10 Things I No Longer Buy
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Re: socks. The best thing i did for myself recently - i bought 5 pairs of the same black socks that i wear to work. I have a couple pairs for the weekend and 3 pairs of "home" socks. That's it. No more thinking if the socks match my outfit because they all do
I have a drawer of socks that haven’t been touched in like 2 years. It’s time to revisit and send them away.
@@73NKZ you'll feel great afterwards. Plus it is a great space saver - my socks now take up less than a shoebox, before that it was a full drawer (i keep my sports socks in a different place with my workout gear though:, but even there i only have 4 pairs now)
Minimising the sock drawer is so satisfying 🙌🏼 If you have any barely or never worn socks that are thermal in some way or just quite thick I know that homeless shelters/charities always want those for the colder months. And any old cotton socks make really good glass cleaners too 🧼✨
@@EmmaHill Glass cleaner or remove cobwebs on ceiling corners. 😊😊
plus if they are all one color, one stle if you lose one sox all the rest still match....LOL
I no longer buy synthetic-fiber, made from petrochemicals, fabrics like polyester and acrylic. I do really like the viscose/lyocell fabric family, though, they’re manmade, but from natural plant fibers, so their properties are similar to cotton, silk and linen. This decision was largely based on the terrible skin irritation and overheating they cause me, but it’s an environmentally sound one, too, especially if the more environmentally-friendly, water-saving viscose fabrics are substituted, like lyocell, Eco-Vero, etc.
I love viscose too
I really try to steer away from polyester. Its defo a comfort thing but now I'm also more aware of the environmental impact too.
I too mostly avoid synthetic fibers, with the exception of vv small percentages (less than 5%). With jeans, specially, a little bit of elastane sometimes is exactly what I want. However, I do think they are a must for those with heavy, heavy winters. And I also think that a small (key word!) amount of synthetic fiber really increases warmth, and even durability, in some winter pieces. But it's an absolute no in the whole of the other three seasons for me.
I totally agree. I also avoid everything made of polyester/polyacryl and uncomfortable underwear. Believe me (48 years old 👵) comfort gets more and more important (especially shoes). Greetings froh Germany. 🙋♀️
I’m 61 and I totally agree, comfort is the most important thing.
I don't buy anything made of polyester either 😁
Couldn't agree more, sis 😊 same age, same issues 😉 Moin moin von der Küste 🇩🇪
1. 0:36 High heels
2. 2:11 Bright colours
3. 4:27 Prints & patterns
4. 6:21 New occasion wear
5. 7:59 Impractical bags
6. 10:15 One season wonders
7. 12:04 Going out or going out out
8. 15:35 Socks & Nightwear
9. 17:28 Charity T-shirts
10. 19:41 Cheap jewellery
you can say that again! Especially number 4 and 6. I would often buy Big hitted or new wears to follow the trend but i haven't worn them for ages, in retrospect. 😂 nowadays i have change my taste of fashion like simple and minimal👕🖤
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So agree with what you said in this video! As you “mature” you get to know what works and what doesn’t AND I would be a millionaire had I not bought so much cheap jewellery, shoes I couldn’t walk in and one hit wonder clothes!
My wardrobe is now a healthy looking capsule of natural fibres and neutral tones that are easy to mix and match. My bags are beautiful, understated and quality along with my shoes, boots and trainers. I feel comfortable and can I say “classy” in my clothes and it’s so easy to get dressed now, even when I’m in a rush! Your channel is so informative, and I just adjust the items you talk about to meet my wallet. Sorted! X
I no longer buy
• Shorts! For me they are uncomfortable and very unflattering.
• Black clothing unless for work. I am happy looking like a picnic princess in my florals 😂
• Streetwear . I am not cool enough and never will be.
• Also new occasion wear
• New leather for ethical reasons
• Anything that’s too small, I just buy a bigger size
• Anything I don’t see having amazing cost per wear
I love some of these items on other people but they just don’t work for me, my style & body type
Also I love hanging out with Emma on a Sunday morning 💚
I am the same with shorts! Haven't owned a pair in years. Unless you have long lean legs, i find them so unflattering!
Great video! I'm 27 and feel the exact same re: colours, patterns, heels etc. The biggest neutral plus for sure is having clothes that all go together effortlessly! I used to hate getting dressed but now everything works easily and I have photos in my closet of outfit pairings that help me remember all of the options I have.
Hi Emma! I can only suggest possibly renting a dress for a special occasion, such a a wedding. etc. We have gorgeous rental shops which accommodate these special events.
