Women try guessing each other’s weight | A social experiment

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  • This video isn't like anything I have EVER done before, and it all started with a few questions I had.
    Why do we allow our weight to control our feelings?
    Why do we give the scale so much power?
    What does BMI really mean?
    Is body fat percentage actually a better indicator of health?
    I decided to gather a bunch of women together to run a “little” social experiment to find out how all of these things - BMI, weight, body fat percentage - actually looked like on a woman. And I wanted to see if we could tell which was most accurate. Or would we find out that labels are bogus?
    I started planning this video a year ago, and I had NO IDEA how to pull it off. Fast forward to shoot day and we had a 20+ person crew working on it AND we flew out one of the world's best female bodybuilders...from Sweden!!!! So crazy!!!!!!
    Parts of this video were extremely uncomfortable to film, but I hope you guys take away the fact that there is so much more to a person than their number.
    I have so many people to thank for making this video happen - my amazing director Ryan, my husband Sam, the crew, the Blogifam...but most of all I want to thank all of the brave, strong women for speaking their truths. You all are amazing!
    Co-Executive Producer/ Writer: Cassey Ho
    Co-Executive Producer: Sam Livits
    Director/ Editor: Ryan Parma
    Producer/ Casting Director: Laurel Elfenbein
    Sound: Alfonso Cano & Aaron Terrones
    Key Grip: Simeon Mihaylov
    Grip: Mason Williams
    Gaffer/ Cam Op: Joseph Baltazar
    Production Assistant: Brittney Brandt
    Hair & Makeup: Lauren Young & Alondra Excene
    Talent:
    Irene Andersen
    Darlyn Barajas
    Bynay Blasberg
    Ebony Breaux
    Celeste Carbonell
    Paloma Hinojosa
    Covi Lockhart
    Rachel Thomson
    SOURCES:
    BMI chart: www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educ...
    ACE FITNESS body fat % chart: www.acefitness.org/education-...
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    Cassey Ho is an award-winning fitness instructor, entrepreneur and online personality. As the creator behind Blogilates, the #1 female fitness channel on TH-cam, she’s transformed millions of lives through helping them achieve their strength and weight-loss goals. She focuses on making fitness fun and the results are evident. Cassey's unique format, POP Pilates©, which launched as a workout video on TH-cam in 2009, has become a live fitness class that can be taken at gyms all over the world with over 3,000 POP Pilates classes being taught monthly. Her authenticity continues to shine through, making her one of the most relatable fitness icons online and beyond. She's also the author of the best-selling book, Hot Body Year Round and is the designer of her own activewear line, POPFLEX.
    With a wide range of free workout videos available, Cassey's channel focuses on ab exercises, butt & thigh exercises, arm exercises, pilates, cardio routines, fat burning workouts, high intensity interval training workouts (HIIT), stretching and flexibility routines and so much more!
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  • @blogilates
    @blogilates  4 ปีที่แล้ว +21073

    I started planning this video a while ago, and I was very aware of how sensitive this topic was going to be. We needed to find women who were comfortable discussing their weight on camera and we needed to produce this video in the most compassionate way. I didn’t want anyone to run off set crying or upset. I wanted to have an open discussion with real feelings about some real taboo topics.
    I’m currently reading the comments on here and it seems that the feelings on this video are split 50/50. Some people are moved to tears because they’re incredibly touched…and then others are very upset, saying it was a terrible, pointless video meant to make women feel bad about themselves.
    So, what was the point? To show that labels and numbers have as much power as we want to give them. They can make us feel bad. They can make us feel good. Or they can just be data points to guide our next steps. But your health, which includes both your mental health, your physical health as well as your happiness is something that cannot be accurately assessed by any number. A number does it’s best to help medical professionals categorize your health as a starting point, but it’s not the entire story. Health really does look different on everyone.
    This content is meant to make you think. Yeah, it’s uncomfortable, but when did we ever become smarter, better humans by being comfortable all the time? We grow the most when we’re challenged - and I’m talking emotionally challenged too. If this video made you feel a certain way, take a moment to reflect and ask yourself why you feel that way. Can you dig deep and dissect this feeling further? Some of you may find that you need improvement in the area of not letting numbers control your happiness. And others of you may just find that you don’t want a relationship with numbers at all, and that my content didn’t help you achieve that. Both are okay to feel. What's not okay is calling people derogatory names and spreading hatred. I will never allow that here on my channel.
    Just so you know, each woman was mentally prepped for the shoot and knew that we’d be discussing weight and other sensitive body image topics. Our producer interviewed each woman who was casted one by one and in person, and made sure they were comfortable with the topics before committing to the shoot. The entire Blogifam and the crew was very careful in making sure the women felt good during the entire process, from casting to shoot day to video release. The mental health of each of the women was my first priority.

    • @lookiewhoishere
      @lookiewhoishere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      Fabulous idea!

    • @Arachne-qw1vr
      @Arachne-qw1vr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +760

      The information I found most compelling in this video was the different regimes people put themselves under. Im not convinced that you demonstrated what you aimed for in this video. Understanding and acceptance around why people are bigger than others. In fact I saw you make a very clear contrast between that one women who didn't eat healthy or exercise and everybody else. This was heightened in the awkward tension in the room. It was not a good awkward, Casey Ho it was not the elated, groundbreaking awkward you were looking for.
      And like an every angry post-writer heres what I think is best: Do another group chat and compare lifestyles in a circle. No partners. How do you manage your day, what kind of food do you eat that you feel guilty over, how do you manage that guilt, what hours do you work, what else stops you from being you? Ok now lets look at your weight, toning and a blood sample on how 'healthy' the science says you are... When you look at each other once more, now what do you see? Fat, or a person.

    • @caseykaiser3313
      @caseykaiser3313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1584

      While I appreciate you were trying to do, it didn't seem that way in the video at all. Also another point Cassey, when people are telling you something nicely, perhaps you should listen to them? We all make mistakes and it's okay to accept and apologize for them. Not every comment is about "negativity", sometimes it's just feedback.

    • @mariatutunjian3080
      @mariatutunjian3080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I think this is good to bring this up to make us aware ,
      I would give my opinion its a matter of individuals choice and if there motivaited to do this analizaition of what they should really be .

    • @viviannguyen941
      @viviannguyen941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      Hey Casey, I really enjoyed the video and hope you continue in making more content like this. A feedback I have is that maybe explaining scientific terms, with more background information. For example, when you brought up fat percentages you only had a number. Though where fat is located on the body is super important. Probably more important then how much fat a person have. For example, a normal weight individual that carry most of their visceral fat in their belly may actually suffer more from type 2 diabetese than their overweight counterpart. But idk if you want to go that deep either cause in the end people will still complain. I watch scientific fitness videos such as from Stephanie buttermore and people still be upset so I guess ignorant is bliss. Bless your heart Casey!!

  • @Zalenciaaa
    @Zalenciaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98043

    Use me as a “It was a good idea but the execution was horrible” button.

    • @ramsy4205
      @ramsy4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2291

      Thank you genius person. A biological woman with 5% body fat would be a walking zombie

    • @Ella-fv4hm
      @Ella-fv4hm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3217

      Lisa should have done it with women who all weighed the same, or wore the same sizes or something like that, so no one would be left with any hard feelings

    • @TheUnfashionista
      @TheUnfashionista 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2794

      I fee bad for the girl who was obese . Everyone else was physically ok ( well, I’m not sure about the 5% body fat ) ... but the other girls for the most part were normal or fit ... there was nobody else like her . Like they could have gone by something else or used better examples .
      I cringed when they asked the heaviest girl how she felt about being obese on the BMI and she said she didn’t think she was obese and then every other measurement they gave her called her obese again. It wasn’t that it wasn’t true , but it just seemed like she was singled out in this more than the other girls. I also think that the muscular girl and the heavier girl both seemed equally uncomfortable by the person in their weight category .

    • @TheUnfashionista
      @TheUnfashionista 4 ปีที่แล้ว +598

      ramsy420 I think she was a biological woman. Her voice sounded altered by testosterone or steroids , but she did seem to be a woman .

    • @ramsy4205
      @ramsy4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +261

      @@TheUnfashionista as I explained, a biological woman with 5% body fat would not be walking around like its nothing. For a biological man it's not a big deal because the essential fat is there. That's why they mentioned essential fat percentages for males and females

  • @Liffyflash
    @Liffyflash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22400

    The muscular woman be spending all her life at the gym just to be called obese lmao this aint it

    • @maddiekrstev6609
      @maddiekrstev6609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +721

      Kim Seunghun I agree, bmi sometimes portrays muscle and fat differently and inaccurately, but at the same time she only had a 5% body pat percentage. It’s not in my place to judge but I just feel as if perhaps body fat % is more fact based, and she knows that she is healthy and hopefully happy aswell. 😅

    • @teresamesa
      @teresamesa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +355

      bmi is crap !!

    • @JulietteVeronica1201
      @JulietteVeronica1201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      Not necessarily. All it means is she has a ton of muscle if her body fat percentage is that low at that weight.

    • @michellecampa9850
      @michellecampa9850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Nobody would call her obese lmao

    • @derpypugs2835
      @derpypugs2835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Are you talking about the people in this episode cause the most muscular is a man and the other too are 120lbs😂

  • @RegularOddball
    @RegularOddball ปีที่แล้ว +5723

    Weird that she tells the 24.5 BMI girl that she's almost overweight but doesn't tell the 19 BMI girl she's almost underweight. They're the same distance (0.5 points) from those respective categories.

    • @kimberlyperrotis8962
      @kimberlyperrotis8962 ปีที่แล้ว +286

      Being slightly in the low body fat category doesn’t affect longevity.

    • @dragoncup9099
      @dragoncup9099 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      That is very interesting

    • @dragoncup9099
      @dragoncup9099 ปีที่แล้ว +651

      @@kimberlyperrotis8962 its called underweight for a reason: not *healthy* weight.

    • @yesplatinum7956
      @yesplatinum7956 ปีที่แล้ว +230

      @@kimberlyperrotis8962 couldn’t you say the same thing about slightly high body fat?

