Awww… I think that’s one of the sweetest videos. That one made me cry. Ellis is so plugged in to everyone’s feelings. He is a true empath. A gentle soul. ♥️
Jenny, you're a bit stubborn about pain medication (I mean this as someone who's the same way), but knowing when to nip it in the bud is so important and *you will get the hang of it.* It hasn't been that long since your pain appointment, so you're still very new at this. Be kinder to yourself and understand your children couldn't have a better mum in the world than you. Maybe the "old you" is someone you yearn for, but who you are right now is more than enough. Any child would be lucky to have you as a parent, and your children know it too. Feel better, love. 🍏
@@syrup1203, it sure is beautiful. I’m praying for you and your beautiful family. Love you guys and I love and miss you my sweet syrup. I hope you are doing fine and your headaches are doing better. Hugs and kisses 🌸💕
I miss you so much Jenny, but I am so thankful you will never have to be sick, have chemo, be worried, or have radiation ever again. My prayers continue for Kyle and your children as they push forward without you. 🙏🏼🤍🙏🏼
My mom had MS and suffered major depression due to having four young kids and no way to care for us alone. I often told her I’d rather have a sick mom than no mom. She said it helped her through those moments.
@@mindy9061 this started back in the 70’s in one day she went blind and lost control of her bladder. That lasted six months. Her eyesight came back. For the rest of her life she went in and out of remission with the last 15 years of her life being wheelchair bound and incontinent. Years of catheter usage wrecked havoc on her kidneys with constant kidney infections until they had zero antibiotics left and she died of blood sepsis. So much has changed in what is known about MS…stress can really set things on a negative course
@@suzique6924 so sorry to read that 😢 MS can affect people in so many different ways, some have very mild symptoms their whole life and others severe symptoms. There are so many new meds now that are very helpful
As someone who HATES taking pain medication, I have to tell you that you’re off the rails with this. Please, reconsider this approach. Dilauded means you can be a present mom who is not in agony. You cannot function in pain; no one can. Use every tool you have - you deserve it, and so much more. ❤
Jenny, as a chronic pain suffer, I just want to add my voice to those that have said you need to stay ahead of the pain. It doesn’t work to wait until you’re in agony to take your pain medication. You need to take it on a regular cycle so that there’s always some in your system… That’s the only way to beat the pain! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. As always you remain in my prayers! 🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💜
Seeing you in pain breaks my heart. What’s causing the pain? The cancer (mass) or the chemo side affect? Loved watching Kyle interacting with your darling kids - you have the best husband. Does he work from home or on a leave of absence? I can’t remember. I hope the pain meds kick in so you have an enjoyable Christmas
Yep. Being behind it is what causes addiction. Chasing it tends to cause someone to take more than needed and over time the addiction begins. Staying on top of it tends to keep people at a low dosage.
Please take the dilauda.your system will adjust to the side effects. Letting pain go full throttle defeats the purpose. We hate to see you suffer. We ❤️❤️🌹 you ,you are such a good kind human Jenny and all your family Too. I get angry bc so many good people suffer too much .love from 🇨🇦 my son is forty,I still have his handprint craft from him.Ellis you are a cool boy and Winnie is a good kind girl. Wrapping you all in love
The moment Jenny was reading the little poem about Ellis’s handprints, and how one day he would have large hands, little prints on walls would be just a memory, it made me cry bc Jenny won’t be there. 😢. But her spirit will be, watching over them all ♥️
ourcorrect opinions (in an earlier comment) makes so much sense Jenny and as a nurse I see and recognise your desire to limit pain control for all the obvious reasons except using the medications will enrich your life and you don't have to been proud of yourself because you didn't take them. This isn't meant to sound harsh but I believe it to be truthful. I have seen people with similar disease taking huge amounts of opiates and been fine. Yes you want to avoid physical addiction but that is not the most important thing right now nor are you anywhere near that path. There are times when you need a little help from a chemical and your wonderful team is happy to provide it in their usual professional way and they know how to care for you the best. I love you Jenny yet we have never met. ❤
Need to keep a therapeutic level of pain meds on board and bump it for breakthrough pain. It makes no sense to be in unbearable pain. You are not a "normal" mom. You are an amazing, incredible mom.
Dear Jenny, others have already said this but I am speaking as a nurse and your pain control needs to be stepped up. You need to maintain at least a minimum blood level of the dilaudid. I’m certain your pain management team is telling you the same thing. It is also important to understand that you taking dilaudid is totally different than those without severe pain taking it. The pain “uses” the medication to ease pain and you will not feel strong affects from the strong medication. I hope that makes sense. Maintaining a blood level is so important in helping you live a better life and in turn that will help lessen the feelings you are having about not being there for you children. Those two just might be the cutest little ones I have ever seen and it is obvious they adore you and Kyle. They have more of a life with you than many children get to have with both of their parents. Most importantly, be prophylactic about the pain, enjoy your family and have a wonderful Christmas ❤️
As a nurse and consumer w/ a major medical diagnosis that involves pain, pls do not try to chase pain. You have to get up on top of it and hold it there. Just MHO.
I don’t have c but I do struggle with chronic pain and have had several major surgeries. 1. NEVER leave home without opiates! Even if you are feeling well, you have no idea how you will feel in 30 min. 2. Always use a cart (where available) for leaning on and stability. Places with a cart give me 100x more endurance than just walking around a mall which is extremely challenging.
Jenny, take the advice you are being given, take the pain medication, there is no need to suffer as you are, keep ahead of the pain, i nursed my mom thru her lung cancer and pain management was the most important part of her care. Big hugs.
Your friends here are giving you good advice. Pain medication helps your body relax and heal. Otherwise the pain is filling your body with stress and poison, it is fighting the pain and not the cancer. Sending you wishes for peace, health and rest. 💗
You need to use the scooter when walking outside the home. You are the mommy they have you can not go back to the past, negative thinking causes depression remember you need mommy time that’s what you tell your kids when the pain is uncontrollable and you need to rest. They will understand that. And take the pain killer regularly don’t let the pain get bad before you take the meds.
You are an amazing mother to your kids. You are dealing with real issues that you can't always hide. Remember you are teaching the kids empathy! Its a lesson that they are learning because of your journey. You are also teaching them perseverance, strength, compassion and giving them love. Don't ever forget your importance and how special you are. I understand your feelings as I was sick and in pain for so many years when my kids were growing up and I felt that they would only remember that. Well, they are kind compassionate adults now. Know you are right where you are meant to be for you and your family. Give yourself some love and know you are wonderful. Your family is so beautiful. You are so beautiful, inside and out.
Jenny, as a chronic pain sufferer, staying ahead of the pain is the #1 rule. Once your pain is bad, it's hard to play 'catch up.' I used to be like you, but I can tell you're hurting badly. Please just take the medication. Take care sweet Momma❤🎄💚
So much love to you Jenny, from me here in Scotland, with an incurable cancer and a lot of bone and nerve pain currently... I admire you SO much in every single way. One tip I have for you though, is that if ever there was a time in your life when you should use pain meds, it is NOW! I used to be just like you and hold off taking them. But over the last year I have learnt that actually it is FAR FAR more important, beneficial, useful, helpful to others (I have 4 children) and in every way a GOOD way forward, at this point, to USE these incredible pain meds that clever medical researchers have made for those of us in this position. So I encourage you to use more than ibuprofen to keep control of the pain. It will really help the quality of your life. You are amazing.
