Diners are upset over OCD waiter | What Would You Do? | WWYD
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- A waiter's obsessive compulsive disorder is upsetting a pair of diners who say it is affecting their dining experience. How will others react?
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I hate anyone who doesn’t realize how serious OCD is, that it’s not just about cleaning, and that say they have it when they don’t
Like the overweight lady in the clip😂
Ava Johnson EXACTLY
@@nicholashutchinson9348 What in the hell gave you the idea the lady in the clip doesn't have it? It seems like you're just assuming soley on her looks
Chey statistics are on my side here 1 in 50 people in the USA has OCD.... she didn’t portray any symptoms and it is highly unlucky for a person with OCD would be overweight.... according to studies....the average BMI for those with OCD is significantly lower than that of the normal population....people like you are the worst you try and put words in other people mouths and label everyone as something derogatory....just because I said she was overweight doesn’t mean that it was an insult....it’s a descriptor, meaning it describes one of her attributes....would you have known who I was talking about if I didn’t say overweight? No you wouldn’t unless I wasted 5 minutes finding the time stamp why should I work harder to not offend someone for something of their own doing?
He shouldn't be working there
Nah the lady who got up and wrote the order down for him....... That was amazing
@@LittleLulubee there is nearly anyone who does it for him tho.....
@@LittleLulubee it was realistic. I'm sure he doesn't deal with costumers like those two who are very bad at understanding every single day if this was real. So the woman who wrote down the order for him was like something he doesn't experience every day, so it was very realistic.
@@LittleLulubee You didn't understand what I just said, what I'm saying is... if that this wasn't a staged scenario, there are probably people that would understand his condition while ordering from him and not insult him, and escalate things. So it was realistic.
Fred H. What is the probability of that?
@@kurosakebeyuki your common sense.
That first woman who got up and wrote down the order for him brought tears to my eyes. That’s a hero right there
I K R
IKR
I worked in a bakery I would've done the same
same. what a hero.
Duro that was beautiful ❤️
2:45 "He needs a little kindness, thats all.". Wish everybody could understand its that simple.
“Why would you help him?”
*”why wouldn’t you ?”*
😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ like bless her
Littlewhisper it’s a him
It a man
Littlewhisper she’s my ENGLISH TEACHER
Every single time I read comments that are quotes, I always hear and see it at the same time
the woman in the wheelchair...THERE are PEOPLE with disability who DON'T let THEIR disability define THEM...THERE is a football coach who was giving the highest sports award...he has NO LEGS NO ARMS...uses an electric wheelchair to get around...he DIDN'T LET HIS DISABILITY DEFINE HIM...why SHOULD you
Even though it was fake I still felt so bad for the waiter
James Taylor I mean they shouldn’t have a person who’s supposed to pick things up be the waiter he should be is the bottle container he’ll do an amazing job people with ocd have great organization
@@AquaUu There's a lot more to OCD than being organized...
NylaTheWolf Right?! People always go to me “omg you have OCD, so your room and stuff is really organized” and I’m like “wh-“
Same here bro
James Taylor
Yeah emphasis on “somehow”
This man did a very good job acting. He displayed OCD anxiety very well.
he does comedy and has a youtube channel now
@@TheBestShirt yesss i recognized him as soon as the video started 😭
bruh he’s not acting he actually has some of the most visibly severe OCD i’ve ever seen
@@TheBestShirtwhat is his channel?
That’s the first thing I thought of. What a great actor. What’s his channel?
Everyone in middle school:
"My OCD is flaring up"
SO TRUE ITS AnoYiNg
It's even worse when you're the one who was actually diagnosed with OCD.
Fr😭
Yeah I hate when people say stuff like that
Just because you want things neat doesn't mean you have OCD. I've been diagnosed and everything and the bitches that say "omg guys my ocd is being so bad rn omg" are the people who purposely mess with my OCD until I have panic attacks
“He just needs a little kindness, that’s all.” 😭😭😭💕💕💕
“I can’t use that pen, oh it’s okay. I have my own pen.” 😭😭💕💕
Bro I was about to cry
Bro i cried I'm not okay
god bless that person. shes a angel
Imma cry there's an onion
That was beautiful! 🤧
I had to shed a gangster tear when she gave him a hug
GANGSTER tear?
Jenni Britt I think gangster tears are a metaphorical term to being tough, but on the exterior, gangsters may seem tough but on the inside they'll cry since they are perceived as tough and gangster.
I know that but it is just funny because like you said a gangster is all tough and you just couldn’t
Imagine a gangster crying
I love this comment so much oml
OCD guys don't like being touched or hugged
i’ve had OCD since i was 11 obsessive thoughts can consume you and leave you sacred and one mistake can cause panic. it’s much more then simple worrying or “clean freak”
Exactly I have impulsive thoughts and I have to say things twice I need an even amount of steps I have to look at things and walk through doorways an even amount of times to. I once thought the hamburger meat I was eating was human meat and I didn’t eat dinner.
