Some of these comments are weird. We haven't seen your boyfriend, and we know nothing about him, except that he makes you happy. One bad relationship doesn't mean that all your relationships are doomed. You're a smart young woman who is moving on with her life and not allowing the past to ruin the future.xx
@oranjmusemeyer968 I'm judging by her past relationships. A quick jump into living together or marrying quickly usually doesn't work for most couples. You don't even know one another yet. You were lucky.
When I got married I decided to keep my condo and rent it out. I'm so glad I did. Not only is it perfect for us to settle when we"re older. Also, the rent is a nice source of income. Property ownership can also be a good way to save for retirement as well.
That's great for you but unfortunately the housing market has drastically changed in the recent years. It now takes two full-time incomes to pay for one modest home. Keeping an extra home as a rental property isn't a possibility most people have anymore. People can't even afford groceries anymore. Maybe you live in a very low cost of living area where houses are cheap. I'm sure we all would love to have investment properties for rental potential, but most of the middle class can't afford this. Things aren't how they used to be.
@kellyj817 LOL! I live in California! EVERYTHING is expensive here! We're averaging $4.88 per gallon for gas! It was $6.32 per gallon last year! Thank goodness it went down! Let's not get into the price of everyday necessities! $6.50 for a dozen eggs! If you prefer organic, you're looking at $9 for a dozen! I bought my condo in 2004. I got married and found renters for my condo in 2014. My husband and I bought a home together that same year. I'm very much aware times are harder than they were 10-20 years ago. No matter where you live, everyone's situation and financial well-being are different. I think it's wonderful Elise was able to buy her 1st home one her own. It's a wonderful feeling I can relate to. There's no harm in people making suggestions as long as they are respectful.
@EliseBuch I'm sorry that you may be feeling attacked and/or judged in this comments section. I merely asked a question. A question that I would ask to anyone who owns a house as a single person. My comment was about setting yourself up for financial prosperity. I like your content and I wish you all the best.
Is so hard to share your life online. Every tell is a risk. Thanks for being so brave and sharing yourself with others… you are a bright light and an inspiration. I support whatever choices you make because I believe you are an intelligent and determined woman and you will find your way no matter what. Keep being true to you!!
I agree, and will share with you, beautiful Elise, what I share with my two beautiful daughters, no matter who you fall in love with, they must add and enhance the lives you should build first for yourself. You have done that Elise, so if he enhances your beautifully crafted life, then my heart is full for you. Just remember you were born an individual and God meant for each of us to fulfill our true purpose. Don’t lose yourself in another human. Be who he fell in love with, always!❤
Not all couples turn into horror stories. My husband and I have been together 20 years (married 17) and it was a second time for both of us. We were pretty much inseparable from day one and I moved into his house but later got out together home. Every story can go either way but we all go into it with the hope it’s going to work…that how life works. Of course it’s not a bad idea to be a bit guarded but after awhile you have to trust your heart and go where it leads you. I’m happy that you and your boyfriend found each other. Don’t give anyone the power to take your joy away!
I like your story and glad you posted. I have a similar story with my wonderful husband. It happened fast between us in 2013, and we have been together ever since. We got married last year after 10 years together, and I have never regretted us moving fast. He was the one and I knew it. Like every relationships, there have been times when it was not all bliss and happiness but I would not want to live my life without him in it, and I know he feels the same. We just celebrated our First Anniversary and we are looking forward to many more years together.
My boyfriend moved in with me after a week of us getting together (we had known each other a little while before hand) we have been together over 15 years.
Married 30 years, took things slow. Dated for one full year before engagement. Was teaching at a university and working on two books. When books were done, I was engaged. We married and bought a house together 6 months later. Two years later baby1, and two years after baby1, baby2 came.
THANK YOU, why isn't this comment at the top. We can't go through life making every heartbreak or difficult thing we go through keep us from trying again or believing in love and good things. I don't want to live like that, ever.
No one is trying to take anyone’s joy away. It’s just realistic cautionary advice based on what can happen. You can share anecdotal story and so can others. I’m happy for you that you’ve never been through the destruction and devastation of a being in a relationship with a narcissist.
@@cathyridley3005 They are talking about the future and what they both would like in a house. Nothing wrong with planning for the future which is what a relationship is all about.
If it's now or later rent your home out you always have a home if it did not work out or if it does rent your home out get an income from it that is a win win
I learned after my first relationship at 18 that any home I’m in would be mine and no one can kick me out or take it away. All this less then a year in. No no no.
Oh my gosh Elise, of course its your life and you have to do what makes you happy but your house is perfect. You have done so much to make it so lovely. It speaks Elise. I hope you and your boyfriend a happy, successful relationship but please do not rush to give up your home. You are such a independent, talented, beautiful young Woman and Im sure your boyfriend loves everything about you, but please please never give up your own for a man at least in the early stages of a relationship. I am all about Love and finding someone meant for me but I also know do not count on a man. Sadly, things can change without a moments notice.
My friend moved her boyfriend 6 mos ago into her place, all going well. I ran into her in the grocery store two nights ago and she said she had kicked him out, did not work out, but she had kept her place and moved him in. Lucky
I'm about 30 years older than you, so this is said with a lit it life experience and with a living heart. I'm not sure what the common property laws are in your country, but if you buy property with someone without marriage, PLEASE have a contract drawn up so that you are both protected in the event it doesn't work out. I've made this mistake and left the relationship with nothing. I hope the best for you both but always protect your interests.
DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT give up something you love for someone you love. The heart has many chambers and you can love both without giving up on the other. Keep the things you love to yourself so you can be whole.
@@aproverbshome173 It can be, but sacrifice can also be a way to try to indebt someone to you, to try to make them feel obligated, so they can’t leave you without feeling guilt, and it never works. It just makes the other person resentful. People can sense when they are being manipulated.
@@alteredcatscyprus I totally understand that! That is why we need wisdom and wait on the Lord. Should never move in with anyone without being married and making sure it's God's will for the person's life. I agree with you too.
my daughter just got her heart broken by her fiance! He put a ring on her finger, promised to put her name on the mortgage when they both got the house from my friend and she had a baby by him. He ended it all and kicked her out! She has to start all over again. Please please, don't give up your house, always be in control and never rush into any relationship! You will always be in control and have a home! My daughter is going to follow this advice once she is back on her feet!
My husband left me 2 months after the wedding, kicked me out of his house and I stranded in a foreign country. It was traumatizing, I agree, just trust yourself and be in control. I will never ever give a man control over my life. Some humans are brutal.
What a scoundrel your daughter's BF was. I'm sorry this happened to her, while I agree that Elise should financially protect herself, not all guys are like the one your daughter had the misfortune to meet. Although I'm sure that your grandchild has given some meaning to it.
Elise,I'm an American married to a Dutchmen. We lived in the Nethlerlands for 10 years before moving back back to the states in 2017 and one of the places we vacationed was Denmark..such a beautiful country!! I knew my husband all of 3 months before we decided to get married. We will be celebrating our 20th anniversary in December. Live your life. Fall in love, buy the house when you want and live your life on your terms❤ I'm excited for you!!!
You are just a rockstar! Making time for all the things❤managing your storefront and online store, designing and putting into production your designs, painting, doing home projects and still making time to dream of the future with your partner❤ you are always an inspiration to me and I’m always sending you the all the best! It’s been amazing growing up with you over the years here😊 keep it up lovely!
You knew she would realize that she needed to buy a lamp for her walk-in-closet room? You knew that she was going to have fun looking at a house she had no intention of buying just for fun? You knew she was going to say it is too early to look for a house with her boyfriend and that she didn’t want you to take it as a serious house hunt and freak out? 😂
Sometimes you do have to see and experience other places just so you can really appreciate what a gift your own space truly is! Here's to new beginnings!!
Maybe she would need to sell it to buy another home. I see it like this, whatever $$$ she puts into it he needs to do the same, and/or they need to draw up a legal contract specifying what her contribution is versus his. If she puts up 75% of the money then that is what she needs to get out of it before any profits can be made should they sell the home. It needs to be an equitable iron clad contract where she is protected.
