He gave the legal explanation of an OOP. Here’s the simplified reality....An order of protection is the end of a relationship. The sooner you realize this, the better off you’ll be. Trust me on this. Been there, done that
Lmbo.....yup I'm a wife and I want him to go because he abuse alcohol and I'm just exhausted from the pee in the bed the 2am almost burning down the house..the girls...the waste of money...I'm just tired 10 years...alcohol wins. I'm out!!
@@stephaniemiller5165 You can msg me if u want. I got full custody of my kid. I left an awful DV situation. He kept threatening to kill me and had a knife. But he would not let me break up with him. He would also act horrible and expect to be excused for it. He thought the danger he put us through should not affect his custody but I disagree because he acted really unsafe so I gotta protect my son from that too. Did you leave? Are you able to??
@@Laurendoesflips thank you so much....I prayed and God came thru. For now he is sober and I have enough time to move now. We have been married for over a decade and now. I'll give him 1 year to work for the family he claims he loves but for my peace it can not be under the same roof. God revealed to me that if a person does not love themselves it will be hard for them to love u enough to get it together. So I'll allow him time to reflect and seek christ. The enemy do not bound nobodies he binds Giants that will bruise his head.....that's why the battle is so strong for alcoholics. Drugaddicts.. gays..lesbians....gamblers cus they are mighty men an women of God that will win so many souls to christ. So the enemy don't want that so he attract them early to brokenness.
Can i get an order of protection for a client who threatens to bring the police at my business place. You see i told her how I'm to get paid and how the product can be deliver by mail or pick up at the salon. But she insists that she will bring police which i dont what that to be happening at my business place.
HOW LONG DOES THE NO CONTACT ORDER LAST IF NEITHER PARTY HAS FILED A RESTRAINING ORDER? I HAVE A COURT DATE IN A FEW WEEKS AND I WAS ONLY ORDERED BY THE JUDGE WHEN I WAS IN JAIL, NO CONTACT ORDER AND I NEED ANGER MANAGEMENT AND AA
My husband exwife is from Canada. She is harassing and threatening me on his text. The exwife even harassing my social media on Facebook. She said whoever involved or friends with my husband she'll come after them. The exwife said she going to hire private investors and criminal investors to find me. I never met her or talking to her. She went to my Facebook and sending all my family pictures and harassing family. How can I report or do a restraining order on the exwife???? Thanks in advance
So if I get a order of protection placed on me for 2 years or less will that show up on background check for future employment? One of the orders has me paying fees, fines ,& compensation money but how would that be possible if I lose my job & can not get one because of this. Is it a criminal record or not?
Depending on the job description and how and the duration of the protective order when someone doesnt renew it comes off your record if it gets renewed it stays on your record
I have an order of protection from my daughters father should I go back to court to tell judge order has been violated ? I’m already going to prescient but I would like to know if I can come to court to make the judge aware too ?
Is the 10 year time frame meant to protect the same victim? Although, here in Minnesota 2 yr of protection is what one gets most of the time. After that two years of protection and the respondent still continues to have you, then what? Or does this mean, if another victim gets another HRO and they violate that second HOR it means 2nd misdemeanor?
i was not never served, n my ex still talked to me while she had a Temporary protective order against me. can this get me in hot water when I was never served?
I live with my kids mother we have two children but she is verbally abusive harasses me screams and yells in front of the children, I have primary custody through the family courts for our 9 year old son there is no legal status on a two-year-old child I have already contacted many agencies and legal aid, the mother continues to be abusive using now profanity and even blocks doorways for me getting through , she has smacked me once across my chest and shoulder.Her name is not on the lease the landlord served her a 10-day comply or vacate notice can an order protection filed by me have my children's Mother removed from our home??
I couldn’t be an attorney knowingly getting people out of trouble. I’ve witnessed somebody get issued an order and they had a good attorney or whatever
@@rikmcdik6662 what criminal defense lawyers do is often misunderstood. Sometimes it results in getting people out of trouble, especially if their rights were violated. Other times it means getting them help along with some sort of reduced punishment IF THEY COMPLETE the help they’re getting. And of course there are those times when someone is actually falsely accused. But may I ask you a question? Could you be a prosecutor and put an innocent person on trial for a serious crime? What if that happened and what if they were wrongfully found guilty and spend 10, 20, 30 years in prison and then we find out they weren’t the one who did it? Wouldn’t that be horrible? It does happen, you can google the Innocence Project to see story after story about it. We criminal defense lawyers exist to protect against that. Wouldn’t you agree that’s a good thing?
I got issued NCO by former employee who claimed I assaulted him. Then he shows up to my business and threatens to call the police and get me arrested if I didn't give him money. I tried to get him trespassed, but the Sheriff refused without a court order. This guy had me arrested twice. I was taken away in handcuffs from my own place of business when I wouldn't give him what he wanted. I spent two weekends in jail. Now I have to defend myself at trial. Any suggestions for a defense?
My neighbor, she's in her 60's, has a restraining order against her ex-husband. He just got out of jail, he was put in jail for beating her, and convinced her to let him stay with her during hurricane Irma. We live in Punta Gorda Florida. But now he won't leave and is becoming a problem for her again. She's afraid to call the cops because she allowed him in, and he's telling her she'd be arrested for violation of her own restraining order against him for letting him back in. She's afraid. I don't know what to tell her or how to help her. Any information you can give me to help her would be appreciated.
So I have a question because I can't seem to find any answers to it, a former friend of mine called the police to get me to stop talking to them. I personally had no idea that I had done anything wrong since we had normal conversations before that, I did notice there was something wrong but they never told me anything. Regardless, the police said that I wasnt in any sort of legal trouble, I just wasnt allowed to talk to her or anything of that nature, and if I did I would be arrested for harassment. I was never given a written record of it, and I am a single parent that doesn't ever want to get into legal trouble because I don't want to potentially lose custody of my child. So I don't know if this went on any sort of record of mine or what exactly was that was placed on me.
I have an order in IL against a woman. Now, she's calling me thru a private number/unknown. I've blocked her but she still tries to call me sporadically. What can I do? How can I prove it's her?
Very late but I'll ask anyway. If the person who I have a protection order against sends some after me just to simply talk to me. Does that count as a violation?
Iam looking for help.i have a child by my ex.i visit with my daughter twice a week.the step mom has harassed me at these visits and on social media including the father.should i get a restraining order?
