TWO YEARS MARRIED - BABIES, ARGUMENTS AND JEALOUSY | Lydia Elise Millen
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- TWO YEARS MARRIED - BABIES, ARGUMENTS AND JEALOUSY
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Ali is a gentleman.The way he talks,he is so polite and gentle.
Sahar Rokni he really is 🤍✨
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I don't understand why people still judge women about their choice of having or not having babies. It is 2020!!! Women are not only reproductive, they are so much more!!! It is our choice if we will have children or when we will have children. Why doesn't anyone judge a man for not having children???? Lydia baby, just do you!!!
Eva Korpa actually we do... I would tell to a man who doesn’t want kids the exact same thing I would to a woman...
@@amelhouhou1138 well I don't judge anyone for their life choices. Their life, their rules. Their choices are none of my business.
Yes Eva! Exactly!! 100% agreed!! xXx
Eva Korpa It’s no one’s business but the couples!!!! I loved your response!!!! There are so many people who shouldn’t even be parents. I love when couples look at it so incredibly mature. Aloha, love and peace from Hawaii!!!! ♥️♥️♥️
@@TheHouseofLotz thank you!!!! xXx
Lydia: “Where was our first trip together?”
Ali: “Oh, to my bedroom.”
😂 Ali’s so cheeky
R K It’s because their 1st date was in his bedroom!x
This was just the video I needed to watch this evening. I've found myself feeling a bit sad in my singleness lately, with the temptation to settle for second best. When I see how Ali looks at you and how much love, respect, commitment, loyalty and laughter you share I just know its worth holding out until the right person comes along - someone who treats me no less than the queen that Ali treats Lydia like!
So true don’t settle just because everyone else is. It’s worth waiting for someone who is absolutely devoted to you. I love watching these two. 💕
Don’t settle! ❤️
This is exactly how I feel.
Also, make sure that he loves you just a little bit more than you love him. I know that may sound odd, but it's honestly the key ingredient to a successful marriage according to my married friends who all independently shared it.
@@anniebanana3698 so weird! this is what my parents say!
I agree, loyalty is the biggest factor to a successful relationship. No matter how frustrated you are in any point of your relationship, if you are not committed to being loyal, the relationship is doomed.
Omg I'm only 3 minutes in and I had to smile at "I haven't got a very good memory. I know that you're my wife." I loved that! Classic.That's all you need to know Ali. Happy wife happy life!❤️😁🙌🏽
IMO, never assume anyone wants children. Also, some people struggle with fertility and may not want to share all of it with everyone. My aunt told me that in the 1970’s she was asked constantly after she got married about why there were no children. In private she suffered multiple miscarriages and was grieving over and over. Then there are those that choose not to. I just turned 50 and never had the urge or desire. Had a best friend who was married 16 years and woke up one day at 39 with baby fever and had one child at 40 (not spoiled btw). We do have finite resources on this planet too. Having huge families is arguably not sustainable.
In the US we also do not have great social services and women get sandwiched caring for elderly parents and children. Caregiving can be amazingly draining with/without some of the rewards.
I'm going through the infertility thing and have had 3 miscarriages so far, I've tried everything so when people tell me 'oh you've had too much fun already, it's time for having kids and becoming responsible' I feel like punching them right in the face 🙂 also are you considered responsible only when you've had raised kids?
"Listen to your tone!! NO YOU LISTEN TO YOUR TONE!!"
I have one child and that’s enough for me... I never realised it was seen as a negative thing, and was totally surprised at other peoples negative reactions to it.. especially when he started school.. other parents would question my choice telling me to have more because he’ll be lonely.. their guilt trips never affected me though and I am still happy with my choice.. my son is loved, not lonely and now a well adjusted teenager... so you do you Lydia!! whatever makes you happy🤗... raising kids is tough, especially these days..different for everyone and peoples choices should be respected.
“Choose what you can live with and what you can’t live without” - great advice!
