we all know that…. but it’s the white dudes mainly on Tiktok that r making everything u said jokes and calling it “dark humor” making a new kind of “dark humor” amongst mainly guys. Wait… I lowk think I read wyt u said wrong… IM SORRY IF I DID I think ur saying exactly what I’m saying…
i agree but for example if i were to say “what’s the difference between an orphan and an apple” and then followed up with “one has a family tree” or “one gets picked” it’s not based off my experience but it’s still dark humor. i think it can be dark humor as long as it’s not disrespectful or immoral like racism, transphobic, ect.
They call Megan masculine when she be getting her hair, makeup and nails done everyday, she's one of the most feminine women I follow. Zendaya had a whole tomboy phase and no one questions her femininity.
@@starlita_baby what part of megan is aggresive?💀and being overly sexual isn't a masculine trait, its associated with feminine women who want to be sexually liberated.
Yeah ! It’s crazy NOT to think like it. Like at least think about the futur child or if you’re selfish think about you, it won’t help you to have a child. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I mean, Whew Chile. Look at How many kids or those young/teen couples channel that are now pregnant. If you have seen theshaderoomteens, So many of those young couples broken up, and became so toxic. While the Girl is pregnant.. it's ridiculous. Everyone wants a "mini me", even on my snap I see it. Everyone wants someone "who could represent them", not understanding every baby has a personality that may be different than yours. They be in the worst relationship ever, no communication skills, no respect for one another. Yet has a baby. Look at Dani Leigh & Dababy. I fear for this generation with a lot things.
@@gentleauroraasmr8562 PREACH🙏 my parent loved each other and raised me in a ‘healthy environment’ and still messed me up… I feel bad for these kids cause they are going to be so emotional damaged if not by their parents the all the shit their parent do publicly. I could never understand bringing a child into this world without ensuring they could flourish
@@Anne-MarieJ Right! Thats why I restrict myself from having children sometimes, and my parents especially my father supports that a lot of times because he tells me, it's a huge responsibility. No time for yourself, theirs always a little one following you, your bank account Is flooded with having so much things to buy & pay for...etc it's a lot and it takes a toll on a lot of people. That's why mothers sucide, and post partum depression is increasing by the second... It's too much, for one person let alone having many kids. Everything you do, Literally you have to do it for your child. And with how dangerous the world is, and how it keeps going. I don't think children are the best thing to happen right now. Sometime I think it's selfish to bring a child into this evil, cruel world just for the sake of your own happiness. But you know that's just my opinion, and I can't just completely say & think that because one day "as everyone say I may change my mind", and I don't want to be seen as a hypocrite for what I said. Also the system is not good, and too much children are being killed, raped, assaulted, beaten..etc by the system. There's just a lot of factors on why I restrict having children sometimes...
Fr. Every part of it has been exploited at least once. Talking from my country’s history, Egypt, it has been targeted throughout history and history shows the amount of occupations and tragedy we Egyptians suffered. Not just us but all of Africa suffered for so long but I hope that one day we all rise
True…but it may also be unpopular bc people would rather believe that African countries (those typically considered ‘3rd world’) are responsible for the state they’re in today rather than accepting the role THEIR own countries took in putting said African countries on their current trajectory
@@marycatherine5424 well even though most of the tragedy came from foreigners it doesn’t mean that countries dont have one or two bad presidents so maybe bad stuff coming from the outside plus some bad people in the inside can lead to this situation
@@kat3ph0bic61 it’s normal to take a gap year u should take one if u really want to. I’m currently in mine n honestly I’ve taken a gap year because I just got so sick of college n people. It’s brought me peace n time to myself to help myself n better myself. I’m less stressed and I have time to look for work n other things. It’s not embarrassing or shameful.
@@hairstylesgalore2375 tell me about it and the commercial where she talks about being like told to do sports and she did but changed her mind and omg I literally not even went shopping I’m gonna use the word tried cuz I could not find shoes to fit these big steppers
i also agree that everyone has a type. the only thing i don’t like abt it is when ppl use it to mask fetishization, racism, objectification and so on. there’s a difference between simply being attracted to certain groups of ppl & fetishizing them based on stereotypes (i.e., liking East Asians bc we are “innocent/childlike,” “dainty,” “submissive,” and so on). i feel like too many ppl have it twisted 😭
As an Eritrean - a country in Africa, you are 100% right. Colonisation, war for freedom, dictatorship and bad leadership have done a number to Africa and her people across the continent. It’s sad 😞
I have a question for you. Y do East African make it known that their East African instead of saying I’m just African . Like other Africans don’t say their region . Ex: someone from Nigeria may not say I’m west African , someone from Egypt might not say I’m North African but East African say their region
@@0nly.bhadbby40 Idk about you but I always hear from Egyptians, Moroccans and Algerians etc. how they're North African here in Germany. They dont say African to avoid "confusion" among some.
Majority of the people that dislike Timothée are honestly so bitter, like there hasn’t been an actor as young as him reaching the same success critically as-well as in publicly since Leo DiCaprio in the 90’s and they can’t stand it 😵💫
I have nothing against his acting or anything I just don’t get the hype about his looks like yeah he looks good but people make him seem like a god and sorry but he ain’t it
@@someoneyoumayormaynotknow3924 It’s his looks his personality and acting skills people like But it’s honestly fine not to like him as much as everyone else
First of all, i live the pixi cut. Secondly, the fetishisation of hijabi women is a thing that I'm only now starting to see. There are so many sinister undertones to the sexualisation of hijabs and those who choose to wear it. Being a hijabi myself, i can say that the whole point of wearing the head scarf is to remove that aspect of sexuality, and adds a layer of privacy. So when it is presented in a way that is overtly sexual, it doesn't really make sense to me. And it's scary how the industry will take anything and connect it to sexuality just because the 'basic' stuff doesn't work anymore.
Exactly. People want to sexualize everything, even things that are supposed to make the individual feel safe/have an aspect of privacy. It’s either they’re disrespecting hijabi women & being blatantly racist, or overtly disrespecting them by sexualizing something that’s supposed to do the opposite. Truly sickening.
Yessssss! And I'll add that some sickos sexualise burqa! They fantasize about the woman body under her burqa and "she must have really sexy body under that" mindset and makes me sick that they breath the same air as us!
@@bakaplier3809 Truly. Sometimes it feels like men want to take away everything that’s supposed to make a woman feel safe/in control. It’s limiting and makes me feel sad that they even *want* to do something like that.
Like Kenya has said about Timothée, a lot of theater kids hate him because he has the success they want and others hate him because they don't think he should be able to achieve this success, despite the fact that he's actually talented, unlike some of his peers. But I guess that also bothers him, it's easy to dismiss someone when they're not good at what they're successiding
My opinion: Avoiding fast fashion is a rich people problem and not the working class’s. There are some people like myself who cannot afford high end brands and cannot thrift coz there is literally no option where I live. H&M and ZARA are considered high-end brands in India or atleast among the people i know. Meanwhile the rich influencers all over the world doing shein hauls and following this awful trend of “never repeating clothes for the insta grid” is what is truly harmful. Everyone needs to be careful and not over-consume but I feel that in majority, the rich are the ones who have the money to overconsume.
Actually yeah, I'm from Argentina and that kind of "fast fashion" are just cheaper clothes that we'll use for years lol. All that stuff about "never repeating" is more rich first world problems, working class could never
I completely agree. I'm lower middle class, and live somewhere with a difficult climate and very few thrift options. My wardrobe is mostly hand-me-downs from my aunts/mom, and 'fast fashion' I've worn for 5+ years. Our money has to go towards good winter gear, not those $400 shein hauls. 🙄😮💨
@@milaailyn4701 Exactly!! I still have clothes dating back till 2013. I have the habit of using them till it is not wearable and after that I try to repurpose it. In India, it is very common and popular to buy raw clothing materials and get them stitched from local tailors but it has its limitations. That is one good thing where I live which promotes local artisans.
@@detcom2782 My family is moderate by Indian standards. I have several hand me downs from my mom too! My mom is good at altering sizes by hand stitching and I love her wardrobe so that is one good thing. We also have domestic helpers who are happy to take the clothes we dont want. (Also common here) I will never understand why people just throw clothes away and not donate them.
As a south asian I can also relate to therapy being non existent to us. Especially our parents. We also have to hear the same thing “youre being ungrateful, youre not appreciating your blessings that God gave you, pray harder” ive even heard people say “psychos go to therapy”. We’re pretty much shunned for even talking about mental health and therapy.
@@kaylalaufeyson8828 in my youth thing at church, the youth pastor always said that if we feel like we may have a mental illness or feel like we need help, we need to ask for help. Idk why people think it’s one or the other
same thing for Filipinos 🥲 my sister was diagnosed with bipolar depressions a few years back & all my parents did was say that she is crazy & that it isn’t even real. they made her lie during therapy as well :/
Same im mexican and i had to ask my mom for help because im deeply struggling with depression and they just don’t get it , it made me feel worse nd more alone . They don’t understand the severity of depression and how it can completely leave u incapable of going on
honestly i feel like if i didn't convince my filipino parents that i was serious about my agnosticism, they probably wouldn't have let me go to therapy and had just kept telling me to keep praying 😑
Girl you are so right, Kpop really has begun to move away from the thing that drew me in, the language and unique sound to their music. So ready for a kpop vid cause the issues are THERE (weight obsession, white washing, not allowing their idols to date anyone, fans being obsessed to an extreme etc.)