I have visitation rights to my child...my childs mother still refuses to let me have parenting time...i have no address...no phone number...i hired a "process server" (and an attorney) to file a contempt charge...on the same day that I hire my process server my childs mother filed a petition for an "ex parte civil protection order" how can she do that??? and will this affect me being able to serve her for contempt??? please help and thank you!!
I'm not a lawyer but I believe you can. Seeing as you referred to the person as a friend I might consider cutting them off until they want to talk about your dispute like adults. A licensed attorney will be able to give you the best advice.
brandy rhonemus excellent question. Unfortunately no, it does not. I have represented people in that very situation. Prosecutors can still charge it out as a violation. Some use discretion and don’t charge it, but others do charge it. A jury can nullify it (I’ve had that happen) because it’s not really fair, but it’s risky to bet on that. Best thing is to still avoid contact and follow the rules of the order and document it in case something happens later.
Hello, i have a friend that haves a no - contact order on the victim, but in this case the victims girlfriend has been harassing him even though the victim is knowing of this harassment and doesn't try to stop her. does that violate the no-contact order by a third party and also the victim?
Many orders for protection prohibit third party contact/harassment. First, they should check the language in the order. Second, the person being harassed can always apply for a harassment restraining order or no contact order against the third party. Does that make sense?
How do I get an protection order against my neighbors they have been driving by my parents house for months now they almost hit my puppy today while I was walking around my own yard
If sum1 is on probation will it violate his probation getting served with a restraining order/pfa? I dont mean after hes served but b4 getting served being on probation.. and what about 3rd party access like hacking my phone or doing something indirectly?
Okay your explanation of the situation only seems valid if the restraining order is not for a valid reason. But there are many situations that are horrible DV situations where orders of protection are necessary/not soon enough. Got a three year restraining order against my son´s biological dad after he threatened to kill me many times, had a hunting knife, would not let me leave his house, but he did not go to prison. I did not press charges bc I did not want to deal with retaliation and I did not have evidence, but he was very dangerous. Many times its appropriate and many perpetrators of DV play the victim and there can even be scapegoating of the actual victim of DV. I think allowing a perp to get a restraining order dropped when they were threatening harm to control someone is more playing into their narcissism/expectation to be excused for horrible things. My ex who was the aggressor always played the victim any time I fought back and his family bought it. Sometimes families of DV agressors enable and scapegoat the victim to try to make the perpetrator seem innocent. I have full custody of my son and our restraining order just lasts three years. I dont know why they don´t make permanent restraining orders. I feel like he should have no right to be near us ever. I am glad I called the police the first time he tried to hit me and I am glad I got this restraining order. Seriously more women should call the police sooner. Please don´t help anyone dangerous. Obviously, no one is entitled to do domestic assault. More often things happen that dont get reported, not the other way around. Restraining orders are an important part of the process to break a relationship if the other partner does not want to let the other partner make their own decisions. Sadly some men think they own women. I was wanting to leave but he would not allow me to. Restraining orders are necessary sometimes. Okay have a good day. Like seriously if a partner is wanting a restraining order on the other they should just move out and let them go, not fight the restraining order.
I understand and appreciate your concerns and points. There is a process in place that exists for the purpose of protecting those that rightly qualify for a restraining/no contact order, and for dropping those orders when they are not valid. The process, like any other human creation, is not perfect. There are people on both sides of the equation (alleged victims and alleged perpetrators) that are equally capable of manipulating the truth and abusing the system. So yes mistakes can and will he made at times. But the problem is that alleged victims are equally as capable of manipulating the truth as are perpetrators. So the system does its best in attempting to sort out what’s valid and what isn’t. Both parties deserve the right to be heard and advocated for. Then it is up to a judge to decide the facts and apply the law.
@@RyanPacyga Ya I fought back and called the police first thing and also went straight to the courts which I think saved my situation. Also a DV survey really helped the court worker to assess the danger of the situation. I think some women get scapegoated by the abusers families to make the abuser seem innocent. Abusers think theyŕe innocent/not at fault in their abuse. But I can understand why someone would not want a restraining order that was not valid on their records. But I respectfully disagree. I would guess that most restraining orders are requested for very serious and valid reasons. The sucky thing is if a someone is being abused and they do not have proof or if a woman has been trained to deny abuse to escape future abuse then she has no proof unless he left marks. I am glad I called 911 the first time he put his hands on me.
Lauren Stanley I understand. Unfortunately there will never be 100 percent accuracy or correct results. You’re right, there are times something happened and just isn’t proven despite the fact that it happened. But there are also instances where nothing happened but a false allegation got an innocent person convicted. Thanks for your comments and stay healthy! 🙏
I just got a temporary restraining order against me for a domestic incident. I haven't seen my Wife or kids for almost a week & it is killing me not to see them. My Wife called me during the time we were separated & told me that she loves me & that she wants to work things out & make our marriage last. I can't tell you, as a man who made mistakes to cause this situation how hard & difficult this situation is. I quit drinking alcohol & I am taking the right steps to make my life better not only for myself but for my family. I just feel like I'm never going to see them again or get the chance to make things right & it is breaking my heart. I have no idea what is going to happen next week when I stand before the judge. All I can tell you is if you are married & you have a Wife that likes to fight & argue or hit on you - be the bigger guy & walk away. If the marriage isn't working out, try to save it by going to counceling or get a divorce.
If there is an order of protection, and the police made it, not the woman, because of an argument in the home that got out-of-hand, and the woman does not want the order of protection, how can she make it go away? If she and he both want to be together, but the police made the order of protection, how do they lift it? Please respond. Thank you.
