Dealing with Your Period as a Ballet Dancer | Kathryn Morgan

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  • Dealing with Your Period as a Ballet Dancer | Kathryn Morgan
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    Today we get personal! A lot of you are struggling with your periods while being ballet dancers. I really hope my tips and shared experiences can help get you through that awful "time of the month". You are not alone - all women deal with this!
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  • @DoomsdayDollie
    @DoomsdayDollie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2758

    Saw this title and literally was like "YASSS, FINALLY. SOMEONE IS TALKING ABOUT THIS." Slay.

  • @lilith7247
    @lilith7247 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2269

    I don't even dance ballet, wtf am I doing here?! 😂

    • @dayoolorunnisola162
      @dayoolorunnisola162 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lilith Potter Same

    • @paolagonzalez1553
      @paolagonzalez1553 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      neither do i, but i really wanted to know

    • @Amy-on2wy
      @Amy-on2wy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      same,,, its like 2am XD XD

    • @dianelam6368
      @dianelam6368 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      saaame lol

    • @queishaquast8277
      @queishaquast8277 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same I don't dance ballet but I wanna advance in my dancing so i seek out info and i am here 😂

  • @amandastevens1117
    @amandastevens1117 7 ปีที่แล้ว +944

    10 yr old me: It is wonderful being female! (Gets period) present day me: Never mind.

  • @marionbennetts4202
    @marionbennetts4202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I started my first period during class no tights on just socks. my male teacher noticed and came over wrapped a jumper around my waist and sent me to the bathroom and got one of the mums to come and help. went back in to the studio and he gave me a bar of chocolate and a huge hug. men do understand xxxx i keep a pretty makeup bag in my bag now with spare tights panties tampons and moon cup and paracetamol and a teeny bar of chocolate! MUMS TEACH YOUR BOYS ABOUT PERIODS!!!!!!

    • @shydumpling4303
      @shydumpling4303 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      what a sweet teacher 🥺🥺

    • @marywatkins9438
      @marywatkins9438 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He sounds pretty awesome.

    • @marywatkins9438
      @marywatkins9438 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just wondering…are there ladies/people who menstruate here who use menstrual cups or discs? I’ve tried both, and prefer the cups.

  • @ericagoehring1089
    @ericagoehring1089 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1468

    Thank you for this! We need to stop treating menstruation as a taboo topic. It's healthy and normal. I am glad you invited a candid conversation.

    • @chryssoulakostaki7265
      @chryssoulakostaki7265 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Erica Goehring

    • @chryssoulakostaki7265
      @chryssoulakostaki7265 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Erica Goehring

    • @stardancer5099
      @stardancer5099 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I agree it's normal, by the way she could talk about how to deal with pubic hair...Because it's taboo too, nobody talks about it and as a dancer it drives me crazy¡¡

    • @silviasd_88
      @silviasd_88 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Agreed. And you can also speak frankly to a male teacher about this issue: he's an adult, he probably has a mum/sister/cousin/friend/girlfriend/etc, so he knows that girls get period. Most important: it's NOT a scandalous thing, it's common thing :) I played volleyball, we do need to wear a uniform with very short and tight pants only during matches. I've ALWAYS had male coaches and they were so so sweet and understanding with us girls!

    • @melody4444441
      @melody4444441 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tommy Was Homophobic Inaccurate.

  • @krazybilly99
    @krazybilly99 7 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    Im a dancing guy and I found it interesting to watch this video. YOU GO GIRLS!!!

  • @shelleyroper540
    @shelleyroper540 7 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    6:55 I'm on my period eating saltines and i have ballet class in an hour

    • @laylanahar
      @laylanahar 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      for me it's nacho and chocolate bars. Nom!

    • @oliviacrandall4895
      @oliviacrandall4895 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shelley Roper sameee

    • @miahua9111
      @miahua9111 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ahahahaha me tooooooo when i’m on my period i wanna curl up in bed and eat a store

    • @abby697
      @abby697 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      RELATEABLE

    • @user-ht3xv4kn4m
      @user-ht3xv4kn4m 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

  • @agr1323
    @agr1323 7 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    if it's a male teacher then tell him too. Who cares if it's male. It's a natural process and there should be no shame in talking to ANYONE about any menstrual function.

    • @japanimesekai3985
      @japanimesekai3985 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Ar G I agree. If anything, men may actually be more sympathetic than women, lol.

