DON'T Say "You're Welcome" - Better Answers To "Thank You"

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  • @AdvancedEnglish
    @AdvancedEnglish  ปีที่แล้ว +13

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  • @Geronimo2Fly
    @Geronimo2Fly ปีที่แล้ว +83

    One bit of nuance I'd like to point out as a native English speaker: Don't say "you're welcome" if what you are being thanked for is something that was expected of you or was your obligation to do. "You're welcome" subtly implies that you believe you did the person who is thanking you a kindness or a favor. For example, if your job is to create a report every week, and you hand said report to your boss who says "thank you," don't say "you're welcome." Your boss is being polite thanking you for the report, but if you respond with "you're welcome" you are suggesting that you did something that you really didn't have to do. Better to say "sure thing" or "you bet" or even better, just smile and nod and say, "Let me know if you need anything else." Similarly, if a server says "thank you" when you pay the bill, they are being polite. It was your obligation to pay the bill, so don't say "you're welcome." Better to say "thank YOU" (for the service) or again, just smile and nod and wish them a nice day. However, if they thank you for the TIP (which you were not obligated to give), then it's perfectly fine to say "you're welcome."

    • @marcellofadda9474
      @marcellofadda9474 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you.

    • @chidimercynsianya7612
      @chidimercynsianya7612 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks alot

    • @blotski
      @blotski ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Native speaker of English here too. I totally agree with this advice. It's very subtle but be careful with this. Except being from the UK we don't usually say 'sure thing' or 'sure' and never say 'you bet'. I think in this situation I'd say 'my pleasure', 'no worries' or I'd just smile. In the paying situation I'd also reply with 'thank YOU'.

    • @ohl1316
      @ohl1316 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much. This is very helpful.

    • @brajeshpareek4197
      @brajeshpareek4197 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are absolutely correct
      Similar advice was given to me by a professor in English

  • @araceliorodriguez8540
    @araceliorodriguez8540 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Great video! I've also heard "Absolutely" in response to "Thank you". Also, "Not at all", "you bet", "Of course", "No problem", "Certainly", "Sure", "It was no trouble at all", "Forget it", "No sweat", "It's all right" (or "That's all right"), "It's ok" (or "That's ok"), "You're quite/very/so/most welcome", "Anything for you", "It was nothing. I'm happy to help/do it". There's also "Thank YOU", placing the emphasis on "you"

    • @Worldaffairslover
      @Worldaffairslover ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Say “mm-mhm”

    • @kam8ox
      @kam8ox ปีที่แล้ว

      I was looking to ''Not at all" to be mentioned.
      Looks that it is not used often - I met guy who did not understand this way of answering to Thank you at all. He did not get me even I repeated it 3 times, so I had to explain it :D .

    • @AndyShmandyYT
      @AndyShmandyYT ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i speak english, nearly all of the phrases in the video are not used. no one says "youd do the same for me" like its too long. we just say "no problem" "youre welcome" "sure" "happy to help" but nothing else really

  • @abucs
    @abucs ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "You're welcome" is both friendly and polite. We need more of both of those qualities in regular conversation.

    • @abucs
      @abucs ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GladeSwope yes but any set of nice words can be used sarcastically. The trick is to banish the sarcasm, not the nice words.

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      @MdShikderBappi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @zhanna4753
    @zhanna4753 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy to help. Pleasure is mine.
    They are my favorites!
    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @AmzadHossain-tg7df
    @AmzadHossain-tg7df ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for expanding my vocabulary

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    @howardcastillo7469 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love you teacher, thanks for your videos

  • @MuhammadHussain-tv8gd
    @MuhammadHussain-tv8gd ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Mary .

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    @abderrahimhouady2535 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @albertmo1722
    @albertmo1722 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video! Love this new word for me, "famish" (1:07)! Best, Albert

  • @FelixForex
    @FelixForex ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I urgently needed this piece. Thanks

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    @willyzorzi9426 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @xaviervasan3899
    @xaviervasan3899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate your speeches true teacher

  • @fparkert
    @fparkert 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for sharing so good examples from our daily routine. :)

    • @AdvancedEnglish
      @AdvancedEnglish  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are so welcome! Glad you enjoyed this lesson, Fernanda. Stay tuned, more lessons to come!

