Has love disappointed you (Bakit masakit magmahal) ?

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  • @clairerasco3606
    @clairerasco3606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2921

    Dear whoever reading this one day you'll get the love that you deserve

  • @annejovenir
    @annejovenir 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2929

    Biglang labas to sa recommendation ko. Ramdam ni Lord ang nararamdaman ko ngayon. 😭 Thank you for the wonderful message.

    • @dadedave
      @dadedave 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I feel you🥺

    • @jwaqwerty5163
      @jwaqwerty5163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same ilang araw na din ako umiiyak

    • @dadedave
      @dadedave 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What happened

    • @jwaqwerty5163
      @jwaqwerty5163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      dade dave nakikita ko lang na onti onti nagbabago yung babaeng gusto ko 🙃

    • @dadedave
      @dadedave 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sad 🥺 pag di ka na masaya dun ka sa sasaya ka.

  • @kimashleyngraceventura6693
    @kimashleyngraceventura6693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +803

    THE ONE WHO READING THIS RIGHT NOW MAY YOU FIND LOVE AND FORGIVENESS INTO YOUR HEART❤️😊.

  • @pummmpkin
    @pummmpkin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1468

    I am muslim , and this is so beautiful, every religion has their own unique ways ♥️

    • @minahzra
      @minahzra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      same

    • @Miraku-chan
      @Miraku-chan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💗

    • @JeraldUyRodriguez
      @JeraldUyRodriguez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      J O H N HUS ......SEARCH NYU sa UTUBE..YOU DEFINITELY LEAVE CATHOLIC....

    • @pummmpkin
      @pummmpkin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      JRU TV when you believe there’s only one god and his messenger the only one . you are the✨

    • @kristiawans6020
      @kristiawans6020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@JeraldUyRodriguez it's not about the religion, man. Religion is just a title

  • @johnmichaelturla4723
    @johnmichaelturla4723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1008

    The moment na lumabas to sa recommended videos, I knew it. God wants to reach out to me. He knows I'm hurting.

  • @eunb.2620
    @eunb.2620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    God knows i'm hurting a lot. Behind my smiles, He knows im not okay. To all who are hurting, may we be released from this pain and remember that we deserve better. Thank you for this wonderful message.

    • @cyl8741
      @cyl8741 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤🙏

  • @moodywriter7788
    @moodywriter7788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +680

    "Don't cry forever. Start again!"

  • @dwarf_4934
    @dwarf_4934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +903

    Im not a catholic, but i commended the way this priest preach✨

    • @johnvito1358
      @johnvito1358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      It is not about religion, it is about the message.

    • @janep9603
      @janep9603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@johnvito1358 yes!

    • @annabee1393
      @annabee1393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We call this part of the mass as homily or sermon ( based on the parallel readings of the Catholic Bible)😁

    • @kristiawans6020
      @kristiawans6020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      almost all of the homilies are this good, it should never a religion, it should

    • @maikahachero2549
      @maikahachero2549 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnvito1358 Yas 💖

  • @euanmacoitribo4575
    @euanmacoitribo4575 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Super sakit parin until this moment everytime na magflaflashback sakin mga nangyari from the past, I can't do anything but to cry over and over again, but when I watch this video gumagaan ung pakiramdam ko, Feeling ko napakalapit lang sakin ni Lord, He is reaching me to say na huwag na akong malungkot kasi every rain there will always be a rainbow, sa bawat problema dinadala natin ngayon the day will come na makaka alis rin tayo mula dito, our pain will turn into greatest strengths and I do believe that lahat ng sacrifices natin habang nabubuhay pa tayo will paid off kasi hindi tayo nagiisa dahil lagi tayong sasamahan ng Panginoon.
    Kaya sa mga nasasaktan at patuloy na may dala-dalang hinanakit I hope you will be healed from all the traumas you've never want to tell to anyone.
    Padayon! Magpatuloy lamang tayo..

