I think everyone’s being too harsh on the bride. I can’t imagine being with anyone who has such poor money sense. The whole wedding dress thing would have really upset me too. I absolutely sympathize with her there. Good luck to her but she’s definitely been through so much disappointment with him. If she were my friend, I’d counsel her to aim for a better life partner tbh
Is that quite fair? He does know he can't manage money and that's the reason she handles all the money. Everyone has their shortcomings at least he is aware of his. He has also acknowledged and admires her for the way she does handle their money and has brought them both up in the world.
he did alot with the money really amazing she should be so proud of him - I mean her dress the shoes the bridesmaids all looked amazing - he did so well - I hope she lets go a bit and enjoys what a generous fun man she has.
The groom made a huge effort to give his bride a beautiful wedding and truly seems to love her. The bride bashed him at every opportunity throughout the 3 weeks. What did he think when he watched the show? Very sad.
Hi Paul and Emily. I don't know if you ever reading this, But your wedding was amazing, and your son Ethan is absolutely adorable. Wishing you two a very lovely happy marriage together
@@margochanning6868 perhaps. but I've seen plenty of episodes where the groom makes terrible decisions and those decisions stand, so I would doubt it was the production staff. More likely it was the groom's mother or some behind the scenes wedding planner.
I think unfortunately they may not be a long term couple. Both good intentions, neither one quite suited to last forever with the type of the other. The wedding did turn out lovely, however. Despite her continued skepticism.
When the owner of the castle mentioned his Owl delivering the rings to the couple, it reminded me of a very funny episode of a magnet-fishing channel who was hired to try to recover the rings accidentally DROPPED by a trained Hawk into a moat of a 🏰 castle...they even used Scuba, & never recovered them!😬LOL! The Brides Mom hates 🦉!!😁!
It's such a scary idea or marrying someone who can't manage money. To clear out an account on food and brand name clothes leaving your partner with nothing. Terrifying
The fact he literally said how much she has done for him financially and the one most important thing was her dress and he couldn't be bothered to even give her a mail and spent more money on the bridesmaids than her is so mean and crazy!!!! What's wrong with him?!?!?!?!
I agree. She didn't seem to like any of his choices except for her dress and jewelry, oh and her flowers. Even the food, is she a vegetarian? The word entitlement comes to mind along with ungrateful. He spent a lot, but it was on their wedding. Wasn't like the groom that spent thousands partying with his friends and buying them plane tickets. He actually blew the budget on their families and friends. Does she complain about everything?
The brides often worry that the wedding won’t be what they want. But the point is that in order to get a wedding, at the expense of the show, you should be looking for what you would enjoy. Many of the grooms have given the brides a BETTER experience than what they wanted, and this episode is a good example of that. The marriage takes place whether the wedding is perfect or not, and that’s what really matters.
Groom reminds me of Wimpie, the cartoon character who tells others that he will pay them Tuesday for a hamburger today. He drained the family's small bank account on takeout food.
She was honestly under a lot of stress, planning a wedding is not easy, and it's definitely not easy for the person not in control who normally is in control. I think he did very well, and she finally relaxed when she got to see it all. They both looked stunning, the little boy is adorable, sisters and parents are lovely
Is it common for the bride and groom to pay for their "bachelor" (stag) and "bachelorette" (hen-do) parties? Where I live, the best man/groomsmen and the maid of honor and/or the bridesmaids throw the parties for the bride and groom.
I'm in the US and threw my own party. They did buy a few of my drinks and such but I wanted to go to a club and just kinda did what we wanted lol Bridesmaids bought their own dresses also
Where I come from friends throw a party or prepare something for bride and groom but thats not always the rule! And luckily we dont have bridesmaids! There is the bestman or best woman or both who pay for some expenses like the veil(groom pays for the dress) and the hairstylist, the church and flowers etc..
