DeStorm, Ryan Davis, Ayona The Artist & Ebonique! | Double Standards | Funny Advice EP 8

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  • Advice is hard to swallow, so comedy is the perfect chaser for a shot of truth!
    On this talk show, we feature popular comedians and funny creators by having panel discussions on life’s biggest and smallest issues!
    Hosted by comedian Cynthia LuCiette, FUNNY ADVICE gives viewers a seat at the comedy table.
    We authentically talk about everything...no topic is off limits or uncomfortable to address in the most hilarious way!
    We give advice on everything from “Letting Go Of Failed Friendships” to “Getting Your Job Back”
    Every episode you get to listen to hilarious takes on Work, Life, Love, Money Tips, Staying
    Fit and more!
    Host: Cynthia Luicette @cynthialuciette
    Cast:
    DeStorm ‪@DeStorm‬
    Ryan Davis ‪@WithAllDueOffense‬
    Ayona The Artist ‪@ayonatheartist‬
    Ebonique
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  • @DEFIANTDIGITAL
    @DEFIANTDIGITAL  ปีที่แล้ว +13

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  • @sagatvegagouki
    @sagatvegagouki ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Ryan always dropping truth bombs...he don't miss lol

    • @realboy6256
      @realboy6256 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Top tier 💯

    • @DCHRShow
      @DCHRShow ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yea Ryan that boy

    • @isaiahfrazier4176
      @isaiahfrazier4176 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He really do!

    • @isaiahfrazier4176
      @isaiahfrazier4176 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This sh*t needs to be on TV somewhere.

    • @rizz2302
      @rizz2302 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah his perspective be on point

  • @AviaryAviles159
    @AviaryAviles159 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    “I can tell by her forehead her second language is echo location.” 🔊 🐬
    -Kraig Smith

    • @lashaybassil3051
      @lashaybassil3051 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is the same girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @AviaryAviles159
      @AviaryAviles159 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lashaybassil3051 nah lol the other one had a bigger fivehead, like huge fam lol

    • @MrColatown
      @MrColatown ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kraig was roasting a comedian named Heniya.

  • @j.r09160
    @j.r09160 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Cynthia looking like an entire meal every episode without fail 👌🏿

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Where has destorm been?! I haven’t seen him in forever! Ryan gives the honest truth no matter the topic 😂😂

  • @Blackelangelo
    @Blackelangelo ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ryan Davis is my guy! If he's in it, I'm definitely here for it. The truths and the comedy.

  • @ghettonerdtrey2486
    @ghettonerdtrey2486 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This episode is ironically posted after the Angel Reese, Caitlyn Clark situation and how there was double standards there. Good episode!

  • @balloonmanalvinpitts
    @balloonmanalvinpitts ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Ain't nothing funny about how messed up these double standards that have some people locked up.

  • @2ToTheDome
    @2ToTheDome ปีที่แล้ว +12

    These are the kinda healthy conversations we need to be having on a daily. its good mental excercise and helps with us all understanding one another as a whole. 💪🏾💪🏾 Love yall

  • @mical2great
    @mical2great ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Why do i have to be support you financially and mentally BEFORE you open up your femininity 😂

    • @SaboTajDaDon
      @SaboTajDaDon ปีที่แล้ว

      But he’s NOT wrong tho! ☠️🤷🏾💯

  • @777ynk
    @777ynk ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Ryan got that bottomless duffle and hes ALWAYS IN IT

  • @JGspeakss
    @JGspeakss ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So I'm 14 minutes in and so far the realest conversation I've heard between black men and black women in a long time

  • @gabrielcaminero9855
    @gabrielcaminero9855 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love
    Defiant digital
    I can’t get enough of y’all!!!!
    😂😂😂

  • @blairwalker12
    @blairwalker12 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The whole double standards boil's down to power. Find where your power lies, but know you can't own all power in all Facets.

  • @Murda2Wayz
    @Murda2Wayz ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Shorty with the Afro ain’t say 2 words

  • @jaredcoleman2545
    @jaredcoleman2545 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The last episode was too heavy!! lmao Yall had to release this asap. I love it

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We do try to balance it out 😂💜💚

    • @jshyne111
      @jshyne111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@cynthialuciette I think that last episode was on point tbh, I didn't find it too heavy. Appreciate it.

