I like to get male and female perspectives, especially when It comes to relationships and Corey, I have to say that I find you so funny. I love to listen in!
5:20 She puts herself in your orbit and makes it easy for her to receive you. This is what a woman does when she likes you. 5:40 Process of seduction = isolate her so you and her are alone. 6:25 Not leading things to a successful conclusion will cause her to doubt your level of confidence. 6:40 Don’t share with guy friends, if the two of you like the same girl he can use it against you. *Women like a guy who keeps their mouth shut.* Don’t tell your friends about the girls you’re going out with. Especially if they’re weaker, not good with women or tend to be jealous and envious - they’ll use dirt on you to tear you down. 10:10 Women love Mimosas and champagne 12:30 Girls like it when a guy dances, because even if you suck you’re not afraid to look goofy and go out there anyway. So it shows confidence 13:55 Women fear losing their protector, instinctively going back to caveman days. 15:00 Women a lot of times will take it as a rejection if you don’t blow your wad, because they kinda feel like you don’t find them pretty, sexy or desirable enough 20:30 Corey’s smooth CTA 23:15 If you screwed up so much. In the past, it’s really hard to turn things around because she always remembers how weak you were in the past. 24:20 The way you handled yourself, you communicated that she was the only thing you had going on. You weren’t man enough to make the move and escalate things physically to sex when all the signs were there. 25:08 Instead of communicating that you’re butt-hurt, say “ hey great to hear from you. When are you free to get together i’d love to see you.” 26:55 When you screw up a lot but change, it’s really hard because she remembers how you were before.
When I was in college, I dated a guy that would run and tell his friends EVERYTHING. He was an only child so in his mind, his friends were his brothers and could do no wrong. His best friend was the worst and was clearly jealous, and did everything he could to make me look bad when literally nothing was going on. It was definitely a reason why we broke up.
@@waynehumphries6970 agreed but, I really hope men aren't still taking advice from Corey Wayne?! Hopefully there are better, healthier alternatives than this by now. 🥴
The knowledge is always profound from Corey and i understand that he is trying to change how we look at the situation but it makes me feel sad especially when he mentioned how we keep going back to the girl like a little puppy. So true...If you don't have enough pride to agree i know alot of guys would react negatively towards that comment cause it would be like salt in their wounds. I also love how the approach he is telling us to take is to be a mountain but it comes off as being a politician too lmao...and it works like a fucking charm
Just bought your book. I realized that learning this stuff the hard way from experience is a costly and painful option. I'm on my third year in college and I met an amazing girl but after making many mistakes due to my ignorance, I probably lost her. Next time I will be much more competent with the help of your book. Thanks
Im hanging with a girl tonight (second date) and this was what I needed to hear tonight. You stay on point with the book, but nice to hear in this perspective. Thank you.
Honestly: im the first email. Not literally. Thanx for this video! Wow. That helped me,im timid & shy at certain points. This helped extremely! Love u like a brother,Coach!
honestly cory i respect what you cause i know a lot of guys that have issues with getting girls i thank god that never been my issue but rock on brother i love it i love the talk and advice cause i totally get it
To borrow Coach Wayne's analogy, all you have to do it put it in the oven and keep the door closed. Be patient, and when she's ready, she'll give you a ding. If you keep on checking on it and letting the steam out every 5 minutes (with texts, and calls, and dates, and schedules and reschedules) all that sexual tension dissipates, and instead of feasting on deliciously-risen fur pie, you'll be left with a gooey mess and plump blueberries.
I am a talker. I am being mindful to bite my tongue more. Conditioning is a bitch... hopefully I condition new behaviors! You are spot on with the principles! thanks
Just went on two amazing 8 hour dates with a woman who did 80% of the talking and 95% of the chasing. I supplemented by being witty and asking questions, and there was never a dull moment. Kiss like wildfire. Never over-pursued or was was needy. She tried to friend zone me before a third date and the opportunity to sexually escalate, saying I was too mysterious (thought this was a good thing?) and she didn't feel a romantic connection, which her behavior absolutely said otherwise. I said I'm not interested in you as a friend and call me if she has a change of heart. No response. I never once had the walkaway technique work for me, tbh. 100% of the women I date seem a-okay with me walking away and not having anything to do with me ever again in any capacity, like they're missing out on nothing whatsoever. It's a real great feeling when it happens consecutively, let me tell you. Especially since I embarking down a path of self improvement ever since I became a widower years ago, it feels like I'm treading in place like a cartoon character.
8 hour dates are way too long especially if you’re in the beginning stages of dating, you need to end the date at its peak when you are both laughing and having fun since it leaves her wanting more(unless it’s the evening and you plan on hooking up)
So she never got back to you? I don’t understand. Also there has got to be something you are fundamentally doing wrong if that’s the case and not being honest with yourself. And yes, the 8 hours date sounds like a long time to be hanging out with someone if it doesn’t involve sex
Hi. Love your work Corey. Just wanted to say, as a Frenchman, that it is totally forbidden to mix Champagne with orange juice lol. You always drink it raw !!!! All the best
Yeah right dude. Mimosas are fire. Every sunday they have 13$ bottomless mimosas at the restaurant down the street. Every sunday ill wake up hungover and ill take a girl down there to go get a bite to eat and get tanked for like 20 bucks. Vitamin c is good for you and breakfast is too early to pound champagne straight up. Mimosas have their time and place, which is sunday brunch
Im a woman, when i compliment a man about anything, it doesn't mean i find him attractive, nor that i consider him a possible partner. Sometimes a nice shirt means i like the shirt. A simple observation.
Yes but It's about the context - obviously it's not supposed to refer to compliments as such. Words mean different things according to the given situation.