Had an OFP placed on me for simply breaking a phone in front of my ex fiance. In court the judge upheld the ofp for 8 months to "disentangle our lives", but left the option for texts about the minor children and allowed us to meet in public places to exchange the kids. He urged her to work with me on visitation in the interim of having a custody hearing. I had tried repeatedly to work out some type of pre-trial custody arrangements with her, as well as asking for phone calls from the kids. I was a stay at home dad for a year and a half before she ran off with them, and it crushed me to no end to have them taken from me like that. Just today I received a ticket in the mail that I have broken the ofp. Considering the only contact I had was via text as the judge called for, I'm wondering if this can be true? I suspect she's doing this to get a leg up in the custody hearing. Wondering If you could direct me towards a decent attorney in the Duluth area that could help with such things. -Thanks
hey Bauks, sorry I didn't notice an alert I get when there's a comment. I hope you found the representation in Duluth you needed, and I hope all is well. Sounds like the judge saw the big picture in urging you guys to work on the big picture with the kids.
y question is: an order of protection is in place for the spouse, including eviction of the home. However, he has now been back 3 times to remove"personal property" which is not completely true. He has removed some personal stuff including all tools. He has been accompanied by a police officer each time. question: how many times is to many? is there a time frame, for how long he should be taking? if he is able to take whatever he wants? the last time he was in the home he turned the heating system switch off! the FEAR is real each time he is in the home. what can be done? if any? thank you
Alma Colon each case is unique and each set of circumstances are unique. Police are there so it should be okay. It’s hard for someone that is suddenly kicked out of their home to get by. That’s why they need to return to retrieve items. The court is in charge of how many times is enough.
I have a restraining order on a person for 2 years I. Am still contacted by social media Twitter and my Facebook page and I've gone to the cops at least 10 times and even with the proof I have of violation the police still wont doping anything can I get a lawyer to help me its getting to the point of death threats are put on me and I'm followed by her friends I fear for my life
+OliveOyl12590 it was not continued the lawyers of the girl lied and said she did nothing wrong took my stuff want into a room and some of my papers disappeared so the judge has to drop my case the judge believes me but the most important evidence got removed by her lawyer in the back room I know cause I had it all staples and numbered and some were missing
casper62200 I went through that shit for eight months while my wife was trying to divorce me. The Judge was pissed off that I wouldn't go on with her "proceeding" while my wife was just trying to get an edge in her divorce. At the end of the day, she wound up with the kids and paid for EVERYTHING.
@eddy bliss You're at more of a risk of getting killed or something horrible happening to you after you leave a relationship. An order of protection is only a piece of paper and not a force field.
Odd situation: a former vendor at my work is acting crazy sending hateful emails and calls my line at work all day to harass me and scream and swear at me. Currently, I've been just hanging up on this person. However, this makes me feel uneasy. My boss asked me if we need to file a restraining order as none of us have ever dealt with this situation. Any feedback would be great!
Katy K depending on what state you are in there are different types of no contact orders. Some are called "harassment restraining orders," or "no contact orders" or similar names. You can usually go to a self help center at your local courthouse to find out how to apply for one and what type is right for your situation.
I need help..i have a restraining order against me from ex gf three years ago.the R.O. last for 5 years during my dv classes.she contacted me.at first i didnt know but then she revealed her self who she was.i texted back like a normal person but when i found out it was her i told her i can go to get jail time fine or prison for this why u contact me.we talked reconciled but after the classes i didnt want to b with her cuz i was scared to get trouble.she told me to find her in fives years..but its ben 3 nd shes aware tht im single and had other relationships.she got furious.nd im aware she went to court to get revenge on me..so ik shes filing for violation.and i think she labeled as a S.O..im scared cuz i got court for intoxication in public real soon..im afraid this will show up nd im locked up nd fined..
Why isn't the person requesting the order required to make reasonable efforts to avoid the other party? For example the ex girlfriend going into the other person's job just to force him to leave?
i want to drop a protective order, i am not in danger anymore, its been 13 years of not being in danger ,,my daughter has for 3 years suffered bcause she wants to know him, i decided to let her go and live with him ,he is in a different state, no time for courts ,my question iis,, could i write to the courts to drop the order,i dont want kidnapping charges to accure
Unless you filed a protective order cause your life was in grave danger and you know that he's a nutcase then what makes you think that someone like him is gonna be sympathetic about it? There is nothing wrong with being upset with your significant other, but filing a protective order and possibly ruining someone's life? I have no sympathy for you whatsoever. Actions do have consequences
I am in need of this I just left an abusive relationship and she is trying to destroy my life.. but with covid the courts or backed up all the way till july.. How can I get one sooner or do I have to wait it out and just keep documenting her threatening texts and calls?
@Edwards Built like big O plays like jordan First of all you dont know what you are talking about so for me to go back and fourth with you is not going to happen .. I clearly wrote what the hell I am going through.. I dont care if the person dont have feelings anymore or love me I am getting an order of protection for my safety .. so all that other shit you speak ...Pardon my back I dont got time for it
what if the ex husband wants visitation with the children, but the mother of the kids has a restraining order on the father? also if he's paying child support.
bon bon unfortunately that piece of paper states that he cannot go near the that person. If the ex husband does then he will be promptly arrested and charged with violation of a restraining order and looking at mandatory jail time. Unless the person really needs a restraining order on someone due to being hostile and dangerous they need to get rid of this shit all together.
great video is a tresspas leter the same as order of protection in min if isued by a court and again if busisnes isues letter notfies police of ban thankyou i had a tresspas for asking a question it was not threw a court i didnot violate it and it was lifted after a year thankyou
I need an answer yes or no a person put a no contact order on me and came to my house today I'm on probation should I tell my probation officer and did they break there own restraining order by coming over to my house when there the ones who put it on me and we are both guys
adrian luna it depends. If you allowed or invited the person to be at your home, then law enforcement, probation or prosecution may argue that you violated it. If the person showed up Uninvited and refused to leave, then it shouldn't be a violation.
Thank you for your video I can get the restraining order I have annoying ex boyfriend and he still come and assaulting me even though he moved on 8 years ago. He's still coming around me scaring me and contacting me, controlling me and he has his wife and kids already. How can I make him stop from all this? Please I need your help with this situation. Thanks again for your video it's really interesting I enjoy watching it! 😇👌🏾🙌🏾👍🏾✌🏾💯💯💯💯💯💯
My girlfriend got a no contact order for me because we're juveniles and she went to jail after me and the judge ordered her to stay away from me and have no contact with me how long do those usually last
It depends. They can last anywhere from a small timeframe if your lawyer brings a motion to cancel it or quash it. Sometimes they last as long as the goes. Other times they last for several years.
What if my girl friend went to the court and wanted to take the order off? She did not want the order she just wanted to get me help and the cops took over from there. I'm really confused and worried but all I qualify for is a public defender and I can't ever get a hold of them. We are engaged to be married and our family is very close and we just want to move past this since I have been going to therapy and it was the first time I have ever been in trouble or done anything like this. My hearing is on the 20th and they gave me I think 3 misdemeanors.