The unique sound and language is still there. The people who think it isn't are most definitely those people who only listen to BTS or BLACKPINK. Since, BTS started westernizing a lot (i.e, releasing English pop songs ) , and BLACKPINK are really jus models at this point, they haven't released music for a long time. So, I see why people may say this. But K-pop is a whole @ss industry. If we exclude BTS and BLACKPINK, the music is still there. There are many artists and groups who make absolutely amazing music and represent their culture pretty well, but they aren't jus popular as these two big groups. So, you need to dig a bit deeper. Also, the other issues you mentioned about kpop, I agree. This industry is really toxic and dark.
@@skxmyne I definitely agree with you, looking at the only popular groups isnt a whole representation of the industry, but even like groups like EXO, NCT or twice which aren’t as big but still pretty well known have that western image. You’re right smaller groups like highlight, SF9, Stray Kids, Infinite, B.A.P are more cultured, but don’t get the same recognition. (P.s. it’s been a few years since I left the kpop fandom so sorry if somethings have changed n I don’t know about it)
@@-k5214 I think groups like NCT, TXT, ONEUS and ONEWE, ATEEZ should be more popular than they are. I don’t really agree that nct is westernized bc they experiment with every song, but maybe that’s just me. But yeah I agree
@@-k5214 EXO has been on a hiatus for so long . And one song can't be the reason to call them "westernized". Twice and NCT are pretty popular but when I tell you that their music is definitely not westernized. Twice started with acute concept but they grew into a more mature and elegant concept but I think they are one of the only GG's who represent K-pop very well across the globe . So, is NCT. NCT has been doing the powerful /hip hop EDM music from the beginning . I don't think excluding BTS and BLACKPINK, any other group have ever left their culture and language or the genre they were doing. And as a stay , I can guarantee you that SKZ is doing amazing to represent K-pop . Their music is really great . I am a multi stan tho!
im a directioner and as much as i miss and love one direction, the band was awful for their mental health and ik they’re all doing so much better now in their solo careers. they’ve all changed and it really would not be the same as it was 6-7 years ago. i feel so blessed to have gone to two one direction concerts when i was younger!!
i just listen to their albums and watch their old concert videos occasionally, I'm proud of their discography and it still holds up well to this day. That's it I honestly don't want the band back together 💀
@@aahana4931 Honestly same. Do they even like eachother anymore? If it's not authentic and with all the members, I don't want it. I think the era has passed as well which is okay
ugh i remember my ex would say things like “Megan thee stallion is a man” and “i could never date a tall girl that’s an automatic turn off” looking back i wish i slapped him across the face and said you could never get with any of these woman anyways because your a little insecure boy.
I think you need to have some kind of hate in your heart to say stuff like that about a person that hasn't done anything to you :( also obviously she's gorgeous
Unpopular Opinion: Boyz was TRASH. I thought the same as you, but I can't go back to it, especially after the scandal. It's sad because Jesy could've done R&B in a respectful manner. I'm thinking sultry, mid tempo or ballads because her voice is amazing and emotion driven and I do want to hear her head voice, agility, and every side of her voice and hear her improve, but she really let a lot of people down. And even though she said she's proud of her first solo work, I don't think she's satisfied.
she's irrelevant asf after what she said about leigh anne jesy needs to know that little mix made her career. Boyz in general was an atrocious song, D tier
People say the same thing about Michelle Obama(say she's a man) it's like pattern, people live to masculinize black women with a darker skin tone like didn't she carry both her 2 daughters? And she's very beautiful and feminine too.
Thank you for saying this as a hijabi woman. The fetishism is real and scary. And about Africa it's a fucking continent and the most diverse in the world.
Speaking of the Zendaya and Meghan comparison Keisha made.They don't know what they want!! I've seen some comments where people say zendaya is "too skinny",now Meghan who's like an inch shorter than her gets called "too big". You'll never win !!
making social media for your babies is so weird... also if your BABY has like a million followers at some point you HAVE to wonder who these people are and why they're so invested in your child...?? like are you not concerned??
Thank you. I've said teen mom should be cancelled for years. They have been filmed since they were in the WOMB DOG and now they're like fourteen. These people could have done like one or two seasons and save money but at no point thought maybe I should get a difference source of income so my kid can have privacy. I mean you especially need privacy in your childhood. Camera crews filming kids potty training? Wtf.
I think Liam Payne is kind of lost in his solo career and he knows the fans like it when he talks about the band and that’s why he’s the one talking the most about One Direction, but AS HE SHOULD tbh he was part of one of the biggest music sensation in the world, he has every right to be proud of it and miss it and talk about it all he wants He also said it almost killed him tho, I invite everyone to watch his interview with Steve Bartlett, he’s very vulnerable in it, he talks about what really happened and how he feels about everything
Omg this is so true, he totally reinvented himself with Strip That Down but then after that his solo career kinda went downfall a little bit. Liam's so talented and I wish him and his career the best
The looks thing is so true. While yes it sucks that you get judge based off your looks and treated differently, that's just how this world works and has been run on for centuries now. It's one of those things that people just have to learn how to make it work in their favor, because it's gonna vary.
omg the part about black ppl not willing to learn about mental health…YES. it’s so damn annoying. if i tell my mom anything about therapy, she shuts it down completely. literally ridiculous 💀 also i definitely agree with what you said about k pop starting to shift away from korean. i was just saying the other day that i feel like BTS especially is starting to cater to western culture a lot more now which sucks because i feel like they were forced into it
"Black people don't know what therapy is" Counterpoint; The difficulty in finding a black therapist discourages many black people from giving therapy a shot. More black people need to become therapists.
Someones on Twitter said something similar several months the ago about not having kids of you aren't emotionally or financially stable and were calling it genocide.🤦🏾♀️ Just because you want a kid does not mean you should have one. Like this should not be controversial.
@@Itzkeisha woooow miss Keisha replied 😭 you're literally the only commentary channel I'm watching and beeeen watching! Luv you and no you very much told the truth
It's annoying that people will shame others for shopping fast fashion because of the terrible labor practices but won't shame people who buy from expensive brands that have the same horrible labor practices but are 10 times the price. People won't come for Urban Outfitters or designer brands, just the cheap brands like Shein.
Right. Its a catch 22. Yes, fast fashion isnt ethically produced but people who buy it also usually can't afford to buy expensive nice ethically made clothing. You can't blame poor people for buying the nicest clothes they can with the budget they have. I hate shopping at Amazon and Wal-Mart because they are corrupt businesses but I also can't afford to not shop there. Instead of blaming people for buying it spend your time going after the root problems. And yes, nobody ever has shit to say about these unethical expensive brands.
Exactly people shop at Walmart Amazon Nike people use Microsoft use iPhones and androids those companies have child labor they pay their workers dust and have horrible work ethics and terrible for the environment but people still use those us broke people can’t have ANYTHING without snobs complaining
another thing about the megan and zendaya thing. same height, but the lightskin is seen as beautiful and the brownskin is literally seen as a MAN. both of them are gorgeous and it’s so sad to see the compassion.
yesss i’ve been waiting for another unpopular opinions video. your point on the exploitation of Africa is spot onnn, it’s a shame thinking of what could’ve been; the way people need to stop saying looks aren’t important because though many of us don’t think they are the be all and end all, humans are visual creatures and it seems a tad naïve to ignore that. NO CRUMBS WERE LEFT…
My opinion on thrifting: IT DOES NOT WORK FOR EVERYONE. Especially depending on where you live. I have tried thrifting and I absolutely hated it after it got delivered and in 99% cases they do not accept returns. There are no decent thrift stores. There is lesser size range. Lesser options to buy. And honestly, I would much rather get a fresh new piece than an old one. They are not always in the best condition.
I’ve never online thrifted cause I hate the concept but love it IRL only because I have quite a few decent stores near me, if I didn’t I wouldn’t thrift
The singing one is so true, I hate hearing people praising people for hitting a high note like its the epitome of good singing when its really not. I also completely agree that people don't take having a child anywhere near seriously enough. If you are not financially, emotionally and so forth ready? Man you can fuck up someones entire life with the smallest things in their early childhood. You have to be ready to give a good example of an upright, mature person to your child. So many couples just having kids cos its the social norm is scary af
Reminder: Having a child is a choice, not a requirement. If you're parents are still forcing you to get married and have kids even though you don't like it, send them to the retirement home.😍❤
Not even a minute in the video, and you are already telling it like it is, which made my mouth drop tbh, and I loved every second of this video. BTW you have been serving looks lately!!!
ikr my mouth fell to the floor when she addressed her old friend or whoever this person is. i love how she keeps it real and doesn’t take shit from no one.
First of all love her unpopular opinions 💟💟 Second : totally agree with the Africa situation. As someone who lives in South Africa Cape Town We are literally seen only as a charity case waiting for some billionaire to say "yes i donated to the underprivileged in South Africa " There's so much underprivileged people across the globe who need so much and people wanna focus only focus on Africa... It's so irritating and sad really
I honestly believe the biggest problem facing African countries is corruption from the leaders. Goodness, I'm Kenyan and holy shit, the nerve of this grown ass men!
Yes! We need to STOP shaming people for buying fast fashion! Edit: obviously if they cannot afford to buy sustainably and if they buy minimally and thrift etc.