@@EliseBuch you don’t even know him, it takes years to know a man. If you find something out about him it will devastate you. Men are really great at hiding their true self. They only show you what you want to see and it takes time to fully know him. When they disrespect you it’s shocking, but that’s because they are showing you who they are. At this point you don’t even know him. He can be addicted to porn, prescriptions, his ex girlfriend or other women online. Girl ... keeping your home is smart be smart!
@@minarose3193 Give it a rest, will ye. All this doom and gloom. She hasn't sold her house yet, she hasn't bought another one yet. Life is for living, take it from this old bat.
Dear sweet, gorgeous and SMART Elise. You are an accomplished business woman. You are not at all impulsive. You always think things through. The only thing you asked for advise on in this video was how to mount your open sign so it doesn’t blow down. My two cents worth is to attach it to a sandwich board….hopefully portable enough and not too heavy for you to take in and out. Sending you light, love and positive energy as you continue to navigate through your beautiful life.💕Angie.
Live your life-you only get one! You can’t keep putting the brakes on moving forward just because of something that happened in the past or you’ll never get anywhere!❤
I can see why you were interested in the house. There's so much space, but also so much to maintain, clean and make your own. Enjoy your house now. You haven't been there long and you've worked so hard to get it the way you like it. Enjoy it for a little time without taking on a huge project, you're busy enough! Plus the most important thing is that it's all yours!
I don't know how you paint things so neatly, I'm always impressed...I have to wear old clothes when I paint, and I still get it all over me. Dreaming and imagination are gifts not everyone has. Enjoy them, and live your life. I enjoy your videos so much.
Just here to say I wish you the best on any path you choose to take. I get people’s concern, but they need to chill. You got this babe, no matter what you decide to do!
I have been with you a while and you’re one of my favorite influencers. But I really think you should take your time on this boyfriend. You guys should be getting to know each other better and have your fun with each other. Take your time! This is coming from a loving place.
@@EliseBuch. Dear Elise, let HIM buy the new house. If you could buy one by yourself, he should be able to do that as well. And when you move together into this new home, just rent yours. Keep economically independent. My message also comes from a Love place, believe me. I’m 65, and already care for you. Knowing you as a follower, I already know that if you are “just dreaming” about it, it means you will do it…
We should all mind our business, not sure why I'm not. Never give up everything for someone who has nothing to lose or contribute. If your boyfriend has accomplished as much as you have, then all this is great. If he has nothing to lose , then i would say, "Please take things slow." You are driven and ambitious. You work hard. Make sure he is driven and hard working also because some people talk a good game, but it's only words. I normally keep my opinions to myself, but something about you makes me want to say something. I really want him to be your knight in shining armor.
@@EliseBuchReading all the comments, although they are hard, I can see how much you are loved and how many people worry about you. Maybe it will be hard to understand because your culture is different, but most of these comments come from USA where people say things like this out of love. The personal boundaries are non existent in USA most of the time. I have to say though, that you won the garden lottery with this house, and I would miss it the most if you move, but house hunting is fun. Wish you all the best ❤
Did anyone actually watch the video and listen to what Elise said before giving unwarranted advice? It sure doesn't seem like it ... ELISE! The darker kimono is GORGEOUS. The pattern is everything - I want a bed set with that pattern on it! Maybe bedding is in your future?? A girl can wish! lol Enjoy your weekend girl!
Beautiful Elise, first of all I am happy that you found someone who you feel happy to be with. You deserve the best. Do what makes you happy. Enjoy your life. You are strong, and talented. Nothing has knocked you down. You know what is best for you, and you know yourself better than anybody else. I have faith in you, and I admire you. Blessings be yours. Paula Mae
I say follow your heart. My parents were engaged after 3 months and yesterday celebrated their 43rd wedding anniversary. I appreciate you being open and sharing your experience and life. No one knows what’s best for you but yourself.
Elise, where do I Begin? I always look forward to Friday to see your new videos. From your old apartment, to your little yellow cottage, and now this beautiful home with luxurious grounds, has fascinated me, And your vintage shop, amazes me of how much a hard worker you are.I almost wanted to cry when I heard you might start all over, with so much hard work ahead, and leave behind your little paradise. Just focus on what you have, enjoy life, be happy and keep your beautiful home.
Dear Elise, do as you please, there is nothing wrong with thinking and dreaming of the future ❤️ You are a grown woman, who just met a guy she’s in love with, enjoy this romantic time. The future will bring what it’s gonna bring, have a nice week 🥰
I look at you and all I can say is, you truly look happy Elise... You're shining... And that's all that matters... Enjoy it honey, you're life your rules..... 😊❤
I love your videos! You are so creative and have great taste and style. Very enjoyable, and I love your garden too- and that house, so lovely how you've decorated and painted and worked to make it your own. Blessings to you!
Not all comments are made out of care tho, some are just trying to make me look like a fool. Feels like I can only be in a relationship offline, online I'm hung up in the past and can't move away from it nomatter what.
@cathyridley3005 I think that’s missing the point. Back handed comments and compliments and “we were right last time” like we gotta keep score aren’t out of true pure good intentions, that’s why its back-handed (and no one enjoys receiving it). Its not about being a “yes-man” for someone, its about being respectful even in discourse.
Looking at houses is so much fun! It is also a great way to discern what architectural style and life-style you desire. The various options fills one with exuberance, melding the ideas together and making it your own. I love a big yard with a lot of privacy for gardening and just relaxing in a peaceful edenic oasis. I hope you enjoy finding ideas that excite you for the future and expand your creative growth!
How exciting Elise……I’m so happy that you and your boyfriend are happy and looking towards your future together. Who says that you need to be together for a certain amount of time to look at a future together? That’s what 52 years on this planet has taught me. Enjoy the journey❤️
As always Elise, your videos are beautiful - you've captured the gorgeous autumn light in Denmark perfectly 🍂🍁 That country home looks amazing - going to open homes on a Sunday is actually a hobby for some people where I come from! No harm in seeing what's out there, even if you're not in the market to buy right now 😊 Keep dreaming big and living your life with an open heart - it is a privilege to be brought along, as you navigate your way xxx
What i love about you, Elise is your drive and ambition to always move forward. You display an important role model to us, in not only your personal life but your continued hard work and dedication to build a brand and share it with us. I say, go for whatever you desire. We are all on our own journey, and what is right for you, is right for you. There will always be na-sayers, but its generally because they want what you have, or feel they cant move on. My favourite saying is a chat between two people. "you have changed'? " Thats because we are supposed to". And yay to house viewing, its super exciting and its always good to send out the message, to the universe!! Louise xxxx
I believe when you invite people into your home and life, then the outpouring of love and concern for Elise shouldn’t be chastised. We are only reminding her of what we tend to forget in the beginning of a new, hopeful, wonderful love.
Not sure why ppl are freaking out, it is good to start searching now bc you never know when something will pop up!! My bf and I took more than a year to find our space. And anyways it's just a fun to look at cute historical houses and imagine what life would be like together there. Btw the staged house photos look amazing!! I can't imagine what needs to be done to it?!
Happy you are taking your time and evaluating what is best for you. I always told my daughter to be happy but also to have a plan in her significant relationships. You have been burned badly before so I know you will do what is best for YOU! Most essentially, trust in yourself and what is best for your own life. You look radiant and happy!
Owning a really, really, REALLY old home is my dream!! I would love to own an old stone home in the country somewhere. ❤❤ I hope you're able to find the home of your dreams!
Lovely video, loved all the outfits. Glad you are so happy. Life is about the here and now, enjoy it. Ask the universe to bring you the perfect house. If it doesn’t come then the time is not right, if it does then you will know. Have a nice week.
All I'm going to say is just be careful and take things SLOWLY...and don't sell your house any time soon, if at all. I know it's fun to check out houses, and you should enjoy it! Just don't jump into anything too quickly. Have a great weekend!
