I just wish that black women would assess black men on Eurocentric standards of masculinity (do you own land, can you provide, do you have a job, can you protect etc) with the same gusto these black men hold black women to Eurocentric beauty standards.
@@iameloho718 ….black women need to own that! Especially since these black men have no problem breaking struggle Becky off when they get a bag. if you can provide nothing but belly lent then you shouldn’t be getting married let alone having children.
I agree with 100% with what saweetie said black women are beautiful like it’s okay to have a preference but don’t put down women who look like you as a black boy these are the black men I can’t stand
As a Latina myself. The Latina woman that’s speaking up on tik tok said no lies! Ive been saying it for the longest. I don’t want a black man talking to me after he goes on a tirade insulting black women. Then tells me I’m better as some sort of weird compliment. It’s not flattering it’s embarrassing for him and for myself. How can I assume that he will treat me with respect when he doesn’t treat women of his own kind with respect. *Some* Latinas need to wake up!!!
I always find it a red flag when they haven’t dated Black women (it’s different if they grew up in a area where that wasn’t possible, but that’s not the case majority of the time). By definition a “preference” indicates you PREFER one thing, but are still open to the others. They use the word preference when they mean total exclusion. It’s projection of their own self hate, why would I want to mess with a guy that doesn’t even love himself and the women that built him?
That tells me that the ones that fall for that are the easily manipulated ones they want anyways. They don't want a woman with brains that won't take any mess.
As a dark skin BW with long hair I’ve had a dude tell me I’m pretty for a dark skin girl because they be ugly he told me I had light skin features I almost had a fight with this person and my friends looked mad at me and told me he was only saying you look better that’s all 🤦🏾♀️
I know ALOT of Asian guys have the same complaints. That most Asian women refuse to ever date them and constantly degrade them to white men. It’s because they hate themselves and their own features..
If you cannot intimately love a woman that mirrors your own phenotype, you do not possess the type of love to authentically, fully, and wholly love yourself or another person.
@@dmd4444 because black woman have more respect for black men and their own blackness, and black women empirically ride for their men more that black men ride for them.
Saweetie wasn’t the person who was colorist, it was Too Short who was the one who was colorist. And I liked Saweetie’s response, she kept it classy and I thank her for that. BM just keeps on embarrassing themselves over and over again with their colorist comments and statements.
EXACTLY! That's why i fxcks with saweetie....so unproblematic and uplift other women. You can tell that the BW in saweetie life ( her grandma and aunts etc (black side) DEF raised her well.
@@brownskinbunny3722 These colorist dusties always still sleeping and procreating with black women but publicly disrespecting them and being hella colorist. Weird is not even the word to describe this fùckery🥴
They are so embarrassing. Like I get second hand embarrassment from their dumb actions. If I can feel second hand embarrassment, how can they not feel first hand embarrassment about their own actions. This is so sad lmao they proudly make a fool of themselves and think it’s cute? 🤢
Yeah, I was lmao! I keep seeing these manospheres sitting in on women's sewing circles talking about winter is coming for BW. LOL, okay. We'll see. You'll have my condolences but not my food grasshopper.
As a mixed woman with a black mother , growing up my mother was the epitome of beauty to me. When I see this type of BS it’s so sickening and disgusting. These the type of toxic ass men we do not need!
Exactly, I’m not mixed but I look like it. I’m extremely undercooked. I had to not have BM as an option, because they would down dark skin BW and try to compliment me. It was disgusting. It happened time and time again. I’m married to a white man now who never mentions my color as superior. I still get hit on and I still hear colorist statements. BM are the ultimate yt supremists.
I've been with my white husband for 25 years and I've NEVER heard him say say anything negative about white women even though his "preference" are BW. Well...I'm his preference. 😁
@Teeny Tiny Yes, I agree. All Men as a Whole may come with flaws! I think the difference is this particular flaw of hating the race of women that birth them is a Black male thing. Not that all participate in such nonsense
When i was in college, i was attracted to a guy in my class who was very dark skinned. There was another girl in the class who was biracial and super light skinned with long 2a hair and green eyes. For some reason, i just KNEW he would holla at her over me so i didnt even bother shooting my shot. Lo and behold, he didnt even look at her twice, and he came and talked to me ( same complexion as him). I was SHOCKED!! I was so conditioned to NOT be chosen when a light skin girl was present, it became second nature to me. I was so shocked, that i brought it up to him (i regret doing that now) and he told me, "you're the prettiest girl in this class, who else would i talk to".....anyway, we dated, it didnt work out but i will always remember him for this. A dark skinned Black man who's not colorist is like a needle in a haystack.
Thank you for sharing that bc there’s so many black girls who feel the same way but don’t speak up on it. Most of the time I see a black guy I think he won’t like me (I’m medium dark skin) so I don’t even bother. We have to do better
As a dark skin black man I just go for whatever race is feeling me back. Sometimes since I'm into anime and manga and not thuggish I don't get that much attention from black women but other races would show interest. Sometimes you have to wonder what some black men go through with dating.
We don’t feel y’all are interested so we don’t show interest. It’s crazy I would feel safe with a white man and they listen while being gentle with me. But why can’t I feel that way with black men. It’s because they tell me I need to be lighter etc
@@tercial lol, you don't get much attention from black women. Sir, you are supposed to be the man. Men are the go-getter, the hunter, the leader. You are supposed to be the one showing attention. You are seriously talking about other races of women batting their eyelashes at you. Have you married any of them, yet???? 😏💅
@@deenaprice1524 not yet, but I'll invite you to the wedding and I'm not taking your advice to SIMP and give women free validation, that gets a man nowhere.
Yeah, I was shocked that people were attacking her because she was visibly taken aback. It looked to my like she was thinking, “I can’t believe this is happening.”
And a lot of times people act like they don't get taken aback when people say something to them. They have been plenty of times where somebody said something to me and I was offended but I couldn't think of anything or I was just so shocked that it was being said.
Pretty sure that’s not the first time she heard that type of rhetoric so let’s not. I don’t think she agreed, but let’s not act like she hadn’t heard a black guy talk like this before
@@Mickeii617 girl what? You can’t possibly believe this is her first time hearing anti-black bs. She wasn’t “taken aback”, she just wasn’t sure what to say or how she should say it since she clearly looks up to this guy and have a level of respect for him
@@kaylao.3326 I think she was taken aback, cause he's a hometown legend where SHE'S from, so she didn't expect someone who's iconic in her town to have that mindset.
In my opinion, as a light skinned woman who knows that colorism is real and wrong, I have to say that it bothers me that a lot more anger seems to be directed at the "preferences" than at the ignorant men who are disrespectful toward dark skinned women. But most black women still don't hold black men accountable for anything so it's not surprising.
It’s clear she’s uncomfortable. He’s a hometown legend and going against him could’ve cost her that sample from Tap in. She made it clear that she thinks BW are beautiful. The focus should be on him
Too Short is washed up and no one’s checking for him. Literally nothing would’ve happened to her had she put him in his place. She might’ve missed out on a sample but there are other celebs she could get samples from
And TRUST me 95% of the time it’s not preference. It’s anti-black prejudice (colorism). 2nd girl broke it down perfectly. 3 types of colorist. Colorist don’t find DARKSKIN black women attractive and can’t tell u why smh. It’s due to internalized colorism. Because color has nothing to do with the foundations of attraction.
Right it’s quite sad but frustrating that instead of these men just opening up to their internalized self hatred and anti black colorism they just use black women and their sexual relationships as the default to it
@@Blue_SeaSmoke ummm I’m aware of the issues black men outside USA have where they also treat black women like trash have you been to the UK where colorism is massive?? Or the Caribbean islands/Latin America with skin bleaching? This is more of a global issue that black men deal with so please take that anti-DOAS BS somewhere else
I think Saweetie even knows that she is phenotypically similar to a large group of black american women and if she was just a couple shades darker she would not be a preference, even though she would still be beautiful
She was not for his mess but she had to keep it cute because unfortunately even though she’s biracial she is still a woman if color and we all don’t have the luxury of being passionate about our views without being called angry
At this point y’all are making excuses. She didn’t speak out simply because she didn’t want to offend Too Short since she respects him. That’s all it was
I give TikTok credit for breeding a ground for these type of conversations to happen unapologetically. Black women we are the trend. Let's keep speaking out because history has proven that they will continue to follow us no matter what we do, everyone wants to be like us. Let's use this to our advantage.
