Takes care of his disabled mom, actually has a job, doesn't care he doesn't have a girlfriend and doesn't blame women or "society" for his problems. I see an absolute chad not an incel.
Yep, I don't understand the reason somebody calls this dude a miserable one. I live with my parents in my 18, not planning to leave them, don't have a girlfriend, even though one girl really likes me. Don't use a social media, but trust me, if I had one, and somebody would've wanted to talk about my lifestyle - THEY would've beene ones, blocking my account in tears, with an absolutely destroyed self-esteem, not me xD It feels amazing to live this way
@@cyntdestroyer69xd Man, i ve been working on myself. Now i m 2nd year an EE student on a self improveing road. I look like a greek god because i did sports like gym, swimming bjj, kickbox until now. I ll be 20 soon and i just focus on my career. Most people i know will be losers in a few years and the girls i met are wasting their time with low quality men and increasing their count. I rather take off 2 days from work and go to mountain than spend those money on fucking cheap coffee served in a public place with ICE and fuckign cream on top of it, shit movies and other bullshit.
This guy is a chad, he has none of the incel qualities, A true man who cares for his family, and does not care for sex, and speaks nothing but the truth.
Well, he makes manly decisions like help family, be responsible but for females nowadays it's not manly, Chad for them is a partyguy with endless flow of cash.
I don't think the whole point was to see this guy as a hero or anything, yeah he's doing a good thing, taking care of his family and working, but he wants more out of his life and he won't reach for it due to his resigned attitude. He has "friends" but as you can see they're bottom of the barrel scumbags and he doesn't realize he's surrounding himself with shitty people because he believes he doesn't have self worth, and they are all he's got.
Real talk, shy guys are the most emotionally mature people you can ever meet. My absolute best friend was a shy guy whom I met in my freshman years, I approached him after I noticed we were in several courses together. NEVER once did he ever ask me or encourage me to do dangerous or illegal stuff like my other "friends" in my college years. He saw me in my most pathetic state and decided to help me all the way through, whereas my other "friends" just cut contact with me despite knowing them far longer than my shy guy friend. He never ONCE judged me, or made fun of me or anyone else for that matter. He'd always advise me calmly whenever I am about to do something bad, he used literal facts and logic to make sure I never do something I regret. He enjoyed simple and quiet hangouts instead of the obnoxiously loud hangouts like going to parties/mixers. He was really one of a kind, and a true gem. R.I.P Karl, you'll always occupy a place in both my heart and soul.
As someone who moved into his parents house to take care of them so they don't go to a home in the middle of this pandemic, your comment makes me feel better. It's embarrassing to be 30 and living under my parent's roof, but my mom is disabled and needs a lot of care throughout the day.
@@tubarao1143 Naw I disagree. My older brother has a long term gf and he often takes care of my mom and dad both. Hell, my entire culture is built off getting married, havign kids and taking care of your parents. They aren't that mutually exclusive unless ur gf/S.O is extremely needy or narcissistic and ignorant.
@@tubarao1143 You only have so many hours in a day. People who take up more time with work or other commitments will naturally have less time for other things. Taking care of a family member with physical/mental disabilities or long term health conditions would naturally eat up a log of someone's time so they may not always get the same opportunities to also raise a family of their own and vice versa.
@@maki3904 you dont need to punch someone in face in the face to do them harm. You can harm them in ways they'd wish you did punch them in the face instead
@@hopeslover6778 I do feel the term misogyny gets thrown around too much. The red pill movement was great until it started misleading young men. Which is weird because they tell young men they need to get fit, not give a fuck about anyone but themselves and make a lot of money. I think every movement online and "circle" has one common issue. The absence of altruism. It is always about me, me, me. I make it a habit to text or call someone different just to see how they are doing every week. Not because I need or want to pry something out of them. People in general both sexes included need to be more altruistic. Altruistic but with no expectation. I was driving late at night after a girl hit my fender in my Suzuki. She had a lot of stuff going on so I did not call insurance and told her it was not a big deal. (Mind you, she hit the car and did not stop on the shoulder but looked like she hesitated. I was FURIOUS because I thought she was trying to run. I am still amazed to this day how I was able to calm down given the fact I used to be very violent and aggressive.)The girl then told me "if you need anything, and I mean anything please call me." Interpret it as you wish, but I never called her after that incident for sex or something because you give and help people out of principle. I just told her " remember what I did for you and just do it for someone else." Not trying to humble brag. I just wish people were more nicer and altruistic on a smaller scale...
Remember that girl that she would say how independent and mighty she acted would call me trash and shit that I'm not living alone i told her that im an only child i got a 3 story house i got my space and after the first economic failure she would move out
The last couple generations of women chose to have children later in life. The result is that children don't really know their grandparents as functional adults anymore, and their parents are older, physically weaker, and less capable of caring for themselves. After the age of 30, your body undergoes a noticable decline every 5 years, and the energy young adults have to stay up drinking all night and partying is suppose to be to function while caring for newborns. The result of this is that a lot of kids feel responsible for their parents and their grandparents, and are compelled to care for them even when it costs them a good amount of their youth, opportunities, and personal development. This is why it is important to have a lot of children, and to have them early.
I moved back into my parents house at 27. I lived alone for 3 years and wasted around 30k for rent in those years. For what? to live alone in an apertement with shitty neighbours who are loud all the time? At the same time my Mom lost her job and my father is not doing the best healthwise. I came back to my parentshouse and now help out to keep the house in our family and pay for alot fo things. I dont know what how it will be in the future, but i cant abandon my family, as i had a good hard working parents that just didnt earn alot of money... What am i supposed to do? Go live alone and ignore my parents just so im socially acceptable? People at work talk behind my back, why i moved back and laugh. But the same people would take it a life time to save up the money i saved. I already have plans to buy the house for myself and buy a house and land in my home country. I dont expect women to be attracted to a guy who is still living with his parents, but i also dont expect to be with a girl who has no family values.
FINALLY! Someone with a Gold Heart. My faith atleast has been restored and gained myself a confidence too. Ignore those people calling you a loser and they dont even contribute positively in your life in the first place. In the end, You're Smart And Caring Human
When you start questionning your existence, the society in which you live and take decisions for both personal mental/physical health of your future I think that it is truly the moment that you embrace the quintessence of being a human being.
@Cole I'd actually claim, that meme figures been picked with absolutely calculated awareness: It perfectly attracts/reaches the people easily from that content, who are basically his perfect "target" for his content (generations of people which suffer from their diminishing essence/consistency due to their lack of reflection),... ... in the pace of excitement that these people are needing by far the most (as mental compensation for the medial overstimulation of short-lived & exxagerated content). Literally, ThinkTanks are being highly paid to develop/advance such perfect adaptations for spefific products of big companies.
>daniel >shyguy.exe >26 >live and takes care of my dad >only friends that i keep contact was those made on HS Well, guess i have to sue this company, that guy is literally me **not really i have a gf
This is all about culture. Here in asia, it's a sin not taking care of your old parents. And in my country, the women are often told not to trust a man who neglects his parents specially his mom. If he can abandon a woman who gave birth to him and raised him, and looked after him almost all of his life, imagine what he can do to a woman who he has just known for weeks, months or a couple years.
my sister is married she still lives me and my mom until she was 30, in asia its common to live with your parents. I am 16 and I really got used to staying with her, she was like a parental figure in more instances than my parents have been. I dont know why people shame others who live with their parents. The whole culture that you have to get a gf to validate yourself is annoying but I do think if you an adult of age you should be getting a job
@@ripnecross1991 Yes plus his responsibilities are way more fucking fun than lasting for more than 3 minutes in bed. My car can survive heat soak on a dyno longer than that. Not saying sex is everything because I have had some great moments that didn't involve sex, I know, shocker. Maybe we are fucking weird. I get horny and I find it incredibly hot when I'm in a tough situation and my girl helps me get out of it or thinks of something clever I have never though of. Idk lol.
@@flyingdragon6275 There is nothing to be feel unlucky. You can too take good life skills from the Asian. Or just come here. I'm in india, and I used to feel the same way about my country, I used to think how my country is not good and has no morals compared to western. But as I got older I got to know the real situation. Western world is fucked up more, it was big cultural shock for me. I then realised how I'm grateful to live in a country with such morals, culture. I started to compare my life styles with western world with the help of science, and knowledge, and I got to know how my life style is better. I currently live towards the north of Mumbai, in a Mumbai metropolitan city. And while having a environment of a mix of rural and urban, I'm very damn grateful. As I wanted to be archeologist in future, I am so excited to travel and discover secrets of my deep cultured country. And I'm probably thinking of living in the Himalayas, north east, or more towards south/ north maharashtra and south india when I reach my 30s, to see the world with peace, meditation, and with the help of my culture while also adding some good skills of religion like buddhism and Hinduism.
Nah, it's same in Europe. In my country it's even worse. If youre over 19 and still live with your parents, that is shameful here. I recently moved out, when I was 25. I do feel more confident, thats one less shameful thing. Like 5 more things to go though.
Virgin western culture Selfish, although seeming nice you are degrading yourself. Forced to do things you wouldnt like to not be labeled Promotes irresponsibility Chad middle eastern culture Promotes self control Has a celebration where they give to the needy Lol rock from heaven in cube at Medina come over bro
There's people out there that just want to chill man. As a 30+, I'm shocked to see people gather round streams of Mario Party 64. Deep inside we all just want to hang out and vibe. We all want to participate or be part of the interaction.
Gotta find an activity you like outside of the house buddy, pick one that even if you don't make friends there you'll still enjoy it. For example mountain hiking tours (my favorite) or something similar to that.
this guy is the chaddest chad from the based-town. doesn't leave his disabled mother in a hard spot and actually helps him, doesn't blame women for his relationship status, doesn't blame society for him being shy, actually has a job, friends and can explain himself properly whilst being respectful
@@barrackobama7962 No, that's not what it means If people used that way, their just wrong, like a lot of other people who use words while they don't know their meaning, and definitely used their freedom of speech for opinions to much
Well i think this is the point here. He is actually intelligent and good person, yet he want something different that he have, atleast to try it. Daniel just don't know how to do it, how to make new relations.
I see your point but he still is lying to her about him trying to get a job instead of playing with old friends where he's comfortable at. At least that much I managed to take from the video. I mean he's not necessarily a bad person but if you think about it he kinda clings to everything he finds relatable to. His invalid mother, old friends which he doesnt really seem to like but just for the sake that they know each other keeps sticking with them. Sticking to what you know best is a survival mechanism and not a wrong strategic in life but when that gets you knowhere maybe you just change things up. Let's think this through. One day his mother dies, so hes left alone in the house by himself. What does he do there. Live. Who's gonna pay for his needs: -food, water, electricity. We dont know, because we dont even know if he works since he lies out of shyness and discretion. And further if thats his behavior who would like to bond with such person who cant share a single ounce of information or form of opinion. Well thats my take on the video I think thats what the author tried to tell, if not the whatever.
@@kakkadasekazvam3968 Bro, he does have a job, I think it was the mother that mistakenly thought it was a job interview, and I agree that he has to change friends, but they're the only friends he has from school, so he stays with them, as he can't make new friends because he's a shy guy.
