Why I Chose Polygamy: A Polygamous Man Speaks Out Ft. Steve Ario

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  • Let's talk polygamy, shall we? I have been talking a lot with folks who hate and love polygamy in equal measure. So, here I sit down with Steve Ario, a health practitioner based in the USA and a politician in Kenya, to explore his personal journey into polygamy. Steve shares his reasons for choosing this lifestyle, the challenges he faces, and how it has shaped his family dynamics and career in both health and politics.
    We discuss cultural influences, personal beliefs, and the lessons Steve has learned along the way. Whether you're curious about polygamy or looking to understand the man behind the story, this conversation is sure to intrigue and inspire.
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ความคิดเห็น • 175

  • @kenju1
    @kenju1 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Too many red flags.Narcissistic tendencies.

    • @spicylife3792
      @spicylife3792 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Very narcissistic. Breaking every women's heart for selfish beliefs to justify his behavior. He can't sacrifice to care for his kids but keep siring.

  • @siyana3697
    @siyana3697 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Am Ugandan and a product of a polygamous setting,men don't understand what polygamy does to the children and that's why they come to such platforms and say what he is saying with a lot of complacency like he is doing.

    • @Dopklf45
      @Dopklf45 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Eleaborate how you felt

    • @carolm4691
      @carolm4691 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men are just pleasing themselves they, don't care about anyone including their children.even those who love their mothers it is because their mother stand with them thru their nonsense .plus they don't give a shot of some1 wh9 talk to them in the contrary

    • @la-ry1ms
      @la-ry1ms 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Children will live their own lives all you owe them is good accommodation healthcare and education they should never be a consideration in a man's choices

    • @ritahgisha
      @ritahgisha 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you gal, it's tough

  • @paulinebiz3663
    @paulinebiz3663 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I agree with polygamy BUT this man needs to make peace with the woman who hurt you and his feminine self. Dial down his ego too

  • @angelanyambura2843
    @angelanyambura2843 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    if you are not a wealthy man polygamous is a story you should also only be hearing about, don't entangle people's daughter in poverty in the name of culture, even in culture men are only allowed more wives by the power of their land and provision capacity.

  • @AlwedoMichelleIvy
    @AlwedoMichelleIvy หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This was quite interesting to listen to. I dont agree with much but it was nice listening to someone I dont agree with. Some points made me think. Many made me laugh. Well, some.

  • @juliagichs1
    @juliagichs1 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    “Confidence is Silent. Insecurities are loud” wtv you choose to do with this statement is totally upto you✌🏾🤣

    • @SupremeEstatesCo123
      @SupremeEstatesCo123 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How about "the truth hurts" I think you can comprehend.

    • @juliagichs1
      @juliagichs1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ Are you a High value man? 🤔

    • @SupremeEstatesCo123
      @SupremeEstatesCo123 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @juliagichs1 Since birth I have been. Any other question?

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@juliagichs1what do you bring to the table first before I waste my breath answering

    • @nobleideas2838
      @nobleideas2838 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@juliagichs1define a high value man

  • @sueonyoni3243
    @sueonyoni3243 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He started well by being truthful to his women , but along the way lost it or just something went off….. Mmmmh!

    • @vmariita
      @vmariita หลายเดือนก่อน

      i thought so too...wueh!

  • @Kiddis086
    @Kiddis086 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    High-end men don't behave like this one. This is just a confused fella trying to prove his stupidity. Kasongo wewe

  • @wanyonyie
    @wanyonyie หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Making up fake statistics to justify his selfishness and egocentrism. And thinks he is so smart by quoting his two Masters degrees. High value man indeed...😅

    • @MonaLisa_Baby90
      @MonaLisa_Baby90 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Preach cause having degrees doesn’t make you any smarter and his statistics seem made up. I thought polygamy was for rich people

    • @wanyonyie
      @wanyonyie หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MonaLisa_Baby90 you can tell a smart person by what comes out of their mouth... and yes the statistics are made up, there is no way women are four times more than men. Sadly the host cant do basic google to challenge him because 'it is a safe space' 🤣🤣🤣Anyone is free to marry whichever number they want...its not necessary to justify choices by putting the opposite gender down...

    • @SupremeEstatesCo123
      @SupremeEstatesCo123 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Kindly describe to us who is a high value man?

    • @SupremeEstatesCo123
      @SupremeEstatesCo123 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@MonaLisa_Baby90"seem made up" do you have actual facts and statistics??