  • @13RonnieJ
    @13RonnieJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +727

    Sabi nga nila, may it be romantic, familial, or even platonic relationship, loving is giving someone the power to hurt you and trusting them not to. But once a person hurt you, it disappoints us, makes us upset, we get mad at them; worst, we even question ourselves saan tayo nagkamali, saan tayo nagkulang and sometimes we dont have the chance to know to the answers to these questions. Mahirap tanggapin. Masakit. Hindi ka naman masasaktan kung hindi ka nagmahal nang tunay. It's normal to be frustrated and sad after being hurt by the person we truly love, and that's totally okay: Your feelings are valid, you feel what you feel and those feelings are real. Feel it. I think the first step really is grieving, before accepting. People grieve first from the betrayal, from the loss, from the emptiness, sabi nga ni Father, cry. And it really helps. Iiyak mo yan ng isang araw, isang linggo, isang buwan, o kahit abutin ng taon, take your time, this varies sa iba ibang tao dahil iba iba tayo ng coping mechanism. Next step is acceptance. The moment na gumagaan na o unti-unti na nawawala o nababawasan yung bigat ng napagdaanan mo it means naaccept mo na, and this comes with forgiveness. Not for the sake of forgiving the person who hurt you, but for your own sake, for your own peace of mind, to liberate yourself from the negative feelings and thoughts towards the person. Then finally, moving on and finally getting over from the bad experiences. Sobrang freeing. Continue with your life and try to learn something from that experience, remember that despite all the bad things that had happened, the only person that has been with you is yourself, most importantly dont let go of or lose yourself throughout this process: love yourself. You have you that's more than enough.

    • @tinborromeo6090
      @tinborromeo6090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I wanted to copy your message so that i can read this every morning... but i could not copy this

    • @marlyngonowon1571
      @marlyngonowon1571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Its really true..and thanks to God coz after my heartbreak of my son father, now im really ok and happy being a single mom.

    • @KA-zc2oy
      @KA-zc2oy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you.

    • @mikansann6318
      @mikansann6318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes.Love yourself . Yun lang ang siguradong meron ka . At yun ay ang sarili mo ..Next, pede ka na magmahal kasi mayroon ka nito sa sarili mo dahil di mo maibibigay sa iba ang bagay na wala sayo ☺

    • @mikansann6318
      @mikansann6318 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes.Love yourself . Yun lang ang siguradong meron ka . At yun ay ang sarili mo ..Next, pede ka na magmahal kasi mayroon ka nito sa sarili mo dahil di mo maibibigay sa iba ang bagay na wala sayo ☺

  • @jhunellaanne8129
    @jhunellaanne8129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +698

    I think this video is perfect for us millennials and for generation z. For those who are easy to give up and for those who love.

  • @jhajhafernandez7062
    @jhajhafernandez7062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    "Love is full of disappointment"
    "Crying will clean you but, don't cry forever" Nakakagaan ng dinadalang sakit sa dibdib❤️

  • @engel89118
    @engel89118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +736

    If you're a broken person, committing yourself into GOD and surrender everything to him that's the process of being happy and completly letting go. Set your self free. I hope you find the one who will love you forever. Amen 🙏💛

  • @arianakissasaro977
    @arianakissasaro977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    the reason why im afraid of giving my best is that in the end no one appreciates and it leads to disappointment.

    • @raymundalegado1526
      @raymundalegado1526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So sad😖

    • @arianakissasaro977
      @arianakissasaro977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@raymundalegado1526 it's okay :)

    • @jwaqwerty5163
      @jwaqwerty5163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So yun nangyayari sakin to ngayon lang haha sakit lang na yung gusto mo lang sya makausap tas tatanungin sayo kung may paguusapan ba 🙃 btw ldr kami haha

    • @arianakissasaro977
      @arianakissasaro977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Abukenyo may instances din kasi na mag reregret ka na sana binigyan mo nalang ng kahit konting value yung sarili mo.

    • @raymundalegado1526
      @raymundalegado1526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@arianakissasaro977 my tanong lang ako sa kasi babae ka
      2years mahigiy na kasi ako mag hihitay sa isang babae para kami na pero walang libel
      Normal pabayon na na hindi pa sasagotin kahit matagal na ako nag hihitay or may problima..
      LDR kami minsa lang nag kikita

  • @sirlvnparalitiko6861
    @sirlvnparalitiko6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "I have loved, I have hurt, I have been hurt, I have been sorry, I have grieved, I will try again. And in heaven, we can love without disappointment. We can love without frustration. We can love without pain. Because we will be seeing the face of our loving God".

  • @지우김-h6c
    @지우김-h6c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    "Just remember that every bitter goodbye,welcomes a sweet hello"
    ---- Unknown

  • @rhizachan
    @rhizachan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    Things we must do if we are disappointed
    1. Accept. Accept that our love is imperfect and the love that we will receive is also imperfect because we are still on earth
    2. Grieve. It’s okay to cry because if you pretend that everything is alright, you will build resentment, attraction of revenge that sooner or later, you may not want want to love at all.
    3. Try again.

