Hello everyone! Thank you for all your kind comments ❤️ Note, I do know that the audio volume is not ideal in this video - this is one of the first videos I made for YT, I was an editing beginner! My more recent videos have improved, so check those out! Bestest wishes ❤️
Ilove being alone,it's just me and my Yorkie,diamond, my husband died,on active duty when he was43yrs.old,and now iam 62,never remarried,I love my Lord,and Savior,my time in the garden,books,my tea,and nature to the highest.ihave a great family,they live in big cities,and around the world, and i live in a small town with beauty around me..the caring for one another and what's important in life.that inner peace.&your heart.
I'm very sorry for your loss, but know how lovely your day must be. I too enjoy spending time in the Word, in my little garden, reading, taking in nature, and finding companionship with my dog and two cats. When I need to be around people, I find a way to volunteer to help, before retreating back to my peaceful life. Blessings and grace to you.
@@lindamiller2723 Linda ,any time you want to be friends let me know,I wish you were my neighbor too.we could have a good times talk and thanking God for a new day, and our many blessings
Bless your heart ❤ Im a retired Airforce Wife (My Husband is the Veteran) I am chronically ill.I live alone emotionally, mentally,and I have struggled with why God has chosen to not heal my marriage. My husband has turned from God long ago.
Agreed, this seems like this is what humans were meant to be. Softer, and a part of the world instead of a dominant parasitic species that preys on itself
As a filmmaker, I just wanted to comment on how well you're able to tell a story. You make wonderful use of establishing & transition shots. Your pacing is perfect. You are also so incredibly patient with adjusting the tripod for your different angles. As a human, I just wanted to comment saying your videos are the most peace I've found in YEARS. I'm so grateful to have found your channel.
you are absolutely right, I finally bought a few acres in the farm side of the panhandle, after 8 deployments I can say my state of Mind and blood pressure has defently improved. only issue is the countryside is not as community based as everyone thinks unless you're family has routes established
You are so right. I've carried chaos in my head (anxiety) for 20 years. I've spent the past two years teaching myself how to calm it down. It can still occasionally kick my teeth in but I win more than I don't. It didn't know what stubborness was before it picked on me. 🙃😁
I am a post doc research scholar working my ass off to get a university job. After watching this video, I am questioning my ambitions and choices. I feel very happy for you.
Same here guys 😂 it is so interesting that when you research the very depth of how our world works, you really reach this distilled realization of what life really is. Peace and eternity
@@clarakw5571 so happy for u....it really needs courage to do something like that.....I hope u find peace and love in ur life wherever u are and whatever u do.❤️
Anna annanymous Wow. Cynical much. Some ppl live with intention & some do not. My guess is you’re in the latter category & you sound very bitter. In any case, be well🌺
I don’t think I’ve ever been this calm and present before. I was so angry and sad before watching this. And now I just feel grateful for my presence. Thank you so much❤️🥺
I was too I was arguing with my dad to start up a real estate business and making millions aggressively. Universe gifted this to me suddenly. This gives me to think more about life.
This is literally my dream. I’m a very introverted person since I’ve struggled with mental health and bulimia. This is like a fairytale to me, like a way to escape. Your videos make me want to just go outside, sit under the tree, and write a book as the sun sets. Your videos have helped so much with panic attacks. Also, trying out some lavender drinks since I’ve seen them on your channel.
I am sending you so much love. 💓 Struggles w mental health can be so hard and are definitely not discussed enough! // If you ever want to chat I can leave you an email of mine! :)
I am sitting here in tears. I live in South Africa and I wish to live this life. Everything is so modernised, loud and materialistic now. Ever since I was a child, this is what I wished for. I'll be 25 next month. Hopefully I'll be able to achieve my dream.
I'm from SA too, and I totally agree with you. Everything's so dirty, Grey, unsafe and loud in the major cities besides cape Town. Can't wait to head off to Europe
This video hit home. I've been studying 6 hours a day for the past 6 years to be the best at my firm, but I do feel the need to let it all go and move somewhere cozy, live in harmony with nature, and be myself. Ever since I was a kid I was dreaming to have this beautiful house near a lake and be surrounded by nature. Now I know that this "house" I was dreaming of, doesn't have to be a palace. A simple, beautiful cottage will do. I need to find a place like this..
@kevin mungai as a kid I preferred running around in the woods with my parents/older siblings then to ever go to a city, and everyone has different preferences
At 72 I am living a similar life of contented aloneness. It did not come easy. But so thankful to at last find the elusive calm and peace in the depths of my being. Your video was a delight. Love from Ms Pat in southern Indiana
" But so thankful to at last find the elusive calm and peace in the depths of my being ." Well said and beautiful words... Wishing you the best in these horrible times.
You have inspired this 54 year old corporate lady boss to get back to what is important and what I love. THANK YOU! You are adorable and I love seeing your pets. I am a dog lover too. Best wishes. I subscribed to be inspired and relax while I soak up your beautiful message. Your mommas gotta be proud!
Ooh! Thank you so much I’m glad to hear that! ❤️ I need to remind myself to get back to what’s important once and a while, that’s why I make these videos! Best wishes
As a single early 20s man I am trying to save and find a partner to live exactly like this. Living off your land, raising a family in the woods and meadows, surrounded by nature and far from the chaos of the city.
Literally same, but I live in California and finding someone with similar values is like finding a needle in a haystack. I have a rough 3 year plan to go off God willing....but even if I don't find someone willing to do it with me I'm still gonna go for it.
@@qreua_3075you'll find someone. There are plenty out there that want to do this, just takes time to make it all come together. I would encourage you to get out of Cali sooner rather then later, but I understand if financially it just doesn't make sense yet. I live in AZ right now and plan to move to somewhere in the Pacific Northwest in a year or two. Possibly Northern Idaho or Oregon, whatever land I can afford really. Goodluck in your adventures and endeavors!
Congratulations on your recovery (from "civilization")! As a life-long "nature-girl" and introvert, I had always aspired to live as you do. I escaped Brooklyn as soon as I could (mid 20s) and have steadily progressed to living as close to nature and as peacefully and remotely as possible. Now, in my mid 50s, I am in graduate school, making a career change to become a therapist. My goal is to use nature as much as possible to help clients find peace and healing, no matter what their challenges might be. I am adding your channel to the top of my list for "homework assignments" for clients - other than forming a direct relationship with nature - to aid them in finding peace, serenity and clarity, and to help in restructuring their paradigms. Thank you for sharing your life with us!
