04 Things On Which Middle Class Is Wasting Money

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  • @SangoLifeSutras
    @SangoLifeSutras  ปีที่แล้ว +70

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    • @kekabasu4706
      @kekabasu4706 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank u for thinking for middle class

    • @RenuSharma-ud5ep
      @RenuSharma-ud5ep ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate ur thoughts

    • @farisasayeda1170
      @farisasayeda1170 ปีที่แล้ว

      I respect u from my heart
      Ur each and every word is absolutely true

    • @soniasingh8057
      @soniasingh8057 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, it is very good information 👍

    • @varsharupani2302
      @varsharupani2302 ปีที่แล้ว

      But agar unko 5 lakh every year milega to zabardasti bhi to relationshhip mein rehna padega when one day when money will finish off they will takke divorce

  • @SachinRautSirMaths
    @SachinRautSirMaths ปีที่แล้ว +892

    4 things told are
    1. Purchase of unnecessary things Solution: Purchase on functional basis or need
    2. Education of graduation in private colleges
    Solution: Do small courses and improve in skills based on which you can earn
    3. Marriage function
    Solution: Perform marriage as per tradition with low budget and saved amount can be given to newly married couple so that they can get settled.
    4. Purchase assets like house/plot which is not used
    Solution: You may purchase 65%assest which can be given on rent. 35%for your personal use.

  • @arunimalamba8103
    @arunimalamba8103 ปีที่แล้ว +1833

    Proud to say that my parents (having 3 daughters)had educated us and spent minimal in our weddings, but supported us 100 percent when we had children, this was done 30 years ago

    • @eboyblackout
      @eboyblackout ปีที่แล้ว +24

      lucky you

    • @amansohani4620
      @amansohani4620 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Even after educating you, you have taken your parents money for wedding? You should be capable of managing your own expenses if you aren't doing court marrige. Considering you are educated so could have worked and saved for marrige. I am not blaming you, don't know your situation but this could be improved so parents can have money post retirement to complete their ambitions (like travelling etc.)

    • @mugdhanbapat
      @mugdhanbapat ปีที่แล้ว +79

      @@amansohani4620 Are you passing a judgment without knowing the complexities of life? Arunima ji was expressing how her parents were wise with such fondness.. try to understand her point of view and respect it. You might have more liberty and choices to lead a better informed life today. But don’t judge others without knowing their surroundings and situations. Try it. It helps you connect with people instead of spreading negativity. Best wishes!

    • @sharadsawant7641
      @sharadsawant7641 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks

    • @kaizhunter6954
      @kaizhunter6954 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      In wedding someone should not waste so much money, what people will think this that because of that people take loans .... bhaadh me jaaye relatives

  • @nitisirohi6236
    @nitisirohi6236 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I am young 33 ...and i have always aspired to have a company of a mature elderly like you .. hats off sir... Delight to hear you .

    • @shock-t3768
      @shock-t3768 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Like the way you said "young 33" instead of "33 years old."

    • @PS-oy1el
      @PS-oy1el ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@shock-t3768 because 33 y is still young, if hav worked hard in your 20s n working well. 1st reach that stage n then mock others.

    • @shock-t3768
      @shock-t3768 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@PS-oy1el Nobody is mocking anyone. I was praising him. I am 34 and have started working since 17. Learn English first before commenting..

    • @PS-oy1el
      @PS-oy1el ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shock-t3768 OK got it now.

    • @AP-vi4cj
      @AP-vi4cj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PS-oy1el I don't think he mocked you lol. He just pointed out how positive are you that you used 33years young instead of "old"😅 Nobody is old in 30s anyway.

  • @DEEPAKRD74
    @DEEPAKRD74 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This must be one of the best quotes I have heard in a long time on Middle Class Trap:
    Middle class people buy things they do not need from money that they do not have (loans/credits) to impress people who do not care and financed from a job that they do not like! - Sango Life Sutras.
    👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

  • @sunkidd9150
    @sunkidd9150 ปีที่แล้ว +633

    Since past 70 years, 3 generations of my family have been doing the things that you mention in this video. Unfortunately people find it nearly impossible to keep things simple & live within their means. My father a self-made man of immense accomplishments, internationally reputed engineer & having highest ethical standards gave me the following advice when I started my career:
    1. Don't do anything that will cause you loss of sleep when you are 65 years old because you cannot buy it.
    2. People will respect you for what you are, and not for that you have.
    3. Sustainability is the cause of happiness.
    4. Simple things in life are always enjoyed the most.
    5. Greed causes endless dissatisfaction & unhappiness
    6. Live upto your own expectations & not those of others

    • @sunkidd9150
      @sunkidd9150 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jyotivyas9286
      Thank you.

    • @gocrow23
      @gocrow23 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Feels like all wise man think alike. Same things my parents and elders told me and now growing up I find it all worth it.

    • @sunkidd9150
      @sunkidd9150 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gocrow23
      When destiny of the nation depend on 80 years of exercising judgement correctly, wisdom is key.