    • @jilinagraceencilay4807
      @jilinagraceencilay4807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True❤

    • @ruthugay4482
      @ruthugay4482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am tired of trying to be strong
      putting on a brave face like nothing is wrong
      I have been hurting every day of my life
      it wears on me causing me nothing but strife
      my body has become my own worst enemy
      but I do my best to never let you see
      my limbs no longer work and cause me great pain
      this constant level of stress is driving me insane
      I am just so tired of making light of this limp
      listening to people tell me to not be such a wimp
      joy and pain cannot live in the same house
      not to worry, today I'm just in a funk and I need to grouse...

    • @peneloperuan409
      @peneloperuan409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I trust no one especially when It comes to relationship ..seems that I cannot find the real one..better to be alone..I only trust the one and only,.. God....but how I wish to be with someone real..😊

    • @telorns
      @telorns 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just love this.❤️❤️❤️

    • @nath_takahashi
      @nath_takahashi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@peneloperuan409 The moment we come to know love, we must bear the risk of sorrow...

  • @LovellaCiao
    @LovellaCiao 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Isa sa mga paborito kong aral from father 🥺 Everytime na gulong gulo ako kung bakit ang sakit sakit na, pinapanuod ko lang to, to remind me why. Para akong niyayakap ni God🥺🥰 Ang sarap pakinggan. Ang sarap maniwala. Amen 🙏

  • @rhexrhey7467
    @rhexrhey7467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    "You have to accept, that part of loving is being disappointed by our beloved, in addition to accepting, you must also be honest enough to admit that you have disappointed those who loved you... We have been hurt when we loved, but we have also hurt others when they loved us."
    Sulit sa puyat. ❤️

  • @marky9299
    @marky9299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Just saw this on my recommended videos and I'll never regret that I watched this video.

  • @cherreymaeobugan5416
    @cherreymaeobugan5416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    "Let your soul be cleansed by the tears in your heart ❤"

  • @kathyjeiliii1917
    @kathyjeiliii1917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    I was crying for almost a week, because of my situation.. But when i heard this, it gives me relief!!!! 🥰
    Accept, cry/ grieve, and try again!!!

    • @patriciacruz7979
      @patriciacruz7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sending love

    • @kaiarzaga
      @kaiarzaga 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its okey crying will clean u

    • @chiconorie7372
      @chiconorie7372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same with you. This message give relief to me. 😊 God listening to us. He used this message to be instrument for our prayer. 🙏😇

  • @zyra-viejacob4264
    @zyra-viejacob4264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    In God's perfect time, I know God will give me the man I am praying for so long. For the meantime, I'm enduring the pain of being disappointed and will try again.🙏

    • @arri4541
      @arri4541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same here💔

    • @abceedee4488
      @abceedee4488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I've gone through several heartbreaks but I will try to love again when the time is right.

    • @diahmayormita1955
      @diahmayormita1955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God bless you! parati mo padin piliin magmahal 🙂

    • @zyra-viejacob4264
      @zyra-viejacob4264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@diahmayormita1955 ou kahit gano kasakit, pipiliin ko parin magmahal at mahalin. Sa tamang taong tinakda ni Lord.❤🤗

    • @bhingsalvador8855
      @bhingsalvador8855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here..

  • @kimberlypizarra2551
    @kimberlypizarra2551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    "CRY.. Cry with the Lord, cry over it because crying will clean you but don't cry forever.. start again and keep on trying"

  • @niloangelica7345
    @niloangelica7345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "bakit masakit magmahal? dahil wala pa tayo sa langit".
    deep thoughts. 🙃

  • @nicolelacorte9806
    @nicolelacorte9806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Disappointment is always part of our life❤️accept, grieve and try again❤️🙏

  • @jane8814
    @jane8814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I feel like crying again. I'm having a breakdown so I came here. I searched for this for the 100th time. My comfort zone 😭

  • @yourfavoritestar4889
    @yourfavoritestar4889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I accepted,
    I grieved,
    And I'm trrying again....
    Trying something New..

  • @contessacervas
    @contessacervas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    I’m not catholic but this really hit me hard. A sermon that truly touches one’s heart and soul

    • @christianjade7712
      @christianjade7712 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's ur religion po

    • @angelquiday9500
      @angelquiday9500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too pero tagos sa puso yung mga words😊

    • @aloshh7923
      @aloshh7923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Listen to Catholic sermons, it comforts us from sadness and insecurities

    • @jomarromero2785
      @jomarromero2785 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's your religion po?