Congrats on the career change! Not many are willing to do that at your age, even though I think it’s entirely possible for anyone who wants to do it at any point in their life. I commend you! 👏🏼👏🏼
@@oliviabeltran2099 Thank you! My philosophy is you're going to get old no matter what, so you may as well do the thing that inspires you now. Yes, it's never too late (for most things), but also there's no better time than the present!
Spending time alone is truly restorative and recharging. Anyone who tries to tell you we're programmed to be social creatures who pine away and die unless we have an intimate partner has never experienced the complete freedom your mind has when it's unhampered by other's input.
I actually believe extroverts are broken people. The constant need to fill up one's life with people and activities seems like a desperate attempt at distraction.
i swear i started crying at 10:08 when you said that you make these videos of a lifestyle or pace of living because it may align with ours and i felt sooooo seen as a city girl who actually relates to the bits of your story you shared in this video. THANK YOU! this is such a breath of fresh air!
This is very inspiring! I am still a kid, but I want to live like you do after college. I found you only yesterday, but I have already felt a change in my confidence, self-worth, and I am just happier. Thank you!!!
Yes yes yes! I did it before I moved here, you got it! It is our mind and actions, not strictly environment that brings peace ❤️ your comment is very wise
I get it. I as a child would go out far into the woods and embrace the trees, the coolness as I lay in the moss, and the soft breezes. Not feeling alone and truly at peace...peacefulness. I'm so glad young people, like you, today are finding a way out of living in a fast pace world with so many high expectations. It warms my hearts. The Lord said keep your eyes simple. See...this way of life helps you connect to all he has created to give and sustain you. Yes I agree not everyone can have too much solitude but it still can be achieved in different ways that will still work. Keep your eyes simple helps you to stop...to rest...to breath🌻
Hi! I recently found your lovely channel and I just felt that I had to comment (not something I often do). I am a 58 year old introvert and watching your beautiful, artistic life on your videos is just so soothing to me. I think you are such a sweet, old soul... wise far beyond your years. You truly are an inspiration, even to a little old lady like me! 💗 Don't ever let anyone tell you that you should be, or live any other way, than the way that suits you best, and clearly, your present simple, cottage lifestyle suits you fabulously! If I was as wise at your age as you are, how my life would have been so much easier.... I wish you all the best... in peace ☮ and love 💗... Just keep being wonderful you! Oh, and thank you so much for sharing your beautiful life with us... You are just precious. 💗 🦋🌻🌼🍀🌹
I find your channel very soothing. I live on a rural mountain acreage in a cottage-style cabin with my husband of almost 45 years, chickens and a cat who adopted us almost 6 years ago. I rarely ever see anyone other than my husband and on rare occasion, one of my sons. I love wild birds, flowers and herbs; we grow a good bit of our own food and preserve it, just put up a good bit of jam and pear butter from pears grown here. We made a purposeful choice to live away from most of society and other than my TH-cam channel and ones I sub to, plus the long-running chicken forum I have been a member of for almost 15 years, I have no social media attachments. It is what keeps us sane in our insane world now. Thank you for these beautiful videos. ~Cynthia, N. GA Mountains
I'm also an Early Childhood Educator and watch one of your videos before my ten hour shift with 30+ children. It keeps me so calm and in the moment. Yes. Ten hours. Thirty. I watch one on my 30m lunch break too. I'm also making my days off slower and more meaningful so thankyou so very much. I'm studying nursing as well and next year I'll graduate with a job in ICU (that's the plan). Imagine the stillness I'll bring via you to my patients and colleagues. Very special. Expect an order via etsy next week Paola. I'm treating myself to some art for Mothers' Day (from my fairy & angel children that I feel around me). Have a wonderful day x
Hope you enjoy - I love cultivating feelings of abundance through small labors like cooking and foraging. Love, Light, and Hope to all of you! 🙏 Let’s connect, Instagram: the_cottage_fairy
Hello there Cottage Fairy, im glad i found this channel. Im so inlove with this kind of content. Gives me peace and comfort. Greetings from Vienna,Austria
I feel like I'm holding my breath and my muscles are all tensed up and when I can finally live like this is when I'll be able to take my first real deep breath
Blessed are those who can be content with what they have. The key to happiness is to distinguish between a "want" and a "need". Most things we want are not what we truly need.
Finally, my heart is at peace. There’s nothing (no person, activity) that could make me feel this way. You helped me feel relief albeit temporary, this video has enabled me to crawl back to everything that matters the most to me. Thank you.
you have made the right choice , your lifestyle it's so dreamy , and peaceful i'm looking for such a life , so far away from people , i hope for you all the best
thank you - the peace my environment gives me helps me through the natural ups and downs of life - sending love and light to you, your dreams will come true in the way and time they are meant to be ❤️ thank you for your kind comment
Paola, her voice, her kind, gentle spirit, her wholesome activities, her visuals, her music, her video creations, her wisdom, her outlook, are like a warm, comforting blanket
Your videos bring me to tears. I hope you realise that as well as providing help to your immediate community, you help thousands of people around the world too. I hope you achieve everything you want in life and more.
I am so glad that you found your “place”. It wasn’t until I hit 62 that I realized that all I really wanted was peace, quiet, and some time to myself. You are living my dream. Your dream may change but until it does, if ever, enjoy where you are.
I am in tears as I respond to your absolutely beautiful video, I'm in awe of your grace and appreciation for mother earth, you are awe inspiring and a beautiful soul. When I saw how you used the petals for the beautiful treats it was just so moving and delicate. You have a gift and I'm so glad I got to see you're point of view.
I was asking my soul, what do you need? And it replied “I want to sit quietly living 100% in the present moment. I was a bit pushy to start doing something but my soul was alright. I spend 1 hr doing absolutely nothing than staying quiet with my own spirit. Ps. Don’t be afraid of the quiet times as it’s where you find peace. :)
I'm what is called an ambivert (new term I learned lol). Sometimes I need to be around people, but often I really need to be alone. As a single mother, I can't even get bathroom time alone. For now, I live vicariously through you because I would love a piece of this at times :). Beautiful home!
