ASMR WHISPER * Take a Trip Down Memory Lane With Me!

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  • Take a trip down memory lane with me as I take you through some old photos of me growing up.
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  • @lakshmi_18
    @lakshmi_18 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    i absolutely love how humble you are. i’ve been binge watching your videos and i love the content! i love listening to your deep thoughts, never settle!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Appreciate this...definitely waited this long so not gonna settle for sure!

  • @regista00
    @regista00 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Real sorry to hear about your younger brother passing. Love your channel, we appreciate your commitment. Love from the uk

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Thank you for saying that. I find peace in knowing he didn't have to struggle through this world. I think about all the madness I have endured and he would have had to do the same and that part brings me peace. He died in a motorcycle accident so he was doing something he loved. Thanks for caring!

  • @keith96969
    @keith96969 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Need rest of my 20’s and life to go like yours did. You always inspire me. I gotta make the changes needed to get to where you are.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thats where it starts, brother. You want it....now you do the work....shitloads of it....you will get there! th-cam.com/users/shortspCoLTjS3r_I

  • @jhoanabastet
    @jhoanabastet 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You were a beautiful human back then and you are a beautiful human now.
    Looking at your family photo, I can see the pride in your parents eyes in that exact moment. I know parents fail us many times (they are just out here trying to do better then their own parents did with them), but seeing all of you together I can tell your parents have felt so much love for you and your siblings ❤
    You've come a long way, your hard work not only financially but rather introspectively has certainly paid off, congratulations :) you're a great example to look up to and there is no doubt that you'd be a great dad :)

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you Jhoana! There was a lot that was great about my childhood and I do believe my family did feel that love for us then. I just wish they could have found a way to hold the family together. We have all splintered and it's really sad. I know they had their reasons. I read a quote by Carl Jung the other day that said "The greatest tragedy of the family is the unlived lives of the parents." I think maybe my dad must have read that and decided to live his life in the process of abandoning his family.
      I have come a long way and I am grateful to have accomplished my dream of financial independence. I also believe I would have been a great dad and you just never know what the future holds...stay tuned and we will see:)

  • @samanthajoy7430
    @samanthajoy7430 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Awww I adored the pictures! What a fun video! Thanks for sharing that with all of us 🤗

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought it was a great idea and so happy you liked it!

  • @tracydavies760
    @tracydavies760 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video once again! I love looking at old photos, you haven't changed much over the years (apart from all that hair lol) Thanks for sharing your memories 😊

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      HA! Yes I had a lot of hair back then. It's funny because I vividly remember getting my hair cut as a kid and having the barber tell me.."with hair like this you will likely never lose it." He was wrong...LOL! How bout that sexy mullet though:)

  • @caseygardner8583
    @caseygardner8583 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gosh isn’t it insane how time seriously flys bye it’s honestly crazy.
    I was in the era where all are photos were saved on phone and if you lost or broke your phone you lost all your memories :(

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Truly does bro! Funny you say that about the old phones and losing your data...been there too!

  • @TysonASMR
    @TysonASMR 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro your hair was majestic af in your prom picture 🔥

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HA. Yes it was!

  • @keymarie238
    @keymarie238 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    You're aging well. You look the same, just more mature overtime😊

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, Marie....blushing:)

  • @Neardarkphotography
    @Neardarkphotography 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There needs to be more of this style of video people just talking about their lives. It's so wholesale and really relaxing.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you liked it! Thank you for the comment!

  • @christopherrose4568
    @christopherrose4568 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a great video. Makes me really want to make sure that I hold onto all of my photos especially since it's so easy to take them with my phone which I think I take for granted. Cheers!

  • @Draig_ASMR
    @Draig_ASMR 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    So when are you getting a tattoo of a Toyota logo? 😂 Tattoos are incredibly popular now, as for the mullet, it came back very recently with the youngsters.
    I've had people tell me "When you're old you'll regret your tattoos because they won't look as good" but honestly if I'm in my 70s, I'm not going to care how my tattoos look by that point haha.
    Great video and great pictures my friend

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ha! Likely not gonna happen bro. I hope you know I wasn't judging...just pointing out the generational differences. There are times I feel naked not having them when I look around and see everyone with them.