@@cheerupbaby7792 bro if they can't afford otherwise, we have to leave them be. If they make efforts and buy minimally and thrift, we can't really crucify them tbh
@@pipelayomimiko doesn't fast fashion use workers who they pay cents ? People have the right to shame people for buying it then. People could find clothing before fast fashion websites so acting like it's the only option ? It's not.
@@soso-mx8nb we should be shaming everyone then tf. Cause everyone has brought and probably owns something they brought from a company that exploits. I’m looking at you Apple. In conclusion it is the company’s fault and will always be.
@ayse you are calling me privelaged when you admit you're rich and it's great you admit these things but I actually have been poor and shopped at thrift stores etc. Let's not act like poor peoples only option is sheen lmao. Like what rich people contribute more so let other people buy from there ? It's still horrible.
What you said about non black pop stars having a "black era and/or trying to act black" is so true. I'm glad there are a couple people like Shawn Mendes and Harry Styles who haven't done that stuff but yeah I definitely remember Miley, Justin and even (pls don't kill me for this) Taylor Swifts little moment during the Shake it off video. I even remember miss Camila Cabello getting a perm and laying her baby hairs. With the stuff she's done in the past plus how she acted when her dancer did blackface...yeah very uncomfortable.
@@see6934 trust me I know about their past. I'm not dumb. But we are talking about having a "Black Era" not who said some bad shit. Both Harry and Shawn are not making music to sound black or wearing clothes that appropriate the culture. MY culture as well btw.
@@nadiahassan2030 my culture as well. I'm not out here defending some washed up white boys. Harry was out there disrespecting black people during his one direction era and Shawn tweeted some stvpid ignorant thing on black people
@@see6934 once again. I am talking about them having a black era. As in gaining money pretending to act black in their music. Again I know about the stupid shit they did and no way in hell will I justify what they did. But I'm talking about their career and music. S and H aren't trying to act black career wise. They both make basic pop songs. They aren't running around like justin and miley with locs and screaming about how their music "isn't pop it's r&b" like what Justin's doing.
Friendly comment: Parenting is NOT an easy task. You never know what happens until it happens to you. I literally thought the same way. ... girl I'm trying to understand myself
A note ab singing & belting: basically yelling is frequently mistaken as a “belt” especially when coming from a singer with a half decent tone: they can push the sound forward out of their nose + mouth, jacking up the larynx which causes the vocal chords to bang against each other to make noise. This technique may work for a little while, plenty of singers made a name for themselves by singing that way. But it is NOT sustainable. Note the difference between Christina Aguilera’s “belts” and Ariana Grande’s “belts.” It’s pretty obvious too that over time Christina’s vocal range has shrunk significantly, meanwhile Ariana consistently performs and consistently keeps the range required to perform her discography! I’m willing to bet $30 that in 20 years time when Ariana is the same age as Christina is now, she will have the same vocal range that she has now. Also The women from Abba are a great example of women who don’t default to yelling when singing higher notes
My biggest unpopular opinion is that super religious people are the worst. Do the worst things imaginable and get away with it by hiding behind ‘I’m a child of god I can do no wrong’ it infuriates me.
True a great example would be Roots 1979. There's the one seen with his slave master who is asking the captain of the boat as for the African girl so he could have his way with her but he also said he was a married man and he's a Christian and he doesn't do those things. Literally everybody at the end of the day is a freaking critic and has different motives he end up doing the thing that he said he wanted with her. And she was just an underage child it's really sad. But yes I do agree with you people really should start practicing what they preach more. There's been a lot of Unholy Justified things done out of the name of Christianity but if we're going to come for the whole religious system of belief we need to talk about spiritual belief I don't think it's the same opinion negative views as Christianity and I believe everybody can be their self however I do think people place their own habit views on spirituality and it became a gray area of black and white for them than actually reading between the fine lines.
For the bit about Africa, you mentioned Kenya as one of the countries that people deem as poor & dirty. Because my mom is from Kenya & lived there for the most part of her life before coming to the US, we have the opportunity to visit there every 4-ish years. The media only shows the poverty & the bad stuff there but once you actually visit, you see all the life, family, happiness, culture & beauty that is apart of Kenya, not just the bad stuff that every National Geographic show shows
"I don't think one direction will come back together", honestly speaking deep down every directioner knows this, but there are still a good amount of ppl who believes that Louis will fulfill his promise and stuff like that which I think is just being delusional and this is my unpopular opinion, I feel like louis himself forgot he ever made that promise to us and just isn't into it anymore like harry and Niall....I feel only Liam would want it rn at this point, cause louis is releasing his LT2 album pretty soon, Niall solo music is doing really pretty good and Harry we all know is really happy with everything rn, which I'm really happy about, in the end of the day all directioners just want them to be happy and if they're happy we are even if it's separately, and they do seem pretty happy now, only zayn I feel is kind of in a bad place mentally cause of all that shit that happened recently but hopefully his time with his daughter will make him get back on track in his life again, I just hope even if they don't come back they're just happy and are in good places with the other one,.....
The thing about SHEIN is if u don’t have a lot of money aight that something else, but people who buy like 3000$ STUFF of there nah u ain’t broke. I think that when people get educated and see documentaries off how these POOR CHILDREN work, u are going to feel bad fr and probably stop buying off there.
Unpopular opinion: nostalgia has gotten really toxic Just because someone isn't born in the 90's or early 2000's doesn't make them less that or unworthy of respect Nostalgic channels like Disney or Nickelodeon are not dead they're just progressing A lot of shows or media people found nostalgic is really problematic when you watch it as your older and let the bigoted things be there primary sense of humor All I'm saying is you don't get a medal for knowing older content and stop hating on people who don't have the same nostalgic content as you
I AGREEE. When I watched mean girls I was so shocked at the amount of micro aggressions and slurs 😨 and ppl were telling me “it’s just how the 2000s were” THAT DOES NOT MAKE IT OKAY
Thank you so much Keisha for saying that to single moms! I always see so much misogyny about single mothers, how its their fault for choosing a guy who would 'bound to leave her', like they put all the blame on them yet they just brush aside the guy who made her pregnant and then left because he couldn't take responsibility yet the mother is expected to, but he isn't. Its takes two to tango, but people forget that so easily! This is coming from someone who was taken care of by a single mother since the age of 9, she went through so much mental, emotional and physical pain just to secure my future, she's an absolute hero
1. When people find out you are going to therapy, they immediately think that you are mad. 2. Respect is earned, not granted. I hate it so much when someone is entitled to respect. 3. Colleges and universities are overrated for majority of study field. If you are aspiring to become a doctor, engineer, lawyer I need you to have a degree. 4. Hold anyone accountable! I don't care if it's you brother, mother, bff,...every single one needs to take accountability for their wrongdoings. 5. Stop trying to please everybody! Do what you want and be unapologetically yourself. If you don't, you'd be very miserable. My unpopular opinions.
It blows my mind that people like to be taller them selves, but when someone is taller than average they try to sabotage them..... Most fashion models are 5:10 to 6 or more......
*FREE THERAPY TIP!!!!* In my area, Ohio, if you were appointed a court counselor as a minor and you're older now, you can go back to that therapist at any point of time and the court will pay for it since you already saw them. I was in trouble as a kid on probation and stuff and was appointed my court therapist. 5 years later and I just called the courthouse, got his number, and started seeing him again. I tried to discuss cost with him because I have no insurance and he explained to me how the courts pay for it because they originally reccomended me to begin with. He is the best therapist I've ever had and will be retiring soon :(♡
I believe if you're working on being successful you don't really have to struggle necessarily I'm not saying be lazy but you don't have to put your health or yourself at risk .it doesn't mean you are weak. You could still work hard and put effort into your work and still take care of yourself. I feel that there are some toxic masculinity Concepts that need to be debunked. And also I feel like mental health is still stigmatized to this day and people only talk about depression and anxiety but also need to be educated on other mental health disorders as well as ones that are not normally talked about.
(Kinda) related to the point about people still thinking Africa’s a country… gurl my parents would tell me about how in the early 90s when they first came to the US, they’d tell people they’re from South Africa and the subsequent question would be, “oh which country?” Like 🤦🏽♀️
Legit so true about the Episodes thing. I was really into that from 13-16 because I wanted to support a friend who wrote their stories on there and also I liked a sci-fi and a murder mystery story that use to do well. But then you notice a lack of inclusivity. People had a whole thing with Episodes that made them include more LGBT and POCs. Then after that all their stories turned into middle age women/men fantasies. 50 shades. Rich guy or older person exploits poor girl/ young person. Toxic romances. Incest. Teen pregnancy. Just way too much predatory vibez and bad behaviors being romanticized. Just a poor use of writing. It really worries me how obsessed with s*x the adults of this society want children to be.
Yeah. I have family there and visited some of my parents friends and those houses were one of the best homes I have seen better than a lot in America. Each country has the bad and good. America has places just as bad as some places in Nigeria vice versa
The fact that Justin and Selena were together for less than 2 years in total speaks volumes, maybe even 1.5 years. BOTH of them were so toxic to eachother, yes they had insane chemistry but they should be as far away from eachother as possible. They moved of and so should fans.
They were together for 8 years on and off. So i get why fans are so atta hed to eachother. But either the Jelena stans must STOP. Eveybody has moved on so should the fans.
I agree about the type thing, but there is a line that could be crossed to fetishization. One example, I prefer people who speak Spanish and English because I speak Spanish a lot, and I don't want to limit myself. However, the moment it becomes obsessive, but the person just wants the stereotypes, it is weird. I think people just assume that if you mention something other than personality, it is the latter rather than it being a type
Queen moves. She is literally the only non muslim youtuber that brings up muslims in a positive way and not like a media slave and I AM HERE FOR IT. I said what I said.
