I do. I think far more of it than I think of finding someone. But, it has set the par for my partner so high that I gave up even thinking about meeting anyone.
You are right,I always thought this is the right way and still working on myself and almost got where I always wanted as a whole. My question is this enough for the right person for you to realize how you are and read your heart, appreciate you or am I wasted years for self-development for nothing? I mean if you find a wrong person who want to control you and don't care of who your are, everything is just in vain and you are force to live a life of lonely relationship.
*Just found Dr Munroe today and I have spent all day listening, binge watching and taking down so many notes. He was sent for me. So happy to have found him. What a Teacher!*
Don't develop a bond at a level you can't be responsible for.... Good advice and so very true. Divorce is the ultimate trauma for a woman. I never want to get divorced.
@Mike Tiwaz I can speak for myself that yes, many women tend to hop into another relationship quickly. I have done this in my past. I was younger, less secure in my own ability to get through the trauma of a divorce with someone I was deeply in love with. It was easier to try to fill the void with someone else then taste the pain of rejection.
I feel when two people come together they should asked the right questions to see if they are on the right path. To many times people just go off what they hear and not the persons actions. So they end up getting married and wonder why in no time they are getting divorced, but the whole time they were really showing you who they were, you just ignored it and got married anyways. Save your heartache and pay attention, a person's heart & intentions never lies.
Very true message. To be fair, problems start when faith stops. It's one thing to ask God for a woman/man that is good for you, but after that, you gotta maintain the marriage. The problem is not always the individual... it's the lack of faith in solving issues that come. Because THEN, communication stops. When a problem comes, solving it also BECOMES THE PROBLEM, because no one is interested in a solution. Many assume, after the woman/man you pray for arrives, they don't gotta pray no more. In a nutshell, the problem ain't the partner, it's lack of faith and prayer in what you started. I know a pastor who married his high school sweetheart. They now have two kids and have been happily married for more than 25 years. Keep the faith. God bless you all.
The ONLY cure for a broken heart? Jesus. He was sent to bind up the brokenhearted. I am so broken right now. It is only His tenderness that is bringing healing. He doesn't push me or shame me. His loving arms are beyond comforting. And anytime i ask Him, i can feel Him holding me closer. Truly His presence is better than life itself!
Prayers for restoration of my grandchildren would be GREATLY appreciated. It is truly a battle for their very lives and souls! And i am beside myself with grief :(
Yup I was broken hearted because of a failed relationship with my ex , I was like that for a couple of years until I asked god!! And he did pain gone!!!!!
mauricio same God healed me put my faith and love and him and he gracefully blessed me with love and mercy and a wife .Blessed be the Lord God who we serve faithfully and Love
We must avoid dating to talk to another opposite sex for emotional intimacy most if they are not for any reason our future, discernment on dating is very important and needs a lot of work.
Please show me in the bile where it talks about dating. That is a man made concept. the bible talk about betrothal and that is how marriages are supposed to begin, NOT dating. You also need to be care full about emotional intimacy between two people of the same gender. I can not tell you how many time I have SEEN homosexuality take place in THE CHURCH and the preacher was too nice to know what was going on. AND the gay couple knew it and took advantage of the situation.
Stay on it, Faith Come By Hearing...ing.....ing...ing...ing Not Having Heard, but by Hearing over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over!!!!!!!!!!! Don't Stop.
Amen.I too hate divorce...But I see divorce as more like decapitation. The severing of the head (man) from the body (woman) is greatly violent especially the nerves that connect the two (covenant,faithfulness, loyalty, trust,.....children)..Its sad and more frightening than death.
@@keierrareenell877 Thank you...I do not know how others see it, but that's how I see it.A death that has no peace to it and that it destroys everything.
Thank you so much for being consistent in bringing to us Dr Myles Munroe teachings and please don't stop we need this teachings the world needs it. Thank you so much.
Wow! I was just sent this link by a friend... So simple yet so powerful! Definitely wish I had seen and understood this 10 years ago when I stepped into a doomed, short lived marriage. Thank you for sharing this important information!
Yet still you have some ppl who go around play with others emotions building bonds and know within themself that they don't want the person of have any intention of having a future with he or she
If the relationship is traumatic and violent and painful and you are broken hearted while with them then it makes no sense to stay with that person. Worse yet you teach children that abuse is normal and they will seek out dysfunction later in life. I only want to get married once so I have to be sure that person will not want to hurt and manipulate me or my children.