Exactly! I work in a job where I can potentially come in contact with a lot of “dirty” things, and I always think I’ve trained myself to “get over it”, but I still run to the sink or the hand sanitizer constantly. I’d say I sanitize my hands/arms an average of every 2-3 minutes during every shift. I had a panic attack and had to run to the kitchen to wash every inch of exposed skin on my face, neck, arms, and chest after a resident hugged me. OCD is nothing “fun” or “quirky”, it can absolutely be debilitating and humiliating. It means a lot to see severe OCD represented accurately in the media.
I love this video. OCD...it's not fun. I have it. Before I was on medicine, I couldn't take a shower for months or else my mom would get cancer. I decided I needed help when my teeth started falling out. After years of therapy and medicine...I am a High School history teacher, I have my own car and apartment, my own dog, and most importantly....I am happy and free from my thoughts. Free for 7 years! Everyone who showed compassion is a beautiful person!
Definitely, I have ocd too far from fun
so happy for you!!
I’m so happy you were able to overcome your struggles with ocd. Unfortunately that’s a battle I’m still fighting. I’ve been in therapy both CBT and ERP, under the care of a psychiatrist for medications and every other option under the sun.. I’ve been so desperate I even tried going to a holistic doctor that prescribed me some funky snake venom pills. Nothing has really worked… and I can only pray that someday, with enough work and help, I’ll be able put it in the rear view mirror.
I’ve gotten to the point where I have a long term job in my dream career field, my own apartment car etc.. and am a contributing member of society- I’ve just learned how to hide it better… but it’s still there.
@@ralexandra1058 My friend. Don't quit. You are way stronger then you believe. In your darkest times where you only think that the four walls you can see are this only world, remember this mantra: Breath. Remember you are in control. Remember you can leave this room and house whenever you want. You are loved. I love you, that is proof and a hand in the darkness for you to keep fighting. You are stronger then your thoughts and I believe in, and support your fight against them! You can do this!
@@jacktherripper I really appreciate that you took the time to reply to me even though your original comment was a year ago. Thank you for the kind words and encouragement, it really means a lot- especially coming from someone who knows what I’m going through, who’s been there and successfully made it through. I recently started trauma counseling in addition to another go at CBT. I was in an accident a few weeks ago which set me back on my progress. I left the house without doing one of my rituals and was immediately in a major car accident… and although unrelated and irrational, has further cemented some of the obsessions and respective compulsions surrounding leaving the house. My hope is that the trauma counseling combined with the CBT will help with this.
When people say “I have OCD” OCD isn’t just being “neat” it’s more than that and it’s pretty serious.
It’s something that affects your daily life really seriously
Lex likes Minecraft yes
Yea I don’t want to self diagnose myself bc I hate it so much when people do but I can’t go 39 minutes without doing something to sooth myself I AM CONSTANTLY TAPPING WALLS I CANT STOP!!! but the funny thing is is that I told my mom but she just said to pray 😂 I think it’s a bit more than that
I know I personally have OCD and it makes me so angry when people just say "oh yeah i have OCD" because they're neat.
@@naomikunkel4350 That sounds like ADHD
The ex waitress and the last lady.. You'll be remembered!!
@Nikaya LittleTiger thank you big 😁
Always remebered👰😀🙏In the arms of the angels
Excuse me??
@Unicorn Kawaii what dont you get?
???? Im confused
As someone with severe childhood onset OCD, I appreciate y’all spreading awareness. OCD is a nightmare but with proper therapy and treatment, it gets easier.
For someone who has and deals with this disorder everyday I couldn’t stop crying, this hit to close to home.
I'm glad this episode is here to educate the "I'm so OCD" people
I hate those people. They don't even know what it is. Ask someone or do research before saying it.
Saammmeeee
Cruella De Vil Oh yeah, definitely. I have mild OCD, it’s so annoying when people in my class say things like that when they clearly dont
Nobody:
Those People: *sOrrY Im sO OcD*
Seriously though!
"What can I tell you. The world isn't perfect."
Respect.
189 likes and im only reply...
Sophie Andrews 😭😭
For real #Respect
Nothing is perfect
I hate how people are constantly telling disabled people like myself (I have autism) to just go get a job and when we finally try to do something we get bullied by almost everyone.. So what should we do then.
Customer: "I hear therapy's great."
Me: "As if therapy's gonna fix OCD. If that's the case, how?"
@mushwoomtomb Sometimes, even when people with OCD are told to stop, sometimes they just can't.
Therapy does help. OCD is the mental illness with the lowest percentage of cases where it just goes away. But the thing is, you also really have to push through it yourself, doing things you're scared of and that's why working as a waiter would actually benefit a person like him.
