SELF CARE after a sad breakup 💗
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ย. 2024
- IN TODAY'S VLOG: reflecting on my feelings, setting up my apartment, getting back to myself w/ some self care, Iyanla episodes, and finding my superpower! #GirlPower 💗
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did you find your superpower yet?
always remember.... YOU ARE A BOSS ASS BITCH 💗
#TJTV
Real Talk
Present!! 💁🏽♀️ sending you love light and support T !❤️❤️❤️
No 😔
Yu a BOSS ASS BITCH too!
I sure did honey, long time ago. I let it go and never looked back. You only get one time to mistreat me💯Self care is no joke, we have to periodT. Love you T. #TJTV
There's nothing like waking up in your own shit. Break ups are bad but bouncing back 💪 is Amazing! Love you girl.
Aint that the truth💯
In our own shit!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
So true!
But the house was hers too though right?
@@SittingPRETTY727 I believe they shared the house as most married couples do.
@@britnee2586 that's what I was thinking I support her and enjoy watching her. I just feel like she's acting as if the house they built wasn't hers too because she keeps talking about "my own" . I know that sometimes men can become mean though when you first get a home together like couples start fussing about decorating and this my house. It's almost like she's doing this to prove a point that she can have her own and be independent without him.
Sometimes a break up isn't a bad thing. A break up can be a relief, some of us hold on to thing we knew we should have been let go so when circumstances force us to let go its more of a relief. I see the peace in her eyes, it doesn't necessarily mean she not hurting because memories hurt sometimes but I can feel the healing vibe. I hope the absolute best for you , you're going to see the blessings start rolling in. 🙏
Beautifully said 🤍
agreed. this is where i’m at. 🤍
New Beginnings are always welcomed.. Grow and learn from past. Move on to the future ♈💯💥💃
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I’ve watched this woman put together a bunk bed, hang up a mirror on her wall and put up a headboard!! Tierra you are every woman boo, I’m here for your strength and empowerment!!!
Yes and yes 👏🏾
Girl! !
True definition of get it done!
Thank you. I despise my child’s father for treating my son different bc he’s a boy. “You’re a boy, you’re not supposed to cry” wtf else is he supposed to do, he just turned 4 he’s a CHILD with feelings. And I’d be dammed if he grow up hurting ppl around him bc he’s hurt from not being able to hurt out loud.
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more parents like you *please*
@@allyma3 thank you, I try to
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This is the one! They wonder why they grow up so heartless!
Been watching you for a minute, when Teress graduated from Basic Training and Al was a baby. I am really sad for you and Teress because I saw the love you both had for each other, but I support your strength and growth. I wish you both peace and happiness during your separation. I will continue to pray for you both to heal and forgive and co parent. You are a hell of a women T.
Ms. T that's the same way I feel!
I understand breakups happen, but it's still takes awhile to adjust, especially when you see 2 beautiful people together with 3 beautiful children.
Praying
Some places are NOT good for relationships...Georgia is one of them. I hated to see when you two moved there smh.
I still remember when he had dreads Lol, I'm ol skool and I hope and pray they get back together 🥰
@@tlady9969 I agree. Everyone that I watch that lives in Georgia are constantly in and out of relationships
@@remembermsmoore I watched Lewis Love Family and the first thing they did was move out of Georgia. There are statistics online about places to go for "Healthy Relationships"...Party towns are usually AIDS infested and haters of relationships smh...
Having a piece of mind is priceless.
Peace
Say it again 💥💯👏👍🌬💃♈👊💛
And having your whole mind is even better. 🤣
What I were saying is, And I apologize for miss spelling, Having a peace of mind is priceless.
Yes indeed
My divorce just finalized in november. It took time but I've never felt better. Between therapy and rona keeping me in the house, God has allowed me to do real work. Your home and children are beautiful. It takes time, but God heals all wounds and always stays true to his word. Stay encouraged. ❤
When my aunt broke up with her husband she said a woman asked her “Congratulations or I’m sorry?” and I can honestly tell you T, Congratulations! I’m so excited to see you grow in this new phase of life!!❤️❤️
I know there are a lot of women afraid to start over even when it's just them. You are starting over with 3 babies and showing people it can be done. Your journey is so inspiring and I hope you continue to get stronger everyday.❤❤❤❤
My boys and I are going to start up a channel encouraging teens with life issues and giving them advice. I have 4 black sons and we talk about stuff daily.