    • @abbasabdeali3239
      @abbasabdeali3239 ปีที่แล้ว

      The 6th one i live by each day thankfully:)

    • @HaramiMazboorMoulana
      @HaramiMazboorMoulana ปีที่แล้ว

      Sahi hai bhai

  • @AzharKhan-jh2ob
    @AzharKhan-jh2ob ปีที่แล้ว +586

    All valid points sir...The summary of the entire discussion is...We have a family to feed rather than a society to impress.

    • @sheilapandey6242
      @sheilapandey6242 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well said!

    • @amudupa
      @amudupa ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If people can understand this, then they will be much more happy and more content in life.

    • @Rajuraj-qo5tt
      @Rajuraj-qo5tt ปีที่แล้ว

      normal things every body knows them already 😂😂

    • @nasrinkhan8691
      @nasrinkhan8691 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Rajuraj-qo5tt no ...it isnot normal har ek ghodo ki daud meh laga hai ...sir has hit the pt straight..when u come to a certain platform all become equals wether u r educated abroad n spent a fortune

    • @siddiqurrehman6953
      @siddiqurrehman6953 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly.

  • @smi748
    @smi748 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    सच को विरोध झेलना होता है पर सच जिंदगी बदल देता है धन्यवाद सर् आपका

  • @salilsanghvi
    @salilsanghvi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Thank you for educating Indian middle class with your wisdom and learning. Me and my wife also believe in similar thought process. We have told same to our children and we are following all the 4 points that u have mentioned in your video. Also we have told them clearly that we will fund their education till graduation in India. But if they want to go for higher education abroad, then they have to take education loan and go on their own. This will give them sense of responsibility and putting load on them will make them more serious about their own life rather than spoon feeding them.

  • @divyanshgarg8409
    @divyanshgarg8409 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    1) School & College Hefty Fees
    2) Food at cybergub
    3) Expensive Gadgets
    4) Everything Best

  • @omnandita12
    @omnandita12 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    11 years ago, I had an extremely simple and minimalistic Bengali Wedding with no pomp and show , very few near and dear ones were invited that's all. All expenses paid by me( I am an English lecturer)and my husband ( Army Officer). My husband had no single demand. With God's grace we have already purchased our own house, have one son ( may God always bless him), travel to near by places of that of our postings and lead a simple life as much as possible. 🙏

    • @dhb702
      @dhb702 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Motivating & impressive. God bless you & your family !

    • @chayanikachowdhury8493
      @chayanikachowdhury8493 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I am also a Bengali women with simple lifestyle and very similar to yours. Now providing a simple lifestyle for my son too and trying to teach him life lessons rather than bookish lessons. Hope this would help all of us.

  • @mb-tm2hd
    @mb-tm2hd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    You are extremely right guru ji,,, I am from West Bengal, lower middle class family background, we are two sisters & my father invested lots of money on our higher education & wedding, but my brother in law lost his part of inheritance & house after 10 years of marriage, fortunately he had a job with less salary, my marriage also flopped in the same year & my father's business got crashed because of covid, my mother also in tuberculosis that year,,, I am still struggling to get a stable job,,, my father wanted me to marry for the 2nd time but I stopped him, because we had lost lots of resources now is the time to be stable again,,, but my parents are ageing very fast,,, now I have to face their foolish deeds...
    This was my story,,, my English is not so good,,, after watching your video, I found my decisions were right... Thank you guru ji...🙏🙏🙏

    • @loverebel6632
      @loverebel6632 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you just need a court marriag e, just find some good job so you can get married again .

  • @rajninegi53
    @rajninegi53 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is the best line I have heard.. People wasting money to buy products they don't need,with the money they don't have(loan) to impress people who don't care..

  • @ashutoshpandey4341
    @ashutoshpandey4341 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Sir, you missed one thing ---luxury car/ SUV. People are purchasing car in loans.

    • @felixmenezes2966
      @felixmenezes2966 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is covered in 1st point itself. If you are able to purchase 2 SUVs then go ahead with one

    • @newsjunkieish
      @newsjunkieish ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sirf cars nahi 20-25 lakh ki Gaadi aise log le rahe hai jinko annual income 25 lakh nahi hai.

    • @shilpathakkar1196
      @shilpathakkar1196 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@newsjunkieish yes iss sall navratri me maximum suv kia.,harrier ,creta bahut li he aaspas dikhti he zada loan 😁
      ghar 35 lac ka ☹️😏
      🤪salary 1 lac
      age grp 30 to 45

    • @newsjunkieish
      @newsjunkieish ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shilpathakkar1196 8-9 lakh upper limit hai 1 lakh ki salary wale ki loan par gadi afford karne ki. Isse mehngi car ka kya tuk hai? Aur property ka price appreciate karta hai, Gaadi ka depreciate. To Gaadi par itna kharcha kisliye?