    • @jaycewarner422
      @jaycewarner422 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      @@dragoncup9099 Not necessarily. BMI fails to account for genetics, and while we know being closer to or in the overweight/obese category is associated with reduced longevity due to gravity putting pressure on the lower bearing joints and greater risk of disease/organ failure for most races, being closer to or slightly (meaning a few pounds) “underweight” isn’t always unhealthy.
      I’ll use my genetics as an example (I’m a Kinesiology/Nutrition student and undergrad researcher btw, my interests lie in health promotion and racial health and information disparities/interventions). I’m a 5’6, 116-118 lb female (I put a range because body weight fluctuates due to water weight and other factors), so my BMI is usually between 18.7-19.0.
      By normal standards, I would be considered very close to being underweight, possibly unhealthy. However, what BMI fails to take into account is that I’m a Native American with a long family history of joint issues, high cholesterol and blood pressure, lung issues, substance abuse (not me, but my mom’s mother was especially heavy on them, my mom was addicted to alcohol before she got pregnant with me too), iron deficiency, and obesity. My family medical history has a LOT of cases of joint and mobility issues as we age, so it’s actually healthier for me in the long run if I’m closer to the underweight category (less pressure on the joints). I just have to watch my micronutrient intake. This is also true for many of Asian and Hispanic descent.
      Now, for someone of African American descent, being slightly (meaning a few pounds) overweight may be a bit healthier, despite their higher mortality rates for obesity (bc most mortality rates are from those in the obese category, rather than a couple pounds overweight). This is because they tend to have less visceral fat (the fat that wraps your abdominal organs) and more nutrient deficiencies.
      Across most people, though, being a closer to the underweight category than the overweight category is better for longevity, as Kimberly pointed out.

  • @dietitianEmma
    @dietitianEmma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5170

    As a dietitian, this was cringey on so many levels. Asking someone how they feel to be categorized as “overweight”… just why? What do you expect them to say?

    • @GB2139
      @GB2139 ปีที่แล้ว +188

      I expect them to say: YES I AM SOOO OBESE ! HELP
      😒🤬😯👊🏽👊🏽

    • @Kaloapoele
      @Kaloapoele ปีที่แล้ว +189

      Yeah, hard to watch.
      How do you feel now?
      Bad/guilty?
      Kinda sad

    • @mayabrenner3762
      @mayabrenner3762 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      That's the point, you don't expect anything. You ask because you're learning their perspective.

    • @Dietxcokex00
      @Dietxcokex00 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Flippy2100 okay then,chuck

    • @bookpuffin8773
      @bookpuffin8773 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Maya Brenner, exactly

  • @phoebesketches6489
    @phoebesketches6489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20307

    Really bothers me how she points out 24.5 is nearly overweight but doesn’t say that 19 is nearly underweight

    • @tateylyn8497
      @tateylyn8497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2431

      Agreed. I was surprised no one was called underweight lol yet others are going to be called out for being overweight? Lmao wtf

    • @tateylyn8497
      @tateylyn8497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

      And I'm most likely a slightly underweight person for my height.

    • @chericebt4332
      @chericebt4332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +351

      The range for normal and healthy is 19 to 24.9.

    • @tateylyn8497
      @tateylyn8497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +634

      @@chericebt4332 let's be honest, overweight people will always be called out more than the underweight sadly. When you're underweight it's called anorexia most of the time, but theres no mental illness name for someone who overeats? In that case I'd rather be called fat than underweight because even when I wasnt underweight I was still called anorexic and it felt worse because I was labeled with a damn mental illness that I didnt have. Plus i always ate more than any "fat" person my age at the time

    • @daani1865
      @daani1865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Phoebesketches that really pissed me off too it makes me angry

  • @amylouise5885
    @amylouise5885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18839

    "You are obese. How does this make you feel?" how tf you meant to respond to that

    • @yokonono2171
      @yokonono2171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +537

      Amy Louise i know right ? Like wtf

    • @mollyoxy
      @mollyoxy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +571

      I’d just be like yeah I know I am (I actually am, my BMI is 32 but I’m working on losing weight and have lost nearly 40 pounds already). People are all about “fat positivity” and yet they get all riled up about facts like obesity, body fat percentages, weight etc. If people were truly fat positive, they’d be unashamed and proud to show their weight, body fat percentages, obese bmi. But no, they ignore it and say “numbers don’t matter”. The whole fat positivity movement doesn’t realize how much they’re showing their true colors, nearly all of them think being smaller and having no fat rolls is better. A lot of fat positivity models use shape wear or clothes that conceal fat rolls instead of showing them off. They also wear clothes that make them look slimmer or more evenly hour glass shaped. Deep down they all know being obese isn’t good. It’s not healthy and it’s not attractive. Fat positivity is a all a facade to hide the guilt they feel about being obese. I have experienced this myself. You pretend like you don’t care about your size and that you’re confident when you’re really not. I don’t want people to tell me that being obese is ok and something I should be unashamed of. I’m literally hurting my body and taking years off my life. This is not ok.

    • @amiiraabdulnassir9208
      @amiiraabdulnassir9208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +307

      If u can’t talk ab ur weight than u should’t be in a video ab weight.

    • @monicasahu07
      @monicasahu07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Nothing but fear mongering cos insecure skinny chicks buy more crap to keep looking good than happy women who care for health and not looks or body stereotypes.

    • @Enrelie
      @Enrelie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      well apparently she didn't "feel" obese despite nearly half her body weight being pure fat so I also don't know how one responds to that

  • @lunasiera2573
    @lunasiera2573 ปีที่แล้ว +1328

    “According to this you’re obese!” Her body fat is literally 5% how is that obese

    • @katvelyte
      @katvelyte ปีที่แล้ว +277

      I think that was the point to show how BMI and numbers/labels don't mean much alone. However the execution was really terrible.

    • @gdnsx2152
      @gdnsx2152 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      yo u both clearly dont get that there was weight and body fat categories. they called muscle lady obese because her muscles make her weight a lot they werent saying she was obese based off body fat.

    • @maanika_m
      @maanika_m ปีที่แล้ว +31

      that is the whole point, cassey herself is tryna bash these scaling standards and show how dumb they are as one calls a bodybuilder too fat where as the other calls too skinny

    • @yazzybean
      @yazzybean ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@katvelyte BMI is a very good indicator for the vast vast majority of the population. It only doesn't work for really hardcore bodybuilders, like in this example. But when people go around saying that BMI doesn't mean anything, for most people that's just not the case.

    • @justincain2702
      @justincain2702 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@yazzybean People say this, but I feel like the range is a bit too strict still. I'm around 15% bf and have only been working out for a year, and I'm well into the overweight category. No one looking at me would call me overweight.

  • @janelleborja3261
    @janelleborja3261 ปีที่แล้ว +2377

    this kinda broke my heart. Women are so programed to focus on body weight and size ( Im included).. It was painful to see these women's shining smiles dim more and more as the video progressed. You are all beautiful and amazing.

    • @tramarthomas6105
      @tramarthomas6105 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It was surreal to see

    • @jackjack4412
      @jackjack4412 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Science = programming?

    • @jackjack4412
      @jackjack4412 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Health has a defined boundary line. Weight isn't the main factor.

    • @marajones1828
      @marajones1828 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I’m a fan of blogilates yet this was so hard and painful to watch. It just…felt more harmful than helpful. I’m glad I’ve recovered from my ED cuz this definitely would have triggered for past me.

    • @hasseabro102
      @hasseabro102 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jackjack4412 yeah exactly, beauty is a womans primary agency. This stems from biology.

  • @Enrelie
    @Enrelie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15106

    when the 5'7 runner's physique looking girl and the 5'10 heavyweight champion looking girl said they weighed the same I was like tf y'all trippin😂

    • @michellebernal5668
      @michellebernal5668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +525

      Enrelie lol right! I was like nahhh that ain’t right at all 😂

    • @jnm2088
      @jnm2088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

      Muscle weighs more than fat

    • @Enrelie
      @Enrelie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +448

      @@jnm2088 and the sky is blue... anything else you would like to contribute?

    • @Enrelie
      @Enrelie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +814

      @@michellebernal5668 I feel like they were tryna be "nice" by skirting around the fact that the obese girl was the only one who weighed the same as the really built girl

    • @michellebernal5668
      @michellebernal5668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Enrelie I agree

  • @elliefisher4595
    @elliefisher4595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19324

    when they were told to pick a partner with a similar weight, the body builder was like
    👁👄👁

    • @LeahDada
      @LeahDada 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1601

      I was shocked when the girl with the “toned” body thought that she and the muscular girl shared the same weight range. If I looked at her, I would’ve known that she definitely didn’t weigh anything over 125.

    • @skypie5374
      @skypie5374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      True!

    • @denniej2868
      @denniej2868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@zukundus8987 She was the first person to choose a partner.

    • @ramsy4205
      @ramsy4205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@zukundus8987 wow how did your stupid comment get 24 likes

    • @songbyrdscrusade2052
      @songbyrdscrusade2052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Being a bodybuilder doesn't mean you will be super heavy 😏

  • @vparker4960
    @vparker4960 ปีที่แล้ว +1229

    This reminds me of when we were weighed in front of our whole class in Elementary school. It was so degrading, because you were being compared to everyone else. We are all uniquely made. So why are we being compared to others?

    • @a.n_as333
      @a.n_as333 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yeah it reminds me to, such bad memories.

    • @calistafalcontail
      @calistafalcontail ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh gosh the woketard take here. "We are all uniquely made..." Yes but overweight comes mostly from bad food, bad habits, bad choices and its not how we are just made by the highest. Thats what people turn themselves into! Its damaging to the individual and society as a whole. Many countries force their citizens to be more healthy cause its bad for an entire country, when people just let themselfes go, look awful and put stress on the health system. Americans are soft sissies now who wanna be cuddled and hear that being fat is fine and normal and pretty. Its just not and deep down, you folks all know. Whatever happened to self discipline and improving.

    • @datsweggybruh8775
      @datsweggybruh8775 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I find it absolutely horrifying that any school would do that to literal children, or anyone for that matter. Children are especially vulnerable as their bodies are constantly changing and already have insecurities. I never experienced systematic weigh-ins in school - maybe it was my country or year, I don't know - but I can imagine how scarring it would be for a child. Anyone who says it's for health has skewered ideas of what health really is.