I get ur point but marriage is going to be so bad if you do not wait for God to direct you b4 marriage. many don't know the essence of marriage, they marry because the guy is handsome or the lady is pretty or the person have money.
Bonding is good with your partner, without bonding and being connected you have nothing. Sometimes though one needs there own space because you could get sick of each other with doing a lot together. There's a time for bonding and a time to be by oneself and have some space.
@@colinc5531 💯 Bro!! That's the new feminist mindset, that's causing women to initiate 80% (stats) of divorces! The most popular reason, is they just aren't happy, which is actually an internal personal problem, but society has taught them to blame the man! In my 20 year marriage, my wife has never wanted space! If a woman wants space, she wants to get validation from other men, via social media, or in person!
I wish I knew all that I know now. I would have waited for the right person, now that is what Im doing. I married the wrong man spiritually and he has broken my heart. God has saved me from dying from a broken heart and I am forever grateful.
This information is true. Be careful of what you talk to the bout with his clients and the opposite sex. Now I see it is creating a bond that explains why people's feelings runaway.
Try to avoid those things that can destroy your marriage. Be faithful and loyal to your partner. If you have a problem, talk to each first and figure out some ways to fix that. Don't say immediately that divorce is the only option you could do.
Amazing teaching!!! May the storehouse of wisdom that was on this wonderful teacher of truth! Be multiple on his children! For their generation. Thank you father! AMEN. I AM so BLESS to be alive in this generation.
Thank you. for sharing the Late Dr. Myles Munroe messages with us. I am truly enjoying these teachings. They have confirmed & inspired me & gave me insights & answered questions for me as well. Thanks!!!
May all who seek insight into life and the meaning of life find that there is only one way to reach that and that is through the author and Creator of life itself. Glory to God for giving Myles such deep insights into the ways of the Kingdom of YHVH.
You’re stating the obvious. The potential danger of bonding deeply with a person is what gives those bonds meaning and intensity. Before in my life I would have told you I was too scared to take the risk, but now I am prepared to face my fears.
You are exactly right sir, I’m divorced, Christian and miserable. I didn’t want it but my wife’s family pushed for it because we were separated for two years. She said she didn’t love me anymore. But your know what! I still feel connected to her and love her. It’s affected me and my life is suffering but I keep hoping she will come back. In Jesus name! Amen.
I was ripped. My heart is broken. My husband cheated and left me for another married woman. Why am I the only one who is heartbroken? God hated divorce because it rips you. But why is the only one who feels this is the one who was left behind and not the one who commited adultery. Why are they happy? He left me with my one year old child. We are married for 2 years but we are together for 11 years before marriage. How do I heal? Why am I hurting and that husband of mine with his mistress is happy? How can a loving God allow this?
@@akifahargyle7419 This post was from 3 years ago and I am glad to feel better now :) Time does heal all wounds. Things are still harder than it used to be but I can manage it all
Luke12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on.
The only cure for a broken heart is God’s power, you gotta ask him true prayer with faith to heal your broken heart like he did to me. I was broken hearted for a couple of years until I asked him to heal me, I visualized me giving him my heart for him to guard it and he did!!
I think this apply to friends too. True friends. You know, that friend that you can call brother. That's a thick bond there. Not like mariage, but very alike when you think about it. That's also why the idea that friendship between man and woman is impossible is well known. Because between deep frienship and deep love, there is only one bridge. And Nature helping, sometimes you slide from one to the other without noticing. 🤔 But I wonder. When it comes to friendship bond, how much is too much? And when it is too much, how to put distance without hurting the other person?
Even though I’m understanding this now. I have deleted all his pictures and texts conversations. I’m breaking those webs slowly. But it’s been 8 years of my life. The process is not easy to eliminate. It’s a lot of webs. Next step is getting rid of him but I haven’t come up with the strength yet.
Divorce happens when the bond can no longer sustain you.. If 2people are meant for each other, nothing on earth can separate them.. These separations are as a result of wrong love partners which is difficult to know during the first stage of love.