I matched with this girl on Hinge during the pandemic in Britain. We’ve been talking a month, I wanted to get her out quickly, but I was patient and waited until she was comfortable. So we began using voice notes and had a phone call and we agreed to meet last weekend. Bearing in mind that she didn’t stop laughing on the phone or when we’ve been texting, we have also been flirting and teasing each other, making the interactions fun. So, we finally met, I took the train and she met me at the station in her car. Immediately I went for the physical so I said “come on let’s have a hug”. We went for a good walk where we talked about life in general and I teased her a lot e.g. she knew the area, but one of the paths was incredibly muddy so I said “if it’s really bad I know who to blame”. She didn’t stop laughing at the things I was saying. We went to the store to buy ingredients to cook that night and even that was fun. I made sure I led the way, taking the basket etc. We went back to hers where I cooked a spaghetti Bolognese and where we teased each other and it just genuinely felt like we knew each other already. I went for the kiss, rubbed her nose before and gave her a quick kiss but she seemed shocked and went red so I pulled back. We ate dinner where she found out I liked country and she seemed really into it plus she didn’t stop asking me questions, had a game of scrabble where the banter was flying about how bad the other’s words were. We were making references about future plans. She said something like “well next time I’ll use my dictionary”. Anyway, I kept putting my leg on hers, initiating touch. She took me to the station and before I left, we shared a few kisses where both of us leaned in. She even touched my chest saying “you’re really warm”. I thought bingo. Got home, sent her a jokey message about her car because she’s got her own personalized number plate and then I said “I enjoyed myself today, especially winning at Scrabble with a gooseberry gin” to which she replied “Gooseberry gin was good, Scrabble hmmm…Company wasn’t bad though” with a smiley, cheeks blushing emoji. I replied “10/10 choice by me getting the gooseberry, bet you were sole destroyed at losing”. She’s a shoemaker so I always shoe puns with her to tease. But, she hasn’t replied. She did say she was meeting her friends the day after, but she read my message at 8:30am and was online for most of the day and I didn't get a reply. I truly thought I did everything right. Until, she texts me later that night saying "we should be friends". I've literally worked for a year to try and stop this happening and I've just come full f***g circle.
To me, you initiated physical contact way too much. You have to read the signs.. as in, was she touching your leg? Or did she put her leg on top of yours? It just sounded like you were so focused on initiating and pushing the "physical" side of things, but idk, I wasn't there.
pushed the physical aspect too much without warming her up properly. acted too family like and the last text that you sent, just something is off about it. live on legend, live on
That was near perfect date, may be she isn't too physical to begin with, whatsoever I also did same mistake , and trying to mend doesn't seem to work either. Must find some common ground , or else the young women always tend to move on to another until they learn their lessons
Emailer 3: Don't initiate with women, especially not online. Be friendly and fun in public and give out your contact info/facebook to lots of girls; when and if they contact you (let them do the choosing and the chasing) invite them to go for a walk around campus (to your favorite hook-up spot of course). Don't fall in love, don't get anyone pregnant. Emailer 4: You should be talking to 10+ women at a time, if one rejects you, so the fuck what? Move on to Miss 11.
Emailer 2: When a girl compliments you, she's opened the door; all you had to do was walk through but you decided to stumble around the neighborhood for a week before entering. 'I have a nice style? Well, you should come over some time and I'll show you the rest of my wardrobe. When are you free?'
Been down that road already..1st date I was timid and shy and didn't make moves when I should..I broke many rules trying to be indifferent and mysterious but was completely deluded..she texted when I left and said something about it..I immediately turned the car around knocked on her door and said you got it wrong I was trying to be a Gentleman now come here and kiss me and we hooked up lol..lesson learned!
Emailer 1 cont.: Your situation is the prime reason why guys shouldn't bother with traditional dating; you want to know as fast as possible whether she's in, or whether she'll let you in. When she contacts you, invite her over to yours for some drinks. If a woman is in the mood for spending time, ALONE, with you, she wants you to make a move. Accept that as the case from now on. She'll either come over (bang her), or she won't (find someone else who will).
I'm there with you,sometimes that Beta tries to creep out.. I read Coaches book twice,made highlights.. I completely agree with you,congrats on letting go of that beta & embracing the Alpha Im 95% there.. Ill see you there at the finish line. Keep a bottle of water for me!
The studs in romance novels are completely focused on their purpose and are emotionally indifferent. The female characters are the ones chasing, fantasizing, and trying to figure out a ways to capture his recognition. He never gives his attention or affection without effort on her part, because he knows investment means value. The more she risks, the more he's worth in her eyes. Only when she's earned it does he take her to bed, because he's not a Sissy McCheesedick.
Yeah I flopped with my attempt to build sexual tension w a friend zoned woman I’ve known 6 months. She’s well aware that I want more. I playfully texted her one morning that I wanted her so bad right now. She texted back that it made her very uncomfortable hearing that. Ugh Although she just found out about another woman that is very interested in me and that we are planning a date for Valentine’s Day. She’s try’s to hide it but I know she is not happy about it at all.
