I love how this song talks about love for a woman, in general: could be use for a friend, a daugther, a lover, a sister, a mother, a relative, any girl that is important for you and just knows how to make you feel better about yourself. We all need someone who knows how to listen.
@@Crimson19977 its your personal view we don't care what you think sexually speaking , the song is what it is , and your brain is what it is but they are not the same.
My partner and I listened to this while she was in labor with our daughter and a few hours later she was born. That was 5 days ago. We both cried listening to this but now we have our girl and she's the sweetest thing I've ever seen.
I am good, I am grounded Davy says that I look taller I can’t get my head around it I keep feeling smaller and smaller I need my girl I need my girl Remember when you lost your shit and Drove the car into the garden You got out and said I’m sorry To the vines and no one saw it I need my girl I need my girl I’m under the gun again I know I was the 45% of then I know I was a lot of things But I am good, I am grounded Davy says that I look taller I can’t get my head around it I keep feeling smaller and smaller I need my girl I need my girl There’s some things that I should never Laugh about in front of family I’ll try to call you from the party It’s full of punks and cannonballers I need my girl I need my girl I’m under the gun again I know I was the 45% of then I know I was a lot of things But I am good and I am grounded Davy says that I look taller But I can’t get my head around it I keep feeling smaller and smaller I keep feeling smaller and smaller I keep feeling smaller and smaller didnt see lyrics so here it is
i used to share this song in my ig story at least once a month because i just vibe so good to this song. one girl always responded to this, either with just hearts, or how she loved the national, or how beautiful the video is. she passed away on the 11th of june this year and now every time i hear this song i dont even share it anymore, im in tears every time but its also like she's right there vibing with me, like the song summons her spirit. im not even a believer in ghosts etc but the idea is beautiful. i wish we had more time but im glad we met, Doortje. rest in peace lieverd
I lost my partner almost 3 years ago, and in the deepest depth of my grief I'd repeat the line, "I am good, I am grounded" to myself over and over, this song reminds me so much of her.
"I keep feeling smaller and smaller". Those words, those lyrics right there! There are times that everyone is feeling a little bit "smaller". I think a lot of people can relate to that. And to hear about it in the lyrics of such a beautiful song is what makes you realise how in many situtations you may feel afraid, frigile, lonely. It's heartbreaking... but beautiful too!
I always interpreted it as how humbled he feels to have this girl in his life. Like she overwhelms him at times and he feels “smaller” because he realizes how much he needs her, how much he relies on her. The other people around him though say that he looks taller - I think this represents how a healthy relationship helps you to grow as a person.
Beautfigul song. The new episode of Shrinking (*Season 2, ep.11) brought me here. Heartbreaking emotional meltdown of a widower dealing with a fall-out with his daughter. The episode strongly resonated with me since I am going through the same excrutiating predicament.
@@i8aleks95 Pepper started with the bullshit. I'm just pointing out the obvious fact that, no it's not because of "many races and ages", just the aesthetics. Not even the production value.
@@i8aleks95 Nothing. It's just that it isn't beautiful for the reasons cited. It's beautiful because of the aesthetics and how well it's done. As I said, black keys made a clip of just a middle aged black dude dancing, and it's awesome.
am going through a breakup currently and this is the first time I’m hearing this song and this band, and I don’t know what hurts more, loosing my best friend , or loosing my mind. This band so far has given me some peace of mind whenever I hear them play.
A question: What do you get out of this song? This may be one of the most poignant songs for me in regards to relationships and every time I watch this, I am filled with both love for my wife and an immense amount of shame that I do not give, nor show, her enough love. I need her beyond a doubt and it is humbling that she continues to love an imperfect being like me. So what I get out of this song is how much I truly need the woman I have in my life. She gives me the emotional and physical support I do not get from the rest of the world. She is everything to me. When the world is critical, cynical of who I am (or who I 'should' be), she is a safe haven. It baffles me what she gets out of our relationship... Thank you to the National for putting into words what I feel. A side note: the old couple gets me every time. Love should be timeless and they illustrate that point.
+losttribe3001 Your words are touching. If I, as a total stranger, can be moved by them. So will your wife. Those sentences, you brought forth such emotion from minor key strokes. This is not to be wasted on a digital format. You will take her by the hand, sit down next to her, gaze deep upon her irides and repeat your expressions of appreciation. It may seem like simple words, unworthy of her eardrums vibrations. But within them she will see the fact, that for you, she is your utopia. Language is a powerful tool, but we are nothing but fools if unspoken... (I was a fool once. Sadly this song found an attachment to that.)
+losttribe3001 What I get out of this song is I don't have trust in a life-long relationship again. Divorce occurs. What's the point of getting married?
+Reuben Ahmed I've been divorced also. The first wife had been online and met someone from Australia. Within 3 months I went from married to having an ex in another country. That was painfully hard. But I lucked out and found someone else and (knock on wood), it's been good for 15 years now. Relationships are NOT easy and don't always work out.
My daughters and me have an appointment to see The National for the first time in Colombia in March 2018. Thanks guys for such beauty, for such feelings, for this diving deep into the human soul. Your songs are made of us....
