Caller 1: hes not moving backwards, hes not eunnung away. He doesnt want kids. It shouldnt matter if he is meeting her needs, he doesnt want kids. And even though she isnt looking for a dad for them, if they were to have a future, you cant avoid being a part of the kids life if you end up living together. Move on and find someone who aligns with what your life and future
Yes. And If the communication is so good as she says, and he repeated HE DOES NOT WANT TO GO BACKWARDS and be as before. Well you have your answer then, he does not want to continue like that. Is there even a question outside of her needing to take healthy steps to move on then? His issues and life becomes sort of irrelevant at that point.
Exactly my thoughts! Her saying “Well he doesn’t have to co-parent them” is ridiculous. If he has to be around them with you, it involves interaction and some degree of responsibility.
I love how Nick is doing all the talking to callers while Dr. Nicole is sitting there and is actually a licensed therapist that could give great advice
At this point she’s mostly a social media presence too - does she have an active practice? Licensing doesn’t mean much if you aren’t actively seeing clients - but maybe she is.
OMG the second called with the grinder left me speechless with her grace. I doubt she will see this but I just wanna say I’m thinking from you & can’t imagine how hard this is for you. I know this is not what you envisioned. Your grace & understanding is so commendable & admirable in spite of all this versus being petty & vengeful. I’m wishing you ALL the best. 💜
omg nicole’s philly accent made me feel right at home❤❤ i thought i recognized her name and then i realized i have read her book how to do the work on my kindle! would love to see her on ask nick more
Wow, this episode packed a big punch. I think u & Dr. Nicole did a great job tag teaming with the callers. Each caller had pretty intense issues, ouch! When I listen to some of these callers, I realize my life is not so bad after all...
What a brilliant guest. This woman is extremely knowledgeable and I love the way she was able to talk through how to enact change by being in the moment and concentrating on your breathing and exactly how your body is responding as a precursor to change
The second caller needs to move back home first before she files for divorce. Otherwise she may not be allowed to move over a certain number of miles away from her co-parent.
Idk, whether or not she says she's looking for a step-dad, a guy that enters a serious relationship with her long term will at least somewhat fill that role assuming her kids are not teens.
This is what I was thinking during that call. I think he might just be realistic and knows this truth and is moving on with someone who doesn't have children. And maybe he doesn't want to be the guy who is with a woman who had kids that he has zero relationship with. That would be hard to explain/justify/not feel weird about say 3,5,10 more years down the road.
Why does he NOT take advandage of having an educated clinical psychologist with years of clinical work there to answer and giving advice to the callers? For gods sake, I’d be so awkward to assume that I had great advice and talk on about the callers situation. Meanwhile she sat there as a pro, a few feet away. With great advice brewing. Lost opportunity.
that surprised me too. I would have expected him to be a little humble and watch a pro at work and learn from her. She was respectful in stepping back since it's Nick's show.
Oh my God.. Dr. Nicole talks in circles and not on a normal person’s level.. I would so rather get advice from Nick the friend over the psychologist.. she was draining!
When your talking about what happened in your European country. How those situations and moments are talked about. How is it from your same village, a girl gets pregant, and he doesn't marry her. The illegitimacy is far & beyond imagination. When a ma ma is sent to another country, & meets a illegitimate husband. Her new husbands fathers name is Antoni . When you don't give that illegitimate child a fathers name. Step fathers don't always accept an illegitimate child. Than their is poverty in a marriage. When others are living big franchise marriages. How some young couples are that high. When others cannot afford to live like that. What your children look like, and if they are accepted by another culture. Work improves you. Did you find your spouse an equal to you. But were only clay.
Caller 1: hes not moving backwards, hes not eunnung away. He doesnt want kids. It shouldnt matter if he is meeting her needs, he doesnt want kids. And even though she isnt looking for a dad for them, if they were to have a future, you cant avoid being a part of the kids life if you end up living together. Move on and find someone who aligns with what your life and future
Yes. And If the communication is so good as she says, and he repeated HE DOES NOT WANT TO GO BACKWARDS and be as before. Well you have your answer then, he does not want to continue like that. Is there even a question outside of her needing to take healthy steps to move on then? His issues and life becomes sort of irrelevant at that point.
Exactly my thoughts! Her saying “Well he doesn’t have to co-parent them” is ridiculous. If he has to be around them with you, it involves interaction and some degree of responsibility.