    • @erinmarieee23
      @erinmarieee23 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yep, that is precisely when I began obsessing over my weight🤗 I wish I could sue for emotional damages lmao.

    • @klee1619
      @klee1619 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      why would they even do this?

  • @CelebWorkout
    @CelebWorkout ปีที่แล้ว +333

    8:38 The bodybuilder is made up entirely of muscle. To be honest, the bodybuilder had one of the most incredible female physiques I've ever seen. I don't believe anyone realized how much work went into having a figure like that, especially as a woman.

    • @MeredithDomzalski
      @MeredithDomzalski ปีที่แล้ว +30

      It is a ton of work. I'm impressed with her dedication. I still think it's important for people to realize that's not healthy, though, and they didn't really address that. I'm sure it's a risk she knows she's taking, but others should be made aware.
      It's interesting that they said she was in the "essential fat" category. The problem is, she isn't. They even said that essential fat starts at 10%, so she's below that. She's likely lost her period and has other health effects.
      I'm absolutely fine with her making this choice for herself. Anyone who gets that far in body building knows the risks and what they're doing. Again, I think her dedication is admirable. Still, it's not great for others to think that this might be healthy.

    • @maddiesconfusedlife9023
      @maddiesconfusedlife9023 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      She’s trans guys lmao so she was male to female

    • @amyminto3181
      @amyminto3181 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      @maddiesconfusedlife9023 Irene the bodybuilder, who at the time of this video was the 3rd best in the world is a biological mother of 3 kids from Denmark! Some men just can’t bare to see women thriving, especially if they are transphobic

    • @pamelabacker2420
      @pamelabacker2420 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@maddiesconfusedlife9023"she" shouldn't have been in this video, since it's a guy by nature.

    • @katrinaaverage-potato5828
      @katrinaaverage-potato5828 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      @@pamelabacker2420where do you think her three biological kids came put of, surely wasn’t her husband? 😂

  • @sarahmannion5867
    @sarahmannion5867 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109103

    No idea why that yoga lady thought she was the same weight as the body builder 😂

    • @alicegiuditta
      @alicegiuditta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16739

      my guess is that the others coupled up so they kind of ended up together and went with it hahaha

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3569

      She didn't

    • @lollol-rn9kp
      @lollol-rn9kp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +625

      Sarah Mannion ikr 😂

    • @maddyras6732
      @maddyras6732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5923

      Alice Giuditta nah she was the first person to choose. i think she just wanted to be told she was skinnier or sum 💀

    • @jadesmith7983
      @jadesmith7983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1983

      Exactly. I think they all just went off of height.

  • @idasoderlund1030
    @idasoderlund1030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11516

    You could see how bad the “obese” girl felt

    • @sophieolive
      @sophieolive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +513

      Ida Söderlund honestly you can tell Darlene was just kinda embarrassed or felt bad about herself

    • @guacamoli7
      @guacamoli7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Which one is obese ?

    • @haleighlake4649
      @haleighlake4649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      sadlyflavored xo the 205 ones

    • @haterlover7873
      @haterlover7873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      @@essie.
      I'm "obese", & shorter than the girl in the video... my waist is also smaller.
      I appear to have wide & thick thighs, & a big butt.
      My lower body is bigger than my upper body. I get told often that I have a nice body.
      I also go to the gym & try to eat healthy.
      I dont know my fat percentage, all i know is that my BMI says im obese.

    • @paige4855
      @paige4855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      haleigh lake Irene isn’t obese

  • @jozsef55
    @jozsef55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1084

    You emphasised,that the girl with bmi 24,5 is almost overweight.Why didn't you emphasise, that the girl with the bmi 19 is almost underweight?

    • @nawaaz_insights
      @nawaaz_insights ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Cuz being underweight is not as unhealthy as being obese

    • @bettinaaaby1451
      @bettinaaaby1451 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      @@nawaaz_insights overweight and obese are completely different though

    • @nawaaz_insights
      @nawaaz_insights ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@bettinaaaby1451 yeah but someone who is overweight has a very high probability of becoming obese , not the other way around

    • @lasa1337
      @lasa1337 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      @@nawaaz_insights being underweight can be as bad as being overweight

    • @nawaaz_insights
      @nawaaz_insights ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@lasa1337 yeah but I've seen very few underweight people who are underweight to an extent which makes them unhealthy but it's not the same for overweight people

  • @jessievecchio
    @jessievecchio 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    The tall black girl seemed so sweet. Idk how to describe it but she just made me feel comfortable when I was watching her. She seemed like someone you could have a conversation with.

    • @erika-xm3qy
      @erika-xm3qy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I feel like she'd be a good mom idk

  • @AntonioM8
    @AntonioM8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13887

    this was so weird and awkward to watch, I can't imagine how these women felt

    • @mayasmith9543
      @mayasmith9543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      Antonio M this is how women feel every day

    • @sarahelsadany7110
      @sarahelsadany7110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Kyla Lambalot me🌚🌚

    • @ikz8439
      @ikz8439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I know it’s saddening 😢

    • @Dee-mn4ud
      @Dee-mn4ud 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maya Brommer no it’s not

    • @alyssaleanne2744
      @alyssaleanne2744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It's not like they were forced to do this

  • @wwkcd7657
    @wwkcd7657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7400

    These women look like they wanna cry, this is gonna traumatize them.

    • @mikaelasundt3117
      @mikaelasundt3117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +292

      Why did they do this In the first place. Like this would hurt!!

    • @noliven17
      @noliven17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Mikaela Sundt umm i don’t think they knew about the “reveal” where someone told the whole internet if they were obese or not

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      they have to deal with it. Feelings don't matter

    • @cuties9383
      @cuties9383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Labrovy Hakkwa feelings do matter.

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@cuties9383 no. if you care that much if someone said you're ugly / fat / skinny then I'm sorry but that makes you a sensitive little shit. You cannot survive in the real world if you cry someone said you're ugly

  • @imachaeryoungwannabe5360
    @imachaeryoungwannabe5360 ปีที่แล้ว +667

    I felt so bad for the lady in the red pants. Like she was pretty much being shamed but I'm glad the body builder came to her defense. Also the two girls (the tall one and the short one) their bodies weren't even big, they looked perfectly healthy to me

    • @aldubm2234
      @aldubm2234 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@offbanks no you can’t be overweight and healthy. Your body is holding extra fat and that isn’t physically good for your body, making you unhealthy. But that doesn’t mean that people who are overweight deserve judgment or unfair treatment.

    • @Incompetences
      @Incompetences ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@offbanks That's the thing though, that extra wait DOES contribute to health problems. If not now, it will cause strain that over time causes severe issues. What you're saying is similar to a person that smokes but doesn't have cancer yet saying they're healthy. A person with extra weight is at a much higher risk of illness and disease.

    • @menjolno
      @menjolno ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Think of the AI. How can we train them without the data. Stop thinking like the hypocritical politicians and regulators.

    • @KatieBellino
      @KatieBellino 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yes, the one who was actually obese already knows she has a problem. To not have anyone else heavy like her (a 5% body fat body builder is hardly a comparison) was just setting her up to feel awful.

    • @blockpart2184
      @blockpart2184 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same!

  • @heathur_xo
    @heathur_xo ปีที่แล้ว +414

    Yikes I know I am probably in the “overweight” category. I am 5 feet “4 in, 170lbs. I’d probably cry if I was asked how do I feel about being “obese” or “acceptable” I have been feeling so insecure about it.

    • @abbyflows1332
      @abbyflows1332 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I’m 5’4 and 210 pounds this is the heaviest I’ve ever been and feel horrible about my weight you’re 20 pounds below me so you’re ahead girl let’s get it this coming year!!

    • @heathur_xo
      @heathur_xo ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@abbyflows1332 Abby flows let’s do this. We can do it together :)

    • @sehtuhp9517
      @sehtuhp9517 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Staykool-aid It's okay! The only advice I can give is try to see your entire self in a full body mirror and see if you ACTUALLY look disproportioned. If you do, just try to eat as healthy as possible and get lots of exercise in there. Even if progress is slow, it'll be progress! I was 145 last year ( I'm 5'0 ) and now I'm 120 and I feel better than ever. That's only 25 lbs in a year and that was just by changing how much I ate. I'm sure you can do it and you have tons of people willing to help you

    • @heathur_xo
      @heathur_xo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abbywalkur1163 Yes I am aware. I did read the description I am saying what “I” would do if “I”was asked. Get it?

    • @maggys1244
      @maggys1244 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You'd actually be in the "obese" category (5'4" & 190 lbs = BMI of 32,6) - which again, most likely shows how misleading that system is. It doesn't factor in muscle mass, fitness, lifestyle, nothing. Yes, too high body fat levels negatively affect our health, no sense in denying that, but a "healthy" BMI doesn't equal healthy. Mid ED I had a great BMI, but lost a huge amount of muscle mass & could barely function. Whereas now, I'd be classified "overweight" (BMI of 25-26) & in a wayyyy healthier spot than BMI of 20 something me.

  • @ponpomz2974
    @ponpomz2974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5048

    Okay Irene is not obese she’s hella muscular-

    • @zipperbagg6153
      @zipperbagg6153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      8% body fat

    • @Skill_Issue92
      @Skill_Issue92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Not obese but she is overweight.

    • @CyanideGirl94
      @CyanideGirl94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      r/whoosh

    • @ashdingler1
      @ashdingler1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      yeah, and at 5% body fat....she likely doesnt have her period. Not sure sure if thats healthy or not?

    • @ponpomz2974
      @ponpomz2974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Naturallyashley86 probably not..

  • @Mikehunt129
    @Mikehunt129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6455

    The really muscular woman is not obese she’s just has heaps of muscle because she’s a body builder
    Omfg thank you for 5.1k 🥺🙆🏼‍♀️

    • @amarigrace5502
      @amarigrace5502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      muscle weighs more than fat, that's why BMI is trash

    • @justanothergirl6689
      @justanothergirl6689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I guess that's what 200 lbs of fat vs 200 lbs of muscle looks like.
      What's the point of making this video, the girls look sad and self conscious ...