The old mill looks so lovely! I'm sure you could really work your magic on the interiors and make it into a wonderful home. Living together in your current home could be a great test though, to see how you guys work as a team before commiting to getting a place together. I'm sure you have your head full of things to consider at this point 🥰 weighing the pros and cons of it all. But how exciting!
Don't give up your house and walk away from all the hard work you did making it just what you wanted in every detail. It's YOURS, and yes you can start all over again, I'm confident you can refurbish another one, sure you can, if that's what you want to spend years doing, over and over again. You've created a gorgeous little jewel. My heart is heavy watching how eager you are to toss it for a dream. Have your dream in your lovely home. I can't say more. Just please stay grounded in this relationship. Stay true to your self.
Wow, this is brave. But it is life. It has to go forward. I know, some think of all the work you put into this house now, and some think of the last boyfriend/house situation, but in the end it is your life. Go for it and never regret anything. Believe me, I have been there in my life and I have succeeded, failed, morned, fallen down, gotten up again and kept going. This is life. It is a constant movement and it has it`s ups and downs. I am wishing you all the best with your future. Tipps for old house purchases: Check the pipes/plumbing, check the heating system, check the roof and check the energy/athmosphere. I lived in haunted places before. No kidding. But I know you will be able to feel it. You are a sensitive person. Lot`s of love from me and my 121 year old house in Germany.
We'll be staying in my lil' house for now, but I don't plan to stay still in my life. I like growth and new challenges, and luckily I found a guy who see himself in an old house too 🥰
@@stj971 No, it wasn’t click bait, it was directed to all the people who overly think it’s their right to tell her what to do with her life (loudly and not nicely). Just read the comment section and you’ll see why she titled the video this way.
@@stj971In part, she lowkey is wanting to move and do a project with the new guy, but she also wants to capitalise on the number of views by posting something controversial 😂 and of course the grannies will buy into it 🤑
Take it from people who have been there done that. KEEP YOUR HOUSE!!! Let him buy the other one. Some of my biggest mistakes were made by “just looking/checking it out”😮 In the end though, your life is your lessons to learn.
Hello Elise! That cabinet is a beautiful edition to your bedroom. I love the color of sage. Please whatever you do, do not sell your house. Give this relationship more time. I would not consider buying a house with a man unless you are married or engaged to him. You have put a lot of time and given a lot of yourself into turning your house into a home. Lots of love! ❤️😊🌻
She is young. She won't listen. And trying to wake her up will only be met with negative comments, as our sage advice will be considered as such. Been there done that. SHE WILL MAKE A MISTAKE. WATCHING IS PAINFUL.
Does He have his own home to sell. Dear Elise or are you the one with. The. Property? Your relationship is new a few months. Please Think what you were put through last time not to suffer, but to learn. You’ve turned your life round & worked so hard on your beautiful house made it a wonderful home. Please don’t act in haste again darling. We love you & don’t want your heart to be broken again.
If you're unmarried & buy a house, a partnership agreement is a must to protect you both. I liked the blue armoire, but the green fits so much better. That skylight was such a great idea. It illuminates the whole area. I loved your placement for the photo shoot. You are so talented. ❤
There is no single right timeline for every stage of life, decision, relationship, etc. As long as you are taking the steps that bring you joy, keep on keeping on! Life is too short to not to take the leaps sometimes, even if there is a risk, there’s always going to be risks no matter the timeline!
If you move, lease the house you are in so you can receive personal income and have a place to go if things ever go south. I know it feels pessimistic to think of this stuff when you are in the honeymoon phase, but as someone who dated someone for 4 years before marriage I’ve learned that you can’t really know a person. I trusted him completely and he ran away with our teenage goddaughter. I was with him for 12 years and he is going for funds from the divorce he knows he doesn’t deserve so he can start a life with her out of state. In the beginning he was handy around the house and lovey. All my friends loved him, but some people wait to flip the switch once things get serious. It’s more common than you’d think. So, I hope things go well, but be sure to protect your assets and have a way out as an option if you need it. It’s not fun, but it is wise.
So sorry bc I can totally relate. I found out after my husband of 22yrs passed that there were many lies he kept from me. Sometimes we never really do know them. Learned my lesson.
I thought we had established that many of us will absolutely freak out at just the mention of this guy and any plans with him! 😂 I wouldn't worry about some of us freaking out or not freaking out. Just enjoy yourself and keep yourself safe, and we'll have to put on our big girl pants and let you be an adult and run your life! xoxoxo
Hi Elise , your wardrobe looks so lovely in green , it’s so beautiful🤩 I loved all the dresses you tried on and the wonderful fluffy jacket they all looked gorgeous on you . The old mill from the outside looked wonderful , but I do agree with you that it needs a lot of TLC . Have a wonderful weekend ❤🦋
This is exactly why people stop sharing information with their followers. You were asked not to freak out, you freak out. Chill y'all. Looking forward to following Elise in whatever adventure she chooses in whichever house she may or may not choose in the future. Elise, YOU have proven time and time again, that you can make any space magical! Hope you find exactly what you dream of and we are so happy to get to be on this journey with you from watching and cheering for you from the sidelines!
Honestly, why say anything at all. She already knew how people would react. Elise you need to think long and hard about what you share. Once it is out there you can't bring it back. I know you want to be transparent, but people are cruel and very judgmental. They also don't mind telling you, a full grown woman how to live YOUR life. They give you advice they themselves would not appreciate hearing. It is your life, live it girl.
I think she didn't freak out, she just told her story/ her experience. Maybe there's valuable information in there. I'd rather think you yourself kinda freak out, since you told her what to do ("chill" etc.). She on the other hand talked about herself/her life.
Engagement, my dear. The name of the game is engagement, the more people comment on her videos, the more the algorythm sees it as attractive to viewers and the more it will be suggested to new viewers, and the more Elise makes money. And she plays that game VERY well, kudos (and more money) to her 👍 I'm just surprised by the audience's naiveté. She shares because she expects that kind of reaction. You're adorable to defend her, but if the audience actually listens to you, she would lose money. Let her play the game, and let the audience bite 😉
Please don’t rush. We were all heartbroken for you after the last house episode. You work so hard to make places full of your skill and. You are a strong independent woman so think carefully.
This may be silly for outside the showroom, but what about an old bike that you could decorate in some way for the winter months? Like you could hang two round wreaths on the tires or put something evergreen in the basket and you could pull it in and out easily...maybe an old bike wouldn't be eye-catching enough, but it's what popped in my head.
Elise, I'm so pleased that you are comfortable enough to be thinking about a long term future with your boyfriend. He sounds lovely. Wishing you much happiness.
I think one of the issues here is that Elise has created a life here on youtube many ( especially older ladies) wish they could have had. Many have been hurt by men or are living in situations they wish they would have been smarter in .. So they don’t want to see that happen with Elise. They see what she shows us, which is , of course, not all of her life. They see a strong girl who has seemingly taken control of her life and created something great out of it. They don’t want that taken away from her. She worked so hard for it. Many of us have done the same, in fact. They/ We haven’t “met” this guy at all in the videos so we have no idea. Elise had her heart broken so badly and she shared that with us and bared a lot to her viewers. People don’t want that to happen to her again - and worse. We have to trust that Elise will do what is best for her - like many of us tried. If she makes mistakes, she makes mistakes. She will pick herself up and she’ll be alright. Well, Elise, please try to understand there are so many people round the world that care for your wellbeing. You really have created something so many people wish for themselves, honestly. Try not to be too aggravated. I know this can be frustrating sometimes. 💖 We are lucky that you share with us as much as you do.