    • @harrietoketch571
      @harrietoketch571 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Most of the polygamous men are only like that because of their own selfish reason ati reason ni someone to take care of him 😂😂😂😂😂😂 wacha nicheke initoke. I respect a man who was truthful from the word go. You can't propose to me and haven't mentioned wanting another wife. Its okay to be polygamous but tell me yawa before I marry you

  • @rippleventures4466
    @rippleventures4466 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A luo man is a Red flag 💯💪🔥 ogopa luo men 😢😢😢😢 red flag😅😅😅😅

  • @mosesmwesigye4958
    @mosesmwesigye4958 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I fail to understand how to days women want to be taken cared for like our Grand parents yet with emancipation, we all go to school and Compete for the same jobs

  • @Cresentmoon649
    @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    42:08 polygamy is not for poor men. Why would a woman financially support a polygamous man? Crazy

  • @ritahgisha
    @ritahgisha 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It was interesting and opened my thinking listening to this conversation
    With love from Uganda ❤

  • @Evelynlogose256
    @Evelynlogose256 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    First update your statistics sir. The current world ratio of males to females is 101males to 100 females. Meaning the global population of males is higher than that of women. Odds have changed

    • @inkisarisarah3242
      @inkisarisarah3242 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Which world are you living in nikuje huko

    • @wanyonyie
      @wanyonyie หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Evelynlogose256 its sad that in this day of technology, where you can get any kind of information while seated in your house, people can still be fooled by such outdated and made up information...

    • @Cresentmoon649
      @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@inkisarisarah3242are you dating a married man

  • @davidotieno2877
    @davidotieno2877 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Very interesting show😂. Big up Jagero and Steve Ario

  • @candidajamesa5650
    @candidajamesa5650 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this conversation,Jagero. It is sometimes uncomfortable to remember where the woman is placed in society. Otek ateka chuth!!

  • @lynlassiter5033
    @lynlassiter5033 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOVE HIM!
    Straight forward kabisa.
    Thank you Jagero!
    Life is happiness.

  • @sabin7327
    @sabin7327 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All that BS he's talking about won't fly in America, and he knows it.

  • @lennywilliams9675
    @lennywilliams9675 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What an amazing truth speaking brother. WOW. BLESSED LOVE MY BROTHERS

  • @lizzysnest3913
    @lizzysnest3913 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What is he talking about? Thought he was to talk about his polygamous life. An educated fool.

  • @CindyLornaKavai
    @CindyLornaKavai 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's quite clear red is his favourite colour, literally!!!

  • @Dopklf45
    @Dopklf45 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "He be careful if he is from the states..and polygamy is illegal..Wakijua atafangiwa ile kitu.."the freemason globalist would rather have him gay not polygamy due to their depopulation agenda

  • @danielkinyua8524
    @danielkinyua8524 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This man is vibrating higly. Very confident

  • @Cresentmoon649
    @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    46:43 😂😂😂 he forgets his mother who birthed him has a used 🐈

  • @ruhi_willys
    @ruhi_willys 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I haven't listened yet but,,a wife in Kenya, in the long term? Marriage run on facetime? heheeee. hiyo nayo kugongewa ni constant. 😄

  • @anitasillo9599
    @anitasillo9599 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The selfishness and pride spit from his mouth is of another level. Mwambie atulie ajichunguze kama anajipenda. His selfishness has superseded the love of himself.

  • @kennedyariembi5545
    @kennedyariembi5545 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Woow I have subscribed. today

  • @anastasiahn.m.652
    @anastasiahn.m.652 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just pity how men view women as less humans ....eti he can't be in kenya for 6 months waiting to go to his American woman and solution is to get a kenyan woman...what is the woman supposed to do without his man for 6 months? get married too before he comes back....men😢...just selfish. What a deprived and arrogant mind. Heal man.

  • @thehutpropertymanagers-rea1758
    @thehutpropertymanagers-rea1758 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting comversation

  • @catherinek3409
    @catherinek3409 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    40% of men are in jail how is it even possible?

  • @ronaldotieno6754
    @ronaldotieno6754 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bitter Truth.

  • @Lucyirungu198
    @Lucyirungu198 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    😂😂😂😂😂😂Laughed so hard

    • @gathoningae734
      @gathoningae734 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      does he include his mother or future constituents in the derogatory he is describing women. Ati 40% in jail.

  • @peterorengo8347
    @peterorengo8347 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    loving the show

  • @beatricewangari1801
    @beatricewangari1801 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very truthful

  • @lynlassiter5033
    @lynlassiter5033 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love it!
    I respect this Man.
    Be my in-law😂

  • @judithouma1133
    @judithouma1133 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jagero you should also interview Musa Mseleku the South African polygamist and reality tv personality.

  • @Cresentmoon649
    @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน

    17:44 so selfish, so you want a young woman to use? Shameless

  • @Cresentmoon649
    @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน

    45:23 is he the one who was condemning medical doctors just now. If confusion was a person

  • @Cresentmoon649
    @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน

    35:26 what makes you think the woman does not have a side man

  • @pawicounselingpsychology101
    @pawicounselingpsychology101 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You call this 'putting your life together'? The eyes speak of lust!

