Ryan Davis, Patrick Cloud, Slink Johnson & Tahiry Jose! | Surviving Breakups | Funny Advice EP 6

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  • Advice is hard to swallow, so comedy is the perfect chaser for a shot of truth!
    On this talk show, we feature popular comedians and funny creators by having panel discussions on life’s biggest and smallest issues!
    Hosted by comedian Cynthia LuCiette, FUNNY ADVICE gives viewers a seat at the comedy table.
    We authentically talk about everything...no topic is off limits or uncomfortable to address in the most hilarious way!
    We give advice on everything from “Letting Go Of Failed Friendships” to “Getting Your Job Back”
    Every episode you get to listen to hilarious takes on Work, Life, Love, Money Tips, Staying Fit and more!
    Host: Cynthia LuiCette @CYNTHIA LUCIETTE
    Cast:
    Patrick Cloud ‪@PatrickCloudChannel‬
    Slink Johnson ‪@slink‬
    Ryan Davis ‪@WithAllDueOffense‬
    Tahiry Jose
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  • @DEFIANTDIGITAL
    @DEFIANTDIGITAL  ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Turn notifications on to never miss an episode! 🔥Hit that bell! 🔔

    • @curiouslymavismade
      @curiouslymavismade ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm here just to listen to funny jokes and stare at Cynthia and Tahiry's thighs, butts and bossoms.

    • @steampowerful5980
      @steampowerful5980 ปีที่แล้ว

      This hit home because I don’t care who you are it’s that one person you deal with that you know they bad for you !

  • @mtk2fitness208
    @mtk2fitness208 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Slink is speaking facts. They talking about messing around they not talking about really being in a relationship.

    • @suchstyleclothing
      @suchstyleclothing ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts

    • @MichaelSmith-zo3tf
      @MichaelSmith-zo3tf ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was put off by Slink at first, but I came around to him once it became clear he was talking about real, proper lasting relationships. The kind that gets all the way down into your bones. The ones that're 5+ years deep and longer.
      The way I approach relationship and breakups now are way different than they were when I was in my 20's and 30's.

    • @miketime4290
      @miketime4290 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@MichaelSmith-zo3tf slink 61 bro talking about next lvl shit

    • @Jay00714
      @Jay00714 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yea slink already up there and been thru it he talking from experience

  • @MrBmick79
    @MrBmick79 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Slink Johnson kicking that real spit. Its good to have at least one OG on the panel to give some real perspective.

  • @terrim.9002
    @terrim.9002 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Best advice: Block the person in EVERYTHING. Cut communication.
    You have to grieve and learn to live without that person and reunite with things that makes you happy.
    People get caught up in cycles of people and sadness because they keep contacting or allowing contact, seeing pictures and watching on social media. Then confused why they can’t “let them go”.

    • @_Tree
      @_Tree ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right!! When you're my ex......that's it for us!! I'm not going to "remain friends" like we can go back to that?!?!?
      There are too many people to move on to when I'm friends with an ex that I have a past with!!

  • @dari4303
    @dari4303 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I agree with Slink people these days don't know what real love is. Everybody are just having flings, not relationships.

  • @AngeloGiles
    @AngeloGiles ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This is probably my favorite podcast now, I love that y'all bring different people on for certain topics.

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ayyyyeee 💚 love to hear this! Thanks we put a lotta love into this show!

    • @AngeloGiles
      @AngeloGiles ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @CYNTHIA LUCIETTE Yw, and I can tell! If y'all ever need a videographer, photographer, or editor, let me know lol.