Yes Africa as a continent is so exploited & is being colonized all over again but some of these leaders are not helping. A couple days ago the president of Uganda gave away the country’s international airport to a Chinese bank 😔💔
Women should support eachother in this patriarchy that exploit women/girls & children to the point it becomes the norm…I can empathize with Dani, but also call out her immaturity & wrongful actions. There’s no point in holding ppl accountable if they don’t Get the opportunity to grow & make better descition (ofc there are exceptions & I’m tired of women giving men far more passes & cut women when brainwashed to please men & Search for their acceptance !) …let’s talk abt misogyny, misogynynoir & homophobia & all these other social constructions & restrictions ppl go through!
You're right about the whole pray and you'll get better thing because I've experienced that. I was staying with my aunt, I remember we were getting ready for church, I'm someone who wears contacts because I can't see without them I could literally go blind at any second and I got my contact stuck in the corner of my eye and my aunt was like "pray Jesus will make your contact fall out". lets just say me and my aunt aren't on good terms after that.
about the 1d thing you're right... louis in an interview said if they didn't get back together before he turned 30 than it would never happen, and he wouldn't want to, and guess who's turning 30 in one month? he is! lol they're all enjoying their solo careers anyway so it's not gonna happen
Agreed on about Timothée. He's a sweetheart, he shouldn't be hated at all, he's so kind and genuine, I actually think there's some celebrities that are very full of themselves, but I just don't see it in him at all, I adore him dearly.
UO: The biggest problem in the black community is a lacking of healing, not a lack of education. While the black community does need to be educated on certain things, healing is the number one thing holding us back. It's sad that so many black people, especially older ones think they don't need therapy or any sort of method to heal from the trauma they are holding onto for dear life. They're riding the 'I made it this far' train. Made it this far and you're still a hot mess. I get that therapy can be expensive but, there are discounted options out there. That's the reason I can afford it. If you can drop some money on the latest sneakers, designer bags, nice vacations, new phones, then you can spend some money on to better yourself.
Adults and elderly in the black community should stop disrespecting the younger ones. Like yeah some of us are disrespectful but adult are taking it to another level of disrespect. From the 'sbarky' comments to not taking good advice from us.
Hey Keisha!! I love the point you made about Africa and African countries. So refreshing to know there’s people like you who ACTUALLY get it. I love your channel, all the way from Nigeria 🇳🇬 🤍 !! Edit: The Halsey and SZA imitations took me out 🤣💀
As a mom of a 3 year old and expecting my second any time now I agree you have no be careful of what you put out of your child because of the sickos in this world. I decided not to even post anything about my kids on the media anymore awhile ago. The last thing people saw of my 3 year old is him in a shirt that said upgrading to big brother. I'm still going to be taking pictures and videos of my kids because hello memories but the only people who will be seeing them are who are close to us
Thank you so much on tackling the topic of height, I’m the 5’10” as well and my height’s been always something I felt embarrassed about. Feels nice when someone is defending tall women
I live in south Africa and I've been asked questions like "why am I white" People are so ignorant when it comes to Africa. The questions I've been asked.. "do you have water?" "why do you live in a house I you're in Africa?"🤦 I wish people could be more educated on this nation. It can be so beautiful.
Never heard of anyone calling Meg masculine because of her height. I still don't understand why being tall is related to masculinity, there are short guys too- that doesn't make them feminine, just short.
Thank you Keisha, I’m from Kenya and we literally have everything here…what they show on commercials are the really less developed areas but for the most part, most of us are well educated, well travelled and have lacked nothing…NOTHING!!!!
Same with us in America. It seems as though we are all deemed as uneducated, violent, unhealthy and we are all from the projects, when that is definitely not the case. I hate how people can believe anything they see on tv and run with it.
Girl you are serving us everything today. You are serving blunt ass opinions, as well as some opinions that are facts. You are serving face and hair. You are serving energy. We love it! We are here for all of it!
unpopular opinions : How a person views money is very telling when dating. Knowingly being involved with men in relationships is weird I’ll probably die without seeing a porcupine in the wild I don’t support the one drop rule, intersectional identities are valid. There should be more done to promote ethical consumption
yeah imma need that kpop video please, cuz..... i've been feeling weird about it for some time and i need someone to agree with me ahahah but its not just about like culture appropriation. What do you think about the relashionship between the idol and its fans. The fact that male idols treat fan girls like theyre girlfriends but like... not even in a fake way its like they actually feel that way about their fans... and the fact that most fans are in love with them and do things for them because of it yet dont even know the idol and their personal lives, anyway to me that "relashionship" is weird and very psychological and too "intense'' most of the time, like manipulation is involded (even if they dont mean to do it) and the way they were trained to act that way, etc. its something to explore... people briefly talk about like...the obssesion and fantasy but they dont elaborate. How can someone make another person "they've never seen" love them so much, at the point were the idol is the only person in the world that matters to the fan, yet neither of them actually know each other on a personal level...i hope you see my comment !!!!
"You can get away with anything if you're attractive" I still remember when Wendy gushed over the "hot felon" Jeremy Meeks' mugshot on her show. On multiple occasions too.
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Can you make a video on how bad the British media is bullying Meghan Markle please x
I agree with all of this honestly
You look cool with that short hair
Dark humor isn't racist, homophobic, misogynistic, etc jokes. It is making jokes about something dark off YOUR experience, not anybody else's.
Facts
MHM.
exactly
we all know that…. but it’s the white dudes mainly on Tiktok that r making everything u said jokes and calling it “dark humor” making a new kind of “dark humor” amongst mainly guys.
Wait… I lowk think I read wyt u said wrong… IM SORRY IF I DID I think ur saying exactly what I’m saying…
i agree but for example if i were to say “what’s the difference between an orphan and an apple” and then followed up with “one has a family tree” or “one gets picked” it’s not based off my experience but it’s still dark humor. i think it can be dark humor as long as it’s not disrespectful or immoral like racism, transphobic, ect.
They call Megan masculine when she be getting her hair, makeup and nails done everyday, she's one of the most feminine women I follow. Zendaya had a whole tomboy phase and no one questions her femininity.
@unknown person definitely! and racism too.
@unknown person yup plus their shape.. Zendaya has a thin model body and Megan is thicker.. which makes her intimidating to weak ass men
@@starlita_baby what part of megan is aggresive?💀and being overly sexual isn't a masculine trait, its associated with feminine women who want to be sexually liberated.
@@starlita_baby doja cat is over sexual but they arent calling her masculine and I would know I'm a fan
@@user-yz4jg7xl7u hm not really soja cat is a little bit masculine, not in looks tho
The fact that being mentally and financially stable to have a kid is an UNPOPULAR opinion scares me for future generations
Yeah that should be the norm.
Yeah ! It’s crazy NOT to think like it. Like at least think about the futur child or if you’re selfish think about you, it won’t help you to have a child. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I mean, Whew Chile. Look at How many kids or those young/teen couples channel that are now pregnant. If you have seen theshaderoomteens, So many of those young couples broken up, and became so toxic. While the Girl is pregnant.. it's ridiculous. Everyone wants a "mini me", even on my snap I see it. Everyone wants someone "who could represent them", not understanding every baby has a personality that may be different than yours. They be in the worst relationship ever, no communication skills, no respect for one another. Yet has a baby. Look at Dani Leigh & Dababy. I fear for this generation with a lot things.
@@gentleauroraasmr8562 PREACH🙏 my parent loved each other and raised me in a ‘healthy environment’ and still messed me up… I feel bad for these kids cause they are going to be so emotional damaged if not by their parents the all the shit their parent do publicly. I could never understand bringing a child into this world without ensuring they could flourish
@@Anne-MarieJ Right! Thats why I restrict myself from having children sometimes, and my parents especially my father supports that a lot of times because he tells me, it's a huge responsibility. No time for yourself, theirs always a little one following you, your bank account Is flooded with having so much things to buy & pay for...etc it's a lot and it takes a toll on a lot of people. That's why mothers sucide, and post partum depression is increasing by the second... It's too much, for one person let alone having many kids. Everything you do, Literally you have to do it for your child. And with how dangerous the world is, and how it keeps going. I don't think children are the best thing to happen right now. Sometime I think it's selfish to bring a child into this evil, cruel world just for the sake of your own happiness. But you know that's just my opinion, and I can't just completely say & think that because one day "as everyone say I may change my mind", and I don't want to be seen as a hypocrite for what I said. Also the system is not good, and too much children are being killed, raped, assaulted, beaten..etc by the system. There's just a lot of factors on why I restrict having children sometimes...
Never seen someone who suits EVERY hairstyle 😍
Aww stawppp it 😩I don’t really reply to all comment anymore but I gotta show support to those who are here first
It’s the almond face shape - same with Rihanna 🤎
Right??? She doesn't miss
factssss 💚💚
But honestly like wtf
Africa being overexploited is not an unpopular opinion. It’s just not a very well known fact.
Fr. Every part of it has been exploited at least once. Talking from my country’s history, Egypt, it has been targeted throughout history and history shows the amount of occupations and tragedy we Egyptians suffered. Not just us but all of Africa suffered for so long but I hope that one day we all rise
I agree
Absolutely!