No, it can't just go away. But therapy can help the people with OCD to learn how to live better with the OCD and that can ease the symtoms. It's amazing that help is possible. But what's really sad it that mental illnesses aren't taken seriously in our society. Many people even think that there is nothing like a mental illness and that it's just a stupid imagination. But it's not, mental illnesses are something very serious. If people with mental illnesses like OCD were more accepted in our society, they would definitely feel at least a bit better about it.
OCD is something that need to be looked at by both a Neurologist, and a Psychologist. I can't speak on the neurologist role, however, OCD tends to include an ultimatum complex, basically it means "I have to do this activity X amount of times, or else Y thing will happen"
Therapy doesn't try to straight up "stop" OCD, but instead work on what "Y" is and easing the tension that you get from it, whcih in turn, can help relieve stress and other issues that tend to appear due to the strain that OCD has on the individual, if "Y" isn't so scary/stressful/painful anymore, then doing activities X amount of times won't be as necessary or as demanding on me
Psychotherapy is important!
Therapy fucking sucks but if it's good for anything, it's OCD. OCD is very treatable, especially compared to most mental illnesses, probably because it's a very behavior-driven disorder. Resisting compulsions actually helps alleviate obsessions over time. Changing your behaviors and thoughts does very little for other things like depression, at least if you have the kind of depression I have.
As someone with OCD, even with medication and therapy, it still can take over your life and make you feel trapped. I wish more people understood how difficult it can be. And I wish in the future, the people who say "oh sorry, I'm just a little OCD, could you fix that" would understand.
"He just needs a little kindness"
*I'm literally drowning in my tears rn** 😭😭
Sorry my man ik that u dont have tirs in ur eye but hsve great day
Notldyer I’m not a guy btw and yes I am in tears ?
Art Gozzip Nation shut up u didnt cry idiot
@@hamadshah1612rude
Notdlyer Did you just have a stroke..?
All the white girls in my school:
“Sorry it’s just my OCD”
What are you oan aboot ya twat
“I’m so depressed.. my boyfriend isn’t at school today..”
Omg thank you for noticing those idiots
Mackala Everest why the hell are your racist
You realise that you are being racist ya wallaper
The lady that gave him a hug THAT MELTED MY HEART
*"The world isn't perfect"*
Wise words said by that man
“I don't trust anyone who's nice to me but rude to the waiter. Because they would treat me the same way if I were in that position.”
-Muhammad Ali
Facccssss 💯💯💯💯
@@AudieBOfficial yup yup :)
I saw this comment on another wwyd featuring an old waiter
Is this an actual quote from him?
That's an actual interview trick. Not only waiters, but any attendance staff including reception.
"what do I tell you? The world isn't perfect" *continue eating*
That man has an ancient wisdom about him
Charli Ansell how can u make the continue eating part in that font??
Trinity Delima Put asterisks before and after a word/sentence. Hope I could help!
ItsVery Dank thanks i think u did!❤️
*Hi y’all*
ItsVery Dank I did itttttt!!!😂👏
As someone with awful anti-contact OCD similar to this, it makes me emotional to see support like this. I'm glad people can be this kind.
OCD is NOT an easy thing to live with. Especially when it’s severe and interferes with everything you do in your life.
Me: flushes the toilet
John Quiñones: (crawling out of the toilet) Now, what made you do that?
Lmaooooo
Bruh 😂
public toilet*
JQ:The toilet is an actor
That is a horrifying thought
*we find out this story hits close to home*
Bystander: My Dog’s brother’s owner’s goldfish has OCD so this is very personal for me.
HAHA
OCD is very serious, but this joke is funny 😂. I mean no offense to those who have OCD, but that's my type of humor right there.
Oof
This joke is funny, but ocd is a real issue (just wanted to say that)
i have OCD but this joke was too funny 😂
White girls in my school:
“Teacher, can you erase that little bit of marker ink on the corner of the board. Im getting OCD”
I do that hahahha
make it about race nice
My teacher actually does that. It's really annoying
@@joedartonthefenderbass yea, feeling annoyed is different from OCD, also, yea my teachers do that too LOL
@@Oshidorinohina youre mad?
As someone who suffers from really severe OCD, this is just heartwarming to see. The actor did and AMAZING Job of portraying how someone with OCD does things. It’s great to see awareness being raised (:
Switch roles: Waiter is upset over OCD customer(s)
I want to see that
i thought that was initially the title of the video 😂
The movie “As Good as it Gets” has that.
Yesss
Gacha Family Soooo “Waiter gets upset because his table is neat and cleanly?” That should make a riveting episode...
"It's like a disease of the body, but just affects the brain"
KatzSandra tbh that didn't make it sound even better, they could of explained it better. I am happy she tried though not a lot of people understand.