    • @jeanienguyen1543
      @jeanienguyen1543 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      ^ If anything I feel like most guys feel less comfortable on the subject therefore they will just let you do whatever since they feel awkward (even if there's no reason for it to be awkward)

  • @Ladychechi98
    @Ladychechi98 7 ปีที่แล้ว +469

    I wouldn't recommend putting in a tampon if you are not on your period (ie middle of your cycle). Besides being painful because of dryness there are a number of problems that could arise, including a higher risk for toxic shock syndrome
    Source: I'm a med student, you can obviosly do anything you want but it's not the safest choice

    • @FloralMedic
      @FloralMedic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      She meant at the very start of the beginning of her period starting. Orrrr just after. Not the weeks or bit inbetween? But maybe she meant that. But. I. agree :)

    • @lulud15
      @lulud15 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ladychechi98 thanks you. I've been sort of confused about that as I had heard it was dangerous and I wasn't sure

    • @KristenPellegrini
      @KristenPellegrini 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ladychechi98 I think it was mainly bc of irregular periods. I know when I was young mine were all over the place and sometimes I'd put one in during a competition just in case! Never for longer than an hour or two. Especially for me, wearing a pad while dancing made me feel less graceful

    • @LucySquarey
      @LucySquarey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ladychechi98 a performance is about 3 hours long tss happens after 7 hours

    • @LucySquarey
      @LucySquarey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Chickenlegs still in a three hour performance she’s got nout to worry about

  • @marianapalmer7228
    @marianapalmer7228 7 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I just want to say some women get pains with their period that over the counter painkillers cannot touch. Go to a doctor of you get these. Go to another one if they won't listen to you. Endometriosis affects about 1/10 women. It can be very debilitating and the sooner it is treated the better.

    • @tinamarie2121
      @tinamarie2121 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mariana Gledhill endo sufferer here and I completely agree!

    • @lilmissmonsterrr
      @lilmissmonsterrr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mariana Gledhill I was diagnosed with endometriosis about four years ago. I had surgery soon after that, executed by a highly reputable doc. I was so excited that my periods would be less debilitating. much to my dismay nothing changed, not even a little. so i paid a lot of money for basically nothing and now I have four ugly scars on my abdomen... for nothing. just saying, sometimes you're just screwed.

    • @ultravioletspirit
      @ultravioletspirit 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      AssaultedPeanutt hello! try natural medicine! there are many things that are very helpful, first change to a menstrual cup to avoid all the chemicals such as chlorine bleach and glyphosate that are in tampons, drink lots of filtered not bottled water during your period, avoid salt ands irritants, and take maca root superfood in powder form in smoothies or something similar this super food will help you regulate your hormones and deal with many of the symptoms, is an adaptogen meaning it will work worth your own body. I wish you the best! and never give up, the solutions are there they are just not the Big Pharma agenda ones.

    • @lilmissmonsterrr
      @lilmissmonsterrr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aletia Gonzalez thanks for taking the time to type that advice, I'll definitely try what you mentioned. I have been highly considering the menstrual cup because i've been suspecting that my body is more sensitive/symptomatic to chemicals than the average person and because it's less wasteful than tampons and such. so I'll try that if you think it'll help my pain situation. I'm a lot more holistic than I was when that surgery took place, so I do feel that my body must be lacking something that needs to be supplemented. I only drink filtered or bottled water, and I'm sort of a pescatarian, minus some fish types, and this diet works best with my body. but anyways, thanks for the advice!

    • @hanzib31
      @hanzib31 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      AssaultedPeanutt i promise im not one of those GO VEGAN youtube commenters but eating less dairy really helped me. also, lowering my fat intake (not calories just fat!)... cups can also worsen cramps (i assume because its a bigger item up there!) but just be aware of that! 😀

  • @roachbeth510
    @roachbeth510 7 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    I love your frank discussion. I think that as women we should get more comfortable talking about our periods. You are so right, I felt so ashamed when I got my period for the first time, but there is no reason for that. It's just part of life.
    I have never done ballet (but absolutely love your channel!) but about a year ago I started using a menstrual cup (I use the Diva Cup brand) and it has absolutely changed they way I feel about my period. I go to the gym every day and the cup made it so much better! No leaks, no smell, much more comfortable. I wonder if any dancers have had a similar experience.

    • @dancingformysavior3971
      @dancingformysavior3971 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Beth I prefer menstrual cups as well, they are hard to use during performances because if you have to change it and you're wearing pink tights it's not as simple as a tampon.

    • @TieDyedSquishy
      @TieDyedSquishy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Beth Roach yes, cups change lives! I really hope that people aren't taking her seriously about wearing tampons when they're not on their cycle. So dangerous. Much more doable with a cup!

    • @MsScully25
      @MsScully25 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She is only talking about public performances, not about using it all the time.

    • @totalrandomness4543
      @totalrandomness4543 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Greene Turtle I agree, but using tampons whilst not on your period you could risk micro tears or infections.

    • @worldreligion5992
      @worldreligion5992 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Beth Roach why were you ashamed?? I don't understand how everyone is uncomfortable. No moment in my life has ever been like others experiences, every girl I know comfortably talks about it.

  • @etta5487
    @etta5487 7 ปีที่แล้ว +667

    wow she started really late! i started at 13. lucky duck

  • @ZozziFox
    @ZozziFox 7 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    I completely forgot that tampons existed for a minute. I stopped dancing ballet before I got mine, so I was lucky, I suppose. I wish I didn't quit though. It's a bit late now.