    • @jaredcoleman2545
      @jaredcoleman2545 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cynthialuciette Keep it up. I'm loving it. Byron Scott had a show similiar to this. ijs. People love to see comedians as regular people.

  • @mefilmmaking
    @mefilmmaking ปีที่แล้ว +19

    DeStorm been solid for ages 💯

  • @sixtysecondsorless602
    @sixtysecondsorless602 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "idk man, I just got too emotional..."
    to the depths with you!
    - I knew this was going to be classic, Ryan was in the opening trailer and opening question.

  • @DJ_Has_Thoughts
    @DJ_Has_Thoughts ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hella random: where are the damn coasters?!?! lol

  • @clayb5266
    @clayb5266 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Men are loved conditionally not unconditionally. 🤷🏾‍♂️. A king will marry a peasant and make her a queen.. a Queen will never give the peasant the time of day.

  • @AngeloGiles
    @AngeloGiles ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Y'all were speaking straight facts this episode, double standards will always be a thing at the end of the day though, great episode!

  • @bmillz8982
    @bmillz8982 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is sooooo good on sooooo many levels. ❤❤❤❤

  • @c0wboys4life
    @c0wboys4life ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Cyn be stepping out with the fits when she get on this show 👀

  • @staymadloser7754
    @staymadloser7754 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The fact women say getting ready is a job, but the guy had to get ready to. Lol that’s funny

  • @GoddessPower777
    @GoddessPower777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ayona with the flirtatious pick me laugh.😂😂😂

  • @richardchamberlain6815
    @richardchamberlain6815 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Glad Ayona went from being the bartender to main guess panel. She should have been on the panel with Karlos Miller, Tangerine and the others.

  • @JoFlirt
    @JoFlirt ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So glad destorm stood up to denounce the feminist perspective that wants no accountability and selective respect. Ryan should know better

  • @caliboyyswag
    @caliboyyswag ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Even though the "advice" is opinionated, the ability to relate to other people is cool. Like knowing that a stranger can have the same thought process as me.

  • @TwistedBagel7
    @TwistedBagel7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why y’all got the bartender serving one drink at a time 😂

  • @YoungnFly09
    @YoungnFly09 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ryan a legend in these shows for sure..

  • @PrydeWater901
    @PrydeWater901 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ebonique’s energy screams that a male friend has no shot. Ayona, on the other hand, seems that she would string a dude along as long as she benefits from the relationship. I could be wrong.

  • @Vintage27
    @Vintage27 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🔥🔥🔥 panel, great video

  • @michaelwilcox5168
    @michaelwilcox5168 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finally !! A sensible conversation.

  • @coreyjohnson5260
    @coreyjohnson5260 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This show is so great 💪🏆

  • @thagrandpubah
    @thagrandpubah ปีที่แล้ว +4

    GET SOME DAMN COASTERS FOR THE TABLES!🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️ shit loud AF banging glass on the tables.

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s a hilarious observation 😂 you right …you right lol 💜💚😂

  • @kok2805
    @kok2805 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That baby double standard is something serious though 4real. I believe in my body my choice... But... I also believe in my wallet my choice 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @Thrui
    @Thrui ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It seems that for a society that says "I dont care what nobody thinks about me" more often than naught, women tend to not be able to not hear what they think people are saying about em

    • @Thrui
      @Thrui ปีที่แล้ว

      Or, rather, men care more what their friends and family say but women care more a out what everybody says collectively

  • @donttripp
    @donttripp ปีที่แล้ว

    That scarface jumpsuit go hard

  • @JoFlirt
    @JoFlirt ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ryan talked with two tongues. He been simping then want to agree with destorm.

  • @CamaroThings
    @CamaroThings ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Cynthia... I nearly went off in the comments about the whole "Men get to have as much sex as they want" when more than 40% of men don't even get any...
    Then I realized it was in reference to us being socially allowed to have as much as we want and I calmed down.

