That's okay, I have a terrible cold and a whole bottle of Nyquil so basically me watching this video is me watching and forgetting what I just watched and having to start over.
Dude I would be out to lunch too cold medicine or not lol. 3 hours of boy mom content would absolutely fry my soul, you did great! Love this channel it’s so underrated.
It breaks my heart when I hear a mom of both a boy and a girl be like, “I love my daughter but there’s just something about my son.” Gross on so many levels. I wish I could adopt all the little girls in households like this.
I was so excited to have a boy, so I could play videogames with him, and teach him about science, and watch sci-fi movies with him. I was also so excited to have girls, who I could play videogames with, and teach them about science, and watch sci-fi movies with.... If you introduce your kids to the things you like, they will generally also like them too if you don't make them feel bad about it.
Im always correcting my mil and sil that this is MY BABY! You did not carry her for 42 weeks. You did not go through 23 hours of labor with a first degree tear. This lovely child is MY BABY. The only person i dont care who calls my daughter his baby is the gay grocery store worker who carried 20lb of ice to my car 5 days a week and giver baby a cookie for deli fries and asks how hubs and i are doing. He is Grocery uncle. He is a doll. We love him
@toucandrawz We are inviting him to our "Take" Giving dinner bbq for Thanksgiving. Even if he can't come since he works for holiday pay it's an open invite
Both of my parents did this, my mother acted like a possessive girlfriend and my father was creepy. I'm a woman. Explaining this is hard af. I'm so glad social media didn't exist. My father would probably have been quiet but my mother was "it's all about meeee!"
@marahbaker8615 I'm a lot of therapy down the road. Things are better. They were such weirdos and thought they were superior to other people lol no, just disgusting.
When my half brother (40) died, my mom became an alcoholic. She physically & verbally abused my dad & me. She would yell, "Losing a son is worse than losing a daughter!" & regularly told me she would trade my life to get "her precious baby boy back." My brother was a felon, a violent alcoholic who spent most of his life in prison. Before his death my mom would lie & claim she didn't have a son, but after his death it's like her inner boy mom awakened. She's in AA now but her dead son worship continues. If Zac could communicate via Ouija board he'd be disgusted by her.
There’s an episode of sister wives where the 4 year old boy wants to marry his mom so they do a whole ceremony and everything on the show. He’s like 11 or 12 now and I just feel like he must be so mortified his parents let him do that on tv not to mention just how confusing that probably was for him in general
@@caraalgrim7434 unsurprisingly Robyn, her son Solomon was born on the show. The other parents don’t have the same level of enmeshment with their kids. The next oldest boy is Gabriel and he was like nine when the show started.
I once dated a guy when i was 17 and he was 21. He lived in an apt with his mom,but had his own entrance and bathroom. I got out of bed one morning to pee and came back to his mom, in bed where id been, spooning him. It was so weird. She also basically had a shrine to him in her room, so i probably should have known then 😅
i’m 36. i have been out of my parental home since i was 18 and im not even allowed to have a key to my moms house. my brother is 30 still lives at home pays no rent my mom and him take “little drives” each weekend where they are gone morrning til late and night and they end up in pittsburgh or somewhere in ohio (WE LEAVE IN WNY!!!) and i cant get my mom to go grocery shopping or out to eat with me. my mom SWEARS my brother is saving up for a house..but she didn’t think i would have been interested in saving for a house too? or like staying a little longer than high school graduation? i point out the differences between how she treats my brother and i and has all our lives and she just says “i have different relationships with you both because you are different people “ 🥴. and my dad is out of the picture he lost all parental rights because of abuse when i was 13. so i just have my mom. well. i sort of have my mom. my brother has most of her. but i get phone calls sometimes !
oh and my brother has never had a girlfriend. ever. my mom said he’s waiting for the “right one” . hes 30 like i said. i hate to sound salty but one time when my mom and brother were coming over to drop off christmas presents for my daughter i purposely put legos on the floor. because UGHHHHH THEY JUST MAKE ME SO MAD
My friend grew up with a mom like this she got territorial over me being there working on a science project with her daughter as in her mind I was going to steal her son from her for doing my homework as she felt my project on tuberculosis was too sexy for her son to resist. Always acted like a jealous gf over him but treated her daughter like shit. Her son joined the military and went no contact with her for the creepy behavior
My mom definitely favoured my brother in certain ways and one major way was with his medical issues. He played football so when my brother would even feel the slightest pinch she would rush him to the er and freak out. When I would be in tears in pain she would belittle me and would take weeks/months/never to a walk in. The worst time she’s done this is recently when I had a major surgery and got an infection. It took almost a month to take me to the hospital and she only did because I had a part of my breast fall off. I now deal with life long health complications due to her negligence.
