I feel terrible for the defendant, it sounds like she had never expected this type of betrayal from someone she considered a friend, and she is deeply hurt by it.
And they suit eachother perfectly there is the copy cat syndrom not always bad but its awk that they both never put thier purses down kenyetta neat name btw n granite to i wentto school with someone with a similar name but not quite that i think it was garnet or something like that , anywa yum kenyetta any relatoin to carmen or lyla?
As much as I love when Milian goes off on people, I also love when she calmly examines their psychology behind why they make bizarre decisions. So fascinating
Tarryl Benedetto I agree! That’s why I think she’s the best court show. She judges purely out of law but she so reads each character and helps both sides see where they should have done better as humans.
Yes, I love that. I could tell something was wrong and I’m glad she actually kept prying and asking. It’s a sad and unusual case and I feel satisfied I received closure as an audience member haha
@@deerocker6987 This is true but as a NYer there are plenty of places she can go for help. She chooses not to and would rather be a burden and place blame on everyone else. I was born & raised in Brooklyn. I know time it is.
My guess is bipolar or another mood disorder. I have bipolar and I've snapped like that over stupid crap. It sucks because you live with horrible regret that haunts you, while you've left a trail of pain in your wake. Doesn't matter if you're a genius or not, if your emotions are out of control, everything else is affected.
It's called "learned helplessness." Needy people are grateful until you stop helping them. Then they become resentful of you for not taking care of them for the rest of their lives.
The so called friends that I have are like that however they are not grateful even when you are helping them. I have helped people and than when I stopped they literally would try to punch me in the face. I don't help anybody else out ever!
Showing up and doing a job is easier than looking for a place and handling paperwork for some people with certain mentalities. There's most likely something just about relying on these relationships that she is more tied to than anything like needing a place to live.
Yes, we are to believe that. I have seen numerous "adults" who work plenty but can't get their shit together. My cousin is a professional couch surfer. He makes over $70,000 a year and can't keep an apartment. He wastes all his money on strippers and blow. With as unstable as the Plantiff is, she is probably on blow too.
Most definitely and after a 20 year friendship it is WORTH examining. Dissolving the friendship is only going to bring unresolved hurt pain and wonder to them both. They need counseling and therapy as friends and the plaintiff needs SPECIAL ONE ON ONE. Something is eating away at her. Defendant, please give it and her a chance to HEAL🙏🏾
The defendant should unfriend the plaintiff for life. I would. The plaintiff isn't sorry at all, she is vindictive and only playing for the cameras. Those texts demonstrate what kind of person she is. One bad text can be sent in anger not the number the plaintiff did. Plaintiff slept on her couch, rent free for 8 months. Sues her after for junk she couldn't be bothered to pick up? Please.
The defendant was a good friend and for the plantiff to treat and talk to her like that was totally irrational and unwarranted. On top of that she brings her to court! Something is off.
She’s crying because her stuff is gone and the case is not going her way. She doesn’t feel guilty or sad. If she did, she would have apologized and not sued.
I think she’s crying because she realizes she sent a text saying to throw it out and the tears start when she realizes she wasn’t getting any money back. Sad case!
Crocodile tears. The plaintiff still had the galls to try to make the defendent look bad through her half-hearted "explanation" for her atrocious behaviour.
8 months! We all take rent for granted while living w/our parents but hell...if I lived rent free for 8 months & worked 50 hours a week (as she stated) I could totally do better now as an adult
I wish I had a friend like the lady that allowed her to stay with her on more than one occasion,rent free until she got on her feet...NOBODY IN MY LIFE HAS EVER BEEN THAT NICE TO ME.
If a person’s own family won’t help them, then as a friend you should be cautious about helping them. It means they have zero respect for relationships and they’ll probably end up cutting you out too when hard times come.
“You’re making me in to a nag, making me say it 100 times, because you didn’t do it the first 99 times I asked you!” Hahah I need an audio file of her yelling that on my phone for when I need it.