Exactly I am so glad my more of my sistas including myself are waking up going back to natural beauty, natural hair/natural extensions/kinky and wearing makeup to just enhance our beauty. BW are naturally attractive we don't need all that extra mess.❤❤❤
He probably feel ugly. I genuinely believe those guys are insecure about themselves but they projecting their own insecurities on dark skinned black women .
That’s exactly what it is! When they uplift other races of women, then they’re by default uplifting other races of men! They don’t make that connection tho!
@Teeny Tiny I don’t think black women should uplift any one group over another. We should appreciate the men of any race who treats us with the dignity and respect that we deserve as women.
Bm will always looks for a way to dismiss black women and uplift those that aren’t. I likes Saweeti’s response. She didn’t hype him up and made it clear that she appreciates bw and their beauty.
Like all you have to say is “I like you” and that’s it. You don’t have to be like “I like you, cuz this other girl is trash”. That’s not a compliment to any woman and these pea brains don’t understand that.
I think it’s beautiful that you’re sticking up for Saweetie and acknowledging that she is in a work environment; however, as a biracial woman, with a platform like hers I wouldn’t of held my tongue. I guess that’s why they call her Saweetie cuz I would’ve been Sa-our, no questions asked. And I would’ve hung up after I said what I said.
Exactly why I left the bay. Never felt beautiful until I moved to the DMV. I can’t walk down the streets without compliments here. That’s crazy and sad
Maybe that's why I was like WTF when I got older and saw how many people were like this. Like of course there are colorists in the DMV too but DEF not like in the south, NYC and Cali. Basically damn near everywhere else smh
I don't like how the media is attacking Saweetie, when really short is the one who made the colorist comments. Furthermore, why are black women always the topic of conversation? They claim to not like us, but always taking about us and bringing us up. Leave us alone.
Umm.. who’s attacking her? She did nothing wrong from what I see. Too Short is the one on the short bus. He’s an idiot. Black Men like Too Short are jealous of Black Women. On the larger scale, we’ve surpassed them.
Right these folks claim to hate BW so d*nm much, but we are always the topic of discussion. I’m seriously not understanding why our name is always in they’re mouth. 🤦🏽♀️🤔
@@9darshana swear I was just saying this!! Always the oogly ones frfr and if not oogly, mentally unstable af, something always be wrong with they aśs! Ugh🙄
Instead of the preferences speaking out, we need black men calling other black men out for their foul behavior. When is that going to happen? Will the REAL men please stand up?
Black women start dating for marriage and not for sex it makes It easier to determine if you should be dating him. If he isn't trying to build with you after 6 months of dating, LET HIM GO!
Ya know wut your username has gave mé an idea. Ya know how BM call non BW “Exotic” (even though we’re the ones who are exotic🙄). We should call our selves “Exclusive” as a come back. Think about it….Something that is exclusive is used or owned by only one person or group, and not shared with anyone else. And wut are we that literally nobody else can be, but try to be and low key want to be? A BLAQUE! WOMEN/GURL🤌🏽🤌🏾🤌🏿✨ So why not 🤷🏽♀️
@@GODESE I am Exclusive. Only available to few. My time is not to be wasted on unnecessary things OR people that DON'T add any value to my life or legacy..
“Man’s rejection is god’s protection” I LOVE THAT. wish I’d of heard that when I was in high school and black men would tell me they don’t date black women.
The men who say, “You think he’s only talking to you because you’re light skinned?” I’ve had several men literally tell me the only date women who look exotic or who are light skinned. We don’t have to guess, these men say it proudly.
The fact that after all the evidence that’s readily available after all these years they still try to gaslight and act like we’re crazy for calling this out is sad.
He has always said something about darker skinned women the problem is for years men overlook darker women for lighter women He is toooo damn old to be talking with this foolishness he feels he needs an exotic looking woman to make his simple ass look better I have a dark skinned daughter who since she has been born I have put her on a pedestal so she can know her skin color does not define her my daughter is 33 gorgeous and flawless
Why do they even call these biracial women exotic. There r thousands of them walking around soo what makes them exotic. These type of men need to go and look for the definition of exotic. Some black men r soo broken they don,t realize it . Trauma plays a big part . The traumatic dna inherited from previous generations is passed on and comes out in these men.
@@yaadapaah887 theyre not even exotic. You can be full black from the islands and they wont call you exotic but a mixed girl with family from alabama only will be seen as exotic because theyre light lol
YESSS LO!! The “it’s not ALL black men” guys are always in the wrong comment section trying to debate us instead of the MEN who are making THEM look bad by association. smh Can’t make this up fr. Lmaoo
I love that Saweeti let him make a fool of himself and pretty much made it clear that she didn’t feel the same way. Light skin black women (and biracial women) that aren’t for that colorist mindset shocks the fuck out of some of these black men.
I wish all the light skin and mixed girls were all like saweetie and zendaya who has also recognized her priviledge and doesnt take black acting roles, but white ones. Unfortunately there will always be women that will take black mens compliments because of their own low self esteem
Yes, also another example of how society, in general, doesn’t hold black men responsible for their toxicities and wrongdoings. Some black women try to hold black men responsible but the rest of the world and a lot of other black women don’t hold the black man accountable.
Mixed women aren't always against us or downing us and we need to remember that!!! Sometime mixed women are on side of the fence when it comes to black men's misogynoir and fetishisation but we can't see past our envy and insecurity to join with them. Sisterhood begins from childhood. When we still act like boys have cooties or whatever. But we lose that sisterhood a lot of the time because black girls are taught to be self-loathing and get jealous of their 'prettier' friends. Not caping just facts. Well never be on the exact same page but we can collaborate so let's teach our girls better!!
Exactly, because I've seen so much hate from women just bc I'm lighter and our skin tones are the furthest thing away from my mind. Sometimes being light skinned means more to others than it does to the actual person.
@@aghasearmyshawolblinkonce8039 they end up looking like clowns. They really think their “preference” wants them after seeing them disrespect their own women 😭😭😭😭😭
I’m glad he’s a colorist, please do spare us. Being a colorist is never okay, but the men that come on and degrade their reflection can stay where they’re chained
I’m from cali and this is VERY common with guys in cali. They are extremely infatuated with mixed race women. The girl would look like the bottom of a foot but if she was mixed/light skinned she was fine. Case closed. My grandma is mixed which is why I’m guessing my siblings and I have lighter skin but my mom is a dark skinned blk women. Men would literally approach me saying “I love your skin tone are u mixed? I never date dark skinned girls” I immediately cut men off for that weird s**t So annoying. I left cali 5 years ago and seeing this interview reminds me to stay gone!
I'm from the Midwest, but when I moved to the West coast I noticed it as well. They only pursue racially ambiguous or non blk women out here. It's wild to me.
Never heard of this man before and he makes Quasimodo look like an absolute prize. It’s always the men with stepped on faces that have the biggest opinions about women 🤮🤮🤌🏼
I was watching an interview with Aries Spears talking about Kevin Samuels and thought the same thing. He said it’s hard for some women to look in the mirror and accept the truth about themselves. I was stunned. Completely befuddled. he does have room to pass impose standards on anybody
Ladies don’t pay men like this no mind. It’s always the ignorant brothers. My black man loves the hell out of me and constantly uplifts, motivates, and encourages me along with all of the other black women in his life.