I totally understand. When my Father was in so much pain with cancer he didn’t want to take the medication either. The pain would get ahead of him and then it would take forever to kick in. Take the meds so you can have time to play with your children.
Hi Jenny, the pain could be fluid build up and you may need a lung tap. I have metastatic breast cancer to the lung. A lot of the systems you get, I used to get as well. I’ve had over 100 taps until had to get drain tubes so I can drain both lungs at home. 3yrs later, tubes are out, no more fluid ( thanks to meds). Keep the faith. You will have bad days that will make your good days a blessing!
Jenny please take the pain medication that you need to get rid of the pain. Pain is debilitating and doesn't allow you to live your life fully as you would like currently. So please just stop fighting it. I too hate taking medications of any sort but sometimes we just need to. Acceptance is key right now. I wish you a pain free better day tomorrow. Big hugs.
I add my voice to those saying you should not have to suffer. Your situation is exactly the reason these medications are manufactured. Let them help you.
Jenny, I am stage 4 metastatic breast cancer, I did not want to take pain medication either… but I found a solution, take the medicine, think quality of life❤️
nsaids can slow healing of wounds though, i think it depends on the kind of pain. like the pain from cancer definitely needs to be treated and stayed ahead of.
Yes i know how you feel pain takes it all out of you, but my pain NEVER goes away I cry 24/7 from severe pain. Try to distract myself by watching your lovely videos full of love, joy, and hope.
"Today's the morning of... I don't know." I felt that. I'm sorry you're in pain, and I understand the self-sabotage (putting off meds) due to fear. You will be okay. Remember how relieved you were finally seeing the pain doctor? Don't forget that and try not to stress about calling them. They'll find a good replacement for the celebrex. In the meantime, please take what you've got and make sure they're always accessible. You needn't be stranded in agony. ❤
Jenny, I have fibromyalgia, I know pain. I hate taking pain medication too BUT sometimes you have too. When the pain gets unbearable, it is very stressful. Please get ahead of the pain. Life is so hard for you right now, I know, but severe pain raises your heart rate, blood pressure, etc. No good. Take care sweetheart. ❤🎄❤🎄🌹🌹
Jenny, I understand your concern about pain medication. I use to be so scared about taking mine. My doctor gave Me oxycodine and and a pain patch. I cried about taking it but Jenny, it made me have my daily life back. Don't make yourself suffer, you will be okay.
Oh Jenny…. The timing of Ellis’ wonderful gift/s couldn’t have been more perfect after the copying game ‘moment’ with Winnie and your high pain day…. I burst out in tears; watching Ellis as he’s waiting for both of your reactions when you opened his card and gift…. He is a very special little guy - I’m thinking he gets this from his parents!!!…
I suffer from migraines and after the initial pain is gone, I feel 'hung over' also, so I understand. I'm so sorry. The gift was so nice and will serve as a reminder years from now ☺️. You are doing it Jenny. You are getting through each day, making memories and being present. Sometimes that's all we can do. You have such grace. Praying for you my friend.
Me too sherri.Migraines,literally everyday.Think mines hormone related.I read that estrogen dips at 11am and 5pm,exactly when mine start.Makes me feel so sick.On a lighter note,Merry christmas !!!xxxxx
Migraine sufferer, too!! They're so debilitating!! Barometric pressure & stress play a big part for me. I hold on to my meds because insurance only approves 12 tablets per month. That's not nearly enough. So, of course I won't take one until I have a full blown migraine. I'm so sorry that you're in such pain, Jenny. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take your pain meds before the pain gets unbearable. ❤❤❤❤❤
Jenny....overall you will have better results if you are not chasing pain. Coping with pain takes a lot of energy! You are a wonderful mother and have a beautiful family. Please be as kind and generous to yourself as you are to others. You are a lovely human being.
Please don’t be afraid to to take your pain meds, especially if your going somewhere. The pain will only get worse before it’s better that’s why pain control is important. It will help you be your best while conquering cancer. Your family is in my prayers. 🎄
Girl you need to take those meds! I know it isn’t easy and I truly do not know how you do it all! I could tell you felt horrible. Ellis…is such a sweet heart and I loved his card and gift, it brought tears to my eyes. You have such a sweet little family and I love watching the four of you. Get some rest and remember we all love you! Hope tomorrow is a easy day for you. Hugs, Sheri Clearwater, Fl
I was like this had a battle in my mind about pain medication until I realised I take other medication fine, so why would I be so against the pain meds , it’s ok to take the pain meds it’s valid its the same as anything else you take meds for you need it, my best advice is get on the pain preemptively and take it when you know it’s going down hill, it’s all a learning curve and you will get there
When you wait till the pain is bad enough that you cannot walk or function, you have waited too long. By the time you do decide to take pain med it has to fight through all the anxiety, the tenseness, the muscle contractions because of what the pain is doing to your body before it can even kick in to relieve the pain. You don’t have to take a whole dose take a half a dose ,you are not helping yourself getting to this stage of pain. I am a retired RN and am commenting related to patient care experience .
As a mother, (I'm now a Mimi) but we all know what was going through precious Jenny's mind. I know we aren't supposed to ask why. But geez its hard. Fly high Jenny. You are pain free and watching over us all
Hi Jenny. Please don't suffer the pain when you have the meds to take care of it. You will be exhausted because severe pain is exhausting. You are so blessed with your gorgeous husband and adorable children. Ellis is such a sweetheart. He reminds me of my middle son. He's 44 and still the kindest son a woman could have. See you tomorrow....and take the meds...please x
Jenny, I know exactly what you mean about the post pain fatigue. I have an autoimmune illness that affects every bone, muscle and nerve in my body and 8 weeks ago I gave birth to my first baby, so all through my pregnancy I didn’t touch painkillers at all. But now, I take a dose every few hours and I truly cope. Now - my mom is a palliative care nurse (not to be confused with hospice ok?) and she told me that YOU need to be on regular pain medication at this time in your life and that a lower dose is achievable when the medication is taken regularly. It keeps your blood serum level stable! Right now you have no stability with pain on and off. My mom meant this kindly because she gets to see this a lot and says it’s so unnecessary. She also said it can’t hurt to speak to your doctor about the pain and where it’s located. Anyway, that aside you vlog was beautiful…and what a gorgeous baby the little one is 🥰. Sending love and prayers to you and your family 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Dear sweet Jenny I echo everything that has been advised from all the other followers, please please please take your pain medicine regularly so that you are not going to have such severe episode. Your body needs to be pain free so that you can keep strong. Sending hugs and prayers.
Ellis's sweet Christmas gift to his mom and dad will be treasured for years to come. That little boy has a heart of gold just like his parents.The poem is beautiful! I concur with others saying to keeping on top of your pain is very important.Take meds at regular intervals before it becomes unbearable. You guys rocked the dancing segment in the store aisles! Ellis and Winnie has the coolest parents! Love and blessings from Canada.