Yes, go to shopping mall and start to bother people going about their own day with pickup lines suggested by "dating experts". I am sure that's gonna work. To really meet people, you need a common background to relate to, like a common hobby or when you meet on sort of course or classes. I guess that's why school and college are the best for that kind of thing, you are going to the same place after all. Then, everybody is just busy with work and whatever, but it's not impossible to get out of this circle. I just don't believe that cold approach will work, or maybe I'm looking for excuses.
That whole living with parents past a certain age thing nowadays is mostly because it’s harder to afford your own place nowadays, this isn’t 1950’s where you can bag groceries and pay for house anymore lol
Well in my country people are renting flats with their friends/randoms and i'm pretty sure it works like that in many other countries too. No one saying young people are supposed to buy a house in their 20's. Also it didn't worked like that in most countries since USA was one of the few places in the world where people could afford to buy a house just like that back in the days.
in my country nearly impossible buy a flat in your young age, every year the real estate prices increase by more than 30%, my stupid government is push the real estate market prices in new hight records.
@@nevemnincsen4794 Jesus, I was reading your comment thinking to myself that it must be Hungary. After checking your name it is all clear now. How fucked up our situation is...
This is a lot like me now and please understand this is a road you don't want to go down because this the one life you have. Some of my pieces of advice to you are don't put countless hours into gaming and viewing content, and do your absolute very best to not watch porn. Also, girls you will meet will likely give you hints that they're interested in you so be sure not to pass those opportunities up.
@@mrtyrant1680 because they get in relationships that have no meaning nor value. There isn't a true bond, just their brain thinking "damn she hot, make pp hard must be love" So that's why they find it easy.
I'm shy, I'm 28, live with parents, no friends, no girl, I have a job though. Not very satisfied about my live, a bit depressed, sometimes very depressed, listen to classical music that makes me more depressed. But this week end maybe we go to the sauna and bath so less sad and there is Christmas soon so maybe a good evening with parents
Jesus, is there actually a derogatory term for every kind of person out there at this point? Do people believe that others' existences are there just for them to look down on? What a depressing world.
yep people love labeling others whether it be positive or negative ive only heard about terms like "simp", "Incel", "karen", "boomer", "zoomer" and "coomer" back in like 2019. Its funny how ive only heard of these in western countries or english speaking countries. because in my place we dont have this kind of labeling system on people. These guys are really smart tbh they know how to divide more and more people by calling them names.
@@nibbax7772 i think thats what the vid was getting at, by the standard definition shy guys are incels they just dont want to be considered them because of the incel community
Moved out at 23, i don't have many friends, got a nice job as a programmer, i'm quite the hard nerd, but i keep things to myself, most of the time i'm watching something on youtube or playing some dumb cellphone game while i save money for a computer and things for my house. i had a GF once, she was the best, but then left me for another dude, this fucked me up bad, had numerous suicide attempts, but it taught me to value and improve myself. i'm sad yes, but most of the time i'm indifferent, i wish i had someone, but i know i need to better myself first, and in my own pace i'm moving forward My name is Daniel, and i'm 25.
@@dev_aro well or you might be asexual or a femcel? Idk at this point, the word is just another buzzword due overuse like jikes, cringe, simp, thot, lol (in a sarcastic manner), etc.
If you are not into society standards, you will be considered a failure in life, mocked and antagonized for being an outcast of society - The Joker "aka gamers rise up"
Not gonna lie, you have a good relationship with your family if you can live under the same roof. I just can’t jive with my folks in the same house for an extended period of time.
What people don't notice is that, it looks like the Shy Guy is only one taking care of his mother and there's no other family member there to help out. I can relate to this because I get no help from neither side of the family and I'm the only who have no choice but to do it all
Wow. The posture of the “Shy Guy” is accurate, even the anxious bouncing of the leg and arms crossed to protect himself. Attention to detail noticed! :)
@true gaymer oh yes if truly does not care about how women feel towards him he is a gigachad. i was talking to the woman tho, who instinctively wont find him attractive
I was actually kinda lucky to be unemployed for my mom's final year. Literally started a job a month before her passing. It sucked but I'm really grateful for the preceding year that we spent together.
In the end the world is not our playground. The stigma on people not working is cause they dont make taxable income, and the stigma of not having a gf is cause they dont consume as much when they are single.
It's not about consumption. It's about being able to provide. However, most young people (male or female) are struggling and have no idea what they want to do with their lives lol. It's why people are living at home longer.
I like how society makes you to move out at a young age, mostly to not be "mommy's boy" or a "looser" even though you're still not financial capable of living your life alone, except playing a survival mode. This depends by the country as well.
I really dont get americans obsession about not living with your parents anymore. Where I live, unless you are married, you stay with your parents and save up, and that seems much smarter.
as long as i‘m still single i honestly see no reason to move out, i got a big fucking room, i get along great with my parents and since i havent gotten my drivers license yet, living 20m from the bus station is also pretty convenient to go to work in the morning
In some culture, it is acceptable to live with their parents until they get married or even after they are married. Italians are well known to stay at their parents home for a long time. In Asia it is pretty common to stay in one roof too if you are not married yet, even if you are married you are obligated to visit parents once a week
This dude doesn't care about impressing women at all thus never waste his time, is humble, genuinely kind, takes care of himself while he's working hard for his family. If he was in Philippines, a lot of people will praise him for being a hard-working humble young man who values his family. He's a good man among men. Not an incel, he's far different from an incel. Heck, there's no chance for him to become simp at all cause he's immune by it and he does it without being an asshole. This is guy isn't a Chad, he's Jonathan Joestar ⭐
And he cares about the things he can enjoy too. Like dnd. He got some good character. I wish for a future episode with Daniel meeting up with Chad. To see how it goes.
I lived with my parents into my 20's. I was quite embarrassed about it, frustrated with the lack of privacy. I thought if i moved out I would be happier. I now have a soul crushing wage slave job that pays me enough to not starve but not enough to be comfortable. I'm still single and alone and i miss the days I lived with my parents.
what age are you now? im 24 and still live with my parents, im not against moving out but i almost only want to do it on my own terms, which is probably not being realistic lol if i could live with close friends sure, why not
I'm 24 too living with my mom, once again it's just not financially logical to move out. If I did both me and my mother would be struggling financially separately that just makes no sense
You fall for the scam bro. This mindset was feasible for the boomers. Back then houses, cars and everything were cheap. They inflated everything and that is the reason you don't earn enough to have a decent life.
@@ultra.based.27 >a "chad" is by definition an popular extrovert i dont think so, chad is just hadsome man, no matter what he is, extrovert or introvert
@Troll Toxico You can look like a Chad but not keep the spirit of one. Conversely, you could be a seemingly normal guy and still keep the powerful spirit of the Chad. That’s what I think they were saying. The second point is, introversion and extraversion are not exactly well defined traits. Carl Jung defined an introvert as one who stuck to their values, and an extravert as one who changes with the situation. Personality type theories then used the four elements, Intuition Sensing Thinking and Feeling and split those up, applying them to introversion and extraversion with those definitions, to create eight functions. Extraversion, now swapped and spelt ‘extroversion’, and introversion then gained a social interpretation to it. Personally, I find this interpretation a little two-dimensional, as you’d often see introverts as book-wielding asocial shy nerds and extroverts as popular outgoing party friends. I suspect that this may be the interpretation you are using, and it classifies my very extroverted self somewhere down the middle. Another interpretation is used in psychology: extroverts are energised from socialising and introverts from being alone. This is what classifies me as an extrovert, which I find relatable. (I define ‘extraversion’ with an ‘a’ as Carl’s original ideas, and ‘extroversion’ with an ‘o’ as the modern idea.) I am terribly sorry for this unsolicited info dump.
@@gsly6081 What's the problem? That it's the perfect example of person who will achieve nothing in life. People like this live with their parents for whole their life, have shitty job, no gf, maybe have some friends that are the same losers as him. Even though he is 26 he said "You can't talk about school or video games" so it's been few years after he finished school and basically he is the same person he was those few years ago with no ambitions. Or at least I interpreted it like that.
you asking for advice on internet, this is just an opinionated video, ofcourse it will not potray all "shy" man, in personality psychology we talk about OCEAN, search for it, this openness to other is just one of the factors. Ask this, even non shy people will agree a lot on this, so what does it mean. There are some pieces of truth but not the whole truth. Just watch it and move ahead.
The only real red flag here is his incel d&d friend calling the interviewer a "thing" almost certainly because of her gender. Obviously the life this guy is living is far from ideal even if it isn't a bad one. He should cut the toxic friend(s) out, maybe find a real dream to pursue and put in the work to achieving it. I don't think there's anything fundamentally wrong with living with your parents in your 20s though I do find it unsettling that this guy is not interested in let alone putting in effort to live a different life.
You're under no obligation to take care of anyone IMO, unless they're your kid. Your parents chose to have you against your will. However, if you choose to take care of them, you shouldn't be shamed for it. Personally, I wouldn't take care of anyone, family or not.
The idea of living by yourself requires wasting large amounts of money on rent which could be better used as savings while living with your parents tbh.
If your parents are chill and respect your privacy, understanding that you are there temporarily to save money, and you help out, it's cool. But if they are overbearing and use money to control you, than leave ASAP
Damn boi, I live in india and here it's completely opposite. Here you are praised for taking care of parents instead of being judged and made fun by the society. Glad I'm here!
"When we are in a place in which we want to move far away from, but being away from it, we want to go back." We must be the best we can be in any situation. Not wishing to escape factors that are beyond our control.
I'm 15 and I wouldn't mind that life lmao. I don't want a gf tbh since they will just get in the way of things I want to do and most of them are gold diggers/thots anyways. If you want a gf it's your choice but don't get too attached since she will probably cheat on you. If your gf is American the chances multiply by 3
At the beggining i was thinking "Ok, this guy still being a good person". I was doing well, but at the end, when they showed that his mom losed her legs, i cried instantly...
My liege! Glad to see Your Majesty enjoying this quality social critique as well. In you servant's humble opinion, though, what these shy 21st century young men need is a good old-fashioned cavalry charge, right? Shakes the excess timidness right and proper.
Wow, again this is a big morale story with tiny bits, a sentence speaking volumes. Like the "i came here with them" (0:18) shows his angst of interacting with the "outer world" alone The term "in real life" wouldn't be uses irl by a "normal" person. It's not cool to help your parents, but being helped by your parents is cool, because you have different living conditions?(from ~1:05) All such nice tiny bits, information in a quite calmly appearing video. The Plot twist at the end really hit hard, the story inducing again a overthinking of ones own morale, a feeling of sadness,madness,apathy, whatever you get when thinking about the cancerous parts of society, and entertaining is the video as usual, although very calm and without many cuts. Boyy, is this a channel a promising one
Men (also women, it’s still the same) need to remember that having tons of friends, sleeping with tons of people and having nice stuff that you’ve just bought because you could are not achievements. They are mere conversations and won’t amount to any greater goals with making a better life. Don’t surround yourself with luxuries and false friends or partners because, in truth, they only want stuff from you, and could easily leave when you’re in a bad situation that you need their help.