@dana trepanier You should've asked her out on a date and build sexual tension. I don't think you can go from friend zone to texting her "I want you so bad right now". 1st date venues should be at wine bars (preferably at the type of bars where the lighting is low, the music is relaxing, and where there are sofas available). Always make reservations to avoid conflicts. Always sit next to her, not across (whether or not if its at a booth or table). You're here to drink wine and to get to know each other, not to interview her and not to watch eachother eat. There's nothing attractive about eating in front of your date so try to not make your dates about eating. You’re not applying for a job (and neither is she), so don’t act like it. It’s so funny to me when I sit down in a restaurant and I hear a couple that’s obviously out on their first date… and the guy has no idea what to do. Attraction happens when there is energy, spice, humor, mystery… COCKY AND FUNNY… and saucy. Ultimately, what you want to be doing on a verbal level as a guy at some point is take the conversation from a platonic place and bring it to a more sexual place ("male to female" polarity/dynamic). You want to get your date to paint a picture of you and her both together. So at some point, use the "questions game" to try to make things into a more sexual nature, but not too sexual. Tell her: "Let's play a game. First I ask a question, then you get to ask, then I get to ask back. So on so forth. You have to promise that you'll ask no boring questions." Here are questions YOU should ask: Imagine we're living in California together. We've got 3 beautiful kids. 2 beautiful dogs. An exotic parrot. We live in a peaceful mansion by the beach. You come home early one day from work. You see that I'm cheating on you with the maid on our bed. Out of rage, you take the family shotgun and you blow my brain out. You end up on death row. You get a meal of your choice as your last meal before being put in the electric chair. What do you have for your start, your main course, and your dessert? What are your choices of drink? Both alcoholic and alcoholic? You and I are promised 30 million dollars each if we could survive on a deserted island for exactly 1 whole year together. You're allowed to bring 5 items with you on the island and I am allowed 5, what are your 5 items? Why did you pick them? She'll likely ask you for your 5. If you had 24 hours more to live, what would you do? If you were to have one super power, what would it be? And why? What's a phobia you have/what are you scared of? When was the happiest you've ever been in your life? What's the most embarrassed you’ve ever been? If it was possible to swap/substitute yourself in for another actress in any movie, what would she be and in what movie? Your house is on fire. Your friends, your family, and your pets are safe on the sidewalk. Your bedroom is near the entrance of your house. You have time to run in and save 1 item from your room. What would it be? (You already have your phone and laptop though) How do you normally like to meet guys? On dating apps or in-person? Apart from this date, what’s the most awkward date you’ve ever been on? What are 2 things you find attractive in guys, both physical and personality-wise? Flip the previous question and apply it to yourself: And what are 2 things you find attractive about me? Close your eyes. If you could wake up anywhere in the world right now, where would it be? Where's your favorite place you like to travel to? When she answers this, you could follow up with: You have one day to really impress me in (say the name of the place here), what activities would WE do TOGETHER? What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done? Along with the verbals, you want to do some physical/"incidental" escalation. Basically any excuse to touch her. If you can read hand palms or pretend that you can read them, you can use that to your advantage. If you know sign language, you can try teach her. Ask her what's her story with her tattoo, earrings, bracelets, rings, necklaces, any noticeable scars, etc. You don't have to ask her about every single accessory that she's wearing. Just pick two or three. While you're asking her about her earrings, brush her hair back behind her ear. Reach for her hand at some point in the date and ask "What's the time?" and caress the area near her watch with your thumb or you can intertwine fingers with her. You can even compare hand sizes and skin tones. Ask "Did you steal (name an item she's wearing) from a family or friend so you can impress me tonight? Ask "What does your tattoo represent?" and then mention your tattoo preference and where on women you like it best. Touch her hair while asking "Is your hair naturally (insert hair type here)" and then say that you prefer girls that have (enter her hair type here). Make assumptions like "Let me guess: Your favorite color must be (enter color here) because you're wearing a lot of (enter color here) tonight and also when I met you last time." How to kiss her using the question game (ask these in this exact order): *1- Do you find me attractive? *2- Are you enjoying tonight? *3- Where’s the first place you've ever kissed a guy? **4- At what point today did you really want to kiss me? If she’s shocked with a blush on her face, then you just go in for a kiss. If she says "oh I wanted to kiss you when...", then that's also a green light to go in for the kiss. If she says "no actually I didn't want to kiss you", then just back off for a bit and try to work up to it again by playing some "kissing games" later on in the date after asking some more intimate questions. Count the Shoulder Game: Tell her! "Let's play a game of count the shoulders." You can play this game after you've been escalating after some time while sitting next to her on her right or left. You can even use this game to kiss her while sitting next to her in your apartment on the first date too. This game works smoothly if you were to make some of the previous questions of the "questions game" based on Pirates, Deserted Islands, Treasure chest, and Money. Here it is: Ask her, "If you were a pirate, where on you would your pet parrot stand? Would it be here (stretch behind her neck with your left hand and double tap her left shoulder) or here (while keeping your left hand on her left shoulder, you rest your fingers on her shoulder and you move in to kiss her on her right cheek and pull away from her a few inches.) If she welcomes it by blushing, lean in and kiss her on the lips. The Owen-Aniston kissing bet: It was a bet that Clive Owen made with Jennifer Aniston in the movie "Derailed". Tell your date "I'd like to make a bet. I bet you (say the amount of dollars here) that I can kiss you without ever touching your lips but you have to keep your eyes closed." With hers eyes closed, You kiss her on the lips. Afterwards, you tell her "It was worth every penny." The Scent Game: Ask her to guess the cologne you're wearing. Tell her: "You get 2 choices: Hugo Boss or Calvin Klein?" She leans in to smell you and says "oh I think you're wearing ____." Next, you say “let me smell you”. You lightly/gently grab onto her shoulder and lean in and say “oh you smell of Onions, Hamsters, and shabby gym sneakers.” (or just substitute those 3 things with 3 "appropriate" things that do not have very attractive scents.) Whisper: "Just Kidding." Kiss her on a CHEEK as your face is near her. Pull back and If she giggles/blushes, you move in and then kiss her LIPS. While she is in the ladies room, order an Uber and go pay the bill. When she gets back, tell her "I paid the bill. Come on, we're going for another drink. I've got a bottle of red wine back at my place." Hook arms and lead her out of the venue.
Eddie Vasquez because you have that strong connection with them when you first meet them which cause those feelings vs when you don't have that making it easier with them other ones
Coach I enjoy all your videos every night I get to watch them. Thanks for the advice and quick question: is your favorite color blue? It seems that your always wearing a blue shirt in your vids. Lol good vids dude keep it up!
If you're with a girl, and dating, and she goes for the other guy, because he made a move, that just shows lack of consideration for you and your feelings and poor character on her part
Guys who try to protect and honor a woman's values is very sexy. Men who don't try to push a girl into sex, unless they both just want sex, is way more attractive then men who try to get them to bed. A pet peeve I have is when you tell a man I'm waiting for sex until marriage and they say they will wait but try to push me into it. And being a human being, it makes it very difficult to be abstinent... I would rather have men be honest and so, I can move on and find a man that values my wishes and faith.