so about the marriage comment: a lot of little kids don’t understand that there are different kinds of love. kids with two loving parents see their parents love and know that they are married, so they equate love with marriage. “i love mommy/daddy, so i want to marry them.” kids with sane parents understand eventually.
this! my daughter has asked her dad to marry her and her dad just laughed and gave her a kiss and said he loves her. then when we had to explain to her you can’t marry your parents you find someone when you are much older that you love and want to marry but not to worry we will love her just the same for all the rest of her days and she will always be our little girl she was very happy with that explanation.
Yeah, my mom tells a story about how when I was 3 or 4 I said I wanted to marry my dad when I got older and she thought it was so sweet she couldn’t tell me that was weird lol we laugh (and cringe) about it now
I dated the son of one of these moms. He couldn't cook, do laundry, dishes, clean his home. He would go to his moms every morning for breakfast, she would pack his lunch and do his laundry. I'm surprised she didn't wipe his butt. He was also super jealous, he once got upset I was texting another man that happened to be my dad. 😳 I saw him get more possessive, controlling and abusive so I dumped his ass.
I know one of these people. I've known her since before she had kids, and one of her fears about having kids was possibly having a girl. I lamented that possibility, too, because she would have been a terrible mother to have as a girl. She's weirdly misogynistic. Fortunately (I guess), she had four boys. She does this toxic mom 💩with the youngest. She shamelessly dotes on him, and does that creepy fantasizing about the future abuse her daughters-in-law ( *all hail Mom!👑* ) . But what I find most interesting is that he's delicate, much more so than his rowdy older brothers, and has long hair, and if I didn't know he was a boy I could easily mistake him for a girl. I'd love to know what that's all about, but since she's also narcissistic, the probability of her introspecting about any of it is lower than average to nil. Did I mention she's a nurse? And not just a nurse, but *the* nurse in charge. Nurse Ratched, if you will. 😬👍🏽
I will never understand the "being replaced" mindset. My son being in a healthy romantic relationship has never been a threat to me. They're not getting a new mom and I'm not losing a romantic partner... I get feeling sad and reminiscent at times as your child grows up and your relationship changes and evolves. But being jealous of their romantic partners is just gross
Vanessa kicked Colt to the curb. He went on another 90 Day spinoff, broke his leg for the second time, glommed onto ANOTHER woman from the 90 Day Universe into being his mommy-gf, and recently she kicked him out, too. I heard he's talking to two different Brazilian women, trying to get one of them to adopt him so he can avoid the IRS.
This is wild thank you for the update I stopped watching the original 90 day sometime in around the season he and vanessa had a secret wedding And then only kept up with the single life a little while after that
My ex's Moms (He had two as he was adopted by a gay couple) joked that they were going to wear black to our wedding because they were grieving the loss of their son to their new daughter-in-law
I love my in laws, I'm honestly so lucky. They've been so incredibly helpful with my son. The only boy mom/grandma/great grandma moment we had is when my husband was consistently getting drenched with praise for doing the bare minimum. Then when I made an off-hand comment about how I wished he helped with the housework, she commented that he was still young. Ma'am, he is nearly 30. 😂
My little bro and nephews have said they want to marry their mum when they grow up. It’s normal and completely innocent. To a child mother and father don’t have a romantic or sexual relationship. All they know is that’s who he loves the most and always wants to spend time with. It’s familial love. To an adult who mistakes this for romantic or sexual love please seek help, get therapy before you damage your child.
Thank you so very much. Got hooked on your personal story in reference to estranged parenting videos, and I'm a mom to one boy. We have a great relationship and I know that takes work every single day on my part as it should. This was the video we didn't know we needed. Thank you so very very much for this comic perspective of a very real issue for some couples.
