Uncircumcised: overcoming my sexual shame
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ต.ค. 2024
- "Society wants men to grow out of their sexual misconducts and abhorrent past choices. Rightfully so. And yet, we have simultaneously decided to begin men's lives by forcefully removing a vital part of their genitals and sexual identity."
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It's been a couple years since posting this video, and given that it's being viewed by a lot of people, I'd love to provide a few extra thoughts:
1) I no longer have issues being nude in public or with intimate partners. The weight has officially lifted 🥳
2) I had never even heard the word "intact" when referring to circumcision. Crazy how conditioned I was to thinking of myself as the outsider. This reframe was a game-changer for my healing.
3) To those of you who left uplifting comments and thoughts, thank you. Your kindness is seen and appreciated.
4) For the many who said that "I shouldn't feel shame," or "I should be proud" - I know you were just trying to help, but I want to gently point out that this is unhelpful advice for those moving through negative emotions.
For instance, telling someone that they shouldn't be angry about a particular situation often makes them even angrier, right? Or suggesting that someone not feel their sadness leads them to bury it or feel sadder, both suboptimal.
In this case, when I read comments such as "don't be ashamed" or "you are crazy for feeling shame," my initial reaction was actually to feel MORE shame! In fact, my internal dialogue went something like this: "Ethan, you loser. How come you feel so much shame around this topic? Why can't you just see yourself as normal like everyone else!?"
In other words, when we tell people how they should or shouldn't feel, it ends up perpetuating the very negative emotion we hope to free them from! Instead, by acknowledging where people are without judgement, we support them in transmuting the negativity into something more productive.
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Sending love to all of you who are currently navigating your own healing journey. I'm rooting for you! ॐ
You suddenly popped into my mind just now. Didn't even remember how to find this channel, but a search for "ethan redhead yoga" worked. 😂
Coincidence that you posted this just when I clicked on this video again? I think not. ❤
@@oceanwonders Your psychic abilities are strengthening!!! 😮
I am a 67 year old grandma and scientist who is happily married to an uncircumcised man. I love playing with his foreskin. We have 2 uncircumcised sons and a grandson that is uncircumcised. You are so fortunate to have educated parents. Be proud that you are a natural man!!
Thank you, Anne. 🐧🍎🍏💙
Proud uncut American male here! So grateful my Mom never had me sexually mutilated, and I was schooled at a young age on hygiene and keeping myself clean. Circumcised men have never experienced the full pleasures of sex. I feel sad for them.
Thanks. Cut dad of 2 intact teens here and I hate that I am cut.
When did you have to clean it? (Only when one is around 8 or 9, where it naturally separates from the head.)
@@Mcfreddo When taking a shower every day, it pulls back very easily, and I'm 8"
Yes, Yes, Yes exactly. As a cut man, I wish my parents were not so ignorant on this subject.
I mean uncircumcised have a higher chance of of carrying hpv to their female partners.
I'm Scandinavian, and it's not a routine here. Mostly Muslims, and jews do it to their kids. But the vast majority are uncut, and we're doing just fine. We have low HIV rates, almost no penile cancer, very few men need it done for medical reasons, and hygiene never seems to be an issue. A Filipino girl told me to get cut if I wanted to be loved by her. I chose self-respect, and sticking to my boundaries over letting a girl emotionally black mail me into getting it done.
Well, I wouldn't have the lids of my eyes cut either😉. Nature has its reasons...
What kind of crazy women demands that?
Filipino girls are maybe 20$ in usa.
The Filipino girl knew what she was talking about. It’s your right to choose loneliness over being loved by others.
@DISCOVEGASYthe way they sale their selves to americans for marriage i don't think she hadany room to ask him to cut anything off for her
Uncut is beautiful and natural! I would not have it any other way. I am proud of my foreskin. Just love yourself!
Thank You! 🐧🍎🍏💙
I'm an American Millennial with foreskin. There was a brief period where I was ashamed of my body -- not because of any negative sexual experiences, but because of the sheer number of anti-foreskin comments I'd heard in U.S. film and television. As I've gotten older, I'm now proud of my foreskin and actually feel pity for circumcised men. I hope your confidence continues to grow as well.