I feel like this is a rare love song because it has a lot of vulnerability in it. There are tons of songs with “I love you”, “I gotta have you”, or just praising the way the other person makes them feel. There aren’t as many love songs quietly admitting this sense of awe that the other person loves them despite all their imperfections. And “needing” his girl instead of just wanting her, missing her, etc.
This so much makes me think of my grandpa and grandma, circa 1941... My grandpa, WW2 combat vet, amazing man who met my grandma a Kentucky girl and became the man I work to be like every day of my life. I miss them so much.
I've loved this song since the day it came out. One of my all time favourites. Hearing it during "You" season 1's finale had me in tears. The perfect match between that guitar, that song's choice, and that final scene... It's just... Beyond perfection.
@@Crimson19977 yeah bro even i did the same for someone i always cared for her even did so many things that i didn't did before in my life but in the end she doesn't even noticed it
My cousin introduced me to this song. He Played it while i was away from my girlfriend now wife. He understood i needed her and he reminded me every so often the whole year i worked with in NC. Thanks Cuz!
This song reminds me of my parents. They married when they were 16 and are still married 19 years later. They breathe for each other and are still so much like like love struck teenagers who bicker and chase each other around the house. Love lasts forever.
This is one of the best songs I’ve ever heard - 10 years since I first heard it playing on a music channel in common room at backpackers hostel whilst I was travelling New Zealand. I know and love so much music from across the genres and years. Ranging from classical music written 100s of years ago to 1960s music and 90’s Rap and 00s Rock. Still one of the best I’ve heard and it deserves billions of views
1 month ago i was working for the Kensho hotel in mykonos, GR. One day i was informed room 203 departed the hotel so i went to check the room. i got in and the tv was open in a music channel was playing this song so loud!!! i recorded the song and memorized the moment. i dont know why, beautiful moment.
This song holds a special place in my heart since years. Reminds me of the times when I was depressed & lonely and how this song felt like a warm hug from a loved one which comforted me somehow. Now I’m no longer depressed. Just remembered this song out of the blue. Thank you to The National for creating such a wonderful song and comforting me during the times when no one else did. One of the few songs I’ll keep coming back to forever till the end.❤️
So happy that just a song could help you in such a big way. I'm still waiting for something like that to happen to me. I also suffer with major depression disorder amongst other things. Congratulations
I am dating a black woman who is ten years my senior right now (she is 43 and I am 33) and while we share a common love of R&B as well as Soul, we have been introducing each other to our respective cultures traditional music. I recently burned her an album and I put this song as the first track, because it is beyond beautiful and it is honestly how I feel on the days we are not together. I explained to her that Country & Bluegrass are the white equivalent of Soul & R&B and she loved it.
Am I the only one who believes that The National has not a single BAD song? Or is it that they're the best band ever. Either way, this song made my heart go in all directions, nearly cried halfway through. #emotions #ineedmygirl
This is one of those songs that comes along once in a while, and just makes you...stop....and listen. A timeless modern classic that future generations when looking back will consider it among other great tracks.
***** Dude, it's ok to be vulnerable, you don't have to shove your overwhelming masculinity down our throats, if you can't restrain yourself go back to shooting stuff, but please, I beg of you, leave others alone. Do you ever look in the mirror and realize you're a bully?
I heard this song on a bus from Scotland to London, on a BBC Radio show. the presenter explained that they had a segment involving a "changing track", where you can ask them to tell a story from your life and play your chosen song that relates to your story. someone told a very sweet story and then they played this song. i was sitting beside my boyfriend and waiting for the bus to start, and i recognized the band as the national, but i couldn't place the song. I'm glad I found it. It's too sweet.
To everyone that's criticizing the video as 'boring' and 'uninspiring': be creative. I don't know how can you not be creative if you're a The National fan, and listen to the lyrics and having them in your head. (I feel like I'm driving when I'm listening to Conversation 16 i.e.). They way the figures blend into each other and the lighting and their expressions (not one of them smiled. Maybe the girls near the end did.) they mostly voice affection (or just closeness?) through touch and movement. Be creative and be open to it. I don't know what you look for in videos, but I look for the little details. The way when they hang, one woman slides her hand down her partners back, then up again. How the elderly couple seems happy, peaceful, content. Just open up and don't expect a plot. Lemme rephrase: don't expect. This is the only video I've really liked from the National and to me the best one. (I just miss it wasn't more diverse - races, perhaps a gay couple in a big shot? But if it wants to convey the ballroom dance tone, it got that alright.)
pretty much everything the national does is pure beauty , so real , so great .great writing , great voice, great band ........always gets to my emotions , always , which is good for us ..... love them a lot, should have many many awards !!!??
I kept feeling smaller and smaller as she walk out of my life just to see her walk back with tears in her eye as she looked up at me making me feel taller . I need my girl. What a wonderful dance of life I’m in..
This song is unlike every other in it's category. It's not an individual story of one person trying to impress another for love, it's a celebration of love itself. A love story for all people, and it's utterly heartwarming. No complex story of relationships or 'love at first sight' lyrics, just pure emotion. I don't want to make stupid puns, but this song may very well be a love letter to love itself.
