It's really not that unusual: "Celine and Dion" are not real but are based on people I've worked with or supervised who also get stuck in multiple patterns. It's even more important for you to understand your own patterns in conflict so you can change your part of the cycles you're involved in - unfortunately, we can't change others, just our own reactions and behaviors
What if you find you and your partner fit MULTIPLE styles!?
It's really not that unusual: "Celine and Dion" are not real but are based on people I've worked with or supervised who also get stuck in multiple patterns. It's even more important for you to understand your own patterns in conflict so you can change your part of the cycles you're involved in - unfortunately, we can't change others, just our own reactions and behaviors