4 regrets from my early 20s
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Every line was meaningful and true.
I am turning 20 and doing a decent job but My father is an alcoholic, I want to get rid of him. I love my mom but she stays with him just like a babysitter and she also want to leave him I think I am going to leave them alone but my mom is not letting me go What should I do?
@@vanarqwq3660 There's only so much you can do to help others. As hard as it is, sometimes it comes to going on your own path and taking responsibility for yourself. There will always be a way out, just gotta find it.
Hinduism is very deep because it also gave birth to oldest indus valley civilization once you start learning you will find it "sanatana Dharma" . 🙏 If you have time just try it many in the world are facinated by our indian culture architecture , medicine , science and our spirituality there are certain places in India where you can feel heavy cosmic energy once you focus now if you are wicked minded that won't happen with you.you will never be able to experience this on other place
All four great points, Especially when it comes to dating. Fellas, as a 30 year old now things didn’t start to click for me until 25 partly because I wasn’t putting myself out there, being assertive, learning game and willing to fail so I could learn from my mistakes. I was waiting for things to happen rather then taking action myself. Dating when you’re older does actually get easier for men because we care more for ourselves, have more personality and experiences to share etc…
Regret #1 Trying to date 1:11
Regret #2 Allowing myself to be a struggling artist 5:10
Regret #3 Chasing a college degree instead of creating an online portfolio 10:52
Regret #4 Not spending more time with My parents, consciously. 12:52
True is important to date like a beast
thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I disagree on the third one a bit.
@@JK-cj3qe his regrets are his own, not applicable to most
I’m 26 on the verge of 27. Having watched my roomate commit suicide, my old girlfriend die in a car crash, and my uncle get a stroke all in a matter of a month, it made me realize that life is truly like a vapor. This might even be the last thing I write for all I know. Knowing that makes me realize that for all my ambitions, I’m still going to die. I can’t wait for contentment for when I’m more “successful,” more disciplined, or more fit. Being productive is awesome, but I found myself getting caught up in it to the point that any second I wasn’t improving, I felt like a failure. I realized that taking a moment to give back, help others, and smell the flowers was, in and of itself, improvement. Finding God and higher meaning has made me live a much more fulfilling life than constantly trying to run the rat race. Of course, I’m not saying to not seek self-improvement. Just don’t do it at the cost of the now.
You mean to say, don't think you have to be a high achiever in your early days.
Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost
@@SoldierOfGodKJV ne seri
This was awesome dude
@@SoldierOfGodKJV this
As a 23 year old who’s kind of lost, I really appreciate this!
Lol same here
Same here man just turned 23 and idk wtf I'm doing
Welcome to the club
Same. I’m 23. Got a degree in biology. Still broke af and lost
We should make a group and call ourselves "Lost 23 y/o's"
Once you hit 30 you realize so many things that mattered in your 20s were ridiculous. Great video!
Like?
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well hit 30s and discover it yourself
@@elperroreggae no nigga, im tryna know now at 19!!
Turning 25 this year, and I'm finally beginning to embrace the 'student' phase you mentioned. My early 20s were full of anxiety and self doubt, which led to depressive thoughts, but recently a switch kinda flipped, and now I think I understand that it isn't too late to start learning and manifesting change and progress towards goals. So now, I'm returning to some projects and studying that I had recently fell off of. Your vids always help me reflect on these kinds of topics and ideas, Cap. I appreciate the effort you put in and it's great to see your style growing as it is. Quality content from a quality dude, keep it up bro.
This is 100% me. I turned 25 in June I’m in the same place. I’m working towards my goals, know what I want, and all that self doubt and anxiety that I had from 20-23/24 is GONE
I guess we're three now. Hope you're doing well guys :)
Me too .i never even had a girlfriend ever.
I am turning 20 and doing a decent job but My father is an alcoholic, I want to get rid of him. I love my mom but she stays with him just like a babysitter and she also want to leave him I think I am going to leave them alone but my mom is not letting me go What should I do?
