FTM TRANSGENDER // HOW I LEGALLY CHANGED MY NAME AND GENDER

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  • @kyljoy4042
    @kyljoy4042 8 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Your voice is so deep goals af

  • @ingridlou5041
    @ingridlou5041 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    It's sooo much easier in the UK! You literally sign the deed poll online and then you get a letter that you get within 2-4 days. You sign it and within a week you're done! Then ofc change you're documents but the Uk one is so much easier! And it's £15

  • @renettegrace778
    @renettegrace778 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I just like hearing him talk like..... idc what u talkin about just talk babe 😸😻

  • @nastassjakowalski4957
    @nastassjakowalski4957 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Ryan is so fitting. it's like a hot guy who is laid back and chill

  • @RaquelMarquess
    @RaquelMarquess 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Ryan!! I dont know how i found your channel but i love the way you talk and transmit your experience to us!! I'm portuguese and the way you talk is so paused and enlightening that i can understand EVERYTHING that you are saying without have to put the video back to listen again! You're awesome!! Kiss from Portugal :)

  • @DanielGarcia021
    @DanielGarcia021 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dude thank you so much for this info! I also live in Cali and I am so ready to start my transition!

    • @Eli-ou8sq
      @Eli-ou8sq 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Daniel Garcia how’d it go? :)

  • @fated2pretend
    @fated2pretend 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dude, thanks so much. I'm going through that process in CA and your video was a lot of help!

  • @DirewolfGabe
    @DirewolfGabe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awesome! Mine is about to be legally changed sometime this weekend. XD

  • @arianac5974
    @arianac5974 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude your voice is so fucking deep from like a couple of videos back congrats man

  • @kelsieshane4789
    @kelsieshane4789 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    it's about damn time! so happy for you man!!

  • @kay1451
    @kay1451 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your voice has changed rapidly nobody would know you're trans unless u tell them. that is cool x

    • @luciacalderon6327
      @luciacalderon6327 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      KleezVidz !!! Right!!??

    • @cjtalksaboutit3132
      @cjtalksaboutit3132 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Princess Veronica dude stfu

    • @ajayeasterling1328
      @ajayeasterling1328 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Princess Veronica a lot of men are short. nick camryn (a trans guy) is 5'10 (taller than the average man)

  • @thatoneepicenealex7432
    @thatoneepicenealex7432 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOAH WHAT OK i found you from your advice on how to come out to teachers (it's working and i have 4 of the 7 replies) and WOAH YOUR VOICE AND YOU LOOK SO DIFFERENT WOOOAAAH YOU'VE COME SO FAR

  • @ezrataylorsversion7239
    @ezrataylorsversion7239 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Holy crap thank you so much this was really helpful since I didn't know what I'm suppose to do in California to get my name changed

  • @BryanLee-du9dr
    @BryanLee-du9dr 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad to see things are going good for you. Love watching your videos

  • @the_misfit9042
    @the_misfit9042 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sadly in Texas you have to file a court order and go see a judge to change your name

  • @myopinionspeaks1015
    @myopinionspeaks1015 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am planning to change my name as Noah. Great video.

  • @lavender.froggy926
    @lavender.froggy926 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You'll probably not see this but... Gah you're so perfect 😩😩😭💗

  • @LipStickJunkie2013
    @LipStickJunkie2013 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are truly an inspiration, I applaud you...

  • @Kiyalitavlogs
    @Kiyalitavlogs 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ryan's a good name that's my sons name lol but congrats on everything you look great and sound great ❤️

  • @fredortiz5145
    @fredortiz5145 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First off, thanks there's some good confidence building in your video. I'm looking to change my name on my birth certificate because the name that I've used all of my life is a little different. I'm amazed that you handled this yourself.
    Question: How does this affect your Soc. Sec ?
    Good luck to you, be good to yourself.

  • @morgane.1204
    @morgane.1204 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I recently changed my name. (Not legally but just with everyone I know) i never really liked my name mainly because it never fit me. The main problem is all of friends know me by my old name. Also all of my teachers know me by that too. My new name is nothing like the old one. So it's always weird to tell new people to call me by my new name. What should I do?

  • @k.b.1635
    @k.b.1635 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this info ryan!

  • @sashasierra4866
    @sashasierra4866 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The LGBT centers here in socal have workshops that help you fill out your paperwork and they have Lawyers that volunteer to help you with the process

  • @mizu-no
    @mizu-no 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow they make this so hard for people in the USA. i live in canada and in my city you just got down to the vital states building pay like 200 dollars if your reason is good. bam 6 weeks and you have your name. As for gender that has to go throw your doctor different papers. but you can change your name almost right away as long as its a good reason and not something that controversial.