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lmaoooo dangggg let me finish the sentence before you get triggered hahaha

    • @EpicSavage718
      @EpicSavage718 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tbh its because its expected of men to do so. Our worth is based on how many women we can please. Or how much we can please a woman. so it becomes a “game” … a “conquest” to prove our manhood. that both men and women perpetuate it.
      Men are still perceived as dogs/liars/cheaters/womanizers etc. for pursuing multiple women at a time. I think to an extent because its expected; ++ men do not care to an extent what the world think of us on that end. Now granted not every man is getting sex/ its 10 times easier for women to get sex. It becomes competitive because the amount of work a man has to put in to get a woman. Romantically or Sexually.
      I use the house and door idea.
      Men are key’s. The more doors he’s able to unlock, the more valuable he is.
      On the flipside for women. you need a special key to unlock a specific door (women.) So yes theres no shortage of men that want women. Men will always want women (hetero / cis gender)
      Men = Key
      Women = Door
      A woman giving a man her body is seen as the ultimate level of respect to men. When men do the right thing by women, honestly how do women say thank you or appreciate it in action?
      give him the puss. (and i hate to objectify it like that) but still.

    • @CamaroThings
      @CamaroThings ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cynthialuciette don't worry Missy I still 💖 you.

    • @AudioGAWD
      @AudioGAWD ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@EpicSavage No one ever talks about the rest of it. Also the effort it takes to pull women as a man versus a woman pulling a man isn't really discussed much.

    • @cr5cc
      @cr5cc ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@AudioGAWD no effort at all just ask " are we fucking or not"

  • @justjp83
    @justjp83 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Men have to go to prison to feel what it’s like to be a women in the “FREE” world 😮 that was a bar!!!!

    • @SandersAli
      @SandersAli ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How?

    • @justjp83
      @justjp83 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SandersAli 😂 😂 😂

  • @GoldCrownsouthmain
    @GoldCrownsouthmain ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ayona was the bartender now shes a guest lol

  • @traviswhetstone8966
    @traviswhetstone8966 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ryan is the smart asf his knowledge is beyond the others in the video no cap

  • @sharriri3030
    @sharriri3030 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The whole time I’m staring at sis with the beautiful Afro!!🤎🤎🤎

  • @williamjackson1820
    @williamjackson1820 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They could have kept Ayona at the bar….putting them sentences together was hurting sis brain

  • @koolken34
    @koolken34 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks!

  • @SoloCport
    @SoloCport ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They didn’t stay on women for the even full five minutes 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ShafferspeeksTS1
    @ShafferspeeksTS1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loving this ♦️

  • @uuh1-m1s
    @uuh1-m1s ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Only true @cancel court fans will get it when Ryan Davis says (it’s hilarious … hilarious haha😂)

  • @BGriff-
    @BGriff- ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE Ayona’s laugh. I’d turn into a 🤡 around her!

  • @courtneysmith1558
    @courtneysmith1558 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That scenario of him having to pay for child support 2 urs after finding out the baby wasn't his. He still took care of her as a man. The toughest part is that she got on drugs and had 4 kids and he had to take custody to keep them all together. Luckily my Uncle is a stand up dude and has a 6 figure job at a TV Station he's worked for 25 yrs so he's not really hurting for money. But it was initially messed up that the mother never took custody and never told my Uncle he initially was not the Father.

  • @johnnyseville8073
    @johnnyseville8073 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    There's no such thing as a Double Standard between men and women because that would imply that men and women are the same when we aren't.

    • @senorsavage8702
      @senorsavage8702 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can there be a double standard between races?

    • @johnnyseville8073
      @johnnyseville8073 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@senorsavage8702 of course

    • @senorsavage8702
      @senorsavage8702 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnnyseville8073So if there can be a double standard between races who are not the same, then why cant there be a double standard between men and women?

    • @johnnyseville8073
      @johnnyseville8073 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@senorsavage8702 when it comes to race we are all one race, the human race to begin with, that are genetically assigned to different ethnicities/cultures and certain people weaponize ethnicities/culture to justify a double standard but certain roles that men and women inherently hold makes us different as men and women. The pride, ego and disrespect from a lot of men make workplaces unequal as far as pay, respect and titles when women are more than capable of facilitating those roles in which double standards applied.

