to be fair. I think a lot depends on the crowd you're knocking around with too 😉

    • @briansmythe3000
      @briansmythe3000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sounds like a wise move Bro
      I get the same drinking 😮
      Totally gave it away going too the Pub ten years back and drinking
      Went up the pub for New year's Eve first Time for years
      I don't remember much
      Only one Stage crawling home down the road on my hands and knees LOL

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      absaloutly @@VooDooMaGicMan81

  • @juliejames3493
    @juliejames3493 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I'm a falang woman who watched so much, having a bar back in the 80s in Samui, so many Thai ladies used to ask me to write their sob stories about what they needed money for to their various boyfriends frim Europe, basically a standard begging letter.
    Then I started to feel sorry for these various 'boyfriends' when they showed me the letters from the punters, which is what they viewed them as.
    Some men can find a good women, which I have seen.
    That was in the 80s and 90s .
    Now I think its very different due to social media and the smart minded ladies.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think it would be way harder to cheat now becuase of SM, one of the few things its good for tbh. I bet you have some good storys from your experience Julie, Get in touch with Pete, I would love to hear it.

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      sounds like a great story. here's my email if you're interested in telling it thairishtimes@gmail.com

    • @fergaldownes
      @fergaldownes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ThairishTimes that would be one to watch.

  • @Wilko11
    @Wilko11 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wow had that same Killing Joke Tshirt back in 1980, when they released their debut album. Still have the album. Havent ever seen anyone wearing the same Tshirt. 🎸🥁🤘

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm a big fan! me and Woz went to see them last year in Manc R.I.P. Geordie

    • @Wilko11
      @Wilko11 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@thestewozshow7042RIP🙏 Didn't know Geordie Walker passed away only a few months ago, aged 64. He was a brilliant guitarist. Was awesome to see him play up close. Saw them live in pubs several times in Australia in the eighties. They were excellent live, totally rocked the foundations. 👍

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      oh yeah my first ever was watching them at 14 in 1983 and still as good last year, I cant think of a more influential yet unknown guitarist @@Wilko11

    • @Wilko11
      @Wilko11 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@thestewozshow7042 He definitely gave them a unique sound. Jimmy Page even said he liked his playing style. I'll have to give their LPs another spin. And blast "Requiem" in his honour.⚡🎸 🎶☮👍

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have a listen to Pssyche B side of Wardance@@Wilko11

  • @WendDesaulniers
    @WendDesaulniers 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Good story...

  • @mrfunnynames1742
    @mrfunnynames1742 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Same thing happened to me I was doing this girl and her bf called.

  • @boxcartwilly
    @boxcartwilly 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Good interview.

  • @Somerset976
    @Somerset976 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Absolutely loved it, wouldve loved to hear abt his PI work in pattaya ...look forward to part 2

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks, he went into that in this video though

    • @Somerset976
      @Somerset976 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ThairishTimes sorry what I was meant to write was...wouldve loved to hear MORE STORIES about his P.I work in Pattaya. Keep up the good work Pete...BEEP BEEP!!

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      haha no worries, beep beep @@Somerset976

  • @youthought3161
    @youthought3161 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Good interview Pete look forward to 2nd part 🇮🇪🇹🇭🙏🏻

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🇮🇪

  • @Baloybeach
    @Baloybeach 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I loved the phone call from a boyfriend while he was ??? 🤣

  • @darthsiddious7469
    @darthsiddious7469 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    keep the shtories coming, fella

  • @jimmyboysmovies1972
    @jimmyboysmovies1972 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He has some great stories to tell . Part one was interesting looking forward to part 2

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks Jimmy have a listen to our audio sample

    • @jimmyboysmovies1972
      @jimmyboysmovies1972 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@thestewozshow7042 will do 🥃

  • @athitaya6898
    @athitaya6898 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Sounds like the two bars were Wonderful Beer Bar 1 and Wonderful Beer Bar 2, both on the corner of the sois opposite the Avenue. The gold card he talks about is known as bat tong, gold card, it’s the 30 baht scheme.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thats the places mate...bang on

  • @seanlinford
    @seanlinford 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just watched your fantastic interviews with Chris Parker, you’d be great on prime time TV. Gonna subscribe & watch some more of your stuff. Great work👍

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you very much mate

  • @confusedfromcroydon
    @confusedfromcroydon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sounds like an interesting book to read, how to get my hands on a copy?

  • @scottDchicago
    @scottDchicago 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Greetings from a very cold and snowy Chicago!