Thanks, brother. It's gotten much easier, for sure.
I believe rates of circumcision are declining for the USA as a whole. It's tough being in a minority, ask anyone who is. I bet teasing in schools can be bad too.
I don’t feel pity, not their fault. But I feel grateful my dad helped me too and just told me to stretch it alone. The doctors wanted to do it but I didn’t. It’s fine now for me luckily. Maybe dads should just give that advice before a doctor says it’s bad
@@henryfitch8710 not for me fortunately. I’m from Texas. It’s kinda half and half. I think I get more who love it really.
@@jaya.d-gauthier1644 Great. Be proud of your body.
Proudly uncut American man happily married to an uncut Peruvian man. It is a part of our bodies we are proud to possess. I have 3 adult uncut grandsons. It is a perfectly normal part of our bodies and none of us would ever dream of removing such an intimate part of ourselves. Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your life. Rick and David
The USA is strange
Perverted and psycopathic are more accurate adjectives. I lean to think they feel some kind of sadistic pleasure in mutulating perfectly healthy boys for the sake of causing them as much pain as possible.
EVERY nationality is strange! In each of their own ways. But we should all learn and except others’ “strangeness” and embrace them-not ridicule them. Mindfulness is equally another thing we should learn…
@@UHF43 I bet you’re fun at parties…smh
@@clintpriddy I think if the 'strangeness' involves subjecting infants to painful, dangerous, damaging and unnecessary amputation of healthy genital tissue then it should absolutely be ridiculed. And attacked for the child abuse it is. Tolerance is fine, in the main. Tolerating child cruelty on the grounds that it's just what 'they' do is awful.
Except for medical regencies, nobody should be circumcised before the age of 18, and then only by personal choice.
Thank God I am Uncut and proud of being complete....No shame, no embarrassment, no guilt....JUST ME !!!
I’m glad my dad gave me plenty of prompts on how to clean and care for mine. And I’m grateful to have a sense of pride for being foreskinned. In the gay scene, the foreskin is both glamorized and rejected. Not everyone is your fan; and those who are will be very devout worshipers. So love yourself before you let others dictate your worth.
Love this. Thanks, Joe
"In the gay scene"? You mean American scene where natural male sexual organs are demonized. No other western country has those problems.
So true. Some guys *LOVE* foreskin.
I guess it’s like cilantro-you either love it or hate it, lol
@@clintpriddy, hate cilantro, love foreskin
You always want what you don't have. I feel so robbed. Circumcision should not be allowed without the consent or medical need of the male involved. We should be left intact. Thank you for your video and sharing your story Ethan.
Take it you are circumcised and feel robbed if that is right ? as a sexual preference circumcised men are so much cleaner and aesthetically pleasing ,am Jewish so maybe biased but nonetheless be proud of your gear and enjoy life!
@@sarahjones-jf4pr Thanks. Don't worry, I enjoy!
@@johnadam5179 Good!!
Exactly! OP has no idea his penis-type is highly coveted by so many who were wronged as a baby.
@@sarahjones-jf4pr that’s your ethnocentric sensibilities talking. Uncircumcised men can be equally (or more) unclean. Has absolutely nothing to do with being cut or uncut…
We're all uncut in Europe. We don't circumcise our sons. To us it's torture and it takes away so much sensation.
There are actually a lot of circumcised men Europe. Think of all the Muslims and Jews then add in the men who had a tight foreskin and chose to be circumcised.
Still in the minority
Thank You, SmileFace. 🐧🍎🍏💙
@@carldurbin9267 Yes, sure but they still exist. You can't say everyone even if it's the majority.
Circumcision is a form of mutilation.
We stopped the practice about forty years ago here in Australia, it's child abuse in my opinion
I hate the phrase uncut. If you’re born with all your limbs you’re not unamputated. You’re intact, which is how I describe myself. I feel sorry for guys who were butchered and didn’t have a choice in the decision. I’m 71 years old and I have 3 sons none of which were butchered. This barbaric ritual from the ancient past needs to stop in the USA.
Agree, I'm not uncut, I'm intact.
