@@rallacewasheed1422 You can look at her and tell she was never it. She was getting smashed by hood dudes and now that she wants stability she think she deserves more. Most successful, attractive, eligible Blk men don't won't an average looking, overweight, masculine female.
Phil ain't lying about meeting people while traveling. People called me weird for traveling solo, mainly BW, and I've literally changed my entire life because of it. Some of my best friends and relationships have come from traveling.
Yep, the only thing I would add is be careful about going on group travel trips. I have done that a couple of times and it's like 90% women which is cool but a lot of times, the women can be catty or be straight up haters if they feel you are vibing with one of the other women in the group. I have definitely experienced that
Quiet luxury to spot successful men is something most black women are not used to unless they were raised by one. My sister had to learn this working for a black dude who owns the largest steel company in my state. She also gets to meet his business partners and friends regulary that also own major establishments. She raves how simple they look and yet well groomed and polished. You will never know such men run over $50 million businesses. She now understands why these type of black men typically end up with white women; not because they don't like black women, simply put, white women know how to spot them and have the acceptable looks these men want. By acceptable looks, I mean no tattoos and fake stuff on you, which disqualify a lot of sisters.
Wow just wow. Your opinion of Black women is very low. Maybe you should come up out the "hood" and you will meet successful women. White women are known to be "gold diggers"! They search for rich Black men or rich men in general. I've seen how they operate. They don't want to work, period! All Black women don't wear lashes, weaves or wigs. Don't forget white women wear wigs and weaves. I see them in Black owned salons. Personally I am natural, wear little makeup. Hood guys don't like me because I'm not attracted to them. Don't generalized all Black women.
The quiet luxury gets you appreciated, whereas the flashy luxury gets you noticed. The quiet luxury is more understated and subtle, while flashy luxury is more dramatic and eye-catching. Quiet luxury appeals to those with good taste and an appreciation for quality, while flashy luxury appeals to those with a love of showmanship. Quiet luxury speaks to a sense of understated sophistication and class, while flashy luxury is more ostentatious and attention-grabbing. Quiet luxury appeals to those who value quality and understated elegance, while flashy luxury appeals to those who value extravagance and drama.
Well Said. I was in an elevator and happened to have on a pair of expensive wing tips. A man next to me noticed and called out the brand and complimented me on them. He too was stylish but not overly so. He had on a pair of tips too and we laughed. In context to this video, takes one to know one. I didn't take note of the watch he was wearing but I had on my Movado, my 10 year old watch.
Earrings, hair, cheap awkward fitting clothing. Positive energy, good vibes instead of frustration. Change the appearance to White House Black Market air and things will change.
My brother owns 3 businesses and wears a tee shirt and jeans everywhere...He drives a 2004 Lexus GX because he moves money around and avoids attention....ABW don't know who high value men are. 😂💯
This booger right here....😂 successful men aren't flashy. We're mild mannered and our mindset is completely different. Things don't own or make us. We own and make them
When I was in America, I drove around in a $500.00 Nissan I bought at a police auction, wore pajamas everyday to work, and women constantly kept asking if I was poor! But I absolutely loved it!
I’m gonna be honest with y’all about the dating app. I took a chance going on one and I guess at the time the woman I’m with told me she took a chance. She’s always by my side, and a blessing to me. She’s originally from Jamaica and now a year later, we’re married. She didn’t pay attention to my income like a multitude of other women and she’s not at all materialistic. We are very happy together. God is good.
I make over 200k and drive a Mercedes. I aint rich but Its nothing wrong with driving a nice car if u can afford it. He is right about the clothes. I don't buy name brand attire because I know it cost pennies to make and overpriced. Who you attract is solely on how you move
No lies about the vehicles. I've done delivery work in some very rich neighborhoods (most deliveries I made were overwhelmingly in rich and upper middle class neighborhoods) and I noticed that a bunch of them drive the nicer end of regular brand vehicles. Toyota, Honda, Ford, Dodge, etc. I dont recall seeing too many Porsches, Lambos, etc.
@@pulloutsange they're too busy looking for the exotic names that rappers are peddling. They think those are the only kind of expensive vehicles to exist.
A Pretty boy with money is what most American women want. Us average & not so average looking brothers with money still can pull, but we gotta come with a lil extra personality money etc. Unlike the pretty boyz. They can pull women just by there looks and be broke as hell. But women will get tried of taking care of a pretty boy.
Thats because she didnt see them when she was young and in her prime and they were trying to come ip and on the grind Now they dont see you when they've crossed the finish line and you sitting there waiting for winners. Beat it!!!