    • @saswatmohanty8132
      @saswatmohanty8132 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agar 4 logon ka family ho aur kahin Jana ho city me to unko kya karna chahiye agar monetary problem ho toh

  • @rajivkrishna8287
    @rajivkrishna8287 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ಮಾಧ್ಯಮ ವರ್ಗದವರ ಆರ್ಥಿಕತೆಯ ಸಬಲತೆಯ ಕುರಿತು ತಾವು ಹೇಳಿರುವಂತಹ ಸೂಚನೆಗಳು ಮಧ್ಯಮ ವರ್ಗದವರ ಆರ್ಥಿಕತೆಯನ್ನು ಉತ್ತಮಪಡಿಸುವ ಮಾತುಗಳು... 👌👌👌 ಸತ್ಯವಾಗಿವೆ..

  • @shrijitnair5386
    @shrijitnair5386 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for making such important video of the middle class. Totally spot on and deff will help this generation!!

  • @JagiChan
    @JagiChan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very true. Especially in North India, marriages are celebrated like it is the last day of life. I agree that we should follow our traditions. 🙏 I got married in a traditional South Indian style, low key wedding with only core members of our families. No "sosha giri of any kind"; we saved the money and brought things to start our life. Thanks for such eye opening videos; these kinds of videos are the necessity for today's youth. I enjoy listening to the way you put things in perspective. Good luck and please keep making such videos. God bless India.

  • @nickraja17
    @nickraja17 ปีที่แล้ว +702

    Delhi k middle class wale jitna shadiyon mein paise uda dete hai utna agar sahi se invest kare to har saal ek foreign tour ho jaye

    • @Rahul-ko1oy
      @Rahul-ko1oy ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Fir court marriage krleni chaiye

    • @sunitization
      @sunitization ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Delhi ke log to 1 lac salary hoti hai 1.5 crore ka flat lete hai which does not makes sense.

    • @surajm4547
      @surajm4547 ปีที่แล้ว

      This channel is gradually becoming anti-middle class by blaming them. The fact is that the political parties are ignoring the middle-class who don't have a voice. Unlike other sections like farmers, businessmen, street vendors, auto-drivers and such labour unions. NOBODY IS SCARED OF THE MIDDLE-CLASS!

    • @nickraja17
      @nickraja17 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@Rahul-ko1oy ye to couples ki marji, court marriage karni hai ya reeti riwaz k sath.
      Par normal shaadi aaram se 3 4 lakh mein ho sakti hai.
      Aarya samaj se karoge to 10 15 hazar mein hi nipat jaoge

    • @kanikagupta5606
      @kanikagupta5606 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Toh aisa kaha kaha invest kre.

  • @somrajgupta7603
    @somrajgupta7603 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    In 2016 I got married. Being an orphan I had to arrange the fund of my own, my budget was only 4lakhs marriage was done by inviting 270 people, with proper rituals and photography and now I feel so blessed I didn't felt for any emotional and image wala need 😝🙏

    • @bacchanmaan6198
      @bacchanmaan6198 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kya Gupta ji aap bhi koi bhi Kuchh Bole aap uska hisab Kitab dene lag jaate ho kya jarurat hai Hamen ine Logon ke yah baten batane ki yah to vaise hi time pass ke liye Jo manmarji aata hai vah likh Dete Hain

    • @debayanchatterjeesarkar5770
      @debayanchatterjeesarkar5770 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      U spent enough, that's quite huge....

    • @talwindersingh3721
      @talwindersingh3721 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I got married in 2019 and we spent only 5 to 5.5 lacs, no unwanted kharcha.

    • @sujata08
      @sujata08 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I spent 110k in 2020. Only 150 guests, no purchase of new gold ornaments, no decoration.Only one dress for each two of us.

    • @talwindersingh3721
      @talwindersingh3721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sujata08 theek e korle mam

  • @simones4001
    @simones4001 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Awesome content!People from all over the world should follow this advice.Thank u for guiding the society in the right direction.❤❤

    • @SangoLifeSutras
      @SangoLifeSutras  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @hindusherni100
    @hindusherni100 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Sir, in my family relation, there is one known relative, they live in Chhatarpur area of Delhi.
    They are highly rich and cultured people,
    They had spent 2.5 crores in their daughter’s grand wedding. Every thing was so smooth. People took it as an ideal wedding.
    Parents of the bride thought it to be the best gift for their daughter.
    But nobody knew that this great grand wedding would not be able to last even for 10 months !!
    क्या करेंगे इतने करोड़ रुपया देकर जब आपकी beti ही ख़ुश नहीं हैं??😢
    Now their daughter is crying day and night to get a divorce, but she isn’t able to .
    She is suffering day and night .
    I don’t understand why people anticipate that spending more and more money will guarantee a happy and successful and satisfied life ,
    Rather than focusing on a happy and satisfied life for their children.