Yo I notice the beta thing is tricky too..Most men never got any real rest spiritually emotionally mentally in their lives and in fact don't know how... to first decide if their beta or not..
18:40 fucking so right there Corey. I had girls coming at me left, right and centre, but I didn't know fuck all about this material and thus fucked so many opportunities up.
Emailer 1: You have to become the woman whisperer. You're training this girl into thinking it's alright to date you without a climax. Would you give a dog a treat if it shits on your crapet? If she's willing to accept your wonderful night out, she should be more than agreeable to reciprocate by offering you a stellar night in. Positively reinforce her good behaviour, punish misconduct (no more dates).
Zorbacci O Then good luck getting laid. Date conversation: 20% man 80% woman . Women love a guy that’s listens to her because women love to talk. Also, at the end of the date she’s learned very little about you which still keeps you mysterious in her eyes. You want to hang on to the mysterious factor as long as possible. And don’t worry, you’re chance to talk a lot (alright I don’t know why you would want that so desperately) will come a few dates down the road. The first few dates are all about peaking her interest as much as possible and you blabbering your mouth is not going to help. If your intention is not to be successful on a date, then sure bring a book to read on a date. However, no point of going on a date then and might as well stay home or sit alone at Starbucks.
I'm with a girl now, she is always excited go out with me and always arrives on time. The thing I can't figure out about her is she doesn't give me any signs to make a move, she doesn't bump into me, slap my arm or anything like the other girls I've dated have. It's very strange, I tried initiating touch and went for the kiss on the first date and got it and she kissed me back. We're going on our 4th date tomorrow. Anyway, this girl just doesn't give any signs.
Take off your clothes, bake me a cookie, stop talking, give me a massage. Well, I'll be darned. It works. She does everything I tell her like a robot. And they say women are complicated.
okay so at 12:25-12:30 when you say (in the girls words) “ me being here means i wanna be with you “ im gunna correct that and say her being there with him is because the other guy his “friend” was in puerto rico lol 😂
I have a girl doing most of these things and she flirts pretty directly then she changes to "we are just friends" she sees our age difference as a barrier. Do i persist or just move on ?
You must love Jehovah your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. You must love your neighbor as yourself. Jesus the anointed is Lord! Repent and be baptized and believe the Gospel.
Nowadays, there's so much tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words od Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.
Well done, there's so many tips, techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words od Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.
"If you apply the stuff I teach, it's an all you can eat buffet bro" - Coach Corey Wayne
Lol
Excellent advice about not telling people your business and having other people around. Insecure people love to interfere in what you have going on.
I like to get male and female perspectives, especially when It comes to relationships and Corey, I have to say that I find you so funny. I love to listen in!
5:20 She puts herself in your orbit and makes it easy for her to receive you. This is what a woman does when she likes you.
5:40 Process of seduction = isolate her so you and her are alone.
6:25 Not leading things to a successful conclusion will cause her to doubt your level of confidence.
6:40 Don’t share with guy friends, if the two of you like the same girl he can use it against you. *Women like a guy who keeps their mouth shut.* Don’t tell your friends about the girls you’re going out with. Especially if they’re weaker, not good with women or tend to be jealous and envious - they’ll use dirt on you to tear you down.
10:10 Women love Mimosas and champagne
12:30 Girls like it when a guy dances, because even if you suck you’re not afraid to look goofy and go out there anyway. So it shows confidence
13:55 Women fear losing their protector, instinctively going back to caveman days.
15:00 Women a lot of times will take it as a rejection if you don’t blow your wad, because they kinda feel like you don’t find them pretty, sexy or desirable enough
20:30 Corey’s smooth CTA
23:15 If you screwed up so much. In the past, it’s really hard to turn things around because she always remembers how weak you were in the past.
24:20 The way you handled yourself, you communicated that she was the only thing you had going on. You weren’t man enough to make the move and escalate things physically to sex when all the signs were there.
25:08 Instead of communicating that you’re butt-hurt, say “ hey great to hear from you. When are you free to get together i’d love to see you.”
26:55 When you screw up a lot but change, it’s really hard because she remembers how you were before.
Thanks
Thanks a lot G
I was worse than shit in college. When I look back, I literally was the epitome of clueless.
lol me too
I just realized that more than 20 hot woman wanted to have sex with me and I was clueless. Come on man!
Most of us are.
Try still being like that at 41 ..... :-(
Same man, missed out on so much hot puss I cant even believe it....trying to make that all up now haha
When I was in college, I dated a guy that would run and tell his friends EVERYTHING. He was an only child so in his mind, his friends were his brothers and could do no wrong. His best friend was the worst and was clearly jealous, and did everything he could to make me look bad when literally nothing was going on. It was definitely a reason why we broke up.
You described my therapist. I fired her ass.
@Kristen Sunrise
They weren't ready to become men as yet.
@@MistahUnknown Of course. The issue is that for many men that behavior continues for their entire lives. Not every adult male becomes a man.
Real men don’t kiss an tell an once you become a 3% man you definitely don’t kiss an tell 🤐
@@waynehumphries6970 agreed but, I really hope men aren't still taking advice from Corey Wayne?! Hopefully there are better, healthier alternatives than this by now. 🥴
Watching your videos is like taking a college course in women. These are videos are great.
The knowledge is always profound from Corey and i understand that he is trying to change how we look at the situation but it makes me feel sad especially when he mentioned how we keep going back to the girl like a little puppy. So true...If you don't have enough pride to agree i know alot of guys would react negatively towards that comment cause it would be like salt in their wounds. I also love how the approach he is telling us to take is to be a mountain but it comes off as being a politician too lmao...and it works like a fucking charm
Just bought your book. I realized that learning this stuff the hard way from experience is a costly and painful option. I'm on my third year in college and I met an amazing girl but after making many mistakes due to my ignorance, I probably lost her. Next time I will be much more competent with the help of your book. Thanks
It's a sad fact that we gotta learn this stuff from books. Let me know how it works with the book.