  • @SWEETFIT84
    @SWEETFIT84 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What was your name before? Did you choose a similar name to your birth name or a name completely different? Regards from Spain :)

    • @ronankuiper
      @ronankuiper 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      AnnikaSton There's nothing rude about HOW they asked the question, even though it is rude to ask it in general.

  • @johnwayne7818
    @johnwayne7818 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whoop whoop Ryan

  • @aidenjaceserrano8338
    @aidenjaceserrano8338 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    is the legal documents also good to use here in San Francisco?
    by the way the link isn't working. thanks!

  • @aydianmontemayor3478
    @aydianmontemayor3478 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    In the tulare county area. Its $465 to file

  • @simpking01
    @simpking01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    congrats man

  • @sheylaelizalde6977
    @sheylaelizalde6977 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is it an actual court or do you just present your paperwork to a clerk and that's pretty much it

  • @jaybrewer4384
    @jaybrewer4384 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What song does he use as his exit or outro

  • @karensanchez4370
    @karensanchez4370 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday :)

  • @carolcarrillo4934
    @carolcarrillo4934 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ayeeee I live around there

  • @deedeeminaj5366
    @deedeeminaj5366 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you have to have any surgery’s done before you can file for name & gender change ?

  • @elijahcolegomez5470
    @elijahcolegomez5470 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why did you wait so long to change your name and gender legally? Also did you get bottom surgery or thinking about it ?

  • @azaria310
    @azaria310 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did you have top surgery before you changed your name and gender?

  • @DannysKomedy
    @DannysKomedy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @awesomedirt3
    @awesomedirt3 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about social security number I’ve always wondered that

  • @josephshields823
    @josephshields823 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey ryan how long did this process take? I'm trying to get mine done before January 27th

  • @henrisquecido
    @henrisquecido 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    you were beautiful before, nut now youre incredibly handsome and the voice adds up to it, oh my, haha.
    i tried to find it on shazam but I couldnt: what is the song used at the end of the video? can you please let me know?

  • @beesanchez2434
    @beesanchez2434 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    is there a fee waiver for the copies /

  • @RobRafiele
    @RobRafiele 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a crush on you, so handsome! thanks for the info - im starting my transition soon

  • @shadycharlotte9144
    @shadycharlotte9144 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good for you man. 😊

  • @katherinefahie4621
    @katherinefahie4621 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love hearing him talk. You sound so hot. Sorry. I am changing my name and my gender today too. Thanks for the help. Does anyone know how to do the change of name and gender on dmv and birth certificate. Do i need to go to social security too? help pls

  • @sethcoppens1709
    @sethcoppens1709 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you have to be a certain age to change your name legally? I'm 11....

    • @sethcoppens1709
      @sethcoppens1709 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okay, thanks!

    • @jasonmartin4036
      @jasonmartin4036 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      At your age you would need your parents to approve of the name change and they would get it changed for you.

    • @colesenior2844
      @colesenior2844 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seth Coppens some states you can get it changed at any age but you need parental consent

  • @AlixCarranza
    @AlixCarranza 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    do they not have a sliding fee? I thought I read that they have one here in Cali.

    • @RyanJacobsFlores
      @RyanJacobsFlores  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only fees I paid was to file, and then for the certified copies.

    • @CatmanBreeze
      @CatmanBreeze 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ryan Jacobs Flores same here in New Mexico I only paid to file the paperwork and then I paid to get a court date and also to get certified copies and a new ID at the DMV. I also had to run my name in the newspaper for two weeks. so total that cost about $600 to get it all done.

  • @mitchellalvarez7345
    @mitchellalvarez7345 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    So how long did it take from when u submitted your paper till ur court date?? 4 months 5 ??

  • @jimmy199814
    @jimmy199814 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg my voice is not even so deep.

  • @zoozoo42laroja
    @zoozoo42laroja 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The shirt translates to Eroz is the Lord/God

    • @itsariboow5336
      @itsariboow5336 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      So what

    • @zoozoo42laroja
      @zoozoo42laroja 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well Eros is the Greek god of love, and "Eroz" is the brand name if the shirt he's wearing, so writing it out like that could just be for aesthetic reasons

  • @tyejones2286
    @tyejones2286 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so you didn't have to go in front of a judge ?

    • @RyanJacobsFlores
      @RyanJacobsFlores  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I initially thought I was going to but turns out nope!

    • @tyejones2286
      @tyejones2286 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      oh good, hopefully its the same for me anyways thank you and congratulations

  • @herminiacxx9492
    @herminiacxx9492 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't find you Snapchat

  • @drewtorres2596
    @drewtorres2596 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Birthday ! lol

  • @SilverCrow2528
    @SilverCrow2528 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice, Ryan! really good news and thank you for the video, I was needing that hahaha
    well
    I have a question and maybe you can answer (I hope)
    I'm moving to USA next year, Maryland, to be more specific... Can I change my name before becoming an american citizen?