Same feeling brother
I wasted my early 20’s by not making much friends and comparing my life to the illusions of social media. Now I’m 26 and I decided to give up the things that wasted those years and placing my focus on getting out of my comfort zone and hobbies.
same same, cheers to being uncomfortable and "happy" (having a damn schedule, lol)
same but im 23
What do you mean by the illusions of social media..how did that stop you from making friends?
I wasted my early teens not making friends as well, but I spent a lots of time with my parents.
@@frog6054 I think its ok if you don't have to many friends, like maybe 2-3 good friends and that's it. I think you would be fucked if you didn't have any friends at all, that seems kind of scary.
As an 17 year old, I really appreciate you making this video. As I don't have any elder siblings to tell me about these things, these kind of videos really help guiding me. Thanks :)
@@obfuscated9943 makes you?
@@ajithv5540 appreciate
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I am turning 20 and doing a decent job but My father is an alcoholic, I want to get rid of him. I love my mom but she stays with him just like a babysitter and she also want to leave him I think I am going to leave them alone but my mom is not letting me go What should I do?
I'm 25 now and I can confirm this is wholesome advice. It's written in the Bible "as stone sharpens stone, so one man sharpens another" keep it up
And it also talks about season of life, season to grow and season to reap,
Keep going , bro . Have faith . You ll make it 😇
yooo dude what part in the bible is that? that's sick I wanna check that out is that on proverbs?? pls tell me if u know thanks!
@@johnclemmy7909 proverbs 27:17
Here's another one, out of my own pseudo-religous texts:
Hávamál; Stanza 47
"I was once young,
I was journeying alone,
and lost my way;
rich I thought myself,
when I met another.
Man is the joy of man"
Never go through life alone. It is a heavy burden. You should always try to make friends and take joy in what you can but never over-indulge as well.
The part about the parents is so true. Sometimes its easier said than done however and takes certain work. My parents weren't amazing at raising me and had a lot of their own emotional issues they hadn't dealt with and took it out on my sister and I growing up. For a long time I resented both of them, but through going to therapy I learned to forgive them for the past and be more empathic for them as human beings and not as just my parents. It took a while but through this forgiveness I was able to get closer to both of my parents, especially my mom. One day I was hanging out with her and after we said our goodbyes and love yous I thought to myself "wow I finally love my mom", she died two days later. I had always loved my mom but it was never without the resent till that day. I miss her all the time and it pains me to see other people my age(22) having bad relationships with their parents that can be fixed through empathy and forgiveness.
Thank you for you videos man, my last 4 years have gone by uselessly like the wind due to me having to struggle with chronic fatigue and headaches. I'm trying my hardest to work through it and to fix it through getting healthier physically and emotionally. I'm still not the most productive person because of my tiredness but you give me a model of where I want to be and how I can achieve it.
One of the best comments I’ve ever read 👏 ty
Do your best and achieve the goals you desire
Tough stuff, thank you for sharing your story, I wish you the best
What did you tell therapist that you want therapy for?i am kinda embarrassed to go into therapy.