Joining the echo chamber of people saying to stay ahead of your pain. I am the same way!!! I also did it with the anti nausea meds until I quickly learned. I hope you feel better so soon ❤
Hi Jenny , I understand your views on pain medication, but as someone who worked with people like yourself , we always encouraged them to take pain relief as soon as the pain started that way it would ease sooner, the longer you leave it the longer it takes to reduce your symptoms. You are an excellent Mum. 😘
Jenny, so sorry for the pain you are enduring. Don't be afraid to take those pain meds. Ellis's Xmas gifts were amazing! What a sweet boy! You are great parents. Wishing yall a very Merry Christmas! Prayers that you feel your best over the Holiday weekend. Enjoy your family.
Jenny, when you go out and you have pain take your stick with you in the car, and do the pressure thing while Kyle is driving..Also if you ahead of time that you are going out shopping or what not, take your strong medicine a couple hours ahead of time so you can enjoy what ever your doing.. Also Jenny document everytime you get those pain flair ups, maybe it has Todo with the liquid in your lungs, so you might have to go and get them drained soon.. That hand print is so cool put it up in your living room so you can see it everyday it is so cute such a neat idea.
My dear Jenny. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Please, please treat your pain properly. It will change your quality of life. You will be able to be more present and enjoy your experiences with those you love. It doesn’t have to be forever. And it’s not a sign of weakness or anything else bad like that. It’s crucial for your well-being. Sending you all the love and strength in the world. I’ve said it before. I suffer from severe Rheumatoid Arthritis. Treating pain long before it’s a 10. Is so important. It’s so much better for your body. Pain stops our bodies ability to heal. Our bodies can’t do anything else when pain levels are high. Look at it as self love. I see clearly pain is a massive issue for you at the moment. From the outside looking in. You are fighting it. Fighting accepting the relief. I truly feel like you need to re think the way you view pain control. You are suffering. ❤❤❤
When you read the poem on the back of the tile, I 😢 so unexpectedly. My “boys” are in their early 40s. I cannot believe how fast the years have gone by. Hugs and prayers from Alaska, Jenny and fam! Merry Christmas!
You may not realize it but the old you is there still, I am too stubborn about pain relief but sometimes needs must. I hate to think of you in pain it makes me sad, i saw how my friend suffered in pain, and some days she wasn't able to do things your children and Kyle love you so much as do we. wish I could give you a hug. but always know we fight this with you always lots of love beautiful family Julie from England. xxx
I cried with you when you opened Ellis' hand print and read his sweet little poem. What a precious gift. My children are now in their 20s & I still have their hand prints displayed proudly. I'm praying for you & your family. I hope you can get some pain relief. 🙏
Hey Jenny, I support people who have cancer and other types of issues where they get that kind of gnawing, solar plexus pain. I LOVE that you have one of those back hooks. They are miracles. I wanted to jump in to tell you that the pain can just be there and doesn't have to mean something bad is happening. I mean yes, the pain is bad enough in and of itself, but it doesn't mean your treatment isn't working or that anything is getting worse. Sometimes the trauma you experience can compound with the physical symptoms, add to that this busy time of year and being a busy mom and it really can add up. You are great at listening to your body. Also, I started crying before you did, because I saw that writing on the back of the palm-print and knew what was coming, having seen a few of those. Bless you all. You did such a great job in that moment. You are doing "it right". I wanted to say that to you as a woman who works with other women who sometimes have bad days. You ARE progressing in a positive way and pain-well, it's just something that will ride with you here and there. Sometimes without rhyme or reason. Breathe, stay kind to yourself and be gentle to you. You are all those things to everyone else. Sending love from England, even though I'm just a California girl. Mwahs! XOXO
Jenny don't get discouraged you're a great mom. The proof of that is you're kids are amazing. I know cancer is bear, I'm a cancer survivor. The clinical trials will help you. Cancer research has come a long way. Hang in there Jenny I'm praying for you.
You don’t have to ruin your day by letting pain rule it. I’d be a jump ahead of it so I can enjoy the day with family ( and they too). Pain affects healing. It is thst important that it is included in patients’ vital signs assessment.
Jenny, please take your pain meds don't be scared. It is no good and unnecessary for you to feel the pain that you are dealing with. Remember that your family wants to see you in good spirits because they are going through this hard time with you too. I hope you take my advice and trust that everything will be ok. God bless you and yours through this journey.
I suffer from chronic pain and take a pill box with pain meds inside. That way I always have something with me. Please don’t wait till your pain is out of control to take meds. Much harder to get in check. You are fantastic with your family and they love you so much. ❤️🙏
It is vital for recovery being as calm and relaxed as you can. When you are stressed (not only mentally but physically - pain - too) your body is flooded with cortisol and adrenaline. These and other hormones then supress your immunity and the body is in constant fight or flight mode. It is very productive to stay on top of your pain so your body doesn't have to go thru that stress. If it is of course possible - I know that for some people could be impossible to control their pain, but please if it is possible for you, give your amazing body the best chances to heal. Maybe your pain doctor can up your doses or try new things. And a lot of kids would give anything to have such an amazing mom as you are. Wish you and your family the best from Czechia 🇨🇿💖
I'm a chronic pain patient and I find that diaudid has a very quick pain relief period... it wears off way too fast! Ask for an extended release med. I am so sorry you're in pain.
OMG, it never ends with the "evenening out" for the kids. Mine are 40 and 32 and the other day I was going through what I bought and I had more for one than the other - off I went trudging through the snow to even things out! You do such an amazing job of being a mom while going through what you are going through!!! Your smile could light up every room you walk into. Keep on fighting and maybe the trial you are on will be a game changer for you and many others!! Merry Christmas.
Sweet Jenny pain medication is for people like you. I can say this as a retired registered nurse. You need a steady level in your system and your quality of life would be better. I pray for a miracle 🙏 God bless
Don't worry about the kids...concentrate on yourself and take the painkillers. Of all the people that need them you definitely deserve to be pain free. The kids will understand as they get older and I think that they already do.