Praise God for this word 💯I was in a abusive relationship. IM SO HAPPY THE LORD ALLOWED ME TO GET OUT OF IT 💯. I had to ask Jesus Christ to break the soul ties from it 💯,AND NOW I PRAISE GOD DAILY BECAUSE ITS OVER 💯 .THAT WAS THE WORST THING IVE EVER BEEN THROUGH 💯. I had to forgive the person then forgive myself for allowing the ignorance I dealt with 💯. Now I don’t want to be in a relationship but if he want me to marry I will 💯THANKS FOR THIS VIDEO AND HAVE A BLESSED PROSPEROUS WEEKEND
This is actually very interesting. I was born- and born again very spiritually sensible. The churches I used to frequent that time did not know, nor believe this. Especially when I told of some things feeling like spiderwebs in my spiritual body. Anything they thought of was 'that I must have been obsessed with Jezebel' and 'cast and kill and bind the demon within me'. Since today I did not ever recover from this experience. I feel like my spiritual me and my mind and feelings were completely demolished. As well as anyone mistrusts, abuses or rejects me. But back to it: there were emotional bonds, too. Like a strong one with my grandmother, who died that day they they publicly 'killed Jezebel' at Sunday Service and screamed of wanting power in Gods name of course. I like the way you animate the videos. That is very interesting.
Hi. .You are absolutely right..You have to wait the right for finding the right person at the right place through the guidance of Eternal God Most High.So many married couple ended up in Divorce due to the lack of compatibility in life like likes,interest, hobby, physical, mental, emotional disorder so in order that relationship would be successful both parties should make a compromise the things that you must avoid doing it or set a certain boundaries of what is allowed and what is restricted..And most of all have an open mind, communicate well to each other everyday with love and respect, be patient and understanding and most of all the success of good open marriage or relationhip is honesty , loyalty and consistency that uou were there for each other rain or shine and Our God Most High should be the center of all our dreams and ambitions to make it through his guidance, support and full blessings of graces into our daily lives and give thanks and gratitute to him on a daily basis for joy, peace, happiness and giving us the right and good partner in life that death could only separate us from one another in Jesus Mighty and Divine Gracious Name..Amen.Hesus.All well and good.. Thanks be to God..Cheers to everybody.
Thanks for the video. In my divorce I was connected with my ex. I never tried to start confusion. I think people who are truly truly a devoted child of God would not become evil to others , I don't care how connected you are to your mate. It shouldn"t be a cause for evil to another or to destroy anorhers life.
Oooooh my goodness Thank u Spirit of God ts only now tht i understand y divorce is not good Biblically!! And i hv learnt important lessons abt bondin in ths video wow!!
He talks from the Bible, so the truth. We need that to overcome the lie. He teaches his Bible studies in a creative way that makes them easy to understand. Thank you Lord 🙏, that you left us a legacy as Myles Monroe 😀😢
Waw just awesome! This is some great advice and information here. I value it & I appreciate it much! Thank you so very much for sharing. God bless you! 🙏
I agree with everything he said except that divorce isn't always a person's choice. You can be a great spouse and the other person still decides to leave. You can say all day that you will never choose divorce, but you can't make someone stay.
O.k.....my Google voice actuvation accidentally turned itself on, and regurgitated a nonsense message (see above) thst I did nit creste. By the time rhat I figured out how to turn ot off (the feature,) I found out that I could not rescind the message.
MY God I needed to hear this. I have two ppl who are bonded to me. one whom I'm also bonded two. and I new had relations with the one I'm bonded two and the other is female coworker who is finding I hard to let our relationship go. now I understands.
What if that person (either male or female) is married with a spirit of Delilah spiritually and end up wanting a partner in the physical? Those are dangerous bonds right there.
Trauma is divorce. I hate divorce.Malachi:6. Bonding is like a web. Webs of lies are no good.Dangerously Bonding. No bonding with someone you don't like.Be careful who you bond with. No creating any bonds. Q's & A's are a serious bond. CAnnot break a bonds = bleeding heart's or bonds. Emotionally bleeding of that scared bond.Ripping of the soul.A bleeding HEART. God's beginning only. Singleness does NOT favour being ALONE.
My husband says he doesn't want me anymore. I can't do anything about it, but I'm not going to divorce him. I will hold the divorce papers and wait on God.
so what happens when you find the right person and they apparently change .. some people wished they knew this before they got married .. what happens when you regret your marriage ?