@@PookieNarc119 well, you start off by telling them about the ins and outs of your depression and anxieties. How badly you want or dont want to die, how little motivation you may have, how scared you are of social situations. They usually ask a lot of questions to start off getting to know you. From their they explore your mind deeper, figuring out why thought patterns are the way they are and how to fix them. I told my therapist all about my suicidal thoughts and anxieties, from there we searched into my past as to why I felt that why. Alot of it had to do with my upbringing and dealing with my "inner child", meaning the kid I used to be didnt get told he was loved or valued and needed to hear it some where. At first I withheld some information from my therapist, stuff I was super embarassed about and told myself I would tell nobody about it. After reading a book about chronic illness saying that it could be mental problems masking themselves as physical ones I decided to open up. I ended writing a 6 page paper detailing everything I hadnt told her and was ashamed of. She said everything I told her was normal and nothing to be ashamed of. The biggest thing with therapy is to just be honest about everything they ask. You may not find a good therapist at first so dont mind switching if you have to. I was lucky enough to get a great therapist for my first one
I’m 20 now. And this video is a gem. Of all the advice I will take the dating one seriously. Chasing girls at this stage in my life is even harder than chasing money, it’s practically like chasing the wind. Thanks for this
I'm 20 And kinda feel the same
Yeah i used tinder when i was 19. Looking back i realized it was such a waste of time, texting, talking to girls, going to dates and ultimately all of it going nowhere. I appreciate the experience it gave me, because now i know i shouldnt make dating a big priority in my life
You don't have to, if you follow this simple advice: th-cam.com/video/NbTHpoA030w/w-d-xo.html
there is nothing wrong with being social and flirting with girls and expressing your masculine desires. I dont know what his problem is. How do u expect to learn dating if u just wait for 5 years and then start from zero. I didnt get his point. I mean sure it might get easier with time, but that doesnt mean it sorts itself out lmao. Some people have a lot of self-development to do which is only done through experiences that teach u ur faults and limiting beliefs.
I am turning 20 and doing a decent job but My father is an alcoholic, I want to get rid of him. I love my mom but she stays with him just like a babysitter and she also want to leave him I think I am going to leave them alone but my mom is not letting me go What should I do?
That 'do not try to attract women till 25' idea just blew my mind, it's so true yet I had literally never thought of it like that before. Spending energy on dating when you're young is an inefficient use of resources. Thank you for this video kind sir!
My regret is that at 18 I listened to my parents when it comes to academics. I pursued a course which helped me nowhere in life. Being an average in academics, I should have rather started working at 16 itself.
Today at 35, I am starting afresh and learning a new skill in order to make myself employable and apply for a job.
Agreed mostly with all 4 points! I'm in my early 20s.
Same
I already have a girlfriend 😂😂
does being 24 count as early 20s?
@@Ali-dk6lz yes
@@tatendazata great for you bro
I've just turned 20 and I never feel so overwhelmed my entire life until now, there are so many paths that I can take to the point that I can't make a decisive step. I have been feeling so much pressure -peer and existensial- lately. I feel like giving up. There are a lot of things that I regret like things I haven't done when I was younger. There is a lot that's going through inside me such as remorse, overthinking, and envy. I'm kinda relieved that I'm not the only one who's experiencing this
I totally understand how you feel.
Totally get how you feel man😭. And that sinking feeling like your going to make a huge mistake or future regret that you can't control. I am so scared to turn into an old cynical lady with 100 of cats, who does not enjoy or grateful for the live she lives😂.
Take it easy okay. Breathe, and try to be kinder to yourself on the decisions you make. Sending love and support from here🤗💙. You've got it.
I feel you brotha as I never partied or hanged out with my friends a whole lot in my highschool years because I was so focused on my schooling I kind of wished I had done it more then. I'm only 20 myself but I feel you in your statement.
I can relate a lot, it used to be exactly like that for me at the end of high school, I felt so much remorse looking back and there were so many possibilities for my future and so little guidance on what was the "right" thing to do.
However, I do believe that if you just think a bit and pick one path and start walking down it, no matter which one you picked, that's still going to be so much better than not choosing anything at all. No individual choice is worse than not choosing at all, so you might as well pick one even if you're not fully sure about it and go for it. You'll learn along the way if you like it or not and you'll be able to consciously adjust your path along the way. There's great videos from J.Peterson on TH-cam about that, I recommend you should watch a couple.
Also, maybe you messed up in your past. Maybe you truly did and maybe doing things differently would have been just strictly better and you will never have a chance to truly make up for that. But even then, it's better to try to learn something from it and move on than to mess up even further due to indecision.