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AngeloGiles💜💜💜

  • @fla1r._.
    @fla1r._. ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I saw slink Johnson I had to click

    • @DEFIANTDIGITAL
      @DEFIANTDIGITAL  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🗣🔥

    • @fla1r._.
      @fla1r._. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DEFIANTDIGITAL bring cp on more pls! Love the videos and especially the teddy ray episodes❤️❤️

  • @RembrandtCEO
    @RembrandtCEO ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I know its been a couple years but i truly missed Cynthia Luciette ❤️💯

    • @Big_Sis_Chris
      @Big_Sis_Chris ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She’s running things at All Def Women 😎

    • @KxNG_RxME
      @KxNG_RxME ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Years??? You got some catching up to do

    • @RembrandtCEO
      @RembrandtCEO ปีที่แล้ว

      @Rome Nabors true, theres lots of content creators ive missed in the last few years due so many ppl to watch. I watch Aba & Preach these days. Though i watch roast me and patrick cloud the most recently. His podcast with Persphanni cracks me up

    • @RembrandtCEO
      @RembrandtCEO ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Big Sis Chris oh hell yeah ❤️ i didnt even know they had that new sub channel.

    • @DrtyTreeHuggr
      @DrtyTreeHuggr ปีที่แล้ว

      I can't stand her ☠ she tries way too hard

  • @Blackronin357
    @Blackronin357 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tahiry continues to look scrumptious!

  • @MzSweetzTalk
    @MzSweetzTalk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "I know you don't have any eyebrows" 🤣🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️☠️

  • @bossdwg
    @bossdwg ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everyone needs to learn heart break is inevitable. With that being said, embrace it, love it and learn from it.

  • @dianaf8382
    @dianaf8382 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Slink was speaking facts the whole time

  • @thevenusofmars
    @thevenusofmars ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Cyn picked the perfect people for this episode. Sitting in it is the advice I tend to give for breakups and pretty much everything else. Also, therapy. I'd recommend therapy with a licensed professional or ATVL someone training to become one, but therapy can take on many forms. Find what works for you so you can grow as a person. There's nothing worse than being stagnant.

  • @LawrenceAdams13
    @LawrenceAdams13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Return of the Mac” is my favorite break up song just gives me that energy I need every time.

  • @CamaroThings
    @CamaroThings ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ryan hit with the Tevin Campbell... these kids don't even know!!!

    • @RandomGirlComment
      @RandomGirlComment ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Trevin" huh? Who's that? Tevin's cousin?

    • @CamaroThings
      @CamaroThings ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RandomGirlComment edited. Autocorrect OP on my phone.

  • @collegeondeck12
    @collegeondeck12 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    cynthia laugh did me in 🤣🤣🤣

    • @RedRag684
      @RedRag684 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She must of picked up a new laugh.

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +5

      When something is funny to me …
      I can’t help it 😂

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RedRag684 lol how you pick up a new laugh?? 😂 a laugh is your body’s natural sound lol

    • @RedRag684
      @RedRag684 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cynthialuciette I guess I never heard a person with multiple laughs before.

    • @reddsmoke904
      @reddsmoke904 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@RedRag684 its usually like levels of the same laugh. Like the laugh you give when something is a little funny compared to hilarious are drastically different

  • @mrTuGood
    @mrTuGood ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @patrickcloud "I see why you like red flags, you are one" 🤣😂

  • @kedarabrams3171
    @kedarabrams3171 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A lot of people without therapy before a relationship WILL bring lots of baggage to the relationship... And bring the relationship down...🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ RUN

  • @PhazeAmazing
    @PhazeAmazing ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is a AllStar Cast frfr I already know I'm gone enjoy this episode

  • @hayesg74
    @hayesg74 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love when I get the notification for this show. One of the best shows on the internet. Great guest and great host.

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayeeee that’s #LOVE 💜💜💜

    • @fla1r._.
      @fla1r._. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guests always fire

  • @KountryEJ910
    @KountryEJ910 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Everytime conversations like this occur.. Pat makes it so obvious he's never been in love

    • @crush_4103
      @crush_4103 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      So you don’t know about Quantrelle

    • @ms.voiceofreason9633
      @ms.voiceofreason9633 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@crush_4103 😮

    • @pureamateur649
      @pureamateur649 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@crush_4103 top response! 😂

    • @holdupnow2326
      @holdupnow2326 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe due to him always moving around in his career. Some people can't deal with people careers that are busy every day.