I can not believe the negative comments. She has the right to be happy and she can define that for herself! You all act as if your say will have anything to do with her decisions. She's a very capable adult! Just because one man hurts you it doesn't mean all men will hurt you! That's like men saying all women are gold diggers, it's simply not true. She is smart enough to know how to handle things! Is it that hard to be happy for someone who is clearly happy! I have subscribed for a long time and she is happier in these videos lately than she has been for a while now. Just a Congrats and good luck is all you need say. If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. If the relationship doesn't last, well so be it. She will learn and grow! Just because a relationship ends, even if it ends badly you can still learn more about yourself, your wants and needs, and that is still valuable as well. It must be so hard to go around being so negative to someone you don't even know. We don't know her, we get the glimpses she chooses to share. Unless you truly know her how can you have so much negativity about a decision that doesn't effect you. Life is short, be happy if you can be!❤
Thank you so so much for having my back. I still feel speechless and have no idea how to address how uncomfortable the comments section has been on this video ❤️
It's so absurd! I know I don't comment often, I don't comment often on any channel, but I just don't understand these people in the comments. I totally have your back! Go do your life and don't worry about what these people think. Life is truly short and there are no promises that anything we do will turn out great or long lasting... so when it does it is true joy! If this brings you joy, then follow your heart! Even decisions that don't work out still are great teaching moments! Everything has value if you look at it the right way. ❤Love is everything after all and only you know your heart!
I looked at the comments first, but glad I watched the whole video through. I think you sound happy, comfortable, and excited about the future with your boyfriend and there's nothing wrong with that. Looking at a house is not a contract lol. I selfishly also hope you will hang onto your house for a while longer because your home looks like a dream, however this is your life and I have faith that there is room for both love and logic. Best of luck to you!
Thank you, I will hold onto my house for a while, but I don't work without dreaming or finding new dreams and adventures. I'll not be living here forever, it's never been a plan of mine.
If I were Elise, I might feel smothered by all the care--in the form of peoples' own anxieties, worries and warnings! After she requested no "freak out"! Can we rather just respect and support her right and freedom--and ability--to choose her own path and a full life? WHATEVER that may be? Personally, I loved the fascinating tour of the mill house, and also the thought of her and her boyfriend just exploring options and ideas (as she clearly said) and enjoying themselves together. Anything else, around buying, or their relationship, is surely none of my business! We all see through different lenses, and they both have a right to their own, themselves--without us assuming, presuming or trying to control . . . specially since we only see a FRACTION of Elise's life! Just saying
Exactly! People are trauma dumping and projecting, always worried about every little thing that could go wrong and never letting oneself fully love and trust somebody else, what a sad and stressful way to go through life. I’m happy Elise is happy.
@nestandthimble said it all. Keep your house. If he doesn't currently have a property... please keep your house. You deserve the best! Take your time. You bring a lot and your future partner should do the same.... Team Elise here!!!
I think you should be guided by how you feel. I don't think that one bad experience should necessarily stop you from making decisions together with your new love. Only you know if he is 'the one.' Live life to the fullest Elise, we only have one. Much love from England xx ❤
I know a lot of people are inserting their opinions, but you're a smart woman with a good head on your shoulders, and I know you're considering the logical sides of everything while still allowing yourself and your bf to dream together. The length of a relationship doesn't determine its strength, and only you can know that, not strangers from the internet. I had a 4 year relationship that ended terribly and then a relationship where we moved in together within two months of dating and actively discussed/chose to start a family within 6 months. We have now been together for 12 years, married for 11, have a 10-year-old son and 8-year-old son, and we still love each other more than anything.
Make a dress shaped sign which can have pieces overlayed on it, not fabric, but something waterproof, that you can change out the dress design for each Season or Holiday. It would be creative, so something you could design, paint ect. Also eye catching and promotes what you sell.
Some of these comments are weird. We haven't seen your boyfriend, and we know nothing about him, except that he makes you happy. One bad relationship doesn't mean that all your relationships are doomed. You're a smart young woman who is moving on with her life and not allowing the past to ruin the future.xx
Thaaank you ❤️ exactly!
It's not about the "bad relationship" but about legal security. That's all.
@@FrogeniusW.G.do y’all really think she’s too dense to protect her assets?
Pattern… same pattern
He's homeless with no job.
Having someone who includes you in his plans about the future is heart warming ❤
I agree.
yayy it is. it's lovely.
@shadowkat9143 yes, if it's genuine. She's only known him for a few months.
@mala890 I met my husband and we married a month later. Don't judge by time!
@oranjmusemeyer968 I'm judging by her past relationships. A quick jump into living together or marrying quickly usually doesn't work for most couples. You don't even know one another yet. You were lucky.
Wishing you and your boyfriend the best in whatever you choose to do that’s best for you both. A huge fan of you and your channel 💛😊🌿
Thank you so much 🥰
When I got married I decided to keep my condo and rent it out. I'm so glad I did. Not only is it perfect for us to settle when we"re older. Also, the rent is a nice source of income. Property ownership can also be a good way to save for retirement as well.
Exactly. 😊
Und einer Zufluchtsort zu sein in schlimmsten Falle! Die Sicherheit sollte nie aufgegeben werden!
That's great for you but unfortunately the housing market has drastically changed in the recent years. It now takes two full-time incomes to pay for one modest home. Keeping an extra home as a rental property isn't a possibility most people have anymore. People can't even afford groceries anymore. Maybe you live in a very low cost of living area where houses are cheap. I'm sure we all would love to have investment properties for rental potential, but most of the middle class can't afford this. Things aren't how they used to be.
@kellyj817 LOL! I live in California! EVERYTHING is expensive here! We're averaging $4.88 per gallon for gas! It was $6.32 per gallon last year! Thank goodness it went down! Let's not get into the price of everyday necessities! $6.50 for a dozen eggs! If you prefer organic, you're looking at $9 for a dozen!
I bought my condo in 2004. I got married and found renters for my condo in 2014. My husband and I bought a home together that same year. I'm very much aware times are harder than they were 10-20 years ago. No matter where you live, everyone's situation and financial well-being are different. I think it's wonderful Elise was able to buy her 1st home one her own. It's a wonderful feeling I can relate to. There's no harm in people making suggestions as long as they are respectful.
Could you keep your house and rent it to a tenant? In this way you still own it.
We're not buying anything right now, don't worry so much.
We love you we want you to be happy and ok. @@EliseBuch
@EliseBuch I'm sorry that you may be feeling attacked and/or judged in this comments section. I merely asked a question. A question that I would ask to anyone who owns a house as a single person. My comment was about setting yourself up for financial prosperity. I like your content and I wish you all the best.
Offering sound advice does not mean someone is worrying too much. You are acting defensive. Why.
@@LCLand she does it on purpose for attention .. look at her title of the video.. she wants you to worry for her she likes it
Is so hard to share your life online. Every tell is a risk. Thanks for being so brave and sharing yourself with others… you are a bright light and an inspiration. I support whatever choices you make because I believe you are an intelligent and determined woman and you will find your way no matter what. Keep being true to you!!
Thank you so much 🥰
I agree, and will share with you, beautiful Elise, what I share with my two beautiful daughters, no matter who you fall in love with, they must add and enhance the lives you should build first for yourself. You have done that Elise, so if he enhances your beautifully crafted life, then my heart is full for you. Just remember you were born an individual and God meant for each of us to fulfill our true purpose. Don’t lose yourself in another human. Be who he fell in love with, always!❤
What ever you do do not leave your house it's your security, men come and go , keep a roof over your head.
Not all couples turn into horror stories. My husband and I have been together 20 years (married 17) and it was a second time for both of us. We were pretty much inseparable from day one and I moved into his house but later got out together home.
Every story can go either way but we all go into it with the hope it’s going to work…that how life works. Of course it’s not a bad idea to be a bit guarded but after awhile you have to trust your heart and go where it leads you. I’m happy that you and your boyfriend found each other. Don’t give anyone the power to take your joy away!
I like your story and glad you posted. I have a similar story with my wonderful husband. It happened fast between us in 2013, and we have been together ever since. We got married last year after 10 years together, and I have never regretted us moving fast. He was the one and I knew it. Like every relationships, there have been times when it was not all bliss and happiness but I would not want to live my life without him in it, and I know he feels the same. We just celebrated our First Anniversary and we are looking forward to many more years together.