In high school, the nerds approached me! These same guys grew up to be the good looking and successful brothers! Most respectful and decent brothers are too grown for social media!!! ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
Some of these brothas just ain’t got no game and keep blaming the women who don’t like them. Shyt is mad funny to me. Kause I was a “nerd” in HS but I made that shyt kool and never had a problem with women not EVER. So it’s about your konfidence guys, just Kause the girls overlook u don’t mean they want the so kalled pookie and Ray Ray, they just don’t want YOU. Step your game up, wear your konfidence and go after who you want.
Most of sisters are dressing half naked and revealing way too much of their flesh. If you watch a lot of older movies back during my mother's day women use to dress more modestly and some looked very nice in dresses not too tight.
I'm 33 and have dated professional women in their 30s and 40s and a lot of the time they're worse than chicks in their early 20s in terms of maturity, logic and behavior. Briefly dated a teacher at a private school, never been on a date or a relationship at 36 years old, not a virgin. Dated a therapist 34 years old, was almost as bad as that therapist that went viral and got fired. Dated a counselor for a couple of months 42 years old, she brought up her partner history unprompted and turned into a baby when I started pointing out her mistakes. There's honestly more
@@c____89 yes, dating older professional women doesnt help you avoid issues like Phil was trying to say, I've been considering dating a little younger for a while, not teens but definitely mid 20s or maybe even early 20s. Women in their 30s and 40s are as relatable as any other woman
@@geraldos9094 except for therapists the other two had non work related issues. The teacher was major red flags, she had to go. She was a teacher at an all boys school discussing relationship topics with her students...and her students thought she wasnt making any sense lol. The counselor she didnt want to see the mistakes she made in her past, I can tell no one ever told her the truth. The therapists would intentionally try to trigger me to gauge my response, she definitely brought work home
something in common you say Phil. No man wants a old women. You expect a man to work his tail off,make his self a top tier man to hook Up with a depreciate asset . I strongly disagree.
I was on a dating app 6yrs ago and this female was 30 yrs old had a son 15 and a daughter 6 and still was representing her flag gang culture and she also told me she’s gonna be a grandma the following yr as soon as I found out she was a baby mama many flags went up and the grenades and more artillery came in play I haven’t been on a dating app since
The way she carries herself, the way she speaks and her masculine energy all spell hood chick and arguments forthcoming. She's not a woman I'd ever consider approaching. Just too rough around the edges.
Gee i wonder why the successful men her age aren't asking her out? Maybe because she and women like her back then would turn their noses up at those same men and ignore them because they weren't their type. Now that times have changed and tables turned, those same men they wouldn't give the time of day to, are now returning the same energy back and rightly so.
It seems the problem in the black community is that soooo many average or below average women feel entitled to a high value man. I am sure this problem exists in other races too, but not to this extent. These women should learn to date within their level
That exist in every race and culture in both genders. I know a guy trying holler highly educated and successful young lady but can't even hold a conversation about global current affairs. People don't realize how difficult relationships will be if you can't even come close to the level of understanding you both can have. I have declined interest with another women for simple reason that these young ladies who have showed in me way out of my league. I personally hate to try hard to fit in where I don't belong.
@@BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure : Factsssss, because it's all about sex and drama for bw. They will also attach you for talking about Pooky & Ray Ray.
Isaiah 4:1 “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.”
Successful men get judged by their peers for their choice of woman. The wrong choice can absolutely stop his advance in his professional circles of influence.
With the economic situation of the country today, you have a lot of desperate women out there. It is too expensive to date anyone now. After you pay your monthly expenses, there's only enough left for one person. Be wise and spend it on yourself. Buy a good book.
Thank you very much Phil thank you. You are absolutely right but that’s what’s wrong with a Melanated and African-American sisters they haven’t been taught the right way stop looking at these men with dollars and look at them spiritually and who is godly.
I don’t agree that successful men don’t dress nice and drive nice cars, that’s not true. The common denominator amongst successful men is actually discipline, leadership, and a great network of other highly competitive men.
It's not just the top she's wearing, but look at the oversized hoodrat earings she's wearing. As a successful over 100K brother, this isn't the type of sister I want to "Share My World" with.
I like the natural hair. Some corporate brothas tend to like the creamy crack look. I can’t stand weaves and wigs. She also is a bit overweight. She’s breathing heavy while talking and walking.
@thekorsh4230 The word is least, not "list". And where is the period after hair? Comma's after type & okay? Sarcastic comment now, I see why she's your type to raise your children. Little things stand out.
Agreed. She definitely ain't got no manners and loses her manners in the most random of ways talking about excuse me. Yes excuse yourself right over there away from me for the rest of your life
@@jamesm6413 You sound you are dealing with some real anger and even hatred towards Black women. If you don't find her attractive brother, just move on.