    • @creolesaint
      @creolesaint 7 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      ZozziGames it's never too late😊

    • @rachaelevans8351
      @rachaelevans8351 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ZozziGames omg I'm in the same situation

    • @solangegarnier7473
      @solangegarnier7473 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      ZozziGames IT'S NEVER TOO LATE COME BACK

    • @stephaniethompson886
      @stephaniethompson886 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Your never too late

    • @numairluver13
      @numairluver13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm the same.... I miss ballet so much, but I stopped forever ago, and now I'm very out of shape. I miss dance though and I'm glad I can appreciate ballet and dance to this day. But I quit before I started as well. So at least I never had to deal with it?

  • @victoriasmile7415
    @victoriasmile7415 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    NEVER EVER WEAR TAMPONS WHEN YOU'RE NOT MENSTRUATING! Feel that dry feeling taking a tampon out that isn't fully saturated? The reason it is uncomfortable is because it is ripping micro cuts into your vaginal canal, which is the way that the staf bacteria gets into the blood stream causing TSS which can be fatal. Use a menstrual cup if you need internal protection when you're not menstruating just yet.

  • @KaseyDarlene
    @KaseyDarlene 7 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    I am a ballet teacher and after reading the comments I want to offer some wisdom. First, tampons are NOT scary. I promise. For a dancer, they're a lifesaver especially if you're really serious about dancing. If you want to dance, please learn to use them. Also, as a dancer you need to start wearing them to class at least a few days before you are supposed to start. Find a brand that doesn't leak for you and you shouldn't ever have to wear anything in addition to it unless it would make you feel better. Next, understand that periods are completely normal. I have had students start theirs during class before and I have had students noticeably wear a pad with their leotard. If an accident happens you're not the first nor the last and it's nothing to be embarrassed about. Main thing is, don't be afraid! It's not a big deal and it's not scary no matter what happens!

    • @TieDyedSquishy
      @TieDyedSquishy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Kasey Darlene using tampons when you're not on your period is a bad idea. It increases the instances of small scratches you get on your vaginal walls from tampons that leave you open to TSS. Please don't recommend that girls wear tampons incorrectly. A little research on tampons and TSS will clear that up.
      Cups can be used quite safely while not on your period as long as you use lubricant. Cups don't scratch the vaginal walls like tampons do so they have a much much lower risk of TSS.

    • @KaseyDarlene
      @KaseyDarlene 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Ok, thank you for the information. I will definitely look into it. For someone who is in a leotard and tights six days per week pads are just not an option.

    • @miljalassila4420
      @miljalassila4420 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Kasey Darlene i would really recommend menstrual cups! While using one you dont have to worry about leaking and you can can start using them safely unlike tampons before you actual periods start!

    • @mariamgalal2369
      @mariamgalal2369 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kasey Darlene
      I am a Muslim and a ballet dancer and in Islam we are not allowed to wear tempons or any other thing who can enter the vagina
      but I started ballet at 13 and my period started before becoming 13 by a couple of weeks .....
      so I only made one dance and I wasn't on my period
      and wear pads and a black ballet outfit if i on my period but I am wondering what should I do when I am on my period when I have a performance

    • @blubb2010
      @blubb2010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Damn you know that this is super unhealthy and also dangerous to wear a Tampon when you're not in your period. It promotes all sorts of infections. You can wear a menstruation cup while you are on your period otherwise just don't use anything in your normal cylce. Do you think it's helpful if a couple of your girls are fighting a serious infection, draggin themselves to class and still perform flawless? Not to forget the toxic shock syndrome which can actually kill you.

  • @fairykelsi
    @fairykelsi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    definitely do not put a tampon in if you're not on your period!

    • @hanasong14
      @hanasong14 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      why not tampons r the best

    • @megatrackstarmeghana
      @megatrackstarmeghana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hana Song they are bad for you

    • @charlotteroseray5488
      @charlotteroseray5488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      tampons are bad if you arent menstruating because there is not enough fluid for them to absorb and they can dry out your vagina or get stuck.

    • @mathildewesendonck7225
      @mathildewesendonck7225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Charlotte Roseray its okay if you do it for just two hours of class. Of course you shouldn‘t use a tampon 24/7

    • @lucyg6827
      @lucyg6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mathildewesendonck7225 you can wear them all the time if you want. it’s a preference. they aren’t bad for you. i wear tampons throughout the day not just at dance.

  • @ashleycinnamon6330
    @ashleycinnamon6330 7 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Male teachers will probably just get embarrassed and be like 'sure sure whatever'

  • @Layla-yo3ph
    @Layla-yo3ph 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I started my period before pointe and a boy asked my why my feet were ugly and he may or may not have died

  • @spidermiss2426
    @spidermiss2426 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I'm not a ballet dancer but I am a burlesque performer, and once I was performing on my period and I forgot to trim my tampon string. But I do want to warn against wearing a tampon when you aren't on your period. If you need to wear something, get a menstrual cup. If you wear a tampon while not on your period, you have greater risk for TSS.