Too Short is so taken up and engulfed in his own self hate that he does not realize how embarrassing those statements were. 5:25 EXACTLY 8:17 At least she knows
@@melvindebruyne2943 it’s probably because he said some colorist thing in the past. Also no black are mad in this comment section they just use this situation to bring up a topic. I don’t think been those rappers preference is a good thing in my opinion.
@@melvindebruyne2943 he 100% said he can't fall in love with a fully black woman but also ... Did you attend school? Were you taught about context clues & implications? Or does everything have to be spelled out for you? I invite you to leave... this level of confusion might be a little too much for you dear.
At least he’s admitting it. Most of these fools claim we’re making this up. They’d rather talk about weaves and skin bleaching when they need to be talking about their “preferences” (i.e. requirements) for women who have looser textured hair and light skin. Which came first, I wonder?
Girl I’m scared what is going onnnn😟. He’s talking about mixed/biracial women like they’re a collective item. It’s genuinely scary that some BM think this it’s actually so sick.
His face priceless 🤣 A few months ago Kat Williams did a interview on Fat Joe podcast and Katt was praising BW and stated WW are BM downfall especially successful BM. Fat Joe looks disgusted then told him he could see him with a WW Katt say no you can't and you never will. I'm tellin the hate for us BW especially getting praised is real .
@@autumnjade815 exactly when Fat Joe made those comments about Lil Moe and Vita during Verzus I wasn't even shocked because he definitely have a disdain for BW and Remy Ma had a nerve to stickup for him typical pick me and mammy behavior
Fat Joe just called Charli Baltimore & Mo crackheads and said they be in the crack house. The fact that everyone wasn't in an uproar about that made me realize that I'm done. I'm tired as hell & I'm checking out. Edit: I'm sorry it def wasn't Charli it was Vita y'all. Sorry. Edit pt 2: just realized somebody else made a comment on the same thing. Got a little bit of faith restored.
Fat joe hype everything vvhite or closest vvhite he said Drake was the Michael Jackson of this generation and Eminem was best rapper alive. I roll my eyes every time he speaks
I love your commentary! I remember dating someone long ago as a young girl and he told me he was leaving me alone for a light skinned girl …..years later it didn’t work out for them and I’ve been with my husband every since ….but I remember I was so heart broken!
Saweetie looked very disgusted when he was saying that ignorant mess it was written all over her face, but I have to say she handled that respectfully way better than I could have. What he said is down right colorist, sad, and disgusting.
I don't waste my time with being heart breaking ...they are lost ..and the yt man has kicked that ass...so he got ot sense of self...too bad ..it looks weak///
Y’all I’m not being literal when I say “heartbroken”… I’m speaking from a perspective of it being 2021 and we are still hearing this! idc about too short or anyone like him 👏🏾… LOL 🥴 *should’ve used a different adjective 🤦🏾♀️
Ikr? When I say non- black but mostly white men are my preference , some BM ask me if I hate being black. But they are the same ones who prefer me cuz I'm light skin. It's exhausting.
@@gdesiree29 I swear down that black men date non black women simply because they are not black not because of their personality. Black women will date anyone for who they are simply because they have boundaries. A group of black men date outside their race because of self hatred issues.
@@LifeOfKells it literally means you’re in favour of it. It’s like saying I have a preference for vanilla flavoured ice cream but I will still eat other flavours of ice cream as well. It’s just that vanilla is my favourite.
HE IS SORRY! I'm Biracial living in the SOUTH BRONX and I was approached by a Black man trying to shot his shot.He said I l only like Spanish women.I replied MY MOTHER'S BLACK ISNT YOURS and walked away.I would NEVER entertain such a self loathing sorry excuse for a man.
But also- as a black man who's been married to a woman my color for 10 years +, I feel so ashamed for these brothas, but on the flip side, I can't in any way identify with that way of thinking to understand it. It's goofy 🤷🏾♂️
You are a great example of a man. Sometimes with all the fckery, we get lost and don't remember the people like you out there. Appreciate seeing your message. If nothing else, know that it resonated with me.
the second latina woman said it perfectly. have your preference & go about your day. please & thank you. literally! projecting they’re own insecurities for what they lack.
Too Short thought she was going to agree with her and she didn’t. Good for her. He’s a weirdo. Also she played it well,he’s a hometown legend she didn’t want to miss that feature. “MANS REJECTION IS GODS PROTECTION “ !!!!
And women (of any race) are supposed to marry and submit to “men” with such deep-seeded self-hatred such as this? How can any self-respecting woman love and respect such a “man”?
Nobody can say that bw aren’t trend setters. Cynthia g made a good point. We will soon be witnessing the preferences denounce bm publicly because more bw are divesting and burning the cape. Our conversations are making everyone else feel more comfortable to freely speak about bm without being seen as racist.
..tbh....they are only following what we blk women are doing. Just like we made these blk men hot, we can also make them unattractive to others. And lets be honest, these women are speaking out now cause they can no longer stunt on us blk women no more cause we don't care as we are waking up.
But tbh, I remember Jason lee doing an interview with Saweetieand him making fun of Ashantis inner thighs for being “too dark” (I’m assuming expecting her to jump in) and she corrected him. They really be out here trying to push that narrative that. Luckily not everyone will fall for it
We don’t like it. I’ve had 3 serious relationships w BM or BR men and they always have foul stuff to say about BW. Ive always called the men out. I always felt confused bc 2 out of the men came from a BW. Currently, not dating but no longer here for being a man’s preference. If you like me for me, ok. But if you can’t LOVE, UPLIFT, PROTECT black women then you most certainly won’t protect me.
Apparently it is, otherwise the black community would be structured the way it is. We literally have non-black women (ie biracial, yt/Asian women) uplifted at higher status than actual black women
I’m a 28 year old woman from Cali, unlike Saweetie I’m from Southern CA, however like her I’m of African American and Filipino descent among other things but I’ve always considered myself Black or African American. I’m just now starting to realize at this grown/old ass age the self hatred of my black male friends and family. I’m more pro black than all of them yet they ‘other’ me and always point out my lighter skin, eye shape, or how I choose to color and wear my hair… much like Too Short it’s fetishy. When I call them out for being colorist or not liking black women, they deny it and point out that they do date black women just a specific type which is their preference. Which are usually Afro latinas or East African women with Horn of Africa features of lighter brown complexions. Sometimes they even start bashing white women unprovoked (not including “spicy whites” mind you) as if that’ll get them brownie points with me. I’ve shown my uncles, and my homeboys content like this proving my point and they tell me I’m being brainwashed and gaslight. I honestly feel so stupid and late. It’s not cool.
That’s something I always liked about Saweetie because I remember in another interview she said she doesn’t like when people tear other women down to uplift her. She’s aware of the way bm think and she doesn’t agree with it even tho it benefits her. Saweetie doesn’t give me that “insecure easy” vibe and a lot of women can learn from here in that aspect.
Can you say “tell me you’re insecure without saying you’re insecure” he’s basically calling himself ugly cause it’s a fact that both of his parents are the blackest of black. Speak for yourself sir! 🗣
This is so cringe and embarrassing. For BOTH of them.The self hate is real. Black women pull a Saweetie meme and “let’s go”. Damn you know it’s bad when these mixed and non black women are calling it out because they see the bs of it too.
@@veronicajata3121 this is when solidarity is needed for black women and other women of color, mixed race and white women. If we come together and close up shop those dusty men are going to be real lonely looking for their so called “preference”.
I just wish that black women would assess black men on Eurocentric standards of masculinity (do you own land, can you provide, do you have a job, can you protect etc) with the same gusto these black men hold black women to Eurocentric beauty standards.
This part right here. period end of story!!
🗣 LOUDER ‼️
Oh many of us do and they call us gold diggers 🥴🤦🏾♀️
@@iameloho718 ….black women need to own that! Especially since these black men have no problem breaking struggle Becky off when they get a bag. if you can provide nothing but belly lent then you shouldn’t be getting married let alone having children.