That’s a wonderful idea ! My son is 16, we love talking too
Ms. Duncan, u are raising your sons to be OPEN, ABLE to express their emotions, & interact with the opposite sex. Pks. Start that channel. What is the name if ut so i can be watching for it & tell my son , si he can tell his friends, we need this more than u know! Love it. ! Son young man are about to get Bless in becoming the best they can be & that IS ALWAYS A PLUS! THANK U. grace to u & all. gh
Pls forgive misspell words. Texting so fast so i could get back to watching mrs. Tj grace to all. gh
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My Son is 21 and we have the best relationship!! Always talk to them and understand their point of view , you have life long body guards with Sons gotta love it!
This reminds me of Ari Lenox's song new apartment... that true feeling of freedom
A lot of emotions come with a breakup. Depending on the circumstance, some women feel a primary sense of freedom, happiness and relief. That’s where I was after my breakup. Hadn’t been by myself in 28 years. Finally discovering myself and I like her! Seems like you’re there too. Self-care is really important. Keep doing it!
Life is too short to be unhappy, congrats!!!
I’m sorry about the breakup. I’m glad you are taking of yourself still. I love the new intro. I look forward the consistent and great content you still provide. Hang in there, things will get better. Trouble don’t last always.
I smiled so hard throughout this whole video and now my face hurts. I can feel the happiness through the phone. ❤️❤️❤️ you’re doing a wonderful job. Keep it up Momma!
Candice B girl I said the same thing it’s so much peace coming through 😆😆😆
Iyanla been doing something to my spirit as well sis. I don't know who she think she is but...it's what I need.
Girl we feel you and when got lit and talk about marrying young and the things that followed we can basically follow abd figure it out
Your old house was nice, but your new apartment looks so full of love.
Destiny's Child Free got me through some break ups too ❤👌🏾
Yoooo that took me BACKKKKKK
Always admired you the way you help yourself. girl I love being alone its the best thing ever.you work very hard caring for your kids cleaning. girl you are bless
I love her show too. It definitely is therapy even when the problems don’t directly relate to your current situation. She’s amazing!! A God sent!
Having your own place hit differenttttt, bomb asf😭🙌🏾 Loving seeing you truly HAPPY🤍
Life is beautiful on the other side of heartbreak. Once you tap into your own energy God will show you miracles. I'm so happy for you. The worst is over. You can't buy peace and happiness. You are an example to your beautiful, smart and loving children.
Peace! ♡
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
Everyone’s breaking up these days, on to new beginnings. Wishing you peace and prosperity this coming year 💕
I wouldn't say the B word, but u are definitely a BOSS!!
Put God first, and he will continue to bless you with inner peace!!!
Amen
this world man, smh..... it’s like we’re all going through something. speaking love, light and continuous blessings over you and your little ones.❤️
Girl I have two boys and it bugs me THE MOST that their father has that “boys don’t cry” mindset. I worry about my 6 year old bc I’m telling him how it’s okay to feel and express himself and then his father is in the other ear telling him different. I refuse to raise emotionless men.
Reading this title .. nearly brought tears to me eyes !. Ughh ! All I can do is pray and send my best wishes through watching your videos ! I’ve been watching since forever.. and I’ve watched every single video on both your channels ! Some of em twice ! But I know a phenomenal woman when I see one .. and you have been a phenomenal women ! Hell I’ve come to watch your mom vlogs when I felt like I was lost with no one to turn to for support or guidance.. but I appreciate you for being you and continuing to do this youtube thing even through changes.. and the life and strength you have given to me alone over the years .. I just know you have touched so many more lives and you are so blessed ! And anyone who actually has the privilege to know you in real life is just as blessed 😌 that’s all I have !