    • @devilssemblance5938
      @devilssemblance5938 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you must become a citizen of the united States in order to change it here, however you can change it in your home country and it will be absolutely valid here

    • @SilverCrow2528
      @SilverCrow2528 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ooh nice, thanks for the information! I actually thought it was like the way you said. But it's nice to know for sure now. (:
      And, well.. Can you tell me if I can have access to all the process of transition (psychological and medical and my first shot) before becoming citizen? Cause' here I can't because of the money, that I don't have (too expensive and lack of experienced professionals) and I live with my parents for now.. I couldn't start anything yet :(

    • @devilssemblance5938
      @devilssemblance5938 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well, I know you can seek therapy and other professional help but you'll need to have some kind of insurance like Medicaid or Blue Cross Blue Shield. you also might be better off asking the therapist/psychiatrist if they would categorize your therapy under "depression/anxiety" so that your insurance will completely cover it. you may have some issues with insurance until you become a citizen, but other than that it shouldn't be all that difficult. however, top surgery, T, and bottom Surgeries are in no way covered by most insurance plans here in the US I suggest saving up, cause it can range anywhere from 7-10 thousand for top surgery, and its even worse with bottom surgery due to the multiple procedures. I haven't even started T yet due to financial issues, but if you save up, as I am, you'll be able to afford it, especially if you get help from places like Planned Parenthood.

    • @SilverCrow2528
      @SilverCrow2528 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll try this then
      I know I have to pay for surgeries and T, that's not the problem.. The only thing I really am worried about is the first steps to get to T. That's it, and if I can do this before becoming a citizen.. I'm more than happy! Much less chances to be depressed or angry though
      Becoming a citizen is like 5 years or so, huh? If I have to wait until my 27 years old... omg, I'd be really mad

    • @devilssemblance5938
      @devilssemblance5938 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not sure how long it takes but I do know it can be lengthy unless you marry a legal citizen, then you'd be a citizen by default

  • @isabellana4938
    @isabellana4938 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where did you get your shirt from?

  • @siggyrockstv
    @siggyrockstv 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Ryan :)

  • @jacobcrow5419
    @jacobcrow5419 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm happy with u 😊

  • @3239477253
    @3239477253 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    yay😊

  • @simplymatt13
    @simplymatt13 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😍😍

  • @nataliapelc8547
    @nataliapelc8547 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you're my crush from right now loooove

  • @Maryam7862010
    @Maryam7862010 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    How old are you?

    • @RyanJacobsFlores
      @RyanJacobsFlores  8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Turning 19 on the 27th of August. Woop woop :)

    • @Maryam7862010
      @Maryam7862010 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ooh, I turned 19 this year haha and today is the 27th of August so happy birthday haha

  • @PrestonGarvey4President
    @PrestonGarvey4President 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just wanna be moss.

  • @ThizIzNery
    @ThizIzNery 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    U are so cute and handsome

  • @anotheridiotisme
    @anotheridiotisme 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We’re u a girl?

    • @RyanJacobsFlores
      @RyanJacobsFlores  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have always been a man, I just didn’t always know it

  • @EmilyMarabella
    @EmilyMarabella 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    literally be mine

  • @nasnas6067
    @nasnas6067 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so if u happen to go to jail or you going to female or male?

  • @supportersofcheguevaraandc5551
    @supportersofcheguevaraandc5551 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Look at ur t-shirt !!! there is à words in arabic , The name oF God Is Aroz

    • @ThizIzNery
      @ThizIzNery 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who the fuck is aroz?
      There is only one god ALLAH

  • @godisgoodjesusgood1945
    @godisgoodjesusgood1945 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jesus loves you

  • @MeadeSkeltonMusic
    @MeadeSkeltonMusic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Still a girl.

    • @ajayeasterling1328
      @ajayeasterling1328 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Meade Music never was a girl**

    • @andrew69007
      @andrew69007 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      still a worthless piece of shit that’s so unhappy with his own shitty life that he has to come shoot people down on the internet to bring himself up.

    • @narutouzamaki8739
      @narutouzamaki8739 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meade Music still a boy

  • @JhozaeAkai
    @JhozaeAkai 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so helpful i am in the process of transitioning. I changed my license to Female already. Now im working on the name change and i needed to know if i needed to go through my legal services at my doctors

    • @tahdett
      @tahdett 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jhozaé Starr congratulations!!! This is late obviously but still congrats!!