Im hanging with a girl tonight (second date) and this was what I needed to hear tonight. You stay on point with the book, but nice to hear in this perspective. Thank you.
Honestly: im the first email.
Not literally.
Thanx for this video!
Wow. That helped me,im timid & shy at certain points.
This helped extremely!
Love u like a brother,Coach!
honestly cory i respect what you cause i know a lot of guys that have issues with getting girls i thank god that never been my issue but rock on brother i love it i love the talk and advice cause i totally get it
i love this guy best coach ever my world is 110% better!!
To borrow Coach Wayne's analogy, all you have to do it put it in the oven and keep the door closed. Be patient, and when she's ready, she'll give you a ding. If you keep on checking on it and letting the steam out every 5 minutes (with texts, and calls, and dates, and schedules and reschedules) all that sexual tension dissipates, and instead of feasting on deliciously-risen fur pie, you'll be left with a gooey mess and plump blueberries.
I'm learning this shit in high school!
Lucky fuckers man... I learned this in my 20s
I'm in 5th grade!!!
And i'm from the future assholes!
Can a sperm do that too?
8th grade
I am a talker. I am being mindful to bite my tongue more. Conditioning is a bitch... hopefully I condition new behaviors! You are spot on with the principles! thanks
Just went on two amazing 8 hour dates with a woman who did 80% of the talking and 95% of the chasing. I supplemented by being witty and asking questions, and there was never a dull moment. Kiss like wildfire. Never over-pursued or was was needy. She tried to friend zone me before a third date and the opportunity to sexually escalate, saying I was too mysterious (thought this was a good thing?) and she didn't feel a romantic connection, which her behavior absolutely said otherwise. I said I'm not interested in you as a friend and call me if she has a change of heart. No response. I never once had the walkaway technique work for me, tbh. 100% of the women I date seem a-okay with me walking away and not having anything to do with me ever again in any capacity, like they're missing out on nothing whatsoever. It's a real great feeling when it happens consecutively, let me tell you. Especially since I embarking down a path of self improvement ever since I became a widower years ago, it feels like I'm treading in place like a cartoon character.
8 hour dates are way too long especially if you’re in the beginning stages of dating, you need to end the date at its peak when you are both laughing and having fun since it leaves her wanting more(unless it’s the evening and you plan on hooking up)
@@olegpal5926 exactly, I highly doubt they’re still together lol.
So she never got back to you? I don’t understand. Also there has got to be something you are fundamentally doing wrong if that’s the case and not being honest with yourself. And yes, the 8 hours date sounds like a long time to be hanging out with someone if it doesn’t involve sex
Hi. Love your work Corey. Just wanted to say, as a Frenchman, that it is totally forbidden to mix Champagne with orange juice lol. You always drink it raw !!!! All the best
Yeah right dude. Mimosas are fire. Every sunday they have 13$ bottomless mimosas at the restaurant down the street. Every sunday ill wake up hungover and ill take a girl down there to go get a bite to eat and get tanked for like 20 bucks. Vitamin c is good for you and breakfast is too early to pound champagne straight up. Mimosas have their time and place, which is sunday brunch
Im a woman, when i compliment a man about anything, it doesn't mean i find him attractive, nor that i consider him a possible partner. Sometimes a nice shirt means i like the shirt. A simple observation.
word,i laughed so much when he said that a compliment is just that not a sign of attraction.
Yes but It's about the context - obviously it's not supposed to refer to compliments as such. Words mean different things according to the given situation.
It’s one sign, obviously it’s not the only thing to look for
bellaearth Perhaps, but I’ve found a compliment on something I’m wearing to be one of the most consistent signs a girl is interested.
I lost ALL my shit at "Whiskey-dick." Hilarious! X"D
same
One of your best videos, man. Made me laugh a lot.
I matched with this girl on Hinge during the pandemic in Britain. We’ve been talking a month, I wanted to get her out quickly, but I was patient and waited until she was comfortable. So we began using voice notes and had a phone call and we agreed to meet last weekend.
Bearing in mind that she didn’t stop laughing on the phone or when we’ve been texting, we have also been flirting and teasing each other, making the interactions fun. So, we finally met, I took the train and she met me at the station in her car. Immediately I went for the physical so I said “come on let’s have a hug”.
We went for a good walk where we talked about life in general and I teased her a lot e.g. she knew the area, but one of the paths was incredibly muddy so I said “if it’s really bad I know who to blame”. She didn’t stop laughing at the things I was saying.
We went to the store to buy ingredients to cook that night and even that was fun. I made sure I led the way, taking the basket etc. We went back to hers where I cooked a spaghetti Bolognese and where we teased each other and it just genuinely felt like we knew each other already.
I went for the kiss, rubbed her nose before and gave her a quick kiss but she seemed shocked and went red so I pulled back. We ate dinner where she found out I liked country and she seemed really into it plus she didn’t stop asking me questions, had a game of scrabble where the banter was flying about how bad the other’s words were. We were making references about future plans. She said something like “well next time I’ll use my dictionary”. Anyway, I kept putting my leg on hers, initiating touch.
She took me to the station and before I left, we shared a few kisses where both of us leaned in. She even touched my chest saying “you’re really warm”. I thought bingo. Got home, sent her a jokey message about her car because she’s got her own personalized number plate and then I said “I enjoyed myself today, especially winning at Scrabble with a gooseberry gin” to which she replied “Gooseberry gin was good, Scrabble hmmm…Company wasn’t bad though” with a smiley, cheeks blushing emoji.
I replied “10/10 choice by me getting the gooseberry, bet you were sole destroyed at losing”. She’s a shoemaker so I always shoe puns with her to tease. But, she hasn’t replied. She did say she was meeting her friends the day after, but she read my message at 8:30am and was online for most of the day and I didn't get a reply. I truly thought I did everything right. Until, she texts me later that night saying "we should be friends". I've literally worked for a year to try and stop this happening and I've just come full f***g circle.
To me, you initiated physical contact way too much. You have to read the signs.. as in, was she touching your leg? Or did she put her leg on top of yours?