I love how Nick is doing all the talking to callers while Dr. Nicole is sitting there and is actually a licensed therapist that could give great advice
At this point she’s mostly a social media presence too - does she have an active practice? Licensing doesn’t mean much if you aren’t actively seeing clients - but maybe she is.
I love this show so much but I think it was such a missed opportunity to not have Dr. Nicole take lead and answering the phone calls😩
OMG the second called with the grinder left me speechless with her grace. I doubt she will see this but I just wanna say I’m thinking from you & can’t imagine how hard this is for you. I know this is not what you envisioned. Your grace & understanding is so commendable & admirable in spite of all this versus being petty & vengeful. I’m wishing you ALL the best. 💜
I live for “Ask Nick”. Makes a Monday better ❤
Damn not the dig at Colton 😅😂
omg nicole’s philly accent made me feel right at home❤❤ i thought i recognized her name and then i realized i have read her book how to do the work on my kindle! would love to see her on ask nick more
Wow, this episode packed a big punch. I think u & Dr. Nicole did a great job tag teaming with the callers. Each caller had pretty intense issues, ouch! When I listen to some of these callers, I realize my life is not so bad after all...
What a brilliant guest. This woman is extremely knowledgeable and I love the way she was able to talk through how to enact change by being in the moment and concentrating on your breathing and exactly how your body is responding as a precursor to change
The crossover I never knew I needed 10/10
Ohh such a good guest been a fan of hers for awhile!
The second caller needs to move back home first before she files for divorce. Otherwise she may not be allowed to move over a certain number of miles away from her co-parent.
The way i RAN at the sight of Dr. Nicole LePara…. I bought had a stroke
Is this positive or are you saying you ran away bc you don't like her? 🤔
Idk, whether or not she says she's looking for a step-dad, a guy that enters a serious relationship with her long term will at least somewhat fill that role assuming her kids are not teens.
This is what I was thinking during that call. I think he might just be realistic and knows this truth and is moving on with someone who doesn't have children. And maybe he doesn't want to be the guy who is with a woman who had kids that he has zero relationship with. That would be hard to explain/justify/not feel weird about say 3,5,10 more years down the road.
Make Dr. LePera a regular 🎉
Why does he NOT take advandage of having an educated clinical psychologist with years of clinical work there to answer and giving advice to the callers? For gods sake, I’d be so awkward to assume that I had great advice and talk on about the callers situation. Meanwhile she sat there as a pro, a few feet away. With great advice brewing. Lost opportunity.
that surprised me too. I would have expected him to be a little humble and watch a pro at work and learn from her. She was respectful in stepping back since it's Nick's show.
I like your show but I think you gave the first caller the worse advice ever!!!
Wow the holistic psychologist…great get!!😮
Nick’s ego is so huge that he wouldn’t even let a LICENSED PROFESSIONAL give advice
Smh
He is insecure 😂
Oh my god I can’t believe Dr.Nicole is on the vial files 🤯🤯🤯 I adore her and her work!
When will you talk about summer house? Interested in hearing your take after watching the episodes and your interview with Lindsey
i love dr. nicole 🥹 sooooo glad she’s on omg omg omg
Her voice is so relaxing 🥰
Oh my God.. Dr. Nicole talks in circles and not on a normal person’s level.. I would so rather get advice from Nick the friend over the psychologist.. she was draining!
Damn, caller #2 is much better than me, I would've told everybody about it.
The first caller sounds like Jess from love is blind 👀👀
That girl has never heard of Vibrators
😂😂😂 Damn
I had to fast forward through most of the beginning. I was way too bored with the psychologist.
Lol
I did too
The friends with benefits guy it’s simple he wanted a woman with no kids!!
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When your talking about what happened in your European country. How those situations and moments are talked about. How is it from your same village, a girl gets pregant, and he doesn't marry her. The illegitimacy is far & beyond imagination. When a ma ma is sent to another country, & meets a illegitimate husband. Her new husbands fathers name is Antoni . When you don't give that illegitimate child a fathers name. Step fathers don't always accept an illegitimate child. Than their is poverty in a marriage. When others are living big franchise marriages. How some young couples are that high. When others cannot afford to live like that. What your children look like, and if they are accepted by another culture. Work improves you. Did you find your spouse an equal to you. But were only clay.
So grateful for this podcast🙏❤️🫶🏼