Yes as a preschool teacher I often find myself in similar situation, especially when it comes to bathroom time! We have 16 kids in our classroom, it can get hectic. These videos are my escape from long work week as well, I’m glad we can find little moments to recenter 🤍
I am absolutely liberated by your channel and your journey. I am growing a greater sense of understanding how much beauty are in the little things in life. We can get so caught up in the modern way of doing things, which modern isn't bad, but it can be so relieving to take a break from that every once in a while. Thank you for helping me realize that. I am finally starting to see myself as a human and give myself a chance to be happy, instead of constantly trying to chase happiness for the entirety of my existence. Sending love to you and whoever is reading this.
You floated onto my phone today and brought memories of a similar time in my life that I aspire to get back to. My soul thrives in nature and with animals. Thanks for the lift and reminder. It comes at a much needed time. 🙏🏻
My heart was full with anger and sadness, wathcing your vids left me in tears...suddenly a surge of peacefulness just wash all my anger away, thank you for this. sending you love from New Zealand
How calming and relaxing. The videography and music combination with your incredible narration is so peaceful. I also live in the country and my favourite place is walking in the woods, being near water, gardening and reading under a tree. Lisa, Ontario, Canada
Born from the nature and making a bond with back to nature is the doorway to live the outmost life.. Every since it's been months, every morning I meditate and for some moment imagining myself into the place, one cottage and rest with the nature.. Not physically but imagining I Live that moment.. And now I saw this in your videos.. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am absolutely in love with your videos. They are such a breath of fresh air in this hectic world, and I the words you said at the end really resonated with me. I too spent my late teens and early twenties overworking myself to save up money and fit the societal ideal and felt very disconnected from my spirit. Almost one year ago, I moved out west to the Okanagan valley (which looks very similar to the mountains in which you live!) and have found so much peace here living rurally. To be able to spend the day sketching, gardening, reading, and wandering in nature brings me so much joy, and I really don't mind being alone because I am now able to find so much joy and abundance in my own heart. I am hoping to maintain this slower, quiet lifestyle for as long as it resonates. Thank you for sharing these beautiful snippets of your life with us, and for being such an inspiration to be more mindful about how we move about and relate to our world. ps. Aegir has so much life and personality!
I'm not kidding, but when I started watching your video, a calm came over me. The music, your voice, watching what you are doing. I so want that!! Great videos💐❤
This makes me question so many things... Stressing about my dissertation and finding a job after, living in a country where right now I don't feel very happy, I miss the nature and feeling comfortable with myself. But I don't know how to get to a point like you.. It all costs money and sometimes seeing these videos make me feel stuck, like I could never truly be able to silence my mind and achieve the point of true happiness.
Paola, I've watched all your videos and I just want to tell you that they bring me so much peace. Whenever I'm down I watch them and feel better, even when I'm happy I watch them and feel even better. Thank you for such beautiful videos.
Your narration has such an immense calmness. Your voice is so relaxing and soothing; so rich with peace and wisdom. Your videos are reminiscent of one of my favorite movies, "A river Runs Through It". I grew up in Montana, similar to this setting (Not too far from where you are) and can't imagine living any other life.
Great stuff CF. I left the corporate lifestyle after 20 years, around 6 years ago. My life is so much more fulfilling. I now work from home part time and am a watercolor artist. Perhaps this way of living is not for everyone, but I have found my true self and spirit in this mode. 💖💖💖
At last, there is someone who likes to be alone. I thought l was weird, but without guilt.I have time on my hands now to enjoy my gardening, house keeping, traveling and a number of DlY projects.For those of us who have been alone by default, l pray you find comfort in that inner spirit and that you occupy your time with the things that make you happy. Thanks for sharing. You are such an inspiration.
I just found this channel yesterday and I wanted to say that this is my dream life. I also want live in a place that has a peaceful vibes and it is also good for my mental health. Thank you for sharing your life with us and you inspire me.
Oh thank you so much. I appreciate hearing that. The wildfires here are rampant and I definitely need extra courage right now! Making these videos is very therapeutic for me ❤️
I'm 61. I used to want to be around people. Then I met some destructive ones, including in my own family. Now I am happy being by myself, with my dog, settling into a small place in the desert countryside.Various wildlife come to my bird feeders, I raise sunflowers among my small yard and watch the sky instead of TV. I love the quiet life, after a not so quiet life. I don't miss the chaos or those people. Love watching your videos. People can be stinkers. You are not missing much, and saving yourself from drama queens and kings. Good for you!
I love your videos, very calming. Love your lifestyle. I'm 71 and have never lived my dream. Worked 40 years in a factory to support myself and put a roof over my head. Wow you young people live in a fantasy world. How do you support yourself? I envy you.
You know I would say I spend much of my time working in order to make a living, but I am lucky to live on a property shared by my family, so we support each other and therefore I have some free time to do what I love. Thank you for sharing your story! I know that many young people struggle to thrive and afford the cost of living, so they and I can relate to you. I struggle financially as well, but still do my best to make time for these videos ❤️ best wishes!
@@TheCottageFairy There is a great book out on how hard younger people have to work these days to be able to survive - I was really impressed with it and felt it opened my eyes! It is called The Burnout Generation by Anne Helen Petersen and talks about the many part time jobs people cobble together to make a living! Younger generation has loads of debt older folks never had - college expenses etc.
I am so sorry you have not lived your dream. There is still time. Research areas of low cost living. There really are some remote, rural counties/small towns out there. I, too, am 71 and live the very quiet life. My only unhappiness comes from having lost my wonderful husband 9 years ago. If he was still with me, living my dream would really be complete. I am blessed to have had him -- and my dream life --- for 33 years. Sending you light and love.
I worked at a factory for many years, and now work at a different place in town. Bought a beautiful piece of land in the country some years back, and now only work part-time...so that I can enjoy my peaceful life out here. When I wanted to buy land, it was way too expensive through realty companies. I saw a beautiful piece of abandoned land, went to the courthouse, found out who owned it, and gave him a call. The owner lived in a town several hours away..turned out it belonged to his mother until she died, and it was just sitting there, abandoned. He sold it to me for a tiny FRACTION of what it would have cost, through a realty company. It can be done! I'm 68.
"I'm learning how to silence my mind and listen to my inner spirit" Thank you so much for sharing such beautiful content with us and thank you especially from someone really needed to hear those words, having immediately written it down and put it on my bedside cabinet. Much love and gratitude x
Thank you so much because I've seen some parts of my soul in your videos. As an introverted person, I always struggle with the hectic pace of city life and you know, the burden of financial obligations every single day. Thank you because whenever I feel lonely, I can hear your voice, see your cottage and stunning scenery around there to calm me down.