RockinBlackBarbie i heard it when she broke up with the boyfriend she went to Haiti with and I rushed to my laptop to find which song it was and boy did i not regret it . i own alll of their albums now! They are absolutely amazing!
Me too, heard it on mindy project but i tried to look up after watching entourage movie, the movie sucks but at least it lead me here.. One of the most beautiful song ive ever heard!
These are some of the thoughts and feelings that rush to the forefront once you have the courage and intellectual honesty to admit that you're fortunate enough NOT to be the hero or central actor in your own life story. When all of your recollections in looking back on your life start with "Remember when...?" addressed to this special person, you're truly fortunate, indeed. Love creates a space where all three components of time (past, present, and future) are all simultaneously in play. This special person is the repository of all of your hopes and fears, the springboard at your feet and wind at your back when you don't feel like you have either the courage or the strength to press forward, the one who cannot run to you fast enough in your time of need. True comfort comes when you realize that you also hold the same standing in the other person's life, as well. The visual imagery of the video captures this last sentiment, at least in my view, rather nicely. Very nicely done.
Gorgeous song, and I love that the video ends just as it begins. Every time I hit replay I feel like I’m starting up a music box with a ballerina dancer inside.
I've been listeting to this song all day long. I don't know why but I love it so much. It gives me goosebumps and kind of make my mind travel in time. I'm in love with this song. It's perfect. So is the video.
First time i listened it in NETFLIX series YOU and only one line i listened i need my girl, it touched my blood veins. And after one year I'm still in love with this.
I love this song so much! The first time I've heard just the first few seconds of it I already thought it was beautiful and then Matt starts singing with the voice of an angel and I knew this was my new favourite song. I have since then listened to it like a million times and I still love it. Adding this absolutely stunning video, it is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen/heard!
I need my guy. It never goes away. I am good and I am grounded.. we all have someone who is our everything. They unlock everything inside us, in a way no one else can even see.
Perhaps it's not about missing someone in particular in this life or the next. Is it not rather about the eternal void that transcends time and the universe?
This song just tears something up inside of me when I listen to it. It makes me think about how, one day, my wife may just leave me or die. I can only imagine being ... broken.
The touch,, just a such…. Fore head,, to fore head.. breath, and exhale,, removes today's tale…her hands about your neck.. calms a man who was a wreck…back to life this act calls by tugging.. this ensure the strong and the struggling..
The National is one one my favorite bands of all time.. they have a lot of amazing songs dear to my heart but this in my favorite songs of all time out of any interpreters.
@@Malumbrus can’t believe you responded, we got back together for awhile and life happens you know. I still see her around sometimes, maybe we’ll try it one more time but there’s this other girl that I’m now into. I have some choices to make, I will say that I was going through a dark time at that point in my life.
@@eddie0415 I hear ya. I'm there right now. Spent the day with her yesterday. She has a new boyfriend but she says she is confused and isn't sure if she wants to be with him or go back to me. But right now she hasn't come back to me.
@@Malumbrus hey man I know the feeling sucks. Two years ago I was what 15, unsure of everything. I’m in a bit of a dilema myself as I like this one exchange student who’s going back to Europe at the end of the semester. I want her so bad, but I’m not sure if it’ll work. I told myself that I’ll only live once and that I should go for her even if she’ll be gone, who knows we could do long distance. She’s a year older too but I figure I got a shot. And about that girl of yours, try to be a friend, supporting and maybe (hopefully) she’ll realize just how good you were/ will be in the future. Good luck brother, being in the dark can only last for so long eh? Love from Calgary- Canada.
@@eddie0415 Wow you're young haha. I wouldn't worry too much about girls at your age, they'll come and they'll go. Just have fun. Eventually you'll find the one. If you like that girl then go for it. It may not work out in the end especially considering the situation but at least you can have her for a little while. The woman I'm talking about is my wife. To me she is the one and somehow I lost sight of that. Right now I'm just trying to live my life and be as good to her as I can. You're right, maybe she will see the good in me and come back. Thanks for the kind words of support. From Ontario, Canada!
I am at the airport rn to catch a delayed flight to my hometown cause my grandmother passed away this morning and i took it phylosofically good cause she's been 90, strong and so happy, and told us all to not cry her death so i couldnt be sad with her actitude but now here alone listening to music at 22:42 this song came up and now that i remembered this clip and the song feels, ive leaned some tears of joy and nostalgia. Not here for other thing but to wish you love, remember the good in your life, love your closest people and those who do good around you, life is great, many love y'all
One of the best music videos ever. Genius in its simplicity. Wonderful execution. Thanks to all of the Players for their contributions. Big love from Canada. ❤
So glad its appeared in Shrinking season 2, what a great song
I came for the same reason
As funny and charming as the show can be, it really does punch you right in the gut sometimes. When this song came on I about cried.
@ yeah the show is great, great combination of comedy and drama
Same
Episode?