I wore my wedding “going away” dress (1986) afterward for about 8-9 years to every special occasion. Then came the idea that a new dress was needed for every occasion, as fast-fashion began to grow. It just didn’t occur to us then we “shouldn’t be seen in the same dress twice” for occasions, the thinking was so different then and clothes were kept a lot longer.
I agree but hopefully we are mostly moving back in that direction 👍
The bit you're talking about looking at the young girls in their 'out out' clothes and you wearing your COS shirt dress lol.. so relatable.
Great list!! Another 35-er here, I definitely appreciate all the alternatives or the ways you have grown into your current style and what you choose to buy now instead. So interesting!
Wow, love your journey. So nice to see how you have evolved throughout these years. I am pretty sure you will still go through many paths. I will be here to enjoy it with you.❤️
At this very moment in my life, I love wearing anything black and gold jewellery that has a hint of colour. It’s amazing to think that when you are confident wearing a colour/colours it makes you feel good.
My color palette is similar to yours and for me the most scary print is floral one. I am 42 and past 20y no floral prints for me. Sending love from Prague
Agree on all points! I hadn’t gotten as far as you on the going out wear though. Was going to a restaurant yesterday evening (I’m 40 and I don’t normally go out) When getting dressed I panicked and started crying because my wardrobe only consist of day to day wear. In my head I had to find something super fancy, to match all the gorgeous people at the restaurant. Ended up wearing black everyday trousers and black vest with a beige blazer. When I watched you talking about your experience at the hen do, I felt so happy and relieved. Love that black cos dress! Will now never be ashamed of what i wear to a restaurant ever again♥️♥️♥️ Lots of love
And I bet you looked amazing too ❤️
Sometimes in a shop I still have a 'magpie' moment when see sparkly Jewellery or a colourful piece of clothing, but before buying I now stand back and think what it would go with in my existing wardrobe or if it is made of cheap materials, and much better at putting it back these days! Your videos have really helped me learn that! 🙌🖤 ..Still do love a leopard print though 🐆 kinda works as a neutral for me 😆💕
I remember the colourful days! Actually, the first thing I ever Depop-bought from you was a red blazer (in very early 2017 which I still have) but I totally agree with all of these (especially the charity t shirt one - absolutely needed saying and excellently put!)
Amen, Emma. I am with you on all of these. I had a large collection of "event" and charity t-shirts. I transformed them into shopping/grocery totes. (TH-cam has many how-to videos for this.) One year, I put gifts in them. A sneaky way of promoting recycling and getting them out of my house.
😂 Can totally relate to this! My style started changing as soon as I hit the 40’s! Now neutral colors and classic wardrobe, great denim, few solid investment handbags, loafers and only neutral high heels for work. I also did major makeoever with my undergarments. Fashionable and practical. I have to be able to run after my little kids while still looking chic 😆
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Your handbag reviews are my faves from your channel, especially the cons are the most helpful, really!
Your personality came out in a really playful way in this video. I loved seeing that! Thanks for all you do :)
Thank you for watching ❤️
Thank you Emma, I really really enjoyed this video, I know EXACTLY where you are coming from on literally all of these things, I’ve been there, I was also that girl 😅🙋🏻♀️ but then I hit 30 and suddenly turned a corner. It also helped when I moved into my first house out of my parents, I had a HUGE clear out / wardrobe overhaul, goodbye animal print PJs, glitter thread fluffy socks from primark and IN with the boring knickers 😅 they are the way forward!! Haha so much more functional and practical. love this xxxxx
I also went through a lot of these changes in my thirties. I found myself prioritizing comfort, higher quality, timeless. I sold off my Chloe Tess for the same reasons! That bag was definitely a fantasy life purchase. Not very practical IRL especially as a mommy.
I have many the same as you; bright colors, big prints, anything made of polyester or nylon, high heels (I have plenty that cover all the basics), trend/impractical bags. It really does help curb my shopping!
Couldn’t agree more. Your video’s just make my day, they really are changing the way I think. I especially appreciate that all this can be a gradual process but have such a big effect on how I look and feel, dressing just becomes easier and less stressful. Thank you x
Gosh! I don't watch your videos that often and I almost forgot how amazing you are! It's always such a pleasure to listen to you talk. Not only because of the content that you put up it's also the way and manner in which you speak. Real treat!!! Keep up 👍🏼
I’m always so inspired buy your fashion choices! Already going through my clothes and preparing for fall!