True…but it may also be unpopular bc people would rather believe that African countries (those typically considered ‘3rd world’) are responsible for the state they’re in today rather than accepting the role THEIR own countries took in putting said African countries on their current trajectory
@@marycatherine5424 well even though most of the tragedy came from foreigners it doesn’t mean that countries dont have one or two bad presidents so maybe bad stuff coming from the outside plus some bad people in the inside can lead to this situation
unpopular opinion: college isn't for everyone and college shouldn't be forced on kids especially in american highschool.
also in the us we should normalize taking a gap year. i would’ve really benefited from that.
@Josie I want to take a gap year but i feel like it’s not very normal, I don’t know of anyone who’s done it
@@kat3ph0bic61 it’s normal to take a gap year u should take one if u really want to. I’m currently in mine n honestly I’ve taken a gap year because I just got so sick of college n people. It’s brought me peace n time to myself to help myself n better myself. I’m less stressed and I have time to look for work n other things. It’s not embarrassing or shameful.
And it's wayy better to take some time off and figure out what you want to do then to immediately go to college
@@kat3ph0bic61 please do!! Trust me you won't regret
Honestly, seeing other women like Megan who are as tall as me makes me so happy and helped me so much to grow the confidence I have now.
For real
Tell me about it I’m 5’9’ 1/2 and only 16 I think I’m a tad bit taller
@@kehlanijauregui1017 sameeeee
@@hairstylesgalore2375 tell me about it and the commercial where she talks about being like told to do sports and she did but changed her mind and omg I literally not even went shopping I’m gonna use the word tried cuz I could not find shoes to fit these big steppers
Ikrrr
i also agree that everyone has a type. the only thing i don’t like abt it is when ppl use it to mask fetishization, racism, objectification and so on. there’s a difference between simply being attracted to certain groups of ppl & fetishizing them based on stereotypes (i.e., liking East Asians bc we are “innocent/childlike,” “dainty,” “submissive,” and so on). i feel like too many ppl have it twisted 😭
Yeah totally !
Frr Like u can have a "type" but don't go shaming people who don't match that🤷🏽♀️
As an Eritrean - a country in Africa, you are 100% right. Colonisation, war for freedom, dictatorship and bad leadership have done a number to Africa and her people across the continent. It’s sad 😞
I have a question for you. Y do East African make it known that their East African instead of saying I’m just African . Like other Africans don’t say their region .
Ex: someone from Nigeria may not say I’m west African , someone from Egypt might not say I’m North African but East African say their region
@@0nly.bhadbby40 depends on the person.like eg im south african.For comment 👆🏻 this no one trying to be yt.
As a Nigerian I concur. Smh
@@0nly.bhadbby40 Idk about you but I always hear from Egyptians, Moroccans and Algerians etc. how they're North African here in Germany. They dont say African to avoid "confusion" among some.
@@realdavidjones1623 your name sounds very white 😬
Majority of the people that dislike Timothée are honestly so bitter, like there hasn’t been an actor as young as him reaching the same success critically as-well as in publicly since Leo DiCaprio in the 90’s and they can’t stand it 😵💫
Fr
I have nothing against his acting or anything I just don’t get the hype about his looks like yeah he looks good but people make him seem like a god and sorry but he ain’t it
@@someoneyoumayormaynotknow3924 It’s his looks his personality and acting skills people like
But it’s honestly fine not to like him as much as everyone else
Most people don’t “hate” him they just don’t care about him and don’t see the hype like another commenter said. I am one of those people
First of all, i live the pixi cut. Secondly, the fetishisation of hijabi women is a thing that I'm only now starting to see. There are so many sinister undertones to the sexualisation of hijabs and those who choose to wear it. Being a hijabi myself, i can say that the whole point of wearing the head scarf is to remove that aspect of sexuality, and adds a layer of privacy. So when it is presented in a way that is overtly sexual, it doesn't really make sense to me. And it's scary how the industry will take anything and connect it to sexuality just because the 'basic' stuff doesn't work anymore.
Exactly. People want to sexualize everything, even things that are supposed to make the individual feel safe/have an aspect of privacy. It’s either they’re disrespecting hijabi women & being blatantly racist, or overtly disrespecting them by sexualizing something that’s supposed to do the opposite. Truly sickening.
Yessssss! And I'll add that some sickos sexualise burqa! They fantasize about the woman body under her burqa and "she must have really sexy body under that" mindset and makes me sick that they breath the same air as us!
@@bakaplier3809 Truly. Sometimes it feels like men want to take away everything that’s supposed to make a woman feel safe/in control. It’s limiting and makes me feel sad that they even *want* to do something like that.
@@katie5998 couldn't agree more 👏
People will sexualize an elderly woman in a housecoat and pink plastic hair curlers. Hijabis never stood a chance.
Like Kenya has said about Timothée, a lot of theater kids hate him because he has the success they want and others hate him because they don't think he should be able to achieve this success, despite the fact that he's actually talented, unlike some of his peers. But I guess that also bothers him, it's easy to dismiss someone when they're not good at what they're successiding
My opinion: Avoiding fast fashion is a rich people problem and not the working class’s. There are some people like myself who cannot afford high end brands and cannot thrift coz there is literally no option where I live. H&M and ZARA are considered high-end brands in India or atleast among the people i know. Meanwhile the rich influencers all over the world doing shein hauls and following this awful trend of “never repeating clothes for the insta grid” is what is truly harmful. Everyone needs to be careful and not over-consume but I feel that in majority, the rich are the ones who have the money to overconsume.
Actually yeah, I'm from Argentina and that kind of "fast fashion" are just cheaper clothes that we'll use for years lol. All that stuff about "never repeating" is more rich first world problems, working class could never
I completely agree. I'm lower middle class, and live somewhere with a difficult climate and very few thrift options. My wardrobe is mostly hand-me-downs from my aunts/mom, and 'fast fashion' I've worn for 5+ years. Our money has to go towards good winter gear, not those $400 shein hauls. 🙄😮💨
@@milaailyn4701 Exactly!! I still have clothes dating back till 2013. I have the habit of using them till it is not wearable and after that I try to repurpose it. In India, it is very common and popular to buy raw clothing materials and get them stitched from local tailors but it has its limitations. That is one good thing where I live which promotes local artisans.
@@detcom2782 My family is moderate by Indian standards. I have several hand me downs from my mom too! My mom is good at altering sizes by hand stitching and I love her wardrobe so that is one good thing. We also have domestic helpers who are happy to take the clothes we dont want. (Also common here) I will never understand why people just throw clothes away and not donate them.
Period.
As a south asian I can also relate to therapy being non existent to us. Especially our parents. We also have to hear the same thing “youre being ungrateful, youre not appreciating your blessings that God gave you, pray harder” ive even heard people say “psychos go to therapy”. We’re pretty much shunned for even talking about mental health and therapy.
they need to know that you can pray AND go to therapy, God doesn't want us wallowing in sadness and living life in misery.
@@kaylalaufeyson8828 in my youth thing at church, the youth pastor always said that if we feel like we may have a mental illness or feel like we need help, we need to ask for help. Idk why people think it’s one or the other
same thing for Filipinos 🥲 my sister was diagnosed with bipolar depressions a few years back & all my parents did was say that she is crazy & that it isn’t even real. they made her lie during therapy as well :/
Same im mexican and i had to ask my mom for help because im deeply struggling with depression and they just don’t get it , it made me feel worse nd more alone . They don’t understand the severity of depression and how it can completely leave u incapable of going on
honestly i feel like if i didn't convince my filipino parents that i was serious about my agnosticism, they probably wouldn't have let me go to therapy and had just kept telling me to keep praying 😑
Girl you are so right, Kpop really has begun to move away from the thing that drew me in, the language and unique sound to their music. So ready for a kpop vid cause the issues are THERE (weight obsession, white washing, not allowing their idols to date anyone, fans being obsessed to an extreme etc.)
The unique sound and language is still there. The people who think it isn't are most definitely those people who only listen to BTS or BLACKPINK. Since, BTS started westernizing a lot (i.e, releasing English pop songs ) , and BLACKPINK are really jus models at this point, they haven't released music for a long time. So, I see why people may say this. But K-pop is a whole @ss industry. If we exclude BTS and BLACKPINK, the music is still there. There are many artists and groups who make absolutely amazing music and represent their culture pretty well, but they aren't jus popular as these two big groups. So, you need to dig a bit deeper. Also, the other issues you mentioned about kpop, I agree. This industry is really toxic and dark.
@@skxmyne I definitely agree with you, looking at the only popular groups isnt a whole representation of the industry, but even like groups like EXO, NCT or twice which aren’t as big but still pretty well known have that western image. You’re right smaller groups like highlight, SF9, Stray Kids, Infinite, B.A.P are more cultured, but don’t get the same recognition. (P.s. it’s been a few years since I left the kpop fandom so sorry if somethings have changed n I don’t know about it)
@@-k5214 I think groups like NCT, TXT, ONEUS and ONEWE, ATEEZ should be more popular than they are. I don’t really agree that nct is westernized bc they experiment with every song, but maybe that’s just me. But yeah I agree
@@skxmyne Dude, Kpop is already westernized. And BTS ain’t the only one releasing english songs.
@@-k5214 EXO has been on a hiatus for so long . And one song can't be the reason to call them "westernized". Twice and NCT are pretty popular but when I tell you that their music is definitely not westernized. Twice started with acute concept but they grew into a more mature and elegant concept but I think they are one of the only GG's who represent K-pop very well across the globe . So, is NCT. NCT has been doing the powerful /hip hop EDM music from the beginning . I don't think excluding BTS and BLACKPINK, any other group have ever left their culture and language or the genre they were doing.