    • @Bane1Mirin
      @Bane1Mirin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Let’s talk tea and coz she takes steroids

    • @Bane1Mirin
      @Bane1Mirin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ?? Stop lying you don’t just suddenly have a deep voice when u workout area obviously taking steroids

    • @Mikehunt129
      @Mikehunt129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Jayden100 she might just have a deep voice

  • @lazarusyesthatsmybirthname3361
    @lazarusyesthatsmybirthname3361 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I love the bodybuilder, she’s so supportive of everyone, had no bad comments for anyone

  • @eeeeeehrg
    @eeeeeehrg ปีที่แล้ว +449

    What the heck, Cassie? This is so disgusting coming from a body positivity TH-camr. “How do you feel about being overweight?” What do you think they’re gonna say??

    • @ch4pter.dancee
      @ch4pter.dancee ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Exactly. I love her designs of clothing and how positive she is but this video is just awful. I get it was for a video but I bet some of these people came home feeling bad about themselves.

    • @wondazed
      @wondazed ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I feel like it’s super rude and just wrong. saying to someone “how does it feel to be obese/almost overweight” isn’t really gonna make you feel great, especially saying “acceptable” body fat numbers

    • @minaberric4069
      @minaberric4069 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s so tone deaf and disrespectful. Clearly this woman’s never been fat cuz wtf

    • @sejcai
      @sejcai ปีที่แล้ว +14

      you’re so right
      this video and the way she complains about clothing designs that are perfectly fine have turned me off to any of her content. i have a hard time believing this shit is anything positive

    • @Tipsy.Tippie
      @Tipsy.Tippie ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Dude some of these ppl just have to wake up from their sugarcoating dream and step back into reality. The girl with the most bf% was clearly not having it. She knows what shes been doing over the years but still eats bread and sugar. If you sugarcoat things like that itll only get worse. If they feel bad and theyre weak then they arrived at home and just eating all kind of sugar but if theyre strong and woke up they will hit the gym to make them feel better. Dont know why you call urself an body positifity youtuber if you make such things only worse

  • @navybrowning3698
    @navybrowning3698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6087

    Yeah I'm leaning towards that this wasn't done in the best way

    • @hawaswaray5148
      @hawaswaray5148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      She should've left it to jubilee of as/is or buzzfeedvideo

    • @Trumpophone7
      @Trumpophone7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What issue do u have w it

    • @abc-eb4zh
      @abc-eb4zh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How would you do it? I'm curious (not trying to be rude)

    • @echorain9992
      @echorain9992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah.. I agree. I know being healthy is great... but I also think mental health is more important than physical health half the time. Those questions that were asked feels as if they wanted the contestants to feel guilty.

  • @laurenfairrington4543
    @laurenfairrington4543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8341

    Imagine these girls going home and crying because they were called overweight or obese, I k ow I would....

    • @cararice1659
      @cararice1659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      Lauren Fairrington especially because it’s going online and millions of people can see it!

    • @justmonika700
      @justmonika700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I s a b e l l a THAT DOESNT MEAN YOU SHOULD BODY SHAME

    • @parsleyxoo8464
      @parsleyxoo8464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I s a b e l l a she’s clearly not obese, muscle weights more than fat

    • @leilar5142
      @leilar5142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      i would cry on the spot lmaooo

    • @ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe
      @ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Lauren Fairrington well yeah, but the woman with more fat on her body did look obese (obviously not the body builder) and it’s scientifically what it’s called, so maybe that should be a push to change her lifestyle.

  • @Ellasydney4
    @Ellasydney4 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    For someone who is “body positive” this is disgusting. As someone with anorexia this was hard to watch. Absolutely just humiliated most of these woman.

    • @christinebrennan9039
      @christinebrennan9039 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're body pos or your anorexic? Lol can't be both

    • @hopesribbons
      @hopesribbons 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      exactly. i also have an eating disorder and this is just so hard to watch. you can see these womens face change when they get told they are overweight/obese. i would honestly just start sobbing right then and there. there are so many other ways to show how everyone looks different even at the same bmi even without humiliating these poor women.

    • @taiyabazaheer9492
      @taiyabazaheer9492 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You shouldn't have clicked on the video then. If you're triggered,no need to watch.

    • @tylociraptor8131
      @tylociraptor8131 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry to tell you this... Body positive does not mean "tell every obese person they are beautiful and perfect as they are, healthy as a spring chicken and will never die of diabetes or heart disease". You can accept your body and love yourself but still understand that obesity is a deadly thing to contend with. Furthermore if you are that 'triggered' by this kind of video, I would suggest you ... not click on it. It's right in the title what's going on, and it's pretty obvious that might be something you don't want to watch.

  • @alexandraraposo1359
    @alexandraraposo1359 ปีที่แล้ว +709

    What a great way to make people feel like shit ❤️

    • @menjolno
      @menjolno ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We should give data to train an AI that guesses everyone's weight. And open source it. You have feelings like a politican.❤

    • @alexussummers8806
      @alexussummers8806 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It was to show that appearance can be deceiving and to not judge others by how they look

    • @kathyroach9344
      @kathyroach9344 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂Well said😂😂😂

    • @Zahaveron
      @Zahaveron 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      What a great way to ignore the pinned comment! ❤️

    • @someoneelse8295
      @someoneelse8295 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      they agreed to do this knowing theyd have to do this and check their weight

  • @yalljustmad1283
    @yalljustmad1283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8549

    The fact that the two skinny tall white girls didn’t clue in that they look exactly alike🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @butbutmybutt
      @butbutmybutt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +254

      They look alike? Im blind then.

    • @dope3618
      @dope3618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +359

      right! one just seems slightly more toned and has a tan

    • @DreamOnAStarXx
      @DreamOnAStarXx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +254

      I lowkey think the yoga instructor went with the bodybuilder bc the two of them were the only ones with obvious muscles and she assumed that would make them kinda equal? 😂 Like, maybe she assumed the other blonde girl would be lighter than her bc she doesn’t LOOK obviously fit?

    • @Cindy-hc3du
      @Cindy-hc3du 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I thought they were twins at first glance.

    • @littlepowerpuff
      @littlepowerpuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Y’alljustmad yesssss LoL same thought

  • @vanessajolly6688
    @vanessajolly6688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4588

    I’m genuinely surprised we’re allowed to comment on this video

  • @ZahJ14
    @ZahJ14 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    All these women look so pissed, they didn’t even know what they signed up for 💀😭

  • @wisteriaaa_23
    @wisteriaaa_23 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    As a 15 year old girl who is very underweight, around 27kg, I find it interesting that they never mentioned anything about being underweight. I try to eat as much as I can while also struggling with some sensory issues and emetophobia anxiety, without thinking about about comparing my body to others. I also haven’t started my period or anything like that yet, and I’m very small for my age (4’8 last time I checked) and I’ve been made fun of a lot. So here’s a message to all my teenage girls out there struggling with body image- Make sure you’re comfortable with yourself, being mindful of health benefits while also focusing on loving who you really are.
    Thanks for reading my unnecessarily long comment 😂, hope everyone has a great day! ❤

    • @mansisinha4560
      @mansisinha4560 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey girl! I'm abt to turn 14 and I'm just 31.5 kgs... this made me feel better... thx❤

    • @7ccs350
      @7ccs350 ปีที่แล้ว

      I used to be 35kg, i took super apeti pills at age 16 and gained about 25pounds or more. You should try these pills.

    • @smollilbean
      @smollilbean ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow that is tiny. (Not in a condenscending tone) I'm turning 19 this year and my weight also fluctuates between 49 - 51 kgs at 5'2. I think my ideal weight could be 51 or 52 but i feel fine when I'm 49 or 50 too. Right now i feel like I'm a 50.
      I don't feel unhealthy but my extended family makes me feel like I'm one meal away from death and are sometimes rude about it, probably because like 4 years ago i used to be sort of chubby (not fat) and then i lost weight because I joined a sport.
      TMI but i also have really fuller chest so that means I'm probably not unhealthy.
      I wish people would stop being rude to skinny people, skinny shaming is considered to to nearly not be bad and is kinda normalised.

    • @merivesi7021
      @merivesi7021 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      dont worry about your family, 50 kg at 5'2" is fine and fully within the healthy range! i'm about the same at 5'3" and 48ish kg and my doctors have always said im fine :)

    • @smollilbean
      @smollilbean 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@merivesi7021 Thank you :)

  • @merrychristmasice723
    @merrychristmasice723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6582

    Did we really just call one of the worlds best female body builders “overweight”? Wtf-
    Edit: guys when I say overweight I mean that overweight has come to be known as a bad thing. Whilst she is technically “overweight” I think it’s rude to call her that. Also the fact that they referred to people as an “acceptable” weight is kinda disgusting.

    • @sofiaxo4543
      @sofiaxo4543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      obese actually

    • @merrychristmasice723
      @merrychristmasice723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Sofia XO 😞

    • @moataznaji9192
      @moataznaji9192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +464

      The BMI is trash because it doesn’t differentiate between fat and muscle it only thinks about weight and height mean while if you look at the body fat % it’s 5%

    • @merrychristmasice723
      @merrychristmasice723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Andy VFD yeah, it’s just ridiculous because overweight has become an insult (even tho it shouldn’t be)

    • @Paracelsuskey
      @Paracelsuskey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Meme Guy BMI isn’t trash, I guarantee you the vast majority of those with a bmi of 30 or more have excess fat, the bodybuilder in the video is just an outlier

  • @faizar1705
    @faizar1705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6313

    “you are acceptable” you are “obese”
    i can see the hurt and pain in their face:(

    • @yen2803
      @yen2803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Life decisions. Make a change.

    • @chuckles6814
      @chuckles6814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      Corner Taken Quickly people can’t just “ make a change”. It’s not a split decision

    • @roselynnlyness4263
      @roselynnlyness4263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Corner Taken Quickly oh ya ima just be like “ya know, ima be skinny now” and bam! I made a change

    • @aphro123star
      @aphro123star 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      @@chuckles6814 ok so put in the effort and make the decision over time... Nobody is saying that people need to become fit in a day

    • @shaunp5074
      @shaunp5074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@chuckles6814 yes it is.