I have had cases where we have been able to get a no contact order or OFP removed. So yes it is possible that she can do that, but each case is unique. Each court and judge have their own procedures regarding how someone can request to have a no contact order modified or lifted. In MN, the judge may entertain the issue at your next court appearance, especially if your girlfriend or the victim's advocate (on her behalf) asks for it to be modified or lifted. You should continue trying to get a hold of your public defender so he/she can give you the proper advice. Good luck!
Hi I have had a temporary restraining order placed on me. Just prior to receiving it my Wife who left me about week ago called me & told me that she wants to work things out & said she got the type of restraining order that she can live with me. Is there such a thing? The court hearing is in 5 days & even though my Wife wants to come home is there a chance that the judge will not allow it or extend the RO?
STREET SURVIVOR if the order for protection is directly tied to the criminal charge, then it will be dismissed (vacated). But if the order for protection was granted apart from the criminal charge, then no. This can lead to confusion and more criminal trouble if you think it was automatically vacated and it turns out it wasn't vacated. So the safest thing to do is to ask the judge, a court administrator or your lawyer if you have one. You don't want to make a costly mistake.
My husband got released without bail today. The conditions is that he has to live somewhere else and he cant have contact with me. I am about to have our baby in a few days and they said he cant contact me until his next court which is sept 21st. Is there anyway to remove this? How am I going to not contact him if I'm about to give birth????
mrsdiego777 you or his lawyer can file a motion to cancel or modify the no contact order. It will then be up to a judge whether to allow an exception for the birth or cancel if.
I called the police when I was contacted by someone who got an order of protection on me and the police searched my apartment and my father was there and they said there allowed to contact me but if I say something back I go to jail it's very mest up sad part is I live with medical issues and I do have autism and but still get treated like crap by the police and no help and has caused depression and made me think about all the suicide threats I got for it by them and has made me think about my life and ending it all but with others who do not know a lot or deal with this it makes you avoid everyone and makes you not want to go out at all like me and I have been jumped but a.z police sucks to be honest and when I showed them my pix receipts everything nothing even though I called when they texted me and have hurrassed me so sadly I got the crap end of it all even when I was supposedly hurrassing I already had a welfare check on me when I did try to hurt my self on the day of the so called allegations against me but to be honest police and lawyers not all police and lawyers are bad but the system really pushes your mental and physical health when you stress about something you never did even though I had receipts for dates on said allegations and pictures with proof do to my uncle passing as well for the other dates but still get treated like crap
Should I file a restraining order against my dysfunctional family? Cuz I’m already affected mentally and emotionally. They all treat me differently because of my learning disability and scapegoated by them. I just want to live my life independently and no contact by them.
If they continue to contact you and you have told them you do not want any contact, you can apply. You may want to think about it because perhaps they’re contacting you before they love you and they are concerned for you. If that’s the case, be grateful for them. But if they are negative and ridicule you, you can apply for a no contact order. Hope that helps!
What do you do when you have a mother that is a drug addict and has been diagnosed with schizophrenia bipolar. That’s constantly harassing her partner and making false accusations on the father of the children. What happens if the person that saying they’re getting harassed is the harasser. It’s all documented.
I can tell you’re a good guy. You made this video 10 yrs ago and people still are taking a lot from it to this day!
This guy is a great attorney and giving out valuable information
He gave the legal explanation of an OOP.
Here’s the simplified reality....An order of protection is the end of a relationship. The sooner you realize this, the better off you’ll be. Trust me on this. Been there, done that
Lmbo.....yup I'm a wife and I want him to go because he abuse alcohol and I'm just exhausted from the pee in the bed the 2am almost burning down the house..the girls...the waste of money...I'm just tired 10 years...alcohol wins. I'm out!!
@@stephaniemiller5165 You can msg me if u want. I got full custody of my kid. I left an awful DV situation. He kept threatening to kill me and had a knife. But he would not let me break up with him. He would also act horrible and expect to be excused for it. He thought the danger he put us through should not affect his custody but I disagree because he acted really unsafe so I gotta protect my son from that too. Did you leave? Are you able to??
@@Laurendoesflips thank you so much....I prayed and God came thru. For now he is sober and I have enough time to move now. We have been married for over a decade and now. I'll give him 1 year to work for the family he claims he loves but for my peace it can not be under the same roof. God revealed to me that if a person does not love themselves it will be hard for them to love u enough to get it together. So I'll allow him time to reflect and seek christ. The enemy do not bound nobodies he binds Giants that will bruise his head.....that's why the battle is so strong for alcoholics. Drugaddicts.. gays..lesbians....gamblers cus they are mighty men an women of God that will win so many souls to christ. So the enemy don't want that so he attract them early to brokenness.
@@stephaniemiller5165 pee pee in the bed
@@Laurendoesflips !yup
What happened if I put a restraint order on 2 people? Do we still have to go to court?
Is verbal abuse enough for order for order of protection? Im from Minnesota. Living in Colorado. Many years of verbal abuse
What if I don't have the money for a lawyer? Can I get a quarter point and stay at
thanks
So if I get a responded. Do we still? Court
How can i get a 10 year order of protection on someone she is crazy please help me the 3 year one that they offer is not long enuff thank you
you can renew it i believe.
what if u suspect a person might be getting ready to do that to u can u do anything before hand to protect yourself?
can you carry while on a P.O
What happened if I put a strain order on somebody and they have probation
My friends nephew has assaulted him several times. Latest he pushed him down from top of stair case. Does he have a case for protective order?
What if the respondent lives in a different state?
Can i get an order of protection for a client who threatens to bring the police at my business place. You see i told her how I'm to get paid and how the product can be deliver by mail or pick up at the salon. But she insists that she will bring police which i dont what that to be happening at my business place.
HOW LONG DOES THE NO CONTACT ORDER LAST IF NEITHER PARTY HAS FILED A RESTRAINING ORDER? I HAVE A COURT DATE IN A FEW WEEKS AND I WAS ONLY ORDERED BY THE JUDGE WHEN I WAS IN JAIL, NO CONTACT ORDER AND I NEED ANGER MANAGEMENT AND AA
My wife ordered one against me. What happens if I don’t show up for the hearing
My husband exwife is from Canada. She is harassing and threatening me on his text. The exwife even harassing my social media on Facebook. She said whoever involved or friends with my husband she'll come after them. The exwife said she going to hire private investors and criminal investors to find me. I never met her or talking to her. She went to my Facebook and sending all my family pictures and harassing family. How can I report or do a restraining order on the exwife???? Thanks in advance
What if the abuser, my ex is speaking to my father? I just now heard of this. Would that be a violation of order protection?