You're absolutely 100% correct. I am from New York City, and the wealthy men usually ride public transportation and / or walk around with non name, brand stuff, jeans and tee shirts, and sometimes holes in their jeans. It's the poor ones who get off in the hoods, walk around with name brands and are broke with baby mommas all over and don't pay for none of their kids, hang out on the corners and are about nothing. The same goes for women. All about name brands and don't own real estate . Having a lot of cash is not a determining factor when it comes to credit scores.
Many years ago, I heard about a transportation and shipping magnate in NYC that actually *walked* to work. The guy was a billionaire but wasn’t hanging out with celebrities or trying to “dress to impress.” If you saw the guy on the street you’d have thought he was just another executive. I think his name was Daniel (or David?) Ludwig?
I would presume that every dude thinks that he's deserving of the most attractive woman yet he knows that that is mostly likely what he won't get (to date) while women truly believe they are only deserving of the top 1% man. And they wholeheartedly believe this & if they don't get this type of man, it is an absolute injustice to them, they become sooo embittered & aggrieved. Delulu 🥴🤪🤡 for real
I've been living the quite luxury life for years now. It's one of the best ways too hide yourself from gold diggin 304's. I like to call it 'stealth mode'. And what Phil is saying is absolutely correct!
Before she even started talking the first thing I noticed was how she was dressed. I'm not sure a man in his 40s can't date a women in her 20s. My parents were 14.5 years apart. A lot of men in my family were the same, and a lot of them outlived their younger wife.
Exactly. Women in their 30s/40s have too much unresolved issues, their fertility is almost over and a lot of them rejected us because we were building ourselves, so now that we’re successful they wanna jump onboard? Nope, not gonna happen. Let me get a 20 something years old that can give me a legacy and if she leaves well, I’ll think of something, we all die alone anyway
Maybe you're just lame. I haven't had any issues with sistas. My find is that "brothers" who make these Blanket statements, just like the "sistas" who do the same. Usually are lame, couldn't pull and now they're angry at all Black women.
Exactly brother Phillip, thats what K.S was trying to teach those siaters, do they qualify for those kind of men as well. Huh!! We all done know how some of them other women done danced on his grave, infact celebrated b4 he was even layed to rest when he passed. R.I.POWER K.S forever missed but never forgtten.
Also, if a older man wants children he has to go to a younger woman. With a older woman he may has to spend $100, 000 to get her pregnant because after 35 years old the woman is considered a high risk pregnancy.
I like the term "quiet luxury" because it keeps them guessing. And also the woman needs to change her wardrobe. But she's gonna have to make some improvements.
I know successful brothers that won't even talk to black women on a relationship tip. It's because they know what the future holds for them with these black women. These guy, especially in the financial careers: financial adviser, accounting and insurance - they only look into the future. And they see no future with black women. Thesy won't even say anything to black women. They may tell their fellow brother.
I Concur with Uncle Phil he stay 💯✊. I grew up with nothing but the sistas, went to predominantly black schools with nothing but sistas, raised by nothing but the Sistas, now on the real I want other women Outside the sistas that's why I support the passport bros, Sysbm4life. Stay Strong my brothers ✊ we deserve better than this Westernized Plantation 💯
You’re definitely spot on with females keeping their attire modest and conservative. When I see a woman out here walking around looking like her, I assume that she’s just basic, not pursuing success, not being trustworthy, not staying in relationships long, etc. I’m not saying I’m judging them, because I don’t know them. I say that to people who’ll be saying I’m judging. No, it’s the look. Just like Dave Chappelle said in one of his shows: “If you put on a cop uniform and walk around, people will think you’re a cop. If you dress like a ho, people will call you a ho!” Just saying!😅
Stop it. Those watches don’t appreciate like a Rolex. Buy a quality Rolex and it’s ultimately free. I’ve owned several and always sold them for a profit. Just make sure it’s all original….
Been saying this since forever…the vast majority of guys who are wealthy…wear cargo shorts, flip flops/boat shoes, collared polo’s and sometimes Costa shades…very unassuming. Also most women, unconsciously, do a lot of self projection when they talk about men.
I have four friends who are doctors. None of them have baller cars or fancy clothes. All four make well beyond 125k. Two have houses that look like some crazy ish. The third just remodeled his house to look like a damn movie house. The last one lives in his family home in a million dollar, a home area of Vegas. The richest dude I've ever met dressed like a bum when I met him. I thought he was borderline homeless. Come to find out, the dude has 2 companies worth 100 million. I didn't believe him until I dropped him off at his home while we discussed business design and valuation (Uber driver). A gold 2020 BMW roadster and a gold 2020 BMW 750 in the driveway of a million dollar home. Doing real estate at the time, I can verify his house costs more than 2 million.