Sometimes its more rude/mean than funny. I remember an episode that involved an elderly lady who suffered from Alzheimer's disease and was incontinent ruined her daughters friends couch and the announcer made a tacky comment about it,hes no spring 🐔 so why the joke
Sounds like someone I knew who abandoned all their things, and left it up to me to get rid of everything. She then demanded money, and said how I was letting her starve in another state. She even told the judge I was holding her stuff hostage. All I did was put her things in storage, and she refused to pick them up when she moved back in state. She also gave our family dog away, and blamed me when the people she gave it to abused her. Then she had to put the dog down, and she blamed me and said I could've helped pay for it. Also bought her pizza with what little money I had when she got back from out of state, and I gave her money. She complained saying I didn't care about her, but was letting the people she lived with eat up the food I bought for her. I got blamed for everything, and she never seen any fault in her actions or anyone else's. She's sick!
She "talks bad about people" meanwhile this one is a freeloader, getting help from other people, but acting as though everyone should be more considerate of all her problems over their own. Ooook sure.
Remember that old saying... "No good deed goes unpunished"? I saved someone's life and that person stole $10k from me. Never stick your neck out for anyone!
Working 50 hours a week and she's homeless!? Somethings a miss here. No good deed goes unpunished. Sounds like she is using her friend and her friend should be cutting those ties.
Personally I just enjoy reading the comments so interesting and informative even after 3years especially when you just recently got back stateside go army
I just realized after watching this again what they real reason is . She basically wanted to leave stuff there so she would always have somewhere to go no matter what happens . By having her stuff there it’s an excuse to go back there also she could lie to the cops and say that she lives there by telling them her stuff is there . She takes advantage of people she needs to get her crap together .
She brought her homeless butt in her apartment for 8 months rent free and she have the nerve to go off cause her friend told her to take her stuff wow! She crying cause she need a place to stay soon and hoping to come back that all
The plantiff needs to own her ish. I was homeless for two years, sleeping in the bushes before I was blessed with housing. I did not burn bridges with those I love in my life. Made me a better, more grateful and a humbler person.
This lady has no mental health issue. Stop giving people excuses for their willful evil, mean and disgusting behavior. Not every mean person has mental issues,, Geesh! Many know exactly what they are doing and they hide behind 'mental illness'...
Being mean and evil is the result of a mental defect. It doesn't mean that should be handled with kid gloves. But that level of anger and misguidedness comes from somewhere which makes it easier to just move on. Instead of walking around thinking people are being evil just to be evil. They're being evil because they are living in misery
@@TartanPlaidxSky Yes, it's even mentioned that the plaintiff left some "pills" behind with her abandoned property. It was pretty much glossed over, but could be a significant factor in her behavior.
I try to make myself scarce if I get mad as I used to just blurt out some word vomit, you can't take back heated words. "I'm sorry" does not take hurt away. Quiet has served me better than mean words, and I don't have to be apologize for being quiet.
I feel like the defendant probably gossiped (which she had a valid reason) to other people about the plaintiffs lack of responsibility in picking up her stuff and that's what sent the plaintiff over the edge.
I think she was low key jealous of the friend because she has her life more together, and the Plaintiff realized how she ain’t shit… she was a friend but also hated that she was doing better than her.
At 9:52, we have a gentleman answering the judges question that was directed to the plaintiff without saying a word. I agree with you sir, enough said!
Believe it or not, people that are takers truly believe they deserve to be lavished with gifts and kindness when they never give an inch... Once the friendship ends they believe they were treated unfairly.
Plaintiff needed this, not the lawsuit but somebody in authority to talk about all the emotions she was carrying. Maybe she lost her friend but she will be better person from now on.
The plaintiff is clearly mentally ill or psychotic or you can pick whatever's behind door #3. The defendant took this woman into her home & allowed her to live there rent-free for 7-9 months rather than being left to live & survive on the streets & this is how the plaintiff rewards her kindness. "No good deed goes unpunished" & that is abundantly clear in this case. I can guarantee you that this plaintiff will need "Help" in her life again down the road & she will then regret the day that she burned her bridge to this thoughtful & helpful former friend.
It’s so incredibly sad when friendships ends this way. I have lost more than six BFF’s and everyone was excruciatingly painful. Although I’ve never been to court with them, but very very sad none the less
At 9:52, the guy in back of her, in the light blue shirt, with a short black stripe on his left shoulder, points to his head, in reference to J.M. asking "What happened?" and then, he points to his right temple & smiles real big. How right he was !! Then, the plaintiff turns on the waterworks. LOL !!
Some people can be strange. It has happened to me, several times over. Been kind and loving, and had it thrown back in my face. However, I still hold my head up high, as I have no regret, no shame, no guilt, and I believe the defendant in this case feels the same, and rightly so. Some people treat kindness with suspicion. Maybe they have never experienced kindness without an ulterior motive before, and get triggered. Seems to me like that is exactly what happened here. The plaintiff is an extremely damaged person.