But there's a difference. People with OCD can make choices. Someone with a physical illness can't.
Jessica- It’s different because it affects behavior, and behavior is within our control
@@LittleLulubee Maybe this is the case with OCD but with my own mental illness it has been a major journey where there have definitely been times I had no control. Having a full blown manic episode is very scary when you look back at all the impulsive and dangerous choices made. Thankfully I'm medicated now but that is not all peaches and cream. I have a lot of trouble controlling my anger these days. I would not wish bipolar 1 upon anyone.
@@LittleLulubee I also have OCD, and God has been my rescuer, he can also help you if you open up to him, trust him and decide to walk with him, it's a miracle in process
I personally have OCD and it really upsets me when people are thinking OCD is only about wanting to be neat. It's so much more than that and it's so much more serious than everyone thinks. I count almost everything I do. When people are weirded out I tell them WHY I do it and all they say is "OCD only means people want everything to be neat, nice faking."
i have OCD as well, and i know exactly what you mean :(
My significant other has OCD because at age 6 a teacher said " Always wash your hands after using the bathroom or you'll get sick".
That's what started it for him. Now, age 53 it's never been treated. He is highly functioning with his version of OCD, but he struggles everyday. I love him so much and I wish he didn't suffer.
It's a very serious disorder and they just need compassion and love.
I’m sorry your partner is struggling. He can overcome his OCD if he finds the ability to confront his OCD compulsions. I would recommend the TH-cam Channel “OCD and Anxiety” as they give many great tips on how to overcome OCD. Hope this helps.
"He needs a little kindness, that's all."
Im not crying, my eyes are sweating
I’m not pooping, my ass is just brown
Purge Elixir 😂
No one asked dumbass
William Shaw beg
Foyez Ahmed a
"What can I tell you?
The world isn't perfect."
His voice tho
I laughed so hard 😂
Yeah it's a wonderfull word form that guy 😍😍
Thats so funny whan i was scrolling down watching i read your comment the same time he said what can tell you the world isn't perfect😄😄😄
Halima fuck u this is *NO* laughing matter! (Idiot)
The warm hug by that sweet lady at the end, made me cry. Bless her!!
I have severe OCD and this video made me cry so hard. You have no idea what it's like not to be able to be at peace in your own mind. Be grateful for being healthy 🙏
I have severe OCD and the actor got it spot on although most of us keep it to ourselves because if we tell people what's wrong they'll think we're crazy.
Yeah would think the stuff he's saying but not say it out loud like he does
Same I also have OCD but I would probably pick up the utensil with a napkin and tell her I’m going to get another one. I’ll head to the back room wash my hands like crazy and grab a new one. I work in a hectic place that has a lot of situations like those and I learn very quickly to think on my feet for fear that people will look at me weird.
@@Littlepolarbear my thoughts exactly. And if you want to count odd numbers or touch all your fingertips to your thumb in order it's all good but things I've learned to hide.
I also have ocd Nd my friends laughed at me when they found out
@@rajendertkr They obviously don't understand the disorder then. Either that, or you need some real friends.
You should do it on a reversed role where it's the customers have ocd.....
Its growing in popularity as it can also be used to describe someone who displays common ocd traits... Like cleaning your deskspace or combing your hair constantly
Yes that'll be awesome
Omg i was your 666 th like lol
Tahir Khan I would love that.
Tahir Khan haha
We need more people like the last 2 in the world. Having a disability is hard.
Every time I watch this show it never ceases to amaze me the amount of nice people that speak up for a stranger
crazy, this show kinda emotional
Yessss honestly that made me so happy
She’s an angel 🙏🏼💕
honestly i did cry
I’m kinda mad the show didn’t Acknowledge that
She’s educated 👏
Hunny, the first couple was like superman and catwoman. Sis pulled out her own pen like wtffff yesss hunny save humanity.
Baraka ok.
@Baraka are u a fucking perfectionist or something
Cat woman was always the villain more like supergirl and Superman
@Scp 096 running when mom find poop sock It's called slang
Heck yes that was awesome
It's so hard working with a mental illness. Gotta be compassionate
Kindness is beautiful and emotional
I love how you see so many people have good hearts to help others in need. Everyone is different but we all have good hearts either way
**Random person reassuring and comforting waiter with ocd**
John: **comes out of nowhere with 30 cameras and crewmen**
That's funny
500th like
People should not be allowed to call other people names on this board. It is ridiculous and disgusting. People with any mental or physical conditions should not be treated like they are beneath everybody else.