  • @t.r.everstone7
    @t.r.everstone7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    This is particularly fascinating because it's extremely easy to see who should be the same weight as another. There are clearly other fsctors that went into their reasoning. I have two main ideas. One is that their perceptions about their own weights were inaccurate and skewed the results (whether each woman perceived herself as too heavy or too light). The other is that they were more worried about not offending each other during the matching process than actually being correct. Or perhaps it's a combination of both!

    • @KatieBellino
      @KatieBellino 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes, it was fairly easy to guess this. They certainly could have found people where it was less easy though.

    • @t.r.everstone7
      @t.r.everstone7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@KatieBellino True! But would that have been more or less interesting? Or just different. I definitely see why they chose who they did, but they could also try more difficult people like you said. I'd be very interested to see a lady with gigantism who is close to 7', a lady with dwarfism, bodybuilders who are on steroids of 2 different heights, and then maybe some other variations just to see how close they can get.

    • @KatieBellino
      @KatieBellino 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@t.r.everstone7 It definitely would have been a different experiment for sure!

  • @me_just.me5227
    @me_just.me5227 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Imagine getting trained for long time, building amazing muscular body and being called as "obese"
    🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

  • @DaniCrayons
    @DaniCrayons 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8029

    I thought this video was going to be uplifting but it honestly made me sick to my stomach

    • @dorotheapeach9606
      @dorotheapeach9606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Same!

    • @fe5018
      @fe5018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Right? It was like being suckerpunched.

    • @lyneareiner1041
      @lyneareiner1041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Why?

    • @manyfrogs
      @manyfrogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I also wonder why?

    • @Sogood869
      @Sogood869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I want to know why as well?

  • @crystalmather5448
    @crystalmather5448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3611

    "How often do you judge yourself?"
    "Everyday"
    "You are obese. How does that make you feel?"
    "..."
    *facepalm*
    I get obese is a medical term, but to put that poor girl on the spot like that without warning is awful.

    • @daddyjesus8691
      @daddyjesus8691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Crystal Mather where was that said in the video I think I missed it

    • @meganm9178
      @meganm9178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I’m just overweight by a few pounds and I judge myself daily

    • @violetaalvarez5535
      @violetaalvarez5535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Daddy Jesus 8:44

    • @daddyjesus8691
      @daddyjesus8691 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eddy Alvarez thank you

    • @zipperbagg6153
      @zipperbagg6153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i feel like shit doctor thanks

  • @imZe
    @imZe ปีที่แล้ว +75

    i know she said that they were prepared for this but you can tell this took a big to their self-esteem when she said that both of the girls in the group were obese yiu can see how her face dropped

  • @Analymous
    @Analymous 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    In a world where everything has a “trigger warning” I really can’t believe they brought all these women in to do this without any indication that this is what they were there for.

  • @laurenhill1100
    @laurenhill1100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6332

    I love how the body builder tried chearing up the other girl it was very sweet

    • @karolinaparizkova2386
      @karolinaparizkova2386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      Yea like she said: "Oh yea, BMI is not true." Or something like that.

    • @andyrevan
      @andyrevan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@karolinaparizkova2386 everyone has more muscles then bmi accounts for.

    • @Darkhood89
      @Darkhood89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@andyrevan Not everyone has muscles though.

    • @andyrevan
      @andyrevan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@Darkhood89 can you stand and sit that's muscles

    • @Darkhood89
      @Darkhood89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@andyrevan Do you look like The Rock or jiggle?
      If your answer is the latter, that's the difference being addressed.

  • @HelloHello-js6dm
    @HelloHello-js6dm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4545

    This was done horribly wrong, I cringed when you introduced their body fat percentages

    • @fe5018
      @fe5018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Couldn't agree more. It was so badly devised and executed. I have no issue with the basic premise but how they went about it was so ignorant it was torturous to watch.

    • @chowmane9584
      @chowmane9584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      SO WE CANT TALK ABOUT FACTS ANYMORE BECAUSE IT MIGHT HURT YOUR FEELINGS LOL

    • @bethanymclean2136
      @bethanymclean2136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@chowmane9584 There's a difference between this happening at a doctors visit in private vs this situation. They even said in the video that all the women didn't know what would be involved before filming, just it was supposed to be about 'body positivity'. Plus it's probably embarrassing for that to go up for the whole world to see.

    • @HelloHello-js6dm
      @HelloHello-js6dm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@chowmane9584 they literally did it wrong

  • @bellarose8964
    @bellarose8964 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s heartbreaking that women, even young girls, are being labeled. “Underweight” “Overweight” the top priority is to be healthy, someone who may be obese could have a decent diet, but their body just doesn’t process food the same, so it’s easier to gain weight. All in all, it comes down to health, not weight. Each and every person in this video is beautiful in their own way and they deserve to be recognized for that. Love you all, stay positive

  • @victoria-zf3yn
    @victoria-zf3yn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    13:27 “you cannot judge a persons health based on how they look” most bs statement ever

    • @lacey6806
      @lacey6806 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      u literally cant lmao. Someone can be bigger but still be healthy

  • @julia-vv3xi
    @julia-vv3xi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6099

    I feel like when they got into their cars to drive home they cried. I feel so bad for the girl next to the body builder she looks so sad

    • @layan-ox9ug
      @layan-ox9ug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      ikkkkk

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      They should accept it

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@Waluigi-qp3vm exactly

    • @Rainbowleopard315
      @Rainbowleopard315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Read the pinned comment

    • @horse5497
      @horse5497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@azdrenfaizullah9605 but its hard to accept ourselves its really hard and also changing themselves is not easy too but when you are done you feel great :)

  • @karinalumen9722
    @karinalumen9722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3928

    People need to realize height is a major factor. Short and cubby is often the same weight as tall and slender.

    • @bonniehowell4259
      @bonniehowell4259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      I think that fact got lost in translation here.

    • @smarthd7749
      @smarthd7749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Thats why we have BMI

    • @manic6461
      @manic6461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I was a bit sad because I saw the body builder and the obese lady were only 5 pounds bigger than me, I’m 5’9 and a half though so I look ok
      I’m still trying to lose weight though

    • @shannon3741
      @shannon3741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      THANKYOU as a 15 yr old girl i weigh 13
      stone it may seem big but i’m nearly 6ft when i think of my weight i think i’m really really fat but my mom
      and others always tell
      me don’t forget that ur tallness comes a lot
      with that

    • @smarthd7749
      @smarthd7749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@shannon3741 You have a kmi of 24.8, that ranks you in the overweight category. If you values health it is probaly time to take some runs and Fix the diet. You are not much above the Limit 23.9

  • @GuyInAHotdogSuit69
    @GuyInAHotdogSuit69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    "I personally don't consider myself, like, obese" yeah, well, you're 44% body fat with a BMI of 36, so yes, you're obese, whether you 'identify' as such or not.

    • @AnataWaDareDesuKa
      @AnataWaDareDesuKa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      With so many morbidly obese people shows, I feel as if people forget you’re obese long before you get to that stage; those people on the shows are practically dying, they are VERY far gone.

    • @celestegarcia923
      @celestegarcia923 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The delusion of these people is frustrating sometimes, but I think they genuinely don’t realize how heavy they really are especially when family and friends are enablers.

    • @kantorviraganna5514
      @kantorviraganna5514 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just shut up

  • @absolutetruthgirl
    @absolutetruthgirl ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm 5'10" tall. When I was in my ED phase the BMI always categorized me as obese. Go figure.

  • @ailinestrella
    @ailinestrella 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3828

    “hOw DoEs ThIs MaKe yOu FeEl” hearing this made me cringe every time

    • @h0tcheeto
      @h0tcheeto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ailin Estrella Victoriano hey estrella is my last name haha so irrelevant

    • @jinryu8858
      @jinryu8858 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same though ):

    • @imoosiixx
      @imoosiixx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, I don’t really dig that question.

    • @dantan1249
      @dantan1249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ailin Estrella Victoriano for some reason asking about someone’s feelings in that way implies that you don’t really care but have a sick curiosity. Like chopping off someone’s hair and saying now..... how does that feel?🙁

  • @sophievk5171
    @sophievk5171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4034

    why did u tell the one with a bmi of 24.5 she is in the almost overweight zone (25> is overweight) and then u did not tell the girl with a bmi of 19 she is in the almost underweight sone (18.5< is underweight) this is ridiculous. either tell them both or neither one of them

    • @heehoopeanut420
      @heehoopeanut420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      THANK you

    • @jellybeanie9190
      @jellybeanie9190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      👏👏👏

    • @anoushkasingh2355
      @anoushkasingh2355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      ikr i was thinking the same

    • @iseultlaw7702
      @iseultlaw7702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      I wasn't really pleased about that. I think that the comment just illustrates how being close to overweight is 'worth a comment' but being close to underweight is 'unremarkable'. That left a bad taste in my mouth...

    • @crystallizard7230
      @crystallizard7230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      I was thinking the same... Seems like being skinny is more accepted among women (and maybe even among men). I'm offended

  • @piyusarkar3065
    @piyusarkar3065 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Body fat % definitely matters. I don't care about BMI, but too much body fat isn't good. Idk why that girl think she's not obese. Acceptance is the first step towards change, and she herself admitted she doesn't eat right or workout regularly like others.
    And in the same way, 5% bf is bad too. Not just for women, but for human in general

    • @Bigdaddychristmas
      @Bigdaddychristmas 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had no clue I was fat till i saw picture of myself

  • @bananachicken682
    @bananachicken682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    It was kinda nice seeing the rude yoga lady being taken down a leg when she found out the super sweet nutritionist had less body fat:) the body builder was also so graceful about weight and being compassionate to the gal who was her weight, it was very nice to see!! I’d love to see more videos like this!

    • @idkanymore9812
      @idkanymore9812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nah the blonde girl was so annoying

    • @nicholewojtanowski43
      @nicholewojtanowski43 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      I don’t know what you were watching because in no way was she rude to anyone nor did anyone react to her in a way that would suggest she was being rude or “out-of-line”.

    • @bananachicken682
      @bananachicken682 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nicholewojtanowski43 😂

    • @osiris8519
      @osiris8519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nicholewojtanowski43 💯

    • @celestegarcia923
      @celestegarcia923 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      How was she rude..?