I live with pain everyday. Not like yours. But it does exhaust you. If I have a bad day it take two to recover. I totally understand how you dont want to take strong pain meds as I am the same. But every now and then I need a break so take them to have a rest from pain. You are living a tough journey, not only with your cancer journey but also raising two young children. Be proud. You are amazing. Love to your whole family at Christmas time xx
You are such a warrior. You may feel vulnerable as you walk this journey, but most of us that have dealt with pain and illness over an extended period understand the exhausting effects it has on our bodies and minds. Your bravery in managing your pain as you do is commendable! I don't believe I have ever met anyone with such unrelenting determination to soldier through as you do. I am in awe of your strength and grace as you bravely carry on! We may never understand why God has chosen to allow certain things into our lives. I believe as we walk through this life we are entrusted by Him (the Lord God) to be examples for others. Just as Christ chose His Disiples, they too were just ordinary people, who because of their faith in Jesus Christ, changed not only the lives of the people of their day but the lives of generations until He calls His people Home. Never forget what a privilege it is to be used of God. It may not be easy, but He knows you and He knows your heart. You are perfect for His Work. You are are doing something so extraordinary in being His Plan. Although my journey with cancer is in 10yrs. 7months of remission, the blogging of your journey has been such a blessing to my life. Have you even given thought to the hundreds of thousands or millions of people's lives that you have touched? Not only for the ill, but those who have yet to be stricken/diagnosed and the people who love them?!!! Your husband has been entrusted as well and so have your precious babies 💕 . Although difficult, this is something that builds their character so they too will be brave and strong in love and understanding. My mom always said "good things come from bad things," she too suffered through cancer just as my brother and I have. I have such a testimony of God's love because He chose me too. I never felt punished, only loved and trusted by the Lord. Yes! You are so beautifully strong and vulnerable. Thank you for the selfless ministry, (if you will) that you share with the world. I "see" you. I appreciate you and this journey you are going through. Wishing you and your family a Merry CHRISTmas and trusting that the New Year holds all the joy and love you and your family can enjoy!
I'm sure they have told you (a thousand times) to take the pain relief before the pain starts and keep ahead of it ! I'm really bad at doing this too but I am getting better . You probably like me resent having to take it in the first place. Today not too bad for me but I hope you having a good day and that our Jenny gets over the pain hump soon. X Jan 👵🇬🇧
Jenny, please carry some of the strong medicine in your purse or in the car so you have it while you’re out and about. So sorry you’re going through this! Stay on top of it. When you feel it coming on, take the medicine!
Being a little out of it and not in pain is probably better for you, but also so your babies don’t have to see you in such pain. Do it for them if you can’t for yourself. They would rather have you a bit out of it than seeing you in pain for hours trying to get back ahead of your pain. Also the more you take your pain medicine the less loopy you will feel. You NEED to take your medicine. Trust your doctor. Take care of yourself and that means not letting your pain get that bad. ❤
Can I just say, I LOVE the way he made the snowman! Soooo cute! You two are awesome parents! Your reactions made my heart smile for you all and all the while you had such difficulties with pain. . . . Mama you are amazing!
I am rewatching some of Jenny’s videos, thinking about how frustrating it must have been for her pain management clinic for her not wanting to take her pain medication. Professionals in the comment section would tell her, you have to stay on top of your pain, you can’t play catch up. She knows she is ok with the dilauded, no bad side effects but yet she still wouldn’t take it.
Hello dear Jenny, I’m a chronic pain sufferer And I don’t like to take meds but when it gets bad you need to take whatever works because pain is so depressing as well as painful. I pray for you every day and your wonderful family. Aloha
You both had me in tears 😭 seeing how much you show your appreciation and excitement over the gift he made you. Jenny when you welled up in tears over the poem on the back of the handprint I started to well up too!! I personally don't have any children of my own but I was my nephew's nanny when he was a baby and while he was growing up. I saw his little handprints on walls and floors while he was learning to crawl and lift himself up trying to stand. He's now 22 yrs old and I miss those early years so much! Kyle and Jenny I also want to thank you for being your authentic silly selves!! Please don't ever change cuz I think the world could use alot more silly people 😋😜🤪🤨
I work with cancer patients to help with pain management. Some choose to forego strong pain meds to be alert and others choose to be as pain free as possible even if that means being sleepy/sedated. So I get that you want to be all there when you go out or spend time with family and friends. The only right answer to pain management is what you want and works for you. You and your team will figure it out day by day. Glad you worked through it and felt better♥️
Oh how i wish and earn to be a good of a mom as you are. Your patience and honesty and kindness. How many of us take life for granted and lose our temper with the kids, treat them with indifference to be on our phones, etc.? You are a super hero. Can you imagine how proud your kids are of you? Always know they wouldn’t doubt for ONE second you’re the best mom in the world to them.
So many horrible drivers in SoCal. Its unreal. Here in LA it's ridiculous. I'm a barista at Starbucks in a busy market. I would have totally gotten flustered. Kyle probably made them giggle. I totally understand random pain with my Microscopic Colitis. Out of nowhere I'll get terrible belly pain. It's the worst. My pain tool next to medicine is my heating pad. God, please alleviate Jenny's pain so she may enjoy Christmas with her wonderful family. Kyle doing the voice of your baby nephew was so hysterical! Thanks for the laughs! Ellis's gift to you is so heartwarming. I love your loving reaction to it!
Awesome gift for your parents, Ellis! They will keep them forever. Jenny you need to take your pain meds on a regular basis to keep them even in your blood stream. Merry Christmas and a very happy, healthy 2023!!!!!
Hi Jenny and all. I agree with staying ahead of the pain. For me at times it was psychological (if I took the pain meds I must be worse)- but this is actually not the case since they are flare ups. At one crucial point I quickly understood that when my pain got so bad no pain med by mouth would even put a dent in it. So I know it doesn’t mask getting worse. The pain med is to ease off flare episodes because our body also unconsciously tenses with pain and this can make it worse and last longer. It’s a vicious cycle which is why when the pain finally eases off we feel as if we’ve been in a fight almost. My humble suggestion is to at least take half of your pain med so that it helps to at least relax your body if you can’t bring yourself to take a full dose. Best wishes!
Awww… I think that’s one of the sweetest videos. That one made me cry.
Ellis is so plugged in to everyone’s feelings.
He is a true empath.
A gentle soul. ♥️
@@Lt.852 that little boy is going to be such a compassionate doctor, helper of some kind, the goodness shines from him, always has
Jenny, you're a bit stubborn about pain medication (I mean this as someone who's the same way), but knowing when to nip it in the bud is so important and *you will get the hang of it.* It hasn't been that long since your pain appointment, so you're still very new at this. Be kinder to yourself and understand your children couldn't have a better mum in the world than you. Maybe the "old you" is someone you yearn for, but who you are right now is more than enough. Any child would be lucky to have you as a parent, and your children know it too. Feel better, love. 🍏
Beautiful post, and so true.
@@syrup1203, it sure is beautiful. I’m praying for you and your beautiful family. Love you guys and I love and miss you my sweet syrup. I hope you are doing fine and your headaches are doing better. Hugs and kisses 🌸💕
Perfectly stated. ❤
Well said
Yes. Such an amazing mom!!
I miss you so much Jenny, but I am so thankful you will never have to be sick, have chemo, be worried, or have radiation ever again. My prayers continue for Kyle and your children as they push forward without you. 🙏🏼🤍🙏🏼
No more pain for you beautiful Jenny. Ellis is so precious. He is the quieter of the two kids, and River is such a bonny baby. RIP Jenny🇦🇺🩵💜🩷
My mom had MS and suffered major depression due to having four young kids and no way to care for us alone. I often told her I’d rather have a sick mom than no mom. She said it helped her through those moments.
That is so lovely for your mum to hear. She must feel blessed having you.
So true.
My girlfriend has MS but seems ok. What kind of symptoms did she have?