It just sounded like you were so focused on initiating and pushing the "physical" side of things, but idk, I wasn't there.
Judging by how in depth you went on this in the coMments section, I am assuming you over pursued she lost attraction.
pushed the physical aspect too much without warming her up properly. acted too family like and the last text that you sent, just something is off about it. live on legend, live on
That was near perfect date, may be she isn't too physical to begin with, whatsoever I also did same mistake , and trying to mend doesn't seem to work either. Must find some common ground , or else the young women always tend to move on to another until they learn their lessons
Emailer 3: Don't initiate with women, especially not online. Be friendly and fun in public and give out your contact info/facebook to lots of girls; when and if they contact you (let them do the choosing and the chasing) invite them to go for a walk around campus (to your favorite hook-up spot of course).
Don't fall in love, don't get anyone pregnant.
Emailer 4: You should be talking to 10+ women at a time, if one rejects you, so the fuck what? Move on to Miss 11.
When he said " take offf your clothes"
I almost got undressed
😂😂😂
Hahahahaha
I would really just like to hang out with this guy. He is funny As shit lol
"Women like to talk" I'm so glad, because I hate to do the talking.
Nature is a beautiful thing innit?
Emailer 2: When a girl compliments you, she's opened the door; all you had to do was walk through but you decided to stumble around the neighborhood for a week before entering.
'I have a nice style? Well, you should come over some time and I'll show you the rest of my wardrobe. When are you free?'
Just brought the book for $40 dollars. Been reading online too. I believe that I am doing a sexy job.
🤣
@Liam Watson
How many times did you read it? Seen any improvements in your dating life?
LoL @ 14:26
No one-I repeat-no one has sex in the backseat of their car for an hour.
lies.
compazine I did in my 20s
Half an hour tops lol
He must have started counting from the first kiss lol
nah i think its possible depending on the car it difficult to find the right angle to bust.
Don't push to isolate too much... show you can interact with a group of people and her attraction will grow
I'm fuck
bigpoison408 and why is that?
+1
In the beginning then isolate till you get laid
“Sending creepy messages on Facebook” will never get you laid
Been down that road already..1st date I was timid and shy and didn't make moves when I should..I broke many rules trying to be indifferent and mysterious but was completely deluded..she texted when I left and said something about it..I immediately turned the car around knocked on her door and said you got it wrong I was trying to be a Gentleman now come here and kiss me and we hooked up lol..lesson learned!
Emailer 1 cont.: Your situation is the prime reason why guys shouldn't bother with traditional dating; you want to know as fast as possible whether she's in, or whether she'll let you in.
When she contacts you, invite her over to yours for some drinks. If a woman is in the mood for spending time, ALONE, with you, she wants you to make a move. Accept that as the case from now on.
She'll either come over (bang her), or she won't (find someone else who will).
I'm there with you,sometimes that Beta tries to creep out.. I read Coaches book twice,made highlights.. I completely agree with you,congrats on letting go of that beta & embracing the Alpha
Im 95% there.. Ill see you there at the finish line. Keep a bottle of water for me!
I'm 3% there and 41 years old. :-(
The people you were describing aren't friends.
"Coffee?!" Exactly. Stop with the coffee shit guys. We don't dig it.
Damn I wish I could have found this when I was 16. Plan on getting all my nephews the book.
You good unc put em on game
I'm not talking anymore.
Ibelieve Intheone 😆 i was thinking the same shit
"It's fucking on like donkey kong"
I promise every time you cuss...laughing out loud
If you have friends that would tear your relationship with your girl, I wouldn't call those things "friends."
Such good information coach!
What book?? Please give me a link 😁😎
The studs in romance novels are completely focused on their purpose and are emotionally indifferent. The female characters are the ones chasing, fantasizing, and trying to figure out a ways to capture his recognition.
He never gives his attention or affection without effort on her part, because he knows investment means value. The more she risks, the more he's worth in her eyes.
Only when she's earned it does he take her to bed, because he's not a Sissy McCheesedick.
Romance novels ? Ha,Ha ...
Right on man, study the other teams’ playbook, then study it again
Corey. You look sharp. Like Jason Statham's younger brother.
She called while I was watching this video lol. Arranged a date on the spot. She’s cooking for me tonight
Yeah I flopped with my attempt to build sexual tension w a friend zoned woman I’ve known 6 months. She’s well aware that I want more. I playfully texted her one morning that I wanted her so bad right now. She texted back that it made her very uncomfortable hearing that. Ugh Although she just found out about another woman that is very interested in me and that we are planning a date for Valentine’s Day. She’s try’s to hide it but I know she is not happy about it at all.
Man even I know that until you have slept with the woman never text her how much you want her.
You haven’t read Corey’s book 10 - 15 times.
@dana trepanier
You should've asked her out on a date and build sexual tension. I don't think you can go from friend zone to texting her "I want you so bad right now".
1st date venues should be at wine bars (preferably at the type of bars where the lighting is low, the music is relaxing, and where there are sofas available). Always make reservations to avoid conflicts. Always sit next to her, not across (whether or not if its at a booth or table). You're here to drink wine and to get to know each other, not to interview her and not to watch eachother eat. There's nothing attractive about eating in front of your date so try to not make your dates about eating. You’re not applying for a job (and neither is she), so don’t act like it. It’s so funny to me when I sit down in a restaurant and I hear a couple that’s obviously out on their first date… and the guy has no idea what to do. Attraction happens when there is energy, spice, humor, mystery… COCKY AND FUNNY… and saucy.
Ultimately, what you want to be doing on a verbal level as a guy at some point is take the conversation from a platonic place and bring it to a more sexual place ("male to female" polarity/dynamic). You want to get your date to paint a picture of you and her both together. So at some point, use the "questions game" to try to make things into a more sexual nature, but not too sexual. Tell her: "Let's play a game. First I ask a question, then you get to ask, then I get to ask back. So on so forth. You have to promise that you'll ask no boring questions."