Your hair is looking really cute here. Like the length, color and how you've styled it here! Go girl! Thanks for Sharing ❤
I agree with pretty much ALL your points on this video...I do think that the neutral palette/aesthetic for clothing is kind of "in style" lately so that definitely helps with a neutral wardrobe. I have the Chloé Tess bag and although it took me a bit to start using it, I absolutely LOVE it..have it in the same color as the one you had...I feel it totally just elevates the look of a spring/summer outfit👍🏻
I will be eternally grateful to you and your videos for three things: Loewe Puzzle bag, Johnston’s of Elgin scarves and socks, and #secondhandbutgrand. Your greatest accessory is your confidence in your own sense of style and self, and it’s a rare bird who develops those attributes at your very young (to me) age. Well done you! ❤️
Johnstons of Elgin socks 🥰 🥰 🥰
Couldn’t agree more on all accounts! And this advice is very earth conscious & also smart financial advice. 🙏🏻
So relatable on every point. Glitter!! Ugh!!! (44 from Sweden) One other thing for me is cheap feeling fabrics. I find myself to be overly picky nowadays 😆
Great video 👏👍👋🇸🇪
Completely agree, cotton, silk, linen and cashmere are my preferred fabrics. Great tailoring combined with maximum comfort and minimalist design are what bring me peacefulness and joy. I do have a Louis Vuitton leopard print scarf that I wear for warmth and dazzling beauty!
Solid choices, Emma. Comfort, good quality and classic styles are my go-to’s. I do like colour, especially in summer, but that’s a pop of, rather than head to toe! Great video. Thank you!
I agree with everything you said!! I dress very much as you do and sometimes I feel boring. Then if I ever “branch out”, I’m uncomfortable and don’t feel my best. So…I’ve hopefully learned it’s OK to wear black, white and jeans everywhere I go!!! Best for accessories that are my first love! Love all of your videos! ❤️
Such a useful video Emma (as always)! After watching it, I cleared my wardrobe from many florals, keeping for years without wearing just for that "in case..." situation! Thank you so much!
Same here. Hate walking in high heels but Jimmy Choo Romy 85 heels are def comfortable!
I used to walk 2 miles a day in stilettos 👠 in my youth. I don’t possess a pair of heels now. Maybe a kitten heel for an occasion.
100% with you on every point Emma and loved Simon’s *. Lovely to see you and all the best to you both Sx
Thanks for another great video. You have been my hero in terms of style. I too love neutrals, black especially, and white with black especially in the summertime. But after watching so many influencers I thought I should wear more color. But I only like color in little bits like in accessories. I also like them so muted that look almost like no color. For example I wear a dark green or dark wine cashmere turtleneck in the winter, and I do love a red bag or a red dress. In terms of color that is my go to. I also had to stop and not get swayed by what I see. I realize it’s OK to like some thing other people but I don’t need to wear it myself. I always look forward to your videos because they help me accept myself.
My luxury bags are in the range of US $200-300. I like good-quality leather bags and this is about the minimum price range for brands like Michael Kors, Kate Spade, Coach, etc. I can’t afford high-end bags, but I do appreciate your reviews.
"Leather jackets" made half of my wardrobe 5-6 years ago (I had two identical ones, in different colours, from forever 21 at one point). I must say that discovering your channel in 2018 was a style-saver. I've always loved blazers but would stay away from them because I thought they were too dressy, too elegant for every day. The same goes for shirts. And wearing denim "too often". Turns out you can wear whatever the hell you want as long as you feel good in it. So, thank you for all you do in this space and on Instagram.
Also, 2020 feels like a fever dream. This year I was asked a few times about my age and I literally forget to count last year in lol.
Oh completely - if only we could actually not count it as a year 😂 1 year younger 🎉 🍾 😂
Excellent vid/content dear Emma! And giggled at Simon's "Disneyland " ref. 😄😊
Thank you both🤗
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100% with you on the cheap jewellery front! doing a boot sale today and filled a shoe box with soooo much of it! My jewellery style has definitely minimised in my 30’s and I’m much happier with my smaller, higher quality collection now 🥰 another thing I don’t buy anymore is cheap bedding!! Used to be obsessed with primark duvet sets 🙈 I think your 30’s is when you start favouring quality over quantity! X
100% agree with bedding 👍
I no longer look at items from the DIVIDED section at H&M. Being in my early 30´s I just feel the items in that section feel and look cheap, too young, and aren't my taste level anymore. Also decided not to buy anymore ballet pumps from H&M. As cute as they look they MURDER my poor feet.