YOU ARE NOT "UN-CIRCUMCISED!" You are Intact or Normal. 🐧🍎🍏💙
I am so envious of any guy that is intact. I even tried for a few years to re-grow my foreskin, I had a small amount of success, but it isn't like the real thing. Be proud of what you have and who you are!
How about envious of females the thought of doing it to them never crossed or crosses their parents minds but more men uncut there for the grace of God and parents go I and millions of American boys and men.maybe we should have the gender discussion instead of always rightly so medical,ethical,cultural issues.
You are SO lucky to be uncut. My brother and I have always felt outraged about being circumcised.
I think this hatred of the penis is US centric. Europeans find it strange than Americans think circumcision is a good thing.
I am British, and like most UK men I am uncut. I wish I had been American and had the routine neonatal circumcision. I am very clean, but even so, I always feel self concious about it
@@algiles881 You should get circumcise then, my British friends he got cut last year at age 16, and he has never been happier. He sent too many of his circumcise penis pictures to me. This is just strange his coach at school talk to his Dad that his son should be circumcise. This Dad agree to have his son circumcise as a teenager. The son is super proud now, because his penis looks like an American porn stars. I told him this would never happen is American.
I hate that I was mutilated as a baby, uncut is the way it was supposed to be.
Billions of Asian men are uncut. We are just fine.
I had some of your aversions earlier in my growth but have enveloped the belief that to be whole and natural is to be human. I am intact and proud. Believe in yourself and know that being intact is the way us guys are meant to be!!
Here in the UK you would be part of the majority who are intact!!! You could always choose to be circumcised if you want.
South African here, aside from Jews, Muslims, and a couple of the black tribes, it's not commonplace here. Frankly, many of us view the whole thing as quite barbaric. I agree. I can't seem to wrap my head (hahaha) around the idea that in the age of 'consent' and 'my body my choice', we're still allowing this mutilation of newborn baby boys. I am no more or less hygienic than the most average of decent blokes and I have NEVER had any issues with cleanliness or any of that codswallop that those on the other side insist on peddling. I'm also gay, and I can't think of a single sexual experience I have had with a guy who was uncut where there was cause for concern, and none of my friends who are uncut have ever had any issues. So where all of these 'studies' are coming from?
When you're old enough to C O N S E N T, you can do as you wish.
more power to you!
Be proud of yourself. Embrace your skin. I am uncut, clean and healthy. Happy to swap shots 😉
I feel ashamed to be circumcised.
It’s not your fault, your parents did that but you can break the cycle with your kids.
I hear you, brother. Know that the shame you feel isn't permanent. We were conditioned from a young age to reject our bodies -- in whatever capacity, but you can take your power back. Reach out if you need anything!
You shouldn't.
it's good that you are because Penis cancer cases are rising around the world and are expected to surge a staggering 77 per cent in the next 26 years, according to an alarming new investigation by BBC. Cases were also primarily seen in uncircumcised patients.
@@Boozoobajou1link or hearsay?
This hits home for me, I wish my mother wasn’t forced by society to follow the “norm”. You should be celebrated not made to feel ashamed of your natural body. I am blessed with two daughters but if I ever have a son one day , I am opting out of this brutality on the human body. Make foreskin the norm again
Dude this video was so relatable! As an adult, you shouldn’t be ashamed of your foreskin for sure 👍
Yeah brother! Finally getting through this one. Thanks for the support! 🤘🏻
Wow, that's brave and vulnerable to talk about.
Ever wonder why the label assumes the mutilated state to be the norm? "Un-cut, un-circumcised", as if the chop is what's missing rather than the single most sensitive part of our bodies. No wonder American men have so much trouble trusting. The first experience of their new life is one of unimaginable pain at the hands of those who should be their protectors. Even an infant understands at some level that their parents have stepped away to allow a surgeon to torture them.
In case anyone doubts the trauma, check out a video on the medical circumcision process. Check out the clamp used. The foreskin is drawn forward and clamped....without anesthetics because it's too dangerous to anesthetise an infant. Lets say it again. The most sensitive part of a baby boy's body is mashed and cut off with no pain killers, no ability to comprehend why, and no choice.
A small but significant number of botched circumcisions result in infection and death....every year. Another percent go so badly the doctors just cut the rest away and make a vagina. They tell the parents to raise the child as a girl. (you won't hear the christo-fascists discussing THAT kind of gender reassignment surgery).
