He gave the legal explanation of an OOP. Here’s the simplified reality....An order of protection is the end of a relationship. The sooner you realize this, the better off you’ll be. Trust me on this. Been there, done that
Lmbo.....yup I'm a wife and I want him to go because he abuse alcohol and I'm just exhausted from the pee in the bed the 2am almost burning down the house..the girls...the waste of money...I'm just tired 10 years...alcohol wins. I'm out!!
@@stephaniemiller5165 You can msg me if u want. I got full custody of my kid. I left an awful DV situation. He kept threatening to kill me and had a knife. But he would not let me break up with him. He would also act horrible and expect to be excused for it. He thought the danger he put us through should not affect his custody but I disagree because he acted really unsafe so I gotta protect my son from that too. Did you leave? Are you able to??
@@Laurendoesflips thank you so much....I prayed and God came thru. For now he is sober and I have enough time to move now. We have been married for over a decade and now. I'll give him 1 year to work for the family he claims he loves but for my peace it can not be under the same roof. God revealed to me that if a person does not love themselves it will be hard for them to love u enough to get it together. So I'll allow him time to reflect and seek christ. The enemy do not bound nobodies he binds Giants that will bruise his head.....that's why the battle is so strong for alcoholics. Drugaddicts.. gays..lesbians....gamblers cus they are mighty men an women of God that will win so many souls to christ. So the enemy don't want that so he attract them early to brokenness.
I couldn’t be an attorney knowingly getting people out of trouble. I’ve witnessed somebody get issued an order and they had a good attorney or whatever
@@rikmcdik6662 what criminal defense lawyers do is often misunderstood. Sometimes it results in getting people out of trouble, especially if their rights were violated. Other times it means getting them help along with some sort of reduced punishment IF THEY COMPLETE the help they’re getting. And of course there are those times when someone is actually falsely accused. But may I ask you a question? Could you be a prosecutor and put an innocent person on trial for a serious crime? What if that happened and what if they were wrongfully found guilty and spend 10, 20, 30 years in prison and then we find out they weren’t the one who did it? Wouldn’t that be horrible? It does happen, you can google the Innocence Project to see story after story about it. We criminal defense lawyers exist to protect against that. Wouldn’t you agree that’s a good thing?
Why isn't the person requesting the order required to make reasonable efforts to avoid the other party? For example the ex girlfriend going into the other person's job just to force him to leave?
I just got a temporary restraining order against me for a domestic incident. I haven't seen my Wife or kids for almost a week & it is killing me not to see them. My Wife called me during the time we were separated & told me that she loves me & that she wants to work things out & make our marriage last. I can't tell you, as a man who made mistakes to cause this situation how hard & difficult this situation is. I quit drinking alcohol & I am taking the right steps to make my life better not only for myself but for my family. I just feel like I'm never going to see them again or get the chance to make things right & it is breaking my heart. I have no idea what is going to happen next week when I stand before the judge. All I can tell you is if you are married & you have a Wife that likes to fight & argue or hit on you - be the bigger guy & walk away. If the marriage isn't working out, try to save it by going to counceling or get a divorce.
Can i get an order of protection for a client who threatens to bring the police at my business place. You see i told her how I'm to get paid and how the product can be deliver by mail or pick up at the salon. But she insists that she will bring police which i dont what that to be happening at my business place.
Okay your explanation of the situation only seems valid if the restraining order is not for a valid reason. But there are many situations that are horrible DV situations where orders of protection are necessary/not soon enough. Got a three year restraining order against my son´s biological dad after he threatened to kill me many times, had a hunting knife, would not let me leave his house, but he did not go to prison. I did not press charges bc I did not want to deal with retaliation and I did not have evidence, but he was very dangerous. Many times its appropriate and many perpetrators of DV play the victim and there can even be scapegoating of the actual victim of DV. I think allowing a perp to get a restraining order dropped when they were threatening harm to control someone is more playing into their narcissism/expectation to be excused for horrible things. My ex who was the aggressor always played the victim any time I fought back and his family bought it. Sometimes families of DV agressors enable and scapegoat the victim to try to make the perpetrator seem innocent. I have full custody of my son and our restraining order just lasts three years. I dont know why they don´t make permanent restraining orders. I feel like he should have no right to be near us ever. I am glad I called the police the first time he tried to hit me and I am glad I got this restraining order. Seriously more women should call the police sooner. Please don´t help anyone dangerous. Obviously, no one is entitled to do domestic assault. More often things happen that dont get reported, not the other way around. Restraining orders are an important part of the process to break a relationship if the other partner does not want to let the other partner make their own decisions. Sadly some men think they own women. I was wanting to leave but he would not allow me to. Restraining orders are necessary sometimes. Okay have a good day. Like seriously if a partner is wanting a restraining order on the other they should just move out and let them go, not fight the restraining order.
I understand and appreciate your concerns and points. There is a process in place that exists for the purpose of protecting those that rightly qualify for a restraining/no contact order, and for dropping those orders when they are not valid. The process, like any other human creation, is not perfect. There are people on both sides of the equation (alleged victims and alleged perpetrators) that are equally capable of manipulating the truth and abusing the system. So yes mistakes can and will he made at times. But the problem is that alleged victims are equally as capable of manipulating the truth as are perpetrators. So the system does its best in attempting to sort out what’s valid and what isn’t. Both parties deserve the right to be heard and advocated for. Then it is up to a judge to decide the facts and apply the law.