600th like
666th like
I think the first woman in pink had the best reaction I’ve ever seen in this show. Honestly, don’t try to fight with words those who don’t support you or others, give a hand and help those who can appreciate kindness :)
Yes
This dude does some good stand up comedy now
I have OCD, level one Autism, Anxiety, Depression, and stress disorder. Having these mental illnesses is indeed a burden, and sometimes I feel like my mental illnesses are getting worse and worse,but support is always a good thing to have. I feel better knowing I’m not the only one. Thanks for making this video, John. It makes me feel good.
"You could have left...instead of insulting people." [💗]
Me, in public watching a kid fall on their face: *laughs*
WWYD: "hi, I'm John with what would you do"
Me: *Takes a dollar bill at school off the ground that isn't mine*
*George Washington's face slowly transforms into john*
Hi! I'm john quinuonuz.
DC Nerd Reacts lol
"Why did you act in that way"
@@imgonnaputsomedirtinyourpi1014 lol
@@sophiasshook416 "oh uhm-it was funny yeah funny"
Who else cried when the lady went over to help him it was so sweet 🥺
Even though it’s premeditated, that first experience of him struggling broke my heart as he also tried to explain himself. That lady in pink was an angel
As someone with OCD, this video makes me happy that people were so kind and forgiving to him. Ocd is a very misunderstood condition and I'm grateful for this episode showing what it really is
I have it to n much more disabilities I get tread like shit from time from time
Exactly! I’m so glad they did their research unlike some people that portray it as “perfectionists”
peter Yanes I’m so sorry to hear that. *hugs*
As time goes on i work on my ocd but i still cant walk down the street without going back and forth. This fucking disease manifests itself in so many diffirent ways im so glad they brought this up on this show
I relate to this^^^^ (top) I suffer from OCD ASD and tourettes :) I'm treated like normal because I think people know I can't help it
The disabled woman was right but if the OCD waiter had a person beside him taking the order than what job would the OCD waiter have?
Bryan Diaz
Because the world is full of idiots and think everyone needs help for the rest of their lives.
@@harleyquinn3739 because some people do need help for the rest or their lives. Like me. Some people need therapists, some people need Caregivers/Caretakers, some people might even need someone to stand next to them and do their job. If anyone's an idiot it's you. Please think before you comment.
I wouldn't say she was right at all, just because he has ocd that means they can't have a peaceful meal? Uh I don't think that's how that works
Well if u take someone that has problems with talking and let him write everything down and pick stuff up if it falls and have the guy with OCD do the talking you would have two distorted people with a job and there would be no problems.
@Bryan Diaz she was kinda wrong because she didn’t know he was a actor. And she yet still took the side of the people being toxic
I had tears when that lady hugged him and told him it was okay we all need that kind of mom figure in our life wow💖💖
I love this channel because it really dose show you that kindness has a big impact on people and I find that amazing and I hope more people would understand that.
Litearlly no one :
Me at 3Am: ouuu what’s this video ?
Ha same
Sameee 😂
Jakirus Whitley it’s 3 am for me and I’m watching this🤠
me rn. its 3am here
LMFAOOOOOOO💀💀💀💀💀
You’d think the disabled lady would try and take his side 💀
Y’all pressed asf this was like 7 months ago😭
Lol
Not all disabled people are of the same social status. The rich don’t care about the poor’s conditions and that’s universal.
A M same like you of all people are a bitch?
Right ughhhh
@@deannadanielle Explain how is she a bitch? She didn't say anything remotely bad or discriminating against him. She simply told the truth about the realities of being a waiter and the possible inability to serve with his OCD. If his illness is severely limiting him, I dont think its fair to other customers to deal with it (although the customer actors were huge bitches)
This is a good one. I suffer from a mild form of OCD and when people are understanding that we do it to help others it's refreshing
I have Autism and I was bullied my whole school career from kindergarten until 12th grade. Standing up for someone could really change someone’s life.
I hope they do a episode about social anxiety or anxiety maybe that’ll help some people understand it more 💁🏽♀️
I hope they do also. It's hard to have social anxiety.
I hope so
barb frontczak forreal
Typical emo girl: “tHeRe nEedS tO bE aWaRnEsS fOr aNxIeTy” smh
@@d4vd1436 it's a real thing and I won't assume all people are faking it but there are lots of "quirky" "depressed" 14 year olds who say "I hAve soCial anXieTy" lmao
edit: idk if I have social anxiety but I am very introverted.
Kids at my front door: trick r' treat!
Me: *drops a snickers into their bags*
*John appears from the bushes*
😂
“Why did you do this kind act today?”
@@ZzippystardustT "My aunt is a trick or treater so this hit close to me"
🤣🤣🤣OMFG
Lol
I'm with the disable woman 100%.
Each and every one of us needs to understand their limits. Everybody deserves respect, obviously, but it is wrong to say that everyone can do everything.