Here are questions YOU should ask:
Imagine we're living in California together. We've got 3 beautiful kids. 2 beautiful dogs. An exotic parrot. We live in a peaceful mansion by the beach. You come home early one day from work. You see that I'm cheating on you with the maid on our bed. Out of rage, you take the family shotgun and you blow my brain out. You end up on death row. You get a meal of your choice as your last meal before being put in the electric chair. What do you have for your start, your main course, and your dessert? What are your choices of drink? Both alcoholic and alcoholic?
You and I are promised 30 million dollars each if we could survive on a deserted island for exactly 1 whole year together. You're allowed to bring 5 items with you on the island and I am allowed 5, what are your 5 items? Why did you pick them? She'll likely ask you for your 5.
If you had 24 hours more to live, what would you do?
If you were to have one super power, what would it be? And why?
What's a phobia you have/what are you scared of?
When was the happiest you've ever been in your life?
What's the most embarrassed you’ve ever been?
If it was possible to swap/substitute yourself in for another actress in any movie, what would she be and in what movie?
Your house is on fire. Your friends, your family, and your pets are safe on the sidewalk. Your bedroom is near the entrance of your house. You have time to run in and save 1 item from your room. What would it be? (You already have your phone and laptop though)
How do you normally like to meet guys? On dating apps or in-person?
Apart from this date, what’s the most awkward date you’ve ever been on?
What are 2 things you find attractive in guys, both physical and personality-wise?
Flip the previous question and apply it to yourself: And what are 2 things you find attractive about me?
Close your eyes. If you could wake up anywhere in the world right now, where would it be?
Where's your favorite place you like to travel to? When she answers this, you could follow up with: You have one day to really impress me in (say the name of the place here), what activities would WE do TOGETHER?
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
Along with the verbals, you want to do some physical/"incidental" escalation. Basically any excuse to touch her. If you can read hand palms or pretend that you can read them, you can use that to your advantage. If you know sign language, you can try teach her. Ask her what's her story with her tattoo, earrings, bracelets, rings, necklaces, any noticeable scars, etc. You don't have to ask her about every single accessory that she's wearing. Just pick two or three. While you're asking her about her earrings, brush her hair back behind her ear. Reach for her hand at some point in the date and ask "What's the time?" and caress the area near her watch with your thumb or you can intertwine fingers with her. You can even compare hand sizes and skin tones. Ask "Did you steal (name an item she's wearing) from a family or friend so you can impress me tonight? Ask "What does your tattoo represent?" and then mention your tattoo preference and where on women you like it best. Touch her hair while asking "Is your hair naturally (insert hair type here)" and then say that you prefer girls that have (enter her hair type here). Make assumptions like "Let me guess: Your favorite color must be (enter color here) because you're wearing a lot of (enter color here) tonight and also when I met you last time."
How to kiss her using the question game (ask these in this exact order):
*1- Do you find me attractive?
*2- Are you enjoying tonight?
*3- Where’s the first place you've ever kissed a guy?
**4- At what point today did you really want to kiss me? If she’s shocked with a blush on her face, then you just go in for a kiss. If she says "oh I wanted to kiss you when...", then that's also a green light to go in for the kiss. If she says "no actually I didn't want to kiss you", then just back off for a bit and try to work up to it again by playing some "kissing games" later on in the date after asking some more intimate questions.
Count the Shoulder Game: Tell her! "Let's play a game of count the shoulders." You can play this game after you've been escalating after some time while sitting next to her on her right or left. You can even use this game to kiss her while sitting next to her in your apartment on the first date too. This game works smoothly if you were to make some of the previous questions of the "questions game" based on Pirates, Deserted Islands, Treasure chest, and Money. Here it is: Ask her, "If you were a pirate, where on you would your pet parrot stand? Would it be here (stretch behind her neck with your left hand and double tap her left shoulder) or here (while keeping your left hand on her left shoulder, you rest your fingers on her shoulder and you move in to kiss her on her right cheek and pull away from her a few inches.) If she welcomes it by blushing, lean in and kiss her on the lips.
The Owen-Aniston kissing bet: It was a bet that Clive Owen made with Jennifer Aniston in the movie "Derailed". Tell your date "I'd like to make a bet. I bet you (say the amount of dollars here) that I can kiss you without ever touching your lips but you have to keep your eyes closed." With hers eyes closed, You kiss her on the lips. Afterwards, you tell her "It was worth every penny."
The Scent Game: Ask her to guess the cologne you're wearing. Tell her: "You get 2 choices: Hugo Boss or Calvin Klein?" She leans in to smell you and says "oh I think you're wearing ____." Next, you say “let me smell you”. You lightly/gently grab onto her shoulder and lean in and say “oh you smell of Onions, Hamsters, and shabby gym sneakers.” (or just substitute those 3 things with 3 "appropriate" things that do not have very attractive scents.) Whisper: "Just Kidding." Kiss her on a CHEEK as your face is near her. Pull back and If she giggles/blushes, you move in and then kiss her LIPS.
While she is in the ladies room, order an Uber and go pay the bill. When she gets back, tell her "I paid the bill. Come on, we're going for another drink. I've got a bottle of red wine back at my place." Hook arms and lead her out of the venue.
@@MistahUnknown genius
WHY is it that I can be confident with one chick,be direct with her etc etc.BUT with another chick I CAN'T?
Eddie Vasquez because you have that strong connection with them when you first meet them which cause those feelings vs when you don't have that making it easier with them other ones
Eddie Vasquez BECAUSE YOU LIKE THE ONE YOUR SHY AROUND MORE..
That's how you know when you really like someone or it might just mean that you think she's above your league causing intimidation.
Frame control with one, not controling the frame with the other
thx 4 ur service buddy !
Great videos coach Richie Cunningham
Coach I enjoy all your videos every night I get to watch them. Thanks for the advice and quick question: is your favorite color blue? It seems that your always wearing a blue shirt in your vids. Lol good vids dude keep it up!
In a breakup girls do 300,000 words and guys do 1,000 words (mostly curses).