@@RyanPacyga Ya I fought back and called the police first thing and also went straight to the courts which I think saved my situation. Also a DV survey really helped the court worker to assess the danger of the situation. I think some women get scapegoated by the abusers families to make the abuser seem innocent. Abusers think theyŕe innocent/not at fault in their abuse. But I can understand why someone would not want a restraining order that was not valid on their records. But I respectfully disagree. I would guess that most restraining orders are requested for very serious and valid reasons. The sucky thing is if a someone is being abused and they do not have proof or if a woman has been trained to deny abuse to escape future abuse then she has no proof unless he left marks. I am glad I called 911 the first time he put his hands on me.
Lauren Stanley I understand. Unfortunately there will never be 100 percent accuracy or correct results. You’re right, there are times something happened and just isn’t proven despite the fact that it happened. But there are also instances where nothing happened but a false allegation got an innocent person convicted. Thanks for your comments and stay healthy! 🙏
My husband exwife is from Canada. She is harassing and threatening me on his text. The exwife even harassing my social media on Facebook. She said whoever involved or friends with my husband she'll come after them. The exwife said she going to hire private investors and criminal investors to find me. I never met her or talking to her. She went to my Facebook and sending all my family pictures and harassing family. How can I report or do a restraining order on the exwife???? Thanks in advance
What do you do when you have a mother that is a drug addict and has been diagnosed with schizophrenia bipolar. That’s constantly harassing her partner and making false accusations on the father of the children. What happens if the person that saying they’re getting harassed is the harasser. It’s all documented.
My neighbor, she's in her 60's, has a restraining order against her ex-husband. He just got out of jail, he was put in jail for beating her, and convinced her to let him stay with her during hurricane Irma. We live in Punta Gorda Florida. But now he won't leave and is becoming a problem for her again. She's afraid to call the cops because she allowed him in, and he's telling her she'd be arrested for violation of her own restraining order against him for letting him back in. She's afraid. I don't know what to tell her or how to help her. Any information you can give me to help her would be appreciated.
i was not never served, n my ex still talked to me while she had a Temporary protective order against me. can this get me in hot water when I was never served?
I live with my kids mother we have two children but she is verbally abusive harasses me screams and yells in front of the children, I have primary custody through the family courts for our 9 year old son there is no legal status on a two-year-old child I have already contacted many agencies and legal aid, the mother continues to be abusive using now profanity and even blocks doorways for me getting through , she has smacked me once across my chest and shoulder.Her name is not on the lease the landlord served her a 10-day comply or vacate notice can an order protection filed by me have my children's Mother removed from our home??
So if I get a order of protection placed on me for 2 years or less will that show up on background check for future employment? One of the orders has me paying fees, fines ,& compensation money but how would that be possible if I lose my job & can not get one because of this. Is it a criminal record or not?
Depending on the job description and how and the duration of the protective order when someone doesnt renew it comes off your record if it gets renewed it stays on your record
Ryan, restraining orders are worthless. It's just a piece of paper. It won't stop a knife or a bullet, a car or someone with intent. I have a PRO (Permanent Restraining Order) against a man that was harassing me, and after he got the initial TRO (Temporary Restraining Order), he STILL kept doing it. He successfully committed over 15 violations of the PRO in 4 years. Had some of them on video. Had eyewitnesses. Most recently crossing state lines to harass me. And the cops don't f*ing care.
I have visitation rights to my child...my childs mother still refuses to let me have parenting time...i have no address...no phone number...i hired a "process server" (and an attorney) to file a contempt charge...on the same day that I hire my process server my childs mother filed a petition for an "ex parte civil protection order" how can she do that??? and will this affect me being able to serve her for contempt??? please help and thank you!!
Odd situation: a former vendor at my work is acting crazy sending hateful emails and calls my line at work all day to harass me and scream and swear at me. Currently, I've been just hanging up on this person. However, this makes me feel uneasy. My boss asked me if we need to file a restraining order as none of us have ever dealt with this situation. Any feedback would be great!
Katy K depending on what state you are in there are different types of no contact orders. Some are called "harassment restraining orders," or "no contact orders" or similar names. You can usually go to a self help center at your local courthouse to find out how to apply for one and what type is right for your situation.
Yes that could happen. It depends on whether you have an employment contract (a union or executive contract are two examples) or whether you are an “at will employee.” Most employees are “at will” in Minnesota, meaning you can be fired even for a false criminal allegation. Hopefully your employer believes in due process and the presumption of innocence and would at least wait until your case is decided by the court or a jury, but there’s no guarantees.
Ryan Pacyga how do I drop a no contact order. My states attorney added that with out my permission and I’m wondering how I need to proceed in getting this dropped from the offendant.
Ayy bro I have a lil brother that is disabled and stays in group home and he had sexual relations with the caretaker that will pick him up now she put a restraining order on him will she get in trouble because she had a possession of power?
Had an OFP placed on me for simply breaking a phone in front of my ex fiance. In court the judge upheld the ofp for 8 months to "disentangle our lives", but left the option for texts about the minor children and allowed us to meet in public places to exchange the kids. He urged her to work with me on visitation in the interim of having a custody hearing. I had tried repeatedly to work out some type of pre-trial custody arrangements with her, as well as asking for phone calls from the kids. I was a stay at home dad for a year and a half before she ran off with them, and it crushed me to no end to have them taken from me like that. Just today I received a ticket in the mail that I have broken the ofp. Considering the only contact I had was via text as the judge called for, I'm wondering if this can be true? I suspect she's doing this to get a leg up in the custody hearing. Wondering If you could direct me towards a decent attorney in the Duluth area that could help with such things. -Thanks
hey Bauks, sorry I didn't notice an alert I get when there's a comment. I hope you found the representation in Duluth you needed, and I hope all is well. Sounds like the judge saw the big picture in urging you guys to work on the big picture with the kids.