If u mount a tv on the wall go on amazon and get the no stud wall mount it’s an easy install and dnt harm the walls. 😘😘😘 sending peace and love
You going through this has helped alot of women!! Especially myself, stay safe and keep smiling & twerking sis!👍🏾love ya💜
Women are truly UNBREAKABLE. We may bend but with the MERCY, GRACE AND COMFORT of GOD....We do not BREAK! Stay strong T! BLESSINGS and love. 💕
Love you so much T and you know it takes a lot of courage to even share this part of you. Much love from Texas💛❤️💛❤️
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You are so so right @Wahu takes much courage. I'm older than T and she's teaching me, WoW(nvr too old or too young to learn) bc I deal with whatever it is and then I'm done with it, I don't talk about it to no one I just let it go and move on. She's showing me that sharing is def part of self care WoWww!
Girl yes, I love me some Iyanla! I respect her and the work that she is doing so much. So much healing for our community 🙏🏾
Ok.....we roasted you last night for cussin those blinds but today is different. I was a fan already but this remastered you.... I’m here for it!! 17 years ago I divorced my husband. My son was 7. Separation/divorce is not easy especially when you have more than one child because you have to be there for them in different ways and at different times. One thing I can share with you is please don’t push your emotions to the side-sit in them, go through them until you reach the other side. It’s ok to not be ok. I’m 48 years of age and some things are still a struggle for me. Once again I wish you the best of everything!!!! ❤️
You are doing well! Break ups aren’t easy at all. However, you get to do you now! Freedom! Love the bedroom. Self care is so important. May God continue to: bless, uplift, strengthen, comfort, and most of all love you. Much love.💜
I can’t watch an episode of Iyanla without crying. I swear every episode I be just relating to so damn much.
Also T go to target or Walmart and get a candle warmer. You can plug it up and just place the broken candle on top!
Keep doing what you're doing. You are inspiring women all over the world! Women that are old enuff to be your mom and even your grandmother! Woman have been in relationships for 34 years and married for 24 years. Been in it since they were 19 years old. Moved out an began to build a life. Now the youngest is 18. 34 years later. He leaves. He waited till the youngest was 18. And ( 54. Never having your own place is crazy, scary. You r an inspiration. I know it's not all happy. You're doing it with 3 kids! Under 6! 3!!! Omg! Do it girl!! Keep being strong! People r watching! You will continue to be blessed because u don't know it but you r giving women hope of ALL ages!! Luv u for that!
Okay I see you getting your apartment looking like you...I love the way you have your bedroom set up 💜💜
I'm so proud of you Tierra!! Superwoman, boss, mama extraordinaire!
So so so sad to see your family going through this but I applaud your strength. So many women stay for the sake of having a man. Find your strength. Girl I played the hell out Destiny Child Free when I got divorced. (Though I do not wish the D word on you) I do pray you and Teress will find healing.
Say it again!
Beautiful❤ I'm starting over after ending a 7 year relationship. It's hard I was used to being with him all the time but GOD pulled me away for something better. Keep pushing forward you got this you are a strong woman 💪🏽
Yass honey....aint nothing like finding yourself and peace of mind by yourself. I vow to not ever go back to a place where i lost myself being in a relationship. Im proud of you girl💜💜💜💜
Sending love & prosperity your way!!
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Omg your name is almost like Breonna Taylor🥺
@@xxqueenxiexx1314 yea, the same age too 😢
@@brehawkins Oh wow what a coincidence 🥺🙏🏾
@I Say What I Gotta Say And I'm Done ! you can go to hell for me! & that’s to you and not the whole world 😊 respectfully
I’m praying for your healing and I’m so happy you have a supportive family! ✨you are strong
Your house looks awesome so far, we as women definitely has super power.. we are mother, friends, designers, lovers, nurse, doctors, drivers and providers!! We runs the world!!
you help alot of individuals too Tierra just like the show you mentioned and you still remain positive and keep it pushing
Get it girl!! Women have a inner strength. Can’t be explained. ❤️
✨I am so so sorry about ur breakup T, Damn I so sorry, but girl when I tell u I am LUVVVVIIINNN the PowerUp, BAYBE U are doing the damn thang! Handle u, we’re here✊🏾❤️❤️❤️
You did what so many women are afraid to do! And I commend you for that! Wishing you all the best on your new journey and I wish you nothing but the best for you and your babies!