  • @stewardmbele7385
    @stewardmbele7385 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks. Very interesting

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    @RomanoBrumini-px2ze ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @meryharutyunyan8425
    @meryharutyunyan8425 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the video!

  • @leandrobaluyotjr5181
    @leandrobaluyotjr5181 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad you highlight this important point about the interaction between individual/s with regard to saying " thank you" & "you're welcome.."as decency & politeness dictates. This should come as a matter of common sense but as we know common sense is now uncommon even among people who have hone to higher eduaction. Thank you & more success to your personal & professional endeavors 'mam.

    • @ChamPion-gu3jd
      @ChamPion-gu3jd ปีที่แล้ว

      My answer would be: I love you too❤❤❤

  • @robsonjosedasilva1277
    @robsonjosedasilva1277 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video and amazing tips. Thank you so much. It"s gonna help me a lot on my way to fluency. Greetings from Brazil.

  • @sabirmughal2734
    @sabirmughal2734 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing so good examples from our daily routine , you are doing great 🌹

  • @FlmGrn02
    @FlmGrn02 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been living in NY for 25 years.
    I hear "You're welcome" from native speakers everyday...

  • @glorytothegod10
    @glorytothegod10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very excellent May

  • @rujackswing618
    @rujackswing618 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @chidimercynsianya7612
    @chidimercynsianya7612 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing

  • @user-nq9gz4xf7f
    @user-nq9gz4xf7f ปีที่แล้ว +7

    you cant go wrong with your welcome, it works in all circumstances and is the classic polite form, the others, are more casual, and might not sound right coming from someone using english as a second language, .... sure thing, dont mention it, they are idiomatic,.... I havent used either maybe ever, ... they are possible but rare

  • @paolopistone2524
    @paolopistone2524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy to listen you

  • @SanjaySaini-bg2iu
    @SanjaySaini-bg2iu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's good to me I was never suggested to use it be continue with better information

  • @Rashokri
    @Rashokri ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My pleasure. I liked it.

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    @mdmanjar-ue8dx ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @MdShikderBappi
    @MdShikderBappi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    @langsonsolijala-9189 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So educative and captivating.

  • @hemanthadesilva527
    @hemanthadesilva527 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    H: Great lesson.Thank you so much
    ❤❤❤...!
    D: My pleasure 🎉❤🎉...!

  • @dulal880
    @dulal880 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    helpful video , thnx

  • @samuelrodriguez4342
    @samuelrodriguez4342 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay. Interesting video. I'll put in practice them!

  • @iliyashossian3385
    @iliyashossian3385 ปีที่แล้ว

    Think you very much ❤😊

  • @kingdomlife1000
    @kingdomlife1000 ปีที่แล้ว

    The pleasure is mine!

  • @luizrobertopereiraal
    @luizrobertopereiraal ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Parabéns. Estou querendo aprender o inglês. Aqui do Brasil.

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    • @luizrobertopereiraal
      @luizrobertopereiraal ปีที่แล้ว

      Obrigado

  • @muhammadfarooqi
    @muhammadfarooqi ปีที่แล้ว

    You said "thank you at the end".. and my reply ..
    you are welcome 🙂

  • @NyomiFatty
    @NyomiFatty ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to be proud of u 😢thank a lot 💓

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    @McDonnell-Douglas_DC-10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @mandysweeney7401
    @mandysweeney7401 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People that say “ no problem “ make me think: “ was there a problem “??? I didn’t realize there was a problem “! It’s extremely irritating

  • @QQ251647742
    @QQ251647742 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's useful because do delivery service and people say thank you to me a lot.

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    @benabidlotfi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's fantastic

  • @anwarabbaslaghar
    @anwarabbaslaghar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good❤❤

  • @hamferd6398
    @hamferd6398 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you teacher

  • @sunvaj6754
    @sunvaj6754 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing! Many of my English teachers never tought me that.

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    @kenhmusicchanelhoangdung4120 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @JitenderSingh-hg8wl ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice video.

  • @qudsiawali9359
    @qudsiawali9359 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How can we differentiate nouns and adjectives and infinitives?

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    @edenacebedo4697 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @trekkingplanet63 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @fernandocycling9662 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @Timmy803
    @Timmy803 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If someone says the the work I did for them looks fantastic, I reply, It makes me happy to do things for you!