I worked in theatre with disable people and I even made a show with deaf actors. Noone expected them to act with their voice even if they were capable of making sound, because it was terrible! But that's not a bad thing to say, it was the truth! They expressed theatre through their bodies.They knew their limits and with that knowledge they honestly became better actors than me.
This new idea of trying not to see disability is simply wrong and actually disrespectful.
Yeah this is very true at a place I managed I worked with a little person who had aspergers and she did the prep in the mornings (we worked in a kitchen) and suprisingly she was very good even better than the average worker without a disability like she was always done on time (which I couldnt say for alot of my other employees at the time) although she made a bit more of a mess than everyone else but nontheless we didnt expect her to be like a server and taking orders and face to face going through the assembly line which she could hardly see over. We gave her a fitting job and she excellled in it and she brought so much joy to our Kitchen.
Him not picking up a fork doesn’t mean he shouldn’t work at a restaurant ._.
@@Jessica-kw8no realistically speaking, if he’s not willing to pick up at work, then imagine what he’s limited to doing behind the scenes
I agree with what the disabled woman in this video was saying as well. I strongly believe in reasonable accommodations for people with disabilities, but I don't believe in unfair advantages for disabled people. What I mean by reasonable accommodations are accommodations that help a disabled person be successful at meeting the performance standards expected of them, accommodations that allow someone with a disability to accurately demonstrate their skills, their performance, their ability, etc. What I mean by unfair advantages is accommodations where a disabled person is told what the answers are on a test, accommodations where engineering majors with a disability don't have to take Calculus while everyone else that's an engineering major has to take Calculus, accommodations where a disabled person is held to an 85% or higher standard for an A in the class while everyone else is held to a 90% or higher standard for an A in the class, accommodations where a disabled person is held to a 60% or higher standard for passing the CPA exam while everyone else is held to a 75% or higher standard for passing the CPA exam, accommodations where people with disabilities are allowed to be bad at their job and not be held accountable for that, etc.
I also 100% agree with you how it's wrong to say that everyone can do everything. Everyone has their strengths, and everyone has their weaknesses. All disabled people and all non disabled people have things that they are good at and things that they are not good at. If someone isn't good at Math, they shouldn't be an engineer or a physicist. If someone is blind, they shouldn't be a pilot or bus driver. If someone isn't mechanically inclined, they shouldn't be an auto mechanic, plumber, or construction worker. If someone isn't good at thinking fast in life or death situations, they shouldn't be a police officer.
I think if someone with OCD is capable of meeting the performance standards expected of them as a waiter (with or without reasonable accommodations), they're capable of being waiters. If someone with OCD isn't capable of meeting the performance standards expected of them as a waiter (even with reasonable accommodations), they're not fit to be waiters.
You seem to strongly believe in treating people with disabilities with respect. I also strongly believe in treating people with disabilities with respect. I wish you the best.
I see it more as: why is the manager leaving him to the wolves. Like the claim is “we wanted to give him a chance” but they also haven’t given him the tools that he needs to succeed. Like sometimes helping someone with a disability means giving them specific accommodations for what they need, not just treating them like everyone else but rather making sure they are set up with what they need to do their job effectively.
" Can you pick it up" ?
Me: No bish you dropped it
That's what I would say
Ty Cox - Slots 😂😂😂
Omg 🤣🤪
TRUE!!!!!
Same lol
Lies 😁
In the first one
A couple : stands up for the guy and helps him out
Lady : cries and leaves then comes back
They talk to the lady because why not
Thanks I didnt watch the video
I think it’s because she actually has OCD
Abrar Rajkhan that’s still not an a good reason because they didn’t know that until they asked her
@@TsayAzar maybe the couple didn't want to be interviewed or on TV
She might not have wanted to be interviewed or she could have left because she was done eating.
these wwyd episodes dealing with mental illness really make me tear up because i deal with mental illness and it’s a huge part of my life and seeing others stand up for those also dealing with mental illness just warms my heart
Honestly one thing I love about these wwyd videos is you get to learn about mental health and stuff too like I didn’t know some of these things happen from having ocd
*_I would pay John Quiñones to introduce himself at a Party_*
_Bob McCoy Same with Chris Hansen
Oh fucking hell, you're here too...
@@artemiswolf4508 what about Chris Morris?
Omg I see you everywhere. Inside Edition?
Oh no... not you...
5:00 "What can I tell you? The world isn't perfect."
Less judgment. More understanding. 👍
Preach sister
Omg you go too my school!
@@spork1828 Wait, what??
@@bryhalla loool u go my school!!!!!
Oh yeah yeah
The woman who wrote and even got her own pen was so sweet
I have OCD that I' managing with medication and it absolutely sucks. I had crazy obsessions with symmetry, organization, flipping light switches, shutting doors, cutting loose strings off clothes, and constant anxiety about embarrassing moments from my past or about doing silly things, losing permanent teeth, or getting a terminal illness. God bless the people willing to help this guy.