We have a simple minded lady in our town and one day my father noticed this lady murmuring to herself...my father got curious and asked her what's the matter, and the lady replied she was annoyed with one of her relatives who kept on hounding her for payment of money she owed...then suddenly her face let up and she said " Oh I know now how to fix this annoying issues...I will pay him! now" In other words, the simple-minded lady in our small town is smarter than the plaintiff..
The plaintiff may have problems, but don't we all. Playing the victim doesn't go down well in JMs court. The defendant should just never have anything to do with her.
This case shows how hatred builds up and gets imbedded in a person- and the whole friendship is completely destroyed. Best thing to do is ignore and not respond to any ill talk - that way it doesn’t grow , friendship remains. In this case, putting the feelings aside, nobody did anything that they weren’t supposed to do, so nothing is due to any litigant. Perhaps give it some time, and let the disputes be forgotten and bygone , and perhaps they could reconciliate .
The ungrateful friend did a favor to the real friend by removing her self from her life. Some " friends" start hating on you way before you even notice or sometimes like in this case, you never realize you had more of an enemy than an actual friend. It is sad but at the same time Im glad the good friend has gotten rid of such awful woman.
Idk if I wanna say the plaintiff is fake or was having a moment.. At the same time I'm glad the defendant see her for what she is a fake. Plaintiff is too old to be living from pillow to post.
Gosh you can't help anyone out anymore. And its sad that people go for the jugular and bite your head off during an argument instead of just going their separate ways for a bit and cool off then talk about it and make up later when tempers aren't so high. This happens too much with life long friends and family members.
Most of them bring it upon themselves, often blowing their money on expensive and unhealthy habits rather than paying their bills, sometimes even stealing from their own friends and family, and often they choose to stay in that situation rather than getting out of it, and I'm not just talking about the addicts, but some people just choose to be homeless, no sympathy.
As Judge MM always says: “say it, forget it. Write it, regret it”! This lady clearly has something going in her life that needs addressing, either mental health or personal problems.
Plaintiff needs a psych eval. I mean that in the nicest way possible. She's a few french fries short of a happy meal. Side note: defendant looks like the original Pennywise.
The lady I let stay with me had 2 pay me rent & utilities because she was grown, she worked, & she made good money, but I only charged her $50 a week because I wanted 2 help her & not take advantage of her, but she did me wrong later
'Did you pay any rent?' 'Yes, I paid part of the PSE&G bill and groceries...' (Me: I didn't know those things were part of rent...😒😒...and Konstanze has the nerve to put on a crying theater and sue Pamela when she's the one not paying her rent?! Girl, bye!! 😡😠)
That's what happens when you help people when they are broke. As soon as some money gets in their hand Their true color come out. Last night a friend ask me for a loan, I gave him what I have. It is very difficult for a lot of people to be honest when it comes to repay relatives and friends. (She covet her friend)sound funny but if you know my Aunt you would understand. The defendant is right, she was her enemy long before. Growing up my best friend envy me for my girlfriend, I remember actions and words, but I couldn't think that a friend would envy you.I realize it until I was in my late 40s.
Sadly it’s the truth. Reason why I don’t have many “friends” because they take your kindness as far as they can take it and when you don’t let it go further they turn it around on you and make you seem like the bad guy!
Some people create their own problems, I'm not judging anyone. Proverbs chapter 14:1, Every wise woman builds her house: But the foolish plucketh it down with her own hands. Decisions have consequences.
I feel sorry for the defendant. She did help her friend and then gets dragged to court, when there was no reason to and after having received all those nasty messages. No wonder she is sad and hurt, feeling she was used.
I would never ever speak to that lady again! I agree with the defendant, that she has been harboring those feelings towards her. She may not be wrapped too tight, but she still felt those things she said or she wouldn't have said them.
Everything she said about her kids is exactly what I tell my husband. YOU MAKE ME NAG AND GRIPE! If you don’t like it then don’t do the things that make me nag!
The defendant was even nice enough to make sure the plaintiff got her medicine. Yes, unfortunately the defendant was used and probably jealous of what the defendant is & has.