I am 45 and i am 165 cm and 49 kg and i still buy Divided collection but not often, some things because i look girlisch and i am tiny
@@tolde I definitely didn't mean to offend you, or anyone, with my comment about shopping at the H&M Divided section. It was just my personal opinion and experience when looking at that section in store.
Excellent video, so relatable! I would add two more for myself: 1. Clothes made of polyester or acrylic (I am sure I still have some, but I try to avoid if at all possible); 2. Clothes for holiday/vacation (sort of like your category of going out clothes, I don’t feel the need to have ‘resort’ wear), I can use what I already have in my wardrobe.
I am totally with you on the High Heels. I used to run through airports in high heeled strappy sandals, and I am not sure what I was thinking. I believe it was age appropriate (yup in my 20s, and early 30s); these days I am all about flats and comfort. 🙏 I am also with you not buying “new” dresses for occasions, and instead opt for “new to me”. Impractical bags are sooo annoying to me. I think impractical bags are another age appropriate thing for me. I used to only need to have keys, lipstick, and wallet in my bags; but now my keys are a huge lump because of the gigantic key fobs and I need to fit my meds, reading glasses, sun glasses with prescription lens, hand sanitizers, and my hubby’s stuff cuz he can’t fit it in his pockets 🤷🏻♀️. Glad to see I’m not alone though 😉
During lockdown I got used to seeing Simon. I was just thinking how I missed him, and then he pops up with his cheeky comment. Love the videos and the editing. Great teamwork.
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I ditched the heels back in my 30's as well for comfort but also changed careers and no longer needed to wear them. Hard to go back to them after you choose comfort! That Chloe bag I loved from your videos and wanted to purchase one but just could never bite the bullet and thank God for that! I hate those purchases that you regret because they don't work with your life style! Enjoyed this video great job! xoxo
loved this!!! mine are:
- denim, especially denim shorts! Too uncomfortable for me, I have 2 pairs that i wear when the time is right but i'm not buying anymore
- statement coats: i wear mostly black so i used to like a statement coat (teddy, faux fur, huge puffers etc) but it's just not something that gets worn that much in the end
-socks: you actually don't need that many at all haha
-clutch bags: how are we supposed to hold those things in our hands the whole time omg
-first hand occasion wear: fully agree with everything you mentioned!!
- high heels (like the thin ones): I live in Ghent, Belgium and all the roads are made of cobblestones, so heels are a no go
-anything brightly coloured, patterned or trendy basically too
I am in agreement with you, I have reduced the colors in my closet to black, white, cream, navy and blue denim of various shades, that covers bottoms, tops, jackets and etc. every so often I try a gray, or a pattern, but really it pays to stick to your usual colors. i got a mustard yellow print dress in the spring, but I've only worn it once. Of course covid has dramatically reduced the opportunities to dress and go anywhere. Love your channel.
100% agree on all of these! For me it’s also cheap materials, in particular I only buy real leather shoes & bags and wool/cashmere knitwear now. They just last so much longer and feel way more luxurious. Thanks for another great video! X
I second that! My feet actually don't tolerate anything plastic, they start itching right away. lol I also don't buy anything polyester, it feels awful and is bad for you.
I don't buy faux leather shoes unless it's open toed shoes but even then meh.
Once I realised leather shoes can get rained on and not stink the house out when you take them off I started looking into breathability and have never gotten a closed toe synthetic shoe (or synthetic lined) since then
i’m in my early 20s and yet i relate so well, no more bright printed polyester play suits for me 😅 i’m way more into neutrals and versatile pieces. currently in the process of shipping more sustainably and less in quantity with higher quality (difficult but budgeting helps!), supporting local brands.
I couldn’t agree more on cheap jewelry! I never wear it, especially earrings cause they always irritate my skin. Love Mejuri for their 14k options! I haven’t taken my earrings out in months, they are fantastic! Also, hands down the thing I’ve ditched the most in recent years in heels! Life is better when you’re comfortable!
Great tips… I pretty much follow all of them (now that I’m 47). I really enjoyed the anecdotes that went along with the tips. I stick to solid neutral colors, stripes, and “classic timeless” pieces. Haven’t worn a pair of heels in about a year and a half 😱, I avoid trends, and only buy jewelry that has a more “timeless” feel and quality rather than “statement” pieces that I will likely mock myself for wearing 5 years later lol (omg those bauble necklaces we wore about 10 - 12 years ago were ridiculous!!! Lol) oh, I also don’t buy clothe/shoes/bags that don’t actually fit into my current lifestyle. I don’t buy things for my “fantasy life”.