Yeah, I been done with dating apps. I havent been on there for years...but I renigged and went back a few months ago. Its worst than it was before. The women still the same bitter ass women on there. And the app(POF) is much worse than it was. The ladies that would mainly respond back was the ones that didnt want anything serious. The ones that say that they are looking for something serious, most havent responded. And most consider me tall, dark & handsome...so idk. And get this...the ones that did respond back...a lot were already in situationships or other issues. Mann. I deleted that app with the quickness. Mann. IJS
You wrong this time Phillip. For centuries men have been attracted to younger women. Regardless if you have a daughter in her 20’s, other women in their 20’s are adults and way more appealing than women in their mid-30’s to late 40’s any day.
In Africa, South America and some parts of Asia age is not a problem. Age is a problem in the U.S. because women know that most older men wants a younger women. And to get rid of the competition they have to brain wash the younger women. Plus younger women have less baggage than older women.
I'm glad women don't recognize "quiet luxury". I need them to keep calling us all "dusty". It helps all of us to weed them out quickly.
Preach on my friend
Yep!😊
😉
Yes sir.
Im the king of dusty keep away bt 1000s
When she was younger, she probably turned down the successful good men because they were boring! Now, she hit the wall and feeling some type of way!
And I call 🧢on her whole rant... Ppl with 0 self awareness tend to embellish the truth (aka lie). She was never it and ain't it now.
Exactly women only know what they see!
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LIKE A MUTHAFUCKA 👍🏾💯
@@rallacewasheed1422 You can look at her and tell she was never it. She was getting smashed by hood dudes and now that she wants stability she think she deserves more. Most successful, attractive, eligible Blk men don't won't an average looking, overweight, masculine female.
Phil ain't lying about meeting people while traveling. People called me weird for traveling solo, mainly BW, and I've literally changed my entire life because of it. Some of my best friends and relationships have come from traveling.
Me too. Traveling is life.
Good for you! I’ve been traveling solo for years. Trying to travel with others can be a disaster.
@@WhyUmadWhy Thank God I got my passport renewed already 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same here!!
Yep, the only thing I would add is be careful about going on group travel trips. I have done that a couple of times and it's like 90% women which is cool but a lot of times, the women can be catty or be straight up haters if they feel you are vibing with one of the other women in the group. I have definitely experienced that
Quiet luxury to spot successful men is something most black women are not used to unless they were raised by one. My sister had to learn this working for a black dude who owns the largest steel company in my state. She also gets to meet his business partners and friends regulary that also own major establishments. She raves how simple they look and yet well groomed and polished. You will never know such men run over $50 million businesses. She now understands why these type of black men typically end up with white women; not because they don't like black women, simply put, white women know how to spot them and have the acceptable looks these men want. By acceptable looks, I mean no tattoos and fake stuff on you, which disqualify a lot of sisters.
BOOM!!! FACTS!!!
Check the men wearing Hokas lol
Wow just wow. Your opinion of Black women is very low. Maybe you should come up out the "hood" and you will meet successful women. White women are known to be "gold diggers"! They search for rich Black men or rich men in general. I've seen how they operate. They don't want to work, period!
All Black women don't wear lashes, weaves or wigs. Don't forget white women wear wigs and weaves. I see them in Black owned salons.
Personally I am natural, wear little makeup. Hood guys don't like me because I'm not attracted to them. Don't generalized all Black women.
Wealth is Quiet, Rich is Loud, Poor is Flashy.
Spot on with your comment!
Words of wisdom
Top comment brother.
The quiet luxury gets you appreciated, whereas the flashy luxury gets you noticed. The quiet luxury is more understated and subtle, while flashy luxury is more dramatic and eye-catching. Quiet luxury appeals to those with good taste and an appreciation for quality, while flashy luxury appeals to those with a love of showmanship. Quiet luxury speaks to a sense of understated sophistication and class, while flashy luxury is more ostentatious and attention-grabbing. Quiet luxury appeals to those who value quality and understated elegance, while flashy luxury appeals to those who value extravagance and drama.
Girl...straight bars❤
Speak!!!
Well Said. I was in an elevator and happened to have on a pair of expensive wing tips. A man next to me noticed and called out the brand and complimented me on them. He too was stylish but not overly so. He had on a pair of tips too and we laughed. In context to this video, takes one to know one. I didn't take note of the watch he was wearing but I had on my Movado, my 10 year old watch.
Nothing funnier that a mildly attractive woman (being generous) complaining about unattractive men.
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You definitely being generous.
Too generous for me
Lol the comment section is funny and everyone serious
Simps give her attention, but she thinks she can do better than them
She aint even the type of woman a high value man would want. So many of our women are delusional
Exactly 💯
They're not our women
@@evos469 she belongs to the black community. Gtfo
Earrings, hair, cheap awkward fitting clothing. Positive energy, good vibes instead of frustration. Change the appearance to White House Black Market air and things will change.
What type of women do high value men want?