I love how this song talks about love for a woman, in general: could be use for a friend, a daugther, a lover, a sister, a mother, a relative, any girl that is important for you and just knows how to make you feel better about yourself. We all need someone who knows how to listen.
Also works about a guy
@@Crimson19977 well if you want it to but the song is called "I need my girl" so I picture that the person is a woman, but hey you're right why not.
@@sandythemaster6898 it’s just that I think about a guy when I’m listening to this song, it really does work when u don’t take lyrics literally 🙃
@@Crimson19977 its your personal view we don't care what you think sexually speaking , the song is what it is , and your brain is what it is but they are not the same.
even your own self!
This is one of those songs that no matter how many times you listen to it, it's just as exciting and magical as the first time you heard it.
It's on repeat in my car and I drive 10 days then on Alexa lol
Couldnt have said it better. So true
It's my first time hearing it. Love it
@@shadowcoder887 Welcome to the wonderful world of The National
@@shadowcoder887🎉
My partner and I listened to this while she was in labor with our daughter and a few hours later she was born. That was 5 days ago. We both cried listening to this but now we have our girl and she's the sweetest thing I've ever seen.
That is beautiful. ❤
I dance with my 20 month old daughter to this song
@@markchristopher6889 That’s absolutely beautiful. So grateful for my 3-year-old girl.
@@dcpollack I've danced with my 4 year old daughter since she was born it's our song
5 years later ...sending much love to you for sharing your beautiful truth ✨🙏🏼✨💫✨💜
I am good, I am grounded
Davy says that I look taller
I can’t get my head around it
I keep feeling smaller and smaller
I need my girl
I need my girl
Remember when you lost your shit and
Drove the car into the garden
You got out and said I’m sorry
To the vines and no one saw it
I need my girl
I need my girl
I’m under the gun again
I know I was the 45% of then
I know I was a lot of things
But I am good, I am grounded
Davy says that I look taller
I can’t get my head around it
I keep feeling smaller and smaller
I need my girl
I need my girl
There’s some things that I should never
Laugh about in front of family
I’ll try to call you from the party
It’s full of punks and cannonballers
I need my girl
I need my girl
I’m under the gun again
I know I was the 45% of then
I know I was a lot of things
But I am good and I am grounded
Davy says that I look taller
But I can’t get my head around it
I keep feeling smaller and smaller
I keep feeling smaller and smaller
I keep feeling smaller and smaller
didnt see lyrics so here it is
Thanks
Thank you. I appreciate it!
Thanks a lot 3:52
Thank you!! 💖
👍🏼
"In the end you couldn't love me...but i'm at peace with that now...because I loved you the absolute best I could."
Joe 🥺
😢
Jesus could have said that.
Love is 4 Ever Even behind her Back to you
The truth..I loved myself more because of you.. the rest is the ego playing around unfortunately.. 😞
i used to share this song in my ig story at least once a month because i just vibe so good to this song. one girl always responded to this, either with just hearts, or how she loved the national, or how beautiful the video is. she passed away on the 11th of june this year and now every time i hear this song i dont even share it anymore, im in tears every time but its also like she's right there vibing with me, like the song summons her spirit. im not even a believer in ghosts etc but the idea is beautiful. i wish we had more time but im glad we met, Doortje. rest in peace lieverd
That's a beautiful memory. I hope she is in a better place, and is with you always.
@@theprince11thank you
That's beautiful ❤️💔
I lost my partner almost 3 years ago, and in the deepest depth of my grief I'd repeat the line, "I am good, I am grounded" to myself over and over, this song reminds me so much of her.
So soulful. Loves the way it builds up!
You’re a lesbanon?
Tree Years it's thé Friend sincérité ajouted ❤️for thé m'en at you good chances for thé years After
Awww😢😢😢😢. I hope your doing well.
Sending you love ❤
this guy's voice rips my soul out...but i love it so...
I was trying to find the proper words to describe how I feel about this song and then I saw your comment!
ur username omg
"I keep feeling smaller and smaller". Those words, those lyrics right there! There are times that everyone is feeling a little bit "smaller". I think a lot of people can relate to that. And to hear about it in the lyrics of such a beautiful song is what makes you realise how in many situtations you may feel afraid, frigile, lonely. It's heartbreaking... but beautiful too!
I can relate to those words so much
I always interpreted it as how humbled he feels to have this girl in his life. Like she overwhelms him at times and he feels “smaller” because he realizes how much he needs her, how much he relies on her. The other people around him though say that he looks taller - I think this represents how a healthy relationship helps you to grow as a person.
This song...hits me where it hurts. Yet I keep coming back to it.
Nathan Payne ja
Me 2
Yeah it hurts
Know the feeling
U are beutiful
I don't know whether to be happy or sad when I listen to this song, I just know I love it. Love is so crazy/beautiful.
+Vienna Rose I think that's what makes The National great
+Vienna Rose sad, most def ...
agreed. well said
+Vienna Rose , I´m agreed with you .....
+Vienna Rose You've just described most of the National's wonderfully ambivalent and layered music.