There's only one person in this world that you can really trust and that's yourself, at least in most situations. If you have no self-control or something similar than you might not even be able to trust yourself, but you definitely can't trust others, not completely anyway. Always a good idea no matter how much you think you can trust somebody to tread with care.
I feel terrible for the defendant, it sounds like she had never expected this type of betrayal from someone she considered a friend, and she is deeply hurt by it.
Unbelievable
Nobody needs a 'friend' like the plaintiff.
Nah. Her and my cousin DESERVES each other. He's a bum ass loser too.
And they suit eachother perfectly there is the copy cat syndrom not always bad but its awk that they both never put thier purses down kenyetta neat name btw n granite to i wentto school with someone with a similar name but not quite that i think it was garnet or something like that , anywa yum kenyetta any relatoin to carmen or lyla?
@@kenyettaready you made me laugh.
Thanks.
Introduce him to her.
@@kenyettaready
Include my estranged uncle with that introduction
As much as I love when Milian goes off on people, I also love when she calmly examines their psychology behind why they make bizarre decisions. So fascinating
Tarryl Benedetto I agree! That’s why I think she’s the best court show. She judges purely out of law but she so reads each character and helps both sides see where they should have done better as humans.
Yes, her degree in psychology, which she completed prior to her Juris Doctor is an asset.
Yes, I was pleased to see her exhibition of humanity in this episode.
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Yes, I love that. I could tell something was wrong and I’m glad she actually kept prying and asking. It’s a sad and unusual case and I feel satisfied I received closure as an audience member haha
The plaintiff is unbalanced, there's a reason she is continually homeless and can't get her act together. She needs help.
Why TF didn't she throw her dealer so out?
Jude Iz you’re right. I actually felt for her. She doesn’t have control of herself, and it kinda seems like life is too big for her.
Yeah. Life can be tough in New York.
@@deerocker6987 This is true but as a NYer there are plenty of places she can go for help. She chooses not to and would rather be a burden and place blame on everyone else. I was born & raised in Brooklyn. I know time it is.
I totally agree. She is unbalanced. It cannot be everyone else is wrong and you are right.
The plaintiff is definitely not playing with a full deck
My guess is bipolar or another mood disorder. I have bipolar and I've snapped like that over stupid crap. It sucks because you live with horrible regret that haunts you, while you've left a trail of pain in your wake. Doesn't matter if you're a genius or not, if your emotions are out of control, everything else is affected.
At all!
Omgosh if that defendant ever talks to her again, she is nuts.
Agreed that is not a friend, it is a scammer
Sad but you have to know when to end a friendship.cant let people treat you like that and get away with it. And think it's alright.
That side eye the defendant made when the plaintiff started crying and explaining how she misses her, was PRICELESS!!!🤣🤣
Hilarious
Right? I feel like she has every reason to feel the way she does
she misses her because she's homeless and needs a place to live... ...again
I LOVE this defendant! The plaintiff is a selfish beast!
It's called "learned helplessness." Needy people are grateful until you stop helping them. Then they become resentful of you for not taking care of them for the rest of their lives.
Seriously.
The so called friends that I have are like that however they are not grateful even when you are helping them. I have helped people and than when I stopped they literally would try to punch me in the face. I don't help anybody else out ever!
Are we to actually believe that the plaintiff works 50 hours per week yet she can't get her act together to get an apartment or even rent a room?
🤣🤣🤣She moved in with her friend
@@dionned.6176 It's a vicious cycle of "Move in with a friend, become a burden and move out."
Showing up and doing a job is easier than looking for a place and handling paperwork for some people with certain mentalities. There's most likely something just about relying on these relationships that she is more tied to than anything like needing a place to live.
She may not be making enough money even tho she's working a lot of hours.
Yes, we are to believe that. I have seen numerous "adults" who work plenty but can't get their shit together. My cousin is a professional couch surfer. He makes over $70,000 a year and can't keep an apartment. He wastes all his money on strippers and blow. With as unstable as the Plantiff is, she is probably on blow too.
Clearly there is an issue of chronic homelessness. Something more is certainly wrong in this woman’s life.
There are some mental health issues
definitely some type of personality/bipolar disorder
Yeah, totally agree. Anyone who tells someone else to "go kill yourself" is not a mentally stable person.
Most definitely and after a 20 year friendship it is WORTH examining. Dissolving the friendship is only going to bring unresolved hurt pain and wonder to them both.