It was a beautiful ceremony. The bride looked great. The poor groom, she complained about everything. Hes gonna have a lovely marriage. That bloody bird, the bloody chocolate fountain. I hate karoke. Wait till she finds out he paid for friends and families rooms. Doesn't seem like a happy start. Wishing them lots of happiness. Lovely wedding
Sorry but if marrying in a catholic church is really important to you you would have known that it is impossible on such a short notice - couple counselling sessions & confessions beforehand are obligatory
@@mizzrink4930 if you want to marry all in with mess & communion it certainly is for most, exceptions may be made for sick people, soldiers or if ditching communion etc but not for a reality show … Also if it’s your life long dream to marry in that one church educate yourself about their requirements...
My husband was in the service when we got married. The date was sent by the priest and the churches book. This show reminds me how I had to do all planing alone and classes by myself. Wish he could have gone with me…..but 53 years later I guess we had what mattered more….love for each other.
Appart from a budget problem, he did fantastic, while she spend three weeks whining about how bad he will do. Beautiful location. Beautiful dresses. Bautiful reception. And her issues with dresses are maybe something she should discuss with a therapist. And "chocolate" is an amazing theme.
With 3 weeks to book a venue, did the bride really think she was going to get a weekend wedding? Some of the places I looked at were fully booked for weekend weddings in spring/summer 18 whole months in advance! Even 6 months would be pushing it.
I know in my area you would have a slim go no chance of getting a venue or church with only a 3 week notice. I’m quite surprised how many venues are actually available on this show.
Here’s a good advice, never, EVER marry a man with a huge debt he racked up because he can’t contain himself with money. Let him work off his debt beforehand. This is just another selfish groom.
I think what marriage means has changed for a lot of people. A lot of couples these days separate marriage and commitment, unlike many from previous generations. -Just an opinion.
Well, That is the best way to know if you want to get married, to get to know the person in everyday life. I would never even consider getting married to someone I hadn’t lived with for a long time
@@MariaH-qr3uu so. If you are 21 and live with you for let's say for 10 years not married and he walks freely leaving you with old eggs . What you gonna do ?
yeah i don't know why anyone does karaoke when they can't sing. especially THAT song, my god. you'd better be a professional to try "i will always love you." emily was wrong on the birds, though, that owl delivering the rings was BADASS. now i wish i'd gotten married in a castle with birds on staff lol
Im shocked at how classy everything ended up. He did great for someone who is half a grown up. But two ceremonies was a bit excessive cuz that part is boring and long already lol
I don’t understand why this groom didn’t cut out the frivolous extras like the chocolate fountain and such to stay in budget without needing to ask his future mother-in-law and his mum for some cash? 🤔
The groom was so rude and mean and didn't consider the bride in any of it!!! And the wedding dress is the most important!! Nd he gets the bridesmaids handbags and spent more time on them than the actual bride !!!
The 3-week problem is due to the need to call the banns for each consecutive week [announcing the proposed wedding]. In olden times [ think a lack of newspapers and mass illiteracy] this was done so if there was any impediment to the wedding the one objecting could come forward in case they weren't invited to the ceremony.
If you can't afford a wedding then you receive 12thousand pounds to have a dream wedding this is a blessing from God and you should be grateful as you are getting something that you otherwise could not afford
Its sad that he has only been thinking about what he wants and how immature he's acting! Now I see why she's the one who wears the pants in their relationship!
That poor awl with the weeding rings. I am so upset about that. That owl should be free NOT IN A CAGE TO BRING RINGS!!!!! WHY PPL CHOOSE TO BE SOOOO MEAN WITH ANIMALS!!!!! YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE KEEPT ON A CAGE ???? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 GOD HELP THAT OWL!
What a ugly attitude the wife had !!!!…what an absolutely miserable attitude towards life . The groom should have just went to a registry office or better yet Run ..because this chick will have him looking at the ground for the rest of his life . I’m so disgusted!
can this guy plan MY wedding?! a medieval castle with fire-eaters and falcons, that is DOPE. she sounds like she's planning the most bland, boring wedding in the history of weddings. "church ceremony, country club reception, chair covers, name cards, silver cutlery, crystal glasses" oh no i've fallen asleep already.
The birds would have been my favorite part of the wedding as a bride or a guest.... but if she is afraid of big birds then it is what it is. And I can't fault her for being less than impressed with the roasting whole pig either. We all know meat comes from animals but that doesn't mean you want your dinner literally staring back at you.
