How To Stay Positive During Tough Times | Jordan Peterson

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  • @pavelooo2289
    @pavelooo2289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Thanks for reminding that. I been having really tough times mentally, physically. And there's no one to go to. Thanks internet, you help me go another day. May you all find peace.

    • @amystrawberries890
      @amystrawberries890 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know I'm commenting on your post 5 months later; but I just wanted you to know I understand...Me & my family have gone through some really hard times over the last couple of years. I've got chronic physical conditions that make life really hard, and then it wears on a person mentally, emotionally. Anyways, just wanted to say that I hope that things get better for you, and for all of us who are struggling.. I hope that many blessings & peace can come into your life. ☮🙏🏼💗

    • @I_Lemaire
      @I_Lemaire ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amystrawberries890 Hang in there--both of you.

  • @bryce8793
    @bryce8793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    my life is very dark at the moment, I will continue to play the game and move forward

    • @scottmarwood7654
      @scottmarwood7654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Good luck brother
      Bad place myself right now.
      I'm pulling for you.

    • @bryce8793
      @bryce8793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@scottmarwood7654 thanks man, not saying it will get better straight away but time moves on and heals and I'm better now than 2 weeks ago still going through hell but it gets easier
      best of luck dude I'm rooting for you

    • @thatfamiliarsound
      @thatfamiliarsound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good luck man. Same here. We all gotta be strong

    • @olimolim7230
      @olimolim7230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lets Keep moving forward kings 👑

    • @ravindrapersaud7608
      @ravindrapersaud7608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How is everything doing that commented here ?

  • @yusranrosman2827
    @yusranrosman2827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Summary on ways to cope:
    1. Shorten the timeframe of your perspective. Instead of thinking "how am I going to survive this for 1 year?", narrow it to just 1 month. If thinking of 1 month is hard, look forward to surviving the day. If the day is hard, look forward to surviving just the next hour. This helps alleviate unnecessary overthinking and suffering in the mind, AKA anxiety. Cut the timeframe until you can cope with it.
    2. Be alert to the little beauties in life, the little things to be happy for. Look for glimpse lights, even if the tunnel is long and dark.
    3. If it's tragic, at least don't make it hell. Try not make the situation worse than it already is, this helps us tolerate with things needed to be tolerated in the present.

  • @natewyliestudios
    @natewyliestudios 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    To put it lightly I'm going through some very dark times with a lot of uncertainty on the horizon and I can say first hand this works if put into practice.

  • @annette2326
    @annette2326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    So true. Sometimes you can only handle the inch in front of you.

  • @TK-bl3yh
    @TK-bl3yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Do I really have the honor of being the first to comment?
    Wow...
    What do I say...?
    I love you Dr. Peterson. Thank you.

    • @mariagaluppo6171
      @mariagaluppo6171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s sad when you think about how amazing Mr Peterson is bless this man

  • @natashacorker3006
    @natashacorker3006 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is how I get through it...I hr at a time..1 day at a time.Thats all I can manage right now but I'm still showing up and putting in the work

  • @mikeb0607
    @mikeb0607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love love this guy. There will never be another person like him during our lifetime.

    • @Daniel-gb6jm
      @Daniel-gb6jm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is reasons like this man, why there is not more of these men. But they are out there. But he is very talented.

  • @louisbisignano4340
    @louisbisignano4340 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ty Jordan immeasurably valuable,I began a very dark journey today but I know have a starting point and
    some introspective direction.I hope you realize how important what you do is.

  • @UR2Compliant
    @UR2Compliant 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love this guy...

  • @BrendanRiley
    @BrendanRiley 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My best friend died suddenly today. It is a dark time. Thankful for his memory and those small things in life.

  • @user-hl1ct3yh1r
    @user-hl1ct3yh1r 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That’s facts. One gets caught up in these sort of time loops where we think the current circumstance can potentially be forever, but it’s a trap, such loops. If one gets caught up with that sort of thinking, good luck coming out alive.

  • @karna5998
    @karna5998 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My father is on his deathbed.
    He has few weeks/months at most, and he is suffering a lot.
    He can't walk by himself, he can't eat or drink anything by himself, he can't go to washroom by himself either.
    It has been very tough on us, specially my mother, because she's close to 60 as well.
    So recently I have started to help around in taking him step by step from here to there.
    He let's all of his weight go on the person holding him, so it's very difficult to control him.
    My mother was going through sleepless nights and she's also a heart patient, so I realised that if I don't intervene and help, I might just end up losing both of them.
    This may sound brutal, but I'd rather have my father pass away after living his last few months and help him around, so my mom can take rest as well.
    This is the best decision there is to make.
    Life is fucking tough, but as long as I choose to be powerful, I'll come out victorious. Maybe with few scars, but victorious in the end.

    • @karna5998
      @karna5998 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Update:- He passed away on 8th November.

    • @sl33pyTea
      @sl33pyTea ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@karna5998 Im sorry for your loss. My brother died back in 2013 and as hard as it was I can say confidently that if you try, you’ll get through this.
      I still think about him and feel a wave of sadness, but I try to remember that nothing is forever. And even though he’s gone I’m thankful for the time we had.
      You’ll get through this ❤

    • @karna5998
      @karna5998 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sl33pyTea Thank you my friend, I'm doing pretty good, as long as I focus on doing things that are improving my life, I'm on a good path.
      I'm focused on taking care of my family in all ways, and each step I take feels good and meaningful.
      I wish you the best in life man. Have a great day.