😂😂😂
All you can eat Buffet! Damn Corey you funny :)
If you're with a girl, and dating, and she goes for the other guy, because he made a move, that just shows lack of consideration for you and your feelings and poor character on her part
Guys who try to protect and honor a woman's values is very sexy. Men who don't try to push a girl into sex, unless they both just want sex, is way more attractive then men who try to get them to bed.
A pet peeve I have is when you tell a man I'm waiting for sex until marriage and they say they will wait but try to push me into it. And being a human being, it makes it very difficult to be abstinent... I would rather have men be honest and so, I can move on and find a man that values my wishes and faith.
Yo I notice the beta thing is tricky too..Most men never got any real rest spiritually emotionally mentally in their lives and in fact don't know how... to first decide if their beta or not..
"Hey corey, how does putting on cologne affects your relationships with others around you?"
Like the way you introduce yourself Coach.Smooth.
"take off your clothes" -Coach Corey Wayne
Genius... Thank you for all of this insight
18:40 fucking so right there Corey. I had girls coming at me left, right and centre, but I didn't know fuck all about this material and thus fucked so many opportunities up.
Wish I’d seen this before my College days !!
Emailer 1: You have to become the woman whisperer. You're training this girl into thinking it's alright to date you without a climax. Would you give a dog a treat if it shits on your crapet?
If she's willing to accept your wonderful night out, she should be more than agreeable to reciprocate by offering you a stellar night in.
Positively reinforce her good behaviour, punish misconduct (no more dates).
Where can i buy ur book
Kmart
What kind of man wants to listen to a woman talk the entire date. Id rather take a good book to dinner......
Zorbacci O Then good luck getting laid. Date conversation: 20% man 80% woman . Women love a guy that’s listens to her because women love to talk. Also, at the end of the date she’s learned very little about you which still keeps you mysterious in her eyes. You want to hang on to the mysterious factor as long as possible. And don’t worry, you’re chance to talk a lot (alright I don’t know why you would want that so desperately) will come a few dates down the road. The first few dates are all about peaking her interest as much as possible and you blabbering your mouth is not going to help.
If your intention is not to be successful on a date, then sure bring a book to read on a date. However, no point of going on a date then and might as well stay home or sit alone at Starbucks.
@@SamS-fd5qt At least I'll have something interesting to say instead of the men who spend their lives listening to women talk about themselves.
Who takes a book to a date?
@Zorbacci O
Keep that attitude up and you'll wind up a 40 year old virgin.
You’d rather take yourself on a date.
Damn Corey thank youuu!
Those are some friends.
I'm with a girl now, she is always excited go out with me and always arrives on time. The thing I can't figure out about her is she doesn't give me any signs to make a move, she doesn't bump into me, slap my arm or anything like the other girls I've dated have. It's very strange, I tried initiating touch and went for the kiss on the first date and got it and she kissed me back. We're going on our 4th date tomorrow. Anyway, this girl just doesn't give any signs.
what happend next? :P Note that some girls do not suggest signs... Just be yourself and do what U WANT!!! Do not seek for her approve
Why isn’t anyone talking about STDs here? I mean, condoms aren’t enough.
Take off your clothes, bake me a cookie, stop talking, give me a massage. Well, I'll be darned. It works. She does everything I tell her like a robot. And they say women are complicated.
Only dudes who get no play say that BS
"coffee wtf whats the coffee shit about" lmao you kill me corey x)
19:11 - GOD MODE: It's an all you can eat buffet bro!
This guy told me he stopped taking girls to hang out with friends because they would always sleep with her 😆
I should meet your chick bro, I love Underground Hip-Hop:)
And she gets eaten by a saber tooth Tiger omg lol this guy is a riot
that last girl did not rate him. busy but she's out posting pics etc smh
Facts!! Facts!! Facts!!
Bone of this has anything to do w sexual escalation
this cory wayne stuff only works if you attract women you like..
okay so at 12:25-12:30 when you say (in the girls words) “ me being here means i wanna be with you “ im gunna correct that and say her being there with him is because the other guy his “friend” was in puerto rico lol 😂
100% true
what were the videos on sex that you recommended in your book I don't remember you saying their name
22jazzmarie "women who make it easy"
chatterbox good?
I have a girl doing most of these things and she flirts pretty directly then she changes to "we are just friends" she sees our age difference as a barrier. Do i persist or just move on ?
arsjth move
@@hrithik4515 fyi i am in a really happy fun relationship with the above girl. she is sexy and awesome and generous. cheers
Give some time
@@hrithik4515 how much? 10 years? 20 years?
Play hard to get lost of interest work well for me😜
just like smokin the weed bahahahahaaha
What if you or the girl don’t drink ? Invite to late coffee I guess
Minute 18:56 why must you remind me about college, I so fucked up
That's not a friend.
A lot if movies have conditioned men to be total wimps. All the rom coms and love films.
14:11 😂 😂 😂 😂
Nigga lukkin” clean duh!!!
I always let the shitty ads play bruh 👌
You must love Jehovah your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. You must love your neighbor as yourself. Jesus the anointed is Lord! Repent and be baptized and believe the Gospel.
Mary has never messed w my junk but whiskey deff has but mostly if I overdrink
23:55 lol.
Nowadays, there's so much tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words od Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.
4th and inches by lil wayne
Well done, there's so many tips, techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words od Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.
It turned me on when you spoke about Will Robinson lol.. who knew .ha
I didn't understand any fact wtf what is this
Men if you want to know women ask a woman. Get yourself a wing woman. Then you will get first hand insights into the female mind. Do it.
Are u a female because u never ask females for female advice but there good for being a wingman
+804archie Right?
Women will give you some fairy tale white knight non-sense that'll get you friendzoned..
Advice from women is rubbish.
bellaearth "don't ask woman about woman -Corey Wayne" read his book bellrath most don't understand themselves. And don't want to hurt your feelings
+Sarfraz Momin my supposed to be wingwomen started to get fucking jealous and fucked up mine. fuck her