My brother owns 3 businesses and wears a tee shirt and jeans everywhere...He drives a 2004 Lexus GX because he moves money around and avoids attention....ABW don't know who high value men are. 😂💯
This booger right here....😂 successful men aren't flashy. We're mild mannered and our mindset is completely different. Things don't own or make us. We own and make them
The modern woman problem: The men I want don't want me.
And the simple solution for that is for women to choose between the men (there at least a few) who want THEM!❤️😉
FACT 👍🏾💯
Men have that same problem.
When I was in America, I drove around in a $500.00 Nissan I bought at a police auction, wore pajamas everyday to work, and women constantly kept asking if I was poor! But I absolutely loved it!
You were not in corporate America wearing pajamas to work. The👹 is a liar.
10 years... ma'am have been moved to the clearance section of the dating market. At 40, you go to the thrift store.
😉 Pure KS.
Facts
Most millionaires in Texas drive an F150 truck like my dad.
Yeah it's a lot of f-150 Ford's drivers down there in Texas.
Same with my state Georgia. We love pickup trucks down south.😅
FACTS!
@@saonedixon5476that's basically the south as a whole
Exactly 💯
F150 IS NICE but Give me A Toyota Tundra!!!
Two words: Ran Through
I QUIT dating apps 15 years ago. Massive waste of time.
You can hear in her voice that's she's mad aggressive and masculine.
She definitely has that raspy voice and scrappy vocal inflections.
She has the smokers voice with a dash of phelm.
Unfortunately that's NYC aura
I’m gonna be honest with y’all about the dating app. I took a chance going on one and I guess at the time the woman I’m with told me she took a chance. She’s always by my side, and a blessing to me. She’s originally from Jamaica and now a year later, we’re married. She didn’t pay attention to my income like a multitude of other women and she’s not at all materialistic. We are very happy together. God is good.
Oh wow so the sky isn’t falling ?
@@Callsignethiopia Nope. Lol
How wonderful for you!
Congratulations!🍾🎈🎉 ❤️
@@patriciacoley3801 Thank you.
These stories do exist! Congratulations. 🙌🏿🙏🏿
Social media has gassed the average ABW heads up to gargantuan levels.
💯 gassed up all races
I make over 200k and drive a Mercedes. I aint rich but Its nothing wrong with driving a nice car if u can afford it. He is right about the clothes. I don't buy name brand attire because I know it cost pennies to make and overpriced. Who you attract is solely on how you move
Facts!!!
Definitely why buy brand from a WS
That’s a nice Mercedes
100%
People try to steal your vehicle?
She needs to self evaluate and see what energy she gives off to brothas!
Factz 💯 OG✊
Exactly and we are too busy on our purpose
No she needs to just continue to move in the opposite direction
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She manly. It oozes through the video and her voice
Success is being in great health.
If you don't have your health you have absolutely nothin.
Say it again, say it again!....in Pinky's voice!!
No lies about the vehicles. I've done delivery work in some very rich neighborhoods (most deliveries I made were overwhelmingly in rich and upper middle class neighborhoods) and I noticed that a bunch of them drive the nicer end of regular brand vehicles. Toyota, Honda, Ford, Dodge, etc. I dont recall seeing too many Porsches, Lambos, etc.
Toyota Supra, Nissan GTR, Honda NSX, Honda S2000 all expensive cars that these ran through females can never see its value.
Man give me decent Toyota Tundra low miles, clean, late model and in Good..
@@pulloutsange they're too busy looking for the exotic names that rappers are peddling. They think those are the only kind of expensive vehicles to exist.
In the areas I work at , see them all the time lol. Especially in fairfax and Loundon county.
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She should've given that dude a chance in her early 20s it's too late now hun
A Pretty boy with money is what most American women want. Us average & not so average looking brothers with money still can pull, but we gotta come with a lil extra personality money etc. Unlike the pretty boyz. They can pull women just by there looks and be broke as hell. But women will get tried of taking care of a pretty boy.
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Man where I'm from (Akron,Ohio) you got women out here that will literally fw you for less lol
@@JamalJewelland you'll walk away with luggage you can't get rid of. Disgusting
They will get tired, after they have given the pretty boy a kid or two.
Get tired of Pookie and expect YOU to clean up the mess…
30 and out of shape that bad next 😂
I have to look away because these women are so visually stressful
I feel ya! 👊👊✊✊👏👏👏👌👌
Thats because she didnt see them when she was young and in her prime and they were trying to come ip and on the grind Now they dont see you when they've crossed the finish line and you sitting there waiting for winners. Beat it!!!
In high school, the nerds approached me! These same guys grew up to be the good looking and successful brothers! Most respectful and decent brothers are too grown for social media!!! ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
Very true
I agree Sis.
Thats why alot of successful black men have a hard time talking with women who rejecting them back in the day calling guys nerds! Well who are you?