I got issued NCO by former employee who claimed I assaulted him. Then he shows up to my business and threatens to call the police and get me arrested if I didn't give him money. I tried to get him trespassed, but the Sheriff refused without a court order. This guy had me arrested twice. I was taken away in handcuffs from my own place of business when I wouldn't give him what he wanted. I spent two weekends in jail. Now I have to defend myself at trial. Any suggestions for a defense?
Iam looking for help.i have a child by my ex.i visit with my daughter twice a week.the step mom has harassed me at these visits and on social media including the father.should i get a restraining order?
Is the 10 year time frame meant to protect the same victim? Although, here in Minnesota 2 yr of protection is what one gets most of the time. After that two years of protection and the respondent still continues to have you, then what? Or does this mean, if another victim gets another HRO and they violate that second HOR it means 2nd misdemeanor?
Can you get one from a female friend? One that is threatening because they think I owe them money when I don't. They use drugs and are insane. Hence ex friend.
So, my brother has a restraining order against a "woman", the "woman" is married to our grandfather, can my mother contact the grandfather or the "woman" even if it is by the "womans" phone, as in my mother contacting my grandfather through the :womans" phone number.
what if the ex husband wants visitation with the children, but the mother of the kids has a restraining order on the father? also if he's paying child support.
bon bon unfortunately that piece of paper states that he cannot go near the that person. If the ex husband does then he will be promptly arrested and charged with violation of a restraining order and looking at mandatory jail time. Unless the person really needs a restraining order on someone due to being hostile and dangerous they need to get rid of this shit all together.
I don't want any part of my father in my life at all I'm 19 so clearly I can make my own decisions but throughout my childhood he's been abusive and harassing to me. He has laid a hand on me before and hurt me. Past is past but I will always remember. I have no proof of it happening it's all in my memory if a judge were to ask him if it's true he would lie straight up. He was supposed to pay child support for me up until I was 18 which never happened he is more focused on his other family and life. He doesn't feel like a dad to me he doesn't care for me when is needed, there are expenses he should've paid but never did he expects my side of family to pay for them but we can't since my mom passed 4yrs ago(wasn't his wife) all I have is my grandma and family down in California...etc etc. I don't wish to see him again I don't want him to be known as my father I don't want to be known as his son. I'm in Washington State how do I get this settled by a judge? I have no past criminal history, clearly whoever has read this, you can tell I'm serious about this lol
I have an order of protection from my daughters father should I go back to court to tell judge order has been violated ? I’m already going to prescient but I would like to know if I can come to court to make the judge aware too ?
y question is: an order of protection is in place for the spouse, including eviction of the home. However, he has now been back 3 times to remove"personal property" which is not completely true. He has removed some personal stuff including all tools. He has been accompanied by a police officer each time. question: how many times is to many? is there a time frame, for how long he should be taking? if he is able to take whatever he wants? the last time he was in the home he turned the heating system switch off! the FEAR is real each time he is in the home. what can be done? if any? thank you
Alma Colon each case is unique and each set of circumstances are unique. Police are there so it should be okay. It’s hard for someone that is suddenly kicked out of their home to get by. That’s why they need to return to retrieve items. The court is in charge of how many times is enough.
brandy rhonemus excellent question. Unfortunately no, it does not. I have represented people in that very situation. Prosecutors can still charge it out as a violation. Some use discretion and don’t charge it, but others do charge it. A jury can nullify it (I’ve had that happen) because it’s not really fair, but it’s risky to bet on that. Best thing is to still avoid contact and follow the rules of the order and document it in case something happens later.
If there is an order of protection, and the police made it, not the woman, because of an argument in the home that got out-of-hand, and the woman does not want the order of protection, how can she make it go away? If she and he both want to be together, but the police made the order of protection, how do they lift it? Please respond. Thank you.
I called the police when I was contacted by someone who got an order of protection on me and the police searched my apartment and my father was there and they said there allowed to contact me but if I say something back I go to jail it's very mest up sad part is I live with medical issues and I do have autism and but still get treated like crap by the police and no help and has caused depression and made me think about all the suicide threats I got for it by them and has made me think about my life and ending it all but with others who do not know a lot or deal with this it makes you avoid everyone and makes you not want to go out at all like me and I have been jumped but a.z police sucks to be honest and when I showed them my pix receipts everything nothing even though I called when they texted me and have hurrassed me so sadly I got the crap end of it all even when I was supposedly hurrassing I already had a welfare check on me when I did try to hurt my self on the day of the so called allegations against me but to be honest police and lawyers not all police and lawyers are bad but the system really pushes your mental and physical health when you stress about something you never did even though I had receipts for dates on said allegations and pictures with proof do to my uncle passing as well for the other dates but still get treated like crap
So I have a question because I can't seem to find any answers to it, a former friend of mine called the police to get me to stop talking to them. I personally had no idea that I had done anything wrong since we had normal conversations before that, I did notice there was something wrong but they never told me anything. Regardless, the police said that I wasnt in any sort of legal trouble, I just wasnt allowed to talk to her or anything of that nature, and if I did I would be arrested for harassment. I was never given a written record of it, and I am a single parent that doesn't ever want to get into legal trouble because I don't want to potentially lose custody of my child. So I don't know if this went on any sort of record of mine or what exactly was that was placed on me.