    • @islandneni1829
      @islandneni1829 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂🤣crush

  • @Big_Sis_Chris
    @Big_Sis_Chris ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Men celebrate first and cry later. Women cry first, then TURN UP! 😎✌🏾

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 💯💚💜

    • @Big_Sis_Chris
      @Big_Sis_Chris ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cynthialuciette Can I please just tell you how much I admire how you represent for us?! The intelligent hood-adjacent self loving goddesses we are! Pre-shate u for real!!! ❤️

  • @Krush380
    @Krush380 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Every time Tahiry opens up her mouth, I think she talking about Joe Budden. 😄

    • @drozar1716
      @drozar1716 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right ?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤞🏾

  • @beebilbo59
    @beebilbo59 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Been waiting on another episode 🔥

  • @blahhhhhhhhhhhhhh09
    @blahhhhhhhhhhhhhh09 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    These episodes always crack me up lmao love it

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💜💚💜💚 Thanks for watching

  • @LadiJadi72
    @LadiJadi72 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeesh! Slink is heavy on the B word!😅😅

  • @PrydeWater901
    @PrydeWater901 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not even two minutes in and hit the 👍🏽 button while thinking, “my Ol lady need to hear this.”

  • @kino45king
    @kino45king ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That fake building up laugh tho lmfao 🤣

  • @okothsam11
    @okothsam11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And she back lookin finer than ever....my goodness, Cynthia you got you a new fan! Another banger too!

  • @CamaroThings
    @CamaroThings ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ryan, bro... I got 2 of those. Had to suffer hard through one and got busted up by the other... no capp Ryan speaking so many truths in this episode.

  • @LadiJadi72
    @LadiJadi72 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know them bangs!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @clientele732
    @clientele732 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was enjoying the episode up until 12:07-12:20 then the police knocked on my door for a “wellness check”

    • @dandybrandy451
      @dandybrandy451 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right. Like what was that?? 🤣

  • @ColdDragonYoung701
    @ColdDragonYoung701 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Make these longer!

  • @Eyedolthekid
    @Eyedolthekid ปีที่แล้ว

    nahh Patrick is corrrnnnyyy. Shoutout to Slink and Cyn, Yeehee your doing good Defiant, Good job! 🍊

  • @Jamescampbell4661
    @Jamescampbell4661 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great Show

  • @honorpress9066
    @honorpress9066 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was awesome beginning to the end! I agree fully with all 4 parties’ In comments! And their support and subject! Closure!! And with the funny parts lol I seriously enjoyed this session!! Lol Keep it going everyone love y’all and on god blessings stay blessed!! Later

  • @ldyung
    @ldyung ปีที่แล้ว

    “Tuna tar tar” is wiiillddd 😂😂

  • @jacobim94
    @jacobim94 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wonder how many people genuinely still care about the other person after a break up for me for example, I was married and got divorced, but I genuinely care about that person not even in the sense that I want to get back with them just care for them like I want to see them do good and stuff

    • @angelh6345
      @angelh6345 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here
      There are a couple guys I still care about and hope they're doing very well
      And it warms my heart to see them on social media although we don't talk and have mutual friends still I met through there is no love lost from them either surprisingly.

  • @jerrisbradley6675
    @jerrisbradley6675 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Being bored is not a reason to break up with someone though... relationships especially marriage comes with that happiness is subjective.

    • @RembrandtCEO
      @RembrandtCEO ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They dont understand reciprocal effort

    • @kennygwalk5328
      @kennygwalk5328 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel like those type of relationships he's talking about were pretty much just lust over love.

    • @sweetbuttergeminine4756
      @sweetbuttergeminine4756 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yall commenting like they giving real advice lol maybe two of them been in healthy relationships..maybe. this is funny advice, not actual advice 😅

    • @jerrisbradley6675
      @jerrisbradley6675 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sweetbuttergeminine4756 that's a fair assessment, but still there are many people who buy in to some of these talking points. I'm just saying from a serious relationship standpoint boredom comes with the territory.