The bride, wanting to try on the dress, should not have to do anything with if she trusts him or not, it should be about. Is the dress going to fit her or not? Because it could be the most perfect beautiful dress but if it’s too big or too small in certain areas it’s not gonna look very well. So In my opinion I think he chose wisely in the end for letting her put on the dress. But again, Paul Shouldn’t have emphasized His Brides trust in him ,But the dress could have I had a sizing issue like, I said before Also about the church thing I believe that God is everywhere so people who say they want to get married in a church, so God can be there to witness it I think it’s ridiculous. Because as a godly woman myself, I believe God is everywhere, so no matter where you get married he’s gonna be with you.
I had a partner who was like this.... always wanting to 'nick some cash' from me. U eventually started keeping a record of when and how much i was giving him. It was about R66000.00. He did pay back R25k but only after i showed him my notes. What a con he turned out and what an idiot i was for hoping he would change. Ho hum
9:20 wh--but what happened to waiting for the St John's Baptiste? It doesnt seem like it's been anywhere near long enough 16:09 so why does no one ever voice this to the groom--like the red dresses And I hope they really are joking about the budget thing; 17:25 like that
It’s so cool that the film crew got their son’s first steps on camera
I think everyone’s being too harsh on the bride. I can’t imagine being with anyone who has such poor money sense. The whole wedding dress thing would have really upset me too. I absolutely sympathize with her there. Good luck to her but she’s definitely been through so much disappointment with him. If she were my friend, I’d counsel her to aim for a better life partner tbh
Is that quite fair? He does know he can't manage money and that's the reason she handles all the money. Everyone has their shortcomings at least he is aware of his. He has also acknowledged and admires her for the way she does handle their money and has brought them both up in the world.
I think he put a lot of thought into the wedding, he wasn't a groom that spent all the money on a stag night, he took it very seriously.
So you think buying a veil is a waste of money but buying the bridesmaid handbags was okay
Stupid huh! He put them first…..
He didn’t put the bridesmaids first. They were pushy and he caved to their demands.
Handbags are a neccesity BC they don't have pockets to hold stuff. A veil is a waste of money and is there for no reason lol
They knew they could get him to buy them, her friends know he's bad with money and they asked for handbags
Bouquets would have been moew money.
Every time I watch these programs I am astonished at how few people can actually use cutlery any more.
he did alot with the money really amazing she should be so proud of him - I mean her dress the shoes the bridesmaids all looked amazing - he did so well - I hope she lets go a bit and enjoys what a generous fun man she has.
Generous man who is already 30k in debt...
Why the misleading title, though? He DID buy a dress on time!
Yeah lol I was wondering
The groom made a huge effort to give his bride a beautiful wedding and truly seems to love her. The bride bashed him at every opportunity throughout the 3 weeks. What did he think when he watched the show? Very sad.
She seemed insecure about the relationship. Like that if she relaxed, everything would go wrong.
The Owl with the ring was beautiful
Hi Paul and Emily. I don't know if you ever reading this, But your wedding was amazing, and your son Ethan is absolutely adorable. Wishing you two a very lovely happy marriage together
Yes, he should have watched the budget, but he did manage to pull it off in the end. The day it self was fantastic with the exception of the karaoke.
Something tells me that for horrible grooms like this, he's helped, coached and directed behind the scenes by the show personnel.
@@margochanning6868 perhaps. but I've seen plenty of episodes where the groom makes terrible decisions and those decisions stand, so I would doubt it was the production staff. More likely it was the groom's mother or some behind the scenes wedding planner.
I think unfortunately they may not be a long term couple. Both good intentions, neither one quite suited to last forever with the type of the other.
The wedding did turn out lovely, however. Despite her continued skepticism.
When the owner of the castle mentioned his Owl delivering the rings to the couple, it reminded me of a very funny episode of a magnet-fishing channel who was hired to try to recover the rings accidentally DROPPED by a trained Hawk into a moat of a 🏰 castle...they even used Scuba, & never recovered them!😬LOL! The Brides Mom hates 🦉!!😁!
This guy needs to be on an episode of Til Debt Do Us Part. He's a trainwreck.