    • @JehRoniMo11
      @JehRoniMo11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@johnnyseville8073🤔

  • @HBCU_OverDrive
    @HBCU_OverDrive ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep up the great content 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @vikingstl
    @vikingstl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I could stare at Ebonique all day

  • @CT-hz6mz
    @CT-hz6mz ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing episode 😍

  • @cevaunkinney6843
    @cevaunkinney6843 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ayona forehead is huge, thats how you know she a good woman lmaooo. Thats sign #1 🤣

  • @dbears1603
    @dbears1603 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They should have mentioned the double standards of jail and prison sentences

  • @CamaroThings
    @CamaroThings ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Cynthia changing the world... 1 episode of Funny Advice at a time.

  • @DragonPharoh3
    @DragonPharoh3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Most of us place women on a pedestal anyways just change up when we realize she’s not worthy

  • @PrydeWater901
    @PrydeWater901 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First things first: If a woman can’t please herself sexually, how can a man with a completely different anatomy be expected to do so?
    That said, even if Cynthia was not as attractive her conversation would still be interesting.

    • @sharriri3030
      @sharriri3030 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And vice versa, I met a guy who doesn’t please himself at all. Sex was TRASH! So now that is an immediate NO.

  • @trecartergrad10
    @trecartergrad10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Literally everything the men said had 2 legs to stand on but most of the things the women said weren’t that impactful

    • @AudioGAWD
      @AudioGAWD ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shocking right?

    • @whodat4lyfekris
      @whodat4lyfekris ปีที่แล้ว +4

      In the words of a famous comedian, *"Chivalry is dead, ya sure is and women killed it"*

  • @CeoAnt804
    @CeoAnt804 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ryan be having me weak every time lol

  • @ABum-nc7sb
    @ABum-nc7sb ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Only when they can lead and cover all those bases 😊

  • @duanemoody257
    @duanemoody257 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Cynthia wants to be a man so bad she resents us lmaooo great episode

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว

      I do love the power the world gives men 😂 I want to have the power not the Penis😂

    • @whodat4lyfekris
      @whodat4lyfekris ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't see why, honestly 🤔

    • @OfficiallyWrexx
      @OfficiallyWrexx 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She lost like most modern women

  • @crystalfreddieshowreview7470
    @crystalfreddieshowreview7470 ปีที่แล้ว

    I ❤ them superhero boots ❤❤❤

  • @TuddaMan
    @TuddaMan ปีที่แล้ว

    See I knew I like Cynthia!!! ❤❤❤ Broke boy Broke Boy yea that’s me! 😂😂😂😂

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂 y’all are TONS of fun lol

  • @suavecito348
    @suavecito348 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cynthia Is DOPe AF‼️

  • @IdHopeNot
    @IdHopeNot ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bring on CP more

  • @itwasntme2270
    @itwasntme2270 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its hard for us dudes out here 😂

  • @Tee_Hud12
    @Tee_Hud12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought that was a scarf on Cyn’s neck that’s her hair 😂😂😂 still fine tho! 😍

  • @valzod3808
    @valzod3808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nah, whether it's your son knocking up somebody's daughter or your daughter getting knocked by somebody's son, that grand baby gonna have your dna.

  • @Don-C.L.
    @Don-C.L. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It really come down to her headspace and how spiritually and emotionally sound she truly is. Men has to be careful with who they stick their thing into, who they marry, and truly find the real version of the person he is with. You might be coming home to an Amber Heard or Casey Anthony. There's also signs there to let you know. She might trying to give you keys to her apartment on the 1st date. You might see it as fine and not realize that the situation is moving too fast.
    I have platonic female friends. People assume that I've either already hit that, currently hitting it, or about to. The problem comes when they realize that you aren't and that you dont want to. They assume that you're cut from a velvet cloth because of it. I'm more like the black version of Pete Davidson on the women I actually end up with and it confuses the absolute fuck out of people. Your female friends can be your greatest asset, as they have access to certain financial opportunities and things in general, as well as are able to perspectives you were unaware.
    A few female business partners have attempted to cross a boundary with me and very common on a film gig as a sound tech. Talent be off that Janelle Monae type shit at work! All I'm trying to do is live and let live. vibe and let vibe lol.