I'm kind of like this. 20 years old, a student, i have a few friends but they're outside of our country, working. I've had 3 relationships, but it was mostly that one which i had with my girl bestfriend and the other two was basically rebound and they both didnt last even a few weeks. My mom died of cancer when i was 16 so i live alone with my dad, my older brothers already moved out. Im shy but i can talk to people i don't know, if i force myself (altough these interactions are not the definition of a good and clear talk). The point i'm trying to make is that due to this whole lockdown situation i've been slowly getting more and more depressed. i've never before actually considered myself that. The lockdown forced my friends to go to another country, as they were "no longer needed" at their current job and i can't interact with the people at my university, some of which i considered friends, and most of which i liked, simply because we shared interests. Now i feel kind of helpless or i just feel "heavy", i can't quite describe it, it's like i don't want to leave my room or i just surrender very quickly. Internet's kind of my last place where i can express myself and sometimes that helps. Anyway folks, stay strong and I hope you have a better experience in these bad times.
We understand this feeling. Good luck to you going through that. Remember that it's bound to get better for you at one point, like it did for others. You're not alone in this. Best to you. When it happenned to me, I moved out to another place and it helped me a lot. I don't know if it's applicable to you though.
@@MK_ULTRA420 Most moms love their kids regardless; any other woman her love is ALWAYS conditional. That's a huge mistake a lot of guys make thinking she'll love him the same way his mother does. Most girls aren't love you no matter what. They're love you only if..
In the Philippines it is an honorable duty to stay with your parents and help them regardless of age. There is no shame in that whatsoever. Be proud and thankful and don't let anyone talk you down.
I moved back in with my parents after college. I was able to pay off my debt in 3 years, because my only living expenses here are contributing $160 a month to help with groceries, phone plan etc. A friend from China said there's nothing wrong with continuing to live with your family as an adult. Apparently, it's primarily western countries who value living independently from relatives
@@boozecruiser1776 Most universities are in major cities so that's not really a cultural thing, most students would probably love having their parents within a reasonable distance from university.
I moved out at 19 and had to move back in with my parents at 24 because of chronic illness and I couldn't continue to hold a job (narcolepsy, dysautonomia and a heart condition all diagnosed within a couple of months). It's frustrating, embarrassing and makes me feel terrible about myself. All that to say if I had the means and my parents were disabled I'd take care of them like they took care of me and any person who thought less of that situation need not be in my life
Bro that is nothing to be ashamed of you just got unlucky with getting sick and all. Like its way better than being dead and I am sure that your parents love having you home and healthy than alone and hurting.
@@jaxonhess3531 Thanks friend, I do have awesome family and I'm really grateful for them. My point was only to say that sometimes the most important thing you can do is take care of family and if someone doesn't respect that they're not a good person in your life. It's actually what motivated me to take my TH-cam channel more seriously. I wanted to be able to start providing for myself and give back to help family now that working traditionally was out of reach for me.
Honestly, I'm 29 and I live with my mother and brother. I love living with my family, and as long as my family doesn't mind not having grandkids from me (as I don't believe a near 30 yo living with his family is attractive to women) I'll continue to live and dedicate my time and money to providing for them (especially now that my mother is getting older and forgets things).
I would have gladly stayed at my parents' home, at least for the cheap mortgage (0€) but they just did not want me to stay. Now I am living alone and paying 700€ a month for a sad and ugly appartment.
His logic is sound. The woman can't seem to realize the bullshit generalizations she is spewing out of her mouth. I am in a pretty similar situation. My dad's last marriage and divorce left mentally impaired because of all the suffering he endured. I moved in with him and been living with him and taking care of him for 14 years. I can't have a social life, I don't have time for anything else besides dad, the house work and my job which is our only source of income. Video games are the only thing that keeps me sane and relaxed, so I can go through the every day. It hasn't been easy, since 2015 my dad's mental health has taken a turn for the worst, he became a Trump hater and has been endoctrinated to believe every republican is satan and that everything bad in the planet is the Republicans fault, this coming from a person that wasn't political at all he literally had no mind for it but they managed to brain wash him. It's been a struggle for me because if I hear the word Trumo 1 more time my head is going to explode. Should I abandon my father? No, I must take care of my family, I am all the family he has. Should I put him in a home? I dont have the means, plus I can't bring myself to do that to him but if it continues.... I won't have a choice. I know the guy in the video is fake but there are so many of us out there, I wish people quit labeling others.
I'm living with my schizophrenic mother and I'm 30. I've lived at home for my whole life, apart from education and visits to relatives. I've never really had a social life and well thats just how it is. I have a freelance job and I'm able to pay the bills and pay for the groceries with the grace of god. There were times that I though I was going to lose it and do something I'd regret. It can be like literal torture. But, sometimes, the hardest thing is that people don't seem to want to understand. They probably think the reason why I seem depressed yet fine is because I want to complain.. To be honest, I have no idea what they think. But, it hurts when they seem to judge you when they have no real idea what you've been through.. Its as if they're trying to assert how hard 'their' life is to you by rejecting your scars. What kind of competition is this? Who is the biggest victim in the room?? I fail to see how this actually helps them or me.
Cares for his disabled Mother, no care for not having any girlfriends, has a real job, ,no care for any other problems nor society in general, and you're telling me he's an incel? Yeah, right.
This is just man with priorities in life, not a boy that just want something from life. More fits there volcel than incel and im totally agree with this comment
You should only move out when you're thinking of starting a family of your own. Where I live, it's downright masochistic to hold down rent single-handed.
Absolutely it was totally different 50 years ago where even some wagie job could afford you a house and a new car with room to spare. Considering it takes a few thousand to even move into the crappiest apartment most places and most of a young person's income to cover rent moving out is financial suicide. I moved out when I am 18 and spent the greater part of the next 20 years renting this place and that as it was all I could afford. 2 years ago I bought a house after a year and a half of saving like mad and renting just a room instead of a whole apartment just to accumulate my down payment on this house I have now. If you took all the rent I paid from age 18 to 38 I could have owned 3 more homes outright
You must live somewhere expensive where people don't value their privacy. I cannot imagine still living with my parents. I did until I was 22 and it sucked. Couldn't bring girls home and would be awkward if I tried. Moved out and never looking back.
Unfortunately I'm shy to, I don't live with my parents though, I have a few friends but I'm not good at making friends and I'm bad at socialising, even though I had a small number of friends, I was a social outcast in school.
@Zen-2 I'm less shy and I don't mind showing my face, its talking in real life, I'm less shy on the internet, you know those people who act tough on the internet but in real life there timid, think of it as that, I'm more sociable in the internet than in real life.
This is eye opening because I think living with parents turns you into this type of personality. The problem is modern monetary theory has made asset prices inflate so much in value that young people are living at home for so much longer just to save up a down payment. In effect, it's creating more of these types of people with this mindset. It's really incredible to think that central banking and finance has such a broad and large sociological/psychological impact on people!
I've met some shy people in my life. They're like every average person, just harder to get to or exchange communication towards. I've been that guy once, and the thing I realized that was in common with all of us is the fact that we cannot start a conversation, and if started, have extreme difficulty with transitioning it into free-flowing conversation. I've since grew out of it, but I still have some friends who still are in the dilemma. What I've learned is, "Activity is the crutch of interaction." You can't solely rely on communication for that. It's pretty common for people not being able to start a conversation, and most of the time it's probably even situational. Having an activity both of you are participating in is a good way to easily and comfortably be able to talk to each other.
There's alot of people like him, good hearts but don't know how to build new relations, a very small percentage of them turn into incels and make everyone else look bad too.
I don't think it's saying anything is wrong with him except his personal battle with being shy. Unless he's accepted it in which case he would just be himself
Nothing is wrong with him. The video is showing the duality of people moving out and not taking the time to understand circumstances and creating ignorant opinions. Shy guy is a good guy here.
One reason I quit trying to date a month before turning 18 (summer 2012) was because I've realized that no matter how much I achieve or otherwise able to offer, ultimately, people will only like my assets, and not me as a person. Almost a decade later, I still stand by it. Every social media HQ deserves a massacre or two IMO.
@@theboydanny8774 Conversation between a Simp, a Nice guy and a Incel. J: What exactly are you talking about? R: She's the one, my dream girl. M: What are you talking about? She just smiled, you idiot. R: It's a signal, I'm sure of it. J: Oh yeah, you have such a talent in noticing signals. I mean, it just fails you 99% of the time. M: Wait, 99? When was there ever a 1%? J: Lucy. M: Lucy was drunk, do you actually think she would have kissed him otherwise. R: Man, fuck you two! J: Alright, alright. Just watch out for the horns. R: Are you fucking crazy, I'll kill her! J: (LOL) What the fuck? R: I'll cover her feet with cement and toss her on the river. M: How are you still single, we'll never know. (LOL) J: I'm single because I'm ugly. You, because you still thinking about that slut. M: Don't call her that. J: She cheated on you several times before she finally dumped you for a scumbag with a nice car. That's my definition of a slut. R: Yeah, he's not wrong. You should move on, since you have way more options than us. M: Is because I actually talk to girls. I mean, you only chase after smoking hot chicks, which is why it never works out for you. R: I chase after girls that I want to be with and you don't see me complaining when I get turned down. J: If you did complain on our ears about it, we would beat the shit out of you for it. R: That's rich coming from you. You don't even approach girls. J: I don't have much motivation to do that anymore, considering that every time I tried, it failed. M: You let rejection bother you too much man. J: Because I really liked the girls that rejected me. You pretty much do the same but with an ex that doesn't deserves it. R: He got you there. J: Can we please go back to the game now? My winning streak could use a few more flawless victories. M: Nah, I'm going to sleep. She agreed to meet me tomorrow. J: Jesus fucking christ, why the fuck are you meeting her for? M: None of you business. Good night. R: Yeah, I'm going to sleep too. I think she goes to work early. J: Are you seriously gonna stalk her? R: It's not stalking, I'm just creating opportunities for a conversation. J: A conversation about why she shouldn't call the police on your ass? R: See, that's why you never get the girl you like, you're too negative. J: Whatever, don't use your phone call to call me to bust you out of jail when that shit backfires. R: We'll see who's gonna be joking after I have that sexy ass on my arms and you still stuck on video games. J: Whatever you say buddy.
I’m 24 no girlfriend or friends maybe just one though i have a small circle. i wouldn’t classify myself as an incel, in fact I’ve had a girlfriend before for 6 months but she left for god knows why. Fast forward months later and I’m still trying to get over her but it’s hard because online dating is a joke during the pandemic so it sucks being alone most of the time. No job or car yet because retail was fucking dumb and i barely made any money to begin with. Hated every aspect of it! i might as well start looking for a degree now while everything is still online based because i don’t think i would survive college IRL, wish me luck lads... i got a lot of life planning to do.
Maximize everything. Both your weaknesses and your strengths. Do not overblow your strengths to humongous proportions to think you are the best but rather grow improve, and find a way to be productively humble. With your weakness understand them, face them, and take time. It will be heard, but it will be worth it because you will now have an understanding of what limits you. If you have an at least a shred of understanding of what limits you, you should be able to at least peek at your passion. And then start from there. Never believe optimism that happens overnight and learn to know the difference between flattery and encouragment in your own contexts. Flattery is mass produced and easy to sell, whole encouragement is personal, mostly related to productive and constructive criticism. Some of which can offend slightly as it carries truth. But understand the motive behind it. You may be living in another country, but I do think can relate with you in some way. Good luck and good tidings!
He is an amazing Guy, he surpassed Chad even. He cares for his mom, and does his work properly. And he doesn't like how incels blame females for them not having a gf, that means he doesn't like Incels. He's just Shy but is dutiful, obedient, kind son. A good man, who would earn not just me but everyone's respect.