    • @myrhelp.bayating5401
      @myrhelp.bayating5401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      me too...
      and it even made me cry...
      grieve, then "cry with the Lord"

  • @emkei5337
    @emkei5337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Lord, I need you. Please heal my heart right now. 😭💔

  • @reymariebadillo5819
    @reymariebadillo5819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Crying will clean you. But, don't cry forever. 🥺❣️

  • @lovelysday3239
    @lovelysday3239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    It's been 1year ago I'm still hurting of my heart break , now I accept I grieve and try again..thank you father for Good homily. Amen.🙏

    • @celinapereja7816
      @celinapereja7816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You will be ok soon 😊 Time will tell. I've been there. YAKAP 🤗

    • @lovelysday3239
      @lovelysday3239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@celinapereja7816 thank you po

    • @parallelepiped.
      @parallelepiped. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It will soon pass.

    • @mariafrancia4356
      @mariafrancia4356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel you. Because I going through the same feeling. I wish I can hug you.

    • @lovelysday3239
      @lovelysday3239 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariafrancia4356thank you😘

  • @frey8966
    @frey8966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Masakit magmahal kasi our love as human being is "Imperfect Love" very prone for mistakes, but, there is such thing as "perfect Love" and that is God's Love! no more hurts just pure joy. Amen.

  • @kiablanchetahud5619
    @kiablanchetahud5619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    The key is to accept that our love is imperfect and accept that the love we’re going to received is imperfect. ❤️

  • @airamercadovalencia2423
    @airamercadovalencia2423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    "Everything in this world is imperfect."

  • @leeannesantosvillegas4402
    @leeannesantosvillegas4402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    God never been disappoint us. He makes a way to teach us and to be learned in our lives especially about love.

  • @bowiebeltran5218
    @bowiebeltran5218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    Married for 8 years and now all she wants is Divorce knowing that I gave my everything its so hard to move on. Now I’m just counting the days Left I could spend with my son. Even though I can still see him once in a while, parang yung purpose ng life is nag bago na thinking coming from work and you are excited to see them before, now you are coming home to an empty house , alone. I don’t know if I will ever move on from this but I will endure the pain now and maybe in the future will try again. 😢

    • @kimpepanio3288
      @kimpepanio3288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Pray lang po Bro! Everything happens for a reason. maybe now it really hurts but at the end of the tunnel there is a light. Praying for you. God bless you! Have a blessed New year!

    • @bowiebeltran5218
      @bowiebeltran5218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

    • @razellapiz9166
      @razellapiz9166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just keep praying

    • @thesufics1959
      @thesufics1959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praying for you! ❤️

    • @bowiebeltran5218
      @bowiebeltran5218 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thesufics1959 thank you

  • @kristinemaranan1086
    @kristinemaranan1086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    8:48 "You will hurt again, you will cry again, but just keep on trying and trying and trying."

  • @zearmag531
    @zearmag531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I'm crying all throughout the video. This is a reminder for me. For my permanent residence is where my Lord Jesus Christ is, in Heaven. I am reminded to once again train myself to praise and worship God everyday, for this will be my daily routine in Heaven forever. My prayer now is for me to leave the earth one day with a fulfilled purpose.
    For you ma friend who's reading this rn, live every minute as if it's your last minute here on earth. Do whatever you want to fulfill, whichever enriches your soul. Choose kind words. Be patient. Be a person who what your God want you to be.
    Enjoy the pain now baka mamimiss rin narin itong pain pag nasa Heaven na tayo hihihihi ♥️🤗

  • @michaelencarnacion8840
    @michaelencarnacion8840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Moving on is not easy.
    Until now still crying to someone i truly love the most.
    Everytime iiyak ako nood lang nito tas iiyak
    And praying that everthing well be okay asking for self forgiveness and Softly Moving on.
    Accept//Grieve // Try Again
    Lesson learn : Never Use someone for you to move on.
    Instead pray and enjoy life
    #lgbt #gaylife

    • @gabrieljose9329
      @gabrieljose9329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @rizalynnicart5704
      @rizalynnicart5704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ang hirap talaga mag move on pag talagang minahal mo yung isang tao😭😭 and naisip kuna din na bakit hndi ko subukan maghanap ng iba para makalimot pero naisip ku manloloko lang ako ng tao.. so the best way talaga is pray and pray mas masarap sa pakiramdam kapag e surrender mo nlang lahat kay God at e accept nlang na hndi pa tlaga sya yung nakatadhana satin.