I’m an only child and I have the best relationship with my mom. I wouldn’t have it any other way! (And yes I was probably spoiled, but i’m a very grounded, very grateful kind person, so a little spoiling doesn’t hurt.)
Of course a little spoiling does not hurt, sweetie. Enjoy your privileged relationship with your mother, it must be precious 💞
Xx
I only have one child ass I have fertility problem I always worry about my daughter being alone. We're berry close she's a big mummy's girl. Your comment made me smile. Xx
I'm exactly in the same situation ! And I think I have never wished to have brothers or sisters growing up as I had this precious relationship with both my parents :) (also agree with the spoiling thing, we can see we were a bit spoiled, but not rotten ;) )
I agree!
Same. I'm a clingy daughter to my mom lol
I have been married for 2 years as well, but we are together since 6 yers ago.
We like kids, have nephew and niece, I’m an English Teacher and a Psychologist, I work with them the whole year, every day, but having our own kids is not in our plans.
Each woman and couple is free to take the decision they want. We are not forced to do anything in this life but to be happy with our lives.
Do no let peolple keep asking you ab that, enjoy yourselves! You are not less woman bc of that ❤️
But she said she wanted 1
I had my child at 37 decided I did not want anymore. I am happy and do not regret my decision - you do you
Same at 38! I'm an only child raising an only child. No one is spoiled over here, we're all good lol
Thanks for this, I am 25 and I don’t want kids till I am 30+ and people find it odd and keeps asking of we don’t want kids soon 😆
Same.....had my child at 34. Originally wanted 4 kids but nothing will prepare you for parenthood. Love my baby boy to pieces but we are not sure we can do it again (unexpected complications post delivery). If we not to have anymore then I am totally happy with him being our only one. He is in no way spoilt. And I do not regret my decision. As you say....you do you xx
@@Norrbottniskan you have to do what's right for you. We didn't feel ready until our 30's and I had a perfectly healthy pregnancy and baby. Don't let people scare or pressure you! 😊
Marta Ferreira Pires thank you ❤️
I only have 1 child and he is my world. He has my whole heart and I am 100% content with only him. He doesn’t act spoiled whatsoever and is completely happy. You have to do what feels right for YOU, no one else! ❤️
I love the set up of this video, the background of your dressing room looks beautiful!
I enjoyed this video so much!!! It’s lovely to see this part of both of you and thank you so much for sharing! Hope to see more of these! Xxx
i remember when lydia said once that she didn't want kids ! love that you've warmed up to it :) you'll be a great mom !
onlychimerically me toooo!!! It really made me love her even more (if it was even possible) I felt like closer to her! She’s the best ❤️ So funny, intelligent and enchanting!!!
I remember that too! She even said that a couple months ago when Lynx went missing that she never saw herself surrounded by children but by fur babies instead.
Yes I rember her saying she didnt want children
awww I don't normally comment but that was such a lovely video. just smiling all the way through! deffo would like to see more videos with both you 💕😊
You and Ali remind me of my relationship with my husband of 27 years! Humor is a big part of our relationship success, as it seems to be with yours. We find things to laugh about every day, and almost everywhere we go (but not inappropriately, of course!!!). I have only just recently discovered your channel, and am enjoying watching it and seeing how you have evolved since you began.
These are my favourite types of TH-cam videos, I just really love seeing people really in love 😊💛
Hearing you talk about wanting kids made me feel genuinely happy and excited! I can only imagine how much love that kid will get from you and Ali considering all the joy have given your viewers over the years!
Omg I have that sweater dress you’re wearing Lydia. Now I know I’m in style lol. It looks great on you. ♥️
“My vagina my choice” LOVE this!!! Because it’s 10000% true.
Maybe there is nothing that has helped emancipation more then the pill or other contraceptions that work for women. Now we are in power of if and when we want to have children.
So true, bit sad though as you can see he wants more.
Ali completely read my mind when he said Lydia has the ability to focus on goals! Yes yes yes! I’ve been watching Lydia for years and I always admire her drive!