    • @afreenbanu13667
      @afreenbanu13667 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Such cases should be breaking news n media should highlight the use of money and how a matter can be handled but in this case in seriously feel bad for the bride and their family😢

    • @dhirendrajha8432
      @dhirendrajha8432 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      समय के अनुरूप आपका चिंतन है धन्यवाद

  • @andromeda2950
    @andromeda2950 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    All four points are absolutly valid... Marraige vs wedding is terrific distinguishing concept.... ये तो meine घरं में बोलके रखा हू... कि मै खुद कि बच्ची के शादी मै ऑऊ नही अगर फालतू का खरच्या कारोंगे... And annuity payment to them is best concept.... Perform, zagda maat karo aur phir bonus ke hakdar banno... Sir hats off... 👌🏻👌🏻... Aaj hi ye mei ghar mei discuss karunga.... Thank you so much.

  • @harshawardhantalegaonkar9162
    @harshawardhantalegaonkar9162 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    I recently attended a marriage in Assam,
    They very warm welcome of guest with tambool by new couple.
    All marrige arrangements were at home .
    Food was tasty and timing was 1 pm to 8 pm ( note that sunset time is 5 pm here )
    No show off
    People were very well dressed and disciplined
    Being north indian (marathi by roots ) it was good to see
    Also all rituals were being followed
    Earlier Marathi people ,specially those who migrated from Maharashtra during princely states ( MP UP Telangana Gujarat) used to celebrate Marriage ceremony in simpler way
    Now being attracted towards bollywood style ;fomo affected celebrations

    • @green.frugal.minimalist1316
      @green.frugal.minimalist1316 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Thanks for your comment on Assamese marriage style. Here both families of bride and groom spent their own money on functions so no showoff on other's money. Love from Assam.

    • @Paradise7998
      @Paradise7998 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yes we people from northeast do not spend too much on weddings.

    • @Paradise7998
      @Paradise7998 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It is better to marry in a temple rather than spending lots of money in decoration and foods.

    • @mayurpatil7784
      @mayurpatil7784 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      you are right ,i used to like north Indian weddings big grand weddings, but lately, i feel OLD fashioned marathi weddings or simpler wedding are more better! and look more beautiful.

    • @newsjunkieish
      @newsjunkieish ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Marriage should be absolutely simple. No pomp and show. Yes, celebrate with people who matter. Family, friends, and some other people who matter. Food should be good and tasty. Focus on enjoying your special together. That's all. All this money spent on marriage venues, lehengas, fancy catering is just useless.

  • @bhimangowdalaxmi8679
    @bhimangowdalaxmi8679 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All four ways of avoiding/ destruction of wealth are well addressed. Will definitely try to implement all Four...

  • @sharmilamelwani2585
    @sharmilamelwani2585 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic eye opener video - Thank you for bringing this up . Could relate 500%

  • @vikramadityasingh295
    @vikramadityasingh295 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    My father wanted to buy a car, but i suggested him to built 2nd storey of our house. Today we have rented that accomodation and paying us. Today we are in a position to emi with our car and it is automated.

    • @SangoLifeSutras
      @SangoLifeSutras  ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Good thing you did

    • @anantsingh8078
      @anantsingh8078 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why not use that EMI to build another storey?

    • @priyankapattanaik5414
      @priyankapattanaik5414 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bhai...har parents apne bachoon ki nahi sunte 🙏

    • @vikramadityasingh295
      @vikramadityasingh295 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anantsingh8078 As I told you we were in a position to buy a car. It means money was available.

    • @munnimathur9000
      @munnimathur9000 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why you didn't suggested him to buy a land instead in native place returns would have been far better

  • @KeshavKumar-lg4hs
    @KeshavKumar-lg4hs ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏🙏
    You are the real guru
    Never seen such a gyanvardhak video elsewhere
    Respect from the bottom of my heart...

  • @rajat4640rajat
    @rajat4640rajat ปีที่แล้ว

    Perfect !! These were also my thoughts that you revealed. Thanks, Sir. !!

  • @joejoe9566
    @joejoe9566 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This area is not generally discussed in Indian homes. We Appreciate your efforts to explain this topic in a balanced way.

  • @jaikumararora9541
    @jaikumararora9541 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Subconsciously we all knew these points. Thanks for underlining these aspects. These things need more recognition but its not said because there is no commercial value for spreading this clarity. Many business will get affected if such awareness is spread

    • @jaykashyap_
      @jaykashyap_ ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We don't have to worry about other people business,they are not our responsibility but our family is.

  • @PrinceGupta-fb8ou
    @PrinceGupta-fb8ou 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great knowledge sir I was listening to the big financial influencers but today I got real one you are delivering so authentic sides of middle class trap

  • @mparmar82
    @mparmar82 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really Eye opener and its 100% True. Keep guiding Sir. Thank you. leave those who are criticizing.

  • @RahulYadav-yq4gi
    @RahulYadav-yq4gi ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Middle class series is going out of the park..great👍🏻

  • @saradavemuri4535
    @saradavemuri4535 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Much needed video Sir...false prestige is increasing at an alarming rate

  • @Ri-Action
    @Ri-Action ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I graduated from a collage where my fee was 45k per year (45x3 years)in 2020,
    In Dec 2022 I have 10+ LPA package, so I completely agree that fancy collages don't mean anything. Just get your degree skill up and start working.