"If he has OCD he shouldn't be working in public service."
Yes, that's right, all us mentally ill folk need to learn where we belong - under the rocks in our caves! How dare we think we have the right to be hard working, productive members of society who enjoy the same rights and privileges as normal people. THE AUDACITY.
Sorry I left my deep dark hole for some burgers, now I must retreat.
Yes! Just because someone was born different doesn’t mean they can’t live a life that everybody else!
Yea but then if it get so bad that we can’t be a functioning member of society and can’t get a job and have to go on government help we’re just “living off of the working people”. Make up your minds people!
Im sorry miss, but mentally ill (your language, i prefer to use people with special needs) people cant have same rights and privileges as normal people, they're special they need more rights and more privileges, youre special. It hurts me so much when special needs people try to be normal without friend or family watching over them and encounters problem that they expected.
Of course they can work in public place but they need to be ready for it cause ofc occasionally people would help but you cant always depends on people kindness just because you want to be "normal" while you dont have the power to keep ur illness on check, stop pretending to be normal, special people need special treatment and special care. Dont be those special needs people who wanted to be normal but when things get rough they play the "i have condition" card.
Im sure half the assumptions that say "mental illness people shouldnt work in public place" (if any) came from somewhere also like from this episode for example, does the customer have to get and write their own needs cause the waitress got an OCD and worried about much things? In this case he cant even picked up the spoon on the floor where he can just wrap it with the handkerchief and change for the new spoon, its still too acute and he clearly is not in position to be working for long hours or without supervision.
God made you special, why be normal? Everyone need kindness but i just feel sad if the life of special needs people bring sadness and tears (and God forbid, pity) from people around them, people with special needs are not drenched puppies in the rain, they're fellow human being who just happened to be different than the rest of people.
xenowhore The FREAKING AUDACITY MY GOSH
My mom has OCD, I'm used to my mom having to constantly check things over multiple times. She's always counting her steps and shit. Its difficult but what can they do?
She is ur mom , that reason is enough to love her 😊
aww
Isnt it obvious? It definitely disrupts function, so do mindfulness training to be more conscious of why the acts are irrational. Identify obsessive compulsive behaviour and refrain them. If she doesnt have enough willpower, then consult a psychiatrist to get medication, such as anxiety relieving antidepressants like zoloft sertraline. Get it fixed!
Stop counting, force herself to not check because she already did and there's no point in checking no matter what, and do not continue practicing obsessive compulsive behaviour because the more u lose to ur impulses the stronger they persist. Reduce stress and anxiety causers to help reduce development of new rituals or worries
It’s not that easy
6:25 love her reaction ( kindness ) 🥺🥺
I really love to watch every episodes of your show and there were also a time a time l shared this to my friends in social media. This topic would turned everyone to cry or open their concern to the people who had disabilities or special needs. God bless this show.
In my opinion, the disabled women needs to be more kind to other disabled people. I work as a waitress and I was like guy in the video. OCD is no fun. It was really hard at first and I got so many rude comments, even from people who have mental and physical disabilities. Over the last year I have gotten much better at my job and it takes time. People who have disabilities and do something for the first time, it takes a while and we shouldn't expect to be perfect at first. But you also have to make sure you don't get a job you can't handle because you might feel miserable and stressed all the time. When you're disabled you have to get a job that challenges you, but something that you can handle.
What’s the benefit of having some do your job 24/7? No point being there! She had a different disability to him she didn’t know how it felt
Nicole Herbert I have Bad ADD myself so I can relate.
Shes angry.
She was very harsh. If this were real, the manager would either ask those being assholes to leave, due to harassment of staff, or they would’ve given them another waiter/waitress and apologised, then later explaining to the waiter/waitress why they were no longer serving the two customers. People with mental illness and disabilities need jobs too. We all need some way to live.
Eclipsies Martinez exactly!!
The lady that took the order for him?!....now thats an ANGEL there....u d BEST..I LOVE U....
Sending you so much love for making this and to him because he’s just amazing, wish them all the best x
As a person with ocd, thanks for spreading awareness on this
I'm so glad you did something that has to do with OCD.
Is it really as bad as that?
@@sparechainge depends on the type of OCD
@@sparechainge yes and it can be very worse.
Dp Sm me to! I have ADHD/OCD,Anxiety Disorder/Panic Attacks. I use to work at a drugstore and I had my Lysol wipes/spray. I was so obsessed with cleaning after each customers and stuff. My Managers like: “You have to have some germs” lol!
Mortyy VC I have OCD and there are different types. It’s very exhausting and when I use to work,felt the need to apologize to people,for having it.