Im happy you back uploading☺
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I think I love you even more! When I first started watching you, it was all about hair but I've grown to love your personality and seeing you being so transparent is such a fucking vibe!! This single parent shit is for the birds but I truly am blessed to be able to provide for myself and my kids!! I wish you all the happiness, love, prosperity, peace and blessings this life has in store for you!! 😍😍😍😍😍
Girl close your blinds people crazy on the internet 😩... just looking out I’m so proud of you
It's the beautiful Black queen moving with style and grace for me! You make motherhood look so effortless, I aspire to be able to handle it like that once I have children. I'm rooting for you! You got this!♥♥♥
I’ve def been there and came through it stronger and even more fierce... you got this mama! Much love and blessings sent your way 💞
Listen I have been following you and those babies since Day 1, and believe me I know how it feels to put your life on hold for your spouse trying to make sure you do the right thing by your family and you do so much until it weighs on you and your spirit i am so proud of you because it's so easy to get lost but hard to be found unless you take back control of you! Good luck to you and keep up the good work Tierra J. Kiss those Beautiful babies for me.❤🙏❤🙏❤🌹🌹
It's going to be okay Tierra, you can't let anything stress you out
I'm 57 I love breakups. Had quite a few. I always have a CRUSH 😍 waiting.
Tell ‘em Sis.. there’s always a wait 🙆🏽♀️💅🏽
Is it me or are you giving 90’s beauty vibes.😍
The bounce back for you will be everything!! Stay true to yourself and take care of yourself as well. It gets better!
Zaza is so cute doing that to her little hand! STAY STORNG TT!
I'm so proud of you for choosing and being in control of your happiness even if it hurts. I left my first husband after 20 years (married for 10) but I remember that euphoric feeling i had when I got that apartment and decorated. I went through so many different emotions as well. You got this, as you already know. I love your Spirit. Keep pushing and praying 🙏
I’m so happy for you Tierra, that’s so true ant no feeling like being free!! I love your home!!
You deserve EVERYTHING that’s coming your way! I’m loving the glow sis!! 🥰
Glad to see you're doing well 🥂🥂. Sometimes we do need our OWN SPACE. I'm going through that transition right now.
Sis you are absolutely right! We do have super powers!!! Especially for you to pull your whole apartment together that fast!!! You will heal! To new be beginnings 🍾🍻!!!
Yesssss I love the lights behind the bed. I’m bout to make my space better in 2021. When your space is happy you feel better. I’m bout to do some self care. Thank you sis 💜💜
Yes T self care is very important. Stay positive and keep peace in your life. Love how you set up the bedroom! Sending love and prayers to y'all. ❤😘
I had a break up 3 kids later and going through similar situation....loving my own space heeyyy
Keep that crown on Queen! You are literally glowing!
I’ve really been needing these videos from you. They are motivational for me. Currently going through a breakup with my kids dad and a tad bit lost on my next moves. Your courage to move out and start fresh is encouraging! You’re doing great ❤️
I just love the look on Zara’s face every time she looks at you and her brothers it’s just a beautiful smile. She melts my heart in so many ways. You are an amazing woman. Those smiles on those babies faces tell a whole lot that despite the circumstance they know that they are loved. I am so proud of you keep pushing forward towards your goals and keeping your mind body and spirit at peace! Love you girl🙏🏽❤️❤️ You know the gang is always here to cheer you on.
Yeah, that girl looks like such a happy baby!
I just love your strength, your strong mindset. You get it done💯 You're going to be A ok forreal💯💯💕😘 Continous Blessings T #TJTV
I totally agree... what you just wrote is so true
LMAOOOO @ red light special clip, a WHOLE MOOD baby! I'm so excited for this journey you are embarking on T. It's going to be a prosperous one. I can feel it!