This is infinitely more hideous knowing the entire procedure is unfounded on health grounds, was justified originally as an anti-masturbation measure by earlier generations, and in many hospitals should a mother object, the staff shames her into signing the consent form. As for the hospital? It's a quick surcharge. Fast cash.
The vast majority of men on our planet have intact penises. Genital mutilation of young boys is mostly practiced in the USA.
Nobody NOBODY shoukd feel ashamed of their body. Parents are at fault for NOT teaching their sons about the foreskin and care. By not doing so - it is a pretty good giveaway the parent has issues about nudity and their body. At age 74 yo I have found that men (husbands/Fathers) that are nudist are much more open about their body and acceptance of others. A kid needs to learn what/how to care of the foreskin. Fathers that teach their sons are doing what they should do - parenting. The kid should take a shower with the father and learn from the father by (show and tell) if you will. At the same time learning to be comfortable around dad naked and feeling it's natural. Knew a farm family with four sons and after a days work they would all shower in the barn (wide open shower) and have clean clothes before going into the house for dinner. They all know about each other and had no hang ups or issues about nudity. All uncut and their father taught them how to care for their foreskin. The father taught the sons that even if they got an erection that that was normal and ok, Nothing to be ashamed off. Common for them all to go skinny dip in the heat of summer. A healthy family - well taught about not being ashamed. We have been programed to be prudish about nudity. Everything is so private, and fears of what others will think and.or being callef queer. So here we are ashamed of our body and thinking it is awful when there is nothing wrong or bad AT ALL.
I mean uncircumcised men have a higher chance of of carrying hpv to their female partners.
Foreskin is cool and has that subtle sexuality. Guys are way more attractive/interesting with foreskin. You’re fine just the way you are. Pull back the “ skin” of your uncomfortable and light up your self esteem.Accept yourself as a gift..
Intact American guy here, I very much can relate to your story. I have yet to fully climb out of the hole that my shame dug for me, but I'm working through it. Its shocking how few people cover this topic. I've been scouring the internet for stories from guys that feel like we do and they're almost non-existent, which is basically unheard of in this modern age. Anyway, thanks for sharing, I'll be sure to check out the rest of your channel!
Appreciate you sharing that. Hopefully conversations around this topic keep getting easier. I imagine it will; it seems that more and more people have the courage to open up about their shame and insecurities.
@@yogawithethan Wait, you're *still* dealing with this..? I'm so sorry. How old are you?
@@bigbowl5044 25. It's less of an issue now - an occasional speed bump. Pretty incredible how long it can take us to heal from these things, eh?
@@yogawithethan Are you Canadian? 😅
@@bigbowl5044 Haha negative - American..born and raised in North Carolina!
Ashamed?, That's a natural thing!
why would this be shameful? lol uncut is literally the sexiest thing ever.
We all have our strange, psychological tripwires! I feel much less shame these days :)
Because American society hates male sexual organs, it seems. Nobody has ever feel ashamed to have a perfectly natural, healthy body.
some say uncut is like "velvet" for the girl-cut is like a dry brick-sorry
shame???? i WISH i still had my skin!!!
There is nothing wrong with being uncut, it's natural, normal, and it's not unhygienic, anymore than any other part of your body if it's clean, shower every day!
Sexual shame, for being normal??? Heck no.
I am so sorry that you were made to feel ashamed for being a normal intact male.......those circumcised are the ones not normal. proud intact male as well. I advocate for not cutting babies
Not sure if it can help but the world doesn’t end with the us and the rest of the world is uncut and it’s actually considered bizarre to be circumcised in europe .. so , there’s that .
I beg to differ! A LOT of the rest of the world practices circumcision, not by choice, as here in the US, but by religious and cultural requirement! ALL of the Islamic world requires circumcision of males, and in some parts even females. Most African tribes require circumcision as a rite of passage in early adolescense. Europe will soon become one of the most circumcised parts of the world due to massive immigration from the middle East and Africa.
@mygaysianlife I'm not sure about the percentage, and you may be right. However, I was responding to the statement that "the rest of the world is uncut." If the statement had been '70% of the world is uncut", I might have agreed. The way it is, the statement makes it sound as though circumcision is exclusively practiced in the United States.