My mom had a lot of weirdness going on with her, but i think part of her deal was she wanted to be a boy mom but she only had me, just a girl. Every time I talked about a guy i was interested in, or introduced a guy to her she was all about being with him and spoiling him and stuff, until I stopped bringing anyone new around her. When I went no-contact with her, she later told someone that I was brainwashing my husband against her. Usually these parents accuse the child's spouse of brainwashing their child against them, so it was a bit amusing that she reversed this. She was possessive about my children. She absolutely adored my son. She liked my daughters too but my son was clearly her favorite, enough for my daughters to notice he always got the good presents and all the attention. I tried to talk to her once about not undermining my parenting and ended by saying she should respect my right as my kids' parent. She immediately fired back, "well you need to respect my rights as Grandma!" After I went NC my kids told me she was always trying to convince them I was a bad mom, not like her. She was always sending my husband money, even though we both told her I'm the one who manages the household bank accounts. She was always wanting him to go to her house to fix something. He was glad to help out in an emergency like when her pipes froze, but we were both tired of her constantly trying to get him to do the little things, like he was her husband and not mine. She always asked him for advice but ignored me or acted like I was stupid if I answered, until he backed me up.
3:54 I remember saying this to my parents about my dad. My parents were quick to inform me that was not an option. My reasoning at the time was that boys were “yucky” and the only “boy” that wasn’t yucky was my dad. Now I’m married to a woman😅
4k 🎉🎉 (also this was not what I expected when I clicked the title like I knew with 41 minutes you weren't getting every toxic boy mom on tiktok because there's so many and they post so much but... while this lady was spot on in her portrayal because I have been the gf I could NOT handle the voice. I know it's put on and intentional so I feel it's fair game to at least mention she achieved the effect because hooooly crap)
I'm wondering if this chick had a mother like this or ended up with a mother in law that put her through this crap. At the least, she definitely witnesses the long term actons of a parent like this.
My mother in law was like this, though not quite as extreme, with my husband. She once tried to compare him stroking my hair until I fell asleep to him playing with her hair while breastfeeding. I was so grossed out I just left the room
Lots of little little girls say they want to marry their dads before they realize that's gross or know what sex even is. Not uncommon at all. Idk about boys. Had no brothers.
Ah,,the term is 'emotional incest'. My Mom was like this with my brother, and my much older sister was like this with me. We're both heterosexual women..it doesn't matter. At 40 I started having anger towards her and didn't realize why. Because she felt entitled to know everything in my life and I knew everything about hers. But get this: two young women in Jordan I was tutoring had the same problem with their much older sister, (I got to know the family.) Then, I discovered my daughter's MIL is like this. Her sons are in their 30s and she still likes to reflect that they were once babies who came out of her..she creeps them out..I could go on. They all have PDs..I'd say narcs, yes. And, when you have large families where an older sibling who is also abused/neglected focuses on and 'owns' a younger. This is more common than you think. It is also very damaging to the child. The dynamics are lifelong; whenever you are around your 'owner', you either get angry and take it back out of guilt, or you fall into the role you were assigned in childhood.
My mom is a boy mom and my brother is the golden child. She moved closer to him and his wife and I'm just waiting for her to ruin his marriage, especially since his wife just had a baby.
I remember at a former friends wedding her husbands mom stood up at the reception as people were giving speeches and said “Please don’t do this, please don’t leave me, you’re my favourite! 😭” He had multiple siblings who were all also at the wedding. 😬
I’m close to my daughter and my sons, in completely different ways. I can’t imagine preferring one over the other. These women have issues, let’s hope the boys can go onto have healthy relationships when they get older.
My 9 year old son said that he wanted to marry me when he grew up. I said. "Nope, it's not allowed." "Why?" So then I had to figure out an age appropriate way to take about incest, the law, and birth deformities. I was sweating bullets, hoping that I explained it in such a way that he understood it, but i wouldn't get a vitit from CPS because of something he repeated later. I do NOT understand Boy Moms.
I have some horrible boy moms on my dad's side of the family. The worst is my aunt, who protected her predator son, scared me to keep me from telling snyone her son SAd me, blamed me when her son tried to drown me and beat her daughter when she ran out of their house screaking when that psycho tried to stab her. She was angry that my cousin was "trying to get her son in trouble over nothing." That helkveast and her pos baby boy had to leave their neighborhood when it came out that I wasn't the only child he'd preyed on, and he was about to get got because her son was found out to be a predator. I found out a few years ago that this aunt had been gRaped by her older brother, and her mother never protected her. Her mother(who is one of the most evil, sadistic people I've ever known) protected her son from her second husband when he wanted to punish him for what he did to his own sister. So, yeah, generational trauma and abuse. On my mom's side, her sttepmom enabled her son to SA her and her younger sibling. Toxic boy mom's are obnoxious but also dangerous. They protect predators and violent boys who become violent, predatory men. Best case scenario, these moms infantalize their sons and make their lives hard and give them a whole lot of issues that they will hopefully deconstruct. Worst case scenario, lives are ruined, and the cycle of abuse continues.