@@mindy9061 this started back in the 70’s in one day she went blind and lost control of her bladder. That lasted six months. Her eyesight came back. For the rest of her life she went in and out of remission with the last 15 years of her life being wheelchair bound and incontinent. Years of catheter usage wrecked havoc on her kidneys with constant kidney infections until they had zero antibiotics left and she died of blood sepsis. So much has changed in what is known about MS…stress can really set things on a negative course
@@suzique6924 so sorry to read that 😢 MS can affect people in so many different ways, some have very mild symptoms their whole life and others severe symptoms. There are so many new meds now that are very helpful
As someone who HATES taking pain medication, I have to tell you that you’re off the rails with this.
Please, reconsider this approach.
Dilauded means you can be a present mom who is not in agony.
You cannot function in pain; no one can.
Use every tool you have - you deserve it, and so much more. ❤
Jenny, as a chronic pain suffer, I just want to add my voice to those that have said you need to stay ahead of the pain. It doesn’t work to wait until you’re in agony to take your pain medication. You need to take it on a regular cycle so that there’s always some in your system… That’s the only way to beat the pain! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. As always you remain in my prayers! 🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💜
I came to say the same thing.
Seeing you in pain breaks my heart. What’s causing the pain? The cancer (mass) or the chemo side affect? Loved watching Kyle interacting with your darling kids - you have the best husband. Does he work from home or on a leave of absence? I can’t remember. I hope the pain meds kick in so you have an enjoyable Christmas
Yep. Being behind it is what causes addiction. Chasing it tends to cause someone to take more than needed and over time the addiction begins. Staying on top of it tends to keep people at a low dosage.
Please take the dilauda.your system will adjust to the side effects. Letting pain go full throttle defeats the purpose. We hate to see you suffer. We ❤️❤️🌹 you ,you are such a good kind human Jenny and all your family Too. I get angry bc so many good people suffer too much .love from 🇨🇦 my son is forty,I still have his handprint craft from him.Ellis you are a cool boy and Winnie is a good kind girl. Wrapping you all in love
Oh Jenny your not a failure take whatever they give u for pain take it please if you're not in pain your life will be better Lesley
Pain is a monster, staying ahead of it is so much better than waiting until it's so bad that nothing works 😘😘
That is the key. Don't be afraid of pain meds. God made it.
I agree!
I came to say the same thing. As a chronic pain person myself I used to do the same and realize I have to take it to stay on top if it.
Definitely
Yep, chasing pain is what can cause addiction. They tend to take more then needed over time. I wish she understood that.
HIS HAND PRINT😭😭😭😭😭JENNY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH ELLIS YOUR A SPECIAL LITTLE BOY SO SWEET☺️❤️
I love Kyle's sense of humor and he is such a great father and husband! Your little family is a light in this dark dark world 🙏
The moment Jenny was reading the little poem about Ellis’s handprints, and how one day he would have large hands, little prints on walls would be just a memory, it made me cry bc Jenny won’t be there. 😢. But her spirit will be, watching over them all ♥️
ourcorrect opinions (in an earlier comment) makes so much sense Jenny and as a nurse I see and recognise your desire to limit pain control for all the obvious reasons except using the medications will enrich your life and you don't have to been proud of yourself because you didn't take them. This isn't meant to sound harsh but I believe it to be truthful. I have seen people with similar disease taking huge amounts of opiates and been fine. Yes you want to avoid physical addiction but that is not the most important thing right now nor are you anywhere near that path. There are times when you need a little help from a chemical and your wonderful team is happy to provide it in their usual professional way and they know how to care for you the best. I love you Jenny yet we have never met. ❤
Need to keep a therapeutic level of pain meds on board and bump it for breakthrough pain. It makes no sense to be in unbearable pain. You are not a "normal" mom. You are an amazing, incredible mom.
Dear Jenny, others have already said this but I am speaking as a nurse and your pain control needs to be stepped up. You need to maintain at least a minimum blood level of the dilaudid. I’m certain your pain management team is telling you the same thing. It is also important to understand that you taking dilaudid is totally different than those without severe pain taking it. The pain “uses” the medication to ease pain and you will not feel strong affects from the strong medication. I hope that makes sense. Maintaining a blood level is so important in helping you live a better life and in turn that will help lessen the feelings you are having about not being there for you children. Those two just might be the cutest little ones I have ever seen and it is obvious they adore you and Kyle. They have more of a life with you than many children get to have with both of their parents. Most importantly, be prophylactic about the pain, enjoy your family and have a wonderful Christmas ❤️
As a nurse and consumer w/ a major medical diagnosis that involves pain, pls do not try to chase pain. You have to get up on top of it and hold it there. Just MHO.
AGREED!!!
I don’t have c but I do struggle with chronic pain and have had several major surgeries.
1. NEVER leave home without opiates! Even if you are feeling well, you have no idea how you will feel in 30 min.
2. Always use a cart (where available) for leaning on and stability. Places with a cart give me 100x more endurance than just walking around a mall which is extremely challenging.
Jenny, take the advice you are being given, take the pain medication, there is no need to suffer as you are, keep ahead of the pain, i nursed my mom thru her lung cancer and pain management was the most important part of her care. Big hugs.
Your friends here are giving you good advice. Pain medication helps your body relax and heal. Otherwise the pain is filling your body with stress and poison, it is fighting the pain and not the cancer. Sending you wishes for peace, health and rest. 💗
You need to use the scooter when walking outside the home. You are the mommy they have you can not go back to the past, negative thinking causes depression remember you need mommy time that’s what you tell your kids when the pain is uncontrollable and you need to rest. They will understand that. And take the pain killer regularly don’t let the pain get bad before you take the meds.
You are an amazing mother to your kids. You are dealing with real issues that you can't always hide. Remember you are teaching the kids empathy! Its a lesson that they are learning because of your journey. You are also teaching them perseverance, strength, compassion and giving them love. Don't ever forget your importance and how special you are. I understand your feelings as I was sick and in pain for so many years when my kids were growing up and I felt that they would only remember that. Well, they are kind compassionate adults now. Know you are right where you are meant to be for you and your family. Give yourself some love and know you are wonderful. Your family is so beautiful. You are so beautiful, inside and out.
Jenny, as a chronic pain sufferer, staying ahead of the pain is the #1 rule. Once your pain is bad, it's hard to play 'catch up.' I used to be like you, but I can tell you're hurting badly. Please just take the medication. Take care sweet Momma❤🎄💚
You have the best husband. He is funny, loving and a beautiful human being. The kids are adorable too.
So much love to you Jenny, from me here in Scotland, with an incurable cancer and a lot of bone and nerve pain currently... I admire you SO much in every single way. One tip I have for you though, is that if ever there was a time in your life when you should use pain meds, it is NOW! I used to be just like you and hold off taking them. But over the last year I have learnt that actually it is FAR FAR more important, beneficial, useful, helpful to others (I have 4 children) and in every way a GOOD way forward, at this point, to USE these incredible pain meds that clever medical researchers have made for those of us in this position. So I encourage you to use more than ibuprofen to keep control of the pain. It will really help the quality of your life. You are amazing.
Praying for you 🙏
@@kimkelly9046 thank you - this means a lot.