When I find myself watching her shows admiring all of her luxe items I have remind myself of how hard she has worked- Lydia inspires me to work hard to create the life I want to live
I really hope you don’t pay attention to these people who leave nasty comments just because they don’t agree with your way of living your life.
I hope you just laugh it off!
Loved this video! Very refreshing - I love the style vlogs and vacation / work trip videos, but it’s nice to break it up with something completely different! You and Ali compliment each other very well :)
YES!! Ive been waiting for this video! Love you guys and definitely it would be great to see more Ali on your channel ❤️
Congratulations on two wonderful years. You two are a sight to see and I’m happy for you. ♥️💜♥️💜
Smiled the whole time watching this! You can really tell how much you love each other!
I absolutely LOVED this video! Seeing you two being goofy together and your wee kisses towards the beginning :'D soo adorable!
Style. Fashion and home decor is definitely Lydia’s talent!
Love this video. Love that Lydia is authentic enough to say opinions on things like having kids can change. Also a tad excited at the prospect of you maybe one day being human parents as well as cat mum&dad 💗
The best part for me in watching and listening to you is how real and authentic you are...never loose that! (please)
He sounds like my hubby,,,he remembers nothing when it comes to this kind of thing. You guys are sweet. I enjoyed learning about the two of you. Thanks for sharing.m
So sweet! Very realistic and candid. Thanks for sharing your love!
Thank you for keeping this real. This is how real relationships are. Like you said super mushy ones usually don't last too long. You guys know each other really well and trust is huge!
Just wanna say thanks for this! Had a case of the winter blues from across the pond but this....this was what I needed! I smiled and laughed through the entire video. I love, love, love that you guys are are so quirky,honest and genuine. Continued success to you both!💕☺️
Thank you LYDIA for this video with Ali.Such a great moment !
Lydia’s talents: impeccable taste for clothes, furniture etc., very high aesthetic, which is a rare talent, fun, entertaining, creating amazing content 🤍🤍🤍 among many others!
Awwwwww! Love you two. I once heard a quote about being a parent that is so accurate. It says, “To have a child is to forever have your heart walking around outside of your body”. Children are wonderful and rewarding but to become a parent is a very serious consideration. I’m so glad you two are weighing your decisions.
The part about Ali being a social chameleon - in Psychology they call this "mirroring" and it's a sign of empathy :) I used to call myself a social chameleon based on that habit too, and learned that there's a term for it already, and it's a good thing! It helps those you socialize with to feel heard and understood.
Mirroring is a trait used expertly by a Romantic narcissists Ali isn’t one of them.
But mirroring is an NPD trait.
You guys are lovely, just lovely! I have been married for 22 years and I have to agree, loyalty is everything in a relationship. I wish you a long and happy marriage!
Aww, enjoyed this video so much! Love you two together, you are seriously the life goals. ♥
Such a nice video! You two are amazing. Lydia, you are definitely someone I'm looking up to! Keep going and, please, more sit down videos with Ali: they are so interesting and funny to watch:)
Love this!! Ali is so cute and genuine! Y’all make a great couple❤️❤️
LOVE the husband/wife vlog!!
Love this tag video thanks for sharing. I hope people realize that you do not owe us this type of personal info but it’s great to get to know you two a bit better this way. Lydia, only you can decide what’s best for you, keep doing you babe 🙌🏼😘
Y'all are just the sweetest thing to watch ❤️ I love your channel Lydia! 😍
This video was such a joy to watch! One of my absolute favourites so far! XXXX
This is BY FAR my favourite video you’ve ever done. I was laughing right out loud. I’ve been watching you since the very beginning. I think you had 10 or maybe 20 videos when I found you....let’s put it this way - I binge watched them all in one or two sessions is how I remember it. You’re my relationship goal.
Btw. I personally think it’s a Godsend that you are launching the way you are. Go get ‘em girl!
Blessings and love from Marilyn, Canadian, in Arcadia, Florida USA 🇺🇸
This was such a nice video! You're both so sweet together!