What if they use a fake profile or phone number that you don't recognize
Mine contacted me from a fake number and I cannot the proof to show it
What if I put a restrain order on 2 people and they have proof for me? What happened?
My neighbor has done physical harm to my son and partner. What should I do?
So if I get a order of protection placed on me for 2 years or less will that show up on background check for future employment?
One of the orders has me paying fees, fines ,& compensation money but how would that be possible if I lose my job & can not get one because of this. Is it a criminal record or not?
Depending on the job description and how and the duration of the protective order when someone doesnt renew it comes off your record if it gets renewed it stays on your record
How will they know if you text or talk to them or meet up with them ?!how would they find out if there not around?
What if there is no hearing scheduled??
What happens when it’s immediately violated by calls before hearing? Say it served then the person that’s served starts trying to contact?
how long is the no contact order?
a minimum at least in Missouri is 2 years
I have an order of protection from my daughters father should I go back to court to tell judge order has been violated ? I’m already going to prescient but I would like to know if I can come to court to make the judge aware too ?
What if you don't have proof and you want to put a restraint order on both of them? 2 people, but you just won't To stay away from you.
I don't understand what about the person who's got this protection order on you keeps calling you keeps harassing you what then
Is the 10 year time frame meant to protect the same victim? Although, here in Minnesota 2 yr of protection is what one gets most of the time. After that two years of protection and the respondent still continues to have you, then what?
Or does this mean, if another victim gets another HRO and they violate that second HOR it means 2nd misdemeanor?
im calling right now
i was not never served, n my ex still talked to me while she had a Temporary protective order against me.
can this get me in hot water when I was never served?
I live with my kids mother we have two children but she is verbally abusive harasses me screams and yells in front of the children, I have primary custody through the family courts for our 9 year old son there is no legal status on a two-year-old child I have already contacted many agencies and legal aid, the mother continues to be abusive using now profanity and even blocks doorways for me getting through , she has smacked me once across my chest and shoulder.Her name is not on the lease the landlord served her a 10-day comply or vacate notice can an order protection filed by me have my children's Mother removed from our home??
J Fuse I'm dealing with the same thing. I see you posted this two weeks ago. What did you tell the landlord?
I need help.
Why does this seem like it’s taking the side of the guilty party?
Maybe cus he's a defense lawyer duh.
I couldn’t be an attorney knowingly getting people out of trouble. I’ve witnessed somebody get issued an order and they had a good attorney or whatever
@@rikmcdik6662 everyone deserves the right to defend themselves, not everyone is guilty of the accusations brought against them.
spxlazy true. But I know what happened and this particular piece of shit has gotten away with a a lot because his dad is the attorney.
@@rikmcdik6662 what criminal defense lawyers do is often misunderstood. Sometimes it results in getting people out of trouble, especially if their rights were violated. Other times it means getting them help along with some sort of reduced punishment IF THEY COMPLETE the help they’re getting. And of course there are those times when someone is actually falsely accused. But may I ask you a question? Could you be a prosecutor and put an innocent person on trial for a serious crime? What if that happened and what if they were wrongfully found guilty and spend 10, 20, 30 years in prison and then we find out they weren’t the one who did it? Wouldn’t that be horrible? It does happen, you can google the Innocence Project to see story after story about it. We criminal defense lawyers exist to protect against that. Wouldn’t you agree that’s a good thing?
It's called a junction of protection or an emergency protection order against a person or an individual in question
I got issued NCO by former employee who claimed I assaulted him. Then he shows up to my business and threatens to call the police and get me arrested if I didn't give him money. I tried to get him trespassed, but the Sheriff refused without a court order. This guy had me arrested twice. I was taken away in handcuffs from my own place of business when I wouldn't give him what he wanted. I spent two weekends in jail. Now I have to defend myself at trial. Any suggestions for a defense?
Yep... Protective orders are complete BS
They should be outlawed.
My neighbor, she's in her 60's, has a restraining order against her ex-husband.
He just got out of jail, he was put in jail for beating her, and convinced her to let him stay with her during hurricane Irma. We live in Punta Gorda Florida. But now he won't leave and is becoming a problem for her again. She's afraid to call the cops because she allowed him in, and he's telling her she'd be arrested for violation of her own restraining order against him for letting him back in.
She's afraid. I don't know what to tell her or how to help her.
Any information you can give me to help her would be appreciated.
Gretchen if he won't leave she should call the police in my opinion. Hope you're all recovering okay after Irma!
So I have a question because I can't seem to find any answers to it, a former friend of mine called the police to get me to stop talking to them. I personally had no idea that I had done anything wrong since we had normal conversations before that, I did notice there was something wrong but they never told me anything. Regardless, the police said that I wasnt in any sort of legal trouble, I just wasnt allowed to talk to her or anything of that nature, and if I did I would be arrested for harassment. I was never given a written record of it, and I am a single parent that doesn't ever want to get into legal trouble because I don't want to potentially lose custody of my child. So I don't know if this went on any sort of record of mine or what exactly was that was placed on me.
Can we get an order for a non is citizen living abroad who is dangerous
I have an order in IL against a woman. Now, she's calling me thru a private number/unknown. I've blocked her but she still tries to call me sporadically. What can I do? How can I prove it's her?
A CJJ call the police and tell them
Very late but I'll ask anyway.
If the person who I have a protection order against sends some after me just to simply talk to me. Does that count as a violation?
Yes. They aren't allowed to send emissaries to deliver messages on their behalf.
Iam looking for help.i have a child by my ex.i visit with my daughter twice a week.the step mom has harassed me at these visits and on social media including the father.should i get a restraining order?
I have visitation rights to my child...my childs mother still refuses to let me have parenting time...i have no address...no phone number...i hired a "process server" (and an attorney) to file a contempt charge...on the same day that I hire my process server my childs mother filed a petition for an "ex parte civil protection order" how can she do that??? and will this affect me being able to serve her for contempt??? please help and thank you!!