All the best dear ❤️ prayers all the way
I totally understand. When my Father was in so much pain with cancer he didn’t want to take the medication either. The pain would get ahead of him and then it would take forever to kick in. Take the meds so you can have time to play with your children.
The tile Christmas gift from Ellis is so special! What a great idea. Your family is so sweet. Jenny, I'm praying for you and your family.
Hi Jenny, the pain could be fluid build up and you may need a lung tap. I have metastatic breast cancer to the lung. A lot of the systems you get, I used to get as well. I’ve had over 100 taps until had to get drain tubes so I can drain both lungs at home. 3yrs later, tubes are out, no more fluid ( thanks to meds). Keep the faith. You will have bad days that will make your good days a blessing!
Jenny please take the pain medication that you need to get rid of the pain. Pain is debilitating and doesn't allow you to live your life fully as you would like currently. So please just stop fighting it. I too hate taking medications of any sort but sometimes we just need to. Acceptance is key right now. I wish you a pain free better day tomorrow. Big hugs.
I add my voice to those saying you should not have to suffer. Your situation is exactly the reason these medications are manufactured. Let them help you.
There's so much love in this home. Greetings from Brussels, Belgium.
I believe you would enjoy your company more w/ the stronger pain relief.
Jenny, I am stage 4 metastatic breast cancer, I did not want to take pain medication either… but I found a solution, take the medicine, think quality of life❤️
What a heart melting moment to see Kyle feeding and playing with River♥
My sister is an RN. Has always told me stay ahead of the pain. It’s part of healing.
nsaids can slow healing of wounds though, i think it depends on the kind of pain. like the pain from cancer definitely needs to be treated and stayed ahead of.
Yes i know how you feel pain takes it all out of you, but my pain NEVER goes away I cry 24/7 from severe pain. Try to distract myself by watching your lovely videos full of love, joy, and hope.
"Today's the morning of... I don't know." I felt that. I'm sorry you're in pain, and I understand the self-sabotage (putting off meds) due to fear. You will be okay. Remember how relieved you were finally seeing the pain doctor? Don't forget that and try not to stress about calling them. They'll find a good replacement for the celebrex. In the meantime, please take what you've got and make sure they're always accessible. You needn't be stranded in agony. ❤
You need to take your pain medicine regularly, to manage it, not wait until your pain is out of control.
Jenny, I have fibromyalgia, I know pain. I hate taking pain medication too BUT sometimes you have too. When the pain gets unbearable, it is very stressful. Please get ahead of the pain. Life is so hard for you right now, I know, but severe pain raises your heart rate, blood pressure, etc. No good. Take care sweetheart. ❤🎄❤🎄🌹🌹
Jenny, I understand your concern about pain medication. I use to be so scared about taking mine. My doctor gave Me oxycodine and and a pain patch. I cried about taking it but Jenny, it made me have my daily life back. Don't make yourself suffer, you will be okay.
Oh Jenny…. The timing of Ellis’ wonderful gift/s couldn’t have been more perfect after the copying game ‘moment’ with Winnie and your high pain day…. I burst out in tears; watching Ellis as he’s waiting for both of your reactions when you opened his card and gift…. He is a very special little guy - I’m thinking he gets this from his parents!!!…
I suffer from migraines and after the initial pain is gone, I feel 'hung over' also, so I understand. I'm so sorry. The gift was so nice and will serve as a reminder years from now ☺️. You are doing it Jenny. You are getting through each day, making memories and being present. Sometimes that's all we can do. You have such grace. Praying for you my friend.
Me too sherri.Migraines,literally everyday.Think mines hormone related.I read that estrogen dips at 11am and 5pm,exactly when mine start.Makes me feel so sick.On a lighter note,Merry christmas !!!xxxxx
Migraine sufferer, too!! They're so debilitating!! Barometric pressure & stress play a big part for me. I hold on to my meds because insurance only approves 12 tablets per month. That's not nearly enough. So, of course I won't take one until I have a full blown migraine. I'm so sorry that you're in such pain, Jenny. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take your pain meds before the pain gets unbearable. ❤❤❤❤❤
Jenny....overall you will have better results if you are not chasing pain. Coping with pain takes a lot of energy! You are a wonderful mother and have a beautiful family. Please be as kind and generous to yourself as you are to others. You are a lovely human being.
So glad you made it through the pain ❤ those gifts from your little man were the sweetest!
Please don’t be afraid to to take your pain meds, especially if your going somewhere. The pain will only get worse before it’s better that’s why pain control is important. It will help you be your best while conquering cancer. Your family is in my prayers. 🎄
Girl you need to take those meds! I know it isn’t easy and I truly do not know how you do it all! I could tell you felt horrible. Ellis…is such a sweet heart and I loved his card and gift, it brought tears to my eyes. You have such a sweet little family and I love watching the four of you. Get some rest and remember we all love you!
Hope tomorrow is a easy day for you. Hugs, Sheri Clearwater, Fl
Always keep some meds with you at all times
I was like this had a battle in my mind about pain medication until I realised I take other medication fine, so why would I be so against the pain meds , it’s ok to take the pain meds it’s valid its the same as anything else you take meds for you need it, my best advice is get on the pain preemptively and take it when you know it’s going down hill, it’s all a learning curve and you will get there
When you wait till the pain is bad enough that you cannot walk or function, you have waited too long. By the time you do decide to take pain med it has to fight through all the anxiety, the tenseness, the muscle contractions because of what the pain is doing to your body before it can even kick in to relieve the pain. You don’t have to take a whole dose take a half a dose ,you are not helping yourself getting to this stage of pain. I am a retired RN and am commenting related to patient care experience .
As a mother, (I'm now a Mimi) but we all know what was going through precious Jenny's mind. I know we aren't supposed to ask why. But geez its hard. Fly high Jenny. You are pain free and watching over us all
Hi Jenny. Please don't suffer the pain when you have the meds to take care of it. You will be exhausted because severe pain is exhausting. You are so blessed with your gorgeous husband and adorable children. Ellis is such a sweetheart. He reminds me of my middle son. He's 44 and still the kindest son a woman could have. See you tomorrow....and take the meds...please x
Jenny, I know exactly what you mean about the post pain fatigue. I have an autoimmune illness that affects every bone, muscle and nerve in my body and 8 weeks ago I gave birth to my first baby, so all through my pregnancy I didn’t touch painkillers at all. But now, I take a dose every few hours and I truly cope. Now - my mom is a palliative care nurse (not to be confused with hospice ok?) and she told me that YOU need to be on regular pain medication at this time in your life and that a lower dose is achievable when the medication is taken regularly. It keeps your blood serum level stable! Right now you have no stability with pain on and off. My mom meant this kindly because she gets to see this a lot and says it’s so unnecessary. She also said it can’t hurt to speak to your doctor about the pain and where it’s located. Anyway, that aside you vlog was beautiful…and what a gorgeous baby the little one is 🥰. Sending love and prayers to you and your family 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Dear sweet Jenny I echo everything that has been advised from all the other followers, please please please take your pain medicine regularly so that you are not going to have such severe episode. Your body needs to be pain free so that you can keep strong. Sending hugs and prayers.
