My hubby told me he dated white girls while in HS and early 20s. He said that it was b/c they talked to him first. They flirted with him first. They would even buy him clothing and other things (which his parents and grandparents advised him to stop taking). He said the black girls were never clear as to whether they liked him or not...they’d just tease and joke or be mean. Maybe they were nervous or afraid of rejection? I say this to say that non black women do the most when competing and proving to black men that they can be valuable to them. I’m black and YES I wrote my hubby love letters while we were dating. He told me that they actually changed my status to fiancée. I used to sing Mary J Blige Love No Limit to him when we were dating even though it was an older song by then. To me those lyrics said it all!!
I've been on 100+ dates since 2014. The only woman who showed up late was a black lady. She arrived, wait for it.......an hour too late. All the other women (who came from all kinds of etnicity) would take 5 minutes to get comfortable and talk for hours on end, all I had to do was ask questions, jump topics and crack some jokes and the ladies would feel safe, open up, be honest and share their life experiences. The black lady would be sceptical, hesitant and nowhere in the date (I had to end early) did she give me the impression that she was interested. Yes she was beautiful and eloquent, but no thanks she was not joyful or fun to be around. My 2 cents.
@mike smith Its my own brother. I am a philosopher and mentor. I dont post that to throw shade on BW....but do you not hear BM's reasons for checking out?? When KS speaks of HV men...I am one of them. Mid 40's, in shape, and definitely well off. Men have to work to get here and when we arrive, we dont want drama and a loud mouth waiting when we hit the door. Most of us would prefer a BW on our arm, but we will marry out if it means not dealing with victim mentality and disrespect. Its not just women...think, would you rather deal with a white cashier who threw your groceries around or a black one who was pleasant and respectful. Here their behavior is the change factor. There are many white women I wouldn't spend 2 minutes in a room with, those are not the ones HV BM go for. A loud abrasive woman of any race is a no go! If you understand the quote it tells on itself. Its why many white boys marry Asian women, its why MGTOW exist.....men are checking out on women in general due to bad behavior and their corrupt mentality.
@@ThePresentTimeNow Oh its true sis....thats why you crying. The 👍 dont lie. To HV men being able to enjoy the wealth we created (IN PEACE) is by far the greatest reward of our success. Sharing that with a woman is nice but we wont deal with a disrespectful woman no matter how pretty she is.....remember what KS said sweetie....we have options and the greatest exercise of said options is the ability to make low quality women invisible..👻 One lesson I learned as a kid is never disturbing an animal when its eating.....The streets are eating these modern women.....I dare not bother the streets again and get my hand bit. Pookie and Ray Ray nem got you tho😉. Cheers Love!
@@sirenenoire4091 has nothing to do with being a doctor. Statically the higher up in education women go the less likely they are to get married. They become married to their degrees and thing they are boss b*ches and don’t need men. Where do you think the PHD soundbite came from. A caller said she wouldn’t choose to be married because she’s a PHD
@@kennywarren8150 because they don't want to marry losers who lack potential. Some of you men (and that's all men not just one race) don't even have what it takes to be high value
other women gave my now wife a hard time because she was what they would call a "pick me". She went to culinary school, is submissive, loving, reliable, easy to get along with. Hell she just got back from working at a kids camp, came home almost right away, she only stopped to pick up a cold case of my favorite beer to surprise me when I got home from work. What man doesn't want that?
And in return I bet the anniversaries are fire for her,I bet xmas,V-DAY,B-DAY and vacations are fire 🔥 for her. My step-mom was the best,my pops got her a new Lincoln every 3 years! Vacations they’d be gone 3 weeks! Valentine’s Day was epic for her,her birthday was even better. My dad blue collar union worker married to a educated woman who o y went to work after my step-brother and I became juniors and showed we could take care of ourselves to up their retirement gains and payoff bills a houses. And my dad started getting new F-150s,new Stacy Adams,Bulova watch’s,new shit guns,and new tools to build her a new back yard with bbq and gazibbo lol.
As a black man, i started trying to prevent the women in my family from going off and cussing people out when they get mad. Letting them know its not okay. Too much mental instability and uncontrolled emotions with modern..........
What is worse is that these black women will throw their anger on their children. If you grew up in such a household, I am very sorry for you. I hope you are doing well. Peace.
I was just saying saying . Black men who marry non black women divorce rate doubles . I was married to a black man before, we are divorced I’m about to be remarry a wonderful man ( he's white ) . I really don’t understand where black men think a lot of races want them . You know how many people looked down on me because I had a black husband. It’s like my value automatically went down
In this comment section above me, you’ll see two black women, one is coping and mad at the fact most of her demographic is undesirable, the other is a black women pretending to be a white women, using obvious coping talking points. “It’s like my value went automatically down.” This is a demographic that’s the least married, least desired, most obese. While they have that and many more, they’ve been told their whole lives that they’re queens and that bm aint sh1, so when they get out into the real world and see bm have more options than them, they hate that.
@@shellyadams1182 50% of all marriages end in divorce. Hello. Black men don't feel all non-black women want us but we know that a successful bIack man or any race of man who is a hvm, can get "a woman" of any race. Every race or gender of people look down on other people, the bIack man is no different but success doesn't care who looks down on it. No matter what race, when women pick the wrong guy, she will blame everyone but herself. Keep this in mind, black men physically love black women, it's their attitudes that is horrible.
@@vickyalora Thank you, you just proved KS was right. BIack men naturally respect BIack women without being asked. BIack women knowingly don't give BIack men respect. Out of her own mouth, she said "it has to be earned" it's all conditional and based on if BIack women are getting something good in return.
"White Privilege? No. This is Black Ignorance!" Thank you, sir. We need this message on a grand scale throughout the black community. Hopefully more people can see all this 'racism/white privilege' crap is just an excuse to continue on with our bad behavior....and you can see the effects its having in real time through the callers on this show.
Most of them are cubic zirconium aka fake diamonds. They can’t handle the pressure it takes to make real diamonds so they run the moment real pressure finds them.
Not every man deserves a diamond. There should be as many diamonds (high value women) as there are high value men. It makes sense that they are rare. Women who want to get a partner and are willing to lower their standards always find a partner. Only those who "won't settle for less", stay unmarried. But for older men, who are not high earners, overweight and single, life gets really hard. Because they can't get any woman in most cases.
I went to a hbcu and one of the chicks in my AMP program was a Vietnamese chick. Very attractive girl and she got a lot of attention because of it. Our Jr year she started dating a guy from the neighboring hbcu, and when we graduated they moved to the DC area and got married 2 years later. Her and I have always been cool and I remember her calling me saying she hadn't talked to her parents since we graduated. She said the reason why is because her spouse was a bm. Fast forward to now (we are 33) she a GS 14 and her husband is a nuclear engineer. They have 2 kids and doing very well. Talked to her 2 weeks ago and she says her parents are still not accepting the fact that she married a bm, and her exact words were " they don't control my happiness. I stopped caring a long time ago." These women know a good man when they see one
I met an Indian woman in Piedmont Park in Atlanta years ago who did the same thing. When I asked her how she felt about it she said “I love my family: but I love my new family more.” Mind you her husband was an attorney.
I bet you're from the USA. In Europe I've never heard such story. Can you imagine, her husband has such a great job. Look at the lady birth country where most people everyday meal is a cup of rice, still they thinks black men are beneath.
@@tweetyslife253 damn such jealousy in your comment...then again look at your picture 🤣🤣🤣🤣. The und3sir@ble. One thing for sure is that she is definitely better than u and she found a good bm. Something you struggle with.
I'm always amazed how black men collectively are treated as an afterthought until it is time to use them, blame them for something or making choices that allows them to experience happiness.
@@davaughn2376 Productive black men have all sorts of options. Don't be a stereotypical dumb ninja and expect quality women of any race to look at you. Athletes and entertainer black men actually get low quality women for the most part. Nothing compared to what the docs and engineers types get.
I noticed a trend among black women. When it’s a black man giving out his personal struggles that he has with black women, he’s blamed for it. It must be his fault. I saw a white man say he had issues getting a black women, black women reassured him that they obsess over white men and there were even some black women saying they’re in the comments of those white mens posts looking for a man. Black women approach white men, they go out of their way to do that, but the thought of even putting in any effort outside of looking in the direction of a black man, that’s too much. Black men wake up please, go where you’re appreciated.
Well im 6'5, high iq, grew up in compton in the 80's and 90's and my vivid memory of trying to date in my teens was "but you are soo nice!"...like it was a negative. Which i could never understand....well i married a white auatralian girl and moved to Australia. Its peacesful and she gave me support and room to grow as a man. Those comments make so much more sense now.
Yeah this is true. A few episodes back on FnF the ladies on the panel said they won't submit until he proves his masculinity. A man isn't going to wait around and prove, he'll just smash and pass. You come as you need to be or you're not bringing value early enough.
You so need to earn whatever it is you want from a woman. This 🌈 is lying to y’all. Can’t no rude dusty ugly or broke man get the things he wants without stepping his game up!
Sooo true, Kevin. I remember proudly saying to someone when I was younger "I don't have to learn how to cook, I'm gonna marry a man who cooks". I dated a man who could not cook at all, but checked all the other boxes and I gladly subscribed to cooking channels on YT, watched his mom cook, bought cook books and all. Now he's my husband and he brags about how amazing of a cook his wife is. Whatever my man needs, he gets. If I didn't know how to do something before meeting him, believe, I know it now.
Remember that the woman that said "I'm a PhD", called in to criticize a man for saying he's the prize because of _HIS_ PhD, and criticize him for leading with it and basing his value on it. Then she proceeded to do the very same thing when asked about her marital status. You can't make this shit up people.
The fact that he makes these women talk respectfully when they know they wanna start clapping and neck rolling and going off is well worth the price of admission
Clapping and Neck Rolling?? Clearly you have bought into the hype. Not every woman, REGARDLESS of Skin Tone, reacts in that manner when expressing themselves. Try educating yourself on a variation of women prior to making such an absurd statement.
@@LexsquisiteReads probably what he grew up around lol. People often forget that the more one person talks the more they say about themselves then other people. So I hope you would let it slide, some men would always say mean or nasty things to women for simply being women, the art of ignoring is a bliss.
KS is telling the truth. Some of the White women take Black men by being friendly and freely giving or offering help. When Black women have the same positive, friendly attitude towards Black men, they're told "Don't chase no man". In my opinion it's not chasing a man but being friendly. Black women who have the fun, cooperative, giggly personality are shamed and called weak by many Black women. It's sad
Still true! Many coworkers would laugh when I said that I couldn't go out for drinks after work bc I had dinner to start and wanted to study with our sons everyday. Fast forward and we're still happily married!