    • @Draig_ASMR
      @Draig_ASMR 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ASMRReality Of course my friend! No offence taken! I completely get your point 🙂👍

  • @MrCrow2014
    @MrCrow2014 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Handsome then handsome now. Thanks for sharing these with us Derek. Your videos are looking super professional now btw! Awesome

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Appreciate that, bro! Nice to see you in the comment section again!

  • @KarmaWhispersASMR
    @KarmaWhispersASMR 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    super neat video, cool to see another added depth into your life, hope your day/night is going well

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All is well! Hope you are doing well too!

  • @wayne3704
    @wayne3704 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Derek.. fantastic video as always.Thanks for the shout out!! It's been a fast four years my friend.Im sure your mrs right is just around the corner..as they say what is meant for you won't pass you!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hell yeah! Got to shout you out when I can!

  • @mayokuaiasmr
    @mayokuaiasmr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    3:20 awww!
    so cool to see your younger self, Derek :D

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're the B E S T!

  • @thebakedbeans143
    @thebakedbeans143 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the random beard scratching was amazing!! great video!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good to know...those are inadvertent...but glad you like them:)

  • @ItzJakefromstatefarm
    @ItzJakefromstatefarm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely inspiring video, im going threw something similar to your story and to know things could get better... 🙏🏻🤙 everything you described is so true man

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It gets better bro...just got to keep going forward!

  • @michaelb8924
    @michaelb8924 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You mentioned you used to smoke cigarettes, perhaps an video about how you stopped or just getting over addictions in general (not saying you were addicted, just as a topic for others) would be cool to hear about it from your perspective!

    • @danielvakulovic7939
      @danielvakulovic7939 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I found his channel with youtube recommending me something like "my opinion on drugs". I believe he made that video some months ago

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I did make a video a couple months ago on this....
      th-cam.com/video/z7yXRH1fXSs/w-d-xo.html

  • @kendalblevins9615
    @kendalblevins9615 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love to hear your thoughts. Thank you

  • @fentsemodikwa7223
    @fentsemodikwa7223 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video is amazing. Just hearing your life’s journey is inspiring and just relaxing. Keep it up Derek🤝🏽

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you liked it!

  • @Joey50551
    @Joey50551 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the video! Great work yet again

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, Joey!

  • @MrRorosuri
    @MrRorosuri 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so sweet ❤

  • @dirtroadfarm.4024
    @dirtroadfarm.4024 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A person Never gets over losing a sibling. So young too. Sorry about your brother..

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I never thought it would be this hard for so long.

  • @Ponce17
    @Ponce17 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love hearing and seeing people talk about their childhood, most of the time they're so happy, remembering family, friends and crazy fun little trouble they'd make 😂😅 that's going to be me one day! Lol I'm only 25 but I feel okay about aging, i have 5 kids so I'm always going to have someone to bore and talk endlessly about my good times lol.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow 5 kids at 25...thats strong. You made up for the ones I didn't have! Good for you!

    • @Ponce17
      @Ponce17 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ASMRReality lol 😂 it's great, stressful of course. Wouldn't recommend more than two kids, but I always wanted a big family and thankfully they always have everything they need and more!(: thanks for your videos, they really are my go too when it's alone/relax time

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ponce17 So glad I can bring you some relaxation....with all those kids you definitely deserve it! I'll keep the videos coming and you make sure you raise them right!

  • @autumnmoonASMR
    @autumnmoonASMR 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    wow i loved this! aging is a privilege that not all get to do

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awww thank you! You can always fall back on some of my ideas if you struggle to come up with some of your own. I would be honored to be copied by you:) Love seeing your continued growth and love to see the effort you are putting in! Proud of you!

  • @zachcover4470
    @zachcover4470 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for the vid😃

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      always welcome, my friend

  • @BlouSpaceAsmr
    @BlouSpaceAsmr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is such a cute video! Love it!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!! Just subscribed to you! Why did you only do one video and stop?

  • @A_Fin
    @A_Fin 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m a very nostalgic person so I absolutely love this video idea!!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish I could remember who recommended it to me so I could thank them. It was a great idea and just really glad you liked it!