    • @OmPrakash-ie7sh
      @OmPrakash-ie7sh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bhai kon se college se the

    • @priyabharatahlawat254
      @priyabharatahlawat254 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      भाई कौनसा कोर्स किया था give suggestions for knowledge tell us please

    • @merakhudkachannel6620
      @merakhudkachannel6620 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bhai mera iim amritsar me mba ke liye selection hua hai aur fees approx 19lakh hai, kya lagta hai paise waste ho rha hai mera?

    • @merakhudkachannel6620
      @merakhudkachannel6620 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@OmPrakash-ie7sh abhi to filhal kuch nahi karta

    • @OmPrakash-ie7sh
      @OmPrakash-ie7sh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@merakhudkachannel6620 agar admission na le raha to bank ka form bhar de abhi aya hua hai rrb ka. Cat phoda hai tune Tera bank aaram se ho jayega

  • @sukhdeeps1
    @sukhdeeps1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Only a father like figure tells u these life changing lessons .....i losed my father wen i was in 10th ....tnx u so much

  • @SuradkarTushar
    @SuradkarTushar ปีที่แล้ว +170

    You are ahead of your times, Ji. Most people will realize these things after a long time. Each of your line is worth a video. So much wisdom packed here, only if people have the capacity to comprehend. People have to slow down in life to appreciate what you are saying, and this exactly is not seem happening.

    • @flyingtiger741
      @flyingtiger741 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Everyone knows this bro, no rocket science. Problem is Fear, Greed overpowers.

    • @redcybercafe5159
      @redcybercafe5159 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice amazing 👍 speechless

    • @SuradkarTushar
      @SuradkarTushar ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@flyingtiger741 bro, but not everyone has the courage and fairness to appreciate an excellent video. Do you have?

    • @kokabtasleem281
      @kokabtasleem281 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I realised all this stuff at the age of 25.

  • @sanjayhatote2853
    @sanjayhatote2853 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This is really an eye opener for every individual and for not only middle classes but for every human being.
    Thank you very much Sir..

  • @ramanbehal267
    @ramanbehal267 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bahut Shukria Sir
    Eye opening Content. Will try to implement all 4

  • @abhiraj.sharma
    @abhiraj.sharma ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Feeling really great that I convinced my father to get me into some nearby college instead of fancy ones (VIT, Amity). I worked on my skills and got a decent job right after college. Bought a samsung phone instead of apple. I'm now confused between working abroad or starting something of my own in India.

    • @yuvi1823
      @yuvi1823 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think you should work abroad before starting your own business with strict mindset of. I will use my experience to build my business, it will be awesome if you are same industry which u want to build business, work abroad because there work culture is awesome, Ha also don't waste much money EVEN for working in abroad calculation might disturb if things don't go according to your plans.

    • @abhiraj.sharma
      @abhiraj.sharma ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yuvi1823 Yes Sir, thanks for the info. I'm planning the same now. Actually, my boss also followed the same strategy, started a business out of niche technology he was working in. I'm hoping to do same, but I also have interest in opening a physical shops (more like a dream). Maybe cause I've seen some of my friends opening up cafés, etc.

    • @balasubramanian2188
      @balasubramanian2188 ปีที่แล้ว

      Surely, you will do well in life because your thought process is very clear. ❤

    • @MrKishoreshruti
      @MrKishoreshruti ปีที่แล้ว

      Apna kaam start kr lo fir abroad chale Jana u will gain more that's what I did.

    • @HumbleMan78
      @HumbleMan78 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yuvi1823 completely agree with you..

  • @jadvani8918
    @jadvani8918 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Fantastic lesson.... Must to watch for everyone... not only middle class people but also the Rich people need to understand the lesson... Thank-you very much sir... God Bless you 🙏

  • @vishaltarale3754
    @vishaltarale3754 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    One of my officemate have done MBA, paid fees of 10 lakh. And her first salary was 30,000/- per month.
    And I have done MBA from distance learning, paid fees of 40,000/- only.
    I earn good in my life to support my comfortable life.
    One of my friend spent 3 lakh rs on modular kitchen. And I buy a used but very nice condition kitchen trolley at 8,000/- 😂.
    Use and satisfaction is same for both of us. After one year nobody ask whether your kitchen trolleys are brand new or secondhand 😂😂

    • @ashishtanwar9748
      @ashishtanwar9748 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gazab, tum toh garda utha diye re 😂

    • @indigodream56
      @indigodream56 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      From which college did you do distance MBA

  • @hanikhan7718
    @hanikhan7718 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aapse behtar koi nhi samjha sakta tha ye saare points. Well said sir 😊

  • @siddharthjoshi6811
    @siddharthjoshi6811 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am in my 20s. And I agree with Sir on tese points. Quite practical and explained in really very simple and entertaining way.

  • @abhijoydas4478
    @abhijoydas4478 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    70 Lakh ki shaddi. 70 din ke liye. 😅
    This is the best one liner of 2022. 👍

  • @solutionsbyshaileshsir9597
    @solutionsbyshaileshsir9597 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank god , I found someone who matches with my thinking.