My boyfriend moved in with me after a week of us getting together (we had known each other a little while before hand) we have been together over 15 years.
Married 30 years, took things slow. Dated for one full year before engagement. Was teaching at a university and working on two books. When books were done, I was engaged. We married and bought a house together 6 months later. Two years later baby1, and two years after baby1, baby2 came.
THANK YOU, why isn't this comment at the top. We can't go through life making every heartbreak or difficult thing we go through keep us from trying again or believing in love and good things. I don't want to live like that, ever.
No one is trying to take anyone’s joy away. It’s just realistic cautionary advice based on what can happen. You can share anecdotal story and so can others. I’m happy for you that you’ve never been through the destruction and devastation of a being in a relationship with a narcissist.
Please don't rush into anything, as people have said rent your house out. So if anything did go wrong you have your house to move back into x
She is not moving.
@@cathyridley3005 They are talking about the future and what they both would like in a house. Nothing wrong with planning for the future which is what a relationship is all about.
@@rikkemeek1506 How the fk. you know?? She needs to protect her home and her life in general.
If it's now or later rent your home out you always have a home if it did not work out or if it does rent your home out get an income from it that is a win win
@@bettinaparris8769 I watched the video and listen to what she actually said.
I learned after my first relationship at 18 that any home I’m in would be mine and no one can kick me out or take it away. All this less then a year in. No no no.
Oh my gosh Elise, of course its your life and you have to do what makes you happy but your house is perfect. You have done so much to make it so lovely. It speaks Elise. I hope you and your boyfriend a happy, successful relationship but please do not rush to give up your home. You are such a independent, talented, beautiful young Woman and Im sure your boyfriend loves everything about you, but please please never give up your own for a man at least in the early stages of a relationship. I am all about Love and finding someone meant for me but I also know do not count on a man. Sadly, things can change without a moments notice.
My friend moved her boyfriend 6 mos ago into her place, all going well. I ran into her in the grocery store two nights ago and she said she had kicked him out, did not work out, but she had kept her place and moved him in. Lucky
I'm about 30 years older than you, so this is said with a lit it life experience and with a living heart. I'm not sure what the common property laws are in your country, but if you buy property with someone without marriage, PLEASE have a contract drawn up so that you are both protected in the event it doesn't work out. I've made this mistake and left the relationship with nothing. I hope the best for you both but always protect your interests.
Wisdom.
But we didn't buy a house, we just viewed one :)
@@EliseBuch I am super excited for you and your new boyfriend Elise! I think that house is super cool! Rock on!
So glad to hear that this boyfriend is so good to you that he helps you out and adds to your life in a positive way.
DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT give up something you love for someone you love. The heart has many chambers and you can love both without giving up on the other. Keep the things you love to yourself so you can be whole.
Or look at it like this, she is gaining a partnership. It's a gain if that is what she wants! Love!
Love is sacrafice! If God is first in your marriage and life. Jesus gave it all for us! Yes she needs to wait however in general this is bad advice.
@@aproverbshome173 It can be, but sacrifice can also be a way to try to indebt someone to you, to try to make them feel obligated, so they can’t leave you without feeling guilt, and it never works. It just makes the other person resentful. People can sense when they are being manipulated.
@@alteredcatscyprus I totally understand that! That is why we need wisdom and wait on the Lord. Should never move in with anyone without being married and making sure it's God's will for the person's life. I agree with you too.
my daughter just got her heart broken by her fiance! He put a ring on her finger, promised to put her name on the mortgage when they both got the house from my friend and she had a baby by him. He ended it all and kicked her out! She has to start all over again. Please please, don't give up your house, always be in control and never rush into any relationship! You will always be in control and have a home! My daughter is going to follow this advice once she is back on her feet!
My husband left me 2 months after the wedding, kicked me out of his house and I stranded in a foreign country. It was traumatizing, I agree, just trust yourself and be in control. I will never ever give a man control over my life. Some humans are brutal.
What a scoundrel your daughter's BF was. I'm sorry this happened to her, while I agree that Elise should financially protect herself, not all guys are like the one your daughter had the misfortune to meet. Although I'm sure that your grandchild has given some meaning to it.
Have you been following for a long time? Does she strike you as someone who doesn't learn from past experience?
Absolutely! Elise should keep her house no matter what. She can always rent it for income, but don't give up assets for this man, any man.
I am sorry about your daughter’s experience.
Elise,I'm an American married to a Dutchmen. We lived in the Nethlerlands for 10 years before moving back back to the states in 2017 and one of the places we vacationed was Denmark..such a beautiful country!!
I knew my husband all of 3 months before we decided to get married. We will be celebrating our 20th anniversary in December. Live your life. Fall in love, buy the house when you want and live your life on your terms❤ I'm excited for you!!!
You are just a rockstar! Making time for all the things❤managing your storefront and online store, designing and putting into production your designs, painting, doing home projects and still making time to dream of the future with your partner❤ you are always an inspiration to me and I’m always sending you the all the best! It’s been amazing growing up with you over the years here😊 keep it up lovely!
I read the title, knew immediately what it is about and freaked out.....
I did also
I think we all freaked out, we all knew what it was about.
😂😂
You knew she would realize that she needed to buy a lamp for her walk-in-closet room? You knew that she was going to have fun looking at a house she had no intention of buying just for fun? You knew she was going to say it is too early to look for a house with her boyfriend and that she didn’t want you to take it as a serious house hunt and freak out? 😂
I read the title and thought BORING
These videos always feel so cozy and warm, best thing to wake up to this morning ❤
Aww I'm glad, thanks 🥰
Sometimes you do have to see and experience other places just so you can really appreciate what a gift your own space truly is! Here's to new beginnings!!
If you move don’t sell your house rent it .That way if anything happens you still have somewhere you call home 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️❤️
Maybe she would need to sell it to buy another home. I see it like this, whatever $$$ she puts into it he needs to do the same, and/or they need to draw up a legal contract specifying what her contribution is versus his. If she puts up 75% of the money then that is what she needs to get out of it before any profits can be made should they sell the home. It needs to be an equitable iron clad contract where she is protected.
@@dissidentfairy4264 men do this on purpose happened to all my friend they " need you to sell your house so the new house will be legally his.
If that's how I feel if we eventually buy a house, I don't think we should be together :)
@@EliseBuch you don’t even know him, it takes years to know a man. If you find something out about him it will devastate you. Men are really great at hiding their true self. They only show you what you want to see and it takes time to fully know him. When they disrespect you it’s shocking, but that’s because they are showing you who they are. At this point you don’t even know him. He can be addicted to porn, prescriptions, his ex girlfriend or other women online. Girl ... keeping your home is smart be smart!
@@minarose3193 Give it a rest, will ye.
All this doom and gloom. She hasn't sold her house yet, she hasn't bought another one yet. Life is for living, take it from this old bat.
Dear sweet, gorgeous and SMART Elise. You are an accomplished business woman. You are not at all impulsive. You always think things through. The only thing you asked for advise on in this video was how to mount your open sign so it doesn’t blow down. My two cents worth is to attach it to a sandwich board….hopefully portable enough and not too heavy for you to take in and out. Sending you light, love and positive energy as you continue to navigate through your beautiful life.💕Angie.
Live your life-you only get one! You can’t keep putting the brakes on moving forward just because of something that happened in the past or you’ll never get anywhere!❤
I can see why you were interested in the house. There's so much space, but also so much to maintain, clean and make your own. Enjoy your house now. You haven't been there long and you've worked so hard to get it the way you like it. Enjoy it for a little time without taking on a huge project, you're busy enough! Plus the most important thing is that it's all yours!
I don't know how you paint things so neatly, I'm always impressed...I have to wear old clothes when I paint, and I still get it all over me. Dreaming and imagination are gifts not everyone has. Enjoy them, and live your life. I enjoy your videos so much.
Wow you're so good at making a set for your photos. It was so layered and beautiful but didn't take away from the center piece.
Thank you so much!
Agree. That shoot is gorgeous!