A word . But then we just want money 😂
I respect Saweetie because she knew what he was trying to do and she shocked him. He didn't see it coming and he looks embarrassed.
Exactly. He was lowkey hoping she'd bask in the mixed praise he was giving and lowkey shade full Bw, but she didn't fall for his foolishness.
I agree with 100% with what saweetie said black women are beautiful like it’s okay to have a preference but don’t put down women who look like you as a black boy these are the black men I can’t stand
Giiirl!! That man is from another time! You can tell he had the Mac on!
She sometimes identifies as a bw unless asked her heritage breakdown
@@lovelydae7455 I wouldn’t know she was mixed if she didn’t say so
As a Latina myself. The Latina woman that’s speaking up on tik tok said no lies! Ive been saying it for the longest. I don’t want a black man talking to me after he goes on a tirade insulting black women. Then tells me I’m better as some sort of weird compliment. It’s not flattering it’s embarrassing for him and for myself. How can I assume that he will treat me with respect when he doesn’t treat women of his own kind with respect. *Some* Latinas need to wake up!!!
Thank you!
I always find it a red flag when they haven’t dated Black women (it’s different if they grew up in a area where that wasn’t possible, but that’s not the case majority of the time). By definition a “preference” indicates you PREFER one thing, but are still open to the others. They use the word preference when they mean total exclusion. It’s projection of their own self hate, why would I want to mess with a guy that doesn’t even love himself and the women that built him?
That tells me that the ones that fall for that are the easily manipulated ones they want anyways. They don't want a woman with brains that won't take any mess.
As a dark skin BW with long hair I’ve had a dude tell me I’m pretty for a dark skin girl because they be ugly he told me I had light skin features I almost had a fight with this person and my friends looked mad at me and told me he was only saying you look better that’s all 🤦🏾♀️
I know ALOT of Asian guys have the same complaints. That most Asian women refuse to ever date them and constantly degrade them to white men. It’s because they hate themselves and their own features..
“iN mY mIxEd AdVeNtUrEs” these dudes are weirdos.
Very odd... yikes
If you cannot intimately love a woman that mirrors your own phenotype, you do not possess the type of love to authentically, fully, and wholly love yourself or another person.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
A lot of people look in the mirror and don’t like what they see. So it spills over into everyday life and how they deal with other people.
Thats it💯
But why does this only apply to black men? Black women in interracial relationships are not seen as hating their fathers or themselves.
@@dmd4444 because black woman have more respect for black men and their own blackness, and black women empirically ride for their men more that black men ride for them.
Saweetie wasn’t the person who was colorist, it was Too Short who was the one who was colorist. And I liked Saweetie’s response, she kept it classy and I thank her for that. BM just keeps on embarrassing themselves over and over again with their colorist comments and statements.
Facts. Saweetie kept it cute, but you can tell she knew everything he said was THE UTMOST FOOLISHNESS.
EXACTLY! That's why i fxcks with saweetie....so unproblematic and uplift other women. You can tell that the BW in saweetie life ( her grandma and aunts etc (black side) DEF raised her well.
Problem is to them its not embarrassing, thats why they continue to make statements like this
@I protect ww from non bm he’s a colorist. Cope
@I protect ww from non bm you’re the last person to be asking questions, because even your profile picture is very questionable.
So he think he’s ugly and need a mixed women to make his kids pretty.
But his daughter he had I think a year or two ago is fully black 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@brownskinbunny3722 omg I can only imagine how hurt her feelings must be hearing this from her father ❤️🩹
@@iameloho718 it’s disgusting 😒🤮
@Beatriz da Costa respect
@@brownskinbunny3722 These colorist dusties always still sleeping and procreating with black women but publicly disrespecting them and being hella colorist. Weird is not even the word to describe this fùckery🥴
His face when Sweetie said black women are beautiful on their own -->>🤨
He thought she was gunna agree w him 😂🤣
🤣😂🤣🤣
He's like "😶"
@BLACK BULL I don't think so
They are so embarrassing. Like I get second hand embarrassment from their dumb actions. If I can feel second hand embarrassment, how can they not feel first hand embarrassment about their own actions. This is so sad lmao they proudly make a fool of themselves and think it’s cute? 🤢
Whole commentary on point as always. But When Eloho called that man 2 Chainz I lost it!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 my bad
Yeah, I was lmao!
I keep seeing these manospheres sitting in on women's sewing circles talking about winter is coming for BW. LOL, okay. We'll see. You'll have my condolences but not my food grasshopper.
"You don't offer any challenges" 🔥
@@redherringbone what does it mean?
As a mixed woman with a black mother , growing up my mother was the epitome of beauty to me. When I see this type of BS it’s so sickening and disgusting. These the type of toxic ass men we do not need!
Black women are so beautiful and amazing , he sound so cringe 🥴
Yesss Nessa, we all snacks
@@DumplinMills1 Not even snacks, we're a meal sis 😉
@@juratory8876 We’re an entire five-star restaurant
I don’t see why people are so mad at Saweetie...we blame everyone but the black men that hates us themselves.
Thank you I was just gonna write this same comment! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
which is why I date out lol never had to deal with the colorism or texturism bs
@@MontanaDior false. Other m3n aren’t programmed to think like bm. Take your negativity elsewhere
@@MontanaDior. You can’t tell someone what they have and haven’t experienced🤨. You can’t tell someone about their experiences lmao.
@@faith7636 wth are you talking about? How was that negative? I’m saying these evil things may have been said behind her back… 🥴 like huh?
The look on his face when she disagreed. He’s sitting there thinking his ignorant views are feeding her ego and the whole time she disagrees.
He wasn’t ready at all Sis. He thought he was gaining ground with her.🤦🏾♀️
Saweetie is smart!
Exactly, I’m not mixed but I look like it. I’m extremely undercooked. I had to not have BM as an option, because they would down dark skin BW and try to compliment me. It was disgusting. It happened time and time again. I’m married to a white man now who never mentions my color as superior. I still get hit on and I still hear colorist statements. BM are the ultimate yt supremists.
Or she probably does agree but ain’t stupid like him and won't admit it to the world.
That’s their whole point. They’re left speechless when their preference disagrees .
I've been with my white husband for 25 years and I've NEVER heard him say say anything negative about white women even though his "preference" are BW. Well...I'm his preference. 😁
@thin dolly ♡ He is!!! Thank you Queen!!!
Cuz white men don't hate themselves
@Teeny Tiny Yes! And I love that about my husband. Why would I want a man who disrespects ANY race of women.
EXACTLY!!!! It’s always black men🤦🏽♀️
@Teeny Tiny Yes, I agree. All Men as a Whole may come with flaws! I think the difference is this particular flaw of hating the race of women that birth them is a Black male thing. Not that all participate in such nonsense
When i was in college, i was attracted to a guy in my class who was very dark skinned. There was another girl in the class who was biracial and super light skinned with long 2a hair and green eyes. For some reason, i just KNEW he would holla at her over me so i didnt even bother shooting my shot.
Lo and behold, he didnt even look at her twice, and he came and talked to me ( same complexion as him). I was SHOCKED!! I was so conditioned to NOT be chosen when a light skin girl was present, it became second nature to me. I was so shocked, that i brought it up to him (i regret doing that now) and he told me, "you're the prettiest girl in this class, who else would i talk to".....anyway, we dated, it didnt work out but i will always remember him for this. A dark skinned Black man who's not colorist is like a needle in a haystack.
Thank you for sharing that bc there’s so many black girls who feel the same way but don’t speak up on it. Most of the time I see a black guy I think he won’t like me (I’m medium dark skin) so I don’t even bother. We have to do better
As a dark skin black man I just go for whatever race is feeling me back. Sometimes since I'm into anime and manga and not thuggish I don't get that much attention from black women but other races would show interest. Sometimes you have to wonder what some black men go through with dating.