Oh yeah, good morning. Grabbing my tea and relaaaax, listening to you ❤️ what i do not longer buy: conventional shoes. I switched to barefoot shoes which are even more comfortable and healthier than sneakers are 🙂 barefoot shoes dont mean you dont wear socks ;) they are more spacious at the toes and have thin soles. you dont have to look sporty with them all the time, there are brands with casual and chic shoes as well🌼
I get so excited by a new pair of smart wool socks.
I grew up in Canada and we used the term going out out. As a teenager it felt like you needed a top from Guess to go out out, like would it even be allowed to wear something more modest and elegant like a midi dress? Lol... and now those clubs are my personal hell.
I am really loving your general emphasis on minimal branding.
Agree. Stopped wearing patterns, prints and bright colours when I was about 31 now 41 and love wearing neutral tones I do love dark greens or khaki though😀Haven't worn heels since my wedding many years ago! Thanks to you I found Mejuri and I love their solid gold hoops 🥰
They are so nice aren't they 🥰
Thank you for this terrific video. I have to say I agree with every point you made with the exception of colour even though I agree with your colour palette choice for you. Like many women, I stopped colouring my hair, I used to have blonde highlights done. I am 65 and I have surprisingly very little white hair but I need to wear some colour. My hair is brown, my eyes are brown, my skin pale, you get the picture. On going out out clothes, I looked into renting a gown for a very fancy wedding last year, unfortunately I didn’t end up going to the wedding because of COVID. However the gown I was going to wear was beautiful, classy, something I would not have been able to afford to buy new. I thought the idea of renting a designer dress a clever idea. Men rent tuxedos women should be able to rent gowns.
Enjoyed this video. Same age as you, I love your style. I think it’s an age thing, once turned 30, I realise I no longer buy cheap jewellery, but would rather spend more on some designer brand that last, and start wearing the solid gold necklace that my mum gave me years ago! I also realised I no longer buy mini dress or any skirt that above my knees. The other change I realised was I no longer like fitted/tailored blazer. Even I’m normally uk size 6, but I prefer wearing a size 8 boxy blazer, just more comfortable! Heals is another thing I stopped buying. I don’t wear heals to work, normally just loafer or other flat shoes.
Lovely video Emma, I’m quite new to your channel and loving it. So refreshing to watch someone talking about fashion in most humble, unassuming way! You’ve great style I can totally relate to. Thank you
Thank you Anna ❤️
I liked your description of the hen do and Brighton. I'm pleased that you enjoyed it. I live close to Brighton and avoid going near it at weekends and evenings. Not a place to be unless you are young. I don"t think it was always this way but has evolved.
Oh we had a great time. The show was amazing and we found a nice little bar after which was a bit more relaxed so we were all able to have a chat and people could still have a few drinks. Luckily it wasn't too busy in there as it was still table service but everywhere else was so busy, it was crazy 😂
I came across your Chanel not long ago. And I become such a fan, I not only like your fashion sense and style but also the way you explain everything.
Love your handbag reviews for this exact reason! Please make more 💕
Although I was in my 20's in the 80's, I was never a fan of the aggressive fashion of that era. I was a serious person, with a serious career, and serious wardrobe: suits, pumps, and square bags. When I retired a few years ago, I sold and donated all those suits, pumps and square bags, and have been working on evolving my style in a more relaxed and fun way, while keeping the essence. From experience I will venture to make 3 predictions of additional changes Emma and her followers will make: 1. No uncomfortable footwear. Not just high heels, but no boots that you have to struggle in & out of, no overly strappy sandals, nothing that scars your feet. As you get older, it's really important to keep your feet healthy and not cripple yourself. 2. No or minimal logos. Emma's already there. To me, a big logo is a neon sign that you hang around your neck blinking "I Have Good Taste". 3. Hanging onto well designed and crafted pieces when they go out of style, knowing from perspective that they'll come back. I still have the MaxMara swing coat and Gucci bamboo bucket purse I bought in 1999, and the Givenchy Nightingale from its first season. Thanks for your insight and education!
I had an occasion dress I bought from Mango on sale for $10, maybe 10 years ago. It was so flattering, I ended up wearing it to at least 5 weddings (with different guest lists ofcourse). I would keep wearing it if I could fit into it 😂
Can't agree with you more. However, I'm still partial to heels, even though I'm waaaaaayyyy past 30. I never liked big prints or anything with words on them, or fluffy slippers... even through my teenage years. Remain classic and classy I would say. Your style has changed so much! I was wondering if you would go back to all brown hair like in some of your old pictures. One thing I have stopped purchasing though is colorful makeup. Now, I stick to good skincare and a neutral color for eyes and lips. I don't have 10 eyeshadow palettes or a couple of dozens lipsticks. Stick to what works best and use it to the end.