    • @patriciagreen9396
      @patriciagreen9396 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      spidermiss2426 Why the hell would you wear a tampon when not on your cycle?

    • @ps-hb1es
      @ps-hb1es 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Somebody on here suggested you need to wear a tampon to class starting around the time you think you MIGHT get your period...

    • @ForeverStayStrong16
      @ForeverStayStrong16 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was told not to use a menstrual cup with my IUD, especially the ones like SoftCup that go up near your cervix.

  • @elliemccarthy5672
    @elliemccarthy5672 7 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    There are thin panty liners that are invisible under leggings, leotards, tights, etc. That way if you start your period, you won't leak for a while. Much safer than tampons when you are not on your period (taking out dry tampons can cause micro tears in the vaginal wall, which can cause infection)

    • @kaylacasarez4230
      @kaylacasarez4230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have a serious question that I hope someone can answer!! So at my studio we aren’t allowed to wear skirts or shorts or leggings....only pink tights and a black leo. I am too scared to use tampons. I have class tomorrow but I don’t know what to do. I don’t have time to buy anything either. Plz help!!! 😓🥺

    • @katerinaliakou5549
      @katerinaliakou5549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaylacasarez4230 It's been a month but I am wondering if you figured anything out? If not I would suggest either a very thin pad without wings or a menstrual cup. Avoid using tampons if you aren't on your period.

    • @kaylacasarez4230
      @kaylacasarez4230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@katerinaliakou5549 Still too scared to use tampons...but I’m starting to come around to them. Found out from another girl in class that it’s easiest to wear a thin pad or use tampons or a menstrual cup. Wearing thin pads seems to work for me...I was a little self conscious the first time until I realized that nobody is going to be looking at you down there. 🙃

    • @katerinaliakou5549
      @katerinaliakou5549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kaylacasarez4230 I go with pads as well, tampons always stop my period for a day which is not good. You can check out period panties as well if you are concerned about leaking with the pads, one brand that I am aware of is thinx but there more out there. In case you try them, I recommend you wearing them first in the house in order to see if they work for you.

    • @aygul386
      @aygul386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kaylacasarez4230 You can wear period panties like Knix

  • @krrrzzzzzz
    @krrrzzzzzz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I love the "TMI" style video! So many things considered TMI actually shouldn't be. I think this was a great video Katie !

  • @Morana1511
    @Morana1511 7 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    My advice would be to use menstrual cup. It's so much better than tampon. You don't feel it, there is no danger of toxic shock syndrome. It really is comfortable to wear (and I had problems with tampons) and you don't need to worry about it leaking. Not to mention that it will last you for a few years :)

    • @quetzalcoatltopiltzin2423
      @quetzalcoatltopiltzin2423 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But i've heard that the cup can move, and you could have an accident. Is that true? I mean, in jumps and turns it's possible it moves.

    • @quetzalcoatltopiltzin2423
      @quetzalcoatltopiltzin2423 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks!

    • @Morana1511
      @Morana1511 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Quetzalcoatl Topiltzin no the cup can't move ;) You have to squeeze it to get it out. It creates vacuum and stays in place until you remove it. I tested it on bootcamp class and it hold up :D

    • @larakorrat
      @larakorrat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But you have to be careful when you are upside down. The blood should not flow back in the uterus and therefore tempos a bit safer.

    • @sonjahavukainen1859
      @sonjahavukainen1859 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lara Korrat That's not true, at least the tampons being safer -part. With the tampon, the possible bacteria or whatever you think is dangerous in the blood is all the time touching your vagina (and menstrual blood isn't dangerous - it might grow some bacteria over time but it takes more than 12 hours if the blood sits in the cup). With cup, it isn't and even if you are upside down and the blood would get out of the cup to the top part of your vagina, it would just go back to the cup once you turn back. It doesn't go back to the uterus.

  • @mosellehaney4269
    @mosellehaney4269 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Another tip I've learned is that if you wear briefs/undies under your costume, you can use a thin pad or liner as an extra layer of protection if need be. Thank you so much for doing this video!

  • @nevadascholze5206
    @nevadascholze5206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I would also suggest a menstrual cup! Bunch of helpful videos on precious star pads (she's also a dancer) no risk of tss (ok like 0.0000000000001% chance) and you can't feel it. Life saver.

    • @2013Queen
      @2013Queen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nevada Scholze I was going to say the same thing! Women shouldn't wear tampons if they are not menstruating to reduce TTS

    • @JoyceeV.
      @JoyceeV. ปีที่แล้ว

      I wear a menstrual disc i had trouble with it sometimes but it works

  • @hanzib31
    @hanzib31 7 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    why is talking about periods tmi? the vast majority of females have it and it shouldnt be taboo.