It's such a scary idea or marrying someone who can't manage money. To clear out an account on food and brand name clothes leaving your partner with nothing. Terrifying
The fact he literally said how much she has done for him financially and the one most important thing was her dress and he couldn't be bothered to even give her a mail and spent more money on the bridesmaids than her is so mean and crazy!!!! What's wrong with him?!?!?!?!
What a cool wedding. He did great. Congratulations
So many I wants….doesn’t she realize he ONLY has 3 weeks.
Poor guy…..can’t catch a break! Almost killed her to give him a compliment. Awesome wedding!
It's so nice to jump out of 2021 and watch people walking around living life without masks and gathering in crowds.
Sure do miss the old days……lol
🤣🤣
What was the idea of him not letting her see the dress in the first place!🙃⁉️
These 2 r so different. I'm not sure if this ones meant to be. She literally complained about everything
I noticed that too
I agree. She didn't seem to like any of his choices except for her dress and jewelry, oh and her flowers. Even the food, is she a vegetarian? The word entitlement comes to mind along with ungrateful. He spent a lot, but it was on their wedding. Wasn't like the groom that spent thousands partying with his friends and buying them plane tickets. He actually blew the budget on their families and friends. Does she complain about everything?
The brides often worry that the wedding won’t be what they want. But the point is that in order to get a wedding, at the expense of the show, you should be looking for what you would enjoy. Many of the grooms have given the brides a BETTER experience than what they wanted, and this episode is a good example of that. The marriage takes place whether the wedding is perfect or not, and that’s what really matters.
Groom reminds me of Wimpie, the cartoon character who tells others that he will pay them Tuesday for a hamburger today. He drained the family's small bank account on takeout food.
“Bloody bird” how rude of her to say that to the most most trained well behaved beautiful bird!
I recently learned that some people hate birds. I don’t understand those feelings at all. Maybe the bride just hates birds?
@@valentinat3250the bride seems to hate everything 🙄
She was honestly under a lot of stress, planning a wedding is not easy, and it's definitely not easy for the person not in control who normally is in control. I think he did very well, and she finally relaxed when she got to see it all. They both looked stunning, the little boy is adorable, sisters and parents are lovely
Paul is good at spending other people's money. Maybe he should become a politician.
Is it common for the bride and groom to pay for their "bachelor" (stag) and "bachelorette" (hen-do) parties? Where I live, the best man/groomsmen and the maid of honor and/or the bridesmaids throw the parties for the bride and groom.
It must be a UK thing. Where I live we do the same! Add to that, as bridesmaids, we also buy our own dresses!!!
I'm in the US and threw my own party. They did buy a few of my drinks and such but I wanted to go to a club and just kinda did what we wanted lol
Bridesmaids bought their own dresses also
Yes, and when I was younger, I was a bridesmaid, and I had to pay for my dress. Here in the states, we pay for the dresses we wear at the wedding.
Where I come from friends throw a party or prepare something for bride and groom but thats not always the rule! And luckily we dont have bridesmaids! There is the bestman or best woman or both who pay for some expenses like the veil(groom pays for the dress) and the hairstylist, the church and flowers etc..
People are cheap, I had to pay for my own too
The Karaoke was not the best move, lol.
To be honest she doesnt need a veil. she looks amazing
Btw, when you make a child this CUTE together, you simply have to stay together and try to replicate the effort.. 👶👶
It was a beautiful ceremony. The bride looked great. The poor groom, she complained about everything. Hes gonna have a lovely marriage. That bloody bird, the bloody chocolate fountain. I hate karoke. Wait till she finds out he paid for friends and families rooms. Doesn't seem like a happy start. Wishing them lots of happiness. Lovely wedding
Sorry but if marrying in a catholic church is really important to you you would have known that it is impossible on such a short notice - couple counselling sessions & confessions beforehand are obligatory
Not at all churches or countries.
@@mizzrink4930 if you want to marry all in with mess & communion it certainly is for most, exceptions may be made for sick people, soldiers or if ditching communion etc but not for a reality show …
Also if it’s your life long dream to marry in that one church educate yourself about their requirements...
