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This tradition was common in Kohat (KPK) Pakistan at least 20 years ago but Alhamdu lillah it's over now.
In Indian it's still there
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Alhamdulilaah we dont have this culture in Somaliland/ somalia. You just come to wedding eat and enjoy with family. If you wish u can buy a gift for the married couple but this is a just a sadaqah. Meaning u cant go around and show this to everyone. May Allah guide us to the siratul mustaqeen.amii. yaa rabb.
Yeah deat sister
It's the same here, in India.💕 Alhamdulillah!
Yeah sister we somalis ❤️
Salma Ali
We Somalis also have something similar were the guests are paid small amount of money called gabati. I wish we can forgo this tradition so the new weds can use the gabati money
AMIN...AMIN...AMIN...YA RABBI!!!!
Alhamdulillah, our city Kolkata and also our West Bengal is safe from this cancerous practice. Though, it happens in Kashmir.
May Allah bless us all with good knowledge and good heart to practice the correct Islam.
What a fabulous way of addressing the issue
Afghans are poor but they have very big hearts. First time I hear about the book.
Hosai Popal
He's not even talking about Afghan
Nice comments
You are a great person.
I love this man......Love from India 😊
I belong to this culture ....Kashmir.Insha Allah I am gonna change it on my nikkah.
This practice happens in Tunisia too..! May Allah guide us all.
Are you sure?.
zakia Elghrissat i thought this happened in only the Indian sub continent countries
Tunisian women are so beautiful mashala. I lived there for a bit. Too bad my Mom won't approve a girl from a different country.
Am not Muslim but here i am watching
Alhamdulillah, nothing like this has ever happened in Nigeria. My country
sheikh, you are right. this is our marriage culture in Bangladesh.
Lol. That wedding fine is called ‘salami’ here in pak-indo culture
Haha i was expecting such comment
Here in Bangladesh too!!😶
Noooo🤐🙏 plzzzz... We don't have this type of rituals in india
@@nishadunisa4134 yes it is common here also called nyota aur naved
Salami is like blessing in the form of money given from some one's own will not like asking foe money or to embarrass someone..the people you invited coming to your marriage is a blessing itself..they actually put a shining to the marriage..just think if the people you inviting not come to your marriage then you will be seen paying to them for salami
Let me try to explain my brother's n sisters with the example of humanity. That the one person cannot help everyone but everyone can help someone.
Wallahi it is happening. I have witness so many. May Allah help us.
Masha Allah beautiful advice Shiekh jazakallah
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Yesss it's true it's happened in my Family 😂😂😂😞😞😞. Jazakallahu khair for this video helpful video 😇😇😇🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 From India Hyderabad
I don't know why do they dislike the massage of Islam....😖
In Malaysia, u eat for free. Most of the times even if they don't really know you really they will still invite you to the wedding. And you are volunteer to give money but many family don't even accept. I have to sometimes attend 2-3 weeding in the same week especially during school holiday. 😅
True, we eat for free. but I think if you give money, the host will mostly accept, only that it is not necessary, and you can give however much you want as sadakah. No one keeps track at all. ❤❤❤
Subhanallah.. cultural shock 😅
i love to listening.
same here in the Philippines we have the same culture in his story about the donations for the wedding thing and giving it back the same amount when somebody is getting married in there family members to...
Awesome speech
Wonderful Sir may almighty God bless you.
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Ahaha.... We practice this thing happens in Ethiopia too.... Subhanallah..... May Allah guide us all.
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Masha'Allah your beautiful smile so cute and sweet
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In the Philippines, there is a tribe of Muslims as well. if one of your family relatives experiences catastrophe (such as illness or medical expenses).
Every relative is obligated to assist the sick person; they will donate money to the family of the injured or unwell, typically in the form of an envelope with their name on it.
You will need to pay the exact amount back if the donor becomes ill in the future.
Subhanallahi wa Bihamdihi.
Massha Allah love u mufti
There's a culture like that in Malaysia but it's more like a donation (recommendatory) rather than obligatory and we don't need to write our names. We usually put it in a small envelope (any amount would do) and give it to the hosts (usually the parents of the newlywed). The hosts don't demand that money/go from table to table to ask for them. They just walk around to converse with people and if we see them we strike the conversation and give the envelope (hidden) to them. The point is to ease their burden of preparing for the wedding.
its same in indian city hyderabad muslims wedding ceremony, but as you said its not mandatory or need to write names , its just as per your wish you could request the bride's mother or father to accept gift in form of money enclosed in an envelope
They made a wedding as a business Lol
Mashallah
jazakakAllah khar. I love you mufti menk. im indian and in india this happens mostly. i hate this and in my family we dont do this. may Allah guide right path of islam to all.
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Yes it Pakistani culture called (nendra) the wedding fine you're so cute mufti the way you tell the story
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True talk 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
ماشاءالله
There is a lot of exaggeration in what he is saying. He is simply playing to the gallery 🤠
In India it's optional , people can give if they wish to. But usually a lot of people give it because they think going empty handed is a bit embarassing. But people can give any amount as they wish.
it is of our culture. Bangladesh.we use to practice ths culture .u know same thing happens here s he mentions.and i personally don't like it want to stop it.. May Allah grant us accurate knowledge of brotherhoods..