  • @ericalinx
    @ericalinx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Just discovered your channel - love your videos 💕👯🎬

  • @soupedelimaces
    @soupedelimaces 7 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    One time i had my period, i had a pad and shorts BUT it bled on my pink tights during center exercises... I don't know if they really noticed...Thank god while the other girls were drinking water i could change my shorts for longer ones that would hide the blood on my tights... I think my teacher noticed that... Ew 😂😂😂

    • @outtaluckvevo5826
      @outtaluckvevo5826 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Omgg that's literally my biggest fear

    • @katiearnold6022
      @katiearnold6022 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      alien soup I got my first period during class and it bled through my tights

    • @minzmuffin1772
      @minzmuffin1772 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Katie Arnold oh no

    • @NikitaJonesSubscribe
      @NikitaJonesSubscribe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Happened to me 2 lmaoooooo

    • @melomania
      @melomania 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's natural, not "ew" x) so no big deal

  • @madeline2282
    @madeline2282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I randomly started my period in the middle of class, light gray cotton leotard, pink tights, light skirt. It was a VERY noticable stain. Right before rond de jambes and développes. And it was open house... my boyfriend was watching class that day. EVERYTHING THAT COULD GO WRONG
    I genuinely wish I was kidding but I had to run over to my bag in from across the class right before the combination and take off my skirt and put on my warm up shorts and my teacher stopped the class to ask wtf I was doing. I never get embarrassed about periods but I was mortified 😂😂 I was like 19 at the time
    So ladies...top that story

  • @chloe_alien
    @chloe_alien 7 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I thought you weren't meant to wear tampons if you weren't menstruating? That's what it says on all the boxes anyway

    • @rachelgarber1423
      @rachelgarber1423 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Perhaps it was close to time for her to start her period and she didn't want to get caught off guard.

    • @JoyceeV.
      @JoyceeV. ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea you’re not supposed to so I was confused as to why she said that

  • @k_a_y_l_e_e
    @k_a_y_l_e_e 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    it's sooooooo refreshing to hear this discussed. so often women are shamed about this stuff or for even asking this question so i'm glad this got talked about.

  • @ameliabeneventi7851
    @ameliabeneventi7851 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Wearing a tampon when you're not on your period puts you at a significant risk of contracting Toxic Shock Syndrome. That's really dangerous advice Kathryn, no matter how it helps your peace of mind.

    • @gemsybobsy
      @gemsybobsy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      surely it's a really small risk if it's just for 1-2 hours of performance or class.

    • @a-mdownes8340
      @a-mdownes8340 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Part of the danger is in placing and removing, though, because you can easily cause tiny tears in the skin when it's too dry - meaning that you're completely open to infections. That would happen even if you only had it in five seconds.

  • @LenaLovingLotta
    @LenaLovingLotta 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Thank you. just thank you. I have a tip, if you have cramps and you don't want to take pain killers (or can't because they are not taking the pain away and just make you tired like me), get some really good magnesium supplements. They help me so so much with my cramps because magnesium will relax your muscles instead of just killing the pain. :)

  • @hairstylesbyanna3724
    @hairstylesbyanna3724 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow she had her period at 16 I had mine at 12...

  • @jessicabush3735
    @jessicabush3735 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Try Thinx! They are special period underwear and they come in nude and black, a bunch of different styles. They are made of super absorbable fabric that can actually take the place of pads/tampons. It's also a great company, and a more sustainable option.

  • @frrizz6
    @frrizz6 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes!!! I'm so Happy you ignored the stigma of not talking about periods and especially in dance! I found it so difficult to deal with and I really appreciate you discussing this!

  • @isabellafelix198
    @isabellafelix198 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This is the most useful video i've ever watched. Thank you so much

  • @lusciouslylevilifestyle181
    @lusciouslylevilifestyle181 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Absolutely love how well you explain all the tips! ❤️

  • @BeccaEmilyLou
    @BeccaEmilyLou 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this is so helpful! I'll be starting ballet classes next year when im 19 and I've always thought about this issue :) thank you for the advice

  • @kenx4990
    @kenx4990 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This helped so much I was so scared to start my period but now I know it's not a big deal thank you

  • @awkwardlyadorable4725
    @awkwardlyadorable4725 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I'm about to start, I have a performance this weekend and my costume is white 😖 I think that I might try the second layer of tights!

    • @beckymtz5284
      @beckymtz5284 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AwkwardlyAdorable OMG! That's happening to me, what do you do that day?