I had a mother that definitely treated me like a romantic partner in many ways (even though she also didn't actually like me as a person), but this is just kind of a bunch of bad, obnoxious parodies. I don't even think she's very good at it or understands the phenomenon. I appreciate the effort but was really hoping for something different.
3:49 I was… 3? somewhere around there (I’m a woman btw). I can’t remember _where_ in the house but it wasn’t randomly, I think it was at the kitchen table, and out of nowhere, I declared that I was going to marry my best friend. Who was my mom. She laughed and said I couldn’t do that, and that I’d marry a boy, so I thought and thought, and *thought* and remembered (I didn’t understand why I couldn’t marry my best friend, so I forgot I had other friends) that I had a close friend who was a few years older but we both played educatiment games together and he was being dropped off by her friend at our house (so he was like 6). So I said I’ll marry John (changed his name for public posting ^^; ). I have obviously not married either :P and by the time I was 7 or so, I didn’t think about it. And I blew off the moms of best female friends that I’d look at something else when they’d have “plan a wedding” day. My utter lack of interest in planning a wedding or idealizing over it was nothing compared to my obsession with wolves at the time. XD
Seriously, joking or not, if the two of us were in a room together, only one of us would leave alive. That voice. Why is she screaming. I don't think I can watch the rest. All least turn it down. This is horrific.
Gawd these videos are so cringe. I had no idea this phenomenon even existed until a few years ago. As a mom of all boys, I view my job as helping them become independent men who are emotionally responsive to their future partners. I will never understand this icky incestuous perspective. My boys are not my partners, period.
Dude, you're going to need a special vacine to help you survive watching videos of the grossest parents! You need God's protection and all the angels coz these people are SICK!!!! I've been a single mum to my son from the day he was concieved and I love him more than anyone but I know that if I've done my job well that one day he will meet someone and start his own life with them and wont be as much as part of mine. But he'll always be my son and we'll always have that bond. No one can threaten that or steal it away. But me being his mum isn't the one defining relationship of my life nor should I be that in his. That's just warped.
She’s exaggerating a little. No boy mom does alllllll those things. But a lot of it is common. Mother in Law wearing white to the wedding is so common that it’s almost becoming a tradition.
The jealousy is REAL. The first time I met my now husbands mom, we were watching a movie. A sweet moment came on and I casually kissed the back of his hand, we didn’t say anything or do more than that. She went off after about the PDA being out of control. 🧍🏻♀️We were both over 25. She glared at me every single time I’d speak, and ignore me whenever it was possible.
I am still very sick and this recording session was essentially 3 hours of me forgetting what i was talking about because of the cold medicine
That's okay, I have a terrible cold and a whole bottle of Nyquil so basically me watching this video is me watching and forgetting what I just watched and having to start over.
Dude I would be out to lunch too cold medicine or not lol. 3 hours of boy mom content would absolutely fry my soul, you did great! Love this channel it’s so underrated.
It breaks my heart when I hear a mom of both a boy and a girl be like, “I love my daughter but there’s just something about my son.” Gross on so many levels. I wish I could adopt all the little girls in households like this.
I was so excited to have a boy, so I could play videogames with him, and teach him about science, and watch sci-fi movies with him. I was also so excited to have girls, who I could play videogames with, and teach them about science, and watch sci-fi movies with.... If you introduce your kids to the things you like, they will generally also like them too if you don't make them feel bad about it.
Im always correcting my mil and sil that this is MY BABY! You did not carry her for 42 weeks. You did not go through 23 hours of labor with a first degree tear. This lovely child is MY BABY. The only person i dont care who calls my daughter his baby is the gay grocery store worker who carried 20lb of ice to my car 5 days a week and giver baby a cookie for deli fries and asks how hubs and i are doing. He is Grocery uncle. He is a doll. We love him
I haven’t even met this man and I love him. 10/10, strive to be this lovely
This made me oddly happy.
@toucandrawz We are inviting him to our "Take" Giving dinner bbq for Thanksgiving. Even if he can't come since he works for holiday pay it's an open invite
Thank you for sharing him with us this is adorable and made me lay down for my night with a smile 🫶🏼✨
tell grocery uncle he’s famous and we love him
Both of my parents did this, my mother acted like a possessive girlfriend and my father was creepy. I'm a woman. Explaining this is hard af. I'm so glad social media didn't exist. My father would probably have been quiet but my mother was "it's all about meeee!"
oh god thats so creepy. you poor thing
@marahbaker8615 I'm a lot of therapy down the road. Things are better. They were such weirdos and thought they were superior to other people lol no, just disgusting.