This song is cathartic. It releases the complex emotions one goes through when in relationships, shame, longing, loneliness, regret, and love ofc.
Beautfigul song. The new episode of Shrinking (*Season 2, ep.11) brought me here. Heartbreaking emotional meltdown of a widower dealing with a fall-out with his daughter. The episode strongly resonated with me since I am going through the same excrutiating predicament.
I came here after watching 'Shrinking (2023)' Season 2, episode 11.
This was an excellent choice for this (ending) scene.
Ok can we talk about how beautiful the visuals are? With the many races and ages. It’s truly perfect for the amazing song.
So "lonely boy" is ugly because it's just a middle aged black guy dancing?
@@lloydgush What the heck is this race talk. THESE ARE SONGS HOLY CRAP
@@i8aleks95 Pepper started with the bullshit.
I'm just pointing out the obvious fact that, no it's not because of "many races and ages", just the aesthetics.
Not even the production value.
@@lloydgush And what's the problem with the aesthetics?
@@i8aleks95 Nothing. It's just that it isn't beautiful for the reasons cited.
It's beautiful because of the aesthetics and how well it's done.
As I said, black keys made a clip of just a middle aged black dude dancing, and it's awesome.
am going through a breakup currently and this is the first time I’m hearing this song and this band, and I don’t know what hurts more, loosing my best friend , or loosing my mind. This band so far has given me some peace of mind whenever I hear them play.
Hang in there babe…good things are around the corner for you. Stay strong until then. ❤
A question: What do you get out of this song?
This may be one of the most poignant songs for me in regards to relationships and every time I watch this, I am filled with both love for my wife and an immense amount of shame that I do not give, nor show, her enough love. I need her beyond a doubt and it is humbling that she continues to love an imperfect being like me.
So what I get out of this song is how much I truly need the woman I have in my life. She gives me the emotional and physical support I do not get from the rest of the world. She is everything to me. When the world is critical, cynical of who I am (or who I 'should' be), she is a safe haven.
It baffles me what she gets out of our relationship...
Thank you to the National for putting into words what I feel.
A side note: the old couple gets me every time. Love should be timeless and they illustrate that point.
+losttribe3001 Your words are touching. If I, as a total stranger, can be moved by them. So will your wife.
Those sentences, you brought forth such emotion from minor key strokes. This is not to be wasted on a digital format. You will take her by the hand, sit down next to her, gaze deep upon her irides and repeat your expressions of appreciation.
It may seem like simple words, unworthy of her eardrums vibrations. But within them she will see the fact, that for you, she is your utopia. Language is a powerful tool, but we are nothing but fools if unspoken...
(I was a fool once. Sadly this song found an attachment to that.)
losttribe3001, damn bro you brought tears. or is there an onion laying around here? lol no but seriously that was sooooo deep my brother.
+losttribe3001 What I get out of this song is I don't have trust in a life-long relationship again. Divorce occurs. What's the point of getting married?
+Reuben Ahmed I've been divorced also. The first wife had been online and met someone from Australia. Within 3 months I went from married to having an ex in another country. That was painfully hard. But I lucked out and found someone else and (knock on wood), it's been good for 15 years now. Relationships are NOT easy and don't always work out.
+Mr. CWL thanks for that. In autonomy of the Internet, it's great to see a reply in a thoughtful and dare I say, compassionate, fashion.
My wife and I just performed our first dance at our wedding to this song tonight :)
Congratulations man, that's great
That's beautiful! Congratulations
what a beautuful memory to beautiful song
:))
I danced with my wife to this song at our wedding as well! Cheers!!
My daughters and me have an appointment to see The National for the first time in Colombia in March 2018. Thanks guys for such beauty, for such feelings, for this diving deep into the human soul. Your songs are made of us....
this song makes me ache with loneliness...i miss the special ones, especially the one i didn't realize was special, until she was gone...
I feel you.. Hope you find another
haha. you and me both pal
I know the feeling.
same here ...
Feel for you too..
I feel like this is a rare love song because it has a lot of vulnerability in it. There are tons of songs with “I love you”, “I gotta have you”, or just praising the way the other person makes them feel. There aren’t as many love songs quietly admitting this sense of awe that the other person loves them despite all their imperfections. And “needing” his girl instead of just wanting her, missing her, etc.
Came here from Shrinking series, amazing song!!!
So crazy that this song means something different to everyone. When he says, “I need my girl” everyone has someone different who comes to mind.
This song just makes me miss my best friend.
This song makes me think about him
I thank you for such beautiful truth!
Well yeah obviously. We’re all strangers
It makes me think of my brother who is looking for his girl. Hope he finds her
This song perfectly sumed up the last episode of YOU season 1
The way the music is layered is genius. The progression of the song intensifies, yet moves along effortlessly.
This so much makes me think of my grandpa and grandma, circa 1941... My grandpa, WW2 combat vet, amazing man who met my grandma a Kentucky girl and became the man I work to be like every day of my life. I miss them so much.
worst way to miss someone is to have them sitting
right next to you and knowing
you can never have them.
damn true, know that feel
+Victor Holmberg understand, yeah.