As a nerd whom the girls taunted with insults back during that phase of life, I would never want anything to do with them now
Some of these brothas just ain’t got no game and keep blaming the women who don’t like them. Shyt is mad funny to me. Kause I was a “nerd” in HS but I made that shyt kool and never had a problem with women not EVER. So it’s about your konfidence guys, just Kause the girls overlook u don’t mean they want the so kalled pookie and Ray Ray, they just don’t want YOU. Step your game up, wear your konfidence and go after who you want.
Kevin Smauels warned 'em😂
Most of sisters are dressing half naked and revealing way too much of their flesh. If you watch a lot of older movies back during my mother's day women use to dress more modestly and some looked very nice in dresses not too tight.
FACT 👍🏾💯
These women don't listen at all
I'm 33 and have dated professional women in their 30s and 40s and a lot of the time they're worse than chicks in their early 20s in terms of maturity, logic and behavior. Briefly dated a teacher at a private school, never been on a date or a relationship at 36 years old, not a virgin. Dated a therapist 34 years old, was almost as bad as that therapist that went viral and got fired. Dated a counselor for a couple of months 42 years old, she brought up her partner history unprompted and turned into a baby when I started pointing out her mistakes. There's honestly more
Yeah they are crazy. Many many unresolved issues
Yikes! 😂😂😂
@@c____89 yes, dating older professional women doesnt help you avoid issues like Phil was trying to say, I've been considering dating a little younger for a while, not teens but definitely mid 20s or maybe even early 20s. Women in their 30s and 40s are as relatable as any other woman
Teachers, therapists and social workers are the worse. They bring their job home with them.
@@geraldos9094 except for therapists the other two had non work related issues. The teacher was major red flags, she had to go. She was a teacher at an all boys school discussing relationship topics with her students...and her students thought she wasnt making any sense lol. The counselor she didnt want to see the mistakes she made in her past, I can tell no one ever told her the truth. The therapists would intentionally try to trigger me to gauge my response, she definitely brought work home
something in common you say Phil. No man wants a old women. You expect a man to work his tail off,make his self a top tier man to hook Up with a depreciate asset . I strongly disagree.
If she'd jump out of the shallow water she would find a plethora of good Men out here.
It seems to me a lot of those women care more about how they feel than what's real😮
They think that old kitty is still top market 😂😂😂
I was on a dating app 6yrs ago and this female was 30 yrs old had a son 15 and a daughter 6 and still was representing her flag gang culture and she also told me she’s gonna be a grandma the following yr as soon as I found out she was a baby mama many flags went up and the grenades and more artillery came in play I haven’t been on a dating app since
RIGHT 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The way she carries herself, the way she speaks and her masculine energy all spell hood chick and arguments forthcoming. She's not a woman I'd ever consider approaching. Just too rough around the edges.
RIGHT 😂😂😂😂
Gee i wonder why the successful men her age aren't asking her out? Maybe because she and women like her back then would turn their noses up at those same men and ignore them because they weren't their type. Now that times have changed and tables turned, those same men they wouldn't give the time of day to, are now returning the same energy back and rightly so.
It seems the problem in the black community is that soooo many average or below average women feel entitled to a high value man. I am sure this problem exists in other races too, but not to this extent. These women should learn to date within their level
That exist in every race and culture in both genders. I know a guy trying holler highly educated and successful young lady but can't even hold a conversation about global current affairs.
People don't realize how difficult relationships will be if you can't even come close to the level of understanding you both can have. I have declined interest with another women for simple reason that these young ladies who have showed in me way out of my league.
I personally hate to try hard to fit in where I don't belong.
That's all westernized women to be honest
@@BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure : Factsssss, because it's all about sex and drama for bw. They will also attach you for talking about Pooky & Ray Ray.
Here you have a plastic fork looking for a silver knife! 😂
Ouccchhhh 😂😂😂
True
Isaiah 4:1
“And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.”
Tell Them Uncle 💯💯💯You on POINT
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Her Ship has Sailed Many, Many, Many Years Ago..🙄🙄🙄🙄
😂😂😂 silly of her.
Successful men get judged by their peers for their choice of woman. The wrong choice can absolutely stop his advance in his professional circles of influence.
With the economic situation of the country today, you have a lot of desperate women out there. It is too expensive to date anyone now. After you pay your monthly expenses, there's only enough left for one person. Be wise and spend it on yourself. Buy a good book.
Thank you very much Phil thank you. You are absolutely right but that’s what’s wrong with a Melanated and African-American sisters they haven’t been taught the right way stop looking at these men with dollars and look at them spiritually and who is godly.
I don’t agree that successful men don’t dress nice and drive nice cars, that’s not true. The common denominator amongst successful men is actually discipline, leadership, and a great network of other highly competitive men.