  • @gamingmachine6042
    @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listen ur friend will get through this and i will make sure u know that he will be all right ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm not sure he will but I sure hope you are right.

    • @gamingmachine6042
      @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ASMRRealitysee cancer won't beat him if he dies the cancer also dies because it needs a body to live in but 1%is still possible

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is possible!

  • @jmctx2005
    @jmctx2005 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    @11:28 hit hard for me

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It really is crazy how decision we see as maybe not that major seriously change the complete trajectory of our lives.

  • @slowedandreverbsounds5524
    @slowedandreverbsounds5524 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Derek! Been a fan of the channel for a while now. I can honestly say you’ve helped me through some hard times, and I’m forever grateful for you. I’m 23 and feel somewhat lost in my career/life. Is there a way to contact you personally? I’d love to get in touch and noticed the discord link doesn’t work anymore. Thanks so much!

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is a new discord link in my newer videos. Click on one of them or email me at asmrreality@yaho.com

  • @raburner3717
    @raburner3717 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey reality! Been a supporter for around over a year now, ever think about making a gaming asmr channel?

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish I was a gamer. I know I could get a lot more subscribers by doing the gaming videos but I just have never played video games and wouldn't even know where to start. Just another ride I missed out on like tattoos.

  • @Parmeshxwn
    @Parmeshxwn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s really cool to be able to see you throughout your life and see how far you come good job that’s awesome I’m proud of you! Maybe if you have freetime you should pickup photography again as a hobby? Also don’t be ashamed or upset at yourself for not raising the kid you would’ve been a great father but it wasn’t your responsibility to raise someone else’s kid that you had no part in and look where you’re at today you’re a great man and you should be proud of that! Maybe try and reconnect if it really bugs you that much. OH and tell your friend with cancer to change his diet completely no sugar or carbs and make sure he eats lots of fruits and vegetables, spirulina, soursop, and kiwis can all cure cancer but if he doesn’t remove the sugar which feeds the cancer he’ll never cure it.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Appreciate your thoughts on this and the advice for my friend. I have sent him a lot of the research I have done on it. Fasting seems to be another way to kill cancer.

    • @Parmeshxwn
      @Parmeshxwn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ASMRReality appreciate your videos! The least I can do for the entertainment you give me is try and help in any way I can! Fasting is amazing for the body and it’s sad how the hospitals and everything tells you there’s no cure for it when in reality the cure is just your diet and fasting. Have a great day though!

  • @gamingmachine6042
    @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im late but here its just that i have not had time for asmr because i have been hanging out with my friends and stydying but i think i got time today to wach the two new vids of urs

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well I'm making another one right now so hurry up and get caught up!

  • @gamingmachine6042
    @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Almost 1m wiews on ur channel

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Only you would notice that:)

    • @gamingmachine6042
      @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ASMRRealityyes I sometimes check ur stats from the channel

  • @lyniepennie
    @lyniepennie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤

  • @RunescapegirlASMR
    @RunescapegirlASMR 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aging like fine wine

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There you go again....

    • @RunescapegirlASMR
      @RunescapegirlASMR 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ASMRReality 😫

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Three Ways to Fly by: Derek Manis.....wings on an eagle, fins on a dolphin....your compliments in my comment section:)

  • @gamingmachine6042
    @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    8k soon

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hopefully won't be long!

  • @Rivers9679
    @Rivers9679 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you:)

  • @ZavenSalinas
    @ZavenSalinas 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey man, great video. I am interested in getting in contact with you because I have an interesting situation and I have been left with a large sum of money that I want to invest in Real Estate. Would love to chat

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is a link to my Discord in the descriptions or you can email me directly at asmrreality@yahoo.com

  • @gamingmachine6042
    @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dogs never stop loving their owners but humans stop loving each other some times but humans never stop loving their dogs

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sadly some owners do stop loving their dogs. They put them outside on chains and things like that. Just glad you love yours!