I've always thought it was so magical when you hit that area where the west meets the east and you go from thick lush forests to rolling desert hills in an instant. I loved that area! The hiking is amazing! You have me homesick in Tennessee.
This is the kind of life i wish to have for myself eversince. Away and free where i can be at peace with myself and be connected with the beauty of nature and talk to my heavenly Father.
Miss Paola. I have previously written to you today and suspect you won't see this. That is okay because I just want to tell you how much I appreciate your stories because I too, am pursuing a slower lifestyle. I came from a farm (in Southern Alberta, Canada) and discovered how displeasing city life can be. I made the decision with my wife to move to an extremely small community. I'm now a land-owner with a very large garden in the works :) I am also on the volunteer Fire Department which is an honour. My point is that I appreciate you and your channel, because it develops that calm sense of peace but at the same time forcing the question's, is this life for me? and, how should I proceed knowing that the life I am currently living, may not be fulfilling to who I am. Thank you for your inspiration and attention to detail. It does more than you will ever know, and I hope that brings your peace knowing the impact you've made (in a positive way of course:)
Even though I live in the city currently I grew up in and love the countryside. Your videos remind me I can make the most of my current situation by hiking on the many trails we do have here whenever have the chance. Once again, thank you.
I love that you have little to no make-up on in this video - a welcome relief in an over-done world. Thank you for your beautiful work, however you wish to present it.
I've been following you for quite some time and now anno 2024, came across this older video. So refreshing to see you having evolved in the last years of making videos with your unique message to the world, yet to realize that the seed of your special vision is already shining through, recognizable pure, true and with your heart value. It's been like a timelapse to watch this video and to know how much you have grown, even becoming a nurturing mother at this period now. So empowering! And giving hope for all who feel like showing themselves in a humble way, letting themselves been seen and heard. I wish you the best!❤
Hello everyone! Thank you for all your kind comments ❤️ Note, I do know that the audio volume is not ideal in this video - this is one of the first videos I made for YT, I was an editing beginner! My more recent videos have improved, so check those out! Bestest wishes ❤️
No background music is needed, just your lovely voice and the sounds of nature.
@@dorothy9618 I agree.
Even though I don't mind the music.
At all.
The subtitling is good enough for now.
No sorry needed. But i do love the background music. Can you share the music list please?
i like when you take off your shoes before entering your house🙂
Ilove being alone,it's just me and my Yorkie,diamond, my husband died,on active duty when he was43yrs.old,and now iam 62,never remarried,I love my Lord,and Savior,my time in the garden,books,my tea,and nature to the highest.ihave a great family,they live in big cities,and around the world, and i live in a small town with beauty around me..the caring for one another and what's important in life.that inner peace.&your heart.
Veronica, I wish we were neighbors. I'm 63, love the Lord, gardening, reading and coffee. God bless
I'm very sorry for your loss, but know how lovely your day must be. I too enjoy spending time in the Word, in my little garden, reading, taking in nature, and finding companionship with my dog and two cats. When I need to be around people, I find a way to volunteer to help, before retreating back to my peaceful life. Blessings and grace to you.
@@lindamiller2723 Linda ,any time you want to be friends let me know,I wish you were my neighbor too.we could have a good times talk and thanking God for a new day, and our many blessings
@@d.m.campano5672 thankyou so much,I like volunteering also,but because of COV-19,and a 15yrs.Cancer survivor i still have to be careful,we all do!
Bless your heart ❤ Im a retired Airforce Wife (My Husband is the Veteran)
I am chronically ill.I live alone emotionally, mentally,and I have struggled with why God has chosen to not heal my marriage. My husband has turned from God long ago.
This is literally every Introvert's dream!!!!
omg I know right !
Omg yes. Only me, my Books and my dog. I would be so happy.
Facts...
True
as an extrovert, this is a dream!
It brings me real comfort knowing that little pockets of the earth have people like you there. Creative, calm, confident, caring and decent people.
Same thought.
Agreed, this seems like this is what humans were meant to be. Softer, and a part of the world instead of a dominant parasitic species that preys on itself
@@canecorsomom2023 a topic that I could talk about for hours and hours. Most people aren’t who they are supposed to be
"Little pockets of the earth have people like you there " must be the best thing I've ever read on the internet.
@@judyphillips2498 we need more people like us
As a filmmaker, I just wanted to comment on how well you're able to tell a story. You make wonderful use of establishing & transition shots. Your pacing is perfect. You are also so incredibly patient with adjusting the tripod for your different angles.
As a human, I just wanted to comment saying your videos are the most peace I've found in YEARS. I'm so grateful to have found your channel.
Her brother did this
I second that emotion. Love this channel, so much peace and tranquillity!
Ariana your narrative bring tears to my eyes. Be blessed...
@@MirageandReality it was actually originally Paola filming but her brother eventually came and helped her in her later videos ❤️
No one can appreciate this kind of peace & gratification until they have experienced chaos x
Boy, you said it!
you are absolutely right, I finally bought a few acres in the farm side of the panhandle, after 8 deployments I can say my state of Mind and blood pressure has defently improved. only issue is the countryside is not as community based as everyone thinks unless you're family has routes established
Very well said
You are so right. I've carried chaos in my head (anxiety) for 20 years.
I've spent the past two years teaching myself how to calm it down.
It can still occasionally kick my teeth in but I win more than I don't.
It didn't know what stubborness was before it picked on me. 🙃😁
"I had to re-write the thesis of my entire life to be happy here." Wow. So powerful.
I also so love this statement. Truly touching my heart and bring out what I’ve been longing to live, a leisure simple life but soul full-filling.
I am trying to do the same. I thought not many people understand that I need to ne alone.
I love you
New friend here
@@RajeshKumar-mp1qq new friend here
I am a post doc research scholar working my ass off to get a university job. After watching this video, I am questioning my ambitions and choices. I feel very happy for you.
I can relate. I am a postdoc too.
I just stopped my scholarly path because it doesn't align with my values and is much too separated from the real world.
Same here guys 😂 it is so interesting that when you research the very depth of how our world works, you really reach this distilled realization of what life really is. Peace and eternity
@@clarakw5571 so happy for u....it really needs courage to do something like that.....I hope u find peace and love in ur life wherever u are and whatever u do.❤️
Then quit bro; college is useless. Prairies are better than college debt.