  • @amandadevasconcellos
    @amandadevasconcellos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One thing I would like to point out, as a medical student, is that wearing a tampon outside the period may be harmful, because the tampon dries all the fluid that is inside your lady parts, so that may damage the bacterial flora that we naturally have. As these bacteria are benign, keeping them out leaves more space for harmful bacteria to grow and cause an infection. A safer alternative to keep peace of mind would be to wear pads during non-period days. If it's not possible to wear pads, try menstrual cups

  • @dontusethischannelanymore5948
    @dontusethischannelanymore5948 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    my leotard is red! 😂😂

  • @labellelace
    @labellelace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was very helpful. I did dance when I was younger, moved to competitive cheer, and am going back to dance this year and have been very anxious that I won’t be high enough of a level, will have an issue with my period, etc. The dancer community in general here on youtube has been very relieving.

  • @RymVri108
    @RymVri108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Don’t put in a tampon if you don’t have your period. It sounds scary at first, but it’s so worth it to learn how to use a menstrual cup. They are safe to wear if you think you might get your period, but haven’t started yet. Tampons harbor all kinds of bacteria and can lead to infections. Menstrual cups are intimidating at first, but once you get used to it (doesn’t take too long) then you will wonder why you ever wore anything else.

  • @tinydancer122698
    @tinydancer122698 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR RESPONDING TO ME!!!! Merry Christmas😍

  • @laylaslife9264
    @laylaslife9264 7 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    NEVER PUT A TAMPON IN IF YOU ARENT ON YOUR PERIOD!! Please dont tell girls this because it is so soooo dangerous and painful!! Do proper reasearch next time!!

    • @mariamgalal2369
      @mariamgalal2369 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Layla' s Life I am a Muslim and a ballet dancer and in Islam we are not allowed to wear tempons
      but I started ballet at 13 and my period started before becoming 13 by a couple of weeks
      so I only made one dance and I wasn't on my period
      and wear pads and a black ballet outfit if i on my period but I am wondering what should I do when I am on my period when I have a performance

    • @rhythmicmusic3505
      @rhythmicmusic3505 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariamgalal2369 why aren't you allowed in your religion? ?

    • @elif8928
      @elif8928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      C-A M&J yt Wait what i’m a muslim too but i don’t think there is anything wrong with wearing one.I know muslim friends who wear them too🤷‍♀️

    • @btsa.r.m.y9071
      @btsa.r.m.y9071 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      C-A M&J yt same

  • @juliettecoleman8413
    @juliettecoleman8413 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg THANK YOU for making this video!! With concerts coming up this will be SOO helpful so thank you!!❤️❤️

  • @PolySammo
    @PolySammo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good for you for helping these young women talk about this

  • @lalou0001
    @lalou0001 7 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I wear pads (no tampons for me) and I use the same method change just before class and i use those kind of panties that have no seems and i never had any problems.

    • @EsotericTherapy
      @EsotericTherapy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Glad to hear this because I'm a strictly no-tampons gal.

    • @ultravioletspirit
      @ultravioletspirit 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      lalou0001 menstrual cups were the biggest discovery for me. they are really convenient and amazing, no smell, empty every 12 hours, no leaks, no chemicals, it doesn't dry your own moisture inky collects blood. they at really amazing if you learn how to put it on and don't get scared is the most amazing thing ever, really!!

    • @maddiesmusic1123
      @maddiesmusic1123 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aletia Gonzalez I should see about it getting a cup.

    • @lucymelancon6534
      @lucymelancon6534 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Have you ever had any issues with pad lines showing through your leotard?

    • @lalou0001
      @lalou0001 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Never, make sure that the sticky surface has the same with of the fabric of your underwear. If you are a (small) teenage choose those brand that target young adults as the pads are smaller in width but never the less still absorb enough so they will fit you better, so they will not show as the sticky pads is sticking to your legs. You can also choose those pads with wings on the side so they will stay in place better. I hope this helps.
      Plus, if you have breaks in between classes you do not need a massive pad in length, those are if you are laying down. Just use one that will be enough for the time being that you cannot go to the toilet.

  • @gr33n4eva
    @gr33n4eva 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I hope we can live in a world one day where talking about your period isn't considered controversial.

    • @kathymyers7279
      @kathymyers7279 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why can’t ANYTHING be private today?

  • @AppleCatProductions
    @AppleCatProductions 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    really important

  • @MissCreepyMind
    @MissCreepyMind 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am not even a Ballet dancer but i love her videos. I do love to write alot and understanding how Ballet works and what little things goes into it helps me to form a character with a ballet background so here is a big Thank you to Kathryn , you do an amazing job at explaining everything ^^

  • @katdf6226
    @katdf6226 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you!!!! Stuff like this needs to be talked about it more as it's a flipping nightmare

  • @haileeisabella6481
    @haileeisabella6481 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your hair is looking incredible!

  • @YiyaELF
    @YiyaELF 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally someone talk about it!! Katie!!! thank you so much for this~

  • @lutulanunu6865
    @lutulanunu6865 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Kathryn, this is smazing and so affirming ! Every young girl should get to see it !

  • @vsm6847
    @vsm6847 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The reason girls and women forget that every woman deals with periods is because we still hear them called "controversial". It's great that you made this video, but you started out basically confirming that we should feel uncomfortable talking about it.