Waiting for the right one to come along ... till when? Better to be together with one you think is right, and then analyse if this is really the right one. If not, break up and find another one, and another, till u find the right one. If just meeting up for lunch, dinner, or just writing love letters is not good enough. To know the person's full character, to see if he or she is right for u, u need to take some time to be together, meet in the homes, see his or her family/parents, do some research to see it he/she matches u. Also, see his/her behavior, character, if it's comfortable to u.
We are BROTHERS and SISTERS in Christ (1 Timothy 5:2) excerpt for ONE specific person for you. This should be a very clear indication that bonding to someone you are not married to will only lead to trouble. (I.E. Dating)
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Wow thank you so much for the resource. God bless you.
Yeah
Wisdom for Dominion Thank you so much.
Is there another link? This one doesn't work.
Everyone thinks of finding the right person no1 thinks of being the right person!
Blessed 1 oh snap! Youre right
I do. I think far more of it than I think of finding someone. But, it has set the par for my partner so high that I gave up even thinking about meeting anyone.
I actually do think of being the right person getting my self together. Your comment is truth
Pure truth
You are right,I always thought this is the right way and still working on myself and almost got where I always wanted as a whole.
My question is this enough for the right person for you to realize how you are and read your heart, appreciate you or am I wasted years for self-development for nothing? I mean if you find a wrong person who want to control you and don't care of who your are, everything is just in vain and you are force to live a life of lonely relationship.
*Just found Dr Munroe today and I have spent all day listening, binge watching and taking down so many notes. He was sent for me. So happy to have found him. What a Teacher!*
ENERGY GIVER he was an still is an amazing vessel of God
Wow.
GOD SENT HIM, AND PASTOR STEPHEN DARBY!!! (KINGDOM GOVERNMENT)
Yaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssssssssssssssssss
Indeed
Separation is like death. Most people don’t understand how it’s like losing a whole family. You marry/relate to the person and their family.
U have carried Myles Munroe's legacy in an amazing way "Wisdom For Dominion". Thanks for the illustrations.
We give glory to God
This is the 100% truth! The ripping is traumatic. Thanking God for healing!
I notice every time a lady who seem single or beautiful say something guys seems to hit thumb up.
But you cant remarry. Remarriage is Adultery
ehd Your point?
Riki M ...go and study the word more in-depth, to show yourself approved, so that you can actually rightly divide the word of Truth
So true la tasha
Don't develop a bond at a level you can't be responsible for.... Good advice and so very true. Divorce is the ultimate trauma for a woman. I never want to get divorced.
@Mike Tiwaz I can speak for myself that yes, many women tend to hop into another relationship quickly. I have done this in my past. I was younger, less secure in my own ability to get through the trauma of a divorce with someone I was deeply in love with. It was easier to try to fill the void with someone else then taste the pain of rejection.
Divorce sounds like a combining the words “Divide (by) Force”. Dividing One Flesh, into two is a violent act
The right person just exist in our mind...we just need to open our eyes to see who God chose for us
boris sirience amen
The right person is the one the Lord hand picks and select for you. He prepare you for that person and he prepares that person for you.
Deep!!!!! This man is so so full of wisdom
You speak the truth. This comes sọ apt!
@@sheashea4622 Than why are some good people alone. Why do some women end up with gamblers or alcoholics. Your statement doesnt make sense.
Wait on the LORD!!! Best choice; I choose to wait on Him!
Employment connection?
We wait on you! Lord! We wait on you! (×2) ♬♪♫❤🙏
I wish i knew this BEFORE I physically bonded with my ex ex and others, it would have saved me so much greif and blood shed.
It is well... Thank God for healing and new beginnings for you in Jesus name.. But ultimately, get closer to his word for now...
And money I had to support his broke a-- and I'm just now paying so of those bills off..
This make me reevaluate the way I do things!
I feel when two people come together they should asked the right questions to see if they are on the right path. To many times people just go off what they hear and not the persons actions. So they end up getting married and wonder why in no time they are getting divorced, but the whole time they were really showing you who they were, you just ignored it and got married anyways. Save your heartache and pay attention, a person's heart & intentions never lies.
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Very true message.
To be fair, problems start when faith stops.
It's one thing to ask God for a woman/man that is good for you, but after that, you gotta maintain the marriage.