    • @lorenamabalay5021
      @lorenamabalay5021 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      tama

  • @andreakhatevalena5230
    @andreakhatevalena5230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    "Love is full of disappointment"
    Napakasimple pero nag iiwan ng napakalalim na meaning. Thank you for the wonderful message Father Soc

  • @kennsoltones5853
    @kennsoltones5853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    "part of loving, while we are still here on Earth, is the reality of being disappointed"

  • @jmgneiss
    @jmgneiss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    3 words to do
    Accept that love is like that and u are like that too
    Grieve let ur soul be cleanse by the tears in ur heart
    Cry with the Lord, crying will clean u,
    Don't cry forever. But try again
    I have loved, I have hurt.

    • @larrynarvaez7545
      @larrynarvaez7545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have loved, I have hurt, and I have been hurt. It’s better to have loved and lost (have been hurt) than never to have loved at all.

    • @Dan-qx8zn
      @Dan-qx8zn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This line really gives me more hope ❤ Never afraid to get hurt , because being hurt is part of life 💔

    • @blessyavetria120
      @blessyavetria120 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dan-qx8zn yes its true.

    • @jmgneiss
      @jmgneiss 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dan-qx8zn keep moving forward! ☺

    • @applepanganiban8335
      @applepanganiban8335 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🥺🥺

  • @malloluine1037
    @malloluine1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My heart is broken right now, you know me so much lord. Thank you for making me realize about love.

  • @lestersvlog1251
    @lestersvlog1251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    This kind of sermon is worth to be heard. Thank you for this great message 🙏❤

    • @Dan-qx8zn
      @Dan-qx8zn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly sir .. Hearing some motivational sermon like this really means a lot especially if you are longing for some acceptance , forviging other's , and loving without expecting in return ❤

    • @annaaraja4382
      @annaaraja4382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @jennalyntumilap469
      @jennalyntumilap469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True😭😭😭😭😭

  • @hanstv3276
    @hanstv3276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I'm not Catholic but I respect any sermon that seeks to express the truth- this is one of those sermons. God bless yall!

  • @fernandedios8149
    @fernandedios8149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Only God's love is perfect. Thank you Lord 🥺♥️

  • @allysafernandez9404
    @allysafernandez9404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Now I understand why I hurt so much, Don't stop loving until someone appreciate you and stay without any further reason
    But the reason is I love you that's enough to stay.

  • @majaecelleescalona534
    @majaecelleescalona534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Father, thank you po sa homily na to ❤ brokenhearted po ako sa ngayon 😭😭😭

  • @joycetorres3320
    @joycetorres3320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Someday we get the love that we deserved, enjoy your singleness and wait, god is prepared something big. Sending hug and kisses 🥰

  • @shanedelim7172
    @shanedelim7172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I didn't expect this to come in my recommendations. I'm crying..

  • @abegailarmenta2529
    @abegailarmenta2529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    It's been a week ever since my boyfriend broke up with me with no particular reason. It's been days that I have been crying and suddenly this video popped out. Thank you for making me feel that you are with me Lord God. Thank you for this message 🥺

  • @beverlyoliva43
    @beverlyoliva43 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm really feeling so down right now. Lots of things are troubling in my head. I'm confused, disappointed and frustrated. But then this video came. God really knows how to help us. God really knows how to listen even if it's not yet spoken. 🙌🙏 Thank you Lord. I know that you'll always answer what's in our hearts ❤

    • @pammiesingkho1786
      @pammiesingkho1786 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If u devote yerself to His Word,
      Speak of His Word,
      Honor of His Word,
      and Love His Word
      Then di ka na dapat maconfuse o mafrustrate pa
      Kace alam ko na sa sarili ko na
      "Faith is ceasing to worry-- leaving the Future to the God
      who controls the future."
      "Faith is trusting that GOD is doing, His work in me; when
      I feel inwardly deserted, lifeless, broken, disappointed, frustrated n confused jst like U
      and I long for reassuring feelings, I know n believe Things Does Happen for a Reason."

  • @kerenstar2825
    @kerenstar2825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Accept
    Grieve / Cry
    Try again
    And let us always FORGIVE
    those who have hurt us. And forgive yourself too for hurting others ♥️

  • @aprilfigueroa3403
    @aprilfigueroa3403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Disappointments/failures makes us a better version of ourselves. Afterall WE are all special because God's first loved Us. Thank you Lord❤

  • @bazarjeangreim.3107
    @bazarjeangreim.3107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hearing those words made me cry
    I'm so doomed, I always disappointed my surroundings and especially myself
    After seeing this content I knew God speaks to me
    Thank you very much for this wonderful message
    I've been enlightened

  • @freddieboybagual2030
    @freddieboybagual2030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    What most of us forget is that we also hurt others. We've been seeing their mistakes but not ours and that tend us to hurt them without recognizing it. We also need to see this.