My husband was in the service when we got married. The date was sent by the priest and the churches book. This show reminds me how I had to do all planing alone and classes by myself. Wish he could have gone with me…..but 53 years later I guess we had what mattered more….love for each other.
@@j.103 happy that it worked out for you two :-)
It's a big commitment???? So having a baby together wasn't???
Exactly! Don’t plan for a wedding, but jump into having a baby. Much cheaper! These folks are cart before the horse.
Appart from a budget problem, he did fantastic, while she spend three weeks whining about how bad he will do. Beautiful location. Beautiful dresses. Bautiful reception. And her issues with dresses are maybe something she should discuss with a therapist. And "chocolate" is an amazing theme.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
With 3 weeks to book a venue, did the bride really think she was going to get a weekend wedding? Some of the places I looked at were fully booked for weekend weddings in spring/summer 18 whole months in advance! Even 6 months would be pushing it.
To not let the bride see the dress was the dumbest decision ever!!
Even dumber is to urge her to pick her own venue and dress......
Oh, just stop with the money, for crying out loud, it was a free wedding. Be happy!
The castle is amazing
I know in my area you would have a slim go no chance of getting a venue or church with only a 3 week notice. I’m quite surprised how many venues are actually available on this show.
I think this proved that she needs to stay in charge of their finances.
I think he did amazing. Better than most of the grooms I have seen here.
Here’s a good advice, never, EVER marry a man with a huge debt he racked up because he can’t contain himself with money. Let him work off his debt beforehand. This is just another selfish groom.
Do couples these days, move in together, have a baby and only thereafter decide to get married?
I think what marriage means has changed for a lot of people. A lot of couples these days separate marriage and commitment, unlike many from previous generations. -Just an opinion.
Well, That is the best way to know if you want to get married, to get to know the person in everyday life. I would never even consider getting married to someone I hadn’t lived with for a long time
@@MariaH-qr3uu so. If you are 21 and live with you for let's say for 10 years not married and he walks freely leaving you with old eggs . What you gonna do ?
It happens!
@@WS-zs1ss then I would just have to deal with it. Simple as that.
She needs to walk away and not sign the marriage certificate
I like that they explain why they can't afford a wedding.
Still together with 3 boys, and both super into fitness!!
Truly amazing. So beautiful .
Paul is soooo lucky to have Emily.
What I saw was she had her dress on time so what's with the headline????
I think the owl was a great idea!
OMG the karaoke just awful...I hate it too, Emily was right on that and the bird thing. He did good on the dress though.
yeah i don't know why anyone does karaoke when they can't sing. especially THAT song, my god. you'd better be a professional to try "i will always love you." emily was wrong on the birds, though, that owl delivering the rings was BADASS. now i wish i'd gotten married in a castle with birds on staff lol
The owl was beautiful ❤
Im shocked at how classy everything ended up. He did great for someone who is half a grown up. But two ceremonies was a bit excessive cuz that part is boring and long already lol
Well Done, Paul!
I don’t understand why this groom didn’t cut out the frivolous extras like the chocolate fountain and such to stay in budget without needing to ask his future mother-in-law and his mum for some cash? 🤔
I don't think it occurred to him to be honest. If he knew about these sort of things he'd be a little bit smarter with money in general.
The groom was so rude and mean and didn't consider the bride in any of it!!! And the wedding dress is the most important!! Nd he gets the bridesmaids handbags and spent more time on them than the actual bride !!!
why on earth is she with him, he has the insight of a 14 year old boy
The 3-week problem is due to the need to call the banns for each consecutive week [announcing the proposed wedding]. In olden times [ think a lack of newspapers and mass illiteracy] this was done so if there was any impediment to the wedding the one objecting could come forward in case they weren't invited to the ceremony.
I'd advise the bride to run, but then I'm old and have been married to my second husband for over twenty years.
If your so religious why are you having a baby at of wedlock
Cart before the horse
How much does the bride’s vision of her wedding cost?
If you can't afford a wedding then you receive 12thousand pounds to have a dream wedding this is a blessing from God and you should be grateful as you are getting something that you otherwise could not afford
Most ungrateful bride. He did extremely well.