Because he's not whining or blaming other people for his shortcomings. He's frustrated and wish he could change but doesn't know how. Which is pretty relatable.
@@justacasualgamer1957 The toxic friends are his only friends, cutting them out would be difficult and the disabled mother also limits some of his prospects.
@@mrtyrant1680 yeah that's the problem. His only friends are the incels and he is not good at communication. as for his mother idk what can he do more. I think if he works on his personality and social anxiety he will be better espeacially after getting rid of that friend
My coworker is in his 30s and lives in a multi-generational household. Yeah he lives with his mom and loves D&D more than electronic games. He also has a decent job, many friends, entertaining personality, and never complains about not having women flock to him. His family built the farm and house he lives in from scratch. He always has people to hang out with that have similar interests, his money is his, and he seems genuinely happy. I envy his happiness. Life is what you make of it.
That's his choice to make. My point is that he's pretty satisfied with his life and at the end of the day that's all that really matters. His brother never left and he's happily married with a kid on the same farm. It's not necessarily the life for me but they seem pretty happy not trying to follow some societal standard.
100% me, but my parents are actually handicapped. my mom got herniated discs from being a seamstress for 40 years and my dad was shot 5 times and one of the bullets severed his spinal chord so hes a paraplegic and has to spend the rest of his life in a wheelchair.
@@nimazsheik5152 thank you for your kind words brother.. i only wish the best for you and your loved ones.. have a very happy new year! good days are ahead of us.. 🥲🥲🥲
@@presidentofchina1496 yes. However if you feel like you don't have success with the other sex, just please, for your own good, don't seek the community of these people. Incels can't take responsibility why their life suck. The main part of the incel community is very toxic, sexist, racist. The smaller part contains the real hurt souls, who can't live their life without pain. We should try to help this community, that life isn't that simple as they may think.
Is every shy guy an incel?
No
Catholics = Chads = Chatholics are Not.
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By saying Catholics are the ONLY true Christians?
every incel is a shy guy but not every shy guy is an incel
Takes care of his disabled mom, actually has a job, doesn't care he doesn't have a girlfriend and doesn't blame women or "society" for his problems. I see an absolute chad not an incel.
Yep, I don't understand the reason somebody calls this dude a miserable one. I live with my parents in my 18, not planning to leave them, don't have a girlfriend, even though one girl really likes me. Don't use a social media, but trust me, if I had one, and somebody would've wanted to talk about my lifestyle - THEY would've beene ones, blocking my account in tears, with an absolutely destroyed self-esteem, not me xD It feels amazing to live this way
@@cyntdestroyer69xd my dude I deleted most of my social media and now I feel so free
@@aaronsmith7909 Yeaah, feels so good to leave the way you want, not the way to impress somebody :) Keep it up,bro
@@cyntdestroyer69xd Man, i ve been working on myself. Now i m 2nd year an EE student on a self improveing road. I look like a greek god because i did sports like gym, swimming bjj, kickbox until now. I ll be 20 soon and i just focus on my career. Most people i know will be losers in a few years and the girls i met are wasting their time with low quality men and increasing their count. I rather take off 2 days from work and go to mountain than spend those money on fucking cheap coffee served in a public place with ICE and fuckign cream on top of it, shit movies and other bullshit.
He's an incel if he's involuntarily celibate tho.
This guy is a chad,
he has none of the incel qualities,
A true man who cares for his family, and does not care for sex, and speaks nothing but the truth.
Well, he makes manly decisions like help family, be responsible but for females nowadays it's not manly, Chad for them is a partyguy with endless flow of cash.
Those are girls they're not mature yet
I don't think the whole point was to see this guy as a hero or anything, yeah he's doing a good thing, taking care of his family and working, but he wants more out of his life and he won't reach for it due to his resigned attitude. He has "friends" but as you can see they're bottom of the barrel scumbags and he doesn't realize he's surrounding himself with shitty people because he believes he doesn't have self worth, and they are all he's got.
@@jimmym7222 True that. Kinda feel bad for this good guy.
YEAH BUT.....for the wahmin you're only "mature" when you a have your own place witch cool hip decoration, with candles and expensive useless crap.
This guy is a true man, who takes care of his mom and minds his own business.
Thank you
I've take care of my dad until he passed away, but I've never been ashamed to do my duties as a son
My parents abused my as a child both physically and mentally. They forced their cult bielifs. Am i not a man for not wanting to take care of them?
@@someonerandom130 No, you're a man for admiting that and for living your life without them. Tough situation...
He is real gentleman
Real talk, shy guys are the most emotionally mature people you can ever meet. My absolute best friend was a shy guy whom I met in my freshman years, I approached him after I noticed we were in several courses together. NEVER once did he ever ask me or encourage me to do dangerous or illegal stuff like my other "friends" in my college years. He saw me in my most pathetic state and decided to help me all the way through, whereas my other "friends" just cut contact with me despite knowing them far longer than my shy guy friend. He never ONCE judged me, or made fun of me or anyone else for that matter. He'd always advise me calmly whenever I am about to do something bad, he used literal facts and logic to make sure I never do something I regret. He enjoyed simple and quiet hangouts instead of the obnoxiously loud hangouts like going to parties/mixers. He was really one of a kind, and a true gem.
R.I.P Karl, you'll always occupy a place in both my heart and soul.
damn thanks for the compliment😂 and i also had one of my best friends in my life be shy
R.I.P. Karl!
Don't worry, we all end up in the same place somehow.
This comment hit me bruh. RIP
Never have I ever thought, I could relate so much to someone I haven't met. R.I.P Karl
he is a chad by taking care of his disabled mom. weak men flee in times of distress
That's the point of the video.They show him in contrast to the brainless zoomers getting advantage of their father's credit card.
I dont get this chad/alpha stuff it has become so generalised that you could just say good and Bad instead oft alpha/beta Chad/virgin etc
Well that's not what a chad is but ok.
As someone who moved into his parents house to take care of them so they don't go to a home in the middle of this pandemic, your comment makes me feel better. It's embarrassing to be 30 and living under my parent's roof, but my mom is disabled and needs a lot of care throughout the day.
Alpha* Chad would mean he's a really attractive white male lol
As a man, I have more respect for a guy who cares for his family than a dude who gets women.
Because they are mutually exclusive terms...
@@tubarao1143 Naw I disagree. My older brother has a long term gf and he often takes care of my mom and dad both. Hell, my entire culture is built off getting married, havign kids and taking care of your parents. They aren't that mutually exclusive unless ur gf/S.O is extremely needy or narcissistic and ignorant.
@@antoniiorizz1039 exactly. You can get girls abd still be a family guy. They are not exclusive traits...
@@tubarao1143 mb may have misunderstood. But yea I agree with u.
@@tubarao1143 You only have so many hours in a day. People who take up more time with work or other commitments will naturally have less time for other things. Taking care of a family member with physical/mental disabilities or long term health conditions would naturally eat up a log of someone's time so they may not always get the same opportunities to also raise a family of their own and vice versa.
I thought this was a parody not a real life documentary.
"A Christian should argue with a blasphemer only by running his sword through his bowels as far as it can go." - Catholic King Saint Louis IX
I thought my life was a tragedy, now i realize its a comedy
@ꓘ〣K stfu
@ꓘ〣K I’m not clicking on that link lol
@ꓘ〣K Lol
A man who simply does not give a fuck. He's living the life he wants to , not the one society wants him to, without bothering or harming anyone.
@@maki3904 you dont need to punch someone in face in the face to do them harm. You can harm them in ways they'd wish you did punch them in the face instead
this is what an MGTOW man was like, until incels came and gave it a bad name with the unnecessary misogyny
@@hopeslover6778 I do feel the term misogyny gets thrown around too much. The red pill movement was great until it started misleading young men. Which is weird because they tell young men they need to get fit, not give a fuck about anyone but themselves and make a lot of money. I think every movement online and "circle" has one common issue. The absence of altruism. It is always about me, me, me. I make it a habit to text or call someone different just to see how they are doing every week. Not because I need or want to pry something out of them. People in general both sexes included need to be more altruistic. Altruistic but with no expectation.
I was driving late at night after a girl hit my fender in my Suzuki. She had a lot of stuff going on so I did not call insurance and told her it was not a big deal. (Mind you, she hit the car and did not stop on the shoulder but looked like she hesitated. I was FURIOUS because I thought she was trying to run. I am still amazed to this day how I was able to calm down given the fact I used to be very violent and aggressive.)The girl then told me "if you need anything, and I mean anything please call me." Interpret it as you wish, but I never called her after that incident for sex or something because you give and help people out of principle. I just told her " remember what I did for you and just do it for someone else."
Not trying to humble brag. I just wish people were more nicer and altruistic on a smaller scale...
@@DaveThaBossDTB Yeah...
@@DaveThaBossDTB you seem smart and mentally strong.
*Those guys called him a loser for living with his mother but they moved out on daddys wallet haha classic stuff*
Pretty much your typical post-college 20 something these days.
Daniel would have moved out but his mother was disabled
It's not some other wierd excuse
Remember that girl that she would say how independent and mighty she acted would call me trash and shit that I'm not living alone i told her that im an only child i got a 3 story house i got my space and after the first economic failure she would move out
I wish i could live with my Mother
The last couple generations of women chose to have children later in life. The result is that children don't really know their grandparents as functional adults anymore, and their parents are older, physically weaker, and less capable of caring for themselves. After the age of 30, your body undergoes a noticable decline every 5 years, and the energy young adults have to stay up drinking all night and partying is suppose to be to function while caring for newborns. The result of this is that a lot of kids feel responsible for their parents and their grandparents, and are compelled to care for them even when it costs them a good amount of their youth, opportunities, and personal development. This is why it is important to have a lot of children, and to have them early.
I moved back into my parents house at 27. I lived alone for 3 years and wasted around 30k for rent in those years. For what? to live alone in an apertement with shitty neighbours who are loud all the time? At the same time my Mom lost her job and my father is not doing the best healthwise. I came back to my parentshouse and now help out to keep the house in our family and pay for alot fo things. I dont know what how it will be in the future, but i cant abandon my family, as i had a good hard working parents that just didnt earn alot of money... What am i supposed to do? Go live alone and ignore my parents just so im socially acceptable?
People at work talk behind my back, why i moved back and laugh. But the same people would take it a life time to save up the money i saved. I already have plans to buy the house for myself and buy a house and land in my home country.
I dont expect women to be attracted to a guy who is still living with his parents, but i also dont expect to be with a girl who has no family values.
Don't let the morally corrupt dictate your morals unless you want to become corrupted.
My man, hope you do good in life! Good luck :D
Godspeed, Bigby. Take good care of your parents, one day you'd wish they'd still be around.
You have a good heart man, keep on doing whatcha doing.
FINALLY! Someone with a Gold Heart. My faith atleast has been restored and gained myself a confidence too. Ignore those people calling you a loser and they dont even contribute positively in your life in the first place. In the end, You're Smart And Caring Human
even tho hes shy hes very well articulated on camera
yes!
That’s how it is for some shy people. We can’t start a conversation for shit, but get us talking and we can suddenly go on and on.
@@MagpieDynamics This. It's breaking that barrier of initiating.
@@MagpieDynamics Yup.
@@MagpieDynamics spot on, i can really relate to that
I find these videos so odd. They aren’t negative, they aren’t positive, they’re just... real.