No need for shame. I know a lot of people into that. Different isn't weird, it's special
It is only in the USA and some religious communities where boys are sexually mutilated at birth. This procedure cuts the frenulum (sex nerve) in two places, resulting in loss of sensitivity which can be catastrophic. The USA has their secretary of health in the 1930s to thank. He was a repressed homosexual and perpetrated the myth that a natural man is unclean. In the 1980s the evil US medical profession perpetrated a new myth in face of the HIV epidemic, that a man with in tact foreskin was more vulnerable to sexually transmitted diseases. Funny, the rest of the world’s statistics don’t show an increased virility of STDs. The prevalence of sexually mutilated men in the USA also accounts for the fact that so many gay men like to be bottoms, because it results in prostate orgasms. Those who have been mutilated in this way typically cause more urinary tract infections in their female partners and find it increasingly difficult to reach orgasm as they age. Your parents were wise indeed, thank yourself daily for them and blame your crazy society for the sexual neurosis you suffered.
You're fortunate. I'm American, born in the 50s, so I was circumcised. It was routine. It was years before I found out what an uncut penis was and that it was natural. As I grew up, I heard all negatives about uncut, ugly smelly, smegma etc. Also I am gay and one day had sex with an uncut guy and I loved it. Not sure why but it was more to play with. My fascination with intact penis grew and I learned about stretching the remaining skin I had, could possibly work. So for the next 2 years that was my goal. I will never know what a natural dick feels like. I have greater sensitivity and stronger pleasurable orgasms. I am still fascinated and prefer uncut partners. In the US, attitudes about circumcision are slowly changing which is great. The omly reason to cut should be a medical reason. I hope you will continue to overcome your shame and inhibitions and grow to love what nature gave you
Interesting story. Thanks for sharing. It is amazing how much psychological dynamite seems to be buried in this issue. I have heard so many stories from so many men, both circumcised and uncircumcised.
Yeah it seems that the issue is so much deeper than just cut or uncut..a lot of sexual repression in our society altogether.
This was so good! I just had a baby boy a week ago and my husband and I are going back and forth whether to circumcise or not. He whole heartedly believes that it saves men a lot of trouble with infection and retraction issues plus boosts their confidence and me on the other hand can’t imagine my tiny baby enduring that pain 😭I’m trying to look into mens personal stories with whether they wished they were circumcised or not. Thank you for your vulnerability 🙏🏻
Hi Ashley! So glad you're taking the time to think it over. It definitely appears to be a big decision, especially with all of the misinformation about it being unsanitary.
Ultimately I am so so grateful to be intact. If our girls got the clitoris cut off, the US would go nuts. It's a huge double standard. Would love to talk it over further with you and your husband :)
I am expecting a baby boy and will not circumcise him. I moved to the US from Europe, so where I'm from boys don't get circumcised and don't feel ashamed.
It's an ancient ridiculous ritual. We were born like this. Why mutilate your son? There is no valid health issues either.
So glad my mom made the decision to leave my junk alone.
Girls have way more infections. Have you ever considered riping off newborn girls' labia to save them from those problems? Or do you just give them antibiotic treatment only if needed? Why is it acceptable for you to have 'preventive' surgery done on boys? By the way, you don't have to retract anything because the foreskin is fused to the glans and will slowly get loose over time.
Anatomically, I see the foreskin of the intact penis as the way nature has designed man's sexual organ to remain internal, just like it occurs with other male species in the animal kingdom. Definitely, the foreskin is nothing that should generate shame or disagreement, nor should it become a tribal marker.
It's so good people are waking up about this issue, this practice needs to be abolished!
You poor young self! So glad you're over it.
Be proud of your body.
I think “health issues” is used too early. I almost was cut was 12 but my dad let me decide. It didn’t hurt I didn’t know the issue. A lot of issues go away with time for most (not all)
THANKS FOR SHARING! No doubt many intact males (myself included) felt included to get circumcised because of feelings of shame, inadequacy, inferiority. Friends who were circumcised as infants resent that they were permanently "mutilated" for frivolous reasons without their consent.