These are just my 2 cent, it took me a while to get to those conclusions and I hope they might be helpful or at least thought-provoking for you. Best of luck
@@lucaimeneo6202 thanks luca. very helpful to read that ✨✨
I am a 21-year-old lower-middle-class guy and this is freaking relatable, will visit this video often to remind myself. Great video as always!
I disagree with the college point. When I started my undergrad, I was unsure of what direction I wanted to go in life. So I forced myself to think and explore. By my third year, I realized that I really liked my learning about literature, debating and discussing theory, and writing. So I was really enjoying my educational experience as a business/English major. I also realized that I wanted to go to law school. Fast forward about 3 years later, and now I’m in my last year of law school, and have a post-graduation job secured. I’ll graduate as a 25 year old lawyer, and will start making really good money. I’ll be well above the 10 percent of people in the US you were talking about. So, for me, school and study was my ticket to financial freedom/success, and im only 25. And no, I got academic scholarships all throughout my undergrad and law school so I don’t have any student debt.
I agree, I think this example works well pertaining to himself and other creatives. For example, he always wanted to be in the entertainment industry so I believe this advice is perfect for people who feel the same way. However for those of us that are intrigued by the corporate world this advice doesn’t really apply. I only agree with points 2 and 4 fully(partially point 1). I partially agree with part 1 only in the sense that as a man your “true value” starts to occur at 25 so you shouldn’t really feel bad or beat yourself up about not being “superman” at 23 e.g. about no having a job or a car or not getting the type of girls you’re interested in. At this point in like up (20-25) you should be working on yourself. I agree with point 2 because I feel the world is evolving before our eyes and we shouldn’t allow the world to evolve without us. Point 4 is something I’m beginning to realise, your parents aren’t here forever and one should take active steps to consciously spend time with their parents as not only may they pick up on certain wisdom but they will also receive good advice and great company(depending on the relationship with ones parents)
Lawyer requires college degree.and you went to college for free. that's the difference. Kids these days get into 50k debt to " find their purpose "
As a 24 year old and having just landed my dream programming job after a year of being a tryhard creative entrepreneur during lockdowns, the wisdom you shared on life was a great help Sinbad, thank you man.
Did you pursue a degree to achieve that, and what kind of job (e.g. what languages) did you land?
@@tyrantula767 I think you've spooked me away from programming, more than anything. The most I could stomach is a Bachelor's degree, not a Masters or PhD. My previous schedule had me doing programming as a minor, and since I've been struggling with the major, I've been looking to see how programming has been for other people.
I already know the basics of web development because I've done it in my spare time. My programming course on the side of my major has had me learning C++. I picked it up pretty well, but I can see how it's only going to get harder from here. Classes were one thing that was quite hard for me to get a handle on, in the context of my course.
Thanks for the comments, I'll keep them in mind. My plans are in flux at the moment, but it's nice to hear how others are are handling their chosen majors.
@@Slavolko It’s mainly the more complicated coding fields that require graduate degree like Machine Learning or Data Science. Theoretically speaking, you could use what know to land a job in web development and be getting paid while gaining experience. Then, while imployed, you could be learning more languages and technologies. That way, you can move into a more complex coding career and your experience as a web dev will count to the recruiters more than a degree, because it shows that you have industry experience coding. C++ is one of the harder languages to learn, so kudos to you. I only know Python at the moment and am learning html, css, JavaScript, MySQL, and php. Once I get a coding job, I may learn java or c# to get a higher paying software engineering job because many of the corporations that offer high wages for software engineers use languages like java and c# for their back end infrastructure.
@@tyrantula767 Well hopefully that means I wouldn't need anything more than a Bachelors for normal degrees like IT or CS. Not even sure what IT is, but it seems like the thing all the non-tech savvy people swarm towards. Machine learning is cool to use, but I don't want to be the one developing it.