They really make you question your existence
When you start questionning your existence, the society in which you live and take decisions for both personal mental/physical health of your future I think that it is truly the moment that you embrace the quintessence of being a human being.
@Cole I'd actually claim, that meme figures been picked with absolutely calculated awareness: It perfectly attracts/reaches the people easily from that content, who are basically his perfect "target" for his content (generations of people which suffer from their diminishing essence/consistency due to their lack of reflection),...
... in the pace of excitement that these people are needing by far the most (as mental compensation for the medial overstimulation of short-lived & exxagerated content).
Literally, ThinkTanks are being highly paid to develop/advance such perfect adaptations for spefific products of big companies.
Welcome to Art
Best way to describe this channel 👌🏽
The end when he brings the chair... Hits hard man
He's a good son looking after his double amputee mom like that
It’s like WHO’S CUTTING THE ONIONS IN HERE
Damn I didn't even realize that
Yeah that was fucked
Like a fully-loaded truck!
*Video starts *
*Guy introduces himself *
"My name is Daniel"
Me: ah shit this is going to be more relatable than I want it to be
You should watch Jordan Peterson, you'll have another thing in common with a guy who tries to solve these problems
>daniel
>shyguy.exe
>26
>live and takes care of my dad
>only friends that i keep contact was those made on HS
Well, guess i have to sue this company, that guy is literally me
**not really i have a gf
@Florian High School
@@danielmarques5768 hello fellow 26 year old, I just turned 26 last week!
This is all about culture. Here in asia, it's a sin not taking care of your old parents. And in my country, the women are often told not to trust a man who neglects his parents specially his mom. If he can abandon a woman who gave birth to him and raised him, and looked after him almost all of his life, imagine what he can do to a woman who he has just known for weeks, months or a couple years.
my sister is married she still lives me and my mom until she was 30, in asia its common to live with your parents. I am 16 and I really got used to staying with her, she was like a parental figure in more instances than my parents have been. I dont know why people shame others who live with their parents. The whole culture that you have to get a gf to validate yourself is annoying but I do think if you an adult of age you should be getting a job
@@ripnecross1991 Yes plus his responsibilities are way more fucking fun than lasting for more than 3 minutes in bed. My car can survive heat soak on a dyno longer than that.
Not saying sex is everything because I have had some great moments that didn't involve sex, I know, shocker.
Maybe we are fucking weird. I get horny and I find it incredibly hot when I'm in a tough situation and my girl helps me get out of it or thinks of something clever I have never though of. Idk lol.
Lucky to be an Asian
@@flyingdragon6275 yeah, you should jealous with us
@@flyingdragon6275 There is nothing to be feel unlucky. You can too take good life skills from the Asian. Or just come here. I'm in india, and I used to feel the same way about my country, I used to think how my country is not good and has no morals compared to western. But as I got older I got to know the real situation. Western world is fucked up more, it was big cultural shock for me. I then realised how I'm grateful to live in a country with such morals, culture. I started to compare my life styles with western world with the help of science, and knowledge, and I got to know how my life style is better. I currently live towards the north of Mumbai, in a Mumbai metropolitan city. And while having a environment of a mix of rural and urban, I'm very damn grateful. As I wanted to be archeologist in future, I am so excited to travel and discover secrets of my deep cultured country. And I'm probably thinking of living in the Himalayas, north east, or more towards south/ north maharashtra and south india when I reach my 30s, to see the world with peace, meditation, and with the help of my culture while also adding some good skills of religion like buddhism and Hinduism.
This is just American culture, most other cultures usually look after their parents.
Nah, it's same in Europe. In my country it's even worse. If youre over 19 and still live with your parents, that is shameful here. I recently moved out, when I was 25. I do feel more confident, thats one less shameful thing. Like 5 more things to go though.
Yeah yeah
*Western culture.
@@wuzumaki latin American is western as well, and we pretty much have to move after marriage or a situation that needs it.
Virgin western culture
Selfish, although seeming nice you are degrading yourself.
Forced to do things you wouldnt like to not be labeled
Promotes irresponsibility
Chad middle eastern culture
Promotes self control
Has a celebration where they give to the needy
Lol rock from heaven in cube at Medina come over bro
“Do you have friends?”
“Yes,”
He’s already doing better than me
There's people out there that just want to chill man. As a 30+, I'm shocked to see people gather round streams of Mario Party 64. Deep inside we all just want to hang out and vibe. We all want to participate or be part of the interaction.
dude same lmao
:(
Friends who have negative effects on someone, aren't friends.
Gotta find an activity you like outside of the house buddy, pick one that even if you don't make friends there you'll still enjoy it. For example mountain hiking tours (my favorite) or something similar to that.
Imagine even getting kissed on the cheek.
This was made by premarital hand holding gang.
Based
@@shoebill4887 He gay
Fuck hand holding i ain't even seen her
Imagine holding a hand oposite to your gender rejected gang
Not wanting to brag, but two whole girls have smiled at me.
Everyone laughs till they have a video showcasing them.
mfw I show up in multiple...
I never laughed.
No one’s laughing at these videos
They’re a mixture of amusingly ridiculous and soberingly real
Today was that day
Bruh
this guy is the chaddest chad from the based-town. doesn't leave his disabled mother in a hard spot and actually helps him, doesn't blame women for his relationship status, doesn't blame society for him being shy, actually has a job, friends and can explain himself properly whilst being respectful
what does based mean?
@@Theredrain6 it means he doesn't care what you think about I'm and won't try to impress anyone
him or her?
@@proudexmuslim2354 don't matter, both can be based
@@barrackobama7962 No, that's not what it means
If people used that way, their just wrong, like a lot of other people who use words while they don't know their meaning, and definitely used their freedom of speech for opinions to much
Honestly, this guy ain't so bad!
he has a very good reason to live with his mom, this isn't some "I don't want to move out because I can't be independent" type shit
Exactly he's just helping out his disabled mother
i think maby the point of the video is to show the other side ( of people who are alone rather than the cringy weirdos that we see the whole time ) ??
Well i think this is the point here. He is actually intelligent and good person, yet he want something different that he have, atleast to try it. Daniel just don't know how to do it, how to make new relations.
@@grey8459 Don't forget saving money. Which can be a good level-headed, rational, sane and practical choice.
EDIT: Wow 81 upvotes, thanks everyone :D
The Chad Shy Guy vs the Virgin Extrovert
Scp 096 yelling
Shout out to all the shy guys
Chads aren’t shy
Yeah 096 pretty tall, girls are into that
Actually, in reality, Chads or Alphas are always rather quiet but still confident since chit-chat is not a very manly thing to anyway.
Honestly I would give anything to be able to see and take care of my mother one more time. She passed away in October, miss her everyday.
Sorry for your loss, bro. It can be pretty tough getting through that first holiday season.
im so sorry. i think any mother would be proud and happy to hear her son say that though .
My condolences...
I want you to live to your best even if it’s not much
May she rest in peace brother. Stay strong.
Everyone gangsta till extremely relatable content starts playing.
I read Jewish Thomas
@@sierrachief117 too much saustica caused you to be blurry.
I love how Billie Eilish is now the default mean spirited vapid zoomer girl.
Fortnite Zoomer
haha that's some bs
"Why don't you abandon your legless mom and strike up conversations with strangers constantly?"
Lol. Okay.
The insanity of western standards in 2020s
Yep Yep Yep
I see your point but he still is lying to her about him trying to get a job instead of playing with old friends where he's comfortable at. At least that much I managed to take from the video. I mean he's not necessarily a bad person but if you think about it he kinda clings to everything he finds relatable to. His invalid mother, old friends which he doesnt really seem to like but just for the sake that they know each other keeps sticking with them. Sticking to what you know best is a survival mechanism and not a wrong strategic in life but when that gets you knowhere maybe you just change things up. Let's think this through. One day his mother dies, so hes left alone in the house by himself. What does he do there. Live. Who's gonna pay for his needs: -food, water, electricity. We dont know, because we dont even know if he works since he lies out of shyness and discretion. And further if thats his behavior who would like to bond with such person who cant share a single ounce of information or form of opinion. Well thats my take on the video I think thats what the author tried to tell, if not the whatever.
@@kakkadasekazvam3968 Bro, he does have a job, I think it was the mother that mistakenly thought it was a job interview, and I agree that he has to change friends, but they're the only friends he has from school, so he stays with them, as he can't make new friends because he's a shy guy.
Yes, go to shopping mall and start to bother people going about their own day with pickup lines suggested by "dating experts". I am sure that's gonna work.
To really meet people, you need a common background to relate to, like a common hobby or when you meet on sort of course or classes. I guess that's why school and college are the best for that kind of thing, you are going to the same place after all. Then, everybody is just busy with work and whatever, but it's not impossible to get out of this circle. I just don't believe that cold approach will work, or maybe I'm looking for excuses.
That whole living with parents past a certain age thing nowadays is mostly because it’s harder to afford your own place nowadays, this isn’t 1950’s where you can bag groceries and pay for house anymore lol
Well in my country people are renting flats with their friends/randoms and i'm pretty sure it works like that in many other countries too. No one saying young people are supposed to buy a house in their 20's. Also it didn't worked like that in most countries since USA was one of the few places in the world where people could afford to buy a house just like that back in the days.
Like, getting blamed for being poor is now a justified thing for not buying even a small apartment with inflated prices
in my country nearly impossible buy a flat in your young age, every year the real estate prices increase by more than 30%, my stupid government is push the real estate market prices in new hight records.
@@nevemnincsen4794 Jesus, I was reading your comment thinking to myself that it must be Hungary. After checking your name it is all clear now. How fucked up our situation is...
@@N4chtigall these days is increasingly harder to convince an increasingly anti social society to want to move in with other people
...this is totally gonna be me in 6 years... ; - ;
not too late to walk the right path
Change your life. Take the redpill you coward
Think about what spiderman would do
This is a lot like me now and please understand this is a road you don't want to go down because this the one life you have. Some of my pieces of advice to you are don't put countless hours into gaming and viewing content, and do your absolute very best to not watch porn. Also, girls you will meet will likely give you hints that they're interested in you so be sure not to pass those opportunities up.
@@agentmusk2842 with one breath I shall turn off all your candles
"I had a girlfriend in primary school. Long time has passed since."
It scares me how accurate this video is.
jesus mate go out and get some!
@@Ojj2002
Where and how?
Seriously, you people insist to act like is the easiest shit in the world.
@@mrtyrant1680 because they get in relationships that have no meaning nor value. There isn't a true bond, just their brain thinking "damn she hot, make pp hard must be love"
So that's why they find it easy.
@@MARS-eb8pt
Most can't even get those meaningless relationships, so they don't know the actual difference.
@@MARS-eb8pt not even true
I'm shy, I'm 28, live with parents, no friends, no girl, I have a job though. Not very satisfied about my live, a bit depressed, sometimes very depressed, listen to classical music that makes me more depressed. But this week end maybe we go to the sauna and bath so less sad and there is Christmas soon so maybe a good evening with parents
same, bro! we could be buddy and have drink sometime!....well.....if you okay with go out a little..