It's not just the top she's wearing, but look at the oversized hoodrat earings she's wearing. As a successful over 100K brother, this isn't the type of sister I want to "Share My World" with.
Ear rings bro, you crazy at list she has her natural hair lol if she ain't your type that's okay, but ear rings?
I like the natural hair. Some corporate brothas tend to like the creamy crack look. I can’t stand weaves and wigs. She also is a bit overweight. She’s breathing heavy while talking and walking.
@thekorsh4230 The word is least, not "list". And where is the period after hair? Comma's after type & okay? Sarcastic comment now, I see why she's your type to raise your children. Little things stand out.
Agreed. She definitely ain't got no manners and loses her manners in the most random of ways talking about excuse me. Yes excuse yourself right over there away from me for the rest of your life
@@jamesm6413 You sound you are dealing with some real anger and even hatred towards Black women. If you don't find her attractive brother, just move on.
You're absolutely 100% correct. I am from New York City, and the wealthy men usually ride public transportation and / or walk around with non name, brand stuff, jeans and tee shirts, and sometimes holes in their jeans. It's the poor ones who get off in the hoods, walk around with name brands and are broke with baby mommas all over and don't pay for none of their kids, hang out on the corners and are about nothing. The same goes for women. All about name brands and don't own real estate . Having a lot of cash is not a determining factor when it comes to credit scores.
FACTS 💯👍🏾
Many years ago, I heard about a transportation and shipping magnate in NYC that actually *walked* to work. The guy was a billionaire but wasn’t hanging out with celebrities or trying to “dress to impress.” If you saw the guy on the street you’d have thought he was just another executive. I think his name was Daniel (or David?) Ludwig?
I would presume that every dude thinks that he's deserving of the most attractive woman yet he knows that that is mostly likely what he won't get (to date) while women truly believe they are only deserving of the top 1% man.
And they wholeheartedly believe this & if they don't get this type of man, it is an absolute injustice to them, they become sooo embittered & aggrieved.
Delulu 🥴🤪🤡 for real
I've been living the quite luxury life for years now. It's one of the best ways too hide yourself from gold diggin 304's.
I like to call it 'stealth mode'. And what Phil is saying is absolutely correct!
Ladies like her by the way she present herself to the world, are quick to TELL ON THEMSELVES IN AN INSTANT once you start speaking to them!😂🤷🏽♂️
Before she even started talking the first thing I noticed was how she was dressed. I'm not sure a man in his 40s can't date a women in her 20s. My parents were 14.5 years apart. A lot of men in my family were the same, and a lot of them outlived their younger wife.
Exactly. Women in their 30s/40s have too much unresolved issues, their fertility is almost over and a lot of them rejected us because we were building ourselves, so now that we’re successful they wanna jump onboard? Nope, not gonna happen. Let me get a 20 something years old that can give me a legacy and if she leaves well, I’ll think of something, we all die alone anyway
She need to get a selfie stick cause the camera moving to much!!😂😂
Bravo dating App and Social Media! Drizzle Drizzle 2024! ANKH-ASE!
Bw full of drama and chaos
They doing right thing
Maybe you're just lame.
I haven't had any issues with sistas.
My find is that "brothers" who make these Blanket statements, just like the "sistas" who do the same. Usually are lame, couldn't pull and now they're angry at all Black women.
Men with money ain’t checking for her . She need to get with a regular man . With stable job and call it a day.
Exactly brother Phillip, thats what K.S was trying to teach those siaters, do they qualify for those kind of men as well. Huh!! We all done know how some of them other women done danced on his grave, infact celebrated b4 he was even layed to rest when he passed. R.I.POWER K.S forever missed but never forgtten.
Also, if a older man wants children he has to go to a younger woman. With a older woman he may has to spend $100, 000 to get her pregnant because after 35 years old the woman is considered a high risk pregnancy.
The wall is undefeated!
Most men do not want to deal with a woman going thru menopause. WHICH is many women over 35 years old.
I like the term "quiet luxury" because it keeps them guessing. And also the woman needs to change her wardrobe. But she's gonna have to make some improvements.
The late great KS tried to tell them what makes then qualified but they wouldn’t listen. She doesn’t qualify.
I only date younger women. Less mileage (i.e.: Bodies), less emotional/psychological damage and no kids for the most part.
Be careful they ain’t hiding them at grandma’s! 😂
Facts, all facts. Ladies please listen and take these nuggets dropped by Brotha Phil. Brothas listen too.
Because we dont got time for anyone not on our program 😂
Any dude that hits all those marks she wouldn’t qualify for that’s why she’s not finding them
Also her demeanor can turn men off, especially if he has some kind of self worth.