  • @harrietoketch571
    @harrietoketch571 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Excuse me, Sir, I'll have to correct you on this since you have brought up the bible topic. GOD said two shall become one not four not three, not seven, twooooooo. It says love your wife just as christ loved the church, not wives, wife. In THE 10 COMMANDMENTS, one of them is committing adultery. I have no problem with polygamous men don't get me wrong. In fact, I respect men who do. That doesn't mean I support it, just don't mix polygamy and the bible.

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Since you have brought it up, the bible also talks of marrying virgins

    • @hubbahm
      @hubbahm หลายเดือนก่อน

      Western culture, depopulation

    • @innocentookumu6291
      @innocentookumu6291 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell me one man who was monogamous. Just one!

    • @harrietoketch571
      @harrietoketch571 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@phillipsidhojapap1461 😂😂😂 and why don't you guys marry Virgin's 😂😂

    • @harrietoketch571
      @harrietoketch571 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@innocentookumu6291
      Job and His Wife
      Joseph and Mary
      Isaac and Rebekah
      Noah and his wife their children had one wife
      Adam and Eve
      Would you like more examples????? Just because two men had two wives means ati sasa hivyo ndio the rest of you mfanye. Jesus preached about marriage he said one wife not two. He even said the only reason to separate is adultery.
      In the Bible Solomon had so many wives but that was one of the reasons God wasn't happy with him . David took his servant's wife and God punished Him. We can chat the whole day but you know what is true. Hakuna mahali kwa Bibilia inasema polygamy is wrong but that isnt the ideal and Gods original design for marriage.
      I still respect those who actually practice it I just don't support it. And Jesus clearly states this
      This only applies if you are a firm believer of Christ.
      Men before you practice polygamy understand the emotional, psychological, physical impact it will bring to your loved ones not just you.
      Plus kuna women who want a polygamous marriage I wont question that.

  • @OmaribaJared
    @OmaribaJared หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow what a nice talk, 👋

  • @mathujohn56
    @mathujohn56 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But u should care others people heart too ..dot let ego finish u

  • @AlwedoMichelleIvy
    @AlwedoMichelleIvy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    50:02 I beg to bring Mr Ebang from E.Guinea as evidence of anomalies.

  • @musamutetwi1948
    @musamutetwi1948 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    roysambu lazima itajwe na sidechicks...kwani iz how?😂😂

    • @candidajamesa5650
      @candidajamesa5650 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂Roysambu is bad...mbaya sana😂😂😂

    • @musamutetwi1948
      @musamutetwi1948 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@candidajamesa5650 itabidi tuhame 😂😂

    • @rhodantinyari4081
      @rhodantinyari4081 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maandishi haya si mageni jijini .....

  • @candidajamesa5650
    @candidajamesa5650 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What i want to remind you all is that....ndoa sio lazima😂😂😂. Msijiforce kama imeshindikana, my sisters. Sio lazima. 😂😂😂

    • @draseko4718
      @draseko4718 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you married?

  • @liveWithPurposePennyO
    @liveWithPurposePennyO หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This was such a waste of my time!!!
    Polygamy does not work like that...he's been divorced he was talking to 2nd year university student then he's hooked up with a woman here then he goes back to a small girl!!
    This is a total mess!!!!!
    Someone needs to tell this man what he's doing is not polygamy!
    My late father had 4 wives 21 children am #18 of 21 so I know how this man's life will end up!!
    Sad indeed 😢 😢😢

  • @Kiddis086
    @Kiddis086 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    According to this guy, a woman becomes lesser when she clocks 40. Very self-man with this kind of backward mentality hata mca hupati.asante

  • @jeankarimi632
    @jeankarimi632 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Are you in pain???

  • @judithochola4476
    @judithochola4476 หลายเดือนก่อน

    lol…Nyaugenya, Gob bless you 😂

  • @bernicegbb2908
    @bernicegbb2908 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Ladies, listen to this man at your own risk! Such a waste of my bundles😢

    • @Evelynlogose256
      @Evelynlogose256 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Waste of bundles 😂

    • @spicylife3792
      @spicylife3792 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Of time too.he contradicts himself

  • @dianagenga5871
    @dianagenga5871 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man is poor, he should focus on his limiting financial beliefs😂

  • @JamesKariuki-dl7ub
    @JamesKariuki-dl7ub หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Polygamy is good.

  • @stringsattachedmusickenya8905
    @stringsattachedmusickenya8905 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Too brutal with the truth

  • @Cresentmoon649
    @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน

    34:58 😂😂😂 but not safe space for women in marriage. What a contradiction

  • @liveWithPurposePennyO
    @liveWithPurposePennyO หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The 1st wife used to choose the next wife....even the Muslims have to get approval from the 1st wife!!