@@nodustflyzone it’s not so simple. My gfs family and friends would tease her in the beginning about always being on the phone with me and coming over all the time. “Why you always talking to him you don’t got a life?” “You always at his house girl go do something else” Dealing with that all the time gets frustrating especially when it’s constant
I’m a 62 year old from Australia . Love the content from Kevin , he has cross cultural message . Suitable for every man . We must help to educate the young , warn the women and men about how damaging feminism has been . Are you married dude …..I am 3 happy years now …seek global
That Hispanic woman was all of the things that men look for in less than a minute…obviously feminine, cooperative, sounds FRIENDLY, is CUTE and FIT, and has collarbones! But the biggest thing is…she seemed HAPPY! And that is the antithesis of the modern woman.
I’m in the 7 to 8 figure annual income range depending on the value of my portfolio. I visit my home state in the South for two weeks recently, hardly any black women would talk to me, the older women would speak but not the women in my age range. White and Hispanic women chatted me up on a daily basis, I sat at the bar of the most expensive restaurant in town and it happened again, hardly any of the black women at the bar spoke to me but the white women introduced themselves and commented on the shirt I was wearing finding a way to strike up a conversation.
I’ve always been feminine and nice and got bashed by other black women because of it . I was called punks , stupid, and “thinking like white women “ to the point I felt like the black sheep. It didn’t stop me though . I am still happy everyday and now these same women look to me for advice . 🤷🏽♀️
Yes i grew up around whites at school but went to a blk church and thr blk kids would make fun of my voice or my mothers obese bitter sister would be so cruel to me. I swear she was jealous of my voice and petite skinny body. Bw have always dogged me for "acting white" and i absolutely love being blk because of my parents
When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear. - Thomas Sowell Appreciate all that you do KS 🙏🏾
@@darealtruth3095 You've just illustrated your own point lol. When did KS claim to be a 'dating guru'? I'll give the benefit of doubt, perhaps you just started watching him. The point is and has always been about outcomes in our communities - relationships just happen to be what blew up. With that as context, Thomas Sowell's quote is relevant - whether you agree or not.
Anybody else notice that when happily married women call in they just have a completely different air about them. There’s no arguing, the way they speak is much more understandable, their tone easy on the ears and appearance is easy on the eyes. Most importantly 9 out of 10 times they are smiling. Notice the opposite (unmarried, unhappy, hit the wall etc) demonstrate the complete opposite with little to no self awareness.
Listen to Kevin's college stories. Read between the lines: Becky's there to get a (high-value) HUSBAND (degree is secondary). Aiesha's there to get her PhD (a man is secondary).
@@vidard9863 becky dont wanna be working in her 30s onward. She wanna be home raising kids and playing with a dog while the man gets the 80% of the money 💀 when will black women get this?
I don't go to college until I was in my 30s because I already found a husband and was married at 18. This is what we were taught in the 60s 70s and 80s. .women go to college to find a husband. Many of us went to college after out kids were grown because we wanted to go out and work then.
Also, there are too many Black women who think that being submissive to a BM or a non-Black man is considered to have low self-esteem or can't think for themselves. When it's the other way around where the BW is not able to accept who she is herself and expect others to build her up when she is capable of doing that herself
Yes and often the irony is, the very "thinking for themselves" that they boast and protect so fiercely is instigated by their single friends who are also projecting their OWN insecurities
It amazes me that black women don't understand they have the ability to change their outcomes. Be the woman you were designed to be and watch how nature responds.
@@orlandojouavel1846 right I saw that piece she snuck in knowing damn well their white zaddy can do no wrong 😂 Black women are slick she fake calling out her sisterhood but she'll never tell the whole truth.
I remember reading both books in the "How to Love a Black Woman/Man" series to get a perspective from both ends. For the women was an interesting narrative the author put together (paraphrase): Woman was complaining her A/C wasn't working well during a heat wave. She calls her boyfriend at 6am knowing he's heading to his job at a construction site for 8am to ask to check out the A/C before work. He does and, 35 minutes and a glass of water later, it's working fine. She thanks him, kisses him on the cheek goodbye, tugging on him but he says "I gotta run babe, I'll call you at lunch." And he's off to work, maybe late. Immediately she wonders if he's seeing someone else. He wasn't as affectionate or playful as usual. He seemed tense when he came in. "Just focused on the A/C, barely looked at me." She calls him 3 times btwn then and lunch. He's not answering. Wth? He calls at lunch and she barks at him: "What's up with you? You acting a bit standoffish. Like you don't want to be around me. You don't love me anymore?" Finally he gets a word in. "Babe, how can you say I don't love you? You called me at 6 something AM, I came over, late for work, to fix your A/C. No breakfast, not even toast was offered. I fixed it and was running late. *Of course I love you. I showed up."* *Men do. That's our love language.* 🔥💯👑
@@anthonyrobinson7715 We'll never know if he did or didn't but, bear in mind, these are stories based on the author's clients (relationship therapist I believe) and was written back around 2005 or 2006. Maybe earlier. So much has changed for the worse since then.
I’m so glad I found my husband in my younger years. We both got married at 19 & now we’re about to celebrate our 10 year anniversary. At the beginning of everything I didn’t know how to be a wife & he didn’t know how to be a husband because we weren’t shown how to be but we worked & researched what it takes. Especially thru trial & error. We’ve had our good & bad times but working together, knowing our roles & being on the same page has benefited us. I’m thankful & I’m glad I’m not out here in the dating scene.
The smoke detector bit is hilarious, but holds a lot of truth. A little appreciation goes a long way, ladies. Even if it's just the little things. Men really just want their work and effort to be acknowledged sometimes. 🤷♂️
That's the problem with those keishas / karens, they look down on the nice guys but they expect those nice guys to protect / take care of them after they hit the wall GTFOH 🖕
Literally that’s all bruh. And atleast be genuine, when you do it like your checking a box it comes off so fake. Men have intuition as well ladies. You just don’t like to acknowledge it.
A man wants to do for a woman. But women do NOT want to reciprocate. Ladies, just your mere presence, especially with attitude. Is not enough. Now if you'll excuse me I need to check battery prices at home depot
I’ve noticed the “KS haters” comments are getting less and less each show. Just an observation. There are some sprinkles here and there…but not like it used to be. Either they stopped watching…or started “listening”.
I've noticed that too, they are recognizing the fact that they have been getting wrong information from older resentful, feminist minded black women that have been keeping them single and unmarried, welcome to The Awakening black woman, you got 3 minutes to feel sorry for yourself, to forgive yourself, and get on with the rest of your marriage life...
"And ladies, hold on strap in.. Your momma, your big momma, your nene, your auntie n em, have raised you to be the very thing you hate” - The Godfather
This is 100% right... i hid in my career, trauma, afraid of rejection... i was pretty privledged and didnt come out of hiding until I was 46... I had a great career but no kids. Devastating to not understand that was a choice I was making at the time. I held onto my looks, got a great husband... but ladies, this is 100% the truth...
That slick hurt my feelings when the Latina came on and said they serve the men out of love and honor... 1st thing I thought Black men won't get that type of love... SMH
Been taking care of my brother since I was 15, and now I'm 28 and he lives with me.. I work, cook for him all out of love so please don't generalize all black women.
I'm glad he corrected the woman on her piercings and tattoos. Why do women think this is a go to! It DECREASES their looks and value! Like Kevin said, it puts them in the category of FUN, instead of wife!
Things most men say are unattractive or not preferred: Babies from other men, tattoos, bonnets worn in public, fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake nails, and overly masculine ways.
Because they can do whatever the hell they want to and might not give two shits about your opinion women want a person attracted to them for them not a fake version of themselves and all people are attracted to different types of things so a man or women can find them wife matierial and hey maybe you want that basic,golf, dinner at the same restraunt, normal country club stuff but FUN is better then boring that’s why most men cheat in the marriages things aren’t Fun anymore or are boring lol not an excuse to cheat but just saying
@@jasper4137 True. Women can do whatever they want. But at the same time, high value men are expressing what they want. And it’s none of those things (fake hair, the raptor claw nails, the bonnets in public, etc). As humans we have free will. But just because you CAN do something, doesn’t mean you SHOULD. Women can do whatever they want to do. Just don’t be surprised or upset that high value men don’t court or marry them.
Men need to stop paying so much attention to the first golden rule and start following the second.. 2. Go where you are appreciated do not remain where you are not even tolerated.
Thats why I deliberately set out to learn two foreign languages, got my passport, travel, on the weekends I avoid nightclubs and instead go to art galleries, museums, operas and live dance performance, play tennis and indoor rockclimbing. These places and activities are like KRYPTONITE to most Black women. Hey, I just want to live my best life, and either you come on board or you can kick rocks.
Honestly how can those modern women compete when high value or just good men can find a feminine, cooperative woman? I'm Puerto Rican and married a Puerto Rican recently and she's hot, skilled, cooperative, and feminine. Do you know how it makes a man feel when a hot lady asks if you want some coffee, makes you breakfast or just wants you to do her? Feeling like a king here and in turn, I give her the kingdom. Learn something women.
The lady who came on talking about White privilege and discrimination has an attitude problem, this is why people treat her a certain way. That's blatantly obvious just from this short interaction. Unfortunately she doesn't seem to think the problem is her.
that's part of the victimhood mentality the other girl mentioned no difference if this mentality is indoctrinated into vvomen by effinism cuz of gender or by blm cuz of r*ce....all the same intentional divide & conquer tactics to tear down the nuclear family and society as a whole.. they are just used as tools for that goal.....
how did she have an attitude? She wasn’t rude, she smiled or chuckled when he was going in on her. Didn’t lash out. She also admitted her mistakes. It’s almost like dsw cant simply exist without people having a problem with them. Just her showing up black and having a different opinion is a problem
@@Princess-sk6kc if you didn't see her behavior as a issue, then that's a problem. Her failures were based on not listening Male authority, it's not okay to expect a healthy outcome when you don't do healthy shit.
A woman has 4 kids by 3 different men and the excuse is “picking the wrong” men?? If you made a mistake with the first, why go on and make the same mistake with 3 more?? And why have kids with the men you picked as if it’s an essential thing to have a child with every man you date?
