the dips of loneliness will expand more and more the longer you go without regular social interaction until it consumes your whole life. also maybe see a psych cuz the introvertedness and instant regret when trying to talk with new people could be anxiety. i got on xans and it made interacting with people a lot less stressful. and i stopped worrying about going out with friends n stuff too so i was going out all the time and just enjoying it. hope things work out for you, dude.
Attention Kmart shoppers! I started watching your channel after a recommendation and I’m honestly so happy to see people supportive and wholesome. The internet can be a really hostile place, but this comment section is heartwarming. Best wishes to you, Coffin! You’re never alone.
I appreciate your words! Although, I do believe you have misunderstood my video a little, having no friends has been very beneficial for me because I haven’t been pushing people way. I have been giving too much of myself to people actually! That’s why it’s a good thing, I am finally doing something good for myself!
@@CoffinsJournal it’s good to remove ourselves from people that drain us but we do need others. As strongly as I feel compelled to remove myself from my social circles sometimes, I have to remind myself that interaction with the right people can bring me strength and joy.
Happy Birthday🎂True, some people like so-called high-maintenance friendships. It can be a little overwhelming. We also sometimes have very high expectations about how friendships should look, and when those expectations are not fulfilled, we tend to feel uncomfortable. Perhaps we should lower our standards a bit. Instead of looking for just one best friend, we could be more open and tolerant, trying to build bonds with more than one person-colleagues, for instance. Who knows? Maybe one or two of these relationships will transform over time into more meaningful friendships. In my opinion, it’s worth a try.✌
im 21 and ive never had any friends either. i wish we could be friends. youd seem like the perfect friend. when i was a kid my parents and teachers would try to force me to be friends with other kids but i refused and preferred to be alone. i knew i didnt click with them. i was also shy and like being alone and wasnt good at socializing.
Happy Birthday!!! Hey it'll be okay.... I've been lonely too.... For 4 years now.... But try getting out and going for a hike.... it helps me a lot....
Hello Coffin. Obviously I don't know you but I still hope you had a nice birthday. Nothing wrong with giving yourself permission to take the time you need to find peace and quiet and moments to just breathe. When you are ready I'm sure your future friends are excited to get to know you, so go ahead and look for them and let them into your life. Best wishes towards a good life. :)
the dips of loneliness will expand more and more the longer you go without regular social interaction until it consumes your whole life.
also maybe see a psych cuz the introvertedness and instant regret when trying to talk with new people could be anxiety. i got on xans and it made interacting with people a lot less stressful. and i stopped worrying about going out with friends n stuff too so i was going out all the time and just enjoying it.
hope things work out for you, dude.
Attention Kmart shoppers!
I started watching your channel after a recommendation and I’m honestly so happy to see people supportive and wholesome. The internet can be a really hostile place, but this comment section is heartwarming.
Best wishes to you, Coffin! You’re never
alone.
I feel very ungrateful for all the time I’ve pushed people away from me. I couldn’t imagine not having a single friend. I wish I could give you a hug.
I appreciate your words! Although, I do believe you have misunderstood my video a little, having no friends has been very beneficial for me because I haven’t been pushing people way. I have been giving too much of myself to people actually! That’s why it’s a good thing, I am finally doing something good for myself!
@@CoffinsJournal it’s good to remove ourselves from people that drain us but we do need others. As strongly as I feel compelled to remove myself from my social circles sometimes, I have to remind myself that interaction with the right people can bring me strength and joy.
@@CoffinsJournal I’m pleased that choosing to focus on yourself is working out for you though :)
Happy Birthday🎂True, some people like so-called high-maintenance friendships. It can be a little overwhelming. We also sometimes have very high expectations about how friendships should look, and when those expectations are not fulfilled, we tend to feel uncomfortable. Perhaps we should lower our standards a bit. Instead of looking for just one best friend, we could be more open and tolerant, trying to build bonds with more than one person-colleagues, for instance. Who knows? Maybe one or two of these relationships will transform over time into more meaningful friendships. In my opinion, it’s worth a try.✌
im 21 and ive never had any friends either. i wish we could be friends. youd seem like the perfect friend. when i was a kid my parents and teachers would try to force me to be friends with other kids but i refused and preferred to be alone. i knew i didnt click with them. i was also shy and like being alone and wasnt good at socializing.
I will always be down to be your friend if your friendly and I am your friend until you tell me otherwise 🙋🙏
Happy Birthday!!! Hey it'll be okay.... I've been lonely too.... For 4 years now.... But try getting out and going for a hike.... it helps me a lot....
🎉happy birthday🎉
Hello Coffin. Obviously I don't know you but I still hope you had a nice birthday. Nothing wrong with giving yourself permission to take the time you need to find peace and quiet and moments to just breathe. When you are ready I'm sure your future friends are excited to get to know you, so go ahead and look for them and let them into your life. Best wishes towards a good life. :)
Agree ❤️❤️❤️❤️
R u doing ok
Yes! Are you?
@CoffinsJournal yes lol 😆 hiya