Ps... your lifestyle is truly a dream come true for me.. another person that loves her quiet and peaceful introverted spirit..
Me too 🌺🌺🏕
Hi Sue are you from St. Clare of Montefalco? If so Hello from Maryann.
Me three
@@maryannoconnor3746 No... I live in California.. lol but hello to you Maryann :)
Anna annanymous Wow. Cynical much. Some ppl live with intention & some do not. My guess is you’re in the latter category & you sound very bitter. In any case, be well🌺
I don’t think I’ve ever been this calm and present before. I was so angry and sad before watching this. And now I just feel grateful for my presence. Thank you so much❤️🥺
Feeling it too...
Me too🥺
I was too I was arguing with my dad to start up a real estate business and making millions aggressively. Universe gifted this to me suddenly. This gives me to think more about life.
This is literally my dream. I’m a very introverted person since I’ve struggled with mental health and bulimia. This is like a fairytale to me, like a way to escape. Your videos make me want to just go outside, sit under the tree, and write a book as the sun sets. Your videos have helped so much with panic attacks. Also, trying out some lavender drinks since I’ve seen them on your channel.
I am sending you so much love. 💓 Struggles w mental health can be so hard and are definitely not discussed enough! // If you ever want to chat I can leave you an email of mine! :)
Hmmm
It’s my dream too I like your comments
@@teabubbles4ever hi
me too
I am sitting here in tears. I live in South Africa and I wish to live this life. Everything is so modernised, loud and materialistic now. Ever since I was a child, this is what I wished for. I'll be 25 next month. Hopefully I'll be able to achieve my dream.
I'm from SA too, and I totally agree with you. Everything's so dirty, Grey, unsafe and loud in the major cities besides cape Town. Can't wait to head off to Europe
Your music is too loud and I can’t hear what you are saying.
@@judithreich3813 she already mentioned SHE KNOWS her audio is not the best.....she’s explained why already....READ .....
Don’t worry. You will get to that part in your life. Don’t give up on what you want.
Look up the town Orania in your country.
You radiate peace, it’s so refreshing ✨🌸
omg! Veo tus videos hace años! Love you
Its beautiful! I could so live this lifestyle!
Peacefully breathtaking ❤️
Ik!!!
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This video hit home. I've been studying 6 hours a day for the past 6 years to be the best at my firm, but I do feel the need to let it all go and move somewhere cozy, live in harmony with nature, and be myself. Ever since I was a kid I was dreaming to have this beautiful house near a lake and be surrounded by nature. Now I know that this "house" I was dreaming of, doesn't have to be a palace. A simple, beautiful cottage will do. I need to find a place like this..
Indeed👏👍
Just do it , I did and have no regrets
As an introvert myself I find this video so relaxing. The idea of living a life like this is only a dream for me, but hopefully one day.
same :))
I'll pray for you
her children would be raised like princesses, just imagine growing up in that place it's so peaceful T^T
Her children will indeed be a peaceful, happy bunch....like their mama....
i see mountains in the back in what country is this in
@@denisebell3435 it's washington state in the us
@kevin mungai as a kid I preferred running around in the woods with my parents/older siblings then to ever go to a city, and everyone has different preferences
I would love to be one of her kids! She lives the ideal life I have always dreamed of!
At 72 I am living a similar life of contented aloneness. It did not come easy. But so thankful to at last find the elusive calm and peace in the depths of my being.
Your video was a delight.
Love from Ms Pat in southern Indiana
" But so thankful to at last find the elusive calm and peace in the depths of my being ."
Well said and beautiful words...
Wishing you the best in these horrible times.
That is great. When we are still - we find ourselves and stop striving to please others.
You have inspired this 54 year old corporate lady boss to get back to what is important and what I love. THANK YOU! You are adorable and I love seeing your pets. I am a dog lover too. Best wishes. I subscribed to be inspired and relax while I soak up your beautiful message. Your mommas gotta be proud!
Ooh! Thank you so much I’m glad to hear that! ❤️ I need to remind myself to get back to what’s important once and a while, that’s why I make these videos! Best wishes
54 too 😉🤚🏽
@@heatherhall3452 54 too from Brazil
Helena F - 54 yo Aussie 🇦🇺😁
Congradulations on your inspiration and decision and quest. May it all be better than you imagine.
As a single early 20s man I am trying to save and find a partner to live exactly like this. Living off your land, raising a family in the woods and meadows, surrounded by nature and far from the chaos of the city.
Nice
I hope you find your soul mate 🙋❤️
@@jodyer2227 me too, it takes time but I'll find her
Literally same, but I live in California and finding someone with similar values is like finding a needle in a haystack. I have a rough 3 year plan to go off God willing....but even if I don't find someone willing to do it with me I'm still gonna go for it.
@@qreua_3075you'll find someone. There are plenty out there that want to do this, just takes time to make it all come together. I would encourage you to get out of Cali sooner rather then later, but I understand if financially it just doesn't make sense yet.
I live in AZ right now and plan to move to somewhere in the Pacific Northwest in a year or two. Possibly Northern Idaho or Oregon, whatever land I can afford really. Goodluck in your adventures and endeavors!
Congratulations on your recovery (from "civilization")! As a life-long "nature-girl" and introvert, I had always aspired to live as you do. I escaped Brooklyn as soon as I could (mid 20s) and have steadily progressed to living as close to nature and as peacefully and remotely as possible. Now, in my mid 50s, I am in graduate school, making a career change to become a therapist. My goal is to use nature as much as possible to help clients find peace and healing, no matter what their challenges might be. I am adding your channel to the top of my list for "homework assignments" for clients - other than forming a direct relationship with nature - to aid them in finding peace, serenity and clarity, and to help in restructuring their paradigms. Thank you for sharing your life with us!
Congrats on the career change! Not many are willing to do that at your age, even though I think it’s entirely possible for anyone who wants to do it at any point in their life. I commend you! 👏🏼👏🏼
@@oliviabeltran2099 Thank you! My philosophy is you're going to get old no matter what, so you may as well do the thing that inspires you now. Yes, it's never too late (for most things), but also there's no better time than the present!
It's a blessing to live with the beauties of Nature all around.
You’ve found your own little peace of paradise that most of us can only dream of attaining.
You can have peace now, it is Only a choice.