The problem is not always the individual... it's the lack of faith in solving issues that come. Because THEN, communication stops.
When a problem comes, solving it also BECOMES THE PROBLEM, because no one is interested in a solution.
Many assume, after the woman/man you pray for arrives, they don't gotta pray no more.
In a nutshell, the problem ain't the partner, it's lack of faith and prayer in what you started. I know a pastor who married his high school sweetheart. They now have two kids and have been happily married for more than 25 years.
Keep the faith.
God bless you all.
The ONLY cure for a broken heart? Jesus. He was sent to bind up the brokenhearted. I am so broken right now. It is only His tenderness that is bringing healing. He doesn't push me or shame me. His loving arms are beyond comforting. And anytime i ask Him, i can feel Him holding me closer. Truly His presence is better than life itself!
Prayers for restoration of my grandchildren would be GREATLY appreciated. It is truly a battle for their very lives and souls! And i am beside myself with grief :(
🙏🏽
Yup I was broken hearted because of a failed relationship with my ex , I was like that for a couple of years until I asked god!! And he did pain gone!!!!!
Blue Kloudwalker yes yes yes
mauricio same God healed me put my faith and love and him and he gracefully blessed me with love and mercy and a wife .Blessed be the Lord God who we serve faithfully and Love
We must avoid dating to talk to another opposite sex for emotional intimacy most if they are not for any reason our future, discernment on dating is very important and needs a lot of work.
Please show me in the bile where it talks about dating. That is a man made concept. the bible talk about betrothal and that is how marriages are supposed to begin, NOT dating. You also need to be care full about emotional intimacy between two people of the same gender. I can not tell you how many time I have SEEN homosexuality take place in THE CHURCH and the preacher was too nice to know what was going on. AND the gay couple knew it and took advantage of the situation.
Stay on it, Faith Come By Hearing...ing.....ing...ing...ing
Not Having Heard, but by Hearing over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't Stop.
Mr. Smooves This is a SOLID point
Wow that’s some Holy Spirit insight right there! Praise god!
This is making being single easier.
Yeah hehhe
Yes.... marriage isn't what you think
What is it then?
Myles Munroe just showed me all my relationships mistakes in one video
Amen.I too hate divorce...But I see divorce as more like decapitation. The severing of the head (man) from the body (woman) is greatly violent especially the nerves that connect the two (covenant,faithfulness, loyalty, trust,.....children)..Its sad and more frightening than death.
Wow..never seen it like that!!
And other times its sweet release
Powerful illustration of divorce
@@keierrareenell877 Thank you...I do not know how others see it, but that's how I see it.A death that has no peace to it and that it destroys everything.
@@jrod1382 I complete agree the death is in the soul and heart not natural. Yet is ending love even natural? You are most welcome. Be blessed!
I was thinking. I have heard a lot of ppl over the years teach and preach. Nobody teach like him. Even these subjects.
TOMS WILL amen
He was obedient in his teachings!!
Thank you so much for being consistent in bringing to us Dr Myles Munroe teachings and please don't stop we need this teachings the world needs it. Thank you so much.
Pastor still inspires me until this day in 2019
So true I’ve been divorced twice it’s awful!!! The pain is unbelievable it’s a death except the other person is still alive😟
Wow! I do this with almost everyone. I can see how this is a problem. I do this out of general interest and curiosity. Not because I want to bond.
How have you changed your habits? Because I also do that out of curiosity.
Amen and the brokenness is traumatizing . I know this personally so, I pray God will spare many from this pain. 🙏
Wow! I was just sent this link by a friend... So simple yet so powerful! Definitely wish I had seen and understood this 10 years ago when I stepped into a doomed, short lived marriage. Thank you for sharing this important information!
Hey there, I am passing through something similar now, how did you come out of it and how did you deal with it, can you share some thoughts please?
Yet still you have some ppl who go around play with others emotions building bonds and know within themself that they don't want the person of have any intention of having a future with he or she
Casual talking should be built and not a deeper bond to any opposite sex, unless they are a relative or your partner.
Yeeea
If the relationship is traumatic and violent and painful and you are broken hearted while with them then it makes no sense to stay with that person. Worse yet you teach children that abuse is normal and they will seek out dysfunction later in life. I only want to get married once so I have to be sure that person will not want to hurt and manipulate me or my children.