Are you healthy/in shape? If not, this is a great place to start. Engagning in some martial art is also good. Helped me a lot
Sounds a pretty good life to me bruh
I was like u but hey it's gonna be ok just never give up and hold to life
"after sadness comes ease"
@@joequimby5658 yeah I'm healthy thanks God. Could loose some weight though, but I'm not so overweight as an American obese person
This man isn’t a shy guy nor an incel, he’s a winner at life.
u can be shy and be a winner at the same time
This comment section is very delusional
@@Theredrain6 a man doesn’t benefit from being shy and generally misses out on a lot of experiences and opportunities. I do not see that as winning
@@pomi2031found the incel
I salute him for staying with his mom and helping her. Good man
A true hero
@@schuringleon3207 yes.
It hits hard
It seems like he's the only one who is taking care of his mother. Most family members don't bother to help out nor support him
He made Chad shred a tear for that.
Jesus, is there actually a derogatory term for every kind of person out there at this point? Do people believe that others' existences are there just for them to look down on? What a depressing world.
Very depressing world, you just noticed?
It would seem so, all the more reason to take as much stock in what any given person thinks or sais than i do dog shit.
Just wait until the God Emperor shows himself to us my friend, then it'll be a real banger of a time.
@@justanotherinquisitor7962 im still waiting, hopefully it happens soon because im about done with this shit.
yep people love labeling others whether it be positive or negative ive only heard about terms like "simp", "Incel", "karen", "boomer", "zoomer" and "coomer" back in like 2019.
Its funny how ive only heard of these in western countries or english speaking countries. because in my place we dont have this kind of labeling system on people. These guys are really smart tbh
they know how to divide more and more people by calling them names.
As a shy guy, I can confirm this is 100% accurate.
Except for the incel part, most guys like me ain’t one, incels are just a different breed
Interesting, as a shy guy I can confirm this is 100% inaccurate.
@@nibbax7772 i think thats what the vid was getting at, by the standard definition shy guys are incels they just dont want to be considered them because of the incel community
@@owlsthirdeye6174 that’s true some shy guys think they are entitled to sex
@@JackRR15 yes
Moved out at 23, i don't have many friends, got a nice job as a programmer, i'm quite the hard nerd, but i keep things to myself, most of the time i'm watching something on youtube or playing some dumb cellphone game while i save money for a computer and things for my house. i had a GF once, she was the best, but then left me for another dude, this fucked me up bad, had numerous suicide attempts, but it taught me to value and improve myself.
i'm sad yes, but most of the time i'm indifferent, i wish i had someone, but i know i need to better myself first, and in my own pace i'm moving forward
My name is Daniel, and i'm 25.
I wish you the best, brother. Keep on pushing!
I hope you find happiness Daniel, stay strong.
Keep your head up bro, you're in a great position in comparison to some other people, don't forget to count your blessings 👊🏾
💛
Keep strong don’t anyone let you down good decisions make your life
Not every shy guy is an incel, it's like saying that every female are Karens
Exactly
Hmmmmmmmmmm
@@slapnoodles8392 Right? Don't incels also get pissed and whiny that girls would reject them of having sex?? Nvm I think thats a nice guy
@@slapnoodles8392 by that definition, if i dont care for sex, im not an incel?
@@dev_aro well or you might be asexual or a femcel? Idk at this point, the word is just another buzzword due overuse like jikes, cringe, simp, thot, lol (in a sarcastic manner), etc.
Lol in the end he is someone taking care of his mother, whats so bad about that?
@@firstname_lastname840 yes and be a slave of the third world 2
If you are not into society standards, you will be considered a failure in life, mocked and antagonized for being an outcast of society
- The Joker "aka gamers rise up"
Not gonna lie, you have a good relationship with your family if you can live under the same roof. I just can’t jive with my folks in the same house for an extended period of time.
What people don't notice is that, it looks like the Shy Guy is only one taking care of his mother and there's no other family member there to help out. I can relate to this because I get no help from neither side of the family and I'm the only who have no choice but to do it all
@@SentMyOwnWay true always be progressive, cant idle the whole day.
Wow. The posture of the “Shy Guy” is accurate, even the anxious bouncing of the leg and arms crossed to protect himself. Attention to detail noticed! :)
I definetly noticed this too. He did a very well done job!
Literally me a few years ago. The posture and body language are spot on!
As a woman , I can confirm that this man is the real CHAD
It's a fact he is but no one will know it. Bc nobody giving him a chance.
You probably won't find him attractive tho.
@true gaymer oh yes if truly does not care about how women feel towards him he is a gigachad. i was talking to the woman tho, who instinctively wont find him attractive
@@drabnail777 Was about to say exactly this.
@@iwenttobunnings7868 Yes, they all say that to virtue signaling
I was actually kinda lucky to be unemployed for my mom's final year. Literally started a job a month before her passing. It sucked but I'm really grateful for the preceding year that we spent together.
Same here for my dad.
🖤
In the end the world is not our playground. The stigma on people not working is cause they dont make taxable income, and the stigma of not having a gf is cause they dont consume as much when they are single.
It's not about consumption. It's about being able to provide. However, most young people (male or female) are struggling and have no idea what they want to do with their lives lol. It's why people are living at home longer.
did your mom became proud of you before she die? If she did, thats like one of the most genuine happiness ever
Honestly it would be worse if he didn't live with his Mom. If she doesn't have legs its not like you can just leave her.
I mean, you can outrun her if needed
@@oz_jones lmao
That’s bogus
Get married so your wife can take care of her.
Here take this big brain award @Chumbo
Lives with his mom because she really needs his help, thats a king move no matter how you look at it.
No cap
I like how society makes you to move out at a young age, mostly to not be "mommy's boy" or a "looser" even though you're still not financial capable of living your life alone, except playing a survival mode. This depends by the country as well.
People be laughing when you're still live with your parents....at least you're still close to them
You can always make them cry telling that their mother have a onlyfans account and their father went to buy cigarrets
I really dont get americans obsession about not living with your parents anymore.
Where I live, unless you are married, you stay with your parents and save up, and that seems much smarter.
as long as i‘m still single i honestly see no reason to move out, i got a big fucking room, i get along great with my parents and since i havent gotten my drivers license yet, living 20m from the bus station is also pretty convenient to go to work in the morning
*At least mine are alive lol.*
*Bottom text*
In some culture, it is acceptable to live with their parents until they get married or even after they are married. Italians are well known to stay at their parents home for a long time. In Asia it is pretty common to stay in one roof too if you are not married yet, even if you are married you are obligated to visit parents once a week
When you realize this guys mother is disabled at the end I genuinely got some feels
your contents great man
-having no friends
-living with parents
-no girlfriend
This video depressed the hell out of me, why did you have to expose me like that bro😭😭😭😭
sigh..
Look into the mirror for 10 minutes without making any expressions. That'll expose you more
We’re all at different stages in life bro. Progress looks very different for each and every person. You’ll get there.
and also have no job, that's what is missing for some people
Welcome in the club bro.
This dude doesn't care about impressing women at all thus never waste his time, is humble, genuinely kind, takes care of himself while he's working hard for his family.
If he was in Philippines, a lot of people will praise him for being a hard-working humble young man who values his family.
He's a good man among men. Not an incel, he's far different from an incel. Heck, there's no chance for him to become simp at all cause he's immune by it and he does it without being an asshole.
This is guy isn't a Chad, he's Jonathan Joestar ⭐
Well dude knows his priorities and that is nice
And he cares about the things he can enjoy too. Like dnd. He got some good character. I wish for a future episode with Daniel meeting up with Chad. To see how it goes.
JoJo reference 😂
Jo 'nathan'
Beautiful analysis
I lived with my parents into my 20's. I was quite embarrassed about it, frustrated with the lack of privacy. I thought if i moved out I would be happier. I now have a soul crushing wage slave job that pays me enough to not starve but not enough to be comfortable. I'm still single and alone and i miss the days I lived with my parents.
what age are you now? im 24 and still live with my parents, im not against moving out but i almost only want to do it on my own terms, which is probably not being realistic lol if i could live with close friends sure, why not
I'm 24 too living with my mom, once again it's just not financially logical to move out. If I did both me and my mother would be struggling financially separately that just makes no sense
@XDranzer000 living with your friends/by yourself in a rented flat/house/apartment would be moving out to me
You fall for the scam bro.
This mindset was feasible for the boomers. Back then houses, cars and everything were cheap. They inflated everything and that is the reason you don't earn enough to have a decent life.
@@minicc26 25 here and i have same problem.. it’s extremely hard out there..
There's extrovert chads and then there's introvert chads. Guess you learn something new everyday
a "chad" is by definition an popular extrovert. you people forgot there are also normal people, not everyone fits incel ideology social groups.
@@ultra.based.27 >a "chad" is by definition an popular extrovert
i dont think so, chad is just hadsome man, no matter what he is, extrovert or introvert
@@ultra.based.27 I agree a Chad is a Chad
The one we all know not any decent male with good logic is called a Chad
@Troll Toxico You can look like a Chad but not keep the spirit of one. Conversely, you could be a seemingly normal guy and still keep the powerful spirit of the Chad.
That’s what I think they were saying.
The second point is, introversion and extraversion are not exactly well defined traits. Carl Jung defined an introvert as one who stuck to their values, and an extravert as one who changes with the situation. Personality type theories then used the four elements, Intuition Sensing Thinking and Feeling and split those up, applying them to introversion and extraversion with those definitions, to create eight functions.
Extraversion, now swapped and spelt ‘extroversion’, and introversion then gained a social interpretation to it. Personally, I find this interpretation a little two-dimensional, as you’d often see introverts as book-wielding asocial shy nerds and extroverts as popular outgoing party friends. I suspect that this may be the interpretation you are using, and it classifies my very extroverted self somewhere down the middle.
Another interpretation is used in psychology: extroverts are energised from socialising and introverts from being alone. This is what classifies me as an extrovert, which I find relatable.
(I define ‘extraversion’ with an ‘a’ as Carl’s original ideas, and ‘extroversion’ with an ‘o’ as the modern idea.)
I am terribly sorry for this unsolicited info dump.
@@sugarcravings1797 What exactly do you mean?
I mean I saw the opportunity to bring up personality type theories and took it...
is it normal that, as I shy guy, I agree with 80% things he's saying? no joking
I think everything he said is right and i also agree with. Don't see what's the problem tbh
@@gsly6081 What's the problem? That it's the perfect example of person who will achieve nothing in life. People like this live with their parents for whole their life, have shitty job, no gf, maybe have some friends that are the same losers as him. Even though he is 26 he said "You can't talk about school or video games" so it's been few years after he finished school and basically he is the same person he was those few years ago with no ambitions. Or at least I interpreted it like that.
you asking for advice on internet, this is just an opinionated video, ofcourse it will not potray all "shy" man, in personality psychology we talk about OCEAN, search for it, this openness to other is just one of the factors. Ask this, even non shy people will agree a lot on this, so what does it mean. There are some pieces of truth but not the whole truth. Just watch it and move ahead.
@@N4chtigall Well i didn't really interpret it like that but you might be right.
The only real red flag here is his incel d&d friend calling the interviewer a "thing" almost certainly because of her gender. Obviously the life this guy is living is far from ideal even if it isn't a bad one. He should cut the toxic friend(s) out, maybe find a real dream to pursue and put in the work to achieving it. I don't think there's anything fundamentally wrong with living with your parents in your 20s though I do find it unsettling that this guy is not interested in let alone putting in effort to live a different life.
Bruh this guy is kinda good , he cares about his parents, has a job and decent personality. It's rare these days
Wait,helping out your parents who probably spent 20 years taking care of you is rather a real man move.