They need counseling and therapy as friends and the plaintiff needs SPECIAL ONE ON ONE. Something is eating away at her.
Defendant, please give it and her a chance to HEAL🙏🏾
JM's hair is the color of a brand new penny & I love it.
I have always wanted hair color like that. But, I have olive-toned skin and black hair. Wouldn’t have worked for me. Shucks!
I know eh... I just wrote "hair dye" on my shopping list... haha
I don't think you know what a new penny looks like
The defendant should unfriend the plaintiff for life. I would. The plaintiff isn't sorry at all, she is vindictive and only playing for the cameras. Those texts demonstrate what kind of person she is. One bad text can be sent in anger not the number the plaintiff did. Plaintiff slept on her couch, rent free for 8 months. Sues her after for junk she couldn't be bothered to pick up? Please.
Absolutely 100%
I would have had to throw the couch out and get another one after someone sleeping on it for 8 months.
I chuckled at how the water works came on and off, and how she followed up an "I'm sorry" with an insult.
Actually, she lived with her for three months BEFORE the eight. Three, then with the cousin, then the following eight months.
@@Snapepet good point. And makes you wonder why she didn't continue to stay with the cousin? 🤔
The defendant was a good friend and for the plantiff to treat and talk to her like that was totally irrational and unwarranted. On top of that she brings her to court! Something is off.
She’s crying because her stuff is gone and the case is not going her way. She doesn’t feel guilty or sad. If she did, she would have apologized and not sued.
12th case Iam watching
Time 2:42AM Wed 7/29/20
Makes me a bit hesitant to help people!!
Right 🤦🏽♀️
I think she’s crying because she realizes she sent a text saying to throw it out and the tears start when she realizes she wasn’t getting any money back. Sad case!
Crocodile tears. The plaintiff still had the galls to try to make the defendent look bad through her half-hearted "explanation" for her atrocious behaviour.
Friends gossip, and .....
@@al3220 exactly atrocious behavior
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The sad case is Plaintiff being a manipulative [exploitive].
8 months! We all take rent for granted while living w/our parents but hell...if I lived rent free for 8 months & worked 50 hours a week (as she stated) I could totally do better now as an adult
Omg living for free even a few months as an adult is everyone’s dream! It’s so sad she bit the hand that fed her when she was literally homeless.
I wish I had a friend like the lady that allowed her to stay with her on more than one occasion,rent free until she got on her feet...NOBODY IN MY LIFE HAS EVER BEEN THAT NICE TO ME.
Try to not be over dramatic and exaggerated way you express yourself (behavior, appearance, etc)
@@sparrowhawk5673lmao who tf are you
@@AP-xw5px someone with etiquette. You should try it if you want to get a 6 figure job.😏
Seriously !!! So ungrateful
If a person’s own family won’t help them, then as a friend you should be cautious about helping them. It means they have zero respect for relationships and they’ll probably end up cutting you out too when hard times come.
What makes it worse is. She looks like she's in her 40s-50s And those phone rants would be something someone half her age would send.
Facts 💯
Sadly true.
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“You’re making me in to a nag, making me say it 100 times, because you didn’t do it the first 99 times I asked you!” Hahah I need an audio file of her yelling that on my phone for when I need it.
I aspire to be the announcers level of petty one day. 😉🤣
Sometimes its more rude/mean than funny.
I remember an episode that involved an elderly lady who suffered from Alzheimer's disease and was incontinent ruined her daughters friends couch and the announcer made a tacky comment about it,hes no spring 🐔 so why the joke
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❗️
Has to be an entertaining job. Just come up with slick, condescending comments all day 😂
@ Gemini Johnson what if he smells pissy and uses Depends himself?
I think it’s the dark haired guy that used to interview the people on the way out.
Life's too short for this nonsense.
Agree
I likewise concur. This feels like a case Judge Judy dismisses within 15 seconds -- at least on the plaintiff's side.
Preach!
Amen!!
This lady was NEVER her friend. She never loved the defendant. If you truly loved anyone, you could never say these words.
Complete nut.
Sounds like someone I knew who abandoned all their things, and left it up to me to get rid of everything. She then demanded money, and said how I was letting her starve in another state. She even told the judge I was holding her stuff hostage. All I did was put her things in storage, and she refused to pick them up when she moved back in state. She also gave our family dog away, and blamed me when the people she gave it to abused her. Then she had to put the dog down, and she blamed me and said I could've helped pay for it. Also bought her pizza with what little money I had when she got back from out of state, and I gave her money. She complained saying I didn't care about her, but was letting the people she lived with eat up the food I bought for her. I got blamed for everything, and she never seen any fault in her actions or anyone else's. She's sick!