    • @BlackGirlMarvel
      @BlackGirlMarvel ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He was saying being bored of the person. Why be with someone that bores you? That's a disservice to yourself and the person especially if you've tried to figure it out and work it out and you're still bored by that person. Leave.

  • @KeyHeir
    @KeyHeir ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been preaching for years to my kids that I want them to be the best version of themselves. Preach brotha

  • @kingslimplays
    @kingslimplays ปีที่แล้ว

    LMFAOOOOOOO
    THE Snapper ?…. hmmm Fish reference 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Nah son

  • @shermandudley5548
    @shermandudley5548 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ryan a whole fool 😂

  • @Idealgentlemen_
    @Idealgentlemen_ ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She 100000% did voodoo on Joe 😂😂😂😂…..

    • @BlackEntourageEnt
      @BlackEntourageEnt ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm only listening to see what she gotta say lmfao

  • @rxchgold
    @rxchgold ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ryan capping 😂😂😂

    • @nived8748
      @nived8748 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol I thought I was the only 1

  • @c1simone
    @c1simone ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Idk about yall but i need episodes to drop more

  • @CamaroThings
    @CamaroThings ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Been waiting for this one!!!

  • @starzbang8267
    @starzbang8267 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you're not in love with the other person just keep it pushing. If it was just sex or just kicking it don't be emotionally attached.

  • @LadiJadi72
    @LadiJadi72 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unswallow!! Amazing! 😅😅😅

  • @whatif8038
    @whatif8038 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another groundbreaking show from defiant digital

  • @djones2004
    @djones2004 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Slink is the coldest to ever do it!. He got the og game that people are looking for!. BOAB!. That’s real..lol Be the best version of U, u don’t have to say anything for u to be noticed..

  • @nemodeniro3947
    @nemodeniro3947 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And og preechin. That Nigga said I compromise my integrity for love 💯

  • @wsd00
    @wsd00 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i like how everyone listens to eachother rather then be combative on that usual men vs women type bs

  • @rdw908
    @rdw908 ปีที่แล้ว

    He said Fish reference!!! 🤣

  • @jameelahsayfuddin5591
    @jameelahsayfuddin5591 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love funny advice

  • @dmoore5927
    @dmoore5927 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So we gon play like we don’t wanna see Cyn stand up on these episodes

  • @JThaDon910
    @JThaDon910 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    8:44 The simultaneous "Hmmm." From the fellas was phenomenal

  • @Putemhippod
    @Putemhippod ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cynthia almost took my f*cking ear off

  • @samtipton9402
    @samtipton9402 ปีที่แล้ว

    Literally just got hip to this show and channel,luvin it seen my All Def peeps & my fav comedians on here bouts to binge watch for the rest of the day great show!!!

  • @jordannoelle1558
    @jordannoelle1558 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    B.O.A.B 😂😂

  • @hardkkurguru7203
    @hardkkurguru7203 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know this finna be crazy they got slink 🤣🤣

  • @devincoleman9624
    @devincoleman9624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yea this one came out for me rn

  • @Eyedolthekid
    @Eyedolthekid ปีที่แล้ว

    Clocked out of this after 18 mins. Slink talk that talk!

  • @lilre133
    @lilre133 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love Larry June, Slink.

  • @smannp
    @smannp ปีที่แล้ว

    Great episode 💯

  • @KeyHeir
    @KeyHeir ปีที่แล้ว

    Homeboy in the grey jacket is too far on point! Preach brotha. Fam in the red flannel thinks like a young man. Not wrong but developing

  • @marquisward2625
    @marquisward2625 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do agree. You have to process hurt whatever it is.