I managed to overcome such situation...I said to that girl , who is my wife now , that i love her!!!
I wish you to do the same!!!
Shit, yeah I know the feeling, dealing with it right now.
+Bflow :'(
I've loved this song since the day it came out. One of my all time favourites. Hearing it during "You" season 1's finale had me in tears.
The perfect match between that guitar, that song's choice, and that final scene... It's just... Beyond perfection.
True
I was in tears too and this is just one of the best songs I’ve ever heard, so relatable song
@@Crimson19977 i felt really sad for joe he doesn't got his love Even after he did so much like me
@@azebsgadgets2908 same all joe wanted was to be loved by her and he did so much for her, least she could’ve done was to be thankful 😞
@@Crimson19977 yeah bro even i did the same for someone i always cared for her even did so many things that i didn't did before in my life but in the end she doesn't even noticed it
Glad to join fellow Cleaning Lady fans on here. What a phenomenal show! Great song - both me and my husband wanted to look it up.
wat
YESSSS!!! Exactly that, love that show and this song is incredible ❤
Here thanks to The Cleaning Lady....what a hauntingly beautiful song omg! Forever connected now to Arman & Thony!
Same...
My cousin introduced me to this song. He Played it while i was away from my girlfriend now wife. He understood i needed her and he reminded me every so often the whole year i worked with in NC. Thanks Cuz!
This song reminds me of my parents. They married when they were 16 and are still married 19 years later. They breathe for each other and are still so much like like love struck teenagers who bicker and chase each other around the house.
Love lasts forever.
The most beautiful comment! I wish your parents stay together forever!
what?? marry at 16?
+Pepinus In Scotland its legal...
Cavort And Co. Still, that's way too young
+Pepinus - Not too young if they're soulmates.
This is one of the best songs I’ve ever heard - 10 years since I first heard it playing on a music channel in common room at backpackers hostel whilst I was travelling New Zealand. I know and love so much music from across the genres and years. Ranging from classical music written 100s of years ago to 1960s music and 90’s Rap and 00s Rock. Still one of the best I’ve heard and it deserves billions of views
this song, magic
Hi❤
My grandmother just passed away and my granddad misses her so much...the guys in classical suits remind me of him...and sort of make me feel his pain
1 month ago i was working for the Kensho hotel in mykonos, GR. One day i was informed room 203 departed the hotel so i went to check the room. i got in and the tv was open in a music channel was playing this song so loud!!! i recorded the song and memorized the moment. i dont know why, beautiful moment.
Whoo needs love when you can listen to such great music and cry your eyes out.
dumbs?
boo fucking hoo
just kiddin'...
Odd comments.
***** Eat more Poachers ? 0_o
Heard this hidden gem this morning on my way to work.
Didn't know, this masterpiece was existing. ❤
This song holds a special place in my heart since years. Reminds me of the times when I was depressed & lonely and how this song felt like a warm hug from a loved one which comforted me somehow. Now I’m no longer depressed. Just remembered this song out of the blue. Thank you to The National for creating such a wonderful song and comforting me during the times when no one else did. One of the few songs I’ll keep coming back to forever till the end.❤️
So happy that just a song could help you in such a big way. I'm still waiting for something like that to happen to me. I also suffer with major depression disorder amongst other things. Congratulations
I am dating a black woman who is ten years my senior right now (she is 43 and I am 33) and while we share a common love of R&B as well as Soul, we have been introducing each other to our respective cultures traditional music. I recently burned her an album and I put this song as the first track, because it is beyond beautiful and it is honestly how I feel on the days we are not together. I explained to her that Country & Bluegrass are the white equivalent of Soul & R&B and she loved it.
You blew bud. No black women would ever like this winey garbage.
Am I the only one who believes that The National has not a single BAD song? Or is it that they're the best band ever. Either way, this song made my heart go in all directions, nearly cried halfway through. #emotions #ineedmygirl
I have just discovered them. Isn't that crazy?? How could I not know them earlier????
Incredibly beautiful. That riff is haunting.
Shrinking season 2 episode 11 👌🏽
Heard this song on the show the cleaning lady. Love this song now
This is one of those songs that comes along once in a while, and just makes you...stop....and listen. A timeless modern classic that future generations when looking back will consider it among other great tracks.
Hi❤
This is one of the most beautiful music videos I've ever seen in my life. I love it so much.
dont have a girl... but makes me remember those days i did and a hug would melt me and make everything better
***** do u ever look at ur comments and feel better about urself?
***** what did I just witness? focus on the music fellas! :-P
***** your an idiot
***** Dude, it's ok to be vulnerable, you don't have to shove your overwhelming masculinity down our throats, if you can't restrain yourself go back to shooting stuff, but please, I beg of you, leave others alone. Do you ever look in the mirror and realize you're a bully?
*****
the empty can rattles the most
you are living a sad existence
I heard this song on a bus from Scotland to London, on a BBC Radio show. the presenter explained that they had a segment involving a "changing track", where you can ask them to tell a story from your life and play your chosen song that relates to your story. someone told a very sweet story and then they played this song. i was sitting beside my boyfriend and waiting for the bus to start, and i recognized the band as the national, but i couldn't place the song. I'm glad I found it. It's too sweet.