    • @gamingmachine6042
      @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ASMRRealitywell the ppl who stop loving in my opinion they never truly loved because if u truly love it won't go away

  • @stanislausbraun4986
    @stanislausbraun4986 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Brother, like I have seen your channel from since it just started, it was interesting that you told us a bit about your life story. But a common theme that I noticed is that you deep down would want to met a woman and start a family with her, and I respect that and I believe you should truly try to achieve that. I know, you are an overthinker, many of us are, but the sad part is that those are the people that would be the best and most loving parents to their children, but since they tend to overthink stuff and wait for the perfect moment, years instead go by and nothing happens. Meanwhile someone who doesn't care about anything gets a lot of kids and barely takes care of them, this is the sad reality.
    You say that you are contempt with your life and your dogs, but I think that is not the full truth, you want something more, you want a family. Just as the example you said about the 38 year old single female cop, that truly herself wants to be a more traditional role, the same goes for you with being "contempt" only with your dogs, I think if you are truly honest with yourself you want more.
    And you say that you love dogs because they have this innocent honesty and really love you, what don't you think children do, they love their parents. Especially if you are a kind and loving parent, which I have no doubt that you wouldn't be.
    So brother, you only live once and life is short, so don't let this go to waste, go outside your comfort zone, go abroad to a more traditional country to find someone with more conservative values. Because if one thing is true in life, you gotta be ready to fight for something if you really want it! Nothing will just appear infront of you, you gotta really work hard to get to that stage, and use your energy and time to get to the goal of a family, it will be something you will appriciate forever.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ain't nothing like getting called out on my own advice...lol! I hear you completely and I know you are right. I also agree completely on the good people not having kids and the bad ones popping them out left and right. I'll get on the right path but truly appreciate your input on this...truly! Thank you!

  • @gamingmachine6042
    @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well when i come to america 1 day id love to meet u if possible

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely we will make that happen!

    • @gamingmachine6042
      @gamingmachine6042 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ASMRRealitywell it will take many years to that but when I can ill come

  • @dwaynebunch8416
    @dwaynebunch8416 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bring back hair metal 😂😂😂

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      HELL YES!!!!

  • @Sampa3
    @Sampa3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do you workout at the gym?

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I actually have never been in a gym before. If you go back about 4 or 5 months ago I made a video and showed both my workouts. I do a HIIT routine every other day and a dumbbell workout on the other day. I do that 7 days a week and rarely miss a day.

  • @6BURG9
    @6BURG9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I challenge you to reflect on why you want to go back to more traditional gender roles. Not saying you’re wrong for feeling that way, just that it’s healthy to reflect on why we hold our values.
    I consider myself a fairly traditional guy in a lot of ways, but letting go of some of my ideas about masculinity feels like a weight has been lifted from my shoulders.

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Likely given the pool of traditional women is so much smaller, by focusing on them and not truly trying diligently to pursue them, I am just in protection mode...content in my solitude and very well likely trapped in it unless I modify my actions. Does that sound about right?
      Could you expand a little more on letting go of your ideas about masculinity? Having weight lifted sounds right up my alley. Give me some goods bro!

  • @aytz7777
    @aytz7777 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I mean no offense, but i really want to know your thought process behind wanting to raise your ex girlfriends child after she got pregnant on a vacation with some other guy, then later feeling a little bad or questionable about not raising the child… ? 🤨

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I didn't want to do it and thats why I didn't do it. However, after not having kids of my own and seeing how that girl turned out....it just made me wonder what life would have been like if I would have chosen the other path. I don't really have any regrets and it's not like I'm sitting here sad about it. Just have self reflecting thoughts about the "what ifs" of life. No offense taken and truly appreciate the question.

    • @aytz7777
      @aytz7777 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ASMRRealityohhh okay, that makes much more sense

  • @jacksongoldsmith4483
    @jacksongoldsmith4483 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No one gonna talk bout he was a senior w a freshman like wtf

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bro....that cracked me up. Really....you making me a pedo now...lol

  • @karlafernanda4750
    @karlafernanda4750 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    majority of women still want a traditional relationship

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know there's good ones out there. I accept that a lot of my issue is self inflicted. I just have to make decision to be vulnerable to love again and I know I can find it.

  • @SJ3ree
    @SJ3ree 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You should grow a beard

    • @ASMRReality
      @ASMRReality  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you look at some of my videos from a couple years ago I did grow one. I just felt like I looked mean with it...lol...so I got rid of it. I keep a little scruff most the time though.

  • @john.g8972
    @john.g8972 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It was better before….