The kinder you are, the more the recipients of your kindness hate you when you stop giving freely to them.
One of Jesus' more obscure quotes 😅
Text: "Just throw the stuff out."
As plaintiff in court: "Well, I didn't want her to throw it out."
Jeesh, make up your mind already!
I think that chick may be bipolar
She is immature and gave into the feeling of anger without really understanding the cost of it. She deserves it.
The defendant is such a cute old lady. I feel like she’s probably so sweet in person
She "talks bad about people" meanwhile this one is a freeloader, getting help from other people, but acting as though everyone should be more considerate of all her problems over their own. Ooook sure.
The perfect word for her a freeloader.
Plaintiff: "she talks about people... that's why my friend should kill herself and the reason her son doesn't love her."
Remember that old saying... "No good deed goes unpunished"? I saved someone's life and that person stole $10k from me. Never stick your neck out for anyone!
So true. If you want to help a struggling friend just give them money without expecting to get paid back. But never get too much into their drama...
I miss Kurt. Kurt would have been like " Do you want to apologize for your behavior?" he was such an instigator! lol
Kurt was amazing!! He asked such good questions!!!
Who's Kurt?
@@sparrowhawk5673 he did the hallway interview after Doug and before Doug. He was in between Doug’s 2 stints. He’s also the announcer of the cases.
@@traceyaz125 thanks now I remember him
I liked Kurt but Doug will always be the King of the Hallway. 💯💯snark!
Working 50 hours a week and she's homeless!? Somethings a miss here. No good deed goes unpunished. Sounds like she is using her friend and her friend should be cutting those ties.
Personally I just enjoy reading the comments so interesting and informative even after 3years especially when you just recently got back stateside go army
I just realized after watching this again what they real reason is . She basically wanted to leave stuff there so she would always have somewhere to go no matter what happens . By having her stuff there it’s an excuse to go back there also she could lie to the cops and say that she lives there by telling them her stuff is there . She takes advantage of people she needs to get her crap together .
She brought her homeless butt in her apartment for 8 months rent free and she have the nerve to go off cause her friend told her to take her stuff wow! She crying cause she need a place to stay soon and hoping to come back that all
this had me in tears... literal tears...
The plantiff needs to own her ish. I was homeless for two years, sleeping in the bushes before I was blessed with housing. I did not burn bridges with those I love in my life. Made me a better, more grateful and a humbler person.
Chris Hawkins wow man. Inspiring.
Rodent That Dispenses Wisdom thank u. A rough road yes but I’m still breathing and blessed quite immensely.
Chris Hawkins great man
Chris Hawkins life always gets better bro it’s the small stuff that counts :)
Rodent That Dispenses Wisdom thank u
I LOVEE when JM calls people out and says exactly what I'm thinking.
the plaintiff is giving me vibes that you need to sleep with both eyes open whenever she's around
It’s sad and unnecessary. Never take a long-term friendship for granted, and definitely don’t take advantage of it, either.
The announcer gets more and more over the top every year! I love it! 🤣
This lady has no mental health issue. Stop giving people excuses for their willful evil, mean and disgusting behavior. Not every mean person has mental issues,, Geesh! Many know exactly what they are doing and they hide behind 'mental illness'...
Yes I agree. Some people are just plain mean, some are just evil.
right
Being mean and evil is the result of a mental defect. It doesn't mean that should be handled with kid gloves. But that level of anger and misguidedness comes from somewhere which makes it easier to just move on. Instead of walking around thinking people are being evil just to be evil. They're being evil because they are living in misery
@@TartanPlaidxSky Yes, it's even mentioned that the plaintiff left some "pills" behind with her abandoned property. It was pretty much glossed over, but could be a significant factor in her behavior.
The lady needs help man . But the defendant is just so sweet I wish I have a friend like that in my life
If you don’t come get your stuff it is abandonment. Shocking how many people don’t understand that.
I try to make myself scarce if I get mad as I used to just blurt out some word vomit, you can't take back heated words.
"I'm sorry" does not take hurt away. Quiet has served me better than mean words, and I don't have to be apologize for being quiet.
