How to SPOT a Frenemy

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  • @philfox542
    @philfox542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's obvious and clear. That a frenemy or group of frenemies are mostly are two-face one-sided a Narcissist Individuals. I don't like Narcissist period. They ruin everything the good vibe, health, peaceful environment, and etc. I have dealt with them. Plus, they're troublemakers, passive aggressive and controlling. This is why I don't mess with most of these types of people. They're Demons from Hell and they are never sorry for what they're done. I gave this video a double thumbs up 🙌🏽💯💯💯. Vibes don't lie, actions speaks louder 🔊 than words and tells you the truth about the a person's true nature. Sometimes can even be in one's own family. I have been through it all. That's why I move in silence. How you been doing Catherine during this crazy Pandemic? You look beautiful ❤️ and your voice is sweet and nice. Keep doing your thing. You can feel free to check my TH-cam Caribbean Music 🎶 Calypso & Soca channel out. It's th-cam.com/users/cool4rocknroll

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Phil Fox your 💯 correct! You said it all in one tbh, couldn’t have worded it better myself 🙌🏾👏🏾 same reason I’m always keeping to myself and enjoy it. I can only imagine and it’s good you move in silence, everything low key is best. I have been good thank you, hope you have been fine and thank you for always supporting 🖤 I will sure check it out ✨💯🖤

    • @philfox542
      @philfox542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CatherineCherlene You're very welcome Catherine ❤️💯. Yep I hit the nail on the head on that 🙌🏽💯. Lol 😂. I am glad to hear you're doing well and you're okay. That's a good thing 👍🏽💯. Keep doing your thing and stay focus at all times. Stay on guard by guarding your mind, body, soul. That's important. You're right. People like us have to move in silence. So we can archive and obtain any vision and real life. Whether it's spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional in any areas. You're channel did help me and gave some great ideas. Thanks for letting me know. That you will check my channel out. You will enjoy it and be pleased. Even music from the islands of Barbados and Trinidad & Tobago. Soca Music from the caribbean. Enjoy the rest of your afternoon. Look forward to the next informative video from you. Take Care, Phil

  • @sarahkuol8142
    @sarahkuol8142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Frenemies are the scariest people tbh. You made some really good points.

  • @TheTessaStewart
    @TheTessaStewart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Friends” who never congratulate you or never seem happy when you reach a goal bother me. I keep those people at a distance because I celebrate any and everyone easily. That’s how I know their intentions toward me aren’t pure.

  • @foreverhumble1st565
    @foreverhumble1st565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ain’t no friends with frenemies because real friends don’t switch up on you period

  • @Iamkcartis
    @Iamkcartis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No one should have to clap for you. But if in your circle they don’t. Or push you to be better. They aren’t a friend.

  • @ThesparklingthreeJJJ
    @ThesparklingthreeJJJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Friends should celebrate your success. Frenemies are real.

  • @TheworldofDonna
    @TheworldofDonna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Frenemy is a really thing boi. This is why I have such a small group of friends and even one of them I’m noticing a bit of frenemy which is so sad because she’s such a lovely girl. Friends are supposed to be happy for you regardless if they’re not at your level. It’s scary out here when it comes it friends.

  • @K1K2Daniels
    @K1K2Daniels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The lack of complimenting hit home for me. Not like I’m fishing for compliments but one compliment a year is ok! Sounds like my own sis 😩

  • @Ariieul
    @Ariieul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had to learn this the hard way. Believe people when they show you who they are

  • @GettingHealthyDrT
    @GettingHealthyDrT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Frenemy’s come in all forms. I always go with my gut

  • @Becca-blessed
    @Becca-blessed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The tips in this video was on point. These kind of relationships can be so toxic and messy if not spotted early.
    Like you said the further you go up the more of these kind of people you will see.
    Good video Hun👍🏽😊

  • @sandraspice979
    @sandraspice979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was super helpful. Scary to have someone you regard as a friend secretly be an enemy.
    Thanks for sharing. I definitely see some of the points you mentioned.

  • @AriSade
    @AriSade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was definitely on point that’s why I truly thank God for giving me the gift of discernment!

  • @eliseoramos6332
    @eliseoramos6332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so important to be able to spot a fake friend from a real one

  • @Ya_girl_tam
    @Ya_girl_tam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hurt people hurt people
    Yes body language is a good one

  • @YeaThatCouple
    @YeaThatCouple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl you came through with the factssss!! I’ve had sooo many frenemies and one literally came out and told me “i envy you” like wtf... then got mad cause i said “well if you envy me then you need to get from around me” like that’s just the facts. I don’t understand why you would even feel the need to say or feel that way, but like you said ima keep doing me 😅😉

  • @DebbieBlossom9
    @DebbieBlossom9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a sucker for friendship, it’s so annoying to know that even as adults we still gotta be looking carefully to make sure we’re not with frenemies

  • @downtownon7thavenue
    @downtownon7thavenue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You made some good points. I had a friendenmy but we are no longer friends. I can’t be around people like that. Low self esteem at it’s finest. Thank you for sharing.