  • @tinishaturner966
    @tinishaturner966 ปีที่แล้ว

    Slink and Pat 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Koojoe89
    @Koojoe89 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aye this the crew I wanted to see! 🔥💪🏾

  • @VonteXP
    @VonteXP ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clicked for The Og Slink Johnson

  • @IllSoulProductions
    @IllSoulProductions ปีที่แล้ว

    Chasing someone means they’re running away or they ran away 🫣

  • @djm122270
    @djm122270 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    REAL TALK! 😂

  • @jerodhogue7885
    @jerodhogue7885 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Need funny advice to get its own TH-cam channel I only wanna subscribe to this show lol

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว

      😂💚 appreciate the love! We definitely want to keep dropping these episodes frequently!

  • @Healing_Changes_The_World
    @Healing_Changes_The_World ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love Slink BOAB

  • @jackthrill8799
    @jackthrill8799 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yoo😅 folks don't got no standards 😅 no scruples 😂

  • @_Tree
    @_Tree ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't talk to my ex's AT ALL!!!! Why am I keeping "a part of my past" within the present.......while my future doesn't include them?!?!?
    TF outta here with that!! They're an ex for a reason!! Once we're done........we're done!! 💯💯💯

  • @RonDonProductions
    @RonDonProductions ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Have any of these people ever been in long term committed relationships 😂

  • @antoinelove1329
    @antoinelove1329 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I'm in love with Cyn's personality

  • @i_am_blackdad419
    @i_am_blackdad419 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yall gtta get the bartenders in on the discussions lol

    • @cynthialuciette
      @cynthialuciette ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We have one coming like that 👀👀 #staytuned lol

    • @i_am_blackdad419
      @i_am_blackdad419 ปีที่แล้ว

      @CYNTHIA LUCIETTE say less I wish I could be in on the discussion cus I got some things that'll hit on yall topics n you fine as fucccck Cynthia lorddddd

  • @riznellousfactory
    @riznellousfactory 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @14:41 tahiry said some real shit I feel her on that one 👊🏾

  • @GOATLAVISH777
    @GOATLAVISH777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Let’s create a playlist for all those getting through a breakup (comment your song)
    End of the playlist songs
    Mark Morrison - Return of The Mack
    Drake - How Bout Now

  • @emeraldemigo
    @emeraldemigo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💣😭😭yo this my favorite panel right here they hella dope

  • @Mrnotuagain
    @Mrnotuagain ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Defly got to B.O.A.B mane

  • @MannyThaMadridista
    @MannyThaMadridista ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love this show ya got good guest n ya got the OG Slink n queen like Tahiry this show is getting bigger eveytime ya drop keep it up.

  • @flykickz7809
    @flykickz7809 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sexy Tahiry been through adversity on and off tv, but still happy af.
    Strong latina 💪

  • @djmoore4444
    @djmoore4444 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great topic and discussion. If da relationship was real a break up is dat hurt so I see them as a learning experience. I realize and know it will pass but sumn dat wasn't mentioned was do not try and seriously move on when ur still emotionally invested in another person bcuz it will ruin u moving forward and u may mess up da relationship dat u needed or were seeking. I see my ex's as ex's for a reason and wateva happened I wish them happiness but I see it as those are now da next man issues and maybe he can deal wit em better than I can. I will focus on getting over it bcuz I kno sumn else will come along and I will kno wat to look for or not do to make it better this go round

  • @angelh6345
    @angelh6345 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was real and hilarious
    I been on a many year hiatus and am poly.
    I agree w the whole panel except the blocking part. I think I'm emotionally detached in relationships esp with just one person because I have alot of love to give to more than one person. Blocking isn't necessary unless it's unsafe for me
    Like a stalker or harassing my phone esp if I'm getting cheated on
    The other women like to keep calling Me as if I'm going to care or do anything about them admitting to having sex w my significant other lol
    It's too many out here to be hung up on one.