Anna Vajda right and ty i try to tell ppl this whrn you are in an abusive relationship\marriage what are you teaching your kids
This is so true. I'm going through this with my oldest son because of his mother's manipulation. It is terrible to go through.
I get ur point but marriage is going to be so bad if you do not wait for God to direct you b4 marriage. many don't know the essence of marriage, they marry because the guy is handsome or the lady is pretty or the person have money.
You need to pray for the relationship prayer changes things
Bonding is good with your partner, without bonding and being connected you have nothing. Sometimes though one needs there own space because you could get sick of each other with doing a lot together. There's a time for bonding and a time to be by oneself and have some space.
You harlots want to live free and rebellious under the guise of marriage. I’m glad more guys are seeing the true nature of you all.
@@neox9369 facts !!!.....
Explain to me how you can get sick of someone that you claim to have that 'bond' with?
@@colinc5531 💯 Bro!! That's the new feminist mindset, that's causing women to initiate 80% (stats) of divorces! The most popular reason, is they just aren't happy, which is actually an internal personal problem, but society has taught them to blame the man! In my 20 year marriage, my wife has never wanted space! If a woman wants space, she wants to get validation from other men, via social media, or in person!
Bonds can be easily subdued by relatively superior ones.
I wish I knew all that I know now. I would have waited for the right person, now that is what Im doing. I married the wrong man spiritually and he has broken my heart. God has saved me from dying from a broken heart and I am forever grateful.
Dr Munroe was a true gift from God.
Yes I don't want to bond with the wrong people.
This information is true. Be careful of what you talk to the bout with his clients and the opposite sex. Now I see it is creating a bond that explains why people's feelings runaway.
Try to avoid those things that can destroy your marriage. Be faithful and loyal to your partner. If you have a problem, talk to each first and figure out some ways to fix that. Don't say immediately that divorce is the only option you could do.
Excellent! Thanks for that!
LoveMe,com yes!
Bonding is really important today because protect you receive help. Example if you are in hospital who will take care of you .
I agree, that it's best to wait for the right person God's going to put you with. Aminē ! Améme ! So be it!
Amazing teaching!!! May the storehouse of wisdom that was on this wonderful teacher of truth! Be multiple on his children! For their generation. Thank you father! AMEN. I AM so BLESS to be alive in this generation.
Bonding is good if the woman is from God but if she's from the devil then it becomes bondage, that bond aid can't fix.
Kirk Brown 😕
True
You have issues with women to work on, and to work on yourself.
Kirk Brown
Lmfao I thought for a second you were talking about kinky girls
If she repents there's hope
Thank you. for sharing the Late Dr. Myles Munroe messages with us. I am truly enjoying these teachings. They have confirmed & inspired me & gave me insights & answered questions for me as well. Thanks!!!
May all who seek insight into life and the meaning of life find that there is only one way to reach that and that is through the author and Creator of life itself. Glory to God for giving Myles such deep insights into the ways of the Kingdom of YHVH.
Wow very insightful. I always ask deep questions to anyone thinking it's cool and no harm n get myself in wrong relationships. Tq for this.
You’re stating the obvious. The potential danger of bonding deeply with a person is what gives those bonds meaning and intensity.
Before in my life I would have told you I was too scared to take the risk, but now I am prepared to face my fears.
You are exactly right sir, I’m divorced, Christian and miserable. I didn’t want it but my wife’s family pushed for it because we were separated for two years. She said she didn’t love me anymore. But your know what! I still feel connected to her and love her. It’s affected me and my life is suffering but I keep hoping she will come back. In Jesus name! Amen.
Update?
Divorce will be the best thing ever i can't wait my husband is a adulterer 24/7
This video was a blessing to me.. Thank you. I now view the way I speak to anybody differently! God bless you & your family in Jesus' name.
I was ripped. My heart is broken. My husband cheated and left me for another married woman. Why am I the only one who is heartbroken? God hated divorce because it rips you. But why is the only one who feels this is the one who was left behind and not the one who commited adultery. Why are they happy? He left me with my one year old child. We are married for 2 years but we are together for 11 years before marriage. How do I heal? Why am I hurting and that husband of mine with his mistress is happy? How can a loving God allow this?
Are you okay ?