  • @MissDydyston
    @MissDydyston หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is sad 😔 i thought this was our great great parents way of thinking. For someone who has kids why be so selfish ?? Did you think about how your kids will feel in 20years from now??

    • @spicylife3792
      @spicylife3792 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Very very 😭😭😭😭

    • @spicylife3792
      @spicylife3792 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Arrogance of a Luo man and they reap sooner than later

  • @puritykathure4998
    @puritykathure4998 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Therapists..come here. You got a client. The man needs help;he is hurting

  • @Cresentmoon649
    @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน

    27:34 wrong stats

  • @susanknjuenjue5045
    @susanknjuenjue5045 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Poor guy

  • @selinahanyolo3132
    @selinahanyolo3132 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Totally lost the meaning of a high value man, it's never about sex and Money.

  • @TheNudge-em7rr
    @TheNudge-em7rr หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    suffocating🙄

  • @lawrencemalika9687
    @lawrencemalika9687 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😅😅anyiero ka ma-arumo.

  • @maulineillonda1383
    @maulineillonda1383 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Total bullsheet....high end man nonesense

  • @Cresentmoon649
    @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน

    9:46 i didn’t know men get desperate

  • @josephinesuji5900
    @josephinesuji5900 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Manage wives 🤔

  • @spicylife3792
    @spicylife3792 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So married women are treated cheaply, wh yawa chuo😮👎👎👎

  • @dhiambiokuom2159
    @dhiambiokuom2159 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG!!!!! Lord make me able.....

  • @perismagoma709
    @perismagoma709 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Lacks wit

  • @Mvtvri
    @Mvtvri หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Comment sekshen imewaka moto bwana Jagero. The ladies are not boarding😂😂

  • @Mkisii612
    @Mkisii612 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤔🤔🤔

  • @eddieochuonyo6922
    @eddieochuonyo6922 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂😂
    Omera Steve in jadoho ei amerika ka 🤣🤣
    USCIS biro lawore kodi
    Duog e Zip code ma Poughkeepsie

  • @lulu-xt5gs
    @lulu-xt5gs หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He doesn’t sound very…

    • @francisjura4812
      @francisjura4812 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I hear you. There is something about this guy that is off.

    • @gathoningae734
      @gathoningae734 หลายเดือนก่อน

      when describing women in such bad words, is his mother or future constitutients included @@francisjura4812

    • @spicylife3792
      @spicylife3792 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Okey😮

  • @miriamrosendichu
    @miriamrosendichu หลายเดือนก่อน

    They look alike 😁

  • @shemmosoti2808
    @shemmosoti2808 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Women are boiling here

    • @Cresentmoon649
      @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t understand why they are boiling when they can get a side man when the polygamous husband is not at home

  • @esthernyambura6005
    @esthernyambura6005 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This guy sounds hurt....heal brother

    • @wanyonyie
      @wanyonyie หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@esthernyambura6005 kabisa!

  • @shabanbuchu2130
    @shabanbuchu2130 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a SIMP

  • @otienokenyatta
    @otienokenyatta หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's my oorah

  • @milkahachar1794
    @milkahachar1794 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why do men get to mess up like this and still get so many chances 😢It's a pity.

  • @liveWithPurposePennyO
    @liveWithPurposePennyO หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Even the way he went about what he's calling polygamy!!!

  • @loicebaraza
    @loicebaraza หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mae oliet

  • @esthernyambura6005
    @esthernyambura6005 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jagerooooo😅

  • @maggykerubo7569
    @maggykerubo7569 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nkt

  • @myfarmkenya
    @myfarmkenya หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • @philipbollo6020
    @philipbollo6020 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Njugu okwee e pap kiweyo ng^ato muodo

  • @SupremeEstatesCo123
    @SupremeEstatesCo123 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jagero ongezaa kuni kabisa😂😂😂😂😂

  • @julieotieno5800
    @julieotieno5800 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A walking red flag indeed.

  • @TheNudge-em7rr
    @TheNudge-em7rr หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A bit much and misplaced.

  • @joslineadhiambootieno5503
    @joslineadhiambootieno5503 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    selfish interest

  • @SupremeEstatesCo123
    @SupremeEstatesCo123 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    NOW THIS IS A MAN,! women are boiling buana,😂😂😂😂

  • @Dopklf45
    @Dopklf45 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Feminists..wamecatch..we want polygamy not polyandry

  • @ireneowino3026
    @ireneowino3026 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @jagero.... Where can I find your book 'Digital Goldmine'

  • @harrietayio3794
    @harrietayio3794 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    th-cam.com/users/livevaK4Wu0-tK4?si=j2GSrRYgJypnKe0p

  • @Cresentmoon649
    @Cresentmoon649 หลายเดือนก่อน

    34:58 😂😂😂 but not safe space for women in marriage. What a contradiction