When my half brother (40) died, my mom became an alcoholic. She physically & verbally abused my dad & me. She would yell, "Losing a son is worse than losing a daughter!" & regularly told me she would trade my life to get "her precious baby boy back."
My brother was a felon, a violent alcoholic who spent most of his life in prison. Before his death my mom would lie & claim she didn't have a son, but after his death it's like her inner boy mom awakened.
She's in AA now but her dead son worship continues. If Zac could communicate via Ouija board he'd be disgusted by her.
There’s an episode of sister wives where the 4 year old boy wants to marry his mom so they do a whole ceremony and everything on the show. He’s like 11 or 12 now and I just feel like he must be so mortified his parents let him do that on tv not to mention just how confusing that probably was for him in general
Eww that's weird
I'm so scared to fall down this rabbit hole
Omg. No way. 😳
Which wife?
@@caraalgrim7434 unsurprisingly Robyn, her son Solomon was born on the show. The other parents don’t have the same level of enmeshment with their kids. The next oldest boy is Gabriel and he was like nine when the show started.
I once dated a guy when i was 17 and he was 21. He lived in an apt with his mom,but had his own entrance and bathroom. I got out of bed one morning to pee and came back to his mom, in bed where id been, spooning him. It was so weird. She also basically had a shrine to him in her room, so i probably should have known then 😅
What did you do after? Wait for her to leave? Interrupt? Jump in with the snuggle?!
Omg, how did you react to that? I'm sorry, I'm just dying for the tea now! 😅
i’m 36. i have been out of my parental home since i was 18 and im not even allowed to have a key to my moms house. my brother is 30 still lives at home pays no rent my mom and him take “little drives” each weekend where they are gone morrning til late and night and they end up in pittsburgh or somewhere in ohio (WE LEAVE IN WNY!!!) and i cant get my mom to go grocery shopping or out to eat with me. my mom SWEARS my brother is saving up for a house..but she didn’t think i would have been interested in saving for a house too? or like staying a little longer than high school graduation? i point out the differences between how she treats my brother and i and has all our lives and she just says “i have different relationships with you both because you are different people “ 🥴. and my dad is out of the picture he lost all parental rights because of abuse when i was 13. so i just have my mom. well. i sort of have my mom. my brother has most of her. but i get phone calls sometimes !
oh and my brother has never had a girlfriend. ever. my mom said he’s waiting for the “right one” . hes 30 like i said. i hate to sound salty but one time when my mom and brother were coming over to drop off christmas presents for my daughter i purposely put legos on the floor. because UGHHHHH THEY JUST MAKE ME SO MAD
UM WHAT
My friend grew up with a mom like this she got territorial over me being there working on a science project with her daughter as in her mind I was going to steal her son from her for doing my homework as she felt my project on tuberculosis was too sexy for her son to resist. Always acted like a jealous gf over him but treated her daughter like shit. Her son joined the military and went no contact with her for the creepy behavior
As a mother of 2 kids, a boy and a girl, who are both now adults, I will NEVER understand this. 😔
My mom definitely favoured my brother in certain ways and one major way was with his medical issues. He played football so when my brother would even feel the slightest pinch she would rush him to the er and freak out. When I would be in tears in pain she would belittle me and would take weeks/months/never to a walk in. The worst time she’s done this is recently when I had a major surgery and got an infection. It took almost a month to take me to the hospital and she only did because I had a part of my breast fall off. I now deal with life long health complications due to her negligence.
Oh my god, I’m so sorry!
so about the marriage comment: a lot of little kids don’t understand that there are different kinds of love. kids with two loving parents see their parents love and know that they are married, so they equate love with marriage. “i love mommy/daddy, so i want to marry them.” kids with sane parents understand eventually.
this! my daughter has asked her dad to marry her and her dad just laughed and gave her a kiss and said he loves her. then when we had to explain to her you can’t marry your parents you find someone when you are much older that you love and want to marry but not to worry we will love her just the same for all the rest of her days and she will always be our little girl she was very happy with that explanation.