HOW LONG DOES THE NO CONTACT ORDER LAST IF NEITHER PARTY HAS FILED A RESTRAINING ORDER? I HAVE A COURT DATE IN A FEW WEEKS AND I WAS ONLY ORDERED BY THE JUDGE WHEN I WAS IN JAIL, NO CONTACT ORDER AND I NEED ANGER MANAGEMENT AND AA
great video is a tresspas leter the same as order of protection in min if isued by a court and again if busisnes isues letter notfies police of ban thankyou i had a tresspas for asking a question it was not threw a court i didnot violate it and it was lifted after a year thankyou
Crazy Jackass need to be locked up! lol~ How do they find the time and energy to continue to harrass people? Seriously, wish I had their stamina! Or they should put their stamina to good use! lol
I have an order in IL against a woman. Now, she's calling me thru a private number/unknown. I've blocked her but she still tries to call me sporadically. What can I do? How can I prove it's her?
STREET SURVIVOR if the order for protection is directly tied to the criminal charge, then it will be dismissed (vacated). But if the order for protection was granted apart from the criminal charge, then no. This can lead to confusion and more criminal trouble if you think it was automatically vacated and it turns out it wasn't vacated. So the safest thing to do is to ask the judge, a court administrator or your lawyer if you have one. You don't want to make a costly mistake.
How do I get an protection order against my neighbors they have been driving by my parents house for months now they almost hit my puppy today while I was walking around my own yard
I'm not a lawyer but I believe you can. Seeing as you referred to the person as a friend I might consider cutting them off until they want to talk about your dispute like adults. A licensed attorney will be able to give you the best advice.
Very late but I'll ask anyway. If the person who I have a protection order against sends some after me just to simply talk to me. Does that count as a violation?
Thank you for your video I can get the restraining order I have annoying ex boyfriend and he still come and assaulting me even though he moved on 8 years ago. He's still coming around me scaring me and contacting me, controlling me and he has his wife and kids already. How can I make him stop from all this? Please I need your help with this situation. Thanks again for your video it's really interesting I enjoy watching it! 😇👌🏾🙌🏾👍🏾✌🏾💯💯💯💯💯💯
What if it’s not recent events. But what this person has done in the past makes me scared that if I were to run into them one day they might do something to me.
Why can't the police find out which device it's coming from which laptop they are using which phone number it's coming from they can track me why can't they be tracked
I can tell you’re a good guy. You made this video 10 yrs ago and people still are taking a lot from it to this day!
He gave the legal explanation of an OOP.
Here’s the simplified reality....An order of protection is the end of a relationship. The sooner you realize this, the better off you’ll be. Trust me on this. Been there, done that
Lmbo.....yup I'm a wife and I want him to go because he abuse alcohol and I'm just exhausted from the pee in the bed the 2am almost burning down the house..the girls...the waste of money...I'm just tired 10 years...alcohol wins. I'm out!!
@@stephaniemiller5165 You can msg me if u want. I got full custody of my kid. I left an awful DV situation. He kept threatening to kill me and had a knife. But he would not let me break up with him. He would also act horrible and expect to be excused for it. He thought the danger he put us through should not affect his custody but I disagree because he acted really unsafe so I gotta protect my son from that too. Did you leave? Are you able to??
@@Laurendoesflips thank you so much....I prayed and God came thru. For now he is sober and I have enough time to move now. We have been married for over a decade and now. I'll give him 1 year to work for the family he claims he loves but for my peace it can not be under the same roof. God revealed to me that if a person does not love themselves it will be hard for them to love u enough to get it together. So I'll allow him time to reflect and seek christ. The enemy do not bound nobodies he binds Giants that will bruise his head.....that's why the battle is so strong for alcoholics. Drugaddicts.. gays..lesbians....gamblers cus they are mighty men an women of God that will win so many souls to christ. So the enemy don't want that so he attract them early to brokenness.
@@stephaniemiller5165 pee pee in the bed
@@Laurendoesflips !yup
This guy is a great attorney and giving out valuable information
Why does this seem like it’s taking the side of the guilty party?
Maybe cus he's a defense lawyer duh.
I couldn’t be an attorney knowingly getting people out of trouble. I’ve witnessed somebody get issued an order and they had a good attorney or whatever
@@rikmcdik6662 everyone deserves the right to defend themselves, not everyone is guilty of the accusations brought against them.
spxlazy true. But I know what happened and this particular piece of shit has gotten away with a a lot because his dad is the attorney.
@@rikmcdik6662 what criminal defense lawyers do is often misunderstood. Sometimes it results in getting people out of trouble, especially if their rights were violated. Other times it means getting them help along with some sort of reduced punishment IF THEY COMPLETE the help they’re getting. And of course there are those times when someone is actually falsely accused. But may I ask you a question? Could you be a prosecutor and put an innocent person on trial for a serious crime? What if that happened and what if they were wrongfully found guilty and spend 10, 20, 30 years in prison and then we find out they weren’t the one who did it? Wouldn’t that be horrible? It does happen, you can google the Innocence Project to see story after story about it. We criminal defense lawyers exist to protect against that. Wouldn’t you agree that’s a good thing?
It seems logical not to harass the victim.
What if they use a fake profile or phone number that you don't recognize
Mine contacted me from a fake number and I cannot the proof to show it
im calling right now
thanks
How can i get a 10 year order of protection on someone she is crazy please help me the 3 year one that they offer is not long enuff thank you
you can renew it i believe.
What if a woman's ex was in jail for rape and now he's out and continues to call and harass her?