Great video. Thanks for sharing. 💖💖💖
Kia ora E, you raise a good point. Having just celebrated by 60th birthday, I am struggling with what is too girlie to wear these days. Is a dress with a ruffle sleeve too "young" etc.? I'd love you opinion or video on options as we evolve :-)
@Chrissen Gemmill Wear whatever you like. Like is too short and precious (especially in these Covid times) - so embrace what brings you joy & happiness...whether it is ruffles on the sleeves, ruffles down the center of blouses, ruffles on the bottoms of skirts, or ruffled scarf, bag, or shoe decor. Same for polka dots, stripes, color, etc. Wear them joyously and adjust to the extreme or conservativeness of however you want to wear it (bold or subtle). ❤
Also, Trinny Woodall, Busbee Style, Fashion Style & Edit, and other 45/50 yr old+ vloggers...all advise you can wear most trends, colors, or fashion in general - but cater it to fit your age, comfort, lifestyle. See their channels as well for inspiration on how to wear fashion any age.
I follow the same principles as you (I have mainly the same style as you). The only difference is I play with custom jewellery (especially necklaces). I find second hand good quality necklaces and wear them as is or I deconstruct them (take the chain or a pendant out) and mix them with more "classic" pieces for a more unique look. I like to "spice" my basic classic looks with a bit of ethnic or artsy or boho touch...
Great points! I no longer buy cheaply made shoes because they hurt my feet and they are usually uncomfortable- of course they also get ruined easily...so i opt for well made shoes-they are more expensive so i buy less but they make me much happier 🙂
Loved every minute of your video. Been following you only recently but you are such an inspiration. I totally agree with your style. You are so right less is more and minimalism in outfits is so classy.
🤣 Great with my cuppa in bed this morning - thanks Emma! I’m not as ‘neutral’ as you but I’m definitely shifting away from too loud a print or anything I think will go out of fashion very quickly! I also look at every single label now and try my very best to go for cotton, linen, tensel or that newish alternative to viscose ‘Lenzing Evereco’ (sorry if spelt wrong!). I am so much more environmentally aware now (44) than I used to be. I agree with you on everything really only I do wear a bit more colour and print than you but usually fairly subtle or plain colour. Enjoy this rather dull and cool Sunday. 😊👍
Hope you have a lovely Sunday too ❤️
Viscose. Lovely fabric to wear and so many benefits, but way too prone to shrinking (even in a cold delicate cycle) for me to risk buying again. So cotton and linen it is! Or even silk which I find is less risky to delicate wash and more justifiable to dry clean if necessary due to the texture.
Agree with all your choices! My wardrobe is now... nude beige creams whites denims navy grey black khaki 🤷♀️... at 31 I'd definitely say something changes in how you view clothes/ accessories when you turn 30 🙃...
Bags... the bigger the better for me! Put work documents/ kids bits/ study notes/ first aid kit/ trainers/ snacks... etc All inside! That's my kind of bag! Could you possibly do a review on depeche bags and wanderers travel bags please?
And do I know the topshop jewellery section!! And Aldo jewellery... I was so bad collecting all different pieces of jewellery from these 2 places... now I don't wear any of those bits! Stick to my everyday gold necklace and anklets! (Topshop Oxford st has closed)
Love the insights so much Emma. I think it's important to note that "one hit wonders" don't really have to be one hit and a lot of them turn into that because so many influencers or fashion powers at be shame others for still wearing things that were once trendy. We should be careful of calling out pieces that way because everyone's style is different. I do love seeing how much your style has changed and it's funny because as I approach my 30's I'm seeing my style go in the opposite direction. Like I was buying neutrals and stuff but I'm finding my true style is way more colorful and more prints but still in a minimal way.
Oh I 100% agree and I believe I mention the same point in the video. Something which is a one hit wonder for one person, will become a wardrobe staple for another. I think the point is to not buy into something because it is for that season or being splashed all over instagram and make sure it will work for your wardrobe for years to come ❤️
I love bright colours, prints and patterns and don’t see myself changing anytime soon. I’m 35 and my mums the same.
Same here! Colour is a reflection of nature 🌸🍊🌹🍓I can’t imagine life without colour! Although, I do have all the neutral classics as well! X
Same for me and my mum !!!