  • @alannah9427
    @alannah9427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5078

    This is so uncomfortable and weird and shamey especially since they didn’t knowingly subject themselves to this.

    • @sopleasedtomeetU
      @sopleasedtomeetU 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      They clearly volunteered to show themselves and their numbers

    • @fe5018
      @fe5018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@sopleasedtomeetU, I would hazard a confident guess that they were given the impression that it was going to be handled with a far greater level of professionalism and sophistication. Showing themselves and their numbers isn't what makes this uncomfortable, weird, and shamey. Agreeing to expose yourself and your stats is not the same as agreeing to what happened here. I don't think any one would reasonably expect when getting involved that this would be the result.

    • @snookums2693
      @snookums2693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      sopleasedtomeetU they didnt know what they doing this for tho

    • @caitlinmorrisxx9546
      @caitlinmorrisxx9546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It’s not shamey they’re finding out the truth about themselves

    • @edify.9018
      @edify.9018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      666th like

  • @beyondtheskyyy
    @beyondtheskyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25408

    They should do this but everyone is the same weight. To see how different we look but being the same weight to show how little the scale really matters.

    • @yes2527
      @yes2527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +289

      I think you have it reversed, how you look doesn't necessarily matter because fat accumulates differently on different body types making them seem skinnier or fatter depending on how it sits on them, how much you weigh does matter though

    • @mariadumitru3962
      @mariadumitru3962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      How about the same BMI?

    • @hand-to-handwombat1342
      @hand-to-handwombat1342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      YES

    • @kchoater
      @kchoater 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@yes2527 honestly, unless you are 400+ lbs, it doesnt matter. Dont try to ever bring anyone down bcuz of the number on their scale.

    • @yes2527
      @yes2527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      @@kchoater unless you are 7 feet tall then being near 400 pounds is unacceptable and detrimental to your health. I don't think that if you're 160 pounds and 5'4 you're not going to die if a heart attack, but I'm saying it's not healthy, and it's dysfunctional to say is beautiful. I'm not trying to tear anyone down, but saying you can be 400 or even 300 pounds and healthy is dishonesty. If I truly wanted to bring harm to someone who is struggling with their weight than I would say "Yes! Fat is beautiful! Have another Big Mac, you go girl!" But I want everyone to live long, healthy lives, which means having a healthy weight

  • @triflesponge8109
    @triflesponge8109 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I amused myself by stopping the video when you asked them to partner up and then put themselves in order from lightest to heaviest. I got every pair right and also the order of the pairs but I’m not proud of that. It just means I am in the habit of doing this judging of other women’s bodies. There again, if I had been part of an experiment to put myself in weight order with a group of women I would have put myself at the heaviest end without hesitation. That way I wouldn’t have had the embarrassment of having declared someone heavier than me (rude!). We don’t do that in polite society. Plus I’d have had the feel good factor if eventually told to move down the line a bit but that would have come at the cost of feeling bad for the person told to take my place. The way the experiment was actually done, I’d have frozen; completely incapable of “accusing” someone of being as heavy as me! Our society definitely views women as better if lighter. In many different business meetings I have noticed the larger women are never asked for their opinion and if they try to offer it other people often look at the floor whilst the larger woman speaks. Once you notice it you can’t stop seeing it. Women in a shopping mall will avoid eye contact with very large women but exchange smiles with someone similar to them. Pubs or anywhere with no defined queue will serve the smaller ones first. We really need to change how our society views an individual’s worth. Every single one of us has the same value and the same needs in life.

  • @official_notanyone
    @official_notanyone ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bro I took one glance and got all of the pairs correct. Ain't no way these women actually thought they paired with their first partner.

  • @stinkystuf7467
    @stinkystuf7467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5206

    I feel like this is how an eating disorder can start
    Edit: I went through an eating disorder and I know there are more issues than just people comments on ur weight or wanting to be skinny.

    • @charlotteballard8449
      @charlotteballard8449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      This is how an eating disorder starts

    • @maddiebrown699
      @maddiebrown699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      You're not entirely wrong- however eating disorders manifest from more than just negative or weight shaming experiences. What many don't realize is that much of an eating disorder has to do with a person's chemical, neurological makeup and personality traits. It is EXTREMELY extremely complex. I've had some knowledge based off some people in my life battling ED. For many, it is also a control thing. Controlling what goes into their body, being quite particular about certain things. Some people end up terrified to eat certain foods. It's not all about entirely starving yourself. For others, they may just not be able to make themselves eat enough to accommodate for how much they're burning during exercise. Additionally, ED can stem from various trauma at a young age. Overall I would just like to point out, there's many misconceptions with eating disorders!

    • @stinkystuf7467
      @stinkystuf7467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Maddie Brown yes I agree and that's why I said can not the only caise

    • @angrycactus158
      @angrycactus158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It is. It’s comparing you body to others, it’s the opposite of what you want to do. My ED started when by brother would comment on my body and what I ate, he didn’t mean to but it happened. I pray for those women, I hope this didn’t effect them to much.

    • @lolok1421
      @lolok1421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i know i was hoping i'd be the lightest if i was there.

  • @quackeddiamonds6497
    @quackeddiamonds6497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8772

    This video was cruel. I could literally see the girls' faces crumble when they were told "how does it feel to be overweight/obese?" Irene didn't come here to be called obese, and Celeste looked like she was going to cry! Darlyn didnt deserve that either. I feel bad for all the girls but especially the ones who are labelled as heavier and then asked how it felt.

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      Discomfort was the intent.
      To show that people connect their self-image in an unreasonable way to these numbers, and that it's uncomfortable to talk about.
      Did you not watch the entire video? Because this wasn't cruel at all, and every one of them were prepped for and agreed to doing this video.

    • @prachi6802
      @prachi6802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      So im a heavy person and no i dont feel bad just when i knw the facts. I knw im heavy, i can see i have fat. If ppl are are fat, are sensitive to it and dnt like listning and cry for being heavy then they need to go to a therapist to help them overcome their mental insecurities and accpt who they are, if they dont wana accpt who they are then try to improve to be at a point they are happy. Just cos u turn a blind eye towards your own problm. If a person cant handle the truth they need to work on your mental health. This video was needed to show ppl that its ok watever your weight is as long as you can see your healthy. This video shows than two ppl with same weight are not healthy. U cn be 120 pounds n be unhealthy. You can be 190 and be healthy, if its muscle.

    • @billylondon2894
      @billylondon2894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      You’re weak if you can’t handle being overweight. And if you don’t like it lose weight

    • @billylondon2894
      @billylondon2894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Draco Granger-Snape it was for me I was fat from 6th grade to my junior year in high school and when I decided I wanted to change that I did.

    • @billylondon2894
      @billylondon2894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Draco Granger-Snape I also have a slow metabolism... your point?

  • @fathertedczynski
    @fathertedczynski 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    5% bf even for a man is absolutely insane, so for a woman to manage it is even more impressive. Props to her for constructing a top tier physique.

  • @emyleesalkind7980
    @emyleesalkind7980 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This video has illuminated that BMI is absolutely not an indicator of health, lifestyle, or the like. It is just another standard unit of measurement meant to divide people and hurt their psyche. 🤷🏻‍♀️
    Every single one of them looks healthy and gorg. ❤

  • @winniemaereact1391
    @winniemaereact1391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5478

    That experiment would’ve CRUSHED me

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      That's probably why they personally interviewed and prepped all the women that agreed to this beforehand 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @hallohallo3487
      @hallohallo3487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Severinsen i don't think they knew that they are going to get cold obese or acceptable etc.

    • @nelli7160
      @nelli7160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      fr, my ed is screaming at me even when i’m just ”enjoying” strawberries or trying on jeans and after them not fitting seeing a skinny girl walk by me. i hate myself and i would’ve broken down after that shit

    • @jahnavigulati9092
      @jahnavigulati9092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly... It's definitely not a good idea

    • @multifandomfangirl4625
      @multifandomfangirl4625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've been crushed so it probably wouldn't have effected me and probably just make me work out more

  • @allisongoss3067
    @allisongoss3067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2978

    the bmi is a broken system.

    • @Ali08
      @Ali08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      It sure is! My young daughter was considered 'obese' as the doctor has written it in her notes! I was floored! Funnily enough, three years later, she looks the same as the average seven year old. It is a crock of BS. Thankfully, she is no longer her pediatrician.

    • @augustacookeygam5579
      @augustacookeygam5579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Definitely, I am overweight by BMI standards but I wear size 8 and 10 clothes and a very flat tummy after three children 😠😠😠😠

    • @sigma4337
      @sigma4337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Ali08 If at any point they looked like a 7 year old then the BMI scale isn't for them. BMI is NOT meant for children.

    • @Ali08
      @Ali08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sigma I am not sure what you are getting at. Just pointing out that it could be incorrect and using my daughter’s experience as a example.

    • @sigma4337
      @sigma4337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Ali08 Okay but it's not meant to be used on children. I don't go around telling people my washing machine doesn't work because I couldn't use it to clean my phone screen.

  • @lilsemanas
    @lilsemanas ปีที่แล้ว +4

    when that lady said you "look good, you feel good, but then you get these numbers attached to it and it might change your mind completely" gawd it really makes you think

  • @Thedancingfishyyy
    @Thedancingfishyyy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    How the hell do you call a body builder obese

  • @FancyBarnacles
    @FancyBarnacles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5495

    Ironically, this video was filled with body shaming.

    • @matthewmcnamara8159
      @matthewmcnamara8159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +379

      calling obese people obese isnt' body shaming, it's facts. Obese is a medical term not a subjective term.

    • @doom-driveneap4569
      @doom-driveneap4569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      FancyBarnacles that was the whole point, we all body shame even if it’s mentally.

    • @sopleasedtomeetU
      @sopleasedtomeetU 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Give one example of one instance a woman was ‘shamed’ in this video.

    • @paolas2255
      @paolas2255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@matthewmcnamara8159 👌👌

    • @paolas2255
      @paolas2255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Agatha z you are so wrong

  • @nikazadnek6299
    @nikazadnek6299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4247

    No hate, but I think this just made "overweight" women feel really uncomfortable. You can see how they smiled at the start, but then their smiles faded away😓

    • @dclara2134
      @dclara2134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Lily Chou Chou how is she body shaming?????