Why isn't the person requesting the order required to make reasonable efforts to avoid the other party? For example the ex girlfriend going into the other person's job just to force him to leave?
But of Shell is the one showing to your job. Just call the police , that's stalking
I have one person who won take hint you nor wanted he needs to stop contacting me that includes his family. Your not wanted don't come back.
I just got a temporary restraining order against me for a domestic incident. I haven't seen my Wife or kids for almost a week & it is killing me not to see them. My Wife called me during the time we were separated & told me that she loves me & that she wants to work things out & make our marriage last. I can't tell you, as a man who made mistakes to cause this situation how hard & difficult this situation is. I quit drinking alcohol & I am taking the right steps to make my life better not only for myself but for my family. I just feel like I'm never going to see them again or get the chance to make things right & it is breaking my heart. I have no idea what is going to happen next week when I stand before the judge. All I can tell you is if you are married & you have a Wife that likes to fight & argue or hit on you - be the bigger guy & walk away. If the marriage isn't working out, try to save it by going to counceling or get a divorce.
Ur2ez4me81 what ended up happening at court? have you been able to see your wife and kids?
update
Update bro
Is verbal abuse enough for order for order of protection? Im from Minnesota. Living in Colorado. Many years of verbal abuse
It's called a junction of protection or an emergency protection order against a person or an individual in question
Can i get an order of protection for a client who threatens to bring the police at my business place. You see i told her how I'm to get paid and how the product can be deliver by mail or pick up at the salon. But she insists that she will bring police which i dont what that to be happening at my business place.
Okay your explanation of the situation only seems valid if the restraining order is not for a valid reason. But there are many situations that are horrible DV situations where orders of protection are necessary/not soon enough. Got a three year restraining order against my son´s biological dad after he threatened to kill me many times, had a hunting knife, would not let me leave his house, but he did not go to prison. I did not press charges bc I did not want to deal with retaliation and I did not have evidence, but he was very dangerous. Many times its appropriate and many perpetrators of DV play the victim and there can even be scapegoating of the actual victim of DV. I think allowing a perp to get a restraining order dropped when they were threatening harm to control someone is more playing into their narcissism/expectation to be excused for horrible things. My ex who was the aggressor always played the victim any time I fought back and his family bought it. Sometimes families of DV agressors enable and scapegoat the victim to try to make the perpetrator seem innocent. I have full custody of my son and our restraining order just lasts three years. I dont know why they don´t make permanent restraining orders. I feel like he should have no right to be near us ever. I am glad I called the police the first time he tried to hit me and I am glad I got this restraining order. Seriously more women should call the police sooner. Please don´t help anyone dangerous. Obviously, no one is entitled to do domestic assault. More often things happen that dont get reported, not the other way around. Restraining orders are an important part of the process to break a relationship if the other partner does not want to let the other partner make their own decisions. Sadly some men think they own women. I was wanting to leave but he would not allow me to. Restraining orders are necessary sometimes. Okay have a good day. Like seriously if a partner is wanting a restraining order on the other they should just move out and let them go, not fight the restraining order.
I understand and appreciate your concerns and points. There is a process in place that exists for the purpose of protecting those that rightly qualify for a restraining/no contact order, and for dropping those orders when they are not valid. The process, like any other human creation, is not perfect. There are people on both sides of the equation (alleged victims and alleged perpetrators) that are equally capable of manipulating the truth and abusing the system. So yes mistakes can and will he made at times. But the problem is that alleged victims are equally as capable of manipulating the truth as are perpetrators. So the system does its best in attempting to sort out what’s valid and what isn’t. Both parties deserve the right to be heard and advocated for. Then it is up to a judge to decide the facts and apply the law.
@@RyanPacyga Ya I fought back and called the police first thing and also went straight to the courts which I think saved my situation. Also a DV survey really helped the court worker to assess the danger of the situation. I think some women get scapegoated by the abusers families to make the abuser seem innocent. Abusers think theyŕe innocent/not at fault in their abuse. But I can understand why someone would not want a restraining order that was not valid on their records. But I respectfully disagree. I would guess that most restraining orders are requested for very serious and valid reasons. The sucky thing is if a someone is being abused and they do not have proof or if a woman has been trained to deny abuse to escape future abuse then she has no proof unless he left marks. I am glad I called 911 the first time he put his hands on me.
Lauren Stanley I understand. Unfortunately there will never be 100 percent accuracy or correct results. You’re right, there are times something happened and just isn’t proven despite the fact that it happened. But there are also instances where nothing happened but a false allegation got an innocent person convicted. Thanks for your comments and stay healthy! 🙏
My husband exwife is from Canada. She is harassing and threatening me on his text. The exwife even harassing my social media on Facebook. She said whoever involved or friends with my husband she'll come after them. The exwife said she going to hire private investors and criminal investors to find me. I never met her or talking to her. She went to my Facebook and sending all my family pictures and harassing family. How can I report or do a restraining order on the exwife???? Thanks in advance
Looks like formal documents
What if you don't have proof and you want to put a restraint order on both of them? 2 people, but you just won't To stay away from you.
It’s just a piece of paper.
What happened if I put a strain order on somebody and they have probation
Great video I really needed info thank u
Thank you
What do you do when you have a mother that is a drug addict and has been diagnosed with schizophrenia bipolar. That’s constantly harassing her partner and making false accusations on the father of the children. What happens if the person that saying they’re getting harassed is the harasser. It’s all documented.
Break my bones?in mm, its an actual FELONY.
My neighbor, she's in her 60's, has a restraining order against her ex-husband.