Most of these women are their own worst enemy. They chase alpha males to baby trap as a status. Then complain they hate beta males who all they want outta them is a sponsor$$$ Then the beta don't want it either
I thought being a high value woman meant making a career top priority, being financially secure, and staying ambitious. Now I realize that’s called “ BEING A DUDE!” 🙋♂️This is where many black women like me missed the mark. Many of us are not RAISED to focus on femininity and fitness like Becky.
My mother was able be this kind of feminine women even before her and my father were married because she was provided for and taken care of. Her bills were paid without question which alleviates stress.
@@miapdx503 and men don’t care about their emotional intellect and financial sense and it shows with the lack of BM not able to reach a 60k salary job. So sad
@K no you don’t men who aren’t married often due at age 60s… you know why because they don’t have that nagging wife to tell you to take your behind to see the doctor. Facts
That’s very true. My first requirement when looking for women is that she’s nice. Not beautiful, not smart, not sexy. I just want them to be nice and someone that I can talk to without feeling as if I’m combating them.
I was looking for a home in the 90s and stayed with my Mom for a while. Everyday I went to work (she was a retired widow) and when I came home in the evening, there was a cocktail and a home cooked meal on the table!!! I thanked her profusely.....because I FINNALLY understood why men value this in their home life! I am a black woman who has been married for 18 years to a black man!
The nerve of this woman to say black men don't give people like her a chance when she has 4 kids from 3 black men and can STILL get a boyfriend after all of this.
The father is so important in a girl's life. I'm just thinking off the top of my head there were 2 girls I knew back home who were feminine and submissive and they grew up in the same household as their father. Loved and respected their fathers dearly and I don't think its a coincidence that they got married young (25-6) moved to be with their man and are traditional housewives.
I like how women answer " not yet " when Kevin asks if they have a husband. Its like they can snap their fingers and make a man appear or they can go down to the husband store and buy a husband whenever they want one.
Another great show, I am not sure what's happening with women these days. I love to cater to my man. Facials, back rubs, cook for him, sometimes buy him something as a surprise, all that goes a long way.
@raj jar American culture has changed you. Eastern European men take charge and are emotionally intelligent. You American men always need and are looking for Superman to save you guys or show you what masculine look likes so sad
@@brit7522 assuming you’re a Black man, are you a Black man that gets upset or has any ill feelings towards Black women dating and marrying white men ?
As a black man (mixed) I can say men typically like who likes them. I love black women and they don’t really check for me. So I date whoever, usually white or Hispanic. Men aren’t complicated, we’ll start feeling somebody if they showing us love.
When will women finally understand that the productive men will just ignore them....not argue, debate, joust, or justify... and the proof is every time they ask: “Where are all the good men at?..” The answer is, actively avoiding women like YOU.
I couldn't imagine a scenario where a man makes it to a consistent six figures and be told he has to procreate with any woman other than his own kind. Most men I know at this level wife and have children with people who look like them. Some just wait longer to find the FBI lady they desire.
@Solar all you have to do is talk to someone for less than a minute in most cases. Their are circles where certain woman are essentially ostracized from. This makes it quite easy to avoid people.
I find it really interesting how SO MANY women come on this man's show and end up saying "I don't know" to questions that are obviously well known to the masses. And this happens ALL OF THE TIME. Ladies. You end up looking either incredibly dense or totally disingenuous to the entire world. It's not a good look. Real rap yo
They simply do not want to hear the truth. That's it! They want to be wrong and strong, and when the truth is given to them flat, they block their ears, because to admit that they're wrong, they will have to admit and they do not wish to loose their blasted pride! That's it!
They're playing dumb. Playing dumb absolves them of any responsibility because they can say "well I didnt know this". How is it that they can do research for a PHD but cant find out that men are simple and want fit feminine and friendly women??
maybe they are so badly disconnected from reality that they really ignore everything in real life to keep 'pursuing' their personal 'perceived' reality. i mean they got told that only their 'feelings' and 'perceptions' matter at home (single mothers), in schools, in universities, by public media, by their 'echo chamber' social circles (GF groups) and by the divide & conquer movements like effinism, blm and so on... if you look how desperately they are trying to defend their distorted 'worldview', what amount of colossal mental gymnastics they are coming up with and how viciously they are acting, it shows a kinda cult/religion/mental disorder-like pattern imho
I have to represent for the sisters that actually Love our Men. I didn’t see my father every day but I always had respect for him and loved him, My mother never talked bad about my father to us children. I was blessed to spend time around other women that were wives and we shared a joy in cooking, raising our children and taking care of our men. The mistake I made was that I allowed my mother to move in with my husband and I when we were first starting off and that was a big mistake. She had an opinion about everything and disrespected my husband. She caused me to see him in a different light and it wasn’t her place to have anything negative to say about the man that choosing to stand by my side and take care of our family. My husband can get loud sometimes but most of the time I cater to him, try to make him feel appreciated. You want to do something for modern women, wives spend time with your single sisters to show them how it’s done. Show them how we are kind to our Kings, how we are the ones they want to share how their day went. We are the ones that they show up with flowers just because and the reason that man can go to work happy!! The black family is everything!!
The truth hurts, but it's necessary. Our BM deserve to be respected and appreciated. Instead, they're demonized. It's no wonder that the "Becky's" "Karen's" "MeiLing's" scoop them up like the *Clean up Woman*
Kevin, can you please consider speaking to the black women who are married to hv black men? We do know how to love, cater, talk to our black kings! We do exist!
Especially to the younger generation of women who really don't know, and older women are too jealous and selfish to lead them in the right direction...
I'm Malaysian and we have plenty of good and kind black women over here for studies but these are black women from African countries like Sudan, Ghana, Kenya and etc. These black women still hold traditional values and very nurturing meanwhile the difference to American black women is huge that it's almost as if they have different culture and belief. I've never seen a race with such huge disparities based on where they're brought up. Most Indians/Arabs/Asians and even White regardless of where they were born and raised still hold their traditional values but only in black community we have these extremes.
Africans come from patriarchal societies. Black America is a matriarchy enforced by white patriarchy. If a black man tries to enforce his authority, the white power structure will be called on him.
@@balerikirmu.11 I don't understand this, name me 1 black women in America that contributed more than Martin Luther King Jr. There might be some white politics there but how oblivious can you be to not know this. From 60's-80's the American black community was still patriarchal.
I love the new camera angle, I’m a cinematographer, the only thing I would change is your frame. Don’t need to see the bottom of the table, just raise the camera so the tv monitor in the back is not cut off as well
I had tears in my eyes from laughing at the smoke detector story. Thank you for bringing content even with life happening all around you. Thank you Thank you Thank you
Ya'll need to stop playing with this man's LIKES, before he come to your house and RATE your Mom, Aunt, Sister, Daughter, Baby Mom, GM and Niece!!! lol
Exactly. It’s a 2 way street for both of us. We will throw ourselves at bottom shelf Brad or Becky and think that we won the lottery of life 😂. The grass more times than not isn’t greener on the other side. The problem is that we’re nasty to each other all day long, but treat outsiders with more kindness.
Pretty please make the last monologue on bragging on and pumping up your man a separate clip! I have been telling my single friends this for so long and would love to send that part to them! I watch my husband literally stand taller when I do it…oh and then he is all about doing more and more. I just bat my (natural) eyelashes and smile pretty and lavish on the praise. Easy and satisfying for both parties involved.
Middle Eastern marriages aren't "arranged." That statement proves how ignorant she is. The amount of times that actually happens is so minuscule compared to 50 years ago or so and when it does rarely happen, it happens overseas, not here. We just "date" differently than other cultures in the west. The families are very involved in the courting and marriage process because we're very family-oriented. And it is rare that we marry outside of our race culturally. That lady was just looking for excuses.
Arranged marriages are still the most common method of marriage in the middle east and muslims countries in general. Arranged marriage is different to forced marriage. Arranged is the most effective form of marriage long term.
I'm a black man and I have always dated whoever I wanted. I'm in my early 40s now so we know that's been looked down upon throughout my lifetime. I couldn't care less. I also love my black women. Dating outside of my race doesn't mean I hate black women. The fact is, it's about qualities. We have to compliment each other. This is the case with my native American gf. We both run businesses. We put each other first. She pays me compliments, as I do her. She's straight forward. I don't have to guess what she's thinking. She always has a smile for me, even after we disagree about something. She embodies the feminine qualities I love in a woman. Most of all, she doesn't try to manipulate or emasculate me. Lastly she wants to be loved, not handled.
Socialism creates debt, Europe only pulls it off because the US subsidizes their military. Almost every European nation is in massive debt and quite a few are moving more towards a capitalist society. Furthermore, almost all research and development comes from the US, “socialists” have a very narrow window of the world.
They hear quite well what they want to hear. They just ignore the topics that don't support their narrative. The reason they change the subject or bring up stuff from the past is to distract you from the valid points you're making. If they feel they have the advantage in a conversation they will not veer off course.
@@FTL87 my wife weighed 154 lbs last week at 40 weeks with our third child. Why on Earth do most women who call in weigh more than my full term pregnant wife even at similar or smaller heights? There is a big line between thick and obese.
I get that many BW have a hateful mentality towards men because of their childhoods, but I'm not going to suffer the rest of my life with a bitter, fat, "queen" just because we're both black. It's 10 times easier to choose Becky, Ling Ling, or Rosalinda, who all treat their men with love, care, and respect.
@@bernthalbabe313 nobody cares. They call black men Ray Ray, and Tyrones(fun fact my name is Tyrone) and I dont take it personally. Ling Ling isnt a big deal 🤷🏽♂️ I actually know an Asian girl named Ling Ling.
Thanks for the video Kevin! Side note : My empathy led me to feel bad for the 18 year old girl that turned into the 41 year old single mom with 4 kids. At the same time, wow the person she grew up to be made quite a number of poor decisions. Hope her kids turn out differently
From the very wise words of the Late, great Bob Marley... “Love is what you tolerate”... True.. question is... what will men “tolerate” for “love”??? Sounds high school to me. As an adult... I won’t “tolerate” nothing for “Love”...
You gotta remember... Parents also “tolerate” children with tantrums... because they “have” to.. grow men in relationships don’t have to... for “love”....
I'm a black man married to a black woman. I know 10 other black married couples in our circle. The love is out there, but it won't become mainstream until the singles understand the code. Marriage is a union between two different individuals who sacrifice to serve one another.