It took a lot of time and work but I’m glad to have come this far 🤍 best wishes my dear!
TheCottageFairy how do you support yourself?
Spending time alone is truly restorative and recharging. Anyone who tries to tell you we're programmed to be social creatures who pine away and die unless we have an intimate partner has never experienced the complete freedom your mind has when it's unhampered by other's input.
I actually believe extroverts are broken people. The constant need to fill up one's life with people and activities seems like a desperate attempt at distraction.
Eduardo Viajero you should really try Jesus instead of generalizations. Being born again is freedom.
Eduardo Viajero wow yet here you are watching it yourself Eduardo 🙄 you just be you & leave us to love 💕 Jesus & live in peace x
Absolutely!
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One side she makes me feel calm.. on the other side jealous..
Hhhh, thé same 😁😁
...maybe you will only feel jealous if it's something you really want, but believe you can't get... Make it real for yourself. Work towards it.
@@SkyeAten that's very thoughtful
@@SkyeAten so true! If you want anything in life, you must work for it. You can accomplish anything you set off to do, even if it takes many failures
@@jamien.5528 well said!
i swear i started crying at 10:08 when you said that you make these videos of a lifestyle or pace of living because it may align with ours and i felt sooooo seen as a city girl who actually relates to the bits of your story you shared in this video. THANK YOU! this is such a breath of fresh air!
This is very inspiring! I am still a kid, but I want to live like you do after college. I found you only yesterday, but I have already felt a change in my confidence, self-worth, and I am just happier. Thank you!!!
I feel we can live this way wherever we live. Quietly and enjoy everyday. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes yes yes! I did it before I moved here, you got it! It is our mind and actions, not strictly environment that brings peace ❤️ your comment is very wise
Kathye Sargent I agree. It’s a little trickier but it’s worth trying to live a quieter life wherever we find ourselves.
exactly!! doesn't matter where you live to enjoy life this way with the right mindset 👍
I get it. I as a child would go out far into the woods and embrace the trees, the coolness as I lay in the moss, and the soft breezes. Not feeling alone and truly at peace...peacefulness. I'm so glad young people, like you, today are finding a way out of living in a fast pace world with so many high expectations. It warms my hearts. The Lord said keep your eyes simple. See...this way of life helps you connect to all he has created to give and sustain you. Yes I agree not everyone can have too much solitude but it still can be achieved in different ways that will still work. Keep your eyes simple helps you to stop...to rest...to breath🌻
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This is the kind of serenity and beauty I want to attain in my life.
Since we do not have any more new material I decided to go back to older videos. I wish you blessings and strenght in the new awesome role as Mom.
I love your kitchen, theres so much sunlight and the wood is beautiful.
Oh thank you! Oh yes the wood counter’s are my favorite part! 🙏
Hi! I recently found your lovely channel and I just felt that I had to comment (not something I often do). I am a 58 year old introvert and watching your beautiful, artistic life on your videos is just so soothing to me. I think you are such a sweet, old soul... wise far beyond your years. You truly are an inspiration, even to a little old lady like me! 💗 Don't ever let anyone tell you that you should be, or live any other way, than the way that suits you best, and clearly, your present simple, cottage lifestyle suits you fabulously! If I was as wise at your age as you are, how my life would have been so much easier.... I wish you all the best... in peace ☮ and love 💗... Just keep being wonderful you! Oh, and thank you so much for sharing your beautiful life with us... You are just precious. 💗 🦋🌻🌼🍀🌹
The Holy Spirt has touched your Soul.The music is perfect.
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You are amazing!! I also have learned to quiet the mind and heal childhood trauma...I've never been happier, thank you for sharing your journey ❤❤❤
I was crying throughout the video, this is the peace i wanted eversince.
I find your channel very soothing. I live on a rural mountain acreage in a cottage-style cabin with my husband of almost 45 years, chickens and a cat who adopted us almost 6 years ago. I rarely ever see anyone other than my husband and on rare occasion, one of my sons. I love wild birds, flowers and herbs; we grow a good bit of our own food and preserve it, just put up a good bit of jam and pear butter from pears grown here. We made a purposeful choice to live away from most of society and other than my TH-cam channel and ones I sub to, plus the long-running chicken forum I have been a member of for almost 15 years, I have no social media attachments. It is what keeps us sane in our insane world now. Thank you for these beautiful videos. ~Cynthia, N. GA Mountains
well said, living with purpose. Thank you for sharing, I hope to have as many animal friends as you someday! ❤️
I love how you said that the cat "adopted" you. 😊
I will check out your you tube channel
My husband and I sound like the both if you
I'm also an Early Childhood Educator and watch one of your videos before my ten hour shift with 30+ children. It keeps me so calm and in the moment.
Yes. Ten hours. Thirty.
I watch one on my 30m lunch break too.
I'm also making my days off slower and more meaningful so thankyou so very much.
I'm studying nursing as well and next year I'll graduate with a job in ICU (that's the plan).
Imagine the stillness I'll bring via you to my patients and colleagues.
Very special.
Expect an order via etsy next week Paola. I'm treating myself to some art for Mothers' Day (from my fairy & angel children that I feel around me).
Have a wonderful day x
Hope you enjoy - I love cultivating feelings of abundance through small labors like cooking and foraging. Love, Light, and Hope to all of you! 🙏
Let’s connect, Instagram: the_cottage_fairy
Hello there Cottage Fairy, im glad i found this channel. Im so inlove with this kind of content. Gives me peace and comfort. Greetings from Vienna,Austria
I once spent Christmas Day in your Vienna - absolutely stunning! ❤️ The countryside was also enchanting
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TheCottageFairy How did you get to Vienna; how did you pay for it?
I feel like I'm holding my breath and my muscles are all tensed up and when I can finally live like this is when I'll be able to take my first real deep breath
Such a kind spirit. I wish there where more people like her nowadays.
Blessed are those who can be content with what they have. The key to happiness is to distinguish between a "want" and a "need". Most things we want are not what we truly need.