I had such similar experiences growing up intact in the US! It was validating to hear your experiences. I also remember being scared the first time I saw the head and realizing it could retract. I also masturbated vigorously in the shower by slapping the head as a means to desensitize and remember feeling embarrassed in the 9th grade when others found out I was not corcumcised and even though I defended myself, I got a lot of comments about how gross and unsanitary it was (even from girls). It took me a while to realize my shame and actively go against it by exploring my body and also beginning to see others naked. I now run a young naturist group where we often get people with lots of body shame (many due to weight, which is something I never experienced but can empathize) and the simple act of physically being naked and normalizing our bodies, their differences and what they can do has helped me and so many others. I invite you to try naturism if you're able to. In Florida, multiple times a year, a group called the Florida Young Naturists hosts a seasonal bash that welcomes all sorts of people for workshops around these topics. Thank you for sharing you raw experience.
The opposite of circumcised is intact.
Not uncircumcised, ( apply the same logic on other physical alterations)
I like that reframing a lot. Will use it in the future.
@@yogawithethan When you describe yourself or someone else as "uncut" or "uncircumcised" you are validating male genital mutilation as normal and acceptable. Describe yourself as intact, since that is the simplest term for what you are. It will also begin to make circumcised men think of themselves as "unintact," changing the nature of the debate.
@@lorah3005 I had never heard that term before - will definitely be using it going forward. I appreciate your words!
@@yogawithethan Thank you! 🙏
Really great point.
I would hate to be without my foreskin. My girlfriend loves pulling it back and forth both with her fingers and her mouth. The sensation caused by the nerves in the foreskin is mind blowing. Big mistake to have it removed
Ethan, I applaud your bravery to cover this topic. I'm certain there are countless men around the globe that need this level of real to be spoken. And though, as a lady, I'm not familiar with this experience in particular, I am sincerely grateful for what you are offering. And I love the ending message, I needed to hear that today. Your courage opens so many doors for us. I am excited for the day we step out of superficiality and embrace all the aspects of being human.
Grow up all you silly men worry about your soul not your skin
@@jeromeleonardi177 When you realise that somebody else deprived you from your right to body integrity for no real reason, it certeanly affects your soul. Would you dare to make such a comment regarding FGM victims?
Hi, Ethan. No shame on not being circumcised. All European, Central and South American men are not circumcised, unless you are Jewish or Muslims. I'm grateful my mother did not circumcised me or my brother. I have always been happy with my extra skin.
You should not be ashamed of a thing!!!! You are very fortunate to be intact. Wear it like a badge of honor. Be proud!! I wish I was intact, but I am not. There aren't many valid medical reasons to be circumcised; it's mostly custom. I hope they quit performing it as a routine procedure for babies. It's really a brutal primitive operation and custom.
Thanks for sharing. I’ve always regretted the fact that I’m circumcised.
And so the story of circumcision goes like this …it was abraham praying to God for help ..in those days men walk through the desert for many reasons ..and they wore long robes and no underwear….and the sand would get in the foreskin and many will get bad infections ..since they didn’t bath everyday …and so God told abraham ..to circumcised them …and that was very painful and so they decided to do it to all new born makes at 8 days after birth ..and they made that into a religious ritual …abraham and his men all got to experience the very painful procedure ….today there is no reason for circumcision but in many abrahamic religions they still practice this ….ritual ….is all about practicing good higiene…whether you are circumcised or not …and liking yourself as how you are …some people need to accept themselves for whom they are no for what they look like …
I've just had a lot of my gay friends say they don't like uncut men. They think they are not clean and look funny.
I am an uncircumcised male and I have and keep my penis clean, healthy and hygienic.👌👍
Cut men display a hideous looking circumcision scar on their penis and yet they think foreskin looks funny!?
I had to get cut for medical reasons, I feel some of the hate directed at me because I'm cut, I think we need body positivity if you're cut or uncut
You wouldn't get that from me. It is rarely done in the UK but to be honest I prefer it
medicos are now realising that circumsion should be last resort not first option, you don't cut off an infected initially toe do you
The decision should be easy, would you circumcise a girl ? If you wouldn't do it for your baby girl you shouldn't do it for your baby boy.