  • @TClarkeLubrun
    @TClarkeLubrun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great key points. Frenemies is definitely something that needs to be talked about more. I need to send this video to my sister👌🏽

  • @kellebaby
    @kellebaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Since getting older I can definitely point them out quicker. When I was younger it was much harder to figure out which friend was really a friend.

  • @HabitBliss
    @HabitBliss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great points. Keep a close eye on your circle and keep your circle tight!

  • @Stuart_BW
    @Stuart_BW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mmmmmm some very interesting points, always gotta keep that 3rd eye open 👀👀👀. Amazing video 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥♥️♥️

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MrStuartBW you’re always first 😂 love youuuu. Thank youu 🥰♥️♥️

  • @tdesq.2463
    @tdesq.2463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Passive-Aggression is a dead giveaway. A few other items that I can personally attest to observing:
    Envious, Larcenous, enticing their target into self sagotage/destruction ... in addition to the standard sneakiness, deceitfulness, underhandedness. &c, ...
    Great Vid!
    ~TD, Boston

  • @Theresaajise
    @Theresaajise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are so gems you dropped right here. Some people can't even tell who their frenemies really are. Thanks for sharing

  • @byniacuisine
    @byniacuisine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing this amazing video. It is I portant to keep our eyes open. Not everyone around pretending are really one. And happy to spoke about celebrating your success with you. That doesn't lie

  • @MrDeeshani
    @MrDeeshani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always can't understand who I am friends with and who is not. Really getting annoyed when they backstab. I am really glad you came up with this topic to make the world aware and understand to find pure good friends. Thanks a lot for sharing your ideas. 🔥

  • @NaomiShapumba
    @NaomiShapumba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is extremely informative. But sometimes even though they reveal themselves as frenemies we somehow still hold on, especially people with good hearts.

  • @VISUALARTidote
    @VISUALARTidote 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    amazing video!! you pointed out some of the true facts!! Frenemies are real and it's really sad :(

  • @LifeWithTerisha
    @LifeWithTerisha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You made some valuable points. I didn't hear any lies. I've had some frennimies in my life 😩

  • @GabrielleIshell
    @GabrielleIshell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are definitely good indicators. I dont think ive ever experienced this before - thank God! But i have my eyes open for them

  • @happilyeverespinosa5994
    @happilyeverespinosa5994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so right with all these! I try to avoid these kinds of people, they just bring in negative vibes.. Thanks for sharing 🥰

  • @SuzanSueNaka
    @SuzanSueNaka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for bringing this up to light.. Hopefully a frenemy never crosses my pass.

  • @JalenaElisejed2020
    @JalenaElisejed2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a good video in recognizing a frenemy in your friend circle.

  • @maryedwardtastyrecipes
    @maryedwardtastyrecipes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very true but some people find it difficult to spot them, thank you for sharing what towatch out for in frenemy.

  • @DaeEaglei
    @DaeEaglei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes!! Great tips. Definitely have to pay attention to the person not cheering you on.

  • @BamiseOnasanya
    @BamiseOnasanya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i call out friends that never congratulate you! they disguise as friends but they are enemies... thanks for this talk

  • @SistahPunkStudios
    @SistahPunkStudios 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great points i got this wake up call a few years back with some old "friends" from highschool that were really just putting me down! I have fewer friends now but their all the best 🤗

  • @amchristina
    @amchristina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There are frenemies out there but i dont care. I just want to spread love, happiness and positivity to everyone. 💕

  • @TeeBunmisLiving
    @TeeBunmisLiving 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting points to spot a frenemy. Best to drop them quick.

  • @kekeys3887
    @kekeys3887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so glade you made this video because a lot of people think all of their friends wish them the best

  • @BethAwino
    @BethAwino 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is very true.Strong points that will help.Thanks for sharing.

  • @LaRuthaBella
    @LaRuthaBella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is great advice to spot them frenemy. Thx for sharing.

  • @duragbae7428
    @duragbae7428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always pay attention to which "friend's" ain't clapping!

  • @brionnamerritt
    @brionnamerritt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really enjoyed this video! I definitely as a couple frenemies in my past smh and being such an optimistic person I had no clue smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @abinayo9893
    @abinayo9893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing this very interesting content

  • @nis273
    @nis273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some really very interesting points

  • @KyHundley
    @KyHundley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You made some really great points!!

  • @mobellescorner9702
    @mobellescorner9702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah I’ve definitely experienced frenemies

  • @ShaneriaD
    @ShaneriaD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great tips your so right.

  • @NichelleWomack
    @NichelleWomack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oooh wee.. girl you broke it down. I know I have some frenemies and have had some in the past. I will never forget a frememy telling me I get all the handsome guys so she didn't like going out with me. That look. Wow! Body language too. At 51, I refuse to tolerate frenemies.

  • @annscustommadejewellery6676
    @annscustommadejewellery6676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You speak so much truth even associates I know exactly what you're talking about hun .much blessings to you ,You Look Gorgeous love .