I love this video!!! Lydia pls do more of this🙈🥰so amazing to watch!🥰
I ABSOLUTELY ADMIRE AND LOVED THE ANSWER TO HOW MANY CHILDREN U WANT!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
You both are so beautiful - and not only from the outside. I really comprehend the way your thoughts and values work together! Beautiful video... love you both! Stay true, how you are.
As an only child myself, now in my 50’s, daughter of an only child (my mother) and having also only one 20 year old daughter, I somehow now miss having a brother or a sister and regret not having another child. It’s not a matter of being spoiled or not, but rather a matter of being alone, as years go by and parents and grandparents are no longer with us.
Like you, dear Lydia, I was never very eager of having children and that was the reason we have had our child after ten years of marriage with 35. Of course it is not easy at all to raise a child, especially after having a happy and full childless married life for ten years, but our daughter is the biggest blessing in our lives.
Now I worry, that as years go by, she is going to be left alone in this world with no siblings to turn to.
You and Ali are very lucky to have found each other 💕and I am sure that you would make wonderful parents, whenever you feel ready.
Please don’t pass these fears down to your child. Why would she be left alone in the world when she will presumably have friends who have gone through the same thing, cousins, aunts, uncles, a partner and their entire extended family to lean on in those times? It’s important not to unduly romanticise and put sibling relationships on a pedestal cause you’re an only child. The grass isn’t necessarily greener and the sibling relationship settles into something like an ordinary (or if lucky) close friendship as you age anyway. There’s no guarantee of a lifelong bond or support. Focus on forging closer bonds with those you know and building a strong network around you. I say you choose your family anyway.
Family isn't always blood. Your daughter will be fine ❤
You 're the only persons I love watching a 40 min sit down Video!!! I love you together
Love this video! You guys are too cute and didn't realize how funny Ali is.
loved this video so much!!! you guys are so cute together xoxo
I listened to yours and Ali’s podcast on Take Flight, last night!!!!! Loved hearing your perspective and more importantly how you both make it work. Much love to you both xxxx
You two are just bloody gorgeous!
Absolutely loved this video, you guys seem to be the sweetest and genuine couple.
xx
THIS WAS SOOOOO GOOD! THANK YOU!!!!
This is so lovely. It’s nice seeing real people on TH-cam.
I loved this video! You both were so natural and comfortable together ❤️
You two compliment each other so beautifully. You are a true inspiration ❤️
Hi Lydia and Ali really loved watching this, now l know more about the both of you. I honestly believe loyalty and love is the most important element in a marriage. Great video xxxx
Love this!! You have such great vibes together 😊😊
Yes yes yes to all the videos with Ali .. you guys are great together and getting you both in one video BONUS x
Knowing each other well is great , it also gives you knowledge of which buttons trigger reactions and not using those buttons because you can is the best advice I could give anyone, if your hurting talk about don't push a button to hurt back. Talking is always key and like you both said trust is everything. Lisa my darling wifey of 14 years this March , showed me a totally different way of Life and even though I was married before coming out lol at 40 life and Love which I had never been in before either with the right person is amazing, a good strong, healthy relationship is worth working for, I will never take it for granted.
Love you both , Take care of each other 😉
Congrats on your anniversary! It's nice to see you guys enjoying life, the way it should be. xo
Just love when Ali and Lydia does videos together. Very entertaining and enjoyable.
Having children is a huge decision and they do change your life - they’re amazing but your life and your relationship with your partner changes - more so the focus is all on the child so you have to make a conscious effort to make time for each other and the person you we’re before becoming ‘mum’. I’m an only child and we’ve only got one child. I had her at 38, after a few years of trying we finally got lucky with IVF. It is hard at times (she’s just turned 2) but it’s the best thing we’ve ever done! Yes, our cream fabric sofa was probably not the best choice before kids (it’s copped a real beating) and I barely have time to pluck my eyebrows, but the cuddles and her little face when she looks at me is absolutely priceless. Also, I can’t wait to redecorate and get a new sofa!! Ali and yourself will make great parents once the time is right for you!