He just got out of jail, he was put in jail for beating her, and convinced her to let him stay with her during hurricane Irma. We live in Punta Gorda Florida. But now he won't leave and is becoming a problem for her again. She's afraid to call the cops because she allowed him in, and he's telling her she'd be arrested for violation of her own restraining order against him for letting him back in.
She's afraid. I don't know what to tell her or how to help her.
Any information you can give me to help her would be appreciated.
Gretchen if he won't leave she should call the police in my opinion. Hope you're all recovering okay after Irma!
i was not never served, n my ex still talked to me while she had a Temporary protective order against me.
can this get me in hot water when I was never served?
I live with my kids mother we have two children but she is verbally abusive harasses me screams and yells in front of the children, I have primary custody through the family courts for our 9 year old son there is no legal status on a two-year-old child I have already contacted many agencies and legal aid, the mother continues to be abusive using now profanity and even blocks doorways for me getting through , she has smacked me once across my chest and shoulder.Her name is not on the lease the landlord served her a 10-day comply or vacate notice can an order protection filed by me have my children's Mother removed from our home??
J Fuse I'm dealing with the same thing. I see you posted this two weeks ago. What did you tell the landlord?
what if the abuser is violating the order of protection and the victim is terrified to report and doesn't report?
What do you think will happen if it's not reported?
Nothing
So if I get a order of protection placed on me for 2 years or less will that show up on background check for future employment?
One of the orders has me paying fees, fines ,& compensation money but how would that be possible if I lose my job & can not get one because of this. Is it a criminal record or not?
Depending on the job description and how and the duration of the protective order when someone doesnt renew it comes off your record if it gets renewed it stays on your record
What happened if I put a restraint order on 2 people? Do we still have to go to court?
Ryan, restraining orders are worthless. It's just a piece of paper. It won't stop a knife or a bullet, a car or someone with intent.
I have a PRO (Permanent Restraining Order) against a man that was harassing me, and after he got the initial TRO (Temporary Restraining Order), he STILL kept doing it. He successfully committed over 15 violations of the PRO in 4 years. Had some of them on video. Had eyewitnesses. Most recently crossing state lines to harass me. And the cops don't f*ing care.
welp if he cant learn then hes better off dead
Get you a gun. And don't be afraid to pull the trigger if you are in danger.
Know your rights ladies
Please help , Im a mom don't know my right s
I have visitation rights to my child...my childs mother still refuses to let me have parenting time...i have no address...no phone number...i hired a "process server" (and an attorney) to file a contempt charge...on the same day that I hire my process server my childs mother filed a petition for an "ex parte civil protection order" how can she do that??? and will this affect me being able to serve her for contempt??? please help and thank you!!
Odd situation: a former vendor at my work is acting crazy sending hateful emails and calls my line at work all day to harass me and scream and swear at me. Currently, I've been just hanging up on this person. However, this makes me feel uneasy. My boss asked me if we need to file a restraining order as none of us have ever dealt with this situation. Any feedback would be great!
Katy K depending on what state you are in there are different types of no contact orders. Some are called "harassment restraining orders," or "no contact orders" or similar names. You can usually go to a self help center at your local courthouse to find out how to apply for one and what type is right for your situation.
So if I get a responded. Do we still? Court
Can a Judge keep you out of your own community?
They seem to think they can keep you out of your community or make you a sitting duck in your own home.
Can I lose my job over a false accusation about domestic abuse? I haven’t violated the temporary order. It’s been about eleven months. She exaggerate.
Yes that could happen. It depends on whether you have an employment contract (a union or executive contract are two examples) or whether you are an “at will employee.” Most employees are “at will” in Minnesota, meaning you can be fired even for a false criminal allegation. Hopefully your employer believes in due process and the presumption of innocence and would at least wait until your case is decided by the court or a jury, but there’s no guarantees.
how long is the no contact order?
a minimum at least in Missouri is 2 years
What if I don't have the money for a lawyer? Can I get a quarter point and stay at
My wife ordered one against me. What happens if I don’t show up for the hearing
Thanks mate
What if I put a restrain order on 2 people and they have proof for me? What happened?
Can u keep my brother away form me bc he keeps always harassing
Nancy_ Chan me too, I want to file a restraining order against him because he’s always seriously threatening our family
What happens when it’s immediately violated by calls before hearing? Say it served then the person that’s served starts trying to contact?
can you carry while on a P.O
What about a non criminal no contact order case an what if we have a child together my lawyer said nothings gonna happen
I don't understand what about the person who's got this protection order on you keeps calling you keeps harassing you what then
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Thanks! I'm here to help.
Ryan Pacyga how do I drop a no contact order. My states attorney added that with out my permission and I’m wondering how I need to proceed in getting this dropped from the offendant.
Ayy bro I have a lil brother that is disabled and stays in group home and he had sexual relations with the caretaker that will pick him up now she put a restraining order on him will she get in trouble because she had a possession of power?
What if there is no hearing scheduled??
if a stalker goes to jail for stalking me, will he be ordered to stay away from me when he is released or will he be allowed to continue to stalk me.
In MN if a person is arrested and charged for stalking a judge will typically issue a no contact order while the case is pending.