I don't know where I'd be able to land a job with my current basic web dev skills, besides small gigs online. Frankly I don't trust myself to make a website for someone else because of the difficulties I've encountered with my own work. Javascript libraries and all that.
Regardless, good luck with your learning and career prospects.
@@tyrantula767 I was looking to get a job in web dev as well, my main worry is they would want fresh graduates to work on site. I have an associate's in computer science, is there a good amount of web dev jobs that are remote?
That is the biggest difference between eastern and western cultures, relationship with family. In eastern cultures parents are generally more controlling and have more say in your life, but they are always there.
I envy kids who have been raised in a household where you didn't have to worry about how you'd make rent or whether you'd have anything for the next meal. Ideally these are stuff parents take care for you. I guess it'd be unfair to blame a single mum with mental health problems, instead be grateful for what I had. Nevertheless, it did mean that the entire responsibility of my mom and my 2 younger sisters were on my shoulders from the age of 6 and because of that I've lost some very important years of my life. I've finally been able fulfil my dream of going to university to study computer science but at the age of 25. I'd say I'm about 5 years late but quite grateful to just be alive and achieve the stability I have in my life now. I guess no matter how difficult your situation becomes there's always someone who has it worse.
I'm a 16 years old girl and trust me when I say they don't make content like this. I appreciate that you made it.
“ why try to optimise for something you’re not in the right phase of life for?” This hit hard.
As an 18 year old, this video feels godsent.
Being a young guy, I’ve been thinking about these things a lot recently, especially the not chasing women one. Video will really help me focus my mind and energy. Thank you Captain
Same here. I never been in relationship before, i was tried to dating, but i relize i have to focus on my self
Even on high school I could never get myself to date someone but turn out I don't miss out on anything . Like shindbad said ,maybe I just wasn't ready anyway . Better improvise yourself
I was lucky to have a powerful mindful father I didn’t chase women at 23 I’m good I developed and improved myself m but am starting to have a strong want for it
When he said: ,,sometimes, stuff just happens without a reason, maybe you fell asleep and just fu**ed things up yourself..."
I stopped for a moment, and just thought about taking full responsibility for my life, instead of leaving it all to fate.
I was thinking the same thing too, like when you are lit fucked over and think it happened for a reason when you lit know all the reasons yourself.
I definitely regret falling into the conventional routes and not investing aggressively in my early twenties.
Great video man!
If wasted e v e r y single year of my 20s which lead me basically to start from zero due to unbelievable stupid life decisions. Turning 31 later this year but finally started to turn things around. At least trying to do so, which is a huge improvement already.
Your videos are some of the greatest inspiration available for me. Thank you for that. Just thank you.
Would you be able to elaborate on some of those mistakes.
Good luck my man! Same story here
”Think of yourself as dead. You have lived your life. Now, take what's left and live it properly. What doesn't transmit light creates its own darkness.” - Marcus Aurelius
Great vid bud. My nr 1. regret in my early 20’s was that I cared too much/followed other peoples opinions rather than following my soul/authetic self’s wishes. This is a big reason for why my channel is called ”Based Brothers”, based meaning living a life that is true to oneself regardless the opinions of others.
Stay Based
Never commented on one of your vids before but I thought I’d add my voice to the choir- as a woman in my early 20s this really got me thinking about how our priorities really differ based on gender… as a man, it’s ok for you to wait till your late 20s to find a date as that’s (mostly) when you’re in your prime. But as a woman, there’s definitely a lot of pressure to find a date/partner as you won’t look this good again ever in your life. Looks aren’t everything but I feel like life as a woman is a lot more on a biological clock than a mans. Just got me thinking and wondering how to apply your idea of being a student until 25 to my life. I feel a lot of stress, but maybe it’s self inflicted?
I think it’s true / I think women are on different timelines, and perhaps end their student phase of life at 22. It’s not fair, as men end up getting more time, but - I think this might be a trope.
