For the viewer submission, I have a dad juuuuuuuuuuust like yours. I left the door open buuuuuuuut he only gets the effort from me that he puts into me. He wants to talk on the phone, phone works both ways. He wants to see my kids, he video calls. He hasn’t seen my kids in person for 3!!!! years and I’m not going to put them through hell of a 12 hr car ride to see him with none of their toys and not knowing what their allowed to play with and what not. It sucks ass to realize your dad sucks (trust and believe, I know) but once you accept it and set a firm boundary for yourself in regard to him it hurts less. Still sucks but at least you stop hurting yourself for someone who seemingly doesn’t give an f.
Honestly for the last story OP needs a good trauma therapist that will help deal with all this pain the dad caused and help with low self esteem. You deserve so much better it may always sting but getting the help you need will not only help you but your children as well they need you at your best.
For the viewer submission, I have a dad juuuuuuuuuuust like yours. I left the door open buuuuuuuut he only gets the effort from me that he puts into me. He wants to talk on the phone, phone works both ways. He wants to see my kids, he video calls. He hasn’t seen my kids in person for 3!!!! years and I’m not going to put them through hell of a 12 hr car ride to see him with none of their toys and not knowing what their allowed to play with and what not. It sucks ass to realize your dad sucks (trust and believe, I know) but once you accept it and set a firm boundary for yourself in regard to him it hurts less. Still sucks but at least you stop hurting yourself for someone who seemingly doesn’t give an f.
Honestly for the last story OP needs a good trauma therapist that will help deal with all this pain the dad caused and help with low self esteem. You deserve so much better it may always sting but getting the help you need will not only help you but your children as well they need you at your best.
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Happy New Year's Lola. Looking forward to more podcast and videos in 2025
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16:22 they aren’t the parent!! mind your business mind your children, and leave mine alone! WTF😂