Carla Salsone this comment made me emotional I don’t even know why 😭❤️ haha
Ade S haha 😘😘
I always forget you used to smoke ‘til it’s mentioned and it’s so weird - I could never imagine you smoking now!
Loved this vid.
How lovely to see a little glimpse of Ali. He seems like a really thoughtful and sweet man.
Awww I loved this sit down. Please do more xxx
You form such a lovely couple! It’s been so nice to listen to you. Wish you both all the best!
i really like watching you two together!! what a great couple!
such a lovely, thoughtful couple, love how they are expressing their feelings :)
This video has just left me feeling so good ! I think I smiled through the whole thing, a lot of what you said actually reminded me of my own relationship with my partner (especially the fighting part ;p)
It's so nice to have such a light and funny video to watch, you should make these a regular thing :) (not that your usual content is not funny ;) )
We LOVE Ali 💝💝. He is the sweetest
I looove your channel Lydia! Ali is so sweet
I could definitely see you with TWINS ❤️❤️
You could make a cork garland or wreath, I’ve seen some pubs have these,.. maybe for the kitchen?
I love The Holiday film as mad about the cottage! This was a lovely vlog with the both of you chatting. A good example of how couples should communicate more with each other.
This is the best, so real, you two are soulmates, just illuminate each other 💚
This video made me so happy and laugh so hard! Love you two! Definitely need more of these!
You two are the cutest and so real. I love your videos, don’t change how you are 💓
Love how relaxed this is. It really shows off yours and ali's personality and how you are as a couple. So cute!! xx❤ Please get ali to do more videos with you. love the idea of my husband guesses the cost of things! xx
LOVE THIS.....Soo honest...carefree... layed back conversation....YES... LOYALTY.....is the most important thing in EVERY relationship.... and accepting the flaws in your partner and work around them👌💞
Loved this style video!
Such a great couple, love hearing Ali talk about you 😁
I love the Holiday!! Definitely a must during the holidays🙂
Always so gorgeous Lydia, you guys are so lovely together💕💕
I have been watching ALI Videos and I Love how his vl-ogs show his side of whats going on in the same day as your v-logs , like when you were doing the Dinning room you showed the lighting in the box and after it was up and ALI showed hanging it and working on the room to make you happy when you came home !!! or your and his trips of daily life , it makes it so we know you both so YOU AN MAKE MORE VIDEOS TOGETHER ! Like shopping with him for you or him . cooking your home idk .
You guys are just adorable, thanks for sharing 💓
Am never one to comment really but have to say that I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS! Its so lovely to see how you bounce off each other xx
This video was so enjoyable. I loved it. You all are the cutest couple, truly in love. I found myself smiling the entire time. Even though I’m 73 years old, I just love your videos and your lovely home. Also, speaking of your talents, Lydia, you are very talented in decorating, plus putting all your gorgeous outfits together. Continue your love for one another. I wish for you a beautiful life together. ❤️Jeanette Turner, Brentwood, Tennessee, USA
YES DEFINITELY MORE VIDEOS TOGETHER LYDIA!👍👍👍🥰
Loved this! As an someone who watches a lot of TH-cam channels, the most over used phrase I hear is “I’m so obsessed with”.
OMG don’t I’m cringing 🙈
You two are such cutiesssssss!!! Ali is so lovely and the way you two beam around eachother is sweet x
You are such an admirable couple! You are just so classy to me, carry yourselves in an manner of sophistication❤️❤️❤️
This was really fun! Good life and much love come through!
This is so new you can't even see it. Downloading for my flight!
Love to see you two together , natural and funny , honest and lovely ...more please xxx
Lydia is talented! She’s great at make up she always looks flawless! Not everyone is good at styling clothes that’s why stylists exists she always looked great. Also Lydia is great at capturing an audience I can watch her videos for hours!