Hello Ryan. What do I do to get an order for protection against another party?????
So I just got a not contact and he has probation for a year. So that means in a year he can contact me?
how do i drop the no contact order? I'm the "victim" my girl was acting stupid when she was drunk cos arrested her abs now she has a no contact
Can anyone file one? For example, if my friend is threatening me, can I file one against him? Thanks.
I'm not a lawyer but I believe you can. Seeing as you referred to the person as a friend I might consider cutting them off until they want to talk about your dispute like adults. A licensed attorney will be able to give you the best advice.
if the alleged victim keeps trying to contact the alledged abuser when they filed a restraining order against them does that make it illegal and void?
brandy rhonemus excellent question. Unfortunately no, it does not. I have represented people in that very situation. Prosecutors can still charge it out as a violation. Some use discretion and don’t charge it, but others do charge it. A jury can nullify it (I’ve had that happen) because it’s not really fair, but it’s risky to bet on that. Best thing is to still avoid contact and follow the rules of the order and document it in case something happens later.
It seems logical not to harass the victim.
Looks like formal documents
Hello, i have a friend that haves a no - contact order on the victim, but in this case the victims girlfriend has been harassing him even though the victim is knowing of this harassment and doesn't try to stop her. does that violate the no-contact order by a third party and also the victim?
Many orders for protection prohibit third party contact/harassment. First, they should check the language in the order. Second, the person being harassed can always apply for a harassment restraining order or no contact order against the third party. Does that make sense?
@@RyanPacyga Yes this makes sense, thank you for you time!
How do I get an protection order against my neighbors they have been driving by my parents house for months now they almost hit my puppy today while I was walking around my own yard
You can fill out an application at the courthouse in the county where you live
If sum1 is on probation will it violate his probation getting served with a restraining order/pfa? I dont mean after hes served but b4 getting served being on probation.. and what about 3rd party access like hacking my phone or doing something indirectly?
What if the person has 3 strikes already will they arrest the person ?????
Thanks mate
I have a question. How would the Judge or DA find out if you have had an order of protection violated????
they can probably check your phone if you contacted them by text or phone. but if it's in person then I'm not sure
What about a non criminal no contact order case an what if we have a child together my lawyer said nothings gonna happen
if a stalker goes to jail for stalking me, will he be ordered to stay away from me when he is released or will he be allowed to continue to stalk me.
In MN if a person is arrested and charged for stalking a judge will typically issue a no contact order while the case is pending.
Okay your explanation of the situation only seems valid if the restraining order is not for a valid reason. But there are many situations that are horrible DV situations where orders of protection are necessary/not soon enough. Got a three year restraining order against my son´s biological dad after he threatened to kill me many times, had a hunting knife, would not let me leave his house, but he did not go to prison. I did not press charges bc I did not want to deal with retaliation and I did not have evidence, but he was very dangerous. Many times its appropriate and many perpetrators of DV play the victim and there can even be scapegoating of the actual victim of DV. I think allowing a perp to get a restraining order dropped when they were threatening harm to control someone is more playing into their narcissism/expectation to be excused for horrible things. My ex who was the aggressor always played the victim any time I fought back and his family bought it. Sometimes families of DV agressors enable and scapegoat the victim to try to make the perpetrator seem innocent. I have full custody of my son and our restraining order just lasts three years. I dont know why they don´t make permanent restraining orders. I feel like he should have no right to be near us ever. I am glad I called the police the first time he tried to hit me and I am glad I got this restraining order. Seriously more women should call the police sooner. Please don´t help anyone dangerous. Obviously, no one is entitled to do domestic assault. More often things happen that dont get reported, not the other way around. Restraining orders are an important part of the process to break a relationship if the other partner does not want to let the other partner make their own decisions. Sadly some men think they own women. I was wanting to leave but he would not allow me to. Restraining orders are necessary sometimes. Okay have a good day. Like seriously if a partner is wanting a restraining order on the other they should just move out and let them go, not fight the restraining order.
I understand and appreciate your concerns and points. There is a process in place that exists for the purpose of protecting those that rightly qualify for a restraining/no contact order, and for dropping those orders when they are not valid. The process, like any other human creation, is not perfect. There are people on both sides of the equation (alleged victims and alleged perpetrators) that are equally capable of manipulating the truth and abusing the system. So yes mistakes can and will he made at times. But the problem is that alleged victims are equally as capable of manipulating the truth as are perpetrators. So the system does its best in attempting to sort out what’s valid and what isn’t. Both parties deserve the right to be heard and advocated for. Then it is up to a judge to decide the facts and apply the law.
@@RyanPacyga Ya I fought back and called the police first thing and also went straight to the courts which I think saved my situation. Also a DV survey really helped the court worker to assess the danger of the situation. I think some women get scapegoated by the abusers families to make the abuser seem innocent. Abusers think theyŕe innocent/not at fault in their abuse. But I can understand why someone would not want a restraining order that was not valid on their records. But I respectfully disagree. I would guess that most restraining orders are requested for very serious and valid reasons. The sucky thing is if a someone is being abused and they do not have proof or if a woman has been trained to deny abuse to escape future abuse then she has no proof unless he left marks. I am glad I called 911 the first time he put his hands on me.
Lauren Stanley I understand. Unfortunately there will never be 100 percent accuracy or correct results. You’re right, there are times something happened and just isn’t proven despite the fact that it happened. But there are also instances where nothing happened but a false allegation got an innocent person convicted. Thanks for your comments and stay healthy! 🙏
Great video I really needed info thank u
Can u keep my brother away form me bc he keeps always harassing
Nancy_ Chan me too, I want to file a restraining order against him because he’s always seriously threatening our family
Thank you
Im not sure exactly what i got but, I was told it only pertains to to texting email and facbook device connection.
I just got a temporary restraining order against me for a domestic incident. I haven't seen my Wife or kids for almost a week & it is killing me not to see them. My Wife called me during the time we were separated & told me that she loves me & that she wants to work things out & make our marriage last. I can't tell you, as a man who made mistakes to cause this situation how hard & difficult this situation is. I quit drinking alcohol & I am taking the right steps to make my life better not only for myself but for my family. I just feel like I'm never going to see them again or get the chance to make things right & it is breaking my heart. I have no idea what is going to happen next week when I stand before the judge. All I can tell you is if you are married & you have a Wife that likes to fight & argue or hit on you - be the bigger guy & walk away. If the marriage isn't working out, try to save it by going to counceling or get a divorce.