  • @fairyjihoon
    @fairyjihoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Nalulungkot na naman ako because of what happened to us. But maybe this video is a sign to let go of everything i've been feeling right now and to forgive the person who hurt me.

  • @sdalyricshub
    @sdalyricshub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    *Accept
    *Grieve
    *Try Again
    Thank you so much for the inspiring message😢

  • @christinemondejar5216
    @christinemondejar5216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "The key is to accept. To accept that our love is imperfect, and to accept that the love we received will also be imperfect. Because this is still earth, and we are not yet in heaven" 🥺

  • @jessaocena983
    @jessaocena983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That's me. I pretend to be okay all this time. I pretend that I'm strong. But when father said its ok to cry, I burst into tears. Right then and there, the pain I kept, nailabas ko na. nailabas ko ulit. I knew that I am weak. Hindi ko rin alam how I got to see this video but I believe this is God's way of reminding me na its ok to cry. And this is His way of comforting me. ❤

    • @johnfrixalejano3624
      @johnfrixalejano3624 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Veronica Leys same for me, it took me sometime to accept and realize that i am weak and fragile. Try again, after this sadness, we will be better persons.

  • @cinderjeanmaliao9658
    @cinderjeanmaliao9658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Eventhough we give our best to someone else we LOVE, we can't be so sure if they would still be in our side forever. Learn to accept the reality & make sure to stand more firmly with your own feet, no matter what happens. Keep safe everyone 😊

  • @santiagonazariajr2787
    @santiagonazariajr2787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    The reality of being disappointed...
    It sucks but it's the truth.

  • @nica6440
    @nica6440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Moira: "Ako yung nauna, pero siya ang wakas"
    Priest: Accept. Grieve and Try Again

  • @preciousbautista3889
    @preciousbautista3889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God knows that i'm hurting.
    He guide me to hear this message.

  • @emie15.11
    @emie15.11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I couldn't stop crying while listening to this,.it hit me right in the feels

  • @nellyfontanilla7758
    @nellyfontanilla7758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Now im in pain cause my partner dissapoint me pero eto sabi ni father iiyak lang and now im crying a lot of pain! Lord please gabayan nyo kaming lagpasan to 😔♥️ mahal na mahal ko sya.

  • @CiaraBionson
    @CiaraBionson ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One day may sagot din ang lahat . Sobrang sakit ngayun . Iiyak lang tapos bukas bangon. Deserve natin ang pagmamahal na hindi hinihingi

  • @gabgab6335
    @gabgab6335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "we have been hurt when we love. But we have also hurt others when they love us." 🥺

  • @ma.czarinaelainem.benjamin5099
    @ma.czarinaelainem.benjamin5099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I've been going through a rough time these past few days then suddenly i saw this. Sobrang nakarelate ako. Literal na naluha ako habang pinapanood ko to. Ito talaga ang gustong iparealize sa akin ni Papa God. Hanggang sa youtube, He made His own way to send me His message why all of these happened in my life. Daming drastic changes that really turned my world upside down but He never failed to guide and support me through this journey. He always answered my questions thru different platforms. We just need to trust Him why everything happens in our life. Whether good or bad, we need to be thankful because in the end, good things always prevail.

    • @angielineaquino9380
      @angielineaquino9380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️☝🏻

    • @angielineaquino9380
      @angielineaquino9380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️🙏

    • @angielineaquino9380
      @angielineaquino9380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏❤️

    • @ateyen7666
      @ateyen7666 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you po 😢

    • @paulalucianolimmorelos7451
      @paulalucianolimmorelos7451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless you kung ano man yan pinagdadaanan mo i feel you 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ makakaya mo yan kapit lang sa diyos. Stay strong sending you my prayers ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cherryndelosreyes8358
    @cherryndelosreyes8358 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True farher sobramg sakit magmahal.ako ilan beses k naransan mabroken heart. Now im still single but i have one son
    .14 years single .afraid to love amd trust again
    But im thnkful to god ihave a good family whose always by my side since day one i give birth to my son in this world
    .

  • @yuimoon6660
    @yuimoon6660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    When you love someone, you give that person POWER to HURT you but TRUST them not to.

  • @jonathanmelantybaco46
    @jonathanmelantybaco46 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    God's timing is the perfect timing. This showed in my Recommendations the exact moment I needed it. Thank you Lord!