And as a stay , I can guarantee you that SKZ is doing amazing to represent K-pop . Their music is really great . I am a multi stan tho!
im a directioner and as much as i miss and love one direction, the band was awful for their mental health and ik they’re all doing so much better now in their solo careers. they’ve all changed and it really would not be the same as it was 6-7 years ago. i feel so blessed to have gone to two one direction concerts when i was younger!!
Must be niceeee
i just listen to their albums and watch their old concert videos occasionally, I'm proud of their discography and it still holds up well to this day. That's it I honestly don't want the band back together 💀
@@aahana4931 Honestly same. Do they even like eachother anymore? If it's not authentic and with all the members, I don't want it. I think the era has passed as well which is okay
ugh i remember my ex would say things like “Megan thee stallion is a man” and “i could never date a tall girl that’s an automatic turn off”
looking back i wish i slapped him across the face and said you could never get with any of these woman anyways because your a little insecure boy.
I think you need to have some kind of hate in your heart to say stuff like that about a person that hasn't done anything to you :( also obviously she's gorgeous
@@Anna13Tonks yeah i agree:( he said a lot of mean things like that like i’m pretty sure he just hates woman
@@Anna13Tonks yes, it's rotted in racism dating back to slavery.
Imagine talking sh*t about THE hot girl. and yes, a lot of men have problems with tall girls, like??? are u scared of heights or what???
Good thing he’s you’r ex
Unpopular Opinion: Boyz was TRASH. I thought the same as you, but I can't go back to it, especially after the scandal. It's sad because Jesy could've done R&B in a respectful manner. I'm thinking sultry, mid tempo or ballads because her voice is amazing and emotion driven and I do want to hear her head voice, agility, and every side of her voice and hear her improve, but she really let a lot of people down. And even though she said she's proud of her first solo work, I don't think she's satisfied.
Agreed, the only thing I like about the song is Nicki's verse, that verse belongs on another song.
she is white as fuck and she knows she is privileged but then she painted herself to be poc. she tried to be camila 2.0 but british version
she's irrelevant asf after what she said about leigh anne jesy needs to know that little mix made her career. Boyz in general was an atrocious song, D tier
@@auandaily nope she's the new rita ora 💀💀
People say the same thing about Michelle Obama(say she's a man) it's like pattern, people live to masculinize black women with a darker skin tone like didn't she carry both her 2 daughters? And she's very beautiful and feminine too.
Thank you for saying this as a hijabi woman. The fetishism is real and scary. And about Africa it's a fucking continent and the most diverse in the world.
I’m definitely ready for that K-POP conversation. Don't hold back!
The crazy stans might come for her😭
Toxic fans and racism
RIGHT
PLEASE! There’s a lot to be said
Cultures appropriation of dreads from the Hindus.how tan they're skin suppose to be.some sounding like jay park.
Speaking of the Zendaya and Meghan comparison Keisha made.They don't know what they want!! I've seen some comments where people say zendaya is "too skinny",now Meghan who's like an inch shorter than her gets called "too big". You'll never win !!
This. People really don’t know what they find attractive on women. It’s very clear. But to those people, every woman isn’t made for you.
making social media for your babies is so weird... also if your BABY has like a million followers at some point you HAVE to wonder who these people are and why they're so invested in your child...?? like are you not concerned??
Thank you. I've said teen mom should be cancelled for years. They have been filmed since they were in the WOMB DOG and now they're like fourteen. These people could have done like one or two seasons and save money but at no point thought maybe I should get a difference source of income so my kid can have privacy. I mean you especially need privacy in your childhood. Camera crews filming kids potty training? Wtf.
I think Liam Payne is kind of lost in his solo career and he knows the fans like it when he talks about the band and that’s why he’s the one talking the most about One Direction, but AS HE SHOULD tbh he was part of one of the biggest music sensation in the world, he has every right to be proud of it and miss it and talk about it all he wants
He also said it almost killed him tho, I invite everyone to watch his interview with Steve Bartlett, he’s very vulnerable in it, he talks about what really happened and how he feels about everything
Omg this is so true, he totally reinvented himself with Strip That Down but then after that his solo career kinda went downfall a little bit. Liam's so talented and I wish him and his career the best
The looks thing is so true. While yes it sucks that you get judge based off your looks and treated differently, that's just how this world works and has been run on for centuries now. It's one of those things that people just have to learn how to make it work in their favor, because it's gonna vary.
omg the part about black ppl not willing to learn about mental health…YES. it’s so damn annoying. if i tell my mom anything about therapy, she shuts it down completely. literally ridiculous 💀 also i definitely agree with what you said about k pop starting to shift away from korean. i was just saying the other day that i feel like BTS especially is starting to cater to western culture a lot more now which sucks because i feel like they were forced into it
Oh girl
I lUUUVe the way Keisha is a fan of Justin Bieber but still came for him with the BLACK APPROPRIATION.
Gotta be honest even with your “faves”
When he had those dreads..I KNOWWW his scalp hurt
Yeah I'm a belieber too, we troll him probably more than his haters. He's just dumb
@@Itzkeisha exactly, people need to hold their faves accountable and STOP excusing their actions (i’m looking at you kpop stans)
"Black people don't know what therapy is"
Counterpoint; The difficulty in finding a black therapist discourages many black people from giving therapy a shot. More black people need to become therapists.
i’m omw, class of 2025 !!
@@bre7778 I would like this a thousand times if I could.
Someones on Twitter said something similar several months the ago about not having kids of you aren't emotionally or financially stable and were calling it genocide.🤦🏾♀️ Just because you want a kid does not mean you should have one. Like this should not be controversial.
"the K in K-pop is social distancing" gorl😂
DIE I LIEEE THOUGH?
@@Itzkeisha woooow miss Keisha replied 😭 you're literally the only commentary channel I'm watching and beeeen watching! Luv you and no you very much told the truth
It's annoying that people will shame others for shopping fast fashion because of the terrible labor practices but won't shame people who buy from expensive brands that have the same horrible labor practices but are 10 times the price. People won't come for Urban Outfitters or designer brands, just the cheap brands like Shein.
Right. Its a catch 22. Yes, fast fashion isnt ethically produced but people who buy it also usually can't afford to buy expensive nice ethically made clothing. You can't blame poor people for buying the nicest clothes they can with the budget they have. I hate shopping at Amazon and Wal-Mart because they are corrupt businesses but I also can't afford to not shop there. Instead of blaming people for buying it spend your time going after the root problems. And yes, nobody ever has shit to say about these unethical expensive brands.
Exactly people shop at Walmart Amazon Nike people use Microsoft use iPhones and androids those companies have child labor they pay their workers dust and have horrible work ethics and terrible for the environment but people still use those us broke people can’t have ANYTHING without snobs complaining
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another thing about the megan and zendaya thing. same height, but the lightskin is seen as beautiful and the brownskin is literally seen as a MAN. both of them are gorgeous and it’s so sad to see the compassion.
i listen to kpop daily and i love it sm but the kpop industry have sooo much problems and dark issues and I'd love to see u making a video about it.
yesss i’ve been waiting for another unpopular opinions video. your point on the exploitation of Africa is spot onnn, it’s a shame thinking of what could’ve been; the way people need to stop saying looks aren’t important because though many of us don’t think they are the be all and end all, humans are visual creatures and it seems a tad naïve to ignore that. NO CRUMBS WERE LEFT…
My opinion on thrifting: IT DOES NOT WORK FOR EVERYONE. Especially depending on where you live. I have tried thrifting and I absolutely hated it after it got delivered and in 99% cases they do not accept returns. There are no decent thrift stores. There is lesser size range. Lesser options to buy. And honestly, I would much rather get a fresh new piece than an old one. They are not always in the best condition.
I’ve never online thrifted cause I hate the concept but love it IRL only because I have quite a few decent stores near me, if I didn’t I wouldn’t thrift
Exactly it’s so hard and even real life thrift stores don’t have what I like
Exactly
The singing one is so true, I hate hearing people praising people for hitting a high note like its the epitome of good singing when its really not. I also completely agree that people don't take having a child anywhere near seriously enough. If you are not financially, emotionally and so forth ready? Man you can fuck up someones entire life with the smallest things in their early childhood. You have to be ready to give a good example of an upright, mature person to your child. So many couples just having kids cos its the social norm is scary af
Reminder: Having a child is a choice, not a requirement. If you're parents are still forcing you to get married and have kids even though you don't like it, send them to the retirement home.😍❤
Not even a minute in the video, and you are already telling it like it is, which made my mouth drop tbh, and I loved every second of this video. BTW you have been serving looks lately!!!
Thank you Shana I appreciate that babe
right thats what i LOVE about keisha!! she always keeps it real
ikr my mouth fell to the floor when she addressed her old friend or whoever this person is. i love how she keeps it real and doesn’t take shit from no one.
First of all love her unpopular opinions 💟💟
Second : totally agree with the Africa situation.
As someone who lives in South Africa Cape Town
We are literally seen only as a charity case waiting for some billionaire to say "yes i donated to the underprivileged in South Africa "
There's so much underprivileged people across the globe who need so much and people wanna focus only focus on Africa...
It's so irritating and sad really
I honestly believe the biggest problem facing African countries is corruption from the leaders. Goodness, I'm Kenyan and holy shit, the nerve of this grown ass men!