One of my favorite songs ever !!! They are so underrated. Amazing talent
To everyone that's criticizing the video as 'boring' and 'uninspiring': be creative. I don't know how can you not be creative if you're a The National fan, and listen to the lyrics and having them in your head. (I feel like I'm driving when I'm listening to Conversation 16 i.e.). They way the figures blend into each other and the lighting and their expressions (not one of them smiled. Maybe the girls near the end did.) they mostly voice affection (or just closeness?) through touch and movement. Be creative and be open to it. I don't know what you look for in videos, but I look for the little details. The way when they hang, one woman slides her hand down her partners back, then up again. How the elderly couple seems happy, peaceful, content. Just open up and don't expect a plot. Lemme rephrase: don't expect. This is the only video I've really liked from the National and to me the best one.
(I just miss it wasn't more diverse - races, perhaps a gay couple in a big shot? But if it wants to convey the ballroom dance tone, it got that alright.)
It hits differently.... It makes u sad and also happy at the same time
pretty much everything the national does is pure beauty , so real , so great .great writing , great voice, great band ........always gets to my emotions , always , which is good for us ..... love them a lot, should have many many awards !!!??
I kept feeling smaller and smaller as she walk out of my life just to see her walk back with tears in her eye as she looked up at me making me feel taller . I need my girl. What a wonderful dance of life I’m in..
“I keep feeling smaller...” this makes me ache for a love I’ll never have. Right person, never the right time.
This song is unlike every other in it's category. It's not an individual story of one person trying to impress another for love, it's a celebration of love itself. A love story for all people, and it's utterly heartwarming. No complex story of relationships or 'love at first sight' lyrics, just pure emotion. I don't want to make stupid puns, but this song may very well be a love letter to love itself.
It hits differently... It makes someone happy and sad at the same time
What a beautiful song, The cleaning lady got me so emotional with this song. Now I have to listen to the whole "Trouble will find me" album 😋
I agree that's how I heard about this song!
I am here because the cleaning lady 😆
😅😅 same here
Tuko wengi 🤣😂
Here from cleaning 🧹 lady.....amazing song!!!!👌👌🙌🙌🙌🙌
This song is too beautiful! I want to cry and I don't know why!!!
This song reminds me so much of my Dad since my Mom passed away 3 years ago. they were happily married for 45 years
How's your dad? 💔 I'm sorry for your loss.
first thing to make me cry in such a long time that I begged myself not to stop. it was good to finally feel something
i am so happy the mindy project brought me to this song. it is hauntingly beautiful. I will be downloading this album immediately!
I Thouqht I Was The Only One Brouqht Here By The Mindy Project.!
RockinBlackBarbie i heard it when she broke up with the boyfriend she went to Haiti with and I rushed to my laptop to find which song it was and boy did i not regret it . i own alll of their albums now! They are absolutely amazing!
Me too, heard it on mindy project but i tried to look up after watching entourage movie, the movie sucks but at least it lead me here.. One of the most beautiful song ive ever heard!
+Daphnee Nazon Make sure to grab all their other albums too!
Spencer Vik i got all of their albums after i listened to this song last year!
"I can't wrap my head around it...I keep feeling smaller and smaller"
Gorgeous, and very sad
Hello❤
These are some of the thoughts and feelings that rush to the forefront once you have the courage and intellectual honesty to admit that you're fortunate enough NOT to be the hero or central actor in your own life story. When all of your recollections in looking back on your life start with "Remember when...?" addressed to this special person, you're truly fortunate, indeed. Love creates a space where all three components of time (past, present, and future) are all simultaneously in play. This special person is the repository of all of your hopes and fears, the springboard at your feet and wind at your back when you don't feel like you have either the courage or the strength to press forward, the one who cannot run to you fast enough in your time of need. True comfort comes when you realize that you also hold the same standing in the other person's life, as well. The visual imagery of the video captures this last sentiment, at least in my view, rather nicely. Very nicely done.
Gorgeous song, and I love that the video ends just as it begins. Every time I hit replay I feel like I’m starting up a music box with a ballerina dancer inside.
I've been listeting to this song all day long. I don't know why but I love it so much. It gives me goosebumps and kind of make my mind travel in time. I'm in love with this song. It's perfect. So is the video.
First time i listened it in NETFLIX series YOU and only one line i listened i need my girl, it touched my blood veins. And after one year I'm still in love with this.
I was looking for a comment about the series
@@frankr9169yes I caught the masterpiece
I love this song so much! The first time I've heard just the first few seconds of it I already thought it was beautiful and then
Matt starts singing with the voice of an angel and I knew this was my new favourite song. I have since then listened to it
like a million times and I still love it. Adding this absolutely stunning video, it is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen/heard!
I need my guy. It never goes away. I am good and I am grounded.. we all have someone who is our everything. They unlock everything inside us, in a way no one else can even see.