We don’t feel y’all are interested so we don’t show interest. It’s crazy I would feel safe with a white man and they listen while being gentle with me. But why can’t I feel that way with black men. It’s because they tell me I need to be lighter etc
@@tercial lol, you don't get much attention from black women. Sir, you are supposed to be the man. Men are the go-getter, the hunter, the leader. You are supposed to be the one showing attention. You are seriously talking about other races of women batting their eyelashes at you. Have you married any of them, yet???? 😏💅
@@deenaprice1524 not yet, but I'll invite you to the wedding and I'm not taking your advice to SIMP and give women free validation, that gets a man nowhere.
Good for her for not pandering to him!
You could tell she wanted to say so much more 😂🤣🤣 that " really" said it all 😂🤣🤣
Pander *to* what and *for* what?!? Do you *see* that man?! 😂
WHAT a dammm CLOWN!!😂🤣🤡
😂😂😂😂
He is so delusional🤣
I feel bad for their preferences as well! Imagine being harassed by a fool that look like 2short 😂😂😂😂!
🤣🤣
Okay 😂🤣🤣!
😂😂😂
No fr. In real.life they wouldn't fuck with him .. he's some what "Rich" and "known" so they would maybe try it lol
Me too imagine if any woman would be catcalled and hitted on by that dude🥴😂😂😂
Being a fetish is not a flex nor a compliment. It’s weird af. Saweetie looked wierded out.
She did
@@kaylao.3326 hahahhaa she's like " someone save me"
Absolutely sicken
This situation gives me strong stalker vibes.
Nope and people need to stop thinking it is💯
It’s always the BM who are aging like sliced apples who are colorist. Boosie, TI, Mike Epps, Tyrese, etc….
Looking like old raisins
“Sliced apples”. I- 💀
SLICED APPLES ☠️☠️☠️☠️
Not sliced apples and tbh they be looking sad asf💀
LOL not sliced apples 🤣🤣🤣
This is why I keep telling BW go where you are appreciated and loved!
Yeah, I was shocked that people were attacking her because she was visibly taken aback. It looked to my like she was thinking, “I can’t believe this is happening.”
And a lot of times people act like they don't get taken aback when people say something to them. They have been plenty of times where somebody said something to me and I was offended but I couldn't think of anything or I was just so shocked that it was being said.
Pretty sure that’s not the first time she heard that type of rhetoric so let’s not. I don’t think she agreed, but let’s not act like she hadn’t heard a black guy talk like this before
@@Mickeii617 girl what? You can’t possibly believe this is her first time hearing anti-black bs. She wasn’t “taken aback”, she just wasn’t sure what to say or how she should say it since she clearly looks up to this guy and have a level of respect for him
@@kaylao.3326
I think she was taken aback, cause he's a hometown legend where SHE'S from, so she didn't expect someone who's iconic in her town to have that mindset.
In my opinion, as a light skinned woman who knows that colorism is real and wrong, I have to say that it bothers me that a lot more anger seems to be directed at the "preferences" than at the ignorant men who are disrespectful toward dark skinned women. But most black women still don't hold black men accountable for anything so it's not surprising.
Iggy can't even get that BM to sign her birth certificate. So much for being a preference.
🥲🥲🥲🥲
👀🌚🤭💅🏿😂😭😫🤣👁🐸☕️
😂
😶😶😶
And I oop!!!!! 💅🏾😂
It’s clear she’s uncomfortable. He’s a hometown legend and going against him could’ve cost her that sample from Tap in. She made it clear that she thinks BW are beautiful. The focus should be on him
Too Short is washed up and no one’s checking for him. Literally nothing would’ve happened to her had she put him in his place. She might’ve missed out on a sample but there are other celebs she could get samples from
Ain't nobody checking for too short.
@@taylorstep8135 😂😂 like honestly
I’m from Oakland trust me he’s cringe asf
@@taniamarie2486 I'm from Oakland and I completely agree! I didn't even know who he was.....
"They call us emotional and fragile, but you gotta tiptoe in their feelings" THAT PART
“Y’all said he’s a legend…in California” 😂😂😂 That shade 😭
And TRUST me 95% of the time it’s not preference. It’s anti-black prejudice (colorism). 2nd girl broke it down perfectly. 3 types of colorist.
Colorist don’t find DARKSKIN black women attractive and can’t tell u why smh.
It’s due to internalized colorism. Because color has nothing to do with the foundations of attraction.
This!! They usually try to explain their "preference" by saying how steotypical looking and acting DSBW are.
Right it’s quite sad but frustrating that instead of these men just opening up to their internalized self hatred and anti black colorism they just use black women and their sexual relationships as the default to it
I screenshot your comment because you say it all.
yall need to start dating black men from over seas. they love their chocolate queens.....these black American men are far too gone in the head.
@@Blue_SeaSmoke ummm I’m aware of the issues black men outside USA have where they also treat black women like trash have you been to the UK where colorism is massive?? Or the Caribbean islands/Latin America with skin bleaching? This is more of a global issue that black men deal with so please take that anti-DOAS BS somewhere else
I love when their own preferences put them in their place.
Or use them for everything they have! Clowns
👏👏👏me too.
It makes me smile😭
I think Saweetie even knows that she is phenotypically similar to a large group of black american women and if she was just a couple shades darker she would not be a preference, even though she would still be beautiful
It’s so satisfying bc then they realize oh shit…nobody like me 🤣🤣
She was not for his mess but she had to keep it cute because unfortunately even though she’s biracial she is still a woman if color and we all don’t have the luxury of being passionate about our views without being called angry
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
At this point y’all are making excuses. She didn’t speak out simply because she didn’t want to offend Too Short since she respects him. That’s all it was
@@kaylao.3326 I doubt that. Saweetie’s comment may not have been enough for you but she did reject his thought process and moved on
@@kaylao.3326 Girl not you saying the same crap under every comment! Why are you obsessed with painting Saweetie in a negative light!?!!
Exactly
I give TikTok credit for breeding a ground for these type of conversations to happen unapologetically. Black women we are the trend. Let's keep speaking out because history has proven that they will continue to follow us no matter what we do, everyone wants to be like us. Let's use this to our advantage.
I SCREAMED when you said “and he’s 5’7….oh”💀💀💀😂
Me too! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 that awkward second of silence is what also got me.
Saweetie’s also 5’7 lmao
Black women are the blueprint of natural beauty. 💪🏻
period
Exactly I am so glad my more of my sistas including myself are waking up going back to natural beauty, natural hair/natural extensions/kinky and wearing makeup to just enhance our beauty.
BW are naturally attractive we don't need all that extra mess.❤❤❤
@The Cream nope
Let’s not gaslight. There are tons of beautiful all natural 100% black women they are no more special than any other type of beautiful woman.
@The Cream The first civilization started on western Asia. Even Biblical events took place in those areas.
We are the main ppl
He probably feel ugly. I genuinely believe those guys are insecure about themselves but they projecting their own insecurities on dark skinned black women .
That’s exactly what it is! When they uplift other races of women, then they’re by default uplifting other races of men! They don’t make that connection tho!
I mean he is, so it makes sense that he does...
Yup, he said “when two ugly people of different races come together, the child is beautiful”… he’s 1/2 of the ugly squared equation
@@ToriOfTheNile “1/2 of the ugly squared equation” LMAOOOOOOOO🤣‼️You did not like though🤣‼️
@Teeny Tiny I don’t think black women should uplift any one group over another. We should appreciate the men of any race who treats us with the dignity and respect that we deserve as women.
Bm will always looks for a way to dismiss black women and uplift those that aren’t.
I likes Saweeti’s response. She didn’t hype him up and made it clear that she appreciates bw and their beauty.
He’s probably used this angle for years with mixed women in the bay but saweetie seems hip to the game lol
@@TheThriftQueen exactly. I just know Saweeti was uncomfortable and annoyed with that conversation 😭. I’m glad she shut that shit down
@@talkswithali right
Like all you have to say is “I like you” and that’s it. You don’t have to be like “I like you, cuz this other girl is trash”. That’s not a compliment to any woman and these pea brains don’t understand that.