Exactly. If they're disabled and can't look after themselves then looking after them is something that gets my respect instantly
You're under no obligation to take care of anyone IMO, unless they're your kid. Your parents chose to have you against your will. However, if you choose to take care of them, you shouldn't be shamed for it. Personally, I wouldn't take care of anyone, family or not.
@@painexotic3757 you want consent to be even born XD
@@painexotic3757 Wow dude, I don't really know if you're this edgy or this emotionless right now.
@@goatsnightmare7076 strawman but carry on
The idea of living by yourself requires wasting large amounts of money on rent which could be better used as savings while living with your parents tbh.
Why pay someone else's mortgage when you can contribute and give money to your parents towards their bills? It's a win-win.
I agree to some extent, though I would advise the person who is doing that to think ahead for what plans they got for when have to move out.
If your parents are chill and respect your privacy, understanding that you are there temporarily to save money, and you help out, it's cool. But if they are overbearing and use money to control you, than leave ASAP
Europe/na: nope
Asia: yes
In middle east families are always staying together. Usually no one moving away until he is married and financilly ready.
28, married, still shy.
Met her in school, go figure.
@Trust NoOne Really? Would that include college or uni even? Cause I've had no luck at all so far. Seems like a lie.
Are you really shy, or do you just despise gossip and smalltalk?
@@regionalgenossesaustift5344 Both.
Taking care of my mum and making her happy is the greatest feeling and reward
You are a king with a heart of gold, I salute you
Said the GIGACHAD
Damn boi,
I live in india and here it's completely opposite.
Here you are praised for taking care of parents instead of being judged and made fun by the society.
Glad I'm here!
Asian gang let's go.
Exactly we live with our parents for life . not everyone but most of us ❤🇮🇳
@@oncejedzkie1816 true
Westerners want's to run away from responsibility
The one problem I have is that they shove their religious beliefs down our throats .
"When we are in a place in which we want to move far away from, but being away from it, we want to go back."
We must be the best we can be in any situation. Not wishing to escape factors that are beyond our control.
At the end of our journeys we find ourselves back home.
that moment when ur 20 , never had a gf, and the most u did with a girl is borrow her a ruler in 3 grade,
yes this is life in a small city in the KSA
KSA?
@@arjavgarg5801 sorry i mean Saudi Arabia
@@arjavgarg5801 Kingdom of Saudi Arabia
I'm 15 and I wouldn't mind that life lmao. I don't want a gf tbh since they will just get in the way of things I want to do and most of them are gold diggers/thots anyways. If you want a gf it's your choice but don't get too attached since she will probably cheat on you. If your gf is American the chances multiply by 3
@Why You Mad Tho i do, why?
At the beggining i was thinking "Ok, this guy still being a good person". I was doing well, but at the end, when they showed that his mom losed her legs, i cried instantly...
Why I'm not crying?
Eai Matheus
This guy is just shy and helping his disabled Mother. What's the problem.
My liege! Glad to see Your Majesty enjoying this quality social critique as well.
In you servant's humble opinion, though, what these shy 21st century young men need is a good old-fashioned cavalry charge, right? Shakes the excess timidness right and proper.
Very true good sir, a proper charge into enemy lines hardens the soul.
Did someone say charge the enemy lines !?
*HAPPY GASMASK NOISES!*
No problem there. This man is a hero
@@HailNeatoBurrito My majesty, thee are a gentlemen
Wow, again this is a big morale story with tiny bits, a sentence speaking volumes.
Like the "i came here with them" (0:18) shows his angst of interacting with the "outer world" alone
The term "in real life" wouldn't be uses irl by a "normal" person.
It's not cool to help your parents, but being helped by your parents is cool,
because you have different living conditions?(from ~1:05)
All such nice tiny bits, information in a quite calmly appearing video.
The Plot twist at the end really hit hard, the story inducing again a overthinking of ones own morale,
a feeling of sadness,madness,apathy, whatever you get when thinking about the cancerous parts of society,
and entertaining is the video as usual, although very calm and without many cuts.
Boyy, is this a channel a promising one
*"I'm on this video and I don't like it."*
Men (also women, it’s still the same) need to remember that having tons of friends, sleeping with tons of people and having nice stuff that you’ve just bought because you could are not achievements. They are mere conversations and won’t amount to any greater goals with making a better life.
Don’t surround yourself with luxuries and false friends or partners because, in truth, they only want stuff from you, and could easily leave when you’re in a bad situation that you need their help.
Extremely based!
cope
I'm kind of like this. 20 years old, a student, i have a few friends but they're outside of our country, working. I've had 3 relationships, but it was mostly that one which i had with my girl bestfriend and the other two was basically rebound and they both didnt last even a few weeks. My mom died of cancer when i was 16 so i live alone with my dad, my older brothers already moved out. Im shy but i can talk to people i don't know, if i force myself (altough these interactions are not the definition of a good and clear talk). The point i'm trying to make is that due to this whole lockdown situation i've been slowly getting more and more depressed. i've never before actually considered myself that. The lockdown forced my friends to go to another country, as they were "no longer needed" at their current job and i can't interact with the people at my university, some of which i considered friends, and most of which i liked, simply because we shared interests. Now i feel kind of helpless or i just feel "heavy", i can't quite describe it, it's like i don't want to leave my room or i just surrender very quickly. Internet's kind of my last place where i can express myself and sometimes that helps. Anyway folks, stay strong and I hope you have a better experience in these bad times.
We understand this feeling. Good luck to you going through that. Remember that it's bound to get better for you at one point, like it did for others. You're not alone in this. Best to you.
When it happenned to me, I moved out to another place and it helped me a lot. I don't know if it's applicable to you though.
@József 0rsós you're young as hell
@József 0rsós it's funny that a kid is trying to give a 20 year old advice 😂 but that's 2021 internet for you
A guy who takes care of his handicapped mother is a GEM. This means that he will take care of any woman that loves him like this mother does
Yeah if that woman existed...
no it doesnt. it doesnt mean anything
Why should a man have the burden of "taking care" of a woman which isn't even of his bloodline ?
@@MK_ULTRA420 Most moms love their kids regardless; any other woman her love is ALWAYS conditional. That's a huge mistake a lot of guys make thinking she'll love him the same way his mother does. Most girls aren't love you no matter what. They're love you only if..
In the Philippines it is an honorable duty to stay with your parents and help them regardless of age. There is no shame in that whatsoever. Be proud and thankful and don't let anyone talk you down.
Depends on your culture and financial situation. In western countries its common to move out for uni.
@@boozecruiser1776 Unfortunately or fortunately that is, indeed, the case
I moved back in with my parents after college. I was able to pay off my debt in 3 years, because my only living expenses here are contributing $160 a month to help with groceries, phone plan etc.
A friend from China said there's nothing wrong with continuing to live with your family as an adult.
Apparently, it's primarily western countries who value living independently from relatives
@@boozecruiser1776 Most universities are in major cities so that's not really a cultural thing, most students would probably love having their parents within a reasonable distance from university.
Pride is bad. It comes before a fall. Be glad, not proud.
I moved out at 19 and had to move back in with my parents at 24 because of chronic illness and I couldn't continue to hold a job (narcolepsy, dysautonomia and a heart condition all diagnosed within a couple of months). It's frustrating, embarrassing and makes me feel terrible about myself.
All that to say if I had the means and my parents were disabled I'd take care of them like they took care of me and any person who thought less of that situation need not be in my life
may god help you
Bro that is nothing to be ashamed of you just got unlucky with getting sick and all. Like its way better than being dead and I am sure that your parents love having you home and healthy than alone and hurting.
@@jaxonhess3531 Thanks friend, I do have awesome family and I'm really grateful for them. My point was only to say that sometimes the most important thing you can do is take care of family and if someone doesn't respect that they're not a good person in your life.
It's actually what motivated me to take my TH-cam channel more seriously. I wanted to be able to start providing for myself and give back to help family now that working traditionally was out of reach for me.
SCP "If you see my face you get erased" 096
Get nea nea'd
The ultimate shy boi
Normal shy guys just cover their faces and hide. He took it on next level.
Life hack : When you didn't have a good childhood, you don't have to miss it growing up......For your health.
It's mostly downhill after childhood. There's hardly anything to be exited about being an adult.
@@mrtyrant1680 yeah, it sucks, but you still can entertain yourself
Honestly, I'm 29 and I live with my mother and brother. I love living with my family, and as long as my family doesn't mind not having grandkids from me (as I don't believe a near 30 yo living with his family is attractive to women) I'll continue to live and dedicate my time and money to providing for them (especially now that my mother is getting older and forgets things).
Update chad ?
guys gotta be like this bro man doesn't care about girls, money ,fame, or anything just chilling with the bros helping his mom and enjoying life
I would have gladly stayed at my parents' home, at least for the cheap mortgage (0€) but they just did not want me to stay. Now I am living alone and paying 700€ a month for a sad and ugly appartment.
yea. the fucking dream, right?
@@kenonerboy michael de santa
I pay 300€ for a room so small that only my bed fits into it lol
At least you're the master of that sad and ugly appartment
I'm ready to shed my shy self and talk to girls and people but quarantine has kept me locked in a room in my parents' house for 10 months!
How dare you steal my life story!
His logic is sound. The woman can't seem to realize the bullshit generalizations she is spewing out of her mouth.
I am in a pretty similar situation. My dad's last marriage and divorce left mentally impaired because of all the suffering he endured. I moved in with him and been living with him and taking care of him for 14 years.
I can't have a social life, I don't have time for anything else besides dad, the house work and my job which is our only source of income.
Video games are the only thing that keeps me sane and relaxed, so I can go through the every day.
It hasn't been easy, since 2015 my dad's mental health has taken a turn for the worst, he became a Trump hater and has been endoctrinated to believe every republican is satan and that everything bad in the planet is the Republicans fault, this coming from a person that wasn't political at all he literally had no mind for it but they managed to brain wash him. It's been a struggle for me because if I hear the word Trumo 1 more time my head is going to explode.
Should I abandon my father? No, I must take care of my family, I am all the family he has. Should I put him in a home? I dont have the means, plus I can't bring myself to do that to him but if it continues.... I won't have a choice.
I know the guy in the video is fake but there are so many of us out there, I wish people quit labeling others.
You're doing an amazing thing for your father. I wish you and your family all the best.
You are doing god's work bro. These liberal cucks are brainwashing everyone and ruining everything in the states. I hope your dad recovers soon.
I'm living with my schizophrenic mother and I'm 30. I've lived at home for my whole life, apart from education and visits to relatives. I've never really had a social life and well thats just how it is.
I have a freelance job and I'm able to pay the bills and pay for the groceries with the grace of god.
There were times that I though I was going to lose it and do something I'd regret. It can be like literal torture.
But, sometimes, the hardest thing is that people don't seem to want to understand. They probably think the reason why I seem depressed yet fine is because I want to complain.. To be honest, I have no idea what they think. But, it hurts when they seem to judge you when they have no real idea what you've been through.. Its as if they're trying to assert how hard 'their' life is to you by rejecting your scars.
What kind of competition is this? Who is the biggest victim in the room?? I fail to see how this actually helps them or me.
Cares for his disabled Mother, no care for not having any girlfriends, has a real job, ,no care for any other problems nor society in general, and you're telling me he's an incel? Yeah, right.
This is just man with priorities in life, not a boy that just want something from life. More fits there volcel than incel and im totally agree with this comment
You should only move out when you're thinking of starting a family of your own.