  • @naimakhan2274
    @naimakhan2274 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fantastic video.. eye opener and worth implementing

  • @IamRahul_007
    @IamRahul_007 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dhamekedaaaaaaar Mazzza Aa Gaya, Amit Ji! 🧨🔥🧨 Please make Part-2 of this Middle Class Reality Check Videos ♥️

  • @soumidey2171
    @soumidey2171 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Love you sir..feeling like my father's advice..actually I lost him at 16yrs ,thank you soooo much for your valuable advice..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @harenderbhati7374
    @harenderbhati7374 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    From the Grandfather generation onwards we are following these idea upto 90%, Expect that we are not limited to inviting people's who are our blood relations only but also our other real social relationships to whom which we give respect from out heart and not just to showoff and we feel is necessary . No showoff on any function. Ek kahavat hamare dada ji ne humko sikhai thi ki " जितनी चादर हो उतने ही पैर हमको पैर फैलाने चाहिये " Sadar Dhanyad Sir Ji for you valuable thoughts as these are very much required to live a stress free life upto some extent. 🙏🙏

  • @shantaviborkar3325
    @shantaviborkar3325 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All are on point ,guruji.! Started implementing also.

  • @udayjoshi1944
    @udayjoshi1944 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir, your four things discussed are really important where middle class has to concentrate. Thanks a lot.

  • @takdirsingh8537
    @takdirsingh8537 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great service to society and Country. Hats off to you Amit ji. JAI HIND JAI BHARAT VANDEMATRAM

  • @LION-jr6if
    @LION-jr6if ปีที่แล้ว +245

    From Pakistan, truly appreciate your suggestions. Hearing the problems in India, I was shocked, we share 90% of identical problems, wow. Your advice n suggestions were very relevant n useful. Couldn't agree more. Projecting Fake Image of a rich person, has doomed us all. Simplicity n real worth realization, is the key, unfortunately replaced by lies n deception. I wish u well sir, for pouring some sense in our lives. keep smiling 😃

    • @sarlapurohit1216
      @sarlapurohit1216 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Fully agreed with you, both countries share same social, economic and cultural backgrounds 😊

    • @CBala-te1yu
      @CBala-te1yu ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@sarlapurohit1216
      Not cultural background 🤮

    • @mkalerfilms3349
      @mkalerfilms3349 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hindu pak both jindabad

    • @LION-jr6if
      @LION-jr6if ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@mkalerfilms3349 Hindustan Pakistan zindabad

    • @geebees1545
      @geebees1545 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes indeed, we have same mindset and share same cultural aspects

  • @kyanand
    @kyanand หลายเดือนก่อน

    I will implement all of them... Thanks for the insights...

  • @sudhirkochunni6781
    @sudhirkochunni6781 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It was so motivating... Very true... And very well explained.... I cent percent agree with whatever u said Sir.... Thank you so much for this eyeopener

  • @ramanpal81us
    @ramanpal81us ปีที่แล้ว +179

    You've spoken my mind. As I look back the spending that my parents & in laws had done for my marriage I feel myself guilty of letting them do so. I've taken a resolution to have minimum spending on marriage of my kids. At the same time want this to be no more a taboo. I am so glad someone is speaking what I have been planning.

    • @sheetalrahurikar12
      @sheetalrahurikar12 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My father is still paying off loan that he took for my marriage. I wish I was strong enough to say no at that time.

    • @aditidwivedi6719
      @aditidwivedi6719 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sheetalrahurikar12 Are you a guy? Then how come your father had to bear the wedding expenses?

    • @ravindraupadhyay6255
      @ravindraupadhyay6255 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I spent only 50k in my marriage 😅.

    • @PraveenKumar-lk4to
      @PraveenKumar-lk4to ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ravindraupadhyay6255 aapne lockdown me ki hogi shadi.

  • @smartertogetherwithai
    @smartertogetherwithai ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Sango- it is so heartening to see common sense being verbalised. bravo. keep it coming.

  • @ShivamKumar-dm4eg
    @ShivamKumar-dm4eg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I begged to monther in law and wife not spend so much in the wedding. And i denied for anygift for me. Still they invited 350 people arrived only150. And spent alot to make show sha and now they're paying debts. Same time after roka i bought a flat on my fiance and my name (70%loan). And bought good gold before 6month of the marriage. And even my sherwani was on rent. I saved most of my corpus for me and my wife. But i think jb koi kuch khe rha ho to sunlo young genration utni bhi c nahi jitni lagti h

  • @rahulchoray9362
    @rahulchoray9362 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bahut hi accha laga charo cheeje bahut hi mast lagi hum bhi Aisa hi sochte hai hamari family ko bhi samjhate hai ki itna Paisa shadi pe kharch mat Karo baccho ke baad main kaam aayega lakin sare rishtedaar hamko hi kanjus samjhate hai hamare do bacche hai ek beta or ek beti or hum dono husbend wife isi tarah se sochte hai thank u sir ye batane ke liye ab hamko lagta hai ki hum Jo bhi sochte hai wo sahi sochte hai abhi hamare bacche 8th class main hai hum isi tarah se jivan main kaam karenge thank u so much