@BLACK BULL Black women with white mothers don’t exist lmao nice try tho
I think it’s beautiful that you’re sticking up for Saweetie and acknowledging that she is in a work environment; however, as a biracial woman, with a platform like hers I wouldn’t of held my tongue. I guess that’s why they call her Saweetie cuz I would’ve been Sa-our, no questions asked. And I would’ve hung up after I said what I said.
Not Sa-our ! 😭😭
But that's you she's just trying to make it
LMFAO SA-OUR
Exactly why I left the bay. Never felt beautiful until I moved to the DMV. I can’t walk down the streets without compliments here. That’s crazy and sad
What is the DMV?
@@LevityBrevity DC, Maryland, Virginia
Yes, DMV ❤️
Maybe that's why I was like WTF when I got older and saw how many people were like this. Like of course there are colorists in the DMV too but DEF not like in the south, NYC and Cali. Basically damn near everywhere else smh
@@tangoblast7614 lol thank you!
I don't like how the media is attacking Saweetie, when really short is the one who made the colorist comments. Furthermore, why are black women always the topic of conversation? They claim to not like us, but always taking about us and bringing us up. Leave us alone.
Perfectly said
None of these ppl on the planet earth would be here without black women. What would life be if every black woman felt this way apart their blk men
That's always the case. If she was full white, they would be calling her a hero.
Umm.. who’s attacking her? She did nothing wrong from what I see. Too Short is the one on the short bus. He’s an idiot. Black Men like Too Short are jealous of Black Women. On the larger scale, we’ve surpassed them.
Right these folks claim to hate BW so d*nm much, but we are always the topic of discussion. I’m seriously not understanding why our name is always in they’re mouth. 🤦🏽♀️🤔
It's still crazy to me that they think colorism is a "preference". I really do not understand
IKR. IDIOTIC.
Exactly. Their preference is more like degrading and dismissing black women and obsessing over their white kueens and “spicy” Latina princesses.
honestly
They have self hate so they become colorist and then they say preference as their excuse to date non black women
Having a racial preference is so weird. Can’t you just love her for who she is?
He’s not even a desirable guy himself tho…. While trying to claim a “preference “
They typically aren't. I have yet to truly see an attractive black man have this "preference".
His voice mad annoying too
🤣
Exactly. He’s NOBODY’S preference 😂
@@9darshana swear I was just saying this!! Always the oogly ones frfr and if not oogly, mentally unstable af, something always be wrong with they aśs! Ugh🙄
Instead of the preferences speaking out, we need black men calling other black men out for their foul behavior. When is that going to happen? Will the REAL men please stand up?
They won't!!
Black women start dating for marriage and not for sex it makes It easier to determine if you should be dating him. If he isn't trying to build with you after 6 months of dating, LET HIM GO!
"People who are intimidated by you talk bad about you with hopes that others won't find you so appealing."
Ya know wut your username has gave mé an idea. Ya know how BM call non BW “Exotic” (even though we’re the ones who are exotic🙄). We should call our selves “Exclusive” as a come back. Think about it….Something that is exclusive is used or owned by only one person or group, and not shared with anyone else. And wut are we that literally nobody else can be, but try to be and low key want to be? A BLAQUE! WOMEN/GURL🤌🏽🤌🏾🤌🏿✨ So why not 🤷🏽♀️
@@GODESE I am Exclusive. Only available to few. My time is not to be wasted on unnecessary things OR people that DON'T add any value to my life or legacy..
@@KiyaTheDon 💯✨👏🏽
@@KiyaTheDon 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯
@@GODESE Period i love your thinking
“57 years old height 5’7 (oh)” 😭😭 God’s protection is our weapon!!!
I had to rewind. That took me OUT 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Indeed!
Alot short men in my experience are colorist
That man has never been 5'7"
This man is not 5'7". 🤦♀️
I’ve been thinking when you love everything “But”, it’s not a “preference” it’s an “exclusion” .
Believe me that leprechaun just saved you.
@@renaissancewoman100 Exactly 💯 no ucks given! They can keep on exploiting and degrading their preferences as long as no unambiguous bw are harmed
@@renaissancewoman100 ok where is the lie? I’m from southern Cali and I don’t think I know of one black woman who said she wanted him like that lol!
@@susiebear3316 I heard that.
@@renaissancewoman100 they way I JUST SCREAMED 😂🤣🤣🤣
“Man’s rejection is god’s protection” I LOVE THAT. wish I’d of heard that when I was in high school and black men would tell me they don’t date black women.
Men probably mad saweetie didn’t just “accept the compliment” 💀
The men who say, “You think he’s only talking to you because you’re light skinned?” I’ve had several men literally tell me the only date women who look exotic or who are light skinned. We don’t have to guess, these men say it proudly.
The fact that after all the evidence that’s readily available after all these years they still try to gaslight and act like we’re crazy for calling this out is sad.
He has always said something about darker skinned women the problem is for years men overlook darker women for lighter women He is toooo damn old to be talking with this foolishness he feels he needs an exotic looking woman to make his simple ass look better I have a dark skinned daughter who since she has been born I have put her on a pedestal so she can know her skin color does not define her my daughter is 33 gorgeous and flawless
Why do they even call these biracial women exotic. There r thousands of them walking around soo what makes them exotic. These type of men need to go and look for the definition of exotic. Some black men r soo broken they don,t realize it . Trauma plays a big part . The traumatic dna inherited from previous generations is passed on and comes out in these men.
@@jubilantsleep this
@@yaadapaah887 theyre not even exotic. You can be full black from the islands and they wont call you exotic but a mixed girl with family from alabama only will be seen as exotic because theyre light lol
What I got from this is Too Short thinks he is ugly. I agree.
😂😂 I agree too
LMAO
It truly is self hate
🤣😭😭😭😭
💀💀💀 you are absolutely correct and I agree. I am also deceased at this comment 🤣🤣🤣
YESSS LO!! The “it’s not ALL black men” guys are always in the wrong comment section trying to debate us instead of the MEN who are making THEM look bad by association. smh Can’t make this up fr. Lmaoo
For real! 💯
THIS
The only way they look bad by association is if you are being prejudice.
Exactly
I’m ur thousandth like 👍🏾
This video was fantastic. Well put together, insightful commentary and edited to perfection. Bravo 👏🏾
Saweetie is using that Communication degree to the fullest.
😂😂😂😂😂
bw just be chillin and we get dragged in to everything
They always find a way to make something our fault.
Chile...
Every 👏🏾damn 👏🏾 time!!
Facts
@@ascribecalledtess7439 More like every damn day!
I love that Saweeti let him make a fool of himself and pretty much made it clear that she didn’t feel the same way. Light skin black women (and biracial women) that aren’t for that colorist mindset shocks the fuck out of some of these black men.
Isn't Saweetie biracial though?
@@missleoladylioness1639 oh, you know what. You’re absolutely right! Lemme edit that real quick
I wish all the light skin and mixed girls were all like saweetie and zendaya who has also recognized her priviledge and doesnt take black acting roles, but white ones. Unfortunately there will always be women that will take black mens compliments because of their own low self esteem
Exactly!
Yes tf it does. I am a light skin woman and I am not here for the colorist bullshit.
People really determined to make saweetie out to be hateful, everybody on her and ain't saying nothing about too short
Yes, also another example of how society, in general, doesn’t hold black men responsible for their toxicities and wrongdoings. Some black women try to hold black men responsible but the rest of the world and a lot of other black women don’t hold the black man accountable.
That's also sexism, they go after her, but not him.
Which is stupid. Always attacking the woman. Instead of attacking that troll.
On her for what? I’m confused
When she ain’t say anything wrong in the first place
Mixed women aren't always against us or downing us and we need to remember that!!! Sometime mixed women are on side of the fence when it comes to black men's misogynoir and fetishisation but we can't see past our envy and insecurity to join with them.