Ur2ez4me81 what ended up happening at court? have you been able to see your wife and kids?
update
Update bro
If there is an order of protection, and the police made it, not the woman, because of an argument in the home that got out-of-hand, and the woman does not want the order of protection, how can she make it go away? If she and he both want to be together, but the police made the order of protection, how do they lift it? Please respond. Thank you.
Go to the court house and ask for your record and then go to the window where you can request to get charges expunged.
And Stop calling the police to your House over silly arguments if it gonna stay together!!!
Better yet just break up. Not worth it.
Had an OFP placed on me for simply breaking a phone in front of my ex fiance. In court the judge upheld the ofp for 8 months to "disentangle our lives", but left the option for texts about the minor children and allowed us to meet in public places to exchange the kids. He urged her to work with me on visitation in the interim of having a custody hearing. I had tried repeatedly to work out some type of pre-trial custody arrangements with her, as well as asking for phone calls from the kids. I was a stay at home dad for a year and a half before she ran off with them, and it crushed me to no end to have them taken from me like that. Just today I received a ticket in the mail that I have broken the ofp. Considering the only contact I had was via text as the judge called for, I'm wondering if this can be true? I suspect she's doing this to get a leg up in the custody hearing. Wondering If you could direct me towards a decent attorney in the Duluth area that could help with such things. -Thanks
hey Bauks, sorry I didn't notice an alert I get when there's a comment. I hope you found the representation in Duluth you needed, and I hope all is well. Sounds like the judge saw the big picture in urging you guys to work on the big picture with the kids.
So sad sir... Listen to Coach Greg Adams
y question is: an order of protection is in place for the spouse, including eviction of the home. However, he has now been back 3 times to remove"personal property" which is not completely true. He has removed some personal stuff including all tools. He has been accompanied by a police officer each time. question: how many times is to many? is there a time frame, for how long he should be taking? if he is able to take whatever he wants? the last time he was in the home he turned the heating system switch off! the FEAR is real each time he is in the home. what can be done? if any? thank you
Alma Colon each case is unique and each set of circumstances are unique. Police are there so it should be okay. It’s hard for someone that is suddenly kicked out of their home to get by. That’s why they need to return to retrieve items. The court is in charge of how many times is enough.
I have a restraining order on a person for 2 years I. Am still contacted by social media Twitter and my Facebook page and I've gone to the cops at least 10 times and even with the proof I have of violation the police still wont doping anything can I get a lawyer to help me its getting to the point of death threats are put on me and I'm followed by her friends I fear for my life
+casper62200 Lift the order and maybe they will leave you alone.
+OliveOyl12590 it was not continued the lawyers of the girl lied and said she did nothing wrong took my stuff want into a room and some of my papers disappeared so the judge has to drop my case the judge believes me but the most important evidence got removed by her lawyer in the back room I know cause I had it all staples and numbered and some were missing
casper62200 I went through that shit for eight months while my wife was trying to divorce me. The Judge was pissed off that I wouldn't go on with her "proceeding" while my wife was just trying to get an edge in her divorce. At the end of the day, she wound up with the kids and paid for EVERYTHING.
@eddy bliss You're at more of a risk of getting killed or something horrible happening to you after you leave a relationship. An order of protection is only a piece of paper and not a force field.
What if I am trying to fill out an order against someone who is not in the U.S? this is more like cyberstalking
Odd situation: a former vendor at my work is acting crazy sending hateful emails and calls my line at work all day to harass me and scream and swear at me. Currently, I've been just hanging up on this person. However, this makes me feel uneasy. My boss asked me if we need to file a restraining order as none of us have ever dealt with this situation. Any feedback would be great!
Katy K depending on what state you are in there are different types of no contact orders. Some are called "harassment restraining orders," or "no contact orders" or similar names. You can usually go to a self help center at your local courthouse to find out how to apply for one and what type is right for your situation.
what happen when plaintiff contact the defendant during the protective order by calling and coming to the defendant house does the order drop?
She comes and have sex.. Swallows... eats dinner and goes to sleep but I'm the one with the PFA 😮
what if the abuser is violating the order of protection and the victim is terrified to report and doesn't report?
What do you think will happen if it's not reported?
Nothing
I need help..i have a restraining order against me from ex gf three years ago.the R.O. last for 5 years during my dv classes.she contacted me.at first i didnt know but then she revealed her self who she was.i texted back like a normal person but when i found out it was her i told her i can go to get jail time fine or prison for this why u contact me.we talked reconciled but after the classes i didnt want to b with her cuz i was scared to get trouble.she told me to find her in fives years..but its ben 3 nd shes aware tht im single and had other relationships.she got furious.nd im aware she went to court to get revenge on me..so ik shes filing for violation.and i think she labeled as a S.O..im scared cuz i got court for intoxication in public real soon..im afraid this will show up nd im locked up nd fined..
The second you knew it was her, it was your responsibility to stop talking immediately
What about "peace orders"?
Why isn't the person requesting the order required to make reasonable efforts to avoid the other party? For example the ex girlfriend going into the other person's job just to force him to leave?
But of Shell is the one showing to your job. Just call the police , that's stalking
i want to drop a protective order, i am not in danger anymore, its been 13 years of not being in danger ,,my daughter has for 3 years suffered bcause she wants to know him, i decided to let her go and live with him ,he is in a different state, no time for courts ,my question iis,, could i write to the courts to drop the order,i dont want kidnapping charges to accure
you should have thought about it B 4 u act!
Unless you filed a protective order cause your life was in grave danger and you know that he's a nutcase then what makes you think that someone like him is gonna be sympathetic about it? There is nothing wrong with being upset with your significant other, but filing a protective order and possibly ruining someone's life? I have no sympathy for you whatsoever. Actions do have consequences
Does a fro stay forever or does it go away after a certain amount of years?
No idea what that's all about
I am in need of this I just left an abusive relationship and she is trying to destroy my life.. but with covid the courts or backed up all the way till july.. How can I get one sooner or do I have to wait it out and just keep documenting her threatening texts and calls?