    • @darkness-chan4861
      @darkness-chan4861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      Weight shouldn't be a taboo topic. It may be disheartening to be faced with those numbers but we should build ourselves in order to be able to accept them and work on improving ourselves. Mentioning those numbers in the video is not body shaming, it's just forcing them to face the state their body is in from a medical prespective and how those numbers shouldn't affect the perception they had on their bodies since the beginning. Because they are still the same people before doing this video.

    • @boopsnootandboogie
      @boopsnootandboogie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I felt for them. I would have been crushed having to do this :(

    • @lids5330
      @lids5330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Stephanie Weston, Good thing that Casey’s producer gave them all a run down of what was going to happen and made sure everyone’s mental health before, during and after the video was good

    • @BandEater
      @BandEater 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@darkness-chan4861 I agree. If even talking about weight is too hard then theres a big problem

  • @danielalt7508
    @danielalt7508 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    *"I dont like BMI because it doesn't take account for personality"* said someone

  • @raexo652
    @raexo652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This whole topic is just toxic. Even though she wanted a good outcome, it was just plain toxic. Why would you ever gather women and judge each other’s weight? Smh

  • @Atombender
    @Atombender 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4110

    Calling a buff bodybuilder obese based on BMI is beyond stupid.

    • @Tr1Dylan
      @Tr1Dylan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      Bmi is accurate, just requires you to use a brain. If you have muscle and are obese, be smart. You are not. If you have rolls, stop it. You are obese and don’t defend it... the BMI is right in that case.

    • @JoKeR2eZ4u
      @JoKeR2eZ4u 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      BMI is a good way to measure how healthy your weight is if you dont really go to the gym and are considered average. If not bf is always just a number that is right and if yr above a certain percentage or below yr not healthy any more

    • @Mmm-jx7up
      @Mmm-jx7up 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Alex K right, i was thinking the same

    • @cassieisacatyourmom2564
      @cassieisacatyourmom2564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@Tr1Dylan there was a literal doctor who looked a healthy weight and was healthy based on his height and his BMI makes him technically obese 😐

    • @blueflamingo4526
      @blueflamingo4526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@Tr1Dylan take your own advice. The bmi is made for people of a certain height. It's not for everyone.
      The muscle woman isn't obese because she's tall, she IS going to be heavier even without the muscles.

  • @bellejarrell5681
    @bellejarrell5681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3608

    This makes me really mad, this is damaging their confidence

    • @marley8504
      @marley8504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Maybe. But it's all true. You can't lie to an obese woman that she's slim, or to a slim woman that she's fat. Sometimes the truth hurts, but it hurts just to let you know that it's time to do something for you.

    • @wasitjustadream2345
      @wasitjustadream2345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@marley8504 its having some empathy and think how you would feel if you get exposed on a big youtube channel with a camera in front of your face waiting to see your reaction, they are people just like you. And weight its not that simple, you dont know if this women with obesity was really trying to loose weight. the most important thing its healing the mind

    • @johnjohnston8638
      @johnjohnston8638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Shut up you loser

    • @genevievevan8588
      @genevievevan8588 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      read cassies comment

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Did you even watch the ending of the video where they all agreed that this was an uplifting experience?
      The cognitive dissonance...

  • @problemperson4221
    @problemperson4221 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    irene is clearly an outlier (on the BMI scale), her muscles were literally bulging out her tank, 5% BF is insane

  • @millie.s
    @millie.s ปีที่แล้ว +9

    this proves that BMI and weight doesn’t correlate to how healthy you are and what you look like-

    • @DatActiveGuy
      @DatActiveGuy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s a lie, it’s proven a high BMI is not healthy. She’s on steroids (Yes she is because no woman can get that big naturally) so that means she will gain more weight, even male body builders suffer with health issues due to steroid abuse and having a Outrageous BMI

  • @feelthejoy
    @feelthejoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21754

    The two muscular women definitely knew they didn’t weigh anywhere near the same. People who are into fitness are pretty good at guessing weights.

    • @SummeRain783
      @SummeRain783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1682

      I agree. Not trying to be rude but I knew from the start she was the same weight as the overweight girl. I think they were trying to prove a point about how you can still weigh a lot but through muscles which is fine

    • @anoushfaghani3015
      @anoushfaghani3015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +730

      Yeah I think they were just trying not to make anyone else feel bad, as they're quite aware of how they compared to every other girl in the group......This 'experiment' should have been done with women who all weighed the same.

    • @boyo6853
      @boyo6853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Virtue signaling under pressure

    • @boyo6853
      @boyo6853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@anoushfaghani3015 Why? if it's the truth it's okay it's not rude or anything

    • @anoushfaghani3015
      @anoushfaghani3015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@boyo6853 haha don't ask me, just a speculation

  • @frog2775
    @frog2775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6110

    How come you told that one girl she’s “almost overweight” but you didn’t tell the girl that had a BMI of 19 that she’s “almost underweight” 🤨🤨🤨

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +358

      the "almost overweight" girl was actually in the overweight zone they did her a favour by saying "almost overweight". You got it wrong buddy

    • @frog2775
      @frog2775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      Labrovy Hakkwa then why were they telling other overweight girls that they were overweight and not almost??? That makes no sense. She isn’t considered overweight either! She’s normal because of her height. And I’m not your buddy 😊

    • @frog2775
      @frog2775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Labrovy Hakkwa OML no they weren’t! Do you know how a BMI scale works?!? It compares your height to your weight, and it doesn’t know the difference between fat and muscle, she was not considered overweight! Yes she was very close, but she wasn’t, she was still in the normal region.

    • @Laura-jl7vc
      @Laura-jl7vc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      YES YES YES this is so important!!!!!!

    • @yhas.5916
      @yhas.5916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Lmao calm down

  • @kristapeterson3141
    @kristapeterson3141 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so gross. These women didn’t ask for you to evaluate their bodies, body fat percentage, weight, anything at all. Disgusting.

  • @mariahiller
    @mariahiller ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It really bothered me that the speaker pointed out that the woman with a BMI of 24,5 (healthy) which is 0,5 below reaching "overweight," was "almost overweight," and even wrote it in the text. And yet, the woman with a BMI of 19, which is only 0,1 away from underweight, was just told "healthy." She revealed her own prejudices. This sucked, and the makers of this video should apologize for this.

  • @nabilabelghit1847
    @nabilabelghit1847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5600

    This is cringe, "How do you feel about being overweight and obese?", that's kind of mean, those women looked like they were gonna cry

    • @88phantasmagoria
      @88phantasmagoria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

      They didn’t deserve to be asked that question!! These amazing women should be able to say that they’re their weight and not be commented on! That question was so degrading.

    • @nyahp5870
      @nyahp5870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      I mean if they are overweight or obese that’s something they should stand behind tbh

    • @claudialeiva8687
      @claudialeiva8687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      I mean they knew they were coming onto an excitement about weight I don’t know what they were expecting, she was just telling them the facts

    • @azdrenfaizullah9605
      @azdrenfaizullah9605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      They shouldn't be surprised, and should work on themselves rather than crying because others are actually being honest and do not sugar coat when talking about their appearance

    • @thiccskipper1996
      @thiccskipper1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's funny

  • @melschehr5310
    @melschehr5310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5269

    i feel like you had good intentions and a good idea, but this turned out quite bad and cringe worthy

    • @melissat4476
      @melissat4476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      I agree 100%. Intentions were all good but I could barely watch this video and was feeling super cringey.

    • @LK-vz8xc
      @LK-vz8xc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Same. Its just pure cringe

    • @sarahhamdan5470
      @sarahhamdan5470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Why?

    • @tenten9237
      @tenten9237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I don't see any cringe

    • @user-uh3qj2tb4z
      @user-uh3qj2tb4z 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tenten9237 exactly

  • @SierraAspenAutumn
    @SierraAspenAutumn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really appreciate this video. I’ve always been a numbers girl. Obsessed at times. This is a great reminder to be active and do what feels right for yourself. ❤

  • @avika8662
    @avika8662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They look uncomfortable. This is such a cruel experiment like? Calling a body builder obese cause of BMI is unbelievable. The words “Acceptable” or like “Over weight/Obese” in weight categories are such negative words and can really hurt some people especially in public. Im sorry but I absolutely hated this

  • @isabella-hq8oj
    @isabella-hq8oj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2117

    the woman who was “obese” w muscle wasn’t obese.. she had muscle

    • @jamesbrown99991
      @jamesbrown99991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      That's because BMI is not usable for certain body types.

    • @bunniculla
      @bunniculla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      really? i never knew that! not like the video explained it :D

    • @mikkae3260
      @mikkae3260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bunniculla it’s almost like the above commenter was responding to the person who posted the comment :)

    • @1024det
      @1024det 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      The athletic types all knew the BMI was not a good measurement system, like that one girl said we dont use BMI anymore

    • @bunniculla
      @bunniculla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mikkae3260 i was responding to the original commmenter

  • @ardenkate6405
    @ardenkate6405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1779

    “YoU aRe ObEsE, hOw Do YoU fEeL?!?”
    Wth....

    • @Sasha-xt3jh
      @Sasha-xt3jh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Would she ask the bodybuilder "you look like a dude, how do you feel?"

    • @roveniashaw8162
      @roveniashaw8162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Sasha-xt3jh thats an opinion not a fact tho

    • @clairewillow6475
      @clairewillow6475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ArdenKate omg that’s so messed up

    • @ardenkate6405
      @ardenkate6405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Pineapple Awesome AYEEEE

    • @siennafreyja5400
      @siennafreyja5400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She didn’t say that. She said this number considers you obese how does that make you feel

  • @HalloMeinFreund468
    @HalloMeinFreund468 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What I realized is that a lot of girls just don't want to handle the truth. While you may not want to be called fat or obese, you should consider that it could be true. Not insulting anyone, don't really want to sound mean or anything but sometimes we have to accept the truth.

  • @bassgirl_denalia9087
    @bassgirl_denalia9087 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ebony is a prime example of why we don't use the bmi chart anymore. She's quite clearly NOT overweight and is just tall with large set bones and higher muscle. We must start using body fat and physical tests to measure health and not an arbitrary number.