@@akifahargyle7419 This post was from 3 years ago and I am glad to feel better now :)
Time does heal all wounds.
Things are still harder than it used to be but I can manage it all
Luke12:22
And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on.
That's real wisdom from true experiences.. thanks Dr Munroe
Thank you myles for scaring me away from marriage. I was always there though.
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Amen 🙏🏽
Praise God for pastor’s ministry
The answer on the question is in Psalm 147:3.
The only cure for a broken heart is God’s power, you gotta ask him true prayer with faith to heal your broken heart like he did to me. I was broken hearted for a couple of years until I asked him to heal me, I visualized me giving him my heart for him to guard it and he did!!
I think this apply to friends too.
True friends.
You know, that friend that you can call brother.
That's a thick bond there. Not like mariage, but very alike when you think about it.
That's also why the idea that friendship between man and woman is impossible is well known.
Because between deep frienship and deep love, there is only one bridge.
And Nature helping, sometimes you slide from one to the other without noticing.
🤔 But I wonder. When it comes to friendship bond, how much is too much?
And when it is too much, how to put distance without hurting the other person?
Very helpful lesson in marriage. I'm waiting on the right woman, preferably whose Never been married
Zee Rie yes take your time please
Zee Rie Amen.
God knows your needs and he knows who is your help ..he is makematch..so just pray to recognize her when God chooses or brings to you
Zee Rie iuuuuuuumhhhh herrrrrrrree
@Living for Jesus but what if his spouse is no longer alive, is it ok then?
Wow. Too bad I didn’t see this video 6 months ago
I should've 👀 this video years ago
Very true...wish there was marriage counselling before going into it
Even though I’m understanding this now. I have deleted all his pictures and texts conversations. I’m breaking those webs slowly. But it’s been 8 years of my life. The process is not easy to eliminate. It’s a lot of webs. Next step is getting rid of him but I haven’t come up with the strength yet.
I have the right person our marriage is strong I pray Lord you keep it that way amen.
Amen!
Divorce happens when the bond can no longer sustain you.. If 2people are meant for each other, nothing on earth can separate them.. These separations are as a result of wrong love partners which is difficult to know during the first stage of love.
Thank you Man of God of these powerful Teaching.
Praise God for this word 💯I was in a abusive relationship. IM SO HAPPY THE LORD ALLOWED ME TO GET OUT OF IT 💯. I had to ask Jesus Christ to break the soul ties from it 💯,AND NOW I PRAISE GOD DAILY BECAUSE ITS OVER 💯 .THAT WAS THE WORST THING IVE EVER BEEN THROUGH 💯. I had to forgive the person then forgive myself for allowing the ignorance I dealt with 💯. Now I don’t want to be in a relationship but if he want me to marry I will 💯THANKS FOR THIS VIDEO AND HAVE A BLESSED PROSPEROUS WEEKEND
Same thing happened to me, im confident forgiveness gets you moving forward. Blessings!
This is actually very interesting. I was born- and born again very spiritually sensible. The churches I used to frequent that time did not know, nor believe this. Especially when I told of some things feeling like spiderwebs in my spiritual body. Anything they thought of was 'that I must have been obsessed with Jezebel' and 'cast and kill and bind the demon within me'. Since today I did not ever recover from this experience. I feel like my spiritual me and my mind and feelings were completely demolished. As well as anyone mistrusts, abuses or rejects me.
But back to it: there were emotional bonds, too. Like a strong one with my grandmother, who died that day they they publicly 'killed Jezebel' at Sunday Service and screamed of wanting power in Gods name of course.
I like the way you animate the videos. That is very interesting.
Hi. .You are absolutely right..You have to wait the right for finding the right person at the right place through the guidance of Eternal God Most High.So many married couple ended up in Divorce due to the lack of compatibility in life like likes,interest, hobby, physical, mental, emotional disorder so in order that relationship would be successful both parties should make a compromise the things that you must avoid doing it or set a certain boundaries of what is allowed and what is restricted..And most of all have an open mind, communicate well to each other everyday with love and respect, be patient and understanding and most of all the success of good open marriage or relationhip is honesty , loyalty and consistency that uou were there for each other rain or shine and Our God Most High should be the center of all our dreams and ambitions to make it through his guidance, support and full blessings of graces into our daily lives and give thanks and gratitute to him on a daily basis for joy, peace, happiness and giving us the right and good partner in life that death could only separate us from one another in Jesus Mighty and Divine Gracious Name..Amen.Hesus.All well and good.. Thanks be to God..Cheers to everybody.