  • @carolinekennedy6653
    @carolinekennedy6653 7 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Try swimming with your period.. but to be honest every girl athlete struggles with periods

    • @shruppledoo5629
      @shruppledoo5629 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Caroline Kennedy oml ikr, I’m a swimmer and swimming is probably hardest with a period because you have to wear a tampon, there isn’t another option. I hate tampons and I can hardly do breast stroke with one and ugh. It’s even worse if you leak because at least in dry sports it just stays in your clothes and isn’t too obvious but in swimming if you leak it stains the pool and EVERYONE SEES and ughhhhh

    • @turtle10141
      @turtle10141 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Simply Ivy you pretty much just summed up why i stopped swimming in 6th grade and kept doing soccer and lacrosse through 7th and 8th

    • @jackystar5099
      @jackystar5099 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@shruppledoo5629 tampons aren't the only option. There are menstrual cups and sponges and so many others. If you want to know more about all the options I recommend looking up alternatives for tampons.

    • @jazzym6632
      @jazzym6632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dancing in a pad is literally impossible it’s either a liner or a tampon. And liners really aren’t the best protection.

    • @mysterybruises3359
      @mysterybruises3359 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      DivaCup

  • @LoveRachelXOXOXO
    @LoveRachelXOXOXO 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kathryn I am a retired gymnast so I can relate to this issue so much. You have done a wonderful service to the young ladies out there who are still learning to deal with their periods.

  • @2seokk
    @2seokk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so glad you made this video! I just started and I have a performance Friday this helped so much.

  • @poolahpot
    @poolahpot 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    LOVE the hair and makeup!!!

    • @darksky5985
      @darksky5985 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      poolahpot me too. she looks great!

  • @paigehester978
    @paigehester978 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was a big help thanks!

  • @noahassel1740
    @noahassel1740 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much! I can't even explain how grateful I am for this video! Last week I had to dance on my period for the first time and it really was horrible. I wish I had seen this before... Thank you!

  • @paigekneuer1218
    @paigekneuer1218 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your make up is amazing!! And thanks for all the great tips!! :)

  • @RageQuitGirlOfficial
    @RageQuitGirlOfficial 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I always wear some kind of panties under costumes, i just feel kind of gross if i dont!

  • @yolomaia
    @yolomaia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I needed this video so video so bad thank you😂

  • @Ludesto
    @Ludesto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're amazing in every little way, Katie

  • @nataliastewart5059
    @nataliastewart5059 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a Street Dancer and I just recently got into a competition company so that means I will be doing more preformances. This helped me a lot even though I don't do ballet! Thank you very much!

  • @paudancer0224
    @paudancer0224 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You can also put on your tampon as usual and then use the little pads that I think they are like everyday pads or something. Sorry if I'm not explaining well 😅 but this is a really good advice if you feel like you are going to have an accident 👌🏽. Thanks for the video! It was really helpful! 💕 😘

  • @Gingerella72
    @Gingerella72 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I often wondered what female figure skaters do too, those skimpy costumes leave no room for hiding anything.

  • @jessicabird1175
    @jessicabird1175 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was waiting for someone to do a video like this . I am glad you did this video ❤️

  • @rebekahepley1776
    @rebekahepley1776 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for doing this!! It is really helpful just to here another dancers point of view!! Thank you thank you thank you!!

  • @kaitlyntrussell2489
    @kaitlyntrussell2489 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Definitely don't wear a tampon when you're not near you're period because taking out a dry tampon is what causes toxic shock syndrome. However I recommend checking out menstrual cups because there's no risk with those!

  • @imafrogdad2531
    @imafrogdad2531 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I wish I didn't get my period until seventeen. I got mine at eleven

  • @isabellagarcia5935
    @isabellagarcia5935 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for talking about this! You are like the only channel that's done this!

  • @stellashinn5117
    @stellashinn5117 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is super helpful. I started when I was 7 years old. I was super scared, but you do get used to it as you get older. Also, the double tights hack was genius. Thank you!!

  • @msjordanleann
    @msjordanleann 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i would also totally recommend a menstrual cup - it's peace of mind for a bit longer than a tampon would give and you can't feel a thing if it's in correctly. this SAVED me in college during long rehearsals or anything where we didn't have a lot of breaks. they're not for everyone, but definitely worth a shot!

    • @ErdbeereRot
      @ErdbeereRot 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why no breaks? It is sick without breaks. You have to change tampons and cups or pads often, otherwise you can get severly sick from it.

  • @hannahs7662
    @hannahs7662 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    honestly good video idea

  • @AriRHen
    @AriRHen 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much for making this Katie. I feel a bit more secure now about what to do in class when that time of the month comes!

  • @felicitys.5602
    @felicitys.5602 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This would have saved me when I was younger! Thanks for doing this video!