  • @sgsm100
    @sgsm100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very important lesson and eye opener, thanks 🙏🏻

  • @arijitghosh5064
    @arijitghosh5064 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Absolutely in line with the thoughts. All the Four should be implemented. Awesome video. Society brands a person thinking on these lines as unorthodox & a non societal. The moment we can come out of that mental logjam of perception of others, life can be as simple as explained. Thanks Sir for the lovely & intellectual insights 👍

  • @occultandspiritualknowledg8311
    @occultandspiritualknowledg8311 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sabhi idea implements karenge , thank you so much for this video

  • @user-wr8gc8vo6m
    @user-wr8gc8vo6m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All four i will follow, thanks again for your valuable time, knowledge, advice, and efforts 🙏

  • @neoklenz
    @neoklenz ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Perfect guidance with 100% practical solutions.
    Thank You 🙏🏻

  • @khirudgoha7312
    @khirudgoha7312 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    sir, my child is growing and very much impressed by your vision of economics. Lookin forward for more content.

  • @latarani5497
    @latarani5497 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All suggestions are very practical and straight forward.we will surely follow them all👍

  • @meenakini556
    @meenakini556 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's very true, I agree 100%👌
    But alas, unfortunately now it's beyond my control as I'm helpless in family decisions. Surely good message to each one from middle class people 👌👌👌

  • @jagadishradder6679
    @jagadishradder6679 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sir Ji, best and highly valuable talk. Actually all class people should listen to your words. No second thought. I really love and believe your advice and words.Your's is Great Service to Society

  • @SwiftlyScrumptious
    @SwiftlyScrumptious ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I agree with all the points you mentioned! I am surprised to see people ( with middle class earnings) spend so much on branded clothing, shoes and electronics , cars, jewelry, luxury vacations etc. They take loans so easily and practically are living pay check to pay check. And the college expenses part is so true. College is a big business all over the world, and we should invest wisely after thorough research. Give your kids a good educational foundation, and teach them the value of hard work and money, that’s most important in my opinion.

  • @ameypatil5517
    @ameypatil5517 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hi sangwan sir...i really find your videos very helpful and you always bring a new perspective unlike what society projects...thanks a lot sir...keep up the good work...n i generally don't comment on videos even if i find them good ...but you've earned my respect sir ❤

  • @SoundisEverything-we3gr
    @SoundisEverything-we3gr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Real eye-opener. I'll do all 4, Thank you Sir

  • @iamjuan007
    @iamjuan007 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Bro This guy is Brutal AF ❤😂 I wish he was my relative 😂😂😂

  • @suman3316
    @suman3316 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    M 30 about to get.. married and this video has eye opening....My humble thankyou sir

  • @abhinavbajpai988
    @abhinavbajpai988 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thorough professional/practical knowledge.......Stupendous

  • @ashasharma7412
    @ashasharma7412 ปีที่แล้ว

    Highly appreciable video. Thanks and regards.

  • @culturedman2760
    @culturedman2760 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really like how you used the knowledge from books and made this video so relatable to middle class... Nice content sir.

  • @maximahoro8970
    @maximahoro8970 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    As a 65yo Retired-Babu I entirely agree with you. I am a Retired IAS-Officer, who understood this as a 25yo

    • @anubhavtyagi2
      @anubhavtyagi2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sir IAS officers ka ghar to industrialists vagrh he chla dete hai unhe kya jrurat financial planning ki. Not commenting on you but generally.

    • @maximahoro8970
      @maximahoro8970 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@anubhavtyagi2 Completely agree, Guruji, and that's the vast majority these days. I quit after 20+ years, after I realized that an IAS-Officer assist in Dhandaa of politicians and NOT "Service, as per Constitution-of-India" for which UPSC selected us.....

    • @maximahoro8970
      @maximahoro8970 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shrishri8898 whatever being generally suggested in this clip

    • @jayashribharambe5612
      @jayashribharambe5612 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anubhavtyagi2 true

    • @ManishKumar-ed3lt
      @ManishKumar-ed3lt ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ye ias ne hi to desh lo loota h tabi desh ka naas hua h. Liability hote h ye desh par

  • @letsdraw7621
    @letsdraw7621 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very practical video. Liked the content very much. Thank you Sir

  • @niveditakaranjai6886
    @niveditakaranjai6886 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Too good. Direct from heart. Genius analysis. We all know, but never analyse it to such depth.

  • @xvliwov
    @xvliwov ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I am so glad that I share the same views as you sir.
    I try explaining my relatives to be careful on their spends, but they hardly listen. My brother is a spendthrift who spends 90 percent of his earnings on clothes, shoes, watches, mobiles etc.
    My father in law has lot of loans yet he invites 500 people on my sister in laws wedding. He recently passed away leaving no tangible assets and his family at the mercy of his brothers. He sold all his properties and was of the view that we should live our life well and not think about future generations.