  • @sh0rtcake882
    @sh0rtcake882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5777

    “How does it feel to be overweight?”
    “How does it feel to be obese?”
    I- really?obviously bad I mean have you seen their faces,they look sad and self conscious..what a dumb question to ask someone...

    • @vorosszonja9818
      @vorosszonja9818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      To answer the question, it feels terrible, I hate myself really....

    • @schmerin95
      @schmerin95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      Yeah I think that there could have been a way to ask it in a more sensitive way. "How do you feel about that label? What does it mean?" Instead of putting the person last. People are more than their weight

    • @allison3767
      @allison3767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Icy Hot that is so right

    • @GuineaPigLuna
      @GuineaPigLuna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally off topic but I love your Todoroki icon

    • @leigh4978
      @leigh4978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Icy Hot People can be bigger and happy or okay with themselves, just because a majority of people may feel self conscious because of labelling and the way they are looked at, that does not mean all people feel that way. I know many people that are big and happy. Not trying to hate, just saying!

  • @brooke8128
    @brooke8128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4007

    Irene is literally a muscle, she is not obese nor should she ever be considered that

    • @vangoghsear1997
      @vangoghsear1997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Brookie Cookie excess weight has health implications no matter what. What makes fat worse is that it affects the organs as well.

    • @adriananinoartigas5880
      @adriananinoartigas5880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Ur Mom but she literally said in the video “I say this in quotes”. Pay attention before commenting

    • @lisalehner3990
      @lisalehner3990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Thats the point of the video. To tell people that bmi does not tell shit about your body

    • @violett874
      @violett874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@vangoghsear1997 Not true. It's only unhealthy if excess fat is carried around the organs. Even sumo wrestlers can gain a lot of weight and still be healthy because their fat is stored under the skin and not around the organs due to their training.

    • @lisalehner3990
      @lisalehner3990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@violett874 sorry, but thats medically just not accurate. Being over weight takes a toll on the whole System (mostly on the heart and cardio vascular System) it of course also dependes on what u eat and if you do exercise, but it is just not true that fat is just unhealthy when störend nearby the Organs. I would reccomend you ask your family doctor about whatever you want to know, they have so much knowledge about that topic than I do.

  • @cassandra4398
    @cassandra4398 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really, really liked this and all the women were so precious ❤ I loved their connection through this experience.

  • @madisonkiesel3910
    @madisonkiesel3910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    From what I understand BMI was never made for fitness standards… it was created for a white 25 year old male for a scientific use, not women, not anyone over or under 25, and not any ethnic people… so I’ve never used BMI😅

  • @sarahdilley564
    @sarahdilley564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2387

    Who calls the buffest person in the room "obese"

    • @raymiller4225
      @raymiller4225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      DANK MINING well I think the point is that the system is bs and doesn’t have any real meaning because the numbers don’t define who they really are

    • @slayuumeowmeow
      @slayuumeowmeow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Muscle fat also adds a lot of weight

    • @EddieOdora
      @EddieOdora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@slayuumeowmeow Muscle fat? Muscle and fat are two separate things.

    • @carahartoon8313
      @carahartoon8313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Good video. Not body shaming. Supports the ideas that numbers are arbitrary.

    • @ignfan4life
      @ignfan4life 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@raymiller4225 Sure, they don't define who we are, but they do have meaning. Showing you can be the same weight as someone while looking different doesn't disprove that.

  • @sjlang7812
    @sjlang7812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2289

    the 24.5 girl shouldn't be told she's "nearly overweight" she's literally in the healthy weight range wtf

    • @TheEssenceofpets
      @TheEssenceofpets 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      She said according to the BMI. 🙄 and height plays a major factor as well

    • @koko-oz7jf
      @koko-oz7jf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yea that's why nearly overweight not overweight at that moment

    • @sjlang7812
      @sjlang7812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@koko-oz7jf yes but shes a healthy weight why not refer to her as such?

    • @koko-oz7jf
      @koko-oz7jf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sjlang7812 to indicate the degree of healthiness according to bmi this healthy/almost overweight
      For eg if she said healthy/almost underweight It would mean closer to 18.5 mark

    • @xRaverxBabyx
      @xRaverxBabyx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Manahil Sidiki why didn’t she refer to Rachel as ‘almost underweight’ then?

  • @julissadc6303
    @julissadc6303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cant believe that weight is so important a lot of people felt triggered by the video, that just go to show how we learn to fear fat, like people fat is part of the human composition, and yes, you can be obese and just look chubby you would be surprise at what obese actually looks like at the beginning

  • @luxnanyx
    @luxnanyx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i feel like 5% fat for women is kinda dangerous

  • @morgantindall1167
    @morgantindall1167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3401

    I feel like the yoga girl said it good, “you look good, you feel good, but then when a number is put on it, it might change your mind completely”

    • @itzmoonliight14
      @itzmoonliight14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yea that almost made me cry 😭

    • @itzmoonliight14
      @itzmoonliight14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Pretty Boy Don't worry you're perfect in my opinion

    • @itzmoonliight14
      @itzmoonliight14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Pretty Boy Well, all that matters is you love yourself (sorry Idrk what to say and sorry if this sounds cringey)

    • @itzmoonliight14
      @itzmoonliight14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Pretty Boy You're welcome I think have a nice day or night!

    • @heatherleon5764
      @heatherleon5764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Pretty Boy way to be humble😂

  • @SadieeeSweeet
    @SadieeeSweeet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4993

    The black lady seemed to be the most balanced and healthy in her habits. For her to be classed as 'overweight' is shocking and really sad.

    • @whamitsjam
      @whamitsjam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +314

      BMI is way too generic and innacurate and doesn't take into consideration race and different builds

    • @emoweeb6627
      @emoweeb6627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I considered to be chubby but actually, I have a pretty healthy lifestyle and I’m average weight.

    • @annmarieannmarie5576
      @annmarieannmarie5576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Yes, and she looked beautiful and healthy.

    • @Hazeydaze92
      @Hazeydaze92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      BMI isn't always the best way to judge, and if you're only a few pounds into the overweight category but have healthy habits, chances are you have a healthy weight. She was only 1lb over the 'healthy range', and she had a healthy body fat percentage so she's perfectly healthy.

    • @oklol5276
      @oklol5276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr

  • @briar_rh
    @briar_rh ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I really liked Ebony! She seemed super sweet and respectful, and like the type of person I would want to be friends with

  • @MIMIKU03
    @MIMIKU03 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm late but I think this video is literally what everyone goes through either in their heads by comparing themselves or in fitness/with athletes. These numbers are just a way to get a ball park idea of what's happening with your body. It doesn't necessarily reflect the health or fitness of people. Overall, great video concept and a great group of women who are also knowledgeable about the fact that the uses behind these numbers are inconclusive/not reliable 😌👏👏

  • @Sapphireia
    @Sapphireia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3165

    I'm sorry but 24.5 is within the healthy range!! The "almost overweight" comment was completely unnecessary! They are both at a healthy weight.

    • @oskarlodin8204
      @oskarlodin8204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      No, they clearly both have excess body fat which in the long term will make them more prone for diseases.

    • @willowtreedaycare5048
      @willowtreedaycare5048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s light

    • @willowtreedaycare5048
      @willowtreedaycare5048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Like really light I’m 72.5

    • @Sapphireia
      @Sapphireia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@oskarlodin8204 BMI isn't a one size fits all, that's why the healthy BMI range is so wide (and why you shouldn't be considered "almost overweight" just because you're in the upper part of the healthy range.) The girl who had BMI 24.5 was in the fitness category in terms of body fat, so she's clearly in good shape!

    • @oskarlodin8204
      @oskarlodin8204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Sapphireia Body fat is not good just because you are in the healthy range of BMI. It has a number of negative health effects regardless of your BMI. Studies from Norway show that about half of all woman who have a normal BMI are fat if you measure their body fat percentage.
      "An increased amount of fat on the body has several known negative effects on various health values. These are direct effects that occur because fat cells secrete things that we do not want too much of, but it becomes easy too much if the amount of fat mass becomes too high. This is especially true of fat that is stored more around the abdomen which is more common in men which can then also explain the differences that exist between men and women in the curves for body fat.
      Instead, an increased amount of muscle mass, or fat-free mass, usually has several positive effects on health. Both the risk of accidents and the metabolic health are clearly improved if you increase the amount of muscle mass in people. We also now know that muscles, like fat cells, function as organs in the body and can affect your health through the secretion of various hormones in the blood." tyngre.se/artikel/hur-muskler-och-kroppsfett-korrelerar-med-dodlighet/
      Norway: traningslara.se/50-av-alla-tjejer-och-kvinnor-ar-overviktiga-trots-normalt-bmi/

  • @leesmith3768
    @leesmith3768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2519

    "Obese" with 5% body fat, that totally makes sense!

    • @avakahn8157
      @avakahn8157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Its all muscle

    • @elliott8596
      @elliott8596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      BMI can be adjusted to reflect your build. It's crazy to see someone with 5% body fat standing next to someone with 44% and they weigh the same. They don't describe it here, but what that literally means is that 5% of the body builders weight is from fat, where is the other person, 44% of their weight comes from fat. This actually should be somewhat inspiring for her if she wants to lose weight. My guess is, given her care-free attitude about most things, it's not a priority for her. There isn't anything wrong with that, by the way.

    • @aoutsky
      @aoutsky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@elliott8596 she's not 5% body fat. She's not even 10%.

    • @estebanod
      @estebanod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@aoutsky you know athletes can be lower than 5% right ?
      I don't know if you just feel bad about your body but it's everything but crazy for an athlete to have 5% body fat, it's actually the norm.

    • @AD-ge1bz
      @AD-ge1bz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@aoutsky U do realize that the lowest a woman could ever go to is 12% BF right?

  • @AL-nh6zm
    @AL-nh6zm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like Casey but hated the concept of this video. Plus she is so biased, she told the girl with the 24.5 bmi that she was in the "healthy, almost overweight" category but told the girl with the 19 BMI that she was in the healthy range without telling her that she was just as close to the underweight category as the other girl was to the overweight category...
    Overall I feel like the approach to the subject was really poorly executed and I hope it doesn't damage these girls too much.