Lol you think he’s infiltrating and watering us down? That’s better than us dying out. Single moms are still having kids by a few men at high clips. The rest of the BM should go where valued
Alot of people see the term “submissive” as degrading, slave(ish) and abusive… then they get all defensive about it!! In a relationship, the term basically just means “know your place and stick to it”.
There is nothing more satisfying than pleasing my man. Seeing my man happy makes me very, very happy. So I absolutely love doing things to please him. Isn't that how love works?
Second woman was a headache to watch. Shes acting clueless as fu*k and then got game goofy when Kevin asked her “do you know any single high value black men?”. She knows what she said and she said what she meant 🙄
“I have listened to men (blck mhen in particular) profess their deep desire to be with a bw and to raise children that look like them. And I’ve seen grown men damn near come to tears with the realization that women on their “level” are so distasteful” - The Godfather
But becky has weaponised her femininity to get inside the castle gates and then burgle you using the courts 😜 BW seem to be in a perpetual sulk and snap for realising at an early age, that they'll never be the pretty This is an aspect that kevin doesn't cover Was there a communal feeling of _rejection_ from BW when BM were given attractive status and free to chase other races post-jimcrow? Is this why mums and gram's are advising young BW to not rely on BM? That would be an interesting topic I've always wondered what would happen if kevin invited in a gaggle of grammies and aunties to explain why they're so anti-BM?
@@hardplans2366 Because the Aunts and Grannies are Bitter and Scorned 🤪. And The Main People that are Promoted in America are Black Man 👨🏾🦱And NonBlack Women👩🏻🦱 White Women👩🏼 And White Man👨🏼 Hell Even Trans 🧔🏻♀️ are More Celebrated then y’all 😂 😂. Y’all Loosing US y’all Better get Intune of What’s Happening Because if Y’all Lose y’all Best and Most Brightest. What do Y’all Black Women as Group HAVE TO SHOW FOR ??
I just don’t understand how you have 3 baby daddies and think that’s okay? You can’t find a husband, but can find a someone to impregnate you. OMG! Insane. 😧🤐
Kevin said something extremely important at the end (2:29:35- 2:42:59)when he spoke about women affirming there man in public. Why because it matters telling us how good we are will make us build a house and never have. Appreciation will make us go crazy.
My hubby told me he dated white girls while in HS and early 20s. He said that it was b/c they talked to him first. They flirted with him first. They would even buy him clothing and other things (which his parents and grandparents advised him to stop taking). He said the black girls were never clear as to whether they liked him or not...they’d just tease and joke or be mean. Maybe they were nervous or afraid of rejection? I say this to say that non black women do the most when competing and proving to black men that they can be valuable to them. I’m black and YES I wrote my hubby love letters while we were dating. He told me that they actually changed my status to fiancée. I used to sing Mary J Blige Love No Limit to him when we were dating even though it was an older song by then. To me those lyrics said it all!!
Congrats...continued prosperity for your union.
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This is beautiful Sis. I have a similar story. We are the women that KS needs to call on to share our stories to help mentor the current generation.
Many gd bw out there the worst ones have the loudest voices
I've been on 100+ dates since 2014. The only woman who showed up late was a black lady. She arrived, wait for it.......an hour too late. All the other women (who came from all kinds of etnicity) would take 5 minutes to get comfortable and talk for hours on end, all I had to do was ask questions, jump topics and crack some jokes and the ladies would feel safe, open up, be honest and share their life experiences. The black lady would be sceptical, hesitant and nowhere in the date (I had to end early) did she give me the impression that she was interested. Yes she was beautiful and eloquent, but no thanks she was not joyful or fun to be around. My 2 cents.
A bad attitude is like a flat tire: if you don't change it, you'll never get anywhere.
bars!!
Mah man. 💯🔥👑
@@AllFather-TheStoicGod 🤜🏾🤛🏾
@@Rebrandking 🎙👑🎤
Damn, heavy facts.
this show has the right mix of entertainment, intellectualism, seriousness and relevance. Kevin has hit a niche that very few have.
Indeed
Amen 😂
He the only one nobody has this 💯
Picturing “OttoMan” saying this.😄
I was just thinking about that yesterday!
"The tone of a womans skin will never be more attractive than the tone of her voice".
@mike smith in the toilet from his ass because it’s untrue.
@@ThePresentTimeNow i hope some day you become happy and stop commenting hate on kevins videos🙏🏿
@mike smith Its my own brother. I am a philosopher and mentor. I dont post that to throw shade on BW....but do you not hear BM's reasons for checking out?? When KS speaks of HV men...I am one of them. Mid 40's, in shape, and definitely well off. Men have to work to get here and when we arrive, we dont want drama and a loud mouth waiting when we hit the door. Most of us would prefer a BW on our arm, but we will marry out if it means not dealing with victim mentality and disrespect. Its not just women...think, would you rather deal with a white cashier who threw your groceries around or a black one who was pleasant and respectful. Here their behavior is the change factor. There are many white women I wouldn't spend 2 minutes in a room with, those are not the ones HV BM go for. A loud abrasive woman of any race is a no go! If you understand the quote it tells on itself. Its why many white boys marry Asian women, its why MGTOW exist.....men are checking out on women in general due to bad behavior and their corrupt mentality.
@@ThePresentTimeNow Oh its true sis....thats why you crying. The 👍 dont lie. To HV men being able to enjoy the wealth we created (IN PEACE) is by far the greatest reward of our success. Sharing that with a woman is nice but we wont deal with a disrespectful woman no matter how pretty she is.....remember what KS said sweetie....we have options and the greatest exercise of said options is the ability to make low quality women invisible..👻 One lesson I learned as a kid is never disturbing an animal when its eating.....The streets are eating these modern women.....I dare not bother the streets again and get my hand bit. Pookie and Ray Ray nem got you tho😉.
Cheers Love!
@mike smith two things.
1. Can I use that?
2. Put that on a shirt!
“Imma PHD” - every time he plays that button, man that cracks me up.
I rebuke is better. She rebuked like 20 times on that call
Me to
Only in the black community is being a doctor a bad thing. That’s why we are so behind everyone else.
@@sirenenoire4091 has nothing to do with being a doctor. Statically the higher up in education women go the less likely they are to get married. They become married to their degrees and thing they are boss b*ches and don’t need men. Where do you think the PHD soundbite came from. A caller said she wouldn’t choose to be married because she’s a PHD
@@kennywarren8150 because they don't want to marry losers who lack potential. Some of you men (and that's all men not just one race) don't even have what it takes to be high value
other women gave my now wife a hard time because she was what they would call a "pick me". She went to culinary school, is submissive, loving, reliable, easy to get along with. Hell she just got back from working at a kids camp, came home almost right away, she only stopped to pick up a cold case of my favorite beer to surprise me when I got home from work. What man doesn't want that?
They called her a "pick me" and guess what, she got picked! Keep loving her and living y'all life.
Isn't that the goal for women, to be picked 🤔
That’s why she got picked and we know you are going to take care of that woman until the end
And in return I bet the anniversaries are fire for her,I bet xmas,V-DAY,B-DAY and vacations are fire 🔥 for her. My step-mom was the best,my pops got her a new Lincoln every 3 years! Vacations they’d be gone 3 weeks! Valentine’s Day was epic for her,her birthday was even better. My dad blue collar union worker married to a educated woman who o y went to work after my step-brother and I became juniors and showed we could take care of ourselves to up their retirement gains and payoff bills a houses. And my dad started getting new F-150s,new Stacy Adams,Bulova watch’s,new shit guns,and new tools to build her a new back yard with bbq and gazibbo lol.
The cold hard truth is that women who are wifey material get snatched up with the quickness.
As a black man, i started trying to prevent the women in my family from going off and cussing people out when they get mad. Letting them know its not okay. Too much mental instability and uncontrolled emotions with modern..........
What is worse is that these black women will throw their anger on their children. If you grew up in such a household, I am very sorry for you. I hope you are doing well. Peace.
Keep doing it brother. I do the same. More of us need to stand firm and keep relaying the message.
And they raising a bunch of emotional men that other women don't respect.
So, did they listen?
Oh man I remember doing the same. Even had to do that back in the day with a couple black women that I dated in college.
Black men are going to the women who appreciate them . We don’t want drama , we don’t want masculine women, respect us .
I was just saying saying . Black men who marry non black women divorce rate doubles . I was married to a black man before, we are divorced I’m about to be remarry a wonderful man ( he's white ) . I really don’t understand where black men think a lot of races want them . You know how many people looked down on me because I had a black husband. It’s like my value automatically went down
In this comment section above me, you’ll see two black women, one is coping and mad at the fact most of her demographic is undesirable, the other is a black women pretending to be a white women, using obvious coping talking points. “It’s like my value went automatically down.” This is a demographic that’s the least married, least desired, most obese. While they have that and many more, they’ve been told their whole lives that they’re queens and that bm aint sh1, so when they get out into the real world and see bm have more options than them, they hate that.
@@shellyadams1182 50% of all marriages end in divorce. Hello. Black men don't feel all non-black women want us but we know that a successful bIack man or any race of man who is a hvm, can get "a woman" of any race. Every race or gender of people look down on other people, the bIack man is no different but success doesn't care who looks down on it. No matter what race, when women pick the wrong guy, she will blame everyone but herself. Keep this in mind, black men physically love black women, it's their attitudes that is horrible.
Respect is earned and not given. Divest because all y’all going to do is make non black women single mothers anyway.
@@vickyalora Thank you, you just proved KS was right. BIack men naturally respect BIack women without being asked. BIack women knowingly don't give BIack men respect. Out of her own mouth, she said "it has to be earned" it's all conditional and based on if BIack women are getting something good in return.
"White Privilege? No. This is Black Ignorance!" Thank you, sir. We need this message on a grand scale throughout the black community. Hopefully more people can see all this 'racism/white privilege' crap is just an excuse to continue on with our bad behavior....and you can see the effects its having in real time through the callers on this show.
Every woman wants to be a diamond, but very few are willing to get cut. My point is No risk, no effort= no reward. Simple
Most of them are cubic zirconium aka fake diamonds. They can’t handle the pressure it takes to make real diamonds so they run the moment real pressure finds them.
Not every man deserves a diamond. There should be as many diamonds (high value women) as there are high value men. It makes sense that they are rare. Women who want to get a partner and are willing to lower their standards always find a partner. Only those who "won't settle for less", stay unmarried. But for older men, who are not high earners, overweight and single, life gets really hard. Because they can't get any woman in most cases.
A diamond 💎 is forever.