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    @mostafabayatpour-lw8tk ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks you so much

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    @slydoskibelieveinc.7748 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for expanding my vocabulary!!!

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    @nasimshakil4682 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @petera5560 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @bigdarshan
    @bigdarshan ปีที่แล้ว

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    @RomanoBrumini-px2ze ปีที่แล้ว

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    @kannanmithran5721 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @Wechrist ปีที่แล้ว

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    @faraonahorus7923 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    @shaileshjoshi3383 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @bindiyababes559 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    @viveksingh7157 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @Pawan115K ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @billcali4225
    @billcali4225 ปีที่แล้ว

    The three responses that I really dislike to your welcome are: No problem. I didn't know that it was a problem in the first place. Two: Of course. Doesn't really tell me anything. Three: No worries. Another phrase that indicates it could have been an imposition. All have more of a negative meaning to me.

  • @amiltonFerreira-l2q
    @amiltonFerreira-l2q 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please how do you speak (W H ) in conected speech. With I , you , He, She ,It, We, You, They .

  • @filhosdeabraao402
    @filhosdeabraao402 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great teacher, she looks Cindy Crawford 😉

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  • @leonardtambala
    @leonardtambala ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this

  • @zarethdelasalas4101
    @zarethdelasalas4101 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Don’t thank me, I’ll bill you later..” that’s my lawyer told me when I thank him 😅

  • @dineshpachipulusu127
    @dineshpachipulusu127 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved it at 3:32

  • @mitotv6376
    @mitotv6376 ปีที่แล้ว

    'You are welcome' has been my default for long time 😂

  • @lytnin88
    @lytnin88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Brits like to say "A pleasure." I kinda like that one.

  • @johnrobertd748
    @johnrobertd748 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're welcone is the best

  • @slothzombi307
    @slothzombi307 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I came here because I've been hearing the reply "of course" more and more. They are basically replying .. of course you can thank me, I give you permission to thank me.

  • @sanbalu5991
    @sanbalu5991 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you mam

  • @soehan3091
    @soehan3091 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you teacher.

  • @renatzkigab2616
    @renatzkigab2616 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Then if someone say first to you "Thank You" then what will you say in response?

  • @jonathanlatouche7013
    @jonathanlatouche7013 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same exact continue

  • @muhammadanjumyousufzai6762
    @muhammadanjumyousufzai6762 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thnk u

  • @shehrymirza5615
    @shehrymirza5615 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anytime 😊

  • @SomboonPolsuk-eb9wl
    @SomboonPolsuk-eb9wl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good dear meng.p

  • @yazooabdulla1557
    @yazooabdulla1557 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're awesome

  • @wedmussa6693
    @wedmussa6693 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful

  • @romanicvs
    @romanicvs ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What about "You're very most welcome" ?

  • @worldpeace5853
    @worldpeace5853 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well, it all depends on the situation you are in of course….as simple as it is :)

  • @LeenaSchmidt
    @LeenaSchmidt ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your VDO

  • @lolongtalolongsandapaldapa845
    @lolongtalolongsandapaldapa845 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi maam im jon from philippines

  • @lytnin88
    @lytnin88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In Spanish, the way to say "you're welcome" is "de nada," which literally means "of nothing."

  • @mrtonod
    @mrtonod ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I almost never use, 'you're welcome.' 'No problem,' is usually my go to on emails and general conversations.

  • @TravelwithNazmulHasan
    @TravelwithNazmulHasan ปีที่แล้ว

    No way 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Octopusique
    @Octopusique ปีที่แล้ว

    Title is misleading.
    Yes, quite often there are better responses than “you’re welcome”. But in some situations “you’re welcome” is the most fitting response. Don’t say “don’t say”.

  • @Islamic_shorts826
    @Islamic_shorts826 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am taking class. Is itvtrue

  • @hectorviscenciobrambila3943
    @hectorviscenciobrambila3943 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about; You bet!

  • @نيفينشريف
    @نيفينشريف ปีที่แล้ว

    You deserve it

  • @MdShikderBappi
    @MdShikderBappi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MEHADI HASAN BAPPI MAGURA Sodor magura Pola lam Saudi Arabia pravasi country Bangladesh ❤

  • @KilchevSky
    @KilchevSky ปีที่แล้ว

    Depends on a context. Learn from decent perople, together with a context. How interesting woman you are! Sorry... I so appreciate you.