    • @zeesworld3371
      @zeesworld3371 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s sometime pocking the wrong hole with them.. I had gone threw this for years with my friends family’s where they find them self lower to do some jobs or do things ..

    • @haaland9997
      @haaland9997 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      His life his wish, if he lived happily its fine

  • @kamaleshbhowmik7103
    @kamaleshbhowmik7103 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Totally agree with you, all 4 topics are correctly identified, and you put it very straight 👍

  • @vijaymurgod1647
    @vijaymurgod1647 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are Robinhood for Vulnerable people like us 😊Thank you so much 🙏🌹

  • @2222sharu
    @2222sharu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir I found 1st person who is honestly providing opinion . We middle class need to change.

  • @MrAKNIGAM
    @MrAKNIGAM ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Excellent.
    My father was teacher and he inculcated values which 100% matches with your views.
    My son is also following the same.
    Thanks a lot for strengthening my family values.

  • @dr.upendraparida4277
    @dr.upendraparida4277 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Practical reflection.Heart felt thanks for your timely suggestions to maintain the economy of middle class.

  • @coffeehouse4886
    @coffeehouse4886 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sir your opening speech is fantastic. I seriously follow you & like your intelligence & practical approach to life..👏👏

  • @harimohansharma3393
    @harimohansharma3393 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aapne mere najariya badal dia .... Dhanyavad Sir

  • @babypattanayak6393
    @babypattanayak6393 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Excellent perspective indeed. Very few of us realize these things and get carried away in showing off and trying to match up a false status level which is of no use. Sir your inputs are valuable and realistic. We the middle class should be live to these thoughts and use our efforts and earnings carefully. Thanks a ton.

  • @graman4378
    @graman4378 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Great Video ! I am fully in agreement with all the 4 things you have explained.. Though I am financially very well off, .I spent very little for my marriage... I regret that it failed but I never had to regret the financial aspect of it cuz I never spent much money on it... In fact, for the education I have been trying to convince my kid stuying in 12th Std. to either go for Govt. college (if meritorious) or simply do a BSc ... (instead of wasting money in Pvt. Colleges)... I really hope my other family members come into agreement on my thoughts as otherwise I will have to WASTE money which I never wish to.... I have been following the principles mentioned in your video throughout my life.. I want to tell you that I only purchase what i require.. For example, I never purchased even a 2 wheeler since I never felt the need for a personal vehicle at the place where I live.. I find public and private 'rental' transport much cheaper and convenient.... I have only a simple feature phone (cuz I don't require a smartphone) ..However I have given my kid a smartphone (cuz my kid requires it ) ... Can go on and on ... I loved your video .. I really hope all the middle class people see this video and imbibe your thinking in their daily lives ....Bahut dino ke baad koi mile jo mere jaise sochthey hain ...Thank you very much ...

    • @GarudAtma
      @GarudAtma 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      see whether a young boy interested in studies or he is burning himself out just for scoring good just in school exams. If the latter then even after passing from govt college with a degree, he will cuss you and drank himself to death cause of depression

  • @sudipmitra292
    @sudipmitra292 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fortunately I am covered in all the grounds. Thanks sir.

  • @zafarahsan4157
    @zafarahsan4157 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very practical. Thanks

  • @SUMIT-qu7ul
    @SUMIT-qu7ul ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very useful suggestions for parents and youth. Thank you so much uncleji for imparting this kinda knowledge.

  • @rameshkumaryathirajyam9819
    @rameshkumaryathirajyam9819 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Agreed , no need of huge spending on marriages. Assets also rightly said build in parcel and pieces. Disposal is also easy . Education rightly said get skill development short term courses. High employability, Upgrade yourself every 3 to 5 yrs. the Annuity gift concept is Suprr Uncle. This is really a surprise Bonus/ Reward .😊

  • @pm_ind5572
    @pm_ind5572 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wisdom given....So true. Thanks sir

  • @ravinegi2749
    @ravinegi2749 ปีที่แล้ว

    बहुत ही शानदार जानकारी 🙏🙏🙏 हार्दिक धन्यवाद सर

  • @frnd4741
    @frnd4741 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Sachi Baat hamesha kadvi hi hote hai"..👍👏

  • @shivaniraghuvanshi7019
    @shivaniraghuvanshi7019 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Really appreciate your efforts in making these eye opener videos .Thankyou sir🙌

  • @whatmattersmostiseducation4312
    @whatmattersmostiseducation4312 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    1. Focus on utility. 2. Never waste resources. 3. Think long-term before any investment. 4. Follow one in, one out. 5. Create asset(s) which can generate cash flows rather than consume your cash. 6. Invest in Health, Education. 7. Desist falling a prey to social pressures.

  • @viveknaik7977
    @viveknaik7977 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Worth pondering and implementing sir... Indepth experienced based contemplation... Thanks