This made me sad :(
Great work you are doing here Wisdom for Dominion. I love listening to these Myles Munroe lessons / teachings
Thanks for the video. In my divorce I was connected with my ex. I never tried to start confusion. I think people who are truly truly a devoted child of God would not become evil to others , I don't care how connected you are to your mate. It shouldn"t be a cause for evil to another or to destroy anorhers life.
Really educating for thos who have ears
great insight by the great late Dr Myles and some awesome soothing music as well
da11king Dr Myers ain't around say he didn't leave
Oooooh my goodness Thank u Spirit of God ts only now tht i understand y divorce is not good Biblically!!
And i hv learnt important lessons abt bondin in ths video wow!!
What. I love about miles is he brakes. It down so I can understand it better. Rip brother
I love this! This is excellent wisdom & knowledge. Thanks!
Thank you for the illustrations
He talks from the Bible, so the truth.
We need that to overcome the lie.
He teaches his Bible studies in a creative way that makes them easy to understand.
Thank you Lord 🙏, that you left us a legacy as Myles Monroe 😀😢
Waw just awesome! This is some great advice and information here. I value it & I appreciate it much! Thank you so very much for sharing. God bless you! 🙏
I agree with everything he said except that divorce isn't always a person's choice. You can be a great spouse and the other person still decides to leave. You can say all day that you will never choose divorce, but you can't make someone stay.
Love this one, Dr Myles was really God sent
True wisdom! Wish I had known about this when I was young.
Wow beautifully explained! Wisdom
Yes sir myles, my heart is broken 💔
You scared me away my heart is too fragile
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O.k.....my Google voice actuvation accidentally turned itself on, and regurgitated a nonsense message (see above) thst I did nit creste. By the time rhat I figured out how to turn ot off (the feature,)
I found out that I could not rescind the message.
MY God I needed to hear this. I have two ppl who are bonded to me. one whom I'm also bonded two. and I new had relations with the one I'm bonded two and the other is female coworker who is finding I hard to let our relationship go. now I understands.
So amazing message !
Thanks for the illustration.
You're welcome
What if that person (either male or female) is married with a spirit of Delilah spiritually and end up wanting a partner in the physical? Those are dangerous bonds right there.
Prince LionHide she was not the right person from the beginning
Wow.. this is good. Thank you for this the answer to my questions.
Word's of wisdom.
Trauma is divorce.
I hate divorce.Malachi:6.
Bonding is like a web.
Webs of lies are no good.Dangerously Bonding.
No bonding with someone you don't like.Be careful who you bond with.
No creating any bonds.
Q's & A's are a serious bond.
CAnnot break a bonds = bleeding heart's or bonds.
Emotionally bleeding of that scared bond.Ripping of the soul.A bleeding HEART.
God's beginning only. Singleness does NOT favour being ALONE.
My husband says he doesn't want me anymore. I can't do anything about it, but I'm not going to divorce him. I will hold the divorce papers and wait on God.
Why?fast and pray about it only if he's worth it.
I pray that you were able to move on from a man not wanting you. You deserve better.
knowledge is power the more we know the better our lives will be
Well said!! Wish I did known of this message year ago..
tremendous teachings doc...
so what happens when you find the right person and they apparently change .. some people wished they knew this before they got married .. what happens when you regret your marriage ?
Amen.... the right person all the wayyyy
friends can be created through bonding too
Waiting for the right one to come along ... till when? Better to be together with one you think is right, and then analyse if this is really the right one. If not, break up and find another one, and another, till u find the right one. If just meeting up for lunch, dinner, or just writing love letters is not good enough. To know the person's full character, to see if he or she is right for u, u need to take some time to be together, meet in the homes, see his or her family/parents, do some research to see it he/she matches u. Also, see his/her behavior, character, if it's comfortable to u.
Really scaring
hahaha it sure could be.... a little!
We are BROTHERS and SISTERS in Christ (1 Timothy 5:2) excerpt for ONE specific person for you. This should be a very clear indication that bonding to someone you are not married to will only lead to trouble. (I.E. Dating)