Some think they are already a Diamond. 😔🤔
Facts
I went to a hbcu and one of the chicks in my AMP program was a Vietnamese chick. Very attractive girl and she got a lot of attention because of it. Our Jr year she started dating a guy from the neighboring hbcu, and when we graduated they moved to the DC area and got married 2 years later.
Her and I have always been cool and I remember her calling me saying she hadn't talked to her parents since we graduated. She said the reason why is because her spouse was a bm. Fast forward to now (we are 33) she a GS 14 and her husband is a nuclear engineer. They have 2 kids and doing very well.
Talked to her 2 weeks ago and she says her parents are still not accepting the fact that she married a bm, and her exact words were " they don't control my happiness. I stopped caring a long time ago."
These women know a good man when they see one
@Ron Y. yep. They are doing the damn think in dc
@Ron Y. he is a year younger than us so when they moved to DC he finished his final year in school online while working part time
I met an Indian woman in Piedmont Park in Atlanta years ago who did the same thing. When I asked her how she felt about it she said “I love my family: but I love my new family more.” Mind you her husband was an attorney.
I bet you're from the USA. In Europe I've never heard such story. Can you imagine, her husband has such a great job. Look at the lady birth country where most people everyday meal is a cup of rice, still they thinks black men are beneath.
@@tweetyslife253 damn such jealousy in your comment...then again look at your picture 🤣🤣🤣🤣. The und3sir@ble. One thing for sure is that she is definitely better than u and she found a good bm. Something you struggle with.
TH-cam will ring this immortal man's wisdom for decades to come. Thank you Kevin for the wisdom. Rest in peace
I'm always amazed how black men collectively are treated as an afterthought until it is time to use them, blame them for something or making choices that allows them to experience happiness.
Which is why a mature / self respecting men must only date women who actually admire / adore them 💪
@@mikhailabdurrachman2443 And this is why good Afro American men date and marry outside their race.
Also, if they play a sport or some kind of athlete. Everyone hates a black man because deep down people want to be us.
@@davaughn2376 Productive black men have all sorts of options. Don't be a stereotypical dumb ninja and expect quality women of any race to look at you. Athletes and entertainer black men actually get low quality women for the most part. Nothing compared to what the docs and engineers types get.
I noticed a trend among black women. When it’s a black man giving out his personal struggles that he has with black women, he’s blamed for it. It must be his fault. I saw a white man say he had issues getting a black women, black women reassured him that they obsess over white men and there were even some black women saying they’re in the comments of those white mens posts looking for a man. Black women approach white men, they go out of their way to do that, but the thought of even putting in any effort outside of looking in the direction of a black man, that’s too much. Black men wake up please, go where you’re appreciated.
“what one woman won’t do, another 3 will”
Living a Life of Abundance
Good info,but the guys delivery is annoying af lol
@@windchimesilo9623 how was KS annoying?
@@LateNightRewrites referring to the person he qouted
@@windchimesilo9623 I swear! lmaooo
@@CurtSummers lol he's way too animated for me. I feel like he's a child trying to explain this stuff to me at a high school lunch table haha
41 year old BW said, "I picked poorly in men". Congratulations on being the first woman on the show to initially hold herself accountable 👏
Don demarco
Yea soo much for woman’s intuition
@@ShaunHensley agreed. I will add the word "initially"
@@thewinnerslegion RIP my favorite wrestler of all times.
Unless you date bw why would you think your opinion matters?
Im curious
Well im 6'5, high iq, grew up in compton in the 80's and 90's and my vivid memory of trying to date in my teens was "but you are soo nice!"...like it was a negative. Which i could never understand....well i married a white auatralian girl and moved to Australia. Its peacesful and she gave me support and room to grow as a man. Those comments make so much more sense now.
When a chick says you must deserve her femininity, tell her you don’t even deserve her current bad attitude and walk away. No point ruining your life.
Yeah this is true. A few episodes back on FnF the ladies on the panel said they won't submit until he proves his masculinity. A man isn't going to wait around and prove, he'll just smash and pass. You come as you need to be or you're not bringing value early enough.
Big facts!
Preach that’s a good mf point..
You so need to earn whatever it is you want from a woman. This 🌈 is lying to y’all. Can’t no rude dusty ugly or broke man get the things he wants without stepping his game up!
@@wisdomandy9361 if she has to wait then you’re not masculine and if you have to wait…you’re not masculine. Y’all fooling yourself.
Sooo true, Kevin. I remember proudly saying to someone when I was younger "I don't have to learn how to cook, I'm gonna marry a man who cooks". I dated a man who could not cook at all, but checked all the other boxes and I gladly subscribed to cooking channels on YT, watched his mom cook, bought cook books and all. Now he's my husband and he brags about how amazing of a cook his wife is. Whatever my man needs, he gets. If I didn't know how to do something before meeting him, believe, I know it now.
R. Brown .... You didn't make excuses. You made adjustments which very few women are willing to do.
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Remember that the woman that said "I'm a PhD", called in to criticize a man for saying he's the prize because of _HIS_ PhD, and criticize him for leading with it and basing his value on it. Then she proceeded to do the very same thing when asked about her marital status. You can't make this shit up people.
...and that's the exact reason that sound byte is a classic.
I hear that shit at least 20 times a day and laugh every time.😂
I remember. He had actually finished law school. They went on his page and gave him heat.
Wow that is crazy but normal with them they will criticize you for the very same thing they did 5 min ago so I am not surprised
This is what actually put Kevin on the map before " you're average at best" video.
What was the name of that video ? I want to watch it
The fact that he makes these women talk respectfully when they know they wanna start clapping and neck rolling and going off is well worth the price of admission
I agree
He exerts masucline energy and they all know he comes from money. He basically “forces” them into submission.
Big facts and good observation.
Clapping and Neck Rolling?? Clearly you have bought into the hype. Not every woman, REGARDLESS of Skin Tone, reacts in that manner when expressing themselves. Try educating yourself on a variation of women prior to making such an absurd statement.
@@LexsquisiteReads probably what he grew up around lol. People often forget that the more one person talks the more they say about themselves then other people. So I hope you would let it slide, some men would always say mean or nasty things to women for simply being women, the art of ignoring is a bliss.
THIS GUY SAVED MY MARRIAGE GOD BLESS YOU ..!!!!!!!!
@@paulbunyan9436 thankyou sir
When he said “Stop, Stop Dating 🛑 Close up shop and stop dating” “Ma’am why are you wearing a durag” 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀 “No more Babies” 💀💀💀💀💀
Fam 🤣🤣🤣
Lols ghetto lols 😂
Four kids with three baby daddies. Smdh 🙄🤦🏻♂️
I was ☠️💀
Priceless 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
KS is telling the truth. Some of the White women take Black men by being friendly and freely giving or offering help. When Black women have the same positive, friendly attitude towards Black men, they're told "Don't chase no man". In my opinion it's not chasing a man but being friendly. Black women who have the fun, cooperative, giggly personality are shamed and called weak by many Black women. It's sad
Lol yes "Don't chase no man" is so common among BW
Stop listening to them like I do.
Still true! Many coworkers would laugh when I said that I couldn't go out for drinks after work bc I had dinner to start and wanted to study with our sons everyday.
Fast forward and we're still happily married!
@@nodustflyzone it’s not so simple. My gfs family and friends would tease her in the beginning about always being on the phone with me and coming over all the time.
“Why you always talking to him you don’t got a life?”
“You always at his house girl go do something else”
Dealing with that all the time gets frustrating especially when it’s constant
you called ot
I've been listening now for a month. As a black man 54. I've felt this way for a long time. Keep spitting the truth.
You need a bigger platform......
I’m a 62 year old from Australia . Love the content from Kevin , he has cross cultural message . Suitable for every man .
We must help to educate the young , warn the women and men about how damaging feminism has been .
Are you married dude …..I am 3 happy years now …seek global
Stick around. The Godfathers platform will indeed grow!!!
C. Caring
I. Interested
A. Affectionate
R. Reliable
A. Positive Attitude
That Hispanic woman was all of the things that men look for in less than a minute…obviously feminine, cooperative, sounds FRIENDLY, is CUTE and FIT, and has collarbones! But the biggest thing is…she seemed HAPPY! And that is the antithesis of the modern woman.
indeed. ive lived in 3 South American countries..i was amazed at the differences in treatment from the women down there
That woman was GIDDY as hell with happiness!
Her accent tooo😍 got nothing but positive energy from her
It is hard to beat the treatment Hispanic women are basically taught about treating their men although many have fallen into the modern woman trap.
@@AdonaiZedek Which countries down there have quality women?
I’m in the 7 to 8 figure annual income range depending on the value of my portfolio. I visit my home state in the South for two weeks recently, hardly any black women would talk to me, the older women would speak but not the women in my age range. White and Hispanic women chatted me up on a daily basis, I sat at the bar of the most expensive restaurant in town and it happened again, hardly any of the black women at the bar spoke to me but the white women introduced themselves and commented on the shirt I was wearing finding a way to strike up a conversation.
I’ve always been feminine and nice and got bashed by other black women because of it . I was called punks , stupid, and “thinking like white women “ to the point I felt like the black sheep. It didn’t stop me though . I am still happy everyday and now these same women look to me for advice . 🤷🏽♀️
First they laugh then they mock then they copy
Are you with a women or g×× ??
Yes i grew up around whites at school but went to a blk church and thr blk kids would make fun of my voice or my mothers obese bitter sister would be so cruel to me. I swear she was jealous of my voice and petite skinny body.
Bw have always dogged me for "acting white" and i absolutely love being blk because of my parents
@@valarmorghulis3773 🧢🧢
Me too my whole life
When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.
- Thomas Sowell
Appreciate all that you do KS 🙏🏾
Thomas Sewell- self hating old black guy carrying water for massa. Malcolm X - talked about his type. We sick boss?
@@rgood1204 Pookie is that you? SIGN language and all?
facts.....big time
@@darealtruth3095 You've just illustrated your own point lol. When did KS claim to be a 'dating guru'? I'll give the benefit of doubt, perhaps you just started watching him. The point is and has always been about outcomes in our communities - relationships just happen to be what blew up. With that as context, Thomas Sowell's quote is relevant - whether you agree or not.
@@darealtruth3095 Again, you a free to interpret it as such, I don't and he has explicitly never made the claim you made so...
Anybody else notice that when happily married women call in they just have a completely different air about them. There’s no arguing, the way they speak is much more understandable, their tone easy on the ears and appearance is easy on the eyes. Most importantly 9 out of 10 times they are smiling. Notice the opposite (unmarried, unhappy, hit the wall etc) demonstrate the complete opposite with little to no self awareness.