After 100 Million Years of Natural Evolution >>> They got to be advantages why certain things are carried over generations after generations ... 🕯🌷🌿🌍🕊
if cut or uncut what's the big deal over a little piece of flesh? embrace yourself, love yourself for who are inside and be free.
Gd day buddy,,im from the Philippines and were filipinos ,,are circumcized at the age of 11 ,and that is a common tradition to our country,,and there some Asian country arw not applicable the circumcision,,well for some medical reason, infection free ,,,but in European or in Latin countries that is not applicable for them,,,well thats their tradition ,,just always clean the foreskin before anything else ,,we should respect the people whos uncircumcized ,,!!!
Uncircumcised is the best way to be... One of my friend's dad took him to be circumcised later in life and it was to punish him. My friend suffers to this day because of it. He had already survived a kidnapping at three where he was sexually abused and it's one of the reasons his dad hated him. It should be one's choice to make as an adult...
Dirty? You shower .your not dirty..we come into the world with a foreskin..doesnt that mean something?
I hear you, brother. These issues are in the past for me. My hope in this video was to reach those who are struggling with the same issues
In europe and canada being un-circumsized is very in and vogue..if you had an issue you could have seen a doctor who could have fixed it..hope you feel better about it..congrats for bring so open..you're the greatest
Bro!!!!!!!!!!!! Don’t be ashamed of who you are and how your body looks! Men are beautiful, and there’s nothing wrong with our bodies!
In my 30s and still mortified that i wasnt circumcised or even given the option.
To be cut will dramatically reduce sensitivity and pleasure.
why on earth would you cut a natural part of your tool off when you are an adult?
I would be so mad if I was cut 😩
sad that women shame men for having natural bodies
I mean uncircumcised men have a higher chance of of carrying hpv to their female partners.
@@steamyvegetables1445 There is much junk science out to indicate that circumcision can lower the chance of many things including hpv transmission. Ther is handful of circumcision advocates who will twist the stats to continue the mutilation of infant boys. Cutting female labia can bring similar benefits, but do we do that? No! Because we say that basic hygiene is available to females and we now have a vaccine for hpv and safe sex practices to avoid stds. It seems that western minds protect female bodily autonomy and genital integrity and happy to slice up boys’ genitals, how backward and barbaric. These cheap justifications promoting the mutilation of boys is really hate speech against males. Infant boys should not have important and functional parts of their genitals removed. Period!
@@steamyvegetables1445At least younger women can get vaccinated against that now.
Being British I am used to intact men. I've experienced both, and prefer uncut.
@@steamyvegetables1445 These myths have been debunked, much of this junk science is put out there by circumcision advocates. HPV rates are higher in USA compared to Europe, rates of circumcision in USA are much higher so these are all excuses to continue abusing boys. Your comments are sexist, imagine if someone said cutting labia tissue reduces STDs in females. Everyone would say that females have the basic human right of genital autonomy and we should teach them hygiene. Seems according to you, genital integrity is not a basic human right but female privilege.
Natural is beautiful
Totally unfair that you had to suffer like that just for being uncut. Myself, I’m cut (didn’t have a choice) but have never felt anything but envious of the uncut. Best sex I ever had was with an uncut man. I agree circumcision shouldn’t happen at birth. As for nudity, I had no problem with it when young. At age 70, however, it seems unfair to subject others to my body’s declining attractiveness. I’ve no shame about it and, even while feeling a bit discourteous, would go nude if requested.
Let's not forget the ultimate uncircumcised ( women) left alone and their sexually worship and appreciated.
I would give everything I own to have not had that metalation done to me. You are very lucky!!!
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Uncircumcised 🖊️ is filthy. Would not touch it with someone else’s hand
They aren't dirty. Men should be bathing anyway. It's perfectly natural, and more to play with, which feels better. I'm a British woman and have experienced both. I definitely prefer intact.
@@brownrabbit61 enjoy! I would not touch one
I don’t know why guys are moaning and wailing about being circumcised versus uncircumcised. My view is that, if you are uncut, you don’t know what it’s like to be cut, and vice-versa. I’m circumcised and have never thought that it was better to be uncut, in fact, I’m happy with it. Sexual enjoyment is relative, you certainly can have fantastic organisms either way. Plus, is having a clitoris cut off really the same as being circumcised? Seems to me you are comparing apples to oranges.