@@CaptainSinbad Usually men look better as we age, you said it yourself, there isn't really a trope unless you compare it to the percentages, then in that case, there could always be a trope.
I don't blame you on feeling that stress, as I guy I feel better about my looks as guys tend to look better as they age alittle more into their late 20s/30s and women kind of get hit the fan around 30 sometimes and up and generally don't age to well.
@@THEINFERNOKID men do not get better with age. Men look horrible after 25/20s. Because they don’t take care of themselves and seem to slack when it comes to their weight and physical appearance
“Sunk costs theory” the one thing that I will remember from my university days for the rest of my life. 😂 All jokes aside, great video with humor that is always on point. The TH-cam space needs more people who can address serious topics without taking themselves too seriously. Keep sailing forward Captain Sinbad! 👍🏼
It takes real courage to just start and go live our life! So, the most of luck anyone that wants to do anything new ☺️
Thankyou 🌼
As a 23 year old who was just today totally filled with self doubt and anxiety, I say thank you Nikhil. Keep sailing, Cap'n!
Every indian I think is confused
@@sunnyarora3557 Nobody is not confused at some point in life. I am yet to come accross a person who had it all sorted out from start to finish. Have a good day! :)
This video really is stressing to watch. I'm 25 and I'm really feeling the heat of life, don't really have time to mess around even here on TH-cam . Man! Great video and reminder thank you so much.
In my late 20s but I still think I can make the change.
I'm still young but part of passing your mid 20s is realizing that, for the first time, you won't be young forever.
I was gloomy at first, thinking "this isn't where I thought I would be 10 years ago, it's too late", then 2020 hit and with mortality following us at every step, coupled with the world seemingly falling apart, I realized no one else is going to give me the life I want, I have to go build it myself.
It's never too late. It certainly is harder as you get older, but it's never too late. The old saying still holds: the best time to start was yesterday, the second best time to start is today.
3:40 I have noticed this in workplace and life as well. If you look older, you get promoted faster. I look 5 years younger than I am and it just changes the way people talk to you. I have seen employees younger than me getting promoted just coz they look old (Due to genetics or unhealthy eating habbits)
Yea one of the many things I hate about being young is the fact that no one values or cares for your opinion, and that people give you zero respect just because you are a young person. People talk to you better and respect you more the older you get which irritates the fuck out of me because that makes me want to be just older in order to gain that respect.
Yea it's bs if you got a babyface like me. Luckily im kinda tall which kinda counteracts the face, but appearances definitely do affect your career.
I can barely remember my twenties. That would be regret number one for me: I didn't pay attention.
The point about meaningful conversations with parents particularly resonated with me. I enjoy spending time in the presence of my parents even when we’re not talking. I’ve tried to have meaningful conversations with my parents and my dad tends to be more receptive than my mum. I think part of the issue is my parents are also somewhat happy with how things are and just chilling so they never initiate those conversations either.
I’m a 15 year old and feel blessed to know this knowledge at such a young age!
As a 21 year old, I will focus on making the bananas
Agree so much with thisssssss!!! Much love, Capt!
Actually some amazing points here, thanks for being honest and not "fluffy" like a lot of these life advice videos on youtube
29 year old here. I agree that the main focus should be on becoming competent earlier in your life. That is exactly the advice I would give my younger self if I could. But the danger to this advice is that you don't want to work hard at the wrong things. In your 20s, it's okay to be more experimental. Try many things. Listen to your intuition. But give everything your 100%!
Damn, this hit. TBH dude you have grown so much in 2 years on your channel. You "did the work" and now its is paying off.
Nikhil, thanks for this video man. I'm 24 and I was feeling bad since I spend most of my time coding and studying and felt behind all my peers. Since they are in Vegas every weekend. This video helped remind me I'm not too far off the 'path'. Take care man!
I'd like to think of myself as very privileged to have content like this around me at the right time. Thank you, Nikhil.