She really felt sorry she would have actually apologized to her in person. Directing the apology to the defendant
I feel like the defendant probably gossiped (which she had a valid reason) to other people about the plaintiffs lack of responsibility in picking up her stuff and that's what sent the plaintiff over the edge.
I think she was low key jealous of the friend because she has her life more together, and the Plaintiff realized how she ain’t shit… she was a friend but also hated that she was doing better than her.
Dude in the back @ 9:52 said it all 😂
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She is crying because she is one of those people who can’t get there life together and wants to blame it on everyone else.
Exactly a person that doesn't take responsibility for their actions.
At 9:52, we have a gentleman answering the judges question that was directed to the plaintiff without saying a word. I agree with you sir, enough said!
Believe it or not, people that are takers truly believe they deserve to be lavished with gifts and kindness when they never give an inch... Once the friendship ends they believe they were treated unfairly.
Plaintiff needed this, not the lawsuit but somebody in authority to talk about all the emotions she was carrying. Maybe she lost her friend but she will be better person from now on.
I am liking Judge Marilyn's spiffy sleek new haircut
The plaintiff is clearly mentally ill or psychotic or you can pick whatever's behind door #3. The defendant took this woman into her home & allowed her to live there rent-free for 7-9 months rather than being left to live & survive on the streets & this is how the plaintiff rewards her kindness. "No good deed goes unpunished" & that is abundantly clear in this case. I can guarantee you that this plaintiff will need "Help" in her life again down the road & she will then regret the day that she burned her bridge to this thoughtful & helpful former friend.
Oh please stop acting like a victim your friend had your back for 8months .
And that was only the 2nd couch serving stay, she had stayed with the defendant earlier as well.
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Wow you have good ears I didn't hear that
I wanna punch the plaintiff. The defendant is SO over this woman’s crazy. Lol!
I wish I had a friend like that
No good deed goes unpunished.
Can't even hold the doors open for her witness, you already know what kind of person she is
It’s so incredibly sad when friendships ends this way. I have lost more than six BFF’s and everyone was excruciatingly painful. Although I’ve never been to court with them, but very very sad none the less
The plaintiff wanted to come back, that’s why she never wanted to get her stuff.
Best judge ever.
The plaintiff obviously has some deep emotional issues and she needs professional help hopefully she will get the help she needs, Blessings.
A shopping cart already on wheels Jm jokes😂😂
Omg the defendant sounds like Kathy Bates when she's was in American horror story freak show
I think the plaintiff is jealous of the defendant... and feels the world owes her something
At 9:52, the guy in back of her, in the light blue shirt, with a short black stripe on his left shoulder, points to his head, in reference to J.M. asking "What happened?" and then, he points to his right temple & smiles real big. How right he was !! Then, the plaintiff turns on the waterworks. LOL !!
Some people can be strange. It has happened to me, several times over. Been kind and loving, and had it thrown back in my face. However, I still hold my head up high, as I have no regret, no shame, no guilt, and I believe the defendant in this case feels the same, and rightly so.
Some people treat kindness with suspicion. Maybe they have never experienced kindness without an ulterior motive before, and get triggered. Seems to me like that is exactly what happened here. The plaintiff is an extremely damaged person.
We have a simple minded lady in our town and one day my father noticed this lady murmuring to herself...my father got curious and asked her what's the matter, and the lady replied she was annoyed with one of her relatives who kept on hounding her for payment of money she owed...then suddenly her face let up and she said " Oh I know now how to fix this annoying issues...I will pay him! now"
In other words, the simple-minded lady in our small town is smarter than the plaintiff..
She's everyone's charity case, but instead of being grateful, she remains entitled and demanding.
I see a woman who just got overwhelmed with life...been there...but never spoke cruel words like they did...
The guy in the background at 9:50 sums up this lady pretty well. 🤣
The plaintiff may have problems, but don't we all. Playing the victim doesn't go down well in JMs court. The defendant should just never have anything to do with her.
Man that announcer was having waaaay too much fun with the voiceover in the beginning. Lol.
This case shows how hatred builds up and gets imbedded in a person- and the whole friendship is completely destroyed. Best thing to do is ignore and not respond to any ill talk - that way it doesn’t grow , friendship remains.
In this case, putting the feelings aside, nobody did anything that they weren’t supposed to do, so nothing is due to any litigant. Perhaps give it some time, and let the disputes be forgotten and bygone , and perhaps they could reconciliate .