When kevin’ cracks hisself up and then laughs and says “I’m
Going to hell” always makes me laugh
Yes he so sinicle I can't take it, the laugh though I love it
@@caughtnwebb4819 - It’s “cynical.”
@@johnbrowntheprophet 😅 who cares I was drinking whatever voice to text said what it said 🤷🏾♀️.Glad u understood
@@johnbrowntheprophet how did you miss the first comment "hisself" ... It's "himself"
IKR? I say that all the time...have for years. Hearing him say it made me laugh so hard!
Listen to Kevin's college stories. Read between the lines: Becky's there to get a (high-value) HUSBAND (degree is secondary). Aiesha's there to get her PhD (a man is secondary).
Becky is going for her Mrs degree. That ain't no joke.
@@vidard9863 becky dont wanna be working in her 30s onward. She wanna be home raising kids and playing with a dog while the man gets the 80% of the money 💀 when will black women get this?
I don't go to college until I was in my 30s because I already found a husband and was married at 18. This is what we were taught in the 60s 70s and 80s. .women go to college to find a husband.
Many of us went to college after out kids were grown because we wanted to go out and work then.
@@Anne-pv9cb that is the best way to do it for your kids AND your career.
Shaneequa is your Becky
KS: How many fathers?
Random "Lady": 5
KS: How many children.
Random "Lady": 3.
KS: What the French Toast????
Lols I was confused she too old too be this stupid lols 😂
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5 fathers, 3 children. Not possible, must be lying.
@@juniorleslie4804
she had a 🚂 as the father 😀
lol she was getting 🚂 dont even know who the father is
Also, there are too many Black women who think that being submissive to a BM or a non-Black man is considered to have low self-esteem or can't think for themselves. When it's the other way around where the BW is not able to accept who she is herself and expect others to build her up when she is capable of doing that herself
Yes and often the irony is, the very "thinking for themselves" that they boast and protect so fiercely is instigated by their single friends who are also projecting their OWN insecurities
It amazes me that black women don't understand they have the ability to change their outcomes. Be the woman you were designed to be and watch how nature responds.
@@familyman4668 exactly. She just needs to have some dicipline. Self dicipline.
@@orlandojouavel1846 right I saw that piece she snuck in knowing damn well their white zaddy can do no wrong 😂 Black women are slick she fake calling out her sisterhood but she'll never tell the whole truth.
@@LightLivingEst80 💯
I remember reading both books in the "How to Love a Black Woman/Man" series to get a perspective from both ends. For the women was an interesting narrative the author put together (paraphrase): Woman was complaining her A/C wasn't working well during a heat wave. She calls her boyfriend at 6am knowing he's heading to his job at a construction site for 8am to ask to check out the A/C before work. He does and, 35 minutes and a glass of water later, it's working fine. She thanks him, kisses him on the cheek goodbye, tugging on him but he says "I gotta run babe, I'll call you at lunch." And he's off to work, maybe late.
Immediately she wonders if he's seeing someone else. He wasn't as affectionate or playful as usual. He seemed tense when he came in. "Just focused on the A/C, barely looked at me." She calls him 3 times btwn then and lunch. He's not answering. Wth?
He calls at lunch and she barks at him: "What's up with you? You acting a bit standoffish. Like you don't want to be around me. You don't love me anymore?"
Finally he gets a word in. "Babe, how can you say I don't love you? You called me at 6 something AM, I came over, late for work, to fix your A/C. No breakfast, not even toast was offered. I fixed it and was running late. *Of course I love you. I showed up."*
*Men do. That's our love language.* 🔥💯👑
He should have dropped that woman. She's not worth it.
@@anthonyrobinson7715 We'll never know if he did or didn't but, bear in mind, these are stories based on the author's clients (relationship therapist I believe) and was written back around 2005 or 2006. Maybe earlier. So much has changed for the worse since then.
@@AllFather-TheStoicGod Facts, man.
@@AllFather-TheStoicGod Author as in news article or documentary? I'd like to check it out.
@@tappedinmindset2246 They're books. Google the title. 👍🏼💯
I’m so glad I found my husband in my younger years. We both got married at 19 & now we’re about to celebrate our 10 year anniversary. At the beginning of everything I didn’t know how to be a wife & he didn’t know how to be a husband because we weren’t shown how to be but we worked & researched what it takes. Especially thru trial & error. We’ve had our good & bad times but working together, knowing our roles & being on the same page has benefited us. I’m thankful & I’m glad I’m not out here in the dating scene.
It's so frustrating when people call in and play dumb or over complicate an issue in order to avoid uncomfortable truths.
The smoke detector bit is hilarious, but holds a lot of truth. A little appreciation goes a long way, ladies. Even if it's just the little things. Men really just want their work and effort to be acknowledged sometimes. 🤷♂️
That's the problem with those keishas / karens, they look down on the nice guys but they expect those nice guys to protect / take care of them after they hit the wall GTFOH 🖕
Facts 💯💯💯
@@mikhailabdurrachman2443 facts 💪💪✊✊💯💯
Literally that’s all bruh. And atleast be genuine, when you do it like your checking a box it comes off so fake. Men have intuition as well ladies. You just don’t like to acknowledge it.
A man wants to do for a woman. But women do NOT want to reciprocate. Ladies, just your mere presence, especially with attitude. Is not enough. Now if you'll excuse me I need to check battery prices at home depot
Your monologue was the truth. “Black men actually listen to their women.” - Kevin is spittin real facts!
I’m not listening to a delusional immature creature about a damned thing ..
I love how Kevin asks a series of questions that demand specific answers and allows people to just dig their own graves.
Women want to be *wanted* like men want to be *appreciated.*
Respect, honor, & praise your man. It’s _that_ simple. ♂♀♡
So easy a cave man could do it .
You're asking for way too much. Remember on the last video I was told that wanting women to smile was entitlement . Lol
2 Moist
At this point I want peace and respect from these women. It ain't easy being a bm in america but day by day we're learning and getting tougher
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I’ve noticed the “KS haters” comments are getting less and less each show. Just an observation. There are some sprinkles here and there…but not like it used to be. Either they stopped watching…or started “listening”.
He beat them into submission and now they love every minute of it!
They stopped watching
I've noticed that too, they are recognizing the fact that they have been getting wrong information from older resentful, feminist minded black women that have been keeping them single and unmarried, welcome to The Awakening black woman, you got 3 minutes to feel sorry for yourself, to forgive yourself, and get on with the rest of your marriage life...
@S Reid I’m not ruled by views and subs…you are….the best way to change the world is to change yourself
@@unkameatgoodbar2315 We were never watching just trolling. We also have a life. His gimmicks are getting old.
"And ladies, hold on strap in.. Your momma, your big momma, your nene, your auntie n em, have raised you to be the very thing you hate”
- The Godfather
Baby mommas breed / create baby mommas 😏
That was 🔥
The Don has spoken. 👏
BARS!!
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This is 100% right... i hid in my career, trauma, afraid of rejection... i was pretty privledged and didnt come out of hiding until I was 46... I had a great career but no kids. Devastating to not understand that was a choice I was making at the time. I held onto my looks, got a great husband... but ladies, this is 100% the truth...
That slick hurt my feelings when the Latina came on and said they serve the men out of love and honor... 1st thing I thought Black men won't get that type of love... SMH
Been taking care of my brother since I was 15, and now I'm 28 and he lives with me.. I work, cook for him all out of love so please don't generalize all black women.
@@ieshjust16 youre not in a romantic relationship with your brother
every culture except black american culture have traditional roles
yup... been married 20 years and my wife will make my son a plate and walk away from the stove and leave the kitchen... SMMFH
@@doclew28 man...
I'm glad he corrected the woman on her piercings and tattoos. Why do women think this is a go to! It DECREASES their looks and value! Like Kevin said, it puts them in the category of FUN, instead of wife!
Things most men say are unattractive or not preferred: Babies from other men, tattoos, bonnets worn in public, fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake nails, and overly masculine ways.
Because they can do whatever the hell they want to and might not give two shits about your opinion women want a person attracted to them for them not a fake version of themselves and all people are attracted to different types of things so a man or women can find them wife matierial and hey maybe you want that basic,golf, dinner at the same restraunt, normal country club stuff but FUN is better then boring that’s why most men cheat in the marriages things aren’t Fun anymore or are boring lol not an excuse to cheat but just saying
@@jasper4137 people are free to do whatever they want. That is why we are where we are today.
Defo. Piercings and tatts says 'sex' and not 'marriage'.
@@jasper4137 True. Women can do whatever they want. But at the same time, high value men are expressing what they want. And it’s none of those things (fake hair, the raptor claw nails, the bonnets in public, etc). As humans we have free will. But just because you CAN do something, doesn’t mean you SHOULD. Women can do whatever they want to do. Just don’t be surprised or upset that high value men don’t court or marry them.
Men need to stop paying so much attention to the first golden rule and start following the second..
2. Go where you are appreciated do not remain where you are not even tolerated.
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Thats why I deliberately set out to learn two foreign languages, got my passport, travel, on the weekends I avoid nightclubs and instead go to art galleries, museums, operas and live dance performance, play tennis and indoor rockclimbing. These places and activities are like KRYPTONITE to most Black women. Hey, I just want to live my best life, and either you come on board or you can kick rocks.
Spot on!!!
I moved to Colombia over a year ago (proof on my channel). These women are truly different. Men, explore your options!
Honestly how can those modern women compete when high value or just good men can find a feminine, cooperative woman?
I'm Puerto Rican and married a Puerto Rican recently and she's hot, skilled, cooperative, and feminine. Do you know how it makes a man feel when a hot lady asks if you want some coffee, makes you breakfast or just wants you to do her?
Feeling like a king here and in turn, I give her the kingdom. Learn something women.
The lady who came on talking about White privilege and discrimination has an attitude problem, this is why people treat her a certain way. That's blatantly obvious just from this short interaction. Unfortunately she doesn't seem to think the problem is her.
They never do 🚩💀
that's part of the victimhood mentality the other girl mentioned
no difference if this mentality is indoctrinated into vvomen by effinism cuz of gender or by blm cuz of r*ce....all the same intentional divide & conquer tactics to tear down the nuclear family and society as a whole..
they are just used as tools for that goal.....