Just here to say I wish you the best on any path you choose to take. I get people’s concern, but they need to chill. You got this babe, no matter what you decide to do!
I have been with you a while and you’re one of my favorite influencers. But I really think you should take your time on this boyfriend. You guys should be getting to know each other better and have your fun with each other. Take your time! This is coming from a loving place.
I am, we just viewed a house and a dreaming together, nothing at all wrong with any of it 🥰
@@EliseBuch You are so right about that.
@@EliseBuch. Dear Elise, let HIM buy the new house. If you could buy one by yourself, he should be able to do that as well. And when you move together into this new home, just rent yours. Keep economically independent. My message also comes from a Love place, believe me. I’m 65, and already care for you. Knowing you as a follower, I already know that if you are “just dreaming” about it, it means you will do it…
We should all mind our business, not sure why I'm not.
Never give up everything for someone who has nothing to lose or contribute. If your boyfriend has accomplished as much as you have, then all this is great. If he has nothing to lose , then i would say, "Please take things slow." You are driven and ambitious. You work hard. Make sure he is driven and hard working also because some people talk a good game, but it's only words. I normally keep my opinions to myself, but something about you makes me want to say something. I really want him to be your knight in shining armor.
@@EliseBuchReading all the comments, although they are hard, I can see how much you are loved and how many people worry about you. Maybe it will be hard to understand because your culture is different, but most of these comments come from USA where people say things like this out of love. The personal boundaries are non existent in USA most of the time. I have to say though, that you won the garden lottery with this house, and I would miss it the most if you move, but house hunting is fun. Wish you all the best ❤
So lovely to know you have someone special in your life Elise,and wow you looked stunning in your new wardrobe shoot,simply dazzling.❤
Did anyone actually watch the video and listen to what Elise said before giving unwarranted advice? It sure doesn't seem like it ... ELISE! The darker kimono is GORGEOUS. The pattern is everything - I want a bed set with that pattern on it! Maybe bedding is in your future?? A girl can wish! lol Enjoy your weekend girl!
No People don't listen or watch till the end before commenting.
THAANK YOU! please let this comment pop above this madness
That exactly what I was wondering- there seems to be a lot of conclusion jumping.
If you love your home just add an upstairs to your existing home. Your garden is beautiful.
Not possible hehe, and I still don't wish to live in the city.
@@EliseBuch i understand . It was just a suggestion do what you feel is best and don’t let me or anyone else influence that .
Beautiful Elise, first of all I am happy that you found someone who you feel happy to be with. You deserve the best. Do what makes you happy. Enjoy your life. You are strong, and talented. Nothing has knocked you down. You know what is best for you, and you know yourself better than anybody else. I have faith in you, and I admire you. Blessings be yours. Paula Mae
I say follow your heart. My parents were engaged after 3 months and yesterday celebrated their 43rd wedding anniversary. I appreciate you being open and sharing your experience and life. No one knows what’s best for you but yourself.
I wish you all the best, Elise. You're a bright young woman who doesn't need our advice. It is your life, enjoy!
Just a word of caution 😂😂😂😂........ be careful
I love it Elise that you keep your heart open, and chase your dreams. Wishing you all the happiness 🌷
Oh, and that you wear leopard print with green -- one of my all-time favourite combos!
Thank you so much 🥰
Elise, where do I Begin? I always look forward to Friday to see your new videos. From your old apartment, to your little yellow cottage, and now this beautiful home with luxurious grounds, has fascinated me, And your vintage shop, amazes me of how much a hard worker you are.I almost wanted to cry when I heard you might start all over, with so much hard work ahead, and leave behind your little paradise. Just focus on what you have, enjoy life, be happy and keep your beautiful home.
Dear Elise, do as you please, there is nothing wrong with thinking and dreaming of the future ❤️ You are a grown woman, who just met a guy she’s in love with, enjoy this romantic time. The future will bring what it’s gonna bring, have a nice week 🥰
Elise, it is nice to see you happy! Hope you both have a wonderful weekend.
I am happy that you met someone to make these wonderful plans with!!!
How you style things and put elements together is just incredible, I wish I had a small amount of that skill 😍❤️
Thank you so much !
I look at you and all I can say is, you truly look happy Elise... You're shining... And that's all that matters... Enjoy it honey, you're life your rules..... 😊❤
I love your videos! You are so creative and have great taste and style. Very enjoyable, and I love your garden too- and that house, so lovely how you've decorated and painted and worked to make it your own.
Blessings to you!
So lovely to see some people sharing their own stories to give us advices thank you so much for trusting us enough to do so
It’s nice to have someone to dream with. Be happy!
Yeah, until you wake up and realise it was a dream that has turned into a nightmare.
Thanks for sharing Elise, please dont be offended by things we say, we just care about you
Not all comments are made out of care tho, some are just trying to make me look like a fool.
Feels like I can only be in a relationship offline, online I'm hung up in the past and can't move away from it nomatter what.
@cathyridley3005
I think that’s missing the point. Back handed comments and compliments and “we were right last time” like we gotta keep score aren’t out of true pure good intentions, that’s why its back-handed (and no one enjoys receiving it). Its not about being a “yes-man” for someone, its about being respectful even in discourse.
You need to learn about parasocial relationships and start working toward not having them. Because this shit is weird.
@cathyridley3005
you’re right, you never said that, and I wasn’t typing it to say you did either
@@EliseBuchI’m so happy your life is going well ❤️
Looking at houses is so much fun! It is also a great way to discern what architectural style and life-style you desire. The various options fills one with exuberance, melding the ideas together and making it your own. I love a big yard with a lot of privacy for gardening and just relaxing in a peaceful edenic oasis. I hope you enjoy finding ideas that excite you for the future and expand your creative growth!
How exciting Elise……I’m so happy that you and your boyfriend are happy and looking towards your future together. Who says that you need to be together for a certain amount of time to look at a future together? That’s what 52 years on this planet has taught me. Enjoy the journey❤️
Aww thanks. We're in no rush, but if the perfect house comes up we'd be ready to take some important chats and move on it 🥰
@@EliseBuchthat’s awesome. Take care of you❤
As always Elise, your videos are beautiful - you've captured the gorgeous autumn light in Denmark perfectly 🍂🍁 That country home looks amazing - going to open homes on a Sunday is actually a hobby for some people where I come from! No harm in seeing what's out there, even if you're not in the market to buy right now 😊 Keep dreaming big and living your life with an open heart - it is a privilege to be brought along, as you navigate your way xxx
What i love about you, Elise is your drive and ambition to always move forward. You display an important role model to us, in not only your personal life but your continued hard work and dedication to build a brand and share it with us. I say, go for whatever you desire. We are all on our own journey, and what is right for you, is right for you. There will always be na-sayers, but its generally because they want what you have, or feel they cant move on. My favourite saying is a chat between two people. "you have changed'? " Thats because we are supposed to".
And yay to house viewing, its super exciting and its always good to send out the message, to the universe!!
Louise xxxx
Thank you ❤️
Everything is so beautifully bohemian and full of gorgeous patterns and it is so inspiritional 🧡 Take care Elise
The wardrobe looks so good in your bedroom in the green.Also your new designs are beautiful!
Be careful. Protect your self. Don't get caught like you did before. Just worry about you. ❤
Nothing to worry about at allll 🥰
Here we go with fear projecting!😂
I agree with the comment above nothing wrong with being cautious,❤
I believe when you invite people into your home and life, then the outpouring of love and concern for Elise shouldn’t be chastised. We are only reminding her of what we tend to forget in the beginning of a new, hopeful, wonderful love.
We were all right last time hun
take your time and take care . we all remember your heartache after you purchased your previous home with other people
I didn't buy a house with my ex who 🥰
@@EliseBuch sorry I must have misunderstood
Not sure why ppl are freaking out, it is good to start searching now bc you never know when something will pop up!! My bf and I took more than a year to find our space. And anyways it's just a fun to look at cute historical houses and imagine what life would be like together there. Btw the staged house photos look amazing!! I can't imagine what needs to be done to it?!