Sisterhood begins from childhood. When we still act like boys have cooties or whatever. But we lose that sisterhood a lot of the time because black girls are taught to be self-loathing and get jealous of their 'prettier' friends. Not caping just facts.
Well never be on the exact same page but we can collaborate so let's teach our girls better!!
Exactly, because I've seen so much hate from women just bc I'm lighter and our skin tones are the furthest thing away from my mind. Sometimes being light skinned means more to others than it does to the actual person.
It’s the “my ex bought me lightning cream and he’s dark as charcoal” fa me😂😂😂😂😂😂
Seeing black men rejected by their “preference” will never stop making me laugh.
especially when their "preference" calls them out for their colorism, they end up looking like deer in the headlights
@@aghasearmyshawolblinkonce8039 they end up looking like clowns. They really think their “preference” wants them after seeing them disrespect their own women 😭😭😭😭😭
LMAOO FR! They be shocked lookin dumb asf
@@miriam9908 they think disrespecting black women is going to flatter non black women 🤣🤣🤣😂
@@aghasearmyshawolblinkonce8039 yes they will know that what black women are saying about colorism that we aren't telling a lie
I’m glad he’s a colorist, please do spare us. Being a colorist is never okay, but the men that come on and degrade their reflection can stay where they’re chained
💯‼🤣😂🤣
Agree. Let them stay where they are. They get no clout, attention or money from me. I hope they keep revealing themselves.
Exactly stay chained “in the sunken place.”
I agree! This is not a man any woman should want. 🤢🤢
@@islandgirl8067 right 💯
I’m from cali and this is VERY common with guys in cali. They are extremely infatuated with mixed race women. The girl would look like the bottom of a foot but if she was mixed/light skinned she was fine. Case closed. My grandma is mixed which is why I’m guessing my siblings and I have lighter skin but my mom is a dark skinned blk women. Men would literally approach me saying “I love your skin tone are u mixed? I never date dark skinned girls” I immediately cut men off for that weird s**t So annoying. I left cali 5 years ago and seeing this interview reminds me to stay gone!
Yess I’m from Cali born and raised and I’m beautiful chocolate queen 👑 the colorism is real
I'm from the Midwest, but when I moved to the West coast I noticed it as well. They only pursue racially ambiguous or non blk women out here. It's wild to me.
@P R Yessss.
@P R YG is another example as well
Yep and that’s why I wouldn’t live on the west coast period unless I was already happily married.
Never heard of this man before and he makes Quasimodo look like an absolute prize. It’s always the men with stepped on faces that have the biggest opinions about women 🤮🤮🤌🏼
Not Quasimodo!!!
I was watching an interview with Aries Spears talking about Kevin Samuels and thought the same thing. He said it’s hard for some women to look in the mirror and accept the truth about themselves. I was stunned. Completely befuddled. he does have room to pass impose standards on anybody
Ladies don’t pay men like this no mind. It’s always the ignorant brothers. My black man loves the hell out of me and constantly uplifts, motivates, and encourages me along with all of the other black women in his life.
Yess girl!! Love this!!
Yes ma'am enjoy the love in peace❤
Saweetie is known for loving her blackness. I love that about her.
I do too 🥰
Right. She loves both of her races as she should!
A perfect example of a biracial woman and how she navigates and embraces the 2 worlds that makes her who she is.
ShaiNaiStov exactly !!!! it’s beautifyl
I feel bad for her for having to listen to his nonsense but she did a good job of putting him in his place.
@Shannon G I don’t doubt it.
Too Short is so taken up and engulfed in his own self hate that he does not realize how embarrassing those statements were.
5:25 EXACTLY
8:17 At least she knows
👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
almost as if that fool was senile...had no clue////
He never mention black women, why yall mad?
@@melvindebruyne2943 it’s probably because he said some colorist thing in the past. Also no black are mad in this comment section they just use this situation to bring up a topic. I don’t think been those rappers preference is a good thing in my opinion.
@@melvindebruyne2943 he 100% said he can't fall in love with a fully black woman but also ...
Did you attend school? Were you taught about context clues & implications? Or does everything have to be spelled out for you? I invite you to leave... this level of confusion might be a little too much for you dear.
At least he’s admitting it. Most of these fools claim we’re making this up. They’d rather talk about weaves and skin bleaching when they need to be talking about their “preferences” (i.e. requirements) for women who have looser textured hair and light skin. Which came first, I wonder?
I love the videos you included!! I’m glad women are realizing it and calling these colorist men out it’s too deep ugh
I wholeheartedly support black men’s decision to not date us. Really, We’re not missing anything, I know I’m not……🥱
Yes like go prefer someone else please thank you
I mean, trash literally taking itself out 🙌🏾🤸🏾♀️ thank you Jesus!
Exactly how I feel 😂.
💅🏾🍿🧘🏽♀️
Exactly this LOL
Girl I’m scared what is going onnnn😟. He’s talking about mixed/biracial women like they’re a collective item. It’s genuinely scary that some BM think this it’s actually so sick.
Right, like its a flavor lol
I HAVE BEEN LAUGHING AT UR PFP FOR A WHOLE MINUTE☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
@@Happypotato917 why?
@@Happypotato917 ?
@I protect ww from non bm these women be so hurt over a nicca having a preference! 😂🤦🏾♂️
His face priceless 🤣
A few months ago Kat Williams did a interview on Fat Joe podcast and Katt was praising BW and stated WW are BM downfall especially successful BM.
Fat Joe looks disgusted then told him he could see him with a WW Katt say no you can't and you never will.
I'm tellin the hate for us BW especially getting praised is real .
I’ve BEEN saying F Fat Joe the vulture. Would have never been ish without Big Pun.
@@autumnjade815 exactly when Fat Joe made those comments about Lil Moe and Vita during Verzus I wasn't even shocked because he definitely have a disdain for BW and Remy Ma had a nerve to stickup for him typical pick me and mammy behavior
It’s really crazy that a Black man preferring Black women and uplifting Black women is confusing for people.
Fat Joe just called Charli Baltimore & Mo crackheads and said they be in the crack house.
The fact that everyone wasn't in an uproar about that made me realize that I'm done.
I'm tired as hell & I'm checking out.
Edit: I'm sorry it def wasn't Charli it was Vita y'all. Sorry.
Edit pt 2: just realized somebody else made a comment on the same thing. Got a little bit of faith restored.
Fat joe hype everything vvhite or closest vvhite he said Drake was the Michael Jackson of this generation and Eminem was best rapper alive. I roll my eyes every time he speaks
If he thinks his own momma and grandma are ugly, he should just say that. But leave the collective of black women alone.
Best comment beautiful Queen
And I oop😮😂🤣
I MEANNNNN LOL
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣🛏🛏🛏🛏
Okay!!!
I love your commentary! I remember dating someone long ago as a young girl and he told me he was leaving me alone for a light skinned girl …..years later it didn’t work out for them and I’ve been with my husband every since ….but I remember I was so heart broken!
Saweetie looked very disgusted when he was saying that ignorant mess it was written all over her face, but I have to say she handled that respectfully way better than I could have. What he said is down right colorist, sad, and disgusting.
This is top tier ignorance… unfortunately, the world is filled with Millions of Too-short’s. It’s so heartbreaking to hear 🥺
I don't waste my time with being heart breaking ...they are lost ..and the yt man has kicked that ass...so he got ot sense of self...too bad ..it looks weak///
@@tjlivejaxkson231 exactly, I focus on who wants me not who don’t,
It doesn’t break my heart when an unattractive & undesirable man doesn’t want me.
What's heartbreaking about a colorist saying he doesn't want you? That's a blessing
Y’all I’m not being literal when I say “heartbroken”… I’m speaking from a perspective of it being 2021 and we are still hearing this! idc about too short or anyone like him 👏🏾… LOL 🥴 *should’ve used a different adjective 🤦🏾♀️
Preference is just a word to put down black women. Colorist black men ruined the whole meaning of preference.