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Greetings from a cold and windy Dublin🙏🙏

  • @shinnrana6580
    @shinnrana6580 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Happy New year Peter and Neun

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happy New Year to you too 🙏

  • @zeusconquers
    @zeusconquers 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    man, accent hard to understand but it was a good story. cheers mate dont go skint now. lol

  • @irambler4791
    @irambler4791 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    He’s got a thick accent. I hope the CC is accurate.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I did tone it down too ha ha sorry

    • @RS-do6tv
      @RS-do6tv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I couldn’t understand a lot of the interview 🙉

  • @ThailandThomas
    @ThailandThomas 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Having lived on and off for 25 years in Pattaya. I married a beach bar girl. I have gotten to know a lot of ladies. There is a big difference between gogo bar girls and so called beach bar girls. Most Gogo girls will eat you alive. I once knew a gogo girl that would juggle 8 boy friends at a time. Always enjoy your videos Pete.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      totally agree

    • @Thai.Farang
      @Thai.Farang 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      What a load of rubbish. If they want to take you to the cleaners they will. It doesn't matter where they work.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      true also but same same every country @@Thai.Farang

    • @AndiGomez-yu2dx
      @AndiGomez-yu2dx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Thai.Farangabsolutely. I swear it’s just in the nature to cheat and lie through their teeth

    • @exit281
      @exit281 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Thai.Farangif you allow it almost everybody can take u to the cleaners...after all its up to you

  • @seamusog100
    @seamusog100 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sound,,I'm 5 hours behind you in nyc

  • @andyburton8346
    @andyburton8346 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Classic 🤣🤣

  • @crubean
    @crubean 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If you want to be in a relationship with a thai lady you HAVE to be in the country 24/7 so you know what she is up to,yes she will want to spent time with family and friends so you can just have your own time to yourselve also❤️🇹🇭

    • @nickjones8867
      @nickjones8867 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Been visiting for 24 years now think i could only trust a ugly girl that no one wants to Boom Boom

    • @toknnomad1424
      @toknnomad1424 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or just don’t “date” hookers!! …

    • @warntheidiotmasses7114
      @warntheidiotmasses7114 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Doesn't matter. Anyone who comes here to get married is a fool.

    • @AndiGomez-yu2dx
      @AndiGomez-yu2dx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh the infamous ‘Brother’ she’s always hanging out with 🙄

    • @user-vs8yj8oy2v
      @user-vs8yj8oy2v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You gotta realise alot of the Thai lady's still only love Thai men.

  • @senianns9522
    @senianns9522 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Male dross from around the world arriving in Pattaya! It's not your girlfriend, its just your turn! Pay the money lads and get away!

  • @scottjohnson921
    @scottjohnson921 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I need the subtitles for this one!!😅

    • @joeandersen9038
      @joeandersen9038 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am danish, I understand every word, pull yourself together man.😅

    • @robinjardine8366
      @robinjardine8366 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ah the nothern accent

  • @baz69er13
    @baz69er13 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Flying to the Philippines will always be expensive, there is not a lot of competition.......

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We could smoke on the plane back then. I think Emirates were the last ones. Thankfully I've stopped

  • @williamhartz8707
    @williamhartz8707 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Thai government health care system is not free according to my knowledge but it is cheaper than for farangs. Usually you go to the government hospital and queue up to see the doctor for a consultation then he/ she will refer you to a specialist if needed. Seeing the specialist can take over a couple weeks. This all depends on the hospital. These hospitals handle hundreds of patients daily.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've herd its still only 30 Bhat per month for Thai's. Same as UK there full to the maxi

    • @athitaya6898
      @athitaya6898 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s free for Thais. For non Thai you pay.

    • @user-vs8yj8oy2v
      @user-vs8yj8oy2v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's not much to pay to be returned to good health and they do a good enough job in western hospitals you can feel abandoned not in Thai hospital you'll have 6 or so nurses buzzing around you

  • @dolphinvlogs2831
    @dolphinvlogs2831 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Has this guy been on national geographic banged up abroad? He lools familiar

    • @warrenwild3351
      @warrenwild3351 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      he has. big trouble in tokyo. series15 I think

    • @natalierangkla
      @natalierangkla 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@warrenwild3351 Oooooohhhh I thought so. As soon as he said Japan I thought of the show but it's been so long since I've watched the show I couldn't remember.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yep thats the same bold prick ...me

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its the new series from last year @@natalierangkla

  • @Jimmy-km8kn
    @Jimmy-km8kn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thairish is not a word champ

  • @seamusog100
    @seamusog100 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is that 8am irish time?

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      1pm Irish time Seamus

  • @seamusog100
    @seamusog100 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lets see what yee bring to the table on the next video

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      its not easy doing these mate

  • @thestewozshow7042
    @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Pete, Beattie btw 55

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorted now mate

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nice 1 pete @@ThairishTimes

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Can you add the link to our audio book pal?@@ThairishTimes

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thestewozshow7042done mate, i’ve pinned the comment at the top of this comment section

  • @nickjones8867
    @nickjones8867 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You basically just rent love well your there, then its the next lads turn. arrive Sat 6 week stay cant wait 🤣🤣

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yep stick to that mate but thats for the bar world, remember Thailand does have a lot more to offer

    • @nickjones8867
      @nickjones8867 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thestewozshow7042 Never manage too get out off the bars.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      same same at times @@nickjones8867

    • @youthought3161
      @youthought3161 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Make sure wrap up

  • @22jaydogg
    @22jaydogg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You need sub titles for this guy!