Had an OFP placed on me for simply breaking a phone in front of my ex fiance. In court the judge upheld the ofp for 8 months to "disentangle our lives", but left the option for texts about the minor children and allowed us to meet in public places to exchange the kids. He urged her to work with me on visitation in the interim of having a custody hearing. I had tried repeatedly to work out some type of pre-trial custody arrangements with her, as well as asking for phone calls from the kids. I was a stay at home dad for a year and a half before she ran off with them, and it crushed me to no end to have them taken from me like that. Just today I received a ticket in the mail that I have broken the ofp. Considering the only contact I had was via text as the judge called for, I'm wondering if this can be true? I suspect she's doing this to get a leg up in the custody hearing. Wondering If you could direct me towards a decent attorney in the Duluth area that could help with such things. -Thanks
hey Bauks, sorry I didn't notice an alert I get when there's a comment. I hope you found the representation in Duluth you needed, and I hope all is well. Sounds like the judge saw the big picture in urging you guys to work on the big picture with the kids.
So sad sir... Listen to Coach Greg Adams
If you’re family members harasses you at your home do I need a restraining order on them
I got issued NCO by former employee who claimed I assaulted him. Then he shows up to my business and threatens to call the police and get me arrested if I didn't give him money. I tried to get him trespassed, but the Sheriff refused without a court order. This guy had me arrested twice. I was taken away in handcuffs from my own place of business when I wouldn't give him what he wanted. I spent two weekends in jail. Now I have to defend myself at trial. Any suggestions for a defense?
Yep... Protective orders are complete BS
They should be outlawed.
Iam looking for help.i have a child by my ex.i visit with my daughter twice a week.the step mom has harassed me at these visits and on social media including the father.should i get a restraining order?
Is the 10 year time frame meant to protect the same victim? Although, here in Minnesota 2 yr of protection is what one gets most of the time. After that two years of protection and the respondent still continues to have you, then what?
Or does this mean, if another victim gets another HRO and they violate that second HOR it means 2nd misdemeanor?
Restraining orders are awesome. It makes me feel safe
Can you get one from a female friend? One that is threatening because they think I owe them money when I don't. They use drugs and are insane. Hence ex friend.
I can read the sarcasm in your statement!
So, my brother has a restraining order against a "woman", the "woman" is married to our grandfather, can my mother contact the grandfather or the "woman" even if it is by the "womans" phone, as in my mother contacting my grandfather through the :womans" phone number.
Nice so what they get a security detail? Lol
How much a retraining order cost6lex Humphrey Lawyer
what if the ex husband wants visitation with the children, but the mother of the kids has a restraining order on the father? also if he's paying child support.
bon bon unfortunately that piece of paper states that he cannot go near the that person. If the ex husband does then he will be promptly arrested and charged with violation of a restraining order and looking at mandatory jail time. Unless the person really needs a restraining order on someone due to being hostile and dangerous they need to get rid of this shit all together.
What if the respondent lives in a different state?
I don't want any part of my father in my life at all I'm 19 so clearly I can make my own decisions but throughout my childhood he's been abusive and harassing to me. He has laid a hand on me before and hurt me. Past is past but I will always remember. I have no proof of it happening it's all in my memory if a judge were to ask him if it's true he would lie straight up. He was supposed to pay child support for me up until I was 18 which never happened he is more focused on his other family and life. He doesn't feel like a dad to me he doesn't care for me when is needed, there are expenses he should've paid but never did he expects my side of family to pay for them but we can't since my mom passed 4yrs ago(wasn't his wife) all I have is my grandma and family down in California...etc etc. I don't wish to see him again I don't want him to be known as my father I don't want to be known as his son. I'm in Washington State how do I get this settled by a judge? I have no past criminal history, clearly whoever has read this, you can tell I'm serious about this lol
I have a question. How would the Judge or DA find out if you have had an order of protection violated????
they can probably check your phone if you contacted them by text or phone. but if it's in person then I'm not sure
I have an order of protection from my daughters father should I go back to court to tell judge order has been violated ? I’m already going to prescient but I would like to know if I can come to court to make the judge aware too ?
What if I am trying to fill out an order against someone who is not in the U.S? this is more like cyberstalking
What if the abuser, my ex is speaking to my father? I just now heard of this. Would that be a violation of order protection?
y question is: an order of protection is in place for the spouse, including eviction of the home. However, he has now been back 3 times to remove"personal property" which is not completely true. He has removed some personal stuff including all tools. He has been accompanied by a police officer each time. question: how many times is to many? is there a time frame, for how long he should be taking? if he is able to take whatever he wants? the last time he was in the home he turned the heating system switch off! the FEAR is real each time he is in the home. what can be done? if any? thank you
Alma Colon each case is unique and each set of circumstances are unique. Police are there so it should be okay. It’s hard for someone that is suddenly kicked out of their home to get by. That’s why they need to return to retrieve items. The court is in charge of how many times is enough.
if the alleged victim keeps trying to contact the alledged abuser when they filed a restraining order against them does that make it illegal and void?
brandy rhonemus excellent question. Unfortunately no, it does not. I have represented people in that very situation. Prosecutors can still charge it out as a violation. Some use discretion and don’t charge it, but others do charge it. A jury can nullify it (I’ve had that happen) because it’s not really fair, but it’s risky to bet on that. Best thing is to still avoid contact and follow the rules of the order and document it in case something happens later.
My friends nephew has assaulted him several times. Latest he pushed him down from top of stair case. Does he have a case for protective order?
My neighbor has done physical harm to my son and partner. What should I do?
Im not sure exactly what i got but, I was told it only pertains to to texting email and facbook device connection.
Does Makin my life a musical hell count
If there is an order of protection, and the police made it, not the woman, because of an argument in the home that got out-of-hand, and the woman does not want the order of protection, how can she make it go away? If she and he both want to be together, but the police made the order of protection, how do they lift it? Please respond. Thank you.