The Cleaning Lady, thank you for making me realize there's such a beautiful song out there! 🙌🏾🙌🏾KE 🇰🇪🇰🇪
The series brought me here too😊😊
I don't have an ex girlfriend but listening to this song makes me miss her
+Isabella Peruzzolo you dont need one to miss her...
+ArtistState Damn, that's deep.. How does one become so wise?
+Davit Bun By not having one... It's a little depressing, but I feel I was at my wisest pre-chick.
+neemguy81 It's not depressing. Instead, it's only from a different perspective. Thanks for the insight and sharing. I sympathize for you sir.
+neemguy81 Women.. am I right?
The serie YOU brought me here
Love love this song... beautifully sad.
Perhaps it's not about missing someone in particular in this life or the next. Is it not rather about the eternal void that transcends time and the universe?
What I couldn't put in words... Thank you
Nickolay Nickolov so deep I nearly drowned
lol no, not everything is existential.
This was our wedding song. We still dance to it to this day. Thank you!
Just got told by a girl I really like that she doesn't feel the same way. Music is one thing that will always be there to put a smile on your face
Just discovered this song. What a beautiful piece. Never even heard of this guy. Gorgeous song. Wow
This song just tears something up inside of me when I listen to it. It makes me think about how, one day, my wife may just leave me or die. I can only imagine being ... broken.
Father Daughter dance at my wedding---- can't wait
@@katierae22222 I hope it’s magical and everything you dreamt it’ll can be
The touch,, just a such….
Fore head,, to fore head..
breath, and exhale,, removes today's tale…her hands about your neck..
calms a man who was a wreck…back to life this act calls by tugging..
this ensure the strong and the struggling..
This song is so incredibly beautiful ; ;
The National is one one my favorite bands of all time.. they have a lot of amazing songs dear to my heart but this in my favorite songs of all time out of any interpreters.
God, I just want to hear the beat by it’s self as well. It’s so beautiful
God I miss her, hopefully I’ll get her back. God please, please give me one more chance. She’s everything to me.
Comment is two years old.. Did things work out?
@@Malumbrus can’t believe you responded, we got back together for awhile and life happens you know. I still see her around sometimes, maybe we’ll try it one more time but there’s this other girl that I’m now into. I have some choices to make, I will say that I was going through a dark time at that point in my life.
@@eddie0415 I hear ya. I'm there right now. Spent the day with her yesterday. She has a new boyfriend but she says she is confused and isn't sure if she wants to be with him or go back to me. But right now she hasn't come back to me.
@@Malumbrus hey man I know the feeling sucks. Two years ago I was what 15, unsure of everything. I’m in a bit of a dilema myself as I like this one exchange student who’s going back to Europe at the end of the semester. I want her so bad, but I’m not sure if it’ll work. I told myself that I’ll only live once and that I should go for her even if she’ll be gone, who knows we could do long distance. She’s a year older too but I figure I got a shot. And about that girl of yours, try to be a friend, supporting and maybe (hopefully) she’ll realize just how good you were/ will be in the future. Good luck brother, being in the dark can only last for so long eh? Love from Calgary- Canada.
@@eddie0415 Wow you're young haha. I wouldn't worry too much about girls at your age, they'll come and they'll go. Just have fun. Eventually you'll find the one. If you like that girl then go for it. It may not work out in the end especially considering the situation but at least you can have her for a little while.
The woman I'm talking about is my wife. To me she is the one and somehow I lost sight of that. Right now I'm just trying to live my life and be as good to her as I can. You're right, maybe she will see the good in me and come back. Thanks for the kind words of support. From Ontario, Canada!
This band is out of this world!!!
What an amazing song and video! It makes me cry a lot. This song was my today's soundtrack. A day full of pain and uncertainty.
this makes me cry...
This is the song that made me fall in love with The National ❤️ I got goosebumps every single time
Finale of You Season 1.... amazing song
Just Silence and Love ❤
I am at the airport rn to catch a delayed flight to my hometown cause my grandmother passed away this morning and i took it phylosofically good cause she's been 90, strong and so happy, and told us all to not cry her death so i couldnt be sad with her actitude but now here alone listening to music at 22:42 this song came up and now that i remembered this clip and the song feels, ive leaned some tears of joy and nostalgia. Not here for other thing but to wish you love, remember the good in your life, love your closest people and those who do good around you, life is great, many love y'all
One of the best music videos ever. Genius in its simplicity. Wonderful execution. Thanks to all of the Players for their contributions. Big love from Canada. ❤
I legit cannot stop listening to this
Here from Shrinking like many others. Wish I knew this song before. ❤
I love this song, this is so comforting and soothing for me
The cleaning lady introduced me to this song. What a masterpiece!!
This song is a heart tugger. Plus the video is simple & beautiful.
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I love this song. When I'm sad and I ride my Harley, I listen to this song over and over and over.
That’s so sweet! It brings the sweetest of melody to my soul🥰
When did you fell in love?
Never heard it before until I watched The cleaning lady.
This is giving me nostalgia I didn’t even know I was capable until now . Magical meaning
They hit gold in the last 45 seconds of the song it's a shame, that could have been a whole song.