Where I live, it's downright masochistic to hold down rent single-handed.
Absolutely it was totally different 50 years ago where even some wagie job could afford you a house and a new car with room to spare. Considering it takes a few thousand to even move into the crappiest apartment most places and most of a young person's income to cover rent moving out is financial suicide. I moved out when I am 18 and spent the greater part of the next 20 years renting this place and that as it was all I could afford. 2 years ago I bought a house after a year and a half of saving like mad and renting just a room instead of a whole apartment just to accumulate my down payment on this house I have now. If you took all the rent I paid from age 18 to 38 I could have owned 3 more homes outright
@Maintenance Renegade i'd only move out on the condition i would live with a close friend or two. i couldnt live by myself right now
You must live somewhere expensive where people don't value their privacy. I cannot imagine still living with my parents. I did until I was 22 and it sucked. Couldn't bring girls home and would be awkward if I tried. Moved out and never looking back.
@@ScubaSteveM45 I got a feeling you will like CLANNAD. Very realistic in this regard.
@@ScubaSteveM45 People move to find a better paid job, that's why they leave the family and community. Thanks deep state for sending our jobs outside!
Unfortunately I'm shy to, I don't live with my parents though, I have a few friends but I'm not good at making friends and I'm bad at socialising, even though I had a small number of friends, I was a social outcast in school.
Same with me here. I've struggled for a long time making friends and a person I like. Probably because I pushed them away..
@Zen-2 I'm less shy and I don't mind showing my face, its talking in real life, I'm less shy on the internet, you know those people who act tough on the internet but in real life there timid, think of it as that, I'm more sociable in the internet than in real life.
@Zen-2 Its not about showing your face online as a pfp. Its social interaction
Same bro u.u
Why do you look like Severus Snape ?
This is eye opening because I think living with parents turns you into this type of personality. The problem is modern monetary theory has made asset prices inflate so much in value that young people are living at home for so much longer just to save up a down payment. In effect, it's creating more of these types of people with this mindset. It's really incredible to think that central banking and finance has such a broad and large sociological/psychological impact on people!
I've met some shy people in my life. They're like every average person, just harder to get to or exchange communication towards. I've been that guy once, and the thing I realized that was in common with all of us is the fact that we cannot start a conversation, and if started, have extreme difficulty with transitioning it into free-flowing conversation. I've since grew out of it, but I still have some friends who still are in the dilemma. What I've learned is, "Activity is the crutch of interaction." You can't solely rely on communication for that. It's pretty common for people not being able to start a conversation, and most of the time it's probably even situational. Having an activity both of you are participating in is a good way to easily and comfortably be able to talk to each other.
"She kissed me. Once. On the cheek. And then I ran away."
I fucking died at that part
To be fair what is wrong with him? He's not irritating, nor pathetic, sure he's not a successful Chad, but he doesn't harm anyone by his existence
There's alot of people like him, good hearts but don't know how to build new relations, a very small percentage of them turn into incels and make everyone else look bad too.
I don't think it's saying anything is wrong with him except his personal battle with being shy. Unless he's accepted it in which case he would just be himself
Nothing is wrong with him. The video is showing the duality of people moving out and not taking the time to understand circumstances and creating ignorant opinions. Shy guy is a good guy here.
Apprently, you have you be successful chad otherwise youre a "loser". I fucking hate internet.
He even helps his disabled mom, wich is kind of a chad move
Isnt a shame living with your mom or parent, a shame is judging people without knowing them.
Moving out when you're old enough is just one of the many ways of modern society to destroy the family unit.
One reason I didn't start dating until after moving out. You gotta have something to offer.
Sure cash and prizes as that is what most relationships ultimately are aside from being social points.
One reason I quit trying to date a month before turning 18 (summer 2012) was because I've realized that no matter how much I achieve or otherwise able to offer, ultimately, people will only like my assets, and not me as a person. Almost a decade later, I still stand by it.
Every social media HQ deserves a massacre or two IMO.
@@Ulrich_dArth try going out more then
facts
@@Ulrich_dArth In minecraft.
I kinda see a shy guy as more respectable then incels.
He's not whining and blaming woman or society for his problems.
@@mrtyrant1680 facts
@@theboydanny8774
Conversation between a Simp, a Nice guy and a Incel.
J: What exactly are you talking about?
R: She's the one, my dream girl.
M: What are you talking about? She just smiled, you idiot.
R: It's a signal, I'm sure of it.
J: Oh yeah, you have such a talent in noticing signals. I mean, it just fails you 99% of the time.
M: Wait, 99? When was there ever a 1%?
J: Lucy.
M: Lucy was drunk, do you actually think she would have kissed him otherwise.
R: Man, fuck you two!
J: Alright, alright. Just watch out for the horns.
R: Are you fucking crazy, I'll kill her!
J: (LOL) What the fuck?
R: I'll cover her feet with cement and toss her on the river.
M: How are you still single, we'll never know. (LOL)
J: I'm single because I'm ugly. You, because you still thinking about that slut.
M: Don't call her that.
J: She cheated on you several times before she finally dumped you for a scumbag with a nice car. That's my definition of a slut.
R: Yeah, he's not wrong. You should move on, since you have way more options than us.
M: Is because I actually talk to girls. I mean, you only chase after smoking hot chicks, which is why it never works out for you.
R: I chase after girls that I want to be with and you don't see me complaining when I get turned down.
J: If you did complain on our ears about it, we would beat the shit out of you for it.
R: That's rich coming from you. You don't even approach girls.
J: I don't have much motivation to do that anymore, considering that every time I tried, it failed.
M: You let rejection bother you too much man.
J: Because I really liked the girls that rejected me. You pretty much do the same but with an ex that doesn't deserves it.
R: He got you there.
J: Can we please go back to the game now? My winning streak could use a few more flawless victories.
M: Nah, I'm going to sleep. She agreed to meet me tomorrow.
J: Jesus fucking christ, why the fuck are you meeting her for?
M: None of you business. Good night.
R: Yeah, I'm going to sleep too. I think she goes to work early.
J: Are you seriously gonna stalk her?
R: It's not stalking, I'm just creating opportunities for a conversation.
J: A conversation about why she shouldn't call the police on your ass?
R: See, that's why you never get the girl you like, you're too negative.
J: Whatever, don't use your phone call to call me to bust you out of jail when that shit backfires.
R: We'll see who's gonna be joking after I have that sexy ass on my arms and you still stuck on video games.
J: Whatever you say buddy.
@@mrtyrant1680 nice point.
@@theboydanny8774
Can you guess who is who?
"Maybe if I just chill out in this corner and try to look mysterious and interesting she will approach me."
"Noooo you have to move out as soon as possible and be in debt!"
Hmmmmmmm
Damn, we all got roasted right boys?? Aight, back to playing quake 3 with my kings
Das rite, King.
I’m 24 no girlfriend or friends maybe just one though i have a small circle. i wouldn’t classify myself as an incel, in fact I’ve had a girlfriend before for 6 months but she left for god knows why. Fast forward months later and I’m still trying to get over her but it’s hard because online dating is a joke during the pandemic so it sucks being alone most of the time. No job or car yet because retail was fucking dumb and i barely made any money to begin with. Hated every aspect of it! i might as well start looking for a degree now while everything is still online based because i don’t think i would survive college IRL, wish me luck lads... i got a lot of life planning to do.
Good luck 😁
@@no-nz2op thanks
Maximize everything. Both your weaknesses and your strengths. Do not overblow your strengths to humongous proportions to think you are the best but rather grow improve, and find a way to be productively humble. With your weakness understand them, face them, and take time. It will be heard, but it will be worth it because you will now have an understanding of what limits you. If you have an at least a shred of understanding of what limits you, you should be able to at least peek at your passion. And then start from there. Never believe optimism that happens overnight and learn to know the difference between flattery and encouragment in your own contexts. Flattery is mass produced and easy to sell, whole encouragement is personal, mostly related to productive and constructive criticism. Some of which can offend slightly as it carries truth. But understand the motive behind it.
You may be living in another country, but I do think can relate with you in some way. Good luck and good tidings!
I bow to you king 👑
Life may have dealt you sucky cards but if you play em right, everything will be alright.
Good luck comrade.
He is an amazing Guy, he surpassed Chad even. He cares for his mom, and does his work properly. And he doesn't like how incels blame females for them not having a gf, that means he doesn't like Incels. He's just Shy but is dutiful, obedient, kind son. A good man, who would earn not just me but everyone's respect.
I can not hate this shy guy.
Because he's not whining or blaming other people for his shortcomings.
He's frustrated and wish he could change but doesn't know how. Which is pretty relatable.
@@mrtyrant1680 I think what he lacks is some motivation and goals also cutting out the toxic people like his friend after that it may get better
@@justacasualgamer1957
The toxic friends are his only friends, cutting them out would be difficult and the disabled mother also limits some of his prospects.
@@mrtyrant1680 yeah that's the problem. His only friends are the incels and he is not good at communication. as for his mother idk what can he do more.
I think if he works on his personality and social anxiety he will be better espeacially after getting rid of that friend
@@justacasualgamer1957
His personality seems fine. It's his conversation skills that need work. It feels like, he doesn't how to start a conversation.
My coworker is in his 30s and lives in a multi-generational household. Yeah he lives with his mom and loves D&D more than electronic games. He also has a decent job, many friends, entertaining personality, and never complains about not having women flock to him. His family built the farm and house he lives in from scratch. He always has people to hang out with that have similar interests, his money is his, and he seems genuinely happy. I envy his happiness. Life is what you make of it.
Key word "Multi-Generational"
The buck is stopping with him
That's his choice to make. My point is that he's pretty satisfied with his life and at the end of the day that's all that really matters. His brother never left and he's happily married with a kid on the same farm. It's not necessarily the life for me but they seem pretty happy not trying to follow some societal standard.
100% me, but my parents are actually handicapped. my mom got herniated discs from being a seamstress for 40 years and my dad was shot 5 times and one of the bullets severed his spinal chord so hes a paraplegic and has to spend the rest of his life in a wheelchair.
You're a legend for taking care of your parents. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
@@nimazsheik5152 thank you for your kind words brother.. i only wish the best for you and your loved ones.. have a very happy new year! good days are ahead of us.. 🥲🥲🥲
MilleniaThinker = Jordon Peterson Lite
Lite?? more like animated hardcore JP
Let's not compare this artistry with the work of Mr. Peterson.
LOL
Jordan Peterson books is junkfood for normies
@useless moron your username rings true my friend
This is me 5 years ago, mom passed away in the end of 2019. You need to start to live for yourself, that´s what she always told me.
I'm shy and 30 years old, guess I'm an incel
only if you blame women for your situation.
@@Pepe8696 The word incel is not only for blaming and hating on women, there are incel women who have a raging boner against men.
yup, it's over
@@presidentofchina1496 yes. However if you feel like you don't have success with the other sex, just please, for your own good, don't seek the community of these people. Incels can't take responsibility why their life suck. The main part of the incel community is very toxic, sexist, racist. The smaller part contains the real hurt souls, who can't live their life without pain. We should try to help this community, that life isn't that simple as they may think.
Honestly incel has become a label to shame people into codependency.
Yo this is me but for everyone.
Notice the leg shaking around 1:05, such a nice detail
sounds like a man who's living for himself and his family.