    • @BreakingImageFilms
      @BreakingImageFilms 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m so sorry friend 😢💚

    • @karna5998
      @karna5998 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@BreakingImageFilms Hey, thanks for your comment, It reminded me that I posted this a year ago.
      I have a update.
      I am a very spiritual person, and so were my father and my ancestors.
      I've been guided and helped by multiple divine deities and right after my graduation, I landed a job.
      I had to shift 400 km (248 miles) for it, but everything was extremely convenient.
      My friends were already living in the city I shifted to, the flat was very near to my work location.
      After 6 months of working there, I was guided to switch the job, and I found a new better paying job (I cleared the interview being sleepless because I was creating an updated resume, preparing for the interview and doing certain rituals to take the blessings of the deities.)
      I've been working there and the environment is also great, the Team Leader is like an older brother to me and everyone are very friendly.
      I'm also guided by the deities that in the next few years i'll have very fast spiritual and material growth, and then I would have a lot of free time, which I would spend with my mother (she still lives in my home town, we meet once every month and we talk on call multiple times a day),
      and most of my time will be spent on my spiritual rituals which will help me create a stronger connection with multiple different deities, and they have many things to be carried out like helping/protecting people around me.
      Overall life's been great. I've learnt alot, became stronger, and the pain that I have gone through gave me strength and understanding which helps me to assist people going through tough times.

  • @WickedEdge1
    @WickedEdge1 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I needed to hear this.

  • @God_Got_You
    @God_Got_You ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Proverbs 3:5-6
    Trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. Think about him in all your ways and he will guide you along the right paths

  • @clintcalvert9250
    @clintcalvert9250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for this. I’m very sincere in thanking

  • @seekthetruth824
    @seekthetruth824 หลายเดือนก่อน

    we love you jordan.

  • @danpartridge8584
    @danpartridge8584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Many years from now, I believe people will look back and reflect on Peterson as our generation once reflected on Marcus Aurelius, Socrates, and many other groundbreaking philosophers.

  • @reciprocalhealing
    @reciprocalhealing 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a wise man, so committed to truth… I appreciate this.

  • @jay3lky244
    @jay3lky244 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you Jordan Peterson

  • @dorisw2507
    @dorisw2507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Jordan

  • @God_Got_You
    @God_Got_You ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Give it to God!!!!❤️

  • @ryanalopez3078
    @ryanalopez3078 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ty for this. I needed to hear this today.

  • @stremybrandy
    @stremybrandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Facts.

  • @busuulwalawrence6793
    @busuulwalawrence6793 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Am taking care of my older sister.. she's very sick .. today we having CT scan of her Abdomen.. Doctor's x-ray scan found some big stones on her kidneys and urine blodder and uterus
    God give me strength she's very weak and iin lot of pain.. I need courage . Today is September 27 / 2023... Time 7:18am.. I pray by next year I would have passed through all this we and we will be happy people.

  • @jasonmorris9900
    @jasonmorris9900 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Always loved this guy no homo as a man though. 💯🙏🙏

  • @nibbscbr
    @nibbscbr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jesus this hit home

  • @Fony_turgeson
    @Fony_turgeson ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hope God. The lord above sees I'm not lying I'm in painn......sometimes I want to end it

    • @MrLee928brodie
      @MrLee928brodie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We need to stay strong

    • @natashacorker3006
      @natashacorker3006 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please stay strong.I sometimes feel this way too.Lets be here for each other

  • @themovingdance2744
    @themovingdance2744 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He says things with emotion ….vulnerability

  • @thomaswillans4085
    @thomaswillans4085 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Life's a synch inch by inch 😂❤

  • @Copebroo
    @Copebroo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Comedy Central presents Jordan Peterson

  • @drbonesshow1
    @drbonesshow1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When times are tough find a girl who will “stiffen your resolve.”

  • @abdullahmohammad6803
    @abdullahmohammad6803 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i am at a period of time where i am very uncertain if i can survive this or not. I am a uni student, to study i prefer to have a clear mind. but this thing what is sort of ruining it is the job. I think i am a victim to a scam, i just wanted to make more money whilst studying. it is an online job, turns out they take my money but return back with some profit. Now they are asking for more money and i dont have much, so i am worried, because they are threatening me.

    • @relax_and_smile2527
      @relax_and_smile2527 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep your faith and trust in Allah, keep making dua brother as well as taking good action to improve your situation.

  • @klolAF
    @klolAF 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have a mind set for better

  • @user-yi2db6bv5o
    @user-yi2db6bv5o 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How did she fix her health problems?

  • @ayy2193
    @ayy2193 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:20

  • @KotobukiGirl
    @KotobukiGirl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is this talk about how he came back from his complete nervous breakdown?

  • @user-kp5fq5mg5r
    @user-kp5fq5mg5r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so depressed

  • @enterprisewhiskey8999
    @enterprisewhiskey8999 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Anybody else having issues like he is describing? if so, please comment down below so we can perhaps feel less alone about taking life one week, one day, or one hour at a time! I wish you all the best!

  • @siftedsoul
    @siftedsoul 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    With the ridiculous cost of living these days it feels like im trying to swim in molasses trying to get ahead. Staying greatful gets harder. I just need to remind myself how much worse some people in "third world" countries have it and count my blessings. It does kind of feel like the American Dream is unattainable though. And all i want is a home and truck!

  • @thomashunt6000
    @thomashunt6000 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He seriously needs to stop crying for no reason. What is up with that?