Ellis's sweet Christmas gift to his mom and dad will be treasured for years to come. That little boy
has a heart of gold just like his parents.The poem is beautiful!
I concur with others saying to keeping on top of your pain is very important.Take meds at regular intervals before
it becomes unbearable.
You guys rocked the dancing segment in the store aisles! Ellis and Winnie has the coolest parents!
Love and blessings from Canada.
Dear God I ask that you bless and heal your beautiful daughter,take away the cancer and all pain now in your name Amen.
Jenny, you look so good!
Joining the echo chamber of people saying to stay ahead of your pain. I am the same way!!! I also did it with the anti nausea meds until I quickly learned. I hope you feel better so soon ❤
Hi Jenny , I understand your views on pain medication, but as someone who worked with people like yourself , we always encouraged them to take pain relief as soon as the pain started that way it would ease sooner, the longer you leave it the longer it takes to reduce your symptoms. You are an excellent Mum. 😘
Jenny, so sorry for the pain you are enduring. Don't be afraid to take those pain meds. Ellis's Xmas gifts were amazing! What a sweet boy! You are great parents.
Wishing yall a very Merry Christmas! Prayers that you feel your best over the Holiday weekend. Enjoy your family.
Jenny, when you go out and you have pain take your stick with you in the car, and do the pressure thing while Kyle is driving..Also if you ahead of time that you are going out shopping or what not, take your strong medicine a couple hours ahead of time so you can enjoy what ever your doing..
Also Jenny document everytime you get those pain flair ups, maybe it has Todo with the liquid in your lungs, so you might have to go and get them drained soon..
That hand print is so cool put it up in your living room so you can see it everyday it is so cute such a neat idea.
Can't believe how strong you are!!! Ellis's presents made me ugly-cry!!!
My dear Jenny. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Please, please treat your pain properly.
It will change your quality of life. You will be able to be more present and enjoy your experiences with those you love. It doesn’t have to be forever. And it’s not a sign of weakness or anything else bad like that. It’s crucial for your well-being. Sending you all the love and strength in the world.
I’ve said it before. I suffer from severe Rheumatoid Arthritis. Treating pain long before it’s a 10.
Is so important. It’s so much better for your body. Pain stops our bodies ability to heal. Our bodies can’t do anything else when pain levels are high.
Look at it as self love. I see clearly pain is a massive issue for you at the moment.
From the outside looking in. You are fighting it. Fighting accepting the relief.
I truly feel like you need to re think the way you view pain control. You are suffering. ❤❤❤
When you read the poem on the back of the tile, I 😢 so unexpectedly. My “boys” are in their early 40s. I cannot believe how fast the years have gone by. Hugs and prayers from Alaska, Jenny and fam! Merry Christmas!
You may not realize it but the old you is there still, I am too stubborn about pain relief but sometimes needs must. I hate to think of you in pain it makes me sad, i saw how my friend suffered in pain, and some days she wasn't able to do things your children and Kyle love you so much as do we. wish I could give you a hug. but always know we fight this with you always lots of love beautiful family Julie from England. xxx
I cried with you when you opened Ellis' hand print and read his sweet little poem. What a precious gift. My children are now in their 20s & I still have their hand prints displayed proudly. I'm praying for you & your family. I hope you can get some pain relief. 🙏
Kyle, we need more good men like you buddy
Hey Jenny, I support people who have cancer and other types of issues where they get that kind of gnawing, solar plexus pain. I LOVE that you have one of those back hooks. They are miracles. I wanted to jump in to tell you that the pain can just be there and doesn't have to mean something bad is happening. I mean yes, the pain is bad enough in and of itself, but it doesn't mean your treatment isn't working or that anything is getting worse. Sometimes the trauma you experience can compound with the physical symptoms, add to that this busy time of year and being a busy mom and it really can add up. You are great at listening to your body. Also, I started crying before you did, because I saw that writing on the back of the palm-print and knew what was coming, having seen a few of those. Bless you all. You did such a great job in that moment. You are doing "it right". I wanted to say that to you as a woman who works with other women who sometimes have bad days. You ARE progressing in a positive way and pain-well, it's just something that will ride with you here and there. Sometimes without rhyme or reason. Breathe, stay kind to yourself and be gentle to you. You are all those things to everyone else. Sending love from England, even though I'm just a California girl. Mwahs! XOXO
Jenny don't get discouraged you're a great mom. The proof of that is you're kids are amazing. I know cancer is bear, I'm a cancer survivor. The clinical trials will help you. Cancer research has come a long way. Hang in there Jenny I'm praying for you.
You don’t have to ruin your day by letting pain rule it. I’d be a jump ahead of it so I can enjoy the day with family ( and they too). Pain affects healing. It is thst important that it is included in patients’ vital signs assessment.
Jenny, please take your pain meds don't be scared. It is no good and unnecessary for you to feel the pain that you are dealing with. Remember that your family wants to see you in good spirits because they are going through this hard time with you too. I hope you take my advice and trust that everything will be ok. God bless you and yours through this journey.
I suffer from chronic pain and take a pill box with pain meds inside. That way I always have something with me. Please don’t wait till your pain is out of control to take meds. Much harder to get in check. You are fantastic with your family and they love you so much. ❤️🙏
It is vital for recovery being as calm and relaxed as you can. When you are stressed (not only mentally but physically - pain - too) your body is flooded with cortisol and adrenaline. These and other hormones then supress your immunity and the body is in constant fight or flight mode. It is very productive to stay on top of your pain so your body doesn't have to go thru that stress. If it is of course possible - I know that for some people could be impossible to control their pain, but please if it is possible for you, give your amazing body the best chances to heal. Maybe your pain doctor can up your doses or try new things.
And a lot of kids would give anything to have such an amazing mom as you are. Wish you and your family the best from Czechia 🇨🇿💖
Oh Jenny. So terribly hard for you to bear. We are all sending love and prayers.
I'm a chronic pain patient and I find that diaudid has a very quick pain relief period... it wears off way too fast! Ask for an extended release med. I am so sorry you're in pain.
OMG, it never ends with the "evenening out" for the kids. Mine are 40 and 32 and the other day I was going through what I bought and I had more for one than the other - off I went trudging through the snow to even things out! You do such an amazing job of being a mom while going through what you are going through!!! Your smile could light up every room you walk into. Keep on fighting and maybe the trial you are on will be a game changer for you and many others!! Merry Christmas.
Sweet Jenny pain medication is for people like you. I can say this as a retired registered nurse. You need a steady level in your system and your quality of life would be better. I pray for a miracle 🙏 God bless
Oh Jenny. I’m so sorry for your pain. There’s nothing worse than severe pain. Bless and hugs. ❤
Don't worry about the kids...concentrate on yourself and take the painkillers. Of all the people that need them you definitely deserve to be pain free. The kids will understand as they get older and I think that they already do.
Ellis is such a lovely little boy you guys clearly make him feel so special, wishing you a rest restful sleep :)
Sweet Jenny, you are so brave. Please take whatever will release you from your pain. You are in my heart.
River is the cure for all pain ❤ What a little angel.