Yes! We need to STOP shaming people for buying fast fashion!
Edit: obviously if they cannot afford to buy sustainably and if they buy minimally and thrift etc.
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@@cheerupbaby7792 bro if they can't afford otherwise, we have to leave them be. If they make efforts and buy minimally and thrift, we can't really crucify them tbh
@@pipelayomimiko doesn't fast fashion use workers who they pay cents ? People have the right to shame people for buying it then. People could find clothing before fast fashion websites so acting like it's the only option ? It's not.
@@soso-mx8nb we should be shaming everyone then tf. Cause everyone has brought and probably owns something they brought from a company that exploits. I’m looking at you Apple. In conclusion it is the company’s fault and will always be.
@ayse you are calling me privelaged when you admit you're rich and it's great you admit these things but I actually have been poor and shopped at thrift stores etc. Let's not act like poor peoples only option is sheen lmao. Like what rich people contribute more so let other people buy from there ? It's still horrible.
What you said about non black pop stars having a "black era and/or trying to act black" is so true. I'm glad there are a couple people like Shawn Mendes and Harry Styles who haven't done that stuff but yeah I definitely remember Miley, Justin and even (pls don't kill me for this) Taylor Swifts little moment during the Shake it off video. I even remember miss Camila Cabello getting a perm and laying her baby hairs. With the stuff she's done in the past plus how she acted when her dancer did blackface...yeah very uncomfortable.
Harry and Shawn have both insulted black people. Honey do your research
@@see6934 trust me I know about their past. I'm not dumb. But we are talking about having a "Black Era" not who said some bad shit. Both Harry and Shawn are not making music to sound black or wearing clothes that appropriate the culture. MY culture as well btw.
@@nadiahassan2030 my culture as well. I'm not out here defending some washed up white boys. Harry was out there disrespecting black people during his one direction era and Shawn tweeted some stvpid ignorant thing on black people
@@see6934 once again. I am talking about them having a black era. As in gaining money pretending to act black in their music. Again I know about the stupid shit they did and no way in hell will I justify what they did. But I'm talking about their career and music. S and H aren't trying to act black career wise. They both make basic pop songs. They aren't running around like justin and miley with locs and screaming about how their music "isn't pop it's r&b" like what Justin's doing.
@@see6934 and what did he do?
What I learned (or realized again) is that you cannot be a billionaire without ruining someone's (make that plural) life...so, yeah...
YEAH YEAH YEAH
Not just billionaires, millionaires as well
Friendly comment: Parenting is NOT an easy task. You never know what happens until it happens to you. I literally thought the same way. ... girl I'm trying to understand myself
A note ab singing & belting: basically yelling is frequently mistaken as a “belt” especially when coming from a singer with a half decent tone: they can push the sound forward out of their nose + mouth, jacking up the larynx which causes the vocal chords to bang against each other to make noise. This technique may work for a little while, plenty of singers made a name for themselves by singing that way. But it is NOT sustainable. Note the difference between Christina Aguilera’s “belts” and Ariana Grande’s “belts.” It’s pretty obvious too that over time Christina’s vocal range has shrunk significantly, meanwhile Ariana consistently performs and consistently keeps the range required to perform her discography! I’m willing to bet $30 that in 20 years time when Ariana is the same age as Christina is now, she will have the same vocal range that she has now. Also The women from Abba are a great example of women who don’t default to yelling when singing higher notes
I also think that your forgetting about “church voices”…
My biggest unpopular opinion is that super religious people are the worst. Do the worst things imaginable and get away with it by hiding behind ‘I’m a child of god I can do no wrong’ it infuriates me.
UGH I agree. I just was commenting to one on another video, ANNOYING
THIS!! I'm what you would call religious, I'm a practicing Muslim, but I'm so disgusted by it! They will excuse anything in the name of religion smh.
True a great example would be Roots 1979. There's the one seen with his slave master who is asking the captain of the boat as for the African girl so he could have his way with her but he also said he was a married man and he's a Christian and he doesn't do those things. Literally everybody at the end of the day is a freaking critic and has different motives he end up doing the thing that he said he wanted with her. And she was just an underage child it's really sad. But yes I do agree with you people really should start practicing what they preach more. There's been a lot of Unholy Justified things done out of the name of Christianity but if we're going to come for the whole religious system of belief we need to talk about spiritual belief I don't think it's the same opinion negative views as Christianity and I believe everybody can be their self however I do think people place their own habit views on spirituality and it became a gray area of black and white for them than actually reading between the fine lines.
Hyper religious people do terrible things and say "God will forgive me"
@@x97s hyper religious people will say all sins are the same like? You would treat a gay person the way you would treat a mass murderer/rapist?
"Good hair is healthy hair"🗣️
For the bit about Africa, you mentioned Kenya as one of the countries that people deem as poor & dirty. Because my mom is from Kenya & lived there for the most part of her life before coming to the US, we have the opportunity to visit there every 4-ish years. The media only shows the poverty & the bad stuff there but once you actually visit, you see all the life, family, happiness, culture & beauty that is apart of Kenya, not just the bad stuff that every National Geographic show shows
"I don't think one direction will come back together", honestly speaking deep down every directioner knows this, but there are still a good amount of ppl who believes that Louis will fulfill his promise and stuff like that which I think is just being delusional and this is my unpopular opinion, I feel like louis himself forgot he ever made that promise to us and just isn't into it anymore like harry and Niall....I feel only Liam would want it rn at this point, cause louis is releasing his LT2 album pretty soon, Niall solo music is doing really pretty good and Harry we all know is really happy with everything rn, which I'm really happy about, in the end of the day all directioners just want them to be happy and if they're happy we are even if it's separately, and they do seem pretty happy now, only zayn I feel is kind of in a bad place mentally cause of all that shit that happened recently but hopefully his time with his daughter will make him get back on track in his life again, I just hope even if they don't come back they're just happy and are in good places with the other one,.....
The thing about SHEIN is if u don’t have a lot of money aight that something else, but people who buy like 3000$ STUFF of there nah u ain’t broke. I think that when people get educated and see documentaries off how these POOR CHILDREN work, u are going to feel bad fr and probably stop buying off there.
Yeah I totally get that
Unpopular opinion: nostalgia has gotten really toxic
Just because someone isn't born in the 90's or early 2000's doesn't make them less that or unworthy of respect
Nostalgic channels like Disney or Nickelodeon are not dead they're just progressing
A lot of shows or media people found nostalgic is really problematic when you watch it as your older and let the bigoted things be there primary sense of humor
All I'm saying is you don't get a medal for knowing older content and stop hating on people who don't have the same nostalgic content as you
I AGREEE. When I watched mean girls I was so shocked at the amount of micro aggressions and slurs 😨 and ppl were telling me “it’s just how the 2000s were” THAT DOES NOT MAKE IT OKAY
Thank you so much Keisha for saying that to single moms! I always see so much misogyny about single mothers, how its their fault for choosing a guy who would 'bound to leave her', like they put all the blame on them yet they just brush aside the guy who made her pregnant and then left because he couldn't take responsibility yet the mother is expected to, but he isn't. Its takes two to tango, but people forget that so easily! This is coming from someone who was taken care of by a single mother since the age of 9, she went through so much mental, emotional and physical pain just to secure my future, she's an absolute hero
1. When people find out you are going to therapy, they immediately think that you are mad.
2. Respect is earned, not granted. I hate it so much when someone is entitled to respect.
3. Colleges and universities are overrated for majority of study field. If you are aspiring to become a doctor, engineer, lawyer I need you to have a degree.
4. Hold anyone accountable! I don't care if it's you brother, mother, bff,...every single one needs to take accountability for their wrongdoings.
5. Stop trying to please everybody! Do what you want and be unapologetically yourself. If you don't, you'd be very miserable.
My unpopular opinions.
I feel like people mistake truth for sometimes for being negative. The truth could be good or bad.
It blows my mind that people like to be taller them selves, but when someone is taller than average they try to sabotage them..... Most fashion models are 5:10 to 6 or more......
The hair and outfit are so immaculate omg, Its pure Missy Elliot vibes 😭💓
Thank you I’m not the only one that thinks it’s weird making your child and Instagram it’s even weirder when they start writing as the child 🥴
That is more than weird, wtf wrong with people ?
How is that weird? 😂
@@blueiris1542 Bc they making themselves act as the child ???? Why’s that not weird to you ?
@@Hmletmetry I don't see it as a big of deal tbh. When the child gets older, they can always ask their parents to delete it.
@@blueiris1542 But until then it can be too late
*FREE THERAPY TIP!!!!*
In my area, Ohio, if you were appointed a court counselor as a minor and you're older now, you can go back to that therapist at any point of time and the court will pay for it since you already saw them. I was in trouble as a kid on probation and stuff and was appointed my court therapist. 5 years later and I just called the courthouse, got his number, and started seeing him again. I tried to discuss cost with him because I have no insurance and he explained to me how the courts pay for it because they originally reccomended me to begin with. He is the best therapist I've ever had and will be retiring soon :(♡
timothee is also such a gentleman
I believe if you're working on being successful you don't really have to struggle necessarily I'm not saying be lazy but you don't have to put your health or yourself at risk .it doesn't mean you are weak. You could still work hard and put effort into your work and still take care of yourself. I feel that there are some toxic masculinity Concepts that need to be debunked. And also I feel like mental health is still stigmatized to this day and people only talk about depression and anxiety but also need to be educated on other mental health disorders as well as ones that are not normally talked about.