Amazing man. This really gave me the realisation I needed
Being on your early 20s and watching videos like this one really helps when dealing with the ups and downs of your 20s. Thank you for posting this, definetly going to watch it multiple times.
I so needed this! 🙌
Really needed to hear this one. Thanks Captain!
you mentor me literally through every content you put , i learn a lot , thank you big brother.
Loved this video man - had never really looked at life in that way (1) but it definitely lends perspective. The stuff about spending real time with your parents and thinking outside the box and trusting yourself needs to be heard by more young people!!
fantastic video. so impactful. I love it.
This is the best video ever about the topic ! Thank you very much for the quality / script of your content
My girlfriend and I met in college so I didn't have to worry about the dating aspect of my early 20's. She also helps me renovate my properties so a sound financial investment too ;) I wish I could spend more time with my parents. We, as a family, do a zoom call 5 nights a week, but my life led me to live in the States while they're in Canada. I try to do more intentional trips with one parent or both so I can spend quality time with them before they are too old
Well, that's a bunch of good luck right there :)
That’s a leader right there
@@abhisheksharma2138 was gonna say meeting your gf in college was a bunch of good luck consdering the one I went too they were all in their own groups or middle aged Karens with kids.
STFU
@@MrAshu-mx4dh dam bro😂
Thanks for opening up and giving us these useful tips . Im early 20s and Im actually pretty lost these days
Awesome video as always. Love ur videos it really inspires a lot. ❤
Your lighting is getting better day by day . Loved the video .
I don't typically comment on things about myself but this feels like a reflective comment thread.
I'm 25 and I feel very blessed with how my life is going. I started in the gym after finishing high school not knowing what to do with my myself. I just knew I wanted to stay active and fell in love with the journey. And once I looked passed chasing women as the ultimate goal. I saved enough money up to buy a house which ive worked to get payed off around the end of 2022. And this year ive started university (STEPS) to get into learning physiotherapy next year. And im just very proud and grateful of the life I've been able to live so far. I really can vouch about not being so fixated on getting a girl. Im sure it'll come in time. :)
Damn congrats bro how did you get into uni at 25? Is this your first time getting into uni?
This was profound. Thank you.
Great videos, man! God bless
Thanks for the upload man! You got one more subscriber!
Amazing how much I agree with this. I'm 37 and since ditching the starving artist thing at 27 (being an ESL teacher getting paid crap money and a musician with no following) I went back to uni and studied psychology and ended up getting in to data analytics (doing a Masters full-time) and then became a product manager. I can say that the wind behind your sails of a successful career enables you to invest more in your hobbies and makes you more attractive. I would say that you can date in your early 20s but I was too emotionally damaged at the time to have the confidence (women were interested but I didn't let myself see it). When I started to do better for myself, I learned to believe in myself. I now make music in my free time and have a satisfying job.
I think there is something to hitting bottom in your early 20s. You need to be poor to learn to be hungry. You need to go on adventures that give you the highs and the lows. I travelled 30 countries and learned Spanish, Italian and Portuguese. I don't regret that at all. I think it's about pushing the boundaries of what you think is possible so you can figure out who you really are. But the road less travelled can be a painful road. I could have used this video at 18 to avoid having to find these things out the hard way.
I like the thoughts on conscious interactions with your parents. We often take them for granted. I lost my mom this past November and I’m so thankful for all the times we talked. I know so much more about her the person than say my dad. My only regret is having no captured some of her stories on video or at least audio. She spent the late 60’s and early 70’s single in Boston and San Francisco and those were cool times. So many interesting stories. Sorry to comment twice here 🤣 I often find myself commenting in the beginning or middle of a video as I don’t want to forget my thought. Another great video.
Same, I have abit of short term memory loss so I tend to forget what I am going to say alot and tend to cut off people when they are talking or Ill lit forget what I wanted to say.