  • @mvsdancer5104
    @mvsdancer5104 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I dance and my ballet instructor was like take your shorts off and I was like um I can't and then she was like ohh

  • @Selenelaszlobjj
    @Selenelaszlobjj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pamprin is my savior when it comes to cramps. It is a miracle cramp reliever pill. It also helps with migraines too.

    • @artisticdifferences665
      @artisticdifferences665 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It has a muscle relaxant in there, so it's waaay better than Midol. It works for pretty much any type of pain, too, so good to carry around in case of emergencies.

    • @johnlamphier9812
      @johnlamphier9812 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Forever Rose. Advil always saved me from the pain

  • @alicenmoore6970
    @alicenmoore6970 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This morning I literally was thinking and I was like someone needs to make this video, I get home and see that you did. Thanks!!

  • @emmydoooo6549
    @emmydoooo6549 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this was so helpful! thank you!❤️

  • @coraliepayne2408
    @coraliepayne2408 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ok little story for you now, when I was 13 every year we did little ballet shows to show the parents and stuff, I had a solo as the sugar plum fairy for the nutcracker show we where doing. Anyways during the solo I wore a pink (almost white) tutu, and I just got my period. I bled all over the tutu. But the show must go on and I carried on! 😂😂😬

    • @jitkabulmer3209
      @jitkabulmer3209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pizza Lover how did u do that I couldn't!

  • @michelledegeorge5708
    @michelledegeorge5708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm not even a dancer, why am I watching this so attentively? 😂

  • @esthertaplin3519
    @esthertaplin3519 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best tips thank you from a fellow dancer

  • @mirandagarvey7280
    @mirandagarvey7280 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just discovered your channel and this video has helped me out so much! Thank you!!

  • @elarakirtland2454
    @elarakirtland2454 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My dance teacher doesn’t care if I’m on my period 😂 she’s just like “well I manage so can you” noooo sympathy 😂

  • @sd-df9dj
    @sd-df9dj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got mine at ballet class with a male teacher. Thank god my friend told me before he saw. I just changed my stockings

  • @bellaseifert9576
    @bellaseifert9576 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg this helped me soooo much I am a 5 day per week dancer and I have not started yet but now I know what to do and I love your videos❤️❤️ thanks for making awesome videos!

  • @jesskismet1389
    @jesskismet1389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I WISH someone had said these things to me when I was 12!!! This would have been a game changer. Even as an adult dancer I have the same concerns and this is literally the first time I have ever heard anyone talk about this so THANK YOU!!!!!

  • @Katrina.MillikenH
    @Katrina.MillikenH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2 story’s
    1st I started ballet when I was 12 I already had my period during class I just dealt with it but my first dress rehearsal I bled all over my white gold costume luckily no one noticed and I got it dry cleaned before the show and it was fine.
    2 it was the next year and I got my period during a dance Christmas party we all went into the studio and took turns showing our the different dances during the dance I bleed all over my white tights and red body suit everyone saw the whole studio about 50 dancers from about ages 4 to 17/18 I swear I almost died I didn’t have anything at the studio so I called my mom and she came and picked me up about an hour early.
    Now I laugh about it but at the time I was soooooo embarrassed

  • @johnnam6240
    @johnnam6240 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Kathryn so much for doing this video it really helps thank you!!! and when you wear a tampon do you wear anything with it??

  • @nevroth
    @nevroth 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Peace of mind is priceless! I love it :) I wore my first tampon at age 19 when a period suddenly came on during a summer intensive. It was awkward but a younger dancer gave me one and it was so weird, haha. After a few cycles I couldn't believe I had gone for years without trying them. Definitely more comfortable dancing then with a pad.

  • @stormyz9935
    @stormyz9935 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i’m so happy u did this vid

  • @ThisOneCassie
    @ThisOneCassie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DONT USE TAMPONS IF YOU ARENT ON YOUR PERIOD YOU WILL GET CARELESS YOU WILL GET TSS IN ALL CASES OF TSS EVERYONE HAS BEEN DISTRACTED OF STRESSED EVERYONE

  • @sararyan2767
    @sararyan2767 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you should actually NEVER wear a tampon if you are not on your period my mom is a nurse as well as a OBGYN and i asked her mom while i dance sense I have a very heavy flow of discharge if i could wear a tampon and she said it is very bad for you to do that. you can get high wasted underwear and wear it with a pad if you are that nervous about getting your period.

  • @imsoso12
    @imsoso12 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u so much i've been searching for these kind of video for a really long time

  • @keegee3880
    @keegee3880 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey great vid, it so encouraging to hear you speak about this as most people won't talk about periods no matter what activity/art/sport you are doing. Thou i must admit sometimes they can be really painful and make moving really difficult but in those cases particularly if its always like that its best to visit your doctor at least this is what my mother taught. Also a good idea is to keep track how they make you feel so you can better equip yourself (mentally and emotionally) and if any is wrong, you can use your track record to help figure it out.