Yeah, my mom tells a story about how when I was 3 or 4 I said I wanted to marry my dad when I got older and she thought it was so sweet she couldn’t tell me that was weird lol we laugh (and cringe) about it now
Creepy. My mother wasn't this extreme but definitely was guilty of this emotional incest. It makes me wanna 🤮 when i think of it
I dated the son of one of these moms. He couldn't cook, do laundry, dishes, clean his home. He would go to his moms every morning for breakfast, she would pack his lunch and do his laundry. I'm surprised she didn't wipe his butt. He was also super jealous, he once got upset I was texting another man that happened to be my dad. 😳 I saw him get more possessive, controlling and abusive so I dumped his ass.
I know one of these people. I've known her since before she had kids, and one of her fears about having kids was possibly having a girl. I lamented that possibility, too, because she would have been a terrible mother to have as a girl. She's weirdly misogynistic. Fortunately (I guess), she had four boys. She does this toxic mom 💩with the youngest. She shamelessly dotes on him, and does that creepy fantasizing about the future abuse her daughters-in-law ( *all hail Mom!👑* ) . But what I find most interesting is that he's delicate, much more so than his rowdy older brothers, and has long hair, and if I didn't know he was a boy I could easily mistake him for a girl. I'd love to know what that's all about, but since she's also narcissistic, the probability of her introspecting about any of it is lower than average to nil. Did I mention she's a nurse? And not just a nurse, but *the* nurse in charge. Nurse Ratched, if you will. 😬👍🏽
It's "Pick Me: Mom Edition" 😆
Seriously, though, self-titled "Boy Moms" are just adult Pick-Mes.
I will never understand the "being replaced" mindset. My son being in a healthy romantic relationship has never been a threat to me. They're not getting a new mom and I'm not losing a romantic partner... I get feeling sad and reminiscent at times as your child grows up and your relationship changes and evolves. But being jealous of their romantic partners is just gross
Vanessa kicked Colt to the curb. He went on another 90 Day spinoff, broke his leg for the second time, glommed onto ANOTHER woman from the 90 Day Universe into being his mommy-gf, and recently she kicked him out, too. I heard he's talking to two different Brazilian women, trying to get one of them to adopt him so he can avoid the IRS.
This is wild thank you for the update
I stopped watching the original 90 day sometime in around the season he and vanessa had a secret wedding
And then only kept up with the single life a little while after that
She definitely nails the toxic boy mom but can we take a moment to appreciate how beautiful her hair is? ❤
Right?! Her hair is gorgeous. I would love to know what products she uses.❤
the age changing is comedy gold
@@k.morningstar7983yeah her impressions are spot on!
Rockin hair. 🤟
My ex's Moms (He had two as he was adopted by a gay couple) joked that they were going to wear black to our wedding because they were grieving the loss of their son to their new daughter-in-law
13:30 the yelling is so on point and its sending meeeee
I can’t even watch the rest of this video because the girl’s voice physically hurts me. I feel so sorry for any kids she actually has lol
I love my in laws, I'm honestly so lucky. They've been so incredibly helpful with my son. The only boy mom/grandma/great grandma moment we had is when my husband was consistently getting drenched with praise for doing the bare minimum. Then when I made an off-hand comment about how I wished he helped with the housework, she commented that he was still young. Ma'am, he is nearly 30. 😂
My little bro and nephews have said they want to marry their mum when they grow up. It’s normal and completely innocent. To a child mother and father don’t have a romantic or sexual relationship. All they know is that’s who he loves the most and always wants to spend time with. It’s familial love.
To an adult who mistakes this for romantic or sexual love please seek help, get therapy before you damage your child.
Thank you so very much. Got hooked on your personal story in reference to estranged parenting videos, and I'm a mom to one boy. We have a great relationship and I know that takes work every single day on my part as it should.
This was the video we didn't know we needed. Thank you so very very much for this comic perspective of a very real issue for some couples.
My mom had a lot of weirdness going on with her, but i think part of her deal was she wanted to be a boy mom but she only had me, just a girl. Every time I talked about a guy i was interested in, or introduced a guy to her she was all about being with him and spoiling him and stuff, until I stopped bringing anyone new around her. When I went no-contact with her, she later told someone that I was brainwashing my husband against her. Usually these parents accuse the child's spouse of brainwashing their child against them, so it was a bit amusing that she reversed this.
She was possessive about my children. She absolutely adored my son. She liked my daughters too but my son was clearly her favorite, enough for my daughters to notice he always got the good presents and all the attention. I tried to talk to her once about not undermining my parenting and ended by saying she should respect my right as my kids' parent. She immediately fired back, "well you need to respect my rights as Grandma!" After I went NC my kids told me she was always trying to convince them I was a bad mom, not like her.