@Edwards Built like big O plays like jordan First of all you dont know what you are talking about so for me to go back and fourth with you is not going to happen .. I clearly wrote what the hell I am going through.. I dont care if the person dont have feelings anymore or love me I am getting an order of protection for my safety .. so all that other shit you speak ...Pardon my back I dont got time for it
Can they come to y our job?
How does the courts know ur calling ur spouse.
followinh
Can anyone tell me if I can get one against my brother who is 19, I am 21 we both live at home. How would this work? It'd be tough to avoid each other
What if a woman's ex was in jail for rape and now he's out and continues to call and harass her?
what if the ex husband wants visitation with the children, but the mother of the kids has a restraining order on the father? also if he's paying child support.
bon bon unfortunately that piece of paper states that he cannot go near the that person. If the ex husband does then he will be promptly arrested and charged with violation of a restraining order and looking at mandatory jail time. Unless the person really needs a restraining order on someone due to being hostile and dangerous they need to get rid of this shit all together.
great video is a tresspas leter the same as order of protection in min if isued by a court and again if busisnes isues letter notfies police of ban thankyou i had a tresspas for asking a question it was not threw a court i didnot violate it and it was lifted after a year thankyou
I need an answer yes or no a person put a no contact order on me and came to my house today I'm on probation should I tell my probation officer and did they break there own restraining order by coming over to my house when there the ones who put it on me and we are both guys
adrian luna it depends. If you allowed or invited the person to be at your home, then law enforcement, probation or prosecution may argue that you violated it. If the person showed up
Uninvited and refused to leave, then it shouldn't be a violation.
Thank you for your video I can get the restraining order I have annoying ex boyfriend and he still come and assaulting me even though he moved on 8 years ago. He's still coming around me scaring me and contacting me, controlling me and he has his wife and kids already. How can I make him stop from all this? Please I need your help with this situation. Thanks again for your video it's really interesting I enjoy watching it! 😇👌🏾🙌🏾👍🏾✌🏾💯💯💯💯💯💯
Zainabu Lotyang you can report it to police and also you can apply for a no contact order
My girlfriend got a no contact order for me because we're juveniles and she went to jail after me and the judge ordered her to stay away from me and have no contact with me how long do those usually last
It depends. They can last anywhere from a small timeframe if your lawyer brings a motion to cancel it or quash it. Sometimes they last as long as the goes. Other times they last for several years.
What if my girl friend went to the court and wanted to take the order off? She did not want the order she just wanted to get me help and the cops took over from there. I'm really confused and worried but all I qualify for is a public defender and I can't ever get a hold of them. We are engaged to be married and our family is very close and we just want to move past this since I have been going to therapy and it was the first time I have ever been in trouble or done anything like this. My hearing is on the 20th and they gave me I think 3 misdemeanors.
I have had cases where we have been able to get a no contact order or OFP removed. So yes it is possible that she can do that, but each case is unique. Each court and judge have their own procedures regarding how someone can request to have a no contact order modified or lifted. In MN, the judge may entertain the issue at your next court appearance, especially if your girlfriend or the victim's advocate (on her behalf) asks for it to be modified or lifted. You should continue trying to get a hold of your public defender so he/she can give you the proper advice. Good luck!
Hi I have had a temporary restraining order placed on me. Just prior to receiving it my Wife who left me about week ago called me & told me that she wants to work things out & said she got the type of restraining order that she can live with me. Is there such a thing? The court hearing is in 5 days & even though my Wife wants to come home is there a chance that the judge will not allow it or extend the RO?
@@Tiffanyasamichannel update
If a judge gives you a order of protection and the case is dismissed is the order of protection still effective
STREET SURVIVOR if the order for protection is directly tied to the criminal charge, then it will be dismissed (vacated). But if the order for protection was granted apart from the criminal charge, then no. This can lead to confusion and more criminal trouble if you think it was automatically vacated and it turns out it wasn't vacated. So the safest thing to do is to ask the judge, a court administrator or your lawyer if you have one. You don't want to make a costly mistake.
Do you charge for the time we take up for a phone call?
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Does Makin my life a musical hell count
My husband got released without bail today. The conditions is that he has to live somewhere else and he cant have contact with me. I am about to have our baby in a few days and they said he cant contact me until his next court which is sept 21st. Is there anyway to remove this? How am I going to not contact him if I'm about to give birth????
mrsdiego777 you or his lawyer can file a motion to cancel or modify the no contact order. It will then be up to a judge whether to allow an exception for the birth or cancel if.
Ryan Pacyga how do I file that do I have to contact someone for this?
Alejandra Diego ask the clerk of court in the county you live in.
Thx can u make a new vid about this but for friends
What if my problem is an ex wife that has been stalking me on social media, talking to people to check my work schedule, etc?
If you can help me with my upcoming hearing? I’m going to google you.
I called the police when I was contacted by someone who got an order of protection on me and the police searched my apartment and my father was there and they said there allowed to contact me but if I say something back I go to jail it's very mest up sad part is I live with medical issues and I do have autism and but still get treated like crap by the police and no help and has caused depression and made me think about all the suicide threats I got for it by them and has made me think about my life and ending it all but with others who do not know a lot or deal with this it makes you avoid everyone and makes you not want to go out at all like me and I have been jumped but a.z police sucks to be honest and when I showed them my pix receipts everything nothing even though I called when they texted me and have hurrassed me so sadly I got the crap end of it all even when I was supposedly hurrassing I already had a welfare check on me when I did try to hurt my self on the day of the so called allegations against me but to be honest police and lawyers not all police and lawyers are bad but the system really pushes your mental and physical health when you stress about something you never did even though I had receipts for dates on said allegations and pictures with proof do to my uncle passing as well for the other dates but still get treated like crap
Well said my friend I am being tortured on a weekly basis. It has literally ruined my health
Should I file a restraining order against my dysfunctional family? Cuz I’m already affected mentally and emotionally. They all treat me differently because of my learning disability and scapegoated by them. I just want to live my life independently and no contact by them.
If they continue to contact you and you have told them you do not want any contact, you can apply. You may want to think about it because perhaps they’re contacting you before they love you and they are concerned for you. If that’s the case, be grateful for them. But if they are negative and ridicule you, you can apply for a no contact order. Hope that helps!
What do you do when you have a mother that is a drug addict and has been diagnosed with schizophrenia bipolar. That’s constantly harassing her partner and making false accusations on the father of the children. What happens if the person that saying they’re getting harassed is the harasser. It’s all documented.