  • @KingXrp86
    @KingXrp86 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guru Slink with the W

  • @unkolman7635
    @unkolman7635 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ryan Davis🎯

  • @Kamehameha493
    @Kamehameha493 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo the laugh is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @legendarysanninkookutter2441
    @legendarysanninkookutter2441 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Slink was spitting game to the youngins Tahiry and the host was giving female info some females ain't want us to know 😂

  • @YesThatTasha
    @YesThatTasha ปีที่แล้ว

    I'll chase you but you gotta slow down a lil bit 🔥💯 OG spittin straight facts no chaser 🗣👏🏾

  • @jameelahsayfuddin5591
    @jameelahsayfuddin5591 ปีที่แล้ว

    24:15 I feel it’s very intelligent for a couple to jointly decide to go to therapy that early because what people fail to realize and they like to act like they know this fact, but they don’t ever act on it. What they feel to realize is if you don’t love yourself or know yourself, you can’t be in a successful relationship and it’s hard to know oneself and love one’s self when we have a society built to break down and do the complete opposite of that we are taught to get in relationships very early. Find the person you want to love very early and everything is just supposed to be happily ever after after that but that’s never true. People also think they’re going to find people and date these people and find that perfect person like anything and everything that they do is perfect but that’s not true either because there’s going to be at least one thing that bothers you about another person, that’s just the human beings in us all. The point I was trying to get to is most people will have something about them or something they do that you necessarily don’t like and a majority of people don’t have time to do any self reflection, or any self-help prior to getting in relationships due to lust or loneliness, or just the want of a relationship. So it’s rare you find someone whose done all the work. Or if your willing to deal with people who needs work you rarely find one who is continuously aware of things they have to work on and understands that they are not at their fullest potential. Then those type of people get into relationships and they don’t do the work and wonder why their relationships don’t last. So I disagree that going to therapy early in a relationship makes them a doomed couple because for one it shows that they want to stay together and they’re willing to do the work into it shows that people are not perfect and sometimes it takes a safe space and understanding space to get to know one another at their truest form, and in those spaces the most revealing points about somebody can be explained and understood. Now it is crazy if neither of them has ever sought out therapy prior to this relationship like if neither of them ever did any personal therapy then I do believe that kind of is weird and makes them kinda doomed because then it feels like they’re treating therapy more as a fad than the actual resource, but if either of them has ever experienced therapy in their lives, they understand that it’s an actual resourceful tool, and can be applied to many different parts of your life, especially relationships, because guess what either one of them could go to therapy alone and talk about their partner and only get a one sided view on things but if they’re able to come together in one room and discuss issues that bothers them and they’re both able to feel heard and understood then they can overcome issues and keep their relationship. Because therapy isn’t meant to be forever so you learn these tools and apply them to everyday life or situations and learn from therapy so you can get to know and learn one another

  • @Ckearney88
    @Ckearney88 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tahiry can get it 🥴🥴

  • @SmoothKenny
    @SmoothKenny ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Eveybody needs to read "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents"😐

    • @MetanoiaTarot
      @MetanoiaTarot ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is what I was thinking! Our dynamics with romantic partners is a direct reflection of our dynamic with our parents. This conversation is entertaining but also, on a serious note, that book could explain today’s behavior with the events/patterns of the past.

  • @reddsmoke904
    @reddsmoke904 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cyn laugh got me dead 😂😂😂

  • @anthonydash9544
    @anthonydash9544 ปีที่แล้ว

    "You broke her heart..."
    "No! She BROKE MY HEART"
    Praying for you bro 🙏🏾

  • @tommydavis9790
    @tommydavis9790 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dating is wondering why the person then finding out why.

  • @clientele732
    @clientele732 ปีที่แล้ว

    If u play 12:07-12:20 at the pharmacy they give u free prescriptions

  • @jg5651
    @jg5651 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cynthia laugh at 12:10 sound like she cryin..”9”

  • @oldspresident
    @oldspresident ปีที่แล้ว

    WOMEN DO TEND TO LIKE DRAMA AS EXCITEMENT 🙅🏾‍♂️🧢 NO LIE THERE