Nazma Sultana Seena
Assalamualaikum
I'm Bangladeshi too but I have never seen or heard this kind of stuff happening in weddings. I have attended many weddings so please stop oppressing our country . It will be better if you write city name instead of Bangladesh. All Bangladeshi and their cultures are not the same.
May ALLAH bless you
You are wrong this doesn’t happen in Bangladesh at least not in Sylhet
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Hey asshole, I am from Bangladesh and never heard of this culture. Do you really know our culture?
jazakallahu kheyran
It's one of 3 countries India , Pakistan or Bangladesh
even some places in Iran :)
Talal Khan absolutely right .
Even in our country too.... Nepal
Yeah
It needs to be stopped
lets make promise so that we won't allow these things in our wedding ✋✋
Talal Khan I’m Pakistani I’ve never heard this before and I have Bengali and Indian friends and I’ve never heard them say this aswell
Its also happen in my country.. So sad
It happens in our Kashmir too😖
Anika Nazir i would like to tell you that Kashmir isn't a nation... Its a part of India 🇮🇳 as well as Pakistan has occupied it
I am a kashmiri and let me tell you its india who has occupied kashmir
@@kuravle008 Lets just say south Asia lets not start a fight...XD
In Albania too
Unfortunately gift means just money 💰 🤦🏼♀️
*Alhamdulillah I've never seen it in Pakistan*
It is in pakistan.... But we don't do this in northern Pakistan...
You are right..
Mashaallah
Mufti menk
I really appreciate this. but same thing happens in our Kashmir too we the People of Kashmir lacking good sense
My dad has A HUGE BOOK 😂😂😂😂😂😂 🇵🇸 for wedding, gifts, graduation, birth astafurallah
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I've been on a wedding where they did that too. I was pretty shocked
It is in Kashmir too
Ameen ❤❤❤❤
*Yeah, I know what he is talking about*
I know he is talking about India. This thing has happened with him in India.
Do you know which state it was??
@@sweetiepie1376 it can be Pakistan also as the cultures aresame🤔
I'm Pakistani and I assure that's not happened in Pakistan. That's not our culture atleast I did not see it in Pakistan
no..i come from India and this is the first time I have heard this...
in my country u have to contribute something before the wedding for celebration. If you don't they won't contribute when you have yours. same thing in funerals
Absolutely right....... That's true
Mashaallah Allah mazid traqqi se nwaze apki gaib se madad farmaye aamin Allah Mujhe bhi aise English me bolne wala bna de aamin
It happens in my State also,,,, KASHMIR😭
This is the first I am hearing of this cultural tradition to be honest, and I’m Bangladeshi. Never seen it at any of the weddings I’ve attended either, perhaps a regional difference 🤷🏻♀️
It happens in bangladesh and you dont know!!
Im also bangladeshi
Its really sad
Same, it happens all the time in places like Dhaka, how haven't u noticed?
It's a custom usually followed by Japanese people called Goshugi, where each invited guest has to dish out something like the equivalent of $300 USD. Considering that Japan is a muslim minority country, I am not exactly sure if Goshugi is practised by Muslims in Japan.
Assalamu alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarkatahu
We have the same culture... But only relatives and friends give gifts n sometimes money ... N we have to return the same or more than that...
This happened in malaysia too ..
In Kashmir it's called as guli miyouth or huen duen 🤣
In Uzbekistan it’s like that. They keep track of who gave how much
We in the Arabian Peninsula, do not asking money from the guests and invitees.
There are some guests bring with them a gift and there guests does not bring with him anything,
They are not forced to do this.
arab.c .. O no hi l
I just met a culture Totally same as You described... Im shocked
He narrated that story in such a funny way....although it's background is very sad :(
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Let me mention the positive aspect of this norm,what happens is when a daughter or a son in the family gets married,it's not always planed,it can happen anytime.and even if the family keeps the expenses very minimal there is still need of some amount or help in other forms. so relatives and friends come forward give u that help not just in form of money, just any help which is needed for example in villages they give of sheep's ,wheat for meal, crockery and other basic needs to family even helping hand doing the chores .and u gladly offer that help back ...when theres a wedding in their family.
this forms unity among the family and friends and community at large.
It's same as group of a friends, one of them getting married and rest of the friends decide to offer help and some form of material gift as per the need whatever or whatever they wish to offer and likewise .and they all will collective get help from each other on their wedding days.
InshaAllah 😁😄
Yess this is right in our country on walima day people give money to the groom family and then it gives back in their weddings
It's in my country.I don't want to mention.
please give subtitle
its surely in south asia(Ban,Ind,Pak)
Asalamu alaikum
It also happens in our kashmir too.
Salam wa Alkum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barkathu yea shake you absolutely right as always I enjoy your teaching may Allah SWT reward the highest stations in paradise 🤲🏼🌹🙏🏼
I can’t stop laughing 😆.ts really funny
We have a culture like this on the Phililippines. Like it is just so sad 😔😢
Halal comedy i love it .
Nawzubillah. You are right. Very sad to say this is very much seen in india sub continent. May Allah help us to get rid of this
It also happens in india
We call it Tamool
Its only done in villages now, but nit exactly as he said it but similar.....the subcontinent (south asia)
Indian and Pakistani culture
Don't mind me asking but which cultures does this happen?