Finally, my heart is at peace. There’s nothing (no person, activity) that could make me feel this way. You helped me feel relief albeit temporary, this video has enabled me to crawl back to everything that matters the most to me. Thank you.
you have made the right choice , your lifestyle it's so dreamy , and peaceful
i'm looking for such a life , so far away from people , i hope for you all the best
thank you - the peace my environment gives me helps me through the natural ups and downs of life - sending love and light to you, your dreams will come true in the way and time they are meant to be ❤️ thank you for your kind comment
Paola, her voice, her kind, gentle spirit, her wholesome activities, her visuals, her music, her video creations, her wisdom, her outlook, are like a warm, comforting blanket
Your videos bring me to tears. I hope you realise that as well as providing help to your immediate community, you help thousands of people around the world too. I hope you achieve everything you want in life and more.
Living your life is a dream for most of us. Surrounded by nature and in nature, you have abundance and wealth beyond measure.
Same here. I love this kind of life. I also make videos about slow and simple living in Australia. 😍
I am so glad that you found your “place”. It wasn’t until I hit 62 that I realized that all I really wanted was peace, quiet, and some time to myself. You are living my dream. Your dream may change but until it does, if ever, enjoy where you are.
I am in tears as I respond to your absolutely beautiful video, I'm in awe of your grace and appreciation for mother earth, you are awe inspiring and a beautiful soul. When I saw how you used the petals for the beautiful treats it was just so moving and delicate.
You have a gift and I'm so glad I got to see you're point of view.
If you have a life partner and pets, you’re never really alone.
If you have/love yourself, you are never alone.
If you have a band of demons you aren’t alone, man they play good music.
We all wanted this simple, uncomplicated life which is now very rare to have.
I was asking my soul, what do you need? And it replied “I want to sit quietly living 100% in the present moment. I was a bit pushy to start doing something but my soul was alright. I spend 1 hr doing absolutely nothing than staying quiet with my own spirit.
Ps. Don’t be afraid of the quiet times as it’s where you find peace. :)
I'm what is called an ambivert (new term I learned lol). Sometimes I need to be around people, but often I really need to be alone. As a single mother, I can't even get bathroom time alone. For now, I live vicariously through you because I would love a piece of this at times :). Beautiful home!
Yes as a preschool teacher I often find myself in similar situation, especially when it comes to bathroom time! We have 16 kids in our classroom, it can get hectic. These videos are my escape from long work week as well, I’m glad we can find little moments to recenter 🤍
That feeling when you see others
living your dream...
I'm normal human after all 😊
I love your lifestyle big time. All natural and so simple. Living in a humble cottage has been my dream since forever.
I am absolutely liberated by your channel and your journey. I am growing a greater sense of understanding how much beauty are in the little things in life. We can get so caught up in the modern way of doing things, which modern isn't bad, but it can be so relieving to take a break from that every once in a while. Thank you for helping me realize that. I am finally starting to see myself as a human and give myself a chance to be happy, instead of constantly trying to chase happiness for the entirety of my existence. Sending love to you and whoever is reading this.
You floated onto my phone today and brought memories of a similar time in my life that I aspire to get back to. My soul thrives in nature and with animals. Thanks for the lift and reminder. It comes at a much needed time. 🙏🏻
My heart was full with anger and sadness, wathcing your vids left me in tears...suddenly a surge of peacefulness just wash all my anger away, thank you for this. sending you love from New Zealand
How calming and relaxing. The videography and music combination with your incredible narration is so peaceful.
I also live in the country and my favourite place is walking in the woods, being near water, gardening and reading under a tree. Lisa, Ontario, Canada
Born from the nature and making a bond with back to nature is the doorway to live the outmost life.. Every since it's been months, every morning I meditate and for some moment imagining myself into the place, one cottage and rest with the nature.. Not physically but imagining I Live that moment..
And now I saw this in your videos..
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I am absolutely in love with your videos. They are such a breath of fresh air in this hectic world, and I the words you said at the end really resonated with me. I too spent my late teens and early twenties overworking myself to save up money and fit the societal ideal and felt very disconnected from my spirit. Almost one year ago, I moved out west to the Okanagan valley (which looks very similar to the mountains in which you live!) and have found so much peace here living rurally. To be able to spend the day sketching, gardening, reading, and wandering in nature brings me so much joy, and I really don't mind being alone because I am now able to find so much joy and abundance in my own heart. I am hoping to maintain this slower, quiet lifestyle for as long as it resonates. Thank you for sharing these beautiful snippets of your life with us, and for being such an inspiration to be more mindful about how we move about and relate to our world.
ps. Aegir has so much life and personality!
I'm not kidding, but when I started watching your video, a calm came over me. The music, your voice, watching what you are doing. I so want that!! Great videos💐❤
This is an introvert's dream life
I want to be like this
Mee too. Still dreaming 😴 . Hopefully one day it will happen
Affirmation of the day "Happiness and abundance overflows in my life."
This makes me question so many things... Stressing about my dissertation and finding a job after, living in a country where right now I don't feel very happy, I miss the nature and feeling comfortable with myself. But I don't know how to get to a point like you.. It all costs money and sometimes seeing these videos make me feel stuck, like I could never truly be able to silence my mind and achieve the point of true happiness.
What a beautiful life you lead, surrendering to : the abundance of simple living." Stress free. A lesson for everyone. Thank you.
I am so happy TH-cam recommended your channel to me! ❤️ I can't wait to see more of your journey
Our pets help with this peace. This is truly my mindset here.
Paola, I've watched all your videos and I just want to tell you that they bring me so much peace. Whenever I'm down I watch them and feel better, even when I'm happy I watch them and feel even better. Thank you for such beautiful videos.
You so touch my heart and my soul - there is love and beauty in abundance in everything you say or do or share. Thank you so much!
Your narration has such an immense calmness. Your voice is so relaxing and soothing; so rich with peace and wisdom. Your videos are reminiscent of one of my favorite movies, "A river Runs Through It". I grew up in Montana, similar to this setting (Not too far from where you are) and can't imagine living any other life.
Great stuff CF. I left the corporate lifestyle after 20 years, around 6 years ago. My life is so much more fulfilling. I now work from home part time and am a watercolor artist. Perhaps this way of living is not for everyone, but I have found my true self and spirit in this mode. 💖💖💖
This was so amazing to watch after your latest. What growth you’ve made. As a person. As a creator. As a soul.
It's a lovely life, like you, I like being alone much of the time too. To be surrounded with nature is a blessing in itself. Much love xx
At last, there is someone who likes to be alone. I thought l was weird, but without guilt.I have time on my hands now to enjoy my gardening, house keeping, traveling and a number of DlY projects.For those of us who have been alone by default, l pray you find comfort in that inner spirit and that you occupy your time with the things that make you happy.