T get a door jamber! You put it on the door when you're in for the night. It looks like a pole
Girl it’s ok you’re a busy momma that just moved and is fixing up her space! Love the apartment home🥰
Good for you for having the courage to step out on faith, and knowing when to leave. You got this and you will be just fine. Continue to walk in faith and not by sight. You are a good, loving and nourishing mother, the kids are going to be fine as well. Continue to co-parent in a positive manner. And always keep Jehovah God first and everything will fall into place. God bless you.
you’re glowing and radiating happiness! wishing you nothing but blessings and positivity during your new journey!
Tierra I am so happy for you. I can’t wait til I’m on my journey. I’ve been saving my money so I can make my move. Been in a 16yr complicated ass relationship. It’s time for some peace. Love you. So good to see you and the kids.
Tapping into yourself is a POWERFUL thing! Prayers love hugs and kisses❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘😘. Happy New Year🥰😘❤️
Hey Love! I'm sorry to hear about the breakup but I'm glad to see your feeling good and feeling great 🙏🏾❤
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@Raeshelle me too, I'm so sorry about the breakup. But, when I watch the vlogs now, I'm focusing on her being happy and the kids are good 😍😍😍 and I'm learning from her all at same time. T is so sweet and a awesome mother, she's doing great, she'll be alright😊💕💕🙏
Girl that Destiny's Child Free is the ultimate go to after a breakup!!! I am excited for what God has in store for you and your babies! I'm currently 27 and married (5 yrs this year) and it hasn't been all easy... Never been divorced with children, BUT I've had some unexpected breakup that took a really bad toll on me before and it will get better. ❤🥰
Good to see that your happy and getting yourself back together god bless you girl keep pushing forward with god in the midst.
You are so strong T. I love the vibes of the apartment and the fact your settling in nicely!!! Your energy and vibes is EVERYTHING..... This is your time darling.
Xoxox
Am so happy for you and your children it’s nothing like your own space and you seem more happy their then in the big home you were in. I wish you the best may god bless you and your children merry Christmas and happy new year.
Yesss much needed... I’m getting back to me 🙌🏾‼️and coming out of my slump . 💜 💪🏾 Girl Power
There's a first time for everything! You're ahead of the game. Keep your head up... the skies the limit! Take your time in everything you do. As long as you and the kids are happy, that's all that matters. #PROUDFAN
You bring me peace and I don’t even know you personally... I wish I had somebody like you in my life because my mental is just 👎🏾 im rooting for you 100% & wish you nothing but greatness! Love you Tierra 💗
YASS my Girl back i am loving this. Back to back vlogs 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I watch Iyanla faithfully and I try the self reflection portion of her exercises. She speaks life and wisdom.
I'm liking everything.
You are such an inspiration to me. You are such an amazing mother, boss/entrepreneur & human being. Wishing you all the best.♥️
Love you so much Tierra, your videos always make me smile! I’m so excited to see your new apartment projects! I hope someday I’m able to move out and get my first place too 😊 have a happy new year ✨
You are a strong women. I had to start over as well and let me say it was the best feeling. I've been much happier with just me and my son. God has your back.
Yes I'm n need of some me time too just broke up too but it was just two months so it probably doesn't matter but it still hurts
How you feel matters.
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So proud of you. Live your life. God will always make a way. Sometimes you have to leave and order for someone to appreciate you, or what you have.
Please make sure to secure your home. I know that the may apartment complex has it's own security system. But it wouldn't hurt to do a couple of extra steps.
Whitney Houston said it best: and I am not afraid to try it on my own , I don’t care if I’m right or wrong. I’ll live my life the way I feel, no matter what, I’m gonna keep it real, you know?
It’s TIME for me to do it on my own. 😔
Stay encouraged. The emotions are a roller coaster. And it’s okay to not be okay.
Can you say PEACE tho!!!! So proud & inspired.
I WANT MY SUPERPOWER!
I can definitely relate to this vlog, peace of mind is everything. The sadness and heart break will eventually go away and you will be living your best life with your children.