  • @gracer.channel392
    @gracer.channel392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Andito ako at nakikinig,handang masaktan ulit

  • @kuyalessvlog5345
    @kuyalessvlog5345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This is what people now need to hear . Can we Love without getting disappointed ? Why do we have suffered rejections ?Why ? Because we are living on this world and everything in this world is limited . We are subjects for temptation. BAKIT MASAKIT MAGMAHAL ? dahil Wala pa Tayo sa langit.

  • @nicamacapagal454
    @nicamacapagal454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Keywords to remember, accept, grieve and try again... Iba talaga ang trauma ng panloloko, ang hirap tanggapin pero kailangan gawin, iiyak at ituloy lang ang buhay. Sabi nga nila may mga tao na dadaan lang talaga sa buhay mo.

  • @anthonygonzales1645
    @anthonygonzales1645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "in heaven we can love without disappointment"

  • @charissamaeonod5796
    @charissamaeonod5796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Exactly at this moment, we had an argument with my partner and it gave me a full tub of disappointments and pain that made me realize that "maybe it is the time to give up" on our 6 years in a relationship. I cried all night and keep myself busy for something else before I turned on my phone again and decided to just play some videos on YT that will help me ease my pain and suddenly this video came up on my suggested vids and THANK YOU LORD for this sign to still hold on to our relationship we started since 2014. Thank you so much father 💕

  • @kaycarols6953
    @kaycarols6953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Part of loving is the reality of being disappointed- 😢

    • @zorrofriends4277
      @zorrofriends4277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @kaycarols6953
      @kaycarols6953 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @JB ALA Thank you...huggssss ❤️🥺

  • @carolinaalvarez5398
    @carolinaalvarez5398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Crying while watching 😭 everything makes sense

  • @Norlove
    @Norlove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    While watching this video, i admit i cried😢my tears drop from my eyes. Coz i know how disappointment it feels. And i agreed what father said, when your disappointed ACCEPT, GRIEVE & TRY AGAIN. Coz this are only the answered to make your heart feel good & better😊

  • @mmcprojectcommunity
    @mmcprojectcommunity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I cried at the GRIEVE part
    I was too rough to myself I wanted to be strong and I got frustrated because I don't want to be weak anymore and I'm always telling myself that I don't want to cry but this video helped me realize that it's okay to cry and let it all out.
    I have a boyfriend for 3 YEARS, we were in a Long distance relationship
    All those years we were okay we didn't broke up,even for once and suddenly this happend.
    He ignored me,my messages and he didn't answer my calls it's been a month now and it's really hard for me. Until now I didn't know what happened. I still have this why's stuck in my head.
    No answersto those questions.
    I still love him. I really do. But he just left me like that. Hurt and disappointed 😢
    I know God has a plan for me and still I'm praying to have these answers to my questions.
    Good things are coming because I know that the Lord won't allow me to be in this situation forever He has better plans for my future ❤️❤️❤️

    • @sharajeanobogne3534
      @sharajeanobogne3534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just pray drating din ung time n yang nraramdman m ay mawawala n at mgiging msaya kna ulit ☺️☺️

    • @arlyncristal6769
      @arlyncristal6769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same mam,, ang sakit nga din sakin kasi,, yung kayo dalawa ang nag plano pro sa iba xa mag papakasal,, sa sabihan ka lng na ok kaso muslim naman ako,, pwd dalawa ang asawa,, ang sakit talaaga,,

    • @mmcprojectcommunity
      @mmcprojectcommunity 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭😭😭

    • @mylasefuentes5589
      @mylasefuentes5589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Virtual hug ma'am! Let God heal you... Trust him! 🙏

    • @onlynice9567
      @onlynice9567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hey girl, been there too last 2015. Nawala sya ng parang bula kahit anong contact ko wala na. Tapos 2016 nalaman ko meron na pala syang iba and today masaya pa din sila nagsasama. I grieved so much for like 2+ yrs. Sobrang sakit kasi wala syang binigay na closure kaya ako na ang tumapos ng relationship sa sarili ko. Di na kami nagkausap up until today but you know time will really tell if you are already okay. So grieve girl, ilabas mo lahat and just go on with your life like I did. Ngayon wala na kong galit sa puso at masaya na ako for them :) maybe it's just the way how God remove people from your life that's not meant to be there. Btw, I'm still single now not because I still haven't moved on but because I wanted my next to be my last ❤️

  • @airamercadovalencia2423
    @airamercadovalencia2423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pag open ko ng youtube heto na agad lumitaw. I trust in you my dear Lord🥰

  • @salia7844
    @salia7844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    "In heaven we can love without pain"
    Great motivation
    Every word really soothes my soul
    🙏

  • @Blue-pi6wp
    @Blue-pi6wp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Part of loving is the reality of being disappointed 🥺

  • @mariahazelrey6858
    @mariahazelrey6858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Part of loving is to be disappointed by the same people whom you loved.
    Thank you, Fr. Soc for reminding me that being hurt is part of loving someone.