  • @queenofmycurls
    @queenofmycurls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is definitely the truth. Ive had a few them. I didn't spot it in one until I had my son. The other I cut off real quick. Lol

  • @Theirfightstory
    @Theirfightstory 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a great video!!!
    Always go with your gut.

  • @teeshow7782
    @teeshow7782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video again! so many frenemies out here. so many good points made. 98% of people that wish the best for you can't wait until you fail. never judge people on what they say watch what they do and don't do that tells you exactly who they are

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly 💯 you already know. Thanks for the support 🖤

  • @KeiAxelAaron
    @KeiAxelAaron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video hun... thankyou for share with love

  • @TrywithTasneemouno
    @TrywithTasneemouno 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting content.thank you😀

  • @lasheycurls
    @lasheycurls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this video .. reminds me why I only have 2 friends

  • @QueenNishia
    @QueenNishia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I totally understood this video n realize i have a frenemy

  • @JUSTBEINGPATTI
    @JUSTBEINGPATTI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There are friends who are not exactly your enemy but envy you in a negative way. They will continue to be your friend and after years you realize that they have said a lot of messed up things throughout the years and a light bulb goes off in your head and that's when you know... When I started YT I saw who was my friends 🙄. I have several "lifelong" friends who I learned were really not . Thanks for the share

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly and everything you said is a Frenemy (pretend to be your friend/there for you but envy you behind closed doors) I can imagine. When I started my YT people I haven’t spoke to in years came out the woodworks 😂 quite the opposite but funny. Good luck on your journey ♥️

    • @JUSTBEINGPATTI
      @JUSTBEINGPATTI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CatherineCherlene Wow, Really? A couple of "close friends" told me I was wasting my time, others told me that they didn't know how to subscribe or wasn't signing up to YT to sub. a few even told me they don't know how to use the computer that good. LOL. Thank you. Good Luck on your journey as well.

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @JUST BEING PATTI Honestly. Wow to even say that is so sad. Wow those excuses I can't even imagine. When new doors open just shows you who is really down for you and who's not. Take it in a good way. Thank you love 💛

    • @JUSTBEINGPATTI
      @JUSTBEINGPATTI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CatherineCherlene Haters

    • @JUSTBEINGPATTI
      @JUSTBEINGPATTI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CatherineCherlene Haters

  • @Princessase
    @Princessase 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so appreciate this post and you are right all my so called friends are not really supporting my TH-cam journey but I can do without them

  • @InspirationalbyMarie
    @InspirationalbyMarie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hmmm Sometimes friends are for a season not forever. Choose your friends some are just acquaintances

  • @lasheycurls
    @lasheycurls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think i was born to spot those type .

  • @Playboi_wiz2023
    @Playboi_wiz2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yess good point facts been spoking‼️

  • @inspireu_1
    @inspireu_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting

  • @burundukchipmunch5350
    @burundukchipmunch5350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We are surrounded by lots of phonies.....

  • @TGCHAN876
    @TGCHAN876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A frenemy can also be very toxic

  • @MichaelaEvans
    @MichaelaEvans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't think I've ever had a frenemy.🤔 I've had regular classmates/acquaintances, people I don't associate with on a regular basis.

  • @celebrityshade8991
    @celebrityshade8991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah,,, frenemies never want to c u pass them in terms of success,,they will want to see you drop

  • @QueenKaysHair
    @QueenKaysHair 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m very careful on who I call my friends

  • @HealthyAfricanHair
    @HealthyAfricanHair 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have learned to distance myself from such people. Honestly, they are negative energy on legs.

  • @chiedzaproductions3016
    @chiedzaproductions3016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Intresting points dea new sub her

  • @alicianicole1731
    @alicianicole1731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's unfortunate that even going into adulthood this is a process you even have to go through

  • @dandaman4743
    @dandaman4743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohh snappp I have plenty of those smh lol it’s all good

  • @Freespiritreenie
    @Freespiritreenie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey girl, I’m waiting for your next vid. Where you deh?

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey hun, I got one dropping tomorrow! Sorry for the delay :( turn on post notifcations so you don't miss out

    • @Freespiritreenie
      @Freespiritreenie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Catherine Magomu already on babes 🔔

    • @CatherineCherlene
      @CatherineCherlene  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Owww🤗

  • @cindynolimits
    @cindynolimits 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need to be careful of frenemy...there are so many of them around...we have to identify them and be aware of them.

  • @benedictasinspiration4991
    @benedictasinspiration4991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hear you not everyone you mingle with can is your friend

  • @SuperNovaTraveler
    @SuperNovaTraveler 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yes girl preach about those soul sucking frenemies....lol

  • @nishame4294
    @nishame4294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have to be so careful these days with these phonies!

  • @nikitawhite6086
    @nikitawhite6086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s so disappointing when you have frenemies 🤦🏽‍♀️ keep it real or keep it moving

  • @ohhtheplacesshegoes9594
    @ohhtheplacesshegoes9594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Smh why not just avoid engagement with me if you don't like me?🙄