  • @LionelRWilson
    @LionelRWilson ปีที่แล้ว

    Cynthia accent been getting me for years.

  • @lamarrf9273
    @lamarrf9273 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    and ryan if you're too thoughtful then they think you're simple !

  • @Dasecond88
    @Dasecond88 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All these years on TH-cam and I finally heard a woman admit she wants to do what men do. The truth looks good on mam🙏🏿

  • @rellohz2755
    @rellohz2755 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The dynamic is the women ask bout double standard and the guys give answers with legit logic, but the girls don’t give any good enough reason why they think certain double standards are wrong for women. The women lowkey just trying to see what the men’s opinions were

  • @IceCapNation
    @IceCapNation ปีที่แล้ว +1

    W EP🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @rizz8866
    @rizz8866 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wooooow the female mind 😂

  • @kyenneyazmine23
    @kyenneyazmine23 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ayona giving great gatsby 🥰 she and the ladies are beautiful fr ❤️

  • @doriansims23
    @doriansims23 ปีที่แล้ว

    The host is getting personal instead of the reality of the topic 💯😂😂

    • @rellohz2755
      @rellohz2755 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly she’s trying to get game for her to use and the men aren’t realizing she’s getting more from the conversation then what they were getting

  • @tonismith6499
    @tonismith6499 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real people that Have respect, don't 'Want' respect, its Given to you.

  • @KingDomCame
    @KingDomCame ปีที่แล้ว

    If we Boyz we Boyz.

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 ปีที่แล้ว

    👀👀👀👀👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾Double Standards are tough to deal with. No doubt it. Man or woman. It doesn't matter. 🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @DomGio
    @DomGio ปีที่แล้ว

    Cynthia damn luv when she roun 🥴

  • @AntonioSneed
    @AntonioSneed ปีที่แล้ว

    Cynthia so damn fine bruh🔥🔥🔥💚💚💚

  • @ofheartstheking6669
    @ofheartstheking6669 ปีที่แล้ว

    Over thinking well get you Everything

  • @ofheartstheking6669
    @ofheartstheking6669 ปีที่แล้ว

    Slip things genius

  • @OffTopicKamah
    @OffTopicKamah ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’d say men are more pleasers in the bedroom than women. Now p0rñ is a different story but women aren’t looked down if they have a bad sex game

  • @i3sweetie88
    @i3sweetie88 ปีที่แล้ว

    When is this coming back!?

  • @carbsvscardio5359
    @carbsvscardio5359 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1 double standard a women will deal with broke/broken men and do everything for them. But make the "good man" earn her femininity, submissiveness, and respect.

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lowkey you’re kinda right 😂

  • @IdHopeNot
    @IdHopeNot ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🔥🔥

  • @islandneni1829
    @islandneni1829 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yayyyyyyy

  • @Jbeeze82
    @Jbeeze82 ปีที่แล้ว

    All cap!

  • @artmieseelizabeth8074
    @artmieseelizabeth8074 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are there no new episodes?

  • @jamiehodges3389
    @jamiehodges3389 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn, why Indiana?

  • @TheHomieNess
    @TheHomieNess ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do women think all men condone cheating? As a man if my friend was cheating on his girlfriend I would not be hi fiving the guy I for sure feel bad about the girl but I’m not gonna snitch cuz that’s my boy.

  • @number5mama461
    @number5mama461 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤

  • @NoSquaresAllowed574
    @NoSquaresAllowed574 ปีที่แล้ว

    People in Indiana 🥹

  • @chenieves8976
    @chenieves8976 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WHERE DID THIS BROTHER GET A TONY MONTANA SWEAT SUIT. SAY HELLO TO MY SKINNY FRIEND. 1

  • @bmgblackmagic9108
    @bmgblackmagic9108 ปีที่แล้ว

    Look up the stats on people getting hurt on the street. It’s more men shocking