I’ve been facing this huge battle inside of my mind and heart, decluttering things that have been living with me like the teddy bear pajama that I owned since forever (it still fits), that first Gucci handbag, that bright green kenzo crewneck sweater, those pair of high heels that my back no longer can support, and the list goes on… Which I cannot wear anymore bcs Yessss, hitting 30 feels magical yet hard to throw them all bcs of its memories 😭
This video came like an enlightenment… it’s nothing related to decluttering but stating the most logical reason why we don’t need it enlightened me ❤️ thank you & Yes, I’m your new subscriber 😘❤️ Love from Indonesia 😘😘😘
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I changed a lot after getting 30. Now I am 34, and my wardrobe doesn’t have also almost no prints, maybe some stripes, some small flowers on a black background, neutral colours mainly. I guess the change happened when I wanted to get out of that need to buy new clothes every season , so I went more minimal and practical way. And I am very happy about that wardrobe change, trying capsule wardrobe.
Thank you for the video. I like your humour.😁
Totally agree with the new occasion wear, nothing irks me more than the waste of buying new clothes for weddings, I've worn the same dress to the last 3 weddings and it's pretty much the only dress I own!
I once wore the same dress to 3 different weddings about 10 yrs ago to get my moneys worth 😂🤷🏻♀️I’ve not been out out for many years, but if I’m just out which isn’t often when I see what girls wear it’s crazy, but when I was that age I’d wear short skirts and dresses too with sky high heels, but now I’ve hardly any heels and any dressy shoes are a mid/block heel or a flat (apart from my wedding sandals) Comfort and being warm are everything. Used to love a good statement necklace from Accessorize back in the day too 🙈 Ahh, the fashion faux pas memories…..! 💕
I’ve been on a quest to slim down my wardrobe and think harder of my purchases. I recently sold my Chloe Faye suede pattern Bag on Vestiaire. I hemmed and hawed because it was beautiful, but in the end I just didn’t use it because it was heavy and I really hate the hardware on Chloe bags!! It’s gone now and I have no regrets!
omg totally!!!, I will only wear a small print,stripe or solid colour, no brights,comfy well fitting clothes,I hire dresses for functions and limit the wearing of heels.I have also paired down my bag collection to a few classics, even though designer bags are my weakness lol
Great video! Honestly, enjoyed every bit of wisdom. I also enjoyed seeing your throw back pics. 😉 And tell Simon thanks for the Disney smile. Great team, you two ❤️
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Loved this video Emma:) I must admit I still can't resist a good heel despite having nowhere to wear them! Old habits die hard:/ x
Loved this so much! I’m turning 30 next March and I’ve subconsciously already started doing all of these things. Gone are the days when I would choose style over being comfortable - especially now I’m pregnant! Not ready to give up my lion king pyjamas just yet though 😂
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So true, Emma. I was never a brown/beige color girl, I would wear black, grey, white, but never the taupe like colors. Also I had patterns and prints to choose from. But as I turned 30, I couldn't stand full on prints and colorful clothings, and all of a sudden my aura changed and brown/beige suits me so so well. I think it has to do with age and mentality that comes with that age.
I think prints are mostly for the young and the elderly, except for stripes and small polka dots - white on black or navy.
And I agree, we’ve all lost nearly two years of our lives and the older you are - I’m 60 this year - the more you are likely to resent it as you have fewer good years left.
I love an in-depth bag review! Thanks for making them.
Oh yeah, hi-five 🙌 on the heels! 👠👠 I veered away from heels as I changed jobs and preferred very much in sneakers 👟👟. I still loved my prints, florals and loud colours over a solid print. (One dark and one loud colour combos) 😆
This is hitting home so much, I did not realise how neutral my pallet has become until I looked into my wardrobe 🤔xx
Some people have commented they don’t like cheap skin care. Well I love Olay beauty fluid sensitive which is less than £5.00. One of the few lotions that doesn’t irritate my sensitive skin. It absorbs well & is not greasy/oily. Does it work? Many have asked what I use since they don’t believe my age so I would say yes. If you live close to the coast a touch of Nivea once in a while moisturises well too. Vaseline on lips. Coconut oil/olive oil on body while in bath. Revlon used to do a honey body lotion that I used for years but no more sadly. Yves Rocher body washes are hard to come by now so I substitute with Sanex or Balmonds alternatively. When my hands are dry I use a more expensive treatment, Skin Salvation by Balmonds at night or a smear during the day. Especially good if you have e skin problems. You don’t need to buy expensive stuff to keep your skin healthy.