@@msbest9830 but she’s 20fine 😂
how did she have an attitude? She wasn’t rude, she smiled or chuckled when he was going in on her. Didn’t lash out. She also admitted her mistakes. It’s almost like dsw cant simply exist without people having a problem with them. Just her showing up black and having a different opinion is a problem
@@Princess-sk6kc if you didn't see her behavior as a issue, then that's a problem. Her failures were based on not listening Male authority, it's not okay to expect a healthy outcome when you don't do healthy shit.
A woman has 4 kids by 3 different men and the excuse is “picking the wrong” men?? If you made a mistake with the first, why go on and make the same mistake with 3 more?? And why have kids with the men you picked as if it’s an essential thing to have a child with every man you date?
Most of these women are their own worst enemy. They chase alpha males to baby trap as a status. Then complain they hate beta males who all they want outta them is a sponsor$$$
Then the beta don't want it either
Sexual regret does not have an impact on a woman's future sexual behavior.
@@windchimesilo9623 Cool!
See you in divorce court!
*snicker*
@@Saint-Christopher good luck with u n ur boyfriend
I’ve always wanted to know why they don’t use contraceptives.
I thought being a high value woman meant making a career top priority, being financially secure, and staying ambitious. Now I realize that’s called “ BEING A DUDE!” 🙋♂️This is where many black women like me missed the mark. Many of us are not RAISED to focus on femininity and fitness like Becky.
At least you can admit that. That’s the first step.
I always thought that any female always knew her femininity,looks,fitness and virtues was her Rock, since in high school..guess I was wrong.
My mother was able be this kind of feminine women even before her and my father were married because she was provided for and taken care of. Her bills were paid without question which alleviates stress.
@KokoAlaska BW where I'm from (in the south) were to do it all, most stopped listening to the advice their elders gave them.
I respect the honesty.
It’s attractive when a woman has her own money but ladies that don’t move real men it’s your personality 💯
And how you take care of yourself. Women who don't care about their bodies...it shows.
@@miapdx503 and men don’t care about their emotional intellect and financial sense and it shows with the lack of BM not able to reach a 60k salary job. So sad
@K no you don’t men who aren’t married often due at age 60s… you know why because they don’t have that nagging wife to tell you to take your behind to see the doctor. Facts
“White Privilege? Nah, this is Black Ignorance!” My mouth dropped when he said that! Wow. Sad reality. 😩😩😩
That’s very true. My first requirement when looking for women is that she’s nice. Not beautiful, not smart, not sexy. I just want them to be nice and someone that I can talk to without feeling as if I’m combating them.
I was looking for a home in the 90s and stayed with my Mom for a while. Everyday I went to work (she was a retired widow) and when I came home in the evening, there was a cocktail and a home cooked meal on the table!!! I thanked her profusely.....because I FINNALLY understood why men value this in their home life! I am a black woman who has been married for 18 years to a black man!
😂 Kevin’s white girl voice is hilarious the impressions are killing me 😂
The nerve of this woman to say black men don't give people like her a chance when she has 4 kids from 3 black men and can STILL get a boyfriend after all of this.
She can get boyfriend yes husband HELL NO
I think she said two of her bds were black
Gave him the highest honor to 4 men but won't marry...can't make it up.
Smdh the audacity the irony the Gull!!!🤦🏾♂️
She can get a bf and probably a fifth baby but no smart man will ever marry her
The father is so important in a girl's life. I'm just thinking off the top of my head there were 2 girls I knew back home who were feminine and submissive and they grew up in the same household as their father. Loved and respected their fathers dearly and I don't think its a coincidence that they got married young (25-6) moved to be with their man and are traditional housewives.
seen a meme on facebook today calling to ban Kevin from youtube did not know who he was so i googled him , great show kevin, Bravo.
I like how women answer " not yet " when Kevin asks if they have a husband. Its like they can snap their fingers and make a man appear or they can go down to the husband store and buy a husband whenever they want one.
Husband Dollar General in their Bonnets!
“SHOUT OUT TO THE BONNET CREW!”
That's going to be a big tall drink of harsh reality! If you can't keep a man, why is he going to marry these prideful fools?!
Many women don't realize they are already heading up the stairs to the top floor of the husband store, thinking they will find a fairy tale.
😂🤣😂
Another great show, I am not sure what's happening with women these days. I love to cater to my man. Facials, back rubs, cook for him, sometimes buy him something as a surprise, all that goes a long way.
Beautiful
Women were thought not to need a man , so those things seem weak here in America
@raj jar American culture has changed you. Eastern European men take charge and are emotionally intelligent. You American men always need and are looking for Superman to save you guys or show you what masculine look likes so sad
I’m pretty sure he loves the facial part 💦
I cant believe how addicted i am to this show.
1:55:00 - Black women of the past had to deal with racism 10 times worse and they still were sweet and feminine to black men.
She tried to play the race card but her card was revoked 🎟🚫
Black men were more protective during those times, you can see it being depicted in various old films, television shows, even literature, etc.
@@brit7522 assuming you’re a Black man, are you a Black man that gets upset or has any ill feelings towards Black women dating and marrying white men ?
As a black man (mixed) I can say men typically like who likes them. I love black women and they don’t really check for me. So I date whoever, usually white or Hispanic. Men aren’t complicated, we’ll start feeling somebody if they showing us love.
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Exactly, people over complicate this topic way too much
I moved to Colombia over a year ago (proof on my channel). These women are truly different. Men, explore your options!
When will women finally understand that the productive men will just ignore them....not argue, debate, joust, or justify... and the proof is every time they ask: “Where are all the good men at?..”
The answer is, actively avoiding women like YOU.
@City News Lol, ! 😃
Say it again 1000 times over!!
facts
I couldn't imagine a scenario where a man makes it to a consistent six figures and be told he has to procreate with any woman other than his own kind. Most men I know at this level wife and have children with people who look like them. Some just wait longer to find the FBI lady they desire.
@Solar all you have to do is talk to someone for less than a minute in most cases. Their are circles where certain woman are essentially ostracized from. This makes it quite easy to avoid people.
The broken family phenomenon of the late 80s and 90s is really starting to show its negative affects.
Super underrated FACTS
It started in the 60's really.
Extremely underrated comment.
@@hitek9too255 It started in the 60s, but today's 30 somethings are from the mid to late 80s and early 90s.
I find it really interesting how SO MANY women come on this man's show and end up saying "I don't know" to questions that are obviously well known to the masses. And this happens ALL OF THE TIME. Ladies. You end up looking either incredibly dense or totally disingenuous to the entire world. It's not a good look. Real rap yo
They don’t want him to be right
They simply do not want to hear the truth. That's it! They want to be wrong and strong, and when the truth is given to them flat, they block their ears, because to admit that they're wrong, they will have to admit and they do not wish to loose their blasted pride! That's it!
They're playing dumb. Playing dumb absolves them of any responsibility because they can say "well I didnt know this". How is it that they can do research for a PHD but cant find out that men are simple and want fit feminine and friendly women??
@@BorderTurrets EXACTLY!!!!
maybe they are so badly disconnected from reality that they really ignore everything in real life to keep 'pursuing' their personal 'perceived' reality.
i mean they got told that only their 'feelings' and 'perceptions' matter at home (single mothers), in schools, in universities, by public media, by their 'echo chamber' social circles (GF groups) and by the divide & conquer movements like effinism, blm and so on...
if you look how desperately they are trying to defend their distorted 'worldview', what amount of colossal mental gymnastics they are coming up with and how viciously they are acting, it shows a kinda cult/religion/mental disorder-like pattern imho
I have to represent for the sisters that actually Love our Men. I didn’t see my father every day but I always had respect for him and loved him, My mother never talked bad about my father to us children. I was blessed to spend time around other women that were wives and we shared a joy in cooking, raising our children and taking care of our men. The mistake I made was that I allowed my mother to move in with my husband and I when we were first starting off and that was a big mistake. She had an opinion about everything and disrespected my husband. She caused me to see him in a different light and it wasn’t her place to have anything negative to say about the man that choosing to stand by my side and take care of our family. My husband can get loud sometimes but most of the time I cater to him, try to make him feel appreciated. You want to do something for modern women, wives spend time with your single sisters to show them how it’s done. Show them how we are kind to our Kings, how we are the ones they want to share how their day went. We are the ones that they show up with flowers just because and the reason that man can go to work happy!! The black family is everything!!
The truth hurts, but it's necessary. Our BM deserve to be respected and appreciated. Instead, they're demonized. It's no wonder that the "Becky's" "Karen's" "MeiLing's" scoop them up like the *Clean up Woman*
Sad thing is because of your statement some will call you a "pick-me"
Exactly they are the clean up woman they get the left overs silly listen to the song to see what that means
Kevin, can you please consider speaking to the black women who are married to hv black men? We do know how to love, cater, talk to our black kings! We do exist!
Please spread your dating and marriage views to our sisters! BM would really appreciate it❤❤
Especially to the younger generation of women who really don't know, and older women are too jealous and selfish to lead them in the right direction...
He knows this. Why he can't make it a focal point of his content speaks volumes!
Ma'am, you please speak to the women as an example! Your TH-cam will be popping because you would be the first to do it consistently!
@Black Boy King TV I don’t have the platform like K.S.
I'm Malaysian and we have plenty of good and kind black women over here for studies but these are black women from African countries like Sudan, Ghana, Kenya and etc. These black women still hold traditional values and very nurturing meanwhile the difference to American black women is huge that it's almost as if they have different culture and belief. I've never seen a race with such huge disparities based on where they're brought up. Most Indians/Arabs/Asians and even White regardless of where they were born and raised still hold their traditional values but only in black community we have these extremes.
Very true
Well stated
Africans come from patriarchal societies. Black America is a matriarchy enforced by white patriarchy. If a black man tries to enforce his authority, the white power structure will be called on him.
It’s unfortunate.
@@balerikirmu.11 I don't understand this, name me 1 black women in America that contributed more than Martin Luther King Jr. There might be some white politics there but how oblivious can you be to not know this. From 60's-80's the American black community was still patriarchal.
I love the new camera angle, I’m a cinematographer, the only thing I would change is your frame. Don’t need to see the bottom of the table, just raise the camera so the tv monitor in the back is not cut off as well
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@Beauty
@@cynicalskeptic4517 ya momma
@Beauty All of those illegitimate children and it has nothing to do with black women?😂 Doormat? More like a mattress. Legs open all of the time.
@Beauty how's that working?