Granny Knickers, 'I dont want it just for my pleasure, thinking Im a pervert' Hahahaha Gentleman
She was such a good sport. He did great by the dress. The reception was terrible ...it definitely wasn't what she wanted.
So insistent about the religious part as if they haven't been LIVING together UNMARRIED and even have a child? 🤷♀️
The bride thinks too much of herself!
Well, I think he did great! 😊
Its sad that he has only been thinking about what he wants and how immature he's acting! Now I see why she's the one who wears the pants in their relationship!
Well the entire show is about the GROOMS DREAM WEDDING. How do you think brides act. The bride was horrible
SIXTY FIVE for a dumb shirt but tries to go cheap on her dress .... 🤨
Wow, even nice bridesmaids dresses, no elf costumes!
I say run away from that guy!
The groom put on a beautiful wedding. But it sure proved the man has zero spending control. Good thing his new wife does😊
Loved the church blessing
You think she could roll her eyes one more time
That poor awl with the weeding rings. I am so upset about that. That owl should be free NOT IN A CAGE TO BRING RINGS!!!!! WHY PPL CHOOSE TO BE SOOOO MEAN WITH ANIMALS!!!!! YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE KEEPT ON A CAGE ???? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 GOD HELP THAT OWL!
Brides are so ungrateful , your parents didn’t pay for your wedding as it is supposed to be so don’t complain about anything.
WELL DONE PAUL….
The bride is so negative. I hope she has changed in the last 15 years since this was filmed.
What a ugly attitude the wife had !!!!…what an absolutely miserable attitude towards life .
The groom should have just went to a registry office or better yet Run ..because this chick will have him looking at the ground for the rest of his life .
I’m so disgusted!
Let her see the dress
She may not show up if you dont
There's already money issues
He's not going to war
Marrying her he might be
Ladies start talking & showing pictures to your future husbands early so at least they'll have some Idea.
Wow funeral lillies and tears (pearls)
can this guy plan MY wedding?! a medieval castle with fire-eaters and falcons, that is DOPE. she sounds like she's planning the most bland, boring wedding in the history of weddings. "church ceremony, country club reception, chair covers, name cards, silver cutlery, crystal glasses" oh no i've fallen asleep already.
Her mother can't be all that strictly catholic if the couple's got a child before their wedding.
The birds would have been my favorite part of the wedding as a bride or a guest.... but if she is afraid of big birds then it is what it is. And I can't fault her for being less than impressed with the roasting whole pig either. We all know meat comes from animals but that doesn't mean you want your dinner literally staring back at you.
The bride is a whiny complainer.
What i dont understand is why her girls didnt offer to shout her the hens night?
The bride, wanting to try on the dress, should not have to do anything with if she trusts him or not, it should be about. Is the dress going to fit her or not? Because it could be the most perfect beautiful dress but if it’s too big or too small in certain areas it’s not gonna look very well. So In my opinion I think he chose wisely in the end for letting her put on the dress. But again, Paul Shouldn’t have emphasized His Brides trust in him ,But the dress could have I had a sizing issue like, I said before Also about the church thing I believe that God is everywhere so people who say they want to get married in a church, so God can be there to witness it I think it’s ridiculous. Because as a godly woman myself, I believe God is everywhere, so no matter where you get married he’s gonna be with you.
The Bride needs to be grateful and respectful towards The Groom.
Bet they are divorced.
I had a partner who was like this.... always wanting to 'nick some cash' from me. U eventually started keeping a record of when and how much i was giving him. It was about R66000.00. He did pay back R25k but only after i showed him my notes. What a con he turned out and what an idiot i was for hoping he would change. Ho hum
It was only money after all....he truly loves her!
Love in the air
9:20 wh--but what happened to waiting for the St John's Baptiste? It doesnt seem like it's been anywhere near long enough
16:09 so why does no one ever voice this to the groom--like the red dresses
And I hope they really are joking about the budget thing; 17:25 like that
She is too full of herself.
The bride is so beautifull 🥰
FAITH IN HANDSOME X MARINE
Always wonder why people from UK WEAR AMERICAN BRAND NAME CLOTHING KNOCKS OVER HERE ALSO. NEVER UNDERSTOOD THAT???? 😶 IDK