It is always better to have and maintain a healthy and intact pnis than to have it circumcised.
Finally a sane comment. Plus I mean uncircumcised have a higher chance of of carrying hpv to their female partners.
There are some men who have been circumcised as adults for medical reasons. You could ask them about the differences in sensations.
You are very lucky. I feel sorry for all those Americans that have been circumcised as a baby. Did you know that most men in the world are intact? In Europe for example parents don't even consider it. BTW the foreskin is supposed to be fused to the glans until puberty so I don't understand the problem hat you mention at 1:15. The foreskin is the most sensitive part of the penis 3:33. Even this scientist din't realise that, it's a very interesting video: "Anatomy of the Penis: Penile and Foreskin Neurology"
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Talking about it ....where Is he.???? I didn't see anything ...😊
Incredible video. Thank you for sharing so honestly. It’s clear that you are doing the work and moving forward. Liked and subscribed.🙏🏼
human in evolution did not drop the foreskin like it never drop the little toe and finger. would you amputate your finger just because everyone you know did that?
I don't have any problem with being uncircumcised. But my Dad told me every man had to be circumcised before they went to fight in World War 2. He was a nurse and cared for the guys after they had had their foreskins removed. WHY?
That is not true. My father fought in WW2. He was not circumcised for the war.
You are nuts! I didn't have a choice (I was circumsized at birth). Wish I had my skin.
I m myself uncut.. I m over 56. It’s neutral..👍. God gave it to u and u just have to learn with time to clean and not to b shame / uncomfortable ..👍
I'm sorry you have any shame. Uncircumcised, circumcised both are fine.
Nothing wrong with being circumcised.
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If jts your own personal choice as an adult.
Everything wrong with mutilating baby boys or promoting it!
Having normal, healthy, functional, sensitive parts of your body torn off in infancy is wrong. Of course it is. And I'm willing to bet my house you agree with that statement when it's applied to any part of the human body other than the penis.
I've encountered uncircumcised guys and they smell like a Stinking Bishop (a pungent variety of English cheese) - no thanks and they shower regularly like everybody else. I know four young guys who were circumcised at 19-23 years of age and all couldn't be happier.
Bro uncut is numero👍uno 🤙😎
In my opinion, the big hoo-hah against circumcision is a concerted push against everything Jewish.
Not at all. It's just not necessary, and the vast majority of men here in the UK are not circumcised, fortunately.
Wow. Own the beauty of your natural self. Don't overthink it. It serves no positive purpose. If you travel the world especially Europe you will fit right in. Jews, Islam, Americans are who keep this practice alive. It is becoming less popular as many young people are not circumcising their children.
Think of it this way: if you had your dog circumcised, you would be reported for animal cruelty.
You are a sweet beautiful man, and brave to share your story with the world. I have had the pleasure of dating two men who were natural. They were gentle lovers because of their sensitivity Oh, I prefer that to being circumcised. I want to find another man who is natural. I wish the practice of circumcision would stop. It is unnecessary and harmful to boys and men.
You're really fortunate to he natural in America
Yes I am circumcised and I was 59 years old when it had it done and I feel better about it
It's OK if you got a knob at the end.
Being circumcised for medical reasons is perfectly reasonable, but only excuse you're and adult and can give or refuse consent.
Once you self identified as uncut you became much more interesting as a natural man. Perhaps, it says more about me, but you became more handsome and what you had to say more meaningful. I am shocked by my own prejudice, but it brings home the power of association and what my impressions of you might have been had I held negative views of intact men.
I decided to circumcised my penis for medical reasons- it was the best decision for me. However, when I was uncut, my penis would smell badly, sex would be uncomfortable, redness and irritation would occur.
How much was it? And what was the healing process like?
Hi there…. The price was lil over $3,000 and it took about 4-6 weeks to heal and everything to go back to normal. It’s not painful just adjust to no foreskin and more sensitivity
"...vvbrcaminh tha schaem aw beinh a mael"
I was circumcised without my parents consent. The doctor just did it.