Happy you are taking your time and evaluating what is best for you. I always told my daughter to be happy but also to have a plan in her significant relationships. You have been burned badly before so I know you will do what is best for YOU! Most essentially, trust in yourself and what is best for your own life. You look radiant and happy!
Love all the bits in the shop truly makes my ❤smile for all things vintage and new.. love … love your channel 🫶🏻 Best wishes from Texas
Owning a really, really, REALLY old home is my dream!! I would love to own an old stone home in the country somewhere. ❤❤ I hope you're able to find the home of your dreams!
Wow Elise! The display you styled in your home to photograph is outstanding! So beautiful!
Thank you !
I love the green wardrobe. The color looks beautiful.
Lovely video, loved all the outfits. Glad you are so happy. Life is about the here and now, enjoy it. Ask the universe to bring you the perfect house. If it doesn’t come then the time is not right, if it does then you will know. Have a nice week.
All I'm going to say is just be careful and take things SLOWLY...and don't sell your house any time soon, if at all. I know it's fun to check out houses, and you should enjoy it! Just don't jump into anything too quickly. Have a great weekend!
I am not, don't worry. I'm actually not as impulsive as this comment section make it look like.
@@EliseBuchSorry, but you actually are Elise. Let’s be FR.
@@EliseBuch yes you are like when you wanted a rabbit then didn't want a rabbit remember??
I think the title of this video speaks volumes. Deep in your heart, you know why people would freak out.
I like seeing you in your home as it is puts you in control of your life. Don't rush dear one.
Loving this week's collection--is there anything better than a cocktail dress to lift your mood? LOVE IT! 👗👗🥻🥻👗👗🥻🥻👗👗🥻🥻
Hi Elise!! How fun to go & look at a cool house!! I love your house & style!! And your garden is just so beautiful!! Take care sweet girl ❤😊
The old mill looks so lovely! I'm sure you could really work your magic on the interiors and make it into a wonderful home. Living together in your current home could be a great test though, to see how you guys work as a team before commiting to getting a place together. I'm sure you have your head full of things to consider at this point 🥰 weighing the pros and cons of it all. But how exciting!
Elise ! I love all your new full and winter dresses they all beautiful ,thank you very much to share ,you beautiful clothes haul with us .🥰
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Elise, please don't rush into buying a house, yours is so nice. Be careful ok.❤
Don't give up your house and walk away from all the hard work you did making it just what you wanted in every detail. It's YOURS, and yes you can start all over again, I'm confident you can refurbish another one, sure you can, if that's what you want to spend years doing, over and over again. You've created a gorgeous little jewel. My heart is heavy watching how eager you are to toss it for a dream. Have your dream in your lovely home. I can't say more. Just please stay grounded in this relationship. Stay true to your self.
Wow, this is brave. But it is life. It has to go forward. I know, some think of all the work you put into this house now, and some think of the last boyfriend/house situation, but in the end it is your life. Go for it and never regret anything. Believe me, I have been there in my life and I have succeeded, failed, morned, fallen down, gotten up again and kept going. This is life. It is a constant movement and it has it`s ups and downs. I am wishing you all the best with your future. Tipps for old house purchases: Check the pipes/plumbing, check the heating system, check the roof and check the energy/athmosphere. I lived in haunted places before. No kidding. But I know you will be able to feel it. You are a sensitive person. Lot`s of love from me and my 121 year old house in Germany.
We'll be staying in my lil' house for now, but I don't plan to stay still in my life. I like growth and new challenges, and luckily I found a guy who see himself in an old house too 🥰
@@EliseBuch onward and upward, Babe! Life is short.
@@EliseBuch so was this all click bait then ???
@@stj971 No, it wasn’t click bait, it was directed to all the people who overly think it’s their right to tell her what to do with her life (loudly and not nicely). Just read the comment section and you’ll see why she titled the video this way.
@@stj971In part, she lowkey is wanting to move and do a project with the new guy, but she also wants to capitalise on the number of views by posting something controversial 😂 and of course the grannies will buy into it 🤑
Take it from people who have been there done that. KEEP YOUR HOUSE!!! Let him buy the other one. Some of my biggest mistakes were made by “just looking/checking it out”😮 In the end though, your life is your lessons to learn.
@@Nmbr1fanWhat? Her last relationship that ended was 2 years ago. Time you moved on because Elise has.
that's how they play you
I have kept my house and it was my plan B. Now it gives me wonderful rental income. Still my plan B as well!
LET HIM BUY the other house ...........hummm maybe this guy doesnt have a DIME to scratch his ass....so cant buy the house......
@@francescacredali8338 Are you friends or related to her boyfriend? You seem to know an awful lot about him.
I really enjoy how creative you are. Thx for sharing!! 🎉🎉
Those dresses were absolutely stunning 🤩
Hello Elise! That cabinet is a beautiful edition to your bedroom. I love the color of sage. Please whatever you do, do not sell your house. Give this relationship more time. I would not consider buying a house with a man unless you are married or engaged to him. You have put a lot of time and given a lot of yourself into turning your house into a home. Lots of love! ❤️😊🌻
She is young. She won't listen. And trying to wake her up will only be met with negative comments, as our sage advice will be considered as such. Been there done that. SHE WILL MAKE A MISTAKE. WATCHING IS PAINFUL.
She is not selling her house. They are allowed to look at houses. That way they might be on the same page as to what they want in the future.
Does He have his own home to sell. Dear Elise or are you the one with. The. Property? Your relationship is new a few months. Please Think what you were put through last time not to suffer, but to learn. You’ve turned your life round & worked so hard on your beautiful house made it a wonderful home. Please don’t act in haste again darling. We love you & don’t want your heart to be broken again.
@@lindadodd3829I would suggest watching the video and listening to what she shares ❤
@@elizabethsad8023please maybe watch it and listen to what she says ❤
I love the color of green you used on your desk project. It really turned out beautiful!
If you're unmarried & buy a house, a partnership agreement is a must to protect you both. I liked the blue armoire, but the green fits so much better. That skylight was such a great idea. It illuminates the whole area. I loved your placement for the photo shoot. You are so talented. ❤
I hope you get to do Vlogmas this year!! Also love your boyfriend - it's so obvious how happy he makes you! You look RADIANT!
That house is stunning, I can see you there!
There is no single right timeline for every stage of life, decision, relationship, etc. As long as you are taking the steps that bring you joy, keep on keeping on! Life is too short to not to take the leaps sometimes, even if there is a risk, there’s always going to be risks no matter the timeline!
Your fashion shoot was gorgeous! So creative and pretty.
If you move, lease the house you are in so you can receive personal income and have a place to go if things ever go south.
I know it feels pessimistic to think of this stuff when you are in the honeymoon phase, but as someone who dated someone for 4 years before marriage I’ve learned that you can’t really know a person. I trusted him completely and he ran away with our teenage goddaughter. I was with him for 12 years and he is going for funds from the divorce he knows he doesn’t deserve so he can start a life with her out of state.
In the beginning he was handy around the house and lovey. All my friends loved him, but some people wait to flip the switch once things get serious. It’s more common than you’d think.
So, I hope things go well, but be sure to protect your assets and have a way out as an option if you need it. It’s not fun, but it is wise.
beautifully said🥰
i’m sorry if this will sound weird but, I appreciate how respectful this is 😌💟✨
So sorry bc I can totally relate. I found out after my husband of 22yrs passed that there were many lies he kept from me. Sometimes we never really do know them. Learned my lesson.
I thought we had established that many of us will absolutely freak out at just the mention of this guy and any plans with him! 😂 I wouldn't worry about some of us freaking out or not freaking out. Just enjoy yourself and keep yourself safe, and we'll have to put on our big girl pants and let you be an adult and run your life! xoxoxo
Brilliantly put 😂😅
Hi Elise , your wardrobe looks so lovely in green , it’s so beautiful🤩 I loved all the dresses you tried on and the wonderful fluffy jacket they all looked gorgeous on you .