(Kinda) related to the point about people still thinking Africa’s a country… gurl my parents would tell me about how in the early 90s when they first came to the US, they’d tell people they’re from South Africa and the subsequent question would be, “oh which country?” Like 🤦🏽♀️
Legit so true about the Episodes thing. I was really into that from 13-16 because I wanted to support a friend who wrote their stories on there and also I liked a sci-fi and a murder mystery story that use to do well. But then you notice a lack of inclusivity. People had a whole thing with Episodes that made them include more LGBT and POCs. Then after that all their stories turned into middle age women/men fantasies. 50 shades. Rich guy or older person exploits poor girl/ young person. Toxic romances. Incest. Teen pregnancy. Just way too much predatory vibez and bad behaviors being romanticized. Just a poor use of writing. It really worries me how obsessed with s*x the adults of this society want children to be.
Nigeria is so beautiful guys don't let the media decieve you 😂 we have really good parts
Yeah. I have family there and visited some of my parents friends and those houses were one of the best homes I have seen better than a lot in America. Each country has the bad and good. America has places just as bad as some places in Nigeria vice versa
Things can be true at the same time
The fact that Justin and Selena were together for less than 2 years in total speaks volumes, maybe even 1.5 years. BOTH of them were so toxic to eachother, yes they had insane chemistry but they should be as far away from eachother as possible. They moved of and so should fans.
They were together for 8 years on and off. So i get why fans are so atta hed to eachother. But either the Jelena stans must STOP. Eveybody has moved on so should the fans.
@@kgomotsomosiatlhaga8311 all put together, less than 2 years
I agree about the type thing, but there is a line that could be crossed to fetishization. One example, I prefer people who speak Spanish and English because I speak Spanish a lot, and I don't want to limit myself. However, the moment it becomes obsessive, but the person just wants the stereotypes, it is weird. I think people just assume that if you mention something other than personality, it is the latter rather than it being a type
Queen moves. She is literally the only non muslim youtuber that brings up muslims in a positive way and not like a media slave and I AM HERE FOR IT. I said what I said.
Just speaking on injustices and toxicity!
@@Itzkeisha people literally hate us without knowing us and I LOVE you. such an educated QUEEN 😭💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Yes Africa as a continent is so exploited & is being colonized all over again but some of these leaders are not helping. A couple days ago the president of Uganda gave away the country’s international airport to a Chinese bank 😔💔
This is making me so sad... The Arabs are also trying to buy Port Sudan and our shitty government will probably give it to them smh
The comment about tall women made my eyes tear up. I’m 6 feet tall and have a bigger build and always get shit on for it. Thank you Keisha 😭❤️
Black women come for each other necks but have sympathy for people like Dani
Women should support eachother in this patriarchy that exploit women/girls & children to the point it becomes the norm…I can empathize with Dani, but also call out her immaturity & wrongful actions. There’s no point in holding ppl accountable if they don’t Get the opportunity to grow & make better descition (ofc there are exceptions & I’m tired of women giving men far more passes & cut women when brainwashed to please men & Search for their acceptance !) …let’s talk abt misogyny, misogynynoir & homophobia & all these other social constructions & restrictions ppl go through!
@@miracraigfan1738 white lady hush 😑not when the other individual is CLEARLY more privileged & not equal
You're right about the whole pray and you'll get better thing because I've experienced that. I was staying with my aunt, I remember we were getting ready for church, I'm someone who wears contacts because I can't see without them I could literally go blind at any second and I got my contact stuck in the corner of my eye and my aunt was like "pray Jesus will make your contact fall out". lets just say me and my aunt aren't on good terms after that.
Keisha giving us tinkerbell vibes🧚🏽♀️
about the 1d thing you're right... louis in an interview said if they didn't get back together before he turned 30 than it would never happen, and he wouldn't want to, and guess who's turning 30 in one month? he is! lol they're all enjoying their solo careers anyway so it's not gonna happen
Keisha: I don’t want 1D to get back together
Me: *The woman was too stunned to speak*👁👄👁
Wait I didn’t say it like that I said I don’t think they are 🤣
Yessss I thought I was the only one annoyed by Tiffany Haddish.
Thought it was just me
Me too I thought everyone loved her
Agreed on about Timothée.
He's a sweetheart, he shouldn't be hated at all, he's so kind and genuine, I actually think there's some celebrities that are very full of themselves, but I just don't see it in him at all, I adore him dearly.
UO: The biggest problem in the black community is a lacking of healing, not a lack of education. While the black community does need to be educated on certain things, healing is the number one thing holding us back. It's sad that so many black people, especially older ones think they don't need therapy or any sort of method to heal from the trauma they are holding onto for dear life. They're riding the 'I made it this far' train. Made it this far and you're still a hot mess. I get that therapy can be expensive but, there are discounted options out there. That's the reason I can afford it. If you can drop some money on the latest sneakers, designer bags, nice vacations, new phones, then you can spend some money on to better yourself.
Adults and elderly in the black community should stop disrespecting the younger ones. Like yeah some of us are disrespectful but adult are taking it to another level of disrespect. From the 'sbarky' comments to not taking good advice from us.
And the way you humbled me with that intro I-
Hey Keisha!! I love the point you made about Africa and African countries. So refreshing to know there’s people like you who ACTUALLY get it. I love your channel, all the way from Nigeria 🇳🇬 🤍 !!
Edit: The Halsey and SZA imitations took me out 🤣💀
As a mom of a 3 year old and expecting my second any time now I agree you have no be careful of what you put out of your child because of the sickos in this world. I decided not to even post anything about my kids on the media anymore awhile ago. The last thing people saw of my 3 year old is him in a shirt that said upgrading to big brother. I'm still going to be taking pictures and videos of my kids because hello memories but the only people who will be seeing them are who are close to us
Thank you so much on tackling the topic of height, I’m the 5’10” as well and my height’s been always something I felt embarrassed about. Feels nice when someone is defending tall women
I will sell my kidney to be taller, I swear. And people make fun of tall women. I don't get it.
Like fr. I never understood it at all... what are these tall women supposed to do? Just get ShOrTeR✋💀
I don’t get why people idolize models and their beauty (including long legs) but when it comes to other women they act like it’s a bad thing? 😭
I live in south Africa and I've been asked questions like "why am I white" People are so ignorant when it comes to Africa. The questions I've been asked.. "do you have water?" "why do you live in a house I you're in Africa?"🤦 I wish people could be more educated on this nation. It can be so beautiful.
timothée is so kind and one of the most humble/normal celebs
Never heard of anyone calling Meg masculine because of her height. I still don't understand why being tall is related to masculinity, there are short guys too- that doesn't make them feminine, just short.
The way, I had to take a 30-min emotional break after your 1D comment
Exactlyyyy, most people have preference it's only a problem when they're disrespectful and put people down for not being their type.
Or when the ppl they «like» is fetishized or objectified …
Unpopular opinion :being average is not a bad thing , and it be average people using it to insult people 🙄🤷🏽♀️
Are you talking about when It comes to looks or skills?
Thank you Keisha, I’m from Kenya and we literally have everything here…what they show on commercials are the really less developed areas but for the most part, most of us are well educated, well travelled and have lacked nothing…NOTHING!!!!
Same with us in America. It seems as though we are all deemed as uneducated, violent, unhealthy and we are all from the projects, when that is definitely not the case. I hate how people can believe anything they see on tv and run with it.
I completely agree with you on the motivational speaker part and making Instagrams for your kids. Motivational speakers NEVER sat right with me
Girl you are serving us everything today. You are serving blunt ass opinions, as well as some opinions that are facts. You are serving face and hair. You are serving energy. We love it! We are here for all of it!
unpopular opinions :
How a person views money is very telling when dating.
Knowingly being involved with men in relationships is weird
I’ll probably die without seeing a porcupine in the wild
I don’t support the one drop rule, intersectional identities are valid.
There should be more done to promote ethical consumption
NOT everyone who makes fun of someone else is insecure or jealous. get that out of your heads. people are just mean
You caught me off guard with your single parent comment, thank you so much! People really underestimate all we do on a daily basis. You’re an angel 💕
yeah imma need that kpop video please, cuz..... i've been feeling weird about it for some time and i need someone to agree with me ahahah but its not just about like culture appropriation. What do you think about the relashionship between the idol and its fans. The fact that male idols treat fan girls like theyre girlfriends but like... not even in a fake way its like they actually feel that way about their fans... and the fact that most fans are in love with them and do things for them because of it yet dont even know the idol and their personal lives, anyway to me that "relashionship" is weird and very psychological and too "intense'' most of the time, like manipulation is involded (even if they dont mean to do it) and the way they were trained to act that way, etc. its something to explore... people briefly talk about like...the obssesion and fantasy but they dont elaborate. How can someone make another person "they've never seen" love them so much, at the point were the idol is the only person in the world that matters to the fan, yet neither of them actually know each other on a personal level...i hope you see my comment !!!!
I found the name its called : parasocial. Love that is one sided
Your hair is absolutely STUNNING😍💝
"You can get away with anything if you're attractive" I still remember when Wendy gushed over the "hot felon" Jeremy Meeks' mugshot on her show. On multiple occasions too.
The way that I agree with literally everything you said
If u can't find a job after graduating uni it isn't because you're inadequate, the whole entire system is flawed
Oh yes totally
The media always show the poor side or Africa but it’s actually such a beautiful continent