Thanks for sharing. You are such an inspiration.
I just found this channel yesterday and I wanted to say that this is my dream life. I also want live in a place that has a peaceful vibes and it is also good for my mental health. Thank you for sharing your life with us and you inspire me.
Until you live a simple life I don’t think you can appreciate how wonderful it really is no dream can compare xxx
You have a beautiful spirit and your voice is so calming.
What you are doing takes courage and you are one courageous soul. May happiness and peace find you always. Love from Canada.
Oh thank you so much. I appreciate hearing that. The wildfires here are rampant and I definitely need extra courage right now! Making these videos is very therapeutic for me ❤️
Thank you for a few moments of a life I yearn for. Where is this? Be safe!!
@@TheCottageFairy Remember to ask God for protection. Psalm 91 is the most powerful prayer of protection in the Bible.
I'm 61. I used to want to be around people. Then I met some destructive ones, including in my own family. Now I am happy being by myself, with my dog, settling into a small place in the desert countryside.Various wildlife come to my bird feeders, I raise sunflowers among my small yard and watch the sky instead of TV. I love the quiet life, after a not so quiet life. I don't miss the chaos or those people. Love watching your videos. People can be stinkers. You are not missing much, and saving yourself from drama queens and kings. Good for you!
One can't afford not subscribing.Hats off lady!
I love your videos, very calming. Love your lifestyle. I'm 71 and have never lived my dream. Worked 40 years in a factory to support myself and put a roof over my head. Wow you young people live in a fantasy world. How do you support yourself? I envy you.
You know I would say I spend much of my time working in order to make a living, but I am lucky to live on a property shared by my family, so we support each other and therefore I have some free time to do what I love. Thank you for sharing your story! I know that many young people struggle to thrive and afford the cost of living, so they and I can relate to you. I struggle financially as well, but still do my best to make time for these videos ❤️ best wishes!
@@TheCottageFairy There is a great book out on how hard younger people have to work these days to be able to survive - I was really impressed with it and felt it opened my eyes! It is called The Burnout Generation by Anne Helen Petersen and talks about the many part time jobs people cobble together to make a living! Younger generation has loads of debt older folks never had - college expenses etc.
I am so sorry you have not lived your dream. There is still time. Research areas of low cost living. There really are some remote, rural counties/small towns out there. I, too, am 71 and live the very quiet life. My only unhappiness comes from having lost my wonderful husband 9 years ago. If he was still with me, living my dream would really be complete. I am blessed to have had him -- and my dream life --- for 33 years. Sending you light and love.
Carol Kothmann many blessings to you Carol
I worked at a factory for many years, and now work at a different place in town. Bought a beautiful piece of land in the country some years back, and now only work part-time...so that I can enjoy my peaceful life out here. When I wanted to buy land, it was way too expensive through realty companies. I saw a beautiful piece of abandoned land, went to the courthouse, found out who owned it, and gave him a call. The owner lived in a town several hours away..turned out it belonged to his mother until she died, and it was just sitting there, abandoned. He sold it to me for a tiny FRACTION of what it would have cost, through a realty company. It can be done! I'm 68.
"I'm learning how to silence my mind and listen to my inner spirit"
Thank you so much for sharing such beautiful content with us and thank you especially from someone really needed to hear those words, having immediately written it down and put it on my bedside cabinet. Much love and gratitude x
The life every nature lover dreams about coming alive on TH-cam.
I’m very introverted and I prefer to be alone although I do love to be around my loved ones. Your home seems like a dream to me.
Thank you so much because I've seen some parts of my soul in your videos. As an introverted person, I always struggle with the hectic pace of city life and you know, the burden of financial obligations every single day. Thank you because whenever I feel lonely, I can hear your voice, see your cottage and stunning scenery around there to calm me down.
I would love to hear more about your personal story and what was the turning point that changed everything for you.
Soon I’ll be living alone. I will like the alone time , to be creative in my own way. 😊
I've always thought it was so magical when you hit that area where the west meets the east and you go from thick lush forests to rolling desert hills in an instant. I loved that area! The hiking is amazing! You have me homesick in Tennessee.
I love being alone and listening to my thoughts 💭 there is no better place than amongst nature’s beauty 🌸🦋🌸
Thank you for the love, kindness and peace you bring to the world.
This is the kind of life i wish to have for myself eversince. Away and free where i can be at peace with myself and be connected with the beauty of nature and talk to my heavenly Father.
Miss Paola. I have previously written to you today and suspect you won't see this. That is okay because I just want to tell you how much I appreciate your stories because I too, am pursuing a slower lifestyle. I came from a farm (in Southern Alberta, Canada) and discovered how displeasing city life can be. I made the decision with my wife to move to an extremely small community. I'm now a land-owner with a very large garden in the works :) I am also on the volunteer Fire Department which is an honour. My point is that I appreciate you and your channel, because it develops that calm sense of peace but at the same time forcing the question's, is this life for me? and, how should I proceed knowing that the life I am currently living, may not be fulfilling to who I am. Thank you for your inspiration and attention to detail. It does more than you will ever know, and I hope that brings your peace knowing the impact you've made (in a positive way of course:)
Even though I live in the city currently I grew up in and love the countryside. Your videos remind me I can make the most of my current situation by hiking on the many trails we do have here whenever have the chance. Once again, thank you.
I love that you have little to no make-up on in this video - a welcome relief in an over-done world. Thank you for your beautiful work, however you wish to present it.
I've been following you for quite some time and now anno 2024, came across this older video. So refreshing to see you having evolved in the last years of making videos with your unique message to the world, yet to realize that the seed of your special vision is already shining through, recognizable pure, true and with your heart value. It's been like a timelapse to watch this video and to know how much you have grown, even becoming a nurturing mother at this period now. So empowering! And giving hope for all who feel like showing themselves in a humble way, letting themselves been seen and heard. I wish you the best!❤
There's nothing wrong of being alone...
Sometime I'm tired of people and situation. And need to be alone for a while.
Yours is a life of abundance isolation is homelessness; u have a beautiful soul and a quiet home to keep it. Thank u
I am always disconnected with people. Your place right now is heaven. I am soo jealous.
One step closer to God , peace you bring to my soul . Its 3 am the body is tired but your story gives my mind rest . Thank you
Sometimes your life glimpses move me to tears. 🥲
God bless you Cottagefairy. 🕊