  • @myzacky96
    @myzacky96 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    he's too hard to understand

  • @kimtucker-we6sw
    @kimtucker-we6sw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hugely exaggerated if u listen,hard to believe !!!

  • @stevesorrell4541
    @stevesorrell4541 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    'Suprisingly honest for a Thai' ? Really? Get away from bargirls and meet everyday people, you may change your view....
    As for the guy that had the back of his head missing who was in 'special forces', quite common claims from Pattaya bar flys.......affectionately known as 'Warshitters'' 😂
    Not a good watch this Pete, you've had better guests.....

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I apologues, I ment bar girls. and I have travelled many provinces and have met many a BS farrang but this guy was legit. I think me telling the story was done so badly and made it seem untrue. Its not easy under pressure

  • @londonlifeexplorer3915
    @londonlifeexplorer3915 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    10:55
    12:05

  • @user-sw4ip7oq9c
    @user-sw4ip7oq9c 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Disney wabts to do a movie about my life

  • @londonlifeexplorer3915
    @londonlifeexplorer3915 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    22:32
    24:27

  • @tana16530
    @tana16530 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honey whatever happened to the investigation of my son lathe Leo and longevity please do your diligence please

  • @gemox3225
    @gemox3225 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This guy was hard to listen to. I don't know if it was the accent or his logical flow. It may have been both. I've lived in Thailand for a while. I've never been to Pattaya. I don't have a good impression of it.

  • @dantheman11121
    @dantheman11121 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I can’t understand a word this guy is saying 😳

  • @seamusegan7127
    @seamusegan7127 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    U do know what its talking about is bar girls not thai girls

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes I hope it didn't seem like I talking about all Thai women

    • @davidkemp5798
      @davidkemp5798 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What's the difference, they all want your money, at least a bargirl is honest about it.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wouldn't totaly agree but I do hear you but thats not just a Thai thing is it? @@davidkemp5798

    • @AndiGomez-yu2dx
      @AndiGomez-yu2dx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@davidkemp5798💯 Truth

  • @bruces6347
    @bruces6347 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    What a pile of absolute bullshit.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      oh Bruce x

    • @burgsyb
      @burgsyb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Bruce hasn’t been to Pattaya… don’t be like Bruce

    • @bruces6347
      @bruces6347 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@burgsyb you see, I have. Royal Cliff. It wasn’t the content of the video I was saying was shite. More the whole “Private Investigator” bullshit

  • @onehappykamper
    @onehappykamper 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You can be foreigner in a public hospital...so the Cambodian girl wasn't kicked out 55. So so interview. Lot's of...well....

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      not if you cant pay, bye bye

  • @billestep6804
    @billestep6804 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why do dudes think they can get a sincere hot woman in Thailand when they can get a girl in their own country. Do they think laws of attraction doesn’t apply in Asia?

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      because dudes are like me and you are stupid 55

    • @VooDooMaGicMan81
      @VooDooMaGicMan81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You think the majority of blokes go over there to find a Mrs?? Quite a few get sucked in (pardon the pun) when they originally went purely for a bit of 'action' ..but yeah you're not really in touch with reality with that statement.
      95% of the time it's purely a transactional relationship.
      If you really want to analyse the differences between dating in the West as opposed to SE Asia it'd be a whole essay. But I'll give you one example, I'm 5'8 but not bad looking, guess which culture I'm average/above average height in?

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@VooDooMaGicMan81 I'm just generalising it all tbh

    • @VooDooMaGicMan81
      @VooDooMaGicMan81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thestewozshow7042 I was replying to the guy saying there are no differences between attracting women in SE Asia compared to the West. Obviously there are different standards around the world.

    • @billestep6804
      @billestep6804 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@VooDooMaGicMan81 why else would u go to a third world country if you’re from a first world country? So yes most men go for they think easy women

  • @jefflinton
    @jefflinton 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some of it is probably true but l just don't connect with the lad.
    Meh.

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm a bit like that with people with fake profile pics but I wouldn't go out of my way to point it out....oops!

  • @thekiddocook1554
    @thekiddocook1554 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why do u look so much like putin☠️

    • @ThairishTimes
      @ThairishTimes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Long lost brother

    • @johnalex5466
      @johnalex5466 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🤣😂🤣@@ThairishTimes

  • @nightimermx8934
    @nightimermx8934 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "I had just broken up with my girlfriend"
    ...
    A few moments later
    ...
    "I can hear the Isaan dialet and my girlfriend is saying Buri Ram"
    Riiiiiiiight

    • @thestewozshow7042
      @thestewozshow7042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      stay there long enough and you hear North, essan, Bangkok and southern accents and the storys are mixed up from when I was with my girlfriend or I'm making it up that I had a girlfriend etc think about it

    • @nightimermx8934
      @nightimermx8934 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thestewozshow7042 riiiiiiiight.

  • @jeangabin7340
    @jeangabin7340 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This PI is full of BS.

  • @ma3stro681
    @ma3stro681 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This guy is pretty boring, especially for a so-called PI … 🥱