I Went to Couples Therapy (ft. Orna Guralnik)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 มิ.ย. 2024
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    Join Alex in the studio for an insightful interview with esteemed couples therapist, Dr. Orna Guralnik. Orna explains what to expect in couples therapy, when it’s the right time for you and your partner to go, and why there should be no shame in working on your relationship. They discuss how to have healthy disagreements, what a “lived in” relationship looks like, and how there’s usually more to an argument than meets the eye. Alex even opens up and reveals things about herself and her relationship that she’s never spoken about publicly before including her decision to go to couples therapy. Then, Orna gives some of her best tips for how to communicate your wants and needs in the bedroom and what role sex plays in a healthy relationship. Finally, they talk about the psychology behind why people are drawn to toxic relationships and ultimately stay in situations that don’t benefit them. Enjoy!
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ความคิดเห็น • 33

  • @abbeyparris6243
    @abbeyparris6243 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Oh where is Orna's book and self-narrated Audible? She is so incredible.

  • @tristonrobinson2243
    @tristonrobinson2243 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I love Dr. Orna and the way she gets comfortable and cozy by take her shoes off her feet curled on the couch.

  • @TheoneandonlyRAH
    @TheoneandonlyRAH 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this is great work well done

  • @cernuros
    @cernuros หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I feel the interviewer is speaking more (a lot more) than the interviewe.

    • @letstalkmovies247
      @letstalkmovies247 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      she's a therapist, they talk less, but drop gems

  • @user-rg5ig1yf5u
    @user-rg5ig1yf5u หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    the answer is that someone's behavior towards you reinforces your prior beliefs about yourself. if you have low self esteem, even if you imagine you have very high self esteem, and you respond positively to bad behavior, this low self image is reinforced.
    additionally, there is a sense of conquest if you are chasing or accepting bad behavior from a man, because you imagine if he can afford to behave this way, then he must have other options and is fine leaving you. this sense of detachment is actually very attractive and intoxicating, but once you are confident in your own desirability it will lose its shine

  • @Alexandra-rs3rr
    @Alexandra-rs3rr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    your best guest yet!

  • @FishareFriendsNotFood972
    @FishareFriendsNotFood972 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I LOVE Dr. Orna, I am so excited she's on the podcast!

  • @DrMamawahBourque
    @DrMamawahBourque หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    @doctorviviana talked about this in her book "The 4 Intimacy Styles"! I totally agree you should have her on!

  • @PNWTravels
    @PNWTravels 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The hell its 11:30pm on a Tuesday 😂

  • @personablecyclone655
    @personablecyclone655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Nah because this is so important to hear. Everyone judges people in abusive relationships that stay. We don’t know how to leave. We have no one to leave too because the people that raised us are the reason we are in these adult abusive relationships. I can’t escape.

    • @Last_Chance.
      @Last_Chance. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I will take you in.

    • @rubypetralli
      @rubypetralli 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can. Have more faith in your beautiful self. You have strength

    • @personablecyclone655
      @personablecyclone655 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rubypetralli yoooooo u a real life immoral have fun with that lol

    • @personablecyclone655
      @personablecyclone655 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not everyone is meant to be the main character. Not everyone is meant to memorable

  • @vanessamoreno5956
    @vanessamoreno5956 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    LOVE HER

  • @Noneblue39
    @Noneblue39 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I like this more of a psychology analysis

  • @bballgal5480
    @bballgal5480 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    EMDR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @katelyngilley5894
    @katelyngilley5894 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wish Alex would have let Dr Orna speak more. I feel like Dr Orna’s perception of Alex probably changed a bit after this interview. In the first interview with her Alex was listening more to what Dr. Orna had to say and now she’s lucky to even get a word in lol

  • @distrologic2925
    @distrologic2925 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Its playing games

  • @user-qg6rv4pg4g
    @user-qg6rv4pg4g หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Interviewer seems to know more and talk more than the doctor? Ugh, so annoying like be quiet and listen

  • @steveknick1978
    @steveknick1978 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A - because you grew up experiencing something toxic between your parents & you're repeating it
    B - because some kind of abuse happened at a formative age & that messed up your radar for other people
    That probably covers 95% of the women that have this issue. You seek out more of what you KNOW, & if what you know is messed up, you'll find yourself in more messed up situations.

  • @treesoul00
    @treesoul00 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s comfortable 🤷🏼‍♀️
    pointless details lol my dad was skilled, technical and emotionless and treated me like a loyal puppy that he liked having tag along silently to see him fix things. That’s what I like. My hubby is needy, talks a lot and wants me to be his therapist and I’m just like... no. I prefer the cold 🥶 relationship. I wish my hubby would find someone else. I felt betrayed by my dad for saying yes to my hubby, saying it was gods will. Instead of respecting me to be the analytical loner I want to be. In my culture girls didn’t get to pick, I’m atheist now lol. Idk if that’s toxic more like... autism I guess 💀🖤 or maybe being the other side of my hubby’s journey to fix himself. If we divorced I’d forget everything about him. I’m not a narcissist I just, don’t have a need to care like that. Each person is their own responsibility.

    • @tristonrobinson2243
      @tristonrobinson2243 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The best comfortable and cozy podcast interview with Dr. Orna who took her platform slides shoes off and I'm obsessed with the celebrity who gets comfy and cozy, and I'm autistic about it every time.

    • @ExecutionStyleInc
      @ExecutionStyleInc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds to me like your just trash

  • @alixander9401
    @alixander9401 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No fucking way!!!

  • @sweetpeaLp7
    @sweetpeaLp7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i had gotten involved in toxic relationships because i didnt know my self worth, not because i was trying to re-enact bad situations. psychoanalytical=outdated

    • @daynaw11
      @daynaw11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That’s the point of psychoanalysis. Lack of self worth is rooted in trauma usually and you would have to analyze your psyche to figure that out.

    • @ihavethots1261
      @ihavethots1261 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      your inability to understand the subconscious has been studied.

  • @user-uu6wz5lt6f
    @user-uu6wz5lt6f 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    God help the deeply broken women who cope with this insane podcast.

    • @sweetpeaLp7
      @sweetpeaLp7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      booooooo

  • @ThePoleRoomPlays
    @ThePoleRoomPlays หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Could you have @doctorviviana on your show!!!?