The ungrateful friend did a favor to the real friend by removing her self from her life.
Some " friends" start hating on you way before you even notice or sometimes like in this case, you never realize you had more of an enemy than an actual friend. It is sad but at the same time Im glad the good friend has gotten rid of such awful woman.
Idk if I wanna say the plaintiff is fake or was having a moment.. At the same time I'm glad the defendant see her for what she is a fake. Plaintiff is too old to be living from pillow to post.
Gosh you can't help anyone out anymore. And its sad that people go for the jugular and bite your head off during an argument instead of just going their separate ways for a bit and cool off then talk about it and make up later when tempers aren't so high. This happens too much with life long friends and family members.
Remind me again why we should feel sorry for homeless people?
Most of them bring it upon themselves, often blowing their money on expensive and unhealthy habits rather than paying their bills, sometimes even stealing from their own friends and family, and often they choose to stay in that situation rather than getting out of it, and I'm not just talking about the addicts, but some people just choose to be homeless, no sympathy.
As Judge MM always says: “say it, forget it. Write it, regret it”! This lady clearly has something going in her life that needs addressing, either mental health or personal problems.
This is exactly it.
Plaintiff needs a psych eval. I mean that in the nicest way possible. She's a few french fries short of a happy meal.
Side note: defendant looks like the original Pennywise.
Right she seriously does need a psych evaluation
The lady I let stay with me had 2 pay me rent & utilities because she was grown, she worked, & she made good money, but I only charged her $50 a week because I wanted 2 help her & not take advantage of her, but she did me wrong later
Why is the defendant nice to the plaintiff when the defendant is horrid and ungrateful?
Folks, don't befriend this plaintiff. She's bad news.
Sad that woman needs help
I think it’s the safest thing for the defendant especially but for both to separate for good.
'Did you pay any rent?'
'Yes, I paid part of the PSE&G bill and groceries...'
(Me: I didn't know those things were part of rent...😒😒...and Konstanze has the nerve to put on a crying theater and sue Pamela when she's the one not paying her rent?! Girl, bye!! 😡😠)
And bought glitter!
Mental health is important.......
Exactly why I don't have roommates and friends.
Two ladies and a cart is why you don’t have friends??😩😂
Tico 😂😂😂
That's sad
15:54
lmfao @ the guy nodding in the background
Bahahaha saw that as I read your comment👍
That's what happens when you help people when they are broke. As soon as some money gets in their hand Their true color come out. Last night a friend ask me for a loan, I gave him what I have. It is very difficult for a lot of people to be honest when it comes to repay relatives and friends. (She covet her friend)sound funny but if you know my Aunt you would understand. The defendant is right, she was her enemy long before. Growing up my best friend envy me for my girlfriend, I remember actions and words, but I couldn't think that a friend would envy you.I realize it until I was in my late 40s.
Sadly it’s the truth. Reason why I don’t have many “friends” because they take your kindness as far as they can take it and when you don’t let it go further they turn it around on you and make you seem like the bad guy!
Moral of the story....don’t have friends lol
I definitely would be a better friend to the defendant then the plaintiff was
Some people create their own problems, I'm not judging anyone. Proverbs chapter 14:1, Every wise woman builds her house: But the foolish plucketh it down with her own hands. Decisions have consequences.
Exactly
I feel sorry for the defendant. She did help her friend and then gets dragged to court, when there was no reason to and after having received all those nasty messages. No wonder she is sad and hurt, feeling she was used.
I would never ever speak to that lady again! I agree with the defendant, that she has been harboring those feelings towards her.
She may not be wrapped too tight, but she still felt those things she said or she wouldn't have said them.
Absolutely unhinged
Everything she said about her kids is exactly what I tell my husband. YOU MAKE ME NAG AND GRIPE! If you don’t like it then don’t do the things that make me nag!
The defendant was even nice enough to make sure the plaintiff got her medicine. Yes, unfortunately the defendant was used and probably jealous of what the defendant is & has.
Very sparkly!
The defendant was right the plaintiff did use her. Judge Milian was wrong the plaintiff is a manipulative crybaby.
There's only one person in this world that you can really trust and that's yourself, at least in most situations. If you have no self-control or something similar than you might not even be able to trust yourself, but you definitely can't trust others, not completely anyway. Always a good idea no matter how much you think you can trust somebody to tread with care.