The old mill from the outside looked wonderful , but I do agree with you that it needs a lot of TLC . Have a wonderful weekend ❤🦋
It's your life and only you can make decisions for it. ❤
This is exactly why people stop sharing information with their followers. You were asked not to freak out, you freak out. Chill y'all. Looking forward to following Elise in whatever adventure she chooses in whichever house she may or may not choose in the future. Elise, YOU have proven time and time again, that you can make any space magical! Hope you find exactly what you dream of and we are so happy to get to be on this journey with you from watching and cheering for you from the sidelines!
Love this ❤
Honestly, why say anything at all. She already knew how people would react. Elise you need to think long and hard about what you share. Once it is out there you can't bring it back. I know you want to be transparent, but people are cruel and very judgmental. They also don't mind telling you, a full grown woman how to live YOUR life. They give you advice they themselves would not appreciate hearing. It is your life, live it girl.
I think she didn't freak out, she just told her story/ her experience. Maybe there's valuable information in there.
I'd rather think you yourself kinda freak out, since you told her what to do ("chill" etc.). She on the other hand talked about herself/her life.
@@FrogeniusW.G. the OP was talking to the audience who leave comments here, not Elise! She's telling the commenters to chill. 🙃
Engagement, my dear. The name of the game is engagement, the more people comment on her videos, the more the algorythm sees it as attractive to viewers and the more it will be suggested to new viewers, and the more Elise makes money. And she plays that game VERY well, kudos (and more money) to her 👍
I'm just surprised by the audience's naiveté. She shares because she expects that kind of reaction. You're adorable to defend her, but if the audience actually listens to you, she would lose money. Let her play the game, and let the audience bite 😉
Please don’t rush. We were all heartbroken for you after the last house episode. You work so hard to make places full of your skill and. You are a strong independent woman so think carefully.
❤ thank you for another wonderful vlog showcasing snippets of your daily life on the other side of the world. I really enjoy your content❤
This may be silly for outside the showroom, but what about an old bike that you could decorate in some way for the winter months? Like you could hang two round wreaths on the tires or put something evergreen in the basket and you could pull it in and out easily...maybe an old bike wouldn't be eye-catching enough, but it's what popped in my head.
I think that's a fun idea. I'll just take that idea with me in my process, thanks 🥰
A house in the country sounds nice. I grew up in the country in Newfoundland and miss it!❤🇨🇦
Elise, I'm so pleased that you are comfortable enough to be thinking about a long term future with your boyfriend. He sounds lovely. Wishing you much happiness.
Glad you both went to look at the house.👍👍
I think one of the issues here is that Elise has created a life here on youtube many ( especially older ladies) wish they could have had. Many have been hurt by men or are living in situations they wish they would have been smarter in .. So they don’t want to see that happen with Elise. They see what she shows us, which is , of course, not all of her life. They see a strong girl who has seemingly taken control of her life and created something great out of it. They don’t want that taken away from her. She worked so hard for it. Many of us have done the same, in fact. They/ We haven’t “met” this guy at all in the videos so we have no idea. Elise had her heart broken so badly and she shared that with us and bared a lot to her viewers. People don’t want that to happen to her again - and worse.
We have to trust that Elise will do what is best for her - like many of us tried. If she makes mistakes, she makes mistakes. She will pick herself up and she’ll be alright.
Well, Elise, please try to understand there are so many people round the world that care for your wellbeing. You really have created something so many people wish for themselves, honestly. Try not to be too aggravated. I know this can be frustrating sometimes. 💖 We are lucky that you share with us as much as you do.
Here we go with the older ladies comment again….
Wrote a novel lol
@@sugarkittiesWasn’t meant for you.
I can not believe the negative comments. She has the right to be happy and she can define that for herself! You all act as if your say will have anything to do with her decisions. She's a very capable adult! Just because one man hurts you it doesn't mean all men will hurt you! That's like men saying all women are gold diggers, it's simply not true. She is smart enough to know how to handle things! Is it that hard to be happy for someone who is clearly happy! I have subscribed for a long time and she is happier in these videos lately than she has been for a while now. Just a Congrats and good luck is all you need say. If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. If the relationship doesn't last, well so be it. She will learn and grow! Just because a relationship ends, even if it ends badly you can still learn more about yourself, your wants and needs, and that is still valuable as well. It must be so hard to go around being so negative to someone you don't even know. We don't know her, we get the glimpses she chooses to share. Unless you truly know her how can you have so much negativity about a decision that doesn't effect you. Life is short, be happy if you can be!❤
Thank you so so much for having my back. I still feel speechless and have no idea how to address how uncomfortable the comments section has been on this video ❤️
It's so absurd! I know I don't comment often, I don't comment often on any channel, but I just don't understand these people in the comments. I totally have your back! Go do your life and don't worry about what these people think. Life is truly short and there are no promises that anything we do will turn out great or long lasting... so when it does it is true joy! If this brings you joy, then follow your heart! Even decisions that don't work out still are great teaching moments! Everything has value if you look at it the right way. ❤Love is everything after all and only you know your heart!
I looked at the comments first, but glad I watched the whole video through. I think you sound happy, comfortable, and excited about the future with your boyfriend and there's nothing wrong with that. Looking at a house is not a contract lol. I selfishly also hope you will hang onto your house for a while longer because your home looks like a dream, however this is your life and I have faith that there is room for both love and logic. Best of luck to you!
hahaha, same 🙋🏻♀️
wishing you only the best on your journey Elise~ 💟✨
Thank you, I will hold onto my house for a while, but I don't work without dreaming or finding new dreams and adventures. I'll not be living here forever, it's never been a plan of mine.
If I were Elise, I might feel smothered by all the care--in the form of peoples' own anxieties, worries and warnings! After she requested no "freak out"! Can we rather just respect and support her right and freedom--and ability--to choose her own path and a full life? WHATEVER that may be?
Personally, I loved the fascinating tour of the mill house, and also the thought of her and her boyfriend just exploring options and ideas (as she clearly said) and enjoying themselves together. Anything else, around buying, or their relationship, is surely none of my business! We all see through different lenses, and they both have a right to their own, themselves--without us assuming, presuming or trying to control . . . specially since we only see a FRACTION of Elise's life! Just saying
Well said!
Exactly! People are trauma dumping and projecting, always worried about every little thing that could go wrong and never letting oneself fully love and trust somebody else, what a sad and stressful way to go through life. I’m happy Elise is happy.
@nestandthimble said it all. Keep your house. If he doesn't currently have a property... please keep your house. You deserve the best! Take your time. You bring a lot and your future partner should do the same.... Team Elise here!!!
I think you should be guided by how you feel. I don't think that one bad experience should necessarily stop you from making decisions together with your new love. Only you know if he is 'the one.' Live life to the fullest Elise, we only have one. Much love from England xx ❤
Loved the beautiful collection. It is stunning!!!❤️
Thaank you 🥰
Girl live your best life. Buy a house, sell one, have fun while you can. You’re a smart girl… do what makes you happy ❤❤❤❤
Not logical advice!
Do what makes you happy comment does not work. Use wisdom that works! The heart is decitful. Follow what God wants for your life.
@@aproverbshome173 💯. Follow Him and you will not go wrong 🙏🏼
I know a lot of people are inserting their opinions, but you're a smart woman with a good head on your shoulders, and I know you're considering the logical sides of everything while still allowing yourself and your bf to dream together. The length of a relationship doesn't determine its strength, and only you can know that, not strangers from the internet. I had a 4 year relationship that ended terribly and then a relationship where we moved in together within two months of dating and actively discussed/chose to start a family within 6 months. We have now been together for 12 years, married for 11, have a 10-year-old son and 8-year-old son, and we still love each other more than anything.
💟👏🏼✨
Make a dress shaped sign which can have pieces overlayed on it, not fabric, but something waterproof, that you can change out the dress design for each Season or Holiday. It would be creative, so something you could design, paint ect. Also eye catching and promotes what you sell.