  • @joannamaedeguzman4112
    @joannamaedeguzman4112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Cried to this 🥺 I felt that the Lord spoke to me. 😭

  • @erlindaortega4528
    @erlindaortega4528 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS ENLIGHTENING HOMILY.Thank you Most Reverend Bishop Fr.Soc.
    God bless you more🙏

  • @c4iwyw
    @c4iwyw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I'm not broken but I am sad. And I saw this in my recommendations, such a good timing to have a peace of mind. Thank you so much.🥺✨

  • @nielification20
    @nielification20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I was just ghosted today when this vid showed up to my suggested vids. Funny how everything seemed to be so perfect and happy, then one day, it all turned so ugly and painful. Thank you for this Father. And I believe this is a way God is talking and comforting me.

    • @nikknocks23
      @nikknocks23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesterday I finally got my answer.. I got ghosted by someone I met online. We talked about ghosting and funny how she did the same to me. Nawala ng parang bula no explanation whatsoever. Ghosting is an emotional abuse and should not be normalized or tolerated. Dear ghosters, sa inyo kaya gawin yon ha? Ano mafifeel niyo?

  • @EdwardBuenaventura-yb6tr
    @EdwardBuenaventura-yb6tr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was here listening to soc. When im in the shadows of nothing. Out of the blue biglang nag pop tong video na to. Pang 100 viewers ako siguro at andami kong pinag dadaanan that time. But i can never look great to myself after hearing soc words. Tagos sa puso. Words of God is totally serve. Thank you soc more and more blessings ❤️❤️❤️ Now im doing great in anything i want. I Just do my best and God will do the rest for me❤️😌😌

  • @noelynpaghubasan2045
    @noelynpaghubasan2045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yung pag open mo ng youtube app tas ito agad bumungad sayo. I cried while watching this. Thank you, Lord!!! 😭😭

  • @blightechavia3159
    @blightechavia3159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    While listening to this sermon i cried a lot. I've been praying for how many nights and here's the answer of everything. Thank you for posting this. It really helps me a lot. 💞 LORD SALAMAT.

  • @misterygirl150
    @misterygirl150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    In time of my depression,.lumabas to sa recommend videos ko..OK LANG NA UMIYAK..😭😭😭 Ok Lang na umiyak...halos nanginginig ang katawan para lang makontrol ang depression attack..narinig ko ang homily ni BISHOP SOC VILLEGAS lalo ako naiyak..🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 but it makes me feel better..thank u po..🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @markjasonbocaling4792
    @markjasonbocaling4792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “I prefer to die for something instead of living for nothing”
    kahit ilang disappointment pa yan, ipag tutuloy ko pa din ipakita ang pagmamahal ko sa ibat ibang tao
    im not just talking about relationship.
    if gusto mo mag mahal, mag mahal ka lang, wag ka mag expect ng kapalit.
    kaibigan ang sarap sa pakiramdam ng nag bibigay nang pagmamahal kahit walang kapalit
    di niyo pa naiintindihan ngayon pero one day malalaman niyo din.

  • @irenebhongbrent878
    @irenebhongbrent878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is what keeps on happening to me. And Yes I am longing for the love of my beloved,It dissapoints me.All the negative thoughts came in my mind.Then I look up and pray.God always listen to all our prayers.So here I am after all the pain Me and my husband accepted all our flows and keep on loving each other.Godbless everyone.God is just there waiting for us to surrender all our werries.

  • @sta.mariaailyn3004
    @sta.mariaailyn3004 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    eto talaga na message kailangan ko sa mga araw na to at sa mga ganitong oras, nakakagaan sa mabigat mong nararamdaman buti na lang lumabas tong channel na to sa mga magkakasunod na videos

  • @melissegania4484
    @melissegania4484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Maybe this is the sign that I’m waiting for. Thankyou father for that homily ❤️🥺

  • @martinjacobe6935
    @martinjacobe6935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "God's timing is the perfect timing" Guys magtiwala lng tayo sakanya dadating din ang panahon na makakamtan din natin ito, dahil pag umibig ka ay masasaktan ka talaga, sabi nga ni father just accept it. Dahil lahat tayo masasaktan kahit anong mangyari, ingat kayo guys godbless din😇

  • @marianpesalbon1061
    @marianpesalbon1061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The people who listened on this day with father was really very lucky♥️