I have the same philosophy as you on clothes & like natural fabrics where possible & neutrals but I like polka dots on t shirts as well as stripes. I do like scarves that can be colourful & patterned but I find they are more muted as I have got older & I don’t buy so much nowadays as I don’t go out, out! I don’t use handbags (last time was for a funeral) so much but have totes & cross over bags that suit my lifestyle more. My pet gripe is make up. Make up should enhance beauty not try & recreate a clowns face. People just don’t look natural with dark painted brows & lipstick beyond the lip line & yellow skin, usually with a different coloured neck! Red cheeks & eye shadow not blended in in neon colours. A light touch always looks better, especially during the day. If you have spots avoid make up on your face until it clears & clean face with rose water & moisturise & don’t pick, prod, squeeze or scratch spots or they will scar! Be gentle.
Thank you for expanding my vocabulary, Emma! I had to look up the Latin phrase "compos mentis", which I now aim to use whenever I can. :)
Great video Emma, I wondered when watching "how is she going to name 10??" ..and then found myself nodding away with every.single.one! 😊
As we get wiser (Aging) haha we tend to go for more simplicity and elegant style. This is not only apply to fashion but also make up and interiors :)
Not everybody. I'm shy by nature and tall and I tried to avoid attention at all cost. I always loved alternative fashion styles - Rei Kawakubo, Maison Margiela, Rick Owens... And now, at 55, I finally freed myself of self-consciousness and started embrace my true style (not simple and not elegant, lol). It's fun to be free, creative and unique...
Hi Emma, great tips. I’m 50 now and I am with you all the way! I’ve gone through so many similar stages in my life too! 😂. I love your style and you have inspired me in so many ways, so thank you. Where do you buy your night wear. I find this challenging; especially as I’m a little hot at night due to the menopause.
I love the idea of buying wedding outfits second hand. I always end up giving away a wedding outfit. I’m with you all the way with prints, but I love a stripe. I think stripes can look very classy.
Thanks again and happy Sunday 😎
Most of my nightwear is from Arket 👍 Either that or an old t-shirt or vest 👍
LOVE your handbag reviews!!! Please keep it up, thanks.
Oh dang, I’m 55 and I have a Minnie Mouse night gown. Lol. I agree 100%. I wore heels and now I wear converse.
I'll let it slide as its Minnie 😂 ❤️
I can only wear converse with arches from a pair of Footprints by Birkenstock. Beware of shoes with no support. Switch from flats to mid heels to keep your arch nimble.
@@marylhere I didn’t even really make converse with arches.I stay away from them because I must have an arch, They killed my back and feet they are so flat. If I could find a pair with arches I would be thrilled.
@@marylhere I have a very high arch. Thanks for the tip, I’ll have to try it. I actually have no problem wearing them, I find them very comfortable. There are ones with more of a cushion though and if I plan on walking a lot, I wear those. ( I will be stopping and buying a pair of Footprints though ) 🤗
@@lindapelle8738 I wear all my sneakers (V-12, Converse, Adidas, Lacoste) with insoles with arch support in them. In my experience sneakers have no arch support but with insoles, I can wear them all day.
Hi Emma! I've discovered you last weekend and well, I'm obsessed; where have you been all my life?! xD I absolutely love your style, but also how genuine you are. Also I was very impressed about how much your answer to your followers, given the huge number of them. Just shows how professional and nice you are. Best content creator discovery of mine of the past few years! :)
PS: the bag reviews do come very handy, I am half excited half in deep despair regarding the fact that I will have to buy the Celine seau sangle. :D + PS²: your British accent makes me jealous, it's so cute and classy!
xx love from France
Thank you ❤️
Great video Emma! Going “Out Out” cracked me up! 😂🤣 I’m much older than you and after being locked up most of 2020 and even part of this year, I’ve become a bigger homebody. Wearing comfy shoes, clothing has become more important than following current fashion trends and being wasteful. I’m becoming fastidious and prefer quality over quantity anytime when purchasing anything. 🥰😘
Emma, I love your reviews! Well thought out and informative! Also 2020 is like a weird "mush" in my memory!
Ok ! This video Emma felt like I came for a coffee (or tea 😉) at your house! It was really refreshing Loved loved LOVED ❤️
I agree about cheap jewellery. I now only buy sterling silver. My body chemistry doesn’t make it go tarnished so caring for it is easy. I only buy sheepskin slippers because then my feet feel cosy but never sweaty - yuck, TMI.