She was always sending my husband money, even though we both told her I'm the one who manages the household bank accounts. She was always wanting him to go to her house to fix something. He was glad to help out in an emergency like when her pipes froze, but we were both tired of her constantly trying to get him to do the little things, like he was her husband and not mine. She always asked him for advice but ignored me or acted like I was stupid if I answered, until he backed me up.
3:54 I remember saying this to my parents about my dad. My parents were quick to inform me that was not an option. My reasoning at the time was that boys were “yucky” and the only “boy” that wasn’t yucky was my dad. Now I’m married to a woman😅
“Like I love my daughters but if they all fell off a cliff I wouldn’t even shed a tear but MY BABY BOY” 😂 I’m deceased
4k 🎉🎉 (also this was not what I expected when I clicked the title like I knew with 41 minutes you weren't getting every toxic boy mom on tiktok because there's so many and they post so much but... while this lady was spot on in her portrayal because I have been the gf I could NOT handle the voice. I know it's put on and intentional so I feel it's fair game to at least mention she achieved the effect because hooooly crap)
I'm wondering if this chick had a mother like this or ended up with a mother in law that put her through this crap. At the least, she definitely witnesses the long term actons of a parent like this.
Yeah her acting is coming from an incredibly deep place it seems!
💯 my thoughts exactly!
I'm a son-husband going through a mom-divorce.
I’m really sorry you’re going through that, I hope lots of therapy and solid boundaries are in your future ❤
@alishac5096
Too late.
Just illness and poverty
“ He chose that dumb broad over me!” “ That baby should be ours!” 💀😂😂😂
My mother in law was like this, though not quite as extreme, with my husband. She once tried to compare him stroking my hair until I fell asleep to him playing with her hair while breastfeeding. I was so grossed out I just left the room
37:46 “giving him a sweet treat” is the wildest statement ever.😭
“ I don’t think that hard about life. I just sit here and be sad” 😂
Also, that girls voice drives me ☹️☹️☹️
He’s only 42 years old!
Lots of little little girls say they want to marry their dads before they realize that's gross or know what sex even is. Not uncommon at all. Idk about boys. Had no brothers.
That's the premise of the show I love a mama's boy. It's weirdly fascinating. And weird.
Ah,,the term is 'emotional incest'. My Mom was like this with my brother, and my much older sister was like this with me. We're both heterosexual women..it doesn't matter. At 40 I started having anger towards her and didn't realize why. Because she felt entitled to know everything in my life and I knew everything about hers. But get this: two young women in Jordan I was tutoring had the same problem with their much older sister, (I got to know the family.) Then, I discovered my daughter's MIL is like this. Her sons are in their 30s and she still likes to reflect that they were once babies who came out of her..she creeps them out..I could go on.
They all have PDs..I'd say narcs, yes. And, when you have large families where an older sibling who is also abused/neglected focuses on and 'owns' a younger.
This is more common than you think. It is also very damaging to the child. The dynamics are lifelong; whenever you are around your 'owner', you either get angry and take it back out of guilt, or you fall into the role you were assigned in childhood.
the way my blood pressure spiked and my partner's family isn't even like this
My mom is a boy mom and my brother is the golden child. She moved closer to him and his wife and I'm just waiting for her to ruin his marriage, especially since his wife just had a baby.
That breadfeeding one is real. I've heard about it before.
She is NOT exaggerating for effect.
I remember at a former friends wedding her husbands mom stood up at the reception as people were giving speeches and said
“Please don’t do this, please don’t leave me, you’re my favourite! 😭”
He had multiple siblings who were all also at the wedding. 😬
Coltee!!!!😂😂
I’m close to my daughter and my sons, in completely different ways. I can’t imagine preferring one over the other. These women have issues, let’s hope the boys can go onto have healthy relationships when they get older.
My 9 year old son said that he wanted to marry me when he grew up. I said. "Nope, it's not allowed."
"Why?"
So then I had to figure out an age appropriate way to take about incest, the law, and birth deformities.
I was sweating bullets, hoping that I explained it in such a way that he understood it, but i wouldn't get a vitit from CPS because of something he repeated later.
I do NOT understand Boy Moms.