I live with pain everyday. Not like yours. But it does exhaust you. If I have a bad day it take two to recover. I totally understand how you dont want to take strong pain meds as I am the same. But every now and then I need a break so take them to have a rest from pain. You are living a tough journey, not only with your cancer journey but also raising two young children. Be proud. You are amazing. Love to your whole family at Christmas time xx
You are such a warrior. You may feel vulnerable as you walk this journey, but most of us that have dealt with pain and illness over an extended period understand the exhausting effects it has on our bodies and minds. Your bravery in managing your pain as you do is commendable! I don't believe I have ever met anyone with such unrelenting determination to soldier through as you do. I am in awe of your strength and grace as you bravely carry on!
We may never understand why God has chosen to allow certain things into our lives. I believe as we walk through this life we are entrusted by Him (the Lord God) to be examples for others. Just as Christ chose His Disiples, they too were just ordinary people, who because of their faith in Jesus Christ, changed not only the lives of the people of their day but the lives of generations until He calls His people Home. Never forget what a privilege it is to be used of God. It may not be easy, but He knows you and He knows your heart. You are perfect for His Work. You are are doing something so extraordinary in being His Plan. Although my journey with cancer is in 10yrs. 7months of remission, the blogging of your journey has been such a blessing to my life. Have you even given thought to the hundreds of thousands or millions of people's lives that you have touched? Not only for the ill, but those who have yet to be stricken/diagnosed and the people who love them?!!! Your husband has been entrusted as well and so have your precious babies 💕 . Although difficult, this is something that builds their character so they too will be brave and strong in love and understanding. My mom always said "good things come from bad things," she too suffered through cancer just as my brother and I have. I have such a testimony of God's love because He chose me too. I never felt punished, only loved and trusted by the Lord.
Yes! You are so beautifully strong and vulnerable. Thank you for the selfless ministry, (if you will) that you share with the world. I "see" you. I appreciate you and this journey you are going through.
Wishing you and your family a Merry CHRISTmas and trusting that the New Year holds all the joy and love you and your family can enjoy!
My pain management gets on me for not taking my pain management timely because it takes so long to bring pain down.
I'm sure they have told you (a thousand times) to take the pain relief before the pain starts and keep ahead of it !
I'm really bad at doing this too but I am getting better .
You probably like me resent having to take it in the first place.
Today not too bad for me but I hope you having a good day and that our Jenny gets over the pain hump soon. X Jan 👵🇬🇧
@@somersetflower yessssss I hate it so much but I have a family an I want to do what I can while I can.
@@deborahdavis8769 please take care of yourself and I will remind myself that it's not just me when I'm resisting the urge to take it !!
Oh Jenny. I’m so sorry you are hurting so bad right now. I hurt for you.
Oh my gosh so glad the pain subsided. But please take your pain meds when needed. What a beautiful family!
Jenny, please carry some of the strong medicine in your purse or in the car so you have it while you’re out and about. So sorry you’re going through this! Stay on top of it. When you feel it coming on, take the medicine!
Being a little out of it and not in pain is probably better for you, but also so your babies don’t have to see you in such pain. Do it for them if you can’t for yourself. They would rather have you a bit out of it than seeing you in pain for hours trying to get back ahead of your pain. Also the more you take your pain medicine the less loopy you will feel. You NEED to take your medicine. Trust your doctor. Take care of yourself and that means not letting your pain get that bad. ❤
Can I just say, I LOVE the way he made the snowman! Soooo cute! You two are awesome parents! Your reactions made my heart smile for you all and all the while you had such difficulties with pain. . . . Mama you are amazing!
I am rewatching some of Jenny’s videos, thinking about how frustrating it must have been for her pain management clinic for her not wanting to take her pain medication. Professionals in the comment section would tell her, you have to stay on top of your pain, you can’t play catch up. She knows she is ok with the dilauded, no bad side effects but yet she still wouldn’t take it.
Your family is wonderful. I'm getting such joy from watching these videos. I wish I could take your pain away.
Happy tears here too all the way over in Ireland, very touching one today, and such a precious Xmas gift from Ellis, gorgeous children,
Hello dear Jenny, I’m a chronic pain sufferer And I don’t like to take meds but when it gets bad you need to take whatever works because pain is so depressing as well as painful. I pray for you every day and your wonderful family. Aloha
You both had me in tears 😭 seeing how much you show your appreciation and excitement over the gift he made you. Jenny when you welled up in tears over the poem on the back of the handprint I started to well up too!! I personally don't have any children of my own but I was my nephew's nanny when he was a baby and while he was growing up. I saw his little handprints on walls and floors while he was learning to crawl and lift himself up trying to stand. He's now 22 yrs old and I miss those early years so much! Kyle and Jenny I also want to thank you for being your authentic silly selves!! Please don't ever change cuz I think the world could use alot more silly people 😋😜🤪🤨
Jen, it is so much easier to stay it on top and ahead. Take the meds sweetie. ❤
Sweets you’re the best mom. Don’t sell yourself short.
I work with cancer patients to help with pain management. Some choose to forego strong pain meds to be alert and others choose to be as pain free as possible even if that means being sleepy/sedated. So I get that you want to be all there when you go out or spend time with family and friends. The only right answer to pain management is what you want and works for you. You and your team will figure it out day by day. Glad you worked through it and felt better♥️
Oh how i wish and earn to be a good of a mom as you are. Your patience and honesty and kindness. How many of us take life for granted and lose our temper with the kids, treat them with indifference to be on our phones, etc.? You are a super hero. Can you imagine how proud your kids are of you? Always know they wouldn’t doubt for ONE second you’re the best mom in the world to them.
So many horrible drivers in SoCal. Its unreal. Here in LA it's ridiculous. I'm a barista at Starbucks in a busy market. I would have totally gotten flustered. Kyle probably made them giggle. I totally understand random pain with my Microscopic Colitis. Out of nowhere I'll get terrible belly pain. It's the worst. My pain tool next to medicine is my heating pad. God, please alleviate Jenny's pain so she may enjoy Christmas with her wonderful family. Kyle doing the voice of your baby nephew was so hysterical! Thanks for the laughs! Ellis's gift to you is so heartwarming. I love your loving reaction to it!
Awwwwww. Ellis looks so happy & proud to give you guys that sweet gift ❤️
Awesome gift for your parents, Ellis! They will keep them forever. Jenny you need to take your pain meds on a regular basis to keep them even in your blood stream. Merry Christmas and a very happy, healthy 2023!!!!!
Hi Jenny and all. I agree with staying ahead of the pain. For me at times it was psychological (if I took the pain meds I must be worse)- but this is actually not the case since they are flare ups. At one crucial point I quickly understood that when my pain got so bad no pain med by mouth would even put a dent in it. So I know it doesn’t mask getting worse.
The pain med is to ease off flare episodes because our body also unconsciously tenses with pain and this can make it worse and last longer. It’s a vicious cycle which is why when the pain finally eases off we feel as if we’ve been in a fight almost.
My humble suggestion is to at least take half of your pain med so that it helps to at least relax your body if you can’t bring yourself to take a full dose.
Best wishes!