A lot of people don't understand OCD, it should be publicised more. Some people aren't as understand as others, the first women in pink was absolutely fantastic.
horses and Conor Maynard are life i love horses too.
horses and Conor Maynard are life yea
Well people think if your not socially capable don’t be a waiter
@@wolfcub1835 people gotta make a pay, it doesn't matter who you are.
horses and Conor Maynard are life EQUESTRIANS UNITEEE
When you teach your children compassion from an early age, you raise decent human beings that this world needs.
The disabled lady is exactly right. He deserves a chance, just not at that particular job. As she said, she wouldn't be a ski instructor.
People with OCD would care about you the most and worry about you. that's so lovely 🙂💖
-Reddo- I see you in every video I watch in the comments
I have OCD and i worry about my cat all the time, so yeah i guess 😂😂
(trust me, i do so dont tell me i dont.)
@@potatodog9101 lmaoo
@@cici-tl9kq that put a smile on my face :)
-Reddo- It’s true, I have mild OCD and constantly worry about my friends and family. I’ll get to school and start panicking, thinking “did I turn the light off? What if a fire happens” or “I didn’t walk right today... what if something happens.” Sometimes it’s good worrying, other times it’s bad. It has come in handy many times though, with me constantly asking people if they’re alright, I usually don’t miss a moment when they aren’t. Sorry that was so long... rip
“I am not going to be a ski instructor”
What a brilliant honest statement from that lady 💪
@roblox Player 2012 Tell someone because all she is doing is getting you in trouble. If she does it to you, then she is probaly going to do it to someone else.
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@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw I have no idea, hope nothing bad happened
Tyler Gulley what was their comment?
@@northway8209 Basically, this kid said that his teacher forced him to have sex with her, and he wanted to know what to do.
I've struggled with OCD since I was little and most people think it's just about being a clean freak, I'm glad people are spreading awareness about it because it's a lot more then most people see and it affects my life every day
As an OCD patient myself, this does happen sometimes, and it can be very stressful. Ive been symptom-free for over a year now because of medication, though! :D Thank you for acknowledging this disorder
"What can I tell you? The world isn't perfect." 💯💯💯
Dave Rigel yum
The way he said it, it was kinda badass
@@austin7280 yes like from a movie scene tbh
Worst thing anybody’s ever said about OCD
“Omg I’m so OCD” if you break that down then its “Oh my god i am so Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.” Like wtf?
Luisa Renee Exactly people go around saying this shit without having any idea what it’s like! (I personally don’t have OCD but I struggle with anxiety related intrusive thoughts and it just gets so tiring. Like I’m fed up with someone else living in my brain) Why would anyone want to have OCD? It sounds terrible!
Luisa Renee ikr it’s like saying “im so depression”
@@viazimo3111 That's not even good grammar. LIKE BRUH! People need to stop saying that.
Ok first of all so true, the amount of bad Grammer in that is hurting me lol. Second of all, the sad thing sis that people who say are usually just people who need to organize the colored pencils or like to have things organized. OCD is not just the need to have things neat people -__-
Thank you I have OCD and this really meant something to me. Someone wouldn't go around saying, "I'm so down syndrome" or like wtf
Haha, honestly if that were real the lady who got up to give him a hug would be his worst nightmare.
no because it's true omg
Thank you for this awareness. 🙏🏼🥺
0:29 this man predicted the pandemic and we didn't listen to him, look at us now
Hahahaha 😂😂😂 this is sad
What if he didn't have OCD
NO NO! YOU DONT UNDERSTAAAAND
The world is acting as if they have OCD.
Blessings
Salif Scott please calm down take a deep breath in and out
Salif Scott you were mad typing in caps lock
Me: wakes up to my alarm
Also me: sees John Quinones at the foot of my bed
John Quinones: Hi I'm John Quinones and this is what would you do. It's okay, no need to worry. It's just a TV show!
Me: why are you here? What did I do? I don't see what the situation is...
John Quinones: It's okay, it's just a TV show. Now, what made you want to wake up on time? That was really amazing.
Me: My alarm... Now why are you in my house again?
John Quinones: I know, it's a little emotional, the situation, but you handled it amazing!
Me:... I'll just go back to bed now...
I couldn't stop laughing
you have a great imagination for writing! well done.
This was funny to me lol
John: now why did you go back to sleep
😂😂😂
I was looking for an OCD episode because i have it myself. It's so nice hearing people stick up for all of them but seeing my own just makes me feel warm.
This show brings out the best in people.
Me: *sees penny*
Mind: *i should pick this up because it would help with littering and I get some money*
Me: *picks it up*
WWYD: wHy DiD yOu PiCk ThAt Up¿
Me: *r u n*
Edit: yes I know I stole this off of TikTok stop fr fr
Animatentions 😂😂😂
HAHAHAA
I am literally DECEASED
Animatentions 😂😂
Animatentions I saw that in a TikTok 🤔