Ikr? When I say non- black but mostly white men are my preference , some BM ask me if I hate being black. But they are the same ones who prefer me cuz I'm light skin. It's exhausting.
Exactly, a “preference” in options by dictionary definition has NEVER meant “exclusion” in options. Smh
@@gdesiree29 I swear down that black men date non black women simply because they are not black not because of their personality. Black women will date anyone for who they are simply because they have boundaries. A group of black men date outside their race because of self hatred issues.
@@LifeOfKells it literally means you’re in favour of it. It’s like saying I have a preference for vanilla flavoured ice cream but I will still eat other flavours of ice cream as well. It’s just that vanilla is my favourite.
they seriously did!!!
HE IS SORRY! I'm Biracial living in the SOUTH BRONX and I was approached by a Black man trying to shot his shot.He said I l only like Spanish women.I replied MY MOTHER'S BLACK ISNT YOURS and walked away.I would NEVER entertain such a self loathing sorry excuse for a man.
Good on Saweetie for putting him in his place.
"Man's rejection is God's protection...So, I'm grateful for God's protection." 😂👏🏾
But also- as a black man who's been married to a woman my color for 10 years +, I feel so ashamed for these brothas, but on the flip side, I can't in any way identify with that way of thinking to understand it. It's goofy 🤷🏾♂️
I agree, these males embarrass me.
Tell that to your boys plss
@@graciousgrace7509 🙏🏾 absolutely! My son, my boys, any nigga who will listen to me
You are a great example of a man. Sometimes with all the fckery, we get lost and don't remember the people like you out there. Appreciate seeing your message. If nothing else, know that it resonated with me.
❤️respect 2 you brotha
Short been a colorist! Saweetie handled this well!
The way the Latina girl came for black men 👏🏾👏🏾 please and when she addressed the Latinas 😭 she was going so hard
The way y’all die in the hospitals during child birth is funny af😂😂😂
the second latina woman said it perfectly. have your preference & go about your day. please & thank you.
literally! projecting they’re own insecurities for what they lack.
If Too Short was not famous then he would not be able to have a preference
It be the undesirables with the preferences😖🤣
LOUDER‼️
😂💀👏🏾🤣💀🙌🏾
They be the Loudest!!! How you facially challenged with a preference? It’s the unmitigated gall for me. 🙄🤦🏾♀️
🤭
@@ascribecalledtess7439 not facially challenged 😭😭😭😭
Too Short thought she was going to agree with her and she didn’t. Good for her. He’s a weirdo.
Also she played it well,he’s a hometown legend she didn’t want to miss that feature.
“MANS REJECTION IS GODS PROTECTION “ !!!!
AMEN!!!
I literally like anyone who is cute I don’t see why people target specific races
And women (of any race) are supposed to marry and submit to “men” with such deep-seeded self-hatred such as this? How can any self-respecting woman love and respect such a “man”?
Nobody can say that bw aren’t trend setters. Cynthia g made a good point. We will soon be witnessing the preferences denounce bm publicly because more bw are divesting and burning the cape. Our conversations are making everyone else feel more comfortable to freely speak about bm without being seen as racist.
Exactly. The videos about loving your preferences without dragging bw, being left a single mother, the dances, they copy everything.
Yes because the more BW keep going there own way the more these other races will do the same exact thing.
i love cyns channel. i’m glad these conversations keep reaching a lot of ears
..tbh....they are only following what we blk women are doing. Just like we made these blk men hot, we can also make them unattractive to others. And lets be honest, these women are speaking out now cause they can no longer stunt on us blk women no more cause we don't care as we are waking up.
This is the most intelligent comment I’ve read tonight.
But tbh, I remember Jason lee doing an interview with Saweetieand him making fun of Ashantis inner thighs for being “too dark” (I’m assuming expecting her to jump in) and she corrected him. They really be out here trying to push that narrative that. Luckily not everyone will fall for it
Yes he’s a colorist as well, he’s said way more in other interviews.
what a weirdo. they are dissecting colours of body parts now? 🧐🧐🧐
@@bornwithclass2365 oh he most definitely is. He’s nothing but insecurities, smoke and mirrors
@@oromtitiwbo5078 my sentiments exactly…
@@CocoGotSnacks 😂😂😂 my body is so many different shades of brown. thats what happens when you are melinated!
Eloho is so talented the way she interprets things that so many are blinded to. She explaining these issues on a level thats beyond our generations IQ
We don’t like it. I’ve had 3 serious relationships w BM or BR men and they always have foul stuff to say about BW. Ive always called the men out. I always felt confused bc 2 out of the men came from a BW. Currently, not dating but no longer here for being a man’s preference. If you like me for me, ok. But if you can’t LOVE, UPLIFT, PROTECT black women then you most certainly won’t protect me.
he thought he ate 😭but saweetie ate him up
"mixed adventures"💀☠💀😭
Attacking black women isn’t politically correct.. We need to make that distinction ASAP.
Apparently it is, otherwise the black community would be structured the way it is.
We literally have non-black women (ie biracial, yt/Asian women) uplifted at higher status than actual black women
Promise you
No Rocky...😐
I’m a 28 year old woman from Cali, unlike Saweetie I’m from Southern CA, however like her I’m of African American and Filipino descent among other things but I’ve always considered myself Black or African American. I’m just now starting to realize at this grown/old ass age the self hatred of my black male friends and family. I’m more pro black than all of them yet they ‘other’ me and always point out my lighter skin, eye shape, or how I choose to color and wear my hair… much like Too Short it’s fetishy. When I call them out for being colorist or not liking black women, they deny it and point out that they do date black women just a specific type which is their preference. Which are usually Afro latinas or East African women with Horn of Africa features of lighter brown complexions. Sometimes they even start bashing white women unprovoked (not including “spicy whites” mind you) as if that’ll get them brownie points with me. I’ve shown my uncles, and my homeboys content like this proving my point and they tell me I’m being brainwashed and gaslight. I honestly feel so stupid and late. It’s not cool.
Better late than never girl !! 👏🏽💕 for a lot of BW it takes a lifetime. These revelations have the power to change the future generations!
This is so funny honestly I don't give a f anymore I just laugh and go where I am love. "On my mix adventures" LMAOOOOOOOOOOO BYYYYYYEEEEEE-
That’s something I always liked about Saweetie because I remember in another interview she said she doesn’t like when people tear other women down to uplift her. She’s aware of the way bm think and she doesn’t agree with it even tho it benefits her. Saweetie doesn’t give me that “insecure easy” vibe and a lot of women can learn from here in that aspect.
Can you say “tell me you’re insecure without saying you’re insecure” he’s basically calling himself ugly cause it’s a fact that both of his parents are the blackest of black. Speak for yourself sir! 🗣
Ooop
This is so cringe and embarrassing. For BOTH of them.The self hate is real. Black women pull a Saweetie meme and “let’s go”. Damn you know it’s bad when these mixed and non black women are calling it out because they see the bs of it too.
@@veronicajata3121 this is when solidarity is needed for black women and other women of color, mixed race and white women. If we come together and close up shop those dusty men are going to be real lonely looking for their so called “preference”.
@@TH-camrOnlineNow Solidarity? No. You can never have that waith mixed and non Black woman!
I always liked saweetie's personality. She always struck me as pretty smart and well.... genuinely sweet. As for that old dude, yikes! 👀
Period!
"the preferences are speaking up! they want God's protection too!" 💀
Wow I’m tired of these weirdos. I’m glad Saweetie came at him and didn’t join in like a lot of these women do
Why am I now finding your channel your commentary is everything . . .but not every bloodclat time 😂
I got mad Jamaican friends 😍🗣
💯me too! new subbie!💪🏾👂🏽👌🏽
I’ve been subscribed to her for a while, she has a lot of great commentary and opinions. Have fun binge watching.