Gud luck to you 🌼 and I'm sorry for your loss
@@itsofficialyou7014 thanks so much.
Thanks man. This is all very helpful.
That was a good video! Thank you man!
I don't know how you're doing this but back to back you're putting videos that I jussst need at that precise time. I am 23 right now and boy do I need to tell you about my mental state. Thanks for putting this video man.
Practice meditation and hear classic Indian relaxing music
@@retrogamer3775 ^ second that
This is incredible advice 🔥
Great video captain
Thanks for sharing your experiences 👍
The fact that this video is coming out just as I withdrew from college means everything. Thank you for the wisdom and inspiration👌🔥
Man, I had a mental breakdown about half of these things last night. I felt lost and alone...This video helped me guide myself for my next important years of my life (I am 20 now). Thank you man, this helped alot. :)
Thank you for an amazing experience driven perspective, the building of a portfolio over mindlessly chasing a degree (especially when you can't afford one) is such OP advice. I am still "for" merit, but you just blew a gap in my cloudy sky xD a thousand thank you's, Captain my Captain!
This was great Stuff!
Very wise points!
Helped me think through a few things in my own life!
this is gonna help out alot. Thank you, captain!!
For those of you who are curious as to what the four phases of life (according to Hinduism) are called: Brahmacharya (student), Grihastha (householder), Vanaprastha (forest walker/forest dweller), and Sannyasa (renunciate).
This video hit the NAIL on the HEAD! I'm 22 and I'm so glad I came across this video. Things like avoiding dating for the time being and focusing on studying things that will add value to others is so essential yet nobody seems to be talking about it. Thanks for this one Nikhil :)
Love the perspective. Great video!
I really liked this video! The sit-down-and-chat style of video really suits you as a TH-camr, definitely a new fan.
I’m privileged that I chose a subject that I love and is relevant to life in general and I’m lucky to have the Internet to be myself.
I think the relationship with parents evolves as you grow up. Eventually, you start talking/understanding parents rather than just being with them.
Thanks for this!
The amount of efforts put in this video shooting & editing is commendable! 💯👌
Aye Aye captain 🔥🔥🔥
Thank for for putting out this videos for us early 20s people to know what to look out for while were in our early 20s... I’m 20 btw 💯💯💯
Thanks for these Sinbad, really needed these in my early adulthood
Thanks men for share this, is really helpful for people that more young
I have just turned 21, I found this glorious channel that will change my life. I can't thank you enough. Love from Nepal.
This is facts.
I’m finally moving out of my parents house at 26 and about to experience life for myself. I love them but I also have to do me. Great points and wish you to growth 🙏
I needed this!!
All your life experiences have blessed you with great wisdom! It is evident as your channel has grown, thank you very much.
As an 18 year old and going to college for the time this helped thanks for the advice
So much truth here. Especially in college I wish I hadn’t wasted time and money dating. I should have focused more on education and yes having fun for me and not someone else. I wish I had wasted less money at bars 🤣 as well. So many better things outdoors I could have been doing. Luckily the learning process of life helps us grow into what we are today.
Really appreciate the knowledge
Helpfull. Thanks! 🙇🏻♂️
Turning 25 soon, nowhere near where I want to be in life..both financially and just as a person. But, videos like these force me to be grateful for what I have and that there is always time to improve yourself, just start now. Keep up the great work man!
I 100% agree, I feel like I almost took my relationship with my family for granted and now that I've been putting more conscious time into it, it is a very fulfilling and complete relationship
Captain is dropping knowledge for real, thank you big brother)
I loved those videos where you interviewed your parents. A couple of your best videos right there. Keep posting bro. You're a big source of inspiration for me.
I wish I spent more time in college having fun while also making connections.
The more you grow up, the more you realise how much your parents love you ❤️
1 of my favourite channels on the Tube. Love being here. Love the content. Grateful for the insight and hindsight. I'm 24, this was so relatable. Good stuff✨