I had tears in my eyes from laughing at the smoke detector story. Thank you for bringing content even with life happening all around you. Thank you Thank you Thank you
Ya'll need to stop playing with this man's LIKES, before he come to your house and RATE your Mom, Aunt, Sister, Daughter, Baby Mom, GM and Niece!!! lol
How old are you? How tall? Dress size? HOW HEAVY!? AAAAAHHHHHHHHH
😂😂😂😂😂😂.... I dont wana know my mama dress size!!!
Your whole household is AVERAGE AT BEST....LMFAOOO I can see it now laaawwdddd 😭😭😂😂😂
And the giving of praise to our BM...it REALLY is THAT simple, and it goes a long way. 💯
‘Do you see high-value white men being lost to black women’!
Wow, you’ve got a point there, Kevin.
Exactly. It’s a 2 way street for both of us. We will throw ourselves at bottom shelf Brad or Becky and think that we won the lottery of life 😂. The grass more times than not isn’t greener on the other side. The problem is that we’re nasty to each other all day long, but treat outsiders with more kindness.
@@_Paul_N nonsense stop simpin we talkin about fefails not men n it dont go both ways
Truth @100mph!!
@@_Paul_N Sir that is a WORD!
@@steelesharpensteele6252 right because the Becky I’m dealing with damn sure is not bottom fo the shelf but let the pander bears pander lol
Kevin was at the top of his game for this monologue and outro was hilarious as well. Great show
He sure was
Pretty please make the last monologue on bragging on and pumping up your man a separate clip! I have been telling my single friends this for so long and would love to send that part to them! I watch my husband literally stand taller when I do it…oh and then he is all about doing more and more. I just bat my (natural) eyelashes and smile pretty and lavish on the praise. Easy and satisfying for both parties involved.
You're are rare 🥰
Kevin needs his own standup special.. That’s battery 🔋 speech at the end has me rolling…Energizer profits about to go up 40% … 😂😂😂😂😂
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 Bruh that killed me
@Odala hell yeah… 😂😂😂😂😂
The smoke detector rant at the end!!!
😂😆🤣🤪
I am DYING HERE!!🤣😂😆
Classic man! The classiest set in TH-cam space. Clean and uncluttered.
Middle Eastern marriages aren't "arranged." That statement proves how ignorant she is. The amount of times that actually happens is so minuscule compared to 50 years ago or so and when it does rarely happen, it happens overseas, not here. We just "date" differently than other cultures in the west. The families are very involved in the courting and marriage process because we're very family-oriented. And it is rare that we marry outside of our race culturally. That lady was just looking for excuses.
Thank you for clearing that up!
Arranged marriages are still the most common method of marriage in the middle east and muslims countries in general. Arranged marriage is different to forced marriage. Arranged is the most effective form of marriage long term.
Thank you for your perspective. It was enlightening
Facts so true, I have good friends that are persian, they have a strong and close family structure..blacks in amerikkka are the exact opposite.
@@unkameatgoodbar2315 why the kkk in your America?
The end had me in stitches 🧵!!! Kevin, you could do stand up comedy 😂
I'm a black man and I have always dated whoever I wanted. I'm in my early 40s now so we know that's been looked down upon throughout my lifetime. I couldn't care less. I also love my black women. Dating outside of my race doesn't mean I hate black women. The fact is, it's about qualities. We have to compliment each other. This is the case with my native American gf. We both run businesses. We put each other first. She pays me compliments, as I do her. She's straight forward. I don't have to guess what she's thinking. She always has a smile for me, even after we disagree about something. She embodies the feminine qualities I love in a woman. Most of all, she doesn't try to manipulate or emasculate me. Lastly she wants to be loved, not handled.
Kind of cool to see another black socialist who subscribes to some of this more reasonable redpill shit
@@IncredibleIceCastle amen brother, we’re rare in these parts
@@Trynottoblink you right about that. Single myself and living in Mexico. 25 and living the dream
Socialism creates debt, Europe only pulls it off because the US subsidizes their military. Almost every European nation is in massive debt and quite a few are moving more towards a capitalist society. Furthermore, almost all research and development comes from the US, “socialists” have a very narrow window of the world.
The main reason the US is in debt is because democrats outsourced the vast majority of our manufacturing jobs to China. Research more
Women can hear every questions clearly , but as soon as you asking something that can be a touchy subject , they can’t hear anything
They hear quite well what they want to hear. They just ignore the topics that don't support their narrative. The reason they change the subject or bring up stuff from the past is to distract you from the valid points you're making. If they feel they have the advantage in a conversation they will not veer off course.
@@rm5282 🤣🤣🤣💯 like why are they like this 💀
Spontaneous deafness
You not lying here 😭😭😆😆
@@rm5282 that's a fact
"BW expect BM to accept them no matter what they look like." Seems that way to me.
And then they become upset when they don't. Life doesn't work the way of the feminist thought process.
@@familyman4668 I like my women thick in the right places but even the obese think they fall in the category of thick.
Go tell lizzo that🤣
@@musakgoete4544 lol right
@@FTL87 my wife weighed 154 lbs last week at 40 weeks with our third child. Why on Earth do most women who call in weigh more than my full term pregnant wife even at similar or smaller heights? There is a big line between thick and obese.
I get that many BW have a hateful mentality towards men because of their childhoods, but I'm not going to suffer the rest of my life with a bitter, fat, "queen" just because we're both black. It's 10 times easier to choose Becky, Ling Ling, or Rosalinda, who all treat their men with love, care, and respect.
@@bernthalbabe313 Sorry, Karen.
@@bernthalbabe313 male Karen smh gtfoh
@@bernthalbabe313 nobody cares. They call black men Ray Ray, and Tyrones(fun fact my name is Tyrone) and I dont take it personally. Ling Ling isnt a big deal 🤷🏽♂️ I actually know an Asian girl named Ling Ling.
@ I grew up without a Dad. So did my cousins, their Dad died. What does Daddy have to do with it? Yall generalize too much.
@@naysaynetwork5271 Dude, you are generalizing about Black women, but I can't generalize about dudes raised without daddy's
Illogical AF
Thanks for the video Kevin!
Side note :
My empathy led me to feel bad for the 18 year old girl that turned into the 41 year old single mom with 4 kids. At the same time, wow the person she grew up to be made quite a number of poor decisions. Hope her kids turn out differently
We love you Black Women! Just not interested in the unknowing journeys!
We throw that "love" word around too loosely. I think tolerate is a better one.
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whos we tf not me
From the very wise words of the Late, great Bob Marley... “Love is what you tolerate”... True.. question is... what will men “tolerate” for “love”??? Sounds high school to me. As an adult... I won’t “tolerate” nothing for “Love”...
You gotta remember... Parents also “tolerate” children with tantrums... because they “have” to.. grow men in relationships don’t have to... for “love”....
My heart is gonna hurt watching this I already know😔 I just wanna see more black love and unity man. Got these ppl infiltrating and watering us down
I'm a black man married to a black woman. I know 10 other black married couples in our circle. The love is out there, but it won't become mainstream until the singles understand the code. Marriage is a union between two different individuals who sacrifice to serve one another.
@@familyman4668 love this!!!
@@Sweetheart0189 thanks.
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Lol you think he’s infiltrating and watering us down? That’s better than us dying out. Single moms are still having kids by a few men at high clips. The rest of the BM should go where valued
Alot of people see the term “submissive” as degrading, slave(ish) and abusive… then they get all defensive about it!! In a relationship, the term basically just means “know your place and stick to it”.
There is nothing more satisfying than pleasing my man. Seeing my man happy makes me very, very happy. So I absolutely love doing things to please him. Isn't that how love works?
Yes it is. God bless you both!!
Are you getting the same in return?
@@TheKrista5 I am very happy to say a definite YES. He is a wonderful man and I am very fortunate to have found him.
Black women been raised to be the very thing they hate, damn that's very profound and powerful
Watching this mans presenting and comedic skills evolve Is amazing
Second woman was a headache to watch. Shes acting clueless as fu*k and then got game goofy when Kevin asked her “do you know any single high value black men?”. She knows what she said and she said what she meant 🙄
looking like Mrs. Ed with that mane sheesh
Speaking super monotone 🤦🏽♀️she just wanted to show herself 😂no contribution at all…..
@@jshooper7819 DAWG 😭💀 Ruthless
Bruh!! I don't think she was even a women 🤷🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
@@jshooper7819 💀💀💀
The last 10 to 20 mins was definitely needed. you really crack me up The Godfather
“I have listened to men (blck mhen in particular) profess their deep desire to be with a bw and to raise children that look like them. And I’ve seen grown men damn near come to tears with the realization that women on their “level” are so distasteful”
- The Godfather
It’s a cold world we live in
~future
@@malikwilson7387 by all means continue to do what you do.. date who you want.
It's also white men, and hispanic men too.
@@ieshjust16 who hurt you 🤣🤣🤣
@@musakgoete4544 pookie and ray ray 🤣
I wonder who lied to women and told them having an attitude was attractive?
their mothers & aunties
Harpo Productions...
Ratchet Hip hop
Lil Kim=President
Nicki Minaj=General
CardiB,Megan,CityGirls,Trina Ect.
Are the Army
But becky has weaponised her femininity to get inside the castle gates and then burgle you using the courts 😜
BW seem to be in a perpetual sulk and snap for realising at an early age, that they'll never be the pretty
This is an aspect that kevin doesn't cover
Was there a communal feeling of _rejection_ from BW when BM were given attractive status and free to chase other races post-jimcrow?
Is this why mums and gram's are advising young BW to not rely on BM?
That would be an interesting topic
I've always wondered what would happen if kevin invited in a gaggle of grammies and aunties to explain why they're so anti-BM?
@@hardplans2366 Because the Aunts and Grannies are Bitter and Scorned 🤪.
And The Main People that are Promoted in America are
Black Man 👨🏾🦱And NonBlack Women👩🏻🦱
White Women👩🏼 And White Man👨🏼
Hell Even Trans 🧔🏻♀️ are More Celebrated then y’all 😂 😂.
Y’all Loosing US y’all Better get Intune of What’s Happening Because if Y’all Lose y’all Best and Most Brightest.
What do Y’all Black Women as Group
HAVE TO SHOW FOR ??
I just don’t understand how you have 3 baby daddies and think that’s okay? You can’t find a husband, but can find a someone to impregnate you. OMG! Insane. 😧🤐
Kevin said something extremely important at the end (2:29:35- 2:42:59)when he spoke about women affirming there man in public. Why because it matters telling us how good we are will make us build a house and never have. Appreciation will make us go crazy.