I know successful brothers that won't even talk to black women on a relationship tip. It's because they know what the future holds for them with these black women. These guy, especially in the financial careers: financial adviser, accounting and insurance - they only look into the future. And they see no future with black women. Thesy won't even say anything to black women. They may tell their fellow brother.
I Concur with Uncle Phil he stay 💯✊.
I grew up with nothing but the sistas, went to predominantly black schools with nothing but sistas, raised by nothing but the Sistas, now on the real I want other women Outside the sistas that's why I support the passport bros, Sysbm4life.
Stay Strong my brothers ✊ we deserve better than this Westernized Plantation 💯
I'm thinking about buying or creating a dating apps for us single truckers. if they ain't already gottem.
She can go to single matchmakers 😂😂😂
You’re definitely spot on with females keeping their attire modest and conservative. When I see a woman out here walking around looking like her, I assume that she’s just basic, not pursuing success, not being trustworthy, not staying in relationships long, etc. I’m not saying I’m judging them, because I don’t know them. I say that to people who’ll be saying I’m judging. No, it’s the look. Just like Dave Chappelle said in one of his shows: “If you put on a cop uniform and walk around, people will think you’re a cop. If you dress like a ho, people will call you a ho!” Just saying!😅
The Holy Quran says that Wealth does not stand for Greatness!
The Quran is a blasphemous book. Jesus Christ is the only way into God's Kingdom.
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 i hope she's listening to your commentary
The BW has an image around the world. This image plays a major role in being approached by certain type of men.
I long stopped going on dating sites because they're a waste of time.
100% facts rich people don’t show it
The Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan said to start small and grow larger like everything else does!
She outa breath just walking around . No thank you
Women are willing to share the same top-tier men anyhow...that's not new.
👏🏾Phil Broke It Down!
Give me a Seiko, Citizen, Casio, or even a good Timex. Everything else is show business.
As true as that could be, that spring drive movement from Grand Seiko is just a work of mechanical genius..
Agreed and if it's an Eco drive even better!
Stop it. Those watches don’t appreciate like a Rolex. Buy a quality Rolex and it’s ultimately free. I’ve owned several and always sold them for a profit. Just make sure it’s all original….
@@clarencedolan699 How about Omega they keep their value mostly yes?
Been saying this since forever…the vast majority of guys who are wealthy…wear cargo shorts, flip flops/boat shoes, collared polo’s and sometimes Costa shades…very unassuming. Also most women, unconsciously, do a lot of self projection when they talk about men.
I have four friends who are doctors. None of them have baller cars or fancy clothes. All four make well beyond 125k. Two have houses that look like some crazy ish. The third just remodeled his house to look like a damn movie house. The last one lives in his family home in a million dollar, a home area of Vegas. The richest dude I've ever met dressed like a bum when I met him. I thought he was borderline homeless. Come to find out, the dude has 2 companies worth 100 million. I didn't believe him until I dropped him off at his home while we discussed business design and valuation (Uber driver). A gold 2020 BMW roadster and a gold 2020 BMW 750 in the driveway of a million dollar home. Doing real estate at the time, I can verify his house costs more than 2 million.
The wall is at 24 years old women. What'd you-all expect past that age?
True
Everything about her says hardheaded, disrespectful and extremely difficult to deal with, why would a man worth anything deal with her?
Yeah, I been done with dating apps. I havent been on there for years...but I renigged and went back a few months ago. Its worst than it was before. The women still the same bitter ass women on there. And the app(POF) is much worse than it was.
The ladies that would mainly respond back was the ones that didnt want anything serious. The ones that say that they are looking for something serious, most havent responded. And most consider me tall, dark & handsome...so idk.
And get this...the ones that did respond back...a lot were already in situationships or other issues. Mann. I deleted that app with the quickness. Mann. IJS
Quiet professional men with Character move in different circles. They are not flashy and loud.
6:58 you're giving our secrets away. I drive a Subaru, and the only name brand is my shoes and watch. 😂
I love Subaru, just scared of their CVT version
You wrong this time Phillip. For centuries men have been attracted to younger women. Regardless if you have a daughter in her 20’s, other women in their 20’s are adults and way more appealing than women in their mid-30’s to late 40’s any day.
Successful & Attractive Brothas: ✈
The 80/20 rule always plays itself out!
Warren Buffett drives a Volvo sedan which is common for average joes to drive.
OHHH H&LL NOOOO!
Rate her 1-10, she a 4. How can a 4 want a HVM
Because HVM sleep with them every now & then so they become delusional. It's a sad situation.
Delusion
A 3, and that's generous.
As a woman I wouldn't even want to befriend her.
In Africa, South America and some parts of Asia age is not a problem. Age is a problem in the U.S. because women know that most older men wants a younger women. And to get rid of the competition they have to brain wash the younger women. Plus younger women have less baggage than older women.