Go to the court house and ask for your record and then go to the window where you can request to get charges expunged.
And Stop calling the police to your House over silly arguments if it gonna stay together!!!
Better yet just break up. Not worth it.
I called the police when I was contacted by someone who got an order of protection on me and the police searched my apartment and my father was there and they said there allowed to contact me but if I say something back I go to jail it's very mest up sad part is I live with medical issues and I do have autism and but still get treated like crap by the police and no help and has caused depression and made me think about all the suicide threats I got for it by them and has made me think about my life and ending it all but with others who do not know a lot or deal with this it makes you avoid everyone and makes you not want to go out at all like me and I have been jumped but a.z police sucks to be honest and when I showed them my pix receipts everything nothing even though I called when they texted me and have hurrassed me so sadly I got the crap end of it all even when I was supposedly hurrassing I already had a welfare check on me when I did try to hurt my self on the day of the so called allegations against me but to be honest police and lawyers not all police and lawyers are bad but the system really pushes your mental and physical health when you stress about something you never did even though I had receipts for dates on said allegations and pictures with proof do to my uncle passing as well for the other dates but still get treated like crap
Well said my friend I am being tortured on a weekly basis. It has literally ruined my health
What if the person has 3 strikes already will they arrest the person ?????
How will they know if you text or talk to them or meet up with them ?!how would they find out if there not around?
So I have a question because I can't seem to find any answers to it, a former friend of mine called the police to get me to stop talking to them. I personally had no idea that I had done anything wrong since we had normal conversations before that, I did notice there was something wrong but they never told me anything. Regardless, the police said that I wasnt in any sort of legal trouble, I just wasnt allowed to talk to her or anything of that nature, and if I did I would be arrested for harassment. I was never given a written record of it, and I am a single parent that doesn't ever want to get into legal trouble because I don't want to potentially lose custody of my child. So I don't know if this went on any sort of record of mine or what exactly was that was placed on me.
HOW LONG DOES THE NO CONTACT ORDER LAST IF NEITHER PARTY HAS FILED A RESTRAINING ORDER? I HAVE A COURT DATE IN A FEW WEEKS AND I WAS ONLY ORDERED BY THE JUDGE WHEN I WAS IN JAIL, NO CONTACT ORDER AND I NEED ANGER MANAGEMENT AND AA
Can I get one to keep the landlords daughter from harassing me?
His just keep on talking to me
great video is a tresspas leter the same as order of protection in min if isued by a court and again if busisnes isues letter notfies police of ban thankyou i had a tresspas for asking a question it was not threw a court i didnot violate it and it was lifted after a year thankyou
how do i drop the no contact order? I'm the "victim" my girl was acting stupid when she was drunk cos arrested her abs now she has a no contact
Crazy Jackass need to be locked up! lol~ How do they find the time and energy to continue to harrass people? Seriously, wish I had their stamina! Or they should put their stamina to good use! lol
what if u suspect a person might be getting ready to do that to u can u do anything before hand to protect yourself?
I have an order in IL against a woman. Now, she's calling me thru a private number/unknown. I've blocked her but she still tries to call me sporadically. What can I do? How can I prove it's her?
A CJJ call the police and tell them
We don't know him
Can we get an order for a non is citizen living abroad who is dangerous
If a judge gives you a order of protection and the case is dismissed is the order of protection still effective
STREET SURVIVOR if the order for protection is directly tied to the criminal charge, then it will be dismissed (vacated). But if the order for protection was granted apart from the criminal charge, then no. This can lead to confusion and more criminal trouble if you think it was automatically vacated and it turns out it wasn't vacated. So the safest thing to do is to ask the judge, a court administrator or your lawyer if you have one. You don't want to make a costly mistake.
I need help.
Casper62200: yes, you can. You should call an attorney where you live and seek help enforcing the order.
+Ryan Pacyga how long will order prodection last in your record
How do I get an protection order against my neighbors they have been driving by my parents house for months now they almost hit my puppy today while I was walking around my own yard
You can fill out an application at the courthouse in the county where you live
what happen when plaintiff contact the defendant during the protective order by calling and coming to the defendant house does the order drop?
She comes and have sex.. Swallows... eats dinner and goes to sleep but I'm the one with the PFA 😮
Can anyone file one? For example, if my friend is threatening me, can I file one against him? Thanks.
I'm not a lawyer but I believe you can. Seeing as you referred to the person as a friend I might consider cutting them off until they want to talk about your dispute like adults. A licensed attorney will be able to give you the best advice.
Very late but I'll ask anyway.
If the person who I have a protection order against sends some after me just to simply talk to me. Does that count as a violation?
Yes. They aren't allowed to send emissaries to deliver messages on their behalf.
Nope
Thank you for your video I can get the restraining order I have annoying ex boyfriend and he still come and assaulting me even though he moved on 8 years ago. He's still coming around me scaring me and contacting me, controlling me and he has his wife and kids already. How can I make him stop from all this? Please I need your help with this situation. Thanks again for your video it's really interesting I enjoy watching it! 😇👌🏾🙌🏾👍🏾✌🏾💯💯💯💯💯💯
Zainabu Lotyang you can report it to police and also you can apply for a no contact order
Hello Ryan. What do I do to get an order for protection against another party?????
well done
What if it’s not recent events. But what this person has done in the past makes me scared that if I were to run into them one day they might do something to me.
You can try but if it’s not recent it’s probably not going to be granted
Why can't the police find out which device it's coming from which laptop they are using which phone number it's coming from they can track me why can't they be tracked