I have some horrible boy moms on my dad's side of the family. The worst is my aunt, who protected her predator son, scared me to keep me from telling snyone her son SAd me, blamed me when her son tried to drown me and beat her daughter when she ran out of their house screaking when that psycho tried to stab her. She was angry that my cousin was "trying to get her son in trouble over nothing." That helkveast and her pos baby boy had to leave their neighborhood when it came out that I wasn't the only child he'd preyed on, and he was about to get got because her son was found out to be a predator. I found out a few years ago that this aunt had been gRaped by her older brother, and her mother never protected her. Her mother(who is one of the most evil, sadistic people I've ever known) protected her son from her second husband when he wanted to punish him for what he did to his own sister. So, yeah, generational trauma and abuse. On my mom's side, her sttepmom enabled her son to SA her and her younger sibling. Toxic boy mom's are obnoxious but also dangerous. They protect predators and violent boys who become violent, predatory men. Best case scenario, these moms infantalize their sons and make their lives hard and give them a whole lot of issues that they will hopefully deconstruct. Worst case scenario, lives are ruined, and the cycle of abuse continues.
2:28 this is a skit? I wasn’t sure if you knew, maybe I missed you saying that lol
Max... 16:01 Qualifies as cruel and unusual, sir.
My ex-husband's mother was EXACTLY like this, LDS and fueled by narcissism and an opioid addctuon.
I'm so happy that I'm a promised celibate.
I had a mother that definitely treated me like a romantic partner in many ways (even though she also didn't actually like me as a person), but this is just kind of a bunch of bad, obnoxious parodies. I don't even think she's very good at it or understands the phenomenon. I appreciate the effort but was really hoping for something different.
Im greatful everyday that my MIL is normal. Shes a boy mom 4x over so maybe she had too much of a good thing😂.
Couldn't you watch actual boy mom tiktoks, rather than the entire catalogue of that one girl parodying them?
youre a boy mom huh
Exactly, she's not even good at it. Just incredibly annoying.
Jocasta complex, anyone???
My MIL has gotten better (or my coping skills have reached God tier) - but she was full on "my baby" and "my baby looks just like my other baby."
This woman is brilliant. I love her.
This is just horrid on so many levels. 😢
3:49 I was… 3? somewhere around there (I’m a woman btw). I can’t remember _where_ in the house but it wasn’t randomly, I think it was at the kitchen table, and out of nowhere, I declared that I was going to marry my best friend. Who was my mom.
She laughed and said I couldn’t do that, and that I’d marry a boy, so I thought and thought, and *thought* and remembered (I didn’t understand why I couldn’t marry my best friend, so I forgot I had other friends) that I had a close friend who was a few years older but we both played educatiment games together and he was being dropped off by her friend at our house (so he was like 6). So I said I’ll marry John (changed his name for public posting ^^; ).
I have obviously not married either :P and by the time I was 7 or so, I didn’t think about it. And I blew off the moms of best female friends that I’d look at something else when they’d have “plan a wedding” day. My utter lack of interest in planning a wedding or idealizing over it was nothing compared to my obsession with wolves at the time. XD
Yikes! I have two sons and can't even imagine. ewwwwww.
3:46
I did, and its actually not uncommon at all.
Seriously, joking or not, if the two of us were in a room together, only one of us would leave alive. That voice. Why is she screaming. I don't think I can watch the rest. All least turn it down. This is horrific.
Gawd these videos are so cringe. I had no idea this phenomenon even existed until a few years ago. As a mom of all boys, I view my job as helping them become independent men who are emotionally responsive to their future partners. I will never understand this icky incestuous perspective. My boys are not my partners, period.
Dude, you're going to need a special vacine to help you survive watching videos of the grossest parents! You need God's protection and all the angels coz these people are SICK!!!! I've been a single mum to my son from the day he was concieved and I love him more than anyone but I know that if I've done my job well that one day he will meet someone and start his own life with them and wont be as much as part of mine. But he'll always be my son and we'll always have that bond. No one can threaten that or steal it away. But me being his mum isn't the one defining relationship of my life nor should I be that in his. That's just warped.
It’s very amusing how amused you are w the boy moms. Is she your girl? Lol. Feel better.
This has to be satire ❤
like... the 20+ skits of the woman with the high, fast voice who says the most extreme stuff? yes sis those are satire!!
Satire is based on things that actually happen it's the whole point hope that helps your confusion
She’s exaggerating a little. No boy mom does alllllll those things. But a lot of it is common. Mother in Law wearing white to the wedding is so common that it’s almost becoming a tradition.
The jealousy is REAL.
The first time I met my now husbands mom, we were watching a movie. A sweet moment came on and I casually kissed the back of his hand, we didn’t say anything or do more than that.
She went off after about the PDA being out of control. 🧍🏻♀️We were both over 25. She glared at me every single time I’d speak, and ignore me whenever it was possible.